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Work & Idolatry

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  1. Good morning. Hey, it's good to see you guys.

  2. I'm Cole. I'm lead pastor here at Frontier

  3. Church. And, and you are stepping into

  4. the middle of our sermon series on faith and work that we are

  5. calling. Thank God it's Monday.

  6. I, I know what you're thinking, man.

  7. I, I can't wait to hear Cole's annual Mother's Day sermon,

  8. which is not going to happen this morning and I don't have an

  9. annual Mother's Day sermon. So I'm just preaching Bible this

  10. morning. Mothers, we see you.

  11. We think that you're awesome. But today we're focused on thank

  12. God, it's Monday. I'm look so up until this point,

  13. if you haven't been here the last couple weeks, our vision

  14. for Christianity, faith and work has been entirely positive.

  15. So a couple weeks ago we talked about being image bearers and

  16. how that applies to the way that we do our work.

  17. Last week Carlos talked about faith and work as a means of

  18. mission in the workplace. So it's been almost entirely

  19. positive that work is good. We should be passionate about

  20. work. I'm pushing to the other side

  21. this morning, though. OK, so the, the text this

  22. morning and the focus of this morning is going to be on on

  23. work and idolatry. So we are going to, we're going

  24. to come face to face with the possibility that idolatry it is

  25. possible. And so I'll explain our terms,

  26. I'll give us clarity, and hopefully the Spirit gives you

  27. revelation. And we are changed people this

  28. morning because this it's just a great day to become more like

  29. Jesus. Amen.

  30. Amen. Let me pray and we'll jump in.

  31. Heavenly Father. Yeah.

  32. I just pray that you would. Yeah.

  33. Lord, just grant me, grant me the freedom to be honest and

  34. transparent and open about my own struggles with idolatry.

  35. And I think that's why you've got me preaching the sermon,

  36. Lord, is because if we look at the sliding spectrum and if we

  37. look at work as laziness or work as idolatry, the one that I

  38. struggle with, Lord, is idolatry.

  39. And so this week has been a week of repenting for me and

  40. receiving your forgiveness this week.

  41. And yeah, I just pray that I would have the guts this morning

  42. and that you would give me the courage this morning to be open

  43. and honest about my own struggles with idolatry.

  44. And I pray that you would also heal me through that.

  45. And so in the precious name of Jesus, all God's people prayed.

  46. Amen. Hey, Bonwell, you with me back

  47. there? I was going to run slides from

  48. my iPad and ain't working. All right, so I'll just point at

  49. you throughout all of it. We got a great relationship.

  50. We'll figure it out, right. Yeah.

  51. So work and. Get this iPad out of here.

  52. Work at Idolatry. There's a, there's a

  53. conversation with my five year old daughter Della that I've, I,

  54. I, I had it with her about six months ago.

  55. And it's the type of conversation that I've, I was

  56. fearing for a couple years. So one of the reasons why I was

  57. fearing that conversation is because Della, I don't know if

  58. you know her, she's amazing. She's she's my favorite, but she

  59. is. Whoops.

  60. That leaked out, didn't it? I love all my kids equally.

  61. Dell is a hoot though, OK? And one of the reasons why she's

  62. a hoot, because she is, is because she is.

  63. Absolutely. She's the queen of Jesus Jukes,

  64. which I think she got from me. If you don't know what Jesus

  65. Jesus Duke is, it's the ability to randomly insert God or Jesus

  66. into every conversation, even to the point where you get some eye

  67. rolls, right? And so like, you know, some

  68. dudes are talking football together and maybe one dude was

  69. like, hey, did you see that touchdown?

  70. They score. And you know, the Jesus Duke

  71. dude says, have I told you about the real touchdown in life, the

  72. crucifixion of right, That's a Jesus Juke where you got to Juke

  73. the conversation into that? And Della, she's the queen of

  74. Jesus Jukes. Like we I'll say something like,

  75. man, nobody, nobody is better than me at baseball.

  76. And Della will be like even God. I'll be like, OK, yeah, OK.

  77. There's, there was 1 almighty who was better than me at, at

  78. baseball, right? I'll be like, we'll be like

  79. having dinner together and I'll be like, there's nothing I love

  80. more than a steak cooked medium rare.

  81. And she'll be like, do you love it more than you love God?

  82. And so she'll just like Jukey in that direction.

  83. She's, she does a great job synthesizing the faith with the

  84. rest of life. And so because of that, there's

  85. this conversation that I've been fearing that I, I knew that we

  86. would have together. And we finally had it a couple

  87. months ago. It was early in the morning.

  88. We had the space heater on. So Della and I, we were curled

  89. up around the space heater together and, and we were

  90. reading and then the conversation came.

  91. She, she looked at me with her beautiful bright blue eyes.

  92. I think she fluttered her eyelashes.

  93. I don't, I don't know if that's a detail that I'm remembering

  94. that wasn't true. I think she fluttered her

  95. eyelashes. She.

  96. Said hey dad, fluttered her. Eyelashes and then she said.

  97. Do you love God more than you love me?

  98. I was like, oh gosh, right. Like what would you say?

  99. What would you say to that question?

  100. You got those? Sweet blue eyes looking at you.

  101. Would you say? Well, no Duff.

  102. We'll look at the Bible, we're supposed.

  103. To look right, dig into it. Send her to a room.

  104. Come on, you didn't know that. Now what would you say to that?

  105. Dad, do you love God more than you love me?

  106. Fortunately for me, the week before I was reading a book by

  107. Rosaria Butterfield. She's a genius, and she actually

  108. tackled this exact same question with her kids in that book.

  109. So I had something locked and loaded.

  110. So it wasn't. Like I was just like came out of

  111. nowhere. So she asks, Dad, do you love

  112. God more than you love me? And I quote Rosaria Butterfield

  113. and I and I say to her, sweetheart, when I love God more

  114. than everybody else, it actually allows me to love everybody else

  115. safely, safely. Fortunately for her, that was a

  116. good enough adequate answer. She didn't press in any deeper

  117. than that. And I think part of the reason

  118. why is because, I mean, at five years old, how could you know?

  119. The. How could you know the beauty of

  120. and the freedom of having a father who at least aims at

  121. loving God more than you? It's a it's a beautiful, it's a

  122. beautiful thing. I think there's nothing.

  123. OK, but I'm just going to say it.

  124. I think there's nothing more hateful and spiteful that you

  125. can do to a person than to idolize them, right?

  126. There's nothing more hateful you can do.

  127. Than elevating another human being to the place of God.

  128. Because whatever you idolize, you will eventually demonize

  129. that. That is a truth.

  130. If if you expect somebody to give you something that only God

  131. can give, that person is not going to meet your expectations.

  132. And then you're going to demonize them and you're going

  133. to be bitter towards them and resentful towards that person.

  134. And so to love God more than anything else, even your own

  135. kids, what it what it allows you to do is it, it allows you to

  136. love everything, love Della without smothering her or

  137. without controlling her or without manipulating her,

  138. without needing her to step into a role that only God deserves to

  139. be in. It allows me to to love her

  140. without putting the terrible parental sin of putting a weight

  141. on my children's shoulders that they were never meant to carry.

  142. It's actually quite freeing. See, the good gifts of God,

  143. whether we're talking spouses or kids or jobs, all of the good

  144. gifts of God, they're like fireworks, right?

  145. They're. Beautiful, gorgeous, meant to be

  146. enjoyed. Like fireworks, if you hold on

  147. to them too tightly, they'll blow up in your face.

  148. And this is true of any idols, but it's particularly true of

  149. our relationship with our work. Whatever work means to you,

  150. whether you're employed, pre employed, unemployed, post

  151. employed, right? Whether you're thinking about a

  152. job, a vocation, being a stay at home home.

  153. Maker. Maybe you're thinking just about

  154. hobbies. Whatever your work is in this

  155. lifetime, if you hold on to it too tightly, it will blow up in

  156. your face. And if you love God more than

  157. you love everything, if you love God more than you love work, you

  158. know what that will do? It will allow you to love your

  159. work safely. So if you're able, let's go

  160. ahead and stand for the reading of the Word of God.

  161. We're we're in Luke 12 this morning, verses 13 through 21, a

  162. familiar parable. It's often called the rich fool

  163. parable. Here's what happens.

  164. Someone in the crowd says to Jesus, Hey, Jesus, tell my

  165. brother to divide the inheritance with me.

  166. But Jesus said to a man who made me a judge or arbitrator over

  167. you. And he said to them, take care

  168. and be on your guard against all covetousness, for one's life

  169. does not consist in the abundance of his possessions.

  170. And then he tells them a parable.

  171. And then he told them a parable, saying, the land of a rich man

  172. produced plentifully. That's good.

  173. And the man thought to himself, what am I going to do?

  174. For I have nowhere to store my crops.

  175. And so he said, I know what I'll do.

  176. I'm going to do this. I'll tear down my barns and I'll

  177. build larger ones. And there I will store all my

  178. grain and all my goods. It increases his quality of

  179. living. And then I will say to my soul,

  180. soul, you made it. You have everything you need

  181. right here. You have ample goods laid up for

  182. many years. Relax, eat, drink, be merry.

  183. And then Jesus says, God said to him, Fool, fool, this night your

  184. soul is required of you, and the things you have prepared, whose

  185. will they be? So is the one who lays up

  186. treasure for himself and is not rich toward God.

  187. You guys can have a seat. What D the poor guy do wrong?

  188. I don't know if you know this about Jesus.

  189. Jesus doesn't take name calling lightly.

  190. So Jesus doesn't just walk around calling people names.

  191. And in this parable, what's he called this man?

  192. Fool, what's? What's going wrong?

  193. Let me start with a clarity bomb right up front.

  194. OK, So what is idolatry? I've got a couple definitions of

  195. them. Ben.

  196. Here's the first one. Here's Martin Luther describing

  197. idolatry. Luther says whatever your heart

  198. clings to and relies upon, that is your God.

  199. So for Luther, idolatry is anything that you're clinging to

  200. that isn't God. Does that make sense?

  201. Can I get thumbs up? Good.

  202. Here's here's John Piper. Piper gives a similar

  203. definition. Let's round it out just a little

  204. bit. Piper goes on to say idolatry is

  205. what you do when your heart is not satisfied for God.

  206. So for Piper, an idol is something you try to seek

  207. ultimate satisfaction from that isn't God.

  208. Does that make sense? Give me thumbs up.

  209. Good. So these are really important

  210. definitions because I'm going to round it out here.

  211. This is really important because it leads us to our last

  212. definition, which comes from Tim Keller.

  213. Actually, Jared, Uncle Tim to you actually doesn't sound

  214. great, OK. Great Tim Keller says idols

  215. aren't always bad things see that it's not just sin idols

  216. aren't always bad things idols are often good things in bad

  217. places putting a spouse. Which is a good thing in the

  218. place of God. Putting a kid, putting your job,

  219. putting your security, putting anything in the place of God

  220. ends up with idolatry. So let me summarize for us

  221. quick, really quickly. Idolatry is worshipping anything

  222. instead of God. It's taking anything, good

  223. things or bad things and putting them in the place of God.

  224. Whenever that happens, the word that the Bible gives us is

  225. idolatry. And so.

  226. I don't want you to. Walk away from this morning

  227. thinking that you're not allowed to be passionate about your

  228. work. That will break my heart.

  229. If you walked away from the sermon thinking, OK, I don't

  230. want to commit idolatry so I better not enjoy my work at all

  231. or I better not be passionate at all about my work.

  232. That would break my heart. You're allowed to enjoy work.

  233. You're allowed to be passionate about it.

  234. You are and you should be. But what I want to protect you

  235. from this morning is turning a good thing into a God thing.

  236. Make sense? Taking a good.

  237. Thing. And then turning it into a God

  238. thing. That's what.

  239. That's what the rich fool does. Like, this is a pretty familiar

  240. parable, yeah. Yeah, you ever ask?

  241. What did he do? Wrong.

  242. I hit like, honestly, you read the parable and it's like, I

  243. mean, that's just actually pretty standard American Dream

  244. stuff. What the guy do wrong?

  245. Well, here's the deal. It's not verse 16, right?

  246. Look at verse 16. What do you see happening?

  247. The land. This is, this guy's a farmer.

  248. His land produces plentifully, so he's good at his work.

  249. That's not a problem. It's good to be good at your

  250. job. The Bible says whatever you,

  251. whatever you put your hand to, do it with all your might.

  252. So being good isn't the problem. So what's the problem?

  253. What do you do wrong? Well, it's not even verse 18.

  254. In verse 18, what to do? He tears down his smaller barns

  255. and he builds bigger barns. Lots of godly people in the

  256. Bible have big houses. That's there's nothing wrong

  257. with that. So what does he do wrong?

  258. And the answer is in verse 20. He says to his soul, Soul,

  259. you've got everything you need now.

  260. So you have ample goods laid up for many years.

  261. Relax, eat, drink and be merry. Relax.

  262. He finds ultimate comfort in his work and the fruit of his work,

  263. not God. Eat, drink and be merry.

  264. He finds ultimate joy in his work and the fruit of his work

  265. rather than God. So here's the point, and here's

  266. where the story goes sour. When the man looks at his work

  267. and his wealth and says I have everything I need right here.

  268. He loses his soul. Isn't that an implication that

  269. Jesus's criticism where he's like, fool, tonight your soul

  270. was required of you? What's the implication there?

  271. The implication is that he lost his soul.

  272. And this is This is why the devil is so passionate about

  273. getting you to idolize something that's not God, because the

  274. enemy knows that wherever idolatry is committed, people

  275. lose their souls. This is why Satan loves

  276. idolatry, because he knows that it will ultimately make you

  277. forfeit your soul. So I've got a grid for you, Ben.

  278. Go and throw up that grid. This grid, This can this can

  279. apply to all of I'm sorry about the handwriting.

  280. That's my bad. I'll walk you through it.

  281. OK, but this grid it can apply to almost anything, but

  282. especially true with your relationship with work.

  283. What Satan desires to do is he will work day and night to keep

  284. you away from the healthy center.

  285. A healthy godly relationship with work is composed primarily

  286. of two things right there. So if you look at that middle

  287. graph right there, good work right above it.

  288. It's composed of two separate categories.

  289. The first is hard work. I don't know if you know this.

  290. The Bible is pro hard work, right?

  291. The Bible says whatever you I do work hardly on to the Lord.

  292. You should sweat, you should work hard, you should become

  293. excellent, but it needs to be combined with the second

  294. component. You see what the second

  295. component is? It's hard work plus surrender.

  296. So you work, you work hard, you give it your best, but you also

  297. know how to surrender the outcomes to God.

  298. And what that practically looks like is it means you don't spend

  299. the rest of the night daydreaming about it, or

  300. ignoring your family because you obsess over it, or ignoring your

  301. friends because you obsess over it.

  302. What you do is hard work plus surrender.

  303. You work with a purpose, and then you open your hands and you

  304. surrender the outcomes to God. That's a healthy relationship.

  305. That's a healthy relationship with what Satan wants to do is

  306. he loves extremes. He doesn't want you on the road.

  307. He wants to. Push you into one of two

  308. ditches. He delights in propelling

  309. believers towards laziness and idolatrous because it ruins

  310. their witness in in the workplace.

  311. What's laziness? Look over there.

  312. That's on the left. Interestingly, laziness is

  313. exhausting. Right it it feels like, Oh my

  314. gosh. There's just no purpose and

  315. meaning in life. So it's exhausting and what

  316. laziness is. But that's actually next week's

  317. sermon. So I'm not going to preach on

  318. it. But it only has one of the two

  319. components of healthy work. It's got surrender, open hands,

  320. giving it all to God. But it's surrender minus hard

  321. work. And I'm not going to preach on

  322. this this morning, but some, some Christians will

  323. spiritualize work so much that they justify their laziness.

  324. I don't know if you've ever heard a Christian say I'm so

  325. afraid of committing idolatry that I'm not even going to try

  326. at work because I'm so spiritual.

  327. That's a real temptation. If that's you repent of that and

  328. then come back next Sunday for that sermon.

  329. But if you look at if you look at the ditch on the right, you

  330. have idolatry. What's What's idolatry?

  331. Idolatry, like laziness only has one of the two components for

  332. healthy work. Idolatry is hard work minus

  333. surrender. The hard work is good, right?

  334. You work. With a purpose, you work like

  335. Jesus, you work heartily. But.

  336. You're unable to surrender the outcomes, and so you end up

  337. looking to your work for ultimate worth and value.

  338. And because of that, you just can't open your hands and

  339. surrender your work to God. It what does it do?

  340. It keeps you up at night when things don't go perfectly.

  341. You explode and implode. You're willing to do whatever

  342. you can to climb the corporate ladder, even if it means denying

  343. Jesus or destroying your spiritual walk over burnout or

  344. controlling and manipulating your kids.

  345. You end up practicing hard work minus surrender, and that is

  346. idolatry when you get there, right?

  347. To paraphrase and you know, one of the questions you have to ask

  348. is. How does a, how does a Christian

  349. who loves Jesus and is healthy end up in a place where they

  350. have elevated their job to the place of a God?

  351. And that's why I think the book of Exodus is so compelling,

  352. right? The golden calf, they, they

  353. build the golden calf because they freak out because, because

  354. Moses is gone. And so we got to worship some

  355. God. And so they build a golden calf

  356. and Moses walks back and they're all worshipping the golden calf,

  357. right? And as as postmodern people, we

  358. tend to be like, how could they be so stupid?

  359. How could they think that a golden calf that they built with

  360. their own hands was worthy of their worship, was worthy of

  361. being a God? And when Moses presses into

  362. them, I find the answer they give so compelling.

  363. Do you know the answer? Moses is like, what is this evil

  364. you have done? And the peoples, they say he's

  365. threw the gold in the fire and it came out like this, which is

  366. crazy because it's like, no, that's.

  367. How it feels though. You just take a good thing and

  368. then all of a sudden it's like it hops out of nowhere.

  369. How do you wind up here? To paraphrase CS Lewis and the

  370. screw tape letters, the safest Rd. to hell is the gradual 1.

  371. And so here are 4 strategies that the devil will use you to

  372. trick you into going down the gradual Rd. of turning your work

  373. into idolatry. I have one for the screen bond.

  374. Well, here's the first one. The first technique the devil

  375. will use to get you to idolize your job is the devil will

  376. whisper your worth is in your work.

  377. This is so important. The reason why it's so important

  378. is because the devil, the devil's actually not afraid of

  379. you saying that you believe in the Gospel.

  380. He's not afraid of you saying that all of your worth comes

  381. from the crucifixion of Jesus. What he's afraid of is you

  382. believing it. So if he can get you saying,

  383. hey, I believe the Gospel, but then really living your life as

  384. though you're worth and work comes from your job.

  385. It's like mission accomplished. Then then what Satan can do is

  386. he can get you to believe that who you are is what you do, that

  387. who you are is what you accomplish at work.

  388. And then you find yourself craving promotions, craving

  389. titles, craving admiration, and craving metrics even more than

  390. you crave Jesus. The strategy or #2 The second

  391. thing the devil will do is he'll convince you.

  392. He'll convince you that you're serving God even when you're

  393. just serving yourself. The enemy.

  394. Twist language subtly, right? You end up, you end up referring

  395. to exhaustion as faithfulness, bro, right.

  396. You end up referring to your neglect of your family as

  397. sacrifice for the Kingdom. Bro, just twists of language.

  398. But when your job crowds out time for prayer, rest, people or

  399. family, you're no longer serving God.

  400. You're serving an idol. That brings me to the third

  401. strategy of the devil. And this is the foothold that if

  402. I'm not careful personally, this is the one that the enemy will

  403. use in my own life. The third thing the enemy might

  404. do is is the devil will weaponize.

  405. He will weaponize your fear of failure.

  406. But if the if the devil can get you to be terrified, terrified

  407. of being small or insignificant or forgotten or ordinary, then

  408. he can stir your anxiety to the point.

  409. That you confuse the pursuit of excellence over the presence of

  410. God. This is the thing that I really

  411. struggle with. So like, you can do this as a

  412. preacher. I don't know if you know this,

  413. but even as a person handling the word of God, you can idolize

  414. the work. Let me say it this.

  415. Way this is true as a preacher. Biblically accurate sermons

  416. filled with truth filled with truth, but.

  417. Subtly crafted to impress people and make them think much of me.

  418. Satan loves those sermons, even if they're filled with truth.

  419. Satan's not afraid of truth as long as the truth is

  420. self-serving. True sermons.

  421. Ones that quote the Bible. Sermons that quote John Piper,

  422. but designed subtly by a secret motive to make people think

  423. you're so great. God hates those sermons.

  424. And it's it's, it's true not just for preachers, but also

  425. whatever your work is right even doing.

  426. Things with excellence. But subtly, because you want to

  427. be seen as great. God hates those sermons.

  428. And often time the thing he taps into is your fear of failure to

  429. whip you into an anxious frenzy to work yourself to death.

  430. And here's the 4th strategy that the enemy uses.

  431. The devil will also keep you just busy enough to never notice

  432. your idolatry. Just busy enough.

  433. Just busy enough that you've got no time to think, or no time to

  434. ask deep questions to your community.

  435. No space to examine your heart and its relationship with work.

  436. The enemy wants to keep you just productive enough to feel useful

  437. in just enough Christian language to make you feel

  438. righteous. And so, I guess the question.

  439. Here's the question I've been wrestling with all week.

  440. Maybe, maybe you don't. Maybe you don't ask the same

  441. question. Maybe this doesn't haunt you.

  442. The question I've been wrestling with all week is I've been

  443. preparing. This sermon is God.

  444. Why? Why do?

  445. You so passionately hate idolatry.

  446. Have you ever noticed that? Like it's.

  447. It's one of the 10 commandments. Thou shall have no other gods

  448. before me. You read first, John.

  449. It's the last sentence in the letter.

  450. Little children flee, keep yourselves from idols.

  451. Like what's what? What is with God's passion, his

  452. hatred for idolatry. And the reason why I want to

  453. press into this is because sometimes I get the impression,

  454. OK, sometimes I get the impression that one of the

  455. reasons why God hates idolatry is because he's a fun hater,

  456. right? He's God's just anti passion.

  457. He's anti joy, he's anti fun, he's a buzzkill.

  458. And he doesn't want to see us get passionate about anything

  459. besides religion, right? Do you ever feel that way?

  460. So I was wrestling with that last night.

  461. I was, I was walking around in the neighborhood last night,

  462. just asking like Lord. Just reveal your heart.

  463. To me, why? Why do you so passionately hate

  464. idolatry? And I felt like the answer the

  465. Lord gave me last night was so profound and so simple.

  466. I think it was from the Lord. I I was walking around just

  467. saying God. Why do you hate?

  468. Idolatry so much. And the answer I sensed him and

  469. pressed upon my heart was because I love the world so

  470. much, right? His hatred of idolatry is his

  471. love for the world. His love for the world is

  472. inextricably connected to his hatred of idolatry.

  473. God knows better than anybody that idolatry eats the world

  474. alive, right? Eats a lot.

  475. Are you guys with me? I'm just going to talk.

  476. I'm just going to talk honest, OK?

  477. I'm just going to be totally honest about my own struggles

  478. with idolatry. If you want to weaponize my

  479. transparency against me, that's fine.

  480. I'm just going to say it and let the chips fall.

  481. However, about 8 years ago, I planted this church and in the

  482. beginning phases of it, I really like, I really struggled with.

  483. There was a sense in which I was like, man, this is my dream job.

  484. There was this other sense in which I really struggled with

  485. transitioning from being a high school English teacher to being

  486. a church planter. I want to tell you exactly what

  487. it was. OK, but this was seven years

  488. ago. OK, seven years ago.

  489. So this is not like a veiled cry for help.

  490. All right, I've worked through some of this.

  491. I still have some work in front of me to go.

  492. But about seven years ago when I planted the church, I was, this

  493. is going to sound funny to you. I was shocked.

  494. Maybe this is because I didn't really grow up in the church.

  495. I I was shocked when I discovered pretty early in that.

  496. Church people are harder to. Please than high school

  497. students. I don't know if you know that.

  498. They're. They're pickier in high school

  499. students. And I, I really struggled with

  500. that transition. And so I was unloading all of

  501. this to my associate pastor at the time, Andrew Self.

  502. And I, I remember it, a lot of it, it was just a lot of

  503. immaturity. I just needed to get it off my

  504. chest, right? And so I remember just unloading

  505. onto poor Andrew, just unloading onto him, all of this insecurity

  506. I was struggling with. I was like Andrew when I was a

  507. high school teacher. There wasn't a single day that

  508. went by that some high school kid didn't tell me that I was

  509. the best teacher in the whole wide world.

  510. And I give my life to church planting and all I hear is the

  511. opposite. I was like Andrew, I feel like

  512. I'm giving my life to crafting these meals that people just

  513. knit, pack and say I don't like it.

  514. Did you, Nicole, did you listen to the John Piper sermon and all

  515. that? It was.

  516. Awesome. As opposed to mine, right?

  517. Just I just struggled. I'd like, I struggled a lot with

  518. that. I was like, Oh my gosh, all I

  519. seem to do is give people a reason to complain.

  520. But Andrew, that those high schooler kids, they, they treat,

  521. they treated me so much better than church people do.

  522. All church people do is, is whine.

  523. I was like, I swear, dude, I'm going to die because of a lack

  524. of encouragement. I was very dramatic.

  525. I hear that now. I'm still a little dramatic

  526. because then I said the line. I said I said, bro, if our

  527. church doesn't encourage me, I will work myself to death to

  528. earn it. And I.

  529. Remember what Andrew said to me? I'm not going to quote it

  530. perfectly, but he looked at me and he said, bro, that's the

  531. scariest thing I've ever heard you say, except he was from

  532. Texas. So bro, scariest thing you ever

  533. said? I if I don't get it, I will work

  534. myself to death to earn it. That's why God hates idolatry.

  535. He hates idolatry because he knows that idolatry all it

  536. always has collateral damage. Always.

  537. I will work myself to death to earn it.

  538. That inner need to. Prove myself and to work in

  539. order to earn love. You know who gets hurt by that?

  540. Everybody. You, the church.

  541. The pastors who hurt their church the most are the ones who

  542. make the church into an idol every time.

  543. It puts an unbearable weight on the church's shoulders.

  544. No church should be in a position where they feel like

  545. they've got to constantly praise their pastor so that he feels

  546. like they're the best pastor in the world.

  547. No church can. Carry that weight.

  548. It's too heavy. It's too heavy.

  549. You don't need that on your shoulders.

  550. It hurts that. You know who else it hurts?

  551. My family, right? There's always something to say

  552. yes to in pastoral ministry. Some of them need yeses.

  553. But there are so many things to say yes to in pastoral ministry

  554. that it will, if I'm not careful, give me very religious

  555. sounding reasons to say no to my kids for their whole childhood.

  556. And so if I just give myself over to the idol of church

  557. planting, my kids will grow up functionally fatherless like

  558. Tim. Tim Keller.

  559. This Keller said this when Keller planted a church in New

  560. York City. He's he said to his wife.

  561. I'll see you in three years, babe.

  562. That's what idolatry does. It it hurts.

  563. Everybody you know, who else gets hurt by that idolatry if

  564. the Lord doesn't deal with it? Me.

  565. Because I lose my own soul. If I go down that road, it's

  566. gone. Like if I just, if I just turn

  567. my entire spiritual walk with Jesus into a public performance

  568. for church people to try to gain some praise from people who are

  569. probably just going to leave statistically in two to three

  570. years anyways, I lose my soul. And the irony of it, though, and

  571. again, you, you're welcome to judge me if you want.

  572. It's fine. If I were you, I would be using

  573. this story about pastoral ministry as a window into your

  574. own relationship with work, though.

  575. Because here's the irony of it. The irony of it is when I said

  576. that, when I said I will work myself to death to earn it, you

  577. know how it sounded to me? It sounded heroic, right?

  578. Like it sounded brave, and it sounded like something somebody

  579. would write in a book about Charles Spurgeon or something.

  580. It sounded brave. How did it sound to Andrew?

  581. Terrifying. Scary.

  582. I needed Andrew to say to me, that's the scariest thing I've

  583. ever heard you say. And look, we're getting

  584. practical. We're getting really close to my

  585. practical exhortation for the morning, but there's still just

  586. a little bit of leg work to be done.

  587. Then we'll get around to it. But the point is that it's very

  588. hard to see your own idolatry and super easy to see other

  589. people's idolatry. Have you ever noticed that?

  590. Here's to quote Paul Tripp. You guys ready for this?

  591. This is such a great quote. Paul Tripp says, quote, when it

  592. comes to our own sin, we're lawyers.

  593. When it comes to the sins of others, we're judges.

  594. Does that one get an Amen? Like we're really good, Like

  595. we're really good lawyers when it comes to our own sin?

  596. Well, here's why. This is just the right.

  597. But when it comes to the sins of others, we're extraordinary

  598. judges. And so the reality of it is, as

  599. I'm pushing into this this morning and I'm walking you

  600. through some of my own experiences with idolatry, the

  601. truth of the matter is, no matter how much clarity I'll

  602. preach with, the truth of the matter is you're probably just

  603. still blind to your own idolatry, which is

  604. extraordinarily important to see, right?

  605. Because the rich. Fool.

  606. The the dude that Jesus called a fool, he probably he probably

  607. just viewed his idolatry as wisely securing the future.

  608. It's just wise, right? My my own idolatry.

  609. I viewed it as a heroic, hard working wrestler turned church

  610. planter rather than as idolatry. We're lawyers for our own idols

  611. and we're judges for the idols of others.

  612. And here's why I keep pressing into this is the reason why is

  613. because I had this list of four or five different ways to

  614. identify if your work or your job or your calling has become

  615. an idol. And I ditched those four or five

  616. reasons. And the reason why I ditched

  617. those four or five is because all of us would have seen that

  618. list, all of us. And we would have thought, I

  619. know who needs to hear this. We would have, we would have

  620. said that. And then we would have remained

  621. blind to what we're blind to. And so the practical application

  622. for this morning, it just requires, it requires more of a

  623. spine than that. It, it requires more courage

  624. than looking at bulls and points and saying, I think Cole is

  625. number 2 and #3 no, bro, I'm all four probably.

  626. So here's the practical exhortation.

  627. And it's going to require some guts.

  628. And you're going to need to trust Jesus.

  629. What I want you to do this week is I want to, I want you to ask

  630. one Co worker doesn't even need to be a Christian, just a Co

  631. worker you trust. Or if you're a homemaker, ask.

  632. Ask your spouse or your kid somebody who's got a window into

  633. your vocation and calling. Ask them the question, Do you

  634. think that I care too much or too little about my work and

  635. why? Doesn't that make you feel

  636. nervous? Do it.

  637. And, and if the person says too much, you care about work too

  638. much, you don't. You're not allowed to huff and

  639. puff and justify yourself. If they say too little, then

  640. make sure you come back next Sunday for our sermon about work

  641. and laziness. Look, I also have good news for.

  642. You this morning. You want it.

  643. Here's the gospel Jesus wants to save you from your idolatry.

  644. He wants to save you from your idolatry.

  645. Work is a great way to express love.

  646. It's a terrible way to earn love and so if you turn your work

  647. into an idol, then life will become a concentration camp.

  648. Literally. I don't like history buffs.

  649. I don't know if you know this, but you can, you can Google

  650. this. You can look it up.

  651. In Auschwitz, the famous concentration camp during Nazi

  652. Germany, the main entryway to the concentration camp had this

  653. gigantic arching entryway, and on the arch were these massive

  654. iron letters that spelled out a motto.

  655. The first thing, the first thing Hitler wanted concentration camp

  656. prisoners to see when they went into the concentration camp.

  657. Do you know what the motto was? Giant iron letters.

  658. Nazi Germany, They would have been walking in and in German

  659. language, the sign said. Work will set you free.

  660. Isn't that haunting? Work will set you free.

  661. Why did Hitler want his concentration camp prisoners to

  662. believe the motto? Work sets you free.

  663. Because he knew psychological warfare.

  664. He knew linguistic warfare. And he knew that if he could get

  665. the prisoners to make an idol out of working there, he could

  666. get them to forfeit their soul and dehumanize themselves and

  667. stop viewing themselves as images of God worthy of love and

  668. respect. He knew that.

  669. And the scary thing to me as a pastor is that there are whole

  670. denominations of Christianity and pastors out there who are

  671. preaching the same gospel as Nazi Germany.

  672. That work will set you free, that you can be justified by

  673. your work, that you can earn God's love because of your work.

  674. It's a false gospel. So let me say it straight.

  675. Work doesn't set you free. Only Jesus sets you free.

  676. Amen. Only Jesus sets you free.

  677. That's the gospel. Jesus was crucified to forgive

  678. you from all of your sins, and by grace, through faith in Him,

  679. you are. You are covered in His

  680. righteousness and you are filled with the Holy Spirit, and you

  681. are imbued with ultimate worth and value and meaning and you're

  682. guaranteed a place in the resurrection to live in the joy

  683. of the Lord forever. Your job, on the other hand,

  684. it's a good gift from God, but it's going to replace you the

  685. day after you retire. Don't put it on the throne where

  686. only God deserves to be. Your work does not love you like

  687. Jesus does. Only Jesus deserves that spot.

  688. Only Jesus deserves your praise. Only Jesus deserves your glory.

  689. Only Jesus deserves your worship.

  690. Only Jesus deserves ultimate worth and value.

  691. Because only Jesus sets you free.

  692. And when you believe that, Jesus sets you free.

  693. And Christ alone, like faith in the gospel alone, can set me

  694. free. Once you get there, then you

  695. don't need to work in order to earn love anymore.

  696. You can just work in order to express.

  697. Love, which is so healthy. If I don't get, if I don't get

  698. it from my church, If I don't get, if I don't get the

  699. promotion, If I don't get the positive feedback.

  700. I don't get encouragement from the church.

  701. I will work myself to death to earn it.

  702. When I think back to saying that seven years ago and the

  703. headspace and spiritual space I was in when I said that, I like,

  704. I just, I just think, fool, you fool, just like God says to the

  705. rich. Fool, fool.

  706. Right. If I were to go back in time and

  707. talk to myself and encourage myself seven years ago, I don't

  708. know what I would say. I think, I think I would say

  709. something to the effect of a young man.

  710. You're going to want to take a seat, I think I would say.

  711. I'm sorry that you wanted church planting to be more honestly.

  712. I'm sorry that it didn't fulfill your heart and your heart's

  713. desires honestly. But with time and growth, you'll

  714. become a good pastor. But this thing that you feel

  715. inside of your soul? This thing that you feel, this

  716. lack of encouragement that you'll do anything to earn, your

  717. church isn't. Doing this to you.

  718. They are encouraging you, you just can't hear it.

  719. They're not doing this. To you, God is God's doing this

  720. to you. God's got you in this place.

  721. Because he knows. He knows that this church plant

  722. can't give you what only God can.

  723. And God loves you so much. He loves you so much that He

  724. will keep you perpetually dissatisfied in life and in

  725. work, just above drowning but just below flying too high.

  726. That space? God loves you so much that He

  727. will keep you right there until you learn to go to God for what

  728. only God can give you. Don't.

  729. Kick the dog because it's not laying X.

  730. Don't get mad at the water balloon because you threw it

  731. into the well and it didn't fill the whole thing.

  732. It can't do that for you, only God can.

  733. So I guess my question is, do you find work dissatisfying?

  734. Did you think it would be more? Are you shocked at how all of

  735. your coworkers and bosses don't see how special you are?

  736. Were you hoping for more from your job?

  737. Come to Jesus and work hard and then surrender.

  738. Work hard and then just let go. Let go.

  739. Heavenly Father, I pray that you would give us the power to do

  740. that. I can't.

  741. I have. I have noticed, Lord, that I

  742. can't get myself to repent of an idol like I can't, Lord, I can't

  743. force myself to let go of something I'm holding too

  744. tightly by just saying to myself, let go, Lord, the only

  745. thing that I have found sufficient to mortify idols

  746. isn't to try to let go. It's to look up and be

  747. captivated by the beauty and glory of the gospel and by

  748. gazing at your beauty and by seeing your glory, that actually

  749. empowers me to weaken my grip, unclench my fist, and then just

  750. let go. And so, Lord, I pray for the

  751. individuals in our church who are making an idol out of their

  752. work, or for that matter, an idol out of anything.

  753. May they see that there is power in the name of Jesus.

  754. And today he wants to break every chain.

  755. He wants to break chains so that people feel freedom, joy, and

  756. satisfaction in the Lord Jesus. And so would you do, Lord?

  757. Would you do that to us this morning?

  758. Would you help us let go? It's in the precious name of

  759. Jesus that all God's people prayed.

  760. Amen. Let's stand and let's worship

  761. this God together.