Sermon
Do It In Secret
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Good morning, guys. Thank you to Todd and David for such a fun edition of our Sunday announcements today.
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! We're going to continue on in the Sermon on the Mount this morning as we read and open up with chapter 6.
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Our text is Matthew 6, 1-6.
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And then we're skipping the Lord's Prayer altogether because that most certainly deserves its own sermon.
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And then we'll read verses 16-18.
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I think you'll see soon why we grouped this text like this.
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I was discussing the sermon with our very own Steve Miller,
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who mentioned that this is the perfect text for me to preach on as I start full-time ministry.
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And I couldn't agree more.
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This text has been a mirror to me, revealing my pride, my self-righteousness,
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but also the kindness of my Heavenly Father.
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So let's pray now that the Spirit of God will show us both of those things this morning.
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Heavenly Father,
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Father, you are in heaven, high and holy,
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but you're also our Father.
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And you meet us where we are,
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meek and lowly.
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We are in awe of you.
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That when we fall short of your standards,
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of your teachings,
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that your heart towards us isn't to reject us,
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isn't to fold your arms,
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to say,
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try again next time.
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But you love us.
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You welcome us in as
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a good, good Father does.
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And we need to be reminded of that fatherly love this morning.
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Our hearts are sick,
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craving for affirmation and approval,
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and we look for it in so many of the wrong places.
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But I pray, Lord,
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won't you open our eyes to see that your heart,
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your disposition towards us,
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is one of love and compassion and kindness,
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so that we would be able to
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not fear man,
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and not seek the approval of man,
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but to seek your approval and your reward.
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Help us, Father, to that end.
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We need your spirit to convict us
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and to help us.
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In Jesus' name we pray.
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Amen.
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Please stand, if you are able,
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for the reading of God's word.
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We're in Matthew 6,
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starting in verse 1.
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Beware of practicing your righteousness
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before other people
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in order to be seen by them,
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for then you will have no reward
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from your Father who is in heaven.
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Thus, when you give to the needy,
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sound no trumpet before you,
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as the hypocrites do
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in the synagogues and in the streets,
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that they may be praised by others.
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Truly, I say to you,
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they have received their reward.
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But when you give to the needy,
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do not let your left hand know
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what your right hand is doing,
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so that your giving may be in secret.
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And your Father who sees in secret
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will reward you.
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And when you pray,
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you must not be like the hypocrites,
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for they love to stand
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and pray in the synagogues
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and at the street corners,
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that they may be seen by others.
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Truly, I say to you,
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they have received their reward.
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But when you pray,
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go into your room
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and shut the door
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and pray to your Father
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who is in secret.
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And your Father who sees in secret
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will reward you.
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And when you fast,
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do not look gloomy
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like the hypocrites,
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for they disfigure their faces,
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that their fasting
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may be seen by others.
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Truly, I say to you,
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they have received their reward.
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But when you fast,
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anoint your head
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and wash your face,
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that your fasting
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may not be seen by others,
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but by your heavenly Father,
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but by your Father
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who is in secret.
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And your Father
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who sees in secret
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will reward you.
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This is God's holy
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and authoritative word.
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You may be seated.
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Back in the early 2000s,
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there was this era
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of youth-oriented,
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high-production,
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culturally relevant
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megachurches like Hillsong.
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And there was an up-and-coming church
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that challenged Hillsong
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with over 21,000 members,
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multi-campus,
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taking over Australia,
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and it was called
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Planet Shakers Church.
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It gained massive
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international attention,
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and at its helm
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was this young,
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charismatic,
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energetic speaker
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named Michael Guglielmucci,
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who filled stadiums
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and he wrote
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chart-topping music.
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People loved Mike
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for his authenticity,
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his approachableness,
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his passion for the Lord.
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All was going great
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for Planet Shakers
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and for Mike
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until he dropped
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this bomb on them.
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He had cancer.
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Not just any kind of cancer,
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but a rare form
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of blood cancer
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that left him
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with years,
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maybe even months,
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to live.
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But amazingly,
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he didn't let that
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stop him.
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He continued
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to go around churches,
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preaching like a dying man,
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exhorting the younger generation
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to never stop trusting
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in the Lord.
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even when he needed
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a cane to walk,
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even when all his hair
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fell out
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because of the chemo,
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and when he needed
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to be hooked up
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even to oxygen
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on the stage.
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He never stopped preaching.
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He led worship
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and he performed
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his hit song,
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Healer,
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which lyrics go,
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you hold my every moment,
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you calm my raging seas,
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you walk with me
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through fire
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and heal all my disease.
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I trust in you.
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In every way,
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Mike was a model example
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of someone
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who holds on to faith
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in such a hard situation.
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Or so it seemed.
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It turned out
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that Mike was lying
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the entire time
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about his cancer diagnosis.
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Not just to the public,
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not just to his church,
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but to his own family,
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his own wife.
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He would have them
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drop him off
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at the hospital,
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but never let them
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come in with him.
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And it turns out
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that he shaved
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his own head,
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he faked his oxygen tube
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on stage,
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and he acted a limp
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into his walk.
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to make matters worse.
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He confessed
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that he was using
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this cancer diagnosis
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to hide a secret sin,
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a decades-long addiction
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to adult videos.
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Michael Guglielmucci
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was a hypocrite,
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a double life fraud.
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In our passage this morning,
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Jesus warns us
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of this hypocrisy.
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Verse 1 says,
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Beware of practicing
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your righteousness
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before other people
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in order to be seen by them,
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for then you will have
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no reward from your Father
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who is in heaven.
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This is a sobering verse
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this morning
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that acts like
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the thesis statement
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for the rest of our passage.
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Jesus is saying
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that the motive
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by which you practice
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your righteousness
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before others
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is not a light matter.
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There sadly have been
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way too many men,
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like the scribes
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and the Pharisees
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that we're going to read about,
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that have acted
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like all they want
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is to please the Lord,
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but in reality,
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they don't have an ounce
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of genuine desire.
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Their only motivation
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is self-glory.
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Jesus warns
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that those who have won
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the praise
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of the entire world
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by their hypocrisy,
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like Mike Guglielmucci,
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will not receive
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an ounce of reward
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from their heavenly father.
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unless they repent.
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So instead,
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in our passage,
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Jesus teaches us
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a better way.
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Other than in verse 1,
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our passage is split
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into three congruent passages,
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and it doesn't take long
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to see a pattern
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between all three sections.
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First,
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Jesus rebukes
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the hypocrites
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for practicing
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acts of righteousness
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to be seen by men.
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And in all three sections,
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he has the same judgment.
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Truly,
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I say to you,
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they have received
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their reward.
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And then comes
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the contrast.
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But you,
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you should do
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all that the hypocrite
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is doing,
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but in secret.
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And then,
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this is the identical line again.
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He says,
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your father,
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who sees in secret,
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will reward you.
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The main idea
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of this passage
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isn't hard to identify.
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Jesus makes it clear
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that we should practice
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our righteousness
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in secret
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to be seen
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and rewarded
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by God,
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not man.
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And in turn,
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we're going to look
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at how Jesus speaks
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about how we are
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to give,
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not grandstand.
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We're to pray,
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not play act.
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We're to fast,
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and not feign.
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Let's jump into
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the first of his examples
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now,
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which is all about
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giving to the poor.
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Back then,
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giving to the poor
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was an essential part
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of society
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because unlike us today,
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the poor didn't have
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government welfare systems
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to rely on.
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Instead,
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they had to depend
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entirely on the donations
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of the public
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run through a system
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by the Jewish synagogues.
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And in that system,
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significant donations,
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big donations,
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were likely broadcasted,
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publicized
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to the entire society.
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So you can just imagine
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how ripe
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the circumstances were
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for these hypocrites,
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these scribes
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and Pharisees
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that Jesus most likely
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is referring to here,
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to practice
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their righteousness
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to win
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the praise of man.
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The word hypocrite
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originally referred
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to a theatrical actor,
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which I think
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is such a fitting description.
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of what these men
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are doing.
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It really seems like
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they know and love God
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by their acts
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of righteousness,
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but in actuality,
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they're only convincing
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method actors.
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They toot their trumpets
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in a musical performance.
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They perform
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their long prayer monologues.
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They even costume up.
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They wear makeup,
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as we'll see later.
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Here Jesus exposes
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their hypocrisy
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as they give to the poor
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only to hear
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that trumpet played
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and only to hear
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the people ooh and ah
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at their generosity
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and their holiness.
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Mind you,
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this man is not
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pretending to give.
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He's not lying about it.
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He's actually giving.
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So he's doing
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an act of kindness.
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Anyone with two eyes
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can see that.
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But yet,
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Jesus isn't impressed.
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For Jesus,
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it's not enough
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for us to just
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throw money
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at the poor
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and expect that
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to please him.
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If that were the case,
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mega YouTube
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star,
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Mr. Beast,
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if you guys know him,
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Jimmy Donaldson,
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he would be the most
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righteous of us
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with his long list
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of philanthropic
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achievements.
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And these YouTube videos
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that you guys
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likely have seen,
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they're insane.
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He donates
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a year's salary
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to every family
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in a village
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in Uganda
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or he pays
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for a thousand
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deaf people
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and their surgeries
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so that they can hear
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for the first time.
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On first glance,
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it seems that Jesus
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would be impressed
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by such acts
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of generosity
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and kindness.
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But here,
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out of Donaldson's
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own mouth,
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the rationale,
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the motive
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by which he gives.
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Near the beginning
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of Donaldson's success,
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he posted this video
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in which he gives
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to his mom
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$100,000
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in cold,
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hard cash.
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Can you imagine?
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And at first,
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she refuses,
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but he insists,
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says,
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if I don't give this
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to you,
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I don't have
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a viral video.
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You're using me
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for views,
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she asks.
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And he's honest.
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He says,
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yes,
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but you get money too.
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So we're both happy.
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This philanthropic content
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has been a key part
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to Donaldson's
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explosive growth
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to fame.
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These videos rack up
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hundreds of millions
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of views.
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Even I want to watch
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a thousand deaf people
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to regain their hearing again.
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But this is nothing new.
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The scribes
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and the Pharisees
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were long onto
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this strategy
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long before Mr. Beast.
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In fact,
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they were the original
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Mr. Beast
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who flaunted
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their generous giving.
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It's not actually giving
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because in actuality,
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they're buying.
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They're just using
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their money
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to buy the respect
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and clout
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of society.
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And Jesus himself
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knows that this
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strategy works.
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He acknowledges
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that there is a reward
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to this kind of behavior
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when he says
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three times in our passage,
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truly I say to you,
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they have received
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their reward.
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But what's the problem
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with this kind of reward?
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A lot of things,
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but let me just highlight
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two aspects.
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Number one,
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this praise,
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this clout,
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it's
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caffeine.
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caffeine.
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It's
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high fructose
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corn syrup.
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It's an addictive
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stimulant.
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It's ephemeral,
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temporary,
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burns hot for a second
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and leaves you
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crashing the next.
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Like the high of a drug,
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it never satisfies,
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but it hooks you.
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It addicts you
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to the next hit,
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to the next achievement,
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to the next affirming
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person,
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the next compliment.
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Then you're only as good
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as your next achievement.
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But more importantly,
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the reward of man,
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it forfeits
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the true reward
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of God
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because we cannot
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serve both God
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and man.
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It's binary.
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It's one or the other.
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So Jesus seriously
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warns us
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to be careful
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because if this is all
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that you're working towards,
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if this is all
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that you're striving for,
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then you might just get it.
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But that's all
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you're going to get.
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So friends,
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we should not expect
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to please Jesus
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if we're not even
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aiming to do so.
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So instead of this hypocrisy,
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what should we do?
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We should give in total secret.
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That's what Jesus says.
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Here,
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Jesus isn't directly
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commanding us
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to give to the needy,
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but he's assuming
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that we're doing so.
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We can't give in secret
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unless we're not giving at all.
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So this is a time
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to just quickly evaluate.
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Am I matching?
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Is the way that I use my money
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match Jesus' assumption
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about me?
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My budget,
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my spending habits?
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But this passage
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isn't about
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the amount of money
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that we give,
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but it's more about
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the motivation
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with which we give.
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for Jesus commands us
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while the right hands
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of the hypocrites
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are tooting their horns
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and they're blasting
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their socials
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to tell the entire world
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of how good of a person
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they are
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and all that they're doing,
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your right hand
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shouldn't even tell the left
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what it's doing.
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That's how secretive
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you are to be.
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Why?
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Because when you give
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in secret,
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your father
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who sees in secret
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will reward you.
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This is a fascinating comment
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from Jesus.
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Do you notice
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that he doesn't say
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you should give in secret
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because this is
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the right thing to do?
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You know,
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sometimes we think
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that the true Christian thing
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is to completely
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divorce ourselves
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from any
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self-interested desire.
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We think we should
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only be outward focused
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and do the right thing only
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because it's the right thing.
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Because we love others
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and we love God
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so we shouldn't be
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in it for ourselves.
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And there is a way
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that this certainly
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does become selfish
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but amazingly,
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Jesus doesn't think
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that it is
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automatically,
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inherently selfish
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for us to be motivated
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by future reward.
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instead he's intentionally
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holding out to us
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a greater,
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a better reward.
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And so what he's
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ultimately rebuking
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the scribes
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and the Pharisees for
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is not that they are
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self-interested
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but it's that they're not
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self-interested
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in the right way.
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Like a little boy
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who stuffs himself
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with candy
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before dinner,
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these scribes
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and their Pharisees,
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these Pharisees,
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they're too easily
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stuffing themselves
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with the praise of man,
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the lesser things
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which then disqualifies
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them from a better,
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heartier meal,
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a future reward
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that's going to be
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far better
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than anything man
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can give.
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In other words,
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they're too nearsighted
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to be able to see
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far ahead
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and long for
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something better.
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I don't know
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if you guys
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know this about me,
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some of you guys do,
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but I'm terribly
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nearsighted.
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My eyes are really,
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really bad, right?
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Like I can basically
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only see clearly
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three to four inches
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in front of me.
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My wife has joked
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that probably
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it's not a joke,
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but that I would
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be utterly useless
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when I have to
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defend her in a fight
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because all you have
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to do is just
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knock the glasses off
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and just going to
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be throwing
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punches blindly.
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But just like
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the best solution
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for nearsightedness
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is not to put
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out our eyes
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and go blind,
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thank God,
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but it's to
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correct our vision
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with glasses,
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with contacts.
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We shouldn't
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blind ourselves
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from reward,
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but instead
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correct our vision,
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have a better
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long-term view
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of heavenly rewards.
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seeking God's reward
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as Jesus encourages,
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it's not mercenary,
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it's not impure,
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but it honors God
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because it's our
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acknowledgement
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that only he has
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what can truly
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satisfy.
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He brings us
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the greatest joy
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and deepest happiness.
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That's what I want.
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That's what you say.
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Do we immediately
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consider a man
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selfish
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when he marries
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a woman
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because he anticipates
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a lifetime of happiness
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with her?
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It's not immediately
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selfish,
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but it's honoring
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to her.
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In the same way,
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if we
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resolve to not
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please man,
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but to please God
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for this future reward
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for millions
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of lifetimes
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of happiness
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with him,
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that's not selfish,
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but that's honoring
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to him.
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God is glorified
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in us
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when we live
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with the conviction,
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with the desire
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that our greatest
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satisfaction
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and our reward
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is found in him
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and him alone.
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We have to hit pause
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and just say
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the fact alone
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though
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that God would
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reward me,
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me,
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is utterly astounding.
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For who am I
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but only an unworthy
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servant
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that should just do
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whatever he tells me
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to do whenever
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he tells me
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to do it?
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Should the master
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thank his servant
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if he just does
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what he's commanded
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of?
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And while that is
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true,
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that our relationships
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with God is like that,
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of master and servant,
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Jesus doesn't frame
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our relationship
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with him
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like this
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in our passage today.
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I don't know
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if you've noticed
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but the word
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that is most
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frequently repeated
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in our passage
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is not
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righteousness,
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it's not
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hypocrite,
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but it's the word
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father.
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In fact,
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Matthew 6
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has the word
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father
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the most amount
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of times
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in this one chapter
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compared to all
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the rest of the book
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of Matthew.
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And by this
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super concentration
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of this title,
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Jesus is highlighting
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the intimate
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relationship
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that we now have
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as God being
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our heavenly father
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and we his children.
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That he is not
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a stingy,
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hard to please
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master.
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He's not a stern,
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aloof judge.
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but that he is
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a good,
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good father
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that loves us
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and is desiring
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to give us
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good gifts.
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This is,
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this is a massive
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idea
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that we need
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to internalize
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more and more
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because without
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believing this,
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we will never
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be able to give
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in secret.
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We'll never be able
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to practice
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our righteousness
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in secret
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because if we
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don't truly believe
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that God sees us
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and delights
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to reward us,
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then we're going
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to seek
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the affirmation
-
that we so crave
-
in other places.
-
But if he's a father
-
that jumps
-
at the chance
-
of blessing you,
-
of rewarding you,
-
you can now
-
give in secret
-
knowing that there
-
is going to be
-
a great heavenly
-
reward for you.
-
So give,
-
give in secret.
-
Even when
-
the world
-
is scheming
-
their way
-
to popularity
-
and to the top,
-
when everyone
-
is praising
-
that guy
-
who seems
-
to be getting
-
so much attention
-
for his acts
-
of righteousness,
-
we can be last,
-
be overlooked,
-
be invisible
-
because knowing,
-
we know that
-
our future,
-
our heavenly reward
-
will be so satisfying.
-
And in that
-
pursuit of rewards,
-
we not just
-
give in secret,
-
but we pray
-
in secret,
-
which brings me
-
to my second point.
-
In verses 5-6,
-
Jesus rebukes
-
the hypocrisy
-
of the scribes
-
and Pharisees
-
for the way
-
that they pray.
-
And just like
-
they gave
-
to the needy,
-
these actors
-
are merely
-
continuing
-
to play the part
-
as they lift up
-
these long,
-
lofty prayer monologues
-
in the synagogues
-
and the street corners.
-
And because they
-
love the stage
-
and they love
-
the limelight,
-
you can just
-
imagine them
-
scheming,
-
today,
-
where should I pray?
-
Should I
-
pray in that corner
-
next to the synagogue
-
by the market?
-
Gets a lot of
-
foot traffic.
-
But
-
it's kind of loud,
-
market's kind of loud,
-
I don't know if people
-
are going to be able
-
to hear me
-
when I hit my climax,
-
so let me pray
-
on the other corner.
-
You see,
-
there's a marked
-
difference
-
between someone
-
who egregiously
-
abuses religion
-
for his own gain
-
and operates like
-
there is no God
-
versus someone
-
like you and me
-
who struggles
-
honestly with
-
fear of man.
-
But while we
-
might not scheme
-
as intensely,
-
we can relate
-
to this hypocrite,
-
can't we?
-
I for sure can.
-
Why do our
-
palms get sweaty
-
and our hearts
-
beat just a little
-
bit faster
-
when it comes
-
to our turn
-
to pray
-
at prayer meetings?
-
Why do we feel
-
the need
-
to throw in
-
theological jargon
-
and Christianese
-
so that we sound
-
better when we pray?
-
Is it because we know
-
who we're praying to?
-
Do we know
-
that we're praying
-
to the Ancient of Days,
-
to El Elyon,
-
the God Most High,
-
to El Shaddai,
-
the God Almighty?
-
or is it because
-
we know that
-
Bobby is sitting
-
in the corner
-
over there
-
and we want
-
to impress
-
little old Bobby?
-
Pastor Derek
-
Prime captures
-
this phenomenon
-
well when he says,
-
we find ourselves
-
aware of the stars
-
only
-
when we cannot
-
see the sun.
-
We are preoccupied
-
with men
-
only when our minds
-
are turned away
-
from God.
-
God.
-
So may we
-
never forget
-
that the central
-
purpose of prayer
-
is to actually
-
pray to God.
-
I know,
-
groundbreaking theology,
-
but there are times
-
that I've done this
-
way too many times
-
that we pray
-
with a motive
-
primarily not
-
to communicate
-
to God,
-
but to communicate
-
to the people
-
around us.
-
It could be
-
for good reasons.
-
We want to
-
communicate
-
good truths.
-
We want to
-
remind somebody
-
of this thing
-
so we pray
-
for it
-
out loud.
-
Or,
-
for instance,
-
in front of our kids
-
we try to be
-
a healthy example
-
for them to emulate
-
so we pray.
-
Those are all
-
great benefits
-
of praying
-
and I continue
-
to pray in public
-
and with others,
-
but when prayer
-
in your heart
-
primarily becomes
-
about communicating
-
to the people
-
around you
-
horizontally,
-
instead of praying
-
vertically to God,
-
slowly but surely,
-
prayer is no longer
-
prayer,
-
but it's play acting.
-
But prayer
-
is one of the
-
greatest privileges
-
that we ought to
-
never take for granted
-
or abuse.
-
To approach
-
the throne of glory.
-
can you imagine
-
communicating to this
-
God just like
-
the prophet Isaiah
-
did in his vision
-
of the Lord
-
seated on the throne
-
high and lifted up
-
with the train
-
of his robe
-
filling the temples
-
with the seraphim
-
around him
-
proclaiming,
-
holy,
-
holy is the
-
Lord of hosts.
-
Can you imagine
-
that we get to pray
-
to that God
-
and he hears us
-
on the regular,
-
on the daily,
-
not only that,
-
but prayer
-
is one of the
-
most intimate
-
things that we
-
get to share
-
with God.
-
I've heard one
-
of my seminary
-
professors,
-
when asked about
-
his private
-
prayer life,
-
commented that
-
he doesn't like
-
to talk about
-
his prayer life
-
because for him
-
it feels like
-
he's talking about
-
his private
-
love life.
-
That's how
-
intimate it
-
feels to him
-
and his relationship
-
is with God.
-
God.
-
So then how
-
twisted is it
-
then to use
-
the privilege
-
of prayer,
-
the intimacy
-
of prayer
-
and use it
-
for our own
-
selfish gain?
-
I once heard
-
a story of a
-
pastor who was
-
well known
-
for just having
-
a remarkable,
-
deep,
-
fervent love
-
for his wife.
-
He simply
-
absolutely adored
-
her,
-
the ways that
-
his eyes would
-
sparkle looking
-
at her.
-
The way that
-
he would speak
-
about her,
-
the way he
-
would wait
-
on her hand
-
and foot.
-
Everyone just
-
knew,
-
even 40 years
-
into his
-
marriage,
-
that he was
-
head over heels
-
in love with
-
his wife.
-
Tragically,
-
when he lost
-
her,
-
he spoke
-
at our
-
funeral.
-
And when he
-
did,
-
everyone was
-
expecting this
-
grand display
-
of his
-
amazing love
-
for her.
-
And if anyone
-
could do it,
-
it was him.
-
But when he
-
got up there,
-
it was a
-
plain speech.
-
Basic facts
-
about his
-
wife,
-
the ministry
-
she carried
-
out,
-
and how she
-
was faithful
-
to the end.
-
He didn't
-
speak about
-
the thousands
-
of times
-
that they
-
prayed together,
-
the daily
-
walks that
-
they shared,
-
the inside
-
jokes that
-
brought out
-
the smile
-
that he so
-
dearly missed.
-
at the end,
-
people came
-
up to ask
-
him,
-
we know,
-
we know
-
that you
-
have loved
-
your wife.
-
Why didn't
-
you speak
-
more passionately
-
about your
-
love for her?
-
And to
-
which he
-
replied,
-
this funeral
-
is to honor
-
my wife
-
and the life
-
that she
-
lived.
-
It's not an
-
opportunity
-
for me to
-
show off
-
my love
-
for her.
-
This is not
-
about me.
-
In the same
-
way,
-
prayer is
-
not an
-
opportunity
-
for us
-
to show
-
off our
-
love for
-
God.
-
It's not
-
about us.
-
But how
-
many of us
-
struggle to
-
pray with
-
this kind
-
of self-forgetful
-
humility?
-
Whether we
-
arrogantly
-
think that we
-
can impress
-
others,
-
or we're
-
anxious,
-
and we worry
-
about embarrassing
-
ourselves,
-
we still make
-
prayer about
-
us.
-
We forget
-
who we're
-
praying to.
-
Not just
-
in prayer,
-
but we live
-
with that
-
kind of
-
self-attention,
-
that self-focus
-
often,
-
often in a
-
lot of what
-
we do.
-
So we don't
-
live in fear
-
of God,
-
but we live
-
in fear
-
of man.
-
But if we
-
were instead
-
to walk in
-
fear of the
-
Lord,
-
we'd be able
-
to live out
-
what Tim
-
Keller has
-
said.
-
True gospel
-
humility means
-
that I stop
-
connecting every
-
experience,
-
every conversation,
-
and I add
-
every prayer
-
with myself.
-
In fact,
-
I stop
-
thinking about
-
myself.
-
Oh,
-
how amazing
-
would that be
-
to stop
-
thinking about
-
yourself?
-
How liberating
-
would it be
-
to forget
-
yourself and
-
to pray openly
-
and honestly
-
before others
-
and to God?
-
How joyful
-
would it be
-
to stop
-
your performing
-
and stop
-
our play
-
acting
-
to impress
-
people,
-
but to be
-
who we are
-
and to pray
-
as we are?
-
I'm not
-
preaching anything
-
new.
-
Most of us
-
know that
-
we shouldn't
-
fear man
-
and we should
-
fear God
-
alone.
-
But honestly,
-
and I feel
-
this,
-
that feels
-
like something
-
that's so
-
hard to do.
-
It feels
-
like there's
-
such a large
-
gap between
-
what we know
-
in our heads
-
and what is
-
in our hearts.
-
It feels
-
like there's
-
such a large
-
gap between
-
what we want
-
to live like
-
and what we
-
are today.
-
So how do
-
we realistically
-
get from here
-
to there?
-
To that end,
-
Jesus recommends
-
that we ought
-
to pray in secret
-
in the privacy
-
of our rooms
-
because our
-
heavenly father
-
sees,
-
not just sees
-
in secret,
-
but he is
-
in secret.
-
If the Lord
-
is in secret
-
and invisible
-
to the human
-
eye,
-
then one
-
of the ways
-
we should
-
draw near
-
to him
-
should match
-
that,
-
to meet
-
him invisibly
-
from the rest
-
of the human
-
eyes.
-
Of course,
-
I don't think
-
that Jesus
-
is literally
-
commanding us
-
to never
-
pray with
-
others.
-
Of course,
-
that would
-
go against
-
many other
-
examples in
-
scripture,
-
even Jesus'
-
own example
-
in the book
-
of John.
-
In the book
-
of Acts,
-
there are
-
multiple
-
examples in
-
the church
-
gathering together
-
to pray
-
with great
-
power.
-
And I've
-
just tasted
-
and seen
-
a part of
-
that,
-
praying with
-
you guys.
-
I've been
-
built up
-
and encouraged
-
when I hear
-
you guys
-
pray.
-
But there
-
is something
-
to this
-
practice
-
of secret
-
prayer,
-
of going
-
into a
-
prayer closet.
-
You know,
-
practically in
-
a TikTok,
-
Netflix,
-
Twitter-infested
-
world,
-
it's hard
-
enough to
-
pray five
-
minutes without
-
internal
-
distraction.
-
We don't
-
need to
-
be bombarded
-
with external
-
distraction.
-
It would
-
be wise of
-
us to
-
find a
-
spot in
-
our homes,
-
in our
-
rooms,
-
if possible,
-
that is
-
device-less,
-
distraction-less,
-
where it could
-
just be you
-
and God.
-
And if you
-
don't have
-
those spots
-
in our
-
home,
-
we're going
-
to have
-
a spot
-
at the
-
church
-
office,
-
a little
-
nook
-
that's
-
hidden away
-
that you
-
can come
-
and pray
-
in secret.
-
And plan,
-
plan into
-
your schedule
-
those times
-
of prayer
-
in those
-
closets.
-
Of course,
-
have spontaneous
-
times of
-
prayer,
-
but don't
-
neglect the
-
planned times
-
either.
-
Just as my
-
marriage needs
-
both the
-
planned date
-
night and
-
the spontaneous
-
fun,
-
our
-
relationships
-
with God
-
need both
-
too.
-
But there
-
is something
-
more to
-
this practice
-
of praying
-
in secret,
-
for it is
-
in that
-
place where
-
the Spirit
-
of God
-
does His
-
work.
-
He builds
-
that bridge
-
between
-
head and
-
heart.
-
At first,
-
when we
-
begin doing
-
this,
-
our temptation
-
will be
-
to pray
-
like the
-
Pharisee
-
in Luke
-
18.
-
We say,
-
Lord,
-
thank you
-
that I'm
-
not like
-
the others
-
who don't
-
pray as
-
much as
-
me,
-
that don't
-
have a
-
prayer closet
-
like I
-
do.
-
But when
-
we are
-
still before
-
God long
-
enough,
-
the deep,
-
the ugly
-
stuff that
-
we all
-
carry,
-
the stuff
-
that we're
-
often too
-
busy to
-
identify and
-
to recognize
-
and acknowledge,
-
a desperate
-
longing for
-
people's
-
approval,
-
a lingering
-
guilt from
-
past mistakes,
-
unspoken
-
fears about
-
the future,
-
a deep
-
insecurity,
-
envy over
-
a friend's
-
success,
-
all that
-
stuff begins
-
to rise to
-
the surface.
-
And we see
-
that the only
-
prayer worth
-
praying in
-
that prayer
-
closet is
-
that of the
-
tax collector.
-
Lord,
-
have mercy
-
on me,
-
a sinner,
-
as we beat
-
our chests.
-
And then the
-
spirit of God
-
begins to
-
move.
-
begins to
-
do a work
-
on us
-
and gradually
-
but surely
-
constructs that
-
bridge between
-
head and
-
heart.
-
We can now
-
internalize the
-
truths of the
-
gospel.
-
He draws us
-
close to
-
himself and
-
reminds us of
-
all the lies
-
that we're
-
believing and
-
the truths that
-
we're forgetting.
-
Reminds us that
-
God loves us
-
based on what
-
Jesus has done
-
for us on
-
the cross,
-
not based on
-
our performance,
-
not based on
-
what man thinks
-
of us.
-
And he
-
empowers us
-
in that
-
secret place
-
to live out
-
the gospel,
-
to live as if
-
we actually
-
believe it.
-
And there in
-
the secret
-
place,
-
our fear of
-
man is
-
transformed
-
into the
-
fear of
-
the Lord.
-
And we
-
learn there
-
how to pray
-
with a
-
self-forgetful
-
humility.
-
Then when we
-
pray self-forgetfully,
-
either in
-
private or in
-
public,
-
when we pray
-
to get more
-
of God and
-
not to get
-
more of
-
man,
-
he will
-
reward us
-
in heaven
-
with a
-
love that
-
our hearts
-
are so
-
desperately
-
yearning for.
-
That love
-
that we've
-
only tasted
-
a part here
-
but will be
-
fuller,
-
richer in
-
that last
-
day.
-
So friend,
-
recently,
-
have you
-
known,
-
have you
-
tasted the
-
sweetness of
-
the Lord where
-
it's just you
-
and him?
-
have you
-
felt the
-
good Father
-
work on
-
your heart
-
in your
-
prayer closet?
-
Have you
-
sensed his
-
gentle guidance
-
speaking directly
-
to your soul
-
in those
-
moments?
-
If we
-
have,
-
then God
-
will help
-
us to
-
practice
-
our
-
righteousness,
-
not to
-
seek the
-
attention of
-
man,
-
even as
-
we fast,
-
which brings
-
me to my
-
last point.
-
In verses
-
16 to 18,
-
Jesus again
-
contrasts,
-
showy hypocrisy
-
and secret
-
righteousness.
-
This time
-
with fasting.
-
Fasting is
-
the prayer of
-
voluntarily
-
abstaining from
-
food for a
-
specific amount
-
of time so
-
that we draw
-
close to him
-
in prayer.
-
It's a way
-
to express
-
both in
-
soul and
-
body that
-
more than
-
food,
-
we need
-
God more.
-
It's a way
-
to sharpen
-
our hunger
-
for God
-
alone.
-
In a
-
quintessential
-
John Piper
-
way to
-
say this,
-
he says,
-
the greatest
-
enemy of
-
hunger for
-
God is
-
not poison,
-
but apple
-
pie.
-
It's not
-
the banquet
-
of the wicked
-
that dulls
-
our appetite
-
for heaven,
-
but endless
-
nibbling at
-
the table
-
of the world.
-
Once again,
-
Jesus assumes
-
that his
-
disciples are
-
fasting.
-
It doesn't
-
say if you
-
fast,
-
but when you
-
fast.
-
fast,
-
especially
-
given the
-
start of
-
prayer and
-
fasting week,
-
I want to
-
challenge you
-
and encourage
-
you.
-
Fasting is
-
one of the
-
least practiced
-
spiritual
-
disciplines in
-
the American
-
church today.
-
If you
-
haven't ever
-
fasted before,
-
take some
-
time to try
-
to fast.
-
Start off
-
small.
-
Fast just
-
one meal,
-
but use that
-
time to
-
express your
-
desperation for
-
the Lord and
-
for the Lord
-
alone.
-
That more
-
than food,
-
I need God
-
and God
-
alone.
-
And as you
-
make this a
-
regular habit,
-
you're going to
-
see that just
-
as he said,
-
Jesus has
-
food to eat
-
that the
-
world doesn't
-
know about.
-
But given
-
that true
-
fasting is the
-
expression of
-
desperation for
-
God,
-
what these
-
hypocrites are
-
doing is not
-
fasting, but
-
just going
-
hungry, going
-
on a diet.
-
like his
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theatrical
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giving or
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his ornate
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prayers, this
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hypocritical
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actor continued
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the act by
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skipping meals
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and on top
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of that,
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costuming up,
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putting on
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makeup by
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disfiguring his
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face, likely
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putting ashes or
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dirt on his
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head and face
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to make it
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readily apparent
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that he is
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on a fast.
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The word
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disfigure in
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the Greek
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literally means
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to hide,
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and I
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think it
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highlights this
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rich, self
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defeating irony
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that this man
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is hiding his
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face behind a
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mask in order
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to be seen
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by others.
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Once again,
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Jesus, though
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he spoke 2,000
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years ago, speaks
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directly to our
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lives.
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It's relevant
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now.
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Because I
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think at the
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heart of this
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passage, Jesus
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is addressing,
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tapping into
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something innate
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in every single
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one of us
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here in this
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room.
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Every single
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one of us
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craves to
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be adored,
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approved of,
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accepted, and
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loved.
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There's not a
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single person
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on this earth
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that is not
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desperately and
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intensely yearning
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for that kind
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of acceptance.
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So when we
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put on these
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masks of
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religiosity and
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show off our
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works of
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righteousness to
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be able to
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win that kind
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of approval
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that our
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hearts are so
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desperately
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yearning for.
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But when the
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show ends,
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the curtain
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closes and
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the lights
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turn off,
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do you know
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what you have
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to do?
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You have to
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go home.
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You have to
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go home with
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yourself.
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You're not
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fooling anyone
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there.
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Because we know
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deep down that
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any amount of
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acting cannot
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change who we
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really are.
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For the person
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we are in
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secret is a
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person that we
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really are.
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The person that
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you are when no
-
one is looking
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is a person that
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you really are.
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Then who are
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the people that
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really know you?
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Really know you?
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Sure, our spouses
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and our best
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friends, they've
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seen a lot of
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your lows.
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But if they
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were to watch a
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videotape of
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your life, if
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they heard or
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saw all of your
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inner thoughts,
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there would be so
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many things that we
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wouldn't want to
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show them.
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They don't know
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who you really
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are.
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And if they did,
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they might not
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even love you.
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Only the
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Lord knows
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the real you.
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We read this
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verse in the
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Assurance of
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Pardon 4.13
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in Hebrews
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says,
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no creature
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is hidden
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from his
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sight, but
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all are
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naked and
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exposed to
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the eyes of
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him.
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To him we
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must give
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account.
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This is a
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terrifying verse,
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is it not?
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For all the
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murderous
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mutterings that
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we've said
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under our
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breath, because
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we thought no
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one would
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hear, God
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has heard.
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For all our
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lustful thoughts
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that we haven't
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told a single
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person about, God
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has seen.
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For all our
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manipulative lies
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that we thought
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we got away
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with, God
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has heard.
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If you're any
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bit self-aware,
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you have to be
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wondering, how
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could I ever be
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loved by this
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God?
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But the
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amazing news
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of the gospel
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is that God
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has loved
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us, that he
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has loved us
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by sending
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his son to
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die for
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sinners like
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you and me.
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That this
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God has not
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only just seen
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all the evil
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that you've
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done in the
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past, but
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all the future
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evil that you
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will do, and
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he still has
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committed himself
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to you, even
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to death.
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Do you
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understand how
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preposterous is
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that idea that
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the creator God,
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perfect and holy,
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would take on
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every single
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one of my
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heinous sins,
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my secret
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sins, and
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that he's
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accepted me
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in Jesus.
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Ever since
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Adam and Eve,
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sin has always
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made us feel
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naked and
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exposed.
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Our sin is
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the ultimate
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reason why we
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feel like we
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need to put on
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these masks and
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parade our
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righteousness,
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because we're
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just trying to
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cover up our
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guilt and cover
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up the shame
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of our sin.
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Isn't this
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exactly what
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Mike
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Guglielmucci
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did?
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Just as God
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graciously covered
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Adam and Eve,
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for those who
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have put their
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faith in Jesus,
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rest assured
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that he has
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now not only
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taken every
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single one of
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our sins, but
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he has covered
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you with his
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perfect righteousness
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so that he is
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getting rid of
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any need for
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a mask, any
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need to pretend
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anymore.
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So only to the
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extent that you
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believe, not
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just with your
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head, but in
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your heart, when
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you internalize
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that truth, can
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we now lower our
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masks, can we
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now anoint our
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heads and wash
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our faces when we
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fast, not to
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seek the approval
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of man, but to
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seek the approval
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of God, the
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reward that only
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he can give.
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And this, this
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can then transform
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this church, Trinity
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Cambridge Church, it's
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this power of the
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gospel that will
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enable us to be the
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community that he
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has called us to
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be, not a church
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where we need to
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put on our best
-
face and pretend,
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pretend to be people
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that we're not, not
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a church, but a
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church that confesses
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sins, that is
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honest and open with
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where we are and
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who we are and
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humbles ourselves
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before others.
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It's exhausting.
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I've done this.
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It's exhausting to
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continue to pretend.
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It's healing.
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It's healing to be
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honest and open.
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And I pray that this
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church be a no
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mask, no
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performing, no
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play acting zone.
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Imagine what our
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church would be.
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Imagine how set
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apart we would be
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from the rest of the
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world, from any
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other place that you
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go to.
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Then the world will
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know us by our
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love.
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So as we give, we
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pray, we fast, we
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disciple, we
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counsel, we read,
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whatever we do, we
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can do it all not to
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seek the recognition
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of man.
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Because of the
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things that happened
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in the past, the
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things that are
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happening present in
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the present, and the
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things that will
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happen in the
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future.
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Because of Jesus'
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past work on the
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cross to cover all
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sin, we are secured, we
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are covered in his
-
righteousness.
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There's no need for
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masks.
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Because of God's
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present work on us, when
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we meet with him in
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secret, we not only
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believe the gospel, but
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he helps us to
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internalize it and to
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walk as if we
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believe.
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And because of our
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future heavenly reward,
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we are motivated to
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reject the lesser, the
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smaller reward of man to
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wait for something far,
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far better.
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And when we tap into
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all of those reasons, we
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can practice our
-
righteousness in secret,
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not to be seen by man
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and rewarded by man, but
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God and him alone.
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And when we do that, we
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will hear that final day,
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well done, well done,
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good and faithful servant,
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enter the joy of your
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master.
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That will be the
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greatest thing you will
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ever hear in your
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lives.
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For that alone, I can't
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wait.
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Let's pray.
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So, Lord, we pray you
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would help us to
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internalize the gospel,
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that this church would be
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marked by a gospel
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culture where we don't
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need to pretend anymore,
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but we are honest because
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we are secure in the
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love of Christ.
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Empower us today to do
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that.
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Help us to have a bigger
-
view of you, God, and a
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smaller view of self.
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And then in all things,
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we would know that it's
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not us, but it is Christ
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in us that we can now
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live in this obedience.
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Help us.
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In Jesus' name, amen.