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Walking with God: Lessons from a Pastor's Heart - Chapter 1: Eternal Perspective | Pastor Pablo Morales
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Welcome to ECB's weekly sermon podcast. ECB is
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an international church in Bangkok, Thailand,
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with dozens of nationalities worshiping together.
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We invite you to connect with us from wherever
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you are through our website, ecb .asia, or our
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mobile app. And now we pray that you are blessed
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by this week's sermon. As a space that is very
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intimate and very close as if we are sitting
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across each other sharing a cup of coffee. And
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we are having a conversation about, so how are
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you doing? How was your summer? What do you do?
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What is the Lord teaching you? Where are you
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at? I want to take this time to share some reflections.
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As we're walking with the Lord in this season,
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especially as we're coming out of this stage
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of traveling and all the things that happen.
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And it doesn't matter whether you don't drink
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coffee. That's okay. You can pick another drink
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if you want. But my cup is going to be dark,
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strong coffee, no sugar. And as we reflect, today
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what I want... you to get and to remember is
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simply this. Don't lose your perspective. And
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what do I mean by perspective? See, during this
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time, we went to the US, the state of Texas,
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we were there, and then we went to Kansas for
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the sole purpose of leading the burial and the
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memorial service for my mother -in -law, who
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passed away in April, 95 years of age, widow,
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former missionary here in Thailand. Then we moved
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to Guatemala for maybe 10 days or so to spend
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time with my parents, whom I hadn't seen for
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over two years, to celebrate the 60th anniversary.
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Who would have imagined that? And then we came
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back to Thailand for one day and then we flew
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to England to spend time in London and Oxford
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with the ACB team that took the trip with our
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class on apologetics crossroads. And then we
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just came back this week. It's like very intense
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time. And in these spaces, this idea of perspective
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has become more and more intense. Because we
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can follow God and lose our perspective and then
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everything becomes misaligned. But when we follow
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Christ and we follow him with the right perspective,
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everything changes. And it is very important.
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That as we are walking with the Lord, we do not
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lose the right perspective. Let me put it this
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way. I'm going to show you three pictures. And
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I want you to pick the one you identify with
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the most. No particular reason. Just pick one.
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Done? Okay. So if I were to ask the prophet Isaiah.
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Pick one of these three. Which one do you identify
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the most with? He will pick this one. He's like,
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what? Grass? I didn't imagine that. What are
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you, like, spiky hair or something? Why grass?
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He says, oh, let me tell you why. All people
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are like grass, says the prophet. Faithfulness
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is like the flowers of the field. The grass withers
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and the flowers fall because the breath of the
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Lord blows on them. Surely the people are grass.
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The grass withers and the flowers fall, but the
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word of our God endures forever. Pablo, you're
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grass. You are here today, you will be gone tomorrow.
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Don't forget that. Don't forget that you are
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just passing by and that this life is not it.
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This is part of the experience of being a human.
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But life is more than this. And one day, the
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grave is coming. And I started the trip with
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the realization that my mother -in -law is gone,
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Charlotte. And to see, realize that now she's
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in this thing and we're going to bury her and
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enter into her home and she's not there anymore
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and the absence being so present. And then we
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conclude the trip going to... England and we
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visited a couple of places and we started in
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London. We went to the British Library to talk
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about the Bible and the text. And we went to
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the British Museum and we talked about the history
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and archaeology and all of that. And we visited
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a couple of churches and then we went to Oxford
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to also talk about C .S. Lewis and and his life,
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and understand all of that stuff. And we went
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to Darwin's home in London to talk about Darwinian
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evolution. And we had lectures with scientists
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on the fallacies of evolution based on science.
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And it was really a very intense trip. But there's
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something very unique about visiting England
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and going to the Church of England or the Anglican
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churches. And that is something that you do not
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see here. If you have been shaped in your Christian
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experience by the average evangelical experience,
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which is kind of like coming to ECB today to
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worship, you see people, then you go home. It's
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not like that. Let me show you this picture.
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What do you see? Well, you see a cemetery, right?
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You see a graveyard. Well, this is the entrance
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to the church. Can you imagine driving here into
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ECB and the first thing you see is like all these
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dead people places, you know. And then you walk
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into the church to worship. It's like death is
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right there on your face. And this place is not
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just any church. This is the church that C .S.
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Lewis attended and this is the place where he
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is buried. A little bit more about that later
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today. We also visited Christ Church College
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and Christ Church Chapel. And as you came there,
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it's the same thing. Same thing. It's that you
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have people that have died. Some of them are
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buried inside. And some others are not buried
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inside, but there's these places. dedicated for
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them to honor their lives because they studied
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there or they contributed to society in a meaningful
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way. And two, very meaningful people there, or
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actually I should say three, famous philosopher
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John Locke. That's right here. Right there. Imagine
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you are sitting on your chair and you are stepping
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on the tomb of somebody or a plaque of somebody
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or something that reminds you that, They lived
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here and now they're dead. And the other one
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was John Wesley and Charles Wesley. John Wesley
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was the founder of the Methodist Church. That's
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where he studied. And once again, inside the
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church, you have all these places that are reminding
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you, you are just grass. You are here today and
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gone tomorrow. And when Jesus talked about that,
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he asked a very poignant question to all of us.
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And he says, look, if any of you wants to be
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my follower, you must give up your own way, take
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up your cross and follow me. If you try to hang
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on to your life, you will lose it. But if you
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give up your life for my sake, you will save
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it. And then he says, really, think about it.
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What do you benefit? If you gain the whole world,
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but you lose your own soul. In fact, is anything
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worth more than your soul? And he gets to the
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core to remind us that we are these spiritual
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beings. We have these bodies that are part of
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being a human, but one day this body will be
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in the grave, will become dust, and our soul
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will continue. And then we'll just await our
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glorification of our bodies and the final resurrection.
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This is our future. This is what's going to happen,
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and that's why Jesus says at the end of this
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section, For the Son of Man will come with his
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angels in the glory of his Father and will judge
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all people according to their deeds. So don't
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lose your perspective. If you are going to follow
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me, the only way to follow me well is by having
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eternal perspective. Remember that you are grass,
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that you are here today, gone tomorrow, and because
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that's the reality, make sure that you are living.
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With eternal perspective. And what does this
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look like is very specific. What does it look
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like to follow Jesus with eternal perspective?
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First thing is that to follow Jesus with eternal
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perspective is a life that is characterized by
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prioritizing God. God is the highest priority,
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is the most important thing. And there's such
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an awareness that we belong to him and that we
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are accountable to him that everything we do,
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even the most private spaces and the deepest
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motives of our heart that only you are aware
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of are always under that awareness. And this
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is very important because as we are living life,
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We are so busy with everything and all the things
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that we have to do. But when we forget that this
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is temporary, then we think that this life is
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all there is. And therefore, it matters more
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than it really does. And when we start having
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that wrong perspective, we become fearful and
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controlling. And when we become controlling,
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we have really lost our perspective. There was
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a guy that was very famous. He had succeeded
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in his life. He had all the money he could have.
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He had all the women that he could ever have.
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He had all the fame he could ever dream of. He
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had all the power to do everything he wanted.
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You know his name? Solomon. King Solomon. And
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at the end of his life, after he pursued every
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single thing he could pursue in his life, he
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wrote this book, Ecclesiastes, which is in the
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Old Testament. And at the very end of the book,
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after he has said everything, he says, you know
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what I realize? This is what matters most. Now
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all has been heard. I've written everything already,
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so let me conclude like this. Here is the conclusion
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of the matter. Fear God and keep his commandments
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for this is the duty of all mankind. Fear the
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Lord and obey him. Simple. Why? Well, because
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you are accountable to him and one day you will
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give an account to him. Jesus said it. And Solomon,
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after he had done all the things he did, which
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some of them were not good, now he realizes,
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oops, now that I've tasted this and that and
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this and that, I realize that all of that is
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worthless. Because the only thing that matters
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most is God. And he says at the end, for God
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will bring every deed into judgment, including
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every hidden thing, whether it is good or evil.
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As we are following the Lord, I realize in this
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time of reflection that what matters most is
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God. And us being honest to Him. Because when
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we're honest to Him, and that flows in how we
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follow the Lord and the things we do, things
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are different. The deepest motives of the heart
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are brought to the light. Because one day truth,
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truth will reign. And one day you will be seen
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for what you truly were and not for what you
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pretended to be. So as we serve the Lord together
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and as we follow him together, this matters.
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If I had my phone here with you and we were across
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the table from each other, I would be showing
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you the pictures, you know. Look at this one
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and you will show me some and I'll show you another
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one. Well, I cannot show you my phone, but I
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can show you better than the phone, the screen
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here. When we arrived to the town of Chanute,
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which is the town in Kansas where my in -laws
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came from, that's where they are buried. In order
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to do the burial service, we first met at a church,
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a small church that was right there in the town,
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and they opened their place for us to be able
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to host all the guests and the family and the
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friends that gathered. And as I was walking in
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the building, I noticed the meeting room, the
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boardroom, where the elders or leaders of the
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church would meet. And I saw something that was
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written on the wall, and I thought, I need to
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take a picture of this. Because it captures this
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in essence. Now, this is very informal English
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that Americans can understand. But it says, if
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it ain't kingdom, it ain't worth it. If this
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is not for God, it's not worth it. If it's not
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born from him and for him, you're wasting your
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time. Why waste your time in pursuing things
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that you know God is not in? Why try to push
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your agenda instead of serving God's? Don't lose
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your perspective. If you are single, if you are
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young, the world is telling you that you need
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to live for you to be happy. Pursue who you truly
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are. Follow your feelings. Follow your heart.
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And God says, no, that's not true. Do not follow
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your feelings. Do not follow your heart because
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you are a sinner and you have a sinful heart.
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And things that you desire that are contrary
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to me are not going to lead you to a good place.
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Do not buy the lie. Do not lose your perspective.
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If it's not for me or from me, you're going to
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waste your time. Don't go that route. Have you
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lost your perspective? And suddenly God is no
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longer the priority? But you are? Yeah, it gets
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personal, doesn't it? These are things that the
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Lord uses to remind you of what is foundational.
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So yeah, if we're going to follow Jesus with
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eternal perspective, we must follow him by making
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God and the awareness of God in every space of
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our lives the priority. And if God is a priority,
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the second thing follows. Is that we are following
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God with eternal perspective. Then we prioritize
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people. And I'll tell you why. If my soul matters
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so much to God. Hey, those people are also a
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soul. And they matter to God that much too. In
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fact, God loves them so much that he sent Jesus
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to die for them. And if I love God so much, then
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I'm going to love people too because he loves
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them. And that love and that care for people
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comes not from them being lovable or from me
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being a nice person. It comes from this connection
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with God where I start loving what God loves
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because I love God first. And it flows. And this.
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Means that if we are serving God. We are living
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our lives. Following God with eternal perspective.
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The way that our lives are going to be characterized.
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As is by being people who love people. Let me
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show you another picture. This is my in -laws.
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Dick and Charlotte Worley. Right now. They're
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with the Lord. And many years ago, the Lord led
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them here to Thailand to work as missionaries
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here. They work with an organization called American
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Baptists. They were part of a church called Matrachet
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Baptist Church here in Bangkok. And they started
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a school here in Thailand called Samuk Christian
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Academy. And they invested decades of their lives
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for that, the Thais and loving the Thai people.
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And I noticed a couple of things now when we
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did the funeral and the memorial. In those moments,
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we always give people the opportunity to share,
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share a memory, share a word of encouragement,
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anything. And you know what I've noticed in all
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the funerals that I've led in my pastoral ministry?
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I never heard somebody say something like, oh,
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yeah, she dressed so nicely. Or, oh, he had a
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nice car. Their house was beautiful. No one ever
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says things like that at a funeral. You know
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what they say? They say things like, you know
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what? One time I needed help, and he showed up
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to help me. Oh, you know, one time I was going
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through some struggles and no one really cared,
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but she listened to me. And she changed her plans
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to make me a priority. You know what people say?
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People say, this person loved me. And that is
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what they remember. And that is what they celebrate
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because that is what matters most. And in 2017,
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when my father -in -law, Dick, was diagnosed
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already with cancer, they were coming here to
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celebrate an anniversary with Maitre Chit. And
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we thought, you know what? We do not know if
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this is the last time we can take a trip together
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or not. So we decided, let's just go. So we came
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to Thailand in 2017. By the way, that's the first
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time I stopped by ECB and I came to know ECB.
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Without realizing that God would call me several
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years later to lead the ministry here. But at
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that time, I noticed something. It was very interesting
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with my in -laws. Everybody just loved them.
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And they were just spending time with them. You
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could see the attitude of gratitude. And I could
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see it. When my mother -in -law died. Here in
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Thailand, they did a memorial service. It was
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beautiful. Even though she wasn't here, her body
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wasn't here, she died in the U .S. What church
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does that? Only a place that has been impacted
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by love and laughs back. It was a very meaningful
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time for the family. But the testimonies were
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all about this. They loved me. When I was a kid,
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they loved me. She was like a mother to me. He
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was like a father to me. They loved me. And what
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is interesting is that the Bible talks about
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this very clearly. In fact, when the Bible is
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going to quote Prophet Isaiah, it's going to
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quote Isaiah, you know, this imagery of being
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grass. He's going to, the Apostle Peter is going
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to quote this in the context of this. It's like,
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look, remember you are grass, so go and love
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people. Remember you are here temporarily, so
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people matter most. He's going to say that. And
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this is how he says it. Now that you have been
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purified yourselves by obeying the truth, so
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that you have sincere love for each other, and
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love one another deeply from the heart. For you
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have been born again. Not of perishable seed
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but of imperishable. Through the living and enduring
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word of God. Love people because now you have
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a new nature in you. The love that you need is
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not born from you. It's born in God through you.
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Because now that you are following Christ, if
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you are a follower of Jesus, he's your savior,
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you have the Holy Spirit in you. And now that
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you have the Holy Spirit in you, the fruit of
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the Spirit is what? Love, joy, peace, and all
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of these things from him. So love people deeply
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because you are born again. You have what it
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takes. And then he says this. Can you read it
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with me out loud? For all people are like grass.
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And all their glory is like the flowers of the
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field. The grass withers and the flowers fall.
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But the word of the Lord endures forever. And
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this is the word that was preached to you. Don't
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forget. You are grass. Here today. gone tomorrow.
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Therefore, love people. And you know, for those
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of us who are in leadership, this matters so
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much because when you are leading, whether you
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are leading a team or an organization, leading
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is about mobilizing people to accomplish certain
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things. So you have due dates, you have projects
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that need to happen, you have plans that need
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to be accomplished, and the emphasis can become
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so much in the doing that needs to happen and
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the numbers and the things, the next thing and
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then the next thing, that we forget that the
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accomplishing is not the most important thing,
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but is the loving of the people that we are leading
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in order to accomplish the things. And if you
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are entrusted by God, With the gift of leadership
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and the position to lead people, whether it be
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in your company, whether it be in your ministry,
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whether it be at home. Remember that these people
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that the Lord has placed under your leadership
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have one primary need and that is to be loved.
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And if you lose your perspective, rather than
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loving them as you lead them, you are going to
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be annoyed by them as you lead them. And they're
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going to not feel loved, but they're going to
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feel your annoyance. And you have lost your perspective.
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So are we loving the people? Or we have lost
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our perspective and make things or accomplishments
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or goals more important. I remember a professor
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that would tell us, his name was Howard Hendricks
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at Dallas Theological Seminary. He would tell
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us, students, you have to remember, people don't
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care what you know until they know that you care.
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That's easy to remember, right? People don't
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care what you know until they know that you care.
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And that's it. God is my priority. Make loving
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people your priority. And then from that, what
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follows is this. If we're going to live with
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eternal perspective, We're going to prioritize
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serving God. We realize that who we are is not
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an accident. I'm not here just because of the
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will of people. I'm here because God created
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me. He designed me. He gave me gifts and abilities.
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And he didn't give me some gifts and some abilities
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that I don't have. And that's good. I'm good
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for something and I'm not good for some others.
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And that's fine. But God entrusted me the things
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that I'm good at and the passions and the gifts
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so that I can use them for his purposes. And
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therefore, if there's anything that I have that
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he has given me, even if it's insignificant in
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my eyes, is an area that God means for me to
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invest for his kingdom. And this was beautiful
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to see as we were with our group from ECB visiting
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Oxford and we went to C .S. Lewis' home and then
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we went to his church and graveyard. If you do
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not know who C .S. Lewis is, let me just give
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you a short description. He was a man who lived
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in England. who was an atheist. He was in the
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academics, he taught at Cambridge, then he taught
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at Oxford, at Magdalen College. And then, as
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an adult, he became a follower of Jesus. And
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the process from being an atheist to becoming
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a follower of Jesus was a process in which he
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had to wrestle with what was really true. And
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because he was an intellectual, a lot of his
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wrestling was about ideas and concepts and the
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logic of things. So later when he became a Christian,
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he started engaging with people and discussions
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and things. And from that, he had the opportunity
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to do some radio programs talking about why Christianity
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was a reasonable faith, why it was true. And
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from those programs, then he started writing
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and he wrote a book. called Mere Christianity,
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which was a summary of some of his talks. And
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that book became very famous because in that
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book, Mere Christianity, he was able to summarize
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common questions that people had about, well,
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but what about this and what about that? That
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doesn't make sense. And he was able to give a
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logical explanation for every single thing in
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a way that was very gifted. And not only that,
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he loved writing. And he had a gift for creativity,
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so he became a prolific writer. If you watch
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or your kids watch the movie, The Chronicles
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of Narnia, well, that's actually a series of
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books. And those books were written by C .S.
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Lewis. And they are a metaphor of Christianity.
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The lion that dies and gives his life for the
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kid, that's a metaphor for Jesus. And he's using
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all this creative writing as a way of portraying
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Christian truths. And they became famous and
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they became movies. But he loved writing. And
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we went to his house. We were able to sit at
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one of his desks and took pictures like C .S.
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Lewis, you know, with the things he smokes, you
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know, and all this stuff that he had. It was
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funny. But we learned that actually he had written
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so many letters that there were a whole collection.
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Now you can have the book published with a collection
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of his letters. He took time to answer people
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that he did not know. This is before internet,
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before emails. And he will write these letters
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and he will send them to people. And when a person
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receives the letter from a guy that took the
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time to answer, they treasure those. And they
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kept them. And before they even could realize,
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those became a collection, and then they became
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a book. That gift for writing. Hey, you're good
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at writing. Yeah, I mean, well, it's not a big
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thing. It's not, you know, there are other gifts
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that are better, but writing? What can writing
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do? Hey, you got a major in English. Yeah, English,
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but what? What could that do? Do you realize
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that when God gives you a gift, there's no gift
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that you have that is insignificant? God can
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use anything that you offer him and he will take
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it and make an impact that you could never ever
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imagine. But when you start realizing that everything
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that you are, everything that you have is for
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him, for his purpose, so you just start doing
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it. Suddenly, your life takes a whole different
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direction. And that's what happened to C .S.
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Lewis. He was just an ordinary guy. He grew up
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in a home where his mother died when he was a
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kid. He only had a brother. Then his relationship
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with his father was not good. It was emotionally
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distant. He wasn't going to school. So he was
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emotionally in a place that he did not connect
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well. And then his father died. He only had his
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brother. And then there's the rest of his life
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that happened. You can read his biography or
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look at the links in the study guide for this
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study. When we visited the church, what was very
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interesting is that not only were we able to
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see the graveyard where he is, but we were able
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to go inside the church. We had a time there
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to pray together with the team and sing together.
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And the people leading that time were telling
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us, oh, you want to sit down at the bench where
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C .S. Lewis used to sit? It's like, you know
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where he used to sit? Yeah, he used to sit here.
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And they have even a little plaque right there
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with the name C .S. Lewis. It's like, before
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you knew it, everybody wanted to sit there and
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take a picture. And they would explain to us,
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like, he was famous, but he didn't like people.
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Like, he didn't like that. He was just a simple
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guy, so he would sit here, because there's this
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pillar right here, so it would cover him from
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seeing people. And he would only see the preacher,
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like that. He was an introvert. And he liked
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it like that. We visited his home that we were
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able now to do the tour to understand better
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his life and everything. And that was my third
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time for me doing that tour and being in Oxford.
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But all of those moments are such a good reminder.
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Sometimes you see people that have succeeded
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or God has used tremendously and you think of
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them as if they are like somewhere there. And
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in reality, they were just normal people with
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simple gifts that they made available for God.
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And God used them beyond what they could ever
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imagine or do on their own. And that's what you
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see here in this picture. You come out of the
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church, right there on the yard, the cemetery.
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And there's his graveyard. And we're able to
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stand around with our team as we're reflected.
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On his life. And then we thank God together for
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his life. You know what the Bible says about
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this? Jesus said that he has entrusted people
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with gifts. And he told this parable. He gave
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gifts to this guy, to this guy, to this guy.
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And then each one reacted to it differently.
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And one of them decided not to do anything with
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it. The other two did something with it. And
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at the end of the story, Jesus says, well done,
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good and faithful servant. You have been faithful
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with a few things. I will put you in charge of
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many things. Come, share your master's happiness.
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And that's the end of the parable. And this is
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the reminder that at the end of the day, When
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everything is said and done, whether you have
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become a person that is well known or someone
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that very few people know, that really does not
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matter. What matters is what God thinks and what
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God says and God knows whether you are living
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to serve him and you're investing what he has
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entrusted you with for his purposes. And one
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day, I do not know you, but me. If there's one
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thing that I desire, it's to hear our Lord say,
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well done, good and faithful servant. Just come
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and share in your master's happiness. You finally
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made it. You are here. Come in. Well done. That
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will mean more than anything else. And that's
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why in this role of leadership in which the Lord
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entrusts us with, we have to be very well grounded
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on this space. From a leader to a leader. Let
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me tell you this. When you are leading, sometimes
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you will say things or do things that people
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will love. And sometimes you will do things or
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say things that people will dislike. People will
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love you and equally people will hate you. That's
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the way of leadership. If you lose your perspective,
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you're going to become a people -pleasing leader.
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Manipulative, fake, you name it. You lost your
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perspective. In reality, it doesn't matter whether
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you liked the leadership, whether you liked the
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sermon, whether you liked what was said or not
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said. At the end of the day, if we are sitting
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across from each other with a cup of coffee and
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whatever you have in your cup, and I can tell
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you, you know what I realize? I don't care. I
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don't care what people think. I don't care what
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you think. Because the only thing that matters
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is what God thinks. And he knows the truth. And
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one day we are going to stand in his presence.
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Truth will be spoken. So leaders, if you are
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leading, don't fall for the trap of leading to
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please people. Lead. to please God. And when
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you do that, so much freeing because you are
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serving the Lord with eternal perspective. Live
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for this day, not for Friday. So, is serving
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God your priority? Is this part of the perspective
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or you have lost that perspective? And I realized
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as I conclude this reflection that if God is
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going to become my priority, if loving people
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is going to become a priority, and serving God
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is going to become a priority, and that's how
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we follow the Lord because that's what eternal
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perspective is about. Sometimes that takes you
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to places that are difficult because it costs
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you. You have a higher price to pay than other
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people. And sometimes that price is a relational
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cost of separation. You will have to be separated
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from people that you love. Your children grow
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up. They're in other countries. You will never
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see them. You will see them once a year. Grandkids
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are born. You don't get to be with them. You
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don't get to see them grow old because God placed
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you somewhere else. You went and visited your
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parents during this break, and when you say goodbye
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to them, you wonder, is this the last time I'm
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going to see them? How did you function in that
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space? How does separation become manageable?
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How do you carry that weight? There's only one
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way. And that's with eternal perspective. Because
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if we are going to be able to pay the price of
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separation, it's because we understand that separation
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is temporary. And we have to see it that way.
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Otherwise the grieving becomes difficult. As
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we were in Guatemala during our time there, it
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was our first time as a family to be there in
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a beautiful country. And we were there to celebrate
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the 60th anniversary of my parents. And you can
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see them right here in the middle. The white
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hair, gray hair, that's dad. His name is Nelson.
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And next to him, mom, Rebecca. Some of you have
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asked us, how are your parents doing? Mom had
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stomach cancer. Her stomach was removed. She
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went through chemo. She's cancer -free today.
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And she's stable. She's in a good place. How's
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your dad doing? Well, dad is also stable. He's
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in a place in which his memory issues with the
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beginnings of Alzheimer's and all of that is
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progressing but still functional. So we can still
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talk, we can still joke, we can still do things,
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but he's a fraction of what he used to be. And
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that space of deeper conversation cannot happen.
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You cannot go deeper because that's missing now.
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But we were able to be together, and as you know,
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I'm the fourth of seven kids. Six of the seven
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were able to gather together, so the others arrived
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as a surprise for my parents. We all gathered
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there. And we live in different countries, different
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places, and we know that then it's time to say
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goodbye. And then our son Alex was able to join
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us there as well, so it was good to be together.
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Our kids love each other. They have a good relationship,
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so they look forward to being together. and for
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him to reconnect with the rest of the family.
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And then we have to say goodbye to him, too,
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because he lives in Oregon and graduated from
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college already, and he's in a new season in
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his life. So we are in this time in which it's
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like we love people, we love family, we enjoy
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a little bit, and then goodbye. And when do we
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see each other? Would it be heaven? Would it
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be here? We do not know. If you live in that
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space, I understand. One of my brothers is not
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a follower of Christ. So I also know what it's
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like to feel at moments like, is this the last
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time? And am I going to see him in heaven or
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not? I don't know. And in those moments you intercede
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and we intercede for you if you have loved ones
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that do not know the Lord and that's heavy in
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your heart and you say, Pastor Pablo, pray for
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my father, pray for my sibling, pray for mom.
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We understand. The only way we can live in this
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space is with eternal perspective. So let me
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conclude with this verse because this is what
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The Apostle Paul says in Philippians and captures
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it so well. He says, I have told you before.
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And I say it again with tears in my eyes that
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there are many whose conduct shows that they
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are real enemies of the cross of Christ. They
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are headed for destruction and their God is their
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appetite. They brag about shameful things. They
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think only about this life here on earth. they
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do not have eternal perspective because they
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do not know the Lord. So they live for here and
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now by you, follower of Jesus. You and I are
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not them. We are citizens of heaven where the
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Lord Jesus Christ lives and we are eagerly waiting
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for him to return as our Savior and he will take...
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Our weak mortal bodies. And change them into
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glorious bodies. Like his own. Using the same
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power. With which he will bring everything under
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his control. This is what is about to happen.
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This is where we are going. So if God is calling
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you to be separated. From people that you love.
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It's worth it. For the cause of Christ. Because
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the separation is temporary. The day is coming.
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When the Lord will come back and everything that
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we have lived for will be fulfilled. And that
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is the beginning of the rest of our lives. So
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we say goodbye with hope. And with perspective
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that is eternal. That is the only way. So if
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you are in that time of grieving, readjusting,
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don't. Lose your perspective. Jesus says that
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the only way to follow him is by keeping this
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eternal perspective. So therefore, that is how
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we're going to walk with God. We're not going
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to lose our perspective. And we're going to stand
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up together today and we're going to tell the
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Lord, Lord, you are amazing. And if I have lost
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my perspective, would you please reframe me again?
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Let me walk with you with eternal perspective
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because that is what my heart needs. If you have
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lost your perspective, would you tell the Lord?
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Will you recommit to him? Would you seek him
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to strengthen you? Here, right now, in your own
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words, as we worship the Lord. Father, You loved
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us and you sent your son Jesus to die for us
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so that all things can be made right again, reconciled
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with you. And your word says that one day our
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Lord Jesus will return and things will be fulfilled
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and we'll live for that. So thank you, Lord,
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for the experiences that have pointed us back
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to you. And I want to intercede for my friends
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here today, Lord, if there's anyone that have
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lost their perspective, bring them back to you.
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Empower them so that they will live for you first,
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to serve you first, and to love you People with
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your love. Even. When you have called them to
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love. People that are hard to love. You empower
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them. So intercede for them. And I ask you. Encounter
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them in this space of worship. In Jesus name.
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Amen. Whether near or far, if you are looking
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for community or are in need of prayer, we welcome
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support our ministries, you will find giving
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