Sermon
Running Toward Empty | Clayton Hentzel
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Crossing family. It is so good to be with each
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and every single one of you. I am so glad you here.
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I've missed you. And I'm excited to be able to
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spend some time with you today. And I don't know what brought
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you in. I don't know the circumstances
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surrounding you coming. Some of you are navigating,
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probably a really rough time in your life right now.
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You had a rough week, some of you because the things that are
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happening to you relationally, some of you because of the
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heartbreaking stuff you're seeing in the news and I just
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want you to know you made. One of the best decisions that
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you can make to surround yourself with the people of God
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to spend time in the word of God and allow the spirit of God to
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move in your life, which is the only hope that this broken world
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is going to have is that people getting connected with God
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through his Holy Spirit and his church and his word.
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And so I'm just so glad so glad that you're here.
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I have to do this as a little bit.
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I just feel compelled to do it. When I was growing up.
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I went to a really small church and they had a time in the
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service where they did Request and you just raise your hand and
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everybody heard your prayer requests and then made a list
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and they prayed for it. And then they also did a thing
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called this. Anybody in here, raise your hand
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if you know what this stands for.
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I just want to know the people who grew up in church.
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Okay, this stands for praise the lord.
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And there were these moments where we had the ptl's of the
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service, where you got to say something good that's going on
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in your life. And that was your praise, the
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Lord moment and we acknowledge those like in the prayer time
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and I have a PT l-- thing happening for me this weekend.
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So I wanted, I wanted to walk a daughter down the aisle like
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that was something I wanted. No, I wanted on my on my list of
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things and my stepdaughter Kennedy has an incredible dad.
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And so when she got married he got the honor and he should have
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to walk her down the aisle. I got the distinct honor of
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officiating the wedding, but when Jennifer and I were having
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kids, the first two came out were boys and we just couldn't
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risk a third because we're going to have to feed them.
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And three hensel's is, you know, an Escalade payment when it
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comes to a food bill. And so, you know, we had, we had
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to stop for budgetary reasons. And so that was kind of like,
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you know, well there goes that dream.
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Well a girl named Lisa go. I've talked about before she
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lived with us for a year. She reached out about four
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months ago. And she said, hey, I'm getting
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married up in Chicago, over Memorial Day weekend and vanilla
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for it's one of my dear friends are Macomb campus.
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Pastor is officiating the ceremony, but she asked me if I
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get to walk her down the aisle and I said yes immediately and
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then I hung up the phone. I went to my bedroom and I just
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bawled, I just bawled because only God can just answer the
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deepest desires of your heart and unexplained ways and just
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one small Act of obedience from my wife, bringing Lisa into our
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house, created the opportunity for me to do something that was
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heavy on my heart. And so I just, I feel like I owe
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it to God, to just declare his favor over my life and that God
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answers prayers and he hears us and he knows What we want.
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In fact, scripture commands. This look what it says.
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In Psalm chapter 40. I'll Proclaim your saving acts
Psalms 40 chapter mention
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in the great assembly. So I felt like I should I do not
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seal my lips. Lord, as you know, I do not hide
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your righteousness. In my heart.
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I speak of your faithfulness in your saving help.
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I do not conceal your love and your faithfulness from the great
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assembly. He goes on, in first Chronicles,
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to say this, what you and I are supposed to do declare his glory
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among the nation's, His Marvelous Deeds among all
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peoples. For great, is the Lord and most
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worthy of Praise. He is to be feared above all
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gods and I felt it would be wrong as your pastor to not just
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acknowledge where God has been moving in my life.
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And that is one of the ways that people who don't have a
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relationship with Jesus, can find a relationship with Jesus
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is when we declare how God is moving in our lives and how you
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can have that intimate personal relationship with him.
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So I had to get that out of the way, because I just felt like I
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owed it to him. So, thank you for indulging.
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Me in that. I want to welcome you from all
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of our different. Since I'm so glad you're here.
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And if you're brand new to the church, we're in a sermon series
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called chasing Shades and Jerry did an incredible job last week
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of introducing the The Book of Ecclesiastes.
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And he talked about a merry-go-round and how we can
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get on the Merry-Go-Round of life and you go round and round
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and round, but you don't go anywhere it leaves.
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You, right where it found, you only with less money in your
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pocket and I could not stop what he was preaching of this GIF.
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You guys have seen it. Okay.
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Okay. All right, and listen tell me is
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this not us? We've fallen off the ride, but
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we're not letting go isn't that it?
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We're still hanging on. We're in a bad relationship with
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a boyfriend, or a girlfriend. We know it's over.
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But we're still hanging on, we know it's not good.
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Our jobs, our money, our stuff hasn't made us any more happy
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anymore fulfilled. But there we are still hanging
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on our marriage. Is in a rough patch.
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We know that the trajectory were on isn't good.
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But we still keep running the passive aggressive play.
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We still keep doing the angry fit throwing play.
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We're still Hanging on. I know, I just, I just want to
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tell you let go. Okay.
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Just let go stop. This.
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Merry-Go-Round won't solve anything.
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All you're going to get now is rug burn.
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Okay. All right.
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I was talking to Jerry about this on Monday that this sermon
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series for me comes from a very pastoral place.
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I see so much pain and Brokenness day in and day out.
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I hear stories each week that are just gut-wrenching and some
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of the worst pain that I experienced is what I call one
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day pain. Everybody.
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Say one day pain, you know, one day pain is somebody you love.
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They're getting ready to walk down a road.
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And you know that when they walk down that road one day, they're
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going to experience an awful lot of pain.
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We've all seen people on the one day Pain, Train that schedule
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that business practice that belief system, that
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relationship, that purchase that uncontrolled emotion is one day
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going to cause them an awful lot of pain.
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The list could go on and on and some of us we could provide
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testimony. If we were to pass the mic
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around at each of our locations and talk about the one-day pain,
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that you've experienced in your life that you had.
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All of these road signs. All of these people yelling turn
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around, but you just kept going. In fact you increase the speed
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instead of slowing down. And one day, it all came
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crashing down. This sermon series is designed
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to keep you from one day pain. It comes from a place with a of
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added a sincere, desire to help you learn from the wisdom of God
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and apply it in your life and education.
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There is a model of learning called The Bark model and all of
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you teachers, don't noose me over this.
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Just I know I'm not a teacher and you're like, well, that one
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was so good. Back went.
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Okay, just track with me. Okay, you don't make sense.
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Visual auditory reading and writing and can aesthetic.
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And you guys, you guys are all smart.
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You get all this visual. It's people who are better able
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to retain information when it's displayed and presented on
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graphs and charts and diagrams auditory.
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Learners are people that it makes more sense to them when
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they hear it when it's presented to them vocally.
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When they hear it they begin to engage at a higher level reading
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and writing is when they focus on the written word, text Heavy
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resources. They're typically note takers
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and then There's the kinesthetic Learners when they physically
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engage, when they take an active role employing their senses
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during the Hands-On approach seals in the information and
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that's why. When we preach, we try to make
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sure that we're hitting as many of those as possible.
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The one we can't do is the kinesthetic one.
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You have to do that one. When you leave, you have to
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trust God. You have to get take a step of
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faith and go. I'm going to apply what I
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learned visually auditorily through reading and writing and
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I'm going to put it into play in my life and watch the Of God, be
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revealed through my actions can aesthetically, and we try to
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employ all of these methods. However, there are some things
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that can only be learned can aesthetically.
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Like, I could all of us right now, you could learn how to
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change a tire on any four of those.
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Like, you could, you know, you could watch all a slideshow on
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how to change a tire. You could go out for the most
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part. I mean, I wouldn't drive it, but
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most of you, you could put the tire on Right, you could, you
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could hear someone talk you through it and some of your
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like. Oh, yeah, not a problem.
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Go out, spend it on your good to go.
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Some of you, you could, you know, you pull out the
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instruction manual and you Like how many newtons of torque
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numbers like, when you can't turn it anymore?
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That's when it's good. Right, but you can do all four
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of those when it comes to changing a tire.
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But when it comes to riding a bike, The only way to learn how
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to ride a bike. It's can aesthetically.
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It's actually getting on the bike.
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Can you imagine someone saying have you ridden a bike before?
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No, but I've read all the books about it.
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You like? Okay.
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It's a steep hill. Hold on.
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All right. Yeah, you just can't you have to
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well when it comes to life I want you as often as possible to
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avoid having to learn experientially.
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I want you to learn visually by watching the lives of other
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Christians around you, or people who aren't following Jesus, and
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seeing what happens. I want you to pay close
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attention, and listen to the people around.
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You proclaiming wisdom, and pointing you to the truth of
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God's word and listening to people who have already
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travelled down that road and can tell you what's right or what's
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wrong, and how that's going to impact you.
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That's how people can spot one day pain.
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Because they've already been down that they had some day pain
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and they're trying to prevent you from one day pain.
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I want you to learn about life, through Reading and taking notes
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of those who have gone before you.
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And if you have to learn life lessons, experientially, I want
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you to choose to engage experientially in areas where
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other people around. You have experienced massive
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success, or at least have an incredible safety net now.
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Because experience is a profound teacher, it will teach but the
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price tag is high. And I know that that's not life
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is not that simple. Sometimes it's hard and you're
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going to have to do backflips from time to time.
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And I know that's tough. But when you have to find
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yourself in a moment where you have to do a backflip, have a
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safety net. True story.
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I want to be able to do a standing back flip.
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I've wanted to know how to do a standing back, flip since high
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school and I practice and I have yet to fully succeed.
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Okay. Now, you know why I'm still
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standing here and not, you know, didn't have to get wheeled up
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here. It's because I don't practice in
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the front yard. Okay, I pick a place that has.
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So I practiced when when you know campus pastors or kids want
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to go to a trampoline park. I don't do the foam pit.
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I don't do it on the trampoline because you know that bounces
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back and you know, I don't that's a lot of weight on one
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Little Neck. Okay, but listen, if you take me
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to your backyard pool and you get on your diving board, I will
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pull off a beautiful backflip with toes pointed.
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Okay? Legit I just I'm not at a point
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yet where I'm going to like, you know stand in your front yard
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and jump up and grab my knees. Just not ready there.
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So you can try the bigger things.
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If you have a better safety, net Solomon is coming to you and
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coming to me from both the past and the future to give you a
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nun, the ability to learn without having to practice can
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aesthetically. He's saying, I'm coming to you
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from the past and the future. He's coming to you from the past
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because he's Been there, done that and he knows the outcome,
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but he's also coming to you from the future.
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Because if you were to take every one of your wildest dreams
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and Ambitions and multiply them by 10,000.
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You still wouldn't be in the ballpark of the pleasure that he
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experienced and he found all of them.
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Halo. I want you to pay close
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attention to him. I want you to learn from him.
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I want you to lean into the blessing that God is trying to
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give you because if you don't it will cost you what you treasure.
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Most it will cost you time and relationships.
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It will rob you of purpose and meaning we did the sermon survey
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a while back, and this is what you said.
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In our church. 53 percent of us are searching for purpose and
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meaning. 60%, six out of ten of you need help handling stress.
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40% of, you are dealing with burnout 40% for in 10 of us, are
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dealing with an identity crisis in short.
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We don't know who we are. We don't know why we are, and we
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are stressing and burning ourselves out in the process.
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That's why we're preaching about chasing sheets.
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It's because I want you to take in Solomon's wisdom and apply it
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in your life and experience the blessing, the chapter I'm about
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to talk to you is about is all about the piece.
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It is pleasure projects, possessions power profession,
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and position. I'm not going to say that fast
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because Papa please just preached this sermon.
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Okay. Now you'll remember, it
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Ecclesiastes chapter 2. I'm going to walk you through
Ecclesiastes 2 chapter mention
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the whole chapter. So if you brought your Bible,
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use it, here we go. I said to myself, this is
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Solomon. Come now.
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I will test you with pleasure to find out what is good, but that
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also Have to be everybody, help me out.
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That's interesting. Laughter.
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I said is madness and what does pleasure accomplish?
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I tried cheering myself up with wine and embracing Folly, my
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mind, still guiding me with wisdom.
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I wanted to see what was good for people to do Under the
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heavens during the few days of their lives, Solomon seeks, the
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pleasure of substances, and he doesn't Find meaning and purpose
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at the bottom of the bottle. He doesn't find Escape because
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it's waiting for him when he sobers up.
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That's why I'm so glad our church and many of our locations
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has a region Ministry because it helps people overcome and
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recapture. What drugs alcohol and pills
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have taken. It helps them find Victory and
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meaning in Christ. Jesus.
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So solemn and tries pleasure in the bottle, doesn't find it
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there. Then he tries laughter and he
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doesn't find it there either. All the comedian's, all the
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Netflix specials can can never permanently.
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Replace the realities of this world.
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You can laugh as much as you want.
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You can try to find ways to keep yourself away from the pain and
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sorrow and the misery, but eventually it's going to come it
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too is meaningless. So then he goes on chapter 2,
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verse 4, through 6. I undertook great projects.
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I built houses for myself and planted Vineyards.
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I made Gardens and parks and planted all kinds of fruit trees
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in them. I made reservoirs to water grows
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of flourishing trees. So he's tried pleasure.
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He's tried. He's tried wine, didn't find it,
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tried laughter, didn't find it. You know what?
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I'll do, I'll just build great things and that is exactly what
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he did. He built absolutely beautiful
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things. He built the temple of God and
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it took him seven years to build it.
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Then he went to build his own house and it took him. 14 says
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something about his relationship with God.
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That the house of God was only worth half of the time that he
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spent for his. When his own house, but you
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know, some of you can relate, you're like man, I've been
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waiting for my husband to put outlet covers on our house for
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about 13 years. You're like, I get it.
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I understand how it happens and I just want you to know this,
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all those things that he built, you can still touch them to this
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day in 2023. Our church is gonna be going to
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Israel. You're going to get some
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information about that and you're going to be able to
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actually physically touch the foundation stones that he put in
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place for the temple and you're going to be amazed at the wisdom
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that it must have taken to figure out how to get those
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things into. Place.
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You can go there and 3,000 years later.
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They're still there, but they don't have any meaning in them.
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Have you ever met somebody? Raise your hand.
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If you know somebody who's built a house, all those people are
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the worst, aren't they? The probably like they're
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convinced that everybody cares, right?
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You met them. Look at these pictures.
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And this is how we did our electrical stuff.
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And I did this cool thing with the plumbing, and here's a cool
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sound system. Like, oh man, so like, makes
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sound and stuff. Cool, dude, right?
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You've met those people. Yeah, and then then, after they
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get done, Their house, they poured the have the wet concrete
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and they all put their name in it and like 40 years later.
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You can't even see what the name is.
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Like, who's that? I don't know.
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It's the idiot who didn't put a light in the pantry, right?
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It's like what's the what's the deal with this dude?
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Right? Look, I just our every time we
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get money. It has to go somewhere.
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So we've been saving up to do a remodel on our house and then
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the roof leaked. Okay, and I put really cool
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shingles on my house because I wanted a metal roof, but I was
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pretty sure. My neighbors would get upset if
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I put a regular metal roof. So I found the metal roof, that
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makes it look like real shingles and I spent all of this money to
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fix my roof and nobody comes nobody.
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Nobody has come by my house and like, those shingles look,
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awesome. No, they don't even know Irish.
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Gold my roof. They don't even care.
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I try to tell him. And, you know, see though, you
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know what, you're not going to believe this that thing that you
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can barely see right there, right there.
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Look real carefully. You see that?
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That's actually metal. They're not going up.
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I'd like to accept Jesus. You're so tell me more
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Copernicus, writing. They never not be.
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There's like, okay, cool. Cool Flex, man, like well, I
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didn't just do it there. I did it there too, but did the
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whole roof? Frank.
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You okay, cool, man, and I'm super pumped about the project
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and nobody cares and whenever I sell that house.
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There's going to be some guy going.
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Yeah, some dude, put all this money in the middle on the roof
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and his cabinets. Don't match.
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What? Okay, it's good.
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You've been there. Some of you, you're boiling your
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life down to how good your yard looks or how nice your living
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room, enhances conversations, and we went with the vaulted
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ceiling. So that way when people come in,
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you can hear the laughter reverberate through the drywall,
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but you're a mean person. So, nobody ever comes over to
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your house and these say, It's not there.
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I'll look what he says, Ecclesiastes 24/7 through 8.
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I bought male and female slaves, and had other slaves.
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Who were born in my house. I owned more herds and flocks
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than anyone in Jerusalem. Before me, I am as silver and
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gold for myself, in the Treasure of kings and provinces.
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I acquired male and female singers and a harem as well, the
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Delights of a man's heart. Here he talks about power
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possession and pleasure. He has employees for every task.
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He has a gardener and a pool boy and a cup bear and a coffee
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maker and a close picker router and a clothes iron.
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ER, he has them all. And it's not there.
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He has all the flocks and herds you could ever want one time,
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when he dedicates the temple. He Slaughters, 22 thousand cows,
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120 thousand sheep and goats. That's just what he sacrificed
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to God. That's not what he had in his
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possession. As for his sound system.
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He has the original surround sound.
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He has people that are like his walking soundtrack.
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And he's like, do the Bruno. Okay, and they're like, we don't
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talk about Bruce, don't know. And they're like, oh, that's
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cool. Right.
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That's all he has. He's living it up.
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It's, you know, instead of Dolby.
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It's Solomon surround sound, ask for money.
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He was making 2.7 million a day. As for sex, 700 wives and 300
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concubines. This is a man who has all the
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money, all the toys, all the power and all the sex you could
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ever want. And he comes to one conclusion
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Church. Meaningless.
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Look what it says. In Ecclesiastes verse 9.
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I became greater by far than anyone in Jerusalem before me
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and all of my and in all of this, my wisdom stayed with me.
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I denied myself. Nothing my eyes desired.
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I refused my heart. No pleasure.
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My heart took Delight in all of my labor.
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And this was the reward for all of my toil here.
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We see position and power. He's the best, the greatest.
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No One Compares them before, or Come after him.
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He is the undisputable. Goat the greatest of all time.
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No one could deny him. Absolute power.
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He's out the Pinnacle. No one tells him.
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No, nothing's Out Of Reach. Nothing costs too much. and he
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says, It's meaningless. Jim Carrey.
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Jim Carrey make this statement at a graduation ceremony where
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he was the keynote speaker. I wish people could realize all
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their dreams and wealth and fame so they could see that.
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It is not where you are going to find your sense of completion.
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Ecclesiastes 2 verse 11 yet. When I surveyed all that my
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hands had done and what had I had toiled to achieve?
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Everything was meaningless a chasing after the wind.
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Nothing was gained other, the sun, after all, this all the
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pleasure, all the possessions, all the power, all the position,
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all the projects. It's meaningless.
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He's lived a selfish life, a life dedicated to himself, and
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it did not satisfy. He drank deeply of all that the
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world had to offer and yet he was still hungry and thirsty.
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It never quenched. It never filled.
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Verses 12 through 16. Then I turned my thoughts to
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consider wisdom. And also Madness and Folly.
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And what more can the king's successor do than what has
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already been done? I saw that wisdom is better than
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Folly just as light is better than Darkness.
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The wise Have Eyes in their heads, while the fool walks
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around in the darkness, but I came to realize that the same
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fate, overtakes them both. Then I said to myself, the fate
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of the fool Will overtake me. Also, what then do I gain by
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being wise? I said to myself this too, is,
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if I help me out meaningless for the wives, like, the full will
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not be long remembered. The days have already come when
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both have been. Gotten like the fool.
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The wise too must die. Now he comes and realizes that
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death, awaits us all. It comes for everyone, the wise
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and the foolish. And if this life is all there,
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is this life can't be it because he has searched the Heights and
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depths of it and found it meaningless.
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And he keeps going like, man. I'm glad we came here.
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We needed to pick me up, Clayton, appreciate this 17
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through 19. So I hated life because the work
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that is done under the sun was Grievous to me.
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All of it is meaningless a chasing after the wind.
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I hated all the things I had toiled for under the sun because
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I must leave them to the one who comes after me and who knows,
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whether that person will be wise or foolish.
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Those of you who are older, who put a little bit of money,
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aside. You're going man.
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I worked my whole life for this and I'm going to turn it over to
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the kid. He was wearing skinny jeans, and
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I don't know. I just don't.
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He realizes that eventually everything he has is going to
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belong to someone else. He realizes, he can't take it
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with him and those coming after him, they squander, what took
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his entire life of toil to set aside.
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Or they could take what was given to them, and they could
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waste their entire lives. Trying to find meaning in it.
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He's depressed. And he keeps going.
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Yet, they will have control over all the fruit of my toil into
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which I have poured, my effort and skill Under the Sun, this
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too is meaningless. So my heart began to despair
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over all my toilsome labor Under the Sun for a person may labor
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with wisdom, knowledge and skill.
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And then they must leave all by own to another who has not
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toiled for it. This too is meaningless in a
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great misfortune. What do people get for all the
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toil and anxious striving with which they labor Under the Sun?
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All their days? Their work is grief and pain
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even at night. Their minds, do not rest.
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This too is meaningless. He turns to your profession.
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Because how did you get the big pile that you have that you're
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going to leave to your kids? Oh, I remember how you got it.
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You got it by giving all of your days and all of your life to a
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job and you piled it high and you had your success but you you
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got up early and you stayed up late but you neglected your
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health and your marriage and you neglected your kids, you burnt
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yourself out, you stretch yourself out, you run on empty,
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you fill yourself up through the drive-thru window, only to find
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yourself way down with grief and pain.
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You can't even sleep because you've been striving for a
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profession. Does not satisfy.
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You hear people talk all the time about finding the job that
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they want that? They were meant for doesn't
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exist. You were meant for God.
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That's what you were meant for. You remember that?
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You may enjoy what you do. Cool.
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Great. But if you're trying to find
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your meaning in that, not their man, look.
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What he says, something turns here A person can do nothing
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better than to eat and drink and find satisfaction in their own
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toil this to, I see is from the hand of God for without him.
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Who can eat or find enjoyment to the person who pleases him.
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God gives wisdom, knowledge and happiness.
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But to The Sinner, he Gives the task of gathering and storing up
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wealth to hand it. Over to the one who pleases God,
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this too is meaningless a chasing after the wind here is
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where he gives us the answer. It is when you take the things
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of the lower story and you aim them at heaven, when you aim
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them at the upper story, that is where you find your meaning and
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purpose, it is when the things that God has given you here on
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Earth are leveraged for eternity.
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It's when you eat and drink with friends, to share the good news
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of the Gospel of Jesus Christ. That's when you invite people
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over, and you have something to drink to put a cheers together
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for God and His favor over your life, his protection, and his
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provision. It's when you take your position
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and you leverage it to point people, to Jesus at work.
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It's when you come become, the boss that prays for his
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employees and hopes that one day, you get to join them in the
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baptistry and baptize your employees.
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Your job isn't to employees. Many people in possible and to
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grow as big as possible, but you see yourself as a Bosco and I'm
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so glad I get the opportunity to employ people and treat them
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well, so that way I can point them to Jesus who made it all
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possible. It's when you build your house
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with the hope of entertaining, The Young and the orphan, The
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Refuge, and the distraught and the questioning, and you go, we
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have more rooms in our house than we have people on.
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Wonder, if there's people who need a room and you start
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bringing people in and loving them and showing them the ways
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of Christ. It's when you were getting ready
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for the summer. It's when you turn your camper
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or your lake house into an opportunity to be a Ministry
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Retreat or to invest in a young couple who are trying to figure
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out how to navigate the challenges of marriage.
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It's, when you take your possessions and you turn them
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over and try and make them a gift to the kingdom of God, to
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be leveraged to bring people into the kingdom of God.
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It's when you decide to see your work as an opportunity to show
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off how good God is when you want to be the very best
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employee. So that way your boss is
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scratching your head in. Why do you show up early?
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Why do you stay late? And why do you work harder than
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everybody else? And you, you look at your boss
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and you go, it's because I'm not working for you.
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Because the Bible tells me to do it all as if I was doing it
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under God. When you become that kind of
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person, that's where it finds. Meaning.
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I'm doing this job to point people to Jesus.
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Now, how do I wrap this all up? I'm huge.
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I'm ginormous. I can't even.
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For those of you to other locations.
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It's hard. I'm just a big old dude.
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And I cannot I cannot I cannot I cannot find clothes that fit me.
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It is one of the most impossible things on planet Earth and it's
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incredibly frustrating because I want to look nice when I go
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places and all the clothes that I end up buying just are from p
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and so my wife put me on Stitch fix and for the longest time, we
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were able to get a whole bunch of outfits that kind of made me
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look decent when I stand in front of you because I get
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insecure. And the problem is they're
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really good at finding me pants and sweaters.
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And if you remember, last year, I preached through the summer in
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sweaters and when you're my size, that's a lot of sweat.
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Okay, I'm getting dehydrated. Can't get enough in my system.
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And here's the thing. Everybody.
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I meet says, oh, you should try this store.
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No, man. It doesn't have it.
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It just doesn't and you all use your try.
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This one doesn't have it like seven years ago.
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We went to Vegas and everybody's like, oh, we're going to go
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shopping. Popping.
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I bought a cigar and just sat outside because there's like,
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nothing. I'm I talk to people on the
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street about Jesus and watch The Magicians and, you know, tried
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to sing a couple Tunes with the street guys, but there ain't
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nothing in there. And people will convince me.
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You've got to come in here. They'll have stuff in your size.
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I walk in, go to, it takes me about two seconds noop.
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And then they'll say this, as if I've never heard this before,
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have you ever tried a big and tall store?
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The thought, never crossed my mind here?
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I am big and tall my whole life and I never even thought to
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Google it. Not once.
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Yeah, I've been to all of them. All of those stores are big, not
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tall. I mean, I could put a couple
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poles and a family of five could sleep in whatever shirt they
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want to give me. That's it.
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Okay, and it's like, incredibly frustrating because I want to
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look nice. I don't want to look frumpy and
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I get so tired of preaching and sweaters in the summer.
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This past weekend. We went somewhere.
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And guess what? Everybody on the, on the, on the
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trip wanted to do. They wanted to shop?
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Okay, so I'm like, alright, where am I sitting?
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And they're like, would you just try this one store?
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Would you just give it a shot? Lecture, so I walk in, I go all
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along this, the left side. Jenny.
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No. Jenny house.
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All right. Well, we tried.
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And then my wife said this, they have a big and tall section.
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Okay, I heard that before. We go in there and I try on a
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shirt. And holla at your boy, if it
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didn't fit like a glove. As I'm demonstrating right now.
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Okay. Yeah, praise the Lord.
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Yeah. This shirt is so stinking comfy.
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It's like made with Angel Souls. It is, you know, I'm telling
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you, I'm on point right now. I go into the, I go into the
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changing room and my wife just starts bringing me more and
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more, and every one I put on. Unlike.
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Yeah, I think we should. And the running a sale 25% off,
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you know, that means every fourth shirts foot for free.
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So I stack a bag and I walk out and I I'm like, all right.
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I got I got four shirts. I feel I feel great.
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I'm not going to sweat all summer.
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And I'm standing up and I'm just like me.
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And that was just fantastic. I just This is amazing.
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My wife skills. Do you think we should go back
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in there and get the rest of the shirts?
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So, I went back in. And I go to the back and Felicia
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bees there. There's to Felicia's Felicia be,
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was there. You can be, hopefully she's
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watching this weekend because she's coming to Women's
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Conference. And so is the lady who the other
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lady, who checked us out because I'm not going to tell you how
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long that receipt while I was a kid.
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You not. I bought every shirt they had.
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Their that was my size. I had people, I had people
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voting. I took the little folding table
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that had the wheelie chair and I put all the shirts that were my
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size and I was like, okay, let's do a quick vote.
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Only the unanimous ones are getting into the pile and I
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stacked it. I then I went to the front and
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then I Clayton. Do you know, you could get an
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extra 15% off? And I said, how do I do that?
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Sign up for the text. Message thing is like, well, I
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already paid only 25% off on these shirts.
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The first time around, like, well, you have to return all
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those. So I returned all of the shirts.
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I had purchased for 25% and then I purchased all of them for 40%
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off and I walked out with two bags, which listen to me in the
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history of my life. I have never had two bags of
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clothes that fit me. Why is this simple matter to
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you? This is the closest thing that I
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can tell you about what it is. Like when you finally experience
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Jesus, I'ma tell you why. Track with me.
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You have searched in place after place after place after place.
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And everybody has told you that it's in pleasure and everybody's
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told you it's in projects and everybody's told you that if you
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finally get your house that you want, you'll finally be happy.
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And everybody's told you that if you have the right kind of dog,
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you'll be happy. And if you have the right kind
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of house, you'll be happy. And if you have the right kind
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of cars, you'll be happy. And then if you have more cars
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in the cars that you can possibly drive, if you finally
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have For cars, but you only have two drivers then you'll be
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happy. And they've told you that if you
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get different kind of carpet, you'll in your house.
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You'll finally be happy. And they told you that, if you
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repaint the walls, you'll finally be happy.
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And if you make those friends and you belong to those clubs
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and you have this kind of job and you make this kind of money,
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and you have these kind of benefits, you've been told over
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and over and over again. By people, if you just have
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this, then you'll be happy. And one day someone says
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something you like. Hey, man, have you ever heard
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about Jesus? And you like man?
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I've tried everything and I'm not going to find it there
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either and they go all. But would you would you come in
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for a little bit when you give Jesus just a chance and you find
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yourself in an unassuming town, at one of our unassuming
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campuses, and someone talks to you about a person named Jesus
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and you try it. Jesus on a little bit in your
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like, hold on a second. It fits.
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And man, does it feel good? And they're like, well, there's
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not just there's not just forgiveness.
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There's mercy and you're like, oh my goodness, Mercy feels good
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too. And you're like, oh hold on a
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second. There's not just forgiveness and
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mercy, there's Grace. The you like hold on a second.
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There's not just mercy and forgiveness and Grace.
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There's also love you like. Oh my goodness.
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I can't believe I finally found it and you go up to the register
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and you go to pay and you're like, well, it's actually
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already been paid. And you're like, oh my goodness
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in you and you walk out of the store and you're going, I can't
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believe that all of this was in there.
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I never would have guessed. And then somebody looks at you
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and he says, do you think you should go back in?
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And so you go, you go back in and you, you go to the place in
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your hold on a second. There's, there's meaning and
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their significance. And there's purpose, and there's
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Mission. All of this is there.
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And it's, it's for me and it fits and I can have it and you
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go up to the register. Your like, I was in here earlier
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and it was I know the price was, I couldn't believe it, but I
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picked up some additional items and they're like, actually these
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items are on sale, too. If you, and I could stop chasing
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all the things that this world has to offer.
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And finally chased Jesus. I am fully convinced that all
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the question marks in your soul, will turn into exclamation
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marks. We're moving to a time of
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decision. For those of you in this room
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and watching online. I'll be quick because I went
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long and I apologize. I am ate up with the person and
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work of Jesus Christ. And that is the mission of this
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church is to help people find an intimate personal relationship
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with Jesus Christ. And there's some of you in this
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room or some of you watching online.
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You have watched everybody else. Walk out of the store lit up and
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excited about what they have found in Jesus.
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And you just keep peeking through the window.
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Go man, it'd be nice if I could and boy.
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It looks like they're super happy, but I don't know if they
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have my size. I'm telling you, man.
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They have it. Jesus has the answer for all
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shapes, and all sizes, and all colors, and all backgrounds and
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all economic statuses. He has, what every single person
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is looking, but you are never going to experience.
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What Christ has to offer by looking at them.
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It's only when you place your trust in him, when you receive
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the work that he did for you on the cross.
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And we here at the Crossing, the way you start to experience that
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relationship with Jesus Christ, as when you recognize that God
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is God, and you're not that you've sinned and you can't
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figure it out on your own. You can't pay it back on your
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own. There's a debt that you can't
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handle and you recognize that when Jesus came, he lived a
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perfect and sinless life on your behalf in the he died on the
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cross on your behalf to Searches for, you, freedom, and
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Redemption, and Eternity. That the lower story is not your
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destiny, that there is something more coming later and you go,
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you know what, I want that. And the way you receive that is
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when you become obedient than the area of baptism and you
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allow yourself to model what Jesus Christ did on the cross.
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You allow yourself to be buried and brought back to life in the
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Bible, says, in second Corinthians 5:17.
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Anyone who is in Christ, is a new creation.
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The old has gone. The new has come and some of
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you. Have been watching everybody
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else step into the newness and going.
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Well. I'm not ready yet.
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It's like you're wearing burlap and just going man.
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I just wish this wasn't so scratchy and everybody around.
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You is like will then take it off.
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Like you are walking in your own pain, in your own misery for
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your and it's your own choice. You could experience the healing
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power of Jesus if you want it. And if there's some of you in
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here today to have that question, you're in that spot.
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There's any people over by the Baptist who love to just talk
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with you. Just have the conversation for
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the rest of you already have a relationship with Jesus Christ.
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When are we going to become a brand ambassadors?
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We're going look where I mean. Listen me there.
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I'm going to get tons of emails this week, Molly's here.
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She'll handle him. I'll tell you exactly where I
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got them because they're fly. I'm going to be wearing one
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every week. When you see me, I'm gonna be
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like the most beautiful plus-size model the world has
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ever seen. When you find it and it means
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something to you, you can't help but become a brand ambassador.
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And if there's if there's nothing in you that swelling up
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and gratitude towards God, where you would talk about them, the
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problems not with him. The problem is probably with us.
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And we spend just a little bit of time on our knees.
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Just saying, God, help me to get that passion back for me to get
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that. Right.
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Would you stand with me? God used this moment right here,
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right now to do a transforming work in this church.
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Got I know that all across this region campus pastors are
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landing the plane right now and I pray that people at all of our
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locations including this one would be willing to take a step
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of faith. Maybe it's getting down on their
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knees and praying or going over and talk to somebody about
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baptism, but God were believing in asking and begging.
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Being you to do a work in us, not in the people around us not
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in our row, but in us us first your name, I pray.
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Amen.