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Walking with God: Lessons from a Pastor's Heart - Chapter 1: Eternal Perspective | Pastor Pablo Morales

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  1. Welcome to ECB's weekly sermon podcast. ECB is

  2. an international church in Bangkok, Thailand,

  3. with dozens of nationalities worshiping together.

  4. We invite you to connect with us from wherever

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  7. by this week's sermon. As a space that is very

  8. intimate and very close as if we are sitting

  9. across each other sharing a cup of coffee. And

  10. we are having a conversation about, so how are

  11. you doing? How was your summer? What do you do?

  12. What is the Lord teaching you? Where are you

  13. at? I want to take this time to share some reflections.

  14. As we're walking with the Lord in this season,

  15. especially as we're coming out of this stage

  16. of traveling and all the things that happen.

  17. And it doesn't matter whether you don't drink

  18. coffee. That's okay. You can pick another drink

  19. if you want. But my cup is going to be dark,

  20. strong coffee, no sugar. And as we reflect, today

  21. what I want... you to get and to remember is

  22. simply this. Don't lose your perspective. And

  23. what do I mean by perspective? See, during this

  24. time, we went to the US, the state of Texas,

  25. we were there, and then we went to Kansas for

  26. the sole purpose of leading the burial and the

  27. memorial service for my mother -in -law, who

  28. passed away in April, 95 years of age, widow,

  29. former missionary here in Thailand. Then we moved

  30. to Guatemala for maybe 10 days or so to spend

  31. time with my parents, whom I hadn't seen for

  32. over two years, to celebrate the 60th anniversary.

  33. Who would have imagined that? And then we came

  34. back to Thailand for one day and then we flew

  35. to England to spend time in London and Oxford

  36. with the ACB team that took the trip with our

  37. class on apologetics crossroads. And then we

  38. just came back this week. It's like very intense

  39. time. And in these spaces, this idea of perspective

  40. has become more and more intense. Because we

  41. can follow God and lose our perspective and then

  42. everything becomes misaligned. But when we follow

  43. Christ and we follow him with the right perspective,

  44. everything changes. And it is very important.

  45. That as we are walking with the Lord, we do not

  46. lose the right perspective. Let me put it this

  47. way. I'm going to show you three pictures. And

  48. I want you to pick the one you identify with

  49. the most. No particular reason. Just pick one.

  50. Done? Okay. So if I were to ask the prophet Isaiah.

  51. Pick one of these three. Which one do you identify

  52. the most with? He will pick this one. He's like,

  53. what? Grass? I didn't imagine that. What are

  54. you, like, spiky hair or something? Why grass?

  55. He says, oh, let me tell you why. All people

  56. are like grass, says the prophet. Faithfulness

  57. is like the flowers of the field. The grass withers

  58. and the flowers fall because the breath of the

  59. Lord blows on them. Surely the people are grass.

  60. The grass withers and the flowers fall, but the

  61. word of our God endures forever. Pablo, you're

  62. grass. You are here today, you will be gone tomorrow.

  63. Don't forget that. Don't forget that you are

  64. just passing by and that this life is not it.

  65. This is part of the experience of being a human.

  66. But life is more than this. And one day, the

  67. grave is coming. And I started the trip with

  68. the realization that my mother -in -law is gone,

  69. Charlotte. And to see, realize that now she's

  70. in this thing and we're going to bury her and

  71. enter into her home and she's not there anymore

  72. and the absence being so present. And then we

  73. conclude the trip going to... England and we

  74. visited a couple of places and we started in

  75. London. We went to the British Library to talk

  76. about the Bible and the text. And we went to

  77. the British Museum and we talked about the history

  78. and archaeology and all of that. And we visited

  79. a couple of churches and then we went to Oxford

  80. to also talk about C .S. Lewis and and his life,

  81. and understand all of that stuff. And we went

  82. to Darwin's home in London to talk about Darwinian

  83. evolution. And we had lectures with scientists

  84. on the fallacies of evolution based on science.

  85. And it was really a very intense trip. But there's

  86. something very unique about visiting England

  87. and going to the Church of England or the Anglican

  88. churches. And that is something that you do not

  89. see here. If you have been shaped in your Christian

  90. experience by the average evangelical experience,

  91. which is kind of like coming to ECB today to

  92. worship, you see people, then you go home. It's

  93. not like that. Let me show you this picture.

  94. What do you see? Well, you see a cemetery, right?

  95. You see a graveyard. Well, this is the entrance

  96. to the church. Can you imagine driving here into

  97. ECB and the first thing you see is like all these

  98. dead people places, you know. And then you walk

  99. into the church to worship. It's like death is

  100. right there on your face. And this place is not

  101. just any church. This is the church that C .S.

  102. Lewis attended and this is the place where he

  103. is buried. A little bit more about that later

  104. today. We also visited Christ Church College

  105. and Christ Church Chapel. And as you came there,

  106. it's the same thing. Same thing. It's that you

  107. have people that have died. Some of them are

  108. buried inside. And some others are not buried

  109. inside, but there's these places. dedicated for

  110. them to honor their lives because they studied

  111. there or they contributed to society in a meaningful

  112. way. And two, very meaningful people there, or

  113. actually I should say three, famous philosopher

  114. John Locke. That's right here. Right there. Imagine

  115. you are sitting on your chair and you are stepping

  116. on the tomb of somebody or a plaque of somebody

  117. or something that reminds you that, They lived

  118. here and now they're dead. And the other one

  119. was John Wesley and Charles Wesley. John Wesley

  120. was the founder of the Methodist Church. That's

  121. where he studied. And once again, inside the

  122. church, you have all these places that are reminding

  123. you, you are just grass. You are here today and

  124. gone tomorrow. And when Jesus talked about that,

  125. he asked a very poignant question to all of us.

  126. And he says, look, if any of you wants to be

  127. my follower, you must give up your own way, take

  128. up your cross and follow me. If you try to hang

  129. on to your life, you will lose it. But if you

  130. give up your life for my sake, you will save

  131. it. And then he says, really, think about it.

  132. What do you benefit? If you gain the whole world,

  133. but you lose your own soul. In fact, is anything

  134. worth more than your soul? And he gets to the

  135. core to remind us that we are these spiritual

  136. beings. We have these bodies that are part of

  137. being a human, but one day this body will be

  138. in the grave, will become dust, and our soul

  139. will continue. And then we'll just await our

  140. glorification of our bodies and the final resurrection.

  141. This is our future. This is what's going to happen,

  142. and that's why Jesus says at the end of this

  143. section, For the Son of Man will come with his

  144. angels in the glory of his Father and will judge

  145. all people according to their deeds. So don't

  146. lose your perspective. If you are going to follow

  147. me, the only way to follow me well is by having

  148. eternal perspective. Remember that you are grass,

  149. that you are here today, gone tomorrow, and because

  150. that's the reality, make sure that you are living.

  151. With eternal perspective. And what does this

  152. look like is very specific. What does it look

  153. like to follow Jesus with eternal perspective?

  154. First thing is that to follow Jesus with eternal

  155. perspective is a life that is characterized by

  156. prioritizing God. God is the highest priority,

  157. is the most important thing. And there's such

  158. an awareness that we belong to him and that we

  159. are accountable to him that everything we do,

  160. even the most private spaces and the deepest

  161. motives of our heart that only you are aware

  162. of are always under that awareness. And this

  163. is very important because as we are living life,

  164. We are so busy with everything and all the things

  165. that we have to do. But when we forget that this

  166. is temporary, then we think that this life is

  167. all there is. And therefore, it matters more

  168. than it really does. And when we start having

  169. that wrong perspective, we become fearful and

  170. controlling. And when we become controlling,

  171. we have really lost our perspective. There was

  172. a guy that was very famous. He had succeeded

  173. in his life. He had all the money he could have.

  174. He had all the women that he could ever have.

  175. He had all the fame he could ever dream of. He

  176. had all the power to do everything he wanted.

  177. You know his name? Solomon. King Solomon. And

  178. at the end of his life, after he pursued every

  179. single thing he could pursue in his life, he

  180. wrote this book, Ecclesiastes, which is in the

  181. Old Testament. And at the very end of the book,

  182. after he has said everything, he says, you know

  183. what I realize? This is what matters most. Now

  184. all has been heard. I've written everything already,

  185. so let me conclude like this. Here is the conclusion

  186. of the matter. Fear God and keep his commandments

  187. for this is the duty of all mankind. Fear the

  188. Lord and obey him. Simple. Why? Well, because

  189. you are accountable to him and one day you will

  190. give an account to him. Jesus said it. And Solomon,

  191. after he had done all the things he did, which

  192. some of them were not good, now he realizes,

  193. oops, now that I've tasted this and that and

  194. this and that, I realize that all of that is

  195. worthless. Because the only thing that matters

  196. most is God. And he says at the end, for God

  197. will bring every deed into judgment, including

  198. every hidden thing, whether it is good or evil.

  199. As we are following the Lord, I realize in this

  200. time of reflection that what matters most is

  201. God. And us being honest to Him. Because when

  202. we're honest to Him, and that flows in how we

  203. follow the Lord and the things we do, things

  204. are different. The deepest motives of the heart

  205. are brought to the light. Because one day truth,

  206. truth will reign. And one day you will be seen

  207. for what you truly were and not for what you

  208. pretended to be. So as we serve the Lord together

  209. and as we follow him together, this matters.

  210. If I had my phone here with you and we were across

  211. the table from each other, I would be showing

  212. you the pictures, you know. Look at this one

  213. and you will show me some and I'll show you another

  214. one. Well, I cannot show you my phone, but I

  215. can show you better than the phone, the screen

  216. here. When we arrived to the town of Chanute,

  217. which is the town in Kansas where my in -laws

  218. came from, that's where they are buried. In order

  219. to do the burial service, we first met at a church,

  220. a small church that was right there in the town,

  221. and they opened their place for us to be able

  222. to host all the guests and the family and the

  223. friends that gathered. And as I was walking in

  224. the building, I noticed the meeting room, the

  225. boardroom, where the elders or leaders of the

  226. church would meet. And I saw something that was

  227. written on the wall, and I thought, I need to

  228. take a picture of this. Because it captures this

  229. in essence. Now, this is very informal English

  230. that Americans can understand. But it says, if

  231. it ain't kingdom, it ain't worth it. If this

  232. is not for God, it's not worth it. If it's not

  233. born from him and for him, you're wasting your

  234. time. Why waste your time in pursuing things

  235. that you know God is not in? Why try to push

  236. your agenda instead of serving God's? Don't lose

  237. your perspective. If you are single, if you are

  238. young, the world is telling you that you need

  239. to live for you to be happy. Pursue who you truly

  240. are. Follow your feelings. Follow your heart.

  241. And God says, no, that's not true. Do not follow

  242. your feelings. Do not follow your heart because

  243. you are a sinner and you have a sinful heart.

  244. And things that you desire that are contrary

  245. to me are not going to lead you to a good place.

  246. Do not buy the lie. Do not lose your perspective.

  247. If it's not for me or from me, you're going to

  248. waste your time. Don't go that route. Have you

  249. lost your perspective? And suddenly God is no

  250. longer the priority? But you are? Yeah, it gets

  251. personal, doesn't it? These are things that the

  252. Lord uses to remind you of what is foundational.

  253. So yeah, if we're going to follow Jesus with

  254. eternal perspective, we must follow him by making

  255. God and the awareness of God in every space of

  256. our lives the priority. And if God is a priority,

  257. the second thing follows. Is that we are following

  258. God with eternal perspective. Then we prioritize

  259. people. And I'll tell you why. If my soul matters

  260. so much to God. Hey, those people are also a

  261. soul. And they matter to God that much too. In

  262. fact, God loves them so much that he sent Jesus

  263. to die for them. And if I love God so much, then

  264. I'm going to love people too because he loves

  265. them. And that love and that care for people

  266. comes not from them being lovable or from me

  267. being a nice person. It comes from this connection

  268. with God where I start loving what God loves

  269. because I love God first. And it flows. And this.

  270. Means that if we are serving God. We are living

  271. our lives. Following God with eternal perspective.

  272. The way that our lives are going to be characterized.

  273. As is by being people who love people. Let me

  274. show you another picture. This is my in -laws.

  275. Dick and Charlotte Worley. Right now. They're

  276. with the Lord. And many years ago, the Lord led

  277. them here to Thailand to work as missionaries

  278. here. They work with an organization called American

  279. Baptists. They were part of a church called Matrachet

  280. Baptist Church here in Bangkok. And they started

  281. a school here in Thailand called Samuk Christian

  282. Academy. And they invested decades of their lives

  283. for that, the Thais and loving the Thai people.

  284. And I noticed a couple of things now when we

  285. did the funeral and the memorial. In those moments,

  286. we always give people the opportunity to share,

  287. share a memory, share a word of encouragement,

  288. anything. And you know what I've noticed in all

  289. the funerals that I've led in my pastoral ministry?

  290. I never heard somebody say something like, oh,

  291. yeah, she dressed so nicely. Or, oh, he had a

  292. nice car. Their house was beautiful. No one ever

  293. says things like that at a funeral. You know

  294. what they say? They say things like, you know

  295. what? One time I needed help, and he showed up

  296. to help me. Oh, you know, one time I was going

  297. through some struggles and no one really cared,

  298. but she listened to me. And she changed her plans

  299. to make me a priority. You know what people say?

  300. People say, this person loved me. And that is

  301. what they remember. And that is what they celebrate

  302. because that is what matters most. And in 2017,

  303. when my father -in -law, Dick, was diagnosed

  304. already with cancer, they were coming here to

  305. celebrate an anniversary with Maitre Chit. And

  306. we thought, you know what? We do not know if

  307. this is the last time we can take a trip together

  308. or not. So we decided, let's just go. So we came

  309. to Thailand in 2017. By the way, that's the first

  310. time I stopped by ECB and I came to know ECB.

  311. Without realizing that God would call me several

  312. years later to lead the ministry here. But at

  313. that time, I noticed something. It was very interesting

  314. with my in -laws. Everybody just loved them.

  315. And they were just spending time with them. You

  316. could see the attitude of gratitude. And I could

  317. see it. When my mother -in -law died. Here in

  318. Thailand, they did a memorial service. It was

  319. beautiful. Even though she wasn't here, her body

  320. wasn't here, she died in the U .S. What church

  321. does that? Only a place that has been impacted

  322. by love and laughs back. It was a very meaningful

  323. time for the family. But the testimonies were

  324. all about this. They loved me. When I was a kid,

  325. they loved me. She was like a mother to me. He

  326. was like a father to me. They loved me. And what

  327. is interesting is that the Bible talks about

  328. this very clearly. In fact, when the Bible is

  329. going to quote Prophet Isaiah, it's going to

  330. quote Isaiah, you know, this imagery of being

  331. grass. He's going to, the Apostle Peter is going

  332. to quote this in the context of this. It's like,

  333. look, remember you are grass, so go and love

  334. people. Remember you are here temporarily, so

  335. people matter most. He's going to say that. And

  336. this is how he says it. Now that you have been

  337. purified yourselves by obeying the truth, so

  338. that you have sincere love for each other, and

  339. love one another deeply from the heart. For you

  340. have been born again. Not of perishable seed

  341. but of imperishable. Through the living and enduring

  342. word of God. Love people because now you have

  343. a new nature in you. The love that you need is

  344. not born from you. It's born in God through you.

  345. Because now that you are following Christ, if

  346. you are a follower of Jesus, he's your savior,

  347. you have the Holy Spirit in you. And now that

  348. you have the Holy Spirit in you, the fruit of

  349. the Spirit is what? Love, joy, peace, and all

  350. of these things from him. So love people deeply

  351. because you are born again. You have what it

  352. takes. And then he says this. Can you read it

  353. with me out loud? For all people are like grass.

  354. And all their glory is like the flowers of the

  355. field. The grass withers and the flowers fall.

  356. But the word of the Lord endures forever. And

  357. this is the word that was preached to you. Don't

  358. forget. You are grass. Here today. gone tomorrow.

  359. Therefore, love people. And you know, for those

  360. of us who are in leadership, this matters so

  361. much because when you are leading, whether you

  362. are leading a team or an organization, leading

  363. is about mobilizing people to accomplish certain

  364. things. So you have due dates, you have projects

  365. that need to happen, you have plans that need

  366. to be accomplished, and the emphasis can become

  367. so much in the doing that needs to happen and

  368. the numbers and the things, the next thing and

  369. then the next thing, that we forget that the

  370. accomplishing is not the most important thing,

  371. but is the loving of the people that we are leading

  372. in order to accomplish the things. And if you

  373. are entrusted by God, With the gift of leadership

  374. and the position to lead people, whether it be

  375. in your company, whether it be in your ministry,

  376. whether it be at home. Remember that these people

  377. that the Lord has placed under your leadership

  378. have one primary need and that is to be loved.

  379. And if you lose your perspective, rather than

  380. loving them as you lead them, you are going to

  381. be annoyed by them as you lead them. And they're

  382. going to not feel loved, but they're going to

  383. feel your annoyance. And you have lost your perspective.

  384. So are we loving the people? Or we have lost

  385. our perspective and make things or accomplishments

  386. or goals more important. I remember a professor

  387. that would tell us, his name was Howard Hendricks

  388. at Dallas Theological Seminary. He would tell

  389. us, students, you have to remember, people don't

  390. care what you know until they know that you care.

  391. That's easy to remember, right? People don't

  392. care what you know until they know that you care.

  393. And that's it. God is my priority. Make loving

  394. people your priority. And then from that, what

  395. follows is this. If we're going to live with

  396. eternal perspective, We're going to prioritize

  397. serving God. We realize that who we are is not

  398. an accident. I'm not here just because of the

  399. will of people. I'm here because God created

  400. me. He designed me. He gave me gifts and abilities.

  401. And he didn't give me some gifts and some abilities

  402. that I don't have. And that's good. I'm good

  403. for something and I'm not good for some others.

  404. And that's fine. But God entrusted me the things

  405. that I'm good at and the passions and the gifts

  406. so that I can use them for his purposes. And

  407. therefore, if there's anything that I have that

  408. he has given me, even if it's insignificant in

  409. my eyes, is an area that God means for me to

  410. invest for his kingdom. And this was beautiful

  411. to see as we were with our group from ECB visiting

  412. Oxford and we went to C .S. Lewis' home and then

  413. we went to his church and graveyard. If you do

  414. not know who C .S. Lewis is, let me just give

  415. you a short description. He was a man who lived

  416. in England. who was an atheist. He was in the

  417. academics, he taught at Cambridge, then he taught

  418. at Oxford, at Magdalen College. And then, as

  419. an adult, he became a follower of Jesus. And

  420. the process from being an atheist to becoming

  421. a follower of Jesus was a process in which he

  422. had to wrestle with what was really true. And

  423. because he was an intellectual, a lot of his

  424. wrestling was about ideas and concepts and the

  425. logic of things. So later when he became a Christian,

  426. he started engaging with people and discussions

  427. and things. And from that, he had the opportunity

  428. to do some radio programs talking about why Christianity

  429. was a reasonable faith, why it was true. And

  430. from those programs, then he started writing

  431. and he wrote a book. called Mere Christianity,

  432. which was a summary of some of his talks. And

  433. that book became very famous because in that

  434. book, Mere Christianity, he was able to summarize

  435. common questions that people had about, well,

  436. but what about this and what about that? That

  437. doesn't make sense. And he was able to give a

  438. logical explanation for every single thing in

  439. a way that was very gifted. And not only that,

  440. he loved writing. And he had a gift for creativity,

  441. so he became a prolific writer. If you watch

  442. or your kids watch the movie, The Chronicles

  443. of Narnia, well, that's actually a series of

  444. books. And those books were written by C .S.

  445. Lewis. And they are a metaphor of Christianity.

  446. The lion that dies and gives his life for the

  447. kid, that's a metaphor for Jesus. And he's using

  448. all this creative writing as a way of portraying

  449. Christian truths. And they became famous and

  450. they became movies. But he loved writing. And

  451. we went to his house. We were able to sit at

  452. one of his desks and took pictures like C .S.

  453. Lewis, you know, with the things he smokes, you

  454. know, and all this stuff that he had. It was

  455. funny. But we learned that actually he had written

  456. so many letters that there were a whole collection.

  457. Now you can have the book published with a collection

  458. of his letters. He took time to answer people

  459. that he did not know. This is before internet,

  460. before emails. And he will write these letters

  461. and he will send them to people. And when a person

  462. receives the letter from a guy that took the

  463. time to answer, they treasure those. And they

  464. kept them. And before they even could realize,

  465. those became a collection, and then they became

  466. a book. That gift for writing. Hey, you're good

  467. at writing. Yeah, I mean, well, it's not a big

  468. thing. It's not, you know, there are other gifts

  469. that are better, but writing? What can writing

  470. do? Hey, you got a major in English. Yeah, English,

  471. but what? What could that do? Do you realize

  472. that when God gives you a gift, there's no gift

  473. that you have that is insignificant? God can

  474. use anything that you offer him and he will take

  475. it and make an impact that you could never ever

  476. imagine. But when you start realizing that everything

  477. that you are, everything that you have is for

  478. him, for his purpose, so you just start doing

  479. it. Suddenly, your life takes a whole different

  480. direction. And that's what happened to C .S.

  481. Lewis. He was just an ordinary guy. He grew up

  482. in a home where his mother died when he was a

  483. kid. He only had a brother. Then his relationship

  484. with his father was not good. It was emotionally

  485. distant. He wasn't going to school. So he was

  486. emotionally in a place that he did not connect

  487. well. And then his father died. He only had his

  488. brother. And then there's the rest of his life

  489. that happened. You can read his biography or

  490. look at the links in the study guide for this

  491. study. When we visited the church, what was very

  492. interesting is that not only were we able to

  493. see the graveyard where he is, but we were able

  494. to go inside the church. We had a time there

  495. to pray together with the team and sing together.

  496. And the people leading that time were telling

  497. us, oh, you want to sit down at the bench where

  498. C .S. Lewis used to sit? It's like, you know

  499. where he used to sit? Yeah, he used to sit here.

  500. And they have even a little plaque right there

  501. with the name C .S. Lewis. It's like, before

  502. you knew it, everybody wanted to sit there and

  503. take a picture. And they would explain to us,

  504. like, he was famous, but he didn't like people.

  505. Like, he didn't like that. He was just a simple

  506. guy, so he would sit here, because there's this

  507. pillar right here, so it would cover him from

  508. seeing people. And he would only see the preacher,

  509. like that. He was an introvert. And he liked

  510. it like that. We visited his home that we were

  511. able now to do the tour to understand better

  512. his life and everything. And that was my third

  513. time for me doing that tour and being in Oxford.

  514. But all of those moments are such a good reminder.

  515. Sometimes you see people that have succeeded

  516. or God has used tremendously and you think of

  517. them as if they are like somewhere there. And

  518. in reality, they were just normal people with

  519. simple gifts that they made available for God.

  520. And God used them beyond what they could ever

  521. imagine or do on their own. And that's what you

  522. see here in this picture. You come out of the

  523. church, right there on the yard, the cemetery.

  524. And there's his graveyard. And we're able to

  525. stand around with our team as we're reflected.

  526. On his life. And then we thank God together for

  527. his life. You know what the Bible says about

  528. this? Jesus said that he has entrusted people

  529. with gifts. And he told this parable. He gave

  530. gifts to this guy, to this guy, to this guy.

  531. And then each one reacted to it differently.

  532. And one of them decided not to do anything with

  533. it. The other two did something with it. And

  534. at the end of the story, Jesus says, well done,

  535. good and faithful servant. You have been faithful

  536. with a few things. I will put you in charge of

  537. many things. Come, share your master's happiness.

  538. And that's the end of the parable. And this is

  539. the reminder that at the end of the day, When

  540. everything is said and done, whether you have

  541. become a person that is well known or someone

  542. that very few people know, that really does not

  543. matter. What matters is what God thinks and what

  544. God says and God knows whether you are living

  545. to serve him and you're investing what he has

  546. entrusted you with for his purposes. And one

  547. day, I do not know you, but me. If there's one

  548. thing that I desire, it's to hear our Lord say,

  549. well done, good and faithful servant. Just come

  550. and share in your master's happiness. You finally

  551. made it. You are here. Come in. Well done. That

  552. will mean more than anything else. And that's

  553. why in this role of leadership in which the Lord

  554. entrusts us with, we have to be very well grounded

  555. on this space. From a leader to a leader. Let

  556. me tell you this. When you are leading, sometimes

  557. you will say things or do things that people

  558. will love. And sometimes you will do things or

  559. say things that people will dislike. People will

  560. love you and equally people will hate you. That's

  561. the way of leadership. If you lose your perspective,

  562. you're going to become a people -pleasing leader.

  563. Manipulative, fake, you name it. You lost your

  564. perspective. In reality, it doesn't matter whether

  565. you liked the leadership, whether you liked the

  566. sermon, whether you liked what was said or not

  567. said. At the end of the day, if we are sitting

  568. across from each other with a cup of coffee and

  569. whatever you have in your cup, and I can tell

  570. you, you know what I realize? I don't care. I

  571. don't care what people think. I don't care what

  572. you think. Because the only thing that matters

  573. is what God thinks. And he knows the truth. And

  574. one day we are going to stand in his presence.

  575. Truth will be spoken. So leaders, if you are

  576. leading, don't fall for the trap of leading to

  577. please people. Lead. to please God. And when

  578. you do that, so much freeing because you are

  579. serving the Lord with eternal perspective. Live

  580. for this day, not for Friday. So, is serving

  581. God your priority? Is this part of the perspective

  582. or you have lost that perspective? And I realized

  583. as I conclude this reflection that if God is

  584. going to become my priority, if loving people

  585. is going to become a priority, and serving God

  586. is going to become a priority, and that's how

  587. we follow the Lord because that's what eternal

  588. perspective is about. Sometimes that takes you

  589. to places that are difficult because it costs

  590. you. You have a higher price to pay than other

  591. people. And sometimes that price is a relational

  592. cost of separation. You will have to be separated

  593. from people that you love. Your children grow

  594. up. They're in other countries. You will never

  595. see them. You will see them once a year. Grandkids

  596. are born. You don't get to be with them. You

  597. don't get to see them grow old because God placed

  598. you somewhere else. You went and visited your

  599. parents during this break, and when you say goodbye

  600. to them, you wonder, is this the last time I'm

  601. going to see them? How did you function in that

  602. space? How does separation become manageable?

  603. How do you carry that weight? There's only one

  604. way. And that's with eternal perspective. Because

  605. if we are going to be able to pay the price of

  606. separation, it's because we understand that separation

  607. is temporary. And we have to see it that way.

  608. Otherwise the grieving becomes difficult. As

  609. we were in Guatemala during our time there, it

  610. was our first time as a family to be there in

  611. a beautiful country. And we were there to celebrate

  612. the 60th anniversary of my parents. And you can

  613. see them right here in the middle. The white

  614. hair, gray hair, that's dad. His name is Nelson.

  615. And next to him, mom, Rebecca. Some of you have

  616. asked us, how are your parents doing? Mom had

  617. stomach cancer. Her stomach was removed. She

  618. went through chemo. She's cancer -free today.

  619. And she's stable. She's in a good place. How's

  620. your dad doing? Well, dad is also stable. He's

  621. in a place in which his memory issues with the

  622. beginnings of Alzheimer's and all of that is

  623. progressing but still functional. So we can still

  624. talk, we can still joke, we can still do things,

  625. but he's a fraction of what he used to be. And

  626. that space of deeper conversation cannot happen.

  627. You cannot go deeper because that's missing now.

  628. But we were able to be together, and as you know,

  629. I'm the fourth of seven kids. Six of the seven

  630. were able to gather together, so the others arrived

  631. as a surprise for my parents. We all gathered

  632. there. And we live in different countries, different

  633. places, and we know that then it's time to say

  634. goodbye. And then our son Alex was able to join

  635. us there as well, so it was good to be together.

  636. Our kids love each other. They have a good relationship,

  637. so they look forward to being together. and for

  638. him to reconnect with the rest of the family.

  639. And then we have to say goodbye to him, too,

  640. because he lives in Oregon and graduated from

  641. college already, and he's in a new season in

  642. his life. So we are in this time in which it's

  643. like we love people, we love family, we enjoy

  644. a little bit, and then goodbye. And when do we

  645. see each other? Would it be heaven? Would it

  646. be here? We do not know. If you live in that

  647. space, I understand. One of my brothers is not

  648. a follower of Christ. So I also know what it's

  649. like to feel at moments like, is this the last

  650. time? And am I going to see him in heaven or

  651. not? I don't know. And in those moments you intercede

  652. and we intercede for you if you have loved ones

  653. that do not know the Lord and that's heavy in

  654. your heart and you say, Pastor Pablo, pray for

  655. my father, pray for my sibling, pray for mom.

  656. We understand. The only way we can live in this

  657. space is with eternal perspective. So let me

  658. conclude with this verse because this is what

  659. The Apostle Paul says in Philippians and captures

  660. it so well. He says, I have told you before.

  661. And I say it again with tears in my eyes that

  662. there are many whose conduct shows that they

  663. are real enemies of the cross of Christ. They

  664. are headed for destruction and their God is their

  665. appetite. They brag about shameful things. They

  666. think only about this life here on earth. they

  667. do not have eternal perspective because they

  668. do not know the Lord. So they live for here and

  669. now by you, follower of Jesus. You and I are

  670. not them. We are citizens of heaven where the

  671. Lord Jesus Christ lives and we are eagerly waiting

  672. for him to return as our Savior and he will take...

  673. Our weak mortal bodies. And change them into

  674. glorious bodies. Like his own. Using the same

  675. power. With which he will bring everything under

  676. his control. This is what is about to happen.

  677. This is where we are going. So if God is calling

  678. you to be separated. From people that you love.

  679. It's worth it. For the cause of Christ. Because

  680. the separation is temporary. The day is coming.

  681. When the Lord will come back and everything that

  682. we have lived for will be fulfilled. And that

  683. is the beginning of the rest of our lives. So

  684. we say goodbye with hope. And with perspective

  685. that is eternal. That is the only way. So if

  686. you are in that time of grieving, readjusting,

  687. don't. Lose your perspective. Jesus says that

  688. the only way to follow him is by keeping this

  689. eternal perspective. So therefore, that is how

  690. we're going to walk with God. We're not going

  691. to lose our perspective. And we're going to stand

  692. up together today and we're going to tell the

  693. Lord, Lord, you are amazing. And if I have lost

  694. my perspective, would you please reframe me again?

  695. Let me walk with you with eternal perspective

  696. because that is what my heart needs. If you have

  697. lost your perspective, would you tell the Lord?

  698. Will you recommit to him? Would you seek him

  699. to strengthen you? Here, right now, in your own

  700. words, as we worship the Lord. Father, You loved

  701. us and you sent your son Jesus to die for us

  702. so that all things can be made right again, reconciled

  703. with you. And your word says that one day our

  704. Lord Jesus will return and things will be fulfilled

  705. and we'll live for that. So thank you, Lord,

  706. for the experiences that have pointed us back

  707. to you. And I want to intercede for my friends

  708. here today, Lord, if there's anyone that have

  709. lost their perspective, bring them back to you.

  710. Empower them so that they will live for you first,

  711. to serve you first, and to love you People with

  712. your love. Even. When you have called them to

  713. love. People that are hard to love. You empower

  714. them. So intercede for them. And I ask you. Encounter

  715. them in this space of worship. In Jesus name.

  716. Amen. Whether near or far, if you are looking

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