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When Life Feels Unfair, God Is Still Working

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  1. Welcome to the Illuminate Church podcast.

  2. We hope today's message is encouraging to you.

  3. Today we are in a series on the book of Genesis.

  4. We've been in a series on the book of Genesis.

  5. Hopefully you've been enjoying it and hearing things in a new

  6. way. Genesis is the first book of the

  7. Bible, and Genesis literally means creation or the beginning.

  8. So now we're in the first book of the Bible, Genesis, and later

  9. this year we're going to talk about the last book of the

  10. Bible, Revelation. And the point of covering both

  11. the 1st and the last book in the same year is for us all to

  12. understand how the entire Bible from Genesis to Revelation is 1

  13. story, 1 big story. It's it's the meta narrative of

  14. the Bible, the grand big overarching story from Genesis

  15. to Revelation. One story about God's original

  16. design and creation, his love and desire to have relationship

  17. with humanity. Man's decision to disobey God.

  18. Sin entered the world. God's plan to reconcile man back

  19. to himself through Jesus and his plan one day for a new heaven

  20. and a new earth that will come. One big story, Genesis to

  21. Revelation. So the Bible is 1 big

  22. overarching story made-up of many smaller stories written.

  23. Let me think about this. Written over 1500 years, written

  24. down by 40 different writers, but it has one author, and the

  25. author is God. The Bible is God's word.

  26. A few weeks ago we talked about the promise God made to a man

  27. named Abraham. I don't know if you were here

  28. for that series, but God made a promise to a man named Abraham

  29. and God's promise to Abraham was God said, I will make you into a

  30. great nation. Now at this time, Abraham was an

  31. old man who had no children, but God said I will make you into a

  32. great nation. I will bless you.

  33. I will make your name great. Here we are talking about

  34. Abraham. Millennium, Millennium,

  35. millennia later, and all the peoples of the earth will be

  36. blessed through you, including us.

  37. When Abraham was 100 years old, his wife and his he and his wife

  38. Sarah had a son named Isaac. Isaac had a son named Jacob.

  39. We talked about Jacob's story last week and today we're going

  40. to talk about Jacob's family. Jacob had twelve sons, 12 boys.

  41. Can you imagine? You think you have a big grocery

  42. bill? They didn't even have Costco.

  43. Jacob's story is early. As a young man, before he had

  44. children, he fell in love with a woman named Rachel.

  45. Now follow this story. This is before children.

  46. The Jacob's a young man and he meets this young lady named

  47. Rachel. And he was smitten.

  48. But Rachel's father Laban had two daughters.

  49. His oldest daughter was named Leah, and his younger daughter

  50. was Rachel. And Jacob wanted to marry

  51. Rachel, the younger daughter. Are you with me so far?

  52. So Laban made a deal with Jacob. He said work for me for seven

  53. years, then you can marry Rachel.

  54. And Jacob said deal. Jacob did that.

  55. Seven years later, Jacob got married to Laban's daughter.

  56. But Laban tricked Jacob into marrying his oldest daughter,

  57. Leah. I guess maybe the veils were

  58. really thick back then. I don't know exactly how that

  59. happened, but Jacob got married not to Rachel, who he wanted to

  60. marry, who he loved, but to her sister Leah.

  61. Can you imagine how Jacob felt? It sounds like a reality TV

  62. show. A lot of drama.

  63. I would probably watch it, but Laban said.

  64. Laban said. Hey, hey, hey, Jacob, don't,

  65. don't be mad. Don't be mad.

  66. I'll make another deal for you. All you have to do is work for

  67. me for another seven years, then you can marry Ray.

  68. Then I'm. I'm serious this time.

  69. So Jacob did work for him for another seven years, 14 years

  70. total. And then he got to marry his

  71. true love Rachel, finally. But the messy part was now he

  72. had two wives, Rachel, who he loved, and her older sister

  73. Leah. Kind of awkward.

  74. And as you could expect to predict, the two wives became

  75. rivals for Jacob's attention. But Leah was better at at least

  76. one thing than Rachel, and that was having babies, baby boys.

  77. And Leah gave Jacob six sons in the same time that Rachel had

  78. none. Leah was probably keeping score.

  79. And she's like, oh, Rachel, I'm at six, you're at zero.

  80. I'm up 6 zip. But finally, after years of

  81. torment and emotional pain, Rachel got pregnant and she had

  82. a son. And they named Rachel's first

  83. son Joseph. And because of Jacob's love for

  84. Rachel, Joseph was his favorite child.

  85. And he didn't do a very good job of hiding that fact.

  86. Now parents, listen. Parenting one-on-one is if you

  87. have a favorite child, don't let the other kids know.

  88. Jacob didn't do that. He made it clear to everyone,

  89. Joseph is my favorite. If you have your Bible, turn to

  90. Genesis, first book of the Bible, chapter 37.

  91. We're going to start with verse one.

  92. If you need a Bible, raise your hand and Usher will bring one to

  93. you and you can keep it if you'd like.

  94. Anybody need a Bible, just raise your hand and Usher will be

  95. happy to bring you one. Turn to Genesis chapter 37, and

    Genesis 37 chapter mention

  96. this is from the ESV. Chapter 1 says Joseph, being 17

  97. years old, was pastoring the flock with his brothers.

  98. We're going to jump to verse 3 now.

  99. Israel loved Joseph more than any of his other sons.

  100. That's nice. We're closing as we close.

  101. I don't know what that was, Squirrel.

  102. Jump ahead again. And he made Joseph a robe of

  103. many colors. But when his brothers saw that

  104. their father loved father loved him more than all of his other

  105. brothers, they hated him and could not speak peacefully them

  106. to him. In those days, most clothing was

  107. various shades of beige, and Jacob gave Joseph a colorful

  108. coat, which meant it was very expensive and special.

  109. And the brothers hated him because it was so obvious he was

  110. daddy's favorite. So today we're going to talk

  111. about the story of Joseph, the title of today's messages from

  112. Pitt to prison to palace. And we're going to talk about

  113. Joseph, who had a dream from God, a dream for for great

  114. things. But over the next more than a

  115. decade, his life fell apart. A lot went wrong for Joseph.

  116. And yet God was always with him the whole time.

  117. And God gave purpose to that time.

  118. I love the story of Joseph. It's one of my favorite stories

  119. in the Bible. It was a great Broadway play in

  120. the 90s with Donny Osmond. Joseph and the Technicolor Green

  121. Coat had some good music, and it's even better when you know

  122. how the story ends. Now, today we're not going to

  123. cover the whole story. We're just covering the first

  124. half. Next week, Pastor Tim Ingram

  125. going to cover the best part. So you have to come back to hear

  126. how kind of how this story unfolds and ends next Sunday.

  127. But it's a story of going through things, really hard

  128. things, and remaining faithful. Joseph's story is a reminder

  129. that sometimes we can't see God's plans and purposes for our

  130. lives when we're in the middle of it, when we're in the middle

  131. of what seems like a mess. We can't fully understand until

  132. we get through it, until we can look back and see the whole

  133. story. When we are through it and can

  134. look back on a hard season, that's when we can say, now I

  135. understand, now I get it. God, now it makes sense.

  136. I remember the hardest, most confusing season for me in my

  137. life, my my wife and I's life about 15 years ago.

  138. Our family had lived and raised our kids in Minnesota from for

  139. 15 years from 1991 to 2006, and we lived in the same home.

  140. It was really home, you know what I'm talking about.

  141. But in 2006, we were doing well enough in our financial services

  142. business that we thought we could buy a second house in

  143. Florida. We thought we could have the

  144. best of both worlds, keep our home in Minnesota and live in

  145. Florida during during the winter.

  146. That was our plan. We thought it was a good plan.

  147. If you've ever spent a winter in Minnesota, you would agree with

  148. me. In February 2006 we bought a 5

  149. bedroom home near Disney and in May 2006 we went back to our

  150. home in Minnesota, just like our plan.

  151. But that summer in two, 2006, Heather and I both felt we heard

  152. God saying we were supposed to leave Minnesota and make Florida

  153. our permanent home year round. And it was July, so it wasn't

  154. just because of the weather. We both heard God leading us and

  155. encouraging us to Florida year round.

  156. I heard God say your future is in Florida.

  157. So we obeyed. We told our kids we're moving.

  158. They were 8 to 16 years old then, away from their friends

  159. selling our home. It was hard, but we chose to

  160. obey God. That was 2006 and 2008.

  161. It seemed to start making sense because the church we were

  162. attending here in Florida, what it wasn't Illuminate, said to

  163. me, we want you to quit your job, to quit your career and

  164. join the church staff. I had never thought about

  165. working at a church before. They couldn't pay me what I was

  166. making already. In fact, it was about 25% of

  167. what I was making. But that wasn't top priority to

  168. us. We thought this was it.

  169. This was the reason God LED us here.

  170. This is why God has been calling us to Florida.

  171. So we made the decision to change and leave my career.

  172. That was providing a lot of income to our family to work

  173. full time for that church in 2008.

  174. In 2010, about a year and a half later, that church failed.

  175. It didn't make it financially. Expenses were consistently

  176. higher than revenue, and that's a problem.

  177. The church had cut everything funny possible, and in fact,

  178. they had already cut over half. Their staff had been let go.

  179. And then eight people on staff turned into four people on

  180. staff, and I was one of the four let go.

  181. That was March 2010, and that year, 2010, I went through the

  182. hardest season of my life. I was so confused.

  183. I know I heard God say your future is in Florida and here I

  184. am after obeying God, unemployed, starting over.

  185. This was not how I was expecting things to go and I'll be honest,

  186. I was upset with God. I was confused with God.

  187. I love God. I became a born again, saved,

  188. saved Christian in 1998. This is almost 12 years later

  189. and I was like God, I don't know.

  190. I don't understand. If you said move, why is this

  191. happening? Why are we struggling?

  192. That period of time, 2010 to 2011, our family survived

  193. financially. We lived in survival mode for a

  194. couple of years. I don't know if you've ever done

  195. that. We used up all of our savings

  196. and investments we had to our name.

  197. But also in 2010, that remnant of a church that we were still

  198. attending, what was left of it, just a handful of people, was

  199. adopted by a much larger, healthier church out of Tampa

  200. called the Crossing Church. And the Crossing Church sent

  201. over a new campus pastor I had never heard of, I had never met

  202. from Tampa to celebration, and his name was Pastor Tim Ingram.

  203. We met each other in 2010. He seemed like a good guy.

  204. I don't know. I don't care.

  205. I was upset with God. I know we heard God and now our

  206. lives were a mess. We were in a pit.

  207. Fast forward two years to 2012 when Pastor Tim and Christine,

  208. our family, and a few others decided to plant or start

  209. Illuminate Church with Pastor Tim Ingram as the lead pastor.

  210. Our family said we're in, we're with you.

  211. I started serving as a volunteer and a board member and

  212. volunteering. My role expanded.

  213. I joined the staff. I became a pastor.

  214. That little church that started in 2012 was able to buy this 20

  215. acres of land in 2018 for $4 million.

  216. Crazy. I was asked to be the owner Rep

  217. on this building project. I had never done anything like

  218. that before from 2022 to 2024 and now here we are.

  219. Praise God, God is good. I love my work, I love my

  220. church, Life is great. Now I can look back and see why

  221. God was leading us here all along, but it didn't make sense

  222. when I was in the middle of it. When I was in the middle of it,

  223. it didn't make sense at all. When I was middle in the middle

  224. of the mess, when Illuminate Church didn't even exist yet, I

  225. didn't understand. In 2010, 2011, 2012, and in the

  226. middle of the mess, all I had was this word that my future was

  227. here. But today, years later, I get

  228. it. Now I understand.

  229. But when we're in it, when we can't see the end yet, it

  230. requires faith and trust in God that he's working for our good,

  231. that what we're going through he will use for our good.

  232. And that's not always easy. But Romans 828 says, and we

  233. know, we know means, we know that God causes all things to

  234. work together for good to those who love God.

  235. Joseph's story reminds me of a story I heard a few years ago

  236. about a man who worked for the same company for over 20 years.

  237. He was loyal. He worked hard.

  238. He dedicated his life to his employer.

  239. Then one day, new leadership came in.

  240. He was pushed aside. His voice didn't matter anymore.

  241. Eventually he was let go. He told his friends later, it

  242. wasn't just losing my job that hurt so much.

  243. It was feeling discarded, unvalued, like none of it

  244. mattered, like I didn't matter, like the past 20 years were a

  245. waste of time. And maybe you haven't lost a job

  246. like that, but maybe you know that feeling.

  247. Feeling overlooked or forgotten, Feeling betrayed or rejected.

  248. Feeling like your life is unfair.

  249. Feeling like you tried to do everything right and it still

  250. went wrong. Feeling like you're stuck in a

  251. season you didn't choose. Some of you came in this morning

  252. and and and you're in that season right now.

  253. You might be smiling on the outside, but inside you're

  254. asking questions like God, where are you?

  255. What is going on? I do not understand.

  256. This does not seem fair. I'm hurting God and God, if you

  257. love me, why is this happening to me?

  258. If that's you, here's what I want you to hear today.

  259. If you feel that way or if you I should say when you feel that

  260. way, you are not alone. So today is about Jacob's

  261. favorite son, Joseph. Joseph and his eleven brothers

  262. who when you're, when you read your Bible, become the 12 tribes

  263. of Israel. The story Joseph is such an

  264. amazing story, ups and downs, twists and turns.

  265. Incredible because it tells how God keeps his promises most of

  266. the time in ways we could never expect.

  267. As a 17 year old young man, Joseph was living with his

  268. father Jacob, Jacob's two wives, and his eleven brothers who hate

  269. him. And if that wasn't bad enough,

  270. Joseph was already hated. Joseph himself made it worse by

  271. choosing to tell his brothers about a dream he had about a

  272. vision for his life that God had given to Joseph.

  273. And he said, hey brothers of mine, come, come listen to this

  274. story. You're going to love it.

  275. Which brings us to point #1 if you're taking notes today, which

  276. I always encourage you to do, I take notes every time.

  277. Jot down notes, not point. Number one is choose wisely who

  278. and when you share your dream with.

  279. We should know or be aware that if God gives you a dream and

  280. you're like, what's a dream? A vision, a plan, an idea, a

  281. word you should know. Not everyone will encourage you.

  282. Not even not everyone, even some of your friends or relatives,

  283. some of the people closest to us will be excited for you.

  284. This is Joseph's story, sharing it with his brothers.

  285. This is Genesis 37, verse 5. So if you're still in Genesis

    Genesis 37:5

  286. 37, we're in verse 5. It says now Joseph had a dream

  287. and when he told it to his brothers, they hated him even

  288. more. They said, he said to them, hear

  289. this dream that I have dreamed, Brothers, behold, we are binding

  290. sheaves in the field. And behold, my sheaf arose and

  291. stood upright, and behold, your sheaves gathered around it and

  292. bowed down to my sheaf. Isn't that awesome?

  293. His brother said, Are you indeed going to reign over us?

  294. Are you indeed to rule over us? So they hated him even more for

  295. his dreams and for his words. Joseph shared with his brothers.

  296. Hey guys, you're going to love this.

  297. You all are going to bow down to me.

  298. Aren't you excited for me? And that mistake caused Joseph a

  299. lot of pain that you hear about later.

  300. But it reminds us that revelation still requires timing

  301. and wisdom. Revelation, or what God says to

  302. you, still requires timing, when you should share it, and wisdom,

  303. who you should share it with. God may give you a dream or a

  304. plan for your life or an idea or a word.

  305. And if you share it at the wrong time or with the wrong people,

  306. you will get doused with discouragement that might keep

  307. you from pursuing the dream. It might tempt you to give up

  308. before you even begin. You might say, they're my

  309. friends, of course they want me to succeed.

  310. But your growth exposes other people's insecurities.

  311. Your vision threatens people who have no vision for their lives.

  312. Your obedience or change convicts people living

  313. differently, especially if that's how you used to live.

  314. Sometimes the last thing some of the people in your life want for

  315. you is for you to pursue your dreams, or for you to succeed,

  316. or for you to change. And consciously or

  317. subconsciously, some of the closest relationships will

  318. discourage us or try to defeat us or stop us before we even

  319. start, or when we just get started following a dream God

  320. gives to us. The Holy Spirit might be

  321. refining you, encouraging you to change some things.

  322. It could be as simple as coming to church regularly or reading

  323. your Bible at home. Doesn't have to be a big thing.

  324. And some people will say things like you've changed.

  325. And they don't mean it as a compliment.

  326. I don't even know who you are anymore.

  327. Who do you think you are? I know who you are.

  328. Who do you think you are? And you'll have to choose to

  329. allow the pessimists, naysayers, and discouragers that you will

  330. encounter. Are they going to impact and

  331. determine your future? Or are you going to follow God's

  332. dream, even if it means pausing or even ending some of those

  333. relationships? So Joseph chose to share his

  334. dreams with his brothers, and they had an idea.

  335. Let's kill him. That'll solve our problems.

  336. But Reuben, one of the eleven brothers, saved Joseph's life by

  337. saying this is paraphrasing. Hey, guys, calm down.

  338. We're not going to do that. Let's not kill him.

  339. Let's just throw him in the pit. He won't be able to get out of

  340. it. So that's what they did.

  341. But God's timing is perfect. A holy coincidence happened

  342. right now. A group of travelers,

  343. Ishmaelites, passed by the brothers on their way to Egypt.

  344. And then the brothers thought up a better idea.

  345. What good does it do to just let him die in the pit?

  346. Let's sell them to these Ishmaelites and they'll just

  347. take him away. Problem solved.

  348. We don't have to kill him and we get some money.

  349. Win, win. Problem solved.

  350. Get some money. We are brilliant, Genesis 3728

  351. says. And they drew Joseph up and

  352. lifted him out of pit and sold him.

  353. They sold their brother to the Ishmaelites for 20 shekels of

  354. silver. They, the Ishmaelites took

  355. Joseph to Egypt. So Joseph is now in Egypt.

  356. Egypt is about 300 miles away from Joseph's home.

  357. That sounds like, well, that's, that's not that far.

  358. It was when you're traveling by foot and camel.

  359. This was Joseph's new home, not by his choice, but because he

  360. had been sold as property. And in Egypt, Joseph became a

  361. servant in the House of a man named Potiphar.

  362. And even by us as a slave, a servant in Potiphar's house,

  363. Joseph stood out. The favor of God in his life was

  364. evident even in this place. And something for us to remember

  365. is that God's favor doesn't exempt us from hard seasons.

  366. God never says, if you follow my plans, everything will be easy.

  367. But God's favor does mean wherever you are, I will make

  368. you shine. My favor will make you stand

  369. out. Genesis 39 couple chapters or

  370. couple chapters after 37. We were in verses 3 and 4.

  371. His master saw that the Lord was with him, and that the Lord

  372. calls all that He did to succeed in his hands.

  373. So Joseph found favor in his sight and attended him, and they

  374. made him overseer of the house and put him in charge of all

  375. that he had. Which brings us to point number

  376. two of five point #2 is God's favor matters more than your

  377. current position? Even though Joseph was a slave,

  378. he prospered because excellence honors God in any environment.

  379. Excellence honors God wherever you are and whatever you're

  380. doing where you are now, including your workplace or

  381. whatever you're doing, can be your platform to give God glory

  382. and honor God. Where you are now may not be

  383. your goal or your final place, but it can still be a meaningful

  384. place to give God glory and honor God.

  385. Where you are now might be a training ground or a proving

  386. ground or a growing ground or a growing season for greater

  387. things God has planned for your life.

  388. Because God often gives us a dream before He gives us a

  389. process. And Joseph didn't wait for a

  390. better place. He used where he was at to honor

  391. God and give him glory. People could see it.

  392. So don't think I can't give glory to God in this season of

  393. my life. We can give God glory that

  394. people will notice and see in any circumstance, any

  395. environment, any season of life that we're in.

  396. So if you don't know the full story of Joseph yet, you might

  397. be thinking this is pretty bad. I mean, he was in with his

  398. family. Now he's in Egypt.

  399. He's a slave in Potiphar's house.

  400. Things can't get worse than this, can it?

  401. It does get worse. The next season of Joseph's life

  402. goes downhill from there. To paraphrase Genesis chapter

    Genesis 39 chapter mention

  403. 39, Potiphar, Joseph's owner, had noticed Joseph.

  404. This guy's sharp. I like him.

  405. He's got the favor of God on his life.

  406. But Potter for his wife, she noticed.

  407. Joseph too, in a different way. She noticed.

  408. Hey, this guy's young. Hey, this guy's good looking.

  409. Hey, this guy's handsome. I'd like to get to know him, if

  410. you know what I mean, she said in Genesis 39, Seven, lie with

  411. me. Come cuddle with me.

  412. Let's just take a nap together. We'll keep it at that.

  413. You can figure it out. We're going to keep this G

  414. rated. But Joseph, being a man of God,

  415. refused. He said no, because it's not the

  416. right thing to do. Joseph was about 20 years old.

  417. Think of yourself at age 20. Joseph was about 20 years old.

  418. But already his integrity mattered more than anything

  419. else, More than short term pleasure, more than the

  420. consequences of not obeying his master's wife.

  421. Integrity mattered to Joseph then and impacted his future.

  422. And integrity matters to our lives today.

  423. Don't think it doesn't. Integrity is what you choose

  424. when no one is watching. Integrity is making the right

  425. choices, especially when no one else will know.

  426. Integrity can be the little things, like returning a

  427. shopping cart to the corral when no one else does and it's July

  428. and it's raining. Integrity is correcting the

  429. cashier who gave you back too much change.

  430. Say no, no, no, you made a mistake.

  431. You gave me too much. Integrity is choosing to do

  432. worse on an exam than you could do if you cheated just a little

  433. bit. Or on our taxes.

  434. The other week my wife and I went camping.

  435. We go camping now, before you're too impressed.

  436. Like we lay under the stars in a pup tent.

  437. We have a Airstream camper with air conditioning and a queen

  438. pillow top mattress and a shower.

  439. But it's our hobby. We love it.

  440. And we made a reservation. We go out every month for

  441. usually two or three nights. We made a reservation.

  442. This is just like March, April, maybe, I don't know.

  443. A couple months ago we made a two night reservation.

  444. Thursday to Saturday. We plan to be back here at

  445. church. That's how we do it.

  446. And we got home Wednesday night from work.

  447. It was like 5:30 and Heather's like just let's go now.

  448. Let's just go. Let's see if let's see if we can

  449. go a day early. So she called and the spot we

  450. had reserved was open and we went a night early.

  451. We went in there and set up. Everything was fine.

  452. But when it was time to leave and check out, no one had said

  453. anything to us yet about coming early.

  454. And Heather said I'm going to go pay for the first night we were

  455. here. And she went to the park manager

  456. and paid for the first night. He said most people wouldn't

  457. bother, I wouldn't have even known.

  458. And she said to him, but that's not the right thing to do.

  459. We would rather pay the cost of camping an extra night then lose

  460. our integrity. It's not worth losing the favor

  461. of God or His blessings for $50.00 or $1,000,000 or any

  462. amount of money. Not easy.

  463. God about God knows God will honor that.

  464. That's honoring God. Potiphar's wife, a different day

  465. said lie with me again, but this time she grabbed Joseph's

  466. garment, his towel, and he ran away and upset, ticked off and

  467. rejected, she called for her husband and said that Hebrew boy

  468. you purchased tried to lie with me.

  469. I'm a victim. He came on to me.

  470. See, here's the clothes he left behind.

  471. Potiphar got upset and he took Joseph straight to prison.

  472. Just like Monopoly, go straight to jail.

  473. Do not pass go, do not collect $200 straight to jail.

  474. Genesis 3920. And Potiphar's master took him

  475. and put him in prison, the place where the King's prisoners were

  476. confined. And there he was there in

  477. prison. Joseph's situation went from

  478. bad, very bad, to much worse, from a servant, a slave in

  479. Potiphar's house to being unfairly put in prison.

  480. But even in prison, Joseph's time there wasn't a waste of

  481. time. Joseph, Genesis 3921 says.

  482. But the Lord was with Joseph in prison and showed him steadfast

  483. love and gave him favor and sight in the sight of the keeper

  484. of the prison. And the keeper of the prison put

  485. Joseph in charge of all the prisoners because the Lord was

  486. with him. And whatever He did, the Lord

  487. made it succeed. If you're honest, be honest with

  488. yourself. Just answer this question to

  489. yourself. Have you ever thought this

  490. wasn't how I was expecting my life to go?

  491. This is a curveball. I didn't see this coming.

  492. This wasn't part of my plan. Which brings us to point #3

  493. delay of the dream doesn't mean denial.

  494. Delay of the dream doesn't mean denial.

  495. A plan not going as fast as you thought it would doesn't

  496. necessarily mean God has given up on that plan.

  497. To say Joseph's dream didn't go like he planned or preferred is

  498. an understatement. But even though it wasn't his

  499. plan or his time and didn't mean God had given up on the dream or

  500. given up on Joseph. And while Joseph was in prison,

  501. he was there for about 10 years. One day something happened.

  502. A Baker and a cup bearer to Pharaoh were put in prison while

  503. Joseph was there. And they met Joseph and Joseph,

  504. who had been unfairly put in prison, they were probably put

  505. there fairly, could have said to them, let me tell you my story.

  506. Let me tell you how bad I've got it.

  507. Let me tell you how unfair my life has been.

  508. But that wasn't Joseph's heart. It wasn't his words, and it

  509. wasn't what he did. What he did was care about and

  510. care for others in the prison. And while the Baker and the cup

  511. bearer were in prison, they had unusual dreams they couldn't

  512. figure out They were upset. Genesis 46 through 8 says when

  513. Joseph came to them, the Baker and the cup bearer, in the

  514. morning, he saw they were troubled.

  515. So he asked, why are your faces downcast today?

  516. They said to him, we have had dreams and there's no one to

  517. interpret. And Joseph said, do not

  518. interpretations belong to God. Tell them to me, Joseph, who if

  519. anyone had the right to complain or have a pity party, it was

  520. him. But he didn't say, let me tell

  521. you about my troubles. He said, tell me about your

  522. troubles. Which brings us to point #4 we

  523. can still serve others even while suffering ourselves.

  524. Ask yourself, do we look for opportunities to bless others

  525. when we're at our lowest or only when when things are going great

  526. in our lives? Do we look to bless others when

  527. we don't feel blessed ourselves? Joseph interpreted the dreams

  528. for the Baker and the cupbearer. For one, it was good news, the

  529. other one, not good news. He told them exactly what would

  530. happen, but he asked the cupbearer for one favor, the one

  531. that would be released soon. He said please don't forget me.

  532. Don't forget me here. When you get out, you're going

  533. to get out. He interpreted the dream to say,

  534. you're going to be soon released, don't leave me here in

  535. prison. Could you put in a good word for

  536. me with the Pharaoh and Get Me Out of here?

  537. But sadly, the cupbearer didn't remember or think of Joseph.

  538. He forgot all about him as soon as his life got back to normal.

  539. Genesis 40 verses 20 to 23 says on the third day, which was the

    Genesis 40:20–23

  540. Pharaoh's birthday, happy birthday, he made a feast for

  541. all his servants. He restored the chief cupbearer

  542. to his position. Yay.

  543. And he placed the cup in Pharaoh's hand.

  544. Yet the cup bearer did not remember Joseph, but forgot him.

  545. Thanks a lot. And how many times are we like

  546. the cup bearer? When we're desperate, when we're

  547. in an emergency, when we're in a crisis, we think of God, we

  548. pray, we go to church, we're on our knees.

  549. But as soon as our lives get back to normal, out of a crisis,

  550. we forget. In Joseph's case, it took two

  551. more years until something happened that jogged the

  552. cupbearer's memory. Pharaoh had dreams he couldn't

  553. interpret. 7 fat cows were followed by 7 skinny cows, and

  554. the seven skinny cows ate the fat cows.

  555. He's like, what's that mean? 7 great ears of corn were

  556. followed by 7 bad ears, stalks of corn, and the seven bad ones

  557. ate the good ones. What does that mean?

  558. He couldn't interpret the dreams, and neither could his

  559. magicians or Matt or or wise men.

  560. But finally the cupbearer was thinking, Who do I know that

  561. could interpret the Pharaoh's dreams?

  562. Do I know anybody? And something clicked.

  563. Oh yeah, I know this guy in jail.

  564. He can interpret your dreams, he remembered.

  565. Better late than never I guess. The cupbearer told Pharaoh about

  566. Joseph. Pharaoh calls for Joseph.

  567. Joseph interprets the dreams to mean that 7 great years of crops

  568. would be followed by 7 years of famine.

  569. And Joseph's advice to Pharaoh was stock up and save during the

  570. good years. So you have enough during the

  571. seven bad years. And Pharaoh chose Joseph to lead

  572. Egypt through that plan. This is Genesis chapter 41,

    Genesis 41:37

  573. verse 37. It said, This proposal pleased

  574. Pharaoh and all his servants. And Pharaoh said to his

  575. servants, can we find a man like this in whom is the spirit of

  576. God? He could see it.

  577. Then Pharaoh said to Joseph, since God has shown you all

  578. this, and there is none so discerning, discerning and wise

  579. as you are, you shall be over my house, and all my people shall

  580. order themselves as you command. Only in its regards to the

  581. throne will I be greater than you.

  582. Verse 46 of Genesis 4146 says Joseph was 30 years old when he

  583. entered the service of Pharaoh, king of Egypt.

  584. Joseph, you will be #2 in all of Egypt, only behind Pharaoh.

  585. I thought about titling this message today, the story of

  586. Joseph the prodigy, to pariah, to Pitt, to Potiphar, to prison,

  587. to prophet, the palace. But that was way too many peace.

  588. But that is Joseph's journey, which brings us to our last

  589. point #5 what we see as punishment might be preparation.

  590. What we see as punishment might be preparation for our benefit.

  591. The Bible tells us when Joseph was sold by his brothers, he was

  592. 17. When he was released from

  593. prison, he was 30. Do the Mass.

  594. That's 13 years. Thirteen of the best years of

  595. our lives. But Joseph didn't waste that

  596. time. He used that time to mature, to

  597. change and prepare. And in our lives, when we go

  598. through seasons we don't understand or that seem unfair

  599. or that make us feel that God has given up on us or doesn't

  600. care about us, we have a choice. We can get mad at God.

  601. We can give up on God or we can ask God, God, what are you

  602. developing me in me here right now through this season that I

  603. would never get or never learn or never change anywhere else?

  604. We don't like going through seasons like that.

  605. We don't like going through hard seasons.

  606. We can say God, thank you even for this season because I know

  607. you are for me and have good plans for me.

  608. We don't like the valleys in our lives.

  609. We like the mountaintops, but things don't grow on

  610. mountaintops. Things only grow in the valleys.

  611. God's not absent when things in life seem unfair.

  612. He's doing good work even then and there, if we let him,

  613. because all things work together for the good of those who love

  614. God. When we are in a pit, it's OK to

  615. say God. I don't know what's going on.

  616. I don't understand why this is happening.

  617. But I do know you are good, and I do know you are for me and

  618. with me. When it looks like God is absent

  619. or God is doing nothing in our lives, God is doing something

  620. and we know it's something good. Amen.

  621. Thanks for joining us today. We hope God is speaking to your

  622. heart through this message. If you'd like to connect with

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