Sermon
Kill The God Of Consumerism
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Crossing family, it is so good to be with you.
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I want to welcome those of you joining at all of our different
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locations, those of you watching online and those of you who are
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part of the crossing inside. I also want to welcome those of
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you who are here for the first time or the first time in a long
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time. And I want to talk specifically
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to those of you who are here for the first time in a long time.
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I've been in ministry a long time.
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And so, you know, there are times where people kind of get
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bumped off track and they go through a season of despair or
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frustration or pain, and all of a sudden, for some reason, their
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spiritual trajectory kind of got bumped and they found themselves
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in a spot that they never thought that they would find
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themselves in. And I know that sometimes it
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takes a lot of courage and a lot of strength to be able to come
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back. And I just want you to know that
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as a church, we're just rooting for you every time you decide to
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do it. I come in on Thursdays and I
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kind of run through the sermon in the early afternoon and then
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I takes time from 4:00 to 4:45 is just kind of an opportunity
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for me to kind of get a meet with different people.
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And I got a meet somebody this week who used to be a part of
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our church a long time ago and kind of going through an awful
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lot of hurt and heartache. And this weekend is going to be
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their first weekend back. And so when I welcome those of
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you joining for the first time or the first time in a long
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time, I'm thinking about you. You know who you are.
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You have one of the sickest wrist tattoos of anybody I've
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ever seen at one of our campuses ever.
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Is me looking at wrist thinking, I wonder if this is the person.
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If I had a cooler wrist, I'd rock one too.
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He was sick. I'm glad you're here.
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And I want you to know our church is rooting you on.
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I also want you to know I come to you today with kind of a, a
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pretty, pretty messed up self esteem.
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I found out on Thursday night that Joe Biden's a better golfer
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than me. And that's just, that's just
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hard to take the end. But when I said I was bad, I'm
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28 strokes worse than him. So that's a real, that's a real
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humdinger. OK, but we are in a two week
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sermon series called Map Makers charting a path to better
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stewardship, less stress and greater impact.
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And the statistics are in. People are stressed out and in
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large part due to financial pressure.
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Marriages are ending in divorce in large part due to financial
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pressure. I think at our core, we want to
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chart a path to better stewardship so we can honor God
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and love people and love God. We want to chart a path to less
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stress because we are sick and tired of financial pressure.
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We want to chart a path to greater impact so we can do so
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with our lives and with our money.
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The good news is that the God of the universe, the Savior of the
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world, has a plan. God is big enough to make the
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heavens and the earth strong enough to put them in orbit and
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determine their rotation. Smart enough to create an
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ecosystem to sustain us, a brain to guide us, a heart to inspire
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us. And yes, he has a plan for our
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finances. As I say to this series was kind
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of born out of a broken heart because I came across these
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statistics. 48 .6% of Americans consider themselves to be broke.
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If they were to define themselves financially, the word
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they would use is I'm broke. 66.2% of Americans feel like
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they are living paycheck to paycheck.
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If these statistics are true of America, if we were to put them
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at those who call the crossing home, to the people who are
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listening to the sound of my voice, if I were to run those
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numbers against how many people participated with the crossing
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last weekend, here's what that means. 5546 of you would
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consider yourself broke. 7555 of you feel like you are living
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paycheck to paycheck. I don't want anybody at the
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crossing to be in that state of life or that state of mind.
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I don't want anybody that you love to see themselves as
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having, seeing themselves as being broke or having to deal
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with the stress of living paycheck to paycheck.
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You've heard me say this over and over and over again, and
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you're going to hear it as long as you come here over and over
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and over again, that I genuinely believe that God's way is the
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best way in absolutely every area of your life.
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And this includes how we handle our finances.
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You've also heard me say that God blesses obedience.
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We cannot expect God's blessings in an area where we are
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rebelling. The challenge of following God's
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plan for our money and God's plan for our finances is that
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God's plan requires a great deal of faith.
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But remember, without faith it is impossible to please God.
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Psalm 24 verse one says this. The earth is the Lord's and
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everything in it, the world and all who live in it.
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The first plan for God that God has for you financially is to
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realize that everything you have comes from Him.
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Everything belongs to Him. He's the one who has given us
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absolutely everything that we have.
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The breath in our lungs, our family, our bodies, our money,
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our ability to produce wealth, all come from Him.
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You and I are simply stewards of what God has given us.
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And a good steward does what God wants us to do with what He has
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given us. And a bad steward does whatever
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they want to do with what God has given them.
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And God calls bad stewards robbers in Malachi chapter 3.
Malachi 3 chapter mention
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So after we recognize that it all belongs to God, the second
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thing that we're supposed to do is we're supposed to bring God a
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tithe. A tithe means a 10th or 10%.
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Malachi chapter 3, verse 10, bring the whole tithe, all 10%
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into the storehouse, the church, that there may be food in my
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house. Test me in this, says the Lord
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Almighty, and see if I will not throw open the floodgates of
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heaven and pour out so much blessing that there will not be
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room enough to store it. God's blessing.
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The pouring out happens after obedience, the bringing of the
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tithe into the storehouse. Remember, blessings flow in the
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direction of obedience. This is actually echoed in
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Proverbs Vice us when Solomon is talking to his son.
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Now Solomon, for those of you who aren't church people, is the
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wisest man born of natural birth.
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So you have Jesus and then you have Solomon.
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As far as on the wise meter of people who have lived, look what
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he says in Proverbs chapter 3, verse 9 and 10.
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Honor the Lord with your wealth, with the first fruits of all
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your crops. Then your barns will be filled
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to overflowing and your vats will brim over with new wine.
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The blessing comes after the obedience.
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Now some of you are church people and you're going Proverbs
Proverbs 3 chapter mention
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chapter 3. That sounds familiar.
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I feel like I've heard something from Proverbs chapter 3.
Proverbs 3 chapter mention
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You would be right. In fact, one of the most well
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known verses in all of scripture is found in Proverbs chapter 3,
Proverbs 3 chapter mention
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just a couple of verses before the one we just read.
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You know what it is? As soon as I open it up and be
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like Oh my goodness you're kidding me.
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Watch. Trust in the Lord with all your
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heart and lean not on your own understanding in all your ways.
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Submit to Him and He will make your path straight.
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And then a couple more verses he starts talking about bringing
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stuff to the store or house. You see, we are to trust God
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with absolutely everything and to lean not on our own
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understanding. Now look at the blessing follows
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obedience and all your ways. Submit to Him, that's obedience
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and He will make your path straight.
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That's the blessing. God's blessings flow in the
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direction of obedience. Now, this is one of the reasons
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why we tithe. Now there's lots of reasons why
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we tithe. We tithe because God commands
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it. We tithe because God deserves
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it. We tithe because we love God.
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And we've talked about this before, that you can give
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without loving, but you cannot love without giving.
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And we want to be in alignment with God and God will not make
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straight an area of your life where you are not submitting.
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Sir John Templeton, one of the world's most respected investors
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and investment counselors, who was the creator of the Templeton
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Growth Fund. Some of you may actually have
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money in the Templeton Growth Fund was once asked what is the
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best investment? And he said, I'm quoting him
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that he never hesitated to offer this simple and surprising
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answer. Here's what he said.
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In all my 52 years before I retired as an investment
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counselor, we were helping people, literally hundreds of
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thousands of people with their wealth.
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And in all of those years there was only one investment which
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never proved faulty, and that was tithing, giving at least 10%
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of your income to the church. He goes on to say in all my
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history, I have never seen a family who tithes for as long as
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10 years that didn't become both prosperous and happy.
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That is the best investment anyone can select.
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So whether you make $100 a $1000, a $100,000 or $1,000,000,
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every time you experience an increase, God tells us to tithe.
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If you're self-employed or you own your own business, or maybe
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you're a farmer, you're going, hey, this is a little bit more
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complicated. You're 100% right.
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And the people that I've sat across the table from that have
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asked for help in this area. Here's what I've just told them
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to do and how to navigate it. Every time you pull out money
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out of the business for you and for your family, you just pull
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out an extra 10%. So that way you can give to God.
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So if you're getting ready to pull $10,000 out of the
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business, you pull out 11,000, you give $1000 to the Kingdom of
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God, and you keep the 10,000 for you and your family.
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Do whatever you were wanting to do.
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And then at the end of the year, when you're trying to get right
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with the government, you use that time to make sure that you
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get right with God if there's any adjustments, because that's
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usually when you're getting ready to buy a work vehicle or
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you're trying to explore tax benefits.
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So that's the perfect time for you to fine tune things and get
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things right. So we're supposed to remember
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that everything that we have belongs to God.
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Second thing we're supposed to do is we're tithe.
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So what do we? What's the next step?
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What's the very next thing that we're supposed to do?
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And this one, you guys are going to be like, what?
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You got to be kidding me. But listen, I'm not kidding.
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The next step in your financial plan is to spend less than you
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make. I know this is like rocket
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surgery. Ready.
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Proverbs 21, verse 20 In the House of the wise are stores of
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choice, food and oil. But a foolish man devours all.
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He has two kinds of people. You know how you can tell if
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they're a wise person? There are stores of decent stuff
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all around the house. A foolish person devours
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everything they have. In other words, a wise person
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spends less than they make. A foolish person devours,
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consumes everything that they make.
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And in most cases in America, we are consuming more than we make.
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We are living on 105% of our income.
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Now I'm going to show you three areas where we kind of get
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tripped up and then I'm going to tell you a little bit about me
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and then hope at the end I'll tie it all together.
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But we're going to kind of go on like a weird rabbit trail
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together. And what I want to do is I want
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to show you like 3 areas where we can sometimes get ourselves
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put in a spot that add an A crazy amount of financial
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pressure on us, which puts strain on our parenting and
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strain on our marriages. OK, here's the first one.
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Cars. The average car new is $40,000
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and the interest rate 7% financed for 72 months.
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For those of you who aren't math people, that's six years.
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It's a long time. The total amount of interest
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that you're going to spend over that six years is $9101.14.
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The good news is in six years you will have spent $50,000 and
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that car will be worth 24. You know what?
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That's called a bad financial investment.
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Oh yeah, we're going to spend 50 grand and it'll be worth 24.
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But we do it all the time. If you were to take the amount
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of money and set, if you were to just buy a cheaper car and pay
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cash for it and you were to have the bank give you the $126.
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And you're saying instead of spending $126.00 a month on
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average on my interest on paying for a car that I couldn't
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afford. And you were to put that into a
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savings account. At the end of those six years,
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you'd have $12,500 in the bank and you would have earned $3500
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in interest. In other words, if I was a used
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car sales, and this is what I would say pay cash and buy this
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car and it comes included with a free all inclusive vacation for
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your family. I'd be, I'd be inking deals all
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day. Like just give me the 126 bucks
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a month and in six years you get to go on vacation.
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We end up spending more than we need to know.
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Listen, there's nothing wrong with having a new car.
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There's nothing wrong with having a nice car.
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There's nothing wrong with having an expensive car if you
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can afford it. But most of us are not asking
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ourselves the question, can we afford the car?
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We're asking ourselves, can we afford the payment?
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And then we're wondering where all of our money went.
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I can't wait to drive a new vehicle.
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Oh, I'm always spending money trying to give my car the new
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car smell. I can't wait till at least one
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day in my life. It just comes with it.
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I want to know how long the driver's seat lasts when my
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booty is the only booty that broke in that leather.
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You know what I'm talking about. Like, you get in there.
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Like, what was this person doing?
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Like, why is it always right next right when you open the
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door that all that part always rips out.
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Like, does somebody have a saw in their pants when they're
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getting in the car? Yeah.
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I just can't wait. Can't wait, But I'm not there
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yet. Here's another area where we're
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getting bit pretty hard consumer debt.
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Here's the average credit card balance by generation.
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And this is what you guys do. I know you.
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You. I've already heard you.
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You are going to look at this and you're like, hey, we're
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doing better. And then some of you are doing
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worse. And those of you who are doing
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better, like you're like pinky high five and like we're going
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to make out later. OK.
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Gen. Z Gen.
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Z has $3200 in a credit card balance.
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Millennials 6500 Gen. X $9000 on credit card debt,
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Baby Boomers $6600 Silent Generation 3400 dollars.
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You're like, where are they putting it?
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Well, they're putting it on a bunch of different credit cards.
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Look how many credit cards they have.
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Silent Gen. has 3.5 credit cards, Baby Boomers have 4.3,
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Gen. X has 4.3, Millennials have 3.5,
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and Generation Z has two credit cards.
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The average consumer in America today has $6200 in credit card
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debt, which means that the average household in America,
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husband and wife, are sitting on $12,000 in credit card debt with
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an average interest rate of 22.6%.
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Which means that it is requiring the typical family in America to
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spend $430 a month on interest on the stuff they've already
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purchased. Here's the 3rd place we get bit.
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We get bit in the houses that we buy.
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I have purchased two homes in my life.
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I still own both of them. The 1st house I bought when I
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lived in Macomb and then things changed in Macomb and so my
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house was no longer worth what I purchased it for.
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And so I could not sell it. And so I rented out.
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And if you're watching, keep it nice.
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OK, 15 more years and I'll just give it to you.
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But I got to get out of it all right?
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Now, both times I've gone in and I've sat across from the bank,
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they've told me what they would loan me for a house.
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And both times, the number that they gave me made me sick to my
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stomach. Because what a bank will give
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you is a lot more than they probably should give you if you
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want to live a life that is low on stress and high on impact.
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So here is kind of how I've always navigated house buying.
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Jennifer and I both work, but I I don't count on her income in
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case she changes her mind on what she wants to do.
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I don't want that burden on her. Like she has to work for us to
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be able to make things work. Does that make sense?
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So I take her out of the equation.
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OK. And if she's listening right
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now, I love you. I'm so thankful for you.
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OK. Now then on the other side, I
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just take my income, just what I make and I times it by three and
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that is the maximum that I allow myself to purchase in a house.
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Now here's why I do that. That means that I am buying a
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house that is less than what I make, which means that making my
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house payment is never a stress point in my life.
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That means I don't have to worry about am I going to get behind.
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It means that my payment is incredibly reasonable when I do
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this. A typical bank, if you were to
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go to a bank tomorrow and say how much money will you give me,
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they're going to probably say in really cool terms 45% of your
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debt to income ratio. So they're going to say add up
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all the payments that you have towards debt and we're going to
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give you 45% Max on what you make.
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So if you made $10,000 a month they would say we will give you
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enough money that you can finance up to $4500 a month.
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Which means that just that just leaves you with 55% left for
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everything else. And if you do that you will put
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yourself in a spot where you have no wiggle room.
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Here's what now I want to be clear, I am not a you have to
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live your entire life debt free guy.
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Although there are strong biblical principles about being
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debt free and I plan on getting there, just not there yet.
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But I have a car payment on my truck, I have a house payment on
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my Macomb house and that's it. And what I try to do, and this
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is for a long time, I try to keep my debt to income ratio
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below 20%. Now I could go way higher, I
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could drive way nicer vehicles and live in way nicer houses,
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but I intentionally live on less because Can you imagine me
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stressed? Can you imagine being married to
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this guy if he was stressed? Can you imagine what kind of dad
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I'd be if I was stressed? By keeping my debt to income
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ratio very low, I increase the margin in my home.
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When I increase the margin, I decrease the stress.
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See what happens? You know what else I do before I
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make big purchases? This is going to sound crazy.
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I ask people to speak into it. I want people on the branch.
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I want counsel about what I purchase.
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Now I don't want to brag, but I buy some stuff without asking.
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Like I bought some tea tree shampoo this week, didn't ask a
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person about it. You do like eucalyptus.
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You know how you kind of get like that brain freeze when you
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use that? You guys will be buying tea tree
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stuff, Amazon will be delivering.
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And I bought the beard wash that matches it.
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So I got 3 little pump things. I didn't ask Jennifer.
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I just went out and did it. Yeah.
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I'm the man of my house. I can buy $9 things anytime I
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want without her approval. But when I got, I also bought BB
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guns that are automatic this week for the boys.
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Didn't ask for opinion on that. And she was not happy.
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She wasn't. She was not happy at all.
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But you couldn't pull the corners of my boys's mouth out
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of their ears because when they started, like, yeah, Dad's rule,
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Mom's drool. And but in every other purchase,
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Mom's, I'm joking. Gee whiz, we met her too.
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I was just. Did you buy your kids ABB gun?
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No, you didn't. That's why dads win.
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Now when I get ready to buy a house, I invite people in and I
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go, hey, do you think this is a wise financial move?
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When I get ready to buy a vehicle?
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I actually pulled some leaders in our church together and I
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said, hey, guys, I'm thinking about doing this.
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Do you think this is a wise move?
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I want to be careful that I don't put myself in a position
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where I'm strapped, where I'm struggling, where I'm stressed.
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And when you invite people in, it changes how you behave
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financially. I want to make sure that I'm
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being a good steward. I want to make sure that my
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present desires don't rob me of my future impact.
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First Timothy Chapter 6 says this.
1 Timothy 6 chapter mention
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For the love of money is a root. So money's not bad.
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The love of money is a root, not the root.
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It's a root of all kinds of evil.
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Some people, eager for money and stuff, have wandered from the
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faith and pierced themselves with many griefs.
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We buy and we buy and we buy with money we don't have.
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And what we find ourselves is, is we're weighed down and we're
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pierced with many griefs. I want to keep myself in a
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position where I'm not pierced with many griefs.
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I was talking to a staff member who used to be in the banking
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industry and the car industry and he said so many people have
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so little margin, so little wiggle room that they can't do
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the things that they want to do for God.
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They can't go on a mission trip, they can't go into ministry,
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they can't do big things for God because their past and present
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self have robbed them of the margin, the flexibility and the
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freedom that their future self desires.
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Right now many of you are navigating decisions that old
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you made and if you could go back in time, you would kick old
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you's butt. What were you thinking right
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now? Here's the tougher question.
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What are the decisions that present you is making so that
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future you will high five you? Hebrews chapter 13 says this.
Hebrews 13 chapter mention
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Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content
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with what you have because God has said never will I leave you,
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never will I forsake you. Keep your lives free from the
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love of money. A 2006 study found that somebody
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making $20,000 a year will be happier than somebody who's at
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the poverty level because they're not worried about where
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their next meal is coming from and whether or not they're going
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to have shelter. But more money does not
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determine a person's level of happiness.
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Someone who makes $100,000 more or $100,000 annually is not all
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that much happier than somebody making $20,000 a year.
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There is a huge difference in salary and a minimal difference
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in happiness. The study go went on to conclude
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that as a matter of fact, the wealthier people become, the
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less happy they become because they spend less time pursuing
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enjoyable activities. They went on to say the belief
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that a high income is associated with happiness is mostly false.
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Today, Americans, American Christians, are in a constant
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state of buying things we don't need, to impress people we don't
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like with money we don't have, because in so many ways we have
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been broken to see our worth through the lens of our net
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worth. I think I've told you the story,
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but a long time ago I worked at a place out in Oklahoma, and I
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worked there many years, But for the first two years, I was a
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Wrangler. So every morning I got up.
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I know. Picture this.
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And I saddled 30 horses, and I trained kids on how to ride
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horses. And then I took them on trail
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rides. I had boots and everything,
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guys. Yeah.
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And my feet were dragging the horse when I was riding the
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horses. My feet were just dragging
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trails in the dirt. And but during the during the
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afternoons, we got an opportunity to go play with
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everybody else and we were getting ready to go on to the
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rec field. And I went to go grab my shirt
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and put my shirt on because there's a girl I liked.
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And I'd, you know, and I, I wasn't as dialed in as I wanted
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to be. And I went to put my shirt on
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one of the guys who was a couple years older than me.
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So what are you doing? I said, oh, well, I'm putting a
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shirt on because, you know, I'm not as dialed in as I want to be
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for so and so who's out there. And he goes, Clayton, the kind
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of woman you want to marry won't care what you look like with
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your shirt off. And that was like one of those
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light bulb moments for me. Like what are the things that
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are actually going to matter in my life?
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It made me think back to when I was in high school.
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I'm going to share a little bit more about this next week.
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But all the all the fun, cool people in high school were
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wearing Abercrombie and Fitch. I don't even know if that's
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still a thing, but it was a thing.
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And if you know, you know, and I wanted Abercrombie and Fitch
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clothes. And if you know Abercrombie and
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Fitch, you know that I'm not their demographic.
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Their demographic is like 5-2 and malnourished.
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And so like I walk into the store and they've got their hip
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little guys and I walk in there like me and we were looking all
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over the store for something that would fit a guy like me.
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And to give you context, their their 2X is like a Carhartt
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small if you guys trying to make sure this makes sense to you
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guys. And so I bought a sweater.
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It was, I think it was about 7580 bucks in 2001.
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And I put it on and it was basically a crop top.
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And the shirts, the sleeves on this long sleeve sweater stopped
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like right here and now just wear it to school in May.
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Just sweating trying to get this thing to fit.
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I remember wanting Jinko jeans. Glad I didn't buy any of those.
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I'd I'd hate myself if I wore Jinko's.
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But if you did, don't tell anybody, OK?
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You can still come here. Just don't tell anybody because
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deep down inside I was willing to spend an ungodly amount of
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money to fit in with certain people.
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And that is what the world has conditioned us to believe.
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It conditions us to think that if we have the stuff, we will
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finally have everything else that we're chasing.
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It will constantly over promise and under deliver because no
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amount of money and no amount of stuff can fill the hole that is
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in your heart. Ecclesiastes chapter 5 verse 10.
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Whoever loves money and stuff never has enough.
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Whoever loves wealth is never satisfied with their income.
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Said another way, if you love money, you will never be
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satisfied. If you long to be rich, you will
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never get all you want. When we went through the sermon
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series, Weeds in My Garden, you guys, some of you may remember
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that we did it a couple years ago.
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And when we were going through that series, I had a weed in my
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garden. And on Hope Weekend, we had
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everybody come up and kind of write their thing down.
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And I had a thing to write down too.
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And I'm going to go more in depth about this in a future
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series, but the thing that I wrote down was that I cared too
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much what of what people think about me and not nearly enough
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about what people think about God.
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I care more about approval from men than I do the approval of
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God. And a lot of us have found
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ourselves in a similar trap. And so we buy things so we fit
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in. We do things that way.
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We look like we got it all going right.
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But if your friends are only your friends with you because of
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how you look, what you wear, what you drive, where you live,
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those people are not your friends.
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They're blood sucking leeches who are going to pull the joy
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and happiness out of your life. And we know this to be true
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because we see it in our kids and we go, well, that person is
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not your friend and our kids can't see it.
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But when it comes to us, we find ourselves trying to keep up with
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the Joneses, whoever they are. And if you are a Jones, come
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back. It's just, you know the saying,
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and I can't help that. That's the name you got.
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That's not I didn't, I didn't name you.
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So it's your family, actually. But so much of our worth has
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been tied up in our net worth. And the God of money wants us to
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believe that our significance comes from what we have made of
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ourselves. But for Christians, our true
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identity is what Christ has made in US.
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Our value is found on the cross when Jesus died for us.
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But when you worship the God of money, a person's worth is no
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longer determined by the cross. Their worth is determined by the
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symbol of a dollar sign crossing family.
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The God of consumerism will kill you, but the God of heaven was
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killed for you. If you try to worship the God of
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consumerism, he will kill you because he will take all you
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have. He will steal your future, He
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will steal your kids future, He will steal your marriage.
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He will steal all the margin that you have.
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He will consume all that you offer him.
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But conversely, the God of heaven came on your behalf.
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That means that my value, my purpose are found in a God who
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was rich in mercy, So rich in mercy that he was willing to
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send his Son on my behalf to die on the cross.
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People have walked out on me because of what I've done, but
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Jesus ran towards me. People have abused me, ridiculed
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me, mocked me. But Jesus was abused for me,
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ridiculed for me, and mocked for me.
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People told me that I have to change in order to be with them,
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but God changed for me. You see, He left his palace in
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heaven, took on the very nature of a servant being found in
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human likeness, and humbled himself and became obedient to
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death, yes, even death on a cross.
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John first John chapter 3 says this.
1 John 3 chapter mention
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See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we
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should be called children of God, and that is what we are
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lavished is. How do I explain lavished?
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Hopefully you've all been to Texas Roadhouse and you've had
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the rules. People who hate God don't eat
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the bread. People who pretend like they
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love Jesus put just a little bit of butter on their bread on
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their roll. But people who've been saved,
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people who've been sanctified, people who have the Holy Spirit
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in their life, they know what it is to lavish.
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You start piling that that butter on that bread until you
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can't see the bread, am I right? And then you let a little bit
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fall off into your hand, a little bit of butter.
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So that way when you eat it, you get like a butter chaser
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lavished. Now, can I contrast two things
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for you? Look at how awesome I am.
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My house has three floors. God knows the number of hairs on
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my head. He knows what how much hair I
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had before the shower, ladies. And after the shower, That's I'm
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awesome because my vehicle's super cool.
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Is it when a Sparrow falls out of a tree, our heavenly Father
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takes notice of it. How much more will he take
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notice of you? I go on super cool, epic
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vacations. Totally fine.
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But if your identity is found in your ability to go on awesome,
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super epic vacations, what happens to your identity when
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there's a downturn in the market?
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What happens to your identity when there's a change in the
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interest rate? What happens to your identity
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then? My identity is found in a blood
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stained cross. The Bible says at one point in
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time I was an enemy of God, an enemy, and in my state of being
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an enemy, He sent his Son on my behalf.
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That's how much value I have, that not only did He cleanse me
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of my sin through his son Jesus, but He also made me an heir to
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the Kingdom and he made me his child.
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That is how much He has lavished his love on me.
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So my identity is not found in my stuff.
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My identity is found in my Savior who has purchased me,
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ransomed me, and rescued me. Do you see the difference?
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When my identity is found in Him, you can't give me anything,
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because all I could ever need is in Him.
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If your identity is in your stuff, your identity is found in
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things that can be lost, taken away, rust, destroyed, But this
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is found in the identity of an unchanging God who holds the
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world together, who holds me together.
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He is offering us to find our identity in him and when your
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identity is found in him, you don't need as much of the other
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stuff. I want you to think about that
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as we're moving to this time of decision.
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There are some of you here watching online and, and you're,
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you haven't started an intimate personal relationship with Jesus
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yet. I just want to level with you.
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Instead of spending all of your time and all of your energy to
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buy stuff that you can wear around so that way you feel
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cool, look cool and all that stuff.
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What if you were to do what Galatians says, and I know this
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is going to sound weird, but I'll make it make sense in a
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second. Galatians chapter 3 says for all
Galatians 3 chapter mention
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of you who are baptized into Christ have clothed yourselves
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with Christ. What if you were to find your
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identity not in your stuff, but in a Savior?
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What if you were to clothe yourself as Galatians says in
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Christ? Being clothed in Christ is like
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the letter jacket of the saved. You guys remember letter
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jackets, ladies, You remember that guy?
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He had a letter jacket. You're like, Oh my goodness.
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He's like, you know, he's was a letter winner in all four sports
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all four years. Well, he's fat now, isn't he?
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Right. He was me.
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You should have seen him, but now he's got gout, right?
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You have a choice. We can clothe ourselves in
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things that will fade away. We can clothe ourselves in
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things that will change over time, or we can be clothed in
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Christ in a couple months. We're going to get we're going
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to unpack this at like a way deeper level, but this is
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functionally what's happening. God is allowing you when you get
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baptized to be clothed in his son.
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You put on his son. Jesus is holy, righteous, pure,
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good, kind, faithful, self controlled.
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You're putting on him. So when God looks at you, the
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Sinner that you are, the Sinner that I am, he doesn't see the
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sin, he sees his son. And so when God looks at you,
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when your family looks at you, when your wife looks at you,
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when your husband looks at you, you have been clothed in Christ.
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So you are equipped to be holy and righteous and good and
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caring and kind and self controlled.
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You have been clothed in him. And some of you are going, yeah,
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that sounds great, but I got to get some stuff figured out
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first. If you could fix you, God
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wouldn't have sent his son to die on your behalf.
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This is not about you stitching together a new outfit.
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This is about you going, I'm done dressing myself.
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I'm ready to be clothed in him. And if you're here today and
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you've never started an intimate, personal relationship
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with Jesus Christ, you can begin that journey today.
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You might have questions that you want asked.
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Ask them today. And in just a few moments, when
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the people around you start to stand and sing and some of them
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come to the steps and pray, I would encourage you to walk
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right over there underneath that screen next to the baptistry.
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And there'll be somebody there who would love to talk to you
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and answer some of the questions that you have to those of you
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who already have a relationship with Jesus Christ.
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The God of money will keep you from all that God has for you.
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And all that God has for you to do, the God of consumerism will
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kill you. But we can rejoice in the fact
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that the God of heaven was killed for us.
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And as Christians, we need to live our lives in such a way
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that we don't just honor God, but we reach people for God.
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And for a lot of us, the statistics are in most people
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who call themselves Christians are not functioning the way God
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wants them to function financially.
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That has spiritual implications on their relationship with God,
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and it has spiritual implications about whether or
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not other people will ever find God.
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And I think that should change. And so if you're here today and
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you're a Christian and you've already been on this journey,
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you're already being obedient to God's plan financially, I want
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you to pray for people. Maybe you want to come up to the
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steps and pray for them because you know the challenge that
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they're facing the the step of faith that they're getting ready
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to make others of you. You've got serious pain and and
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sorrow and struggles and strife going on in your life.
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You've got worries and fears. I'm going to tell you, spend
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some time on your knees praying that God would give you wisdom
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and direction about whatever it is that you're facing, that God
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would clearly show you what it is that you're supposed to do,
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and then give you the courage to walk it out.
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Would you guys stand with me? God, right now I'm just trusting
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you, begging you to do what only you can do in ways that only you
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can do it. You know exactly what every
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person needs right now. So, God, I'm asking you to take
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the ground that only you can take to do a work in US and do a
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work through us. You know my pray.
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Amen.