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Luke, The Orderly Account of Truth - Loving Confrontation - Luke 17:1-6

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  1. Welcome to the roots where it's all about Jesus. We

  2. love God, we love people, We reach the loss, and

  3. we make disciples. And one of the ways that we

  4. make disciples is by regularly going through God's words. So

  5. that is what we're going to do. We're going to

  6. be jumping back into a series that we've been going

  7. through titled Luke The Orderly Account of Truth, where we

  8. have been following the carefully investigated account and life of

  9. the ministry life of Jesus. Our hope in the series

  10. is that as we go through God's word we see

  11. the truth is about who Jesus is, what he taught,

  12. what he called us to. That our hope is is

  13. as we look at these different things, that our faith,

  14. our hope would and certainty would be built up in

  15. who God's Word tells us that Jesus is. And so

  16. last week Pastor Greg preached through one of my favorite passages.

  17. If you were here last week, you missed out, so

  18. go check it out online. But it's the parable that

  19. Jesus teaches about the rich man in Lazarus. Now it's

  20. one of my favorite It's not necessarily the most fun passage,

  21. but it is one of my favorite passages in scripture

  22. because Jesus teaches about the certainty and finality of judgment,

  23. but not only that, he teaches about the sufficiency of

  24. God's word to tell us everything we need to know

  25. for salvation. This week, we're going to see Jesus speak

  26. to his disciples about temptations, and not only about just temptations,

  27. about how temptations are sure to come, and Jesus has

  28. a warning for those who would be the reason that

  29. temptations come. Not only that, Jesus is gonna teach us

  30. how we are to treat those who do sin, that is,

  31. by rebuking them and forgiving them. Lastly, not only did

  32. the apostles end up in much need of encouragement after

  33. what Jesus has to say today, but I believe after

  34. today's text, we're going to need a lot of encouragement

  35. to be obedient to the things that He's called us to.

  36. And He's going to do that by speaking to how

  37. a little bit of faith goes a long way when

  38. it comes to obeying everything that the Lord calls us to.

  39. So before we get into today's text, I want to

  40. let you know what we've titled today's message today's message

  41. is titled Loving Confrontation, Loving Confrontation. And so if you

  42. would please turn with me, we're going to be in

  43. the Gospel of Luke, chapter seventeen. We have six verses

  44. to go through, Verses one through six. I'll give you

  45. guys a second of turn there. We also have bibles

  46. for you. If you do not have a bible, please

  47. go grab one so you can join along with us.

  48. It's really important to us that you have God's word

  49. in your lap. That we will have him on the screen,

  50. but I encourage you to also have it open in

  51. your bible. All right, let's reading. And he said to

  52. his disciples, temptations are temptations to sin are sure to come.

  53. But woe to the one through whom they come. It

  54. would be better for him if a millstung or a

  55. millstone were hung around his neck, and he were cast

  56. into the sea, then that he should cause one of

  57. these little ones to sin. Pay attention to yourselves. If

  58. your brother sins, rebuke him, and if he repents, forgive him.

  59. And if he sins against you seven times in the

  60. day and turns to you seven times saying I repent,

  61. you must forgive him. The apostles said to the Lord,

  62. increase our faith, And the Lord said, if you had

  63. faith like a grain of mustard seed, you could say

  64. to this mulberry tree, be uprooted and planted in the sea,

  65. and it would obey you. This is God's word. Let

  66. us pray, Heavenly Father. We just asked that in this

  67. moment you would be with us as we go over

  68. your word, that it would implant itself deeply in rich

  69. soil of our hearts. That you'd be softening our hearts

  70. to hear what we need to hear. That you'd be

  71. correcting our knee jerk reactions or God. I just asked

  72. that right now we would draw near to you with

  73. full confidence, knowing that because of what Jesus did on

  74. the cross on our behalf has made it so that

  75. there is nothing between us anymore, but that we can

  76. come to you as a loving father and a gracious,

  77. sufficient savior. So I just asked you would be with

  78. us help us in this time in Jesus name. Everyone

  79. said amen. So once again titled today's message loving confrontation.

  80. So who loves confrontation? Who loves confrontation? Does anyone here

  81. actually love confrontation? There you go. We got one. How

  82. about no, I do have a follow up question. I

  83. do have a follow up question. Who hears good at

  84. doing confrontation in a loving manner? Okay, yeah, same hand

  85. did not go up. If you do notice the same

  86. hand did not go up. I think that's fair. I

  87. think it's honest, and I appreciate the honesty because I

  88. do not like confrontation. Most people don't. I do not

  89. like confrontation, and honestly, over the last couple of years,

  90. I've been just recently realizing the irony that the Lord

  91. called me into ministry, where a lot of my job,

  92. I'd say a pretty good portion of it is confrontation.

  93. I believe it's not only God's way of being funny,

  94. but it's actually something a little bit more than that.

  95. I believe God's calling me to be obedient in an

  96. area of my own weakness, which is a good thing

  97. because I have to do a lot of relying on

  98. the Lord. I have to do a lot of relying

  99. on his strength because He's called me to do something

  100. that is out of my comfort zone. To say the least.

  101. I've been thinking about it a lot lately, and it's

  102. not completely true. It might, and I say that in

  103. the sense of it might sound more pessimistic than I

  104. mean it too. But I've been I've been pondering as

  105. regards like lots of conversations that I have with people

  106. and being in the pastoral role, lots of people who

  107. want to meet up for coffee and have run things

  108. by you pretty pretty frequently, and I found that being

  109. a pastor is usually one of two things. It's either

  110. telling people something that they don't know and they probably

  111. don't want to hear, or something that they already do

  112. know and they definitely don't want to hear. But either way,

  113. it is something that all of us need to hear.

  114. The answer doesn't change because of who the people are,

  115. but the confrontation has to be had, and so God

  116. calls us to be faithful to do those things. And

  117. I think that not only has this been humbling for me,

  118. but I think as we go through today's text, we

  119. will be humbled. As we go through today's text, we

  120. are going to be humbled because this text is meant

  121. to humble us. He's going to give us a warning.

  122. In this text, He's going to give us a command.

  123. And Jesus is also going to give us an encouragement

  124. that we need to heed. So this text is going

  125. to humble us because Jesus calls out a woe to

  126. those who would lead other believers to stumble and sin,

  127. but he also commands us to rebuke those who do

  128. sin and forgive them every time they repent. Now, I

  129. want to say two things. The first thing I want

  130. to say is my mic is being a little weird,

  131. so it's distracting whatever, It's fine. Okay. Here's the other thing.

  132. I anticipated being a little quiet today, so we should

  133. all be okay with that. It's going to be a

  134. little quiet today because Jesus has some pretty hard hitting

  135. things to say. But I do believe that we need

  136. to sit down, dig in, and listen. So I want

  137. to say those things. Then we're just out there. They're done.

  138. No one has to bring those comments to me later.

  139. We already know them confronting. I'm confronting a future confrontation

  140. right now in this moment. All right, Okay, So this

  141. text is going to humble us because it's going to

  142. expose who we put first. Are we more interested in

  143. loving ourselves or loving others? We see this in our

  144. text today. Verses one and two we see Jesus call

  145. out those who would cause others to sin. And in

  146. verse three and four we see Jesus call us to

  147. confront those in sin. So let's look at it starting

  148. in verses one and two, and he said to his disciples,

  149. temptations to sin are sure to come, but woe to

  150. the one through whom they come. It would be better

  151. for him if a millstone were hung around his neck

  152. and he were cast into the sea, that he should

  153. cause one of these little ones to sin. So, I

  154. think the thing that's very important for us here is

  155. Jesus says something that we need to hear loud and clear,

  156. and that is that temptations are sure to come. Temptations

  157. are sure to come. No one is exempt from temptation.

  158. Temptation is a sure thing in this earthly life. Someone, something,

  159. even maybe your own flesh, will lead you, tempt you

  160. and cause you to sin. Many of us might even

  161. be wrestling with temptations right now. But the good news

  162. is that we are not hopeless against against temptation, because

  163. we are told this in God's Word. On Corinthians ten

  164. twelve or thirteen, it says, therefore, let anyone who thinks

  165. that he stands take heed lest he fall. No temptation

  166. has overtaken you. That is not common to man. God

  167. is faithful and he will not let you be tempted

  168. beyond your ability. But with the temptation, he will also

  169. provide the way of escape that you may be able

  170. to endure it. This is a great verse to put

  171. in your back pocket. We were just talking about this

  172. at the Men's breakfast this morning. This is one of

  173. those verses that are super important, one of these promises

  174. to hold on to when times of temptation come. Because

  175. the one thing that Satan wants the Christian to believe

  176. is that you are powerless to the temptations that are

  177. coming your way. That's the one thing that Satan wants

  178. you to know. He wants you to think that you

  179. are powerless to the temptations that are coming your way.

  180. But here God's word refutes that and says God always

  181. provides a way out that's really really useful knowledge that's

  182. really really useful in our fight against temptation. What that

  183. means is that in the midst of your temptation, we

  184. shouldn't be focused on the raging fire in front of us.

  185. Should be looking for the exit sign when we're struggling,

  186. and when we're wrestling, when that temptation comes up, and

  187. I'm like, I don't know if I can take this

  188. one on. You're supposed to look for the exit sign.

  189. Don't dwell on it. It's gonna engulf for you, it's

  190. gonna take you over. But instead be looking. All right,

  191. God said there's a way out here, So I'm not

  192. gonna get caught up in what this is, but I'm

  193. gonna go searching for this way out. And it's good

  194. news to know that there is an exit. He gives

  195. it to us. Jesus says temptations to sin are sure

  196. to come. But then he has something to add, and

  197. this is where things start getting heavier. He says, but woe,

  198. which is a pronouncement of judgment on the one through

  199. whom they come. He says, it would be better for

  200. you to tie a millstone around your neck and be

  201. thrown into the sea, for you to cause or then

  202. for you to cause one of the little ones to stumble.

  203. And that's not just speaking about children, but it's talking

  204. about children of God's family. That's believers, that's Christians. And

  205. I think sometimes we forget how hardcore Jesus is. It's

  206. one of the things that's helpful about us is going

  207. through books of the Bible. We don't see that passage

  208. that Jesus has something hard. We're like, oh, I'm just

  209. gonna we'll save that one for another time. You know,

  210. when no one shows up the church, well that's when

  211. we'll preach that one. But we get to go through

  212. God's which makes us be confronted with what Jesus has

  213. to say to us. I mean, you think about it,

  214. we forget really how hard core Jesus is. Most of

  215. the time. We think about Jesus and we're like sunshine, rainbows,

  216. unicorns and only smiles. That's the Jesus I know. That's

  217. the Jesus I follow. Then you read your Bible and

  218. you find that Jesus is kind and he is loving,

  219. but he also take seriously his mission to not lose

  220. any of those that have been given to him by

  221. the Father. Jesus uses intense language all of the time.

  222. How about the time where he told you to gouge

  223. out your eyes rather than lust after other people, because

  224. it's better to go to hell blind than to enter

  225. fully seeing. Time he told you to cut off your hand.

  226. If it's going to cause you to sin, better to

  227. enter Heaven maimed, then go to hell fully intact. Okay, Jesus.

  228. And it needs to be said here that Jesus is

  229. using hyperbole and what that is is it's just intense

  230. graphic imagery to get the bigger point across. And we

  231. need to note this because he actually uses it in

  232. this text multiple times, especially at the end. Jesus says,

  233. it's better for you to be at the bottom of

  234. the lake than for you to call a child of

  235. God to stumble or sin. Not even a lake, a sea.

  236. It's much deeper than most lakes. So the question would

  237. be is like, do we take that seriously? Do we

  238. take that seriously? When Jesus uses this an intense graphic imagery,

  239. do we take it seriously? Because how often are we

  240. the result of leading others into sin? I have examples

  241. that could be slander and gossip? Do we lead others

  242. into slander and gossip? Maybe our vulgar, crude, filthy, obscene

  243. talking or joking are causing others to stumble and lust

  244. in how we dress, trying to make others envious and

  245. jealous with our life by what we put on social media,

  246. Maybe in what we teach our children to prioritize over Jesus.

  247. Maybe in our self control when it comes to social

  248. gatherings and what we drink, our encouragement to others for

  249. medical substances that we say it is fine to use

  250. as a recreational purpose, maybe committing fornication by sleeping with

  251. someone who isn't your spouse. We could just go on

  252. and on. And this isn't the only thing that I

  253. believe that this text is speaking to. This text isn't

  254. just also saying you causing others to sin. But I

  255. fear today much of our problem as a church, and

  256. this is a society, is that of comforting people in

  257. their sin. It's not as much as causing sin for

  258. other people, but it's comforting other people in their sin.

  259. It's crazy. You can hear get quieter and quieter and quieter.

  260. Not only do we cause people to sin, but we

  261. comfort them in the sin that they're already in. Leading

  262. people astray by telling them it's okay instead of rebuking them. Instead,

  263. we choose to love ourselves instead of them, by avoiding

  264. a tough conversation because we don't want to maybe ruin

  265. that friendship, or worse, what if they call out my

  266. hypocrisy and doing the same exact things. I think many

  267. of us think along the lines of if I expose

  268. it in them, well then I would be exposed also,

  269. so we choose not to all together. It's just much easier.

  270. We comfort people in their sin instead of calling them

  271. to stop sleeping with their boyfriend or girlfriend. We're like, oh,

  272. it's finding guys are basically married anyways, instead of calling

  273. out the destructive beliefs of our world that has not

  274. only adults, but adults encouraging mutilation of children, and we

  275. are like, ah, that seems like a lot for me.

  276. I don't want to put my hand to any of that.

  277. So it's easier for me to say, well, I'm not

  278. really informed on the subject. Well I don't really know.

  279. You do. You follow your heart, but it's a lie.

  280. What they're doing is wrong. So we end up complicit

  281. in their sin, and not only that, but at times

  282. encouraging them in it. A lot of these things are

  283. not just problems that we find in the world, because

  284. we go like, yeah, sure that happens in my workplace.

  285. I just kind of keep my mouth shut, head down.

  286. But it happens on our churches, in our families. We

  287. should never be the cause of someone else's temptation to sin.

  288. Jesus is showing us the severity of that. We should

  289. never comfort someone in their sin. But instead Jesus shows

  290. us what we are to do, which is we're not

  291. to be those who cause or comfort others in their sin,

  292. but those who confront and cover with forgiveness other people's sin.

  293. So we see in verses three and four says, pay

  294. attention to yourselves, Pay attention to yourselves. If your brother sins,

  295. rebuke him, and if he repents, forgive him. And if

  296. he sins against you, catch this seven times in a

  297. day and turns you seven times saying I repent, you

  298. must forgive him. Jesus, pay attention to yourselves, Pay attention

  299. to yourselves. Don't tune this out. Keep your eyes open

  300. and your hearts ready for this. He says. If you

  301. see a brother in sin, that's not just brothers, also

  302. sisters too. If you see a brother or sister in sin,

  303. what are you to do? Rebuke him? And if he repents,

  304. what are you to do? You are to forgive him?

  305. This is something very important for us to remember, because

  306. all of us are sinners. I don't know if you

  307. know that all of us are sinners. We all wrestle

  308. with many issues, we are all the cause of a

  309. lot of sin. But in God's household, what we have

  310. to remember is that we are redeemed sinners. Those who

  311. can come to God because of what Jesus did on

  312. the cross. Those who can come because what Jesus did

  313. by taking the punishment for our sin. And it's not

  314. just yesterday's sin, but it's our sin from the past,

  315. it's our sin in the future. Jesus took all of it.

  316. He took the wrath and the punishment do our sin

  317. on himself, and instead gave us his righteousness. Instead gives

  318. us grace and mercy. He gives us a righteousness that

  319. is not our own. And this amazing gift is for

  320. anyone who would repent of their sins and put their

  321. trust in Jesus. Those who do will be saved from

  322. the wrath do their sin and instead being made a

  323. son or daughter of God. And what's better is you'll

  324. be given eternal life. So everyone who's put their faith

  325. in God in Jesus Christ is a part of God's Church.

  326. We still struggle and sometimes lose the battle with sin,

  327. but God always forgives us because He won the war

  328. in Christ. This is really important for us to remember.

  329. We have to remember what Christ did on our behalf

  330. the forgiveness that God gives us because of what He

  331. calls us to do. In this text, he says to

  332. rebuke those who are in sin, and when they repent,

  333. you are to forgive them. But he ups the stakes,

  334. which is pretty crazy. Actually, he's not like, hey, if

  335. that one person does the same thing seven times in

  336. the same year, go ahead and think about forgiving them.

  337. He doesn't say that. It's not even seven times in

  338. a month. It's not even seven times in a week

  339. once a day. It's seven times the same day. And

  340. if you're anything like me, it's probably the same sin

  341. seven times. Someone sends against you and then says, I

  342. missed it. I'm sorry, I repent, Please forgive me. You

  343. are to forgive them, now, let's be honest. That kind

  344. of takes guts to do. That takes guts to forgive

  345. someone like that. But we still need to back up

  346. because not only does it take guts to forgive, but

  347. especially in today's society. It takes guts to rebuke someone.

  348. We don't that, we don't do that, we don't really

  349. like to do that. And if we do, the vast

  350. majority of how we confront someone is what I like

  351. to call keyboard confidence. It's I can say whatever I

  352. finally got up the gumption. No you didn't, No, you

  353. didn't say it to their face. Don't text them, don't

  354. text them, say it to their face. Apologize for what

  355. you need to apologize for. Rebuke them for what you

  356. need to rebuke them for a dude in person. It

  357. takes cuts. I think it's important. One of my favorite

  358. verses right now, Like I said, this is something I've

  359. been going through myself, so I've been processing, so I

  360. need lots of verses to cling onto to kind of

  361. help me to remind me of the purpose and the

  362. importance of rebuking. And it's Proverbs twenty seven five through six,

  363. and it says this better is an open rebuke than

  364. hidden love. Faithful are the wounds of a friend, profuse

  365. are the kisses of an enemy. Our world is a

  366. complete opposite of this text. We would rather keep our

  367. mouth shut, let people walk off the Cliff, then speak

  368. the truth and love to those we see headed for destruction.

  369. How many times do I know the right things to

  370. say and I just don't say it. How many times

  371. do I not tell my friend the truth because of

  372. my fear of hurting them. Even if you're gonna do

  373. it in love, I still go like, there's no way

  374. they could possibly receive this. Well, and here's the deal.

  375. That's just true. I've said it before. No one likes

  376. to be told they're wrong, And if you do, I

  377. would love to meet you because that sounds cool. I

  378. guess I don't know, like that sounds like a superpower.

  379. I love being told I'm wrong. But when I don't

  380. do that, it makes me someone who doesn't show my

  381. love to them, but someone who actually hides my love.

  382. My real care for that person is hidden. And what's

  383. worse is I'm treating this person I claim to love

  384. like an enemy. I'll flatter them with kisses, Oh you're good, dude,

  385. you're fine, but never warn them about the oncoming train.

  386. How can I call that love? This goes back to

  387. what we were talking about at the beginning. The text

  388. humbles us and should be a challenge and should be

  389. challenging the way we interact with others around us. Do

  390. I do the wrong thing of causing or comforting sin?

  391. Because I love myself more than I love them. I'd

  392. rather save face and just have them not be mad

  393. at me. Most of the time, that's my inclination. I'd

  394. rather just be like, oh sorry, I can't see you,

  395. I can't hang out with you, And we end up

  396. just not only do we avoid the problem, but we

  397. end up avoiding the person. Jesus tells us here that

  398. we need to stop loving ourselves and start loving others.

  399. That's what it's really gonna take, killing our love of self,

  400. casting it into the ocean with a millstone around its neck.

  401. And instead we're called to start sticking our neck out

  402. for other people by loving them, by telling them the

  403. truth once again in love. And we do this all

  404. for one purpose, not to start the salem which one

  405. of you is a sinner trial, but to seek the reconciliation,

  406. to seek the repentance, to seek the restoration for the

  407. one who's going astray. James five, nineteen through twenty. One

  408. of my favorite passages of the scripture says, my brothers,

  409. if any if anyone among you wanders from the truth

  410. and someone brings him back. Let him know that whoever

  411. brings back a sinner from his wandering will save his

  412. from death and will cover a multitude of sins. We

  413. rebuke people in love because we want to see their salvation,

  414. not so that we can stand in pride and tell

  415. everyone I've told you so. I just needed them to

  416. get to admit it so I could see, so they

  417. would know, so everyone like would see how bad they are.

  418. It's not why we rebuke people. It's not why we

  419. call out people's sin. We're to actually love the person,

  420. rebuke them in their sin in hopes that we would

  421. see reconciliation. That is our hope. And what Jesus says

  422. here is not just a one time thing, because that

  423. once again, we sin all the time, and we ourselves

  424. need the grace and forgiveness to cover us all day

  425. every day from God. We need grace from God every

  426. single day because we sin against God every single day,

  427. every single day. And guess what, it's so much more

  428. than seven times. It's so many more times than seven

  429. and He forgives us straight up. So why would we

  430. think we don't have to extend forgiveness to other sinners

  431. who sin against us every single day, multiple times, probably

  432. more than seven. Most of the time, it's because all

  433. of us want grace for ourselves but justice for others.

  434. That's our default mode. Give me grace, but give them justice.

  435. But if we're willing to accept unending grace from God,

  436. then we better be ready to give it to others.

  437. And if you wrestle with gladly taking forgiveness for yourself

  438. but struggling to give it to others, I would point

  439. you to the parable of the unforgiving Servant. It's in

  440. Matthew eighteen. I'm not gonna read it here today, but

  441. you should go read it. It's good. It's really good. Yeah,

  442. it will help my guarantee you. But that parable, actually,

  443. interestingly enough, I didn't know this until I was in

  444. my study today, is off the back end of Jesus's

  445. instruction to his church about church discipline and calling others

  446. to repentance. So I actually think it's really fitting and

  447. that we actually are gonna look at because I think

  448. it's gonna be very helpful for us. We're gonna see

  449. that Matthew eighteen fifteen through seventeen, Jesus teaches us how

  450. we are to rebuke someone in sin. He gives us

  451. the pattern and order for how to rebuke someone in

  452. sin that first were to bring the issue to the

  453. person and they repent. That's it. Awesome, problem solved. Sounds good.

  454. But Jesus gives us this cool case study that if

  455. I were to come to someone and say, bro, you're

  456. missing it, let's get this in line, and they're like, Nope,

  457. not gonna do it. I'm not in the wrong, I'm

  458. perfectly fine. Everything's great. Jesus gives us this cool case

  459. study for the unrepentant person, and what we're to do,

  460. let's read this is if your brother sins against you,

  461. go and tell him his fault between you and him alone.

  462. If he listens to you, you've gained your brother. But

  463. if he does not listen, take one or two others

  464. along with you. That every charge may be a stafublished

  465. by the evidence of two or three witnesses. If he

  466. refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church.

  467. And if he refuses to listen even to the church,

  468. let him be to you as a gentile and a

  469. tax collector. So Jesus says, he lays out here that

  470. there's a sin issue between you and someone else, you

  471. and another believer, you're you're not to go tell everyone

  472. else about it first. Jesus kind of gives us this

  473. template here for pretty much the exact opposite of what

  474. we do every single time. If I don't run to

  475. go tell everyone else about it first, I run a

  476. church leadership to tell them about it. And good church

  477. leadership will say, oh man, and how did they respond

  478. to you when you brought it up to them? Because

  479. first Jesus says, if you have an issue with someone,

  480. the first bring person you should bring it up to

  481. is that person. First person. Now, if they're unrepentant, still okay,

  482. Now you can start bringing in other people. If they

  483. still don't repent, you go to the church. And most

  484. often that's the thought of as the church leadership. You're

  485. bringing them in. Once again, you're still not like, you're

  486. not like, hey, church, I need to let you all know,

  487. and I need all you know, like you're going to

  488. get the church leadership and you're bringing them right because

  489. we're still the point here is still reconciliation. That's the point,

  490. that's the heart. It's not slander, it's not gossip. Well,

  491. you want to see our brother or sister reconciled. If

  492. they're still if they still won't repent after all of that,

  493. we're to treat them as an unbeliever because they're unrepentant

  494. in their sin. If they are not repentant, they're acting

  495. like an unbeliever. Christians repent all the time. And honestly,

  496. if you want to like a pro tip, not that

  497. I'm a pro, but if you want to pro tip

  498. on how to grow in your Christian walk very fast,

  499. just start confessing everything. Find someone and just be like,

  500. all right, you're the guy, you're the lady, and I

  501. need someone to know all of it other than God,

  502. and I'm just going to I need a person who

  503. knows everything, and confess it and get good at it.

  504. Not get good at sitting, but get good at sitting

  505. and then messing up. That's the second part you need

  506. to do. You need to get good at confessing the sin.

  507. Do it fast. Don't let it sit, don't let it fester,

  508. don't let it rest. Deal with it instantaneously. You will

  509. feel freer. You will feel more hopeful because you were

  510. letting go. You're no longer holding on to that thing.

  511. You're confessing it. All of this to say again, the

  512. point of rebuking someone's sin is not to ruin their

  513. life make them look a fool. Although that would feel

  514. so good, they might feel so good. That's how we feel, right,

  515. that's not the good part of us. That's not the

  516. good part of us that wants them to look like

  517. that and to everyone to know like, you know what

  518. I mean, like I start turning into awakens. That's not

  519. the that's the you know, flesh monster. That's whatever it is.

  520. You know, it's not good. That's not the point. The

  521. point is to call them to repentance and restore your

  522. brother and sister. Honestly, I think if repentance is done right,

  523. your relationship should be better with that person afterwards. It

  524. might not be immediately. You know, wounds are our friend

  525. still kind of a little bit of a wound, but

  526. it was meant out of love. We're trying to take

  527. out that part that was trying to hurt you. We

  528. got to take out that part that was trying to

  529. consume you. When they were repent, we are to forgive

  530. as the Lord forgave us. That's the standard. That's why

  531. we have to remember that as soon as you start

  532. feeling unforgiving, like you don't want to extend that forgiveness,

  533. you have to look at the Gospel. You have to

  534. look to Christ. Clautions three twelve through thirteen says this

  535. put on then as God's chosen ones, holy and beloved,

  536. compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another.

  537. And if one of you has a complaint against another,

  538. forgiving each other. As the Lord has forgiven you, so

  539. you also must forgive. We love because He first loved us.

  540. And here we're also called to forgive because He's also

  541. forgiven us. So to summarize, Jesus warns those who would

  542. be the cause of stumbling or comfort of sin and

  543. other another believer's life. He warns those people don't do that,

  544. and instead he calls us to confront and to cover

  545. the sin of a believer's life. That is our hope,

  546. to confront and to cover it. Now, I know that

  547. that's a lot, and this is heavy, and a lot

  548. of this honestly might feel like it's kind of impossible.

  549. And I don't blame you, because I believe that's exactly

  550. how the apostles felt when Jesus was telling this or

  551. telling them this, because let's look at our last two verses,

  552. and I need the bandy come up please, Verses five

  553. and six, the apostle said to the Lord, increase our faith.

  554. You ever had that moment, You ever had that time

  555. in your life where like maybe you read a Bible

  556. verse or you get confronted with something and you're like,

  557. I'm gonna need more faith for that. The apostle said,

  558. the Lord, increase our faith. And the Lord said, if

  559. you had faith, like a grain of us would seed,

  560. you could say to this mulberry tree be uprooted and

  561. planted in the sea, and it would obey you. That's wild,

  562. that's crazy. The apostles reply with, increase our faith. Now,

  563. how many of us feel that very same cris We've

  564. gone over today's text for forgiveness, the call to rebuke

  565. others and sin, the call to not be the reason

  566. that others sin, to not be a comfort of someone's sin.

  567. I think, indeed we're crying together increase our faith now. First,

  568. this text also sounds like Jesus is calling out their

  569. lack of faith, and I do think that that's part

  570. of it. I do think upfront Jesus is kind of

  571. calling out their lack of faith, but I also believe

  572. that Jesus is answering the request. In this response, he

  573. tells them, if you had faith like a mustard seed,

  574. you could do the impossible of telling a huge tree

  575. with deep roots to uproot itself and go plant itself

  576. in the sea. Uses this graphic imagery. I have a

  577. mustard seed. You guys, ever seen a mustard seed? I

  578. see them mostly on hamburger buns. They're small. They're very,

  579. very very small. Mm no, that sessame, Isn't it all right?

  580. It's fine, it's all right. I don't know. Maybe it's smaller.

  581. It's probably smaller. It's fine. I didn't read that in

  582. a commentary. It's all right. You guys don't have a

  583. mustard seed. Bone we talked about. Guys, you're the weird ones.

  584. Don't worry about it anyways. It's a really small seed.

  585. It's probably small like that. It's small, it's small. It's

  586. a small, small seed. That's what Jesus is trying to say,

  587. if you had faith like any type of really small seed,

  588. Jesus tells his disciples that they could tell a tree

  589. to uproot itself and go plant itself in the sea. Jesus,

  590. you have the faith of that size, you could do

  591. the impossible. In other places, that says you could tell

  592. a mountain to be cast into the sea. Jesus is

  593. here using dramatic language again to paint you a picture

  594. of what you just a little bit of faith could do.

  595. If just a little bit of faith can do the impossible,

  596. then surely the faith you have is sufficient to do

  597. what he has called you to do. Jesus tells them

  598. a little faith can do the impossible. If they were

  599. given a warning and a command to do something that

  600. definitely is more possible than a treat uprooting itself, definitely

  601. more possible than a mountain's being thrown into the sea.

  602. But to them it felt impossible. To us, it might

  603. feel impossible. Forgive them every single time, don't be the

  604. reason or comfort of anyone else's sin, Cover their sin,

  605. rebuke their sin. That could feel impossible. But if just

  606. a little bit of faith can do something that is impossible,

  607. how much more could their faith through the things that

  608. are possible? And Jesus shows us as possible. He did

  609. it to us, He's forgiven us. He does it every

  610. single time become and drawn near to him. To this

  611. should magnify and grow our faith, just in the fact

  612. that a little faith goes a long way. So whatever

  613. faith you have, put it to use to do the

  614. things that God has called you to do. And I

  615. believe that if you do that, you will actually walk,

  616. you'll watch Him work through you in ways that you

  617. thought were impossible at one point. I know that there's

  618. many areas, there's many sins in my own life. I'm like,

  619. I don't know if I'm overcoming this one. I don't

  620. know if I'm ever going to get this thing underneath

  621. my thumb. I don't know if we're ever going to

  622. get this thing dealt with for sure. And it's something

  623. that I don't feel ruled by anymore. That's something I

  624. don't feel controlled by anymore. I got good at looking

  625. for the exit. I got good at trying to trust

  626. him and what he said over what the sin and

  627. temptation is trying to tell me in that moment. A

  628. little faith goes a long way, and that's going to

  629. go for every area of our life, every impossible situation,

  630. trial and temptation, confusion, chaos, all it takes is a

  631. little bit of faith. We see in first John five

  632. to four, we're told, for everyone who has been born

  633. of God overcomes the world. That is really good news.

  634. It's awesome, and this is the victory that has overcome

  635. the world. Our faith and why is that. It's not

  636. because our faith in and of itself is the thing,

  637. but it's because of who our faith is in. That's

  638. the same one who said in John sixteen thirty three,

  639. Jesus says, I've said these things to you that in

  640. me you may have peace. In the world. You will

  641. have tribulation. But take heart, I have overcome the world.

  642. So any sin, any situation that we find ourselves in,

  643. we can put our faith in Jesus, who has overcome

  644. the world, who has overcome every tribulation. So you today,

  645. to every single one of you, I would say, take heart,

  646. put your trust in God to not only be saved

  647. and given a new life, but put your trust in

  648. God to live out this new life He's given. You.

  649. Don't be the reason or cause for others to stumble

  650. and sin. Don't comfort them in their sin, but you

  651. just to remember that sin that they're in only wants

  652. their destruction and death. Just like it only wants your

  653. destruction and death. And the greatest thing that someone could

  654. do is pull you from that fire. The greatest thing

  655. that someone could do is tell you the trains. The

  656. greatest thing you could do is tell them the truth

  657. about their sin, and we also need to receive that

  658. for ourselves. It will also help us be less mad

  659. when someone tells us something that we don't want to hear.

  660. To go okay, you will have my best interest in

  661. mind here. And even if they're not doing it perfectly,

  662. thank god someone's doing it. Called to die to ourself instead,

  663. lay yourself down in love for them, tell them the truth,

  664. rebuke them and their sin, do it in love, seeking

  665. their reconciliation and repentance, and forgive them every time they repent,

  666. just like the Lord does for you. And you've been

  667. failing in these areas, or maybe you've yet to even

  668. come to know Jesus as Lord, I have good news

  669. for you. You can come to Him in repentance and

  670. find forgiveness in Jesus says in First John one nine.

  671. It says, if we confess our sins, he is faithful

  672. and just to forgive us, to forgive us our sins,

  673. and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. So my encouragement

  674. to you today, on top of all the other things

  675. that Jesus said to do, is to come to him,

  676. find forgiveness, trust, and cling to him with a little

  677. bit of faith that you do have, because it's more

  678. than enough, because He is more than enough. Would you

  679. guys please stand to your feet.