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The Depersonalization of the Holy Spirit

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  1. Hey, if we haven't met, my name is Cole.

  2. I'm going pastor here. What what originally I was going

  3. to do is I was going to preach a sermon that kind of cooperated

  4. with Luke Stone's excellent sermon last week about how the

  5. Holy Spirit testifies and brings our identity to mind.

  6. It was an excellent sermon. If you haven't listened to it,

  7. make sure you go back and listen to that on Spotify.

  8. But instead of going that route, which I originally planned to

  9. do, this morning is going to be a little bit more of a

  10. standalone sermon. Because as I was prepping and

  11. thinking and praying, I was constantly haunted this week by

  12. my own shortcomings and failures of life with the Holy Spirit.

  13. And I don't think I'm alone in this struggle with the Holy

  14. Spirit. And I wonder if you have this

  15. same struggle too. So I'm going to preach on that.

  16. So if you're able, let's stand for the reading of God's Word.

  17. What we do at Frontier is we preach expository sermons.

  18. What that means is that 90% of the time we spend our time in a

  19. singular text where we explain that text over the course of 40

  20. or 45 minutes. We look at the the literary

  21. context, we look at the historical context, and then we

  22. bring it to its Christological context.

  23. And that's 90% of what we do. This morning I'm going to preach

  24. a little bit different. It's called topical preaching.

  25. Instead of focusing on one singular text, we're going to

  26. look at 4 texts. I'm going to draw one unified

  27. observation of those four texts, and then I'm going to preach on

  28. that observation. What's the observation?

  29. You'll be able to tell. Listen to what I listen to what

  30. I emphasize, and you'll know where I'm going with this.

  31. John chapter 14. But the Helper, the Holy Spirit,

    John 14 chapter mention

  32. whom the Father will send in my name, He, everybody say He.

  33. He will teach you all things, and bring to your remembrance

  34. all that I have said to you. John 15 But when the Helper

  35. comes, whom I will send to you from the Father, the Spirit of

  36. truth, who proceeds from the Father, He, everybody say He, He

  37. will bear witness about me. John 16 When the Spirit of truth

  38. comes, He, everybody say He. When the Spirit of truth comes,

  39. He will guide you into all the truth, for he will not speak on

  40. his own authority, but whatever he hears, he will speak, and he

  41. will declare to you the things that are to come.

  42. Romans chapter 8. Paul says likewise.

    Romans 8 chapter mention

  43. The Spirit helps us in our own weakness, for we do not even

  44. know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself.

  45. Everybody say himself, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us

  46. with groanings too deep for words.

  47. He, he, he himself pray with me. Heavenly Father, I pray that you

  48. would move us this morning, that we wouldn't just talk about your

  49. Holy Spirit or pontificate or hypothesize about your Holy

  50. Spirit, but that we would be people who experience your Holy

  51. Spirit. Lord, would that be true of us?

  52. We're not here to just learn some new things, Lord.

  53. We're not here to just hang out with some people who are

  54. affable. We're here because we want to

  55. meet with you and your Holy Spirit is your personal presence

  56. with your people. And so, Lord, would you fill us

  57. freshly with your Holy Spirit. We would not walk away thinking,

  58. oh, that was a nice message or I would have said some things

  59. differently than him. But instead, I pray that we

  60. would walk away thinking. I heard from God this morning.

  61. I met with God this morning. Oh, that that would be true

  62. about us this morning. All God's people prayed.

  63. Amen. You can have a seat.

  64. All right, I'm going to zoom in on one observation that I think

  65. you notice across those four different biblical texts.

  66. The Holy Spirit was referred to in those four texts with

  67. personal pronouns. He, he, he, and himself.

  68. Those are all personal pronouns. And that observation, that

  69. simple observation, is going to form the direction for the rest

  70. of the sermon. Francis Chan famously wrote a

  71. book called The Forgotten God a couple years ago.

  72. Anybody read that? It was a good book.

  73. I recommend it. What Chan does is he he exhorts

  74. people in that book that the Holy Spirit tends to be the

  75. person of the Trinity that we forget is God.

  76. It's a it's a good book. I recommend it.

  77. But what I'm going to do this morning is I'm going to preach

  78. like the opposite end of that. So Chan focused on the Holy

  79. Spirit as the forgotten God. What I want to do this morning

  80. is because often times we understand the Holy Spirit as

  81. God or as divine or as Yahweh, but sometimes we have the

  82. tendency to reduce the Holy Spirit to a concept or an

  83. impersonal force like gravity. And so rather than preaching on

  84. the fraught and God, my theme this morning is going to be the

  85. forgotten person, particularly our temptation to depersonalize

  86. the Holy Spirit into nothing more than gravity or an

  87. objective truth. So here's here's the big

  88. question. I'm going to hammer you with

  89. this all morning long. The big question is you may know

  90. the Holy Spirit as a concept. You may know the Holy Spirit as

  91. a doctrine. You may know the Holy Spirit as

  92. an idea, but do you know the Holy Spirit as a person?

  93. It's my big question for you this morning.

  94. Do you know the Spirit as a person?

  95. This is not a coal observation, right?

  96. This is a, this is every denomination that's biblical.

  97. Is my mic off? It turned off.

  98. Did I say something that bothered you back there, Carl?

  99. Yeah, I'm off. I don't know.

  100. It's on. So I'm just going to preach

  101. loud. You like that?

  102. No needed that encouragement, bro.

  103. I was going to feed off of that. All right, so here's where I'm

  104. here's where I'm going. We're just we're going to do

  105. some theology up front. Every Christian denomination

  106. that is biblical refers to the Holy Spirit as both God and

  107. person. We we've got a word what we put.

  108. Oh, it just fell down. Been reading too much GQ bro.

  109. So every every every denomination that's biblical

  110. refers to the Holy Spirit as both God and person.

  111. We we have a word for Christian denominations that refer to the

  112. Holy Spirit not as God or not as person.

  113. That word is heretical. OK, Like, for instance, I was in

  114. the car about a month ago with my, with my daughter and she

  115. just out of the blue, I was like, I was blasting the music.

  116. So I was like, what was that, honey?

  117. What? And I, I turned the music down

  118. and she said, you know, Dad, I've been thinking about it.

  119. I was like, this should be interesting.

  120. She says, I, I've been thinking about it, the Father, the Son,

  121. the Holy Spirit. And I was like, Oh yeah, what

  122. have you been thinking about? The Father, Son, the Holy

  123. Spirit? And she said, I've been thinking

  124. that actually we just, we just worshipped 3 different gods.

  125. I was like, the whole Christian history has been thinking about

  126. it. And they would say you're a

  127. heretic Della. So I pulled over and I made her

  128. walk home. I didn't, I didn't do that.

  129. I didn't do that. I didn't do that.

  130. But I just just what watch this. Here's here's the Catechism of

  131. the Catholic Church. Even our Roman Catholic brothers

  132. and sisters say the Trinity or God the Trinity is 1.

  133. We do not confess 3 gods della we do not confess 3 gods, but

  134. one God and three everybody say Persons, one God and three

  135. persons. And the Holy Spirit is the

  136. proper name of the third person of the Holy Trinity.

  137. Now it's not just our Roman Catholic brothers and sisters on

  138. the other side of the aisle all the way over with the Assemblies

  139. of God friends. Joseph, your people, our

  140. assembly of God's friends say in in their catechism quote, the

  141. Holy Spirit is a divine everybody say person Co equal

  142. with God the Father, Co equal with God the Son, and of the

  143. same nature. He is a person, not a thing or

  144. mere influence. If you don't like catechisms or

  145. you don't like theology, here's CS Lewis.

  146. Lewis is talking about the Trinitarian nature with the

  147. Father, Son and Holy Spirit, and particularly the Father's social

  148. life with the Son. How the Father loves the Son and

  149. the Son loves the Father. How the Father delights in the

  150. Son and the Son delights in the Father.

  151. And Lewis goes on to write what grows out of the joint life of

  152. the Father and Son. So their love and delight in one

  153. another. He said it was so profound and

  154. thick that that delight stands forth not just as an emotion,

  155. but as a person. What goes out of the joint life

  156. of the Father and the Son is a real person.

  157. It's in fact the third of the three persons who are called

  158. God. And this third person is called

  159. in technical language, the Holy Ghost or the Spirit of God.

  160. Here's here's what I'm saying. The Holy Spirit is personal.

  161. So my big question for you this morning is I know you can

  162. articulate who the Spirit is. I know you can say some stuff

  163. about the Holy Spirit. My question for you is, do you

  164. know the Holy Spirit personally? You're going to love us.

  165. About a year ago, I, I overheard my 4 year old and six year old

  166. son and daughter arguing in the room next to me.

  167. So I did what every good parent does.

  168. I eavesdropped, right? I heard them.

  169. I heard them arguing. And so I went to the corner and

  170. I was about to walk into the room and I thought, you know,

  171. I'm just actually going to lean up against this corner and I'm

  172. going to listen to what they're arguing about.

  173. And Della was saying, no, Russell, he, he doesn't, he

  174. can't. To which Russell diplomatically

  175. and gently, but still forcefully said, you're wrong, Della.

  176. He can, you've just never seen him do it.

  177. So I'm, I could have, I could have walked into the room and

  178. answered whatever argument it was they were having about me.

  179. I didn't want to do that though, so I just kept on eavesdropping.

  180. So I was leaning against the corner listening to my kids

  181. argue. And then they revealed the

  182. subject about me that they were arguing about.

  183. Della said no Russell, dad doesn't cry, he can't cry.

  184. To which Russell said, yes Della, everybody can cry.

  185. You've just never seen dad cry. And so my 4 year old, she was 4

  186. at the time, she's 5 now. But apparently my my daughter

  187. literally thought of me as an impersonal force that doesn't

  188. even have an emotional life and doesn't have the capacity to

  189. cry, which would hurt my feelings if it weren't super

  190. common. This is the primary way that

  191. most people view their authority figures.

  192. Piaget, a famous childhood psychologist, he said that the

  193. fact that children view their parents impersonally, so they

  194. they tend to view their parents primarily as rule makers,

  195. primarily as need meters and primarily as optical removers,

  196. he said. He said it's actually necessary

  197. for the psychological safety of children to imagine their

  198. parents as impersonal forces. And if they knew that their

  199. parents weren't Superman or Superwoman, they would probably

  200. never develop emotional safety. That's that's natural to them.

  201. And so the fact that your kids view you as an impersonal force

  202. that's just there to meet needs and remove obstacles and and

  203. make rules is actually it's, it's totally normal.

  204. But PJ also argued that if children never mature, if they

  205. just never mature to the point of realizing that their parents

  206. are persons with real wills and real personalities and real

  207. stories and real motivations, if they never mature to the point

  208. of realizing their parents were persons, then their relationship

  209. with their parents would be defined by three things.

  210. Number one, delayed empathy. They would never even think to

  211. imagine that there are emotions going on inside of your head and

  212. heart. That's bad.

  213. That's bad, right? Secondly, shallow communication.

  214. I'll talk to my mom or dad if I need a thing, but that's it.

  215. Shallow communication or third, relational immaturity.

  216. And so as I was leaning against that corner listening, listening

  217. to my daughter adamantly argue that I don't even have the

  218. capacity to cry it, it dawned on me.

  219. That's the same way that I tended to view my dad growing

  220. up. Like I only saw my dad cry 2

  221. times when I lived underneath the roof of his house, and both

  222. of them were huge moments of revelation for me.

  223. The 1st is when my grandfather died.

  224. I remember seeing my dad standing over my grandpa's

  225. casket, weeping. The second one was after my last

  226. high school wrestling match. I remember him bear hugging me,

  227. weeping and telling me that he was so proud of me.

  228. And do you know what I thought during both of those moments?

  229. Both of those moments, it was like being gripped by a new

  230. revelation. I remember thinking, Huh, I

  231. don't even know he could do that.

  232. You know, I don't even know that.

  233. And again, this is the most natural thing in the world.

  234. This is the way that people tend to view all of their authority

  235. figures. Kids tend to see their parents

  236. impersonally. Churches tend to see their

  237. pastors and personally, employees tend to see their

  238. employers impersonally. Students tend to see their

  239. teachers impersonally. Like, I remember when I was a

  240. high school English teacher, I remember one Friday night

  241. bumping into one of my students at Target.

  242. And I swear that student looked like they had just seen a ghost.

  243. And I came around the the corner at Target, like with deodorant

  244. in my hand. And the student like stopped in

  245. their tracks and they were like, dyke, what are you doing here?

  246. I was like, I was like, what? Getting deal?

  247. Like I was like, do you think that I just live at the high

  248. school? And she said, I guess kind of it

  249. just had never even seemed to occur to them that I had a

  250. personal life that existed beyond the scope of their needs

  251. for a teacher. I just lived in the high school,

  252. Some most natural thing in the world.

  253. And so there I was, leaning against the corner of that wall,

  254. listening to my daughter argue adamantly that I didn't even

  255. have the capacity to cry. And it dawned on me, yes, this

  256. is how I view my dad. Yes, this is how I tend to view

  257. my authority figures. But the most important

  258. realization I had was this. I went, oh, that's actually how

  259. I tend to view the Holy Spirit. Like I tend to view the Holy

  260. Spirit as not even having the capacity for personhood.

  261. It's not even having the capacity for crying or being

  262. grieved. Did you know the Bible says that

  263. you can grieve the Holy Spirit or quenched?

  264. Paul says don't quench the Holy Spirit.

  265. Do you know why he says that? Because you can, you can quench

  266. the Spirit, you can grieve the Holy Spirit.

  267. I recognize in that moment that I saw the Holy Spirit the exact

  268. same way that my kids tend to view me as rule maker, as need

  269. meter, as obstacle remover, perhaps as crazy uncle, right?

  270. I go to the Father of the Son if I need something normal like

  271. sanctification or encouragement or growth.

  272. But I go to my crazy uncle Holy Spirit if I need something weird

  273. like speaking in tongues. I tend to view them

  274. impersonally. I tend to view them as gravity

  275. right, you know? You know the way that you view

  276. the way that you view gravity, right?

  277. It's, it's all around us. No matter what we do, it's out

  278. there doing its thing. So I may as well take it for

  279. granted. Do you see the Spirit this way?

  280. He's omniscient, he's omnipresent.

  281. He's everywhere all the time. So why even personally engage

  282. with them? And the reason I'm pressing into

  283. this is because when we see the Holy Spirit impersonally, our

  284. relationship with them tends to be characterized by the three

  285. categories that Piaget already articulated 7 or 8 decades ago.

  286. It tends to be characterized by the late empathy.

  287. It just never even occurs to us that the Holy Spirit has a will

  288. and desires and motives and personhood and in existence

  289. apart from meeting our needs right.

  290. If we view the Holy Spirit and personally, then our

  291. relationship with them tends to be defined by delayed empathy,

  292. by shallow communication. I'll go to the Spirit if I need

  293. something, but absolutely nothing beyond that delayed

  294. empathy, shallow communication, and relational immaturity.

  295. So let me ask you again, do you know the Spirit personally?

  296. I know you can articulate who the Holy Spirit is.

  297. I know that you know the Holy Spirit the same way that you

  298. know a baseball card. You kind of know the stats.

  299. I had like, I had like 300 Ken Griffey junior baseball cards

  300. when I was I was obsessed with Griffey.

  301. I can tell you the stats, right? I had a baseball card

  302. relationship with Ken Griffey Junior.

  303. If you went to Ken Griffey Junior and you're like, hey,

  304. what do you think about cold Eikey?

  305. You know what he would say, who is this your relationship with

  306. the Holy Spirit? You know his stats.

  307. But if you really engage with his spirit and you're like, Hey,

  308. do you know cold Eikey what the Holy Spirit say who in Germany,

  309. this was only a couple years ago.

  310. This was the year 2020. Some theologians did a did a

  311. study, a pretty extensive one, where they wanted to see if they

  312. can make any observations about whether or not the image that we

  313. hold in our mind of God has any sort of quantitative impact on

  314. the quality of our relationship with God.

  315. And this is not going to surprise you.

  316. I think this is just a nice study to hear that kind of maybe

  317. supports traditional historic Christian theology.

  318. So this isn't going to surprise you.

  319. But what they did is they asked the participants to describe how

  320. they viewed God. And based on the image that they

  321. used to describe God, they divided people into two

  322. different categories. There were people over here who

  323. had an image of God as personal, and there were people over here

  324. who have an image of God as impersonal.

  325. And so this is really helpful because right now in new Age

  326. spirituality, it's really trendy and it's really cool to describe

  327. God impersonally, right? To describe God as, you know,

  328. he's just kind of the force behind existence or he's just

  329. kind of the vibe that makes me feel spiritual.

  330. And what this study found is that that sounds nice, right?

  331. Participants said God is that the energy in everything, which

  332. is not wrong, but if that's your only image of the spirit or the

  333. spirit is just the fire that helps me feel spiritual or the

  334. spirit is more of a vibe or force than a person.

  335. All of these things, they sound very spiritual.

  336. You know what the problem is? The problem is that people who

  337. articulated God in their image of God as impersonal, they were

  338. three times as likely to describe their spirituality as

  339. quote, feeling spiritual disconnection, feeling

  340. spiritually detached or struggling with prayer and

  341. emotional connection. And then on the other end, the

  342. people who saw God with personal images like father, son, spirit

  343. helper, friend, they were three times more likely to describe

  344. their spiritual life as quote, having higher spiritual

  345. vitality, showing greater resilience and suffering and

  346. showing more ethical consistency in their lives.

  347. And so like, these aren't surprising findings, right?

  348. Really what the only thing that finding shows us is that if you

  349. see God impersonally, you won't have a relationship with him.

  350. Or that's not surprising. If you see God impersonally, you

  351. won't have a relationship with him.

  352. So let me ask you one more time. Do you know the Holy Spirit

  353. personally? And so like, look, there's,

  354. there's a million different ways that we can press into this and

  355. get some practical application. OK, no, cool.

  356. I kind of struggle with that. OK, what do I do?

  357. So let me just kind of pluck one that I think is interesting and

  358. I want to compel you to try this.

  359. OK, so this week what I want you to do is I want you to practice

  360. making small talk with the Holy Spirit.

  361. Small talk and don't hear what I'm not saying.

  362. I'm a big fan of carving out bigger chunks of time to prayer.

  363. I like carving out 30 minutes or 60 minutes in order to listen

  364. deeply to the Spirit. I just don't want you to start

  365. there. I want you to start by learning

  366. the skill of making small talk with the Holy Spirit.

  367. The problem here is that if you only come to the Holy Spirit for

  368. super intense spiritual sessions once a week on Sunday mornings

  369. where you're like, I'm going to cram, I want a really special

  370. moment with the Holy Spirit. So I'm going to take an hour and

  371. set that aside and just see if I can really connect with the Holy

  372. Spirit, I think that's good. But if that's all you do, you

  373. just try to impatiently cram a whole relationship into an hour

  374. a week. And relationships can't flourish

  375. under those circumstances. And so I think something that's

  376. not really talked a lot about in Christian circles is the fact

  377. that we need to learn the skill of small talk with the Holy

  378. Spirit. So let me let me frame this in a

  379. simple way around a car drive. So this week, when you're in

  380. your car, whether you're driving to work or you're driving to a

  381. friend's house or you're driving back home, I don't care.

  382. I want you to do three things. Every time you hit a stop sign,

  383. I want you to to stop for a second and just pray.

  384. Holy Spirit, enlighten me. Just be open to small talk with

  385. the Spirit. Be open to whether or not the

  386. Holy Spirit wants to say anything or reveal anything to

  387. you during that car ride. Just Holy Spirit, enlighten me

  388. and see what He does. Hypothetically, when you hit a

  389. stoplight, you should have a few more seconds.

  390. So when you hit a stoplight, I want you to pray this Holy

  391. Spirit, search me, write that Psalm 51.

  392. Search me and know me Spirit. Just be open to Spirit.

  393. Is there anything off kilter in my soul?

  394. Are there any sour corners of my heart that need to be sweetened?

  395. Is there any sin I need to repent of?

  396. Is there any gunk in my heart that you want to clean out?

  397. Holy Spirit, search me. And then when you eventually

  398. come to a full stop in the parking lot or in your driveway

  399. or wherever it is you're going, I want you to pray.

  400. Holy Spirit, send me. Begin to view.

  401. Wherever you're walking into your house, you're being sent by

  402. the Holy Spirit. You're walking into work, you're

  403. being sent by the Holy Spirit. You're walking into to Walmart,

  404. you're being sent by the Holy Spirit.

  405. All three of those prayers will form a constellation of things

  406. that we could call small talk. Enlighten me.

  407. Search me. Send me.

  408. Social commentators tell us that personal relationships, they're

  409. not magic. We tend to view personal

  410. relationships as well that just magically clicked or that

  411. magically happened. Social commentators have a

  412. different view. They argue that relationships

  413. aren't magic. They're formed by performing a

  414. series of small concrete social actions.

  415. Well, can I say that again? Small, concrete social actions.

  416. Well, our struggle to form deep relationships isn't because we

  417. were born without the personal relationship gene.

  418. It's not a thing. We are all deeply social

  419. creatures, whether we're aware of that or not.

  420. If we struggle with personal relationships, it's because we

  421. lack practical knowledge about how to give others the kind of

  422. rich attention that we desire to receive.

  423. And so the point of cultivating small talk with the Holy Spirit

  424. is to lay the kindling necessary so that the bigger fire can be

  425. lit at a later time. Does that make sense?

  426. OK, so I want to ask you again, do you know the Holy Spirit

  427. personally or is he just an idea to you?

  428. I'm just going to say what I mean.

  429. And it's the steps on your toes. So be it.

  430. I think the reason why so many people, so many Christians, see

  431. the Holy Spirit as a concept and not a person is because they

  432. don't want the Holy Spirit to be a person.

  433. But that's the problem at the bottom.

  434. It's that we don't want the Spirit to be a person because

  435. persons are time consuming. They make demands on our lives.

  436. They have a will that's separate from us.

  437. If the Holy Spirit is a person, he may disagree with me, He may

  438. nudge me, He may challenge me, He may disagree with me, and he

  439. may have conflicting desires of me.

  440. You know what doesn't do that? Concepts don't do that.

  441. A concept of something you read on a sheet of paper and then you

  442. memorize it to impress your friends.

  443. Concepts make they make us feel superior about ourselves.

  444. They make us feel good about ourselves.

  445. They don't really challenge us. They stay on the page.

  446. Like here's the concept. Do you know what the word

  447. pneumatology means, Jay? Do you know the study of what so

  448. close the study of the spirit? That's a concept.

  449. Say that later today in everyday conversation, I guarantee you

  450. you'll feel better than the other person.

  451. Seriously, say to you say to one of your friends today, hey,

  452. what's your pneumatology, bro? And the way that you'll feel is,

  453. well, I feel better about myself, makes me feel superior.

  454. It makes me feel good about myself.

  455. That's what concepts do. You memorize them and then you

  456. impress people with them. That's not what persons do.

  457. A person demands to be communed with, and if you commune with

  458. the Spirit, that's dangerous. He might ask you to repent.

  459. He might ask you to give up a comfort.

  460. He might ask you to go pray for somebody in a socially awkward

  461. situation. That's why so many of us want

  462. the Holy Spirit to be a concept and not a person.

  463. Pastors are the same way. I want you want to know why so

  464. many pastors struggle with seeing the Holy Spirit as a

  465. person rather than a concept. It's because they don't want the

  466. Holy Spirit to be a person. Oh my gosh.

  467. If the Holy Spirit is personal, he might ask me to set my notes

  468. aside. If the Holy Spirit's a person,

  469. he might He might demand me to lead the congregation in a

  470. direction that's not financially beneficial.

  471. He might tell me to preach a sermon that's not popular.

  472. It's way easier to see the Holy Spirit as a concept on a paper.

  473. And all I do is I explain it to people and we go, Hooray, now we

  474. know what the Spirit is. And that's why so many of us

  475. view the the Spirit as a concept and and not a person.

  476. If the Spirit's real, he might, he might compel me to give my

  477. time and energy to somebody who has nothing to offer the church

  478. and will never even volunteer. That's not time efficient.

  479. But the Spirit is a person and he has a will.

  480. And sometimes he leads us in the direction that we wouldn't go in

  481. our own flesh. Do you know him this way?

  482. Do you know the Spirit personally?

  483. And if your answer to this is no, you're like, man, I have

  484. depersonalized the Holy Spirit. If you have depersonalized the

  485. Holy Spirit, I have really good news for you this morning,

  486. right? If you're like, dude, I've spent

  487. most of my life ignoring the Spirit, grieving the Spirit,

  488. stiff arming the Spirit. If that's you, I have really

  489. good news for you this morning. Here it is.

  490. Jesus died for you. Christ was crucified for

  491. sinners. Amen.

  492. Christ was crucified for sinners while we were yet enemies.

  493. And by grace through faith, when we believe in the gospel, we

  494. receive a million gifts from God, free, free, free of merit,

  495. free of achievement. When you believe in the gospel,

  496. you receive the forgiveness of sins.

  497. That's a great gift, Amen. When you believe in the gospel,

  498. you receive the gift of righteousness.

  499. That's a great gift, Amen. You receive the gift of heavenly

  500. eternity with God. And all of those things are

  501. awesome. They're all great gifts, but

  502. none of them are the greatest gift of the gospel.

  503. The greatest gift of the gospel is not something that God gives

  504. you. The greatest gift of the gospel

  505. is someone that God gives you. God gives you himself.

  506. God's the greatest gift of the gospel.

  507. He gives you the Holy Spirit apart from your good works,

  508. apart from your merit, apart from your achievements.

  509. You get the Holy Spirit and he seals you forever.

  510. That's what makes Christianity so unique.

  511. The unique question of Christianity is not are you a

  512. better person? Every religion asks that

  513. question, right? The unique question of

  514. Christianity is not are you a moral person?

  515. It's good to aim at that. The essential question of

  516. Christianity is not are you a religious person, though?

  517. That's fine. None of those things separate

  518. Christianity from other faiths. The essential question that

  519. Christianity asks is, do you know the Spirit personally?

  520. You know him, Do you walk with him?

  521. Do you make space for him? He could have been corrected by

  522. him. You're all right with being

  523. convicted by him. Do you listen?

  524. Do you allow yourself to be nudged?

  525. Or is it just baseball card stats?

  526. Right? Because like, if your

  527. relationship with the Holy Spirit is just studying, just

  528. thinking, just reading, all of which are indispensable to

  529. relationships, all those things are important.

  530. But what I'm saying is if your relationship with the Holy

  531. Spirit is just reading, just thinking, just studying, what

  532. you have with the Holy Spirit is online dating.

  533. That's what you're doing. You might think you're above

  534. online dating, but if you never commune with the Spirit, that's

  535. all you got. It's long distance relationship

  536. all right. If if it's all reading and

  537. studying and no relationship, then you and the Holy Spirit,

  538. you have never made it past Christian mingles.com you're

  539. still on it. Sorry, Joseph, what was yours?

  540. Christian farmers only that's the one.

  541. If your relationship with the Spirit resembles online dating

  542. more than a lifelong marriage, I just want to tell you there's so

  543. much more for you. If it's all reading, no warmth,

  544. all theory, no embrace, all hypothesis, no spark, all

  545. speculation, no life, I'm telling you there's more for you

  546. in the Christian life. Look at the cross.

  547. Jesus didn't die on the cross for online dating.

  548. He wants a lifelong, personal, warm, covenantal, lived

  549. relationship with you. The Holy Spirit is an on dating

  550. apps. He's not interested in only

  551. being known through his bio. He wants to be known by you.

  552. He wants to be known by you. So let's get to know Heavenly

  553. Father. Yeah.

  554. I just pray that this moment would be a moment where perhaps

  555. we reconnect with your spirit. We tend, I tend to make a ton of

  556. assumptions about the Holy Spirit and just be like, you

  557. know, the Holy Spirit. He's just there for all the

  558. weird stuff, you know, Maybe if I want a prophetic word, I'll go

  559. to him. Or maybe if I want to speak in

  560. tongues, I'll go to him. I want something weird, I'll go

  561. to the Holy Spirit. But otherwise, Nah.

  562. And so, Lord, I just confess that I have treated the Spirit

  563. as a force and not as a person. And so, Lord, I know you forgive

  564. me and I receive that forgiveness, but also would you

  565. just give me the power to live a lived relationship with the Holy

  566. Spirit where I listen and open and nudged by and even even that

  567. word that Reformed people are allergic to feel.

  568. I pray that we would also feel that your Holy Spirit, you are

  569. so relational and social, God the Father, Son and Holy Spirit,

  570. before time even began, before you, Lord, before you ever the

  571. star, the Father was in love with the sun, the sun was in

  572. love with the Spirit, and the Spirit was in love with the

  573. Father. And the Father delighted in the

  574. Spirit, and the Spirit delighted in the sun, and the sun

  575. delighted in the Father. And there was this triune dance.

  576. And that tells me that you did not create us as your image

  577. bearers to just be people who put you under a microscope

  578. inside of you. You created us to bring us into

  579. what the New Testament calls participants of the divine

  580. nature. We're swept up in relationship

  581. with you so that the Father loves the Son, the Son loves the

  582. Spirit, the Spirit loves coal, and coal loves the Father.

  583. We're swept up into that tribe pants.

  584. And so, Lord, would you do that for us this morning?

  585. Soften our hearts, open our ears, nudge us, push us, pull

  586. us, embrace us, hug us, shake us, speak to us, and may we walk

  587. out as people who say yes, I know the Holy Spirit person.

  588. So it's in the precious name of Jesus that all gods being

  589. prayed.