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What Matters Most | Jonah: God's Mercy In My Mess (Part Six)

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  1. Thank you for listening to Riverbend Church's podcast.

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  4. This week we're going to continue on.

  5. We're actually closing out our series through the book of

  6. Jonah. It's a book of four chapters,

  7. but we've been walking through this is the 6th week of the book

  8. of Jonah. And one of the things that we

  9. have seen throughout this throughout this entire series,

  10. we have learned truths. God is tall as truth, pointed us

  11. to the truth in his word that the different opportunities that

  12. that that may arise in our lives for us to be disobedient to God,

  13. that they're they're not accidental and they're not

  14. coincidental. They're very strategic.

  15. In other words, God has a plan for for you and I God has a plan

  16. for every single one of our lives and every single one of

  17. us. We're tempted to turn away from

  18. that plan. Those temptations, they're not

  19. accidental, they're not coincidental, they're very

  20. intentional and they're very strategic because we have a very

  21. real enemy that does not want us to live in alignment with the

  22. heart of God. We've also talked about we've

  23. also looked at how through the life of Jonah that so many of

  24. us, I think every single one of us at one time or another, we

  25. ran from the plans that God had for for us and, and we we walked

  26. in disobedience to God. And but God loves us so much

  27. that he will go to great lengths to get our attention to draw us

  28. back to his heart. And then we looked at one Jonah

  29. was in the belly of that fish for three days and three nights.

  30. We've looked at how grace or we can find grace at rock bottom.

  31. If we look at our rock bottom through the lens of I can be

  32. frustrated, all the things that I can't control, but I can also

  33. look at all the things that I can't control and realize that

  34. God never lost control of those things.

  35. That's when panic turns to prayer and that's when I can

  36. find actually God's grace right there at rock bottom.

  37. We talked about how God is a God of, of second chances.

  38. If you were here with us last week, we took a look, an in

  39. depth look at how there's a distinctive difference between

  40. remorse and repentance. And, and, and Jesus calls us to

  41. repentance, not just remorse. And there's a huge difference

  42. between the two. But this morning we're going to

  43. be taking a look at Jonah chapter 4.

    Jonah 4 chapter mention

  44. This chapter is what author and pastor Tim Keller refers to as

  45. the most forgotten and the most unexpected chapter of the entire

  46. Bible. And this is what he means.

  47. I I agree with him, but this is what this is what is meant by

  48. that is most everybody has heard of Jonah and being swallowed by

  49. a fish. Most people, they, they, they

  50. know that Jonah was swallowed by a fish.

  51. They've heard the storage on a swallowed by a fish that he

  52. repented and then he was released from the fish.

  53. Most people think that that's where Jonah's story ends.

  54. Some, however, they know where we spent the last two weeks.

  55. They know that after being released from the fish that that

  56. Jonah goes into Nineveh and and tells the people of Nineveh the

  57. message that God gave him. And the revival fell that day on

  58. the capital city of the Assyrian Empire on the people of Nineveh.

  59. Very, very few people know how the rest of Jonah chapter 4

    Jonah 4 chapter mention

  60. ends. Most people just assume that

  61. revival fell on Nineveh. Jonas celebrated revival,

  62. celebrated this great movement of God with the people of

  63. Nineveh. He probably went to a potluck

  64. dinner, probably brought a casserole.

  65. And then he went skipping out of the city limits all the way back

  66. to his hometown, telling everybody about this great

  67. movement of God that he was able to be a part of and what he was

  68. able to see and, and just excitement everywhere.

  69. And then he got back to his hometown and he he, he stood up

  70. in church and he gave the report and he ended up writing a book

  71. and going on a conference, sticking to her and probably

  72. even started a podcast. That's what most people assume.

  73. That's not what happened. That's not at all what happened.

  74. To give us a little bit of context of what happened at the

  75. book of at the end of the book of Jonah, I want to ask that

  76. you've joined me in Jonah chapter 3, verse 10.

    Jonah 3:10

  77. There's going to be a little bit of an overlap to give us a

  78. fuller view of the context. But Jonah 310 says when God saw

  79. what they did, the people of Nineveh, how they turned from

  80. their evil way, God relented of the disaster that He had said

  81. that He would do to them, and He did not do it.

  82. Jonah 414 verse one. But it displeased Jonah

  83. exceedingly. And he was angry, that phrase,

  84. and he was angry. We're going to come back to that

  85. in just a second. And he prayed to the Lord and

  86. said, O Lord, is not this what I said when I was yet in my

  87. country? That is why I made haste to flee

  88. to Tarshish, for I knew that you are a gracious God and merciful,

  89. slow to anger, and abounding in steadfast love and relenting

  90. from disaster. Therefore now, O Lord, please

  91. take my life from me, for it's better for me to die than to

  92. live. And the Lord said, Jonah, do you

  93. do well to be angry? Jonah went out of the city and

  94. sat at the east of the city and made a booth there for himself

  95. and he sat under it in the shade till he should see what would

  96. become of the city. Now in case you missed anything,

  97. let's kind of review and unpack what just happened.

  98. God sent his chosen prophet and preacher Jonah to preach the

  99. message. Yet 40 days and Nineveh shall be

  100. overthrown to the people of Nineveh.

  101. Jonah goes 1/3 of the way into the city, gives that message.

  102. Revival falls on to the city. Jonah, this prophet of God, this

  103. chosen preacher of God, he gets ticked, he's furious, he's

  104. angry. We know that the Old Testament

  105. is written in the Hebrew language.

  106. Remember that phrase that I told you come back to and he became

  107. angry. Jonah chapter 4 verse one.

    Jonah 4 chapter mention

  108. The Hebrew for that is by you Char value char, emphasis on the

  109. char there because it literally means to be burned up, to be

  110. kindled with anger. He was ticked.

  111. He was ticked that God did not destroy the people of Nineveh.

  112. And not only was he ticked, he told God all about it, right?

  113. He told God all about it. And he even goes to the links of

  114. saying, hey, God, I would rather die than live in a world to

  115. where you show grace and mercy to the people of Nineveh.

  116. And then we read about how Jonah storms out of the city, climbs a

  117. hill, the tallest hill overlooking the city, basically

  118. lays out a blanket, sets up a picnic for himself so he has the

  119. best seat in the house. Hoping that God would finally

  120. come to his senses and start raining fire down from heaven

  121. and destroy the city, Jonah got a bird's eye view of the

  122. impending destruction that he was hoping would come.

  123. Now a lot of us are sitting here thinking, wow, I had no idea.

  124. That's how the book of Jonah ended.

  125. And then we were left with two questions.

  126. Then was Jonah really that big of a jerk?

  127. And the answer to that question is yes, Yes, he was.

  128. But then the the most overarching question is how

  129. could a prophet and a preacher of God prophet and a preacher of

  130. God, How could he ever become so hard and calloused towards

  131. people? How in the world could Jonah

  132. ever become so hard and calloused to where he was so mad

  133. that God didn't destroy every man, every woman and every child

  134. in the city of Nineveh? And then goes and sets up

  135. basically a picnic for himself, hoping to get like the best seat

  136. in the house to watch the destruction happen, to watch

  137. Nineveh burn and all the people be incinerated and die.

  138. How in the world could a prophet and a preacher of God become so

  139. hard and callous towards people? I believe that Jonah believed a

  140. lie. That's so easy for us to fall

  141. for. Here's the lie if you're taking

  142. notes with us. Whatever matters most to me must

  143. matter most to God. Whatever matters most to me,

  144. man, that most that that must matter most to God.

  145. What mattered most to Jonah? People of Nineveh, they get

  146. what's coming to them. So that must matter most to God.

  147. So when God didn't do what Jonah thought that God should do,

  148. guess what? Jonah gets ticked off with God

  149. never taking a heart check, never taking a heart check.

  150. And this is where you and I, this is where we're going to be

  151. wrapping up this series this morning.

  152. It is really asking God to do a heart check, to do a heart check

  153. to where we do not fall for the law.

  154. Hey, whatever matters most to me, it must matter most to God.

  155. I believe that there are three different categories, 3

  156. different areas that matter most to most people.

  157. If you take a notes with us, here's the first one.

  158. It's our passions. It's our passions.

  159. What I'm most passionate about, that must be what God's most

  160. passionate about. But I think Jonah goes a step

  161. further. You see Jonah's passion or his

  162. calling was to be a prophet of God.

  163. He was, he was hand selected by God.

  164. He was God's chosen mouthpiece as a prophet.

  165. Now in the Old Testament. Now now like pass a New

  166. Testament, we don't have prophets with capital P anymore

  167. because we have like the full word of God.

  168. We have all 66 books of the Bible.

  169. We don't need prophets with a capital P.

  170. But way back in the day, Old Testament, you would have these

  171. prophets, capital P prophets, that their job was to hear

  172. directly from God and then to say that message from God to the

  173. people of God. So a prophet, Jonah was directly

  174. responsible for pronouncing blessings on the people of God

  175. and rebukes on the people of God.

  176. That meant that Jonah wasn't the most popular guy in his

  177. neighborhood, right? But here's where I think that

  178. Jonah started to go sideways. Jonah started to believe.

  179. I believe Jonah started to believe that God needed him,

  180. that God needed his input. God needed his take.

  181. God needed his advice on what God should do.

  182. Hey, God, I feel like we've been in this relationship long enough

  183. to where I can predict what you're going to say.

  184. And here's some advice. You didn't ask for it, but I

  185. think this would be a good idea. It's that's not how it it's not

  186. how it works. And I don't know about you, but

  187. it's really easy. It's really easy.

  188. The the longer you've walked with God, the longer you've been

  189. in a relationship with God, the easier it is to exchange Jesus's

  190. call to ask, seek and to knock. We replace the ask seek knock

  191. with tail point and walk away in in other words, I think a lot of

  192. us we we're so guilty. I know that many times I am

  193. we're so guilty of saying, hey God, this is what I'm going to

  194. do today. This is what is is involved in

  195. my day. I just need you to bless it all

  196. along the way instead of hey God, how can I bring glory to

  197. you today starting my day off with God, today is the day that

  198. you have given me. How can I bring the most glory

  199. to you? Most of the time, if we even

  200. think about spending time with God in prayer at the beginning

  201. of the day, it's kind of like, hey God, I'm looking at my

  202. calendar. This is what I know that I have

  203. coming up. I just need you to bless it.

  204. And that's where we start to go a little bit sideways.

  205. And when we start to live that way for a stretch of time,

  206. here's what happens is the inevitable hard times will hit.

  207. Things won't go our way and predictably, we will start to

  208. get really mad, furious, angry, and ticked off at God for not

  209. coming through on something that he never promised to do to begin

  210. with. And we could have avoided the

  211. whole thing because we fell for a lie that, hey, what matters

  212. most to me must matter most to God.

  213. It's our passions. I think second, the second thing

  214. that matters most to most is people is people.

  215. Let's go back for a moment. Little 8th century BC

  216. geopolitics there. Sounds like a double jeopardy

  217. category, doesn't it? If you go back to the very

  218. beginning book of Genesis, you got this guy by the name of

  219. Abraham. Abraham and Sarah, they're

  220. elderly and they have no kids. And yet God tells Abraham, hey,

  221. through you, I'm going to create a, a, a nation that will be my

  222. own and it'll outnumber the stars in the sky.

  223. And Abraham and Sarah, both around their 70s, are sitting

  224. there going, OK, God, cool. Can we just start with one?

  225. And if you, if you know the story about Abraham and Sarah,

  226. you know that Sarah miraculously gets pregnant in her old age

  227. with Isaac. Isaac is born and then he gives

  228. birth to, he has some kids. Two of those kids are Jacob and

  229. Esau. God changes Jacob's name to

  230. Israel, and then Israel's going to have a handful of kids, two

  231. handfuls of kids. They're going to go on to become

  232. the 12 tribes of Israel. So from the very beginning, you

  233. have the Israelites or the Jewish people.

  234. Those are God's chosen people. Those are God's chosen people.

  235. So God, throughout the history of Israel and the Jewish people,

  236. God will select a prophet from the Jewish people to the Jewish

  237. people. It was very Jewish centric, if

  238. you will. That was for Jonah, the Jews,

  239. those were his people. It was the Jews.

  240. And then it was all outsiders. It was US versus them.

  241. And then to make matters worse, the Assyrian Empire, they pose a

  242. great economic threat to Israel, to the people of God.

  243. And they, they, they, they, they pose a great military threat to

  244. Israel, to the people of God. As a matter of fact, we know

  245. historically, 50 years after the book of Jonah under the, the,

  246. the King's command, a God by the name of Shalom answer the fifth,

  247. he sends one of his most prominent generals, a God by the

  248. name of Sennacherib. He goes to the northern capital

  249. city of Israel, Samaria, and completely ransacks it and then

  250. brings all the people. If they don't, he brings them

  251. all back to Assyria, back typically to Nineveh as slaves.

  252. So this people, the Ninevites, the Assyrians, they're a nasty

  253. group that pose a great, great threat to the people of Israel.

  254. And here's the thing that we see happening here through the life

  255. of Jonah. Jonah allowed his patriotism to

  256. usurp his prophetic call. He allowed his patriotism to

  257. usurp his prophetic call. Now if you know anything about

  258. sociology, sociology is basically the study of people

  259. and how people interact with other people.

  260. And a main branch of sociology has to do with how groups

  261. interact with different groups. And basically, to summarize it,

  262. I had to make sense because I graduated from Dacula High

  263. school, class of 97 go Falcons. So I had to like read like the

  264. dumbed down version of it. But this is what I understand

  265. that every single one of us, that we are prone to be drawn to

  266. people who like us and who are like us.

  267. And we kind of call sociologists, call those groups

  268. of people our tribe, if you will.

  269. And there's nothing wrong with our tribes, but our tribes will

  270. inevitably and inherently tint the lenses through which we see

  271. other people who are not like us.

  272. Let me give you some examples. Generational lines.

  273. If you're young, if you're of a younger generation, it became

  274. very vogue to, you know, if somebody that was older than you

  275. said or did something that you didn't like, you is go, OK,

  276. boomer categorizing the boomer generation.

  277. If you're older and you're looking down on a younger

  278. generation, you just shake your head and you go, ma'am,

  279. millennials, what's up with millennials?

  280. Generational lines? They, they, they, they color our

  281. perspective, our tribe, our personal tribe colors and tents,

  282. the lens through which we see groups that aren't like U.S.

  283. team affiliations. So if you are of the Tribe of

  284. Georgia Bulldogs fans, you know that if you're a Georgia Tech

  285. fan, that you've given up on football.

  286. If you are of the Georgia Tech tribe, you know that Georgia

  287. fans, the Georgia Tribe, they've given up on speed limits.

  288. But we also have these other lines like play place of origin,

  289. NS with American, international, European.

  290. We place of origin, language, culture, religious background.

  291. We have all different groupings of people.

  292. And here's what I would tell you.

  293. Even though our gravitating to our tribe is not inherently

  294. wrong, we have to be very, very careful that two things don't

  295. take place #1 that we don't start mistakenly assuming that

  296. some people actually deserve God's grace more than others.

  297. And #2 we've got to become very, very careful not to step over

  298. into just outright racism. So when we look at the things

  299. that matter most to most people, we can see like how our personal

  300. passions or how our people, our tribes impact or matter most to

  301. most people. But then there's a third

  302. category, and that's our preferences.

  303. That's our preferences. All right.

  304. So going back life of Jonah, prophet of God, Jonah had been

  305. had been journeying with God for years before the book of Jonah

  306. has ever written. So he kind of has a template for

  307. how God worked in the past. And typically the template that

  308. Jonah had seen was chosen people of God, Israel, other people

  309. groups or nations don't like Israel.

  310. So God pronounces judgement on the other people and he

  311. basically rains down fire and destroys those other people.

  312. So Jonah is called to the capital city of the Assyrian

  313. Empire. Nineveh said 40 days, yet 40

  314. days and Nineveh will be overthrown.

  315. And Jonah's probably setting his clock going 39 days, 38.

  316. And the closer it's ticking down, the bigger his smile gets.

  317. And as a matter of fact, Jonah goes to the outskirts of the

  318. city like we just talked about. Gets a bird's eye view best seen

  319. in the house to watch the destruction the the the hopeful

  320. and pending destruction. Almost with this thought, Hey

  321. God, let's get this smiting thing over with man, y'all about

  322. to get all lit up y'all, Y'all think y'all seen fireworks?

  323. Y'all ain't seen nothing yet. God is about to rain down fire

  324. on y'all. Why?

  325. Why did Jonah take that attitude?

  326. Because I think that he had seen it before.

  327. Jonah didn't have a category for, hey, what happens if the

  328. people repent? What happens if the people

  329. repent? You see, his preference was

  330. based on what he had always seen.

  331. I think that his preference was based on like maybe even

  332. something that he experienced at a very formative time in his in

  333. in his spiritual relationship. I think that's how all of our

  334. preferences start. By the way, there's nothing

  335. wrong with personal preferences. I think that all of our personal

  336. preferences start by going back to a point in time to where God

  337. had the biggest impact and moved the most powerfully in our

  338. lives. So let me give you an example.

  339. For me, you'll know the song Shout to the Lord.

  340. Shout to the Lord might as well have been the soundtrack to

  341. several mighty moments of God moving in my life and working in

  342. my life in my high school years. As a matter of fact, if it were

  343. up to me, I'd have the lyrics of Shout to the Lord printed in the

  344. back of every Bible. I think that it's almost

  345. inspired by God. I will tell you just how foolish

  346. we were. The guy that would always lead

  347. shout to the Lord for our retreats.

  348. We were convinced that he was the one that wrote it.

  349. So imagine like my shock, I was like, who's Darlene Scheck?

  350. Like they're writing worship songs from Australia, Huh?

  351. Who knew? But that's my that's my

  352. preference. A lot of times our preferences,

  353. especially when it comes to music, if you think about it,

  354. the songs that we gravitate towards the most are the songs

  355. that were almost like the background soundtrack four times

  356. that we experienced the movement of God the most in our lives,

  357. right? And there's this assumption

  358. again, there's nothing wrong with that, but there's this

  359. assumption there that if we just go back and do now what we did

  360. then, then God will move now just like he did then.

  361. And there's 2 problems with that.

  362. Number one, who gets to determine when the when is and

  363. then #2 is. It makes God very formulaic.

  364. It, it, it, it is almost our attempt to like harness the

  365. power of the Holy Spirit. It makes God, tries to make the

  366. Holy Spirit of God predictable and tameable, to which he's not.

  367. I believe that one of the reasons that that Jonah raged

  368. against God is because Jonah accepted this law that what

  369. mattered most to him must matter most to God.

  370. And when Jonah's, when his personal passions and his own

  371. people, the view of his own people and as it conflicted with

  372. God's view of people and his own preferences, when that clashed

  373. with God, that's when Jonah raged.

  374. So here's my question to you. What's our recourse?

  375. What's our recourse to keep that from happening to us?

  376. What is our recourse to keeping our hearts so that God can keep

  377. our hearts tender and soft towards other people that aren't

  378. like us? I want to show you where we left

  379. off in the book of Jonah. That's not how the book of Jonah

  380. ends. I want to show you let's go back

  381. to Jonah, Jonah chapter 4 and let's go back and let's read

    Jonah 4 chapter mention

  382. through how the how the back half of Jonah 4 ends.

  383. It says Jonah went out of the city and sat down to the east of

  384. the city and made a booth for himself there.

  385. He sat under it in the shade till he should see what would

  386. become of the city. Now the Lord appointed a plant,

  387. and made it come up over Jonah, that he might be, that it might

  388. be a shade over his head, to save him from his discomfort.

  389. So Jonah was exceedingly glad because of the plant.

  390. But when dawn came up the next day, God appointed a worm that

  391. attached the plant, so that it withered when the sun rose.

  392. Got appointed A scorching E wind and the sun beat down on the

  393. head of Jonah, so that he was faint.

  394. And he asked that he might die. And said, God, it is better for

  395. me to die than to live. But God said to Jonah, do you do

  396. well to be angry for the plant? And Jonah said, yes, I do well

  397. to be angry, angry enough to die.

  398. And the Lord said, you pity the plant for which you did not

  399. labor, nor did you make it grow, which came into being in a night

  400. and perished in a night. And should I not, should not I

  401. pity Nineveh, that great city in which there are more than

  402. 120,000 persons who do not know the right hand from their left,

  403. and also much cattle? And that's how the book of Jonah

  404. ends. That's how the book of Jonah

  405. ends. He may say, OK Ben, So if what

  406. matters most to me must matter most to God, if that's the lie,

  407. what's the truth that God was pointing Jonah towards?

  408. If you go throughout the entire book of Jonah, you'll see

  409. several, you'll see a pattern. There's 4 chapters in the book

  410. of Jonah. And in those four chapters we

  411. see where God appointed says that he, he appointed a great

  412. fish, He appointed a plant, He appointed a worm, He appointed A

  413. scorching E wind. What was the point of God

  414. appointing those things to get Jonah's attention?

  415. And I think that the what God was trying to get Jonah's

  416. attention for and pointing him to was a truth that he wants us

  417. to know this morning. Here it is if you're taking

  418. notes with us. God's calling me to step out of

  419. my box and into His global mission.

  420. God is calling me to step out of my box and into His global

  421. mission. Let me get you to do me a favor.

  422. Think back when you were a kid and you'll go into your living

  423. room and and you would make you make a pillow for it.

  424. Good days, right? You would take all the cushions

  425. off the couch and out of the chair, and your parents would

  426. find loose change. But you you take those cushions

  427. out and you would arrange them. You'd set them up on their side

  428. to where they would form the walls of your Fort.

  429. And then once you got the walls set, then you would go gather up

  430. like the blankets or the sheets. And then you would drape those

  431. blankets and sheets over your Fort.

  432. And, and before you went into your architectural masterpiece,

  433. you would go into your room and you'd get your favorite like

  434. toys and you'd bring them in both arms and then you'd like

  435. shove them into your Fort. And then you would go into your

  436. Fort. And that's that's where you

  437. would play with like your favorite toys, right?

  438. You'd hang out you you'd play it, it occupy you for, for at

  439. least a few hours. Man, that was the best, right?

  440. Well, kind of. At least it once was.

  441. You see, a few years after that, several years down the road from

  442. making pillow forts, you would experience for the first time

  443. the exhilaration of being able to drive down the road with your

  444. windows down on a nice day and feel the wind whipping through

  445. your hair. Or you would you would discover

  446. just the awe of the ocean, or the OR the mountains.

  447. Maybe, maybe you would stand. Years later, you would stand at

  448. A at an altar across from the love of your life and you'd

  449. exchange vows to one another. Or you would be in a hospital

  450. room and that doctor, that nurse, for the very first time,

  451. would place that newborn baby into your arms.

  452. Your new dad, your new mom, and thousands of other wow moments

  453. that would all make the memories of how great we used to think

  454. the pillow forts were pale in comparison.

  455. Here's my point, Church. I'm convinced that a lot of us

  456. are spiritually stuck in our pillow forts when God's calling

  457. us to step out of our pillow forts, step out of our box, and

  458. step into His global mission. So in order for us to step out

  459. of our box, to step out of our pillow Fort and step into His

  460. global mission, there's three choices that we've got to make

  461. and we've got to make them this morning.

  462. Here's the first choice is I've got to allow God to order my

  463. life and to trust him with what follows.

  464. I've got to allow God to order my life and to trust him with

  465. what follows. Let me ask you a deeply, deeply

  466. personal question in the room and online.

  467. When's the last time that you just sat down with God in a

  468. quiet space, in A at a quiet place uninterrupted and just

  469. said, OK, God, here, here I am. I'm laying my whole life in

  470. front of you. I'm laying it down like I'm not

  471. holding anything back from you. God, you have my permission.

  472. God, I'm asking, I'm begging you for your Holy Spirit to go to

  473. the deep places of me that only your Holy Spirit can access.

  474. And God, I want you to show me here in this, in this quiet,

  475. just me and you. I want you to show me what in my

  476. life needs to leave, it needs to go, what in my life needs to

  477. stay and what in my life needs to needs to change that right

  478. there. That is openness, vulnerability

  479. and full on surrender to God. God here I am laying my life out

  480. completely before you, holding nothing back.

  481. God, you, you have, you have an all access pass to every part of

  482. my life, not just like the highlight reels of me, but the

  483. really nasty, dirty parts of me. God send your Holy Spirit to go

  484. to the deep places that only he can access, that only he can get

  485. to and show me the parts of me that need to change or that need

  486. to go, that need to stay and need to change.

  487. And I think it's out of that. I think it's out of that that we

  488. begin to allow God to properly order our life and trust him

  489. with what follows. Because the alternative is this,

  490. Hey God, this is what I'm doing, will you bless it?

  491. Church, can I challenge you with something?

  492. We cannot afford to waste any more time wondering if we're on

  493. the right track yet asking God to bless the decisions and the

  494. choices that we've already made. If we understand that there's a

  495. community around us, that there are people within our homes,

  496. people within our families, people within our friend groups,

  497. people within our community that need Jesus, that need the hope

  498. of Jesus, we cannot afford to waste any more time wondering if

  499. we're on the right track while at the same time asking God to

  500. bless the decisions that we've already made.

  501. You see, so many times, we'll get it out of order.

  502. Hey God, this is what I've already decided to do.

  503. Would you bless it along the way?

  504. Well, what if that's not what God wants you to do?

  505. You see, the first choice is this, allow God to order my life

  506. and trust Him with what follows. Second decision is this.

  507. Live like every person is made by God and is in need of God.

  508. Live like every person is made by God and is in need of God.

  509. Have you noticed that we live in a culture that is really

  510. effective in monetizing division?

  511. One of one of the buzzwords around church is this

  512. discipling. Did you know you might you this

  513. may be your first time in church and if this your first time in

  514. church, welcome. Thank you so much for being

  515. here. But did you know that you've

  516. been discipled? You are being discipled.

  517. Every single one of us is being discipled by something or

  518. someone. And, and here's what we see to

  519. be true is many, many people are discipled through cable news.

  520. Many people are discipled by the algorithms of their social media

  521. feeds and, and, and reels. And when we are become discipled

  522. and when we become saturated and cable news and social media

  523. algorithms and reels, here's what we tend to do is we start

  524. to look at the people who don't like us and who are not like us

  525. as issues to fix rather than people to love.

  526. So in order for us to make the transition, to live like every

  527. person is made by God in his need of God.

  528. That means that we've got to pray differently.

  529. Let me give you some handles of how we can pray differently.

  530. It means that we pray differently for every single

  531. person that we may encounter. In other words, the people that

  532. like me, the people that they like me, I view that person not

  533. as like necessarily, just first and foremost as a friend or a

  534. fan or anything like that. I view that person as somebody

  535. who is made by God in the image of God and in desperate need of

  536. God. So I pray for them that way.

  537. Or when you come across people who are like you, similar

  538. interest, geography, political, whatever, similar interest, the

  539. people who are like us, we've got to see them as people that

  540. are made by God, in desperate need of God.

  541. How about this, the people who don't like me?

  542. He may say people don't like you.

  543. Oh, yeah, I give people all kinds of reasons not to like me.

  544. My mom will fight you. But no, the people that don't

  545. like me, those aren't my enemies.

  546. Those are people that are made by God in the image of God, in

  547. desperate need of God. They're not in desperate need of

  548. God because they have a bad opinion of Ben Wallace.

  549. They're in desperate need of God because they're in desperate

  550. need of God. Or how about this, the people

  551. that are not like us, that that think differently, look

  552. differently, talk differently, vote differently, the whole 9

  553. yards. The people who are not like us,

  554. they are people made in the image of God, made by God, in

  555. desperate need of God. So guess what we do?

  556. We go out into Jesus name and we lift up the gospel.

  557. We we point people to the hope of Jesus, to people that are

  558. hopeless. And guess what?

  559. The people who like me, many of them are hopeless.

  560. The people who are like me, many of them are hopeless.

  561. The people who don't like me, many of them are hopeless.

  562. The people who are not like me, many of them are hopeless.

  563. Listen, it is about keeping Jesus first and foremost.

  564. Paramount above it all, paramount above it all.

  565. But I've got to live like every person is made by God and is in

  566. need of God. Third this morning is exchange

  567. my preferences for Kingdom effectiveness.

  568. I've got to exchange my preferences for Kingdom

  569. effectiveness. River Bend Church, one of my

  570. honors, and I say this with with complete honesty, one of the

  571. true honors of my life is to be able to to journey alongside and

  572. to serve alongside of you. Do me a favor.

  573. If you're in here, raise your hand.

  574. Didn't do this in 930 service, but raise your hand.

  575. If you have started coming here within the last six years, raise

  576. your hand. Awesome.

  577. If your hands raised, you've always known these seats before

  578. these seats were here. You know what was here?

  579. Pews. You know where the pews went out

  580. those doors. Not because we tried to be cool

  581. or, or contemporary or anything like that.

  582. You know what we just started to realize is listen, if the church

  583. exists, not for the church, but the church exists for the

  584. community, the, the, the biggest flat area in on our entire

  585. campus is in this room. And it's really hard to host

  586. other people with pews in the way.

  587. So what do we do? We remove the pews.

  588. We put in chairs to where we can stack the chairs.

  589. We can put the chairs against the wall.

  590. We can rearrange the chairs however we want.

  591. We need to rearrange the chairs. Do you know how many people

  592. would prefer the pews? A lot going back to the going

  593. back to the analogy that, that, that I gave, you know, shout to

  594. the Lord. I think that the Holy Spirit of

  595. God moves during that key change.

  596. If you don't know what I'm talking about, go listen to it

  597. and you'll get saved again. Can I let you own a secret?

  598. I'm not the biggest fan of every song that we do, every song that

  599. we sing here. But you know what?

  600. It's not about me. It's not about me.

  601. It's not about my preferences. It's about Kingdom

  602. effectiveness. Listen, if, if, if you were to

  603. look around this room, you would see the faces of men and women

  604. that have chosen, that have lived so sacrificially and

  605. they've laid down their preferences all for the sake of

  606. Kingdom effectiveness. I would put Riverbend Church.

  607. I would put you up against any church I've ever encountered,

  608. any church that I've ever known of when it comes down to laying

  609. down personal preferences and picking up Kingdom

  610. effectiveness. But I'll go ahead and tell you,

  611. sometimes it's very easy for that bug to kind of like jump

  612. back up and nip at us. In those times.

  613. I want to give you 3 questions to kind of walk through.

  614. These aren't, these aren't in your notes.

  615. This is really just for us to kind of hear.

  616. If you want to jot them down, you can.

  617. How do I exchange my preferences for Kingdom effectiveness?

  618. First question, am I approaching this service as a consumer or as

  619. a worshipper? That's convicting for me.

  620. Let me kind of let you in kind of behind the scenes as, as I

  621. like prep and plan for, for different series and different

  622. messages. God gets to beat up on me a lot

  623. earlier than than the messages preached.

  624. So in a way I just get to pass along God's beating over me,

  625. God's conviction. So these questions, they come

  626. out of questions that God has like really convicted me on.

  627. Am I approaching a Sunday morning service as a consumer or

  628. as a worshipper? In other words, like I could

  629. very easily go, man, I, I just don't, I don't, I don't like

  630. that song, but that's OK. It wasn't sung to me.

  631. It's not about me. I'm not a consumer.

  632. I'm a worshipper. Was God's name lifted up #2

  633. where's God stretching me to grow and guiding me to lead?

  634. One of our, one of our core values as a church is growing

  635. generations in Jesus, bringing people to Jesus, growing

  636. generations in Jesus, sending disciples for Jesus.

  637. Growing generations in Jesus means that there's not a single

  638. one of us that God has finished with yet.

  639. There's not a single one of us that God has finished growing

  640. and stretching and guiding. And then the third question, are

  641. people being transformed? And is God's Kingdom growing?

  642. Are people being transformed? And is God's people, is God's

  643. Kingdom, is it growing? Here's why I would tell you in

  644. in so many ways, our call, our mission as a church is to do the

  645. hard work of, of, of cutting through the noise and drilling

  646. down to the main truths. And these are the main truths

  647. that God loves people. God loves people and God has

  648. chosen, God has chosen the church.

  649. God has chosen us to be His instruments, to bring his hope

  650. to the hopeless, His healing to the hurting, and His salvation

  651. to the lost. So here's where we're going to

  652. be ending things. This morning ended at the same

  653. way 930 is. Our prayer is simply this.

  654. God, would you send God? Would you rain revival down, not

  655. just in Riverbend Church, but in this community?

  656. Would you change lives? Would you change generations for

  657. your glory? And here's where it starts.

  658. It starts with each and every one of us praying for the one or

  659. two people in our lives that we're pretty sure needs Jesus.

  660. God, would you reach them in a way that only you can reach

  661. them? God, I'm so willing to step

  662. outside of my box, outside of my comfort zone of my own passions

  663. and, and, and my own people and my own preferences.

  664. God, I want to see your Kingdom grow.

  665. God, I want this person to be a part of your Kingdom.

  666. So here's the twofold call as we come to a close this morning.

  667. Number one, I'm going to challenge you.

  668. Lift up at least one person by name that you know needs Jesus.

  669. Now here's a caveat. Some, some, we may struggle,

  670. believe it or not, we may struggle to think of someone in

  671. our lives that we're close to that needs Jesus.

  672. That means that we've insulated ourselves way, way too much.

  673. So our prayers, if you're struggling to, to, to name

  674. someone in your life that needs Jesus, God, would you bring

  675. somebody into my life that needs you?

  676. That's your prayer. God, I want to pray for this

  677. person by name. That's phase one.

  678. Phase two. God, would you set a divine

  679. appointment for me to where I will have the opportunity?

  680. Will you set the stage for me this week so that I will have

  681. the opportunity to share your hope with that person as your

  682. pastor? I dare you to pray that.

  683. I dare you to pray that. Because the people that we love,

  684. guess what? God loves them more.

  685. And as much as we want to be used as instruments in the hands

  686. of a holy God, God desires to use you more.

  687. But it's always going to start with prayer.

  688. So would you pray with me? I'm going to pray over us.

  689. And then we're going to open up this altar.

  690. If you want to come down, pray for somebody by name.

  691. If you want to stay where you are, pray for them by name.

  692. But again, twofold prayer. Pray for the person by name.

  693. And then God, send me. Excuse me.

  694. God, we love you and we thank you for your word.

  695. God, we thank you as we come to the end of of the book of Jonah

  696. God, that through the life of Jonah, God, you show us a mirror

  697. of how easy it is for us to wrongly assume that what matters

  698. most to us must matter most to you.

  699. God, would you help us to understand that what matters

  700. most to you or or or or people? The people who like us, the

  701. people who are like us, the people who don't like us and the

  702. people who are not like us people.

  703. There's not a single person on this planet.

  704. There's not a single person in our neighborhood.

  705. There's not a single person in our family.

  706. There's not a single person in our workplace.

  707. There's not a single person that we will cross paths with today

  708. or this week that is not made by you in your image and therefore

  709. precious God, would you help us to cut through the noise of

  710. divisions and unnecessary barriers so that we can see

  711. people as treasured masterpieces created by you that are in

  712. desperate need of you. So God, in this time, God, we

  713. lift up by name. The men and the women and the

  714. students and the kids that are already close to your heart got

  715. us. Lifting them up by name is US

  716. simply putting ourselves in alignment with your heart and

  717. God not just stopping there, but understanding that you have

  718. chosen us to be instruments in your hands to reach that person.

  719. So God, as we lift them up by name, God, we also follow up

  720. that request by you by asking you to set a divine appointment

  721. for us that we would have the opportunity to give your hope to

  722. someone without hope, God, to be able to point someone that is

  723. lost to a life that can only happen through you.

  724. And it's in Jesus name that we pray.

  725. Amen. Thank you for listening to the

  726. Riverbend Church Podcast. Learn more about who we are as a

  727. church and how to connect. You can head over to our

  728. website, Riverbend Church dot Life.