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E5 - The Pastoral Epistles: Biblical Ministers & Biblical Ministry - The Call For Godly Women
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You're listening to Key Life Fellowships Pulpit Ministry
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podcast. We thank you for tuning in as we
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learn from God's Word together. If you would like more
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Are you thankful this morning for our praise team who week
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after week after week leads us to remember the importance of
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things such as what we just sang to set our hope on Jesus?
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Aren't you thankful for them all?
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And I love that we keep seeing new faces up there as God
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continues to add to this congregation those people who
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can be a part of those teams. And I don't say that to draw
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attention to them. I say that to thank the Lord for
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always providing for what we need.
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When you see some of these guys around the church, be sure and
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tell them thank you for your obedience and using your
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abilities and your gifts to lead us in praise.
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Each week you have your Bibles. If you would turn to first
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Timothy and the second chapter as we continue looking epistles,
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the series that has been titled Biblical Ministers and Biblical
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Ministries of this that we are going to look at today in first
1 Timothy 2 chapter mention
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Timothy chapter 2, we're going to read verses 18 through 15,
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but we're really going to focus on verses 9 through 15 because.
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8 was last week, but I'm just going to use that verse to make
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a point and to show you something in the midst of what
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we're going to be looking at today.
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And so I want you to see the clear and the concise context of
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this so that you're not confused because when you take this
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passage of Scripture out of the context, you can make a big mess
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out of it very quickly. Do that because I believe this,
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that this is one of the clearest, yet most controversial
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passages in all of the New Testament.
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Especially in our day. And that's difficult for some of
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you to understand. How can it be so clear and yet
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be so? We're going to talk about that a
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little today, but it's not always been the case of this
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passage being controversial. It's generally throughout church
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history, been pretty widely accepted and clearly understood.
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But historically, if we were to depend on where things might
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have fallen off the track, we would probably have to start
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somewhere. World War 2 or post World War
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2IN what is known as the second wave of feminism in this country
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and during the 1960s and the 1970s following the.
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Second World War. And it is in that and it is
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there that we see a headlong and vicious assault.
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And that's what I will call it. Because against the biblical
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role of women, the biblical role of women in the home and in the
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biblical role of women in the church, There was a first wave
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of prior to this second wave of feminism, a wave that was in the
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late 18, early 1900s. And this wave of feminism fought
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for the fact that women had suffered for a long time and and
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true, they had been oppressed. But the second wave is quite
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different because it wasn't just women from human oppression, but
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unfortunately. The second wave is subverts the
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word of God, suppresses the truth and attempts to change the
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God-given role of women. Now it asks this question.
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Any further, how many of you still believe that God's word is
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infallible, inerrant, 100% God breathed.
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It is the very word of God. How many of you still believe
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that? Let let me make this easy.
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How many of you don't believe that?
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Because if you're going to have a hard time hearing anything
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that I say today. Because we based everything that
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we teach, we based everything that we believe.
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We based everything that we live here on the principle of sola
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Scripture, Scripture alone. We believe that Scripture alone
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is the word of God. And Scripture alone dictates how
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we live our lives, how we conduct our business, how we
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worship, how we handle our affairs, even in this world.
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So we turn to Scripture today and Scripture alone as we see
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the call for godly women. Call for godly women.
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Now, I told the men prior to this when we were praying case
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you guys don't know this. There's men's prayer immediately
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prior to the service out in the foyer.
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For all you men who would desire to pray for us before the
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service, we'd love to have you. We were out there and I let them
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know we're going to be talking about the call for godly women
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today. Now don't think for a second
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that you guys are off the hook because we're preaching, because
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it is your duty as men to lead them, and yes, even to lead them
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in godliness as a godly woman, to teach them the scriptures, to
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know the scriptures so you can teach them the scriptures so
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that they can be the women that God desires them to be.
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So you do have a role in this that we won't look at your
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direct role to their direct role.
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In hearing the call to be godly women.
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First Timothy, chapter 2, verse 8.
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Paul says, I want men everywhere to lift up holy hands in prayer
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without anger or disputing. I I read that as I said a moment
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ago to remind you of the context was calling on the church to
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pray and to pray for specifically lost people, the
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unbelieving. And he tells the man, here's
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your role to lift up holy hands, right?
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Who can ascend the hill of the Lord?
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He who has clean hands and a pure heart, He's saying, be of
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pure conscience and of pure hands, lifting up those hands in
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prayer without any anger or dispute, nonsense aside.
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And then he's going to say this in verse 9.
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I also want, he says likewise, I have some commands for the
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women. I have a call for women and a
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call that they need to hear and a call that they need to follow.
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I also modestly with decency and propriety, not with braided hair
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or gold or pearls or expensive clothes, but with good deeds
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appropriate for women who profess to worship God.
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Verse 11, it says a woman should learn in quietness and full
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support. I do not permit a woman to teach
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or to have authority over a man. She must be silent.
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Again, he's talking about in the congregation in the assembly of
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the Saints. He says for Adam was formed 1st
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and then Eve and Adam was not the one deceived, it was the
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woman who was deceived. But women will be saved through
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childbearing if they continue in faith.
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Love and holiness with propriety.
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Let's pray to God the Father in the name of Jesus.
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We thank you for your word. We thank you that it is true.
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We thank you that culture is a man made thing.
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Philosophy is both culture and philosophy could be full of
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errors. And untruths and deception.
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The Lord, we know that Your word is true and infallible and
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inerrant. There is not one error in your
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teaching. God, I pray today that You give
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us by Your Spirit, with minds willing lives to obey.
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Your word over culture, over the philosophies and the ideologies
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of man. That we would obey Your word and
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that we would bring glory to you in doing so, as you've called us
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to do. Both men and women alike, we
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pray and we ask things in Christ's name.
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Amen. Now, I told you immediately as I
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began my intro just a moment ago, that this is one of the
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clearest passages in all of the New Testament, and I do believe
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that. But that doesn't mean that it
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comes without some difficulty. Right?
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About verse 15. You saw the difficulty did
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because from verse 9 all the way to verse 14, it was pretty plain
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and simple the things that he taught.
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But verse 15 takes a different turn when we kind of scratch our
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head and we asked the question, what does it mean that women
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will be saved through childbearing?
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Now let me tell you this. You're not the first person who
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got the question. So what I'm going to do is,
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though I'm going to cover 9 through 15 today, I want to
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start with 15, and I want to tell you what I believe that
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verse 15 is saying so that nine through 14 will make sense as we
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walk through the rest of this passage.
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There are many people who say that when we read that text
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there in verse 9, want women to dress modestly with decency and
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propriety and braided hair, gold pearls, expensive clothes.
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And he goes on and tells him what he wants and then he drops
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to 15 and says, but women will be saved through childbearing.
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Many people will say this, and this is 1 view.
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This is a view that that I strongly disagree with.
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This is the view that says women will be saved from the curse of
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sin through literal childbirth, meaning this.
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They interpret this to say when man fell to sin, man was cursed
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and part of the curse that fell upon women.
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And this is true. They will have childbirth.
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And there are schools of thought that say women will be saved
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because they are willing to endure the pain of childhood.
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Now that would mean it's the women who have more children and
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endure more pain. They're more holy, they're more
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saved. Well, the problem with this is I
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hope you immediate it from what we preach here all the time that
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we are justified by grace alone, through faith alone and Christ
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alone. If he's talking about salvation
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and saying that a woman is going to be saved simply because she
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has children, that would be a work, wouldn't it?
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That would be no salvation at all.
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And so that's a a school of thought that very quickly I can
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throw out and say, because this would contradict everything that
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the Apostle Paul told elsewhere in Scripture about being saved
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by grace through faith and that alone.
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The second view is this, and I find this view very interesting.
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And I'll tell you this, there are many reformers who held on
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to this view. Now what I really believe about
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the next, the second view is that it was possibly a holdover
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from Catholic interpretation. This is something that they just
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didn't reform from the reformers.
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And it says this, it says that women will be saved by child
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bearing with this specific thing in mind, and I want you to talk
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this through with me, that yes, a woman named Eve LED men into
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sin, but a woman named Mary through birthings of Christ will
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lead people out of sin, Barry actually, and her birth will
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lead to the saving of souls. Now let me tell you this.
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That's true 100%. But I don't think that's what
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Paul is saying here, even though the reformers would say, but
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it's fulfilling Genesis 315 and Genesis 3:15, if you're not
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familiar. That is the promise of the
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Messiah who would come, who though the serpent would strike
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his heel, he would crush his head.
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And So what many people would do is they interpret this verse 15
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in saying that women are going to find the redemption in the
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fact that a woman, a virgin named Mary, bore a son and his
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name is Christ. And of course, we find
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redemption nowhere else other than Christ.
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However, the reason that I can't take that view and accept that
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view, though that view theologically would be
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considered true. I don't think that's what Paul
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is saying here because he is in the context about a woman
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singular. He's talking about women in the
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plural. He's talking about those women
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who are already followers of Christ because he is addressing
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the church and he is addressing how we are to worship the Lord.
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And so he's not talking about Mary singular.
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He's actually talking about women in the plural.
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So then what is he saying? What what is a good
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interpretation of this? And I think we find it the third
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view as in my opinion, the most appropriate.
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And because of my, it's my opinion, 100% correct.
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Why? Simply because it's my opinion.
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Just like if your opinion was your opinion, you would be right
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until proven wrong. But I think that if we put it in
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its context, and this is very important, you, you do know
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this, right? The three most important things
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in interpreting script, context and context.
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Don't ever forget that. And so as we look at this in its
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context, I think he is addressing a group of women and
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and in fact specifically a group of believing women at Ephesus.
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And so he is teaching them something.
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What is he teaching them? Well, I think we here, when we
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automatically assume, because we see in English the term saved,
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that he's talking about salvation.
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I don't think that he's talking about salvation at all.
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Why? Because he's addressing women
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that are already professing, as we will see in a moment to
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follow God. He's addressing profession now.
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I don't think he's talking about saved at all, though.
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I think he is talking about redemption in a sense.
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And he's talking about redemption as far as a woman's
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usefulness to God and His plan for women, despite the fact that
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they were deceived in the Garden, LED mankind into sin and
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into chaos. So I believe that this verse 15
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teaches us that women will be saved or redeemed from the
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stigma of being the ones who let all of us into this Mass.
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And we can quickly see how that would be a stigma.
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In fact, traditionally up until this point that Paul makes this
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address, it was a stigma in the Jewish culture and in Jewish
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worship, women could not ship in the same area as men.
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But Paul is saying this, there is still redemption for women in
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the fact that yes, they do have this stigma of leading all of
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mankind into sin, but they will also be used by God to lead
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their children out of sin. So he's saying they will find
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redemption in the children that they produce and that they
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nurture and that they admonish in the Lord.
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He's saying this that women have a role, and the role has not
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ceased simply because they were the the enemy used to deceive
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mankind into falling into sin. There is hope.
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Yet still for them now, I feel that this is the right
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interpretation because of the context, not only of what we're
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seeing here in First Timothy chapter 2, but the context of
1 Timothy 2 chapter mention
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everything that testament and in the Word of God throughout its
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entirety. So now that I have established
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that right, that most difficult thing, everything else about
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this from verse 9 all the way to verse 15 ought to be crystal
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clear thing that we read and something that we say, OK,
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that's not hard to understand. God is calling women to be
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godly. He is calling each and everyone
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of you in this room who professed Jesus Christ as Lord
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and Savior. He is calling you to be godly so
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that the next generation will be redeemed because of the
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influence of their mothers. Well, so many times a mother's
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role gets downplayed, doesn't it?
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Can I say this just specifically about my family?
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My children are now grown and have children of their.
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Own. And though I spent as much time
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as I could with my children when they were growing up, the time
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that I spent with my children is minuscule compared to the time
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that my wife spent with my children.
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People wonder all the time. They ask me, Kirk, aren't you so
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thankful how your children turn out?
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Yes. Then they asked me this
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question. What did you do?
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I will tell you this. I attempted to pastor my wife to
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the best of my ability because I knew how important her role was
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in teaching our children. I was not going to let her live
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with the stigma like Eve leading others into sin.
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No, you have been redeemed from that stigma and you're in
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Christ. You have a great responsibility
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to raise up the next generation in a godly fashion.
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And I'm, I'm here to help you any way that I can and to
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compliment your role as a godly woman.
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That's the answer. I tell them, go talk to Brandy.
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If it would have been up to me, I would have messed things up,
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but I'm thankful that somewhere along the line she read the Word
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of God and determined in her heart and her mind through the
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power and persuasion of the Holy Spirit to be the godly woman
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that she is today. What is a godly woman?
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What does it mean to be called to be godly in this passage?
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This is what we see, and I don't want you to lose sight of the
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truth here because of all the controversy surrounding it.
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The controversy is quite silly. It is cutting and it is clear.
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So let's approach it today as such.
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First, if you're taking notes, write this down.
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Godly women are called to adorn themselves in godliness.
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Watch what Paul does here. You ladies are going to like
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this. He starts with your wardrobe.
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He does. He is going to.
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To you Christian women in this room, that it is so important
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how you dress in your apparel, what you wear, you say, well,
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what? Yes, watch what he says.
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I also want women to dress modestly.
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Now he just said, I want men to lift up holy hands in prayer.
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And here's an important thing for women.
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I want you to dress modestly. I want women to dress modestly.
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When you come into the congregation to dress modestly
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with decency and propriety, not with braided hair or gold or
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pearls or expensive clothes, but with good deeds appropriate for
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women who profess to worship God, He said.
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You're professing believers, and as a professing and believing
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woman, he attention to this pay. Attention to what you wear.
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Many people would say he's making a parallel.
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He's not yet he will in a moment.
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What he's going to do, he's going to establish the
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importance of a godly woman's apparel, the way you physically
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dress. He describes it for us.
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In fact, he takes great detail to describe it.
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Of course, he says first modestly.
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What does that mean? Well, to be modest means to not
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be elaborate or sensual. He's telling women to refuse to
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dress overly elaborate and refuse to dress overtly sexual.
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Yes, this does have a sexual connotation.
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When he says modest, what he's saying is that if you are
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dressing in order to draw attention by the way you dress
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of women or the attention of men, and you ladies know this,
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you do both. I joke with my wife all the time
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and I, I, I laugh and I say women dress to impress women
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because baby, I really don't care.
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I think you look really cute and no makeup and sweats and a ball
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cap because I see her true beauty.
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True beauty is not found in those things and I have grown in
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the Lord enough to realize that. Now she thinks I'm crazy when I
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say that. But ladies, let me tell you,
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when your husband says that, he means that he is trying.
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That those things have nothing to do with truly being a godly
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woman. He says dressed modestly.
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It's important that we learn this.
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Why? So we can teach this, right
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ladies? Anyone here seen a homecoming
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picture or a prom picture? Lately.
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I'm going to be honest with you, I have to get past them and
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shame most of the time. There's a lot of times when on
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social media these things are posted, I wonder are they going
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to a homecoming or a prom or are they somewhere in Vegas trying
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to earn a little extra money? He said.
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What does that have to do with women?
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They learned it from somewhere or someone who should be in an
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authority in their life and a teacher in their life is
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allowing it to happen first. Dad, that's your responsibility.
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You tell mom no, she can't buy that dress.
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I don't care how mad mom gets at you.
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She needs to cover herself up. Why?
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Because that's what godly women do.
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We're teaching her to be a godly woman.
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We are not teaching her to be a prostitute.
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You can just go on and buckle your seat belt.
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We're going to talk about things today that they don't usually
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talk about modestly, not overly elaborate nor overtly sexual.
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Isn't it interesting that in our pornography driven culture our
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styles have also become overly sexual?
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Girls dressed the way an addicted young male counterparts
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desire for them to dress moms. It's your job to put a stop to
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it. How do you do that?
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By the way you dress your apparel modestly.
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He then goes on and he says with decency.
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This takes another turn. Decency here is very interesting
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because you know what it means. Reverence, Reverence and
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reverence belongs to the Lord. He is actually telling the women
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at Ephesus dress modestly. And dress worshipfully.
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Time asking yourself this question, is what I'm wearing
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something that would bring honor to God?
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Is it something that is reverent?
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I know we don't talk about reverence a lot anymore in the
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church because we're real confused about what it means.
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The ladies, I want to encourage you to be reverent in how you
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dress humbly and gracefully. Can I help all of the aging
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women in this room stop trying to be young, be reverent, be
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humble, and be graceful. There is nothing more than an
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older woman who dresses. And carries herself.
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Gracefully and humbly out of reverence for the Lord and honor
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for her husband. He says decency.
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Seek to glorify God even in how you dress.
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This would be crazy wouldn't instead of it just being the
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latest style. So I buy it.
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Lord, is this appropriate? Is this appropriate for one of
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your children to wear in the assembly, for one of your
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children to wear out in public? Now let me help you.
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If it is tied and it is showing every curve of your body, or it
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is so loose that it is showing all the things that no one but
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your husband ought to see, you don't even have to pray that
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prayer. You can just write it down.
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It is not modest and it is not decent.
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It's not reverent unto the Lord. But then he doesn't stop there
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and he says and propriety says so much.
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When we get down to the original meaning, it means soundness of
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mind and self controlled. Ladies, are you of sound mind
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and of self-control? When you dress yourself, are you
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just doing what you do because fashion says do it?
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That's not sound mind. Let's do it.
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That's not sound mind. Are you just doing it because
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you want to do it? That's not self-control, that's
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you actually being out of control and being led by your
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emotions and your feelings. We'll talk more about that in a
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moment. The soundness of mine and self
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controlled in our apparel. Ladies, please pay attention to
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this. It means thinking of others when
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you dress, considering other people, considering the example
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that you're leaving or considering the lust of that
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you're causing. Considering the example that
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you're leaving or the lust of that you're causing.
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Other people view what I am wearing.
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You need to ask yourself this question.
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How Will Young ladies see me? Will Young ladies see me hip,
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cool and stylish? That's not the objective.
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Well, others see me as sexy, sensual.
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Those are questions that you must ask in our culture that is
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designing women's clothing to be sexual and sensual.
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Yeah. It's a question we don't find
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ourselves asking as women much of the time.
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Ask yourself, who calls to stumble by my apparel?
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You say, What do you mean? I mean this when you come into
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the congregation and you walk past someone else's husband and
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you are dressed in a way that draws sexual attention to
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yourself, but you just enabled him to do.
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You enabled him to commit. Adultery in his mind when he
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lusted after you because you left nothing to the imagination.
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What about when you walk down the hall and that young girl
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says I want she looks up to you and she she sees you
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accentuating your body parts in a sensual or sexual way.
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Do you not think that you've caused that young 1 to stumble
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Here's what Jesus says about this.
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You can take it or leave it. I pray that you would take it.
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Matthew 18 verse six. He says if anyone causes one of
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these little. Do you believe in me to stumble?
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It would be better for them to have a large millstone hung
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around their neck and be drowned in the depths of the sea.
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Woe to the world because of the things that caused people to
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stumble. Such things must come.
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But woe to the person through whom they come.
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Ladies, hear this woe. They come through you.
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Your hand or your foot causes you to stumble.
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Cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to enter
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life maimed or crippled than to have two hands or two feet to be
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thrown into the eternal fire. And if your eye causes you to
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stumble, gouge it out and throw it away.
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It's better for you to enter life with one eye than to have
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two eyes and to be thrown into the Most of the time we get to
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that last part of the Scripture and we we just focus on that.
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But the whole meaning of the Scripture is this.
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Don't cause others to stumble because if you give no regard to
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others, it reveals your true heart.
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You are still self-centered, self controlled emotions and
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desires and. So you got to think of others
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when you dress, refusing to put self desire over others over
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what it may cause them to do. Yes, you may look good.
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You may even look and feel sexy in that because you ladies know
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what I'm talking about, right? When when you go to that
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important thing and you put on that dress that you've never
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worn before and you look in the mirror, mirror and you know that
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you do look sexy in that love you Sexy is OK for your husband
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at home in the confines of your own bedroom.
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It's not OK in the congregation. Amen.
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It's not OK in the congregation. I don't care if it is the style,
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Go against the style. Create new styles.
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We need them. It's not for the congregation.
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Why? Because in doing so, you were
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going to cause little ones who are here to worship the Lord,
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whether that's little ones as the children or as little ones
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in faith in Christ, you are going to cause them to stumble.
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And he says it's better for you to have a millstone tied around
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your neck and thrown into the sea.
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I didn't make that up. That's red.
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If you have a red letter edition, that's Christ.
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What message are you sending to others?
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Who are you causing to sin? Philippians chapter 2 says this.
Philippians 2 chapter mention
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It says in verse 3, do nothing out of selfish ambition or
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vacancy. That means don't dress out of
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selfish ambition or vain conceit or anything else rather than
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humans above yourselves, not looking to your own interests,
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but each of you to the interests of the others.
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Ladies, let me just help you out.
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The pornography industry in our culture is a multi billion
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dollar industry. Even before the pornography
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industry happened, men first. Why?
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Because men are visual creatures.
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They are excited by the things that they see.
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Don't cause them to stumble by being ungodly in the way that
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you approach your apparel, he says.
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Modestly decent. With propriety, soundness of
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mind, thinking of others, putting others above yourself,
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asking yourself this question. Could that that I'm wearing
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'cause someone else to slip off into sin?
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Be it vanity for that woman who admired, or be it lust for that
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young man who's looking at me and gazing upon me in an
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inappropriate way. Or that husband who's committed
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and devote himself to be true and loyal to another woman who
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sits here in this congregation together.
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Yet by your dress you catch his eye.
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It's not I that you are intended to catch.
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That's his wife's job. You see the problem here, I hope
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though it may be old fashioned in many people's eyes, and it
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is. It's 2000 years old, but it's
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still 100% applicable today and in the church.
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Godly women are adorning themselves in godliness, their
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apparel, he says. I I also want women to dress
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modestly, with decency and propriety, not with braided hair
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or gold or pearls or expensive clothes.
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Here's what he's going to do. He moves from apparel to
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accents. We know we all have to accent
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everything, don't we? The Roman culture there, the
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same braided hair, jewelry and all the things they had to have
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them so that they fit the fashion that was going on there
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in that culture that was surrounded around Artemis, the
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false goddess. So he addresses accents.
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What is he talking about here? Is he specifically gold pearls?
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Is it wrong for you to braid your hair?
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Is it wrong for you to color your hair?
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Is it wrong for you to have hair?
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Is it wrong for you to have jewelry?
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No, he's not saying that at all. Is it wrong for you to wear
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makeup? No, Please do.
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He's not saying any of those things.
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What he is doing is he is saying don't fall into the trap of
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needless elaborations, needless enhancements.
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Paul's not saying that you shouldn't fix your hair or wear
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jewelry. He's saying women shouldn't use
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these things to draw undue attention to themselves and away
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from God when they come in. No, not to be a man in here
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who's struggling when we're singing songs to Jesus about
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focusing on the Lord and what he's done.
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There ought not to be a man in here who's who's struggling with
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focusing on that because you wear your clothes too tight or
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you wear your clothes too loose. Whatever the case may be, That's
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exactly what he's saying. And then he takes it a step
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further and he says, and also don't add to it these needless
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elaborations that don't mean anything.
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This culture was being inundated with this, as you can tell from
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the context. He mentions many things that are
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nothing but elaborations and enhancements.
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Paul didn't want Christian women to devote time to devote, to
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devote energy to the fashions of the day and only draw attention
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to the woman and away from God. Now the good thing is in our
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culture. We don't struggle with this at
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all. There's no danger in our culture
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trap of extras and elaborations or enhancements, right?
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No, that's sarcasm as intended. I'll tell you how dangerous it
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is in our culture annually in the United States of America.
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People spend $4 billion on Botox and facial fillers, $4 billion
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to trick someone into thinking that they're not.
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Really wrinkled under all that annually in the US. 1.4 to 1.6
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billion dollars of revenue on breast augmentations and
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liposuctions. That's not reconstructive after
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breast cancer, that's just enhancements.
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That's just add on operations because I guess you weren't
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content with what? God had given you it wasn't
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impressive enough. 8 to 10 billion on unneeded cosmetic
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surgery. By that, well, you didn't get in
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a car wreck and half your face get knocked off in the accident
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and you had to have reconstructive surgery and a
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face rebuilt. That's not what I'm talking
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about here. It's things you didn't need.
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Well, you saw some influencer on social media who had a nose that
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wasn't like your nose and you really like their nose.
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So you took place and said, I want their nose.
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They said OK, I specialize in noses here, I'll give you a new
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nose. I can tell you this, I've
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watched one episode of Botched and that was enough for me to
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never kind of enhancement or some kind of elaborate change in
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my face, right? If this wasn't Botched enough,
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ladies are spending billions. Of dollars on needless
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elaborations and enhancements in our country, 17 to $18 billion a
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year on cosmetic surgeries and alterations that do nothing but
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draw attention to that person who is desiring attention.
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Godly women are to adorn them and godly apparel modestly,
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decently, with propriety. Their accent, their dress.
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Not with needless elaborations or enhancements.
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Now I know. What was it wrong to wear
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earrings? No, wear earrings.
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But if you're wearing hubcaps to draw attention to yourself,
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that's another he's talking about going beyond reasonable
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for the mere desire to draw attention to yourself.
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Why is that important? Woman of God, listen to me.
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If you're drawing attention to yourself, you're not where it
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belongs to the Lord. That's why he takes it a step
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further. Now he makes this parallel.
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He said instead of being dressed with immodest clothes and
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undecent clothes and clothes that show you have no soundness
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to mind or self-control. Or acts aberrant, right then
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nobody even believes they're real, right?
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4 inch eyelashes? Nobody's buying it.
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Lips that make you look like Howard the Duck.
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If you're a kid from the 80s, sorry you missed it.
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Don't go watch it. It's pre Christ.
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He now makes the parallel and he says this but with good deeds
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appropriate for women who profess to worship God.
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He says don't worry about these outward things.
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As much as you worry about what comes out of your life, inside
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of your life, this is the proper display of beauty.
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Paul's going to teach that instead of putting so much
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effort and so much time and so much energy and so much money
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into drawing attention to yourself so your girlfriends
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will say, oh girl, you look good on Facebook.
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They're lying. They just want you to lie.
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They post something, figure it out.
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He says adorn yourself of godly action.
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Godly woman should draw attention not to herself but to
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God. First Peter, chapter 3, verse 3.
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It says your beauty. Should not come from outward
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adornment, such as elaborate of gold jewelry or fine clothes.
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Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading
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beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit which is of great worth
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in God's sight. Who are you trying to please?
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Who are you trying to impress? Peter saying almost verbatim
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teaching here. He's saying this.
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Live your life to impress the Lord.
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We're going to see why in just a moment.
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Showing your actions, your service to Him, bringing him
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glory by being clothed, not as the world is clothed.
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With styles and fashions and sensuality and sexuality would
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be the service that bring glory to your heavenly Father.
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This is a common analogy that Paul uses in Colossians.
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He uses clothing again to make this point.
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He says in chapter 3 of Colossians verse 12.
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Therefore, is God's chosen people wholly and dearly loved.
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Clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, gentleness
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and patience, ladies. You'll be dressed in a way that
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honors God. Clothe yourself with these
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things. Bear with each other and forgive
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one another. And any if any of you has a
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grievance against someone, forgive as the Lord forgave you.
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And over all these virtues, put on love which binds them.
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What is he saying? Clothe yourself in godliness.
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Make that a priority. Let that outshine any earrings
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you would wear, any braided hair that you may have, any style
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that you may purchase. Let the glory of God and service
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to Him outshine all those things in your life so that when people
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see you, they don't see. It's important.
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So may the women here who are hearing my voice and hearing the
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word of God this morning adorn themselves in godliness and not
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as the world chooses to adorn themselves.
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Secondly. Godly women are not only to
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adorn themselves in godliness, they are to avoid usurping God's
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order. Pay attention, attention to what
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he says in this context. He says a woman should learn in
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quietness, in full submission. He didn't say kind of
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submission, half hearted submission, pretend submission,
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full submission. I do not permit a woman to teach
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her to have authority over a man.
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Be silent. For Adam was formed first, then
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Eve. Now I know what the people who
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come against this passage of Scripture try to say.
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This is where they say Kirk. That was just for Ephesus
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because of the influence of Diana or or or who is otherwise
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known as Artemis. That is just talking to Ephesus.
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Let me make this very clear. This is talking to any culture
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and any church that would usurp God's order and God's authority.
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You know how I know that? That's why I read verse 8 for
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you. That would be like saying men
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lifting holy hands in prayer was limited to just Ephesus and
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there's no need for us to do the same anymore, right guys?
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No, absolutely not. That's foolish.
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But it's only this particular part of this passage where we
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try to say, oh, this is just written in light of Artemis.
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That was Artemis influential? You bet.
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Was Artemis worship influential? Did it affect the culture?
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Yes. Did it affect women?
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Absolutely. The same thing would be written
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to a culture that had no Artemis but still struggled with the
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same thing because he's speaking it to our culture even this day.
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Paul's not calling women ignorant.
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You know how I know that? He said a woman should learn.
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He wants you to learn. It says here's the way that you
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are to learn in the congregation.
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He wants you to learn. That's great news.
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Why? Because the women of the Old
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Testament weren't even permitted to learn.
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They didn't even come into the same courts as the men for
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worship to learn as the men were.
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He's saying you're in there, you're assembly, you're
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assembled, you're an assembly and you have the right now and
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the duty to learn. So he's not saying to be
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ignorant and unlearned. He's not saying to be silent,
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barefoot, pregnant in the kitchen.
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He's not talking about the kitchen at all.
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He's referring. To the assembly, he's referring
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to an assembly just like this, who has joined together on the
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Lord's Day to worship and honor the Lord.
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And he is saying to them that you are to learning quietness
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and full submission to your husband.
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Quietness and full submission to the male leadership and
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authority in that first to your husband.
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And then to those male pastors and elders who direct the
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affairs of the church and who teach the word of God.
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This is the way that it has always been throughout church
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history. Again, it wasn't into the last
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100 years that this has even been a topic for debate or not
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to exercise speaking gifts and leadership gifts in positions of
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authority in the Congregation of the Saints.
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For those of you who would say that's just for Ephesus to the
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Corinthian church, First Corinthians chapter 14.
1 Corinthians 14 chapter mention
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On the subject of speaking gifts in the congregation and
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instructions on orderly worship, here's what Paul instructs to.
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He says for God is not a God of disorder verse 33, but it's but
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of peace and then he says. As in all the congregations of
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the Lord's people. This is the way it is throughout
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the church. All congregations of the Lord's
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people. How many of you here today
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belong to Jesus Christ? Raise your hand.
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Just a congregation of the Lord's people.
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All right, here's what he says. Women should remain silent in
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the churches. Is he saying that you shouldn't
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talk to your friends in the hallway?
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No, he's talking about the context of speaking and teaching
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leadership. He said women should remain
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signed and the churches there, but must be in submission as the
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law says. What is he doing?
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He's going all the way back to the Old Testament to remind you
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of what Paul is reminding the church.
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Here at Alpha. System Timothy.
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He says that they want to inquire about something.
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They should ask their own husbands at home.
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I know husband, it's time for you to freak out.
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But what if I don't know the answer?
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Open your answer and start pastoring your home like you
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should do. I need to say that again.
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Open your Bibles. Study to show yourself a Workman
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who is approved rightly dividing the word of truth.
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Why? Because you are the pastor of
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your home. Your wife's depending on you.
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I told you, men, they can't be the godly women they need to be
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until you devote yourself to being the godly man that you
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need to be. If they want to inquire about
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something, they should ask their own husbands at home, for it is
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it is disgraceful for a woman to speak in the church.
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Now let me remind you that was not inundated with the teachings
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of Artemis. The following of Artemis that
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was to the Corinthian. Church and there at the
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Corinthian church, he says, and this applies to all the
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congregations of the Saints, meaning this this applies to key
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life fellowship right now in 2026.
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And for anybody to tell you anything else is to sub.
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The Word of God, and to pervert the word of God before your very
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eyes. Don't fall for it.
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These roles always have and always will be reserved for men.
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He's not giving them any new teaching.
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Here he says a woman should learn in quietness and full
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submission teacher to have authority over men, she must be
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silent. Why he gives you the answer.
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For Adam was formed first, then Eve.
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What is he doing? He's going all the way back to
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the law, just as he said. In First Corinthians chapter 14,
1 Corinthians 14 chapter mention
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he's going back to the Torah and he is saying this.
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Remember back in Genesis what happened.
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Now what happened? God created things in a certain
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way, and he goes back and he says even creation.
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Tells us that. What he's saying is this, that
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women must avoid usurping God's authority.
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Why? First of all, because his
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authority and this authority that he's established in the
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church is God himself by his word throughout time, throughout
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culture. This is not an Ephesian command,
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as I've already I hope made that point, as many even liberal
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evangelicals will claim, but it is the very word of God.
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First Corinthians 11, verse three, it says this, but I want
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you to realize that the head of every man is Christ in the head
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of the and the head of Christ is God.
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Do you see the order there? Don't get that out of whack.
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Don't lose sight of that. There's a purpose for that.
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It's God's design you're going to see in a moment, and it's for
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a reason. And ladies, your role as a
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woman, as we will see in a moment, is a beautiful role and
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a but you can't fulfill your role if you are usurping God's
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order in the church and in the home, or even both.
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Because usually in generally it works that way.
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The one who tries to usurp the authority in the church is also
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trying to usurp the authority in the home.
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Funny how that always goes hand in hand First Peter chapter 3 If
1 Peter 3 chapter mention
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you don't believe it's the word of God lives in the same way,
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submit yourself to your own husbands so that if any of them
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do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by
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the behavior of their wives dressed in godliness when they
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see the purity and. Reverence of your lives.
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What is he saying? If you got an unbelieving
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husband, you know what you ought not to do.
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You ought not to nag him to death about coming to church
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with you. You ought not to nag trying to
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cram the gospel down his throat. You know what you ought to do.
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Clothe yourself in godliness, stop nagging Him, and live a
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virtuous and reverent life before him.
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And you know what? God tells us that's going to get
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his attention. Why?
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Because God has designed us as men to have a run when someone
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is godly before eyes, especially a female.
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That's why. When men are young, you know
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what they do when they're looking for a girlfriend?
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They go out to where all the people are partying when they
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sit. Down they start looking for a
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wife. You know where they come to.
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Church. True story.
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Why? Because there's nothing more
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alluring to us than a woman of virtue.
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Why? Because she's hard to find.
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Is that not what Proverbs 31 tells us?
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Who can find someone like this? It's not an easy catch.
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So wives be that kind of wives because it's designated by God
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to do so. He says this.
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Sure, to teach the women to be self controlled and pure, to be
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busy at home, to be kind and to be subject to their husbands.
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Why? We saw it in our scripture
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reading. So that no one will malign the
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word of God. What is He?
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Talking about so that no one will say that create of whack in
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your home. They won't say things like this.
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She tells him what pants to wear, or in fact, he might even
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be wearing her pants. Maybe she ought to give him his
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pants back. We know that there are many
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other illustrations that are used.
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Why? Because the very Word of God
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teaches us that a woman is not to have authority over a man.
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Not in the home and not in the church because it's defined by
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creation order. This is what Paul goes to for
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Adam was he wants you to understand the order of the way
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things happen. In case you forgot this order
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was not post fall. Don't don't think that this
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order happened just because man and women fell into sin.
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This is pre fall. This is at creation.
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This is the order that God established.
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Adam was formed 1st and then Eve.
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You don't believe me? Turning 2 and we'll look at it.
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Says this in verse. 15 The Lord God took the man and put him in
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the Garden of Eden to work it and care and take care of it,
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And the Lord God commanded the man.
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You are free to eat from any tree in the garden, but you must
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not eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, for
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when you eat from it, you will certainly not die before there
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was ever an Eve. I want you to pay attention to
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this, because you know what happened in the Garden when
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mankind fell into sin. Woman.
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Usurped the authority of man. And man usurped the authority of
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God. Watch this from the tree of the
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knowledge of good and evil, for when you eat of it, you will
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certainly die. Verse 18.
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The Lord God said, It is not good for man to be alone, I will
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make a suitable helper for him. Now the Lord God had formed out
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of the ground all the wild animals and all the birds in the
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sky, and he brought them to the man to see what he would name
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them. And whatever the man creature,
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that was its name. So the man gave names to all the
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livestock, the birds in the sky, and all the wild animals.
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But for Adam no suitable help helper was found.
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So the Lord God calls the man to fall into a deep sleep, and
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while he was sleeping he took one of the man's ribs and then
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closed up the place with flesh. Then the Lord God made a he had
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taken out of the man and he brought her to the man and the
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man said he got to name her. This says he did all of the rest
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of God's creation. And the man said, this is now
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bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh.
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She shall be called was taken out of man fast.
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Forward here to Ephesus here in the letter of First Timothy.
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Paul reminds them, he reminds the ladies there that Adam was
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formed first, then Eve. This is the creative order.
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This is what God intended. Basic creation order defines for
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us the order of God in the relationship of men and women,
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both in the home and in the church.
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They are always a direct reflection of one another.
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And so to our liberal do. This.
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We mustn't rewrite scripture just to fit your agenda.
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Because when we take them back to Genesis chapter 2, you know
Genesis 2 chapter mention
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what they then say, well, Genesis chapter 2 can't be real.
Genesis 2 chapter mention
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I mean, how realistic is it that that God would open up man's
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side and he would create a woman from that?
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So let's just completely right. So now we got Genesis One
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through 11. Let's erase it.
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Now we can believe anything in all the world that we want to
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believe. If all doesn't let us do that,
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he says go back to Genesis 2 and you see the order.
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The roles are defined by God and we are not to usurp God's order
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that He has set in place. This has been designated by God
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and His Word over and over again.
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It's defined by creation order, and when you see the beauty of
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it is depicting the relationship of Christ and the church, it is
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depicting the relationship of Christ in the church, and
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there's no more beautiful relationship in all of creation.
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Just as the wife submits to her husband, so the church submits
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to Christ. And oh, what benefits the church
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receives from wives. If you will learn this, when you
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submit to your husbands as unto the Lord, you will reap great
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benefits that you never could have imagined.
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You will be blessed by God for your obedience and you will be
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blessed by your husband when he sees it in submissive spirit and
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he knows that that didn't come from you because he knows what
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you are in your flesh. He will quickly say that is a
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work of God. You know what you'll do.
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You'll cause your husband to worship.
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He'll thank God for the work that God has done in his wife.
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What a beautiful picture the submissive wife get eject when
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properly understood and when she doesn't continue to try to usurp
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authority. Ephesians 5 verse 22, it says
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Wives submit to yourselves. To your own husband's.
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As you do to the Lord, he says, just like that full submission.
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For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ, as the head
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of the Church, his body, what she is the Savior.
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Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should
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submit to their husbands in everything.
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This is not just talking about sexual submission as many people
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have tried to make it. Submit to your husband's in
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everything. But what if he's not things?
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He's going to give an account to the Lord, and so will you for
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not submitting to Him. Pay attention to what the Word
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of God teaches. There is a reason Ephesians
Ephesians 5 chapter mention
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chapter 5 is not teaching us about the family, about the
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roles of men and women in the church.
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It's teaching us about the church.
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The given here was the fact that people already understood
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biblically that the husband is the head, the leader of the
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wife, and the wife is to take a submissive and complimentary
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complimentary role to him. That they are to work together
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to bring glory to God as one flan.
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So see it. See it for what it is.
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Stop fighting your fleshly desires to fit into the liberal
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culture of the day. Surrender to the call to be a
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godly woman, resisting your flesh, your urges to usurp God's
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authority. Do you know this after the fall
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that this was the way it was going to be?
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He said that wives would desire their husbands.
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He didn't mean to desire them sexually or sensually.
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What he meant was to desire their leadership position.
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Don't continue to walk in your follow your fallen name.
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Attempting to usurp the authority and order of God.
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Submit to God today and display that by submitting not only to
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your husband, submitting in the congregation to the role that
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God has for women even in the church.
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Lastly, we've seen godly themselves in godliness to avoid
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usurping God's authority in His order, but godly women are to
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accept their God ordained role. You are to put these shoes on,
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take your husband's shoes off, let him have them.
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You put yours on, you accept your God ordained role.
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Here's what he said it is he says verse 14, and Adam was not
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the one deceived. It was the woman who was
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deceived and became a Sinner, right?
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We talked about the stigma earlier, boy, that put a stigma
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on women, the ones who are easily deceived and fall into
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sin and lead others into sin. Is that not what happened?
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Yes, it is what happened. When they assume their God
-
ordained role here it is, but women will be saved through
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childbearing if they continue in faith, love and holiness with
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propriety. Paul here is calling Christian
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women to accept their God-given roles.
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He makes this point that even though Eve was deceived and
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ultimately LED all of mankind into sin because she was
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deceived by the serpent. God still has a role.
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God still has a plan for her in his Kingdom.
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God still has a plan of redemption for woman is to raise
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godly children. You as godly women in this room,
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you ought to accept that role no matter what culture wants to
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tell you. Culture is going to tell you
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this. You have to have two incomes,
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you have to have success, you have, you have to be somebody,
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you have to use the degree your parents paid for it, for crying
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out loud. Or you might still be paying for
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it, but God says there's no shame in accepting your God
-
ordained role. Godly woman whose objective in
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life is to glorify God by. Teaching the next generation how
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to glorify God. First, I want you to see this.
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You're to accept your God ordained role even as those who
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are the weaker vessel just all the time.
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When you say the woman is the weaker vessel, you need to
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understand that that's what Paul is saying here when he says Adam
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was not the one deceived. It was the woman who was
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deceived and became a Sinner. He's making very clear as to why
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she is the weaker vessel back first Peter chapter 3 verse 7
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tells us that husbands in the same way, be considerate as you
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live with your wives as the weaker partner.
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What does he mean by calling them a weaker partner?
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He's not saying that they are inferior to man.
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Everybody understand that. Don't leave here today and
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accuse Kirk Hall of saying that that women are inferior to men.
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They're not inferior. They have a different but a
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God-given role. Part of that means accepting the
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fact that they. Are a weaker vessel.
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No, they're not inferior to men spiritually or in their
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relationship to Christ. That would violate Galatians
Galatians 3 chapter mention
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chapter 3. Neither male nor female, nor Jew
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nor Greek. We're all the same in Christ.
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That's not what I'm saying at all.
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But what I am saying is emotionally and physically,
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women are weaker by nature. No matter.
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Watch this. No matter what the transgender
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movement might be trying to say in the court system right now,
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that a man really has no advantage athletically.
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Over a woman. Is that so?
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I've made this challenge every time that I have preached this
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passage of Scripture. I will make it again.
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Any woman in this room right now who wants to arm wrestle me
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right here, I'm willing. Now come on, I'm a four eyed,
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Gray haired old man. But you know this.
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I have this to my advantage. I'm a male and generally
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speaking, I'm not saying that there's not a woman who couldn't
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beat me in arm wrestling. I'm saying there's not a woman
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here who's fool enough to even step up to the challenge
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because, you know, that percentage says I'm going to
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beat you. Now, I am thankful that every
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time I make that challenge, no one steps up.
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Same thing to me in all the world, as if a woman beat me on
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the pulpit arm wrestling. But I say this to make a point.
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Women are generally the weaker vessel and physical strength and
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emotional, no matter what anyone else wants to say.
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And the context points to this fact that women were and still
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are easily deceived by their feeling, by their emotions, by
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their flesh. They're more vulnerable
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emotionally. They're less logical than men.
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We know this to be true just by very nature.
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But yet we still let the liberal voices try to get us to
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question. This is not up for debate.
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Women are the weaker vessel and they need to accept their role
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as the weaker vessel, not an inferior vessel.
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They are that flower that we see growing out in the flower bed,
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beautiful and colorful, of great worth compared to that rock
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laying on the ground. That would be the male.
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But yet that same rock could inadvertently crush that
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beautiful and delicate flower. They are the weaker vessel.
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Know that. Know that going into this,
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ladies and roll. Why?
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Because when you admit your weakness, you'll depend upon
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God's strength. When you admit your weakness,
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you'll depend upon the strength and the rationale of your
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husband, and you won't depend upon your feelings and your
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emotions. Because we know this, don't we?
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Ladies? Let's just be honest.
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They are ever wavering. And Paul's making that case was
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Eve that was deceived, and she was deceived by her feelings,
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her emotions. She saw the fruit, it looked
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good, she touched it, it felt good, and she ate it and it
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tastes good. Total impulse, right?
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None of you women was on have you Sheen total impulse see
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yourselves as those who are the weaker vessel if you're going to
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accept your God ordained role. Secondly, though you see
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yourself as the weaker vessel. I want you also to see yourself
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as those of great worth and value.
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See that important word there in verse 15?
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But but the women are the weaker vessel because they come from
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Eve and they are easily deceived and they are LED astray by their
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feelings and their emotions. But the woman was deceived by
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Satan in the garden. Women still have great worth and
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value in the Kingdom of God. What is that worth and value?
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Well, it's what the world will tell you not to find your worth
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in. They'll say don't find your
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worth. Don't don't find your worth and
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just being a mom. No ladies find your worth there
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because that is where you find the worth that God gives you.
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They are a vessel that God uses to point the next generation to
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new birth in Christ. They are God used to bring that
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child, one of his elect, into this.
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World so that they could hear the gospel from from someone
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none other than their mother, so that they could believe and so
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that they could be saved and so that they could be cleansed of
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all their sin and have the hope of eternal life.
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That you don't have a role. Of great worth and value.
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You should view child rearing as the highest calling that a woman
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could ever have in this life. You shouldn't be upset when I
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say things like you shouldn't be a pastor as a woman.
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You should remain congregation if I give you the rest of it.
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But what you should do instead, as you take your time, your
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energy, your resources, your love for God, your love for your
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children, and you pour Christ into your kids as much as you
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can. I get tired of hearing mom say
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that all I am is a stay at home mom.
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You don't know how valuable you are yet.
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Please see it. Where Eve LED all of mankind
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into sin because she was deceived.
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You can lead mankind out of sin as a mom.
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What a great duty. What worth you do have in the
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Kingdom of God? View it as a high calling.
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A high calling to make spirit who loves the Lord still.
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Kirk, you don't understand. I can't have children.
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How can this apply to me? The older women are to teach the
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younger women. Find women in this congregation
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who don't have godly moms and women that are discipling them.
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And you be a. Spiritual mother to them.
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How about that about this? Their kids being abandoned left
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and right up for adoption. Adopt A child.
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Teach them about Jesus. So you think God's calling all
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the people to adopt children? No.
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I think that's a special calling from God.
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If he leads you to do it, do it. He's going to give you the
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resources to do it and then pour Christ into them.
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Except your God ordained role is 1 of great worth and value not
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only to your husband and to your children, but to the Kingdom of
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God. He by his own design.
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Promises to redeem you through of children, birthing those
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children in painful agony. And I know it's painful.
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I've never had childbirth. Somebody told me it was akin to
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kidney stones, and I've had three or four of those.
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And so I understand. You know what's interesting
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about you have a gorgeous and a precious gift from God.
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All I had was a stone that I had to take to your urologist to
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have it tested to see why I was having kidney stone.
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You have something precious that he's trusted you with.
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The next generation, they're depending upon you.
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The ordained role as the weaker vessel has those of great worth
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and value, and as those who teach worship and virtue.
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Watch what he says. But women will be saved through
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childbearing if here's the condition here, if they continue
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in faith, love and holy with propriety, he said.
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You'll be safe through childbearing if you give them
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the godly example that you were supposed to give to them.
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The whole stigma of woman being the weaker vessel that led men
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into sin and you devoting yourself.
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To teach worship and virtue to your children how through your
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example, your example, watch this your example of what he
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says it faith pointing your children to true faith in God
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through the Lord Jesus over again.
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I can't tell you how many times my wife presented the gospel to
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my grown children, but I can confidently say that she
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presented the gospel to my grown children far more times than I
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ever did, which I'm thankful because it is through her
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example. My children are believers today.
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We know it's because of the grace of God that this is His
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instrument that He uses. If they continue in faith,
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thankful for a wife who continues continued in faith as
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she pointed her children to Christ.
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True faith in God, that only comes through submission to the
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Lord Jesus, trusting and teaching.
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It's only through the gospel that a person has ever saved.
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About my children, they're growing.
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They both serve the Lord. What's the secret?
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There's no secret, there's just scripture.
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And when a woman accepts their God ordained role and a man
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accepts his God ordained role, God does what God promises to do
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through their faith. Oh, just yesterday I got to
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witness one of the most precious things to me so far in my life.
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I sat in a restaurant and I had my 17 I believe months month old
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granddaughter. She's 17 months.
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Sounds close or 18. I know I've only forked out cash
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for one birthday so far but I can't wait till the 2nd.
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I got that jade who made you? She said God named me, I'll give
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you the translation. God made me.
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I said what else? She said everything, everything.
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And then asked why did God make everything?
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She says, but for his glory. How does she know this?
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She has a mom who is willing to go against the grain, who has
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found her worth in Christ and is teaching them to find their
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worth in Christ. She has accepted her God
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ordained role and already we are seeing the fruits of it already.
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I'm thankful also for my son and for his wife.
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I am for Jordan and Tyler and JoJo as you know her already for
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Knox can even talk reading him the truth of scripture, playing
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him songs that edify and glorify Christ.
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Because this is important ladies, be willing to accept
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your God ordained role. Stop listening to society and
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culture. Caved through childbearing,
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meaning this you will find redemption seeing the next
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generation come to know God if you continue in faith, the one
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true faith, the gospel of Jesus Christ.
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He says in love, the love that is described there in first
1 Corinthians 13 chapter mention
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Corinthians chapter 13 where it says in verse 4 love is patient,
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love is kind, does not boast, it is not proud, it does not
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dishonor others. It is not self seeking.
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It is not easily angered. It keeps no record of wrongs.
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Love does not delight in evil but rejoices in the truth.
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It always protects, always trust, always hopes, always
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perseveres. Love never fails.
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That kind of love God kind of love love your children being a
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through how you love how you love God.
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Does that know what Jesus said was the first command he says
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love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your
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soul and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest
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command. Matthew 22 verse 37 and 38
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Ladies, children, that you love the Lord your God with
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everything that you are, that you love God more than
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everything and teach. Them to do the same not only how
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you love God, but also how you love others.
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Jesus didn't stop with the 1st and greatest commandment.
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I want you to pay attention to that.
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Teach your children. But Matthew 2239 says love your
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neighbor as yourself. You think you don't have an
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important job, you have an essential role and the godly or
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the godlessness of the next generation, except your role as
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those who teach worship and virtue to your children.
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This is if you continue in faith, love and holiness with
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propriety. Show them the holy and righteous
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life looks like self controlled, reverent, Worshipful, prayerful
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Titus 2-3 and I'm done. It says.
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Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they
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live, not to be slanders or addicted to much wine, but to
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teach what is good. Urge the younger women to love
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their husbands and children. Love your husbands and children.
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Love the Lord first of your husbands and children and to be
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self controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind and be
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subject to their husbands so that no one will malign the word
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of God. So that no one can come back and
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say the word of God is not true, the word of God.
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And he has called women who profess his name to godliness.
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Hear that call, accept that call.
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Walk in that God ordained role for your life.
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Women, you've heard it today, the biblical call.
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Women, you're now faced with a dilemma.
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Oh, please don't turn me off yet.
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I know that I've gone long, but isn't this important?
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Isn't this more important than anything else we could do?
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Your children are at stake. Your home's at stake.
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The church is at stake. It's important you're faced with
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it. I'm not.
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All I've done today is deliver the message.
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Here's the dilemma. Do you continue to give in to
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the godlessness of this culture, what it says in contradiction to
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the work? You walk out these doors today
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and get mad at me, get in your fills and say that stupid pastor
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with that old outdated message. It's not my message.
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How do you hear the word of God that you said at the beginning
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of the service when I asked you, do you believe that this is
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global and inspired, breathed by God?
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You believe this is truth? He surrendered to the truth.
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Today you bow before God and say God, I want to be what you want
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me to be. Would you obediently answer
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God's call to be a godly woman? Women here, I want to tell you
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this. There's hope for you in Christ.
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That is the only hope you'll find.
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You will never raise the next generation to be godly if you
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don't first know God through Jesus Christ.
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You're a Sinner and you were separated from God himself
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because of your sin and it's Christ who came to die and your
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place to rescue you from that sin that keeps you from God.
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He bore deserved on his back at the cross and he will set you
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free today from the penalty of sin as you cry out to him as
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Lord and Savior. Perhaps today you say, Kurt, I
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want to talk to somebody about what it means to know Christ.
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I pray that you would. I'm thankful that in the earlier
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service the young lady did just that.
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She wanted to know how do Christ?
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There'll be people up here in just a moment who are standing
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here to pray with you and to pray for you.
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Talk to you about what it means to know Christ.
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I pray today that you would repent and believe on Christ and
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be saved. To the women of this
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congregation, you can get stuck. You can succumb to the culture,
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or you can submit to Christ. Those are the only two options.
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You stand your feet now as heads are bowed and eyes are closed.
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Today, who has been doing it your way or the way of the
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culture? This message has brought you to
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a place of repentance. I pray that you would do just
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that, that you would fall in your face and you would confess
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your sin, that you would repent, turn to and His word, live a
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life of obedience to it, to Him, bringing Him glory and honor and
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praise. You need folks to pray with you
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about that. There'll be ladies down here to
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my right and to my left who would be more than eager and
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excited to pray for you. Maybe you just want to come at
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these steps and just kneel, pour your heart out to God.
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My prayer is this. And God would raise up a group
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of godly women like this community has never seen before,
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that through you, through you, through the gospel that you
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preached, in the gospel that you live, you would save the next
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generation. Again, if you need prayer,
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there's folks to pray with you. I'll be down in front of you.
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