Sermon
The Overflowing Christian — John 7:37-52 (06.07.2026)
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Good morning. Our scripture reading today is going to come from the book of John, chapter 7.
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Please remain standing as just a way of honoring the reading of God's Word.
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So John chapter 7, starting in verse 37. On the last day of the feast,
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the great day, Jesus stood up and cried out, If anyone thirsts,
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let him come to me and drink.
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Whoever believes in me, as the scripture has said, out of his heart will flow rivers of living water.
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Now this he said about the Spirit whom those who believed in him were to receive.
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For as yet the Spirit had not been given, because Jesus was not yet glorified.
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When they heard these words, some of the people said, This really is the prophet.
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Others said, This is the Christ. But some said, Is the Christ to come from Galilee?
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Has not the Scripture said that the Christ comes from the offspring of David
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and comes from Bethlehem, the village where David was.
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So there was a division among the people over him. Some of them wanted to arrest
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him, but no one laid hands on him.
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The officers then came to the chief priests and Pharisees who said to them,
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Why did you not bring him?
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The officers answered, No one ever spoke like this man.
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The Pharisees answered them, Have you also been deceived?
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Have any of the authorities or the Pharisees believed in him?
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But this crowd that does not know the law is accursed.
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Nicodemus, who had gone to him before and who was one of them,
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said to them, Does our law judge a man without first giving him a hearing and learning what he does?
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They replied, Are you from Galilee too? Search and see that no prophet arises from Galilee.
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This is the word of the Lord.
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All right, you can have a seat. Good morning, everybody. Go ahead and turn in
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your Bibles to John chapter 7.
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If you brought a Bible and if you didn't bring one, I think we're going to have,
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we'll have the scriptures on the screen. While you're finding your way to John,
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chapter 7, verse 37 is where we'll be starting. Pray for us one more time.
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Father, I do now pray for this sermon and that you would grant me the words that you want me to say.
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And I pray that you would grant to every person here, the ears to hear what
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you want us to hear, and that you would, by your spirit, bring about transformation and life,
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breathe life into us through your word in Jesus name. Amen.
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All right. So you may be familiar with a story in Luke's gospel of Mary and Martha.
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And it's a pretty famous story. You have Jesus and the disciples are passing
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by Martha's hometown and Martha invites them in and she prepares a meal for
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them. She shows them hospitality.
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And her sister Mary is sitting at Jesus's feet, listening to him.
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This is Luke chapter 10, it says, Mary sat at the Lord's feet,
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listening to his teaching.
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And then Martha gets upset about this. Martha's working hard to try and, you know, be a good host.
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And Mary's just sitting at Jesus's feet, listening to him.
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And Martha goes to Jesus and is like, will you tell my sister to get up and help me?
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And the Lord replies to Martha, Martha, Martha, you are anxious and troubled
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about many things, but one thing is necessary.
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One thing is necessary.
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Mary has chosen the good portion, which will not be taken away from her.
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I want you to have that story in the back of your mind today.
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It's relevant for the point of this sermon and this text.
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Last week, we had guest preacher, my good friend, Ben Whittinghill from Vermont,
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and he covered the first half of John chapter seven, and he ended with the verses
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that we are starting with this morning, where Jesus stands up at the Feast of
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Booths in front of this big crowd on the last day of the feast,
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and he cries out in a loud voice, if anyone thirsts, let him come to me and drink.
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And then he says, whoever believes in me, as the scripture said,
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out of his heart are going to flow, will flow rivers of living water.
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That's the main text that we're looking at. And then the remaining portion of
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the passage is really the response to that, to what Jesus said.
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It says everybody kind of wrestling with it.
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And what I want to argue this morning and show you is one that we come to him
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and drink, yes, when we first believe in him.
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So many, if not most of you in this room have believed in Christ.
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You have come to him. You've believed the gospel. You've put your trust in him.
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And so you have done that. You have believed and therefore you've received the
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Holy Spirit. I want to argue though,
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that's not the only application of this, that the first time that we come to
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him in belief is not the only application of this, that we continue with our
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thirsty souls to come to him and drink.
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So that's one thing I want to share from this.
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The other is that then there's a result, right?
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That rivers of living water will flow from your innermost being.
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That's what happens when we come to him and drink. And I want to show you that.
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That's not just like a feeling or that's actually something that you can know
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is happening or not happening in your life.
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You actually should be able to recognize when this is happening.
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So I'm going to go ahead and tell you sort of the main idea of my sermon.
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So you know where I'm headed. And that's this, The Spirit of God fills believers with the life of Christ.
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As we continually come to Him and drink so that the grace and truth of Christ,
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overflow from them to others.
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That's the main point. That's a lot of words, but I'm going to unpack that for
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us. So the Spirit fills believers with the life of Christ as we continually
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come to Him and drink so that their life overflows with the grace and truth of Christ to others.
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So point number one, drink deeply.
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Drink deeply. Look at verses 37 through 39.
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So on the last day of the feast, the great day, Jesus stood up and cried out,
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if anyone thirsts, let him come to me and drink deeply.
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When Jesus speaks, he's almost always quoting Old Testament scripture or referencing
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scripture or he's fulfilling scripture.
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So I want you to keep that in mind, not just today, but anytime that you read the gospels.
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When you read the gospels on your own and Jesus speaks, if you're familiar with
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the Old Testament and as you become more and more familiar with the Old Testament.
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Your mind should be linking almost everything that's coming out of his mouth
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to something from the Old Testament scriptures because he is fulfilling them.
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He is full of them. He is, remember who Jesus is. He is the word of God incarnate.
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He is the word with human flesh on.
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So when he speaks, think, is this connecting to something in the Old Testament?
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Keep that in mind. And so when Jesus says, if anyone thirsts,
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let him come to me and drink, he is doing just that.
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And his hearers would have likely connected that to multiple places in the Old Testament.
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One of those would have likely been a very famous verse in Jeremiah 2,
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13, where the Lord, he's rebuking his people because they have forsaken him.
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And he calls himself the fountain of living waters. Sound familiar? Living waters.
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So here's this passage in the Old Testament that they would have thought of.
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And so just as Jesus brought this up, if you were with us when we went through
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John chapter 4 and Jesus had the encounter with the woman, the Samaritan woman
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at the well, he is telling her,
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in that encounter with the Samaritan that he is the fountain of living water, that he is the water,
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that he can provide the water to her that will ultimately satisfy her soul.
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So that's one place that they could have gone. And there's another place they
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would have likely also connected to Jesus's words, which is a well-known passage in Isaiah. Isaiah 55.
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Starts with this, Isaiah 55, one, come everyone who thirsts come to the waters.
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So just as God, Yahweh, the old, old Testament God, who's the same God invited
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thirsty people to come to him and drink.
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Now Jesus, the word of God in flesh stands up at a public feast and cries out,
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inviting thirsty people to come to him and drink.
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And last week, Ben talked about the fact that he can say that because of who
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he is, because he is God. And so when we come to him, he is what we are thirsty for.
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He's the one that our souls are thirsty for.
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What I want to do this week, what I want to focus on this week is that at the
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ground level, tomorrow morning, Tuesday, Wednesday, this whole week. How do you do that?
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Like, is this just some vague concept or is there a way that we're,
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that we are taught in the scriptures to come to him and drink?
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How do we do it? Well, first thing we need to know.
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Is verse 38. It says, whoever believes in me.
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So the first thing that we do is we come to him and drink by believing in him.
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We believe that he is the one who fulfills the Old Testament.
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We believe that he is the one who came and he died in our place on a cross,
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that he took our sin and our shame, that he rose from the dead on the third
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day and that he ascended to heaven.
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So we believe that's where we start.
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When we believe, the Bible says that we pass from death to life,
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that the spirit of God comes to dwell within us.
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And as I said, for the majority of you, that's already happened. You have done that.
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You have believed in him. You have been connected to the life of God.
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The Spirit of God, has come to dwell inside of you.
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So, as Christians who have believed, who have received the Holy Spirit,
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how do we continue to come to Him in faith and drink to satisfy our thirsty souls?
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The next couple of verses in that passage in Isaiah 55 that Jesus would have
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been pointing to with His invitation at the feast, they are very helpful.
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Listen to how the Lord told Israel to come to him and drink.
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Isaiah 55.2, listen diligently to me.
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And eat what is good, and delight yourselves in rich food.
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Verse 3, incline your ear and come to me, hear that your soul may live.
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Isaiah 55 could not be any clearer. The way we come to the Lord,
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the primary way that we come to the Lord and drink is by listening to him,
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by inclining our ears to him, by listening.
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It means more than just hearing his word read aloud, right? I mean, like, we all know this.
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If parents say this all the time, when their kid doesn't obey,
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right? When their child doesn't obey, we say, we don't say, well,
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you just didn't hear me. We say, no, you weren't listening, right?
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And that means more than just that the sound went into your ear.
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It means that you heard it, you received it, and you acted upon it.
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And that's what the Lord is saying. Listen to me. This is how you come to me if you're thirsty.
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Listen diligently to me.
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We come, and here's the point. Let me just say it as clearly and plainly as I can.
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We come to Christ by his spirit through the word.
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This is the primary way we come to him and drink.
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In his word, we see him, we hear his instructions to us, we learn to trust him.
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This is his communication. A relationship requires communication,
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and the Bible is his primary means of communication.
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You cannot have a relationship with God divorced from his word.
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Yes, there are other ways that we see his glory. The word of God says the heavens
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declare the glory of God. We do.
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We experience interaction and communion with God in other places.
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Yes, absolutely. Absolutely, but primarily it happens through the word of God.
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That's why our services are structured the way that they are.
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That should be what we see from beginning to end.
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We begin with a call to worship from God initiating. We want to hear what he has to say.
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We sing songs that are saturated with the scriptures. We pray the scriptures.
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We preach the scriptures. We hear and respond to the scriptures.
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John Piper says, and I agree with him, a relationship with God happens most
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fundamentally by the Spirit through the Word.
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So that's the invitation. Come to Him and drink. We are always thirsty.
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We are always thirsty, whether we recognize it or not, but we don't always come to Him and drink.
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Our souls are thirsty for the refreshing waters of the Word,
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and often we do turn to empty things that cannot satisfy.
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That could be entertainment. It could be our ambitions. It could be sinful pleasures.
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It could be distractions to numb ourselves.
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But whenever we find ourselves, and if you've been walking with the Lord for
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very long at all, you know you are going to find yourself in places where you
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feel, we might say the words dry, spiritually dry. What is that?
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Always, always beneath a dryness, beneath a lack of zeal and passion and love for the Lord.
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Always there is a famine of the word of God. Always.
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You're not reading it or you are reading it, but you're not chewing on it.
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You're not meditating on it. You're going through the motions.
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I have found myself in that place so many times where I might be going through
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the habit, but I'm not listening diligently, right?
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And so we find ourselves in that place because we've been thirsty,
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but we haven't been drinking.
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Psalm chapter one is a beautiful Psalm.
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Just this picture of the blessed man or woman, the happy man or woman is who?
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Is the one that meditates on the word of God day and night. And then it gives this picture.
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They're like a tree planted beside a stream of water and it bears fruit and
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its leaves do not wither.
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In every season. Because why? Because even when there's a drought or it's.
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Out of season, its roots are going down deep into the soil and drawing up water from that stream.
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And that's a picture of the blessed life or the happy life.
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It's those who are drinking deeply from the word.
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In John chapter six, Jesus had said, the words that I've spoken to you are spirit and life.
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The words that I've spoken are spirit and life. Here's what we know.
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In order to know Jesus, we must know his word. And I would say you will never,
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never, never know Jesus better than you know his word.
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Because this is the revelation of God. It's the revelation of God to us.
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So this is the first step. We must come to him and drink and drink deeply.
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And as we do, as we drink deeply, we feel our hearts become full and then can overflow to others.
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And that's point number two, that those with full hearts are able to overflow to others.
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So he says, whoever believes in me, as the scripture has said,
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out of his heart will flow rivers of living water.
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This he said about the spirit whom those who believed in him were to receive.
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So those who drink deeply from Christ and from the word in relationship with
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Christ will experience what Jesus is talking about.
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They'll have rivers of living water. So most Bible scholars,
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commentators believe that what Jesus is referring to when he says this rivers
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of living water, he's referring to,
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a prophecy in the book of Ezekiel, in Ezekiel chapter 47.
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And Ezekiel gets this vision of the temple. And remember the temple was the dwelling place for God.
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And so he sees the temple and out from beneath the throne or out from beneath
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the temple, there is this stream of water that's flowing out.
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And this river that's flowing out from the temple is everything that it touches
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flourishes. So trees begin to flourish and bear fruit on both sides of the river.
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And it says that the fish that are in the water are flourishing and multiplying.
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It's living water that's giving life to everything that it touches.
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That's sort of the picture, right? So let's not overthink this.
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So Jesus is saying that if you come to me and drink, and I'm arguing that this
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is something we actually actively continue to do as Christians,
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not just one time when we believe the gospel,
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but we continue to come to him and drink primarily through interaction with him in his word,
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the result will be that the spirit will cause rivers of living water to flow from us.
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What are those rivers of living water? It is the life of Christ himself.
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We'll get more and more specific, but it is the life of Christ himself. How?
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Okay. He said this, John makes this little, this little note,
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right? A little narrative note in verse 39.
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Now this he said about the spirit whom those who believed in him were to receive
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for as yet the spirit had not been given because Jesus was not yet glorified.
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When he says, because Jesus was not yet glorified, what he means is he had not yet gone to the cross.
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The cross and his death on the cross and burial and then subsequent ascension
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to heaven was all his glorification.
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It was like his coronation. So that hasn't happened yet. And so the spirit had
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not yet been given. If you're familiar with the story, then after he ascends
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into heaven, It's seated at the right hand of the father.
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Then Acts chapter two, the church is in prayer and waiting. And what happens?
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The spirit is poured out on the church at the day of Pentecost.
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It is a moment in redemptive history,
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a marker in redemptive history that's now forever true, that the spirit is given
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to the church, to all who believe in him, who put their trust in him.
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So now we are the temple of God.
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God is no longer dwelling in a temple made with human hands in Jerusalem.
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He now dwells within the hearts of believers. years.
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And so when we believe in him, we receive the Holy Spirit, we become the dwelling place of the Lord.
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And that means that we carry God within us.
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That means that as Jesus lived and had an incredible impact everywhere he went,
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that we are able to because he indwells us.
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He lives in our hearts. His life and power flow through our veins.
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And can come out of us. Proverbs tells us that the heart is the center of who
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we are. And not just Proverbs, but scripture testifies to this elsewhere.
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That's like our center point. Proverbs 4, 23 says, keep your heart with all
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vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life.
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This is likely another place that Jesus is pointing us to. Your heart is like the spring of your life.
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Everything in your life is a pointer to what's in your heart.
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So when Christ's life and power are in you because of the indwelling spirit,
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you have the ability to be a blessing to others through a contagious joy in
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the gospel, through encouraging words, through godly counsel,
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through love and through service.
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If you want to assess the health of your heart, look at the blessing or lack
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of that you are to those around you.
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But this passage, as I was reading this again and again, I began to see this
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passage is really highlighting the words that come out of our mouths.
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The words that overflow from our hearts,
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as jesus said out of our mouths let me just show you what i'm talking about here verse 40
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when they heard these words okay so this whole section verse 40 begins with
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this is all in response to,
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words that came out of jesus's heart,
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and they're they're responding,
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also in verse 40 some of the people said.
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So now they're hearing his words and now words are coming out of their mouths.
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They're making professions of some kind.
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Verse 41, others said, but some said.
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There's all these responses and people are speaking. Verse 45,
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the chief priests and Pharisees said.
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You see what I'm saying here? You have, they're responding to his words and
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then they're speaking in overflow based upon whether or not they are listening to his word.
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Some believe, some are searching and considering believing, right,
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they're wrestling with it.
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Some do not believe, but all of their hearts are overflowing with words that
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reveal where they are. Do you see that?
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And look at what the officers say about Jesus in verse 46.
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No one ever spoke like this man.
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They don't, while this would have
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been true, what they don't say is no one was ever as nice as this man.
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No one was ever as thoughtful as this man. No one ever served like this man.
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All of those things would be true.
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But the point of this passage, and I'm going to hopefully explain why,
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is that the primary way that you see what is within your heart is through the
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words that come out of your mouth.
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And the primary way that they were able to identify that no one was like Jesus,
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was because of the words that came out of his mouth.
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No one ever spoke like this man.
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And these officers could not bring themselves to arrest him because of it.
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So when we talk about overflowing to others, yes, it will involve love,
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service, contagious joy, encouragement. Yes, yes, yes.
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But the primary way is what comes out of your mouth because words build worlds,
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because this is a word built world that we live in.
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God spoke and it came to be. He holds everything together, every molecule and
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atom by the word of his power.
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So when we drink deeply from the word and his spirit unites with the word and
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our hearts are full because we've been drinking deeply, it overflows from our hearts,
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primarily through words.
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And that brings us to our final point, testify to the scriptures.
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Verses 47 through 52 are basically these religious rulers claiming to use the
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scriptures to show that Jesus was not the Messiah.
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And they're trying to say, the Messiah is not gonna come from Galilee and he lives in Galilee.
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The Messiah is gonna come from Bethlehem. They didn't know that he was born
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in Bethlehem. He's fulfilling all of this Old Testament prophecy.
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And even though these Pharisees, these religious rulers knew much of the scriptures,
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they do not have the Holy Spirit. And so they do not have the word filling their hearts.
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If they did, they would have known. Isaiah 9, verse 1 through 2 says,
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The land beyond the Jordan, Galilee of the nations, the people who walked in
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darkness have seen a great light.
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Those who dwell in a land of deep darkness, on them a light has shone.
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Scriptures had prophesied that Galilee would be among the first people to see
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the great light shining in the darkness, the great light of the Messiah.
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And so even though these religious leaders knew many of the scriptures,
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they did not have the Holy Spirit indwelling them because they did not believe
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in Jesus and therefore they missed it.
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They could not see what was clear.
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I want to ask you a question for you to think about. When you think about,
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if I said, so-and-so is a spirit-filled person, what does that mean in your mind?
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What comes to mind? If I say, that person is spirit-filled or that church,
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let's say somebody says, yeah, I know
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about that church. That church is spirit-filled. What comes to your mind?
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Is it, as some people might think, like charismatic gifts or a person who dreams
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dreams or has a lot of experiences with God?
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What comes to your mind when you think of a spirit-filled person or a spirit-filled church?
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Thursday, I was up at, I like to go different places to try and prepare my sermon.
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And Thursday I was up at Webbridge Park and I was sitting in one of those pavilions
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at a picnic table working on my sermon and I kept hearing this guy behind me.
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I just like hear bits and pieces of things he was talking to other people.
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And he sat down at one of the other picnic tables and I heard a joy in his voice and I,
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looked over at him and I was watching him and I saw this light in his eyes And
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I asked him if he was a believer because I thought this guy's,
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I think this guy might be a believer. Sure enough, he was.
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His name was Roy, 69 years old.
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And Roy immediately began to tell me about how the Lord saved him when he was 18 years old.
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And after telling me his story, how the Lord has saved him, he started talking
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about the Lord and scripture flowed out of him effortlessly.
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And I mean, as I'm sitting there with him, talking to him, listening to him,
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I'm thinking, this man is an embodiment of exactly what I'm writing my sermon
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about, what this passage is about.
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He started, he's talking, he's connecting pieces of scripture.
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He starts singing in the middle of the conversation.
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I would love to give my impression, but it would be brutal.
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That's only for Tiffany. She got to hear it. But he starts singing about the
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name of the Lord is a strong tower and those who run to him are saved.
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And he starts talking about the death and resurrection and ascension of Christ. He's just testifying.
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And then he goes to, he starts talking about the church and how the church was
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born in Acts chapter two. And he starts quoting Joel two from Peter's sermon at Pentecost.
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And he starts quoting this long chunk from Peter's sermon at Pentecost.
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And I, in turn, I shared with him what I was studying in John chapter seven.
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And I told him, I said, man, you are like the embodiment of what I'm talking about.
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I said, can I use you as an example in my sermon? He said, yeah,
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yeah, yeah. I tried to respond and give him encouragement from the scriptures.
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And even though I only spent maybe 15 or 20 minutes with Roy.
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I, when we parted ways, my soul felt refreshed.
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You know, it's because rivers of living water were flowing from his heart,
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overflowing out of his mouth.
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And I was just sitting there drinking.
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And my interaction with Roy is I believe that's really the picture of the spirit filled life.
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I'm not you know not downplaying anything any other yes god god is amazing and
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he does work in incredible and mysterious ways but this this y'all when you
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think of the spirit-filled person,
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this is what we should think of it's the person who is who is spilling the word,
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testifying to the word in a conversation they say that makes me think about,
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this, and they point to the word.
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The spirit-filled life is never detached from the scriptures because the spirit
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who fills believers tethers believers to the revelation of God himself and his
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instructions to us in his word.
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Spirit-filled life is what Colossians 3.16 beautifully communicates.
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Colossians 3.16 says, Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly.
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Now that's the drinking. That's the drinking part.
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And then what happens? Teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom,
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singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs with thankfulness in your hearts to God.
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Can you imagine a church, be it ever so small, that did that?
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You know, that in all of our interactions, the word of Christ was so richly
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dwelling in us that it was overflowing in our conversations such that we could
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teach and admonish one another.
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This back and forth edification and building up of our faith.
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That is the Spirit-filled life, rivers of living water flowing from our hearts.
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The Spirit and the Word are always in unison.
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John Calvin famously said, For by a kind of mutual bond, the Lord has joined
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together the certainty of His Word and of His Spirit.
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And we get ourselves into trouble when we try to separate the two,
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when we, you know, we take, we try to experience all kinds of spiritual things
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apart from the guiding and directing of the word.
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Or when we try to study the word and know the word apart from the empowering
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and teaching of the spirit.
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So when we have rivers of living water flowing from our hearts,
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we're not merely sharing opinions, emotions, or even,
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just kindness alone, the Spirit takes the word dwelling richly in our hearts
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and sends it out of our mouths to give life to others like Roy did for me on Thursday.
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If you trust Christ, then you've been given his spirit and you have access to
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his word. His life and power are available to you.
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Come to him and drink deeply, so deeply that your mind is transformed,
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renewed, and such that it overflows from your mouth.
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Let me close by bringing us back to John 7.
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And the officer's testimony about Jesus.
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No one ever spoke like this man.
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No one ever spoke like this man because no one ever lived so full of the spirit and the word.
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Jesus interpreted his entire life, every experience through the lens of scripture
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so that his words, his actions, responses to testing and his identity were constantly
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shaped by the scriptures.
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When Jesus was tempted, Scripture came out. It is written.
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When Jesus taught, Scripture came out. When he explained his mission, Scripture came out.
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When he suffered, Scripture came out.
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When he died, Scripture came out.
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When he met with his disciples after his resurrection, Scripture came out.
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Truly no one ever spoke like this man because no one ever lived so saturated
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with the word of God as the incarnate word himself.
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And we have him inside of us. Let's pray together.
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Lord, thank you for these truths.
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Lord, thank you that you have given us your spirit, that your spirit dwells
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within us. And thank you for your word that we can come to you and drink deeply.
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Lord Jesus, you yourself said, man shall not live by bread alone,
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but by every word that comes from the mouth of God. And even when you said that,
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Lord, you were quoting Deuteronomy 8.
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You are always spilling out the word.
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Lord, would you make that true of our church?
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That we would be a church that lives by every word that comes from your mouth.
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And that when we are tested, when we are tempted, when we rejoice,
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when we encourage others, when we give counsel, when we give comfort.