Sermon
I Declare A Thought War!
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Thank you for listening to the river.
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Bend Church podcast Reverb in church exists to lead all people
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to know love and live New Life in Jesus Christ.
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We hope that you enjoy this message.
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We're going into a brand new series and here's what I know
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about this series already. It's for everybody sometimes.
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I'll tell you you like there's something for one person in the
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room or maybe for your wife today or in some of the ladies
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that like, I need something for my husband.
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You need to talk to him Joe. But here's what I'm going to
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tell you this series is for 100% of the people in the room today.
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And here's why every single person has a war going on in
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your mind and see some people are winning the war.
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I don't, I'm not saying everybody's losing some people
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know how to win the war but then there's Some of us and because
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there's debilitating anxiety, depression insecurities
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destructive thought, patterns, even Suicidal Thoughts in the
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deal. Is it's an, if it's not you, it
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may be somebody that you love. And so if you want to know why
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I'm so passionate about this, it's because so many people are
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losing the battle and God says this, you can win say this, I
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can win. Say it.
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Listen declarations are going to be a big part of this series
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because I believe it just is and changing and in fight and
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changing our mindsets and win. The war.
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Let me show you what Jesus says about his people here.
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He says, the thieves purpose is to steal, kill, and destroy, and
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in context, he's actually kind of referring to Satan.
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The enemy comes, and he wants to steal kill, and destroy, and do
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you know where he's succeeding in our world and in the church
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in the battlefields of our mind, stealing killing destroy taking
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things away. But what did Jesus say?
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He says, my purpose is to give them my people a rich and
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satisfying life. Do you?
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You know what that requires that.
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We also have a rich and healthy mind that we have a rich in
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healthy ability to fight and win the war that's in our mind.
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So you didn't know this up front.
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Jesus says you can win and he's giving you the tools to win.
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And so the cool thing about this today, when you walk out, you're
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going to have some tangible tools to go start winning the
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war in your mind. I'm not saying God is not a part
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of it. I'm not saying the holy spirit
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that you can do it without him. What I am saying is because he
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wants us to win, he's going to give us everything we need to.
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Walk out of here and go. I can have a healthier mind.
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I can win that battle that's going on in here and let me give
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you the transforming truth. That's going to kind of guide us
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through this entire series here in Christ.
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So if I am a follower of Jesus, if I change my thinking in
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Christ, I can change my life. Literally, and you go man.
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That sounds way too easy. Joe.
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It's seriously straight from scripture.
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Something I want to show you today.
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See many people, there's a disconnect.
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Do you know why we never get to the true new life change that
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God. God wants us to have us because
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we focus all the time on our Behavior changed.
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My behavior changed my behavior. If I can, hey, don't we want our
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kids to behave? Come on right now and River
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kids. I guarantee send me yells kids a
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little snot-nosed. I'm just kidding.
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Some of those kids are back there and River kids right now
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and somebody's having to say, hey don't eat that, don't do
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that. Change your behavior, you know,
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stop hitting him, stop doing that, and we love doing that.
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We love the kids are here, but I'm just saying, don't sometimes
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you just want your kids Behavior to change, right?
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But if you only focus on Behavior, guess what you miss
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that there's something deeper behind Behavior behind Three
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crazy behavior is a broken thought, pattern is a broken way
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of thinking and so here's what I'm saying in Jesus Christ, you
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change your thinking and your literally change your life,
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you'll be changed. All those things that God wants
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new life for you to him. We have a disconnect, though.
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We think it is just changing our Behavior, but truly loot
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life-changing Christ, new life. It's about a mindset change as
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well. And so this is it self-help
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theology. Change your thinking, change
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your life? You're like, man, I've heard
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that somewhere before. No, it's not my idea, it's not
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even a professional. Sling ideas, actually, God's
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idea, first people. So let me show you what he says
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here. Romans 12:2 us so, dear,
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brothers and sisters, I plead with you to give your bodies to
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God because of all he has done for you, let them be a living
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and holy sacrifice. The kind, he will find
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acceptable. So in the first piece of what
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we're looking at here, he says, I want you to give your life to
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God. I want you to give your life,
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AKA Surrender Your Life to Jesus.
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There are a lot of people in the room.
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You may not be there yet, that's okay.
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But there are several of us here and you came To a place where
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you said, you know what, I'm ready for Jesus, to surrender my
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life to him. I want him to be my boss.
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I want to receive him. I want to receive his new life
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that he has for me. And so this is that part of it.
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Give your life to God. But do you know why there's so
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many Christians that have given their life to God that are still
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not seeing New Life transformation?
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It's because of the next first. He says that this is truly the
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way we worship him. Look at verse 2 though.
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Don't copy the behavior and customs of the world.
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The old word is don't be conformed to the ways of the
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world, but let God transform you.
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Into a new person by changing the way you think, or Renewing?
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Your Mind then you will learn to know, God's will, which is good
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and pleasing, and perfect. See many people give their lives
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to Jesus, but then they get stuck.
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We get stuck. Why is that?
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It's because we leave out verse 2.
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Don't copy the behavior, and customs of the world, no copy
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that instead, change the way, you think, let God change you
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through that. You know, I find a lot of
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encouragement in this this morning.
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This was written 2,000 years ago, nearly Years ago, people
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were struggling with broken thought patterns and don't we
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know today with all the access and all the information we have
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even more ability to have broken thought patterns.
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So in 2023, we have thinking problems.
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There's an old country song. It says, I admit that I have a
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thinking problem. So y'all can't you people here
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you know and talk. Sometimes you just gotta get to
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the place to just say I admit it I have a thinking problem, I
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have a thinking from, you know, as soon as you get there though,
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you can start picking up the weapons that God has given you
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to fight this. War.
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Now here's the thing. I looked past couple of weeks,
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just reading over some statistics and a glance that
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mental illness stats. You know what?
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It tells us we're struggling one in five adults right now in the
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United States, experienced mental illness each year,
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somebody on your row. I mean I'm not saying we're
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stats. I know we all want to think not
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us, not in church but that means on every single Row in here.
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There's somebody wrestling with mental illness and there's no
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Stigma to that. One of the things I hope to do
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through this here is let's remove the stigma and get stigma
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and get healing. Let's go to the counseling,
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let's get involved in and pastoral counseling.
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Let's get ourselves in a place to get whole again, but that's
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crazy. When I look across the room, and
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if you're online today sitting at Oakwood, listen, somebody on
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your row, statistically at least, is wrestling one in 20
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people have serious mental illness.
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That means one person on every two rows in here is really
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wrestling to a point of danger overwhelmed with mental illness,
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fifty percent of the people in the United States.
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In their Lifestyles will be diagnosed with a mental illness
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or disorder. 90% of the people who commit suicide showed signs
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of mental illness, and I would argue that one hundred percent
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of them were in a place of mental unhealth, three-quarters
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of the those who committed suicide.
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Guess what we're men. So, I look around at the men in
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the room and I say, are we struggling that?
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That much? Can we remove the stigma you
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want to know, why your pastors passionate about this?
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I can't imagine one of you men whose God has called, who God
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has a call on your life, in a purpose for your life to get so
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low in broken in your mind that you feel You don't matter
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anymore. I can't imagine a mom in the
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room. I can't imagine a young adult in
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this room. I can't imagine a teenager or
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college student or grandparent getting to the point where they
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feel so low and so worthless and so attack they go, it's not
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worth being here anymore. So if I can just stand in the
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Gap as a pastor and say not on my watch, that's part of this
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whole series. Not on my watch.
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Looking at this suicide. As the 10th leading cause of
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death in the United States, every 100 minutes, a teenager
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dies from suicide. No, not to mention all the
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debilitating anxiety in the variety of other mental
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illnesses. And so this is just me saying
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again, not on our watch church. I've been praying about this for
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a long time since last year about the series.
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And so we will not stand by. I Can't Stand By and Watch the
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church and watch people that I love and Friends lose a war that
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God says, you can win because maybe a counselor told you,
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that's just how you are. You never get over it.
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Maybe a friend told you, that's just.
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Yes, this part of your personality, you'll never be
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able to win that work, as I just look at the Bible.
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Go but but didn't their new life in there.
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A holy spirit that raised Jesus from the dead that lives in us.
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That can change how we think, change?
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How we think, put us back on a healthy path, get some new
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mental processes going. So let me give you the starting
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point for winning today. Here it is.
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I put this in your notes for taking notes.
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If we really want to win, you have to start thinking about
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what you're thinking about. So many times, we just think,
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but we never think about what we're thinking about and I think
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that's what the Apostle Paul is getting out here.
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Let me show you. You what I mean?
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Look at this. Verse again, don't copy the
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behavior and customs of the world, but let God transform you
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into a new person. There's a couple of things to
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point out. Paul said, obviously our
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Behavior as followers of Jesus. Our behaviors should not look
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like those that don't follow. We should we should have hope
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and love and joy that comes only from Christ.
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Not to say there's not good people that don't follow Jesus.
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Not saying that this is really con people to do a lot of good
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things but it's there's a difference in being a Jesus
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follower and just being a person who does get on the He says, we
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should not copy the behavior and customs of the world, don't
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conform yourself to that. So he acknowledged the fact that
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we are tempted to conform our Behavior to other people, but he
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didn't say. So instead conform your behavior
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to the likeness of Jesus, what did he say?
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Let God transform you, let me point this out.
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The transformation were talking about, in our thought process,
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it cannot happen apart from the Holy Spirit and he said that
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again, it cannot happen apart from the Holy Spirit.
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That's why people try and try and try.
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But without the anointing And the spirit of God working.
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It's impossible to truly change into this person.
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God wants you to be, but God will transform you into a new
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person. How by changing the way that you
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think changing the way that you think see, do you know what
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behavior is behavior is the outward showing of how we think?
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Think about it with a child. Do you know why they're selfish?
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You know, why they still toys, you know, where they bite, your
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sip bite their siblings because in their mind, the thought
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process that's mine. I deserve it.
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It's my there's entitlement built into every one of the
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little rug rats. Both of mine that were raised as
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well. Every one of them, it's
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entitlement. The problem is some of us never
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grow out of that way of thinking.
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So you have like forty two-year-old entitled people,
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right? Still biting people spitting on
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people cussing at people? We just learned new words when
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we get older, right? But behavior is the outward
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showing of wrong thinking. See, here's the other piece of
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it. Changing your behavior doesn't
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transform. You, it usually just makes you
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frustrated. Now, I'm not saying that you
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shouldn't. If you see things about
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yourself, Behavior wise, you can make changes, but the Bible is
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actually really clear that just deciding by coming to church.
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You know what, I'm going to change how I'm acting.
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That's actually falls into the devil's trap of thinking.
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You gotta check boxes and do enough good to get to heaven.
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Owen see transformation comes how surrender to Jesus Christ in
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Christ. Then we can change our thinking
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and change our lives. We can bring he'll bring new
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life but you have to focus on our minds and our hearts and let
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God work there. If you ever want to truly be
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transformed from the inside, out that new life version of you.
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Now another way to translate this change the way you think an
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older version says, Renewing Your Mind and this is really
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interesting. Renewing Your Mind is a few
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things about it. I want to point out first, it's
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an ongoing process. SS.
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You cannot come to church. Today, listen to one.
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Message you go, I renewed my mind and now I'm good forever
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whenever Paul was preaching this to the church, the Apostle Paul
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he was saying, renew your mind, constantly constantly being
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God's work. Constantly look at, think about
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what you're thinking about constantly.
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Make sure that you got the right, thought process is going
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on in your head but also it not only means change the way you
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think. It means change the way that you
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perceive things in life. Change the lens that you view
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your life through whenever things happen in your life.
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Whenever thoughts come what lens?
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Are you viewing? Those sure.
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That's what it means. To renew your mind would be to
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take God's truth. His word and allow that to be
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the lens that you filter. I don't filter it through my
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feelings. I don't filter through what
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other people say, not first. I filter it through.
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God, what do you say? What is your spirit leading
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here? So, as you surrender to Christ,
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as Lord changing your thinking becomes a choice that is within
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your power, but here's another deal.
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Well, I got to point out, you will never defeat what you
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refuse to Define. There are some people that are
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in denial. I don't have a problem.
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I don't have an anger problem. Joe.
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It's just, it's just my wiring. I don't have a drinking problem.
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I just like, you know, I just like to get relaxed, you know, I
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don't have a drug problem, I've just got pain in my life.
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There's thing I'm not knocking when you have to use something,
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what I am saying, if you will never Define the problem, you
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will stay stuck in the pattern that you're in right now.
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The bit destructive Behavior cycle that's over and over.
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If you're unwilling to stop and Define it, why don't people do
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this? Why don't we stop?
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And Define the problems in our life is because it's painful,
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it's because it's painful. See many people walk around
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missing, God's best for our lives, living in the feet,
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simply because we're not picking up the tools.
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We won't diagnose the problem. Pick up the tools and start
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fighting How many have you drove here?
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Don't raise your hand with a check engine car, light on in
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your car. This one don't raise your hand.
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See when it comes on for most of us, what we do is we get a
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little picture of our family and slide it over that little area
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in the car and you just keep driving.
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You know what? Check engine light, baby, I'm
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good. But the thing is, when the check
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engine light comes on, guess what?
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There's a problem somewhere, it may be very minor at that point,
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but once the light comes on, if you go, hey, I needed.
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I didn't go get this thing plugged in maybe something
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really small plugged in. They can diagnose it and say,
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oh, you just need, you know, this small little part here
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that'll be seven thousand dollars.
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Here you go. Right, it's the same way in our
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lives. You know why we're doing this
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series? Because I think there's some men
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and women of God, her driving around with the check engine
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light on in their heart and in their mind and then their family
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and in their life and in their dorm room, the check engine
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light is on the check, thought life is, you know, light is on
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right now and you haven't slowed down to Define it.
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Why did, why is it this way? What's going on in my heart?
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Why do I feel this way? What what's happening?
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But as soon as you're willing to let the Holy Spirit, do the hard
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work of searching you and going wide at why is this true?
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Formation is right around the corner.
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I really believe transformation is right around the corner for
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people in the house today, but you gotta get your mind right?
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And so we invite the spirit of God today to search our hearts
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to search our mind so that he can bring change thinking and
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transformation. Listen, there's a war going on
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in our minds and this verse that Paul wrote.
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It's not just about the war in our minds, but I think it
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defines it because you did. You know that that mental
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unhealth and spiritual battle, actually go hand in hand because
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where does the enemy attack you? You, you could argue that.
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He may seem to throw things that you physically, but it's when
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you're laying in bed at night and your mind won't shut off and
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anxiety starts revving up and you either got to grab a drink
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or grab a pill or go smoke. Or you got to lay there and be
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miss. You gotta do something like all
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of that is just going on inside of your head right there.
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In that moment. Let me tell you what happens,
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the enemy capitalizes on that he comes along and he presses and
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says. That's right, you're not good
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enough. That's right.
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You should be scared. That's right.
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That you really are wrong in this situation, you really may
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lose everything and he starts putting He starts in your head
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and it just ramps up. But look what Paul says.
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It's just a reminder of what I think goes on.
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In our head, we are not fighting against flesh and blood enemies.
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Wouldn't be great if we just put on the boxing gloves and just
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battle it out physically for our mind, I would love that like
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beat me up but like, I want to know I've been in the fight
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physically but the harder part is it's not flesh and blood.
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He said this against evil rulers and authorities, let me
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translate demons in the Heavenly Realms and the Unseen, well, we
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fight against Mighty powers in the dark world and against Evil
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spirits in Heavenly places. Doesn't that describe?
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A lot of the battle that goes on in our minds.
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And so this is us today, declaring war.
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If I were to say, one, two, three, four, I declare Thumb
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war. That's right.
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I know you got that Oakwood. I want to change it up a little
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bit today. One, two, three, four.
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I declare a thought War We're going to declare war on those
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Unholy thoughts for any kind of War on those debilitating
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anxiety, thoughts. We're going to declare war on
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the things that keep taking you back to the addiction that
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you're trying to get out of, we're going to declare war.
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You know why? We declare war because we are or
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but before we get to the weapons in the winning, I don't want to
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depress us but I do want to understand how do we get broken.
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What is it that gets us to the place where we can have metal in
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health because there's actually several common things that we
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all Wrestle with what causes mental Brokenness and the you
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the first one here. Starts.
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When your kid childhood influences, now, you can trace
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it back to the Garden of Eden and say, well, sexually sin.
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It's when we chose to do wrong against God.
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That's where you know, a curse was put over all creation,
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that's where people became Sinners.
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But there was somebody that raise you to be like, you are
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And even if you had amazing parents, guess what?
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They weren't. Perfect.
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And even if your parents are great, there's probably some
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other influence in your life that had a negative impact on
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the way. You think, listen, I had great
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parents, my mom and dad were amazing, love them to death.
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But you know what? There were older kids on my
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street and in my neighborhood, there were others in my circle
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of influence, even at church some and they spoke things over
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me. Like this, Joe, you'll never be
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enough. You'll never be big enough.
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You'll never be strong enough. Just Give up.
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I mean, just little thing and usually, you know, it was said
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as a joke, like, just kind of taking a jab at you a little
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bit, but you have no idea what that does to a little mind,
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because they had somebody's a little bit older.
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You got our just cutting up, we're just goofing.
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But as a kid you start taking that to heart and see.
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Here's what I know about me. I have a performer personality
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and so without Jesus, my natural tendency is if I do.
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Well, I feel like I'm worth something if I don't then I feel
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like I'm worth nothing. And so you pair all that
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together and you know what? You get you get a very Keep in
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mind, but you get somebody who's styling about it for years.
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But, you know, the question did have gone through my mind since
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I was literally, since I was a kid and this is painful to dig
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up because I've been going through it.
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So, for so long, the questions like this.
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Am I enough? Not till you guys course I am.
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I'm called by God, but I'm going to preach the word but it can I
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tell you the back story? My mind.
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Am I really enough? Am I good enough?
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Am I smart enough because I look around in the room.
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There's a lot of you guys are way smarter than I am.
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I just don't it. You're way smarter than me, you
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more educated than me and I look around.
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My God. Why do they want to listen to
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me? I'm not smart enough.
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I look at my wife many times and I go a, my husband enough.
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A my dad enough I look at my kids and my daughter-in-laws,
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and I go and my father-in-law enough and my dad enough.
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I look at the church as a whole and I go and my pastor enough
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and if you want to think that the enemy comes sometimes late
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at night and just start pounding on my yes it happens.
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See for much of me though, I've traced it back with the help of
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a good counselor and some mentors in my life.
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I trace it back to things that happened when I was a kid.
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You start thinking wrong, when your kids to listen There are
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many things in your life that you may not have defined it.
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And you're not defeating it because you didn't Define it,
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but it's things that happened to you as a kid.
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You've never actually said, you know what, that's not how God
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wants me to think, that's just how I was taught to think is
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again. So there may be one of the most
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freeing statements of holiday today.
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God wants to free you from how you were taught to think, and
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let you think like a child of God.
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Also another thing that can be biology, just the way you are.
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Some people may say, Hey, Joe, just the way I am, I just
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wrestle with anxiety, you know? There's some truth to that.
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There could be chemical imbalances.
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In our brains, and in our bodies, there can be hormonal
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changes that happen. We know this and listen, just
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because it's not happen to you, don't judge your neighbor, don't
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judge somebody else. They may be going through
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something you've never felt before.
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Stop judging, we're not here to judge.
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When it comes to what other people are feeling, but biology
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can play a part. See some people may be prone to
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be more mentally healthy than others.
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That's not fair. That's just called life.
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That's why we have to lift up people, but there are those
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prone to anxiety, depression and security, mental and help.
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Here's another thing that brings mental and health in our lives.
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Enos and what the Studies have shown is, especially prolonged
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illness. It can be you, or you could be
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caregiving for someone you love. And so, we have to lip up our
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lift, up our family, and friends, and neighbors during
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these times because it is really easy to get to a place where you
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feel like it'll never change. I'm never going to be better.
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I don't have any purpose anymore and then the enemy comes over
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and says you shouldn't even be here anymore.
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Why be here. Let me give you another calls of
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mental and health substance. I just put substance but
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especially substance abuse. Use of alcohol and drugs.
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Now, here's the crazy thing. Every time you feel like you're
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under attack or your minds and healthy got I mean there are
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these things that the enemy wants to say, why don't you just
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numb it out? Why don't you just drink a
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little too much that way. You'll just kind of forget about
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it. You won't feel it.
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You'll just feel Joy. I mean, just go smoke.
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I know you. I know it's bad for you.
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I know you probably want your kids doing that but just go do
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it anyway, man. Because like, you know, that you
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can't you can't handle life without it.
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So just go every time you feel that way, just go smoke.
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Now here's what the research shows though, the things that we
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use to numb the pain or actually like And fertilizer on the
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problem. This is where addictions come
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from many times mental Brokenness, you try to numb it.
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And then next time, guess what? It takes more to nominate and
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then it takes more to numb until you're at a point where you feel
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so low. There's no help.
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This is where Jesus comes in, he can lift you out, he can bring
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you out of that. He can help you get a new
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thought pattern going in your life.
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Here's another cause of mental and he'll trauma.
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I don't know everybody's story, but I guarantee there's people
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in the room and you have something in your past.
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That was That it could even be PTSD at this point that you've
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walked through or still walking through right now.
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It's very real. But it's not just about one big
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event trauma that happens. Did you know that it's been
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proven? Trauma can also be repeated
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abuse, you can even call it. Small abuse repeated, small,
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abusive. You were beaten down verbally
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for a long, long, long time. It's this, it equals the same
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thing in your brain as one big traumatic experience.
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It just leaves you to this place where all of a sudden intrusive
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thoughts would just come over you and you'll feel worthless or
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afraid or fearful and it literally trauma literally can
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break your brain. But here's the good news,
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remember you can win. There's no trauma that can break
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you so badly that you can't find healing in Jesus.
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Here's the last one. I'll talk about.
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And again, there could be a long list.
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I just wanted to kind of unpack these and say, hey, let's remove
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the stigma and just say, everybody in the room is
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impacted by some of these but the last one is self-inflicted
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wounds. Whoo.
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Like, I felt that one deep because I was like, how many
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times have I made decisions that hurt myself and hurt my own
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mind, how many times has my own sin hurt me?
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So I want you to look one more time.
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We're going to get this verse today.
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What Paul says don't do like everyone else does.
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Don't just try to behave like everybody else.
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Don't copy the customs and behaviors of the world, but let
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God transform you into a new person by changing the way you
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think. So we're going to walk through
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this idea over the next few weeks, but I want to introduce
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you, to the whole process. The Lord's really put on my
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heart. The first step to changing the
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way you think is thinking about what you think about that.
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What we've said so far, but winning the war.
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In your mind is this you have to evaluate your thoughts and
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behaviors. Paul said, don't copy the
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behaviors. So you have to not only think
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about your thought life, but where is a broken behavior in
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your life that you know, you need to change once you identify
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the broken Behavior? Here's what you'll find, there's
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a thought process somewhere behind that.
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And so, where is God calling you hire your warning to transform
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you? We have to take time to evaluate
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and again, do you know why we don't evaluate?
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Because it's painful. Because it's painful evaluate
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take time to ask questions, you have to work on yourself and not
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just in the middle of the battle.
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Look what Paul says in 2nd Corinthians.
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He said we destroy our arguments and every lofty opinion raised
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against the knowledge of God and we do what take every thought,
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captive, there's a war sentence for you.
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It wore in my mind, I'm gonna take every thought, captive.
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And I'm going to make my thoughts obedient to Christ.
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You know what, the flip side of this.
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I'm not going to let my thoughts rule my life.
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I'm going to make my thoughts obedience to Christ.
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Christ and my feelings obedient to Christ.
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So how do you evaluate yourself? Let me give you some questions
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and by the way, we're going to put these questions out.
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I didn't have them in the notes are on here today, but over the
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next few days, we're going to put out a guy that has these
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questions for you and so if you can't get them all written down,
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that's okay. But we're gonna get them to you
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both to Gainesville Oakwood. We're going to get this out to
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you. What repetitive destructive
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thoughts. Do you have?
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Think about that for a minute? When you're sitting there out of
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nowhere, what repetitive thought runs in your mind, what
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intrusive thought do you have? And what I mean by that is if
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you do have trauma in your past, you can be doing fine.
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And then all of a sudden, something can trigger you in
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this, intrusive thought comes over you like you're gonna die,
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you shouldn't get in the car. You should never get old flame.
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I mean, it's these things that can just come over you.
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Listen to this question. What negative thoughts are
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triggered by emotions in your life when you feel sad what- or
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destructive thought patterns come up?
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Here's something crazy. But I've seen this is, I've
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counseled people as a pastor, sometimes people even have
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negative thought patterns associated with joy in their
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life. As soon as everything's good,
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like everything's okay. I'm joyful.
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It's a great day but you know what the thought pattern is
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well, something bad's about to happen because every time I've
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ever had peace in my life right around the corner.
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With something bad. You know what that is?
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That's a broken thought pattern. So what does God say?
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I'm working all things together for your good.
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I love you. I have plans for you.
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I purpose for you don't think like that, it's not that hard
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times are not going to come, but I want good for you.
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Here's another question. What sinful thoughts?
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Do you entertain? What Temptations overwhelm your
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thought life? That's evaluating your life.
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Evaluating how you're doing? If you'll take time to answer
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those questions, listen, You'll find Freedom in Jesus in one
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area. Do you know what the enemy
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hates? He hates it.
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When we stop just wanting to feel good about church and we
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start taking action on getting life change, he hates it, do you
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know why the enemy hates it? When you start evaluating what's
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going on in your mind? It's because at that moment
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meant was Wrong hole start breaking down and you start
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taking your thoughts captive and transformation comes you know
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what the enemy hates a transform man or woman of God in Jesus
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Christ. But after you evaluate, here's
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the second piece, you have to do in replace.
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You have to replace the lies with the truth.
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So as you evaluate, you then have to identify.
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What am I believing? This is the great journaling
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process by the way. What am I believing?
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What thought process is there? That shouldn't be there?
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It's always going to be based on a life.
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There's a broken thought process whether it's from the time you
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were a kid till the last week something happened.
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It's always going to be based on a lot.
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So we have to identify lies and then we have to replace the
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lies. With true.
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See it's not just good enough to say.
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I'm not going to believe a lie anymore.
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You have to also say I'm going to start believing the truth.
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You ever thought about this? Where does Ally come from?
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Like you don't have to teach your kids to lie.
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Nobody had to teach me to anyway maybe y'all holy when I was a
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kid. I mean, nobody had to teach me
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to lie. Where do those come from?
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Only show. You what Jesus said he's talking
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to the Pharisees here. So it's kind of getting really
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hard on him. He's like dropping a bomb.
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You're the children of your father, the devil.
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It's pretty strong statement, right?
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And do you you love to do evil things?
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He does. He was a murderer from the
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beginning. His always hated truth because
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there is no truth in him. When he lies it is consistent
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with his character for. He is a liar and where do those
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come from? He's the father of them.
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The devil is the father of Lies so anytime you have a broken
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drop thought process guess what it's based on a lie that the
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enemy has told you somewhere could have come at you, not
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through Satan himself, but through another person but it's
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based on a lie. See, Satan's greatest weapon is
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this lies? Deep, do you know what?
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The good news is about this. He has no new weapons, he has no
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new tactics and he never will. Do you know what he did?
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The first sin was committed because Satan tempted Eve.
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And then Adam failed in the garden.
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Do you know what he did? He lied, but he mixed just
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enough truth in with Ally to wear it sounded okay.
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But what does the scripture say? There's no truth in him.
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He hates the truth. He is the father of Lies.
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The good news is he has no new tactics, we know that he's
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coming at us with lies. Therefore, we can prepare to win
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our greatest weapon against the lies.
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It's the truth of God's word. The truth of God's word.
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Say here's the deal. If you believe the lie that you
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are not enough then, guess what you will live as though you're
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not enough. Let me speak to all the women in
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the house for a moment. If you believe the lie that you
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were not enough, you will continue to live as though
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you're not enough, even though God says your chosen your minds
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your redeemed, you are worthy. Let me speak to the men in the
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room for a moment. Maybe life is beating you down?
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Maybe it's your fault. Maybe it's somebody else's
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fault. If you live as though, you are
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not with, if you believe in your mind that I'm not really worthy,
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then guess what you will live as though, you're not worthy.
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Let me speak to the addicts in the house who love Jesus but
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you're still struggling or maybe you don't love Jesus yet maybe
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you're not surrender but your stroke if you don't believe you
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can beat Addiction in Jesus name, you never will.
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I'm not saying that you don't need help and counseling and
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rehab and you don't need small. Group community in God's word,
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you need all the tools but I'm just saying if you believe I can
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never beat that and guess what? You probably never will.
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If you don't believe that you can be forgiven because the I
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know some of you like me, you gotta pass.
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How many of you got a pass? Come on Oakwood.
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If you got a pass, the enemy will come along and say you can
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never be forgiven and if you believe that you will live in
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Shane for the rest of your life, Here's the saddest part.
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There are some followers of Jesus who have given their lives
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to him and still live in shame every day.
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If you don't think you can be transformed by Christ, then you
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won't pick up the weapons. He's giving you the live New
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Life by the spirit. Let me give you a powerful
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truth. This actually came from a book.
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I read from Pastor Craig groeschel on the subject.
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If you believe a lie that lie will impact your life is those
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true. Thought about that when I
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believe lies about me when I believe I'm not worthy all of a
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sudden I live as though, I'm not worthy when I believe that I'm
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not good enough to pass through this church.
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Guess what? I started making decisions like
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I'm not good enough to pass through this church I believe I
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can't be a good enough father guess what?
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I start making decisions as though See, once you thought
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something enough times, especially alive.
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Do you know what it creates in our lives?
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It creates a rut in our brain. Literally that's my country boy
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term for a neural pathway. All right.
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I would never use that word in the sentence.
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But rut I know it'll run is neuropath way.
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I know what it is to get your mind in a rut, and you can't get
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out of it, but it's called scientifically a neuro pathway
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see when she thought a negative thought over and over and over
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again, and maybe it's been reinforced in your life.
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Let me give you an example somewhere along the way.
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Somebody told you when you're a kid, you're not enough for your
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parents made, you feel like that and then you made a bad grade at
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school and the teacher said, you know what, you're not smart and
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then you tried out for the basketball team and you didn't
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make the basketball team coach said, hey, you're not good
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enough. And then you ask the girl on the
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date. Finally, and she I said no and
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that told you again rejection. You're not good enough.
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You know what you believe after a while there's a trench in your
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brain that the rest of your life.
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I'm not good enough. I'm not good enough.
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I've tried it, I'm not good enough but here's the beauty.
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Did you know that lie? Ruts can be replaced with truth
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trenches. You can actually physically
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change and rewire your brain to where your natural throat
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process. I can do this because the Christ
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I can do all things through Christ.
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Who strengthens me? So we can literally change remap
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our brains. Its Fizz is scientifically
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mapped out now. And again there's a lot of words
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I had in my first set of notes and I'm like I can't pronounce
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that so I can't say it to you but here's what I will tell you
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truth, trenches can literally take the place of lie.
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Ruts, you ever been four wheeling before.
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I'm going to help my country boy Roots again here. see if
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somebody went through a mud hole before you and a truck that was
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bigger than yours, You know what you got to do?
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Stay out of the ruts. You know why?
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Because once you fall off in a rut that you can't get out, I
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mean, you were either stuck. Are you gonna have to follow
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that rut all the way through the mud hole?
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So many of us in our brains, we fallen off in the Rut like a mud
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hole and we can't get out. We're just spinning our Wheels
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right now, same little track, all the way down.
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Here's the good news. We can replace lie, ruts with
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truth, trenches and God's word gives us hope of that.
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Change the way you think, the Holy Spirit has given you power
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to get out of the rut establish, a new trench of thinking?
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A true trench of thinking, see it's an ongoing process here.
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But here's the third part of it, we must then, establish you got,
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evaluate your thoughts, you gotta replace lies with truth,
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but you can't stop here. Honestly, this is what can
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happen on a Sunday morning. Sometimes you can be sitting out
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there thinking, man. He's right, there's a broken
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thought process I'm evaluating right now in church and you know
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I need to get some truth from God's word to replace that lie
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with. But then we walk out of here and
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guess what life is you and your wife getting a I don't know, way
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home, you're not speaking. You kids are, you know, beating
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each other in the back seat, you get home and you get the bills
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out of the out of the other, you know, out or you get a phone
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call collections calls, you get right there and then at that
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moment you think you know what you're not worthy, you're not
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worth it, you'll never be it comes right back on you.
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Again, this is the part where you were going to have to work
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over the next four weeks. If we want to see
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transformation, establish these true trenches, it's not a one
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and done. This is why you can't just make
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up your mind to change. And and we Fall.
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Right back many times. You have to renew your mind that
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ongoing process letting the Holy Spirit and God's true change.
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How you think and what and perceive what's going on around
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you thinking establishing new thinking habits?
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Here's something amazing that I found it.
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I studied this. Do you know what the weapons to
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establish, true? Trenches are like to establish
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them obviously being in God's word every day.
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Simply what it means to follow Jesus.
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Just like I'm going to read God's word every day.
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I'm gonna get my Bible app out instead of scrolling Facebook.
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First, I'm going to open up you version.
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I'm going to start reading scripture over my life.
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First thing, I'm going to open my bible at the table.
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I'm going to read that God's word is a weapon to start.
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Forming a new true trench prayer is a weapon.
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Christian Community, is a weapon that God has given us being in
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church together. Worshiping there's something
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powerful about rewiring your thinking being around other
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people who are going to lift you up instead of pushing.
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Down pull you out. Instead of pushing you back
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where you came from? Listen, that changes everything.
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And so, renewing our mind in Christ.
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It's actually just following Jesus.
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Just being a follower of Christ. Now, you may need a counselor,
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sometimes we may need medication.
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Listen, you may need help, you may need mentors.
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You may need a small group is just pour into you.
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But who knew the daily practices of changing?
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Our thinking habits is literally just daily Walking With Jesus.
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I thought about it. You ever been to some of you did
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this in January. You haven't been to the gym all
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year, but then in January, like, I'm going to change my health
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and you went to the gym. How did you feel the next day?
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Terrible? Right, there's somebody I Greg
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on our staff. I remember he went to the gym
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the first time he was like, I'm tapping out matters to our, he
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finally got back in there, he's like, but he pushed through it
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when I first started going back to then.
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Just guess what? You hurt all over.
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This is how it is with changing out.
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The way that we think at first, it hurts all over, but then,
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eventually time after time, you just keep going.
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And Day by day, and you get stronger, and stronger than that
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new way of thinking takes over. And remember, you got a holy
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spirit, super power, that's going to help you with this, but
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there's actually one more step that I've got to point out today
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and that's this once we've established it.
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Okay, I'm establishing this, I'm going to start declaring it.
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This may be the most powerful piece declare the truth over
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your life until you believe it can see.
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For some of you I can look at you and I can say, you know,
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that God says that he has a good Plan for your life and you hear
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that and it kind of impacts how you think for a second.
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But then your old thought process takes back over again.
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But the next week when I see, you know, I always say you
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matter so much because you don't believe it.
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Sometimes you come in, not believing it.
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And so I come up again and I say, you know what Oakwood you
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matter I look at the people here in Gainesville, you know what,
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watch it. We have so many faithful one
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reporter Riverbend that watch online.
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I look at you and I say you matter, you know why?
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Because you get so beaten down. You don't believe it.
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But every time somebody else says, it to you, every time you
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say, it out of your mouth, you know what I do matter in Jesus
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name, all of a sudden, a new trend starts getting cut in your
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mind and eventually you'll start living in such a way.
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And so we have to evaluate replace establish and declare.
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Now we talked about this idea before, but look what Jesus
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said. It's not what goes into your
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mouth that defiles you your defiled by the Words that come
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out of your mouth. Check this out.
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You often think that your words are just impacting other people,
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but guess whose ears also hear the words?
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You say, you do. In Jesus name, the truth of
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God's word spoken from our mouths.
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Literally can change how we think make a declaration over
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your life. Speak truth until you believe
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it. Hopefully do this process.
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Some of you guys are going to write a sentence.
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That's a declaration that you need replace the lie with truth.
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Start establishing a new way of thinking about your life about
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your spouse, about finances, about the addiction you wrestle
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with about the piece in your piece of you, you want to see
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transformed by Christ, start thinking differently, but this
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start declaring God's word over it just speak it over you.
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Instead of saying I am not enough you can say in Christ.
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I know that I'm enough. I have a Hard time with that.
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I have a hard time saying. I am enough still to this day
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because they're still old rut in my brain up here.
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They want to go down that path. I used to go down but eventually
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you come to the point. Go ahead.
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It's not about me. I'm not being prideful, I'm just
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saying Jesus died for me. He thought I was that valuable
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as to die for me. So I must have some value right
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in him. So I say, I am forgiven, I'm a
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Child of God, I do have purpose, I can change because Jesus said,
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I can, I can start over. Or because the mercy of the Lord
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is new every morning, I am free in Christ.
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There's no sinner bondage that can hold me back.
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I'm a new creation. I am loved.
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Do you hear how even just reading those things over the
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room, like lifts the room today? Listen, the bottom line is, we
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begin the stalwart journey journey today is this.
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We're going to walk in deeper in these in the next few weeks.
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But for you, is it time to start thinking about what you're
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thinking about, do you need to declare thought were so you can
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start winning in Jesus name Church?
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It is time to fight. I'm so tired of people thinking
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that hope is a battle tactic. We talked about Hope and
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projecting hope we do. We have hope in his name is
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Jesus. He's the anchor for our souls.
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I know all that. But listen if you hope and you
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don't fight, you're going to lose.
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You can't just hope. You've got to actually say, I'm
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at War, I'm declaring, thought war, and I'm ready to win it in
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Christ. I'm going to change my thinking
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and let him change my life. So, I'm going to ask you both
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here in at Oakwood. Just a couple of difficult
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questions. Are you wrestling in your mental
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health today? And in your thought processes,
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you may not even see it as mental unhealthy.
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You may just see it as I just got some broken thought
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processes in my brain. How I think about myself, how
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think about the world around me? And the second question is this,
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are you really ready to do was going to take to get
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transformation? So you may be for you today, may
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be watching online maybe at Oakwood today.
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If you are at a place where you've never surrendered your
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life to Christ, then you're fighting alone.
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That's why I say you can take all these.
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You can take these steps and you can apply them to your life.
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But without surrender to Jesus, you're missing the superpower
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which is the spirit of God that helps you.
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The lifts you up that empowers you to make a change?
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He is the life change. He is the new life inside of you
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and so maybe the first step to winning the war in your mind is
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Just Surrender Your Life to Jesus and say Today.
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Jesus, I'm ready to surrender. My life is yours.
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My life is yours, but I do want to ask you.
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Today to respond with your feet. So in just a moment, I want to
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ask this both here in at Oakwood to stand up and as I asked us to
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stay in. Here's what I want you to do a
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bold declaration and say Joe, I need somebody to declare some
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truth and some hope over my life today I'm ready to start the war
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but here's what the Lord led me to end with today whether you
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just surrendered your life to Christ or you're already a
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Christ follower or you just want this decoration spoken over you
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in Christ. If you change your thinking you
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can change your life but I think it's gonna take a bold and
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courageous step. Someone asks you to come down
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here. That's you in just a moment
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Oakwood. I'm gonna ask you to push your
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way to the front and I'm going to declare God just kind of led
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me to write down some words and I want to read it, but I want to
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declare it over you today because I believe what it, what
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if this is the first step is somebody else.
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Because maybe, you don't even believe you can win, but I do.
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And so I wanted to clear it over you today.
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Here's what I asked us to do, if that's you and you go Joe.
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I'm wrestling in my mind. I need somebody to declare it
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over. Listen, remove the stigma, who
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cares? We're not talking about what
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you're wrestling with, it can be brand-new or and old thing.
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But what if the first step is you getting honest with God.
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Thinking about what you're thinking about and let's start
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declaring hope over it today. So here's what I want to do on
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the count of three, I'm going to say standing as you stand.
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I want you to come both here in Oakwood one, two, three, come
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on, stay and come on down here right now, if that's you, I want
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you to crowd in as close as you can.
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Come on down here. Come on right here y'all.
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Come on over. Yes, come on Oakwood.
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Come on down, right here to the front right now.
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Thank you for your obedience. Y'all crowd in right here.
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Come on. I'm gonna give you a minute,
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don't wait. If the if the if the Lord's
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already spoke to your heart, you already felt like that drawing.
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I want you to come on down here, come on right here to the front.
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Come around me right here. It's okay.
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There's nothing's gonna bite right here in the front.
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Come on down, waiting on you. Come on Oak Wood, right here to
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the front on down here. Here's what I want you to do
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during the room today. I want you to help me and just
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pray for the people that are here because I'm tell you guys,
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I'm proud of you because this is a bold step to get out of your
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seat and come here you guys at Oakwood.
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I'm proud of you because it's hard, it's not easy Bears.
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Don't want you to do. If you're here, I want to ask if
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you feel comfortable with it, you know, close your eyes, and I
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want you to listen to the words, I want to speak over you today.
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In Christ, you are enough. No matter what addiction or
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regret or past sin or Brokenness?
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You've come here with in Jesus Christ, you are forgiven and
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free. If you feel like a loser, you
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are a winner in Christ. If you feel defeated, you are a
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Victor in Christ. If you feel like your life is
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not worth living, you have a God who stepped out of Heaven.
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His name is Jesus Christ. He thought your life was so
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valuable that he went to the cross for you, he has purpose
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for you. If you feel like you miss the
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opportunity in the past, your life isn't over your serve.
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A God, who says your story isn't over?
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Jesus can redeem time and make something out of nothing.
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The mercy of the Lord is new every morning, over your life,
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you're gonna go to sleep tonight and God's Mercy is gonna hit you
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brand-new in the morning. No matter how broken you come to
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him today, whether your thoughts are broken, whether you have
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mental illness, whether you just been beaten down by life.
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For too long listing, you are loved.
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You are valuable you matter and today is a new day as you
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surrender your life to Jesus today.
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As you make this bold declaration to get out of your
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seats, we Proclaim as your friends, as your brothers and
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sisters, you can change your thinking, Let Jesus change your
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life. May the Lord set you free today.
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In Jesus name and everybody said, amen.
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Can we just give the Lord a hand for what he's doing today?
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Thank you, guys. I'll let you all be seated and
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Oakwood. You can be seated, come on,
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stand up together unless worship together as we close this time
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out today. We declare war.
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Thank you for listening to the Riverbend Church podcast.
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Learn more about who we are as a church and how to connect you
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can head over to our website Riverbend Church dot life.