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Happy the Home | Week 2

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  1. You guys look good this morning. My name is Kyle.

  2. I serve as lead pastor here. I want to welcome you to New

  3. Life Community Church, especially if you're visiting

  4. with us today. Special thanks to you college

  5. students. You showed up in force today.

  6. Welcome back, or welcome to for the first time, New Life

  7. Community Church. We're glad that you're here, and

  8. we look forward to being able to serve you this semester if

  9. you'll allow us. All right, so get plugged in

  10. with Logan and Adeline, and we'll have a lot of fun this

  11. year anyway, if you need anything.

  12. Also, while you're in town, come see us.

  13. We're we're happy to try to help you out.

  14. All right, So if you have your Bible, could you turn to

  15. Genesis, Chapter 2? Genesis, Chapter 2.

    Genesis 2 chapter mention Genesis 2 chapter mention

  16. Genesis is a book of beginnings. It is the beginning of our holy

  17. scriptures. And so it's right there at the

  18. front of your Bible. It's easy to find and we'll be

  19. in Chapter 2 this morning. We kicked off a series last week

  20. that's called Happy the Home, which was taken from a hymn that

  21. reads Happy the home when God is There.

  22. And the idea is to recover in this series, a biblical view of

  23. the household, a biblical view of the home, if you will.

  24. What is it that God has done in the ordering his creation, but

  25. ordering families, especially in the way that he has designed

  26. them. And so last week we looked at

  27. how God created us and he created us, male and female, in

  28. his own image and likeness. We looked at what that meant.

  29. We saw that we are to be worshippers of God, that we are

  30. to take our marching orders from the Lord.

  31. We are to submit ourselves to Him as we think about maleness

  32. and femaleness. Yes, there are only two genders.

  33. Amen. Amen.

  34. And so we today are going to look at manhood from creation.

  35. The next week we're going to get into womanhood from Creation.

  36. And so this week's going to be focused more on what it means to

  37. be a man. I don't think that that means

  38. that women should check out. I think that there's much to

  39. learn here about how it is it got his wired.

  40. A man designed, a man created a man to operate and to live and

  41. to work and to to do the things that he does for the glory of

  42. the Lord. And so it's important for women

  43. to learn here. Boys in the room, right?

  44. You young men in training. This is an important sermon for

  45. you. So making paper airplanes right

  46. now, I need you taking notes, son.

  47. All right. We want to be learning how to be

  48. men. That Wells knows I'm messing

  49. with him. I hope so.

  50. So my sermon today is manhood from creation.

  51. Now, you're probably aware, but in our world today, there are

  52. many differing opinions. I mean, they're they're unending

  53. opinions on what manhood or masculinity consists of what?

  54. What's its makeup? What?

  55. What makes a man a man? Is it that he can smoke a cigar

  56. and drink a six pack and sit in a recliner and watch a football

  57. game and not do the things that God has called him to do?

  58. No, right. That's not what it means to be a

  59. man that that's that's godless abdication of his duties.

  60. Amen. But then there's a there's

  61. another kind of man who seeks to to dominate things and to rule

  62. through domination. And this is a godless.

  63. It's a godless pursuit of dominion.

  64. It's a godless domineering, I'll say that, of what it means to be

  65. a man. And so the world, because of

  66. those two, I think at least ditches as it pertains to

  67. manhood. Because of those two, the world

  68. has formed 1000 opinions on what masculinity is, isn't what it

  69. should be, should not be. And it leaves largely men,

  70. especially young men, men and even more so down the spectrum,

  71. men without fathers, good fathers.

  72. It leaves them questioning what is my purpose?

  73. Why do I have the strong feelings I have?

  74. Why has God created me with a a a body that has broad shoulders

  75. and a voice that's deep and the desire to want to work and to

  76. create and to seek adventure and enjoyment in life, like and then

  77. the world kind of comes at you and says that these things are

  78. sinful and they're not. You're wired that way by God for

  79. purpose. And so that doesn't mean they're

  80. not doing sinful things in those.

  81. But coming back around to the notes, we most of the opinions

  82. about manhood out there in the world are negative or negative.

  83. And so our first concern is not what the world says about

  84. masculinity and manhood. We don't look to the world first

  85. to try to figure out, okay, how can we create a manhood or

  86. masculinity that's palpable for the world, that the world could

  87. choke down, right, and swallow, That they could agree with.

  88. The Western Church has gotten itself in a myriad of dangers

  89. and troubles by looking at the world and letting the world

  90. dictate what the church does. We must not be these kind of

  91. people. We we can't coddle the world in

  92. the way that we're called to live.

  93. In fact, it's not good for the world, and our church has become

  94. more worldly than godly when we do that.

  95. And so we don't want men who are becoming more worldly than

  96. godly. So we're not going to look at

  97. the world first and say, all right, what is manhood?

  98. No, we look at the scriptures. We always go to the scriptures

  99. every time when it when it comes time, you know, to pick the

  100. fruit of what the Western church has produced, we have found that

  101. the fruit is rotten. And so we don't want rotten men,

  102. we don't want rotten women, we don't want rotten boys and

  103. girls. We don't want rotten churches.

  104. We want churches that are alive by the Spirit of God, bearing

  105. the fruits of God in the world. Amen.

  106. This is the kind of thing that God wants for us.

  107. If we'll go to His scriptures and see how do we do this, and

  108. we'll submit ourselves to His work, we will see fruitfulness.

  109. I promise you. God loves to answer the

  110. petitions of His people which are in accordance to His will.

  111. And when you pray, Lord, help me be the kind of man who honors

  112. you. He answers those prayers.

  113. Let me be the kind of woman who honors you.

  114. He answers those prayers. And so our first concern always

  115. is what does God's word say about this?

  116. What does God's word say about masculinity and manhood?

  117. That's the heart of the sermon, right?

  118. What does manhood look like from creation?

  119. When God made the first man and gave him orders, what was he

  120. doing? What was God doing in that?

  121. And so we want to see it clearly.

  122. And that's part of my job today. So if you see clearly the

  123. scriptures, we want to confess that these things are true after

  124. we have seen them, and then we want to rejoice in God's good

  125. design of men Today. God has blessed us in creating

  126. men. It is good to be a man, and God

  127. has blessed us in creating women.

  128. It is good to be a woman. It's not good to be a woman if

  129. you're a man, and it's not good to be a man if you're a woman.

  130. Amen. These things are not okay.

  131. So for my time, I want to explore what is masculinity

  132. according to God, and then I want to charge us to walk in

  133. these things. And I hope to provide for you a

  134. command, a foundation, and a hope for your pursuit of godly

  135. masculinity. And so I want to start with the

  136. definition, and then we'll read our scriptures, biblical

  137. manhood. And you can write this down if

  138. you're taking those. Biblical manhood is bearing the

  139. image of God by working and keeping all that God grants a

  140. man in Christ's strength. Biblical manhood is work.

  141. Sorry. Bearing the image of God by

  142. working and keeping all that God grants amend in Christ's

  143. strength. I'll give you just a second

  144. before I have you stand and read God's Word.

  145. All right. For you slow riders, that will

  146. be up there again. All right, but let's stand and

  147. read God's word. Sorry, Alan.

  148. We're going to read Genesis 2 versus 4 through 17, and we're

  149. going to notice here creation, particularly the creation of the

  150. man and the creation of a place. These are the generations of the

  151. heavens and the earth when they were created in the day that the

  152. Lord God made the earth and the heavens, when no Bush of the

  153. field was yet in the land, and no small plant of the field had

  154. yet sprung up. So the Lord God had not caused

  155. it to to rain on the land, and there was no man to work the

  156. ground, and a mist was going up from the land, and was watering

  157. the whole face of the ground. Then the Lord God formed the man

  158. of dust from the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the

  159. breath of life. And the man became a living

  160. creature. And the Lord God planted a

  161. garden in Eden in the east. And there he put the man whom he

  162. had formed. And out of the ground the Lord

  163. God made-up, made to spring up every tree that is pleasant to

  164. the sight and good for food. The tree of life was in the

  165. midst of the garden. And the tree of the of of the

  166. knowledge of good and evil. A river flowed out of Eden to

  167. water the garden, and they're divided and became four rivers.

  168. The name of the first is the Pachon.

  169. It is the one that flowed around the whole land of Havilah, where

  170. there is gold, and the gold of that land is good.

  171. But Alium and Onyx stone are there.

  172. The name of the second river is the I should have looked these

  173. up, Gahan. It is the one that float around

  174. the whole land of Kush. And the name of the third river

  175. is the Tigris, which flows east of Assyria, and the fourth

  176. rivers, the Euphrates. And the Lord God took the man

  177. and put him in the garden of Eden to work it and keep it.

  178. And Lord God commanded the man, saying, You may surely eat of

  179. every tree of the garden. But if the tree of the knowledge

  180. of good and evil you shall not eat from the day that you eat of

  181. it, you shall surely die. This is the word of the Lord.

  182. Thanks be to God. Let's pray.

  183. Heavenly Father, we thank you for your word.

  184. Lord, let us see now your wisdom in creation.

  185. Let us see your purpose in the creation of men.

  186. And Lord, may we submit ourselves to your word and to

  187. your will for our lives. Lord, I pray that you would move

  188. up on our hearts by your spirits as we go through this passage

  189. today, as we study it, as we hear it preached.

  190. Would you by your spirit give us faith?

  191. Give us a desire to please you and our lives gives us give us

  192. knowledge of our sinfulness and our need of repentance.

  193. And the Lord by your spirit, would you reassure us by the

  194. Savior, Christ Jesus, that we have reconcile us to the Father,

  195. Lord, it's in Christ's name, I pray.

  196. Amen. Amen.

  197. You may be seated. And so, as we have seen already

  198. last week, God created man in his own image.

  199. And the image of God he created a male and female, He created

  200. them. There's an old confession of

  201. faith called the London Baptist Confession of Faith, and it sums

  202. up with the first man and woman were like.

  203. And these are some of the things we talked through last week, but

  204. it's worthy of of mentioning today.

  205. They were made in the image of God being endowed with

  206. knowledge, righteousness and true holiness.

  207. They had the law of God written in their hearts and the power to

  208. fulfill it. Even so, they could still

  209. transgress the law because they were left to liberty of their

  210. own will, which was subject to change.

  211. And So what we see in the garden is that when the man and the

  212. woman were created, they were in the image of God.

  213. And that the man is like the president's impress on a coin.

  214. We said last week, he is not God, He is not the president,

  215. but he resembles him. He resembles God.

  216. And then we see what they were supposed to do by way of a

  217. blessed command from God. And and God bless them.

  218. And God said to them, be fruitful and multiply and fill

  219. the earth and subdue it, and have dominion over the fish of

  220. the sea, and over the birds of the heavens, and over every

  221. living thing that moves on the earth.

  222. And so man burying the image of God is to exercise dominion.

  223. He's blessed by God. The man and the woman were

  224. blessed to fill the earth as image bears with other image

  225. bearers. This was the purpose of

  226. marriage, which we'll look at in a couple of weeks.

  227. It's for the purpose of subduing and exercising dominion in such

  228. a way that the garden paradise would extend to the ends of the

  229. earth. God meant for them to spend

  230. their lives and worship to him as they lived out the roles that

  231. He had given them, as they'd lived out the way that he had

  232. created them, to live and operated in the ways that were

  233. obedient to his commands, all for his own glory.

  234. And so the first thing we must understand about true manhood,

  235. true masculinity, is that it bears the image of God.

  236. It has to. True manhood.

  237. Manhood that's been reconciled to God the Father bears the

  238. image of God. It's working these things out.

  239. But what should it look like? What do we mean when we say it's

  240. burying the image of God? Right?

  241. We have to define them. We have to answer that question.

  242. Adams created in the image of God.

  243. He's told to do these things, but how does that flesh itself

  244. out and in what ways is he burying the image of God?

  245. Well, that's what I want to get into.

  246. I'm glad you asked. It's working.

  247. And keeping all that God grants a man.

  248. This is how we bear the image of God in the earth, is that we

  249. work and keep all that God grants a man.

  250. So Genesis One is like a 30,000 foot view, if you will, of the

  251. creation account. Genesis 2 recalls in vivid

  252. detail the creation of the man and the woman and their purpose.

  253. And so we read here in Genesis 2 that he created the man from the

  254. dust of the ground that he breathes lives into him, meaning

  255. he literally breathed into his soul.

  256. The breath of life gave him his soul, and then he planted a

  257. garden and placed the man in it. Genesis 2738 literally says

  258. these things right. The Lord God formed the man of

  259. the dust of the ground. He breathed into his nostrils

  260. the breath of life, and the man became a living creature.

  261. And then the Mercedes says the Lord God planted the garden and

  262. Eden in the east, and there he put the man whom he had formed.

  263. So these are sentences that I have read over and over again in

  264. my life. There's some of my favorite

  265. passages and scripture I love to go back to, especially these

  266. creation passages of Genesis One and Two, and even into the fall

  267. and and chapter 3. Because so much of what we do as

  268. a people, as a church, as a as fathers and husbands, as mothers

  269. and wives, as sons and daughters, so much of what we

  270. do, we find its inception, its beginnings.

  271. In Genesis One and two, we receive our marching quarters,

  272. so, so to speak. It informs who we are and what

  273. we're to be doing. And so there's some of my

  274. favorite passages. We vividly see the creator at

  275. work. But it wasn't until just a few

  276. years ago I noticed the order and what I think is the

  277. significance of God putting the man in the garden, which I

  278. didn't see until I was looking at Matthew Henry's commentary a

  279. few years ago. You see, the man was made

  280. outside of paradise. He was not made in the garden.

  281. The whole earth was not the garden.

  282. God created the man from the dust of the ground and then put

  283. him into Eden. He was made outside of paradise.

  284. It's after God forms him that he takes the man and he puts him

  285. into the garden. And so he places the man in the

  286. garden. And Matthew Henry words it this

  287. way, says the man was made of common clay, not of paradise

  288. dust. He was made of common clay.

  289. You and I are made of common clay.

  290. This is one reason to worship the Lord is that we are.

  291. We talked about this last week, right?

  292. He's the Potter. We're the clay.

  293. We we hold this valuable thing especially as believers and

  294. vessels of clay. The man lived outside of Eden

  295. before he lived in it. Why?

  296. Well, so that he may see that all the comforts, all the

  297. comforts of his new life, of his new paradise home, were the

  298. result of God's free grace, and not the result of anything that

  299. he had yet done. He had not yet cultivated the

  300. ground. He had not yet worked, or kept

  301. or done any of the things that God is going to command him to

  302. do. He's created.

  303. And then God places him in the Garden of Eden.

  304. And so he sees the world outside, and then he gets to see

  305. the world inside. Adam could not plead a

  306. residential right to the garden. When it came time to kick him

  307. out, he could not say, no, God, this is my garden.

  308. Because he had been placed into it, he couldn't claim the land

  309. as his. He was not born within its

  310. borders. He only had what God had

  311. graciously given to him. Therefore his boasting had to be

  312. and got alone. It was in, it was in God alone,

  313. right Matthew Henry again. He says the same God that was

  314. the author of his being was the author of his bliss.

  315. He that made us is alone able to make us happy.

  316. But he that made us is alone able to make us happy.

  317. And we don't want to miss the point here in Genesis 2 that

  318. only the Creator wields the power to form bodies.

  319. Only the Creator wields the power to father our spirits.

  320. Only the Creator wields the power to provide blessed

  321. happiness for both your body and your soul.

  322. It's only the Creator that can do that.

  323. And so, brothers, you must see today that any circumstance in

  324. your life can be comforted. When you understand that God has

  325. gone before you. When you see that God has gone

  326. before you and he's placed you into it.

  327. If you will trust the Lord, if you will follow His will, you

  328. will find a paradise where you could not have expected a

  329. paradise to exist. Got alone makes gardens out of

  330. graves. Got alone redeems the what

  331. others mark unredeemable. Got alone comforts, the sufferer

  332. got alone shades. The sojourner got alone restores

  333. the broken. He alone gives strength to the

  334. weak. You could go on and on.

  335. And so we do. As we read scriptures, we find

  336. time and time again that God alone meets the needs of his

  337. people, however vast they may be.

  338. You can't do it yourself. And so the bottom line is, is

  339. what is impossible with man is absolutely, unmistakably so

  340. possible with God. Whatever we think is impossible.

  341. We look at God and say, but we know that God this is possible

  342. for you. So what do you mean you ask?

  343. Well, again, I'm glad you asked. You're asked a lot of really

  344. great questions today. Thank you.

  345. This gets us to our second observation.

  346. In the passage, we we see what God commands the man to do.

  347. Look at verse 15 again. The Lord God took the man and

  348. put him in the Garden of Eden to work it and keep it in a

  349. sentence. God gives the man employment.

  350. He gives the man something to do.

  351. It gives him a job. He gives him a purpose more than

  352. a job, right? Sometimes our jobs don't feel

  353. like our purpose. There might be an end, a means

  354. to the purpose, to to completing something.

  355. But here we see that God gives the man employment.

  356. God puts him in the garden to work.

  357. It's the idea of working. Here is the idea of cultivating.

  358. It's it's it's digging something up and planting something in and

  359. helping it grow. Like it's the work of

  360. cultivation. It's not just to work.

  361. He's not just to cultivate things right.

  362. He's not just out there building things and, you know,

  363. discovering tools. I mean, you think about it like

  364. there was fruit hanging in a tree at some point that he had

  365. to figure out how do I get that fruit out of that tree?

  366. And so he picks up a stick that he can whack the limb with.

  367. Right now he's got now he's got a fruit picker, right?

  368. That's not all that he was called to do.

  369. He's called the keep. Also, God says it's not just

  370. that the man works the ground or works.

  371. He doesn't just cultivate, he keeps, which means he protects

  372. you. See man, you were wired by God

  373. from before the fall to be a worker and the keeper, to be one

  374. who cultivates things and protects things.

  375. This is why you feel called, drawn to those two tasks so

  376. heavily. All right, now, I'm not saying

  377. we don't get it out of shape. We'll get into those things.

  378. But right now, I just want you to see that that drive you have

  379. in you to work and to keep is from the Lord, It's from God.

  380. These are good things for men to know about themselves, right?

  381. It's not a fatal flaw of manhood, like these are good

  382. things. So the man was tasked by God

  383. with stewarding creation. He was given a place to dwell

  384. and work to do. Be fruitful.

  385. Adam multiply, fill the earth, subdued creation, exercise

  386. dominion over it, work and keep Adam.

  387. See, Adam was God's under shepherd in the field.

  388. He was tending to God's creation.

  389. God holds all things together by the power of His word.

  390. God holds all things together. By his His might, His power got

  391. a sovereign over all events. There's nothing outside of God's

  392. control or his providential hand.

  393. He orders his will to be done and guess what?

  394. It gets done and God executes. So what I don't want you to miss

  395. about this. God executes his providential

  396. plans, his providential work through the hands of his people.

  397. Many times, God's Providence has come through the hands of

  398. people, right? People.

  399. He's ordained to do things for His purposes.

  400. And so you were not put on this earth, brothers, to be idle.

  401. You're not put on this earth to be idle.

  402. You're not put on this earth to to stand still, right?

  403. You're not Leviathan. You know who Leviathan is and

  404. the Old Testament. And Job.

  405. Leviathan is a he's a dragon, let's be honest, right?

  406. He's a he's a dragon beast who plays in the water.

  407. And we read about God that he created this dragon beast who

  408. plays in the water because he's a good creator for his own

  409. enjoyment, essentially. But you're not Leviathan.

  410. You're not meant to be a dragon beast who plays in the water,

  411. although the summer some might have described you that way,

  412. right? You are men, and God created you

  413. and gives you the command to work and keep your fields.

  414. You're not put on the earth to be idle.

  415. God has given us souls and bodies, and in other words, he's

  416. given us the tools to work with, to be workers and keepers, and

  417. he has given us habitation on this earth.

  418. He's given us a place, right? He's given us something to work

  419. on. So you work and keep, but what

  420. are you working keep. You're working and keeping all

  421. the things that He's given you. How are you working and keeping?

  422. You're working and keeping by the things that He's given you.

  423. Your body, your soul, right. Your mind, your intellect.

  424. God has wired you to be workers and keepers.

  425. Matthew Henry again says he that gave us being has given U.S.

  426. business to serve him and our generation and to work out our

  427. salvation. If we do not mind our business,

  428. we are unworthy of our being and maintenance.

  429. We do not mind our business if we do not get to the things that

  430. God has called us to do, that we are unworthy of our being and

  431. the maintenance it requires to keep us afloat, keep us

  432. breathing. So think of your life, brothers,

  433. young men, men, boys. In here, think of your life.

  434. What has God-given you? What fields, so to speak?

  435. We use this terminology of fields in biblical manhood.

  436. What? What fields has God-given you to

  437. work and to keep? Do you have a breath in your

  438. lungs today? If not, somebody call 911,

  439. right? Yes.

  440. Do you have a body? I don't see any.

  441. Just spirits floating around here today.

  442. Right. You have a body.

  443. Are you employed? Maybe some of the boys in here

  444. like how, But man, I want to be right.

  445. You are employed, sons. You're employed in the business

  446. of school. You're employed in the business

  447. of obeying mommy and daddy in your home, of learning to be the

  448. kind of man who works and keeps his territory, his room, his

  449. things, his stuff, right? Hard at work in those ways.

  450. Are you a friend and you have friendships to cultivate and to

  451. protect? Are you a father?

  452. Well. Do you have children to work and

  453. to keep? To cultivate their hearts, their

  454. minds, their souls to love? The Lord our God, who we know is

  455. 1 Above all else, according to Deuteronomy 6, you have your

  456. marching orders for fatherhood. Are you married?

  457. We'll get into that in a couple of weeks.

  458. But you have your marching orders, Especially in a passage

  459. like Ephesians 522. You see that this is how a man

  460. is to live along his wife. This is how a woman is to live

  461. alone, her husband. It's how they're to treat one

  462. another, to dwell with one another in unity.

  463. And so you have fields that this if you're single, right?

  464. You say, well, I'm not married yet.

  465. I don't have that. Well, you're you're cultivating

  466. your own heart and your own mind, right?

  467. We're all doing this anyway, but as a single man or single woman

  468. in here, especially a single man, you need to become the kind

  469. of man that would attract the kind of woman you think you're

  470. worthy of, right? Whether you're a teenager or a

  471. college student or young adults, an old adult doesn't matter.

  472. You're single. This is what you're after,

  473. right? You say, well, I want to be

  474. married at some point and you need to look into the you need

  475. to look into the scriptures and see what kind of a woman should

  476. I be looking for. And once you find that out, you

  477. need to say what kind of a man does that woman seek?

  478. And you need to align yourself with the word of God, right?

  479. So we all have, if you're a churchman, right, like you have

  480. duties as a churchman. If responsibilities as a member

  481. of the church. And you men do an incredible job

  482. around here, like, I'm I have no problem praising the men in this

  483. church. You're worthy of it.

  484. You work hard, you, you seek to preach the gospel to others.

  485. You want to create areas around here where people can come to

  486. know Christ as Lord and and to serve him.

  487. And I praise you for that. Right.

  488. So you got desires, you have hobbies, like you understand,

  489. like your fields, everybody's got fields and you can start

  490. like here in your heart and you start here in your mind and you

  491. can say, all right, let me begin here.

  492. And for that, just read Proverbs chapter One and on into, you

  493. know, 31. But you can begin to work and

  494. keep your heart, your mind by learning wisdom, the wisdom of

  495. God. And then you got to go out from

  496. there, though. Like if you have a marriage and

  497. you have children, you have employment, you have a city, you

  498. have a church, right? Like, these are things we're

  499. responsible for, men. Tim Chally's wrote a chapter in

  500. a book about employment and these kinds of things, and in it

  501. he said this. He said your life is each of

  502. these and and the sum of these, individually and altogether,

  503. they are a platform from God that allow you to extend to

  504. others the goodness and kindness of God on behalf of God.

  505. And whenever you do that, however you do that, God

  506. receives the glory. Amen gets a star point last

  507. week. We're not glory seekers.

  508. We're not seeking our own glory. We want to glorify the Lord.

  509. So God could could have created a world in which in such a way

  510. that He did all of these good things himself with without

  511. involving us at all. However, he ordains the work of

  512. men instead, and he He assigns task to men.

  513. And he says for you to do things right, to work and to keep and

  514. to to subdue creation and to be fruitful and multiply.

  515. And so you serve as a kind of conduit for the goodness of God.

  516. You're you're the water pipe, so to speak, and He's the source of

  517. the water. And you're you're helping these

  518. things happen. So whatever roles God's given

  519. you, those are your daily opportunity to glorify God by

  520. serving others. Like this is the way we redeem a

  521. job that we hate. We understand that the job that

  522. we hate is grumbling against the Lord.

  523. The Lord has provided a job that we hate you.

  524. You see what I'm saying? It's not okay to hate the job

  525. that God has given you. It's not it's not a bad thing to

  526. look for other employment at some point.

  527. But be grateful for what you have and serve the Lord in your

  528. job in such a way that people can see He's grateful to God,

  529. He's grateful to the Lord, right?

  530. Whatever roles He's giving you, they're your daily opportunity

  531. to glorify the Lord. And this is what it looks like

  532. then to to be a faithful servant to the God who glorifies himself

  533. by serving men. We want to glorify him.

  534. It's working unto God is worship unto God.

  535. He is the source of each one of the fields.

  536. And and so there's dignity and working and keeping your field.

  537. And Ephesians 210 We see that as we have been born again, we have

  538. become the workmanship of Christ created, the workmanship of God

  539. created in Christ Jesus for good works which God prepares

  540. beforehand that we might walk in them.

  541. So again, all the things that you have as fields are things

  542. prepared by the hand of God beforehand that he's granted to

  543. you in his grade. And so you ask yourself, who has

  544. God made me to be? What gifts do I have?

  545. What skills do I have? What passions has God-given me?

  546. What roles and responsibility has he assigned to me?

  547. Those are your fields to 10 You cultivate them.

  548. You work them out of love for God, out of love for the people

  549. that he surrounded you with. You do those things. 1st

  550. birthday in 717. We have a wildly freeing verse.

  551. If you grew up in church, you might have grown up in like the

  552. calling era. Everybody had a calling.

  553. Everybody had to be called to something grand and amazing.

  554. And this youth group and that youth group, they're going to be

  555. world changers. And here we are, decades later,

  556. in the world's largely the same. So we must be missing the point.

  557. If we're just missing. And then the point that we're

  558. missing is this life is mundane and ordinary, and we need to get

  559. used to it, because this is how God works.

  560. He uses the mundane and and and and the ordinary for

  561. extraordinary, majestic purposes.

  562. But it's okay to live in the mundane and ordinary.

  563. It's okay to just wake up and put your shoes on, right?

  564. And like, brush your teeth and go to work and love the people

  565. you work with, love your family that you come home to like.

  566. These are good, godly things. And so first, we're at the

  567. seven. Sorry.

  568. Paul writes here, and it's just a wildly free verse.

  569. He says only let each person lead the life that the Lord has

  570. assigned to him and to which God has called him.

  571. This is my rule in all the churches.

  572. Amen. Lead the life that God has

  573. assigned to you. That's your calling.

  574. Are you a husband? Well, then God called you to be

  575. a husband. Are you a?

  576. Are you a father? Well, then, God has granted you

  577. fatherhood, and you were called to be a father.

  578. Are you single, then? God has called you to singleness

  579. in the season, right? Like that.

  580. You need to cultivate and keep that and protect that and walk

  581. in it and so many other things, right?

  582. All these things I'm mentioning so true.

  583. Manhood does not rest on the appearance of the man.

  584. It it rests on the actions of the man.

  585. It rests on what does the man do?

  586. Because this is where we see his character and his convictions.

  587. This is where we know if the man is worth something, and so geez

  588. illustrates this. For in a parable it's a parable

  589. of the talents. The master is going on a

  590. journey, and he entrusts his property to his servants.

  591. To one of the servants he gives 5 talents, to another he gives 2

  592. talents, and to the last servant he gives one talent.

  593. They gave to each according to his ability.

  594. And while the master was away, the man with five talents made

  595. five more talents. The man with two talents made

  596. two more talents. The man with one talent went and

  597. dug a hole, and buried his talent in the hole.

  598. Now one of these is not like the other, right?

  599. The master returns, and he wants to settle his accounts with his

  600. servants. And to the man, to the men who

  601. wisely stewarded what was given to them, the master said.

  602. To to the two who doubled what they were given.

  603. He said, Well done, good and faithful servant.

  604. You have been faithful over a little.

  605. I will set you over much. Enter into the joy of your

  606. master. That's a wonderful principle

  607. that we need to understand about management again.

  608. If if you're a college student male and you're driving a beat

  609. up old car and you're living in a 12 by 12 dorm room, right?

  610. That feels like a jail cell at times and you're having to share

  611. that with a couple of guys, right?

  612. Like you can start to think, dude, what's this guy talking

  613. about? I don't have anything to

  614. cultivate and to keep, to work and keep.

  615. But you do. And and what God has given you,

  616. He's saying be faithful in And as you're faithful with the

  617. little things that you think are nothing, God is going to give

  618. you more things that you might actually be working towards.

  619. But you have to be faithful in what God's given you today.

  620. Amen. This is why I tell my boys like

  621. you guys need to be faithful in school.

  622. This is your job. I don't care if you don't like

  623. it today, right? Because it changes from

  624. day-to-day. But you, you need to be faithful

  625. here. And the stuff that you're

  626. giving, you need to take care of the stuff that the Lord blesses

  627. you with, right? And we're just teaching this

  628. concept of working and keeping at an early age so that I want

  629. my sons to be able to work and keep a family one day.

  630. I want them to work and keep real jobs, right?

  631. I want them to to work and keep churches and other men and all

  632. of those things. But we have to start where we're

  633. at. We don't wait till later, right?

  634. And so the master returns. He wants to sell his account.

  635. Now he turns to the one who buried his talent, and he says,

  636. why did you bury the talent? And he says, Master, I knew you

  637. to be a hard man, reaping where you did not sow and gathering

  638. where you scattered no seed. So I was afraid I went and hid

  639. your talent in the ground. Here you have what is yours.

  640. The man misunderstood his master's graciousness and giving

  641. him work. So he was lazy and he exercised

  642. bad stewardship. The master tells him He said you

  643. could have at least put it in a bank where it would have drawn

  644. interest. The point of the parable is to

  645. be a faithful steward is to work and keep all that God and trust

  646. to your care and proverbs 12 We read verse 11.

  647. Whoever works his land will have plenty of bread, but he who

  648. follows worthless pursuits lacks sense.

  649. Oh, so now there's the rub, right?

  650. There are lack. There are pointless pursuits,

  651. and if you pursue those things you will lack bread.

  652. But if you'll work the ground and cultivate the ground that

  653. the Lord is granted to you, you'll eat, you'll eat, you'll

  654. enjoy the fruit of your labor. In the Garden of Eden.

  655. This Genesis 2 account, we observe a similar event.

  656. Now we see that God gives the man a command concerning his

  657. stewardship. And Lord God commanded the man

  658. verse 16, saying, you may surely eat of the tree of the garden,

  659. but if the tree of the knowledge of good and evil you shall not

  660. eat from the day that you eat of it, you will surely die.

  661. So in our passage now, God has shown himself to be man's

  662. powerful creator and his bountiful benefactor.

  663. He appears now as his ruler and lawgiver.

  664. God put the man in the garden for purpose.

  665. It wasn't to live, however the man thought best.

  666. It wasn't to. It was to live according to the

  667. commands of God. It was to live according to the

  668. rule of God on his life. Man wasn't to be idle as we

  669. said. He wasn't to be willful and to

  670. do whatever he pleased. Though man had God-given

  671. dominion over creatures, he was himself a creature of God's

  672. dominion. You know Adam was given a

  673. command. You may surely eat of every tree

  674. in the garden, but the tree of knowledge of good and evil, you

  675. shall not eat of it, for when you eat of it, you will surely

  676. die. So within the command you have

  677. to notice this is a massive amount of grace.

  678. There's a ton of grace here. There's tons of blessing here in

  679. the command. And this is true of all of God's

  680. commands. I I need you to know that today,

  681. that when God issues a command to you, Sir, he's giving you a

  682. ton of grace and a ton of blessing.

  683. It's not a thumb coming down on you like a hard taskmaster.

  684. Amen. Though the law when disobeyed,

  685. Paul says it's like a hard taskmaster that the law when

  686. obeyed it's blessing, it's fruitful.

  687. And so this is true of all God's command.

  688. To see them otherwise is rebellious and therefore sinful.

  689. And so look closer. You may eat of every tree in the

  690. garden, Adam blessing all of those I've given to you for life

  691. and sustenance. Take of their fruit.

  692. Eat it. But if you eat of the tree of

  693. which I've said not to eat, you will be miserable, As miserable

  694. then as you are happy right now, which is the life of the

  695. disobedient ones. Amen.

  696. When you're disobedient, you're as miserable.

  697. Then, after your disobedience as you might have been in the

  698. middle of it, or as you might have been happy before it, right

  699. now, recognize that we all once walked in disobedience.

  700. As Christians and even still today, we wrestle with

  701. obedience. And so as you're aware, Adam

  702. disobeyed God. He and his wife took of the of

  703. of that forbidden fruit, and they ate their sins, removed

  704. their purity, removed their innocence.

  705. We're going to get into that in a couple weeks.

  706. But they were kicked out of the garden because of the thought of

  707. eating of the tree of life was, and and gaining immortality in

  708. their sinful state was more than God wanted for them.

  709. It's not what he wanted for them.

  710. So God sent the man into the world to work the ground, which

  711. was now cursed with thorns and thistles.

  712. His work would be much more difficult than before, but worse

  713. than that, his sin brought death and separation from God into the

  714. world. And so, brothers, it's difficult

  715. at times to submit to authority. But you will never faithfully

  716. steward your godgiven fields if you do not submit to God's

  717. authority over your life. It cannot happen.

  718. You cannot seek your own way, right?

  719. You cannot. Jesus says you can't serve 2

  720. masters. He's the Creator, and so He has

  721. granted you life. He's given you fields to 10.

  722. He alone has the right to rule you, and you are obligated to be

  723. ruled by him. Obligated.

  724. And so you must not let your passions, your lust, your

  725. desires, thwart God's commands. We cannot live in contradiction

  726. to or in competition with the holy will of God and expect

  727. fruitfulness. We have to we have to follow the

  728. example of the perfect man, Jesus Christ, by doing only and

  729. all that which God has commanded us.

  730. And so that brings us to the final points in Christ Strait.

  731. From the very beginning the Creator has informed creation of

  732. its marching orders. His command has not changed the

  733. command. This command from God is known

  734. historically as the cultural mandate.

  735. Even after the fall he expresses his covenants once again with

  736. Noah. Once the floodwaters have

  737. societed, he says be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth

  738. and subdue it, He expresses it again, or versions of the same

  739. with cut with his covenants to Abraham and David as well.

  740. And so the presence of sin does not lift this command from God.

  741. The the problem we have an image bearing, The problem we have in

  742. fruitfulness and multiplication and subduing and exercising

  743. dominion is not that we're men. It's not that.

  744. It's manhood and masculinity are the issue.

  745. We need to overcome those and become less manly or less

  746. masculine and more like a woman. It It's not that at all,

  747. although the world would have you to believe differently.

  748. The problem is sinfulness. You, you and I are sinners in

  749. need of the grace of God. You and I can't work and keep

  750. all that God grants to us without the strength of Christ.

  751. Because we're sinful. We have no strength.

  752. We have no ability to carry these things out.

  753. And if we look into the scriptures, we see how far we

  754. have fallen. We see how the image of God upon

  755. us is vandalized. The image of God exists on every

  756. person, though the remains of it be small.

  757. We talked about that last week, and so we seek the renewal of

  758. His image upon our souls. By His redeeming grace,

  759. brothers, Christ is now to us, the tree of life and a

  760. Revelation. 2. Verse seven.

  761. We read He who has an ear. Let him hear what the Spirit

  762. says to the churches, To the one who conquers, I will grant to

  763. eat of the tree of life, which is in the paradise of God.

  764. Christ is to us the bread of life.

  765. Jesus says so much. John Chapter 6 I'm the bread of

    John 6 chapter mention

  766. lie. I'm the living bread that came

  767. down from heaven. If anyone eats of this bread, he

  768. will live forever. And the bread that I will give

  769. for the life of the world is my flesh.

  770. Truly, truly, I say to you, unless you eat the flesh of the

  771. Son of Man and Drake his blood, you have no life in you.

  772. So He's foreshadowing his coming crucifixion and how we must be

  773. partakers of His crucifixion by faith in Him if we are to have

  774. true life. Jesus obeyed his father unto

  775. death. He died on a tree outside of

  776. Jerusalem. His body was broken, His blood

  777. was shed. All for the forgiveness of the

  778. sins of all who will call on his name to be saved?

  779. His people. And just as God graciously

  780. clothed Adam and Eve as he's kicking them, sending them out

  781. of the garden, He closed them in animal skins.

  782. He graciously closed close us now in the righteousness of

  783. Christ. And when you have received God's

  784. spirit unto new life, which comes by God's grace through

  785. faith in Christ, when you've received that you become a new

  786. creation in Christ. Your old man passes away all

  787. those old desires, all those old ways of living, all those wants

  788. that you have right, that are sinful, that have gotten you in

  789. a world of trouble, maybe. Have you here today thinking

  790. there's no way God can forgive me?

  791. I want to tell you, like the great theologian Oscar Meyer

  792. says, baloney, good dad joke. He can forgive you.

  793. You are forgiven in Christ if your faith is in Christ.

  794. Christ did what you could not do, what you would never be able

  795. to do. He is satisfied not only the

  796. wrath of God, but the commands of God.

  797. He lived perfectly. He was sinless.

  798. And so when you trust Christ as your savior, when you say I am a

  799. Sinner in need of a Savior, I've made a mess of my life and I'm

  800. repenting now, and I'm submitting myself to Christ

  801. Jesus as Lord. When you do that, you receive

  802. the righteousness of Christ as your own.

  803. You're justified freely by His grace, meaning the count.

  804. The the account of your sin is cast as far as the East is from

  805. the West. God remembers your sins no more.

  806. He does not keep a record of your wrongs, your sins, past,

  807. present, future, forgiven in Christ Jesus.

  808. You guys have to become shouters, because that's

  809. something worthy of shouting about.

  810. And one day in heaven, you'll shout, You become a new

  811. creation, an old man gone, New desires come, new fields to

  812. tend, and sometimes just a new perspective on the fields.

  813. You've been given already a New Hope.

  814. And some brothers, I charge you, under the authority of God's

  815. Word, to steward your lives in the way of Christ today.

  816. Put to death the deeds of the flesh grow in the deeds of the

  817. Spirit. And in this way, as you're doing

  818. that, you will work and keep in Christ's strength all that God

  819. grants to you. As we said at the beginning,

  820. biblical manhood is burying the image of God by working and

  821. keeping all that God grants a man in Christ's strength.

  822. In John chapter 15, Jesus is speaking just before his

    John 15 chapter mention

  823. crucifixion and he's got the disciples within.

  824. They're probably in the garden where he's going to pray and

  825. sweat drops of blood, so there's probably vines around.

  826. He says this. He says, I'm the true vine and

  827. my father is the vine dresser. Every branch of me that does not

  828. bear fruit, he takes away, and every branch that does bear

  829. fruit, he prunes that it may bear more fruit.

  830. And so today may be a wake up call for you.

  831. You may be learning that you're a fruitless professor of Christ

  832. for the very first time. You may be learning that you've

  833. never truly submitted your life to Jesus's lordship, and so the

  834. Spirit is calling you now to repent of your sins.

  835. It could be, too, that in a sermon like this, you're coming

  836. to see you're you're being convicted by the Spirit.

  837. You're being pruned by the Father, cutting away things in

  838. you that are godless, that are fruitless, exposing them by his

  839. grace so that you can become the kind of man that God's called

  840. you to be. Both of those things are worthy

  841. of praise. Both of those things are worthy

  842. of saying, God, how could you love a Sinner like me in such a

  843. way that you would expose these things so that I might come

  844. freely to you? Jesus goes on, He says, abide in

  845. me and I and you, as the branch, cannot bear fruit by itself

  846. unless it abides in the vine, neither can you unless you abide

  847. in me. I'm the vine.

  848. You are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I and

  849. him, he it is that bears much fruit for part.

  850. For me you can do nothing. If anyone does not abide in me,

  851. he is thrown away like a branch and Withers, and the branches

  852. are gathered, thrown into the fire, and burnt.

  853. If you abide in Me and my words about and you ask whatever you

  854. wish, and it will be done for you.

  855. By this my Father is glorified that you bear much fruit, and so

  856. prove to be my disciples. He goes on.

  857. I mean it just true. As the Father has loved me, so

  858. have I loved you. Abide in my love.

  859. If you keep My commandments, you will abide in My love, just as I

  860. have kept my Father's commandments and abide in His.

  861. And so we abided Him. We're called by Christ to abide

  862. in Him as He abided in the Father, and in that place and

  863. that abiding you will be pruned their tough messages through

  864. reading God's word through trials and sufferings.

  865. But God is working in you, that you may flourish with the fruit

  866. of Christ. If you will not abide in Christ,

  867. you will not do anything of positive eternal value.

  868. That's what you said. Apart from me, you can do

  869. nothing. He's not saying that you'll sit

  870. there like a lump on the log. He's saying that everything you

  871. do matters not for eternity. Make no mistake, however, God

  872. will be glorified by His judgment over your disobedience.

  873. And if you will obey Christ's commands, you will be one of

  874. those who abides in His love, just as he obeyed the Father

  875. abides in His love. So you don't want to miss what

  876. Christ is promising to those who give themselves, those who give

  877. themselves to His rule. He promises that you will love,

  878. that you will know the love of the Father, that you'll know the

  879. love of the Son. He promises, just a verse later,

  880. that his joy will be in you and your joy will be complete.

  881. The Father will love you just as He loves his Son.

  882. So therefore the command to abide is a promise of joy.

  883. It's it's not just any joy. It's a promise that you will

  884. know the joy of Christ as your own.

  885. This is incredible, right? And and your joy will be full.

  886. Saint Augustine worded it this way.

  887. He said. My heart is restless until it

  888. finds its until it finds its rest in you.

  889. My heart is restless until it finds its rest in you.

  890. What a blessed hope we have received in Christ Jesus.

  891. Then I hope that is undefiled. It's kept in heaven for us and

  892. he who will make all things new and the new heavens and the new

  893. earth is making you new. Right now as we behold Christ,

  894. we are being changed from 1 degree of glory to the next in

  895. the same image of Christ. We bear the image of God in this

  896. world because Christ saves sinners and sets his Spirit upon

  897. them, that they might be able to look at Christ and bear the same

  898. image of him. And therefore we carry that

  899. image into every field that God has granted to you.

  900. And you work it and you keep it for the glory of God.

  901. We are the salt of the earth. We're the light of the world.

  902. Christ says we join Christ and his redemption of all things.

  903. He says that by your good deeds people will see that you know

  904. the Father, and they'll glorify him.

  905. And so, brothers, we want to hear the words of John as he

  906. pins the revelation which he received from God.

  907. And I think this is good to keep in front of us so that we know

  908. the ending. It's good to know the ending,

  909. isn't it? You might not know all the story

  910. of your own, but you know the ending.

  911. And John 21 versus 135, he says that I saw a new heaven and a

  912. new earth for the 1st heaven and the first earth had passed away

  913. and the sea was no more. And I saw the holy city, New

  914. Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a

  915. bride adorned for her husband, and heard a loud voice from the

  916. throne, saying, Behold, the dwelling place of God is with

  917. man. He will dwell with them, and

  918. they will be his people, and God himself will be with them as

  919. their God. And he continues, He will wipe

  920. away every tear from their eyes, And death shall be no more.

  921. Neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain any more.

  922. For the former things have passed away.

  923. That's great. But that ain't even the best

  924. part. Listen.

  925. And he who was seated on the throne said, Behold, you know

  926. what it means to behold. It means to take hold of

  927. something with your eyes. And he's telling John the

  928. Revelator. He's saying, behold this.

  929. This is what you're going to see.

  930. You're going to see it with your eyes.

  931. Take hold of it. Don't let go.

  932. Behold, I am making all things new.

  933. Brothers and sisters, you're involved in a work of

  934. redemption. Not only your stories, but the

  935. stories you're helping or hide as you faithfully steward all

  936. that God grants to you. Then Christ guarantees it with a

  937. promise, He says. It looks, it looks at.

  938. Johnny says write this down, for these words are trustworthy and

  939. true. If Christ says it, that finishes

  940. a guess. That's it.

  941. That's all you need. And in these words, remind us

  942. that God wins. Whatever your circumstances

  943. today, whatever mess you've gotten yourself into, whatever

  944. things have happened to you from outside, whatever father you had

  945. or didn't have, whatever, Whatever job you've done with

  946. manhood or haven't done with manhood, however you've steered

  947. it well or not steered it well. I want you to know God wins.

  948. What seems impossible with man is not impossible with God.

  949. And every effort therefore, that you exert now for the glory of

  950. Christ is an eternal victory. It will not come back void.

  951. It's worthy of our effort. It's worthy of our work.

  952. It's worthy of our keeping. And so yours is the task of

  953. bearing the image of God by working and keeping all the God

  954. grants to you in the strength of Christ.

  955. For me. Dismissed.

  956. Let me remind you of that parable of the talents I once

  957. heard. There's three possible responses

  958. to that parable. One is to be like the man who

  959. buried his talent in the ground because he feared A harsh

  960. master. Cultural responsibility, then,

  961. is just too hard. And so escapist.

  962. Religion is born. It's for someone else to do.

  963. It's not for me. The second really likes the idea

  964. of Dominion gets him excited, You know, to rule things, to

  965. subdue things that exert, to be able to use His Manliness.

  966. It's weird for a shrimpy guy like me to try to exert

  967. manliness. Sorry.

  968. Some of you could do a better job for sure.

  969. And so he begins to eat and drink, and he beats the fellow

  970. servants. He's a harsh man.

  971. Empower religion. Then is born.

  972. The third though the third man. The way of the two who did it

  973. right. The 3rd way you can respond to

  974. this is to humble yourself and to enter into godly dominion

  975. through and in Christ. That's the way.

  976. That's how we do it. Brothers, I encourage you,

  977. humble yourselves before the Lordship of Christ.

  978. Enter your Godgiven fields, whatever they may be, you define

  979. them because you know your life, right?

  980. I've given you so many. But if you want help with that,

  981. come see me. We'll talk about it.

  982. Happy to talk through this. So I want you to humble yourself

  983. to the Lordship of Christ. I want you to enter those

  984. God-given fields and take godly dominion through and in Christ

  985. Jesus. Amen.

  986. Let me pray for you. Heavenly Father, appraise you

  987. for today. I thank you for your word.

  988. I thank you for your kindness toward us and in giving us such

  989. revelation about yourself, about creation, about our design or

  990. makeup. In it, we see we don't have to

  991. wrestle with our masculinity. We don't have to wonder if

  992. manhood is good. We know, Lord, that you've wired

  993. us for purpose, to work and to keep.

  994. And so I Join Now with my brothers in prayer and I ask, or

  995. that you would grant us wisdom. We would work and keep in the

  996. strength of Christ. By doing so, then we would truly

  997. bear the image of God in this world.

  998. Lord, with my brothers in prayer now I I repent ways that I've

  999. abdicated on my responsibilities, that I've

  1000. stepped aside thinking, well, someone else can handle that.

  1001. But I repent of ways that become domineering, even seeking to

  1002. exert my own will, my own thoughts, my own desires, my own

  1003. plans. Having become harsh, Lord, I

  1004. repent. Father, We confess that Christ

  1005. is Lord. We confess that we are not.

  1006. We ask that you would give us hearts a surrender to His

  1007. Lordship, seek His will for our lives.

  1008. Would you restore us in Christ to yourself?

  1009. Put upon us the seal of the Holy Spirit, that we might know that

  1010. we are yours, that we might bear godly fruit in the world, that

  1011. we might tend these fields, that you've given us with great care

  1012. and responsibility, seeking to work them and keep them as you

  1013. command. Lord, we love you.

  1014. Thank you for these moments, which are holy.

  1015. They're meant for our sanctification.

  1016. They're meant for our help. Praise you that you take such

  1017. care of your people. Christ's name Apriya.

  1018. You've been.