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Steve Weatherford | Pregame Show 2023

Crossing Church with Clayton Hentzel

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  1. Crossing family. Are you excited to be at church

  2. today, man? It's good to be with you.

  3. I love you. So stinking much all are welcome

  4. to join us from all of our different locations, those of

  5. your part of our online family, and those who are part of the

  6. crossing inside. I also just want to welcome all

  7. of you who are joining us for the first time or the first time

  8. in a long time. And I want to let you know,

  9. we're glad you're here. And if at any point in time

  10. during the service, you'd like to get connected taking next

  11. step, learn more. There's a QR code on the seat

  12. and In front of you and we'd love to take that opportunity to

  13. connect before we get into all of the festivities of today.

  14. There's a couple things I at least want to make you aware of.

  15. First thing is summer camp. Sign up, are officially open.

  16. We are incredibly excited about that.

  17. Because here at the Crossing we will develop leaders who honor

  18. God and inspire people. And in turn, they will change

  19. the world and every kid needs time away with to grow and

  20. develop in their With Jesus Christ crowd participation.

  21. You guys know how to do this ready.

  22. How many of you would say that the greatest decision you ever

  23. made was making Jesus your lord and savior.

  24. Yeah me too. That's exactly right and hands

  25. down. How many of you would say that?

  26. What your biggest regret is that you didn't make that decision

  27. sooner? Yeah, so now you know the

  28. importance of camp we want to make sure we give our kids an

  29. opportunity to get the love of Jesus in their heart as soon as

  30. humanly possible. The second thing I want to make

  31. sure that you are aware of is that camp?

  32. Scholarships are open here at the Crossing.

  33. We will gladly give up the things we love for a future

  34. generation. We love even more.

  35. And there are some of you who have the capacity and the desire

  36. to help other kids go to Camp, some of you can give $20 some of

  37. you 50, some of you could pay for kid, just to go to Camp,

  38. others of you might be in a position where you could send

  39. one kid to all seven of our weeks of Camp.

  40. Whatever your participation looks like.

  41. I want to give you an opportunity to dig.

  42. Big today so that other people can drink tomorrow.

  43. Here's what I can promise you before.

  44. This night is over Jennifer and I will sign both of our boys up

  45. to go to camp and we will start setting aside monies that way we

  46. can send one kid to all seven of the camps that we're going to be

  47. offering this year as a church, and I would like to invite you

  48. to join with me in that mission. The final thing I want you to

  49. know is next weekend, Jerry and I are going to be starting a new

  50. sermon series called reclaim. Reclaim restoring what was lost

  51. and fixing what is broken. He's going to be preaching, a

  52. couple of them. I'm going to be preaching a

  53. couple of them, and we believe that every single person wants a

  54. better life, a better family, and better relationships.

  55. And there are things that have been lost and broken along the

  56. way. But here at the Crossing, we

  57. don't believe they have to stay that way.

  58. So when I would encourage you invite a friend, invite a

  59. neighbor be here for all seven of those weeks, as we try to

  60. help our families become more god-honoring and better.

  61. I'm in the process. But the real reason why you're

  62. all here today and some of you didn't hear a word.

  63. I said, because you keep seeing this and you're going Clayton,

  64. is that a replica? Nope.

  65. This is a real Super Bowl championship ring.

  66. And is it on your pinky? Yeah it is on my pinky finger

  67. because I'm just that big but this weekend we have a special

  68. guest with us. He played ten years in.

  69. The NFL is a Super Bowl champion.

  70. He was also called the fittest man in the NFL.

  71. We have so much in common. He is a father of six.

  72. Six and serious about his walk with the Lord.

  73. Would you please give a Crossing?

  74. Welcome to the stage? My man, Steve Weatherford.

  75. I don't have a Wikipedia page, but if it did, it would say that

  76. I beat Steve in a 5k. Because yesterday, that's

  77. exactly what I did. Now out of fairness, I was a

  78. mile ahead of him before he started and he walked, but I

  79. walked faster. Okay.

  80. And I won. So I've beat I'm not going to

  81. let this go. I just need you to know that you

  82. you hang on to that. Yeah that's that's That's not.

  83. All right, I'll give you your ring back.

  84. Dirty now, thank you for that introduction.

  85. I'm so honored you, look at this place.

  86. It's packed, man, I'm so honored to be here Quincy, Quincy

  87. Illinois. I've been here for three days.

  88. I've gotten a chance to go work out with Sam dancing.

  89. I've gone to several of the restaurants around here.

  90. I've gotten to build some relationship with some of your

  91. staff. It has been such a Joy and such

  92. an honor. I even miss my 16th wedding

  93. anniversary to be here with you. And I say that to say, I'd love

  94. to show you a picture of my family and what I said no to.

  95. So I could be here with you, because that's how important you

  96. are to me. This is my family.

  97. Pastor said, I have six kids, thank you.

  98. And I actually have ties to this church.

  99. I went to the University of Illinois and I met my wife, when

  100. I was on my recruiting trip to play football there and her

  101. older sister Shanna actually. Goes to the Macomb campus.

  102. So this is this is home to me, you know, so thank you for

  103. having me. And these are the rest of my

  104. kids. My I have two sons and I have

  105. four daughters. My son is Ace.

  106. He's 15 years old. He's about to drive and I can't

  107. believe it. And then my daughters are 13, 10

  108. 7, and 4, and their names are carne Aurora golden and Josie.

  109. And then my son that I'm holding was born almost two years ago

  110. and and my wife, if you combine all of the weights of Children,

  111. my wife has had nine pounds, nine pounds, 29 pounds 10, 10

  112. pounds, 5, 11, and my son was 12 pounds in 3 ounces.

  113. Did you hear all the ladies gasp?

  114. I'm so proud of my wife's. He is like a pro at multiplying

  115. children, you know? So I know that she's watching at

  116. home. So virtual toddler.

  117. I know. That's so babe.

  118. I love you walk. Thank you for giving me all

  119. those babies. Thank you for loving me and

  120. knowing that what I'm doing right now is is just as

  121. important as being a father and a husband.

  122. So thank you for trusting me. And thank you Pastor for trust.

  123. Me and allowing me to come, because you and I have known

  124. each other for very long. We're beginning a really great

  125. relationship, but thank you for trusting me and building such an

  126. amazing, amazing audience and then allowing me to share some,

  127. some things of my journey that have to do with identity, they

  128. had to do with purpose. They have to do with burdens

  129. that we all carry around but ultimately, I believe it's

  130. becoming more clear. Why I'm supposed to be here.

  131. It's to challenge each and every one of you in a loving, but in a

  132. firm way, it's time for us to go pro.

  133. There's a difference between an amateur and a pro and I'm not

  134. saying that because I have a Super Bowl ring in the trophy.

  135. I'm saying that because there are areas of my life and

  136. especially with God I was, I was such a rookie or I didn't even

  137. show up for the game. So I really just wanted to put

  138. that out there that I'm so happy to be here, but I feel like I'm

  139. a part of this family because my family is a part of your family.

  140. Yeah. And my roots were in Illinois.

  141. So I know that there's a reason that I'm supposed to be here and

  142. I'm not at home watching the Super Bowl with my family.

  143. I'm going to be on a plane and I'm making that sacrifice

  144. because I believe that. What I have to share with, you

  145. can shift things in your life. So I just need everybody to

  146. pause right now and I need them to repeat.

  147. After me I'm going to make shift happen.

  148. One, two, three. I'm going to make shift happen.

  149. Yeah, you were very young and very careful with that, but

  150. that's what I believe can happen inside of this church and inside

  151. of every single location is shift can happen.

  152. But there's going to have to be a few things that you need to.

  153. Side. But I can't wait to get into our

  154. Kelsey's. Well, it's, let's talk about

  155. that, you know, before all the glitz before, all the glamour

  156. before you're on the cover of the magazines or winning Super

  157. Bowl rings, there was a 6 7 8 9 10, 11 year-old Steve and he was

  158. navigating all kinds of hardships, all kinds of

  159. realities, all kinds of trauma that most of these people

  160. wouldn't get from the Wikipedia page.

  161. Talk to us about that. Yeah, I feel like those are the

  162. formative years, you know? Like I feel like that.

  163. That's looking back on it and learning more.

  164. Now from like two years to eight years, or the most formative

  165. years, that's the years. When we decide who we are, we

  166. decide what we deserve, we decide where we belong.

  167. And so my parents are amazing, parents like they took me to

  168. church and we had Sunday school and, you know, I went to a

  169. decent School in a decent area, but every place that I went in,

  170. my family had two brothers at a sister and my family and Sunday

  171. school and also in Therese. Cool.

  172. I felt like an alien. I felt like I just didn't fit

  173. in. I felt like a renegade.

  174. I felt like a lost with felt like a weirdo and the reason

  175. being is one of those reasons is I have ADHD.

  176. So you know I'm one of those guys like very rare.

  177. Will you find a child that gets kicked out of Sunday School?

  178. Pastors giving a microphone? Yeah, somebody like that, but I

  179. got kicked out of Sunday school almost every single weekend and

  180. it wasn't like, I was trying to be bad.

  181. I just, I had ants in my pants and so I remember going to

  182. kindergarten the first five days in a row.

  183. It was in Baton Rouge, Louisiana, where they could

  184. paddle you without calling your parents.

  185. And I remember getting freaking worn out five days in a row.

  186. And we could all kind of laugh about it now because I'm a Super

  187. Bowl champion. And from what you know, like I'm

  188. I'm living in full Freedom with Jesus Christ, so we can laugh

  189. about it. But man when I was 5 and 6 years

  190. old, I began to hating myself because everywhere that I went,

  191. I felt like I was making a problem and I was ruined it for

  192. everyone else and I didn't want to do that.

  193. I didn't want to be that but I couldn't control it and then

  194. around 8 or 9 years old. I discovered that God had

  195. blessed me with something. Through this ADHD with

  196. athleticism and I would play these Sports and it didn't

  197. matter if it was basketball or track, or if it was the first

  198. time, Tried the sport. He came natural to me because of

  199. my abundance of energy, but also my split-second making

  200. decisions. And I remember the first time a,

  201. another man of authority, like really gave me words of

  202. affirmation, because I love my dad.

  203. And I honor my dad, but he grew up with a father that didn't

  204. like Pat him on the back and say Steve, you're such a good boy

  205. and you ride and I'm proud of you.

  206. You know, he was more of a disciplinarian, I have a great

  207. relationship with my dad and I'm we've we've healed those Father

  208. wounds, but my dad was doing his best, my dad, coached, all of my

  209. team. So it wasn't like he wasn't

  210. around, but I remember when this, when this other parent

  211. came up to me after a game, he's like my goodness, he's like, you

  212. are unbelievable. He said, you're so talented when

  213. we played this team last year, they blew us out.

  214. In this year, we beat them by three goals, it's because you're

  215. on the team. I remember getting in the car

  216. and just feeling like I was seven feet tall and it was at

  217. that moment that I decided when I win, I'm valuable.

  218. And so Went all in on Sports at like 8 years old because it was

  219. the only place where I felt celebrated and so as I say those

  220. words I don't know if that connects with you in a certain

  221. place in your life or a certain place during your story of there

  222. was a place where you felt valuable.

  223. And so when I found it, I went all in on Sports because I felt

  224. like if I could win I could be valuable because I desperately

  225. wanted people to tell me who I was because my identity

  226. everywhere that I went, I didn't feel like I fit in with anybody

  227. else. But when people told me that I

  228. was great and that I was special and I'm that I was number one

  229. point that that made me feel really, really good.

  230. So that I feel like sets an accurate context, you're like,

  231. what kind of little boy I was up until about 10 years old but if

  232. I can share like with things when my relationship with Jesus

  233. began, was it 11 years old? And it was a church kind of

  234. similar to this a bigger church and I was invited by a friend

  235. has Anybody ever seen The Power Team?

  236. Yeah. There's a couple of hands that

  237. have raised up. So for those of you that don't

  238. know what the power team is, just imagine WWF wrestlers, kind

  239. of like this. Look like me, but maybe even

  240. bigger with tank tops on, on a stage like this breaking bricks

  241. bending bars busting handcuffs and they're doing the strength

  242. concert but they're doing it as a Ministry.

  243. And I had never seen anything like that.

  244. I grew up in a church where people were khakis and they took

  245. their shirts in and they didn't drive Cadillacs and how dare you

  246. for wanting to have a big house. And so I had these big dreams

  247. and I felt like I didn't fit in in the church but at 11 years

  248. old Pastor, I saw possibility and it was then that I gave my

  249. life to Jesus and I felt like finally I fit in and I had like

  250. six months of fitting in and then the most traumatic thing of

  251. my life happened. Really where I feel like the

  252. enemy really tried to take me out and there's a scripture in

  253. Romans 12:2 that says, do not be Form to the patterns of this

    Romans 12:2

  254. world, but be transformed by the renewing of your spirit.

  255. Well, this is when the world really tried to conform me?

  256. I had a teacher and I didn't really realize that in the

  257. moment, but he was grooming me everyday.

  258. He would tell me how special I was every day.

  259. He would tell me how good my work was and I would get like a

  260. b-plus and he was just showering me with these words of

  261. affirmation that I wasn't getting other places.

  262. So I, I begin to trust this guy and after a few few weeks and

  263. months of that he did, Things to me that nobody should ever do to

  264. a little boy. And it left me with questions of

  265. it was at a Christian School and it left me with questions of

  266. like, if God is real, how could he let something like this

  267. happen? To me?

  268. And then I'm left with the ultimate question of like, does

  269. this make me bad in mi gay but I didn't have anybody to ask those

  270. questions to hmm, But the only thing that I knew they could

  271. make those feelings. Go away was winning.

  272. And so I'm going to zoom through.

  273. Probably a lot of my life High School I played for sports, I

  274. was for sport Allstate and then I was introduced to under

  275. underage drinking drugs sex and so anything that would make like

  276. the trauma or the pain. Go away of like me being so

  277. dirty or broken or unlovable. Very my God just pushed me

  278. further into Athletics, earning a scholarship going to the pros

  279. and I always thought to myself and what's I get to this place?

  280. I got want to feel better once I get to To the pros, right?

  281. Kind of, like I challenge, all of you all, like some of us

  282. before we walked in here. Think they?

  283. Like, once we get to an area of life, we get to this amount of

  284. money, we're getting to this house.

  285. We married this woman. We fix this thing, then, we're

  286. going to have peace. Hmm, But but ultimately, going

  287. pro isn't taking responsibility for everything.

  288. Going pro is actually releasing things, receiving things in

  289. committing to things, but I didn't know that I went pro.

  290. Sports and so that just drove me to have the all of these

  291. different goals. And really, my life reminds me

  292. of the story of a ronin. So I really love Japanese

  293. culture and discipline and, and having Legacy.

  294. And one of the things I read about that, I really connected

  295. with, but not in a way that inspired me in a way that really

  296. convicted me that my life was, I was wasting, it was I read the

  297. story of the Ronin and a ronin is somebody who has very special

  298. gifts and I feel like God has placed a special gift site of

  299. each and every one of us. Us.

  300. But I used my special gifts for Missions for me so I'm 40 years

  301. old. So for 35 years hmm I was on

  302. these different missions of earn a scholarship.

  303. Go to the pros, make a million dollars, become a Super Bowl

  304. champion become the fittest, man in the NFL.

  305. One thing we didn't mention, I was the most philanthropic.

  306. Voted the most philanthropic man in the NFL, but all of those

  307. were born out of the insecurity of I need to do more because I'm

  308. not enough. Hmm?

  309. And so, the Ronin takes his If sand goes out and Do's and goes

  310. on all these missions for himself.

  311. So, I was living a life on Mission but not on purpose.

  312. And so, it wasn't until I really submitted to the Sensei to God

  313. and really received everything that he had for me, not half of

  314. it. Not like, okay, I've received

  315. enough to go to heaven, but I'm gonna carry the rest of these

  316. burdens on my own because you said earlier, are you just told

  317. me earlier that? A ronin is a, is a warrior, a

  318. masterless samurai but he has no master.

  319. And how many of you you are becoming disciplined in an area,

  320. but you haven't submitted that discipline to the lordship of

  321. Jesus. And so you can be going out and

  322. winning all these missions, but it has no ultimate purpose and

  323. that was like a big shift for you and you're talking about, as

  324. you're zooming forward. This is the thing that would be

  325. the hardest for us. We're looking at somebody in

  326. many respects was at the Pinnacle of success.

  327. And this is actually a pretty interesting story about you.

  328. It's the Super Bowl. Hmm, and your team want one at

  329. half time, you're going to get into that.

  330. You're being praised at an incredibly high level and so

  331. you're experiencing from the outside in the highest of Highs.

  332. But from the inside out, you're actually navigating one of the

  333. lowest of lows. Yeah.

  334. Walk us through that. I think that's the goal.

  335. Probably, you know, I got a chance to meet your dad back

  336. stays and you were sharing some wisdoms with me for my kids.

  337. Oh, my dad's a sense. Yes.

  338. Well, I have notes on my phone Miyagi, how he walked away and I

  339. was like, yeah, please. Nobody else asked me Super Bowl

  340. quite a bit. My dad's favorite parenting line

  341. when he was growing up with me, is this a father had two sons

  342. and then he'd tell the ideal son and then he described me and

  343. going, which one do you think the father loved more?

  344. Yeah. Sorry Dad, he didn't need a, he

  345. didn't need a hammer. When you use wisdom that way,

  346. it's kind of like, when the dad says, I'm not mad at you, it's

  347. really disappointing. The pointed at the Super Bowl

  348. night, yeah, you've your you're destroying the game.

  349. I mean, you're having the will talk you talk about it.

  350. So so the Super Bowl Super Bowl. 46 was against the greatest

  351. football player that's ever lived.

  352. Tom Brady, I think we can all agree to that.

  353. Now we can say blue but here's the deal Hardware's Hardware

  354. man. He's got he's got seven of these

  355. me and Tom you guys invited me because I have one, you know,

  356. the guys to go, right? So it's February 5th. 2012, it's

  357. 11. Years ago, and it's 46 miles

  358. from my home, town of the greatest game of my life, to

  359. give you context at halftime Cris Collinsworth, until Michael

  360. said, man. I don't think we've ever said

  361. this, but if we vote for a Super Bowl, MVP at halftime, we give

  362. it to the punter, Steve Weatherford.

  363. So I say that giving glory to God because I performed well,

  364. but the ball bounced my way every single time and and the

  365. game gets over to confettis coming down.

  366. We defeated Tom, Brady, the greatest of all time and I

  367. remember pulling my son out of the stadium stairs and can

  368. Fetty's coming down actually. Post a picture of it on

  369. Instagram yesterday. I can't believe how big he is

  370. now. Like holding him would be really

  371. difficult now but every like all of all of the things that you

  372. you and I probably dreamed like I mentioned your dad, because

  373. you probably threw the football with your dad in the backyard.

  374. Imagining you're catching a touchdown in the Super Bowl.

  375. Notre Dame with Touchdown. Jesus.

  376. Yeah, I did too. I mean but I mean, I'm not

  377. telling the story of how I caught a touchdown, so I don't

  378. want to give you any misrepresentation but I played

  379. in the game and so here I am. Everybody that I love my mom and

  380. dad my grandma my my coaches everybody that's close to me and

  381. everybody that's not at the game they're watching on TV 124

  382. million people and had the greatest game of my life and in

  383. the confettis coming down and everybody's telling me how

  384. amazing I am and then I remember when everything got over and I

  385. got to my hotel room at night and I walked in and my bed was

  386. made up and I remember hearing a noise as I walked up to, to the

  387. window and I looked down it was just an ocean of pixels.

  388. People in all different NFL jerseys taking pictures, taking

  389. shots, taking selfies just make him the most amazing memories

  390. and here I am I had the greatest game of my life in the biggest

  391. game of my life in front of millions, hundreds of 100

  392. million plus people. And I remember looking down and

  393. seeing them be so happy. And I remember taking a deep

  394. breath in, and before I could, exhale it out.

  395. I just remember this wave of depression coming over me

  396. because I'm realizing that this was like the highest thing that

  397. I imagined would like make this thing in my chest to go away.

  398. Like, get the elephant off like fix that god-sized hole.

  399. And it was that moment, right? Then that I knew that my numbers

  400. in the NFL were numbered because I knew if this didn't do it,

  401. there was nothing else that I could do that.

  402. I could achieve that would do it for me.

  403. And so from that moment, I played three more years in the

  404. NFL and retired much earlier than probably what I needed to

  405. but would have brought me to the moment of really searching for

  406. not another mission but searching for a purpose and I

  407. knew that I had a relationship. I knew that I made a decision

  408. for Jesus when I was 11 but it was more of a, like a decision

  409. of religion. And I don't know if you guys

  410. know the difference between religion or relationship, but I

  411. had a 1986 Cadillac Fleetwood Brougham.

  412. Pam was my first car when I was 16 it was as long as this stage,

  413. it was I loved it. It was terrible gas mileage, but

  414. it was really roomy. All my buddies wanted to roll in

  415. it, but I remember much like we all do.

  416. I made a mistake driving my first car, and I remember taking

  417. an illegal U-turn in here in a crunch of the metal.

  418. And then, thinking to myself, I gotta call my dad, he's gonna

  419. freaking kill me because my dad was, if you make a mistake,

  420. you're going to pay the price. The disciplinarian doesn't make

  421. him a bad dad but I knew what to expect and I feel like that's

  422. That's that's how I formed my relationship with God.

  423. Was my relationship with my father's, like, man, when I make

  424. a mistake, I want to hide it from my dad, that's religion

  425. relationship. With God is so much different

  426. and that's when everything changed for me because it's

  427. making the same mistake, making the same illegal U-turn that,

  428. you know, that you shouldn't do. But as soon as you hear the

  429. crunch of the metal, you think to yourself, I got to call my

  430. dad because he's gonna know what to do.

  431. Yeah. Now you take your problems, your

  432. like that Dad hears, the porn that I started because I didn't

  433. know what else to do dad. Here's the drugs that I started

  434. because I had so much pain. I needed the memories to go away

  435. Dead. All of this winning that I did

  436. to try to earn it. I'm going to give it to you,

  437. too, because I'm tired. I'm tired, dad, that's

  438. relationship. And so for 36 years, I'm trying

  439. to earn something from God when The whole time God is just like

  440. dude you haven't you haven't given it all to me because I

  441. want to do it all for you. There's been a price that was

  442. already paid for each and every one of us that are in this room

  443. right now. God put a uniqueness inside of

  444. you and he wants you to go pro. He wants to pull it out of you

  445. and he wants you to say, don't be committed to, you be

  446. committed to me, let me be your Sensei because I have everything

  447. that you need in Jeremiah 29:11. It says Thank God.

    Jeremiah 29:11

  448. It says, for I know the plans I have for you declares the Lord

  449. plans to prosper you and not to harm you plans to give you hope

  450. and a future. And I'm one of those people.

  451. And I want every single one of us to be the type of person that

  452. said, God's talking about me when he said that.

  453. So, I'll pause right there, because I know that there's a

  454. few things, you you teed it up, and I want to, I want to get

  455. into it. You started your relationship.

  456. Jesus at 11. Then you went pro athletically,

  457. but you didn't start going pro spiritually.

  458. Till much later. I feel like I can't sit down

  459. right now. So, yeah, well, I want you to

  460. preach this. I want you to preach this.

  461. I want you to talk to them because you made this statement

  462. that was really profound about the difference between amateurs

  463. and Pros. Yeah.

  464. So talk to them about that. Yeah, so it's like, my life

  465. Mantra because for so many years I was led by my feelings and

  466. your feelings are a liar, the difference between, and I'm

  467. going to say it two times, I want everybody to just hear my

  468. voice. The difference between an

  469. amateur and a pro is amateurs. Make decisions based upon their

  470. feelings and pros, make decisions based upon their

  471. commitments because I know that there's some days Like you maybe

  472. you don't feel God, it doesn't mean that he's not there.

  473. And I feel like in order for us to go pro in life, it's going to

  474. require us to make a decision in about five minutes.

  475. We're going to come to a time of decision and so if you would, I

  476. would love to read you a poem. Yeah.

  477. That I read every single morning, I have it printed out.

  478. And if you want to just message me on Instagram, and I'll find a

  479. way to get it to you, but I print it out and I put it on my

  480. mirror and I read it every single morning and it helps me

  481. to recalibrate who my Sensei is and what my purpose is on this

  482. planet. So my mentor actually wrote

  483. this, his name is Keith craft. And the poem is called choose

  484. your hard because every single day is hard.

  485. Being your best is hard, being normal is hard.

  486. Making wise decisions is hard, making bad decisions to start

  487. being in shape is hard. Being out of shape.

  488. As hard losing weight is hard being fat.

  489. As hard being disciplined, his heart, being lazy as hard

  490. getting outside of your comfort zone.

  491. Some of us are going to be called to do that today.

  492. I hope all of us are didn't outside.

  493. Your comfort zone is hard but staying inside your comfort

  494. zone, how it always used to be. That's hard to come on, starting

  495. a business is hard working for someone else to start making.

  496. Lot of money to start making a little bit of monies.

  497. Are being rich is hard. Being pores are having great

  498. relationships as hard having bad relationships as hard.

  499. Having friends is hard. Having no friends.

  500. This hard hear me. When I say this guy's, this is

  501. part of my testimony. Get a chance to share today.

  502. Fighting for your marriage is hard.

  503. Divorce is hard. Having a lot of things.

  504. It's hard, having nothing to start living on.

  505. Purpose is hard. Living off.

  506. Purposes hard, doing life. God's way is hard doing life.

  507. Your own way as hard? Everything is hard, we have to

  508. choose our hard. So if I had, like two minutes to

  509. speak to you before, you went out for the game of your life on

  510. this Super Bowl Sunday, you know, I would have three things

  511. for you to do, just three things, I would ask him going to

  512. walk you through them quickly. I task for you to think about

  513. releasing some things, receiving some things and committing to a

  514. thing. Because for me I did so much of

  515. my life trying to earn it when God was just looking for me to

  516. lay something down, I feel like what God has for each and every

  517. one of us is so big. We need two hands to to download

  518. it and we're still stuck with hanging on to depression or

  519. anxiety, or drugs, or drinking or porn, or just these different

  520. things. God wants us to lay those things

  521. down so we can receive everything that he has for us.

  522. So there's got to be a release. There's got to be.

  523. I'm going to say it again. There's got to be a release

  524. happening in order for you to receive everything that God has

  525. for you. Because I feel like God gives me

  526. a picture. When I talk about receiving.

  527. I've seen this meme of this really cute precious little girl

  528. looks like, she's like six years old.

  529. It's a cartoon. And she's hanging on to this

  530. teddy bear so tight because she loves it so much and she's He's

  531. looking up at Jesus and Jesus is standing here and he's got his

  532. hand out. He's like, just just give me

  533. what you have, she doesn't realize it and I didn't realize

  534. it for 36 years. God had a teddy bear bigger than

  535. I could ever ask think or imagine right behind his back

  536. but in order for me to receive that, I needed to release

  537. something. So I'm believing on this morning

  538. when we pray this prayer when we make this This decision.

  539. Did it has staying power in the last thing that I'm going to ask

  540. you to do is to commit. Don't commit to just Jesus being

  541. your savior. Because that's the JV team, I'm

  542. calling you up to the pros. God's calling you up to the

  543. pros. Jesus wants to be your Lord.

  544. He's the wants to walk alongside to you.

  545. He wants to empower you. He doesn't want to stop you from

  546. doing the things that are fun. Look at me.

  547. I'm not a football player, I'm a freedom fighter.

  548. They grow here to deliver a message to you to challenge you.

  549. So, I've got 58 seconds. To stir everybody up.

  550. But instead of me doing that, I'm just going to ask Holy

  551. Spirit to move in your heart. Yo because the root word of

  552. decision means to cut off and in John 10:10, it says that the

    John 10:10

  553. enemy comes to steal to kill and destroy.

  554. Don't let him steal your identity.

  555. Don't let him kill your, your ability to multiply and don't

  556. let him destroy your legacy. It's time to make a decision.

  557. Yeah. And when we get ready to make

  558. that decision here in a second. Yeah.

  559. You guys you're going to we're doing a bonus round real quick

  560. because I want to I want to hit one more thing that you said

  561. earlier. You're asking people to receive

  562. something from God. You're asking people to make

  563. commitments to God, but we talked about a stat that had an

  564. impact on both of us about what happens when the men in the home

  565. gets serious and decide to go pro in their face.

  566. What kind of impact that has on the family?

  567. And what kind of impact that has generationally?

  568. Now we're already going on. Long but let's let's make this

  569. let's make that count before we before we sign off.

  570. Yeah this is the last challenge. I read this that two weeks ago

  571. and I shared it with pasties like I'm a pastor.

  572. I knew that eight years ago. That's not what I'm going to

  573. shove. It is share with you guys.

  574. He didn't say that but he did know that much before I did.

  575. And this challenge is to the men.

  576. I want every single person to make a decision this morning,

  577. but I'm speaking to the men because when the men come come

  578. forward, there's a statistic that says, there's a 93% chance

  579. that your wife and your children will follow you into the house

  580. of God and let God move on them, the way that God moves on them.

  581. If the woman comes forward, there's a 17% chance that is

  582. husband and his kids are going to follow him and if a child

  583. comes forward, there's a three percent chance that the husband

  584. and the wife are going to follow him if we want to change,

  585. Quincy, Illinois. If we want to change, Illinois,

  586. if we want to change America, it starts with the men.

  587. And so, for the challenge, when we, when we have this time of

  588. decision, I want to see the men, the first people up here.

  589. I want to see them sprinting to the Want to to assume their

  590. place as the prophet, the priest, the king, and the

  591. warrior of their home. Not just the provider, not just

  592. the, the strongman the spiritual leader in their home because

  593. there's a 93% chance that God will move on your family as

  594. well. It's time to make a decision.

  595. Let's do it. We're moving the time of

  596. decision. Great job.

  597. There you have it. We have a play call.

  598. They just threw it out to us. So, for those of you in this

  599. room, are those of you still watching online?

  600. Man, I need to talk to just one group of people real quick.

  601. It's that person who has not fully committed to stepping over

  602. that line, and making Jesus, their personal Lord, but also

  603. their savior. You've not just gone all-in on

  604. that decision. You've been holding back.

  605. Something you haven't fully released all the areas of your

  606. heart to Jesus, and I know that there's still inside of their

  607. yours. I mean, that's he's talking to

  608. me. I know that I'm still living for

  609. myself. I know that I'm still living on

  610. My Own Strength In my own power. And but for some reason, there's

  611. still things in your head saying, I just don't think it's

  612. for me, you're disqualifying yourself.

  613. You, you're probably going back to a moment in your childhood.

  614. A lot of us probably experienced before were your end in PE class

  615. and you can name, whatever sport that you're at in PE class.

  616. But you're lined up and there's two people who are the Captains

  617. and they're picking the teams and you're just like, there's no

  618. way they're going to pick me. And the reason we say that is

  619. because we start disqualifying ourself right away?

  620. We start saying I'm not fast enough.

  621. I can't I can't kick the ball high or far enough and you start

  622. disqualifying yourself. And that is what happens inside

  623. of a relationship with God. That you're just like, there's

  624. no way he wants me. I'm not good enough.

  625. I know what I did yesterday. I know what I did this morning.

  626. I know what I did in the car on the way to church today.

  627. I know how I talk to my wife or I know how I talk to my husband.

  628. I know how I, how I treat my kids.

  629. I know how I talk to my boss or how I talk about my boss behind

  630. his back. Fill in the blank.

  631. You start disqualifying yourself.

  632. And for those of you in this room, listen.

  633. If you've not stepped into that because you've done that, I want

  634. you to hear this truth. That Jesus is for you.

  635. And he went to the cross for you and he paid the debt of your sin

  636. on your behalf. And he looks at you every single

  637. one of you, he looks you in the eye and he says you are mine.

  638. You are my daughter, you are my son, you are my child.

  639. And today, when I want to tell you is this, it's time to get in

  640. the game. It's time to accept that he's

  641. picked you and that you can say, Jesus, I give you everything.

  642. I believe that you save me and I want to start believing that you

  643. are my Lord and all areas of my life.

  644. And for those of you you've never stepped into that.

  645. You've never started that relationship with Jesus in just

  646. a little bit. There's going to be an

  647. opportunity for you to do. Just that there's going to be

  648. Someone up by the baptistry, one of our pastors will be here,

  649. 48th Street. And you may be like I have

  650. questions. I don't know what that means.

  651. And what do I do next? Do I get in the waters of

  652. baptism? Do I start making that

  653. declaration today? And the answer is yes, you move

  654. today and I can tell you this tonight, most likely there will

  655. be a touchdown there. Will for sure be a turnover.

  656. There will be some type of Celebration and in Her home in

  657. the stadium, all across the world.

  658. There are going to be cheers but when someone when one person a

  659. sinner, who says I'm going to repent, I'm going to turn to

  660. Jesus. I'm going to give my life and

  661. I'm going to be in the waters of baptism and they go under and

  662. they come out of that water. There will be a celebration in

  663. this room today that will be much louder than any Stadium.

  664. And if we're not loud enough, the heavens will be rejoicing

  665. and they will be declaring how good that is because of what

  666. Jesus has done for us. And so on, just a little bit, I

  667. invite you to do that for all of us in a room.

  668. Listen, there's for those of you who are Christians you made that

  669. decision for Jesus. You remember that moment.

  670. There might have been something you carried into this room that

  671. you haven't released yet. You haven't given full authority

  672. to Jesus. You're just like man.

  673. I've been dragging this thing. Round and it's been weighing me

  674. down and I keep carrying it in church.

  675. I keep carrying it out of church, I keep carrying it in my

  676. car. I keep carrying it in my house.

  677. I keep taking it everywhere, I go.

  678. And quite frankly, it's exhausting today might be the

  679. day where you just say Lord. I am going to release that to

  680. you and I'm ready to receive what you have for me today.

  681. And one of the best ways to do that is just to come up to these

  682. steps right here, this campus and to commit, Lord hears the

  683. The things that's holding me back here is the things that is

  684. holding me from what you have, for me, holding me from my

  685. purpose that you've given me and you can just come to these

  686. steps. Get on your knees and just say,

  687. Lord, I'm committing them to you.

  688. I'm committing my full allegiance to you.

  689. I want you to have every area of my heart. but also, as I look in

  690. this room and as I think about that person who's watching

  691. online, every single, one of you have a story, Those of you who

  692. have called on the name of Jesus, he is rescued, you you

  693. remember where you were before Jesus?

  694. And you can think about where you are now, you have a story,

  695. Steve has a story and he shared it with you and it brings a lot

  696. of like, man just like, oh, that was awesome.

  697. That's cool. But listen, you have a powerful

  698. story. I have a powerful story.

  699. Maybe God wants to tell you today.

  700. Today's the day you use your story to tell somebody about

  701. what Jesus has done in and through you and not mine.

  702. Courage them this week. And so, wherever you're at,

  703. Church. What I love about this moment

  704. and Steve set us up men, women. Wherever you're at, we have an

  705. obligation to move and to respond and to refer to just

  706. move closer to what he's calling us to do.

  707. And I think this moments right here, I think it's right now.

  708. Would you guys stand me? Let's, let's pray together.

  709. Let's go this time of decision. Let's Get Right with the Lord.

  710. Let's let some things release, and let's receive what he has

  711. for us. And let's commit that we're

  712. going to just draw closer. To him in this moment.

  713. Heavenly Father God I give you. Thanks and praise for this

  714. weekend. I give you thanks and praise for

  715. you. Jesus for the way that you you

  716. love us. You look at us and you call us

  717. yours. God I pray that in this moment

  718. as as a body of Believers are in here.

  719. I pray God that we just ask you to search our hearts.

  720. You allow us to spend these moments with you on our knees

  721. and we can just say, hey where do I go?

  722. And to start releasing some things in these moments.

  723. God, I pray for that person. I pray for that group of people

  724. who there's just trying to do it on their own, I pray, today's

  725. the day, they let go of some of those things, they release it

  726. and they receive you. Jesus as their personal Lord and

  727. Savior, I pray not in this moment that it's just abundantly

  728. clear. That the spirit of God you are

  729. talking directly to that person and they respond God, help us.

  730. Move closer to you help us respond in this time in Jesus

  731. name I pray. Amen.

  732. Move closer to you help us respond in this time in Jesus

  733. name I pray. Amen.