Sermon
More Than a Day Off: Why Sabbath Is Like a Wedding
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Welcome to the Illuminate Church podcast.
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We hope today's message is encouraging to you.
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Well, welcome everybody. Welcome If you're watching
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online, welcome to all you up in the mezzanine way up Yonder.
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It's great to have you here in the House of the Lord together.
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I love Sundays, Amen. Last Sunday we were away
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celebrating my son, who's here today, graduating.
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College. And congratulations to all the
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graduates, high school and college.
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By the way, big week happening. Well done take.
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Time to celebrate. It's worth it.
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That's a long journey. It's worth it.
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It's an expensive journey, and Gee, OK, Hallelujah.
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But I wanted to honor Pastor Drew for filling the pulpit last
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week just spitting fire. We we were moving the piano this
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morning a little bit further back and a tennis ball popped
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out. So we're like, Pastor Drew, one
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of your pieces of chaos is over here.
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So thank you, Pastor Drew, for your heart to serve.
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He's back in there with the worship team.
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Now. They have team time during the
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second service where they pray and fellowship and all sorts of
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good things happen back there. So anyway, so today we continue
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our series Unrest. Has it been helpful, yes or no?
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Helpful? Yeah.
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What are you going to say? No, That would be awkward for
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all of us. Mostly for you.
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I want to begin by telling you what one of my favorite things
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in ministry is to do. It'll be 30 years in ministry
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this coming August. And one of my most favorite
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things is to officiate weddings and specifically that I get the
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absolute best seat in the house. No one has it better than me.
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I'm standing right there with the groom.
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All of y'all come and sit out in the hot sun for.
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Hours and hours because we're running a little late typically.
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And then the moment everybody is waiting for my favorite moment
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of any wedding. Some of you may say it's the
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kiss that uses. The bride and groom's favorite
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part? But my favorite part is when our
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honored guest arrives, everyone stands and turns and I got this
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direct view of the best moment when the bride finally arrives.
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Do you love this moment? Say yes.
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So touching. It's so powerful.
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I remember standing and watching just recently at a wedding, and
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there's a guy next to me, 6 foot 7.
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He's a big, brawny dude. He was a bouncer at a bar before
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he knew Jesus. You don't mess with this guy.
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He's tough, he's rough, he's crying.
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What's up, Bob? Yeah, I remember seeing you come
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down the aisle, Cindy. I mean, it's just breathtaking,
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this moment. When they lock eyes and this
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journey is not culminating, it's like this new launching that's
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happening. God has done this miracle work
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to take two people out of 8 billion people and draw them one
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to each other. And that moment is so precious.
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I love that arrival. What I want to share with you
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today in this message called Welcome the Bride, is that when
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you practice the Sabbath every week, you get to have a moment
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like this. Where you've been going through
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your week, all this stuff's been happening, but then it just
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stops. And there's this moment where
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you get the welcome to bribe. We're going to talk more about
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that in just a minute. But today I want to to begin, I
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want to remind you what we learned in Week 1, many, many
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weeks ago in this series called Unrest.
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Remember, we are unlearning the way that we rest to learn the
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way that others rest. I have some resource material
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here to help you in case you love to study.
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Some of you want more than what we're able to give here.
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You want high academia? You want you just want to go
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deeper. I've referenced this book.
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My favorite book on the Sabbath is called The Sabbath.
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There it is. Abraham Heschel.
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He is a Jewish rabbi who passed away in 1972.
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But he left us this treasure called the Sabbath.
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He calls it Sabbaths are our great cathedrals more than a
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space we go to, it's time with the Lord that transforms us.
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So highly recommend that book. The next one is called the Rest
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of God by Mark Buchanan. A fabulous book if you like the
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breakdown of the Scripture in high order.
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Some of the things I've taught with are from this book, an
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incredible book about the rest of God.
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And then you have this book called Rest, which is a secular
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book. It's by Alex.
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Let me get this right, Alex Sojung and Kim Peng.
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It's a great book. It's secular, it's not
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Christian, there's no theology in it, but what when you read
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it, this is what's fascinating. You find out that everything
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that God has told us they're starting to figure out in
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science. So when you hear me sharing the
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science, they're learning it in here.
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Great book. And then a new book that was
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just published this week. It's called Unrest by Me.
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30 years it took in ministry to write one book.
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That's the reason that I wrote this book is because the Lord
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put it in my heart. To write, and for no other
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reason alone except that he saved me from the grips of
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anxiety and it was debilitating. And I know that I'm not the only
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one. So if you have a cure, you
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better share the cure, not hoard the cure.
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And so we wrote this book so that anybody who needs help,
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anyone who needs to learn how to rest, which is anybody with
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lungs, right, Then you can learn from what is in this book.
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We're selling them here at the church today, but they're not
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here because they got destroyed on their transportation ride
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here. No joke.
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They were being transported. We got a note that says, hey,
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all the books have been destroyed in transportation.
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I'm like, is this spiritual? Anyway.
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And so they, they're, they're reshipping them.
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So all we're doing today is pre selling.
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There's a big old line after the first service, pre selling the
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book. They're $10.
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I want you to know, and this is going to explain to you who we
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are as a church, who I am as a pastor, that all the proceeds of
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all the the books sold here at the church go to the church, not
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to Tim and Christine's lunch fund.
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When? Right.
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We're not trying to make money off the church in selling this
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book. There is, I need to be just
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candid with you, an Amazon version of this where you can go
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buy the book on Amazon. And the the idea is not that you
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would buy those books. You would buy them here.
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The money goes to the church. It actually pays just for the
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making of the book more than us having proceeds to do ministry
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with. But if you buy a book on Amazon,
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I do want to be clear, it does benefit my family and I.
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So if that weirds you out and you don't want to do that, don't
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buy it on Amazon, right? And I anticipate my wife and I
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are going to make dozens and dozens of dollars off of this.
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All I'm trying to say is that the motivation has not, nor is
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it now, nor will it ever be any sort of money making deal.
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The Lord put this on our heart to share and we wanted to share
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it with you. If it's helpful to you, if it's
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helpful to somebody you know who's dealing with anxiety or
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whatever the case needs rest, please get this into their
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hands. There's also a digital cop of
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the digital version available at Amazon.
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One other thing, this is going to sound weird.
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I hope that doesn't sound weird. I don't know, you tell me, but
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I'm not going to sign any. Books, it's number one.
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It's very presumptive of me to think that.
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You would want me to sign a book that you may or may not buy, but
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it just feels like it crosses a line into celebrity that I'm not
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interested in and I, I, I don't want to like why do you need my
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name on the book? What is it?
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What value does it have? What's in the book is those out
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of is what is of value. Amen.
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So don't ask me because then we'll have an awkward.
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Conversation like I'm I'm not signing your book.
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Not signing your book, Bruno, this is your copy.
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You want me to sign it? OK, OK.
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Some of you already went online and bought them.
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I'm getting pictures of people that have the books and it's
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just, it's touching. It's amazing.
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I'm grateful that the Lord is using it to help people find
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abundant life in Jesus. That was a quiz you failed.
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In Jesus. All right, so all right, in week
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1, remember I was teaching you that we are unlearning our
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concept of rest and embracing God's rest when we practice the
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Sabbath. It's like marrying the Sabbath
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in week 1, I asked you, everybody here, get married
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today. A guy left the first service
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today and he's like I for the first time married the Sabbath
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today. I'm like perfect.
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And if you don't know what that means, essentially follow me
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here in this trail. First of all you have to
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remember that God made Sabbath holy.
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Genesis chapter 2 verse 3 says then God bless the 7th day and
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made everyone say made it holy. God made it holy because on it
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he rested from all the work of creating that he had done.
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Then God told him in Exodus 20 verse 8.
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Later on in the 10 commandments remember the Sabbath day by
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keeping it holy. Everyone say keeping so God made
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the Sabbath holy. Then he gives us a charge in
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Exodus to keep the Sabbath holy. How do we keep the Sabbath holy?
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You marry the Sabbath. Just as when you marry a spouse
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you are set apart one to another.
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When you marry the Sabbath, you're setting that day apart.
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Ephesians chapter 5 speaking about marriage.
Ephesians 5 chapter mention
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Look at this. Husbands love your wives.
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How? Just as Christ loved the church,
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gave himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the
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washing with water through the Word, and to present her to
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himself as a radiant church without staying a wrinkle or any
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other blemish. But holy and blameless thanks be
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to God. Jesus asked husbands to sanctify
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their wives, to lead them from sin and lead them towards God.
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Just as Jesus did when he went to the cross and overcame the
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tomb, He led us from sin and he led us into relationship with
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God our Father. When you marry the Sabbath, you
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were taking that day and leading away from sin and towards God.
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This day I'm making our keeping holy.
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God makes it holy, we keep it holy.
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And you may say, well, shouldn't I do that every day?
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And the answer is yes. The reason that we practice
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Sabbath. It's so that we are trained on
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what to do the rest of our days with an extra command.
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On that day, The Sabbath day, you don't work.
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On the other days you work, but you still want to walk in
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holiness. We are training during the
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Sabbath that one day for the other six days.
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Fawn Horne, you're here today. We were talking about this one
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time in a group, like, shouldn't we be living Sabbath every day?
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And the answer is kind of yes. And Fawn said, But what's
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different about the Sabbath is just like, you love your kids
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every day, and don't you parents love your kids every day?
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Say yes, even if you don't mean it prophetically.
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Believe it on their birthday, even though you love them every
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day. You highlight, you accentuate,
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you focus on that child. You know my wife, Christine, I
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love her every day, all the days.
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But since today is her actual birthday, happy birthday to you.
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Happy birthday to you, Lauder. Yay.
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Yeah, y'all pray, pray for me. Sorry, she said don't do
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anything, but it just fit the message.
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So I had to, right? I had to.
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It's from the Lord. Amen.
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Yeah. So on all days, of course I love
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her. But today it's emphasized.
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It's the same thing with the Sabbath.
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Every day we're walking in holiness.
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Every day we're walking away from sin and towards God.
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But on the Sabbath, you stop working like you're dialed in
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and then it spills over to the rest of your life as we welcome
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this honored guest each week, the Sabbath.
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Now, I've been teaching this message series for like 4 or
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five weeks now. I don't even remember what week
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we're on. And it's been about why, why,
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why? Why they convincing you that you
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need this Sabbath rest? I haven't been convincing you.
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The word of God has been convincing us we need the
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Sabbath rest and I've heard from any of you will like how give me
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some how everyone say how, how right.
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Four things all centered on the concept of marriage and weddings
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#1 you have to prepare for the wedding.
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Everyone say prepare. I made a mistake one day and
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looked at bride.com talk about way too much information on one
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pink page. It's like overwhelming and what
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what I learned and I have it here I I printed it out is that
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there are 77 steps to a wedding day prep list 12 months out find
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a fiance. I'm kidding.
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Step one, right? No, Determine your budget.
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That's the first step, which is always interesting because the
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budget determines the rest of the stuff.
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And for many people, the budget is the buzz kill.
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I have so many dreams, but here's reality.
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So we're going to have the wedding in the backyard.
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Good kids mark it down. Make a guest list a year in
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advance. Hire a wedding planner.
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Decide formality. Select a venue.
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The caterer 11 months out, choose a color theme.
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We're going to be mauve with white.
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Start thinking of overall design.
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And then it says, hire vendors who book up quickly.
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Listen to the list. Photographer, band, DJ,
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videographer. No.
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Efficient. You know what happens?
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Hey, we're getting married in two weeks.
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Are you free? That's not what y'all did.
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Cindy is very planned. Cindy, you probably had 97 steps
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fly. Wedding around.
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Europe, you booked your wedding around my schedule.
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So nice. It must be nice.
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OK, ten months out, start shopping for your wedding dress.
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Book hotel rooms. Nine months out, say send.
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Save the dates. I'm skipping a bunch. 8 months
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out, register for gifts. Yeah, select bridesmaids
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dresses. Meet with the potential florist.
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Five months out, Book transportation.
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Book a honeymoon. Buy or rent the grooms with
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tuxedo. Begin premarital counseling.
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Yes, yes, yes. Four months out, Choose your
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cake. Very important.
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Buy wedding bands. I'm skipping lots of things.
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Three months out, Order the invitations.
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Great. Two months out, first dress
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fitting. Got to wait till you get close
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to the wedding to make. Sure it's the.
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You know I ain't going to get in that.
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All right, Pick your marriage license up.
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Word of counsel from an officiant who's done probably
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100 weddings. Don't wait till the last minute
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to get your wedding marriage license and make sure when your
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officiant signs. It it is legible otherwise Gavin
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and Sarah will call you and say our wedding license was rejected
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because they couldn't read your handwriting.
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I said well then you're not married yet.
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So Yep, whole thing over it says assemble gift bags one month out
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and just, you know, remember the officiant.
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OK. Anyways, take care of things
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like final week, refreshing hair color.
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This must be for the ladies. Getting your eyebrows done,
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manicure, pedicure, getting a massage, final dress fitting.
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Pack your bags, clean your ring, practice your vows out loud.
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Write your partner a note the night before, the day before.
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Eat a healthy meal. Drink water good night's sleep.
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Stay off the feet. Drink even more water.
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Take your dress and veil out of the bag early on have.
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Somebody steam them if nothing. OK, it's a lot.
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I read just a small portion and probably if you've been through
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the process yourself, you're like, it's way more than 77
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steps. It felt like 6 billion steps to
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get to that. Moment, All I'm trying to say is
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the wedding day effectiveness is tied to the wedding day
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preparedness. And if we do all of this work
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for 1/2 hour service and then a four or five hour reception,
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what should we be doing for the 24 hours a week that we spend
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with the Lord? Certainly not nothing.
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I I want to say to you that your Sabbath day effectiveness is
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absolutely tied to your Sabbath day preparedness.
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We need to prepare for the wedding they had to prepare in
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the old days. Exodus chapter 16.
Exodus 16 chapter mention
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Let me just read some of them. We'll get some context.
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Each morning everyone gathered as much as they needed, and when
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the sun grew hot, it melted away.
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What's the IT the IT is manna. This is heavenly bread that
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showed up on the ground each day.
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The Lord was teaching them, I'm going to feed you daily, and so
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you're going to collect this bread daily.
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On the 6th day, however, they gathered twice as much, two
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omers for each person, and the leaders of the community came
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and reported this to Moses. He said to them, this is what
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the Lord commanded. Tomorrow is to be a day of
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Sabbath rest, a holy Sabbath to the Lord.
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So bake what you want to bake and boil what you want to boil.
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Save whatever is left and keep it until morning.
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So they saved it until morning as Moses commanded, and it did
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not stink or get maggots in it. Yummy.
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Eat it today, Moses said, because today is a Sabbath to
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the Lord. You will not find any of it on
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the ground today. No mana on the ground on the
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Sabbath day, six days you already gather it.
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But on the 7th day, the Sabbath, there will not be any.
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So usually on regular days they would just collect one day's
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worth. If they collected 2 days worth,
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that extra would rot and get maggots in it.
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But on Friday, the preparation day, maybe you've been reading
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the scriptures and you've seen the word preparation day.
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That's the day before the Sabbath.
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They were told to gather twice as much.
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Go ahead and get enough for Friday, but also get enough for
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Saturday as well. You got to prepare.
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You got to get ready. Two things that you can take
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from this, and really both of these could be messages in and
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of themselves if we would did a deep dive.
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First of all, if they were not prepared, they wouldn't find any
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provision. It didn't show up on the Sabbath
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day. There's something in this
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theologically about being a prepared person because when you
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were prepared, the provision comes with it.
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When you're not prepared and you get to the place like maybe I
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should have been prepared. Secondly, it says on the Sabbath
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day, if you have prepared, then the Lord has already provided.
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What does that mean? Well, some of us have this
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notion in our hearts that makes it hard to rest because we
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think, if I don't do it, there won't be provision.
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I've got to get something done or else it won't happen.
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And God's saying, if you will do what I'm asking you to do, then
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when you get to the Sabbath, you'll see that it's already
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been provided for. Your peace, your output, your
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productivity, your fruitfulness, your ability to rest all comes
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when we make preparations to do so.
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In our house, we used to do our chores on Saturday mornings.
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Washing bathrooms, washing baseboards, doing laundry, you
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name it. Whatever your chores are, we're
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doing the same thing at our house.
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But when we started practicing the Sabbath, that went away
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because Friday into Saturday is our Sabbath.
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When we Sabbath because Sunday we work.
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Right, everyone understand you following me?
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So there's a flurry of activity that happens as you prepare for
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the Sabbath. Getting the meal ready, getting
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the house ready, getting the table.
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Ready. Getting all everything in its
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place and then everything ceases and we're able to rest and let
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the chores just be what they are.
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I'm going to show you something that may be considered a graphic
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photo to many of you, so you may want to hide your eyes and then
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peek. I'm giving you warning right
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now, but this is our sink during the Sabbath.
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Is anyone breaking out on hives? Yeah, I get it.
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Listen, it's interesting when you have permission to have this
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happen, it feels totally different, like it's supposed to
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look like that. This means that we're honoring
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the Sabbath. This means that we're ceasing
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our regular labor and laboring with the Lord in rest.
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And it's a beautiful thing. It's a wonderful thing, but it
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happens because we're prepared. And then the chores pile up And
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after the after the Sabbath is over, then we just get busy.
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Sundays we're doing laundry and whatnot, and it works out for
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us. By the way, I'm going to talk a
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lot today about what we do as a family.
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I want you not to hear legalism and feel like you got to do what
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we do. You just got to listen to the
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Lord HBO here, Believe and obey and do what's right for you and
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your household, whatever that looks like.
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And everything I'm saying is also ideal state.
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Like some Saturdays it goes perfectly this Friday, Saturday,
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just this week, perfect. Great Shabbat, great family
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devotional, great rest, restoration, great eating.
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But some weeks it's just a train wreck.
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We don't even make it to the table.
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Some weeks we're in Boston. So eliminating a graduation or
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whatever, you know, so don't get legalistic and don't get like, I
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got to be perfect, right? Right.
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Excellent. So we need to plan, prepare for
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the wedding. Secondly, we need to welcome the
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bride. Everyone say welcome.
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It's the name of the message, but it's also the second point
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here. In the Hebrew culture and the
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Jewish culture, there is a song they sing called Lacha Dodi.
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Everyone say laja Dodi. Yeah.
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Did you get that? Excellent.
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If you did it right, there should be something on the
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person in front of you is back. It means come, my beloved.
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It's been sung for hundreds and hundreds of years as the
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traditional Jewish Sabbath begins at sundown on Friday
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night, you gather, the Jewish people gather in the synagogue
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to begin the Sabbath. And during that time together in
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the synagogue, they sing the Locha Dodi.
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And at the very last verse, you can go watch YouTube videos of
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this. I have.
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It's interesting. The very last verse, the entire
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congregation stands up and turns around and faces the doors as if
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someone. Is about to arrive, and that
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someone to them is the Sabbath. The Sabbath's arriving.
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Our guest has come. It's just like we do at
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weddings. We stand and turn around because
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the honored guest is here. It's this moment that's special
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and powerful. So I'm going to read in English
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the words to the song. I'm going to make this motion
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like this at some point, and you're all going to stand up and
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turn and face the doors and the mezzanine.
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I don't know what you're going to do because I wasn't planning
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on that. Just look at the exit sign or
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whatever. You'll figure it out.
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But it's only going to have meaning to you if you have
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expectation in your heart that the Lord God wants to give you a
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gift on the Sabbath. And when you begin your Sabbath,
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that gift arrives and you get to unpack it each week.
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This beautiful time, 24 hours soaking with the Lord, soaking
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with family and friends and nature and whatever brings you
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restoration. It doesn't have to mean laying
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on a couch. Here are the words.
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Come, my beloved. To greet the bride, let us
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welcome Shabbat. Observe and remember were
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uttered as one, so we heard it from the singular one.
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God is 1 and God's name is 1, reflected in fame and splendor.
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And then praise Come shrine of our sovereign royal city, rise
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up from destruction and fear no more in your dwelling in the
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tear filled valley. That's our week, right?
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The tear filled valley. For with God's compassion you
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will be upraised. I almost raised my arms.
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Come awake, rise up from the dust, dress yourself in this
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people's pride. By the hand of Jesse's son of
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Bethlehem's tribe. Bring my redemption without
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further delays. Come awake, rise up from the
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dust. Don't stand.
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Dress yourself in this people's pride.
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By the Oh, I just read that one. Rouse yourself, Rouse yourself,
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for your lamp is lit. Let the flame rise up and glow.
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Awake, awake. Utter songs of praise for God's
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glory is revealed to your gaze. Come, do not be embarrassed.
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Do not be ashamed. Why are you downcast?
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Why do you moan the poorest of your people trust in this.
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The city will be rebuilt as an ancient days come.
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Your despoilers shall be despoiled, your tormentors
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removed. Far away God and you will
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celebrate together a bride and groom in joyful embrace.
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Come, face the door. Welcome the bride.
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Come. In peace, crown your spouse.
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Surrounded by gladness and joyous shouts, come to the
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faithful, the people you treasure with pride.
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Come, my bride. Come, my bride, come.
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The first wedding I ever did, I forgot to have the people stand
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to greet the bride. So the next wedding I had
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everyone stand and I was sure I was going to make everyone stand
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to the extent that I forgot to have anyone ever sit down.
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So they just stood for a really long time.
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And I only tell you that to say now be seated at our home on
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Friday nights, we prepare the table and I bring out this
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stole, which is just a priestly garment.
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You've probably seen it in more traditional churches, a pastor,
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a reverend, whatever, wearing the, the the robes.
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And then they'll have a stole around their neck.
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And the stole represents priestly covering and I wear it
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to begin the meal and to end the meal to remind us that we are
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covered by the Lord. And I am a representation of
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that as a priest of my home to my family.
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And so I put on the stove and we hold hands and we pray.
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And as we pray right before we eat the dinner, I say, hey,
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let's remember this is ideal state doesn't always happen
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exactly right because. People are people.
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I say, let's take a breath and I say, Lord, we cease all of our
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regular work and enter into your rest.
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And you can feel the atmosphere change as it's happening, as
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this is going on. You feel like the weight is just
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melting off, no matter how many times we've done it and we're
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entering the rest. And then I'll pray something
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like this. Come, Lord Jesus, meet with us,
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be with us, and then whoever is there, we have different people
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take turns lighting these two candles that we have, and we
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light them as representation of God's presence with us.
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And very rarely we will turn and face our door.
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And sometimes, even more rarely, we'll go and open the door as if
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to say, come on in Sabbath, we've been waiting for you.
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You're our honored guest. We need you.
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We're glad that you're here and we personify the Sabbath, which
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really is the rest, the powerful presence.
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Of the Lord. Meeting with us over this 24
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hours. At the end of the meal, I put
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the stall back on and I place it on all the children's head 1 by
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1. And I pray a blessing over them.
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And they used to be tiny little heads and now they're grown up
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heads. And then at the end of the meal,
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they, we, we all gathered around mommy and all the kids placed
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their hand on mommy. My wife Christine and I probably
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sit on her head and we pray a blessing.
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The Sabbath has begun. And we rested that for the next
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24 hours by welcoming the bride. And as wonderful as it is to see
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a bride walk down the aisle, it's the same feeling but
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different each Friday when we begin the Sabbath.
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And it can be for you as well. Amen.
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Prepare for the wedding. Welcome the bride, and the next
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part is to put a ring on it. No, Huggy, no.
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Kissy till I get a. Wedding ring.
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Anyone remember this song? Don't give me no lines and keep
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y'all. Exactly.
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It's a, it's biblical. It's 100% accurate.
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I believe in this song. Right?
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Or there's this one. I'd better stop when I
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officiate. Weddings We get to the ring
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portion and I'll take a ring and say, you know, the ring is an
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unbroken circle of love. So poetic it it's one because
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the two are. One right And then I.
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Literally say like and blah blah blah blah blah.
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Like. All of that is poetic and nice.
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Like OK, whatever, we get it. But let me tell you what the
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ring really can mean for you. And those of you that have done
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your weddings might remember these words, but the ring will
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hit stuff sometimes. Or you'll be sitting in traffic
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on I-4 and you'll see it there, right?
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And I tell the couple I like, listen, when you see the ring,
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feel the weight of it, hit it against something I wanted to
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remind you of right now, 25 years from now, I want you to
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remember right here. So we pause and I say, take a
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look around because you've been rushing through things.
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I mean, wedding mornings are busy mornings for the bride.
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The groom's like, I got dressed. And so they look around, they
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look at each other, they take in the beauty.
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And I say when, when you for years now, when you feel this
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ring, see this ring, I want you to remember the beginning, the
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joy of your weddedness, the purity of what's happening here.
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Remember past glory? Like, Oh yes.
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I say. But I also want you to know that
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this ring that you now put on your finger is the only thing
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that's not changing out. Meaning you're going to change
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outfits literally thousands of times in and out of your
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clothing. Not to be eating weird, but one
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garment, one article never changes.
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It stays on your finger all the time.
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When you get old and saggy and your body changes, it's
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happening. I feel it happening.
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This doesn't change. And so the ring reminds you of
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the permanence of what God has put together and the promise of
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what he's put together. And not just that, here's the
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other promise. When you're having a bad day,
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you're out there in the world, you feel your ring.
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You're like, man at home. There's somebody who loves me.
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I'm going home to a safe place. I'll be next to in the bed, the
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warmth and the strength of my spouse and your ring reminds you
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of that promise of future glory. Past glory, future glory.
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Here's the last thing. When you're married and you walk
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into a place and your hand is in your pocket or hidden, all the
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single people in the room go. Interesting.
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Is this person an opportunity? Maybe a future spouse and then
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you take your hand. Out of your pocket and you rifle
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it through your hair. Or move your hat.
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Or scratch your. Arm and the whole room goes.
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The. Universal knowledge is that
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you're off the market, you're taken, you're spoken for, you
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belong to another, and that one belongs to you.
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And so no kissy, no touchy, off the market.
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That's what the ring symbolizes. Past glory, future glory.
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You belong to another. The Sabbath is the same thing as
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a wedding ring. Exodus chapter 30 verse 12.
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Then the Lord said to Moses, say to the Israelites, you must
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observe my sabbaths. This will be a sign between me
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and you for generations to come, so you may know that I'm the
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Lord who makes you holy. The Sabbath, when we practice it
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week after week, reminds us of our.
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Salvation Psalm 51 says return to me the joy of my salvation.
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Remind me what it was like at the beginning when your grace
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invaded my heart and your love overwhelmed me and I received
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you as my Savior. Remind me of that time from the
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beginning and and what it really does.
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It takes you back to the garden where there's unbroken
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fellowship with the Lord our God because of Jesus sacrifice.
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Past glory. We remember our purity.
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But when you Sabbath and spend time with the Lord and set aside
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supernaturally, you are saturated in the promises and
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the permanence of. God, I wonder how differently we
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would live if we rightly accounted for heaven and the
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glory that awaits us. You've heard me say it before.
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These are not my words. I stole them from somebody else,
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but you cannot threaten me with heaven.
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Meaning I'm not. Afraid to die because the
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greatest thing ever is about to happen when that moment comes
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decades and decades from now in Jesus day.
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I'm not saying. Bring it on.
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Let's. Go right.
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Future glory becomes part of your knowledge, part of your
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existence, when you practice spending time in rest.
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With the Lord your God, and not only that, but the world will
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know when you act differently on your Sabbath than most people
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act that you belong to another that you're taking.
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They're like, man, your family's weird.
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You don't do any chores on a weekend.
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You guys just laying around in lounge chairs.
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What are you all doing? Like, hey, we're Sabbathy, what
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is that? I'm glad you asked.
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We're different on purpose. We're different for a reason.
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And not only does it speak to the world, but you better
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believe it speaks to the devil. Who looks around like a prowling
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lion, seeing whom, seeing whom he may devour.
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Get those words out right. And he's going around to see who
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he can devour. And he looks at your family.
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He's like, yeah. And then you start Sabbath.
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Thing and he looks around like the demons are like this family
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is taken. This family is spoken for.
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They're practicing the Sabbath. They're resting in God.
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They're finding their source and strength, not in what they do
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and what they can produce, but in the one who made them and can
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give them life. Past glory, future glory.
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I'm taken. Put a ring on it.
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Here's the final one. The two become one in Sabbath,
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just as in marriage, the 2 become one.
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And it's interesting. They say the older you get, the
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more you start to look like each other.
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Maybe I'll find out where, you know, climbing that ladder.
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But certainly identity is transformed when the 2 become
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one. So it is with the Sabbath.
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Your identity will be transformed more and more into
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Christ likeness as you Sabbath. Let me say it another way to
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you. No one marries up.
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Have you heard this phrase before you married up?
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Somebody say that to you. It's usually said to the dude by
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the way. I don't know why that is.
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What's up with that? Right.
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Hey, come on up here. Turner's.
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Yeah. I didn't prepare you on purpose.
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Oh yeah. Y'all can do better than that,
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Mike and Joanne Turner. Now, I know y'all love me and I
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love you, but you're going to have to just love me through
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this, OK? So come stand right here in the
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nice bright light where all of America.
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Can see you. How you feeling?
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Nervous. Don't.
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Yeah. I love you too.
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You sound different up here. Yeah, I look shorter too.
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Whatever. I thought you'd be bigger.
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I know me too stand side by side.
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All right, so typically how this goes is that you you you make
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some assessments as humans and you say, wow, here is a 10 this
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woman of character or that's your son clapping beauty,
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bravery, wisdom, all of these things.
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She's a 10 and then. You look to the other side,
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you're like. And in your humanness, you say,
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well, here's a 5 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
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And so then we make this statement.
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Hey, Mike, you married up, right?
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I'm going to tell you it's a lie from the pit of hell.
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And it's been repeated too many times to too many.
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Couples. Here's why.
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If Joanna is A10 and she oops I can't bear hide the mic and she
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is then a ten. In all of their wisdom, beauty,
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glory, brightness, bravery, boldness.
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Would never pick a 5A10. Only ever picks 10s.
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You understand what I'm saying? And a 10.
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Doesn't pick the other one based on pity.
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The 10 picks A10 because in all reality the 10 used all of his
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tenness to win that tenness. They're both 10s is what I'm
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trying to say. Thank you all you.
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Have a seat Jesus, the King of kings is A10 and when you
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practice the Sabbath and spend time with your Lord, look at me.
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He looks at you, spends time with you to remind you that you
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also are a 10. The. 2 become one.
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You gave a clap like you're going to believe it later.
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You need to believe this now because it's the reason God
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brought you here. Now when you Sabbath and spend
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time with those. Certainly before Jesus we were
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all zeros, at least in our own mind.
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I don't think that the Lord saw us as zeros, but we were lost,
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broken, hurt, angry, arrogant, prideful, sinful, you name it.
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And then the moment we met Jesus, he says the old is gone,
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the five, the zero and the new is here, the 10.
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It's been applied to you to the sacrifice of Jesus Christ and
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he'll remind you of that. You're a 10 when you Sabbath
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because Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday.
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Sunday, whatever days you're not Sabbath.
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They'll tell you you're 0. Am I right the mirror?
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Will tell you you're 0 and when you Sabbath the Lord will tell
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you a 10. I have some scripture to go to
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that, but first I want to tell you a story.
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True story happened maybe five years ago.
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I wake up on a Sunday morning and I have a text from a friend
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who's living in Africa. So he wrote this in his morning,
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but for me it came like at 2:00 in the morning.
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I don't even know he's like 9 hours ahead.
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So I wake up to this text and I just want to read the text as it
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is. But part of me, I've been
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dealing with some. So just let me drink this.
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Thank you. I'm going to read the text as
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is. This is him speaking to me.
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I which is him. Believe when people suddenly are
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thrust upon my heart it's for a reason and so I usually start
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praying. Rarely do I get visions though,
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but when I have they have been life changing so I don't want to
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just blow this off. I was praying for loved ones the
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other night and you me suddenly came to the forefront of my
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mind. So I focused my mind, heart and
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soul on you in prayer. Isn't that precious?
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Shouldn't we pray for others like that?
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Several minutes, several minutes later, as I'm praying, I come to
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realize I'm watching an old man on his knees, bent over with his
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face near the ground. I was curious, so I got down
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close to see what he was doing down there.
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I put my face right next to his and saw he was an older
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gentleman and then saw what looked like a rectangular wafer
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or cracker or cookie on the ground before him and it was
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crumbling before my eyes and he was picking up small morsels and
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eating them crumbs. Really at that point I wondered
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who he was and where we were. I looked down and the ground was
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a very old marble or stone with a pattern to it, maybe three
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colors. I looked up and I looked up and
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around and in all directions as far as I could see.
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The flooring went on and on and on.
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We were alone and seemingly nowhere.
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At this point I realized I was still praying for you.
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And as if out of a fog or haze, I came to realize I was coming
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out of a vision. I can still see it all like it
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was just a second ago, but honestly I have no idea if it's
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for you or me or what. Y'all.
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As I was reading this text, almost simultaneously the Lord
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is revealing to me the meaning of this before I even knew that
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he didn't know what it was about.
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I thought he was going to explain it later in the text but
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he's like I don't know what it's for but I knew immediately the
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lore was downloading to me so I texted him back immediately.
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These are my exact words to him that morning.
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I said eating crumbs when we've been invited to the table.
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That's what I heard immediately. God could be saying to us.
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I have so much more for you my son.
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Choose it now or in 30 years we will still be crumb eaters.
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I'm not sure what to make of the three colors, except it may.
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Reveal the Trinity, The undending pattern of the floor
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is what gave me a sense of the timeless trap of being a Crumb
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Eater. It's an identity crisis.
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Crumb Eaters live daily feeling unworthy, feeling undeserving.
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Which we were. But now, as a son or a daughter,
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we are so deserving. Not because of anything I've
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done, we've done, but because of whose name we bear.
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The enemy bows at the name of. Jesus.
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Provision jumps off trees into my hand at the name of Jesus.
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I'm not sure yet either if the vision is for you or for me, but
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like Nebuchadnezzar, you could have dreamed the dream in
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relation to me as I was the interpreter God wanted you to
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bring the vision to. No matter, as both of us need to
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live as sons and not as beggars. I wrote the text.
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I wrote that text at 6:10 AM. At 6:17 that morning, I noted
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the time because of what happened next.
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I was reading my daily devotion and I follow a reading plan so I
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don't just pick a scripture, it's already picked for me.
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And this is what I ran into that morning 7 minutes after this
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text of the vision. Galatians chapter 4 verse 4.
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But when the set time had fully come, God sent his Son, born of
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a woman, born under the law, to redeem those under the law, that
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we might receive adoption to sonship.
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Because you are His sons. God sent the Spirit of His Son
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into our hearts, the Spirit who calls out ABBA Father, so you
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are no longer a slave, but God's child.
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And since you are his child, God has also made you an heir.
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When you Sabbath, you ruin the enemy's plan, which is to give
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you an identity crisis that you are a crumb eater and therefore
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you need the toil every day. You don't have time to rest
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because you need to get busy and you need to keep busy and you
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run yourself ragged. These last two things I've
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taught you put a ring on it and the two become one, I believe
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are what actually cured me from anxiety.
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Yes, it came through the practice of Sabbath, but as I
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Sabbath I remembered the joy of my salvation.
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As I Sabbath I remembered the future glory that awaited me.
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As I Sabbath, I remembered that I didn't belong to the spirit of
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fear, but I belonged to my Father and that he's called me a
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son. I'm not a crumb eater hanging on
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by a thread. I have the glory of heaven
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deposited in me in the Holy Spirit.
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And as I soaked in that, it took a while.
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Wasn't like it took a while. I'm standing here as living
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proof that debilitating anxiety was removed, eradicated,
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extracted from my life. Because of the Sabbath.
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Because of the Lord. So I'll just say this to you.
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What? What's your story?
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What do you need healed from? I think you'll find your answer
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in the Sabbath. Maybe not in the 24 hour period
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exactly that I'm talking about, but as you practice Sabbath,
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you're going to unlock the supernatural of God into your
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life and remember your identity and remember His identity and it
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will carry you through. Let's pray.
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So you bow your head and close your eyes.
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Would you just ask the Lord, what is it that I'm supposed to
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hear today? Why did you bring me?
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What are you trying to cure me of God?
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And you can go ahead and just bold that are you calling me to
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Sabbath Lord? Just ask him if you're here
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today and you've never received Jesus as your Savior.
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I don't mean this as heavy as it sounds, but I it's a truth.
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There is no rest outside of a relationship with Jesus, whether
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that's on this earth or eternally.
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But rest can be found as you receive Jesus as Savior.
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And the Bible makes it clear. It says if you confess with your
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mouth and believe in your heart that Jesus is Lord, you will be
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saved. And so we're going to pray a
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prayer today to let you do that. If you want to choose Jesus as
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Savior this morning, whole church, would you just repeat
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this out loud with me saying Father in the name of Jesus?
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I recognize that I am a Sinner in need of a Savior.
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And I confess and I believe that Jesus is Lord and receive Him
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today as my Savior to lead my life.
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And grant me rest. Thanks for joining us today.
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We hope God is speaking to your heart through this message.
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Have a great week.