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Radical Hospitality - Podcast Episode 21
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Hey friends, welcome to another episode of the podcast.
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Today we're jumping in on a conversation wrapping up Luke
Luke 7 chapter mention
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Chapter 7, which I think is going to hopefully be
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encouraging to you to continue having your conversations
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throughout this week, be it around a dinner table or in a
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car with a small group. We really hope that these these
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conversations land you in greater community.
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So realize that like you're probably listening by yourself,
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but our heart, our hope is that it would push you toward
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conversation with others. So praying that it would.
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Today I've got Chris McLeod with me.
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Chris, thanks for joining. My pleasure.
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Chris is going to be asking some questions based on the text and
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sermon from Sunday. Chris is our director of Youth
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ministry and I always get those titles like slightly wrong when
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I say them and I did with Elena as well last week.
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So all things youth, all of the weekly and yearly youth
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ministry, Chris is in charge of and does a great job with with
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our teens. So thanks for jumping out of
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that for a minute and and into this and you've got some
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questions for us. So yeah, Luke 7 if you want
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pause, reread it, pull it up on your phone or yeah, open a Bible
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if you need a recap. But the end of Luke 7, verse 36
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through to 50, verse 50 is the story about Jesus being anointed
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by in what most Bibles call a sinful woman.
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And it's, it's this intriguing interaction between Jesus, this
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woman and a Pharisee named Simon whose house they're all at.
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So we're going to get into some of that with with these
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questions, but why don't we jump in and get going?
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Awesome, Yeah. So first question, why do you
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think the woman's act of loves her radical hospitality towards
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Jesus? Why was that so powerful to him,
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especially when we compare that to Symons's reserved
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hospitality? Yeah.
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So I, I think for two reasons. The first is like practical, the
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we talked a little bit about this on Sunday, which is that
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the lady who comes and offers this radical hospitality to
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Jesus is actually taking on the role of host that should have
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fell to Simon. So I think the first reason why
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it is like why we call it radical hospitality, The first
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reason why it is so significant to Jesus.
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I think Jesus actually explains later on in in the text, right?
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So later on he says to Simon, you know, I came into your home
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and you didn't offer me water for my feet.
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You didn't greet me with a kiss. You didn't offer to anoint my
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head with oil. Those are the three main
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responsibilities of a host in Jesus day.
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So in any situation, if you are the host, if people are to your
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house, if you've invited them, if you're hosting a meal, if you
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have people, you were expected to be the one to offer those
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three things. As the host, it was like your
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duty, it was your responsibility.
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And so I think Jesus arrives, We don't know this from the
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beginning, but we find it out later in Jesus's own words that
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Simon didn't do those things, which would have been like a
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social misstep for him as religious leader, as a Pharisee,
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as a person, one who's hosting Jesus.
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Whether or not he, he offered those things to the other
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guests, like we don't know. We find out later like that
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there are these other guests there and you know, they, they
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don't really factor into the story other than we're told
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they're there. So whether they received all of
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those things from Simon as host and then he didn't offer that
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specifically to Jesus, we can't say.
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Or whether Symon is just not a great, you know, quote, great
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host. But so I think the the first
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reason is that, you know, Simon didn't offer these these acts of
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welcome and embrace to Jesus. When Jesus arrives, the woman
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enters the house, which again, we talked about not being like
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not being tremendously awkward in and of itself, that people
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would come and go and that it wasn't just Simon the Pharisee
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and Jesus. You know, there's a group of
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people there, so you assume people coming and going a little
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bit, but the lady arrives. She, Luke, tells us she's a
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sinful woman. Like he makes sure we know from
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the beginning that that's how she's perceived.
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And then Simon himself kind of reiterates that in his his, in
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his own words. O she not only.
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And This is why I think it is in part why it's significant.
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She not only takes on the exact precise role of host, but she
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does it to like a lavish over generous in almost like
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incredible way. So it's not like she shows up
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and thinks to herself, oh, Simon didn't welcome this dude into
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his house. I'm going to, you know, just do
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this. I'm gonna get a, a bucket of
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water and offer it to Jesus to wash his feet, you know, dusty
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roads, sandals, long trips, all of it walking pretty well.
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You know, I'm not going to offer him Simon's oil to anoint his
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head and kind of refresh himself.
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I'm not going to greet him with a kiss in the Simon Says it's
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this lavish, generous, overly so.
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She washes his feet with her tears and wipes them with her
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hair. She kisses his feet and then
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anoints it, says she anoints Jesus with oil out of an
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alabaster jar that she's brought.
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And so that's not a, you know, if you look this up, there's
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like a general consensus on what this would have been, but I
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don't think, you know, exact precise measurements of like
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this oil in an alabaster, though some people will suggest it's
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like this could even be like a year's wage.
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Yeah. Yeah.
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And so it's like probably a family heirloom almost that
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would have been kept. It is overly generous.
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It is in some people's minds, maybe in many people's minds,
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like a waste of that kind of thing to to use that to, to wash
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or to anoint Jesus's feet with. So it's overly generous.
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It's overly hospitable. It's like outrageously so.
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It is, um, an act of, of hospitality that's rooted and
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driven by love. And I think that's like the
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second thing. So the first, if the first is
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that it's just really, it is a an overly generous act of
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hosting in like just the strict kind of social human to human
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sense. Hmm.
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It's that if that's the first reason, I think the second
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reason is that really what we find out is that she is not
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welcoming Jesus into Simon's house as host so much as she's
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welcoming Jesus into all of her life for how he forgives and
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loves and how he's acted toward, toward Jesus.
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So like some people suggest that this woman likely very likely
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would have met Jesus already and would have known Jesus.
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And maybe there's been some interaction there of, of
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forgiveness or, you know, she's at least heard his message of
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forgiveness that it, this might not be the first time they've
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met, but that she, you know, she's internalized a lot of his
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teaching and really kind of wrestled out her own lifestyle
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and sin and come to a place of, of, of repentance of life
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transformation. But I think what we know from
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this text is that she is really welcoming all of what Jesus
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brings, love, grace, mercy, forgiveness, and like change to
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her life, transformation to her life, not just simply into like
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a physical house, but she's welcoming Jesus as one who
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enters into her life and radically changes it.
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And I think that's why we see, that's why we see her in tears.
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Like she's, she's weeping not just simply to like, well, like
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I can use these tears to washes. Like, I think she's weeping
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because she's genuinely been confronted by the reality of who
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Jesus is and has had her life altered because of the reality
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of who Jesus is and is wrestling that out.
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Yeah. This is the expression of love
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and gratitude. Thankfulness from one who knows
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full well how the world sees her, knows full well how you
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know she's lived her life, whatever that is.
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Like we're not told. And who also then knows full
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well how deep Jesus's love and forgiveness is for her.
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Yeah. And that's hit her.
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And so she's welcoming Jesus into her life in that sense of
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of host, Right. So I think, yeah, it's it's
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lavish on a human standard, like kind of from a human
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perspective. And I think it's representative
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of the radical transformation that happens when Jesus gets a
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hold of everybody and and transforms their.
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Life cool. Yeah, yeah.
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It's it's like just seeing her have that kind of raw honesty
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with herself of like understanding her brokenness and
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like you're saying like it's out of that place and understanding
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of like, this is where the tears come from.
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Yeah. You know.
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And so I guess a a follow up question, more like application
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based, like how can we see this contrast?
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What does that tell us about how we approach Jesus today?
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Like either between like that formality versus the the raw
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honesty that we see in the woman.
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'S yeah, yeah, I it this this question would be easier to I
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love this question. It'd be easier to answer, I
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think if Simon had actually done each of those three tasks as
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host. But just in like this wrote
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because it's required of me kind of way, then we could say, well,
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listen, like you can see Simon's heart.
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He's doing it because it's the right thing to do, not because
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it's representative of anything inside of him.
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And here's this lady who shouldn't be the host, but who
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is doing it like she's hosting in just such a lavish, generous,
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loving way because, you know, it represents her heart.
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So I mean, it would have been so much easier, I think, to answer
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if if Simon that he doesn't even do it exactly.
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He doesn't even do it. And so I think that there is
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that hesitancy. I, I bring that, that up because
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I do think that we can tend to struggle with this raw, like
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unfiltered response to Jesus. Like, I really do mean like, I
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think on Sunday I said, like, how far back do you think the
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crowds got like the other, the other people there, the other
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guests, like, did they leave? Like how awkward would they have
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felt watching all of this happen?
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And I I do think that there's a natural human inclination toward
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like awkward, like keep it at an arms length, don't make me feel
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too vulnerable kind of response. Yeah, that like I sure if I can
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think the right thing and believe the right thing and then
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just start to do the right thing, great.
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Like I'm in, but I do think we struggle with no, I'm going to
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get real honest and confront like the deepest, darkest pieces
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of my life and my soul, my heart and my mind and allow Jesus to
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meet me there and actually be transformed by, by Jesus
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presence and love, death, resurrection, confrontation of,
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of sin with, with life and Kingdom.
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Like I do think we, we struggle with that honesty.
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And so it, it I think that's why it matters that Simon didn't do
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the quote right thing in some way, because we can't even like,
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it's not even like you could say, well, at least that could
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be like Simon and I can do the right thing for a good reason.
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You know, it really is like I I think the gospel does force us
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to really wrestle with the the most honest, raw, at times
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darkest, most hurt pieces of our life.
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Yeah. And when we do it, it's really
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in those moments that there is that deep level of healing that
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leads to this outpouring of like tears and love that this this
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woman shows toward Jesus. So I think like we, we need
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people in our lives who are willing to press in and not
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allow or at least challenge us when we try to tip toward that.
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Like what I'll say, like legalistic, sort of.
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I'll say I'll do the right thing because it's the right thing.
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Like, sometimes we just need to do that.
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Sometimes you do need to do the right thing just simply because
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it's the right thing. Yeah.
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But I think sometimes we can maybe use that to avoid really
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wrestling with what's going on in our lives.
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So the fact that we see, the fact that we see Simon not offer
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these three, you know, forms of welcome as host does, I think,
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really show us that there's one way to respond to Jesus.
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And the right way to respond to Jesus is by allowing Jesus to
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actually confront and challenge and transform all of the pieces
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of our life. Yeah.
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So we don't get to compartmentalize it.
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We don't get to like wall off a piece.
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We're good at that, right? We don't get to keep like kind
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of hide these pieces back. Truly.
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Like what? What what God is challenging for
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each of us to do is to say, OK, all of it, whatever needs to go,
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yeah, game on. I'm willing to to deal with
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that. And I think that does happen
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when you got people in your life that are willing to like hold
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your feet to the fire as it were really simple, like day-to-day
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analogy. You need somebody in your life
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who is like, hey, how's it going?
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Good. Like how you doing?
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Good. No, no, OK.
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Like how are you really doing? Yeah, it's that second question,
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like, I don't believe you. Yeah, right.
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And you need people who are willing to lean in like that.
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And that requires so much just presence and awareness and non
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anxious, yeah, presence in in somebody's life.
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So, yeah, like I, I think one of the challenges is to be that for
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one another and to not keep things at that surface level,
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but really to like press into, OK, what what Jesus actually
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transforming in your life? We had that at the end if people
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were at the community Bible study, and that's kind of where
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we landed with the community Bible study is what are some of
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the things that Jesus is like convicting you on?
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And I remember that conversation around the table being like, oh,
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this is it Like this. These are so meaningful and it's
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so awkward at first. Like who's going to go 1st and
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how honest, Like how honest will the first person we And like,
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because that's like that's the tone.
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Yeah, yeah. But I do think the, the more,
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the more we can push away from the certainly like the time and
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the Pharisee and not doing, not having the conversations, but
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even the just doing the right thing, like having the surface
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level conversations. The more we compress into those
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deeper conversations, the better.
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And like, you know what that means?
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Like you need people who you can trust and who are who've earned
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trust in your life like that. It only happens inside of real
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meaningful deep seated relationship, which is why at
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the end I kind of brought us back around to community as a
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final is so cool. Yeah, so Jesus says whoever has
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been forgiven, little loves little.
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How does that truth challenge the way we talk about grace and
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sin in modern church culture? Yeah, I think we have a tendency
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to diminish sin, which might like, I don't yeah, that big
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people might hear that and be like, I don't know how to handle
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that. Yeah, mine I, I think again, I
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think because we wrestle with like vulnerability, honesty,
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like we, we struggle with our own sin.
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We as a community, what that can tend to look like is that we
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struggle talking about sin period, because I can't
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challenge you on your sin because I don't want you to
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challenge me on my side, right? Like that's kind of this, like,
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it's, it's almost like, you know, this is a terrible, like,
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feels like, like a little bit like mutually assured
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destruction. Yeah.
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So it's like you got your SIN. I got my SIN, and I'm not gonna
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challenge you on yours because I don't want you to lean in on
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mine. And we're like, anyway, so let's
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just keep those pieces personal and private.
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I do think that in Canada, something shifted in as, as a
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culture, like, and I want to say like I wasn't there, but I want
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to say in the 70s, and I might be wrong on this, on these dates
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where like we've relegated a lot of things to the personal
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private sphere of of like ethics and society.
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So religion is 1 and sex is another.
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And so I think it was, I think it was Pierre Elliott Trudeau
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when he was Prime Minister who said that the state has no
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business in the bedroom of the nation, right.
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So essentially what you do on your own private time is your
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own private thing and no entity ought to speak into that.
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And so I think we've done that in in terms of a lot of
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different things in life where we just naturally like, what are
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the things that you don't talk about on like a first date or
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with your in laws or when families together are like
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religion? Politics.
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And there's another one there. I can't remember what it is.
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Yeah. But like, we've we've just kind
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of relegated a lot of these things to individual private
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life. And they're, they're either like
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taboo. Like we don't talk about them in
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public. You know, you don't, I don't
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want to impinge on your thoughts and you don't want to impinge on
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my thoughts. Like, let's just, you know, talk
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about sports or the weather or whatever, where we're going on
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vacation. And again, like, we, we wrestle
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with having deep, meaningful conversation.
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And then you get somebody who's like, man, I struggle with small
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talk and like, they only want to go like, just like, you know,
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deep conversation, like, OK, yeah.
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Like more of that, yeah. So I think that when Jesus says
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whoever, and I want to read it, so you know, whoever has been
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forgiven much loves much is, you know, essentially the line, but
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it's her sins and they are many have been forgiven.
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So she has shown me great love. I love that.
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So this is the NLT, the new living Translation.
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And so, you know, it's just so crystal clear.
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I tell you her sins and they are many right, have been forgiven.
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So she has shown me much love. And it's the whole, it's the
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whole like mini parable that Jesus tells one person knows,
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you know, another 50, 3rd owes the same guy 500, the one dude
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money lender, he forgives both the debts and like, who's gonna
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be more grateful? Yeah.
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And Simon answers, Yeah, like obviously it's the one who owed
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more. It was going to take him longer
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to pay it off. He would have to work harder to
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do it. Maybe he couldn't like, you
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know, for all of these reasons. And I think the point that Jesus
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is making here is, um, not that, not so much that this woman's
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sin is greater than like Simonson.
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So she, you know, she's gonna love me better than you.
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I think what he's saying is she really gets it, Like she gets
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the depth of the need in her life and and Simon doesn't.
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He doesn't get the depth of the need.
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He thinks it's like 50, you know, 50 bucks when really it's
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500. Hmm.
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And I think what Jesus is saying is not like this woman gets it.
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She she has felt the devastation of sin and brokenness in her
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life, and she really, actually understands how great it is to
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be forgiven from that. Yeah.
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And I think that again, we struggle with this in, you know,
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what I would consider like a, a fairly affluent life in Canada
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right now for many people. And like for some it's not for
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some it is still, it's very hard.
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You know, think about people who are just brand new to the
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country and who have left everything and are trying to
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reestablish their life in a, in a new country.
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Maybe it's a new language. Like you can still have a
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difficult experience here day-to-day for a whole variety
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of reasons. But I think by and large, for
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many people, our affluence means that we are dependent on another
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for very little, right? Like, if you can go to the store
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and buy food when you're hungry, Like, it's been a long time
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since I had to depend on someone else to provide food for me.
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Yeah. And like, that's listen.
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Like, that's a privileged place to sit.
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I need to be really grateful for that.
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But I think what it does is like, our affluence makes us
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blind in some ways, like our physical wealth and accumulation
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of stuff, like not really having need really makes it hard to
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wrestle out like spiritual need because like, I don't need
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anybody for anything. Yeah.
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And now we're like, oh, no. But we do.
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You do. Yeah.
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And like, I think I do think we, we struggle with that.
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And so I think what Jesus is pointing out is like the lady,
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this woman gets it and she understands the depth of the
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need that she has for somebody else to come in and rescue.
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And that's why I love like CS Lewis's line that says, I think
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it's anyways, it's probably misquoted by a bunch of
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different people or like attributed to a bunch of
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different people. And so I might be misattributing
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it here, you know, because like there's a, there's a line that
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says, like, you know, if, if our, if our deepest need is
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humanity were like economic prosperity or wealth, whatever,
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like God, we've sent to an economist, right?
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And he goes to this whole list and he says, no, but like, our
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deepest need was actually our sin and our brokenness, like the
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death and decay. And so God sent a rescuer like
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one who is the one to lift us up out of, you know, pit that we
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can't dig our way out of or however you want to picture it.
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Yeah. So I think this, this line, it
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confronts us with the depth of our sin.
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Um, and though it, it really reveals, and this is where like
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I think it's positive in the end, it, it really reveals how
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great life and community and love can be once you've wrestled
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with how deeply loved and forgiven you are.
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Yeah. So, so our, our ability to love
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one another grows as we're willing to be confronted by how
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much we've been loved. Our ability to forgive people
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grows. Our capacity to forgive grows
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when we really genuinely wrestle with how we've been forgiven.
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If we kind of like put off like, oh, like my, my sins not that
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great. And I like I, you know, I
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definitely didn't do this or I definitely didn't do that.
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And I, you know, if you diminish your sin, then you diminish the,
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the greatness or gravity of, of God's forgiveness.
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And I think that hinders your ability to forgive and to love
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and to continue to be generous with other people.
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And certainly also, you know, limits your ability to to really
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live and flourish the way God's created you to.
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So I, I think again, like, I think we need to confront the
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reality of sin with the promise and hope and expectation of
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like, yeah, this increases our ability to love and to love well
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and to love one another in ways that that the church needs.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's great.
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You kind of touched on this a little bit on like the idea of
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how maybe we we avoid talking about sin, having those deep
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conversations and maybe how we even like how how we minimize
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sin, like the impact or the depth of sin in our life.
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How do you think that's affects how deeply we love Jesus and how
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rightly we approach him? Hmm, yeah, I so I, I picture
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like a, a friendship or even like you take it a step further
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and and think about like a relation relationship, dating
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relationship or a marriage, let's say marriage.
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And, you know, you, I think we would all likely agree that the
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fewer secrets you're trying to keep from your spouse, the
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better off life is going to be. Yeah, right.
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And you know, I, I just think that when we diminish sin, when
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we, you know, whether it's out of like our own trying to, you
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know, preserve something in ourselves or, you know, when we
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wall something off like that. Yet you can't live like an
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unhindered a relationship out when you're like just constantly
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trying to navigate this piece over here.
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Yeah. And I think that that's kind of
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like that's what we do in in some measure with God is, you
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know, what we're effectively saying is, yeah, you can have
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98% of my life, but I need to keep this thing over here for me
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because it makes me feel good. Maybe because I enjoy it, maybe
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because it makes me feel safe, maybe because it's like the
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thing that in season of trauma was a coping mechanism.
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And you know, that's like safety net, whatever it is.
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Like I think that that level of um, like walling off pieces of
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our life or compartmentalization just means that it's constantly
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there as you're trying to live out, you know, a loving and life
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giving relationship with, with Jesus.
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Yeah. So, you know, again, I go back
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to like a marriage where you got something kind of like, like, I
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don't want you to find this piece out or I don't want you to
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know this thing about me. Like maybe it's maybe it's a
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wound, maybe it's like a trauma, maybe it's like a history thing.
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And you're like, if you knew this about me.
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So like it's not, you know, it's not something that you're doing,
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but it's something that you believe you are.
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If you find this out about me, then you certainly you won't
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love me, right? So like I think that's another
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thing that can come into into relationships again, like you're
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just always dealing with that thing and always tiptoeing
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around not dealing with it. Yeah, right.
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Keeping it to yourself or not allowing the the pieces of you
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out that that ought to be right. And I think that this is again
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where this is the CS Lewis quote.
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At the end of my ceremony, I said, like when we learn or when
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we really realize, like God has forgiven the inexcusable in us,
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then we learn to forgive the inexcusable and others.
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Yeah. And so again, I think are you,
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you know, you asked about our capacity to love Jesus.
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I think it's hard to love somebody fully.
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It's hard for a relationship to be fully formed when when you're
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constantly holding something back.
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And and maybe like, so name another thing.
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Maybe it's work right? Like maybe it's it's yet I'm
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going to let you shape every single decision I make except in
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like when I'm at work. Like that's my, that's my arena.
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Yeah. Because, you know, you're like,
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I'm going to have to make some unethical decisions and I have
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to make some decisions that I know I wouldn't likely be
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comfortable making if I allow the gospel into that area of my
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life. And again, I just it's
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impossible to love somebody fully.
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It's impossible to be fully loved.
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Hmm, right when you're trying to hide something, or when you're
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trying to hold something back. When you're trying to say like
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this piece is mine, only I get to input on it, You not only are
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you not able to love fully, but you're not fully known.
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You're not fully loved. You are not like your the the
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Pete Scazzero. Peter Scazzero has this series
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called the Emotionally Healthy Right now.
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The iteration is emotionally healthy discipleship, but he
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wrote like emotional healthy church, mostly emotionally
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healthy spirituality. Yeah, emotionally healthy
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discipleship, which I'm struggling to say like all those
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things. But, you know, the the premise
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of it is that you can't be spiritually healthy and
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developed while being emotionally stunted.
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Yeah. And so for a long time we've
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done discipleship and like Christian formation as this.
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Let's get you spiritually as formed as possible.
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And you like, how much can you know and internalize, memorize,
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remember, like, but we're going to not focus on like the
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emotional health piece. Yeah.
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And so here comes Peter Scazzero.
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And you know what what they've written is?
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I think it's really shaped my understanding of spiritual
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formation because they challenge in, they say at the end of the
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day, you won't be spiritually formed if you're not also being
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emotionally shaped and formed. So you've got to deal with,
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like, the emotional stuff as you wrestle out the spiritual stuff.
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Yeah. And the spiritual stuff wants to
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deal with the emotional stuff and wants to, you know, inform
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it as you wrestle it out. But you can't remain emotionally
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a child while expecting to be spiritually mature.
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Yeah, and in the other way, he says.
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Like, you're probably not gonna be emotionally mature until
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you're also spiritually mature. Like they go hand in hand.
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Yeah. So you know, Jesus doesn't just
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want to save you to heaven when you die, like spiritually save
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you. He actually wants to get in and
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transform all of your life emotions, the way you think,
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act, how you are, all of it. And when we wall off those
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pieces or keep those pieces maybe at an arms length, that's
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what you're preventing. Yeah, right.
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Is is for the gospel to shape, for Jesus's love, to shape all
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of who you are and to wrestle out the the the hardest parts of
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of your life. Hmm, Yeah, I don't know.
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Does that answer? Yeah, that answering it.
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OK. Yeah, Yeah, definitely.
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Yeah. Now we see Simon judging the
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woman based on her past, like based on on her sins.
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But then we get that contrast with Jesus, who honors her and
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sees her for her presence, faith that she's showing.
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So how do we keep ourselves from putting others in boxes based on
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who they were as opposed to the person that they are becoming?
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Yeah, really. Like carefully, slowly.
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I don't have a perfect answer for this question.
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I don't have perfect answers for any questions, but I, I think
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this is where in my mind, this is where, again, the turn to
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community is necessary. Because like, I know we, we all
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know, like our own hearts toward judgment, Like, for whatever
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reason that is, you know, I think sometimes we, um,
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sometimes we, we wrestle with like God's love and grace and
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community bringing us into relationship with people that
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maybe we don't like, or, you know, that we don't think we're
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gonna like, or that we don't want maybe necessarily like
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people who are different than us in ways that go like, I just, I
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don't know how to talk to you. Like, I mean, those are kind of
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surface level things. But like, you know, each of us,
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I think know where we're prone to judgment and why we're, we're
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prone to judgment. I, I think that, um, one of the
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main ways we can, we can help combat that is by embracing
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community because it's in community where, you know, I
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need people to say to me, hey, like not sure that that approach
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is the right approach. Yeah.
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Or, or not sure that you're seeing this correctly, right?
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Not sure that you are reading what's currently happening.
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And it seems, it feels, looks like we're doing this whole
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like, you know, you're still over here, like judgment thing,
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right? So I think it's a it's a culture
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thing that happens inside a community where we learn to be
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accountable with one another and a name the fact that Yep,
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probably still going to be prone towards judgment and also name
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the fact that Yep, I'm going to need somebody to help correct
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that in me. And when it happens, having
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these relationships that we've built that that do allow for it
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and that do call things out. So, you know, if if in a in a
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group, something is said and it's like, hey, that like that
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lands, you know, that that sounds judgment.
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That sounds like judgment. Now, what I'm not saying is that
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like I'm not saying we can't be judging, right.
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I think that the, so we can, we can tip toward hyper or like,
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you know, exceptional judgment on on the one hand, like Simon
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does. Um, I think, you know, there
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could have been a, a different way for Simon to like approach
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the same like, you know, not like does Jesus know what he's
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doing? But I wonder what he's doing.
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Hmm. Right.
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Because very clear, like nobody would, nobody would, would
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disagree. Like Simon and this woman are
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different. Now the reality is they're both
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sinful and they both need Jesus to the same degree.
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Yeah, that's, that's the reality here, right?
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Is that doesn't matter like how close to perfect your life is or
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isn't. Like we all need in equal
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measure Jesus to repair a relationship that's broken.
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And there are lots of ways of talking about sin and salvation.
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But you know, Simon, so Simon, he, he goes like, does Jesus
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know what he's doing? Like if he did, surely he
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wouldn't. Like it's not only is it
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judging, but like it's, it's immediate condemnation.
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And so I think we like, we distinguish as we work through
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the sermon on the plane where Jesus says, you know, stop
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judging, stop condemning. We worked through the reality
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that those are actually different.
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They there's a finality to condemnation that there isn't in
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judge, in judgment or in judging necessarily.
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And we need to learn to forgive and give extra measures of, of
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grace to kind of come back and push against the, the, the judge
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and condemn. I think it's like Simon's he,
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he's like judge, jury, executioner all in one fell
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swoop in this. It's not like, does Jesus know
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who she is? Like, does he like, does he
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realize what's going on? It's if he knew.
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So he's already made the determination that Jesus doesn't
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know. Yeah.
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And that he's not a prophet, that he's not, you know,
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Messiah. He's not who he says he is.
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So it's not that he's just judging, it's that he's
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condemned. Yeah, He's condemned Jesus and
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he's condemned this woman. And there's no good that's gonna
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happen here. I think alternatively, like
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Simon, I'm like, dude, like just remain a little bit curious.
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Like even 1% curious about what? I wonder what Jesus is doing.
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This is not. This is not normal.
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Yeah, this is not what we all expected.
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I wonder what he's doing is just a different posture to take than
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that. Surely he's not, he's not a
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prophet, can't be. So it's the fact that he's
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judged, he's condemned, he's already, he's walked away from
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the whole thing already. So, you know, I, I think for us,
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it's how do we remain open to what Jesus is doing?
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Yeah. I wonder what Jesus is doing.
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So like, somebody walks in to the church.
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You're like, I never thought you were gonna be here.
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Like, hey, like, that's probably worth celebrating, right?
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I wonder, I wonder what Jesus is doing.
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Never expected you to show up. I wonder what?
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Jesus. Jesus must be up to something.
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Yeah, I think that's a different posture to take.
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And it's one that pushes against judgment.
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And so remain curious and open to what God's doing and worry
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less about what the individuals doing.
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And kind of like, I can sit here and go, man, I wonder what
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you're doing, if you thought this thing through.
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Like, I wonder what? I wonder what she is doing.
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And in the midst of this. Yeah.
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So, you know, community that's gonna hold you accountable and
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then remain open and curious to what God's doing.
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That's really cool. They're not gonna get you all
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the way there, but at least it's a start.
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Yeah, that's great. Cool.
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Awesome. So last question, OK, Jesus says
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your faith has saved you, go in peace.
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So I guess kind of too many questions.
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First, what does it mean to be saved in this context?
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Hmm. And then follow up on that, what
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prompted you and you've touched on this a little bit, but what
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prompted you to kind of discuss the need for community at the
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end of the sermon in the Go in Peace section?
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Yeah, Yeah, great. Two questions.
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So the first one, OK, saved in this sense.
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I've been wanting to talk about this and so maybe I have already
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talked about this and so forgive me, listeners, if like I'm
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repeating myself, it's probably worth repeating though.
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So we think of saved as I think at least we tend to think about
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when when we read that word like go in faith, you know, or or or
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your faith has saved you go in peace as like spiritual
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salvation, like, you know, moment of conversion was living
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in sin has encountered Jesus is now turned from sin and living
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in faith. So we're talking about, you
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know, lifestyle that was leading toward condemnation and hell
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destruction, you know, those pieces away from God and now a
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life that's turned and leading toward, you know, among other
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things like heaven, right? We think of salvation as well.
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You wanna go to heaven when you die, right?
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So what do you need to do in order to be saved, in order to
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be saved from something, towards something, saved from sin,
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toward life, saved from hell, toward heaven, saved like, and
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it misses a lot of what that word holds.
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So yes, it's spiritual salvation.
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Yes, it is spiritual redemption. And like it it it is and has to
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do with the destruction of sin and death and toward life and
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forgiveness and heaven. But it actually that word that
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we translate saved is the same word that we also translate as
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healed. So very often in the New
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Testament when Jesus goes around and he heals somebody, so, you
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know, casts out a demon and heals this person, or he says to
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the paralytic like get up and walk and we read like he was
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healed. It's that same word.
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I think the the root there is Sozo, but it, it it means to
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save and it also means to heal. Yeah.
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And you could interchange those English words in these
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narratives. So we should never read saved as
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strictly spiritual in the New Testament because like that
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again, to even say that like we don't have time to talk about
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this, but like this dualism between mind and body or body
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and like spirit is not Christian.
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Like it's not Christian to say that like your body is just
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going to die and decay so that your soul or your spirit can go
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to heaven when you die like that.
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Like you are created, you are created human being body, like
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mind and spirit. And like some people, you know,
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we want to talk about a soul. And you know, again, Christian
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philosophers and theologians debate about like whether we
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should talk about spirit or soul.
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And regardless, like when God creates humanity, he creates a
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physical body that is good. Like there's there's something
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that is like intimately human about being in fleshed.
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And when we talk about the resurrection, we're talking
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about new heaven, new earth, like new physical, like
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resurrected bodies. So, so you know, it's, it's the
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early churches had like names for all of it.
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Like literally, it is literally a heresy that the early church
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debated over about this, this creep of, of, you know, Platonic
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dualism and like this philosophy that says no, like we need to,
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we need to escape our bodies and, and release, you know, our
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spirits to this, the fullness of what they ought to be, right?
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So I think that still creeps into like contemporary
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Christianity and theology and philosophy, like how we talk is
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like a lot of it contains kind of these these roots in this
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dualism where, you know, we we think inherently all the flesh,
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like my body's bad, my spirit, that's what's good and that's
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what's going to live forever. And so I gotta focus on that.
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Like Jesus isn't talking about this like spiritual salvation
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that happens absent from the body.
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He's talking about the whole self being healed and being
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restored and being remade the the way it was intended to be.
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And that includes spirit and includes mind.
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It includes body includes soul, if you want to throw that in
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there as well. The whole person is meant to be
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recreated into the image of of Jesus.
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And you know, we know that that takes it takes it takes a long
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time. It's a process.
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So when he says to this woman, go, go in peace.
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Your faith has saved you. Um, it's meant to contain so
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much more than just your faith has spiritually saved you so
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that when you die, you go to heaven.
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Yeah, he's saying. No, actually, your faith is
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restoring you to life like all of who you are.
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Yeah, Spirit. Mind body, your, your entire
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life is being reordered by Jesus and by life inside the Kingdom.
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And it's faith that that you know in large part enables it.
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The faith of Jesus and the faith of this this person, just like
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it is for us, the faith of Jesus and the faith of this person.
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Whoever you know you may be, it's you know you were meant to.
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And like, listener, each of us were meant to find healing in a
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relationship with with Jesus. Yeah.
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And so, yeah, like, it's not just that you don't just forget
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the pieces of brokenness. Like, no, actually, those are
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the things that God wants to deal with in a way that does
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heal. So your faith has saved you.
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It's this holistic picture of what it means to be healed.
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Hebrew word Shalom is a really good place to start, right?
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For those who have been around when we've talked about it and
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others who have preached, like we talk about this idea of
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Shalom and and peace and wholeness and health and
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restoration, like this is all of the goodness of like the way
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life was meant to be. And yeah, so your faith has
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saved you, Like I said, like it's, it's that full picture.
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Go in peace then is connected to which is the second part of your
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question. Go in peace is connected to that
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healing, to that salvation. So for Jesus to say go in peace
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continues that holistic redemptive work that that Jesus
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accomplishes in in our lives, which is again, not just
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individual spiritual sin and salvation.
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It, it is holistic life being reordered around what is truly
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life giving and healthy for a human being.
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So for me that that means necessarily community.
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Yeah. Because I know that I can't
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like, I'm not going to be the best version of myself in
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isolation, right? Like individual faith like that,
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that doesn't, you know, lead me into the best version of of
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myself even as a Christian, like individual spirituality,
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individual. Yeah, theology, whatever it is.
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Like none of that, none of that is the best version of itself in
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isolation. So I think it, it, there's,
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there's an, there is like a, there's an individual way to
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talk about peace and salvation and healing.
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And there needs to be. But I think it always
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necessarily leads toward the health and healing, wholeness,
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peace, restoration of a community.
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Yeah. And I do think that we've lost
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some of that as a default, like I think the people of Israel,
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like by default, and maybe I'm reading too much into it, but
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like by default had these ways of talking about corporate sin
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and corporate, the need for corporate repentance and then
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corporate forgiveness and reconciliation.
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Like as a people toward God, there was sin and there was
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redemption and this back and forth and we've taken it and
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made it just very individual when I think it was always meant
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to be lived out in community. So, you know, you and I need
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community to be who God is creating us to be, and we know
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it, you know, And also I think we just need to talk about the
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fact that sin, salvation never meant to just be strictly
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individual. Yeah, it's always meant to be in
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a community and wholeness, health, healing, all of that is,
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um, it's meant to be, it's meant to be lived in community again.
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So peace, the Greek word for peace, one of its roots actually
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means to like. And I don't have it in front of
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me, so I'm I'm not gonna remember exactly.
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But to to mend into a whole is the the what one of the root
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words come means. Yeah.
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So to have peace with one another is to like bind up and
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mend back together into what is whole.
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And so it's not just like peace isn't just like the cessation of
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conflict. Go your separate ways, pieces
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mending, binding back together what is broken into a hole.
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Yeah. So for Jesus to say go in peace.
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That's why I think I get screams and this admittedly, like I
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didn't I didn't create that. I didn't come up with that
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point. Fred Craddock, who wrote a great
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commentary on the Gospel of Luke preacher in the States, pastor,
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He he's, you know, it's a question that he asks in his
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commentary, like where does one go when one is told to go in
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peace by Jesus? Yeah.
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And really the answer to that question, I think, is community,
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because of what peace really ought to look like.
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Yeah, again, it's not just individual like, oh, I feel
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better about my life. It's mending back together into
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a whole. Yeah.
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What was disintegrated and broken.
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So that's that's where I think we get to community.
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So salvation like saved, healing, health, wholeness,
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peace mending, binding wholeness again, taking individual pieces
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and binding them together into a hole in in my mind necessarily
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lands us in in community. Cool.
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Yeah. Call amazing.
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Yeah, well, that's all. Hey, thank you.
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Thanks Chris for being here. I appreciate.
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It my pleasure. Yeah, it's great to kind of go
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back and forth on some of this. And friends, we hope that this
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encourage you, like encourages you wherever you are into your
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week. We do.
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Again, we want you to find yourself in community.
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So we're hoping and praying that you can wrestle out some of
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these questions yourself with friends, with family, inside of
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relationship, and that in some measure, hey, I do rather bring
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you peace and health and mending, binding back together
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of what maybe feels like fragmented and a little bit too
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individual sometimes. So blessings on your week.
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We're praying for you and we'll see you in the next episode.