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Generational Impact | Clayton Hentzel

Crossing Church with Clayton Hentzel

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  1. Crossing family. I just got to tell you.

  2. I am in a present state of just gratitude.

  3. I am just incredibly grateful for things that kind of just

  4. seem to be going really stinking.

  5. Well, in a lot of different places.

  6. I mean, here's just one of them, this is low-hanging fruit.

  7. I'm on the last hole on my belt. I put this bad boy, on and I'm

  8. gonna have to make a hole if I get any smaller.

  9. Yeah, and I just want you guys to know, I haven't done anything

  10. to Warrant that kind of favor from the Lord, he just he has

  11. Mercy on those, he has Mercy on. Okay.

  12. Second thing, dear friends of mine are getting an opportunity

  13. to baptize their daughter today and I'm Excel I'm celebrating

  14. that that's going to be happening.

  15. I got a text message from a girl who's a part of our church who I

  16. went to high school with and her son is going to get baptized

  17. today. And I get to coach his baseball

  18. team. Team to me a great day.

  19. Here's another one. Me and my wife are matching

  20. today. and the reason why this is so special is you fall into

  21. one of two categories, you're the people who you love matching

  22. And the people who hate it and we go like Disney World.

  23. There's the couples that have all the matching Disney shirts.

  24. Like, I'm with Mickey, I'm with many and my wife hates that,

  25. like, she's a vomit City with people who match and you guys

  26. also know she picks out my clothes, which means she picked

  27. out my clothes and then she totally forgot what she had

  28. picked out for me. And then she basically put on

  29. the exact same thing, and she came to church.

  30. I said we match and she almost went home.

  31. She almost And make it to first service.

  32. And so, I had a few hundred people take pictures.

  33. So we all have a record of it. If you are joining from all of

  34. our different locations online inside, I am so glad that you

  35. are with us. And I believe that what we're

  36. going to talk about today could have lasting impact.

  37. And so, I'm so thankful that you took time out of your schedules

  38. to participate in what God is doing here at the Crossing

  39. today. I want to kind of recap this

  40. sermon series that we've been in called better.

  41. How to win at home. We believe that everyone wants

  42. to win at home because home is where we experience some of our

  43. greatest joys. It's also where we can

  44. experience some of our deepest pain.

  45. If I were to ask you what is one of your favorite memories?

  46. I'm guessing it involves people that are from your home and if I

  47. were to tell you, if you were to tell me some of your deepest

  48. pain, I'm guessing it has something to do with people that

  49. at one point in time lived under the same roof as you.

  50. And that if we can figure out a way to allow God into that part

  51. of our Lives, something significant, something good

  52. could happen and we began this whole sermon series.

  53. Talking about a core belief that here at the Crossing we have.

  54. But basically all Christians share and that is God, can

  55. redeem and restore anything and everything and that includes you

  56. and your family. And we talked about can Suki and

  57. that the broken pieces of Our Lives.

  58. Can be put back together that are cracks are not hidden but

  59. they are redeemed with golden significance.

  60. And then we talked about in order to give your life and your

  61. family, and your kids, the best chance of success, you're going

  62. to need a strong foundation. And there are a lot of things

  63. that you can build your life around, but when the storms

  64. come, you're going to need something that you can depend

  65. on, you're going to need something that's sturdy, you're

  66. going to need something that's immovable.

  67. And here at the Crossing, we believe that that Foundation is

  68. Jesus Christ, and there is nothing better to build your

  69. life around. And then we discussed how we

  70. were wired around our emotions, and how we are wired around our

  71. gender than that. That's true for you and your

  72. friends and your kids and we had some of you take tests to figure

  73. out your love languages and then we talked about God's design for

  74. us is to do life in circles. And that each of us have an

  75. opportunity to put people into the Board Room of our lives.

  76. And we need to be careful who we allow into the boardroom.

  77. Our lives. And we also talked about how

  78. each of us have an opportunity to be a board member in the

  79. lives of our kids, and how we behave and handle our board

  80. seat. Will determine our influence

  81. over the Long Haul. And then, we talked about one of

  82. the most valuable tools that God gives us in the raising.

  83. And the development of our kids is time and we also recognize

  84. that technology may be robbing us of the very thing.

  85. We need to make the biggest difference because technology

  86. steals our time and then Jerry and Andre talked about synaptic

  87. pruning. And how the decisions that we

  88. are making today are creating Pathways for our children's

  89. future. I've told you guys this a bunch

  90. about the prayer that I do with my boys on the way to school.

  91. And for those of you who are brand new to the crossing, maybe

  92. haven't heard it. Let me give you a little Tip,

  93. when I'm driving my boys to school every single day, I

  94. reached behind into the backseat that we hold hands for a little

  95. bit and I just pray a very simple prayer.

  96. God. Help my boys to have to grow up

  97. to love you with all their heart mind, soul, and strength, and

  98. help him to embrace embrace, the Great Commission and Make

  99. Disciples of all Nations, and help them to find a wife who

  100. will love you and love them. Well, like that's the prayer on

  101. the way to school, And it was during that sermon that Jerry

  102. and Andre were preaching about synaptic pruning and the

  103. pathways that get created. When we're young that I

  104. remembered that. My dad used to pray with me all

  105. the time on the way to school. I didn't realize that God had my

  106. dad through, God's help had created a pathway.

  107. That was benefiting my kids. And I started go okay.

  108. What other Pathways and what Pathways can I create for my

  109. kids then Jerry and John talked about balance?

  110. Well today, what I want to do is I want to wrap up this entire

  111. sermon series. And I've called this sermon

  112. generational impact, as I was getting ready to write this

  113. sermon, I was looking at some statistics, and I came across

  114. this one, and I was devastated, and no doubt about it.

  115. When you guys hear it, you're probably going.

  116. Feel the same way. The research is in nearly three

  117. out of every five young Christians. 59% are going to

  118. disconnect permanently or for an extended period of time from

  119. their faith and the church after age 15 Grandparents.

  120. Over half of your grandkids are going to walk away from the

  121. faith. Parents.

  122. Over half of your kids. If you're listening to my voice

  123. at one of our different locations and you are over the

  124. age of 15, you're in junior, high high school in that area.

  125. Over half of the people that you sit next to at church are going

  126. to walk away from God. You hear a statistic like that

  127. and it. It's heavy.

  128. I mean, I've got two kids like we should have just had one.

  129. Like what do we what do we like, who?

  130. Who is? How do you handle this?

  131. And what I want to do is I want to propose.

  132. We got three options as a church of how we respond to a statistic

  133. like that. We have three choices.

  134. The first one is, we can throw in the towel.

  135. We can just stop, we can quit, we can go, hey, you know, we get

  136. it, some people accept Jesus and some people, don't some people

  137. follow Jesus for a while and then some people quit, I mean,

  138. it's Paul who wrote who cut in on you, you are running such a

  139. good race. Maybe we should just acknowledge

  140. that. People run for Jesus for a while

  141. and then eventually they just get sidetracked.

  142. After all Clayton, wasn't it? Jesus, who said wide is the road

  143. that leads to destruction and narrow is the road that leads to

  144. eternal life. Why are you trying to fight

  145. against it? We can say, we tried, we had a

  146. good run and we can just send all of our 02:18 money to

  147. missionaries and repurpose our 02:18 staff and help them all

  148. hang out with adults. We could do that because fifty

  149. nine percent. It's not that good.

  150. That's option. One, option two is we can just

  151. keep doing what we're doing. No need to change anything.

  152. No need to adjust. No need to get uncomfortable.

  153. It was a good sermon series. We had a good time working

  154. through this. It was nice while it lasted but

  155. let's just keep things the same. Keep 02:18 the same which means

  156. let's change. Let's hardship, less pain, less

  157. sacrifice. We just came out of a pandemic.

  158. We came out of a contentious election like we just need to

  159. heal right now, the last thing we need to do is try to take a

  160. whole bunch of new ground. Let's just all collectively.

  161. Get our breath back. I mean after all we've got a

  162. pretty good system and Rhythm here at the church and we've

  163. been getting pretty good at what we do.

  164. We could do that one. and I, I think.

  165. That there's probably quite a few of you.

  166. Who were going option, three. Better be better.

  167. Then options 1 and 2 that you're a little bit like me that you're

  168. going after. All the goodness of God, that's

  169. been poured out on my life. After all the sacrifice that

  170. Jesus has done on my behalf, in light of everything that I know

  171. about having an intimate personal relationship with Jesus

  172. Christ. I can't stand option one, and I

  173. refuse option to. So, whatever option.

  174. Is I'm in, I don't even need to hear it because you're going, I

  175. can't look at Jesus. I can't look at a blood-stained

  176. cross and go. Yeah, I'm just going to phone it

  177. in. I'm just going to quit.

  178. He deserves something more. And the people I love deserves

  179. something more. And so here's what I would say,

  180. is option 3, we could pivot. As a church towards generational

  181. impact where we could decide that we are going to be a place

  182. that has generational impact and expects a generational return.

  183. But in order to have generational impact, we can't

  184. just say it. We actually are going to have to

  185. do at least three things if we're going to be that kind of

  186. church, the kind of church that attacks a 59% statistic a church

  187. that says not here. Not while we're around.

  188. There are three things that I believe at the bare minimum that

  189. we're going to need to have generational impact.

  190. The first one is consistency, if you've been in this sermon

  191. series, you've done a bunch of challenges.

  192. You've been you went on a date night thing.

  193. You read your Bible challenge. You took the love language test.

  194. You did the technology thing. You did an awful lot of stuff

  195. last night. I was at a Texas Roadhouse and

  196. while I was eating a guy kind of pops up over the side, he's

  197. like, hey Clayton. I'm on my Crossing date night.

  198. I'm like awesome man. And I'm like, what question are

  199. you on? He goes for, like, you got a

  200. tough road ahead. Okay, eat the steak now.

  201. Okay? Like you.

  202. I'm going. Yeah, that's awesome.

  203. But hear me? If you did all those things, you

  204. saw the benefits. However, if we want to be a

  205. church that has generational impact than this sermon series,

  206. cannot be a Mountaintop experience.

  207. The disciplined disciplines, we learn during the sermon series,

  208. have to become our new normal. We continually get invested in

  209. God's word. We continually Spend Time dating

  210. our spouse. We spend time choosing our kids,

  211. over our devices, you have to make that part of who you are

  212. consistency. I was talking to Ray need

  213. Richard campus Pastor from Hannibal about this and he said

  214. talk about Noah's Ark. How many of you at all of our

  215. locations? You've heard of Noah's Ark?

  216. Just want to make sure I got home crowd, okay?

  217. I'm thinking about taking a huge crew of you to actually go, see

  218. a replica at some point. So, pay attention to Email, but

  219. God came to Noah and said, no, I want you to build an ark which

  220. is a big boat, like, how big super big.

  221. It was 100. Our it was one point, five

  222. football, fields long, 50 feet high.

  223. Like you can't assemble Ikea furniture and he's building

  224. that, okay, now it was supposed to be.

  225. Yeah, one point five football fields long, 50 feet high.

  226. It was supposed to be made a gopher wood in a supposed to be

  227. lined with pitch. And it took him between 55 and

  228. 75 years to build and I haven't done anything that long in my

  229. life, okay? I don't even breathe that long.

  230. And here is Noah it. Took him between 20,000 days and

  231. 27,000 days. Everybody say 20,000.

  232. Twenty thousand days of cutting down, gopher trees.

  233. Say 20,000. Twenty thousand days of turning

  234. those trees into boards. Give it to me one more time.

  235. Days of hammering them into place.

  236. Give me a one more time days of lining it with pitch.

  237. It took consistency to save his family.

  238. And it's going to take consistency.

  239. To save yours, it's going to take consistency if you want to

  240. have generational, impact, consistency, and prayer,

  241. consistency. And spending time in your word,

  242. consistency, in dating and loving your spouse consistency

  243. in neglecting your phone and engaging with your kids, but

  244. when the storm came Noah and his family were ready.

  245. And when the storm comes, you'll be ready to 40 days of

  246. protection. Were purchased with 20,000 days

  247. of consistency. Galatians 6:9 says this.

    Galatians 6:9

  248. Let us not become weary in doing good for at the proper time.

  249. We will reap a harvest. If we do not give up, this is

  250. like every pastors life verse Because you are just pouring out

  251. hoping and praying that one day. It'll pan out.

  252. Listen to me do not become weary in doing good.

  253. Some of you right now you're going to back.

  254. I'm gonna I'm gonna be consistent and like next week

  255. like I don't know if I can do this.

  256. That's seven days. What was Noah like on day, one

  257. thousand. They 5,000.

  258. Is it ever going to rain? Am I ever going to run out of

  259. trees? Is this thing ever going to be

  260. big enough? Is this thing even gonna float?

  261. Twenty thousand days do not become weary in doing good for

  262. at the proper time, we will reap a harvest.

  263. If we do, not give up Crossing family.

  264. Do not become weary in doing good things.

  265. Because the payoff. Is worth it.

  266. If we want to have generational impact, we're going to have to

  267. be consistent. The second thing is we're going

  268. to have to be engaged. It's going to require engagement

  269. out of each and every single one of us, we cannot simply sit on

  270. the sidelines and watch this happen or expect other people to

  271. participate. We must lead out and engage.

  272. There are some of you maybe right now, at all of our

  273. different locations, maybe even watching online that are

  274. sensing, that God may be calling you to participate beyond your

  275. own home. That you don't want to just help

  276. your family but you want to serve alongside God's family and

  277. his Redemptive work, there might be some of you that are saying,

  278. you know what, I'm ready to be a coach and just investing kids in

  279. the community. I've been amazed at the doors

  280. that God's been opening for Jennifer and I we moved to town,

  281. you know, for pastors, it's really easy for us to get

  282. surrounded by church folk and forget what it's like to, you

  283. know, Reach people who don't know Jesus.

  284. And so we signed up to be coaches and I coach baseball

  285. last year and then I coach basketball this winter and we're

  286. coach. Baseball again today are and my

  287. basketball team is horrible a full disclosure.

  288. I mean, we well, it's bad. Like half my team didn't know

  289. the difference between a sack of potatoes and a basketball game

  290. and it was like, like on a regular basis.

  291. I'd have to say we're on defense now.

  292. Okay, stop shooting it. There's okay, it was, it was

  293. horrible. But the crazy thing is, is when

  294. you walk in the game, how many times you gotta pray with

  295. somebody? And I got to give somebody a hug

  296. and I got to talk to somebody or somebody would invite me over to

  297. talk to their friend to invite them to church.

  298. Church. Like just in those little

  299. moments that simple Act of obedience had profound impact

  300. recently, the schools had a donut day with parents for

  301. breakfast. They know how to get Dad's to

  302. show up because they were there in full force and I mean, I went

  303. through the line on my, I just need to bring this up.

  304. I have two kids here. And I'm willing to adopt, okay,

  305. like how many donuts do I get by get one per kid?

  306. Anyhow, while I'm there. Some of the kids that have been

  307. on other teams like came up and I got an opportunity to give him

  308. a hug and and high five and pray for them.

  309. Like you have no idea what God could do in your life with just

  310. one small Act of obedience, one small engagement, one

  311. opportunity where you put yourself out there and allow

  312. yourself to be used by God to be a part of shaping and molding

  313. and Caring for and loving the Next Generation.

  314. I would love across all of our different locations.

  315. If the communities were going, you know what these Crossing

  316. people just show up and they're coaching all the sports because

  317. Crossing dads and Crossing moms. Love kids and love families.

  318. There might be some of you who are going you know what?

  319. I'm ready to serve alongside of our this gen team and I want to

  320. be a part of our this gen team whose difference makers are

  321. serving kids at church every single weekend and you're

  322. saying, you know what, I'm ready to be a spiritual father or

  323. grandfather or mother or grandmother and and so you know

  324. what, I'll be a part of it, I'll be a consistent face on a

  325. weekend that someone can come in and learn and be loved and have

  326. at least an hour of reprieve from the chaos that surrounds

  327. their life. Maybe you would be that There

  328. might be some of you that are going man, you're low on time

  329. and you're low on energy but you know, your amply supplied and

  330. you're going, you know what, I don't want finances to be a hint

  331. of a hindrance to any kid who's wanting to go to camp.

  332. And you're the kind of person who go up and find one of our

  333. staff members and say hey how much is this week of camp and

  334. you're going, you know what, I'll sponsor, one kid or five

  335. kids are 10 kids. I'll just make it happen because

  336. I don't want anybody to not be able to go.

  337. I've been praying that there'd be a hundred people that would

  338. join our next. Game over the next couple weeks

  339. here at our church that would say, you know, our this gen

  340. team. Who'd say, you know what, I'm

  341. in, I want to serve right along side of you.

  342. Maybe you're the person who's going, you know what?

  343. I'm ready to lead a life group and I'm going to invest in moms

  344. and dads and marriages to give them a stronger foundation, so

  345. that they can create a stronger foundation for the kids.

  346. This is what happens if we all leverage our gifts together.

  347. This is what it says in Romans chapter 12, for just as each one

    Romans 12 chapter mention

  348. of you has one body with many members and these members do not

  349. have all the same function. So, in Christ, we though many

  350. form one body and each member belongs to all the others.

  351. For we have different gifts. According to the grace given to

  352. each of us, if your gift is prophesying, then prophesy in

  353. accordance with your faith. If it is serving, then serve if

  354. it is teaching, then teach if it is to encourage then, give

  355. encouragement if it is, giving, then give generously.

  356. If it is to lead, then do it diligently.

  357. If it is to show Mercy than do it, cheerfully in order to have

  358. generational impact you. And I need to take the gifts

  359. that God has given us and I don't have every gift.

  360. You don't have every gift, but if you take the gift that you

  361. have, and I take the gift that I have and we give them back to

  362. Jesus. He's able to create a clear

  363. picture of himself to a watching world when you take your gift.

  364. And I take my gift and we turn our gift back over to Jesus for

  365. his glory, were able to more accurately, be the hands and

  366. feet of Jesus to people who need it.

  367. The most But it only happens when we engage the third thing,

  368. we're going to have to be consistent.

  369. We're going to have to be engaged.

  370. The third thing is, we're going to have to sacrifice.

  371. You've heard me talk about our core values and this core value

  372. kind of resonates with all of us like the high end.

  373. But on the low end we struggle. Let me show you downward.

  374. We will gladly give up the things we love for a future

  375. generation. We love even more. but I think

  376. if we could reword it, most of us would say we will

  377. begrudgingly. Give up the things we love for a

  378. future generation wear. Right?

  379. Because this is what sacrifice requires will gladly give it up

  380. because we love them even more than the things that we have.

  381. In the things that we cherish. It might mean that you have to

  382. give up a sermon series that you like for a generation, you love

  383. even more. It might mean you have to give

  384. up hearing a particular Communicator Because You Love a

  385. certain generation even more. It might mean you have to give

  386. up some of your time. It might mean that, you know,

  387. your parking lot won't be as nice as you want it to.

  388. I have travelled around to a lot of different places and I've

  389. kind of noticed that churches that have the best parking lots

  390. or sometimes the churches that have the least amount of kids.

  391. Because you can only spend your money in so many places, and if

  392. you dump it all in the parking lot, there's just not that much

  393. left. So, you know, You know, tires,

  394. don't go to heaven. People do so, you know, now you

  395. know, why our parking lots, aren't that great.

  396. Okay. You might have to give up a Hot

  397. Weekend in the summer to go and be at camp and invest in this

  398. generation. You might have to give up an

  399. hour of sleep on a Sunday or a home-cooked meal on a Thursday,

  400. because you're going to show up and serve.

  401. However, we are choosing to give up the things.

  402. We love for a future generation. We love even more.

  403. And Jesus never comes into people's lives without somebody

  404. sacrificing just how it works. Jesus came to Earth through Mary

  405. and Joseph, you know what? They had to give up that he give

  406. up their home and the reputation Jesus came into people's lives

  407. because the disciples carried the message, they had to give up

  408. their jobs, their home, their livelihood, their dreams and

  409. their comfort. God, had to give up his son, and

  410. Jesus had to give up his life. Jesus is our Supreme example.

  411. Look what he says in Mark chapter 10, for even the son of

    Mark 10 chapter mention

  412. man did not come to be served. The son of man is Jesus, did not

  413. come to be served. Served but to serve and to give

  414. his life as a ransom for many. He had to sacrifice.

  415. If we want to be a church that has generational impact, we have

  416. to be consistent. We're going to be engaged.

  417. We're gonna have to sacrifice. The kind of wrap this up and put

  418. it in context. There's been something that's

  419. kind of been bugging me for a while and it was just, it was

  420. kind of personal and then it kind of became organizational.

  421. And so, I kind of put my thoughts down and I've shared it

  422. over a couple weeks with the campus pastors.

  423. And then this past Tuesday, I had all of our staff come in for

  424. an all staff. And while they're there, I kind

  425. of shared this with them. And I want to kind of share it

  426. with you because hopefully, it'll help it'll help you have

  427. some terminology to talk about what we're wrestling through as

  428. a church or at, Is what I'm wrestling through.

  429. These are Clayton six stages of ownership.

  430. Okay, in any environment in your life, you're going to go through

  431. these six stages. Okay?

  432. So your boss comes to you and says hey we're going to start

  433. doing this. You're going to walk all the way

  434. through these when your wife comes home and says I want to

  435. get a cat. Okay, you're going to walk.

  436. This is universal. Okay?

  437. And so this will happens, you hear you process it, you

  438. understand it, you agree with it, you implement it, and then

  439. you own it, and everything in your life is kind of following

  440. somewhere on this Continuum. So this sermon the sermon

  441. series, you hear it and then you process it.

  442. Right, let me give you a couple examples.

  443. Um, Working out. Okay.

  444. You go to your doctor? And they say, hey man, you got a

  445. little chunky. Now, you've heard it.

  446. Okay, I never liked you anyway, man.

  447. And you're ugly, you know, I can lose weight, but that's, that's

  448. staying right. So you're, you know, you decide

  449. you come home and you're processing it and you're talking

  450. to your wife. I don't even like that guy, you

  451. know? I mean he who she's like, well I

  452. mean you want to you want to be around to roll around with the

  453. grandkids and you know, you've always wanted to have washboard

  454. abs. This is all hypothetical Right?

  455. And then you're kind of like I do I do want to, you know, when

  456. we have grandkids, I want to be the cool grandpa, I want to be

  457. limber, you know. I don't want to hurt myself,

  458. putting my shoes on. I get it, I gotta change the

  459. way. I mean, you know what?

  460. I think the doctor was right little died in a little

  461. exercise, probably go a long way.

  462. I was driving around a guy for a job interview that he did an

  463. exercise plan called 75 hard, had a drink, a whole bunch of

  464. water. Read a book, do two workouts a

  465. day and then he just quit. And he lost like 30 pounds and

  466. then he was, you know, starting to get back.

  467. He says my problem is that I don't know how to lose weight.

  468. I know exactly how to lose weight.

  469. The problem. Is doing it.

  470. So many of us. Agree with it.

  471. But don't ever implement it. Let me give you another one.

  472. Let me give you a fun one. I did the sermon on technology.

  473. I have never in my life received more positive feedback.

  474. From a sermon. Oh yeah.

  475. Clayton. Oh after church that was so

  476. good. Well you when you were saying

  477. it, my ears were just being massaged by the Holy Spirit, I

  478. heard it. Aah.

  479. And I was sitting there processing that and I was like

  480. my kids and my grandkids are always on their phone and I was

  481. like, that's not good but your sermon was I processed it and I

  482. Exactly what you're getting at that, if we keep this up, it's

  483. going to cause all kinds of problems. and I agree with you,

  484. wholeheartedly and that night. Right?

  485. Yeah, yeah. They'll look at your screen

  486. time. Don't come at me, right?

  487. How many things in our lives? Stop at agreements.

  488. We never get around to implementation.

  489. The difference between these two things right here.

  490. I think that's Implement. Yeah.

  491. I mean, you know, the Bible says the difference between these two

  492. wisdom and foolishness Jesus is the one who says, don't just

  493. simply be hearers of the word, but be doers of the word, he who

  494. hears the word, these words of mine and puts them into practice

  495. is like a wise man who built his house upon the rock.

  496. But the foolish man heard it. Processed it.

  497. Understood it agreed with it and built his house on the sand.

  498. And the rains came. And beat against that house and

  499. it fell because it had no Foundation.

  500. How many of us Have heard invest in your family.

  501. Take invest in your spouse. All yeah.

  502. My marriage is actually probably going to be better if we spent

  503. time with each other and you go up.

  504. Yeah I do actually every time I've ever made this investment

  505. things have got better. I wholeheartedly agree that we

  506. should I think I'm going to watch the game today.

  507. Here's what I need, if we want to be a generational church, we

  508. have got to at the very least, move past agreement.

  509. We have to at least take a step in the area of implementation

  510. and you could implement it for a variety of reasons.

  511. There might be two, maybe even three of you who would go?

  512. Yeah, I'll do it. Because Clayton and Jerry said,

  513. so you just like, yeah, we love them.

  514. Trust them. We're on board, all three of us.

  515. There might be others of you who are going, you know what?

  516. I love Jesus and light of everything that he's done.

  517. On my behalf, I'll do it because, you know, Jesus

  518. deserves it and you might do it because your wife is just

  519. nagging at you. You might comply because your

  520. kids just keep begging, you moment of transparency.

  521. I honestly thought the technology thing was not that

  522. big of a deal in my home. But when I started using the

  523. phrase, no technology night, my boy is latched onto it and on a

  524. regular basis when I pick them up, my boys will say, can

  525. tonight be a no technology night.

  526. Hear that? Could you implement it?

  527. For whatever reason would you just start living out these

  528. principles from this sermon series better because I believe

  529. that you and this world will be better for it.

  530. But what I'm really hoping for is not people who implement it

  531. out of obligation. I'm looking for God to raise up

  532. a church. A people that look like you and

  533. me who own it and you might we go on Clayton.

  534. What do you mean by own it? A person who owns it, like a man

  535. who owns it a man who's at one of our locations are watching

  536. online right now, A person who owns it, a man who owns it would

  537. say, I recognize that, I'm a man of God, I'm a father

  538. grandfather, Uncle son, and brother.

  539. And I have been put into the lives of my family and friends

  540. and neighbors to be a force for good.

  541. A woman at one of our locations are watching online.

  542. Who owns it would say. I'm a woman of God, I'm a mother

  543. grandmother, aunt daughter sister.

  544. And I have gifts and abilities that have been placed inside of

  545. me for his purpose and for his glory, a person who says, I'm

  546. going to own, it would say I recognize that there are those

  547. who do not have a strong family, tree to support them and I

  548. gladly, give of my time and my talents and my resources so that

  549. other people can be cared for. For loved and pointed to Jesus.

  550. I'm praying and hoping that there are people all across this

  551. region who are saying I'm ready to own it.

  552. And the person who owns it would say, I acknowledge that the

  553. minds of the young children in my life are being shaped and

  554. molded. And so I choose to engage in the

  555. process to help them develop lifelong patterns, that lead to

  556. Godliness, family, success, and spiritual flourishing.

  557. A person who owns it would say. I choose God.

  558. Oversleeping. In I choose my family over my

  559. device, I prioritize worship and I direct my gaze towards

  560. Heavenly promises. I do not take my spouse for

  561. granted, and I choose to invest in our relationship, a person

  562. who owns it would say, I'm going to spend time in God's word, so

  563. that I'm put fully filled up. So, that way when God wants to

  564. pour me out, anytime he wants to, I am amply supplied, a

  565. person who owns it would say, I face the challenges of today,

  566. with the confidence that God has all the wisdom that I need.

  567. I am a generational change agent, a person who owns it

  568. would say, the generational sins that have been passed on to me

  569. will not flow through me. They stopped with me.

  570. They stop here, they stop. Now, a person who owns it says,

  571. the generational sins will not touch my children, they will not

  572. visit my grandchildren, a person who owns it says, my family is

  573. better and they're getting better.

  574. Better because I am taking spiritual responsibility.

  575. A person who owns it says, I recognize that the church is

  576. only going to get 17 days with my kid from the time that

  577. they're in kindergarten till the time that they graduate.

  578. So, I recognize that I am the pastor of my home.

  579. I am the pastor of my workplace. I am the pastor of my friends,

  580. and my neighborhood, and my block.

  581. I am a spiritual influencer that wherever I go, the Goes with me

  582. and the spirit has power. I'm a person who owns it.

  583. My example will have an impact and my investment will reap a

  584. return. I'm a person who brings about

  585. generational impact and I'm wondering.

  586. If there's anybody at any of our locations who want to join me in

  587. that mission, we're moving to a time of decision.

  588. There are some of you in here right now.

  589. Who's you been coming here for a long time.

  590. And you're trying to think through your relationship with

  591. Jesus Christ and you've never really started one.

  592. You seen lots of other people start one.

  593. But for some reason, it's never been you.

  594. And I get it. You have questions, you have

  595. doubts. and you've, if you were to kind of go through those six

  596. stages, You've heard about it. You've heard about Jesus, you've

  597. processed it and you're like, yeah, I need Jesus.

  598. You understand it? You like, you kind of know

  599. what's supposed to happen because you've seen everybody

  600. else around. You do it.

  601. You even agree that your life would be better if you had a

  602. relationship with Jesus, but for some reason or another, you

  603. still think you got to fix you first.

  604. And that is one of the most deceptive lies that Satan has

  605. ever spread. I had friends visiting from out

  606. of town and he's getting ready to be a senior pastor in a

  607. church in Ohio, and we're on the phone and we're they were trying

  608. to place an offer on a house. And you're placing the offer and

  609. then, you know, you have to get the home inspection.

  610. Right? And if you're incompetent like

  611. you're praying to God, that you get a great home inspector who

  612. finds all the things that need fixed. if some of you you

  613. thought about selling your house because the markets been looking

  614. great, And you're going, we got to get all this stuff fixed

  615. first. Otherwise, nobody will buy it.

  616. But when it comes to Jesus, he's an as is buyer, you want to know

  617. why? He's not worried about the punch

  618. list of all the things that need to get fixed in your house

  619. because Jesus was a Oh, he was a carpenter.

  620. His hands are used to fixing things.

  621. His mind is attuned to see the problems and knows exactly how

  622. to fix it, and has all the tools in his tool belt, to do the job

  623. that needs done. He's an as is buyer and so

  624. you're going around trying to hammer in trim with a fork.

  625. Glory soon as I get this fixed in Jesus can buy it.

  626. But I need you to hear me say this.

  627. If you could fix you, he wouldn't have come.

  628. If you could fix you, you wouldn't have needed a savior.

  629. If he could fix you, he wouldn't have died on the cross.

  630. He came to take you as is, and then when he puts his hands on

  631. your life, on your spiritual house, man, he You know what?

  632. God can do and he gets ahold of somebody.

  633. I don't have to tell you, you've heard plenty of Stories.

  634. The question is, when are you going to let him put his hands

  635. on on you? I know in the back of your mind

  636. it's just it's common courtesy. You just want to fix it up

  637. before you turn it over. But that's not how it works with

  638. Jesus, because he has plans that you can't comprehend that he

  639. wants to do in your life. And the things you're trying to

  640. do are the things that he's probably going to have to undo

  641. and do, right? You're trying to lay, you know,

  642. Hardwoods over the top of your carpet is like, that ain't stop

  643. please. You can't do this.

  644. If there's anybody in here. For while you've just been going

  645. I feel like I'm supposed to but I just not yet because I just

  646. haven't figured. Would you be willing to just

  647. talk to somebody today, just a few moments, there's any people

  648. over there by the bachelor that would love an opportunity to

  649. talk with you about what it means to start that relationship

  650. with Jesus, the voice in your head, that's telling you to put

  651. it off. Is not his I don't know whose it

  652. is but it's not his. Because his says, come come now.

  653. To the rest of you in the room who don't have a relationship

  654. with Jesus yet or already have a relationship with Jesus, forgive

  655. me. Here's what I asked you to do.

  656. I'm going to ask all of you and you're going Clayton meet.

  657. Yeah. If you've got black socks on,

  658. white socks on brown socks, on green socks on no socks on You,

  659. some of you are checking okay? You I want you to spend some

  660. time during these, next two songs.

  661. Whether you come up here to the steps and get down on your

  662. knees, whether you'd you get on your knees where you're at.

  663. Maybe you go over by the batching.

  664. You put your hands in the water. Wherever you need to do it at.

  665. Here's what I'm asking you to do.

  666. If we're going to be a church that wants to have generational

  667. impact, we're going to pray for it.

  668. We have to beg God to help us with it.

  669. And so, would you just pray over your kids by name?

  670. Would you pray over your grandkids by name?

  671. Would you pray over the kids that are in your class who, you

  672. know, are going through at hard? Would you pray for them by name?

  673. Would you pray for the people you want to?

  674. Like to Easter by name. Would you pray over the people

  675. that you work with that? You can't wait until they

  676. finally find an intimate personal relationship with

  677. Jesus. Would you pray for them by name?

  678. And then when you get done praying for the people in your

  679. life by name? Would you pray that God would

  680. reveal to you? What he wants you to do?

  681. To own it. I wonder what God could do with

  682. the church like that. I'd sure like to find out I

  683. think you do too. Would you stand with me?

  684. Heavenly father, I'm asking you to use this moment right now.

  685. To connect with every person in the room whether they're a long

  686. way from you or they've been following you.

  687. Their whole life got I'm begging that this moment right here,

  688. would begin generational change That the only way that we could

  689. describe what is starting to happen across our campuses, is

  690. that you are moving and that we are responding.

  691. The god, that we would have the courage to step out In faith.

  692. To become a church, that's going to have generational impact.

  693. Your name I pray. Amen.