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Proven Mental Health Practices

Crossing Church with Clayton Hentzel

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  1. Crossing family. It is so good to be with each

  2. and every single one of you. I am glad that you are with us

  3. this weekend. I don't care where you're

  4. joining from, whether you're joining from here at 48th

  5. Street, one of our locations online or inside.

  6. We just want you to know, God loves you.

  7. This church loves you. And we believe that, every

  8. single one of you can have an intimate personal relationship

  9. with Jesus Christ, back by popular, demand after last

  10. week's, incredible message. Is our friend, dr.

  11. Wes Beavis. So would you put your hands

  12. together and welcome him to the stage?

  13. One more time, my man. Well, it's awesome to be at the

  14. Crossing, and my name is dr. Wes Beavis.

  15. I am a clinical psychologist, but more importantly than that,

  16. I am a Jesus follower. I'm a living example to the fact

  17. that you do not need to choose between faith and Science.

  18. In fact, that is something that culture is trying to convince

  19. you. That if you believe in God, then

  20. your anti science and that is not the truth at all.

  21. And I'm going to be sharing You today, some great things in the

  22. context of what has already been shared in the weeds, in my

  23. garden series on Mental Health. The last message I gave really

  24. drove into the fact that God has wonderfully, made us with all

  25. types of neurochemicals all types of hormones in our system

  26. that can work towards us. Having good mental health.

  27. And it's up to us, we're not at the mercy of those chemicals.

  28. We actually have control over those chemicals.

  29. If you didn't watch the message go back and have a watch over,

  30. it will encourage you. But today I want to go real

  31. practical on you. And can you see the number 5?

  32. I want you to say it three times in a row.

  33. Today I have three sections. Each section has five points and

  34. the way this is going to roll out is the first section of Five

  35. Points is going to happen very quickly.

  36. It's like a sandwich. We're going to burn through that

  37. side of the sandwich very quickly and that the back end

  38. section is Five Points going to burn through that quickly, the

  39. meat is in the middle. So let me start with the first

  40. section here, how to become more anxious and depressed.

  41. Five guaranteed ways that you can become more anxious and

  42. depressed? Well, some of you might be here

  43. thinking, you know, I'm kind of effervescing with too much joy.

  44. At the moment, 98. I need a little more depression,

  45. little more anxiety in my life and if that's you, you're in the

  46. right place because I have five guaranteed ways to induce more

  47. depression and anxiety in your life.

  48. Number one, when you are feeling down, isolate yourself from

  49. others, And avoid the Great Outdoors at all costs.

  50. Make sure you're by yourself with your own thoughts at all

  51. costs. Do Not Go In The Great Outdoors.

  52. And for goodness sake do not allow any Sunshine onto your

  53. skin because what that will do that will stimulate certain

  54. neurochemical responses in your body and make you feel good and

  55. you don't want to feel good. So make sure that when you are

  56. feeling down you isolate yourself because social Elevates

  57. our mood and we don't want to have moved to be elevated and

  58. being in the Great Outdoors will Elevate our mood as well.

  59. And we don't want that to happen.

  60. If our goal is for you to become more anxious and depressed

  61. number to spend as much time as you can being sedentary, just

  62. lie around, do not exercise. Exercise will release a lot of

  63. feel-good chemicals in you and it's very good for your mental

  64. health, but if you want to increase depression and anxiety,

  65. Be sedentary lay around be in a static state.

  66. Number three. See, I told you we're going to

  67. fly through these eat more UPF. You're going to dr.

  68. West what is it? UPF.

  69. It is an ultra processed food and our culture.

  70. And our society is Full of it. Absolutely.

  71. Lots of ultra-processed foods that give you the sense that

  72. you're being nourished because you're eating, you're chewing or

  73. swallowing, but in effect, these ultra-processed Foods offer very

  74. little nutritional benefit. In fact, they will do the

  75. opposite. They can inflame your system

  76. which contributes to your negative mental state.

  77. So, if you want to increase the pressure and anxiety in your

  78. life, make sure you hit the ultra-processed foods.

  79. Yes. Ice cream and dark chocolate.

  80. Is my preferences here? And so I have to keep them under

  81. good management because they do have an effect on my mental

  82. health. Number for cooperate, with

  83. whatever your depression or anxiety is telling you, because

  84. what we've discovered in the social sciences is this,

  85. whatever you concentrate on, whatever you focus on, whatever

  86. you cooperate with you get more depression.

  87. So if you cooperate with whatever you're depressed

  88. feelings are telling You then you're just going to attract

  89. more reasons to be depressed, anxiety, and, and social

  90. anxiety. All that if you just cooperate

  91. with what your feelings are telling you, you're going to get

  92. more of the depressed and anxious States.

  93. And number five, let your current disappointment shape,

  94. your view of God. Because when we're disappointed,

  95. when we are discourage, we tend to be in a place in our brain,

  96. which is not as sophisticated. Vista cated as the prefrontal

  97. cortex. And when we are discouraged and

  98. we tend to make value judgments of about our life, about our

  99. world in which we live, and about our future, they're not

  100. the best value judgments and we can make judgments of God that

  101. are so inaccurate, when we are depressed, discouraged and

  102. anxious. So, but if you want more of

  103. those things in your life, then yes, let your Are in

  104. disappointment, influence, your view of God.

  105. But I think I'm talking to people here who actually do not

  106. want to elevate depression anxiety or any other challenging

  107. mental States in your life. So we're heading into section

  108. to. Can you say five fantastic

  109. section 2 is Proven mental, health practices for you.

  110. Let's get into it. Number one, build muscle.

  111. Build muscle, and I'm not talking about build spiritual

  112. muscle. I'm not talking in a, in a

  113. metaphorical sense. I am, talking about build

  114. muscle. We're talking biceps triceps.

  115. Calf muscles. Any must your glutes?

  116. Any build muscle. Okay.

  117. Here's some scripture here and you shall love the Lord, your

  118. God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your

  119. mind, and with all your strength, See where hombre we've

  120. already dealt with the metaphorical in the sense let

  121. the God with all your heart metaphorically speaking.

  122. It's like the very core of your body, love the love with him,

  123. the very core of who you are your soul.

  124. What what existed before your human body, which will exist

  125. after your human body and with your mind.

  126. And that also goes on to say strength, love the Lord, your

  127. God with your strength. Another Bible passage here for a

  128. while. Body bodily training is of some

  129. value. Godliness is a value in every

  130. way as it holds promise for the present life and also for the

  131. life to come. Now this is a trap that I've

  132. fallen into and a lot of Believers, a lot of followers of

  133. Jesus fall into this trap because we've read for our

  134. Buddy. Lee training is of some value

  135. godliness, is a much greater value and what we tend to do is

  136. go, I'm just going to go with the godliness.

  137. I want to be strong in God. Ugliness, I want to be, I just

  138. want to be good and godly and and we forget the fact that the

  139. Bible says bodily training is of some value.

  140. And we tend to live in the, in the sense that well, you know,

  141. bodily training is of no value. And I particularly believe that,

  142. as followers of Jesus, we should have the best bodies.

  143. If we're loving the Lord, Our God with all our heart, soul,

  144. mind and strength. There is value.

  145. Bodily training, I appeal to you, therefore, Brothers by the

  146. mercies of God, to present your bodies as a Living Sacrifice,

  147. holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship,

  148. you know, sometimes and I've been guilty of this in my life

  149. is that I actually ignore my body in pursuit of the higher

  150. things of the Kingdom. In fact, I sacrifice my body for

  151. Ministry. And while that sounds very Noble

  152. at a surface level. We actually get to choose what

  153. type of body we're going to offer to God as a Living

  154. Sacrifice. Now, I remember when I was

  155. planting a church, I got caught up in anxiety, and depression,

  156. things weren't working out as I was hoping or my lofty goals and

  157. my Noble desires. And so I gained 50 pounds And in

  158. a sense, I was working really hard for Jesus really hard for

  159. the church. But I was sacrificing my body.

  160. And I was presenting my body as a Living Sacrifice, but it

  161. wasn't the best version of my body.

  162. And I think, as followers of Jesus, we have that option, I'm

  163. going to offer my body as a Living Sacrifice, but what

  164. version of your body are you offering as a Living Sacrifice?

  165. Now, some of you are sitting there and understandably, so

  166. going dr. Wes a, you know, you seem to be

  167. giving a message on physical fitness.

  168. What does this have to do? To with mental health, I will

  169. tell you what it has to do with mental health.

  170. Building muscle is associated. This is scientific Lee.

  171. Proven data mental are building muscle, is associated with

  172. improved mental Clarity, improved, cognitive processing,

  173. improves mental function as you age.

  174. And let me know that the things on talking about here is like

  175. build muscle now, because there's going to come a time

  176. where we will enter our marginal decade, you're asking.

  177. Well, what's the marginal decade?

  178. The marginal decade is the decade that we all have in

  179. common. It's the last decade of our life

  180. and every one of us in this room will enter their marginal decade

  181. at some point. Now, the marginal decade is

  182. called this because at that time, that's when we struggle

  183. the most with physical health issues.

  184. People in the imaginal decades, see the doctors more are in and

  185. out of Hospital. More are struggling more with

  186. issues of mobility and the capacity to be independent in

  187. their living. And so, why I say build muscle,

  188. it is playing into your future mental health, because it's

  189. you've known what it is to be active and independent and

  190. having the energy to give for all your previous decades.

  191. And You enter a decade when you use struggling to get out of a

  192. chair, that is depressing and that is anxiety-producing.

  193. And so, I'm here to say Building muscle has a lot to do with your

  194. mental health. Not only now, but in the future,

  195. stressing muscle, that's when you get put, you know, a

  196. dumbbell, some weights, whatever putting putting your muscle

  197. under stress. So it has to strain releases

  198. endorphins. That's a chemical that God has

  199. put in our body for a specific purpose endorphins, Elevate

  200. mood. Endorphins are a natural

  201. analgesic, that means a painkiller endorphins soothe the

  202. anxious brain and increase an optimistic outlook on life.

  203. And if you don't believe me go and and subject yourself to an

  204. exercise experience, either go to the gym, go for a walk.

  205. Go do something and I can pretty well guarantee you that after

  206. not during I mean when I'm at the gym, okay?

  207. Oh my goodness. Why am I doing this?

  208. This is so I'm not enjoying this, but afterwards, I feel

  209. great. I experienced the the elevated

  210. mood. You experience the mental

  211. Clarity, you experienced so many things as soothing of the

  212. anxious brain, I mean, if you're feeling anxiety in your life,

  213. put some put some muscle training into your world and you

  214. will experience. Your anxiety levels.

  215. Decreasing muscle is the number one organ of Ling longevity.

  216. You know, a lot of press is given to the heart muscle

  217. because, you know, understandably the most deaths

  218. in America occur as a result of cardiac problems followed by

  219. cancer. But ultimately, it's it's the

  220. muscle, atrophy or sarcopenia which ends up taking us out.

  221. Because if we Cannot be mobile. Then we're going to be more

  222. sedentary and our muscles will continue to atrophy.

  223. If we can't get up and be mobile, if we can't move, if

  224. we're going to struggle, if we're going to have the aches

  225. and pains that's going to further increase our propensity

  226. to be immobile and sedentary, and that's going to affect our

  227. mental health. What I'm saying is be like the

  228. Queen of England. Who two days, two days before

  229. she died of natural causes she was, installing the new Prime

  230. Minister of England, commissioning that next reign of

  231. leadership, presiding over the country, isn't that what you

  232. want? I know, that's what I want.

  233. I want right up to two days before, the good Lord takes me

  234. home. I am still officiating in

  235. Ministry and doing powerful things in Ministry, and having

  236. influence in Ministry. So, starting in your 40s, you

  237. start to lose 1% of your muscle mass each year and that

  238. corresponds with a one to three percent loss in strength.

  239. So if you don't do anything to counteract your muscle, atrophy,

  240. the sacopee, Pena. If you start to register higher

  241. and higher on the Frailty index, then that is going to cause you

  242. to become more depressed because you think you're going to think.

  243. Wow. I could, you know, I used to be

  244. able to pick up my grandchild and swing them around and I am

  245. finding it really difficult to even lift them up.

  246. And it's not because they're growing up more, it's just I'm

  247. losing my strength and so you can counteract that If you

  248. decide what version of my body, am I going to offer as a Living

  249. Sacrifice? And some of you are thinking,

  250. well, you know, dr. West, that, you know, I haven't

  251. really been active in my life, too much up to now.

  252. Wouldn't, you know, I feel very comfortable uncomfortable and on

  253. the inside of a gym. I understand that, but it's

  254. never too late to reverse it. I I have a conflicted

  255. relationship with running and but I decided the age of 55 I

  256. was going to run my first marathon.

  257. And and I was able to do that and I've run several Marathon

  258. since the last. Okay.

  259. Okay. Before it before you upload me

  260. before you floating the last marathon, I ran, I was beat, I

  261. was beat by 45 minutes. By a guy who was 83.

  262. I'm telling you what the human body is capable of.

  263. The way God has were designed us with the resiliency factors, you

  264. know? We I think we tend to give in to

  265. the process of Aging unnecessarily.

  266. Okay. So a couple of tips do it.

  267. When your willpower is strongest, that means do it

  268. first thing in the morning. Because as the day grinds on,

  269. you're going to be losing psychological fuel as the gate

  270. day gets on. So as Brian Tracy, Great sales

  271. trainer said, if in the context of your day, you have to eat a

  272. frog. Eat the Frog first, and so I

  273. would encourage you to try and put it in quick, and of course,

  274. because I'm a doctor of Clinical Psychology.

  275. I work with what's happening in the brain and the emotions, and

  276. the behavior, I'm not a medical doctor, although my son is check

  277. with your medical doctor. That's my disclaimer because I

  278. don't want you to sue me. All right.

  279. Number two, good sleep, hygiene brace.

  280. Scripture for this then he got into the boat that's Jesus and

  281. his disciples followed him. Suddenly a furious storm came up

  282. upon the lake so that the waves swept over the boat.

  283. But Jesus was sleeping. The disciples went and woke him

  284. saying. Lord save us, we're going to

  285. drown. They were full of anxiety at

  286. this point. Jesus replied, you of little

  287. faith. Why are you so afraid?

  288. Then he got up and rebuked the wind and the waves and it was

  289. completely calm. The men were amazed and asked

  290. what kind of man is This even the wind's and the waves obey

  291. him. But implied in that context, is

  292. this very important principle for us, you face storms better

  293. when you are not sleep deprived, So get good at sleep.

  294. Sleep medication is not the answer.

  295. There are lots of components that go into sleep hygiene.

  296. I won't take you through it now, but I am going to tell you that

  297. when you are sleep deprived, it's so easy to get into

  298. negative, mental States, in sleep, deprivation increases

  299. cortisol, which is a stress hormone in your body, and it

  300. makes you hungrier for all the wrong Foods.

  301. I'm talking salty, crunchy, and sweet.

  302. When you have had a lot of cortisol running through your

  303. system, you are driven to just they're called Comfort foods for

  304. a reason. So and your body repairs when

  305. you sleep, you see, we spent the entirety of our day in flaming

  306. our body, you know, subjecting our body to stress.

  307. And some of that is is positive stress.

  308. You know, going to the gym is positive stress, but we inflame

  309. our body, every organ of our body, including our brain.

  310. And when we're sleeping, That's when God does his powerful work

  311. of repairing? All the the result of us

  312. stressing the body, you don't build muscles in the gym.

  313. You build your mother. Well, let me see say that your

  314. muscles don't grow in the gym, your muscles actually get torn

  315. in the gym. It's when you sleep that your

  316. muscles start to rebuild. All right.

  317. Number three evaluate sugar intake.

  318. Now, I'm not going to stand here and say, you know, cut out all

  319. sugar. You know, I'd be a hypocrite.

  320. If I said that, you know, I love sugar sugar and I have a heavy.

  321. We have an interesting relationship.

  322. I am, I am a recovering sugar addict.

  323. The Bible says this about sugar. It says it is not good to eat

  324. too much. Honey, that's it.

  325. The by the Bible doesn't talk about high glycemic

  326. carbohydrates, Donuts, Bagels at it.

  327. It just talks about it's not good to eat too much, honey.

  328. That's because sugar has an interesting effect on your body.

  329. Your brain needs a certain amount of it, but we tend to

  330. really overdo it if you want more depression and anxiety in

  331. your life, eat more sugar, it'll help you get there.

  332. Sugar has been associated with elevated levels of depression

  333. and anxiety. So, if you ever find yourself in

  334. an anxious state or a depressed state, just check, check your

  335. sugar intake. And here's why it causes

  336. inflammation in your body, including your brain and

  337. sometimes depression and anxiety is the brains way of saying I'm

  338. inflamed. Did you know, in the 1700s The

  339. average intake of sugar per person per day, was one teaspoon

  340. in the 1700 s because they didn't have all the high refined

  341. carbohydrates at foods that register higher on the high

  342. glycemic index, then today, 2018, couple of years old, but I

  343. think we're probably only gotten worse men take in an average of

  344. 19 teaspoons a day and women 15 teaspoons per day.

  345. And there's a reason for that. Sugar is number one, it's highly

  346. addictive and every food company knows it.

  347. So they try to inject as much sugar into Foods because they

  348. want you to keep coming back for more.

  349. And so sugar is in everything. Especially your ultra-processed

  350. Foods. So, the more sugar.

  351. Here's a fun fact them, and try this out for an experiment.

  352. The more sugar you eat, the more you will crave sugar, it causes

  353. a dopaminergic reaction in your brain and brain.

  354. Is that dopamine is that great feel-good chemical and we we

  355. love it when we get it, so evaluate your sugar intake.

  356. I'm not saying, you know, get rid of all.

  357. Sure, I'm not going to be that mean I'm just going to say think

  358. about it. All right.

  359. Lovely vacate. That's a fancy word for make

  360. sure you get some vacations and vacation is based on the word of

  361. vacate the life that you're normally embroiled in.

  362. Now here's here's what we think. Culture thinks that vacation the

  363. recovery happens in the in the when you're at the destination

  364. and sure you get maximum beneficial effect when you're on

  365. vacation and we think that that after we come home from vacation

  366. the Jewel benefits of that, go on for several weeks, maybe

  367. several months, it's not the truth.

  368. Scientific research says that we overestimate the benefits of

  369. post vacation time, and we underestimate the benefits on

  370. pre vacation time, this is actually how it looks.

  371. You start to get the beneficial effect of a vacation from the

  372. moment you book it. So if you book it to go away on

  373. a vacation in three months time, you Start to get the benefits of

  374. it. You just have that sense of

  375. anticipation, you're looking forward to it.

  376. You're subconsciously preparing for it and So that you don't

  377. feel guilty after you come back from vacation.

  378. Generally the drop off is very steep leading to that thought

  379. of, oh my goodness, I feel so guilty.

  380. I was just on vacation last week but it doesn't feel like I went

  381. away on vacation at all. Has anybody ever felt that?

  382. You know, and some of us even come back from a vacation

  383. needing a vacation. So you've got to think about

  384. what type of vacation you take. All right, number 5, pay to see

  385. a Trained Christian clinician or a counselor.

  386. Now, I put Christian in there because in the, in the

  387. behavioral sciences psychologist marriage and family, therapist,

  388. licensed clinical, social workers, they're not

  389. representative of the larger cultural context.

  390. Generally only not generally specifically, they did research

  391. on this, only 40% of psychologists are people of

  392. faith. And yet we have, you know,

  393. seventy or eighty percent of the population at large that are

  394. believing God. So why is they go to a

  395. Christian? Clinician is your faith is an

  396. important tool in your toolbox that a clinician can use.

  397. So if you go to a clinician who doesn't understand Faith, that's

  398. a big tool in your toolbox that they can't use because they

  399. don't know how to use it. So I would encourage you go to

  400. see a Christian Clinician. And why do I say pay?

  401. Because it's human nature. You are more vested in that,

  402. which you pay for You've got to have skin in the game if

  403. somebody else is paying for it. Yeah, you'll go and and have a

  404. lovely chat, but you're not going to be as motivated as

  405. somebody who's putting money into this process.

  406. So, who Bible says here in Proverbs, whoever trusts in his

  407. own mind, is a fool, but he who walks in the wisdom walks in

  408. wisdom will be delivered. See when we're in anxious or

  409. depressed, or burnt out? Mental States.

  410. We are not operating out of the best part of our brain. and so,

  411. I love this saying that I use often in therapy.

  412. It's it's hard to read the label when you're stuck inside the

  413. bottle. And that's why it's good to go

  414. and see somebody because as smart as you are as, as solid as

  415. you are in your faith, sometimes you're so stuck in your

  416. situation. It's hard to see what's going

  417. on. All right.

  418. That's my son. There he is a doctor of medicine

  419. in the u.s. Navy when he was going through

  420. pre-med. He played rugby and he broke his

  421. arm called me up. Dead gone to the hospital.

  422. I've broken my arm for Ellie and I go to the hospital, the

  423. orthopedic surgeon comes into the room and sure.

  424. I mean, that was really busted. You could see it.

  425. It was like, oh and the orthopedic surgeon through some,

  426. his X-ray up on the light box and he said, okay, this is what

  427. we've got. It's Definitely broken.

  428. There are three options here. Number one, we could just leave

  429. it alone, the bones will eventually that's them.

  430. Wonder if the human body, they've the bones.

  431. The broken ends will eventually find themselves and they'll fuse

  432. back together. The problem with that is, it'll

  433. be very painful. It'll take a long time to heal

  434. and the bones were probably heal in a way that's problematic over

  435. a long distance of time. I said, okay, what's the second

  436. object? We can, we can apply traction,

  437. we can pull the bones apart and I to get them in line as much as

  438. we can, and then put plaster in it'll be less painful, it'll

  439. heal quicker and and it won't be.

  440. So prone to problems down the line, and I said, well, what's

  441. the third option? And he said well I can go in,

  442. they can open him up, I can put a titanium plate and some screws

  443. in there, I can get the bones exactly in alignment, it'll heal

  444. the fastest of all, it'll be the least amount of pain, and you'll

  445. have the least amount. The problems going forward.

  446. And that is why that is what therapy is like, it's going to a

  447. doctor, going to a licensed clinician, they can help you

  448. heal faster, be less back pain, involved and heal in a way.

  449. That's not problematic in future years.

  450. And the other thing is, you won't burn out your friends.

  451. Let your friends via friends. Do all your deep work with your

  452. therapist. Okay?

  453. So that's the meat in the middle build muscle, good sleep.

  454. Hygiene evaluate sugar intake, proactively be cake and Peter,

  455. see a trained clinician or counselor so that is five

  456. practical steps that we could because the weeds in our garden.

  457. Once we pull those weeds out, we got to replace them with good

  458. behaviors. And so I've just given you five.

  459. Okay? The last section.

  460. Everybody say five, All right, is how you can help others.

  461. The Bible says carry each other's burdens.

  462. And in this way, you will fulfill the law of Christ.

  463. So, number one, normalize mental health experience, and I've

  464. watched every message in this weeds in my garden series, that

  465. you've done. And I want to tell you that,

  466. your pastor, Clayton Hensley, has done an amazing job here is

  467. well researched, what he has taught you.

  468. And He's talked about the fact that we want to meant normalize

  469. it everybody. It doesn't matter how how strong

  470. and how capable you are as a leader.

  471. Everybody will struggle from time to time with something

  472. that's broken in their lives. So let's just normalize it

  473. number to invite them to go for a sunshine.

  474. Walk, remember Elijah when he was severely depressed after his

  475. high experience of Mount Carmel, where that amazing miracle

  476. happened, you know, a lot of and a lot of cortisol through the

  477. system and what happens often when you go through an

  478. experience like that, you can have a post project post

  479. experience, slump or where did he find himself at the in the

  480. back of a cave? No sunlight, no fresh air.

  481. So one of the most beneficial things you can do with somebody

  482. who's struggling, say, hey, come for a, walk with me and get into

  483. the sunshine. Number three, help them.

  484. Formulate, a personal crisis plan.

  485. Now, Every year I have to do continuing education to keep up

  486. my license as a clinical psychologist.

  487. And so I do training with an organization that works with the

  488. Navy Seals in San Diego and there is a higher rate of

  489. suicide that happens with people in the armed forces.

  490. And so they're very keenly aware of what to do and what they

  491. train their clinicians to do is when they when they Patients are

  492. in a good place put together a crisis plan, a personal crisis

  493. plan, while their heads in a good place.

  494. So that when they are struggling, they don't have to

  495. rely upon their thinking because when you're struggling, you're

  496. not operating out of the best part of your brain.

  497. And so at that point, you don't trust your thinking, you take

  498. out your crisis, personal crisis plan and you just do what's on

  499. the list. Call a friend, get in the

  500. outdoors, go for a walk, go to the gym and you don't don't

  501. trust what your brain is thinking trust, what your tray,

  502. personal crisis plan that you established when things were

  503. well and establish with somebody else and work, the plan, don't

  504. don't be led by your feelings but work the plan so help help.

  505. People by getting them to have a crisis, personal crisis plan

  506. ahead of time, number four, encourage Ministry and Mission

  507. involvement because sometimes our mental health challenges,

  508. and because we're spending too much time in our own heads

  509. thinking about our own problems. That's why I love the crossing

  510. is that you are so committed to missions and Ministry.

  511. You provide, lots of opportunity for people to get outside of

  512. their own heads. And number five, I've nudge them

  513. towards Jesus. Jesus Christ is the solution to

  514. every dilemma faced by man woman and child.

  515. And so, we do the best thing by nudging people towards Jesus.

  516. Because sometimes, when you get into that place of struggle, you

  517. you start to doubt. Whether God loves you, you start

  518. to doubt. Whether God is for you.

  519. Thoughts like your God is so, so busy blessing, Clayton, Hansel

  520. and Jerry Harris that he hasn't got time for me.

  521. That's not reality. That's a lie that comes not from

  522. heaven. And so, sometimes people just

  523. need to be nudged back in the direction of Jesus.

  524. Sometimes it needs. Sometimes people need a shove

  525. depending upon their temperament temperament.

  526. Can it whether it's a shove or a nudge?

  527. That lead people back to Jesus. Right now, we're moving in to a

  528. time of decision. That's actually where I want to

  529. begin this invitation time. For those of us in this room or

  530. you're watching online, I want to begin with a nudge and just

  531. so, you know, if you don't know who I am, I am not opposed to a

  532. shove. Like I will shove you and the

  533. reason I will shove you because I care about you because I love

  534. you too much. That if you came into this room

  535. and you've been, you're looking for ways to try to figure out

  536. life and the mess that you're walking in.

  537. And you're just like, man, I'm so thankful, they just gave me

  538. all these practical ways to do all these things, but if you

  539. don't hear this, You gotta start with Jesus, you got to start

  540. inside of that intimate personal relationship with him.

  541. And I know just because I know this church and I know the

  542. people who walk in here, who are watching online, there are some

  543. of you you have not you've not made that decision to follow

  544. him. You have not surrendered your

  545. life to him. You're just like man, I got this

  546. building muscle thing. I can go to the gym, I can eat

  547. better. I don't think I can lower my

  548. sugar intake. I can't do that one, but I can I

  549. can do all these things. Listen, all those things are

  550. really, really good and very helpful and it's a very

  551. important step in your mental health but it all goes on the

  552. foundation of knowing who Jesus is and applying that to your

  553. life and making him Lord and savior of your life.

  554. And so listen, if you're not there, I would love to come

  555. alongside a few. I would love to have a

  556. conversation with you in just a little bit.

  557. When the music starts and we start singing, you may feel a

  558. nudge on your heart to respond to get up.

  559. And I would tell you that's not me.

  560. That's not the person next to you.

  561. That's the Holy Spirit saying, it's your time, get up.

  562. Respond move, come to me. I invite you.

  563. I want you to know me as your lord and your savior.

  564. You are You are loved. You are mine.

  565. I would encourage you to respond to that moment.

  566. Come talk to me and you're like, hey, I felt the Holy Spirit.

  567. I felt this nudge. I felt this shove and let's take

  568. that step to make Jesus, Lord and Savior life.

  569. And tonight, maybe that night, where you getting that water and

  570. you declared Jesus, Lord. And Savior.

  571. It'll be the best decision you can ever make.

  572. It's how you build all the rest of decisions that you're going

  573. to make in your life, you base it off of that.

  574. Jesus is your firm foundation. So move tonight, and just a

  575. little bit, Out of your seat, get out of your comfort zone.

  576. For those of you in this room, you are Christians.

  577. You've made that decision. You felt that nudge you

  578. responded. You're walking in it.

  579. Here you are. I wonder just like I was trying

  580. to discern what hit you in that message.

  581. What action do you feel like you may need to take?

  582. What area are you lacking in? What what area do you not have

  583. good Clarity in? And just a little bit, we're

  584. going to have the time where you know if you come here every

  585. single week these steps are open and you are invited to come

  586. forward. But I want you to know this.

  587. So we have a mission outside of knowing and loving Jesus.

  588. Our mission is to make that known to the world to share our

  589. faith to let the people around us in our workplaces, in our in

  590. our schools that are wherever you may be whatever environment.

  591. You may find yourself in that they are loved by Jesus and you

  592. can't do that when you're not taking care of yourself.

  593. I don't know what of those five practical ways that maybe you

  594. need to respond to maybe it is changing your diet.

  595. Maybe it is getting up and walking a little bit more into

  596. the sun line, maybe it is sleeping, just a little bit more

  597. or a little better. But I would just encourage you

  598. man. If you don't know what it is,

  599. still come up to the steps and just say, God speak to me, help

  600. me make a decision. Listen, he said, move the very

  601. best movement you could do is just get up out of your seats,

  602. get out and front of your chairs, walk to the steps and

  603. get into the very best position. As a Christian, you could

  604. possibly get into and that is a humbled position before the

  605. Lord. And just say, Here I Am use me

  606. as a living. My body is a Living Sacrifice.

  607. I want to turn this over to you and use me because I have a

  608. mission. This mission is not just for me

  609. as a pastor. It's not just for our staff.

  610. It is your mission to carry the gospel, the good news to this

  611. world and you need to be well to do it.

  612. So I don't know what your step is.

  613. But here's what I would encourage you when the music

  614. starts and you hear this every single week and you may be like,

  615. Yak or you're talking to that person over there.

  616. You're talking to my wife, she needs to get up.

  617. She's to go two steps. Talking all of Us.

  618. Let's take a step of Faith tonight.

  619. Let's take a step of humility tonight.

  620. Let's get on our knees do business with the Lord.

  621. Would you guys staying with me as you consider that Heavenly

  622. Father God I give you, thanks and praise.

  623. We come to this moment every single week.

  624. God I pray that we don't take it for granted.

  625. I pray that we don't ever take this moment for granted a chance

  626. to respond. The chance to move a chance to

  627. connect with you in a real and personal and intimate way God I

  628. pray for every single person in here who's going through a

  629. Battle. I pray.

  630. Lord. The way that we go into battle

  631. is with your strengths and not our own father.

  632. I pray for those people in this room or watching online.

  633. That is not following. You has not surrendered life to

  634. you. God, I pray that you just give

  635. them that nuts right now to respond to move and turn their

  636. life to you. Jesus, we love you.

  637. We praise you. And we want to glorify your name

  638. to this time of worship and Jesus name I pray.

  639. Amen.