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Reclaim Your Marriage | Jerry Harris

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  1. Well, good morning Crossing Church.

  2. How are you doing today? Some of you might remember me.

  3. It's so good to be. Here.

  4. It is so good to be with you. I've had the opportunity to

  5. preach in a couple of churches in the last month, or so one in

  6. Arizona, it was like, they were having the worst cold snap of

  7. course. In Arizona bows, great to speak

  8. with them and then in Lincoln Nebraska and it was havin,

  9. they're havin a big warm snap. So that's, you know,

  10. everything's topsy-turvy but there's no place like being

  11. home. And this is home and just so

  12. glad that we get to be together and we get to be in God's word

  13. together. I want to welcome all of our

  14. locations all around this region.

  15. So, thankful for each and every one of you of your Insider

  16. online. We love you.

  17. And and just so happy to be able to share with you this fine

  18. Lord's day as well. And just one thing I want to

  19. remind you of is that in the month of March, there are two

  20. more marriage. Retreats.

  21. And I'm going to be talking about marriage today.

  22. And there is nothing that you could do.

  23. Better than just to invest yourself in a marriage Retreat.

  24. Let God speak into your life. Let us word speak into your life

  25. to focus on that. That's homework worth doing and

  26. it can totally totally change your life, your marriage, your

  27. kids, your grandkids, who knows the blessings that God will give

  28. through that whole process. So we're in this series, I love

  29. the Title of this series and its reclaimed.

  30. I love the word reclaim so much. I feel like biblically that is

  31. encapsulated in that word reclaim and I Was preparing for

  32. this message today and I saw these two little tag lines that

  33. they kind of did some artistic work with.

  34. You can see, just make some kind of hard to read, but it's

  35. restoring what was lost and fixing.

  36. What is broken. Restoring what was lost and

  37. fixing, what is broken. And Those those words that word

  38. reclaim and those two taglines, they kind of hit me because

  39. there's an assumption that's being made in that word.

  40. The word reclaim and the assumption is that you want.

  41. Whatever is broken or whatever was lost that you that you want

  42. that back, right? Whether you you earned it,

  43. whether you paid a lot for it. Whether it was just precious to

  44. your what that you want that back.

  45. You want to reclaim that. And I'm contextualizing that in

  46. my life and in my context, in my circumstances and I wonder how

  47. you might feel about those words.

  48. Do you sense? Culturally.

  49. That we are surrounded by broken things.

  50. Do you feel like we've lost things like some really

  51. necessary things and they seem to be lost or forgotten.

  52. I wonder if you might feel that way, is an American like in our

  53. country. You might feel that way as a

  54. complete Community member like in your community.

  55. All these communities that we represent at the Crossing, all

  56. of network in or maybe even personally things that are lost

  57. or broken inside of you, I want you to know that I feel that

  58. way. That's a burden on me.

  59. And I want to do something right now that maybe I would encourage

  60. you to do today and that is I'm going to confess something to

  61. you. And that is that sometimes.

  62. I feel like the things that I so that I feel so deeply, They

  63. Don't Really resonate sometimes with younger generations, and it

  64. makes me wonder if there is even a desire out there to reclaim

  65. anything. Instead, I see this non-stop

  66. indoctrination to move American culture away from reclaiming and

  67. instead embracing new ideas about sexual identity, about

  68. historical identity about national identity, about social

  69. identity and about Civility and so many other things and I don't

  70. want to be classified. I know I'm 63 years old but I

  71. don't want to be that guy. Who's morning the good old days.

  72. But can't help believe but believe that so much that is so

  73. valuable has been broken and lost.

  74. And I confess to you that sometimes I feel like that any

  75. desire to want to reclaim any of those things is just a pipe

  76. dream. so then I hear about something happening in Wilmore

  77. Kentucky, Went viral a couple weeks ago.

  78. Everyone, that has a pulse knows what I'm talking about.

  79. Asbury University students refused to leave their weekly

  80. Chapel service. They have three Chapel Services

  81. a week and instead continued to worship and praise God in their

  82. chapel and they miss their classes to continue to worship

  83. and praise God. And I know that that you've

  84. heard about it, like just one post on social media had over.

  85. 80 million views. So everybody's heard about this

  86. and the more I saw, the more I actually heard about mostly with

  87. social media. I wanted to investigate it

  88. myself. So I'm the publisher of

  89. Christian standard magazine and and I have an editor that lives

  90. in Louisville Kentucky and that's only about an hour from

  91. Wilmore which is just a like 15 minutes.

  92. South west of Lexington Kentucky to ask him.

  93. Hey if you would go down there and take a look at that and

  94. maybe I said something about, it will pay your expenses and he

  95. said to me, his name is Mike Mac and he said, actually, I just

  96. got back. I was there for seven hours and

  97. it was life-changing. It was so powerful and I came

  98. there and, and you could just feel it, like, it was palpable.

  99. And, and people I was out on the lawn.

  100. I never even made it in the building.

  101. I was out on the lawn and people have started praying together

  102. and a guy came up to me and I said you owe me to pray with

  103. you. I started praying with him.

  104. Feel just art, you'll spontaneously Ministering to one

  105. another, with a holy spirit was powerful.

  106. And I went, wow. So I felt this need inside of me

  107. to go there to experience that myself.

  108. So I thought about a couple of guys who might have the time to

  109. be able to go with me and I called Walt wilcoxon and then I

  110. was going to call Jim Dennis. So I called Walt and I said,

  111. hey, you want to go? And he goes yeah, I'd love to go

  112. and I go I'm going to call Jim. Dennis, he goes, don't bother.

  113. He's already there. True story.

  114. He's actually on his way back. So we are making arrangements to

  115. go and I called Jim and he's on the road, coming back and he was

  116. like this was not. He goes he was crazy and it was

  117. it was incredible. He started telling me about his

  118. experience and then he said, you know, they had food.

  119. It was provided, they had pizza, they had, they had snacks, they

  120. had drinks had all this stuff and I went, I tried to pay for

  121. it and they go, no, it's been provided.

  122. Like are you kidding me? They wouldn't take your money to

  123. know said it's been provided. Like somebody had just ponied up

  124. the money for like all these restrooms and you know all this

  125. stuff and he goes I felt so bad. It goes I put some I said you

  126. just take donations and they said, well, we'll take a

  127. donation so he handed him some money.

  128. And he said, maybe the crossing could do something to help this

  129. out. So I called Clayton.

  130. And I said, what do you think the crossing could could help

  131. pay for all the stuff that they're doing?

  132. And he said, just come to the office and we'll cut you a check

  133. for five thousand dollars. So you don't know it until now,

  134. but as a church we participated in the Asbury.

  135. Revival. You were paying for toilets.

  136. You are paying for pizza. You're paying for bottled water.

  137. So that people could just continue to pray and seek the

  138. Lord. Incredible.

  139. So we're in the car, you know, we jumped in the car on Friday

  140. morning and we made the seven-hour trip that was last

  141. Friday, and in the car, I was talking to Walt about what I was

  142. going to be preaching about, which is how to pick and be the

  143. right spouse. How do you pick the right

  144. spouse? And how can you be the right

  145. spouse? And and Walt said, well, I'm

  146. really excited about half that sermon.

  147. How come they got it over there but you guys are still quiet.

  148. I don't know, any way we get to the decision time for.

  149. Maybe you. Okay.

  150. Anyway, I love his gift of encouragement anyway, so we got

  151. there and we got there as it was getting toward evening.

  152. And then as night fell, I mean I took a few videos, but this is

  153. the video that I took when night fell.

  154. So look at the screens right now and you can see what I was

  155. experiencing. That's the lawn and right there

  156. is Hughes Auditorium on your left.

  157. And that's where the if you seen those videos that's where

  158. they're happening and you can see a line you can, stat line is

  159. for people wide. And it goes over half a mile.

  160. 6/10 of a mile and it is not moving because once you get in

  161. the auditorium, people don't want to leave.

  162. But people are willing to stand. And by the way, it's 28 degrees.

  163. When I took that video And people have filled that Lon and

  164. they're praying outside, you see that?

  165. They put like this Jumbotron thing out there so you can see

  166. and that was amazing and and all of the local churches didn't

  167. matter what the sign was out front.

  168. Didn't matter what denomination they were.

  169. There's an amazing thing. They all simulcast it.

  170. I went into one a Baptist Church and you can tell they don't they

  171. don't they don't do the whole video on the wall thing.

  172. So I mean it was old school. It was Use and it was organ and

  173. piano, right? But they had a chair sitting on

  174. the left side and they had a, they had a video projector

  175. sitting on the chair shooting up against the wall.

  176. And so I mean, I mean that's that's pretty rudimentary right?

  177. And and there was a couple of there were people up, you know,

  178. that we're praying and confessing their sins and stuff

  179. happening up front and there was a couple over there and there

  180. was a guy that was leading them helping them like we would do

  181. that when like praying with them.

  182. And and he kneels to pray and he sticks his rear end right in

  183. front of the, of the video projector.

  184. And so, and so, you only see half of like, and nobody said

  185. anything nobody cared. And about every other verse that

  186. they were singing that was being simulcast.

  187. The the internet was so bad that it would buffer.

  188. And it would just freeze and buffer.

  189. Nobody cared. They just kept saying and it was

  190. amazing that when it, when it quit buffering, we were right

  191. with him again. It was absolutely astounding to

  192. me. so, What was what was amazing was there was no

  193. production. I mean, it was there was not

  194. produced at all. It was just a bunch of a bunch

  195. of people in a room and most of them, seventy percent of them

  196. were under the age of 22. And there was no musical

  197. excellence. I mean they weren't picking

  198. people who are just great. Just somebody, if you get up

  199. there with a guitar and there were somebody maybe on the piano

  200. and they had their phone, they're trying to find, You

  201. Know, chords. And there was a guy on a beatbox

  202. and that was about it. And they're leading worship that

  203. didn't matter. I mean, all they had to do with

  204. start, all they had to do was start a song.

  205. There was no words on any screen, so you didn't have words

  206. to go with you, you know, didn't matter.

  207. I mean, they, they sing like a bar to an everybody would just

  208. pick it up and then start singing.

  209. There was no special lighting. There was no famous people,

  210. there is no comfortable chairs. There was no Posh accommodations

  211. and none of it mattered. It was completely student-led

  212. and the, The Faculty of Asbury did their best to maintain that

  213. there were people that tried to get some stage time.

  214. Lots of people that tried to do that.

  215. Some of them famous like Kari, Jobe cane and one of the things

  216. they said, no, this is student-led Tucker Carlson came

  217. with a film. What came with a film crew?

  218. Wanted to do film? They said no completely

  219. student-led That was that day. I thought it was amazing how

  220. they kept that the way it was and what you saw instead was

  221. students worshiping in song confessing their sins, publicly

  222. dropping to their knees at the altar and repentance giving

  223. their testimonies reading scripture.

  224. And this is how they would read scripture.

  225. I mean, they would line up, they would line up to read a

  226. scripture. And the president of the college

  227. was standing in front and they have a kind of a tradition at

  228. Asbury when they read scripture and when that scripture is read,

  229. the president would raise his hand and say, this is the word

  230. of God. And then everybody, all those

  231. students would say and we believe it Like thunderously,

  232. they would say that and then another one come up and another

  233. one would come up, they have 1020 in a line just having a

  234. scripture on their heart that they wanted to read.

  235. So, the faculty made sure that there were no outside

  236. distractions that kept keep it, orderly, the rejected people who

  237. wanted that stage time. And eventually, I mean the town

  238. of wilmore's only 3,300 people and they were having 15,000 a

  239. day so it overwhelmed the community.

  240. So eventually they had to say take the Revival out because he

  241. can't just stay here. But absolutely beautiful.

  242. The Holy Spirit was so thick. It was like, James, Earl, Jones

  243. and Field of Dreams when he said you'd have to brush it away from

  244. your face, you just walk into those spaces, you start crying.

  245. Was powerful. And I know I needed to be there.

  246. I needed to be there because of what I just confessed to you.

  247. I was there for hope. Mike Max said I was there for

  248. Unity. I saw Unity.

  249. What I saw was hope hope for a new generation.

  250. TriMet predominately 18 to 22 year, olds crying out for the

  251. Lord's presence confessing their sins to him publicly repenting

  252. of their sins and praying. but there are a whole heart for him

  253. to move because that is what this word is all about.

  254. Revival is reclaiming. Repentance is reclaiming.

  255. Confession is reclaiming obedience to God.

  256. And His word is reclaiming. I confess to you that many

  257. times, I have felt like Elijah under the broom tree thinking,

  258. everyone else is broken and lost who's left.

  259. And I was reminded that God told Elijah when he was feeling sorry

  260. for himself that he had reserved 7000 who had not bowed the knee

  261. to Baal and I saw thousands and thousands of young people take

  262. up the Cross of Christ and deny themselves.

  263. Now, that is not the topic that I was assigned for this series.

  264. But it literally has everything to do with it.

  265. Finding or being the spouse. That honors.

  266. God requires obedience to him. Obedience to him.

  267. Over the things of this world and over culture and gen Z is

  268. under greater pressure than any previous generation that we know

  269. of to bow down to the idol of culture and worldly acceptance.

  270. But that trip to Asbury. Showed me that the smallest

  271. Taste of the spirit of God is so much more powerful than any of

  272. those idols and any of those cultures, See God's word is true

  273. and it's infallible and it stood the test of time for thousands

  274. of years regardless of culture culture on the other hand has

  275. little if any shelf life it is so temporary and it is so

  276. disposable. The culture of this generation

  277. once this generation to be known as the generation of anxiety,

  278. the generation of depression, the generation of suicide, but

  279. God can and will speak life into this generation.

  280. And it begins with God's word so that's where I want to start

  281. today when it comes to being a spouse or finding a spouse.

  282. And so we're going to start in the most basic truths about

  283. that. Now, I'm going to step out from

  284. behind this table and you've all been on a airplane flight and

  285. the flight attendant comes up and they have a seat belt.

  286. And they show you. How to operate a seat belt?

  287. Right. And some of us are like, well,

  288. that's really dumb. I don't need to do that mean,

  289. look at me. I mean, I understand how to

  290. operate a seat belt. But sometimes we might want to

  291. wonder when we're trying to reclaim something.

  292. If we still need to know how to operate seat belt.

  293. When the oxygen mask comes down, they show you how to put it on

  294. even though you ought to know how to put it on.

  295. Right, so there's going to be some stuff.

  296. I'm going to say. And some of you might recoil.

  297. And I just want you to put your seatbelt on and make sure, you

  298. know, where your oxygen mask is okay.

  299. Because that's what's going to happen and I'm not going to

  300. waste any time doing it, ready. I'm going to tell you three

  301. things about marriage. Here's the first one, male and

  302. female. Just that.

  303. Male and female. I'm going to encourage you today

  304. to do the same discipline, the same traditional discipline that

  305. as very students do, because when I'm done reading the

  306. scripture, I'm going to say this is the word of God.

  307. Matthew 19:4 through six, these words, by the way are in read.

    Matthew 19:4

  308. In my Bible that means there are the words of Jesus ready?

  309. Having you read, he replied that at the beginning, the Creator

  310. made them. Male and female and said, for

  311. this reason, a man will leave his father and mother and be

  312. United to his wife. And the two will become one

  313. flesh. So they are no longer two, but

  314. one therefore what God has joined together?

  315. Let man not separate. This is the word of God.

  316. There are two Sexes assigned at birth.

  317. That's the way that God created you and designed you.

  318. It goes. Clear down to the cellular level

  319. men, have an X chromosome, and the Y chromosome in every cell.

  320. Women have, an X chromosome in another X chromosome in every

  321. cell, That's how your made even down to the cellular level.

  322. Now, I know there are people who are same-sex attracted and I

  323. know there are all sorts of cultural variations with regards

  324. to sexual identity, but that is not how you or made and that's

  325. down to every cell in your body. I know what the world says, and

  326. I know what culture says, but the world and culture will pass

  327. away. We just read what Jesus says and

  328. Jesus is alive forever. And for those of you that are

  329. worried about being judged by culture, I want you to know

  330. something you will never stand before culture and be judged,

  331. but you and I will stand before. God?

  332. We will all stand before God. And we will be judged according

  333. to his word and this is not my opinion.

  334. This is what the Bible says. I know that for some of you this

  335. is like, how do you, how do you Buckle a seatbelt?

  336. But that is not the case in our culture.

  337. Orange in Zee. Number two.

  338. To be unified in faith for life to understand male and female.

  339. And then, to be unified in faith for life.

  340. I don't know what you did, or what you feel like you ought to

  341. do, if you ever find a spouse or when you found a spouse, or when

  342. you ask someone to be your spouse, but the first question

  343. you should find out is where are they in their faith?

  344. Before you like their clothes, their hairstyle, their body

  345. shape. How will they have a

  346. conversation? Where do they stand on their

  347. faith? The Apostle Paul said, do not be

  348. yoked together with unbelievers for what do righteousness and

  349. wickedness have in common or what Fellowship can light have

  350. with Darkness. This should be the first thing

  351. that you look for. You need to be it and you to

  352. look for it. Listen to me, it is essential to

  353. be in a one flesh in spirit as well as in body because without

  354. it, you'll never be on the same page.

  355. Now, I know some of you that are younger, you might think that

  356. marriage is balloons and lollipops and rainbows, but

  357. those of us that have been in the war called marriage, We know

  358. that it's not always easy and sometimes it's hard.

  359. As a matter of fact, it can be the hardest things, the hardest

  360. things that you ever experienced in life could happen, inside

  361. that one flesh, relationship and the place you go for Hope and

  362. peace and strength. Is God and his word.

  363. And if you're not on the same page there, let me tell you.

  364. I've had enough people in in my office prove to me that when

  365. you're not on that same page, somebody bears that alone.

  366. And that is not the way that God designed it.

  367. It's the first thing you should have in common.

  368. Your faith. Number three.

  369. You need to be committed to The Godly order of things.

  370. There is no disorder in God and there is no confusion in God.

  371. None zero. And so we need to understand

  372. that with God, you don't have confusion, you have something

  373. else. Instead, the Bible says, God is

  374. not the author of confusion but he's the author of peace and

  375. when you follow God, you can be at peace, not in confusion.

  376. What do I mean? And how does that apply.

  377. Well, I'm going to read 1st Corinthians, chapter 6 verses 18

  378. to 20. He's the words of the Apostle.

  379. Paul. Flee from sexual immorality.

  380. All other sins. A man commits are outside of his

  381. body. Now, this is important.

  382. I want you to raise your hand. If you've heard.

  383. Somebody say all sins the same, all Sin is Sin.

  384. Yeah, that's only partly true and partly false because sin is

  385. not the same. When it comes to consequences,

  386. all sin separates you from God? In that sense?

  387. That's true. But there are some sins that

  388. make a lot bigger Mark in your life than others.

  389. And that's what the Apostle Paul is saying here, right?

  390. Let's look at it all other sins. A man commits are outside of his

  391. body but he used in sexually sins against his own body.

  392. Do you not know that your body is the Temple of the Holy

  393. Spirit? Who is in you whom you've

  394. received from God? You are not your own, you were

  395. bought at a price, therefore honor God with your body.

  396. So we have to flee, sexual sin. So I said, male and female, I

  397. said that we need to be unified in faith for life.

  398. And third, be committed to Godly order.

  399. And that's what this scripture is.

  400. Defining now a few months ago, I showed you this is called the

  401. ram model and this is the way that a relationship is supposed

  402. to form. You're supposed to get to know

  403. somebody. And when you know them well

  404. enough, you begin to trust them because what trust is is what

  405. you think about what you know, I've had a lot of people come to

  406. me. Their marriages are falling

  407. apart and they said, well, I really thought that I knew that

  408. person. Because that's what trust is it.

  409. When trust is broken. It means that what you thought

  410. you knew you really didn't. So those knowing and then

  411. there's what you think about, you know, trust then Reliance is

  412. what you do based on what you think about what you know How

  413. you actually act not just what you think.

  414. And then, if all of that goes, well, you come down here to

  415. Commitment you say, I want to get, I'm going to get that

  416. person off of the market. I want that one to be mine.

  417. I want that one to be forever. I want that.

  418. I netwo, yes. Sign me up, right?

  419. That's commitment. That's why you're taking all

  420. these O's. When you get married, that's

  421. commitment. And then, and then, and then

  422. this Touch. Yeah.

  423. That's the way it's supposed to work.

  424. Now there's a lot of reasons for that because when you get these

  425. in the wrong order, Things become very confusing and very

  426. destructive. And Satan is the author of

  427. confusion. Not God And I'll tell you why

  428. that is because just like the X and Y chromosomes and all these

  429. things that God did when he when you were created.

  430. He also created you that way in every way including your married

  431. life. so, when a woman gives birth, Her body delivers, 10

  432. times, the amount of normal of oxytocin hormone into her body.

  433. She just gets this huge rush soon as that babies, born of

  434. oxytocin and they put that baby on mommy's tummy.

  435. And something happens. Something miraculous happens.

  436. Bonding. And it's bonding for life and

  437. it's because God designed her to release 10 times the oxytocin in

  438. that moment. So there is a chemical

  439. scientific response that God has designed inside of a woman to do

  440. that. She also releases that in sexual

  441. intimacy. A man in sexual intimacy

  442. releases vasopressin a hormone that is also called the monogamy

  443. molecule. Because as a species human

  444. beings were designed to mate for life.

  445. Wow, cool. Now, maybe not so much because

  446. how many relationships do you know, started that way and did

  447. that? Or did we go to the bar?

  448. Hoping we get lucky. We picked someone up.

  449. It's dark. You're drunk or drinking in the

  450. dark, they look pretty good. You wake up in the morning

  451. you're going. Oh my goodness.

  452. But all that hormonal stuff happened and you do that over

  453. and over and over and over again.

  454. What happens? This is not how you were

  455. designed. This is not how I was designed

  456. and right now you're going. Oh, stop preaching.

  457. Killing me. Cuz I haven't done that.

  458. I'm broken. I'm lost.

  459. I don't know what to do reclaim Reclaim because God has the

  460. ability to fix what is broken? He has the ability to recover.

  461. What has been lost, only he can do that, we have got to reclaim

  462. and you're going, okay? Okay.

  463. How do I do it? Okay.

  464. Here's an acrostic, an acronym, ready, re-see laim reclaim.

  465. I'm going to give you a word and a statement for every one of

  466. those. So you can remember it, you

  467. might want to write them down. Down.

  468. Number one. Are what does it stand for

  469. repent of your sins? Repent of your sins to repent

  470. means to turn. Literally, the Greek word means

  471. to turn And and there's a scripture that actually has the

  472. definition within the scripture. It's in Acts chapter 3 verses 19

    Acts 3:19–20

  473. to 20. It says repent then and turn to

  474. God so that your sins may be wiped out.

  475. You want your sins wiped out? I do.

  476. How do I get my sins wiped out? I Repent that your sins may be

  477. wiped out. How many you want?

  478. The next thing that times of refreshing may come from the

  479. Lord? That's Revival.

  480. That's where God fixes your heart times of refreshing come

  481. from the Lord, and that he may send the Messiah.

  482. Who has been appointed for you? Even Jesus to feel the presence

  483. of Jesus. To repent.

  484. I want that. Yeah, you're broken.

  485. Something's lost, repent. Number 2 or e the letter e

  486. experience experience the cross. experience the cross because

  487. that's where the sacrifice for your sins are If you know that

  488. you're carrying all these sins, you know, you've got all this

  489. stuff, maybe nobody else knows, maybe it's a secret thing, you

  490. don't, you know as and it's just you that knows it.

  491. What do I do with it? I've owned this regret.

  492. I have all this hurt. I have all this pain.

  493. What do I do with it? You take that right to the Cross

  494. experience, the cross, because it was at the cross where Jesus

  495. shed his blood and his blood is enough to cover every one of

  496. your sins, it doesn't require anything more than what Jesus

  497. did when he gave himself as a sacrifice for your sins.

  498. So experience the cross because that is where the payment is for

  499. your sins, see? Confess your sin.

  500. Confess your sin, which means to admit your sin before.

  501. God, first John 1:9 says, if we confess our sins, he is faithful

    1 John 1:9

  502. and just and will what you want that?

  503. I want that. I want my sins to be wiped out.

  504. I want a time of refreshing from the Lord.

  505. I want him to send the Lord, the Messiah into my heart that he's

  506. appointed for me. And I want to know that he's

  507. forgiven me, and it doesn't say he will forgive us of our sins.

  508. Only, it says, he will purify us.

  509. And not just from some of our sin.

  510. It says all unrighteousness. When we confess our sins, I need

  511. to do that. Oh yeah, I'm going to repent,

  512. I'm going to embrace the cross and experience the cross, and

  513. I'm going to confess my sins and in the L, and reclaim is a

  514. definition. It's to understand your sin from

  515. God's point of view. Look, it's for look is the L

  516. look. At yourself from God's point of

  517. view, See. Everything is just so biased

  518. inside of us because we're always about our point of view.

  519. We're so self-focused as a culture, but we need to get out

  520. of ourselves and we need to get into God's point of view.

  521. And when you see things from God's point of view, you agree

  522. with him. And when you agree with him,

  523. you're in the right place and that is where there is

  524. incredible beauty. Because the beauty of Truth is

  525. healing. It heals you?

  526. Some people think, well, you know, I'm forever scarred.

  527. I've been victimized. And I've been forever scarred.

  528. I'm not saying that you haven't endured a lot of hard things and

  529. that you haven't been victimized, but I'm telling you,

  530. there isn't coping in the Holy Spirit, there's victory in the

  531. Holy Spirit. There, he remakes you and only

  532. he can do that. There's healing in it.

  533. A is for accept. This is where it gets really

  534. good. Except the power of God's

  535. Amazing. Grace.

  536. In Romans chapter 5 verses 9 to 11, it says, since we have been

    Romans 5:9–11

  537. justified by his blood, how much more shall we be saved?

  538. From God's Wrath through him, I want to be saved from God's

  539. Wrath. For if, while we were God's

  540. enemies, we were reconciled to him through the death of his

  541. son. How much more having been

  542. reconciled shall we be saved through his life Not only is

  543. this so but we also boast in God through our Lord Jesus Christ

  544. through whom we have now received reconciliation.

  545. Wow. I is for imagine, imagine the

  546. you That God sees. You know, a lot of times we

  547. think that God looks citizen, all he sees is all of our

  548. shortcomings, in all of our, all the bad things that we've done.

  549. But you know what? That's Satan limiting you to

  550. what God sees, because God sees you as a completed work.

  551. God sees you with all of your potential realized.

  552. The Bible says that we are as far as he is concerned, we are

  553. already seated with him in the Heavenly realms.

  554. So God doesn't just see you as his broken up, busted up, dumb

  555. kid. He sees you experiencing all of

  556. the potential that he has in your life.

  557. All of that realized impacting other people for the kingdom for

  558. all time. Imagine that true because it's

  559. true. And finally, move em is move

  560. toward Jesus. You see, the thing about Sin is

  561. that makes it even more confusing.

  562. Is we realize we've done something wrong and we realize

  563. we're broken because of it realized stuff's been lost

  564. because of it and then we just run but we're aimless, we just

  565. kind of just run. And a lot of times when you run

  566. from a sin, you run into a worse one.

  567. And what God is trying to help us to understand is that he

  568. gives us. He doesn't just tell us to flee.

  569. He doesn't just tell us to run. He tells us where we're supposed

  570. to run, and that's to Jesus. Because I can tell you this, if

  571. you're running to Jesus, you're always running in the right

  572. direction. And if you're running to Jesus,

  573. you're putting the right amount of distance between you and

  574. that's in so move. Toward Jesus.

  575. I'm going to close with this. We sing the song We sang it last

  576. week. I think I'm praying.

  577. God, come and turn this thing around.

  578. God. Turn it around.

  579. Turn it around. Lord, turn it around, right.

  580. And you know what? That's putting all the

  581. responsibility on him. Like, would you come and fix all

  582. this? And if we were to hear the voice

  583. of Jesus Christ, he would say, excuse me.

  584. I've already been there. I've already been there.

  585. I put on a human form. I walked on your Earth for 33

  586. years. I endured the worst.

  587. That a person could give another person.

  588. I died for you on the cross. I was buried for you in a

  589. borrowed to I rose from the dead and I ascended to my Father in

  590. heaven. And I'm there right now,

  591. pleading your case. So maybe when we sing I'm

  592. praying God come maybe we should just point her finger like this

  593. and say and turn this thing around.

  594. God turn this around. Turn me around.

  595. Turn me around. Like the students in Asbury were

  596. broken, people were lost people. So am I?

  597. But when the spirit comes and we submit to that Spirit, something

  598. happens. something wonderful happens because the church

  599. begins to look beautiful. With all of her beautiful

  600. messiness. I'm talking about marriage and

  601. some people would say, you know, but Jesus was never married, the

  602. whole reason. Jesus came to this Earth was to

  603. get married. And you are his bride.

  604. And he gave his life up. For his bride.

  605. And he's coming back for his bride, because there is nothing

  606. in this world more beautiful than the Bride of Jesus Christ.

  607. We're moving to a time of decision.

  608. There are people in this room. Struggling right now.

  609. Hurting right now. Wrestling right now.

  610. Oh, you might be a Christian, you may have said the words, you

  611. may have made the decision. That's all great.

  612. I appreciate that so much. But you know what I mean?

  613. Because life happens like we call it the lower Story.

  614. The lower story happens, right? And I'm just going to invite you

  615. to do something today because these steps.

  616. Have been. They've been preyed on and

  617. they've been wept on. For years.

  618. And it is where the lower story. Gets enveloped by the upper

  619. story. because when you get low, Before the Lord, you see the

  620. heights like you never did before. when you get down, he

  621. lifts you up. Because this is a place of

  622. repentance. And it's a place of confession.

  623. And it's a place of Grace. And if you've got something on

  624. your heart, maybe you're carrying it for yourself where

  625. you're carrying it for somebody that you love, bring it to the

  626. Lord, just bring it to the Lord. And I know you can do that in

  627. your seat, but it's something profound when we get down on our

  628. knees. And we don't care who sees us

  629. like those students when they start confessing their sins

  630. publicly with a microphone. I don't care who sees it, I

  631. don't care who hears it because I want him to hear it.

  632. Some of you here today and you've never accepted Lord Jesus

  633. as your savior and your lord. You never come in to an intimate

  634. personal relationship with him. And right over there by that

  635. baptistry, there's going to be somebody to talk to you and

  636. there is nothing in this world. I can't, I can't ever put any

  637. words together in a sermon. That would even begin to match

  638. the sermon that is preached when a person is immersed in raised

  639. up in that water, it's the most profound powerful sermon, you'll

  640. hear. Is that?

  641. Just the sound of water. And a smile enjoy.

  642. And that's available for you right now.

  643. Would you stand with me? Let's pray together.

  644. Heavenly father in Jesus name. We come to you.

  645. Father, we reject the things of this world.

  646. We reject the things of this culture and we embrace the

  647. culture of Heaven. We Embrace citizenship in

  648. heaven, we embrace your word because it is the inerrant

  649. infallible truth in our Authority for life.

  650. It's Eternal thing that you gave us in this temporary world.

  651. We hear your words. We want your words to see deep

  652. inside of our hearts. So I pray father and this moment

  653. will respond to you in Jesus name.

  654. Amen.