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How to Be Bold, Behave, and Be Friendly

Crossing Church with Clayton Hentzel

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  1. Oh, crossing family, it is so good to be with you.

  2. I want to welcome those of you joining at our different

  3. locations, those of you watching online, and those of you who are

  4. part of the crossing inside. You guys have been wonderful as

  5. we've been going through this sermon series on politics.

  6. This is the last one that's kind of like one we got to get

  7. through. And then I really do hope that

  8. you'll see next week's sermon as a great gift to your soul

  9. because I'm going to, I've been kind of teaching through this

  10. series. I'm going to preach next

  11. weekend. I think you're going to enjoy

  12. it. But before we get into it, we

  13. need to celebrate something as a church.

  14. We are getting ready for our camp season.

  15. In fact, camp is starting this upcoming week as a church.

  16. And yeah, it's great. And at the writing of this

  17. sermon, which was yesterday, because I got way behind, we had

  18. 13198 campers set up or signed up, which is an all time record

  19. for the crossing. Now let me show you what this

  20. looks like in a graph. So we track stuff.

  21. We are big into numbers here at the crossing and figuring out

  22. stuff. This red line right here is 2024

  23. and we actually moved our entire camp season into the month of

  24. June. So we're not going to get some

  25. of the bumps we've had in the past and we were a little

  26. nervous about that. But God came through.

  27. You came through. And we have set another all time

  28. record. Campers are still coming in.

  29. So I want to say a special thank you to those of you who

  30. participated or sponsored at any of our different golf outings

  31. that we did this year to help raise money for kids to go to

  32. camp. God bless you.

  33. I'm playing in the Macomb one tomorrow and then my back needs

  34. a rest. And then the second thing is, to

  35. those of you who joined Jennifer and I and wrote a generous check

  36. to help sponsor kids to go to camp, I want you to know that

  37. God saw your efforts. He took the seed that you sowed

  38. and He used it to produce a harvest in kids lives because

  39. more kids are going at our church than have ever gone

  40. before. In fact, we are sending more

  41. kids to camp this year than the size of 99% of churches in

  42. America. Like we are sending a mega

  43. Church of kids to camp. And I absolutely love it.

  44. Let me tell you another reason why this matters to me.

  45. I pulled up some stats this week.

  46. These are share of those by demographic. believe in God

  47. without a doubt. Like they're going, yeah, for

  48. sure there's a God. All right.

  49. Now you've got 60%. This is on decline.

  50. You've got 60% of Boomers right here, this little red line right

  51. here, Boomers, 60% of boomers believe that God exists.

  52. A God exists, right? Which was great.

  53. And millennials, you, you know, we've, we've, we've, we've,

  54. we've struggled. This Is Us.

  55. OK? We're on a pretty significant

  56. decline. Gen.

  57. XI should throw this at you guys.

  58. You guys are winning. You guys have overtaken the

  59. Boomers and you're on a slight D increase.

  60. Nobody ever pays attention to Gen.

  61. X, but if you're a Gen. Xer, God bless you.

  62. I married one. I'm a millennial.

  63. She was my babysitter. That's how we met, and that's a

  64. joke. She wasn't my babysitter, but

  65. Boyada loved it if she was. OK, and then.

  66. But I want you to look right here.

  67. This is Gen. Z.

  68. They're in free fall. Only 28% of Gen.

  69. Z ers have a belief in God. These are the kids who were born

  70. from 1997 to 2012. They're between the age of 12

  71. and 27 today, and half of that demographic is going to be

  72. participating in our camp. And so while we are setting all

  73. time records, we are setting all time records with the generation

  74. that need Jesus the most. So when I say things like our

  75. church is downwardly focused, I need you to know that's what I

  76. mean. At no point in time do I not

  77. like older people. That is not me.

  78. We just like them more. And let me explain this to you.

  79. If I were to put me next to your kid and I were to ask you who do

  80. you love more, you would say you love your kid more than you love

  81. me. Now, I have no doubt that you

  82. love me, but you love them more. And as a church, we have

  83. intentionally decided that we want to love this group of

  84. people more. And in 10 years, I'll be looking

  85. at Gen. Z and saying, I want you to know

  86. that we love Gen. Alpha more.

  87. And I don't know what's going to come after Jen Alpha, but we

  88. will figure out a way to reach them too.

  89. Deal. All right, let me pray for a

  90. camp, would you, Heavenly Father?

  91. They're going to be kids who are going to come to camp who have

  92. come out of a horrific school year.

  93. There are kids who are going to show up at camp who are having

  94. horrible battles with their parents.

  95. There are kids who are going to be at camp who are completely

  96. lost. They have no direction, no sense

  97. of purpose. They're going to be kids who are

  98. going to show up for camp and it'll be the only week of peace

  99. that they will experience all year long.

  100. There are kids who are going to be showing up at camp who have

  101. no relationship with you, no concept of you.

  102. They're going to be kids that are going to show up at camp

  103. that are going to make a decision for you, get saved by

  104. you, dedicate their lives to you.

  105. And God, I pray that you would equip all the speakers, all the

  106. people who are going to serve, all the camp staff, all the

  107. difference makers who are going to volunteer their time and take

  108. off work. God, I pray that the moment that

  109. they leave one of our locations and drive to the camp that your

  110. presence invades their spirit, that something special begins to

  111. happen. God, I pray that through the

  112. worship and through the sermons and the small group times, I

  113. pray that during the times in the pool and on the lake and on

  114. the ball field that they sense that there is a community that

  115. cares for them, a church that loves them, and a God who's

  116. willing to send His Son to die on the cross for him.

  117. In your name I pray. Amen.

  118. Now we are in a sermon series called Don't Take the Bait and

  119. it is a sermon series on faith and politics.

  120. And week one we learned that we as Christians have a better

  121. citizenship, a better Kingdom, and that this is not our forever

  122. home and we have an even greater allegiance to God than we do to

  123. any political candidate or political party.

  124. Week two, we learned that we have a godly responsibility to

  125. bring our faith into our politics and that our right to

  126. do so is secured by our founding documents and our Constitution

  127. as a nation. And even if it were not, we

  128. would still do so. Even if they made Christianity

  129. illegal, we would still bring our Christianity into the voting

  130. booth because we are not going to separate ourselves from the

  131. one who saved us. And our target on the wall for

  132. this series has been First Peter chapter 2.

    1 Peter 2 chapter mention

  133. Live such good lives among the pagans that though they accuse

  134. you of doing wrong, they may see your good deeds and glorify God

  135. on the day he visits us. Today I want to talk to you

  136. about how to be bold, how to behave, and how to be friendly.

  137. Behold, behave, be bold. Behold, be bold, behave and be

  138. friendly. That's Southern Baptist right

  139. there. Did you see that?

  140. For those of you who came from a Baptist Church, you appreciate

  141. what I just did with that sermon.

  142. Now, what I want to do is I want to zoom out on the first Peter

  143. chunk of scripture that we've been looking at and help you to

  144. see the context that it's sitting in the middle of.

  145. I think it's going to surprise you.

  146. There's some words in there you're not going to like.

  147. How do I know? Because I didn't like him

  148. either. We ready.

  149. Here we go, verse 11. Dear friends, I urge you that

  150. you and me, as foreigners and exiles, we have a better

  151. citizenship. We have a different Kingdom.

  152. You and I are aliens and strangers in this world.

  153. This is not our home. We're simply passing through to

  154. abstain from sinful desires which wage war against your

  155. soul. OK, let's keep going.

  156. Live such good lives among the pagans.

  157. You know this part, that though they accuse you of doing wrong,

  158. that they may see your good deeds and glorify God on the day

  159. that he visits us. Live such good lives that people

  160. take notice. This is Jesus's city on a hill

  161. speech, a light on a stand. There should be something

  162. different. People should take notice.

  163. They should see, man, Christians really do operate differently.

  164. I'm going through this political season and everything around me

  165. is falling apart, but that guy's got it together.

  166. I'm going through this political season.

  167. I'm dealing with all kinds of stress and anxiety and worry,

  168. but this guy's going through the exact same political season and

  169. it looks like he's walking on water.

  170. Christians navigate it differently.

  171. And if someone were to follow you, you're living such good

  172. lives among the pagans that if somebody were to follow you more

  173. than you making them a Republican, more than you making

  174. them a Democrat, more than you making them a better American,

  175. following you would make them a better Jesus follower.

  176. Following you would make you make them a better Christian,

  177. live such good lives that they end up glorifying God.

  178. You ready for the next part? This is where we really take a

  179. nosedive. So far, everybody's smiling.

  180. Like, I think I'm going to like this sermon.

  181. Now watch this submit. Oh, OK.

  182. All right. We got to find a different

  183. church. This one does the whole Bible.

  184. OK. Submit yourself for the Lord's

  185. sake. For whose sake?

  186. Yeah. To who?

  187. Every human authority, whether to the emperor as to the supreme

  188. authority, or to the governors who are sent by him to punish

  189. those who do wrong and commend those who do right, submit to

  190. every human authority. And I know what you're thinking.

  191. You're going. You know what?

  192. I'll do it when it's my president.

  193. But when it's not the one I voted for, I won't.

  194. And I want you to know that you would be wrong.

  195. I know what you're thinking. I'll do it when we have a good,

  196. godly president. And if you were to wait to do

  197. that, you would be wrong. That was my chicken dance, I

  198. think. I don't know where that came

  199. from. Flirting with chickens all over.

  200. All you chickens watching online.

  201. OK, now, who would they have been talking to when Peter wrote

  202. this? He was writing this.

  203. And the emperor was Nero. Not for those of you who didn't

  204. take church history in your public school, which is probably

  205. all of you. Nero is about as bad of a person

  206. as you could ever meet. The persecutions that came upon

  207. the early church came at the request of Nero.

  208. Nero would take Christians alive, sew them inside the

  209. carcasses of an animal, throw them into the stadium and

  210. release wild beasts to eat them for the crowd.

  211. He would take people who professed to be Christians and

  212. he would impale them on a stake, light them on fire so that they

  213. would be the the lights for his garden parties.

  214. And Paul and Peter both write to Christians saying, submit

  215. yourself for the Lord's sake to every human authority.

  216. Let me show you what Paul says. Romans 13, one through 7.

  217. I hit a little bit on this in a Roman Series A while back.

  218. Let everyone be subject to the governing authorities, for there

  219. is no authority except that which God has established.

  220. The authorities that exist have been established by God.

  221. Let's keep going. Consequently, whoever rebels

  222. against the authority is rebelling against what God has

  223. instituted, and those who do so will bring judgment on

  224. themselves. Let's keep going for rulers,

  225. hold no terror for those who do right, but for those who do

  226. wrong. We'll pause for just a second.

  227. How many of you have ever been driving and you saw a police

  228. officer? Those of you who were not

  229. speeding did not immediately slow down because when you see a

  230. police officer and you are a law abiding citizen and your seat

  231. belt is on, you just see the police officer and you know what

  232. you do? Because a police officer holds

  233. no terror for those who are doing what is right.

  234. But if you've been known to speed, you're not wearing your

  235. seat belt and you're smuggling stuff, you're going.

  236. You're finding your Christian music.

  237. I was just worshiping too loud, Officer.

  238. I apologize. Holy Spirit got a hold of me

  239. right? That's you only fear authority

  240. when you've been doing something wrong.

  241. Then do what is right and you will be commended.

  242. Let's keep going. For the one in authority is

  243. God's servant for your good. But if you do wrong, be afraid.

  244. For rulers do not bear the sword for no reason.

  245. Every law that we have is backed up with a gun.

  246. Do this or you will. If you don't pay the ticket,

  247. you'll get arrested. If you resist arrest, you'll get

  248. put in handcuffs. If you, then it just keeps

  249. getting worse. Eventually.

  250. There is a gun behind every law. They are God's servants, agents

  251. of wrath to bring punishment on the wrongdoer.

  252. Therefore, if it is necessary, it is necessary to submit to the

  253. authorities, not only because of possible punishment, but also as

  254. a matter of conscience. Let's keep going.

  255. This is also why you I know I'm just winning people right and

  256. left. All over the region, people are

  257. getting saved. Pay taxes for the authorities

  258. are God's servants who give their full time to governing.

  259. Let's keep going. Give to everyone what you owe

  260. them. If you owe taxes, pay taxes.

  261. If revenue, revenue. If respect, then respect.

  262. If honor, then honor. Government was actually God's

  263. idea. It is a legitimate God ordained

  264. institution created for the good of humanity.

  265. When government is done right, it brings order, justice,

  266. virtue, prosperity, safety. You can chase this all the way

  267. back to the Garden of Eden, to Genesis.

  268. The first command that God gives us, the marching orders, is

  269. government. I mean right after sex, it's

  270. government. Watch Genesis 1.

  271. So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God.

  272. He created them, male and female.

  273. He created them. God blessed them and said to

  274. them, be fruitful and increase the number.

  275. Fill the earth and subdue it. Rule over the fish of the sea

  276. and the birds of the sky and over every living creature that

  277. moves on the ground. Subdue, rule.

  278. Those are government words. In fact, depending on the

  279. translation of the Bible that you use, the word they actually

  280. use is govern. Now some of you might be going,

  281. OK, so God instituted government.

  282. Great. Did God choose Donald Trump?

  283. And I mean of all weeks to be doing a sermon series and some

  284. of you might be going, Did God choose Joe Biden?

  285. Here is what I genuinely believe and I believe scripture backs

  286. this up. The answer is no.

  287. God instituted government that it is used for people.

  288. For instance, if somebody wrongs you, if you go and wrong them

  289. back or you seek your own justice, the Bible calls that a

  290. sin. But if you bring the what they

  291. did to you to the public court and they punish them, the Bible

  292. says that that is right. That's one of the ways that God

  293. gets vengeance. So that way you don't

  294. participate in it. Other people have to be a

  295. participant in it through our court system.

  296. Here's what Paul and Peter are saying is that you and I should

  297. be good, law abiding, taxpaying, respect giving citizens.

  298. They are not saying that every government is good.

  299. They are not saying obey them on every issue because as long as

  300. you are being obedient to God first and foremost, if a

  301. government put something on you that is in violation to God's

  302. will, you are obligated by God to disobey it.

  303. But if the thing that they are asking you to do is not

  304. prohibited in Scripture, you are scripturally obligated to obey

  305. it. And a lot of times the areas

  306. where we want to disobey our government have nothing to do

  307. with anything that's in the Bible.

  308. That you and I should be preeminent.

  309. We're early in lying to pay our taxes.

  310. We're early in lying to give honor and be thankful for the

  311. service that they provide. We might like the president.

  312. We have good news is God's still on his throne?

  313. And you might get a president you don't like.

  314. Good news, God is on his throne. I'm going to get into that next

  315. week. But that you and I as part of

  316. our worship to God are to be obedient, subservient to

  317. government. But you didn't see that one

  318. coming because government is God ordained.

  319. Both Paul and Peter were killed by these governments.

  320. They were both put to death by the very people that they told

  321. us to submit to. They said, Paul, you better stop

  322. talking about Jesus. And he said, I can't, Peter, you

  323. better stop talking about Jesus. I won't.

  324. I'll pay my taxes. I'll give you the honor you

  325. deserve. But if you're asking me to stop

  326. talking about Jesus, I refuse. Well, we're going to have to

  327. shut you up. Then you better shut me up

  328. because I can't shut myself up. I can't stop talking about

  329. Jesus. And so they killed him.

  330. They refused to stop talking. And they were eventually killed

  331. for it. What makes this so challenging

  332. for you and I is unlike the writers of the of scripture,

  333. unlike the 1st century Christians, we get to pick our

  334. president. We get to pick our Senate, we

  335. get to pick our representatives. Can you imagine being a 1st

  336. century Christian? They had emperors.

  337. Either you kissed the ring or you didn't.

  338. But you and I, we get a, we get a voice, we get an opportunity

  339. to go, hey, if I have a choice here, I think I'm going to go

  340. for this guy. So how do you and I be bold in

  341. our faith, behave with our faith and be friendly with our faith?

  342. First thing we do is we prioritize our faith over our

  343. politics. I bet you already know this to

  344. be true. And some of you wish I would do

  345. it. I could preach a really

  346. convincing sermon on Jesus would be a Democrat.

  347. Some of you would never come back.

  348. And just so you know, I could write a really good sermon on

  349. Jesus would be a Republican and some of you would invite your

  350. friends to church. Billy Graham, kind of a big deal

  351. in the Christian circles, was actually a spiritual advisor to

  352. both Republican and Democratic presidents.

  353. And this is what he would tell people.

  354. I'm not right wing or left wing. I'm for the whole bird.

  355. And I think that's probably the right line of thinking that we

  356. need to put our faith filter ahead of our political filter.

  357. Jesus is better and bigger than any party platform, and that

  358. means that our love for people should be bigger and better than

  359. any party platform. The problem is, you and I get

  360. sucked into a war all the time. For instance, the place where we

  361. are supposed to get our information, the news is being

  362. designed to create outrage, fear, echo chambers.

  363. If you were to talk to somebody typically, well, I'm not.

  364. If you were to talk to somebody for a long period of time,

  365. chances are you can find out in about 5 minutes where they get

  366. their news and wherever they get their news.

  367. This is what they have been convinced of, that they are

  368. right and everybody else is a sheep now.

  369. So let me show you something and I've told you like I'm a

  370. recovering addict when it comes to politics.

  371. So I'm speaking to my people. If you're look at Fox News, this

  372. is how they kind of rate on the meter.

  373. So if you got, you got far left, lean left, center, lean right,

  374. right. If you're a Fox News consumer,

  375. they scale at 3.2 on the right. They're beyond leaning right.

  376. They are right wing news. And if you are a right wing

  377. Christian, you're so thankful there's a news program that's

  378. standing for the truth. OK, and let's say you're a left

  379. wing Christian. Guess what?

  380. They've got a news program for you all the way over here.

  381. They've got MSNBC and they lean left.

  382. And I know some of you who watch Fox News are going, but see,

  383. they're further on the left than we are on the right, that that's

  384. what you're doing. You're already doing the math.

  385. So I had somebody on our staff, us at the same time every day

  386. for the last 14 days, hop on the news and pull down the

  387. screenshots from the websites of both Fox News and CNN and a

  388. bunch of others. But I don't want to make this

  389. sermon 30 minutes long. And I just want to show you what

  390. they've been feeding you same day, same time, only one slide.

  391. Here we go. Here is Fox News.

  392. Key witness in the process. Obviously, I wrote this sermon

  393. before today. Key witness in the prosecution's

  394. case against Trump is a ghost in the courtroom.

  395. Obviously they weren't now silent treatment.

  396. We talk about the butcher's dead from Israel, talk about the Pope

  397. Francis correct CBS anchor over Catholic Church's stance on same

  398. sex couples and then definitely something for all the the

  399. conservatives homemaker scorches liberal backlash with reality

  400. check over chiefs kicker's speech.

  401. OK, now let's just at the exact same time, let's go to MSNBC.

  402. Trump's possible hush money testimony could be a nightmare

  403. come true for his case. Same facts.

  404. One is they're a ghost. And the other one, it's a

  405. nightmare come true. And they're, you know, they're.

  406. Fox News's Trump trial coverage proves it's no longer Rupert

  407. Murdoch's network. New ad taunts Trump over his

  408. apparent reluctance to testify. And then they've got live

  409. updates on the hush money trial. Both of them are feeding you

  410. what you already want to hear and I was going.

  411. I'm tired of this. So I came today to give you a

  412. gift. I decided to stop getting my

  413. news from those places and I didn't want to get sucked in and

  414. find myself 90 minutes later stressed out and ticked off.

  415. Which has what happens to me when I watch regular news.

  416. So I get my news from 2 separate places now and I'm actually

  417. going to tell you where I get my news and I love it.

  418. OK, First one is called 1440 News.

  419. They are designed to give insight, not outrage.

  420. It's for people who want unbiased content.

  421. They send it in your e-mail. It's made for knowledge, not

  422. clicks. Their whole goal is it gives you

  423. everything that's happening. So I know what's happening with

  424. the elections in South Africa because I got it sent to my

  425. inbox. I know that baseball has just

  426. integrated leaderboards to talk about the Negro League and

  427. they're going to incorporate them into their leaderboards,

  428. which is fantastic. I also found out what's going on

  429. with AI and how Vox has actually spent money.

  430. And there's a whole bunch of other places are, which I

  431. thought was actually kind of scary.

  432. And then over here it says aging starts earlier than you think,

  433. which, you know, forget them. But that was their

  434. advertisement. There was no pictures.

  435. It was just, hey, I've got stuff on sports, I've got stuff on

  436. Harvey Weinstein. I've got stuff about new science

  437. and technology. They've got another little

  438. partner, a little ad that they want me to know, which, you

  439. know, it's about aging. But I got stuff about the

  440. business markets. I know what's going on with

  441. Conoco Phillips. If I want to get an update on

  442. that, I can just read through this thing and in about four

  443. minutes I get all of the important news that I need.

  444. And if I want something, I can click on it to get a little bit

  445. more information. And in 7 minutes, I can be

  446. briefed on what's happening in the world without getting a

  447. crazy hyper slant. You know what that helps me do?

  448. Have a little bit of peace. It brings my emotions down.

  449. I don't think the liberals are coming for America.

  450. I don't think that the conservatives are trying to

  451. destroy it. I don't.

  452. I just, I just got my news. Here's another place I go.

  453. This one is more spiritual. So if you're wanting spiritual

  454. news, this one's called the Pour over.

  455. This one takes 6 minutes to read, and this exists to give

  456. you trustworthy news but point people towards spiritual hope.

  457. So they have a chunk of news, This Is Us news.

  458. And at the end of every chunk of news, they have a Christian

  459. perspective and they have a Bible verse and you just get

  460. kind of hopped up on Jesus in the middle of your news, which

  461. that doesn't happen on any of our other networks.

  462. It also has a sponsored thing about lacking daily food, which

  463. that's me, OK? It's got stuff about what's

  464. happening with the weather, with all the crazy tornadoes that

  465. have been happening all over the Midwest in other brews.

  466. Oh, they're so cool and hip, aren't they?

  467. Instead of other news, Elon Musk, a lot of the country's

  468. looking for a bit more. It's talking about T-Mobile and

  469. how they're trying to buy US Cellular, which would be

  470. interesting for those of us here in the Midwest.

  471. How did you spend Memorial Weekend?

  472. Here's what's happening at the movies.

  473. Here's what's going on with Uncle Sam's non allies talks

  474. about Bill Walton dying. It also talks about the things

  475. that they're paying attention to.

  476. I get all of my news in like 12 minutes and I can read it and if

  477. I want more information, I can click on it.

  478. No drama, no real advertisements.

  479. I can just digest it and move on.

  480. And you know what that does? It calms me.

  481. I want to be informed because I want to be a good citizen.

  482. I want to be informed because I want to know how to navigate

  483. things and take advantage of things.

  484. But I don't have to buy into the outrage.

  485. Why is this matter to me is if I'm constantly consuming

  486. information that is amping me up, it's going to be really hard

  487. for me to treat people the way that Jesus called me to treat

  488. people. And that's who we are supposed

  489. to be. Christians are supposed to treat

  490. people the way Jesus would treat people.

  491. In the past, we used to be able to respectfully disagree with

  492. somebody. Do you guys remember that?

  493. Do you, like, remember when we were like, yeah, I think you're

  494. wrong, You know, like, I think you're wrong, but do you still

  495. want to get pizza? And I think part of it was

  496. because we both kind of wanted the same thing.

  497. We were just trying to figure out different ways to get there.

  498. It's like young couples when they're getting married.

  499. You've heard me talk about this. Jennifer and I's marriage barely

  500. survived folding towels because we both wanted the towels

  501. folded. But she's a dictator and like me

  502. folding it the way that I wanted to, which is the way that made

  503. sense. She wanted me to fold the towels

  504. the way she wanted to. But today in politics, it's not

  505. about how to fold the towel, it's whether or not we're going

  506. to have towels or not. And whichever party you're on is

  507. the party of towels. And the other people are the

  508. savages who are just walking out of the shower, air drying while

  509. they pull their pants on. Like, you got wet underwear.

  510. And I'm not living with somebody with wet underwear, right?

  511. Well, that's what's happening. And when we start getting to our

  512. conversations, we're no longer attacking their argument, we're

  513. attacking their character. And so ideas don't ever get

  514. tested because characters get assassinated.

  515. And so the information in the dialogue is reduced.

  516. And when we attack people's character, we are stepping into

  517. dangerous territory because then we're judging people.

  518. And you and I don't know the hearts and thoughts of a person.

  519. That's why James, who's Jesus's brother, gives us some helpful

  520. information on this James chapter one, my dear brothers

  521. and sisters, take note of this. Everyone should be quick to

  522. listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry because human

  523. anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires.

  524. When you are in conflict, when you are talking politics, when

  525. you're having an argument in your house, try James's method.

  526. Quick to listen, slow to speak, slow to become angry.

  527. When you are in conflict, our ears stop listening, our minds

  528. start shutting down, and our hearts get hard.

  529. And so we never end up in a place that we were supposed to

  530. end up. If we want to be Jesus, people

  531. sitting on a hill, people light on a stand, people, we need to

  532. become quick to listen. Most of us get this backwards.

  533. We are quick to speak and we are slow to listen.

  534. But when you listen, you know what happens.

  535. You gain understanding when you are slow to speak.

  536. Literally late when you are late to speak.

  537. Ladies, just imagine with me, if you will, you being late

  538. somewhere. Try to do that with your mouth.

  539. Yeah, I got you, boys. Hey, OK.

  540. It's literally saying be slow. Like don't be the first one to

  541. show up talking. Like, arrive late.

  542. You're late to church, you're late to the game, you're late

  543. everywhere else. Be late with your mouth, fellas.

  544. You're always on time. Slow it down, shut it down.

  545. Because the moment you stop talking, you Start learning.

  546. Have you ever said, I don't know how anybody could behave that

  547. way? Have you ever heard yourself

  548. say, I don't know how anybody could vote for a person like

  549. that? I don't know why anybody would

  550. do that. You know what you're saying?

  551. You're saying you don't understand them.

  552. You're not saying something about them.

  553. You're saying something about you you don't understand.

  554. Do you know how you understand? Slow to speak, quick to listen.

  555. Let me give you an example. How many of you have ever been

  556. frustrated with the public school system because they

  557. didn't cancel snow or cancel school on a snow day?

  558. I can't believe they're making us go out in a snowstorm with my

  559. 2 little specials who I love dearly and it's dangerous out

  560. there and they're wanting us to go to school in this snowstorm.

  561. Crazy. Now let me pause for a second.

  562. That's me. Wait, wait, now you know what's

  563. also me? You guys want to go to Dairy

  564. Queen? It's cold out here.

  565. We should get some chicken, those chicken strips with those

  566. tech. You guys want to go?

  567. Hey, you guys want to go sledding?

  568. Hey, everybody in town's on their way to the grocery store.

  569. We better get the milk fast because that is like the Midwest

  570. potluck. Hey, it's snowing outside.

  571. We better get to the store. We better get there quick.

  572. The Amish are coming. We what is like, we don't have

  573. enough in the pantry. We've never missed a meal.

  574. But as soon as it's we're never getting out of here, we can do

  575. all of those things. You know what we can't do?

  576. Send our kids to school. You know what you could do?

  577. Keep them home. Just call the school like you're

  578. the parent. Yeah, they're not coming in.

  579. What are you doing? We're tearing stuff up all day.

  580. We're starting in the neighbor's yard with the car hood and the

  581. four Wheeler. Don't know what's going to

  582. happen, but it's going to be epic.

  583. He might be back tomorrow if there's any food at Hy Vee right

  584. now. So I used to be this guy.

  585. Why won't they close school? Do you know why they don't close

  586. school? Because there's kids that don't

  587. get fed on schools, that on days that schools get closed, oh,

  588. they're not as worried about how many inches are falling on the

  589. ground as they are about the kids that don't get fed.

  590. So keep your kid at home. Go to Hy Vee and feed them if

  591. you don't want to go to school. You know what that did?

  592. It brought me back a little bit. Find someone who you admire in

  593. their faith who doesn't agree with you politically.

  594. Sit down and shut up and let them talk to you.

  595. There is a subset of Christianity who votes primarily

  596. Democratic, and if you are primarily a Republican and you

  597. were to sit across the table from them, who is a believer, a

  598. follower of Jesus in ways that would impress you and amaze you,

  599. you would find out that a person can love Jesus and vote for

  600. somebody different than you. Now listen, I can sit across

  601. from somebody who votes differently than me and I can

  602. believe that I'm right. And listen, if you want to know,

  603. do I have political ideas and political leanings, you better

  604. believe it. But there are people that I

  605. respect and admire who have a deep abiding faith, who see the

  606. world differently, but they still see it through a Christian

  607. lens. Sit down and instead of trying

  608. to convert them, learn from them and then become slow to become

  609. angry. How many of you your life has

  610. turned out fantastic since you started getting angrier?

  611. Man my marriage was really just kind of going downhill and then

  612. I just elevated the amount of anger I had and it just started

  613. becoming smooth sailing. I was really struggling at work

  614. relating with my Co workers and I just started screaming a lot.

  615. I keep getting promoted. Has that ever happened?

  616. Have you ever met an angry person and been like he's got it

  617. figured out? Now let me ask you this

  618. question. When it comes to your politics,

  619. how angry are you? Is it working?

  620. Have you noticed that the people who get angry last usually win?

  621. The ones who keep control of their emotions?

  622. The ones who can sit and listen and are slow to start talking?

  623. Because the more you start talking, the more amped up you

  624. get. Your spouse, your job, your

  625. parenting, your faith, your politics all get better when you

  626. are less angry. Why does this matter?

  627. Because you and I are supposed to be a light for the people

  628. around you. Last thing is this.

  629. Christians pray for people like we believe prayer works.

  630. Can I read a verse? It's going to frustrate you.

  631. Frustrated me. First Timothy, chapter 2.

    1 Timothy 2 chapter mention

  632. I urge then, first of all, that petitions, prayers,

  633. intercession, and Thanksgiving be made for all people.

  634. We're like we're praying for everybody.

  635. Verse 2 for kings and all those in authority.

  636. Don't raise your hand, probably because there won't be any hands

  637. raised. How many of you only pray for

  638. your family but not your president?

  639. How many of you only pray for the president that you voted

  640. for? How many of you only pray for

  641. the president you didn't vote for?

  642. I was, I wrote this part and realized I don't, it's been a

  643. while since I've prayed for President Biden.

  644. I was like, that's kind of a fail that we may live peaceful

  645. and quiet lives in all godliness and holiness.

  646. This is good and pleases God our Savior, who wants all people to

  647. be saved and come to a knowledge of the truth.

  648. What's his heart's desire? Keep going, for there was one

  649. God and one mediator between God and mankind, the man Jesus

  650. Christ, who gave himself as a ransom for all people.

  651. Please, the one who died for you, How?

  652. By praying for who? For all people, especially your

  653. president, especially your governor, especially your

  654. senator, especially your police chief.

  655. Pray for those in authority, because when you pray you are

  656. putting your faith in Jesus, and faith pleases God, and faith

  657. works because prayer works. Second Corinthians chapter 10

    2 Corinthians 10 chapter mention

  658. says this. For though we live in the world,

  659. we do not wage war as the world does.

  660. The weapons we fight with are not the weapons of the world.

  661. On the contrary, they have divine power to demolish

  662. strongholds. We demolish arguments and every

  663. pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God,

  664. and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to

  665. Christ. And if we are, and we will be

  666. ready to punish every act of disobedience once your obedience

  667. is complete. Here's what I want to unpack in

  668. there. When you start praying, you're

  669. using godly weapons in godly ways.

  670. When you're praying, you're demolishing, you're winning in

  671. prayer. And the Paul finishes.

  672. We're going to show up and we're going to discipline some people.

  673. But just so you know, when Paul shows up in this letter, he's

  674. not showing up to discipline all the politicians.

  675. He says. We're going to discipline all

  676. the Christians who haven't been acting like Christians, who've

  677. been calling themselves Christians.

  678. If you're going to swing hard this political season, don't

  679. swing hard for your political party.

  680. Swing hard for Jesus. Swing hard at the person who

  681. calls himself a Christian who isn't acting like a Christian.

  682. But before you do that, the Bible would tell you, be careful

  683. pointing out the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye

  684. and ignoring the plank in your own.

  685. What Paul is trying to do, what Peter is trying to do, what

  686. James are trying to do, is get you and I to live by a higher

  687. standard. James chapter one, verse 22 says

  688. this. Do not merely listen to the Word

  689. and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says.

  690. Too often you and I have beliefs but have no action to accompany

  691. them. To those of you who are pro

  692. lifers, are you stingy when it comes to supporting adoption in

  693. foster care agencies? Or do you just want other people

  694. to keep the baby alive? If you're pro immigration, are

  695. you just for other people to be able to come in and other people

  696. foot the bill, or are you putting your house on the market

  697. so they can and saying, hey, you can live with me?

  698. You know what? Christians would be both of

  699. those. They'd be looking for somebody

  700. who doesn't have what they need and to be trying to figure out a

  701. way to make sure that they have it.

  702. But they wouldn't be asking the other people to use their money

  703. to make it happen. They'd be using their money

  704. first. We vote for the things we

  705. believe, but we want other people to pay for.

  706. Christians are different. Our actions speak louder than

  707. our words. Every single one of us.

  708. We know the right Bible verses to back up our position.

  709. The problem is we haven't lived out enough Bible verses in our

  710. communities to make a difference.

  711. Think about that as we move to this time of decision.

  712. To those of you who are here or watching online that don't have

  713. a relationship with Jesus Christ, I want you to know Jesus

  714. offers a better way to live, and I hope you got to see a little

  715. bit of that today. I really hope you're paying

  716. attention when I read that passage out of Timothy where it

  717. says God wants all people to be saved because that includes you.

  718. In fact, He wanted you to be saved so much that He sent His

  719. Son to die on the cross on your behalf.

  720. And I know for some of you that sounds a little bit crazy and a

  721. little bit weird, but if you have questions about what that

  722. is or what that looks like, it'll be one of the best

  723. decisions you've ever made. And it's just a few moments.

  724. The people around you are going to stand and sing, and some are

  725. going to come to the steps and pray.

  726. What I want to encourage you to do is to walk right over there

  727. by that baptistry underneath that screen, and they'll be a

  728. couple there who would love to talk to you about what that is

  729. and what that looks like. Because you can have a better

  730. king, a better citizenship, and your citizenship would be in

  731. heaven means that when you die, you don't have to worry about

  732. death. You don't have to worry about

  733. life after death because your life will be forever held in the

  734. hands of Jesus. And that makes all the

  735. difference, not just for your future and makes all the

  736. difference today to the rest of you in the room, to those of you

  737. who would call yourself a Christian, here's what I want to

  738. encourage you to do. Would you spend some time

  739. praying for your president or somebody in authority in your

  740. life? And don't just pray for them to

  741. think like you think. Believe what you believe, but

  742. pray for them. Try to look at them the way you

  743. would look at your child. Because when you are praying to

  744. your Heavenly Father, you are also praying to their Heavenly

  745. Father. Maybe spend a little bit of time

  746. repenting for the huge gap between your beliefs and your

  747. activity. Pray for the areas of your life

  748. where you have not exemplified the way of Christ.

  749. Not your typical weekend, not your typical service, not your

  750. typical invitation time. But I think it's one we could

  751. use. I think it's one we need.

  752. Would you stand with me, God? We stand before you right now,

  753. and there's not a single thing we can hide from you.

  754. You know it all. So you know what we need, You

  755. know what we need to do, and you know what we need from you.

  756. And so, Heavenly Father, would you please meet us here?

  757. Would you please meet us in this moment and take the ground that

  758. only you can take? Your name, I pray.

  759. Amen.