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How To Truly Love God Back

Crossing Church with Clayton Hentzel

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  1. Oh, crossing family. It is so good to be back with

  2. you this weekend. We are in a series called 50 for

  3. 50 where we are spending 50 minutes a day for the next 50

  4. days asking God to move us, change us and use us like never

  5. before. And there are two main

  6. scriptures that are kind of guiding us on this journey.

  7. Mark chapter 12. One of the teachers of the law

    Mark 12 chapter mention

  8. came and heard them debating. Noticing that Jesus had given

  9. them a good answer. He asked him that he's asking

  10. Jesus of all the commandments, which is the most important.

  11. This was Jesus's answer, the most important one answer.

  12. Jesus is this. Hear, O Israel, the Lord our

  13. God. The Lord is 1.

  14. Love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul,

  15. with all your mind, and with all your strength.

  16. The 2nd is this. Love your neighbor as yourself.

  17. There is no commandment greater than these.

  18. And then the second big chunk of scripture that we're looking at

  19. is Matthew 28. Then Jesus came to them and said

  20. all authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me.

  21. Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them

  22. in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit,

  23. and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you,

  24. and surely I am with you always to the very end of the age.

  25. We believe a great commitment to the great commandment and the

  26. Great Commission will make for a great Church and will make for a

  27. great life. I believe that there is nothing

  28. greater that you and I can give our lives to accomplish than

  29. this to love God and to love people.

  30. In fact, our mission here as a church is to help people find an

  31. intimate, personal relationship with Jesus Christ.

  32. We desperately want to make this region where we live the hardest

  33. place on planet Earth to get to hell from.

  34. In order to do that, we realized that we need to make some

  35. decisions and more importantly, we needed to make some

  36. commitments. One of the phrases you're going

  37. to hear over and over every single week, if you got one of

  38. the books, you're going to see it.

  39. Inside of the books as you're traveling along is this quote

  40. from Steve Weatherford that had a major impact on me and our

  41. staff. And he said this.

  42. Amateurs make decisions based on their emotions.

  43. Pros make decisions based on their commitments and we believe

  44. that it is time for all of us to GoPro in the things that matter

  45. the most. In loving God, in loving people

  46. and making a difference in this world.

  47. For Jesus, I'm so incredibly thankful.

  48. Last weekend we had over 2655 of you go.

  49. You know what, we're taking this ground.

  50. We're going on this 50 for 50 journey.

  51. I've been getting up early every single week this week, taking

  52. our golden dummy on a walk to get my exercise in reading the

  53. same chunks of scripture that you're reading.

  54. We're almost all the way, depending on where you're at,

  55. you're we're almost all the way through the book of Luke.

  56. We're going to get into the book of Acts.

  57. In fact, by the end of this journey, you'll have read almost

  58. the entire New Testament. This is going to be a great

  59. opportunity for us to grow in our relationship with the Lord.

  60. And let me say this, there's some of you who maybe you didn't

  61. get a book last week or you were thinking about it and you

  62. decided not to. We still have 1300 books left at

  63. our different locations, and I would rather you go on a journey

  64. for 43 days then go on a journey for no days.

  65. Is that a deal? All right.

  66. That being said, I want to welcome all of you join in from

  67. all of our different locations and those of you join in online

  68. and inside. I am so thankful that we get to

  69. be a part of this crossing family and I am thankful for

  70. you. And I want you to know that each

  71. week when I or each morning when I've been going on a walk, I

  72. have been lifting you all up in prayer.

  73. I love being a part of this church.

  74. Give me a second. I'm still recovering and I love

  75. seeing the life change that happens every single week.

  76. Just seeing what God did in Kirkuk this past weekend or

  77. what's happening at the inside and all of our different

  78. locations. God is on the move at this

  79. church, and I want him to be on the move in you.

  80. I love seeing pictures and hearing stories of those of you

  81. coming to the steps and praying and banging on Heaven's door.

  82. And in fact, that's actually what I want to do real quick.

  83. Can I just bang on Heaven's door with you and pray as we got to

  84. start this message? Heavenly Father, you know where

  85. every single person is right now on their spiritual journey.

  86. You know what they're wrestling with.

  87. You know what they're struggling through, and you also know

  88. exactly what they need to get through and God, I pray that you

  89. would use this season of life and ministry in this church to

  90. bring about a significant and lasting change in each and every

  91. single one of us. We want it, God, We want to make

  92. you proud. We want to make you happy.

  93. And you're in my praying. Amen.

  94. In 1992, Gary Chapman released a best seller called The Five Love

  95. Languages and this was the tagline, The Secret to Love that

  96. Lasts. And since everybody when they

  97. get married kind of goes, I would like this thing to go

  98. forever. It became a hit, and in his book

  99. he identifies 5 love languages that all humans have.

  100. Each of us experience love in different ways, but all of us

  101. have a primary and a secondary love language.

  102. The five love languages are words of affirmation, acts of

  103. service, receiving gifts. Valentine's Day, anyone.

  104. Quality time and physical touch. OK for just we'll do this for

  105. just a quick second. For a show of hands, how many of

  106. you would say the primary way that you feel love is when

  107. people give you words of encouragement?

  108. You're so pretty. You're so handsome.

  109. You're so smart. You work so hard.

  110. Raise your hand. OK.

  111. A lot of guys will raise their hand here.

  112. How about this one? You would say acts of service

  113. when you do stuff for. OK, ladies.

  114. We hear you. We hear you.

  115. OK, shush it. All right.

  116. How many of you? It's gift giving.

  117. You're the expensive people among us, OK?

  118. There's way less hands than there should be.

  119. We know you K Black Friday. We we know you.

  120. How many of you would say it's quality time if we could just

  121. sit next? OK.

  122. Yeah. Neither Jennifer and I.

  123. Neither one of us. It's quality time.

  124. It's like, no, that's not us. What am I, physical touch.

  125. Hold my hand. Give me a back rub Other things.

  126. Yeah, you. That's you.

  127. OK, now let me. I kind of went through this and

  128. a lot of you raised your hands. Men.

  129. Did you notice that men or that women kind of have multiple love

  130. languages. They kind of raise their hands

  131. multiple times. And I'll also tell you this,

  132. fellas, if you if you don't like the love language she has,

  133. she'll change it. She'll change it.

  134. In a couple months when she wants something different done

  135. around the house, she'd be like, well, it was, it was words of

  136. affirmation, but now it's home renovation and you'd be like,

  137. well, I looked in the book and home renovation wasn't in there.

  138. Now the reason why this book was so transformative is because you

  139. can love somebody and you're trying to communicate to your

  140. spouse. I love you so much.

  141. I love you so much. And you speak in your primary,

  142. but they only for the most part, receive love in their primary.

  143. So if your primary way of communicating love to your wife

  144. men is words of affirmation, you're saying I love you, I love

  145. you, I love you. You're so beautiful.

  146. You're so great. You're such a good cook.

  147. You're way better than my mom. You're just showering words of

  148. affirmation on her, and her way of receiving love is acts of

  149. service. You know what your wife is

  150. feeling every day? I wish my husband loved me.

  151. And she goes, I just don't feel loved.

  152. And then as the man you're going, I literally just told you

  153. I loved you. I don't know.

  154. I don't feel it. It didn't matter.

  155. I I said it. Yeah, but the house is dirty.

  156. OK? So you go out and you buy your

  157. stuff from Target and you come home.

  158. See. I love you.

  159. But you didn't vacuum. So think about this.

  160. You have two couples that desperately love each other,

  161. that are trying to communicate how much they love each other

  162. and it's not getting through. They don't feel it because they

  163. love us back. And then you have the man going.

  164. I've been trying to spend all my time trying to tell her how much

  165. I love her, and she doesn't feel it.

  166. But you know what? I don't feel like she loves me

  167. either and our spouse is experiencing the exact same

  168. frustration because they are doing work around the house.

  169. They're trying to be helpful and yet we don't see it and we don't

  170. care. You have two people desperately

  171. trying to communicate how much they love each other because of

  172. the love language barrier. They don't feel loved at all.

  173. Some of you guys, you've heard my Que pasta story.

  174. When I was going through high school, I I took three years of

  175. Spanish and I got good grades because I was an athlete and I

  176. really struggled putting together the Spanish language.

  177. And this was at a time when when you talk to people you'd say

  178. what's up my dog, which so kind of tells you late 90s, early

  179. 2000s. And I was doing some mission

  180. work down in Tulsa and we would be in a Spanish speaking area of

  181. Tulsa. And I would get out of my car

  182. and gas stations and I would go que pasa MI pero PERO.

  183. And I would get out and I'd see a bunch of Spanish speakers and

  184. I'd be like que Paso, MI pero. And I would, you know, be me.

  185. And then about a year later I was at A at my college and I sat

  186. across the table from Mario and I said que Paso MI pero.

  187. And he goes, what? And I said que Paso MI pero.

  188. What's up my dog? He goes dog is pero.

  189. You'll want to roll the R What you have been saying is what is

  190. up my conjunction word. But so I had been getting out of

  191. the car in downtown Tulsa going what is on my butt?

  192. You a dumbass star. What is on my butt?

  193. I was trying to communicate. I'm really happy to see you.

  194. What I was communicating is I am a scary white man.

  195. OK? That is no bueno.

  196. OK? Not a mucho and no mucho.

  197. OK, there is a big difference. When there is a language issue,

  198. it is really hard to communicate how much you love them.

  199. And Gary Chapman urges his readers to learn to communicate

  200. in the primary love language of their spouse.

  201. So, men, if your wife's love language is acts of service and

  202. you want to show her that you love her, you want your wife to

  203. feel loved. Get a Dyson and get to work

  204. ladies. If your husband's love language

  205. is words of affirmation, get a dictionary and a thesaurus and

  206. get to work. Because if you want to have a

  207. healthy marriage and your kids have a love language and your

  208. boss has a love language and your Co workers have a love

  209. language. And if you want to communicate

  210. that you love people, you need to learn to speak in the

  211. language in the primary and secondary love language of your

  212. spouse, of the people that you care about.

  213. The question for every person who has an intimate, personal

  214. relationship with Jesus Christ should be this.

  215. How do I love God? Back all of us before starting

  216. our relationship with Jesus. Wrestle with How could God love

  217. us? How After we hear the good news

  218. of what Jesus Christ has done on our behalf, we realize that he

  219. loved us when we were messed up and we were broken and something

  220. stirs in our hearts and we desire to love God back.

  221. But the question is how do we love him back?

  222. Does God have a love language? The bottom line is this.

  223. Heaven is not a place for people that God loves.

  224. God loves everybody. God loves all the people in

  225. heaven. God loves all the people in

  226. hell. The difference between those who

  227. are in heaven and those who are in hell is not whether or not

  228. God loves them, it's whether or not they love God.

  229. Because heaven is not a place for people who love God back,

  230. and hell is not a place for those that don't.

  231. Heaven and hell are full of people that God loves.

  232. The difference between those two places is one group of people

  233. chose to love God back and the other didn't.

  234. And did you know God has a love language?

  235. Hear me carefully. God receives love through

  236. obedience. Now before I go too much further

  237. in the sermon, I want to say a couple things.

  238. One, I don't want this to turn into a works based sermon.

  239. And if you're brand new to The Crossing or and you're brand new

  240. to your faith, none of this is going to make sense to you for

  241. like the next, you know, couple minutes.

  242. But for those who've been following Jesus for a long time,

  243. I want to make sure that this doesn't get twisted in your

  244. head. I don't want you to turn this

  245. sermon into a checklist. While James says that faith in

  246. God that is not accompanied by works is dead and a meaningless

  247. faith, we are not saved because of what we have done.

  248. We are saved because of what Jesus Christ has done on the

  249. cross on our behalf and our acceptance and receiving of that

  250. work in our life. Secondly, you can be obedient to

  251. Jesus and you can be obedient to God and still not love God.

  252. Parents, you know this. Can your kids be obedient and

  253. unloving at the exact same time? Go clean your room.

  254. OK? Are they communicating how much

  255. they love you? No, they're communicating how

  256. much They're like their mother, right?

  257. Go. Come on.

  258. OK, just a couple jokes. She's not here.

  259. Your kids can obey you, but their hearts can be far from

  260. you. Jesus, over and over again picks

  261. a theological fight with religious elites because they

  262. were doing the right things with the wrong motives and the wrong

  263. heart. That being said, over and over

  264. and over again in scripture Jesus connects love and

  265. obedience to his message to his followers.

  266. Don't believe me? Let me take you on a little

  267. journey, John 14. If you love me, keep my

  268. commands. Later on in verses 23 and 24 it

  269. says this. Jesus replied, Anyone who loves

  270. me will obey my teaching. My Father will love them and we

  271. will come to them and make our home with them.

  272. Excuse me. Anyone who does not love me will

  273. not obey my teaching. These words you hear are not my

  274. own. They belong to the Father who

  275. sent me. So if your life is not being

  276. obedient to God, you are sending a clear message you don't love

  277. Him. Look what it says in First John

    1 John 5:3

  278. chapter 5, verse 3. In fact.

  279. This is love for God. This is how he receives love to

  280. keep his commands. Some of you might be going, I

  281. don't believe you. I need one more verse.

  282. OK, second John chapter one, verse five.

  283. I am not writing you a new command, but one we have had

  284. from the beginning. I ask that we love one another

  285. and this is love. He's going to describe what love

  286. is. Guess what?

  287. It is that we walk in obedience to His commands.

  288. In fact, at the very beginning of the message I read to you

  289. from Matthew chapter 28, when he says we're supposed to go out

    Matthew 28 chapter mention

  290. and make disciples and check what shows up inside of there.

  291. Look what it says. Verse 19.

  292. Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them

  293. in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit.

  294. Guess what's on the next page And teaching them to obey

  295. everything. I have commended you.

  296. So how do we love God? By being obedient.

  297. Obedient to what? To His commands, His words?

  298. His teachings. Now where do you and I find His

  299. commands, His words, His teachings?

  300. We find it in the Bible. So a person who wants to love

  301. God back will be engaged with the Bible.

  302. The single greatest discipline for spiritual growth is Bible

  303. engagement. Hear me, if you want to grow

  304. spiritually, the number one thing that will help you do it

  305. is regularly engaging in the Bible.

  306. The problem is that study after study shows that people who

  307. identify as Christians are not prioritizing engaging with the

  308. Scriptures. This is what a recent survey

  309. said, that 45% of people who call themselves a Christian

  310. spend time in the Bible once a week.

  311. It gets worse. 12% of people who call themselves Christians

  312. engage in the Bible once or twice a month, 9% of people who

  313. call themselves Christians spend time reading the Bible several

  314. times a year, and 33% of people who call themselves Christians

  315. seldom never engage in the Bible.

  316. If God receives love through obedience, how can a person

  317. possibly be obedient to a thing that they don't know?

  318. This means that a large swath of people who call themselves

  319. Christians are not engaging in scripture and are not loving God

  320. back. And just so you know, by age

  321. demographic, those engaging the most in scripture are those

  322. between the ages of 30 and 49, which makes total sense to me

  323. because they're dealing with teenagers and they're trying to

  324. figure out how to cast out a demon, right.

  325. They're telling we have got to find the demon spells.

  326. OK, now I will tell you this as a word of encouragement. 18 to

  327. 29 year olds are at 15% and those who are 65 plus are at

  328. 23%. For at least one time a week and

  329. in the category of once or twice a month or several times a year,

  330. the 18 to 29 year olds are beating the 65 plus crowd.

  331. So let me say this. This should give you some hope

  332. for the future, because the younger generation is more

  333. spiritually attuned than the older generation, at least based

  334. on that statistic. So we got to keep prioritizing

  335. those who are younger than us. The crazy thing is, scientific

  336. studies are starting to report that reading the Bible is check

  337. this out. Good for you.

  338. For instance, if you were to list the problems facing the

  339. world today, I wonder what problems you would put on the

  340. list. Would you put loneliness,

  341. bitterness, Anger. Self esteem, Self harm?

  342. There was a massive study done on over 200,000 people between

  343. the ages of eight and 80, and they divided them up and they

  344. started to watch them over a period of time.

  345. After day one and day two, they didn't notice hardly any

  346. difference between the two groups of people.

  347. But on day three something started to change.

  348. They broke people into two separate groups, those who were

  349. Bible engaged and those who were not.

  350. They considered a Bible engaged person, somebody who was

  351. interacting with the Bible, the word of God, at least four times

  352. a week. And here is what they found of

  353. the people who were Bible engaged.

  354. Loneliness dropped 30%, Bitterness dropped 43%, Anger

  355. dropped 32%. Alcoholism dropped 42%.

  356. Porn consumption dropped 60%. Self harm dropped 30%,

  357. Connectedness rose 30%, and self esteem rose 30%.

  358. That when you start to engage in scripture regularly at least

  359. four times a week, it starts to rewire you for the good.

  360. There's an old adage that all of our staff could testify, and

  361. this is it. A Bible that is falling apart

  362. usually belongs to a person whose life isn't.

  363. We could save ourselves a lot of time on the counseling side here

  364. at our church if somebody said, hey, my whole life's falling

  365. apart. If we were to just say, have you

  366. been reading your Bible regularly because the science

  367. will back it up, that the more time you spend in the Bible.

  368. Now I'm not saying listen to me, don't say hey I'm going through

  369. a tough time. I'm not saying pray more, read

  370. more. I'm just saying a lot of us.

  371. It's kind of like man, I'm really hungry.

  372. I just don't feel good. Eat something that a lot of us

  373. were neglecting the very thing that God wanted to use to

  374. empower us and direct us. And when you neglect those two

  375. things, you can expect your life to kind of, you know, fall

  376. apart. If the second greatest

  377. commandment is to love our neighbor, think of how a drop in

  378. bitterness, anger, and an increase in connectedness and

  379. self esteem would help us to accomplish this.

  380. There might be some of you who are reading the Bible, and it's

  381. confusing at times, coming to view.

  382. You've read the Bible and it's confusing.

  383. Just so you know, my hands up. It is even in the stuff we were

  384. reading this week, I was like, man, I got to circle back on

  385. that one. I agree with you completely.

  386. I just want you to know that confusion and difficulty have

  387. never stopped you in the past. And it shouldn't.

  388. It hasn't stopped you before and it shouldn't stop you now.

  389. For instance. Men, just look at me for a

  390. second. Don't look around.

  391. Just look at me. It's safe.

  392. Do you understand everything there is to know about women?

  393. No. Just shake your head like this.

  394. Shake your eyes. Do you understand them?

  395. No. You don't stand a chance.

  396. But are you thankful for them? Are you learning what you can

  397. learn about them so that way you don't do it again.

  398. Yeah. You're married to somebody who's

  399. incredibly confusing and difficult to understand, and you

  400. keep doing it. So just because you bump into

  401. something in the Bible that doesn't make sense to you, just

  402. keep keep your head down and keep moving on.

  403. You want to know why? Because the same thing should be

  404. true when it comes to God. Hear me, the Bible tells us that

  405. God weighs are higher than our ways.

  406. The Bible tells that there's a way that seems right to man, but

  407. in the end it leads to destruction.

  408. It kind of makes sense to me that there are going to be times

  409. when God isn't going to make sense to me.

  410. Does that make sense? Have you ever tried to explain

  411. stuff to your kids and you're just, like, you're just too dumb

  412. to understand what we're talking about?

  413. Like, they ask you questions and you're trying to answer them.

  414. And then you're just like, like my son the other day was like,

  415. so when we come to a stop sign and there's no lights, how does

  416. everybody know when they're supposed to go?

  417. And I go, it's easy. The one on the right goes, He's

  418. like, OK, but what if two cars come and they're facing each

  419. other? I don't know.

  420. He goes, what happens when four cars all get there at the exact

  421. same time? I don't know.

  422. Whoever has the bigger truck, I guess us.

  423. That's who I'm going because I'm impatient, right?

  424. You'll be like, it'll just make sense.

  425. It just doesn't happen. There's someone looking at their

  426. phone, so that's always you just kind of go around them.

  427. Hear me? God is perfect and I'm a Sinner.

  428. He's all knowing. And I forget where I put my

  429. keys. But the other thing I'll tell

  430. you is that time is one of the greatest teachers.

  431. Think about what your first day was like on the new job, and

  432. think about how much you intrinsically understand about

  433. your place of employment. Now think of your hobby.

  434. Do you remember when you first started?

  435. Like, guys? Do you remember their first day

  436. hunting? You're like eating Doritos.

  437. You didn't know what to do, and you're like, trying to figure it

  438. out. And now you have your favorite

  439. brand of deer urine. Like, did you see that coming?

  440. It just took time. Like over time you kind of

  441. developed your rhythm and your routine.

  442. And the same is true with God, that the more time you spend

  443. with him, the more he will begin to make sense to you.

  444. Time is a great teacher. And one of the reasons though,

  445. that we have a hard time with the Bible is because if we were

  446. to be honest with each other and we were to be honest with

  447. ourselves, we haven't put in the time.

  448. I need you to know that God is not purposely difficult.

  449. God is a revealer. He wants to be known by you.

  450. Look what he says in Matthew Chapter 7.

    Matthew 7 chapter mention

  451. Ask and it will be given to you. Seek and you will find knock and

  452. the door will be open to you. For everyone who asks, receives

  453. and the one who seeks finds. And to the one who knocks.

  454. The door will be opened. If you want to live a

  455. spiritually vibrant life, if you want to live a life that will

  456. help you to make a difference. The Bible is a powerful tool in

  457. the life of a believer. The Bible is one of the most

  458. powerful tools you will have to live and experience the

  459. Christian life. Let me just show you some of the

  460. ways that the Bible is going to be helpful to you.

  461. The Bible is a guide. It's a guide for making

  462. disciples, and it's a guide for training in godly living.

  463. Look what it says in Second Timothy All Scripture Front to

  464. back Genesis to Revelation. Is God breathed?

  465. And is everybody say this word useful?

  466. It's useful for what? For teaching, rebuking,

  467. correcting, and training in righteousness so that the

  468. servant of God may be everybody. Say this word thoroughly

  469. equipped. For every good work.

  470. The Bible makes you ready to do the good work that God has

  471. called you to. Here's another one.

  472. The Bible is a defense against sin.

  473. How many of you have sinned? How many of you would like to

  474. sin less if you didn't raise your hand there?

  475. You sinned. So put your hand back up.

  476. Hear me? The Bible helps you sin less.

  477. Look what it says in Psalm 119. I have hidden your word in my

  478. heart that I might not sin against you.

  479. The Bible helps us to fight back against sin.

  480. The Bible is a light in a Dark World.

  481. Look what it says in Psalm 119 One O 5, Your Word.

  482. This is the Bible is a lamp for my feet, a light on my path.

  483. It gets better than that. The Bible is a weapon against

  484. the enemy. Satan is going to come to try to

  485. destroy the things that God is trying to build up in your life.

  486. And when Satan comes, there's something that he can't defeat.

  487. Satan cannot defeat the word of God.

  488. It is our weapon against the evil. 1 Ephesians chapter 6

    Ephesians 6 chapter mention

  489. shows us so much. Finally, be strong in the Lord

  490. and in his mighty power. Put on the full armor of God so

  491. that you can take your stand against the devil's schemes.

  492. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against

  493. rulers, against authorities, against the powers of The Dark

  494. World, and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly

  495. realms. Therefore, put on the full armor

  496. of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to

  497. stand your ground. And after you've done everything

  498. to stand, stand firm, then, with the belt of truth buckled around

  499. your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place, and

  500. with your feet fitted with the readiness that comes from the

  501. gospel of peace. In addition to all this, take up

  502. the shield of faith with which you can extinguish all the

  503. flaming arrows of the evil one. Take the helmet of salvation and

  504. the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God.

  505. Jesus is actually a perfect example of this.

  506. Before he started his earthly ministry, Jesus goes off into

  507. the desert and he fasts and he prays for 40 days and Satan is

  508. tempting him. At the end of the 40 days, Satan

  509. comes and he tempts him three more times.

  510. And every time Satan tempt, tempted Jesus.

  511. Do you know what Jesus did? He responded with scripture that

  512. when Satan tempts you, if you have an arsenal, you have hidden

  513. God's word in your heart. It will keep you from sin and it

  514. will defend you against Satan. The Bible is a manual for life.

  515. It covers how to navigate sex, handle money, choose friends,

  516. navigate relational hurt, choose a spouse, raise kids, build and

  517. maintain a good reputation and leave a powerful legacy.

  518. How many of you have ever purchased IKEA furniture?

  519. Yeah, if you haven't, don't. Anybody who's ever purchased

  520. IKEA furniture knows that it takes you as much time to drive

  521. all the way down to Saint Louis to pick it out as it does for

  522. you to put it together in your house.

  523. And the biggest idiots among us try to do it without the

  524. instructions. Am I right?

  525. I need you to hear me say this. You are more complicated than

  526. IKEA furniture, and if you are trying to build your life

  527. without a manual, you are going to build something you don't

  528. want. But the Bible is so much more

  529. than that. The Bible helps us deal with

  530. worry, anxiety, identity, and eternity.

  531. It's a mirror into our deepest pain, a window into our darkest

  532. sins, and a healing balm to our heart dish wounds beyond that.

  533. The Bible is a love letter from God.

  534. It tells us that we have been created by him, that we're not

  535. an accident. It shows us how badly we've

  536. messed up, but it shows us that there is a way out and a way

  537. forward. For instance, can I just show

  538. you some of my favorites? John 316 says for God still

  539. loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that

  540. whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal

  541. life. If you believe in Jesus, there

  542. is the hope of heaven that is available for every single one

  543. of you. One of my all time favorites.

  544. Romans, chapter 5, verse 8. But God demonstrates his own

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  545. love for us in this, that while we were still sinners, Christ

  546. died for us. Some of you, you know, somebody

  547. who's thinking to themself, you know what, I got to get my life

  548. together and then I can get my life with God.

  549. You need to know this verse. They need to know this verse

  550. that before you ever started to turn it around, when you were

  551. still as jacked up as you could ever be, God paid the price on

  552. your behalf for your sin. He loved you when you were at

  553. your worst. When you were at your worst, God

  554. was at his best. The verse that I was using to

  555. talk to Jennifer when she was coming to faith in Jesus Christ

  556. is like easily going to be a tattoo.

  557. First one day. Second Corinthians 517.

  558. The hope of the gospel is this. Therefore, if anyone is in

  559. Christ, the new creation has come, the old is gone, the new

  560. is here. When you come to faith in Christ

  561. Jesus, he doesn't just make you different.

  562. He makes you new. He gives you a new heart, a new

  563. spirit, new desires and new priorities.

  564. He gets rid of the old self that was covered in sin, and he

  565. brings about something new. How does he do it, You ask?

  566. If you're looking for a reason to fall in love with Jesus, look

  567. what it says later on in verse 21.

  568. God made him. That's Jesus, who had no sin to

  569. be sin for us, so that in him we might become the righteousness

  570. of God. How did he make you new?

  571. He took all of what was messed up in you, and he placed it on

  572. Jesus, and he took all that was right about Jesus and he placed

  573. it on you. Psalm 23 tells us that even when

  574. I walk through the darkest valley, I'm not alone.

  575. He's with me to guide me and comfort me, and that he's

  576. preparing a place for me. Romans 828 tells me that in all

  577. things, God is working for the good of those who love Him,

  578. who've been called according to his purpose.

  579. What he's saying is if you love me, I never stop working for

  580. your good. No matter how much you messed

  581. up, no matter how dark the valley is, no matter how hard

  582. the challenge is, God takes no smoke breaks and working for

  583. your good, He takes no sick days working for your good, no lunch

  584. breaks working for your good, he says.

  585. If you love me, I can't wait to work to redeem all the things

  586. that Satan's tried to take from you and break inside of you so I

  587. can turn any situation around. We need Christians who are

  588. engaged in the scripture so we can live a life in response to

  589. God's love, so we can love God back and we can clearly

  590. articulate the good News to people who desperately need it.

  591. Let this be the end of a lack of Bible engagement in this church.

  592. Let this be the beginning of people who start loving him

  593. back. We're moving to a time of

  594. decision. If you stick around this church

  595. for a long time, you're going to hear me say this like, over and

  596. over and over and over again. But this is like one of the best

  597. chunks of scripture that Jesus ever put together because it's

  598. so stinking clear. This is what he says.

  599. Everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into

  600. practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock.

  601. The rain came down streams, rose, winds blew beating into

  602. the house, but it didn't fall because it had its foundation on

  603. the rock. But everyone who hears these

  604. words of mine and doesn't put him into practice, it's like a

  605. foolish man. I didn't call you a fool.

  606. Jesus did build his house on the sand.

  607. The rain came down and the streams rose and the winds blew

  608. and beat against the house and it fell with a great crash.

  609. The difference between Christians and non Christians.

  610. The difference between people who love God and don't love God

  611. is not that one group goes through storms and one group

  612. doesn't. If you get baptized today, it's

  613. still going to rain. We own an umbrella and I'm a

  614. pastor. It rains on me just like it

  615. rains on you. The difference as Christians

  616. know that they're going to be fine on the other side of the

  617. storm. And those who aren't Christians,

  618. those who don't love God back, will get destroyed by the storm.

  619. Hear me. Hear me.

  620. Hear me, all of you. Tonight, you have heard the word

  621. of the Lord, and some of you will go, all right.

  622. It's time for me to start reading my Bible and doing what

  623. it says. And when the storms come, I got

  624. good news for you. You won't be washed away.

  625. You'll still be standing, and some of you have heard the exact

  626. same sermon. You'll lift your hands just as

  627. high in worship. You'll pray just as long at the

  628. steps. But if you go home and we don't

  629. put the word of God into practice, then help.

  630. It's like this. It's like going out and buying

  631. all new workout clothes and putting them in the dresser.

  632. How many of you have ever gotten skinny by buying workout

  633. clothes? Judging by the amount of workout

  634. clothes I see women in all over Quincy, everybody shops in

  635. workout clothes, but obviously, Nah, probably working out,

  636. because if you could shop your waist skinny, we'd all be.

  637. We'll get to that in a couple weeks.

  638. OK? Buying workout clothes doesn't

  639. make you skinny. Watching people work out doesn't

  640. make you skinny. Guess what does.

  641. Work it out. Hey, look, I've got 7 Bibles in

  642. my house and I'm still struggling.

  643. Bible ownership is not faithfulness, but I've been

  644. going to church for 30 years. Hearing my words and doing my

  645. words are two different things. You could have heard the word

  646. for 50 years, but until you put it in your life and put it into

  647. practice, it produces no fruit. If you're here today and you've

  648. never started an intimate, personal relationship with

  649. Jesus, I'm standing in front of you living proof that God's word

  650. is good, it's reliable, it's powerful, it's transformative,

  651. and it will teach you that you're a Sinner but that God is

  652. a good savior. And those are if you don't take

  653. my word for it, take the word of people who are in your row,

  654. Taste and see that the Lord is good and you won't regret it.

  655. And if you want to start that relationship, I would tell you,

  656. don't put it off to the rest of you in this room.

  657. To those of you who are Christians, God is not impressed

  658. with your knowledge, but he is moved by your obedience.

  659. And if you want to love him back.

  660. We need to become obedient people if we want to make a

  661. change in the lives of the people we care about.

  662. If we want to be a light in the darkness so that people can see

  663. Christ, the world doesn't need more people who call themselves

  664. Christians and needs people who are committed to loving God.

  665. Back to reading His word and doing what it says.

  666. What I'm going to encourage you to do is would you spend some

  667. time today? Maybe come up here you didn't

  668. fill out a commitment card last week and you're going, you know

  669. what? There's 43 days left in this

  670. journey. I'm going on this journey.

  671. I'm going to see what God's going to do in my life over the

  672. next 43 days as I commit 50 minutes a day for the next 43

  673. days to allow God to bring about a change in my life.

  674. Man, you need it. I need it.

  675. And the people we love need it from us.

  676. Would you stand with me, Heavenly Father, do a work in

  677. this church all across this region, Bring about a change in

  678. us that can only be brought about and sustained and

  679. empowered by you. God, convict us of the areas

  680. where we've been falling short, where we've been running, making

  681. excuses. Stir in us a passion and a

  682. commitment for you and your ways and your name.

  683. I pray. Amen.