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Special Service - World Refugee Sunday: Belonging Begins with Hospitality | Zach Wylie

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  1. Welcome to ECB's weekly sermon podcast. ECB is

  2. an international church in Bangkok, Thailand

  3. with dozens of nationalities worshiping together.

  4. We invite you to connect with us from wherever

  5. you are through our website, ecb .asia, or our

  6. mobile app. And now we pray that you are blessed

  7. by this week's sermon. I want to propose to you

  8. today that belonging begins with hospitality.

  9. And if belonging begins with hospitality, I've

  10. got a question. Who belongs at God's table? See,

  11. today, and over the course of this next week,

  12. churches and communities around the world are

  13. recognizing World Refugee Day. Many people, when

  14. you hear words like refugee and asylum seeker

  15. and displaced person, you might think of something

  16. like a statistic or maybe a headline or politics

  17. and borders and crises happening somewhere else.

  18. But before we talk about refugees, I want us

  19. to talk about something that every human being

  20. longs for. What do you think it is? Anyone? Belonging.

  21. Belonging. Because if we're honest, every single

  22. one of us knows what it feels like to be an outsider.

  23. I want you to put your hand up if you moved from

  24. a country outside of Thailand to come here. How

  25. many of you moved countries to come to Thailand?

  26. Put it up. Hold it up high. Raise your hand.

  27. Look around. That's a lot of us. Now, don't put

  28. it down. Be good students. Now, keep your hand

  29. up if you remember what it felt like those first

  30. few weeks and months. If you're like, I still

  31. know that feeling. It's there. A new culture.

  32. Sorry, I spat. A new language. New customs. New

  33. systems. New relationships. Maybe some of you

  34. are like, no relationships. Put your hands down.

  35. I don't know if you remember what it felt like

  36. to try to figure out where to shop. How things

  37. worked, who to trust, where you fit. You were

  38. looking for something called belonging. Now imagine

  39. that same feeling, except you cannot go home.

  40. Imagine that same uncertainty, except your future

  41. remains unclear. Imagine that you move not because

  42. of opportunity, but because of necessity. And

  43. so today and over this week, we remember those

  44. around the world that are living in that reality.

  45. And more importantly, we remember a God who welcomes

  46. strangers, a God who invites outsiders to his

  47. table, a God who turns strangers into family

  48. because belonging begins with hospitality. And

  49. I think no one demonstrates hospitality better

  50. than Jesus does. And so if you've got your Bible

  51. or on your phone, maybe it's here, you can flip

  52. to Luke chapter 14. And we're going to look at

    Luke 14 chapter mention

  53. what Luke tells us through Jesus as he reflects

  54. on something that he did. So there's a dinner,

  55. there's a table, there's a question. And before

  56. we get to the parable itself, I think we need

  57. to understand what's happening in this room right

  58. now. Not here, but in the story. Luke chapter

    Luke 14:15–24

  59. 14, verse 15 to 24. So Jesus is attending a dinner

  60. hosted by a prominent Pharisee, which I think

  61. is crazy in and of itself. So he's hanging out

  62. with a really deeply religious person who understands

  63. all of the rules, the do's, the don'ts, what

  64. it is that you think makes you a right, good

  65. person. And he's at this dinner with a prominent

  66. Pharisee, and his story isn't so much about food,

  67. because it's going to be about belonging, but

  68. the story is about status. It's about those who

  69. get the invite. It's about those who deserve

  70. a seat at the sable. I'm so sorry, my voice is

  71. loud. But in fact, I would suggest to us today

  72. that... In this story is one question that kind

  73. of hangs over the entire chapter. And the question

  74. is what I began with. Who belongs at God's table?

  75. And the religious leaders, I did it again, think

  76. they know the answer. The respected people in

  77. this story think they know the answer. And the

  78. people with status, they think they know the

  79. answer. But Jesus is about to challenge almost

  80. everything it is that they believe because earlier

  81. in this chapter before we get here, Jesus heals

  82. a man that everybody else had overlooked. And

  83. then as he's at the dinner, he notices that guests

  84. are competing for the best seat in the house.

  85. And so in Luke 14, 13 to 14, he then turns to

  86. the host and he says, when you give a banquet,

  87. Invite the poor. Invite the crippled. Invite

  88. the lame and the blind. And maybe in this room

  89. this doesn't sound particularly shocking because

  90. you're like a really good person. But at this

  91. time, in that place, it would have been shocking

  92. because hospitality in that culture at that time,

  93. it was transactional. So you invited people who

  94. could repay you, people who could help you, people

  95. who could increase your status, give you some

  96. good face. But Jesus introduces something in

  97. this moment which is entirely different, a kingdom

  98. hospitality, a grace -filled hospitality, a hospitality

  99. that creates belonging. And so one of the guests

  100. says, verse 15, I hear it like this, blessed

  101. is the one who will eat at the feast in the kingdom

  102. of God. I don't know why I used an English accent

  103. to try to sound pretentious, but I feel like

  104. that's what it would have sounded like. And so

  105. at first glance, it might sound a little bit

  106. spiritual, but I wonder if Jesus hears something

  107. underneath the statement. Something like, well,

  108. of course I'm going to be there. We're God's

  109. people. We're the insiders. We belong. And that's

  110. when Jesus tells this parable. He says, a certain

  111. man was preparing a great banquet and invited

  112. many guests. And at the time of the banquet,

  113. he sent his servant to tell those who had been

  114. invited, hey, come, everything is now ready.

  115. Just pause here for a moment. This, the banquet

  116. is ready. The feast, all of the food is being

  117. prepared. The host has done all of the work.

  118. The invitation goes out. The guests have contributed

  119. nothing. That's the gospel right there in a really

  120. great picture image. The welcome to us comes

  121. before there's any kind of performance. The invitation

  122. comes before there's any kind of achievement.

  123. Grace comes before there's any kind of response.

  124. And God doesn't say, clean yourself up and then

  125. get to the party. No, no, no. He says, come.

  126. And so think about the whole of the story of

  127. scripture. If you've never read it before, from

  128. front to back here, again and again, God creates

  129. space for people to dwell with him. It starts

  130. in the garden, then it moves to the ark, and

  131. then it hits the tabernacle, and then the temple,

  132. and then Christ, and then the church, and then

  133. one day we talk about new creation. And so the

  134. story in scripture is all about God making room

  135. for his people. Because hospitality is at the

  136. very heart of God. And every single heart longs

  137. for what only God can ultimately provide. A space

  138. to belong. A place at his table. A place in his

  139. family. A place in his kingdom. But then, Something

  140. surprising happens. The invited guests begin

  141. to make excuses. One has purchased land, which

  142. is a little bit crazy. He's like, hey, I got

  143. to go check on my land that I just bought. Like,

  144. wouldn't you check on your land before you buy?

  145. The other one's like, yo, I've got some great

  146. oxen that I need to go look at. I'm like, okay,

  147. so you bought the oxen and now you're just going

  148. to go look at the oxen? That's a bit of an interesting

  149. story to me. Another one's got some family commitments.

  150. But what's interesting here is that Jesus doesn't

  151. just describe bad people. He's describing distracted

  152. people. See the field, this work that they've

  153. got to go to. It's not sinful. The business isn't

  154. sinful. The marriage isn't sinful. The problem

  155. is, and I'm going to repeat this because I think

  156. it's worth repeating, is that sometimes good

  157. things become more important than the invitation

  158. of the king. sometimes good things become more

  159. important than the invitation of the king. And

  160. I think that might be one of the greatest dangers

  161. for us, that the greatest threat to following

  162. Jesus is not rebellion, but distraction. So we

  163. become busy. We get a little bit comfortable.

  164. We get a little bit successful. And we're occupied

  165. with really good things. And somewhere along

  166. the way, the invitation of the king becomes less

  167. important than everything competing for our attention.

  168. Binu, nice to see you. We move to this next part

  169. of the story, which is really cool. The outsiders,

  170. they're invited. So the story here kind of like...

  171. takes a shocking redirection. And in the story,

  172. the owner of the house becomes angry and he orders

  173. the servant, go out quickly, go out quickly into

  174. the streets, into the alleys of the town and

  175. bring in the poor, bring in the crippled, bring

  176. in the blind, bring in the lame. And if you're

  177. like, Didn't you just say that? Yeah, I did.

  178. Because that's what was just appearing a few

  179. verses later. Jesus had mentioned them earlier.

  180. These are the very people who are often overlooked.

  181. These are the people that we assume they don't

  182. belong. These are the people who could never

  183. repay the invitation. And these are the people

  184. that the king invites. Why? Because the kingdom

  185. of God is not built on reciprocity. It's built

  186. on grace. See, the world says, invite people

  187. who can give you something back. And then the

  188. kingdom says, welcome people because you're welcomed.

  189. And so the invitation expands even further to

  190. the roads, to the country lanes, to the outsiders,

  191. the unexpected, the forgotten, and the people

  192. that nobody imagined sitting at the king's table

  193. are invited. And I think while I was reading

  194. this and preparing, I was like, I've got to be

  195. careful. Because it's easy at this point in the

  196. story then to immediately begin to think about

  197. somebody else like all those. Like, oh, maybe

  198. a refugee, maybe an asylum seeker. I think he's

  199. talking about displaced people, migrants, the

  200. marginalized. And I think that there's truth

  201. in that. But before we think about them, Paul

  202. forces us to think about ourselves. And in Ephesians

    Ephesians 2:12

  203. chapter 2, verse 12 and 13, we're reminded that

  204. we were the strangers. He says this, remember,

  205. Paul. Right into the Ephesians. Remember that.

  206. At that time, you were separate from Christ.

  207. You were excluded from citizenship. You were

  208. like a foreigner without hope, without a God

  209. in the world. But now in Christ, Jesus, you who

  210. were once far away, have been brought near by

  211. the blood of Christ. Who's Paul talking about?

  212. This is interactive Sunday. Who's he talking

  213. about? He's talking about us. He's not talking

  214. about someone else. He's talking about us. We

  215. were the strangers. We were the foreigners. We

  216. were the outsiders. We were far from God. And

  217. yet Christ brought us near. And before we ever

  218. welcomed anyone else is Christ who welcomed us.

  219. And the cross then is God's ultimate act of hospitality.

  220. In that moment, Jesus didn't just invite people

  221. to his table. He gave his life right there so

  222. that there would be a place for us at the table.

  223. And so that brings us back to the question that

  224. I began with. Who belongs at God's table? So

  225. according to Jesus, not just the insiders, not

  226. just the successful, not just the respectable,

  227. not just the religious. but anybody welcomed

  228. by Christ. See, hospitality creates belonging.

  229. And because Christ welcomed us, we are welcome.

  230. I want to invite our way team and some fancy

  231. sign holders to help bring this from 30 ,000

  232. feet right down to this moment. We spent the

  233. last few minutes talking about God's table, and

  234. we're asking a simple question. Who belongs at

  235. God's table? And so the invitation, it's wider

  236. than most of us realize. And the welcome is also

  237. bigger. Lindsay, over to you. Thank you for the

  238. sign. Am I here or there? I think you're after

  239. James. Okay, thank you. Hi, good morning. I'm

  240. Lindsay. I serve with our Displaced People Support

  241. Ministry here at ACB, and that includes refugees

  242. and asylum seekers. I've always felt called to

  243. global work, but I didn't know exactly what that

  244. would look like. I studied global health and

  245. was certified in maternal and child health. And

  246. then when I came here with my husband, Jonathan,

  247. we welcomed four kids into our family. Now the

  248. issues that we had seen before... that called

  249. us to global work we saw through the eyes of

  250. a parent. World Refugee Day is recognized globally

  251. each June. A refugee is someone who had to flee

  252. their home country and cannot return safely for

  253. fear of persecution. The theme of this year's

  254. World Refugee Day is belonging begins with hospitality.

  255. This fits so well with ECB's mission for everyone

  256. to belong, become, and be. The people on stage

  257. with me walk alongside displaced people, and

  258. we're going to look at some numbers. I'm so much

  259. a numbers person, but behind the numbers are

  260. people, and these people have families, stories,

  261. skills, hopes, and fears. Let's remember that.

  262. Our first number is the global population. There

  263. are about 8 .2 billion people in the world. have

  264. been forcibly displaced. Thank you. Zooming in

  265. to Thailand, there are about 72 million of us

  266. living here. Next, of the people living in Thailand,

  267. about more than 87 ,000 of those are displaced

  268. people. Thanks. Zooming in, we're going to look

  269. at our own ECB family. Here, there are more than

  270. 1 ,200 people that are part of our community.

  271. And of those, more than 100 are displaced members

  272. that are connected here. These people are not

  273. strangers. They're part of our family. To put

  274. that in perspective, it's about 1 in 12 of us

  275. had to flee and cannot return to our home country.

  276. The numbers that we saw got smaller as we zoomed

  277. in, but the opportunity got greater. Do we just

  278. learn the numbers, or do we invite these family

  279. members to the table? You may have noticed a

  280. bookmark this morning on your chair. It's not

  281. someone else's. It's for you. We pray that it

  282. reminds you to pray for displaced people, but

  283. also that it encourages you to ask God how he

  284. would have you respond. Belonging begins with

  285. hospitality, and we all have a role to play.

  286. Thank you. Statistics matter. Thanks, Lindsay,

  287. for caring about numbers. Because you said it,

  288. behind every one of those numbers is a person.

  289. People matter to God. And so before we move on,

  290. I'd like us to do something together. And this

  291. might feel a little bit unusual, but I think

  292. it'll help us see something important. So I'm

  293. going to push two questions together in order

  294. to create a safe space. Number one, put your

  295. first finger up. Put your second finger up. When

  296. I tell you, if you are number one, which is an

  297. asylum seeker, a refugee, or a displaced person,

  298. that's number one. I'm going to ask you to stand.

  299. Not yet. Number two, this is you. If you're a

  300. close friend of someone who's an asylum seeker,

  301. a refugee, or a displaced person. So on three,

  302. if you're an asylum seeker, a refugee, a displaced

  303. person, would you stand? And if you are a close

  304. friend, Of somebody who is an asylum seeker.

  305. A refugee. Or a displaced person. Would you stand?

  306. I will stand. One. Two. Three. Stand. Yeah. Okay.

  307. We're going to go a layer deeper. Stay standing.

  308. If you know. Don't sit down. If you know someone.

  309. Somewhere in the world. who has been displaced

  310. from their home because of war, because of persecution,

  311. because of violence, because of disaster or conflict,

  312. would you stand as well? Do you know somebody

  313. somewhere else? Okay. I want you to look around.

  314. Like, really look around. Take a moment. Look

  315. to your left. And look to your right. Look in

  316. front of you, look behind you. What do you see?

  317. I think we see something that maybe we rarely

  318. talk about. We're more connected than we realize.

  319. So the reality is, you can sit down, that this

  320. isn't just somebody else's story. This is actually...

  321. Our story. This isn't just somebody else's problem.

  322. Because these aren't strangers. They're friends.

  323. They're life group members. They're volunteers.

  324. They're neighbors. They're parents. They're students.

  325. They're children. They're co -workers. They're

  326. people who are worshiping beside us and in front

  327. of us. They're people who are made in the image

  328. of God. People who are loved by God. People who

  329. are invited to God's table. And that brings us

  330. back to that question that we've been asking

  331. this morning. Who belongs at God's table? According

  332. to Jesus, I think probably more people than we

  333. realize. The kingdom is a bit surprising in that

  334. sometimes it forces us to come face to face with

  335. the reality that the kingdom is actually bigger

  336. than our categories. It's bigger than our assumptions.

  337. And the kingdom, is always making room. And one

  338. of the beautiful things about ECB is that many

  339. people who once felt alone have begun to feel

  340. that they've found a place of belonging. And

  341. they've found a place of belonging not because

  342. ECB is some sort of picture -perfect oasis. But

  343. we're a group of people who realize that Christ

  344. has welcomed us. And so we're trying, we're attempting

  345. to learn how to welcome other people. And we're

  346. going to hear one of those stories now in a video.

  347. A story of belonging, somebody who found family,

  348. a story of discovering a place at the table.

  349. And so as you listen, I want you to consider

  350. two questions. Who helped me belong? And who

  351. am I helping belong? Hello everyone, I come from

  352. Somalia. When I arrived in Thailand, I finally

  353. felt safe, but I still felt like a stranger and

  354. alone. When I came to ECP, people welcomed me

  355. with kindness. They helped me find friendship,

  356. support, people who truly care about me. Their

  357. encouragement gave me strength during difficult

  358. times. Because of this community, I no longer

  359. feel alone. I feel like I have a family here,

  360. people with kind hearts who care for and support

  361. one another. This church helped me feel that

  362. I truly belong. And I wanted to leave you with

  363. this verse, Matthew 25, 35. I was a stranger

  364. and you welcomed me. Thank you. Well, I love

  365. that. Simple. like straight to the point, I was

  366. a stranger and you welcomed me. See, something

  367. like that, it's powerful because belonging is

  368. powerful. Every human longs for that. We want

  369. to be known. We want to be accepted. We want

  370. to be heard. We want to know that there is a

  371. place for us. And when we find belonging, something

  372. begins to change inside of us. What I like is

  373. as I read the scripture, I'm reminded that belonging

  374. was actually never meant to be a place that was

  375. like the finish line. It's like I arrived. I

  376. belong. I'm seen. I have family. It was meant

  377. to be the starting point. And if you look at

  378. families and friendships and the church and certainly

  379. the kingdom of God, we see that Jesus doesn't

  380. just invite people to come and belong, but he

  381. invites people to become. And so if we go back

  382. to that first question, who belongs at God's

  383. table? The answer that emerges is anybody who's

  384. been welcomed by Christ. But then another question

  385. comes from that. What happens after they belong?

  386. What happens after somebody finds a seat at the

  387. table? What happens after somebody experiences

  388. grace? And what happens after somebody becomes

  389. part of the family of God? And scripture shows

  390. us transformation, growth. formation and discipleship.

  391. And that's what the early church looked like.

  392. And so if we go to Acts chapter 2, we see that

    Acts 2 chapter mention

  393. the disciples devoted themselves to the apostles'

  394. teaching and to fellowship and to the breaking

  395. of bread. You notice what happens after the people

  396. come to faith. I like this. They didn't just

  397. like keep attending. But the Bible says they

  398. devoted themselves. They gathered and they learned

  399. and they prayed and they worshipped and they

  400. shared life together and they served one another.

  401. They were becoming something. Or maybe perhaps

  402. more accurately, they were becoming someone.

  403. A follower of Jesus. People who are shaped by

  404. the Spirit. People who become more like Christ.

  405. And they don't simply attend church. They don't

  406. simply just believe certain things. But they

  407. are transformed. And what I like, again, about

  408. the Bible is we're introduced to these people

  409. called disciples, which is another word for student.

  410. Somebody who follows somebody. And they're a

  411. perfect example. Think about who Jesus invited

  412. for a moment. If you've read it, you're like,

  413. oh yeah, I know. And if you didn't, then don't

  414. be surprised. Fishermen. Tax collectors, political

  415. zealots. Do we have any of those in the house

  416. today? No? Okay, but you're invited too. People

  417. with flaws, people with baggage, people who were

  418. often totally misunderstood and people who misunderstood

  419. Jesus. Jesus welcomed every single one of them.

  420. And he didn't just leave them where he found

  421. them, which some of us would be okay with that.

  422. Like great savior. Yup. Lord in control of my

  423. life. Nope. Jesus taught them. He challenged

  424. them. He corrected them. He encouraged them.

  425. And then he sends them. And over time we see

  426. that he transformed them. And so for us, that's

  427. what discipleship is. And that's why belonging

  428. matters so much because transformation. rarely

  429. happens in isolation. If you've ever experienced

  430. growth in your life, it's likely because you've

  431. been in relationships with people. There's been

  432. a community. This transformation often happens

  433. around tables. It happens when people begin to

  434. walk alongside each other. It happens when people

  435. pray together, when we serve together, when we

  436. learn together, when we worship together. It

  437. happens when we make room for each other. And

  438. I think, Again, as I was preparing, I think that's

  439. why I love the vision of ECB so much. Do you

  440. remember what it is? Making disciples for global

  441. impact. Because we don't just want you to come

  442. and attend. That's not what this is about. We

  443. want people to belong, yes. But we don't simply

  444. want people to come and belong. We want people

  445. to become. to become more like Jesus, to grow

  446. in faith, to grow in your character, to grow

  447. in love and obedience and in purpose. And what's

  448. cool is that as we begin to experience belonging,

  449. it begins to create becoming. And this happens

  450. because Christ is changing us. And so we are

  451. transformed. And transformation, if you look

  452. at your own life or just like a plant, It doesn't

  453. happen all at once. And it's not like grow, grow,

  454. grow, grow. And then something comes. I mean,

  455. it usually happens like one step at a time. One

  456. relationship at a time. One act of obedience

  457. at a time. One day at a time. And so the next

  458. story that we're going to hear is a story of

  459. becoming. A story of somebody discovering that

  460. following Jesus is not just about finding a place

  461. to come and belong. That was good. but it's also

  462. about becoming the kind of person that God created

  463. them to be. And so as you listen to the story,

  464. I want you to consider this question. How is

  465. Jesus changing me? It's the journey of moving

  466. from who I was to who God is calling me to be.

  467. This is my story from suffering to contentment.

  468. Three and a half years ago, I came to ECB, not

  469. realizing that God was already at work in my

  470. life. As I listened to his word, my heart began

  471. to stir, and God taught me to trust in his providence.

  472. There was a time I felt lost. Without certainty,

  473. without a place to truly belong. But in Christ,

  474. I found more than hope. I found a home. Through

  475. serving in church, the Holy Spirit changed my

  476. heart, teaching me humility and giving me a deep

  477. desire to know God more. Through studying and

  478. growing, my life has been filled with truth and

  479. joy. Today, I stand. transformed and content,

  480. not by what I have done, but by what God has

  481. done in me. And he used this church, this family

  482. that has loved me, supported me and encouraged

  483. me to show me that in Christ, I am no longer

  484. lost. I belong. Thank you, ECB, this wonderful

  485. community of brothers and sister in Christ. One

  486. of the things I really like about that testimony

  487. is that it reminds us that transformation doesn't

  488. happen alone. It points to the community. It

  489. happens through relationships and in community.

  490. It happens because somebody makes room at a table,

  491. somebody reaches out, another person listens,

  492. and somebody begins to walk alongside another.

  493. And so God changes lives through people. I like

  494. that. He uses imperfect people. He uses willing

  495. people, people who choose the love, people who

  496. choose to welcome, people who choose to walk

  497. with others. Over the last number of years since

  498. my wife and kids have been at ECB, I've come

  499. to appreciate that so much of what ECB does is

  500. not alone. God's brought partners to come alongside

  501. us as a church who faithfully serve, who advocate

  502. for, who walk with displaced people every single

  503. day. And one of those partners is Life Raft International.

  504. Many of you might know them. Many of you may

  505. have volunteered with them. Many of you may have

  506. prayed for them. Many of you may have supported

  507. their work. Some of you in this room are advocates.

  508. And today I've invited our sister, Yvette Rivera,

  509. to join us. And she's going to share with us.

  510. I've asked her to share three simple things.

  511. Help us understand. Offer us a little bit of

  512. hope to see hope. And help us understand how

  513. ordinary followers like you and me can participate

  514. in what he's up to. Can you welcome Yvette as

  515. she comes? Good afternoon, church. I'm really

  516. happy to be here. I've been leading Life Raft

  517. for quite a few years. I've been here since 2012.

  518. And one of the things that sometimes we forget

  519. about refugees is that they come to a new country

  520. in search of safety. It's not because they're

  521. looking for a better life or they want something

  522. new or different. They're looking for safety.

  523. Staying back home means that they risk their

  524. life and the life of their families. And refugees

  525. that are coming to Thailand, they come to the

  526. surprise that Thailand doesn't recognize refugees.

  527. So that means that they don't have access to

  528. some of the basic needs like medical, education,

  529. the right to work. So that's very complicated

  530. to be able to live a normal life when you don't

  531. have access to some of those basic things. And

  532. when I meet refugees, one of the things that

  533. I'm reminded is that they have God -sized problems.

  534. And it's encouraging in the sense that we have

  535. to cling to God to be able to find ways to support

  536. and to walk alongside our refugee friends. So

  537. once they're here and not having that recognition,

  538. it means that there is a fear of arrest. So they

  539. don't have the fear of persecution in the sense

  540. of where they left home, but there is a fear

  541. of being arrested. And that can be very paralyzing

  542. here. One of the powers of the church is community,

  543. is friendship, is relationship, what we're talking

  544. about today. And when I first came here, one

  545. of the first refugees that I met, he came by

  546. himself and he came to one of our church gatherings.

  547. And we started talking. He never mentioned that

  548. he was a refugee. And after the service, I invited

  549. him to come to dinner with us. And he told me,

  550. sis. I want to go, but I don't have money to

  551. pay for my meal. I was like, oh, don't worry

  552. about that. We got you. So he came and he had

  553. dinner with us. And from that moment, this beautiful

  554. journey of seeing a church love and embrace him

  555. was so impactful. It reminded me why it's so

  556. important for us to walk with people and in a

  557. deep way. As he built relationships, people started

  558. giving him opportunities to build skills and

  559. highlighted a specific skill that he was good

  560. at. And he devoted himself years in doing that

  561. well. And he was known here in Thailand for that

  562. skill. And people go to him and looking for support.

  563. And he ended up leaving Thailand through that

  564. skill that he developed. And there are two things

  565. that I observe and I've seen in other families.

  566. The first thing is that everything about him,

  567. it was a reminder that he didn't belong. He wasn't

  568. Asian. He couldn't blend in. He barely spoke

  569. English. And throughout eight years, I saw him

  570. build this beautiful confidence. He would walk

  571. the streets of Thailand, of Bangkok, as if he

  572. owned it. Very confident. And that confidence

  573. wasn't rooted in people welcoming him first.

  574. It was rooted in the knowing that he belonged

  575. to God. That he, his home, was God himself. And

  576. I believe that this sense of belonging has to

  577. start there. It has to start with this. Because

  578. think about it. We belong. To the creator of

  579. all things. That's incredible. And I ask God

  580. to show me. What does that mean every day that

  581. I am a child of God? There's a freedom that comes

  582. in knowing that. And the second thing in his

  583. life that impacts me. Is the power of walking

  584. with people who see you. Who say, hey, you're

  585. really good at this. And gives you the opportunity

  586. to grow that skill. to build it, and to launch

  587. you into it. And that's the power that we have

  588. as a church, that we're able to walk alongside

  589. our friends, not trying to fix the problems,

  590. because as I said, they're God -sized problems,

  591. but we seek to the one who can fix it, who can

  592. walk with us in the journey. And the beautiful

  593. thing is that I get to see God's work in it,

  594. that starting... From when he came to Thailand.

  595. And things were so hard. So bleak. But then see

  596. that journey. Of where he is today. You could

  597. only say glory be to God. Because it is him who

  598. opened that door for him. And he uses us. His

  599. people. To do it. It's not alone. It's through

  600. us. And we've been partnering with ECB for 12

  601. years. This room is filled with people that I

  602. love. And that I've built friendships with. And

  603. I'm deeply thankful for the beautiful ways that

  604. you embrace and love refugees here. And there

  605. is an invitation to continue to do that. We have

  606. refugees. Not only those who are Christians and

  607. have been persecuted. But we also have refugees

  608. who don't know Jesus. That they're rejected because

  609. they're an ethnic minority. They're rejected

  610. because of their faith. And then they come here,

  611. thinking negative things about Christians. They

  612. come to a community that loves them, that cares

  613. for them, with no agenda. And it's impactful.

  614. And my prayer is that we continue to be that

  615. church so that they can see how good God is.

  616. And there's an open invitation for you guys to

  617. be involved and get to know some of our refugee

  618. friends and be able to serve. And I see how us

  619. living out our faith with courage. impacts them

  620. and they're able to see how good God is. So thank

  621. you for the partnership. Thank you for loving

  622. so well. And I will be, Rachel and I will be

  623. outside to talk to you guys. So thank you. Awesome.

  624. Thank you. Informational, yes. Inspirational,

  625. yes. Invitational, yes. When we're done, you

  626. can head downstairs, walk through the courseway.

  627. There are tables on the left -hand side. And

  628. you can think. And then you can act and consider

  629. how you might be able to engage. See, transformation

  630. spreads. One person welcomes another. One life

  631. impacts another. One disciple helps form another

  632. disciple. And so as we've been asking that question,

  633. who belongs at the table, we see that anybody

  634. who is welcomed by Christ belongs. And we ask,

  635. what happens when people belong? Well, we see

  636. that God begins to transform them. And then we

  637. arrive at this final question, which is, what

  638. do transformed people do? Do they simply stay

  639. seated at the table? We've arrived. Do they simply

  640. enjoy the blessing that they've received? Do

  641. they consume? Or does something else begin to

  642. happen? And again, Scripture is clear. People

  643. who have begun to be welcomed actually become

  644. people who begin to welcome other people. It's

  645. this natural outflow. People who have been transformed

  646. begin to help transform other people. People

  647. who have been loved begin loving others because

  648. God's plan isn't simply to just welcome people.

  649. His plan is to send people. Let's listen to his

  650. words in Matthew chapter 25 and then Romans 15

    Matthew 25 chapter mention

  651. when Paul talks to us. Matthew 25. Some of you

  652. might have heard this one before. He says, I

  653. was hungry. You know this one? I was hungry and

  654. you gave me something to eat. I was thirsty and

  655. you gave me something to drink. I was a stranger

  656. and you invited me in. Some of you could keep

  657. on going. But if we stop there for a moment,

  658. notice what Jesus does not say. He doesn't say,

  659. I was a stranger and you noticed me from across

  660. the room. He doesn't say, I was a stranger and

  661. you agreed with me. He didn't say, I was a stranger

  662. and you felt sorry for me. He says, I was a stranger

  663. and you welcomed me. So for us, hospitality has

  664. to be more than awareness. Hospitality is an

  665. action. It's making room. It's opening our lives

  666. and it's reflecting the heart of God. And so

  667. the gospel is the story of God making room for

  668. people who never expected a seat at his table.

  669. And I think that when that truth begins to grip

  670. our hearts, something shifts, it changes. We

  671. stop asking, what can I get? And begin to ask,

  672. who can I welcome? We stop asking, well, who

  673. belongs in my circle? And we begin asking, who

  674. might God be inviting me to make room for? Because

  675. welcomed, People become welcoming people. Romans

    Romans 15 chapter mention

  676. chapter 15 says, Accept one another then, just

  677. as Christ accepted you, in order to bring praise

  678. to God. I like this. Paul doesn't say, Hey, hey,

  679. hey, hey, accept one another so that Christ will

  680. accept you. No, he flips it. He says, Christ

  681. accepted you. Therefore, accept one another.

  682. And so the gospel always comes first. Grace always

  683. comes first. Hospitality always begins with God.

  684. And because Christ has welcomed us, we welcome

  685. other people. Because Christ has transformed

  686. us, we help other people grow. Because Christ

  687. has sent us, we go. See, hospitality creates

  688. belonging and belonging creates becoming and

  689. becoming. It leads to being. And being leads

  690. us to welcome other people. Because of Christ,

  691. we are sent. So in God's kingdom... People always

  692. become participants. We become contributors and

  693. servants or ambassadors might be a word. People

  694. who were once welcomed become those who welcome.

  695. People who were once served become people who

  696. serve. People who were once invited become people

  697. who extend the invitation. And the next story

  698. is a story of that, a story of being and purpose

  699. and service, a story of somebody that discovered

  700. that God's invitation doesn't end at the table.

  701. It begins there. This is a story of a lady who

  702. left a nation where she was experiencing persecution,

  703. and she arrived in Thailand with nothing physically

  704. to give. She finds a church. She begins a discipleship

  705. journey on her own, belonging, becoming. And

  706. then she approaches her own community to see

  707. what kinds of challenges or needs exist there.

  708. And they help her come to an understanding that

  709. there are certain ages within the refugee community

  710. that don't really have access to education because

  711. of their age and their status. And she says,

  712. I'm an educator. I can help with that. And so

  713. she begins serving those within her own community

  714. who have been denied access to education. And

  715. so for me, what a beautiful picture of the kingdom

  716. of God. Not somebody just sitting on the sidelines

  717. being defined by some sort of label. Not just

  718. people known only by their circumstances. but

  719. people using their gifts, serving other people,

  720. building God's kingdom, reflecting Jesus. In

  721. church, this is what happens when hospitality

  722. does its work. Hospitality creates belonging.

  723. Belonging creates becoming. Becoming leads to

  724. being. I'm going to preach for another 20 minutes

  725. until you say it, okay? And being. It leads us

  726. to welcome other people because welcomed people

  727. become welcoming people. And I think that's more

  728. than just like a nice phrase and we'll get hats

  729. and sell them to everybody later. But this is

  730. discipleship. This is the gospel. This is the

  731. kingdom of God. And so take a look back for a

  732. moment at where we've come from this morning.

  733. We began with the question, who belongs at God's

  734. table? Not just the outsiders. Sorry, not just

  735. the insiders. Not just the respectable people,

  736. not just the religious, not just the successful,

  737. but the invitation goes to the poor and the outsider,

  738. the forgotten, the overlooked, the people that

  739. nobody expected. And then Paul reminds us that

  740. we were strangers, we were foreigners, we were

  741. outsiders, and yet Christ brings us near. And

  742. then in Acts chapter 2, we're reminded that belonging

    Acts 2 chapter mention

  743. isn't the destination, it's the beginning. God

  744. welcomes us and then he transforms us. And then

  745. Matthew 25 reminds us that transformed people

  746. begin living differently. They welcome, they

  747. serve, they make room, they extend the same kind

  748. of grace that they've received. And so all of

  749. that brings us to this moment. I want to invite

  750. you to reflect on a few questions. If we are

  751. welcomed, if I'm welcomed, how has Christ welcomed

  752. me? If I am transformed or I'm being transformed,

  753. who is God changing me to be? How is Christ changing

  754. me? And if we're sent, who is God inviting me,

  755. inviting you to welcome? I recognize that not

  756. all of us may be called to the same thing, but

  757. every one of us is invited to do something. Throughout

  758. the morning, we've talked about this idea of

  759. belonging. We've talked about the idea of becoming.

  760. We've talked about the idea of being. We've talked

  761. about hospitality. We've talked about God's invitation.

  762. We've talked about making room for other people

  763. because Christ made room for us. And so I want

  764. to leave you with three simple responses. See,

  765. some of us, some of us are called to give. We're

  766. here to support ministries, organizations. Maybe

  767. we can support people who are faithfully serving

  768. displaced communities here in Bangkok. Maybe

  769. people that are around the world. And so giving

  770. is one of the ways that we make room for other

  771. people. Not all of us can go and do something,

  772. but all of us can participate. The second one

  773. is this idea of grow. Say it with me, grow. Some

  774. of us need to grow. Maybe today, is an invitation

  775. to learn to build a relationship with another

  776. person. To learn somebody else's story, to pray

  777. differently, to step outside of your comfort

  778. zone, to move from sympathy to relationship,

  779. to move from knowing about people to actually

  780. knowing people. So perhaps the next step for

  781. you is simply to grow. And then there's others

  782. of you that are in this room that might be called

  783. to go, to serve, to volunteer, to mentor, to

  784. walk alongside somebody, to join what it is that

  785. God is already doing. And the invitation isn't

  786. to go to pretend to be some sort of rescuer.

  787. No, no. It's to go because you've been welcomed.

  788. And welcomed people become welcoming people.

  789. And so the invitation from Jesus to us today

  790. is to not simply attend the banquet. It's to

  791. help extend an invitation. It's to help make

  792. room at the table. Because one day, there will

  793. be people from every tribe, every tongue, every

  794. nation gathered around one king. And until that

  795. day, this is good, we have the privilege of helping

  796. people find their place at his table. So whether

  797. your next step is to give, to grow, or to go,

  798. take a step. Take a step because Christ made

  799. room for you. He made room for us. And now we've

  800. got an opportunity to make room for others. Thank

  801. you for tuning in to the ECB Sermon Podcast.

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