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The God of Second Chances | Jonah: God's Mercy In My Mess (Part Four)

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  1. Thank you for listening to Riverbend Church's podcast.

  2. To find out more about this message or Riverbend Church,

  3. connect with us online at Riverbend Church dot live.

  4. We've been walking through a series called God's Mercy in My

  5. Mess. It's through the book of Jonah

  6. and the the the main truth or what we call the big idea of

  7. this series is kind of embedded in the title of the series,

  8. right? But if you're new to the series

  9. or even if you're not new to the series, I want to get you to jot

  10. this down. If you're taking notes with us,

  11. it's on the back of your bulletin.

  12. Or if you're using the app, the the River been app, the notes

  13. are there too, but it's just the overall reminder.

  14. Hey, listen, God's mercy is greater than my mess.

  15. God's mercy is greater than my mess.

  16. And one of the things we keep coming back to is that promise

  17. that truth comes with no fine print, no exception clause.

  18. It doesn't matter who you've been, where you've been, what

  19. you struggled with, what you may still be struggling with.

  20. It doesn't matter the, the severity or the longevity or the

  21. complexity of your mess, God's mercy is still greater than that

  22. mess. And I think that we would all

  23. agree online or in the room that we're no stranger to messes,

  24. right? Like we've all had our fair

  25. shares of, of finding ourselves in a mess or, or, or being in a

  26. mess from somebody, somebody else's making or making our own

  27. mess, right? I want to tell you a quick story

  28. about a huge, huge mistake. I'm not saying that I'm a smart

  29. man now, but I hopefully make less stupid mistakes as I get

  30. older. Julie and I, we started dating

  31. in in college our first year, freshman year of college.

  32. Now, all through high school, I dated this this, this this one

  33. particular girl. And we thought that we could

  34. just still be friends. This one girl that I dated,

  35. Spoiler alert, that's not how it works.

  36. All right, keep that in mind. So one day I'm, I'm talking to

  37. this girl that I used to date through high school and I I'm

  38. telling her about Julie and I'm telling her about how incredible

  39. Julie is and how much I like Julie and, and this girl she,

  40. she has this idea. She goes, hey, why don't I would

  41. love to meet her. So why don't like you and her

  42. and, and and me and my friend like we all go on a double date

  43. together at Six Flags and I thought, man, that's a great

  44. idea and we'll have a lot of fun together.

  45. Spoiler alert, It was not a great idea.

  46. And we did not have really a lot of fun because what I didn't

  47. realize is the four of us are driving from Gwinnett County

  48. down to Six Flags. And what a joy that conversation

  49. was. But then all throughout the day

  50. at Six Flags, this girl that her and I used to date, she decided

  51. to play this game called Ben. Remember when dot, dot, dot.

  52. Yeah, you know where this is going?

  53. Spoiler alert again. I've already said I was stupid.

  54. All right. So anyway, after the day, like

  55. we go home, I'm driving Julie home and it hits me like the

  56. weight of all of my stupidity hits me in an instant to where I

  57. unintentionally and, and accidentally, man, I was stupid.

  58. And, and that that was that was even like cruel and insensitive.

  59. And I thought for sure, man, she is going to dump me.

  60. Julie's going to dump me. Well, I don't know if if God the

  61. Holy Spirit really spoke to her and said, listen, you were

  62. justified in dumping this idiot, but please don't.

  63. But she didn't dump me. I'm so thankful for that.

  64. Now here's the thing. You may laugh, but you if you

  65. think through some of the stupid things that you've done that

  66. like you look back on and cringe, you probably don't want

  67. to share it from a stage either. But you do have my permission.

  68. If you're married or you're dating in here, you can look at

  69. your husband or your wife or your boyfriend or your

  70. girlfriend and you can look at them and say, wow, I have done

  71. some stupid stuff in my life that I have felt really bad

  72. about, but I haven't done anything that dumb.

  73. I thought, I thought that it was over.

  74. I thought that it was completely over and isn't it true that a

  75. lot of times on the backside of our really bad decisions on the

  76. backside of our really bad choices, that we we can believe

  77. a lie about God. It's actually a very commonly

  78. believed lie. If you're taking notes with us,

  79. I want to show you, Oh, by the way, flash that picture back up.

  80. This is this is AI. That is not me.

  81. That guy looks a lot happier than I was.

  82. All right, we can go to the next one.

  83. Here's the lie that we believe if you're taking notes with us.

  84. My past choices, fears, and resistance to God.

  85. They've condemned me to live a lesser than life.

  86. You ever thought that? That your past choices, your

  87. past decisions, your past resistance to God, the results

  88. of those have condemned you to live a lesser than life.

  89. And one of the things that I want to show you this morning

  90. going back into the book of Jonah together, is that is a lie

  91. that is so easy for us to believe, but there's a truth

  92. that God wants us to see this morning.

  93. If you have a Bible with you, I want to ask that you join me in

  94. Jonah chapter 3. Jonah chapter 3.

    Jonah 3 chapter mention Jonah 3 chapter mention

  95. Actually, we're going to be picking it up, the last verse in

  96. Jonah chapter 2. While you're making your way

    Jonah 2 chapter mention

  97. there, let me kind of give you an overview of where we've been.

  98. There's a man by the name of Jonah who was a prophet or a

  99. chosen spokesman for God. So God would give His word to

  100. Jonah. Jonah would then spread that

  101. word to the people what God's instructions would be.

  102. God called this prophet to leave his hometown in Israel to travel

  103. to modern day Mosul, Iraq, which was the capital city of the

  104. Assyrian Empire. Nineveh.

  105. And these were some bad, bad, evil people in Nineveh.

  106. Jonah essentially said Nope, not going to go.

  107. So instead of going 500 miles east to Nineveh, he hopped a

  108. ship. He booked a cruise down in down

  109. in the seaport of Joppa and he tried to sell 2500 miles West to

  110. Tarshish, which is modern day Spain.

  111. God of course, got his attention and brought a huge, huge storm

  112. on the sea to where the sailors of that boat ended up tossing

  113. Jonah overboard. Jonah was then swallowed by a

  114. great fish, lived in that fish, the belly of that fish for three

  115. days, three nights. That's where we went last week

  116. and we talked about the overall grace of rock bottom.

  117. So after Jonah chapter 2, Jonah chapter 2 ends with such a

    Jonah 2 chapter mention Jonah 2 chapter mention

  118. great, such a great verse down in verse 10.

  119. This is what it says and the Lord spoke to the fish and it

  120. vomited Jonah out upon the dry land.

  121. Not sure if you have that underlined or highlight in your

  122. Bible, but so appetizing to start our morning with right

  123. vomited Jonah out on dry land. Then the word of the Lord came

  124. to Jonah the second time saying arise, go to Nineveh, that great

  125. city and call out against it the message that I tell you.

  126. So Jonah rose and went to Nineveh according to the word of

  127. the Lord. Now Nineveh was an exceedingly

  128. great city, 3 days journey in breath.

  129. And that's where we're going to leave off this morning.

  130. Next week we're going to pick it up of where Jonah goes further

  131. into the city and his message to the people of Nineveh.

  132. But here's the thing, if you're new to the series or you're new

  133. to the whole narrative or the events or life of Jonah, that's

  134. what you need to know. This was the second time that

  135. God called Jonah. This is the second time that God

  136. called Jonah. For example, if you look in your

  137. Bible and Jonah chapter one, verse 2, it says arise, go to

  138. Nineveh. This was God speaking to Jonah.

  139. Arise, go to Nineveh, that great city and call out against it for

  140. their evil has come up before me.

  141. That's Jonah chapter one, verse 2.

  142. Jonah chapter 3, verse 2. The second call was this.

    Jonah 3:2

  143. Arise, go to Nineveh, that great city and call out against it.

  144. The message that I, I tell you almost identical almost.

  145. And we'll get to the we'll get to the nuanced difference there

  146. in just a moment. But here's what I need you to

  147. understand is Jonah, just like he faced a choice, whether it be

  148. obedient to God or to be disobedient to God.

  149. The first time that God called him, he faced the same choice.

  150. He faced the same choice the second time.

  151. You see, the first time that God called Jonah, Jonah said, Nope,

  152. not going to do it. I'm going to book a cruise down

  153. to Tarshish, over to Tarshish. And then God got his attention

  154. in the belly of a whale being swallowed and living in the

  155. belly of a whale for three days, three nights.

  156. And then after Jonah's on the beach after being vomited up by

  157. this fish, he still gets a second choice or a second

  158. chance. God invites him into a second

  159. chance. God invites him into a calling

  160. that looks almost identical, essentially identical to the

  161. first calling. But I need you to understand

  162. that here we are in 2026 going, well, of course Jonah would go

  163. into Nineveh like that's a no brainer.

  164. But I need you to understand is Jonah experienced 3 enemies to

  165. God's invitation to a second chance.

  166. The same three enemies that you and I face when it comes to us

  167. embracing the second chances that God extends to us.

  168. If you take your notes with us, here's the first of the three,

  169. three enemies of second chances. It's pride.

  170. It's pride. Now if you'll do me a favour,

  171. think of pride almost like a coin.

  172. On one side of that coin is is arrogance.

  173. On the other side of that coin is insecurity.

  174. Pride being the coin, pride is really being thinking way too

  175. much of ourselves. Pride is that part of us that,

  176. that that is all about us, right?

  177. So pride is, is that voice that basically tries to excuse away

  178. the, the, the past choices and fears and resistance that, that,

  179. that we have mounted against God over our journey, over our time.

  180. So, so pride would, would, would try to convince us that, hey,

  181. those past choices that you made, those past sinful choices

  182. that you made, they, they weren't really that big of a

  183. deal. You just you, you just did what

  184. everybody else does. It is downplaying it.

  185. Pride will try to convince you, hey, that that past resistance

  186. or, or those past fears, it wasn't that wasn't really a fear

  187. of God. That wasn't really a fear of

  188. stepping out into what God has for you.

  189. It was just something that like it was just kind of cloudy.

  190. It was just kind of murky. It's not that big of a deal for

  191. that past resistance to God. Hey, that wasn't full on

  192. resistance against God, That that was just more of a

  193. misunderstanding. You see, pride will always keep

  194. us from trying to it will keep us from even the notion of

  195. needing a second chance. That's the that's the side of

  196. pride that is arrogance. The side of pride that is, that

  197. is insecurity. Is this like is this notion I'm

  198. no good, I'm not worthy of this? Like God can never use me.

  199. I'm not, I'm not good enough at all.

  200. Listen, pride, pride will always lie to you.

  201. Pride has a way. Have you ever noticed that our

  202. personal pride always has a way of downplaying our struggles and

  203. our failures while exaggerating our victories and our strengths?

  204. Listen, pride will lie to you every single time, but here's my

  205. here's my challenge to you. If you're struggling with pride

  206. this morning, if you're hearing that whisper of pride this

  207. morning going, hey, listen, you don't really need a second

  208. chance from God. You're you're good.

  209. Like especially compared to the person sitting next to you.

  210. They're a really bad person. Not you don't Amen that I get

  211. really awkward. You don't need a second chance.

  212. But let me ask you a question. If just for a moment.

  213. Could you consider the possibility that over the course

  214. of life you've made some mistakes and some missteps and

  215. that you do need a second chance that God is extending?

  216. Could you tune out that voice of pride for just a moment, maybe

  217. to consider that God is extending to you and inviting

  218. you into a second chance? And there in that second chance,

  219. you will find God's mercy and His grace.

  220. You will find God's purpose and significance for you.

  221. You're not going to find judgement.

  222. You're not going to find condemnation, but you've got to

  223. tune out that voice of pride. The first enemy to US stepping

  224. into the second chances that God offers us is pride.

  225. Second enemy, and this is a really powerful one, is shame is

  226. shame. Shame is that overwhelming

  227. feeling of guilt and heaviness and weightiness in almost tags

  228. and titles that we wear based off of past actions or in

  229. actions. And I would say that shame

  230. probably comes in two, two prominent forms, and both of

  231. these forms are equally debilitating and destructive for

  232. us. The first form that shame takes

  233. on are the tags and titles that other people give us.

  234. You may be coming in here this morning or join us online this

  235. morning. And A tag and title that

  236. somebody has given you based off of your past choices or fears or

  237. resistance to God is, hey, you're just an addict.

  238. You've had your chance. You just all what?

  239. You always mess everything up. You're disqualified.

  240. There's no hope for you. That is the first form of shame.

  241. The second form of shame is the tags and titles and the labels

  242. that we place on ourselves is how we talk to ourselves, is how

  243. we address ourselves. It is how we look at ourselves.

  244. It's saying things and thinking things about us like I'm just a

  245. screw up. I'm hopeless, I'm unlovable.

  246. God's done with me. That that's that.

  247. That's shame. Can I tell you this if mentally,

  248. if you were kind of living in the in the neighborhood of other

  249. people's opinions about you, what somebody may have said

  250. about you, the tags are the labels of shame that God, that

  251. that those people have placed on you.

  252. God hasn't placed those labels on you.

  253. You see, as a matter of fact, God has.

  254. God has called you a son or daughter of the most high.

  255. God has called you fearfully and wonderfully made.

  256. God has called you his masterpiece.

  257. Or if you live in the gated community of of maybe the tags

  258. and the titles and the labels that that you place on yourself.

  259. And this kind of goes back to that, to that second side of the

  260. coin of pride of insecurity. Can I tell you this?

  261. Like what you may be referring to yourself as God's never

  262. referred to you that way. Can I tell you this?

  263. Let me kind of set you free. Your worst mistakes, my worst

  264. mistakes. They don't get to name you.

  265. They don't get to name us. We are named by our Creator, by

  266. our author. But as long as we keep living up

  267. underneath the tags and the titles and the labels that other

  268. people have placed on us, or maybe the tags and the titles

  269. and labels that we've placed on ourselves, we will always settle

  270. for far less than what God invites us into.

  271. That's why shame is such a such a crucial and such a

  272. debilitating enemy to the second chances that God extends to us.

  273. But then there's a third enemy that he extends to or that that

  274. comes against that extension. And that's the enemy of fear.

  275. It's the enemy of fear. It's the enemy of God.

  276. I'm fearful. I'm fearful of what other people

  277. may think. I'm fearful of what other people

  278. may say. I'm fearful that I don't have

  279. what it takes. I'm fearful of failure.

  280. I'm fearful of just falling on my face.

  281. I'm fearful if I walk in obedience to you, God, I'm

  282. fearful of everything that is going to cost me.

  283. What you're going to call me to walk away from and what you're

  284. going to call me to pick up and carry on.

  285. It is fear. And here's what I would tell

  286. you. Fear is always like pride and

  287. shame. Fear is always a liar.

  288. Not to RIP off the Zach Williams song, but it's true.

  289. Fear is always a liar. Have you ever noticed that fear

  290. will always, always point your attention to and cast the vision

  291. of worst case scenarios? Have you always noticed that

  292. fear always can cast a vision for all the many things that

  293. could go wrong? Fear will never cast a vision to

  294. all the things of how your life could be different.

  295. It's really interesting. Fear promises.

  296. It fears this notion that promises to protect us from us.

  297. But what fear actually does is fear prevents us from stepping

  298. into all that God is inviting us to step into.

  299. Fear will keep us away from second chances.

  300. And you see this playing out in the life of Jonah all the time,

  301. all throughout the four chapters of the book of Jonah.

  302. You see, Jonah could have easily thought, you know what?

  303. I'm going to stick to my guns. I'm going to stick to my guns.

  304. I said, I'm not going to Nineveh.

  305. I'm not going to go to Nineveh. I'm going to be true to myself.

  306. And in essence, he could have allowed, he could have allowed

  307. pride to win the day. Jonah could have allowed shame

  308. to win the day by saying, man, I blew it.

  309. Not I not only blew it, but I like blew it big time.

  310. Like what kind of prophet of God am I that I ran away from the

  311. call of God and I actually put in danger the life of an entire

  312. ship's crew and I I can't be used by God.

  313. What kind of prophet am I? And in so doing, he would allow

  314. shame to win the day or he could have allowed fear to win the day

  315. going God. I don't know what to say to

  316. these people in Nineveh. God, you're, you're aware that

  317. these people kill other people just by the way they look.

  318. What do you think they're going to do to somebody that actually

  319. calls them out and tells them that God's going to destroy

  320. them? And he could have allowed fear

  321. to win the day. He could have allowed fear to

  322. win the day, but thank God he didn't.

  323. Thank God he, he didn't. You see, the lie that we often

  324. believe is our past choices, our past fears, our past resistance

  325. to God condemns us to live a lesser than life.

  326. But I want to show you the truth that God wants to show us this

  327. morning. Here it is.

  328. Here's the truth. God is not finished with me.

  329. He not only wants me to live life to the fullest, but He also

  330. desires to use my story for His glory.

  331. God is not finished with me. Listen, we could spend all day

  332. unpacking that statement. We won't, but we could.

  333. We could spend all day unpacking that statement.

  334. Listen, God's not finished with you.

  335. He who began a good work in you is faithful to complete it until

  336. the day of Christ Jesus. God does not abandon His

  337. children. God's not finished with you.

  338. God desires. He not only wants you to live,

  339. He wants you to live life to the fullest.

  340. That promise still stands on the other side of our mistakes and

  341. missteps and sins. Check this out.

  342. He desires to use my story for His glory.

  343. Even the broken and the messy parts can be repurposed by God.

  344. So here's the question for us. What do we need to do to drop

  345. the lie and embrace that truth? I think it's going to involve at

  346. least three heart to mind shifts within us, taking notes with us.

  347. Here it is. I must decide that God's grace

  348. is greater than my pride, my shame, and my fear.

  349. I must decide that God's grace is greater than my pride, my

  350. shame, and my fear. Can I get you to do an exercise

  351. with me? Let's kind of take it out of the

  352. realm and we'll we'll jump back into Jonah, but let's put it

  353. kind of in the personal realm this morning.

  354. Can I ask you to think, just take a moment and think about a

  355. question. Here's the question I want you

  356. to think about. What is the reason?

  357. What is the reason or how have I convinced myself?

  358. In what ways have I taught myself, convinced myself into

  359. believing is the main reason God won't use me?

  360. What is the main, what is the main reason that you give that

  361. you think that God won't use you?

  362. Just take a moment. There's a big blank.

  363. I don't know how big of a blank that you need on your on your

  364. note sheet. I know for me, I need a pretty

  365. big blank. For some of you, it's just

  366. jotting down a word, jotting down a phrase.

  367. Maybe it's jotting down a date. Maybe there's some brokenness in

  368. your past. Maybe there's some really bad,

  369. like mess ups, maybe made some really bad decisions or choices

  370. and you've convinced yourself that because of those past

  371. choices, decisions, fears, and resistance to God, that God will

  372. not use you anymore. What is that?

  373. What have you convinced yourself?

  374. Now check this out. Whatever you write in that blank

  375. or whatever, by the way, we're not going to ask that you turn

  376. them in. We're not going to ask that you

  377. show the person next to you or get up on the microphone and go,

  378. hey, this is where I've convinced myself that God won't

  379. use me. However, here's where I'll tell

  380. you. Let's go back to that last

  381. slide, Chris. My guess is, is whatever you

  382. wrote down is going to fall into one of three of these buckets,

  383. pride, shame, and fear. You see, whatever you wrote

  384. down, whatever you've convinced yourself is the main reason that

  385. God won't use you. It is probably out of pride, It

  386. is probably out of shame, or it's probably out of fear.

  387. It is going to fall into one of those 3 broad categories, one of

  388. those 3 buckets and we're to crossroads here in order to

  389. reject the line, embrace the truth, in order for us to take

  390. advantage of and step into the second chances that God wants to

  391. offer us this morning and moving forward, I must decide that

  392. God's grace is greater than my pride, my shame, and my fear.

  393. Let me kind of break it down to brass tacks.

  394. Either here's the here's the fork in the road.

  395. Either my pride, my shame, and my fear is more truthful, is

  396. more honest, and desires more good for me than God, or God is

  397. more truthful, more honest, and desires more good for me than my

  398. pride, my shame, and my fear. We, we're the ones that make

  399. that decision. We're the ones that make that

  400. decision. Here's where I'll tell you.

  401. If you and I decide to continue living in pride, shame, and

  402. fear, nothing changes outside of the fact that we just find

  403. ourselves as being more prideful, more shame filled, and

  404. more fearful. However, God's grace tells us,

  405. hey, listen, I'm not finished with you.

  406. Despite your previous choices, despite your previous fears of,

  407. despite your resistance towards me, I'm not finished with you.

  408. I still desire good for you. I still desire that you live

  409. life to the fullest. And I still desire, I still

  410. desire to use your story for my glory.

  411. But we have to make that decision.

  412. I have to let go of my pride because here's what I would tell

  413. you. My guess is our pride.

  414. Whatever you look down and whatever you may have filled in

  415. that blank or you thought about filling in that blank, your

  416. pride is pretty, pretty much putting together a pretty good

  417. case. Your, your shame is putting

  418. together a pretty compelling argument, your fears putting

  419. together a pretty rational reasoning of why God's finished

  420. with you. And you and I, we have to make

  421. the decision. Listen, is God's grace greater

  422. than my pride, my shame, and my fear?

  423. Or is my pride, my shame and my fears that greater than God?

  424. And here's why I tell you every day of the week and twice on

  425. Sunday, our pride and our shame and our guilt cannot hold a

  426. candle to God's grace, but He will never force that grace on

  427. us. Second thing that we need to

  428. understand if we're going to reject the law and embrace the

  429. truth. Second chances are not do overs.

  430. Second chances are not do overs. This right here is probably the

  431. most misunderstood factor or element when it talks.

  432. When we talk about God extending to us second chances.

  433. Second chances are not do overs. Remember how we looked at the 2

  434. calls of God on Jonah? The first one is Jonah 1/2, the

  435. 2nd and Jonah 32. I want to show you kind of that

  436. nuanced difference here. The first one, arise, go to

  437. Nineveh, that great city, and call out against it for their

  438. evils. Come up before me.

  439. That was the first call. The second is arise, go to

  440. Nineveh, that great city, and call out against it.

  441. The message that I tell you Here's the most significant and

  442. essential difference between the call of God on Jonah.

  443. Check this out. You can underline it on your

  444. note sheet. The message that I tell you,

  445. here's my question to you. How in the world would Jonah

  446. know what to say to the people of Nineveh?

  447. He had to wait on God to give him the words, which would

  448. require what? Complete dependence on God.

  449. God, here I am. It's not about my ability, it's

  450. about my availability. Speak to me so that you can

  451. speak through me. It's a full dependence on God.

  452. Let me ask you a question. Where do you think Jonah learned

  453. that complete dependence on God? That's right.

  454. And the belly of a fish. You see, when Jonah hit rock

  455. bottom and he started to realize that all the things that he had

  456. no control over, God never lost control over.

  457. That's when he fully surrendered over to God.

  458. And here's where I'll tell you, church in the room online.

  459. It's when you and I, when we hit rock bottom, when we start to

  460. realize all the things that we don't have control over.

  461. He never lost control over man. That begins to change us.

  462. God begins to change us in very profound ways.

  463. You see, it was impossible. It was impossible for Jonah to

  464. get a do over. We typically think of the second

  465. chances of God as some type of do over to where he magically

  466. rewinds the clock and just reinserts us back into those

  467. same situations. But here's the thing that we

  468. miss. That's an impossibility because

  469. Jonah was not the same person that he was back in Jonah One,

  470. He'd been changed by God in a profound way.

  471. And when we begin to surrender our lives to God and we've

  472. become fully dependent upon God, he begins to change us in

  473. profound ways. Here's how that fleshes out you

  474. may, you may never or you will never be able to go back in time

  475. and to to relive that stage of your marriage.

  476. But but by the grace of God and all the cause of the grace of

  477. God, you can move forward as a changed, as a transformed man or

  478. a woman. You and I, we will never get a

  479. second chance to go back and to relive that stage of our

  480. children's lives. However, by the grace of God and

  481. all the cause of the grace of God, we can live with love and

  482. and kindness as they changed mom or dad, we will never get the

  483. opportunity to go back into time and to take back those harmful

  484. words or or those hurtful actions.

  485. But by the grace of God, all because of the grace of God, we

  486. can walk forward in sympathy and empathy and kindness and love as

  487. a transformed and as a changed friend.

  488. You see, second chances are not do overs.

  489. Second chances aren't do overs. And this is what we'll land

  490. things this morning. The third thing that you and I,

  491. we need to understand if we're going to drop the line and brace

  492. the truth, my story isn't about perfection.

  493. It's really about redemption. Let's unpack those two words.

  494. I think perfection, we all kind of understand that, making no

  495. mistakes. And I think that we would all

  496. agree, we've all blown that one right.

  497. And if you're on the fence on whether or not you've blown

  498. perfection, trust me, you have. We all get that right.

  499. Redemption, however. Redemption, however, is God

  500. using my brokenness to display His healing.

  501. That's redemption. God taking my pain and my

  502. mistakes and repurposing it and pointing other people to Him

  503. about what He's doing in and through me.

  504. My story isn't about perfection. It's really all about

  505. redemption. I don't think at all.

  506. When we read this, it's very easy for us to assume, to

  507. falsely assume this is a crutch. Hey, my story isn't about

  508. perfection, It's about redemption.

  509. This is never a crutch for us to lean on, to no longer be

  510. intentional about pursuing personal holiness.

  511. This is, however, it's a key that unlocks the prison cell

  512. from what? From shame, from pride, and from

  513. fear. My story isn't about perfection,

  514. it's about redemption. Let me ask you a question.

  515. This may seem like a no brainer question, but it's some of the a

  516. lot of times we don't think about.

  517. We know reading the book of Jonah, Jonah was a deeply,

  518. deeply flawed man, right? And if if that hasn't, if that

  519. hasn't resonated yet, hang with us over the next couple weeks.

  520. This is going to become more evident because he's still a

  521. deeply flawed man. Here's a question for you.

  522. How do we know about all of Jonah's flaws, about all the

  523. ways that Jonah ran from God and you know, some of the some of

  524. the conversations he had with God, How do we know about all of

  525. this? It's from Jonah.

  526. It's from Jonah himself. You see, Jonah didn't omit his

  527. flaws. He didn't sugarcoat his

  528. failings. Jonah basically said, hey,

  529. here's what an idiot I was, yet God's grace was greater and if

  530. God can use me, then he can use you.

  531. And in so doing, he did not rob God of his glory.

  532. Here's what I would tell you. This is not about oversharing.

  533. It's not about making it weird or awkward for the people around

  534. us, but a lot of times, because we heed the voices of shame or

  535. pride or fear, we do not tell others our stories of what God

  536. has done for us and done in and through us.

  537. And in so doing, we rob God of His glory.

  538. Our story is not about perfection.

  539. Our story is not about us at all.

  540. Our story is really about Him and He wants to use my life in

  541. your life, in our lives to point people to him, the people that

  542. are around us, to him with the same notion that with Jonah, if

  543. he can do this in and through me, man, he can do this in and

  544. through you. He is the God of second chances.

  545. Do not allow your pride or your shame or your fear to keep you

  546. from or to talk you out of embracing the second chance that

  547. he's offering you. So here's where we want to end

  548. this morning. 2 main questions. Number one, have you fully

  549. surrendered your life to Jesus? Have you fully surrendered your

  550. life to Jesus? This past week I had the honor

  551. and privilege of preaching the funeral service of a of a dear,

  552. dear lady in our in our church. She passed away at the age of 76

  553. and one of the things is just very obvious about her life was

  554. you could not tell her story without telling the story of

  555. Jesus in her. You see, here's a distinct

  556. difference about this lady. This lady did not just add Jesus

  557. to her life. Sprinkle in a little like Bible

  558. dust on her life. This lady made Jesus her life.

  559. So here's my question to you. Have you fully surrendered your

  560. life to Jesus Like these three that that followed Jesus in

  561. believers baptism? All three of them, different

  562. backgrounds. All three of them essentially

  563. have the same story. There was a point in time in my

  564. life to where I realized I could not do life on my own.

  565. I made all the mistakes, I tried to fix myself and none of it

  566. ever worked. And then I turned to Jesus and I

  567. embraced His. I embraced his grace and His

  568. mercy and I found out that God's grace was always greater than

  569. any of my messes. So here's the question for you.

  570. Has there been a point in time, a specific point in time, to

  571. where you have said yes? I have asked Jesus to forgive me

  572. of my sins and I've asked Him to take control of my life and

  573. committed to following Him for the rest of my life.

  574. That is a yes or no question. If it is yes, praise God.

  575. If it is a no, then I have great news for you.

  576. You're going to have an opportunity to leave here

  577. changed. If it is a man, I hope so.

  578. Or maybe here's where I would tell you, man, that chance is

  579. not worth taking at all. This morning could be the

  580. morning that you nail that down. But second question is this.

  581. How are you allowing pride, shame, or fear to rob God of His

  582. glory? What parts of your story has He

  583. redeemed? What parts of your journey would

  584. you have never have rather not walked through?

  585. But He walked through with you, and He's brought you out on the

  586. other side that He can use your story for His glory.

  587. Is there something in your life right now that you're holding on

  588. to? Are you allowing your pride,

  589. your shame, your fear to have a stronghold and have a grip on

  590. your life? And maybe this morning, the most

  591. freeing thing that you can do, and we're about to open up the

  592. altar for you to come down and pray and just have a moment of

  593. release is to say, hey, God, I want to let go of my pride, my

  594. shame, and my guilt. Use my story for however you can

  595. get glory. It's never about your ability.

  596. It's always about your availability.

  597. And that's exactly how it looks like.

  598. So here's what we're going to do.

  599. I'm going to pray over us. We're going to have some pastors

  600. down here at the front if you would like to come pray with us

  601. or talk to us. Maybe you're someone that that

  602. first question, you're really struggling with that first

  603. question. We would love to talk with you

  604. and pray with you. Maybe you're one of the many

  605. this morning that you need to let go of some pride, some shame

  606. and some fear in your life and say, Hey God, whatever it looks

  607. like, use my story for your glory and to walk back fully

  608. released and fully ready for God to use you however He sees fit

  609. to use your story for his glory. Pray with me, God, we love you

  610. and God, we thank you for your word.

  611. God. It is such not just a challenge

  612. to us God, it is a mirror to us God.

  613. The more that we look into the life of Jonah, God, the more

  614. that we see deep down within ourselves, God, the the choices

  615. and the decisions that Jonah faced.

  616. God, every single one of us here this morning, we face the same

  617. decisions and choices. We can either give in to the

  618. voices of pride or shame and fear, or we can consider your

  619. grace, your voice to be greater than all of those other voices.

  620. God, would you help us to understand that?

  621. God, your grace and your invitation to second chances to

  622. us this morning. God, your voice is greater than

  623. anything that we may ever hear. God is greater than any force

  624. that we may ever encounter. God, I pray that if there's a

  625. man or a woman or a student in here with us this morning or

  626. with us online that knows that he or she has not ever fully

  627. surrendered their life to you. God, they're looking at the at

  628. the life and at the examples of, of Tia of dawn of Christie.

  629. God, they know that they need to take that step of obedience

  630. through baptism or they know that they need to fully

  631. surrender their lives to you. God, I pray that this morning,

  632. God, that you would break down any walls of hesitation in their

  633. lives. Thank God that they would come

  634. forward. They would come talk to a pastor

  635. and God that they would leave forever changed and transformed.

  636. God, for those who have surrendered their lives to you.

  637. God, would you help us to lay down our pride and our shame and

  638. our fear? God, that we would consider

  639. being used by you. God, understanding that our

  640. story is not about perfection, our story is about redemption.

  641. God that you want to use our story for your glory.

  642. God, would you help us to understand that it has nothing

  643. to do with our abilities or our talents, has everything to do

  644. with our availability. And God, we make ourselves

  645. available to you by saying, God, I lay down my pride.

  646. I lay down my shame. I lay down my fear.

  647. Use my story in however ways in which it'll bring you the most

  648. glory. God, I pray that you would move

  649. among us this morning. God, I pray that you would grant

  650. freedom this morning. God, I pray that you would bring

  651. change and transformation in and through us.

  652. This morning is in Jesus name that we pray.

  653. Amen. Thank you for listening to the

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