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Eat, Drink, Be Merry

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  1. We've been in this sermon series for a few months now.

  2. We're in chapter 9.

  3. We're getting rapidly close to the end of the book.

  4. And for those of you who don't know me, my name is Sean,

  5. and I'm one of the pastors of Trinity Cambridge Church.

  6. And it's my joy to preach God's word to you this morning.

  7. Let me pray for the reading and preaching of God's word.

  8. Father, it is easy for us to, on the one hand,

  9. get lost in the pleasures of this world,

  10. to indulge in sin in an effort to forget the reality of death.

  11. And to live for ourselves.

  12. But on the other hand, Lord, it is also easy for us

  13. to look at the condition of this world,

  14. how broken and unjust and messed up it is,

  15. and to be given to excessive sorrow, despair, depression.

  16. But Lord, we ask that you will minister to us,

  17. you would speak to us through your word this morning,

  18. so that we are sober-minded about the reality of death

  19. and the futility of life,

  20. but at the same time, have the humility and the gratitude

  21. to be able to enjoy the simple gifts of life that you give,

  22. to enjoy life and its pleasures in accordance with your will,

  23. and help us most of all to fix our eyes on Jesus,

  24. our greatest treasure,

  25. to enjoy him and life with him, our bridegroom forever.

  26. In Jesus' name we pray. Amen.

  27. Please stand in honor of God's word as I read from Ecclesiastes 9, 1-12.

  28. Amen.

  29. Amen.

  30. But all this,

  31. but all this I lay to heart,

  32. examining it all,

  33. how the righteous and the wise and their deeds

  34. are in the hand of God.

  35. Whether it is love or hate,

  36. man does not know.

  37. Both are before him.

  38. It is the same for all,

  39. since the same event happens to the righteous and the wicked,

  40. to the good and the evil,

  41. to the clean and the unclean,

  42. to him who sacrifices and him who does not sacrifice.

  43. As the good one is,

  44. so is the sinner,

  45. and he who swears is as he who shuns an oath.

  46. This is an evil in all that is done under the sun,

  47. that the same event happens to all.

  48. Also,

  49. the hearts of the children of men are full of evil,

  50. and madness is in their hearts while they live,

  51. and after that they go to the dead.

  52. But he who is joined with all the living has hope,

  53. for a living dog is better than a dead lion.

  54. For the living know that they will die,

  55. but the dead know nothing,

  56. and they have no more reward,

  57. for the memory of them is forgotten.

  58. Their love and their hate and their envy have already perished,

  59. and forever they have no more share

  60. in all that is done under the sun.

  61. Go,

  62. eat your bread with joy,

  63. and drink your wine with a merry heart,

  64. for God has already approved what you do.

  65. Let your garments be always white.

  66. Let not oil be lacking on your head.

  67. Enjoy life with the wife whom you love

  68. all the days of your vain life

  69. that he has given you under the sun,

  70. because that is your portion in life,

  71. and in your toil at which you toil under the sun.

  72. Whatever your hand finds to do,

  73. do it with your might,

  74. for there is no work or thought or knowledge or wisdom

  75. in Sheol to which you are going.

  76. Again,

  77. I saw that under the sun

  78. the race is not to the swift,

  79. nor the battle to the strong,

  80. nor bread to the wise,

  81. nor riches to the intelligent,

  82. nor favor to those with knowledge,

  83. but time and chance happen to them all,

  84. for man knows,

  85. does not know his time.

  86. Like fish that are taken in an evil net,

  87. and like birds that are caught in a snare,

  88. so the children of man are snared at an evil time

  89. when it suddenly falls upon them.

  90. This is God's holy and authoritative word.

  91. You may be seated.

  92. Because of the lies of the enemy

  93. and the persistently sinful heart of man

  94. and the way sinful people tend to perceive God

  95. and relate to God,

  96. God appears when we examine our world,

  97. he appears to have a PR problem,

  98. a public relations problem.

  99. Many people imagine God to be a cosmic killjoy,

  100. a strict disciplinarian

  101. who demands all work and no fun.

  102. They wrongly think that God's favorite word to us,

  103. his children,

  104. is no,

  105. and relate to God that way.

  106. And my hope this morning

  107. is that God would use the preaching of his word

  108. to change that perception just a little bit.

  109. And with that in mind,

  110. let's play a little game of who said that, right?

  111. Guess who said this in the Bible?

  112. Do not handle,

  113. do not taste,

  114. do not touch.

  115. That's great.

  116. Does that sound to you like something God would say?

  117. Do not handle,

  118. do not taste,

  119. do not touch.

  120. Quite to the contrary,

  121. that's the voice of the false teachers

  122. in Colossians 2.21.

  123. Here's another example,

  124. not from the Bible,

  125. this time from a children's novel

  126. written by a Christian man named C.S. Lewis,

  127. The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe.

  128. A character at one point in the book says this,

  129. what is the meaning of all this gluttony,

  130. this waste,

  131. this self-indulgence?

  132. Where did you get all these things?

  133. Which character do you think says that?

  134. Condemning,

  135. gluttony,

  136. self-indulgence?

  137. Is it Aslan,

  138. the lion,

  139. the Christ figure in the book?

  140. No, it's not.

  141. It's the white witch

  142. who's a satanic figure in the book.

  143. The imposter queen

  144. who condemns the good gifts of God.

  145. And in that scene,

  146. that's a great scene

  147. where in that land of Narnia,

  148. which is always winter and never Christmas,

  149. finally,

  150. as the true king,

  151. Aslan,

  152. approaches,

  153. the land begins to fall

  154. and Christmas begins to come

  155. and Father Christmas

  156. distributes these gifts.

  157. And so instead of austerity and scarcity,

  158. they have feasts

  159. with decorations of holly

  160. and bread

  161. and wine

  162. and plum pudding.

  163. Do you find Christian life

  164. to be burdensome?

  165. But did not Jesus say

  166. in Matthew 11, 29,

  167. my yoke is easy,

  168. my burden is light?

  169. Does not 1 John 5, 3 say,

  170. for this is the love of God

  171. that we keep his commandments?

  172. Commandments,

  173. does that sound onerous to you,

  174. burdensome to you?

  175. It says in the rest of that verse,

  176. and his commandments

  177. are not burdensome.

  178. In Ecclesiastes 9, 1 to 12,

  179. he's a case in point.

  180. This passage teaches us

  181. to eat,

  182. to drink,

  183. be merry,

  184. and enjoy

  185. what God has allotted

  186. to you in life.

  187. First,

  188. we're gonna talk about

  189. the certainty of death,

  190. and then secondly,

  191. we're gonna talk about

  192. the uncertainties of life,

  193. and then finally,

  194. we're gonna talk about

  195. the joys of life

  196. that we get to enjoy

  197. because of those twin realities.

  198. In order to relish

  199. the joys of life,

  200. we need to remember

  201. both the certainty of death

  202. and the uncertainties of life.

  203. So in both verses 1 to 6

  204. at the beginning

  205. and verses 11 to 12

  206. at the end,

  207. the preacher speaks

  208. of those two realities.

  209. And these two sections

  210. kind of frame

  211. that middle section

  212. and point to it

  213. to emphasize that,

  214. to enjoy life.

  215. But it begins this way

  216. in verse 1,

  217. but all this I laid to heart,

  218. examining it all,

  219. how the righteous

  220. and the wise

  221. and their deeds

  222. are in the hand of God.

  223. Whether it is love or hate,

  224. man does not know.

  225. Both are before him.

  226. The hand of God

  227. is an expression

  228. for the power of God.

  229. Sometimes the hand of God

  230. blesses,

  231. and sometimes

  232. the hand of God

  233. punishes.

  234. You see examples of that

  235. in 2 Corinthians 30,

  236. verse 12,

  237. and 1 Samuel 5, 11,

  238. where the hand of God

  239. is heavy upon the Philistines

  240. who have stolen

  241. the ark of the testimony.

  242. The preacher of Ecclesiastes

  243. recognizes this aspect

  244. of the hand of God

  245. and notes that,

  246. whether it is love or hate,

  247. man does not know.

  248. Both are before him.

  249. Later in verse 6,

  250. the preacher says

  251. a similar thing.

  252. He says that,

  253. when people die,

  254. their love and their hate

  255. and their envy perish,

  256. and that they have

  257. no more share

  258. in all that is done

  259. under the sun.

  260. So love or hate

  261. in verse 1

  262. describes the good things

  263. and the bad things,

  264. the ups and the downs

  265. of life here under the sun.

  266. And we share,

  267. as human beings,

  268. all of us share

  269. in those things,

  270. in love and hate,

  271. but it is not for us

  272. to determine or control

  273. what comes in our life.

  274. We cannot make sure

  275. that we only get love

  276. instead of hate.

  277. Desperately,

  278. we try to control our lives

  279. and to grasp hold of it,

  280. but it's like chasing

  281. after the wind

  282. and it slips right

  283. through our fingers

  284. because the times

  285. of our lives

  286. are not in our hands,

  287. but in the hand of God,

  288. as it says here

  289. in verse 1.

  290. So life is uncertain

  291. and the preacher

  292. will elaborate on this

  293. more in verses 11 and 12,

  294. but now he returns

  295. to the theme

  296. of the certainty of death.

  297. In verses 2 to 3,

  298. he says,

  299. it is the same for all

  300. since the same event

  301. happens to the righteous

  302. and the wicked,

  303. to the good

  304. and the evil,

  305. to the clean

  306. and the unclean,

  307. to him who sacrifices

  308. and him who does not sacrifice.

  309. As the good one is,

  310. so is the sinner,

  311. and he who swears

  312. is as he who shuns an oath.

  313. This is an evil

  314. in all that is done

  315. under the sun

  316. that the same event

  317. happens to all.

  318. The phrase same event

  319. is repeated twice here

  320. for emphasis,

  321. and this same event

  322. that happens to all

  323. is the same event

  324. that the preacher

  325. has been speaking of

  326. all throughout

  327. the book of Ecclesiastes.

  328. In chapter 2,

  329. verses 13 to 14,

  330. he said that while wisdom

  331. is better than folly,

  332. if you,

  333. it just says light

  334. is better than darkness,

  335. if you have wisdom,

  336. you at least know

  337. how to navigate

  338. the complexities of life,

  339. you know what you're doing,

  340. but in the end,

  341. everybody dies.

  342. That's what he says.

  343. And that's the same event

  344. that happens to all.

  345. He says the wise

  346. dies just like the fool.

  347. The righteous and the wicked,

  348. the good and the evil.

  349. God's people

  350. in the old covenant

  351. were taught to distinguish

  352. what is holy from the common,

  353. what is unclean from the clean.

  354. They were meant to be

  355. a people who were holy,

  356. meaning specially set apart

  357. for God and for his glory

  358. and for his purposes,

  359. and because of that,

  360. they had an extensive set

  361. of regulations

  362. to help them to live

  363. in a manner that is set apart

  364. from the rest of the nations.

  365. They were to be clean,

  366. not unclean.

  367. And yet,

  368. the writer of Ecclesiastes

  369. who's very familiar

  370. with the law of God

  371. says that they both come to naught.

  372. They both fall.

  373. They both,

  374. the same event happens to them both,

  375. whether you are clean or unclean.

  376. Likewise,

  377. the person who gives sacrifices to God

  378. and who does not make sacrifices to God,

  379. they both come to the same end.

  380. The person who swears an oath to God

  381. and keeps it

  382. versus a person who doesn't care

  383. what God says at all.

  384. They both come to the same end in death.

  385. Whether you're Billy Graham

  386. or Osama Bin Laden,

  387. whether you're Corey Ten Boom

  388. or Adolf Hitler,

  389. the righteous and the wicked

  390. all die.

  391. No amount of your righteousness

  392. or your good deeds

  393. and no amount of your wickedness

  394. or your evil

  395. can reverse the tide of death

  396. or control

  397. and determine your fate.

  398. And this is not a good thing.

  399. It's an evil thing,

  400. he says in verse three.

  401. This is an evil

  402. in all that is done under the sun

  403. that the same event happens to all.

  404. Yes, as Christians,

  405. we do not fear death

  406. because we have a hope

  407. that goes beyond death

  408. and we do celebrate that reality.

  409. However, as Christians,

  410. we never celebrate death

  411. in and of itself.

  412. Why?

  413. Because Jesus wept

  414. at Lazarus' tomb

  415. because death is not the way

  416. this world is supposed to be

  417. because 1 Corinthians 15, 26

  418. tells us the last enemy

  419. to be destroyed is death.

  420. Death is our enemy.

  421. Christ defeated death

  422. through his death on the cross

  423. and through his resurrection

  424. from the dead,

  425. but death will be finally destroyed

  426. only at the resurrection of the body

  427. when we are resurrected.

  428. And so it is an evil

  429. that is presently part

  430. of this fallen sinful world

  431. that both the righteous

  432. and the wicked perish in death.

  433. And not only is this,

  434. is the end of our lives,

  435. namely death, evil,

  436. our entire lives,

  437. the duration of our life

  438. is full of evil.

  439. He says in verse three,

  440. the hearts of the children of men

  441. are full of evil

  442. and madness is in their hearts

  443. while they live

  444. and after that,

  445. they go to the dead.

  446. These two realities are related

  447. because we know

  448. from other parts of scripture

  449. that the wages of sin

  450. is death from Romans 6.

  451. The natural consequence

  452. for humanity

  453. whose hearts are evil

  454. and because of their hearts

  455. that are evil,

  456. they do evil,

  457. the natural consequence

  458. of that is death.

  459. So I think this is probably

  460. alluding to Genesis 6.5

  461. where before the flood judgment

  462. of God,

  463. this is his assessment

  464. of humanity

  465. that the man's heart,

  466. the wickedness of man

  467. was great in the earth

  468. and that every intention

  469. of the thoughts of his heart

  470. was only evil continually.

  471. The evil that you see,

  472. that we see out in the world

  473. and the evil that we see

  474. in the tragedy of death

  475. are all related to the fact

  476. of the evil

  477. that is in our own hearts.

  478. The human heart

  479. is deceitful above all things

  480. and desperately sick.

  481. Who can understand it?

  482. This is why

  483. when God sends his son Jesus

  484. and sends his Holy Spirit,

  485. he promises to give his people

  486. a new heart

  487. because we need it

  488. and we can't be saved without it.

  489. That all ends in death,

  490. however,

  491. isn't meant to make us depressed.

  492. It's not meant to make us fatalistic.

  493. So the preacher reminds us

  494. in verses 4 to 6

  495. that life is still better than death,

  496. that death in and of itself

  497. is not better than death.

  498. I mean,

  499. death in and of itself

  500. is not worse than life itself.

  501. It says in verses 4 to 6,

  502. but he who is joined

  503. with all the living

  504. has hope

  505. for a living dog

  506. is better than a dead lion.

  507. For the living know

  508. that they will die,

  509. but the dead know nothing

  510. and they have no more reward

  511. for the memory of them

  512. is forgotten.

  513. This doesn't contradict

  514. what the preacher

  515. has been saying all along.

  516. For example,

  517. in chapter 4, verse 2,

  518. he said that because of oppression

  519. and injustice

  520. that filled this world,

  521. he said that,

  522. I thought the dead

  523. who are already dead

  524. more fortunate

  525. than the living

  526. who are still alive,

  527. but better than both

  528. is he who has not yet been

  529. and has not seen

  530. the evil deeds

  531. that are done under the sun.

  532. That's still true.

  533. The preacher also said

  534. in Ecclesiastes 6, verse 3,

    Ecclesiastes 6:3

  535. that a stillborn child

  536. is better off

  537. than a man

  538. who lives a long time

  539. but has not learned humbly

  540. to enjoy the good gifts

  541. that God has given him.

  542. Life is full of evil

  543. and suffering

  544. and that's why 7.1 says

  545. the day of death

  546. is better than the day of birth.

  547. In one sense,

  548. death is released from that.

  549. Attending funerals

  550. and numbering our days

  551. and knowing that we'll die

  552. gives us a heart of wisdom

  553. and that's why

  554. the preacher of Ecclesiastes

  555. enjoins these things to us.

  556. However,

  557. that doesn't mean

  558. that death in and of itself

  559. is better than life

  560. because in life

  561. we still have hope

  562. and the possibility

  563. that we may learn

  564. to humble ourselves

  565. under the sovereignty of God

  566. and enjoy our toil

  567. and the lot

  568. that he has given us in life.

  569. However,

  570. that doesn't change

  571. the reality

  572. that life is full of evil

  573. and suffering.

  574. So he says,

  575. a living dog

  576. is better than a dead lion.

  577. That is true.

  578. It's better to be a living dog

  579. than a dead lion

  580. but don't take that

  581. as a compliment.

  582. When we think of dogs,

  583. we think of these cute pet dogs.

  584. I know some of our church members

  585. love these cute corgis.

  586. They're probably useless

  587. for most things

  588. because their legs

  589. are so short

  590. but their food

  591. is served to them

  592. two to three times a day.

  593. They don't have to do anything

  594. to earn their food.

  595. Just food is served to them

  596. and it's served

  597. usually on a silver platter.

  598. Maybe not real silver

  599. but silver platter.

  600. And they can take a nap

  601. whenever they want

  602. during the day.

  603. They sprawl themselves out

  604. and whenever they want

  605. a massage,

  606. all they need to do

  607. is go in front of somebody

  608. or even a stranger

  609. and just lie down

  610. and then people will oblige

  611. and give them a massage

  612. and a rub.

  613. I mean,

  614. what a life,

  615. right?

  616. We think of dogs like that

  617. when we think of dogs

  618. but that's not the kind of dogs

  619. that are in view here

  620. because dogs in the ancient world

  621. are scavengers

  622. and that's the case still

  623. in much of the world.

  624. These are wild mutts

  625. that survive by eating scraps

  626. and any kind of food

  627. they can find

  628. and they are not very discriminating

  629. with their food.

  630. They eat garbage,

  631. they eat carcasses,

  632. they lick blood.

  633. You see that even in the Bible

  634. and for this reason,

  635. in the Bible,

  636. evildoers are sometimes

  637. described figuratively as dogs.

  638. A dog,

  639. Proverbs 26, 11 tells us,

  640. returns to his vomit.

  641. That's what dogs literally do.

  642. They'll return to their own vomit

  643. and then smell it

  644. and then lick it a little bit

  645. and say,

  646. oh, that doesn't taste that bad

  647. and then they'll start eating it.

  648. And in Proverbs 26, 11,

  649. that dog that returns to his vomit

  650. is compared to the fool

  651. who repeats his folly.

  652. So when you hear

  653. a living dog

  654. is better than a dead lion,

  655. don't think of that cute corgi

  656. but think of that wild scavenger dog.

  657. It may be better for us

  658. in our urban context

  659. to think of living rats

  660. because that's what

  661. they're really more like.

  662. It's better to be a living rat

  663. than a dead lion.

  664. And so what's the point here

  665. that he's trying to make?

  666. He's telling us

  667. why the living are better off

  668. than the dead

  669. for the living know

  670. that they will die

  671. but the dead know nothing

  672. and they have no more reward

  673. for the memory of them

  674. is forgotten.

  675. Knowledge sets us apart

  676. from the dead

  677. but what is this knowledge

  678. that sets us apart

  679. from the dead?

  680. The one thing

  681. that is certain

  682. for believers and unbelievers

  683. that we all know is coming

  684. is that we're going to die.

  685. So here is this one knowledge

  686. that you have

  687. that sets you apart

  688. from the dead.

  689. You know you're going to die.

  690. You're just not dead yet.

  691. Same thing with the living rat

  692. versus a dead lion.

  693. Sure, you might only be a rat.

  694. You're still alive

  695. but you're a rat.

  696. You're a dog.

  697. You repeat your folly.

  698. You live in this life

  699. under the sun

  700. that is vanity

  701. of all vanities.

  702. That's the kind of

  703. that doesn't diminish

  704. the suffering

  705. of this life

  706. the brokenness

  707. of this life.

  708. So here are three truths

  709. that we have to

  710. try to hold together.

  711. Life is better than death.

  712. Two,

  713. remembering death

  714. is better than trying

  715. to forget it in life.

  716. And three,

  717. living in light

  718. of the end

  719. gives us

  720. the heart of wisdom

  721. which then enables us

  722. to enjoy life

  723. as we're going to talk about.

  724. So that's the certainty of death.

  725. Now let's turn

  726. to the uncertainties of life.

  727. Verses 11 to 12

  728. are a succinct summary

  729. of chapter 8

  730. which I talked about last week

  731. how good things happen

  732. to bad people

  733. and bad things happen

  734. to good people.

  735. It says,

  736. Again,

  737. I saw that under the sun

  738. the race is not to the swift

  739. nor the battle to the strong

  740. nor bread to the wise

  741. nor riches to the intelligent

  742. nor favor to those with knowledge

  743. but time and chance

  744. happen to them all

  745. for a man does not know his time

  746. like fish that are taken

  747. in an evil net

  748. and like birds

  749. that are caught in a snare

  750. so the children of man

  751. are snared at an evil time

  752. when it suddenly falls upon them.

  753. Race is not to the swift.

  754. How many of you guys

  755. have experienced this

  756. in reality?

  757. Man o' War

  758. I know some of you guys

  759. are into the horse racing.

  760. Some Kentuckians here.

  761. Man o' War

  762. is a thoroughbred racehorse

  763. that is widely considered

  764. to be the greatest racehorse

  765. of all time.

  766. I disagree with that assessment

  767. but that's okay.

  768. Spurts Illustrated voted

  769. the best American racehorse

  770. of the 20th century

  771. beating out even Secretariat.

  772. During its career

  773. the horse won 20 races

  774. and earned a 2024 equivalent

  775. of $4 million

  776. during its short career

  777. in prize money.

  778. The horse was undefeated

  779. in all races

  780. except for one.

  781. And in that one race

  782. he was defeated

  783. by a horse

  784. that was fittingly named

  785. Upset.

  786. That's not where

  787. we get the word Upset.

  788. It existed before that

  789. but that's the rumor.

  790. This is a horse

  791. that Man o' War

  792. had beaten before

  793. and this is a horse

  794. Upset

  795. that will never go on

  796. to win another race.

  797. And yet

  798. the greatest racehorse

  799. of all time

  800. lost to Upset.

  801. On February 10th, 1990

  802. Buster Douglas

  803. was a 42-1 underdog

  804. against the undefeated

  805. heavyweight champion

  806. boxer of the world

  807. Mike Tyson.

  808. It was such a lopsided

  809. bout

  810. that Mike Tyson's corner

  811. didn't even bring

  812. an ice pack

  813. to the match

  814. because they were like

  815. we're not going to need

  816. the ice pack.

  817. He needed much more

  818. than an ice pack

  819. because he's the one

  820. that got knocked out.

  821. One of the greatest upsets

  822. in sports history.

  823. The race is not

  824. to the swift

  825. nor the battle

  826. to the strong.

  827. In June 1694

  828. 400 Polish soldiers

  829. defeated 40,000 Ottomans

  830. at the Battle of Hodo.

  831. Maybe we can chalk that up

  832. to superior strategy.

  833. They're more intelligent.

  834. Fight smarter

  835. not harder.

  836. Maybe that's why.

  837. But we can't do that either

  838. because the intelligent

  839. don't always prevail.

  840. Things don't always go well

  841. for the people

  842. who are smart.

  843. It says in verse 11

  844. nor bread to the wise

  845. nor riches

  846. to the intelligent.

  847. Bread doesn't always

  848. go to the wise.

  849. Edgar Allan Poe

  850. was a brilliant writer,

  851. poet,

  852. editor,

  853. and literary critic

  854. and he only made

  855. $6,200

  856. in his entire life.

  857. Adjust that for inflation

  858. that's almost $200,000

  859. like $190,000.

  860. Some of you guys

  861. make that in a year.

  862. I mean this is,

  863. he made that

  864. throughout his entire life

  865. and even accounting

  866. for his short life

  867. he was not

  868. financially successful.

  869. His poem,

  870. one of the most famous

  871. poems in the world,

  872. The Raven,

  873. earned a measly $9.

  874. Bread doesn't always

  875. go to the wise.

  876. Nor riches

  877. to the intelligent.

  878. To the Serbian-American

  879. engineer,

  880. Nikola Tesla,

  881. called a father

  882. of electricity

  883. because of his

  884. contribution to the design

  885. of the modern

  886. alternating current,

  887. the electricity supply system.

  888. His subsystem

  889. was superior

  890. to the one designed

  891. by Thomas Edison.

  892. He was brilliant

  893. by any measure.

  894. He had 300 patents,

  895. over 300 patents

  896. to his name worldwide

  897. and yet in the later years

  898. of his life

  899. as his patents ran out

  900. and his new experience

  901. began to fail.

  902. He became bankrupt

  903. and couldn't even

  904. afford his rent.

  905. The bread

  906. is not to the wise

  907. nor riches

  908. to the intelligent.

  909. Nor is favor

  910. always to those

  911. with knowledge.

  912. When Absalom

  913. staged a successful

  914. coup against his dad,

  915. King David,

  916. in 2 Samuel 17,

  917. he had a counselor

  918. named Ahithophel

  919. who gave sure

  920. and intelligent counsel

  921. related to everything

  922. and yet when Ahithophel

  923. gave Absalom

  924. this counsel,

  925. he opted

  926. to not follow

  927. his advice

  928. and followed

  929. a different advice

  930. which eventually

  931. led to his defeat

  932. and death.

  933. Favor is not always

  934. to those with knowledge.

  935. Time and chance

  936. happen to them all

  937. for man knows

  938. not his time.

  939. None of us know

  940. whether we will be

  941. rich or poor,

  942. full or hungry,

  943. famous or forgotten,

  944. favored or spurned,

  945. victorious or defeated

  946. in the future.

  947. Sometimes people

  948. less deserving

  949. than us

  950. will get into

  951. the program

  952. that you want

  953. to get the grant

  954. that you want,

  955. to get the job

  956. that you want,

  957. get the promotion

  958. that you want,

  959. and get the wealth

  960. that you want,

  961. get the recognition

  962. that you want,

  963. or get the man

  964. or the woman

  965. that you want.

  966. And sometimes

  967. people who are

  968. more deserving

  969. than us

  970. will not get

  971. those things.

  972. It is not

  973. the lot of humanity

  974. to know our time,

  975. to know what kinds

  976. of times and seasons

  977. will come to us.

  978. This is not to say

  979. that life is completely

  980. chaotic and random.

  981. It is still

  982. generally true

  983. that race is

  984. to the swift,

  985. the battle,

  986. to the strong,

  987. bread to the wise,

  988. riches to the intelligent,

  989. favor to those

  990. with knowledge,

  991. and that's what

  992. the book of Proverbs

  993. is all about.

  994. Proverbs 20,

    Proverbs 20:13

  995. verse 13,

  996. verse 19,

  997. teaches that people

  998. who work hard

  999. will have plenty

  1000. of bread.

  1001. So bread is

  1002. to the wise.

  1003. But there are

  1004. always exceptions

  1005. in this sinful,

  1006. broken,

  1007. fallen world.

  1008. And that's

  1009. the preacher's point

  1010. in Ecclesiastes.

  1011. There is

  1012. no such thing

  1013. as a foolproof path

  1014. to the ten

  1015. steps towards success

  1016. that will guarantee

  1017. outcomes for you

  1018. no matter how many

  1019. self-help gurus

  1020. tell you that.

  1021. Anybody who offers

  1022. you a foolproof path

  1023. towards success

  1024. is a person

  1025. who is not wise.

  1026. But does knowing

  1027. this make us lazy then?

  1028. Absolutely not.

  1029. Look at verse 10.

  1030. Whatever your hand

  1031. finds to do,

  1032. do it with your might.

  1033. For there is no work

  1034. or thought

  1035. or knowledge

  1036. or wisdom

  1037. in Sheol

  1038. to which you are going.

  1039. Sheol is the realm

  1040. of the dead.

  1041. It's speaking of death,

  1042. the grave.

  1043. We still work hard

  1044. in this life

  1045. because now

  1046. is the time

  1047. for toil.

  1048. Now is the time

  1049. for craftsmanship.

  1050. Now is the time

  1051. for artistry.

  1052. We're not going

  1053. to have work

  1054. to do on earth

  1055. once we die

  1056. until the time

  1057. of the new heavens

  1058. and the new earth.

  1059. Our goal in work

  1060. then is not success

  1061. or gain

  1062. but it is faithfulness

  1063. to God.

  1064. Remember verse 1

  1065. which said

  1066. that all our deeds

  1067. are in the hand

  1068. of God.

  1069. So we can't guarantee

  1070. the outcomes

  1071. of our work,

  1072. the fruit

  1073. of our labor.

  1074. We can't control

  1075. the times

  1076. that come to us

  1077. so then what does it

  1078. look like for us

  1079. to work hard

  1080. in this life?

  1081. Whatever our hand

  1082. finds to do,

  1083. we do it

  1084. with our might

  1085. while humbly

  1086. recognizing

  1087. that all our deeds

  1088. are ultimately

  1089. in the hand

  1090. and not of our own hands

  1091. but in the hand of God.

  1092. That's what it looks like.

  1093. Faithfulness.

  1094. There's also a parallel

  1095. between verse 12

  1096. and verses 2 to 3.

  1097. Twice we are told

  1098. in verses 2 to 3

  1099. that the same event

  1100. happens to all

  1101. and then in verse 12

  1102. it says chance,

  1103. time and chance

  1104. happens to all.

  1105. That expression

  1106. chance happens

  1107. is the same Hebrew word

  1108. that was translated

  1109. earlier twice.

  1110. It's the same event

  1111. happens to all

  1112. and again

  1113. it's speaking of death.

  1114. Look at the illustrations.

  1115. Verse 12

  1116. for man does not

  1117. know his time

  1118. like fish

  1119. that are taken

  1120. in an evil net

  1121. and like birds

  1122. that are caught

  1123. in a snare

  1124. so the children of man

  1125. are snared

  1126. in an evil time

  1127. when it suddenly

  1128. falls upon them.

  1129. What happens

  1130. when an unsuspecting

  1131. fish that is swimming

  1132. around gets caught

  1133. in a net?

  1134. It's killed.

  1135. What happens

  1136. to an unsuspecting

  1137. bird that

  1138. is caught

  1139. ensnared?

  1140. It's killed

  1141. for plumage

  1142. or feathers

  1143. or for food.

  1144. Death comes

  1145. for us all

  1146. and we know

  1147. not when

  1148. we are caught

  1149. unawares

  1150. like a fish

  1151. caught in a net

  1152. or a bird

  1153. caught in a snare.

  1154. Time and chance

  1155. happens to them all

  1156. for man does not

  1157. know his time.

  1158. The certainty

  1159. of death

  1160. uncertainties of life.

  1161. So in this way

  1162. then now

  1163. these two realities

  1164. are going to point

  1165. us to how we

  1166. are supposed

  1167. to live

  1168. and enjoy life

  1169. and that brings

  1170. us to verses

  1171. 7 to 10

  1172. which is the fifth

  1173. and final

  1174. carpe diem passage

  1175. in the book

  1176. of Ecclesiastes.

  1177. If you've been

  1178. with us through

  1179. this series

  1180. what I mean

  1181. by carpe diem

  1182. is the Latin

  1183. expression

  1184. seize the day.

  1185. These are

  1186. insightful passages

  1187. that are scattered

  1188. throughout the entire

  1189. book of Ecclesiastes

  1190. and it's meant

  1191. to teach us

  1192. to take advantage

  1193. of the present

  1194. opportunities

  1195. and to enjoy

  1196. life today

  1197. while it still

  1198. lasts

  1199. rather than

  1200. counting on

  1201. tomorrow

  1202. that may

  1203. never come.

  1204. That's the idea

  1205. of the wisdom

  1206. of Ecclesiastes.

  1207. Instead of chasing

  1208. after life

  1209. regain

  1210. humbly

  1211. and gratefully

  1212. receive life

  1213. from the Lord

  1214. as a gift.

  1215. It says in

  1216. verse 7

  1217. go

  1218. eat your bread

  1219. with joy

  1220. and drink

  1221. your wine

  1222. with a merry

  1223. heart

  1224. for God

  1225. has already

  1226. approved

  1227. what you do.

  1228. if you think

  1229. of bread

  1230. and wine

  1231. it's representing

  1232. food and drink

  1233. here

  1234. if you think

  1235. of food

  1236. and drink

  1237. as a means

  1238. for gain

  1239. then you're

  1240. probably the type

  1241. of person

  1242. that scarves

  1243. down his food

  1244. every meal

  1245. and then chugs

  1246. his drink

  1247. whatever the choice

  1248. of beverage is

  1249. just so that you can

  1250. get to that next

  1251. appointment

  1252. or get onto

  1253. that next item

  1254. on your to-do list.

  1255. But if you do that

  1256. then you can't

  1257. slow down enough

  1258. to savor

  1259. your bread

  1260. and your drink.

  1261. That

  1262. we got some good

  1263. bread makers

  1264. in our church

  1265. that's not Lance's

  1266. but Lance makes

  1267. good challah bread

  1268. Lauren makes

  1269. good focaccia bread

  1270. you guys have

  1271. favorite focaccia bread

  1272. I think Brittany

  1273. makes sourdough bread

  1274. and different things

  1275. I think

  1276. that crusty

  1277. crispy

  1278. edges of a bread

  1279. and then

  1280. when you bite

  1281. into it

  1282. the inside

  1283. is moist

  1284. and juicy

  1285. the crumbs

  1286. and then it just

  1287. in your body

  1288. I don't know

  1289. what it does

  1290. it creates all

  1291. these dopamins

  1292. or something

  1293. it gives you

  1294. that sense

  1295. of home

  1296. and comfort

  1297. or maybe

  1298. you really enjoy

  1299. that earthy

  1300. and smoky

  1301. flavor

  1302. of well

  1303. barbecued

  1304. meat

  1305. you know

  1306. who's laughing

  1307. here

  1308. you guys

  1309. it says

  1310. drink wine

  1311. here

  1312. but I know

  1313. not everybody

  1314. drinks

  1315. and also

  1316. if you struggle

  1317. with alcohol

  1318. you should not

  1319. drink

  1320. and so

  1321. I will use

  1322. a different

  1323. illustration

  1324. maybe coffee

  1325. tea

  1326. that

  1327. fruitiness

  1328. and sweetness

  1329. and bitterness

  1330. and that

  1331. intricate mixture

  1332. that just

  1333. clears your palate

  1334. you guys

  1335. know what

  1336. I'm talking

  1337. about

  1338. one day

  1339. we're all

  1340. going to be

  1341. dead

  1342. so learn

  1343. to enjoy

  1344. the simple

  1345. pleasures

  1346. of life

  1347. as gifts

  1348. from God

  1349. for God

  1350. has already

  1351. approved

  1352. what you do

  1353. so this is

  1354. again

  1355. an indication

  1356. that God

  1357. is here

  1358. in the picture

  1359. these simple

  1360. pleasures

  1361. of life

  1362. are gifts

  1363. from God

  1364. that we

  1365. receive

  1366. from him

  1367. not pleasures

  1368. that we

  1369. enjoy

  1370. apart from

  1371. him

  1372. or instead

  1373. of him

  1374. 1 Timothy 4

  1375. 4-5

  1376. echoes this

  1377. thought

  1378. for everything

  1379. created by

  1380. God

  1381. is good

  1382. and nothing

  1383. is to be

  1384. rejected

  1385. if it is

  1386. received

  1387. with thanksgiving

  1388. for it is

  1389. made holy

  1390. by the word

  1391. of God

  1392. and prayer

  1393. and this

  1394. raises an

  1395. important caveat

  1396. there are

  1397. places in the

  1398. Bible

  1399. where the

  1400. what the

  1401. preacher

  1402. commands

  1403. here

  1404. eat

  1405. and drink

  1406. and be

  1407. merry

  1408. seems to be

  1409. condemned

  1410. and we're

  1411. going to look

  1412. at two of

  1413. those examples

  1414. right now

  1415. briefly

  1416. 1 Corinthians

  1417. 15

  1418. 32-34

  1419. Paul says

  1420. this

  1421. if the dead

  1422. are not

  1423. raised

  1424. let us eat

  1425. and drink

  1426. for tomorrow

  1427. we die

  1428. do not

  1429. be deceived

  1430. bad company

  1431. ruins good

  1432. morals

  1433. wake up

  1434. from your

  1435. drunken

  1436. stupor

  1437. as is right

  1438. and do

  1439. not go

  1440. on sinning

  1441. Paul's saying

  1442. don't think

  1443. let us eat

  1444. and drink

  1445. for tomorrow

  1446. we die

  1447. what he's saying

  1448. is if there

  1449. is no

  1450. resurrection

  1451. from the

  1452. dead

  1453. then yeah

  1454. you should

  1455. think

  1456. well let's

  1457. eat and drink

  1458. for tomorrow

  1459. we die

  1460. because there's

  1461. no point

  1462. but he's

  1463. saying you

  1464. cannot think

  1465. that because

  1466. there is a

  1467. resurrection

  1468. from the

  1469. dead

  1470. so the

  1471. difference

  1472. here however

  1473. is not that

  1474. you're receiving

  1475. these pleasures

  1476. of life

  1477. as gifts

  1478. from God

  1479. but you're

  1480. seeing them

  1481. you're enjoying

  1482. them apart

  1483. from God

  1484. as replacements

  1485. for him

  1486. in sinful

  1487. ways

  1488. that's why

  1489. Paul says

  1490. wake up

  1491. from your

  1492. drunken

  1493. stupor

  1494. as is right

  1495. and do not

  1496. go on sinning

  1497. that's something

  1498. that the

  1499. preacher in

  1500. Ecclesiastes

  1501. never approves

  1502. earlier in

  1503. Ecclesiastes

    Ecclesiastes 2 chapter mention

  1504. chapter 2

  1505. he said that

  1506. he tried

  1507. wine

  1508. he tried

  1509. getting

  1510. getting into

  1511. alcohol

  1512. as a way

  1513. of fulfilling

  1514. his life

  1515. and he said

  1516. it was all

  1517. vanity

  1518. he knows

  1519. that ultimate

  1520. fulfillment

  1521. and pleasure

  1522. is not found

  1523. in alcohol

  1524. itself

  1525. but he's

  1526. telling us

  1527. to enjoy

  1528. responsibly

  1529. not in a

  1530. sinful way

  1531. but as

  1532. gifts

  1533. from God

  1534. this is why

  1535. the Bible

  1536. in many

  1537. places

  1538. condemns

  1539. pleasures

  1540. toward a

  1541. hedonistic

  1542. end

  1543. pursuing

  1544. pleasure

  1545. as the

  1546. end

  1547. of life

  1548. rather than

  1549. pursuing

  1550. God

  1551. and enjoying

  1552. pleasures

  1553. on the way

  1554. as gifts

  1555. from God

  1556. the Bible

  1557. condemns

  1558. those who

  1559. are lovers

  1560. of pleasure

  1561. rather than

  1562. lovers of God

  1563. 2 Timothy 3

  1564. 4

  1565. those who

  1566. are slaves

  1567. to various

  1568. passions and

  1569. pleasures

  1570. Titus 3

  1571. 3

  1572. those who

  1573. enjoy

  1574. the fleeting

  1575. pleasures

  1576. of sin

  1577. Hebrews 11

  1578. 25

  1579. but the

  1580. Bible

  1581. commands

  1582. those who

  1583. are lovers

  1584. of God

  1585. and because

  1586. of that

  1587. enjoy the

  1588. pleasures

  1589. of life

  1590. that God

  1591. himself

  1592. gives

  1593. let's also

  1594. look at

  1595. another one

  1596. Luke 12

  1597. 13 to

  1598. 21

  1599. Jesus tells

  1600. the parable

  1601. of the rich

  1602. man

  1603. right

  1604. who has

  1605. land

  1606. has produced

  1607. plentifully

  1608. has so much

  1609. in his barn

  1610. but instead

  1611. of being rich

  1612. toward God

  1613. and instead

  1614. of being

  1615. open-handed

  1616. with the poor

  1617. he decides

  1618. you know

  1619. I can't keep

  1620. all my stuff

  1621. to myself

  1622. so I'm just

  1623. going to tear

  1624. down my barns

  1625. bigger

  1626. bigger barns

  1627. and keep

  1628. all my produce

  1629. to myself

  1630. and then God

  1631. judges him

  1632. and he perishes

  1633. the next day

  1634. that is not

  1635. an example

  1636. of a proper

  1637. humble

  1638. grateful

  1639. enjoyment

  1640. of God's

  1641. gifts

  1642. that's an

  1643. example of

  1644. idolatrous

  1645. worship

  1646. of God's

  1647. gifts

  1648. and as soon

  1649. as soon as

  1650. you turn

  1651. God's

  1652. good gifts

  1653. into an

  1654. idol

  1655. that you

  1656. love

  1657. above

  1658. God

  1659. it loses

  1660. all this

  1661. pleasure

  1662. and it

  1663. starts

  1664. enslaving

  1665. you

  1666. so ask

  1667. yourselves

  1668. these diagnostic

  1669. questions

  1670. think about

  1671. the things

  1672. that you

  1673. enjoy

  1674. in life

  1675. the pleasures

  1676. in life

  1677. that you

  1678. enjoy

  1679. that you

  1680. desire

  1681. and ask

  1682. yourself

  1683. these

  1684. questions

  1685. are you

  1686. greedy

  1687. for those

  1688. pleasures

  1689. or do

  1690. you always

  1691. need more

  1692. or are you

  1693. grateful

  1694. and content

  1695. because that

  1696. will tell you

  1697. if you're

  1698. receiving these

  1699. gifts as

  1700. pleasurable

  1701. gifts from

  1702. God

  1703. or not

  1704. are you

  1705. possessive

  1706. of these

  1707. pleasures

  1708. or are you

  1709. humble in your

  1710. relation to

  1711. them

  1712. you're open

  1713. handed about

  1714. them

  1715. you recognize

  1716. that they

  1717. are all

  1718. ultimately

  1719. from God

  1720. and may be

  1721. gone the

  1722. next day

  1723. are you

  1724. controlling

  1725. or anxious

  1726. about these

  1727. pleasures

  1728. these gifts

  1729. of life

  1730. or do you

  1731. have peace

  1732. in your

  1733. heart

  1734. because you

  1735. trust God

  1736. with them

  1737. ultimately

  1738. let's keep

  1739. going

  1740. verse 8

  1741. let your

  1742. garments be

  1743. always white

  1744. and let

  1745. that oil

  1746. be lacking

  1747. on your

  1748. head

  1749. in the

  1750. hot and

  1751. dry ancient

  1752. near east

  1753. oil upon

  1754. your head

  1755. was a

  1756. particularly

  1757. delightful

  1758. gift

  1759. for a

  1760. couple

  1761. reasons

  1762. one is

  1763. that in

  1764. really dry

  1765. climates

  1766. your scalp

  1767. is dry

  1768. and oil

  1769. nice

  1770. cold

  1771. viscous

  1772. oil on

  1773. your head

  1774. it

  1775. moisturizes

  1776. your scalp

  1777. and feels

  1778. refreshing

  1779. and also

  1780. you guys

  1781. notice I

  1782. have kids

  1783. in

  1784. young kids

  1785. in school

  1786. so I

  1787. just got

  1788. another

  1789. letter

  1790. this week

  1791. saying that

  1792. there was

  1793. lice

  1794. in the

  1795. classroom

  1796. and

  1797. furiously

  1798. checked the

  1799. kids hair

  1800. but lice

  1801. was a lot

  1802. more common

  1803. in the

  1804. ancient

  1805. world

  1806. and when

  1807. you have

  1808. lice

  1809. and you

  1810. get oil

  1811. on your

  1812. head

  1813. it kills

  1814. the lice

  1815. because the

  1816. oil is

  1817. of its

  1818. viscosity

  1819. and imagine

  1820. that

  1821. you're getting

  1822. these little

  1823. critters

  1824. sucking on

  1825. your blood

  1826. on your scalp

  1827. and then the

  1828. oil

  1829. it's refreshing

  1830. doesn't that

  1831. sound just

  1832. delightful

  1833. that's a

  1834. it's great

  1835. relief and

  1836. refreshment

  1837. for these reasons

  1838. oil is often

  1839. associated with

  1840. parties and

  1841. festivities

  1842. and special

  1843. occasions

  1844. similarly

  1845. white is a

  1846. symbol of

  1847. purity and

  1848. glory and

  1849. beauty and

  1850. festivity

  1851. not only

  1852. does that

  1853. help in

  1854. hot climates

  1855. it keeps

  1856. you cool

  1857. but it's

  1858. also a

  1859. sign of

  1860. festivity

  1861. the bride

  1862. wears white

  1863. at a

  1864. wedding

  1865. mourners

  1866. wear black

  1867. at a

  1868. funeral

  1869. this is

  1870. another

  1871. concrete

  1872. example of

  1873. what it

  1874. looks like

  1875. to enjoy

  1876. life as

  1877. a gift

  1878. from God

  1879. it's still

  1880. true

  1881. that we

  1882. ought to

  1883. reflect on

  1884. the day

  1885. of death

  1886. remember

  1887. number our

  1888. days as

  1889. Ecclesiastes

  1890. 7

  1891. told us

  1892. but that's

  1893. not meant

  1894. to make

  1895. us depressed

  1896. Eeyores

  1897. through our

  1898. life

  1899. gloomy

  1900. no we

  1901. still in

  1902. the midst

  1903. of

  1904. with death

  1905. in view

  1906. enjoy the

  1907. present gifts

  1908. of life

  1909. because God

  1910. intends for

  1911. these things

  1912. to be

  1913. bombs to

  1914. our souls

  1915. in a

  1916. sick and

  1917. sorrow filled

  1918. world

  1919. the preacher

  1920. put it this

  1921. way in

  1922. Ecclesiastes

  1923. 5 18

  1924. to 20

  1925. behold what

  1926. I have seen

  1927. to be good

  1928. and fitting

  1929. is to eat

  1930. and drink

  1931. and find

  1932. enjoyment

  1933. in all

  1934. the toil

  1935. with which

  1936. one toils

  1937. under the sun

  1938. the few days

  1939. of his life

  1940. that God

  1941. has given

  1942. him for

  1943. this is

  1944. his lot

  1945. everyone

  1946. also to

  1947. whom God

  1948. has given

  1949. wealth

  1950. and possessions

  1951. and power

  1952. to enjoy

  1953. them

  1954. and to

  1955. accept

  1956. his lot

  1957. and rejoice

  1958. in his

  1959. toil

  1960. this is

  1961. the gift

  1962. of God

  1963. for he

  1964. will not

  1965. much

  1966. remember

  1967. the days

  1968. of his

  1969. life

  1970. because God

  1971. keeps him

  1972. occupied

  1973. with joy

  1974. in his

  1975. heart

  1976. he intends

  1977. for these

  1978. simple pleasures

  1979. of life

  1980. as gifts

  1981. to be

  1982. bombs

  1983. to our

  1984. souls

  1985. so that

  1986. we can

  1987. weather the

  1988. sorrows

  1989. and the

  1990. sufferings

  1991. of this

  1992. sin sick

  1993. world

  1994. in fact

  1995. only those

  1996. who keep

  1997. the

  1998. uncertainties

  1999. of life

  2000. and the

  2001. certainty

  2002. of death

  2003. in view

  2004. can rightly

  2005. enjoy

  2006. pleasures

  2007. of life

  2008. in their

  2009. proper

  2010. bounds

  2011. I read

  2012. recently

  2013. that despite

  2014. the constant

  2015. bombardment

  2016. from Russia

  2017. the conductor

  2018. Vitaly Alexino

  2019. and his

  2020. orchestra

  2021. refused

  2022. to cancel

  2023. their annual

  2024. Kharkiv

  2025. music festival

  2026. in Ukraine

  2027. so they've

  2028. been

  2029. performing

  2030. in bomb

  2031. shelters

  2032. and subways

  2033. and hospitals

  2034. during the

  2035. Russo-Ukrainian

  2036. war

  2037. oftentimes

  2038. bringing the

  2039. audience to

  2040. tears

  2041. because of

  2042. their beautiful

  2043. soul-stirring

  2044. music

  2045. that's what

  2046. enjoying

  2047. the gifts

  2048. of life

  2049. in the midst

  2050. of this

  2051. fallen

  2052. death-ridden

  2053. world

  2054. looks like

  2055. it's an

  2056. act of

  2057. defiance

  2058. it's a

  2059. declaration

  2060. of faith

  2061. yes

  2062. this world

  2063. is not the

  2064. way it's

  2065. supposed to

  2066. be

  2067. but this

  2068. world will

  2069. not always

  2070. stay that

  2071. way

  2072. verse 9

  2073. continues

  2074. enjoy life

  2075. with the

  2076. wife whom

  2077. you love

  2078. all the

  2079. days of

  2080. your vain

  2081. life that

  2082. he has

  2083. given you

  2084. under the

  2085. sun

  2086. because that

  2087. is your

  2088. portion in

  2089. life and

  2090. in your

  2091. toil at

  2092. which you

  2093. toil under

  2094. the sun

  2095. this is

  2096. really important

  2097. for us to

  2098. remember

  2099. especially for

  2100. married couples

  2101. marriage is

  2102. hard

  2103. marriage does

  2104. come with

  2105. its own

  2106. share of

  2107. sorrows and

  2108. sufferings

  2109. because it's

  2110. a union of

  2111. two sinful

  2112. people

  2113. that is

  2114. reality

  2115. however

  2116. note that

  2117. verse 9

  2118. doesn't say

  2119. live with

  2120. your wife

  2121. and put

  2122. up with

  2123. her

  2124. he says

  2125. enjoy life

  2126. with the

  2127. wife whom

  2128. you love

  2129. if you see

  2130. your husband

  2131. or wife

  2132. as a means

  2133. for gain

  2134. as an

  2135. accessory

  2136. to burnish

  2137. your reputation

  2138. as a

  2139. stepping stone

  2140. and a way

  2141. to get to

  2142. a stage

  2143. in life

  2144. or in

  2145. your career

  2146. or to

  2147. accomplish

  2148. your next

  2149. goal

  2150. then you'll

  2151. end up as

  2152. little more

  2153. than housemates

  2154. or you'll end

  2155. up trying to

  2156. use the other

  2157. person

  2158. and end up

  2159. taking and

  2160. taking and

  2161. taking

  2162. and you'll

  2163. have a

  2164. miserable

  2165. marriage

  2166. early in

  2167. my marriage

  2168. I was

  2169. very

  2170. irritated

  2171. by the

  2172. fact that

  2173. Hannah

  2174. often

  2175. my wife

  2176. Hannah

  2177. often

  2178. misspoke

  2179. or spoke

  2180. imprecisely

  2181. because

  2182. I was a

  2183. prideful man

  2184. and controlling

  2185. man

  2186. I didn't

  2187. want people

  2188. to perceive

  2189. Hannah a

  2190. certain way

  2191. like

  2192. they're gonna

  2193. think you're

  2194. not smart

  2195. and that's

  2196. gonna reflect

  2197. badly on you

  2198. and it's

  2199. gonna reflect

  2200. badly on me

  2201. because she's

  2202. not smart

  2203. she's very

  2204. smart

  2205. but as

  2206. I've

  2207. grown

  2208. and God

  2209. has humbled

  2210. me over

  2211. the years

  2212. I've learned

  2213. to enjoy

  2214. the way

  2215. she misspeaks

  2216. and her

  2217. self forgetfulness

  2218. and humility

  2219. and not taking

  2220. those things

  2221. too seriously

  2222. is actually

  2223. a huge

  2224. gift to me

  2225. so I keep

  2226. a running

  2227. list of all

  2228. the Hannah-isms

  2229. because they

  2230. make me

  2231. smile

  2232. she'll say

  2233. things like

  2234. nip it

  2235. in the

  2236. butt

  2237. instead of

  2238. nip it

  2239. in the

  2240. bud

  2241. you guys

  2242. know

  2243. she'll say

  2244. oh that

  2245. sail has

  2246. shipped

  2247. instead of

  2248. saying that

  2249. ship has

  2250. sailed

  2251. when I'm

  2252. trying to

  2253. think of

  2254. doing something

  2255. risky or

  2256. something

  2257. she'll say

  2258. why would

  2259. you play

  2260. with water

  2261. she means

  2262. why would

  2263. you play

  2264. with fire

  2265. when we're

  2266. playing a

  2267. game she

  2268. says you

  2269. win to

  2270. play

  2271. instead of

  2272. saying you

  2273. play to

  2274. win

  2275. and when

  2276. she's talking

  2277. about something

  2278. she's really

  2279. good at

  2280. sometimes she

  2281. will say

  2282. that's my

  2283. cream and

  2284. butter

  2285. instead of

  2286. that's my

  2287. bread and

  2288. butter

  2289. and about

  2290. our church

  2291. she once

  2292. asked me

  2293. in a very

  2294. serious way

  2295. is our

  2296. church

  2297. too brick

  2298. and mortar

  2299. and I

  2300. looked at

  2301. her

  2302. stared at

  2303. her

  2304. confusedly

  2305. I was

  2306. like what

  2307. we don't

  2308. even have

  2309. a building

  2310. what do

  2311. you mean

  2312. our church

  2313. is too

  2314. brick

  2315. and mortar

  2316. she's like

  2317. oh no

  2318. no

  2319. wait

  2320. no

  2321. no

  2322. is our

  2323. church

  2324. too fire

  2325. and brimstone

  2326. yes

  2327. yes

  2328. Hannah

  2329. we are

  2330. yeah

  2331. yeah

  2332. yeah

  2333. do you

  2334. enjoy

  2335. life

  2336. with your

  2337. children

  2338. if you

  2339. see your

  2340. children

  2341. as a

  2342. means

  2343. for gain

  2344. and seek

  2345. to live

  2346. vicariously

  2347. through their

  2348. successes

  2349. then you

  2350. will become

  2351. a helicopter

  2352. parent

  2353. and a

  2354. tiger mom

  2355. and you

  2356. will suffocate

  2357. your children

  2358. under your

  2359. expectations

  2360. that's not

  2361. what it

  2362. looks like

  2363. to love

  2364. them

  2365. do you

  2366. enjoy

  2367. them

  2368. do you

  2369. enjoy

  2370. their

  2371. tiny

  2372. humanness

  2373. enjoy

  2374. their

  2375. interesting

  2376. meal

  2377. habits

  2378. the way

  2379. they pronounce

  2380. certain

  2381. words

  2382. and

  2383. the way

  2384. they talk

  2385. their embrace

  2386. their

  2387. idiosyncrasies

  2388. their wild

  2389. hair

  2390. and

  2391. their

  2392. general

  2393. childishness

  2394. do you

  2395. enjoy

  2396. them

  2397. brothers and

  2398. sisters

  2399. this is a

  2400. command from

  2401. the Lord

  2402. God

  2403. he says

  2404. go

  2405. go

  2406. enjoy

  2407. life

  2408. verse 7

  2409. go and

  2410. enjoy the

  2411. pleasures of

  2412. life that

  2413. God has

  2414. given you

  2415. and has

  2416. already

  2417. approved

  2418. beforehand

  2419. go and

  2420. savor that

  2421. post church

  2422. meal

  2423. and instead of

  2424. scarfing it

  2425. down eat

  2426. slowly and

  2427. enjoy it

  2428. go enjoy

  2429. that

  2430. sweep

  2431. sunday

  2432. nap on

  2433. the couch

  2434. that I

  2435. know you

  2436. guys

  2437. some of

  2438. you guys

  2439. take

  2440. go on

  2441. that fall

  2442. foliage hike

  2443. that some of

  2444. us are doing

  2445. go and play

  2446. some basketball

  2447. like some of

  2448. us are doing

  2449. after church

  2450. go and make

  2451. some music

  2452. go make

  2453. some art

  2454. go run

  2455. a race

  2456. go take

  2457. your kids

  2458. out for

  2459. something

  2460. sweet

  2461. go do

  2462. a puzzle

  2463. in the

  2464. afternoon

  2465. like some

  2466. of you

  2467. guys are

  2468. planning on

  2469. doing

  2470. spend some

  2471. time with

  2472. good friends

  2473. and above

  2474. all enjoy

  2475. and cherish

  2476. Jesus who

  2477. is your

  2478. greatest

  2479. treasure

  2480. and talk

  2481. about him

  2482. and worship

  2483. him

  2484. enjoy him

  2485. that brings

  2486. me to the

  2487. last thing I

  2488. want to say

  2489. Jesus did

  2490. this better

  2491. than anyone

  2492. else in all

  2493. of human

  2494. history

  2495. Jesus if

  2496. you look

  2497. through the

  2498. gospels is

  2499. always eating

  2500. and drinking

  2501. theologian

  2502. David Ford

  2503. puts it this

  2504. way Jesus

  2505. literally ate

  2506. his way

  2507. through the

  2508. gospels

  2509. that's why

  2510. people who

  2511. his critics

  2512. said of him

  2513. in Matthew

  2514. 11 19

  2515. look at him

  2516. a glutton

  2517. and a drunkard

  2518. a friend of

  2519. tax collectors

  2520. and sinners

  2521. even though Jesus

  2522. was not a

  2523. drunkard

  2524. and he was

  2525. not a glutton

  2526. he just knew

  2527. how to enjoy

  2528. life

  2529. Jesus can do

  2530. this

  2531. knowing full

  2532. well that he

  2533. is headed

  2534. to the cross

  2535. he knows

  2536. that he's

  2537. destiny

  2538. in life

  2539. is to

  2540. die

  2541. on the

  2542. cross

  2543. a gruesome

  2544. death

  2545. for the

  2546. sake of

  2547. sinners

  2548. like you

  2549. and me

  2550. he knows

  2551. that he's

  2552. living

  2553. toward that

  2554. end

  2555. and yet

  2556. on his

  2557. way to

  2558. the cross

  2559. he enjoys

  2560. life

  2561. and on

  2562. the cross

  2563. he dies

  2564. he defeats

  2565. death

  2566. he is raised

  2567. from the

  2568. dead

  2569. so that all

  2570. sinners who

  2571. repent of

  2572. their sins

  2573. and believe

  2574. in him

  2575. and entrust

  2576. their lives

  2577. to him

  2578. our promise

  2579. not just

  2580. pleasures that

  2581. will eventually

  2582. be lost

  2583. but eternal

  2584. pleasures

  2585. an eternal

  2586. feast

  2587. isn't that our

  2588. destiny brothers

  2589. and sisters

  2590. how does the

  2591. bible describe

  2592. our eternal

  2593. life with

  2594. god

  2595. it's a

  2596. wedding

  2597. feast

  2598. an eternal

  2599. one with

  2600. our bridegroom

  2601. jesus christ

  2602. and that's

  2603. why jesus

  2604. in luke

  2605. 4

  2606. reads this

  2607. prophecy

  2608. in isaiah

  2609. isaiah 61

  2610. and says

  2611. that this

  2612. is fulfilled

  2613. in his

  2614. hearing

  2615. he's fulfilled

  2616. in his

  2617. person and

  2618. work

  2619. and this

  2620. is what

  2621. was prophesied

  2622. and promised

  2623. in isaiah 61

  2624. the spirit

  2625. of the lord

  2626. god is upon

  2627. me

  2628. because the

  2629. lord has

  2630. anointed

  2631. me to

  2632. bring good

  2633. news to

  2634. the poor

  2635. he has

  2636. sent me

  2637. to bind

  2638. up the

  2639. brokenhearted

  2640. to proclaim

  2641. liberty to

  2642. the captives

  2643. and the

  2644. opening of

  2645. the prison

  2646. to those

  2647. who are

  2648. bound

  2649. to proclaim

  2650. the year

  2651. of the lord's

  2652. favor and

  2653. the day of

  2654. vengeance of

  2655. our god

  2656. to comfort

  2657. all who

  2658. mourn

  2659. to grant

  2660. to those

  2661. who mourn

  2662. in zion

  2663. to give

  2664. them a

  2665. beautiful

  2666. headdress

  2667. instead of

  2668. ashes

  2669. the oil

  2670. of gladness

  2671. instead of

  2672. mourning

  2673. the garment

  2674. of praise

  2675. instead of

  2676. a faint

  2677. spirit

  2678. and that

  2679. they may

  2680. be called

  2681. oaks of

  2682. righteousness

  2683. the planting

  2684. of the lord

  2685. that he may

  2686. be glorified

  2687. and then

  2688. we're supposed

  2689. to respond

  2690. this way

  2691. in verse

  2692. 10

  2693. Isaiah 61

  2694. i will

  2695. greatly

  2696. rejoice

  2697. in the lord

  2698. my soul

  2699. shall exalt

  2700. in my god

  2701. for he has

  2702. clothed me

  2703. with the

  2704. garments of

  2705. salvation

  2706. he has

  2707. covered me

  2708. with the

  2709. robe of

  2710. righteousness

  2711. as a

  2712. bridegroom

  2713. decks himself

  2714. like a

  2715. priest with

  2716. a beautiful

  2717. headdress

  2718. and as a

  2719. bride adorns

  2720. herself with

  2721. her jewels

  2722. yes this

  2723. life is

  2724. broken

  2725. and is

  2726. full of

  2727. death

  2728. and suffering

  2729. but because

  2730. christ has

  2731. come and

  2732. already begun

  2733. the process

  2734. of renewing

  2735. all creation

  2736. we already

  2737. have a

  2738. glimpse

  2739. and we

  2740. get to

  2741. enjoy

  2742. life

  2743. and enjoy

  2744. jesus

  2745. knowing

  2746. ultimately

  2747. that we'll

  2748. have

  2749. that in

  2750. the end

  2751. that we'll

  2752. get to

  2753. enjoy

  2754. pleasures

  2755. unending

  2756. dressed

  2757. as a

  2758. bride

  2759. sanctified

  2760. glorified

  2761. for the

  2762. sake of

  2763. our

  2764. bridegroom

  2765. so with

  2766. that in

  2767. view

  2768. let's live

  2769. life and

  2770. enjoy life

  2771. and accept

  2772. the lot

  2773. that god

  2774. has given

  2775. us

  2776. let's pray

  2777. together

  2778. father

  2779. give us

  2780. wisdom

  2781. wisdom

  2782. to slow

  2783. down

  2784. and when

  2785. to say

  2786. no to

  2787. things

  2788. and when

  2789. to declutter

  2790. our lives

  2791. our days

  2792. our schedules

  2793. our souls

  2794. so that we

  2795. can be more

  2796. present to the

  2797. simple gifts

  2798. you have given

  2799. us

  2800. and to enjoy

  2801. them

  2802. genuinely

  2803. and most

  2804. of all

  2805. help us

  2806. to enjoy

  2807. you

  2808. enjoy

  2809. our savior

  2810. Jesus Christ

  2811. who gave

  2812. his life

  2813. as spiritual

  2814. bread

  2815. the bread

  2816. of life

  2817. who poured

  2818. out his

  2819. blood

  2820. as wine

  2821. for us

  2822. to drink

  2823. help us

  2824. to enjoy

  2825. him

  2826. above all

  2827. other

  2828. pleasures

  2829. cherish

  2830. him above

  2831. all other

  2832. treasures

  2833. so that

  2834. even when

  2835. there seems

  2836. to be

  2837. nothing in

  2838. life to

  2839. enjoy

  2840. we might

  2841. rejoice

  2842. in him

  2843. fill

  2844. all of us

  2845. in this room

  2846. now with

  2847. that joy

  2848. unending

  2849. Lord God

  2850. in Jesus

  2851. name

  2852. we pray

  2853. amen