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Arise: The Life and Ministry of Tabitha - 10 May, 2026
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Strong and courageous, do not be afraid, do not be discouraged,
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for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.
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So said Joshua to the children of Israel as they were ready to
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go into the Promised Land. Now y'all he and Caleb were it.
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The rest of the generations had not trusted the Lord and had
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spent 40 years walking in circles till they died off.
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Joshua of anybody had reasons to lack some courage.
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He had some reasons to be worried because his people had
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already shown them they weren't faithful.
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But this generation learned from their parents mistakes, and so
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they sent spies in, and the spies went to Rahab.
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Rahab. We call her a prostitute or a
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harlot, and may well have been, but the word also means
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innkeeper. So before we disparage her too
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much, we might just say she was a working woman when other women
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weren't. And as Rahab takes in the spies,
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she is acting with kind hospitality, but she is also
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acting with thoughtfulness for her family, as we will see.
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And so we'll stay on rehab for just a second more.
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She hides those spies. She lies for those spies, and
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she sends those spies over the side saying, you keep your
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promise to me. I have been kind to you.
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Now you be kind to me. And I want to say that as we sit
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here together on Mother's Day now, we want to think about what
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does it mean to be kind? Because I feel like if you only
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watch TV, you get rather one-dimensional kind.
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Sweet Mamas. But most of us are deeply human.
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I was laughing this morning preparing to preach the sermon
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on kindness, and my child asked me to deal with a spider not
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once but twice. And I'm running behind.
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And I stopped being kind because I was like, come on, I got to
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get things done, not be Jason spiders.
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And I was like, oh, look at that.
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So parenting shows us very quickly what is happening in our
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real hearts. And so the moms of our church
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are helping me with this message or some of the moms.
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And so I want to read to you what mom in our church has said
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that parenting has taught me that we need to model kindness
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for others. And sometimes that means we are
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kind when others are not. And that's hard.
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It's hard to be kind when someone else is not.
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And sometimes in those moments, we have to be kind for our
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children because they are watching how we handle
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difficulties more than how I was just telling them that they need
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to be kind. Rahab modelled hospitality to
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those spies so that they would have a model of being hospitable
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to her when they came in violence.
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And as a mom, sometimes you're having to extend a kindness you
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do not have. But I'll also say sometimes as a
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child you are extending A kindness to your parents that
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you don't feel you have. And we want to think about today
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all the complexities that are a part of human interaction and
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that that's real. That is much more real and
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honest than just the feel good moms are great because as a mom,
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I can say I'm sometimes not great.
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I've looked at my child and said I'm an equal opportunity
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screamer. OK, When you say that, you know,
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as a Mama, you've lost it in that moment.
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And So what I'm going to say is we as moms are also deeply human
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and deeply need the kindness of God in helping us be better.
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And we also need to extend that to all the different ways of
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being human. So Rahab is not our focus, but I
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want you to have Rahab in your mind as we look now.
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In Acts Chapter 9, as Peter travelled about to the country,
Acts 9 chapter mention
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he went to visit the Lord's people who lived in Leda, where
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he found a man named Aeneas who was paralysed and had been
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bedridden for eight years. Aeneas, Peter said to him, Jesus
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Christ heals you get up and roll up your mat immediately.
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Aeneas got up and all those who lived in Leda and Sharon saw him
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and turned to the Lord. When we act in the kindness of
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God, not just the person, maybe our attention is focused on
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others are impacted. In Joppa there was a disciple
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named Tabitha. In Greek her name is Dorcas.
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She was always doing good and helping the poor.
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About that time she became sick and died, and her body was
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washed and placed in an upstairs room.
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Lita was near Joppa. So when the disciples heard that
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Peter was in Lita, they sent two men to him and urged him, Please
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come at once. Peter went with him, and when he
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arrived he was taken upstairs to the room.
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All the widows stood around him crying and showing him the robes
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and other clothing that Dorcas had made while she was still
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with them. Peter sent them all out of the
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room. Then he got down on his knees
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and prayed. Turning towards the dead woman
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he said, Tabitha, get up. She opened her eyes and seeing
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Peter, she sat up and he took her by the hand and helped her
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to her feet. And then he called for the
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believers, especially the widows, and presented her to
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them alive. This became known all over Joppa
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and many people believed in the Lord.
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Peter stayed in Joppa for some time with a Tanner named Simon.
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Now, Peter, has anybody ever been tired and maybe too tired
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to be kind? You cannot be asking me for one.
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You know, friends and family don't have crises on our cycles
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of energy schedules. Crises just happen and somebody
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just calls. And you're like, I could help
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you better in a little bit, but right now isn't a good time.
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That's not how crises work. So with Peter, here is what we
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have. He healed Aeneas that Peter had
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been doing, he had been doing in Jerusalem.
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Peter seems confident. But let's also think about
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Peter. We've looked at him several
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times in the last few weeks. Peter had experienced the
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kindness of Jesus to restore him after the betrayal of
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friendship. So Peter had walked with Jesus
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and seen his healing ministry, but he had also experienced the
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kindness of God. Then he heals Aneus.
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He gets asked. He was enjoying these people.
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There was a moment to be enjoyed here.
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But people come and they invite him to Joppa.
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And so he goes and there he is literally life giving to
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Tabitha, but he is also life giving to that church.
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If you notice in this church there are two people named,
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there's Dorcas Tabatha, she had, see, she was intercultural.
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She had an Aramaic name and she had a Greek name.
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Do any of you have more than one language names?
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My name is Ellen. My sign name is E Over the
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Heart. And my name in a community that
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I was a part of as a child was Elena.
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So I have three names and a few nicknames that aren't worth
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saying here. So she was just like that.
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Now I also want to say I don't know what your Sunday school is
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like, but my Sunday school telling of her had her sweet and
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easy. But the truth is, is that she
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was generous and kind and that church history and understanding
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of this was close to the coast. It's that she's probably a
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businesswoman, too. How else could she have been
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generous with the clothes if she did not have the resources for
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that end? So she's an intercultural
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businesswoman. And we have to suspect that she
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and Simon were leaders in the local church.
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Otherwise why are they getting named in the New Testament?
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They were known by the other people in the church and so
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Peter is infusing into this community what they needed,
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which was life giving. Now I want you to think about
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actually being Peter. Peter had seen Jesus do this,
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but up until now, Peter had not been a part of bringing anybody
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else back to life. This is an act of courage, of
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faith. Peter had known people who had
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died. Peter had seen Jesus heal his
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mother-in-law, heal all the people we read about in the New
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Testament. And Peter had known that he had
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called Lazarus out of the grave. He had known Jesus himself was
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resurrected. But many if you go back and you
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read, I believe it's Luke 7 where Jesus heals, brings back
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to life the daughter of Jarius, the synagogue ruler verses the
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verbs, everything is parallel. Why?
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Because G Peter learned from Jesus how to be kind and how to
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have the courage to call out someone into a life giving
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stature and return to life. Resuscitate her.
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This isn't her resurrected body. This is a resuscitation.
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She would die again. Also in Peter's courage to be
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kind, to go from one place where things were looking good for him
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with Aeneas and Lita to Joppa because the disciples asked for
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help. Many in both regions were coming
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to know Jesus. And also, if we kept reading, we
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would find that Peter's courage had him in the place he needed
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to be when Cornelius the centurion had a dream, because
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he's in Simon, Simon the Tanner's house when Cornelius's
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men were. Cornelius had a vision sent for
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Peter, and there he goes in all of Cornelius's house.
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And so I just want you to see in this story, there is courage to
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be life giving for other people. And it may take you places you
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didn't expect to go and energy you didn't expect to have.
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And so I also want us to look at what some of our moms said for
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this. The way we treat our kids shapes
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their concept of kindness. Oh my gosh, I know that.
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And yet this morning, I'm impatient about spiders.
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What's wrong with me? Love and kindness are
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intertwined. If a Mama is having to work for
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that to sometimes be true to the children who are most precious,
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how much more true is that for somebody we think is an adult
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and should be competent and should be acting better
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themselves? And so the way we treat other
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people says more about how we understand God and how His love
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and kindness is intertwined into our life than it does to the
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recipient of our kindness or the lack thereof.
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Peter went and did these things that changed Aeneas and
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Tabitha's life and the widow's lives and the church and Simon's
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life and Cornelius's household and the people that accepted him
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in this whole region because he knew Jesus.
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And Jesus's love and kindness and the power of that spirit
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were intertwined in him. And so if there is a roommate
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you're having trouble being kind to, or a sibling or a cousin or
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a parent or a neighbor, that's real.
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I'm not dismissing whatever they've done.
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I'd probably agree and get righteously indignant with you.
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But the kindness of God and His love intertwined in our life
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allows us to be a model of the grace of God.
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Not just Mamas to parents, children, but you to those all
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around you. Now Peter is not the only
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courageous person in our story in Acts, we also have Dorcas
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Tabitha. Now, this is from a 4th century
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funeral box, basically, and I just want you to think she had
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the courage to be kind. Now, the business woman in her
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would have business people who would say, well, they need to
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work hard and make their own money.
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Why are you helping them? All right.
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And then have you had friends who've been widowed?
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Probably not yet. Many of you.
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When people are in deep grief or loss, they're not always
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pleasant to be around. And when people have fear of
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their future, they're a little bit clingy.
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You're asking? It's not always fun.
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Widows in this society were often struggling because there
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were limits on what they could and could not do.
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And so Dorcas and or Tabitha, I go back and forth with her name.
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It's the same human. She had to have the courage to
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be kind. You know, it sounds like it is
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beautiful and easy. Michaela Yoon.
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Our Michaela Yoon is probably one of the most consistently
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kind humans I've known in my entire life.
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Michaela Yoon, do you know that she sits in court cases?
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And here's the worst of humanity as she translates for people who
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have committed crimes. She is kind not just because
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God's wired her, but because the Spirit of Jesus allows her to
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sit for work in the worst things humans do and then pray for them
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and just want them to have justice.
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In my mind, I have Torque as Tabitha's character, kind of
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like Michaela, where it there's so much kindness that you forget
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the courage and the strength and the depth that is behind that.
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And I would wish for each of you to know Jesus's love and have it
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so intertwined in your being that you would be known for
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doing good and being generous. Now do you see my little blue
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circle? This was in the 3rd century, so
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it was about 300 years after this story.
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But the story is aware of the diversity of Joppa and so I
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wouldn't know this if some other specialist hadn't told me.
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But do you see the little cap? Dorcas is the one in the bed
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with the hand on the head. Do you see how the shorter widow
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with the has like a hat on? This is a Phrygian cap.
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Why does that even matter? Well, let me say why it matters
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because it was a different people group it they weren't
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hers. And yet she is extending
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kindness beyond just her community and the kindness of
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God our Lord came for all the nations.
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And here is an example of the early Christians deeply
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understanding that our expressions of the love and
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kindness of God extends beyond who we think of as our people.
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So when Acts 936 says in Joppa there was a disciple named
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Tabitha in Greek her name is Dorcas.
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She was always doing good and helping the poor.
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There was a extension, there was a reputation that could be
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summed up in this. Now let's talk about the other
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couraging pieces that are there. The disciples who went and asked
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Peter to come had to have some courage.
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And what they do is that they go.
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They were sent, admittedly, but they go and said please come at
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once. There is faith in that, yeah,
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she's already dead. Why is he saying please come at
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once? There is courage to ask for help
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now. But people in the ancient world
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were much closer to death than people in our modern world.
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They knew the dead people didn't usually rise again.
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They knew that sickness could be immediate and deadly.
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They sent for Peter's help and then Peter asked the Lord for
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help in the healing because we come down where he sent
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everybody out of the room. He didn't want to show or a
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three ring circus. He's also modeling what Jesus
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had done. He's following his teacher's
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example. And then he got down on his
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knees and he prayed and he looked and he said get up.
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She opened her eyes and seeing Peter, she sat up and he took
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her by the hand and helped her to her feet.
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And then he called the believers.
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So there is the asking of a Christian brother, and then
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there is the asking of the Lord. And the Lord granted that.
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Now we can go the next one. What does this mean?
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I want us to come back to Rahab and I want us to read This is
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verses from Joshua 2. Now then, please swear to me by
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the Lord that you will show kindness to my family, because I
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have shown kindness to you. Give me a sure sign that you
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will spare the lives of my father and mother, brothers and
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sisters and all who belong to them, and that you will save us
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from death, our lives for your lives.
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The men assured her if you don't tell what we are doing, we will
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treat you kindly and faithfully when the Lord gives us the land.
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This story with Rahab is happening about 1400 years
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before the story of Tabitha. Tabitha's story is about 2000
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years before us. But what I want to say is that
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Rahab. Extended a kindness, Rahab
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received a kindness. And actually, if we can follow
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rabbinical tradition and trust it, Rahab ended up marrying one
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of these spies. So they weren't just kind to
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her. There was some actual pragmatics
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in her family life that shifted. But what I want to say is that
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we have examples. Rahab, at the time of the
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telling, was not a mom biologically, but functionally.
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She was looking to be life giving to others.
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You know, that is what Eve's name means, giver of life.
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And do you realize that whether or not you're a parent, we all
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can choose to be life giving. But to be life giving to others
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takes courage. It takes energy and it takes
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walking with the One who is love and kindness himself and will
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show us how now. Rahab was looking to preserve
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their lives, but she changed the trajectory of her family's
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knowing God, not just staying alive.
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Tabitha and Dorcas, same person, just don't know which name.
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You're like, I'm just going to stick with Tabitha from now on.
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She was living out and being kind because that was an
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expression of her faith. The doing good Ephesians, we
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have the same word for the believers are equipped for every
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good work. You are already ready for these.
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You are already doing these in many ways.
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It's just sometimes we think, well, if I do too much, they
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won't learn to help themselves. Well, I'm just so depleted.
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Oh, I don't want to be around people that give off those bad
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vibes. I need to be around positive
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people. And we have a litany of reasons
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that we distance ourselves. Now I am not saying don't have
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good boundaries, but I believe that the Spirit of Jesus often
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calls us to be kind, to do good well beyond what would seem
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logical to our society and you. I'm realizing I missed one
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parenting slide that I didn't mean to.
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I had a couple in there. But in all of this, there was a
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theme is that parenting helps the moms in our church realize
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it is a choice, it is a modeling, and it is not easy.
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So if it is not easy for your kids that actually you love, how
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much harder is it for peers? And yet that is what we have
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been called to. All right, Christine, And so I
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want you to think about the cycle of kindness.
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Jesus came as the presence of God on earth Incarnate to show
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the kindness of God. And he, very pragmatically, as
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I've already mentioned, show this to Peter.
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And as he showed it, he restored Peter into intimate relationship
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as Craig preached around do you love me, Feed my sheep.
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And now we're getting to see Peter do some of this feeding
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the sheep and we see Dorcas coming back to life.
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But also realize this cycle I, let's be honest, Canva didn't
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have a picture for the all over the place kindness that the
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Gospel and Acts show. Jesus was kind.
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Jesus's spirit had given kindness to Tabatha and now
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she's giving it to the widows. The widows are giving it back to
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her by having the people go get Peter.
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Peter is showing kindness to the widows and Dorcas.
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There are cycles of kindness and you don't always know who
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benefits from the fact that you are kind to someone today and
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they learn from how you are kind and then it goes to someone
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else. Y'all this week I got to the
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doctor's office 5 minutes late with the parkade.
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Then my phone credit card wouldn't be read read.
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And then I realized I didn't have my wallet and then I was
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like I'm going to get not get my appointment.
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I really needed this appointment.
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And I go to the security guard and I'm like, where can I pay
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that? I'm not underground.
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And I'm like by this point, not crying but almost crying.
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And y'all, he was about your age and I just thought he's going to
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be like, that is your problem. But you know what he did?
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He tried a few things and they didn't work.
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And he went in his break room and he said just wait for me.
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And he brought his credit card. Y'all, he didn't know me from
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Eve. I did.
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I did E transfer him, but he didn't know I was going to do
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that. He he works right across the
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street from where you work and I need to introduce you Aiden
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because I need him to come to know Jesus too.
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His kindness made me patient when I got to the reception.
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And she was not kind because I was now 20 minutes late instead
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of 5 minutes late. And I would have usually been a
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little bit short too, because she was being short.
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But I had just experienced extraordinary kindness and it
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changed how I behaved. And it put me in a cycle of
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kindness and in spirit of prayer for this young man.
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And you can be just like this security guard who was this
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week. And So what I want to say, if
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you think a Mama has superpowers of kindness, you are wrong.
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Mamas just have more practice at getting their kindness tested
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because sometimes Children Act the fool and you don't feel
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patient and kind. And so you asked Jesus to help
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you live into cycles of kindness.
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And then it does not matter the biology of whether you are a
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parent or not, you become a life giver because you are treating
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people the way their Heavenly Father would have them treated.
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All right, Our book that we are reading has an excellent
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reminder that kindness is not these grand big things, but that
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the best portion of a good person's life is the little
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nameless, unremembered acts of kindness and love.
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It's the seat you give to somebody on the bus that isn't
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ancient. It is the sharing a cough drop
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when somebody's coughing in class.
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Whatever the spirit prompts you to do, you do not have to
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understand why we were at a prayer breakfast this week and
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somebody robbed Nash. You can go watch him online if
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you haven't, because he's got a big, exciting, amazing story of
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how God's restored his joy. But in it, he was working with a
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teenager who was despairing of life and had already attempted
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on his own. And he said, part of it is you
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just have big emotions. Look around, Do you notice
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anybody? And he goes, well, yeah, I'm
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kind of wondering about that Lady over there.
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And he goes, well, let's go see. And he goes, ma'am, is there any
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way we could help you rank stranger, trying to make a point
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to this teenager that that his empathy or intuition that was
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overwhelming him had a good and beautiful purpose.
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And the woman started crying. And she was an older woman who
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couldn't bend. And she had been waiting for 30
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minutes for somebody to tie her shoe because she was also scared
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of falling and breaking her other hip.
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And this teenager who didn't know what to do with his big
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emotions was actually gifted by God to be aware and sensitive.
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And so when you sense a little prompting this week, act because
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we don't want to show contempt for the riches of God's kindness
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to us. God has shown us His kindness,
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His forbearance and patience, not realizing that God's
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kindness is intended to lead you to repentance.
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And you know what? I think we get to see in the
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story of Tabitha Peter's repentance in living color.
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We get to see how the Spirit of God restored Peter, how Jesus
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gave him a task and he actually was doing it.
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So when we think of repentance, do any of you have some movie
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version of self flagellating and beating?
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Please get rid of that. And what we want to think of
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about repentance is I might need to change my mind on some
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things. I've had to change my mind where
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I've told someone asking for money.
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Yeah, not today. I can't.
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I was, my kids were all around. It was crazy.
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We and I said, yeah, I, I can't right now.
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It was just 'cause I was busy and I wasn't sure Michaela was a
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child and she looked at me and she went Mama and I was rightly
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rebuked. And guess what?
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I went digging in my bag and I found some change for the man
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because I needed to have a change of heart.
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I was overwhelmed by what I was doing in the moment and could
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not have a generosity of spirit. So repentance doesn't just mean
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what you do at the end of the day.
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Praying it might mean I start to walk away and then I come back
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and say, you know, I am sorry I said that in that tone.
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That's a repentance act because it's a change of what this Lord.
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And so the Lord has been so very, very, very kind to us.
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And let's let His kindness lead us into a change of mind, to a
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softening of our hearts. And I don't know who makes it
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hard for you to be kind, but I think we all have people where
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it's harder. And that is where the Lord wants
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us to repent and to extend His kindness in the healthiest of
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ways. So I would ask that you would
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join me in praying. Those of you that use the Lectio
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app will find that this is how you start your morning.
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I also want to acknowledge Aiden made this graphic for us and
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moms, we have one of these printed for each of you so that
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you can be blessed by Aiden today.
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So join me as we pray. Father, help me to live this day
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to the full, being true to you in every way.
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Jesus, help me to give myself away to others, being kind to
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everyone I meet. Spirit, help me to love the
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lost, proclaiming Christ in all I do and say Amen.
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Thank you.