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More Than a Day Off: Why Sabbath Is Like a Wedding

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  1. Welcome to the Illuminate Church podcast.

  2. We hope today's message is encouraging to you.

  3. Well, welcome everybody. Welcome If you're watching

  4. online, welcome to all you up in the mezzanine way up Yonder.

  5. It's great to have you here in the House of the Lord together.

  6. I love Sundays, Amen. Last Sunday we were away

  7. celebrating my son, who's here today, graduating.

  8. College. And congratulations to all the

  9. graduates, high school and college.

  10. By the way, big week happening. Well done take.

  11. Time to celebrate. It's worth it.

  12. That's a long journey. It's worth it.

  13. It's an expensive journey, and Gee, OK, Hallelujah.

  14. But I wanted to honor Pastor Drew for filling the pulpit last

  15. week just spitting fire. We we were moving the piano this

  16. morning a little bit further back and a tennis ball popped

  17. out. So we're like, Pastor Drew, one

  18. of your pieces of chaos is over here.

  19. So thank you, Pastor Drew, for your heart to serve.

  20. He's back in there with the worship team.

  21. Now. They have team time during the

  22. second service where they pray and fellowship and all sorts of

  23. good things happen back there. So anyway, so today we continue

  24. our series Unrest. Has it been helpful, yes or no?

  25. Helpful? Yeah.

  26. What are you going to say? No, That would be awkward for

  27. all of us. Mostly for you.

  28. I want to begin by telling you what one of my favorite things

  29. in ministry is to do. It'll be 30 years in ministry

  30. this coming August. And one of my most favorite

  31. things is to officiate weddings and specifically that I get the

  32. absolute best seat in the house. No one has it better than me.

  33. I'm standing right there with the groom.

  34. All of y'all come and sit out in the hot sun for.

  35. Hours and hours because we're running a little late typically.

  36. And then the moment everybody is waiting for my favorite moment

  37. of any wedding. Some of you may say it's the

  38. kiss that uses. The bride and groom's favorite

  39. part? But my favorite part is when our

  40. honored guest arrives, everyone stands and turns and I got this

  41. direct view of the best moment when the bride finally arrives.

  42. Do you love this moment? Say yes.

  43. So touching. It's so powerful.

  44. I remember standing and watching just recently at a wedding, and

  45. there's a guy next to me, 6 foot 7.

  46. He's a big, brawny dude. He was a bouncer at a bar before

  47. he knew Jesus. You don't mess with this guy.

  48. He's tough, he's rough, he's crying.

  49. What's up, Bob? Yeah, I remember seeing you come

  50. down the aisle, Cindy. I mean, it's just breathtaking,

  51. this moment. When they lock eyes and this

  52. journey is not culminating, it's like this new launching that's

  53. happening. God has done this miracle work

  54. to take two people out of 8 billion people and draw them one

  55. to each other. And that moment is so precious.

  56. I love that arrival. What I want to share with you

  57. today in this message called Welcome the Bride, is that when

  58. you practice the Sabbath every week, you get to have a moment

  59. like this. Where you've been going through

  60. your week, all this stuff's been happening, but then it just

  61. stops. And there's this moment where

  62. you get the welcome to bribe. We're going to talk more about

  63. that in just a minute. But today I want to to begin, I

  64. want to remind you what we learned in Week 1, many, many

  65. weeks ago in this series called Unrest.

  66. Remember, we are unlearning the way that we rest to learn the

  67. way that others rest. I have some resource material

  68. here to help you in case you love to study.

  69. Some of you want more than what we're able to give here.

  70. You want high academia? You want you just want to go

  71. deeper. I've referenced this book.

  72. My favorite book on the Sabbath is called The Sabbath.

  73. There it is. Abraham Heschel.

  74. He is a Jewish rabbi who passed away in 1972.

  75. But he left us this treasure called the Sabbath.

  76. He calls it Sabbaths are our great cathedrals more than a

  77. space we go to, it's time with the Lord that transforms us.

  78. So highly recommend that book. The next one is called the Rest

  79. of God by Mark Buchanan. A fabulous book if you like the

  80. breakdown of the Scripture in high order.

  81. Some of the things I've taught with are from this book, an

  82. incredible book about the rest of God.

  83. And then you have this book called Rest, which is a secular

  84. book. It's by Alex.

  85. Let me get this right, Alex Sojung and Kim Peng.

  86. It's a great book. It's secular, it's not

  87. Christian, there's no theology in it, but what when you read

  88. it, this is what's fascinating. You find out that everything

  89. that God has told us they're starting to figure out in

  90. science. So when you hear me sharing the

  91. science, they're learning it in here.

  92. Great book. And then a new book that was

  93. just published this week. It's called Unrest by Me.

  94. 30 years it took in ministry to write one book.

  95. That's the reason that I wrote this book is because the Lord

  96. put it in my heart. To write, and for no other

  97. reason alone except that he saved me from the grips of

  98. anxiety and it was debilitating. And I know that I'm not the only

  99. one. So if you have a cure, you

  100. better share the cure, not hoard the cure.

  101. And so we wrote this book so that anybody who needs help,

  102. anyone who needs to learn how to rest, which is anybody with

  103. lungs, right, Then you can learn from what is in this book.

  104. We're selling them here at the church today, but they're not

  105. here because they got destroyed on their transportation ride

  106. here. No joke.

  107. They were being transported. We got a note that says, hey,

  108. all the books have been destroyed in transportation.

  109. I'm like, is this spiritual? Anyway.

  110. And so they, they're, they're reshipping them.

  111. So all we're doing today is pre selling.

  112. There's a big old line after the first service, pre selling the

  113. book. They're $10.

  114. I want you to know, and this is going to explain to you who we

  115. are as a church, who I am as a pastor, that all the proceeds of

  116. all the the books sold here at the church go to the church, not

  117. to Tim and Christine's lunch fund.

  118. When? Right.

  119. We're not trying to make money off the church in selling this

  120. book. There is, I need to be just

  121. candid with you, an Amazon version of this where you can go

  122. buy the book on Amazon. And the the idea is not that you

  123. would buy those books. You would buy them here.

  124. The money goes to the church. It actually pays just for the

  125. making of the book more than us having proceeds to do ministry

  126. with. But if you buy a book on Amazon,

  127. I do want to be clear, it does benefit my family and I.

  128. So if that weirds you out and you don't want to do that, don't

  129. buy it on Amazon, right? And I anticipate my wife and I

  130. are going to make dozens and dozens of dollars off of this.

  131. All I'm trying to say is that the motivation has not, nor is

  132. it now, nor will it ever be any sort of money making deal.

  133. The Lord put this on our heart to share and we wanted to share

  134. it with you. If it's helpful to you, if it's

  135. helpful to somebody you know who's dealing with anxiety or

  136. whatever the case needs rest, please get this into their

  137. hands. There's also a digital cop of

  138. the digital version available at Amazon.

  139. One other thing, this is going to sound weird.

  140. I hope that doesn't sound weird. I don't know, you tell me, but

  141. I'm not going to sign any. Books, it's number one.

  142. It's very presumptive of me to think that.

  143. You would want me to sign a book that you may or may not buy, but

  144. it just feels like it crosses a line into celebrity that I'm not

  145. interested in and I, I, I don't want to like why do you need my

  146. name on the book? What is it?

  147. What value does it have? What's in the book is those out

  148. of is what is of value. Amen.

  149. So don't ask me because then we'll have an awkward.

  150. Conversation like I'm I'm not signing your book.

  151. Not signing your book, Bruno, this is your copy.

  152. You want me to sign it? OK, OK.

  153. Some of you already went online and bought them.

  154. I'm getting pictures of people that have the books and it's

  155. just, it's touching. It's amazing.

  156. I'm grateful that the Lord is using it to help people find

  157. abundant life in Jesus. That was a quiz you failed.

  158. In Jesus. All right, so all right, in week

  159. 1, remember I was teaching you that we are unlearning our

  160. concept of rest and embracing God's rest when we practice the

  161. Sabbath. It's like marrying the Sabbath

  162. in week 1, I asked you, everybody here, get married

  163. today. A guy left the first service

  164. today and he's like I for the first time married the Sabbath

  165. today. I'm like perfect.

  166. And if you don't know what that means, essentially follow me

  167. here in this trail. First of all you have to

  168. remember that God made Sabbath holy.

  169. Genesis chapter 2 verse 3 says then God bless the 7th day and

    Genesis 2:3

  170. made everyone say made it holy. God made it holy because on it

  171. he rested from all the work of creating that he had done.

  172. Then God told him in Exodus 20 verse 8.

    Exodus 20:8

  173. Later on in the 10 commandments remember the Sabbath day by

  174. keeping it holy. Everyone say keeping so God made

  175. the Sabbath holy. Then he gives us a charge in

  176. Exodus to keep the Sabbath holy. How do we keep the Sabbath holy?

  177. You marry the Sabbath. Just as when you marry a spouse

  178. you are set apart one to another.

  179. When you marry the Sabbath, you're setting that day apart.

  180. Ephesians chapter 5 speaking about marriage.

    Ephesians 5 chapter mention

  181. Look at this. Husbands love your wives.

  182. How? Just as Christ loved the church,

  183. gave himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the

  184. washing with water through the Word, and to present her to

  185. himself as a radiant church without staying a wrinkle or any

  186. other blemish. But holy and blameless thanks be

  187. to God. Jesus asked husbands to sanctify

  188. their wives, to lead them from sin and lead them towards God.

  189. Just as Jesus did when he went to the cross and overcame the

  190. tomb, He led us from sin and he led us into relationship with

  191. God our Father. When you marry the Sabbath, you

  192. were taking that day and leading away from sin and towards God.

  193. This day I'm making our keeping holy.

  194. God makes it holy, we keep it holy.

  195. And you may say, well, shouldn't I do that every day?

  196. And the answer is yes. The reason that we practice

  197. Sabbath. It's so that we are trained on

  198. what to do the rest of our days with an extra command.

  199. On that day, The Sabbath day, you don't work.

  200. On the other days you work, but you still want to walk in

  201. holiness. We are training during the

  202. Sabbath that one day for the other six days.

  203. Fawn Horne, you're here today. We were talking about this one

  204. time in a group, like, shouldn't we be living Sabbath every day?

  205. And the answer is kind of yes. And Fawn said, But what's

  206. different about the Sabbath is just like, you love your kids

  207. every day, and don't you parents love your kids every day?

  208. Say yes, even if you don't mean it prophetically.

  209. Believe it on their birthday, even though you love them every

  210. day. You highlight, you accentuate,

  211. you focus on that child. You know my wife, Christine, I

  212. love her every day, all the days.

  213. But since today is her actual birthday, happy birthday to you.

  214. Happy birthday to you, Lauder. Yay.

  215. Yeah, y'all pray, pray for me. Sorry, she said don't do

  216. anything, but it just fit the message.

  217. So I had to, right? I had to.

  218. It's from the Lord. Amen.

  219. Yeah. So on all days, of course I love

  220. her. But today it's emphasized.

  221. It's the same thing with the Sabbath.

  222. Every day we're walking in holiness.

  223. Every day we're walking away from sin and towards God.

  224. But on the Sabbath, you stop working like you're dialed in

  225. and then it spills over to the rest of your life as we welcome

  226. this honored guest each week, the Sabbath.

  227. Now, I've been teaching this message series for like 4 or

  228. five weeks now. I don't even remember what week

  229. we're on. And it's been about why, why,

  230. why? Why they convincing you that you

  231. need this Sabbath rest? I haven't been convincing you.

  232. The word of God has been convincing us we need the

  233. Sabbath rest and I've heard from any of you will like how give me

  234. some how everyone say how, how right.

  235. Four things all centered on the concept of marriage and weddings

  236. #1 you have to prepare for the wedding.

  237. Everyone say prepare. I made a mistake one day and

  238. looked at bride.com talk about way too much information on one

  239. pink page. It's like overwhelming and what

  240. what I learned and I have it here I I printed it out is that

  241. there are 77 steps to a wedding day prep list 12 months out find

  242. a fiance. I'm kidding.

  243. Step one, right? No, Determine your budget.

  244. That's the first step, which is always interesting because the

  245. budget determines the rest of the stuff.

  246. And for many people, the budget is the buzz kill.

  247. I have so many dreams, but here's reality.

  248. So we're going to have the wedding in the backyard.

  249. Good kids mark it down. Make a guest list a year in

  250. advance. Hire a wedding planner.

  251. Decide formality. Select a venue.

  252. The caterer 11 months out, choose a color theme.

  253. We're going to be mauve with white.

  254. Start thinking of overall design.

  255. And then it says, hire vendors who book up quickly.

  256. Listen to the list. Photographer, band, DJ,

  257. videographer. No.

  258. Efficient. You know what happens?

  259. Hey, we're getting married in two weeks.

  260. Are you free? That's not what y'all did.

  261. Cindy is very planned. Cindy, you probably had 97 steps

  262. fly. Wedding around.

  263. Europe, you booked your wedding around my schedule.

  264. So nice. It must be nice.

  265. OK, ten months out, start shopping for your wedding dress.

  266. Book hotel rooms. Nine months out, say send.

  267. Save the dates. I'm skipping a bunch. 8 months

  268. out, register for gifts. Yeah, select bridesmaids

  269. dresses. Meet with the potential florist.

  270. Five months out, Book transportation.

  271. Book a honeymoon. Buy or rent the grooms with

  272. tuxedo. Begin premarital counseling.

  273. Yes, yes, yes. Four months out, Choose your

  274. cake. Very important.

  275. Buy wedding bands. I'm skipping lots of things.

  276. Three months out, Order the invitations.

  277. Great. Two months out, first dress

  278. fitting. Got to wait till you get close

  279. to the wedding to make. Sure it's the.

  280. You know I ain't going to get in that.

  281. All right, Pick your marriage license up.

  282. Word of counsel from an officiant who's done probably

  283. 100 weddings. Don't wait till the last minute

  284. to get your wedding marriage license and make sure when your

  285. officiant signs. It it is legible otherwise Gavin

  286. and Sarah will call you and say our wedding license was rejected

  287. because they couldn't read your handwriting.

  288. I said well then you're not married yet.

  289. So Yep, whole thing over it says assemble gift bags one month out

  290. and just, you know, remember the officiant.

  291. OK. Anyways, take care of things

  292. like final week, refreshing hair color.

  293. This must be for the ladies. Getting your eyebrows done,

  294. manicure, pedicure, getting a massage, final dress fitting.

  295. Pack your bags, clean your ring, practice your vows out loud.

  296. Write your partner a note the night before, the day before.

  297. Eat a healthy meal. Drink water good night's sleep.

  298. Stay off the feet. Drink even more water.

  299. Take your dress and veil out of the bag early on have.

  300. Somebody steam them if nothing. OK, it's a lot.

  301. I read just a small portion and probably if you've been through

  302. the process yourself, you're like, it's way more than 77

  303. steps. It felt like 6 billion steps to

  304. get to that. Moment, All I'm trying to say is

  305. the wedding day effectiveness is tied to the wedding day

  306. preparedness. And if we do all of this work

  307. for 1/2 hour service and then a four or five hour reception,

  308. what should we be doing for the 24 hours a week that we spend

  309. with the Lord? Certainly not nothing.

  310. I I want to say to you that your Sabbath day effectiveness is

  311. absolutely tied to your Sabbath day preparedness.

  312. We need to prepare for the wedding they had to prepare in

  313. the old days. Exodus chapter 16.

    Exodus 16 chapter mention

  314. Let me just read some of them. We'll get some context.

  315. Each morning everyone gathered as much as they needed, and when

  316. the sun grew hot, it melted away.

  317. What's the IT the IT is manna. This is heavenly bread that

  318. showed up on the ground each day.

  319. The Lord was teaching them, I'm going to feed you daily, and so

  320. you're going to collect this bread daily.

  321. On the 6th day, however, they gathered twice as much, two

  322. omers for each person, and the leaders of the community came

  323. and reported this to Moses. He said to them, this is what

  324. the Lord commanded. Tomorrow is to be a day of

  325. Sabbath rest, a holy Sabbath to the Lord.

  326. So bake what you want to bake and boil what you want to boil.

  327. Save whatever is left and keep it until morning.

  328. So they saved it until morning as Moses commanded, and it did

  329. not stink or get maggots in it. Yummy.

  330. Eat it today, Moses said, because today is a Sabbath to

  331. the Lord. You will not find any of it on

  332. the ground today. No mana on the ground on the

  333. Sabbath day, six days you already gather it.

  334. But on the 7th day, the Sabbath, there will not be any.

  335. So usually on regular days they would just collect one day's

  336. worth. If they collected 2 days worth,

  337. that extra would rot and get maggots in it.

  338. But on Friday, the preparation day, maybe you've been reading

  339. the scriptures and you've seen the word preparation day.

  340. That's the day before the Sabbath.

  341. They were told to gather twice as much.

  342. Go ahead and get enough for Friday, but also get enough for

  343. Saturday as well. You got to prepare.

  344. You got to get ready. Two things that you can take

  345. from this, and really both of these could be messages in and

  346. of themselves if we would did a deep dive.

  347. First of all, if they were not prepared, they wouldn't find any

  348. provision. It didn't show up on the Sabbath

  349. day. There's something in this

  350. theologically about being a prepared person because when you

  351. were prepared, the provision comes with it.

  352. When you're not prepared and you get to the place like maybe I

  353. should have been prepared. Secondly, it says on the Sabbath

  354. day, if you have prepared, then the Lord has already provided.

  355. What does that mean? Well, some of us have this

  356. notion in our hearts that makes it hard to rest because we

  357. think, if I don't do it, there won't be provision.

  358. I've got to get something done or else it won't happen.

  359. And God's saying, if you will do what I'm asking you to do, then

  360. when you get to the Sabbath, you'll see that it's already

  361. been provided for. Your peace, your output, your

  362. productivity, your fruitfulness, your ability to rest all comes

  363. when we make preparations to do so.

  364. In our house, we used to do our chores on Saturday mornings.

  365. Washing bathrooms, washing baseboards, doing laundry, you

  366. name it. Whatever your chores are, we're

  367. doing the same thing at our house.

  368. But when we started practicing the Sabbath, that went away

  369. because Friday into Saturday is our Sabbath.

  370. When we Sabbath because Sunday we work.

  371. Right, everyone understand you following me?

  372. So there's a flurry of activity that happens as you prepare for

  373. the Sabbath. Getting the meal ready, getting

  374. the house ready, getting the table.

  375. Ready. Getting all everything in its

  376. place and then everything ceases and we're able to rest and let

  377. the chores just be what they are.

  378. I'm going to show you something that may be considered a graphic

  379. photo to many of you, so you may want to hide your eyes and then

  380. peek. I'm giving you warning right

  381. now, but this is our sink during the Sabbath.

  382. Is anyone breaking out on hives? Yeah, I get it.

  383. Listen, it's interesting when you have permission to have this

  384. happen, it feels totally different, like it's supposed to

  385. look like that. This means that we're honoring

  386. the Sabbath. This means that we're ceasing

  387. our regular labor and laboring with the Lord in rest.

  388. And it's a beautiful thing. It's a wonderful thing, but it

  389. happens because we're prepared. And then the chores pile up And

  390. after the after the Sabbath is over, then we just get busy.

  391. Sundays we're doing laundry and whatnot, and it works out for

  392. us. By the way, I'm going to talk a

  393. lot today about what we do as a family.

  394. I want you not to hear legalism and feel like you got to do what

  395. we do. You just got to listen to the

  396. Lord HBO here, Believe and obey and do what's right for you and

  397. your household, whatever that looks like.

  398. And everything I'm saying is also ideal state.

  399. Like some Saturdays it goes perfectly this Friday, Saturday,

  400. just this week, perfect. Great Shabbat, great family

  401. devotional, great rest, restoration, great eating.

  402. But some weeks it's just a train wreck.

  403. We don't even make it to the table.

  404. Some weeks we're in Boston. So eliminating a graduation or

  405. whatever, you know, so don't get legalistic and don't get like, I

  406. got to be perfect, right? Right.

  407. Excellent. So we need to plan, prepare for

  408. the wedding. Secondly, we need to welcome the

  409. bride. Everyone say welcome.

  410. It's the name of the message, but it's also the second point

  411. here. In the Hebrew culture and the

  412. Jewish culture, there is a song they sing called Lacha Dodi.

  413. Everyone say laja Dodi. Yeah.

  414. Did you get that? Excellent.

  415. If you did it right, there should be something on the

  416. person in front of you is back. It means come, my beloved.

  417. It's been sung for hundreds and hundreds of years as the

  418. traditional Jewish Sabbath begins at sundown on Friday

  419. night, you gather, the Jewish people gather in the synagogue

  420. to begin the Sabbath. And during that time together in

  421. the synagogue, they sing the Locha Dodi.

  422. And at the very last verse, you can go watch YouTube videos of

  423. this. I have.

  424. It's interesting. The very last verse, the entire

  425. congregation stands up and turns around and faces the doors as if

  426. someone. Is about to arrive, and that

  427. someone to them is the Sabbath. The Sabbath's arriving.

  428. Our guest has come. It's just like we do at

  429. weddings. We stand and turn around because

  430. the honored guest is here. It's this moment that's special

  431. and powerful. So I'm going to read in English

  432. the words to the song. I'm going to make this motion

  433. like this at some point, and you're all going to stand up and

  434. turn and face the doors and the mezzanine.

  435. I don't know what you're going to do because I wasn't planning

  436. on that. Just look at the exit sign or

  437. whatever. You'll figure it out.

  438. But it's only going to have meaning to you if you have

  439. expectation in your heart that the Lord God wants to give you a

  440. gift on the Sabbath. And when you begin your Sabbath,

  441. that gift arrives and you get to unpack it each week.

  442. This beautiful time, 24 hours soaking with the Lord, soaking

  443. with family and friends and nature and whatever brings you

  444. restoration. It doesn't have to mean laying

  445. on a couch. Here are the words.

  446. Come, my beloved. To greet the bride, let us

  447. welcome Shabbat. Observe and remember were

  448. uttered as one, so we heard it from the singular one.

  449. God is 1 and God's name is 1, reflected in fame and splendor.

  450. And then praise Come shrine of our sovereign royal city, rise

  451. up from destruction and fear no more in your dwelling in the

  452. tear filled valley. That's our week, right?

  453. The tear filled valley. For with God's compassion you

  454. will be upraised. I almost raised my arms.

  455. Come awake, rise up from the dust, dress yourself in this

  456. people's pride. By the hand of Jesse's son of

  457. Bethlehem's tribe. Bring my redemption without

  458. further delays. Come awake, rise up from the

  459. dust. Don't stand.

  460. Dress yourself in this people's pride.

  461. By the Oh, I just read that one. Rouse yourself, Rouse yourself,

  462. for your lamp is lit. Let the flame rise up and glow.

  463. Awake, awake. Utter songs of praise for God's

  464. glory is revealed to your gaze. Come, do not be embarrassed.

  465. Do not be ashamed. Why are you downcast?

  466. Why do you moan the poorest of your people trust in this.

  467. The city will be rebuilt as an ancient days come.

  468. Your despoilers shall be despoiled, your tormentors

  469. removed. Far away God and you will

  470. celebrate together a bride and groom in joyful embrace.

  471. Come, face the door. Welcome the bride.

  472. Come. In peace, crown your spouse.

  473. Surrounded by gladness and joyous shouts, come to the

  474. faithful, the people you treasure with pride.

  475. Come, my bride. Come, my bride, come.

  476. The first wedding I ever did, I forgot to have the people stand

  477. to greet the bride. So the next wedding I had

  478. everyone stand and I was sure I was going to make everyone stand

  479. to the extent that I forgot to have anyone ever sit down.

  480. So they just stood for a really long time.

  481. And I only tell you that to say now be seated at our home on

  482. Friday nights, we prepare the table and I bring out this

  483. stole, which is just a priestly garment.

  484. You've probably seen it in more traditional churches, a pastor,

  485. a reverend, whatever, wearing the, the the robes.

  486. And then they'll have a stole around their neck.

  487. And the stole represents priestly covering and I wear it

  488. to begin the meal and to end the meal to remind us that we are

  489. covered by the Lord. And I am a representation of

  490. that as a priest of my home to my family.

  491. And so I put on the stove and we hold hands and we pray.

  492. And as we pray right before we eat the dinner, I say, hey,

  493. let's remember this is ideal state doesn't always happen

  494. exactly right because. People are people.

  495. I say, let's take a breath and I say, Lord, we cease all of our

  496. regular work and enter into your rest.

  497. And you can feel the atmosphere change as it's happening, as

  498. this is going on. You feel like the weight is just

  499. melting off, no matter how many times we've done it and we're

  500. entering the rest. And then I'll pray something

  501. like this. Come, Lord Jesus, meet with us,

  502. be with us, and then whoever is there, we have different people

  503. take turns lighting these two candles that we have, and we

  504. light them as representation of God's presence with us.

  505. And very rarely we will turn and face our door.

  506. And sometimes, even more rarely, we'll go and open the door as if

  507. to say, come on in Sabbath, we've been waiting for you.

  508. You're our honored guest. We need you.

  509. We're glad that you're here and we personify the Sabbath, which

  510. really is the rest, the powerful presence.

  511. Of the Lord. Meeting with us over this 24

  512. hours. At the end of the meal, I put

  513. the stall back on and I place it on all the children's head 1 by

  514. 1. And I pray a blessing over them.

  515. And they used to be tiny little heads and now they're grown up

  516. heads. And then at the end of the meal,

  517. they, we, we all gathered around mommy and all the kids placed

  518. their hand on mommy. My wife Christine and I probably

  519. sit on her head and we pray a blessing.

  520. The Sabbath has begun. And we rested that for the next

  521. 24 hours by welcoming the bride. And as wonderful as it is to see

  522. a bride walk down the aisle, it's the same feeling but

  523. different each Friday when we begin the Sabbath.

  524. And it can be for you as well. Amen.

  525. Prepare for the wedding. Welcome the bride, and the next

  526. part is to put a ring on it. No, Huggy, no.

  527. Kissy till I get a. Wedding ring.

  528. Anyone remember this song? Don't give me no lines and keep

  529. y'all. Exactly.

  530. It's a, it's biblical. It's 100% accurate.

  531. I believe in this song. Right?

  532. Or there's this one. I'd better stop when I

  533. officiate. Weddings We get to the ring

  534. portion and I'll take a ring and say, you know, the ring is an

  535. unbroken circle of love. So poetic it it's one because

  536. the two are. One right And then I.

  537. Literally say like and blah blah blah blah blah.

  538. Like. All of that is poetic and nice.

  539. Like OK, whatever, we get it. But let me tell you what the

  540. ring really can mean for you. And those of you that have done

  541. your weddings might remember these words, but the ring will

  542. hit stuff sometimes. Or you'll be sitting in traffic

  543. on I-4 and you'll see it there, right?

  544. And I tell the couple I like, listen, when you see the ring,

  545. feel the weight of it, hit it against something I wanted to

  546. remind you of right now, 25 years from now, I want you to

  547. remember right here. So we pause and I say, take a

  548. look around because you've been rushing through things.

  549. I mean, wedding mornings are busy mornings for the bride.

  550. The groom's like, I got dressed. And so they look around, they

  551. look at each other, they take in the beauty.

  552. And I say when, when you for years now, when you feel this

  553. ring, see this ring, I want you to remember the beginning, the

  554. joy of your weddedness, the purity of what's happening here.

  555. Remember past glory? Like, Oh yes.

  556. I say. But I also want you to know that

  557. this ring that you now put on your finger is the only thing

  558. that's not changing out. Meaning you're going to change

  559. outfits literally thousands of times in and out of your

  560. clothing. Not to be eating weird, but one

  561. garment, one article never changes.

  562. It stays on your finger all the time.

  563. When you get old and saggy and your body changes, it's

  564. happening. I feel it happening.

  565. This doesn't change. And so the ring reminds you of

  566. the permanence of what God has put together and the promise of

  567. what he's put together. And not just that, here's the

  568. other promise. When you're having a bad day,

  569. you're out there in the world, you feel your ring.

  570. You're like, man at home. There's somebody who loves me.

  571. I'm going home to a safe place. I'll be next to in the bed, the

  572. warmth and the strength of my spouse and your ring reminds you

  573. of that promise of future glory. Past glory, future glory.

  574. Here's the last thing. When you're married and you walk

  575. into a place and your hand is in your pocket or hidden, all the

  576. single people in the room go. Interesting.

  577. Is this person an opportunity? Maybe a future spouse and then

  578. you take your hand. Out of your pocket and you rifle

  579. it through your hair. Or move your hat.

  580. Or scratch your. Arm and the whole room goes.

  581. The. Universal knowledge is that

  582. you're off the market, you're taken, you're spoken for, you

  583. belong to another, and that one belongs to you.

  584. And so no kissy, no touchy, off the market.

  585. That's what the ring symbolizes. Past glory, future glory.

  586. You belong to another. The Sabbath is the same thing as

  587. a wedding ring. Exodus chapter 30 verse 12.

    Exodus 30:12

  588. Then the Lord said to Moses, say to the Israelites, you must

  589. observe my sabbaths. This will be a sign between me

  590. and you for generations to come, so you may know that I'm the

  591. Lord who makes you holy. The Sabbath, when we practice it

  592. week after week, reminds us of our.

  593. Salvation Psalm 51 says return to me the joy of my salvation.

  594. Remind me what it was like at the beginning when your grace

  595. invaded my heart and your love overwhelmed me and I received

  596. you as my Savior. Remind me of that time from the

  597. beginning and and what it really does.

  598. It takes you back to the garden where there's unbroken

  599. fellowship with the Lord our God because of Jesus sacrifice.

  600. Past glory. We remember our purity.

  601. But when you Sabbath and spend time with the Lord and set aside

  602. supernaturally, you are saturated in the promises and

  603. the permanence of. God, I wonder how differently we

  604. would live if we rightly accounted for heaven and the

  605. glory that awaits us. You've heard me say it before.

  606. These are not my words. I stole them from somebody else,

  607. but you cannot threaten me with heaven.

  608. Meaning I'm not. Afraid to die because the

  609. greatest thing ever is about to happen when that moment comes

  610. decades and decades from now in Jesus day.

  611. I'm not saying. Bring it on.

  612. Let's. Go right.

  613. Future glory becomes part of your knowledge, part of your

  614. existence, when you practice spending time in rest.

  615. With the Lord your God, and not only that, but the world will

  616. know when you act differently on your Sabbath than most people

  617. act that you belong to another that you're taking.

  618. They're like, man, your family's weird.

  619. You don't do any chores on a weekend.

  620. You guys just laying around in lounge chairs.

  621. What are you all doing? Like, hey, we're Sabbathy, what

  622. is that? I'm glad you asked.

  623. We're different on purpose. We're different for a reason.

  624. And not only does it speak to the world, but you better

  625. believe it speaks to the devil. Who looks around like a prowling

  626. lion, seeing whom, seeing whom he may devour.

  627. Get those words out right. And he's going around to see who

  628. he can devour. And he looks at your family.

  629. He's like, yeah. And then you start Sabbath.

  630. Thing and he looks around like the demons are like this family

  631. is taken. This family is spoken for.

  632. They're practicing the Sabbath. They're resting in God.

  633. They're finding their source and strength, not in what they do

  634. and what they can produce, but in the one who made them and can

  635. give them life. Past glory, future glory.

  636. I'm taken. Put a ring on it.

  637. Here's the final one. The two become one in Sabbath,

  638. just as in marriage, the 2 become one.

  639. And it's interesting. They say the older you get, the

  640. more you start to look like each other.

  641. Maybe I'll find out where, you know, climbing that ladder.

  642. But certainly identity is transformed when the 2 become

  643. one. So it is with the Sabbath.

  644. Your identity will be transformed more and more into

  645. Christ likeness as you Sabbath. Let me say it another way to

  646. you. No one marries up.

  647. Have you heard this phrase before you married up?

  648. Somebody say that to you. It's usually said to the dude by

  649. the way. I don't know why that is.

  650. What's up with that? Right.

  651. Hey, come on up here. Turner's.

  652. Yeah. I didn't prepare you on purpose.

  653. Oh yeah. Y'all can do better than that,

  654. Mike and Joanne Turner. Now, I know y'all love me and I

  655. love you, but you're going to have to just love me through

  656. this, OK? So come stand right here in the

  657. nice bright light where all of America.

  658. Can see you. How you feeling?

  659. Nervous. Don't.

  660. Yeah. I love you too.

  661. You sound different up here. Yeah, I look shorter too.

  662. Whatever. I thought you'd be bigger.

  663. I know me too stand side by side.

  664. All right, so typically how this goes is that you you you make

  665. some assessments as humans and you say, wow, here is a 10 this

  666. woman of character or that's your son clapping beauty,

  667. bravery, wisdom, all of these things.

  668. She's a 10 and then. You look to the other side,

  669. you're like. And in your humanness, you say,

  670. well, here's a 5 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

  671. And so then we make this statement.

  672. Hey, Mike, you married up, right?

  673. I'm going to tell you it's a lie from the pit of hell.

  674. And it's been repeated too many times to too many.

  675. Couples. Here's why.

  676. If Joanna is A10 and she oops I can't bear hide the mic and she

  677. is then a ten. In all of their wisdom, beauty,

  678. glory, brightness, bravery, boldness.

  679. Would never pick a 5A10. Only ever picks 10s.

  680. You understand what I'm saying? And a 10.

  681. Doesn't pick the other one based on pity.

  682. The 10 picks A10 because in all reality the 10 used all of his

  683. tenness to win that tenness. They're both 10s is what I'm

  684. trying to say. Thank you all you.

  685. Have a seat Jesus, the King of kings is A10 and when you

  686. practice the Sabbath and spend time with your Lord, look at me.

  687. He looks at you, spends time with you to remind you that you

  688. also are a 10. The. 2 become one.

  689. You gave a clap like you're going to believe it later.

  690. You need to believe this now because it's the reason God

  691. brought you here. Now when you Sabbath and spend

  692. time with those. Certainly before Jesus we were

  693. all zeros, at least in our own mind.

  694. I don't think that the Lord saw us as zeros, but we were lost,

  695. broken, hurt, angry, arrogant, prideful, sinful, you name it.

  696. And then the moment we met Jesus, he says the old is gone,

  697. the five, the zero and the new is here, the 10.

  698. It's been applied to you to the sacrifice of Jesus Christ and

  699. he'll remind you of that. You're a 10 when you Sabbath

  700. because Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday.

  701. Sunday, whatever days you're not Sabbath.

  702. They'll tell you you're 0. Am I right the mirror?

  703. Will tell you you're 0 and when you Sabbath the Lord will tell

  704. you a 10. I have some scripture to go to

  705. that, but first I want to tell you a story.

  706. True story happened maybe five years ago.

  707. I wake up on a Sunday morning and I have a text from a friend

  708. who's living in Africa. So he wrote this in his morning,

  709. but for me it came like at 2:00 in the morning.

  710. I don't even know he's like 9 hours ahead.

  711. So I wake up to this text and I just want to read the text as it

  712. is. But part of me, I've been

  713. dealing with some. So just let me drink this.

  714. Thank you. I'm going to read the text as

  715. is. This is him speaking to me.

  716. I which is him. Believe when people suddenly are

  717. thrust upon my heart it's for a reason and so I usually start

  718. praying. Rarely do I get visions though,

  719. but when I have they have been life changing so I don't want to

  720. just blow this off. I was praying for loved ones the

  721. other night and you me suddenly came to the forefront of my

  722. mind. So I focused my mind, heart and

  723. soul on you in prayer. Isn't that precious?

  724. Shouldn't we pray for others like that?

  725. Several minutes, several minutes later, as I'm praying, I come to

  726. realize I'm watching an old man on his knees, bent over with his

  727. face near the ground. I was curious, so I got down

  728. close to see what he was doing down there.

  729. I put my face right next to his and saw he was an older

  730. gentleman and then saw what looked like a rectangular wafer

  731. or cracker or cookie on the ground before him and it was

  732. crumbling before my eyes and he was picking up small morsels and

  733. eating them crumbs. Really at that point I wondered

  734. who he was and where we were. I looked down and the ground was

  735. a very old marble or stone with a pattern to it, maybe three

  736. colors. I looked up and I looked up and

  737. around and in all directions as far as I could see.

  738. The flooring went on and on and on.

  739. We were alone and seemingly nowhere.

  740. At this point I realized I was still praying for you.

  741. And as if out of a fog or haze, I came to realize I was coming

  742. out of a vision. I can still see it all like it

  743. was just a second ago, but honestly I have no idea if it's

  744. for you or me or what. Y'all.

  745. As I was reading this text, almost simultaneously the Lord

  746. is revealing to me the meaning of this before I even knew that

  747. he didn't know what it was about.

  748. I thought he was going to explain it later in the text but

  749. he's like I don't know what it's for but I knew immediately the

  750. lore was downloading to me so I texted him back immediately.

  751. These are my exact words to him that morning.

  752. I said eating crumbs when we've been invited to the table.

  753. That's what I heard immediately. God could be saying to us.

  754. I have so much more for you my son.

  755. Choose it now or in 30 years we will still be crumb eaters.

  756. I'm not sure what to make of the three colors, except it may.

  757. Reveal the Trinity, The undending pattern of the floor

  758. is what gave me a sense of the timeless trap of being a Crumb

  759. Eater. It's an identity crisis.

  760. Crumb Eaters live daily feeling unworthy, feeling undeserving.

  761. Which we were. But now, as a son or a daughter,

  762. we are so deserving. Not because of anything I've

  763. done, we've done, but because of whose name we bear.

  764. The enemy bows at the name of. Jesus.

  765. Provision jumps off trees into my hand at the name of Jesus.

  766. I'm not sure yet either if the vision is for you or for me, but

  767. like Nebuchadnezzar, you could have dreamed the dream in

  768. relation to me as I was the interpreter God wanted you to

  769. bring the vision to. No matter, as both of us need to

  770. live as sons and not as beggars. I wrote the text.

  771. I wrote that text at 6:10 AM. At 6:17 that morning, I noted

  772. the time because of what happened next.

  773. I was reading my daily devotion and I follow a reading plan so I

  774. don't just pick a scripture, it's already picked for me.

  775. And this is what I ran into that morning 7 minutes after this

  776. text of the vision. Galatians chapter 4 verse 4.

    Galatians 4:4

  777. But when the set time had fully come, God sent his Son, born of

  778. a woman, born under the law, to redeem those under the law, that

  779. we might receive adoption to sonship.

  780. Because you are His sons. God sent the Spirit of His Son

  781. into our hearts, the Spirit who calls out ABBA Father, so you

  782. are no longer a slave, but God's child.

  783. And since you are his child, God has also made you an heir.

  784. When you Sabbath, you ruin the enemy's plan, which is to give

  785. you an identity crisis that you are a crumb eater and therefore

  786. you need the toil every day. You don't have time to rest

  787. because you need to get busy and you need to keep busy and you

  788. run yourself ragged. These last two things I've

  789. taught you put a ring on it and the two become one, I believe

  790. are what actually cured me from anxiety.

  791. Yes, it came through the practice of Sabbath, but as I

  792. Sabbath I remembered the joy of my salvation.

  793. As I Sabbath I remembered the future glory that awaited me.

  794. As I Sabbath, I remembered that I didn't belong to the spirit of

  795. fear, but I belonged to my Father and that he's called me a

  796. son. I'm not a crumb eater hanging on

  797. by a thread. I have the glory of heaven

  798. deposited in me in the Holy Spirit.

  799. And as I soaked in that, it took a while.

  800. Wasn't like it took a while. I'm standing here as living

  801. proof that debilitating anxiety was removed, eradicated,

  802. extracted from my life. Because of the Sabbath.

  803. Because of the Lord. So I'll just say this to you.

  804. What? What's your story?

  805. What do you need healed from? I think you'll find your answer

  806. in the Sabbath. Maybe not in the 24 hour period

  807. exactly that I'm talking about, but as you practice Sabbath,

  808. you're going to unlock the supernatural of God into your

  809. life and remember your identity and remember His identity and it

  810. will carry you through. Let's pray.

  811. So you bow your head and close your eyes.

  812. Would you just ask the Lord, what is it that I'm supposed to

  813. hear today? Why did you bring me?

  814. What are you trying to cure me of God?

  815. And you can go ahead and just bold that are you calling me to

  816. Sabbath Lord? Just ask him if you're here

  817. today and you've never received Jesus as your Savior.

  818. I don't mean this as heavy as it sounds, but I it's a truth.

  819. There is no rest outside of a relationship with Jesus, whether

  820. that's on this earth or eternally.

  821. But rest can be found as you receive Jesus as Savior.

  822. And the Bible makes it clear. It says if you confess with your

  823. mouth and believe in your heart that Jesus is Lord, you will be

  824. saved. And so we're going to pray a

  825. prayer today to let you do that. If you want to choose Jesus as

  826. Savior this morning, whole church, would you just repeat

  827. this out loud with me saying Father in the name of Jesus?

  828. I recognize that I am a Sinner in need of a Savior.

  829. And I confess and I believe that Jesus is Lord and receive Him

  830. today as my Savior to lead my life.

  831. And grant me rest. Thanks for joining us today.

  832. We hope God is speaking to your heart through this message.

  833. If you'd like to connect with us, you can text connect to

  834. 407-588-0115 or visit Illuminate dot church.

  835. Have a great week.