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E5 - The Pastoral Epistles: Biblical Ministers & Biblical Ministry - The Call For Godly Women

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  1. You're listening to Key Life Fellowships Pulpit Ministry

  2. podcast. We thank you for tuning in as we

  3. learn from God's Word together. If you would like more

  4. information regarding Key Life or to speak with one of our

  5. pastors, please visit us at Key Life Fellowship.

  6. Are you thankful this morning for our praise team who week

  7. after week after week leads us to remember the importance of

  8. things such as what we just sang to set our hope on Jesus?

  9. Aren't you thankful for them all?

  10. And I love that we keep seeing new faces up there as God

  11. continues to add to this congregation those people who

  12. can be a part of those teams. And I don't say that to draw

  13. attention to them. I say that to thank the Lord for

  14. always providing for what we need.

  15. When you see some of these guys around the church, be sure and

  16. tell them thank you for your obedience and using your

  17. abilities and your gifts to lead us in praise.

  18. Each week you have your Bibles. If you would turn to first

  19. Timothy and the second chapter as we continue looking epistles,

  20. the series that has been titled Biblical Ministers and Biblical

  21. Ministries of this that we are going to look at today in first

    1 Timothy 2 chapter mention

  22. Timothy chapter 2, we're going to read verses 18 through 15,

  23. but we're really going to focus on verses 9 through 15 because.

  24. 8 was last week, but I'm just going to use that verse to make

  25. a point and to show you something in the midst of what

  26. we're going to be looking at today.

  27. And so I want you to see the clear and the concise context of

  28. this so that you're not confused because when you take this

  29. passage of Scripture out of the context, you can make a big mess

  30. out of it very quickly. Do that because I believe this,

  31. that this is one of the clearest, yet most controversial

  32. passages in all of the New Testament.

  33. Especially in our day. And that's difficult for some of

  34. you to understand. How can it be so clear and yet

  35. be so? We're going to talk about that a

  36. little today, but it's not always been the case of this

  37. passage being controversial. It's generally throughout church

  38. history, been pretty widely accepted and clearly understood.

  39. But historically, if we were to depend on where things might

  40. have fallen off the track, we would probably have to start

  41. somewhere. World War 2 or post World War

  42. 2IN what is known as the second wave of feminism in this country

  43. and during the 1960s and the 1970s following the.

  44. Second World War. And it is in that and it is

  45. there that we see a headlong and vicious assault.

  46. And that's what I will call it. Because against the biblical

  47. role of women, the biblical role of women in the home and in the

  48. biblical role of women in the church, There was a first wave

  49. of prior to this second wave of feminism, a wave that was in the

  50. late 18, early 1900s. And this wave of feminism fought

  51. for the fact that women had suffered for a long time and and

  52. true, they had been oppressed. But the second wave is quite

  53. different because it wasn't just women from human oppression, but

  54. unfortunately. The second wave is subverts the

  55. word of God, suppresses the truth and attempts to change the

  56. God-given role of women. Now it asks this question.

  57. Any further, how many of you still believe that God's word is

  58. infallible, inerrant, 100% God breathed.

  59. It is the very word of God. How many of you still believe

  60. that? Let let me make this easy.

  61. How many of you don't believe that?

  62. Because if you're going to have a hard time hearing anything

  63. that I say today. Because we based everything that

  64. we teach, we based everything that we believe.

  65. We based everything that we live here on the principle of sola

  66. Scripture, Scripture alone. We believe that Scripture alone

  67. is the word of God. And Scripture alone dictates how

  68. we live our lives, how we conduct our business, how we

  69. worship, how we handle our affairs, even in this world.

  70. So we turn to Scripture today and Scripture alone as we see

  71. the call for godly women. Call for godly women.

  72. Now, I told the men prior to this when we were praying case

  73. you guys don't know this. There's men's prayer immediately

  74. prior to the service out in the foyer.

  75. For all you men who would desire to pray for us before the

  76. service, we'd love to have you. We were out there and I let them

  77. know we're going to be talking about the call for godly women

  78. today. Now don't think for a second

  79. that you guys are off the hook because we're preaching, because

  80. it is your duty as men to lead them, and yes, even to lead them

  81. in godliness as a godly woman, to teach them the scriptures, to

  82. know the scriptures so you can teach them the scriptures so

  83. that they can be the women that God desires them to be.

  84. So you do have a role in this that we won't look at your

  85. direct role to their direct role.

  86. In hearing the call to be godly women.

  87. First Timothy, chapter 2, verse 8.

    1 Timothy 2:8

  88. Paul says, I want men everywhere to lift up holy hands in prayer

  89. without anger or disputing. I I read that as I said a moment

  90. ago to remind you of the context was calling on the church to

  91. pray and to pray for specifically lost people, the

  92. unbelieving. And he tells the man, here's

  93. your role to lift up holy hands, right?

  94. Who can ascend the hill of the Lord?

  95. He who has clean hands and a pure heart, He's saying, be of

  96. pure conscience and of pure hands, lifting up those hands in

  97. prayer without any anger or dispute, nonsense aside.

  98. And then he's going to say this in verse 9.

  99. I also want, he says likewise, I have some commands for the

  100. women. I have a call for women and a

  101. call that they need to hear and a call that they need to follow.

  102. I also modestly with decency and propriety, not with braided hair

  103. or gold or pearls or expensive clothes, but with good deeds

  104. appropriate for women who profess to worship God.

  105. Verse 11, it says a woman should learn in quietness and full

  106. support. I do not permit a woman to teach

  107. or to have authority over a man. She must be silent.

  108. Again, he's talking about in the congregation in the assembly of

  109. the Saints. He says for Adam was formed 1st

  110. and then Eve and Adam was not the one deceived, it was the

  111. woman who was deceived. But women will be saved through

  112. childbearing if they continue in faith.

  113. Love and holiness with propriety.

  114. Let's pray to God the Father in the name of Jesus.

  115. We thank you for your word. We thank you that it is true.

  116. We thank you that culture is a man made thing.

  117. Philosophy is both culture and philosophy could be full of

  118. errors. And untruths and deception.

  119. The Lord, we know that Your word is true and infallible and

  120. inerrant. There is not one error in your

  121. teaching. God, I pray today that You give

  122. us by Your Spirit, with minds willing lives to obey.

  123. Your word over culture, over the philosophies and the ideologies

  124. of man. That we would obey Your word and

  125. that we would bring glory to you in doing so, as you've called us

  126. to do. Both men and women alike, we

  127. pray and we ask things in Christ's name.

  128. Amen. Now, I told you immediately as I

  129. began my intro just a moment ago, that this is one of the

  130. clearest passages in all of the New Testament, and I do believe

  131. that. But that doesn't mean that it

  132. comes without some difficulty. Right?

  133. About verse 15. You saw the difficulty did

  134. because from verse 9 all the way to verse 14, it was pretty plain

  135. and simple the things that he taught.

  136. But verse 15 takes a different turn when we kind of scratch our

  137. head and we asked the question, what does it mean that women

  138. will be saved through childbearing?

  139. Now let me tell you this. You're not the first person who

  140. got the question. So what I'm going to do is,

  141. though I'm going to cover 9 through 15 today, I want to

  142. start with 15, and I want to tell you what I believe that

  143. verse 15 is saying so that nine through 14 will make sense as we

  144. walk through the rest of this passage.

  145. There are many people who say that when we read that text

  146. there in verse 9, want women to dress modestly with decency and

  147. propriety and braided hair, gold pearls, expensive clothes.

  148. And he goes on and tells him what he wants and then he drops

  149. to 15 and says, but women will be saved through childbearing.

  150. Many people will say this, and this is 1 view.

  151. This is a view that that I strongly disagree with.

  152. This is the view that says women will be saved from the curse of

  153. sin through literal childbirth, meaning this.

  154. They interpret this to say when man fell to sin, man was cursed

  155. and part of the curse that fell upon women.

  156. And this is true. They will have childbirth.

  157. And there are schools of thought that say women will be saved

  158. because they are willing to endure the pain of childhood.

  159. Now that would mean it's the women who have more children and

  160. endure more pain. They're more holy, they're more

  161. saved. Well, the problem with this is I

  162. hope you immediate it from what we preach here all the time that

  163. we are justified by grace alone, through faith alone and Christ

  164. alone. If he's talking about salvation

  165. and saying that a woman is going to be saved simply because she

  166. has children, that would be a work, wouldn't it?

  167. That would be no salvation at all.

  168. And so that's a a school of thought that very quickly I can

  169. throw out and say, because this would contradict everything that

  170. the Apostle Paul told elsewhere in Scripture about being saved

  171. by grace through faith and that alone.

  172. The second view is this, and I find this view very interesting.

  173. And I'll tell you this, there are many reformers who held on

  174. to this view. Now what I really believe about

  175. the next, the second view is that it was possibly a holdover

  176. from Catholic interpretation. This is something that they just

  177. didn't reform from the reformers.

  178. And it says this, it says that women will be saved by child

  179. bearing with this specific thing in mind, and I want you to talk

  180. this through with me, that yes, a woman named Eve LED men into

  181. sin, but a woman named Mary through birthings of Christ will

  182. lead people out of sin, Barry actually, and her birth will

  183. lead to the saving of souls. Now let me tell you this.

  184. That's true 100%. But I don't think that's what

  185. Paul is saying here, even though the reformers would say, but

  186. it's fulfilling Genesis 315 and Genesis 3:15, if you're not

    Genesis 3:15

  187. familiar. That is the promise of the

  188. Messiah who would come, who though the serpent would strike

  189. his heel, he would crush his head.

  190. And So what many people would do is they interpret this verse 15

  191. in saying that women are going to find the redemption in the

  192. fact that a woman, a virgin named Mary, bore a son and his

  193. name is Christ. And of course, we find

  194. redemption nowhere else other than Christ.

  195. However, the reason that I can't take that view and accept that

  196. view, though that view theologically would be

  197. considered true. I don't think that's what Paul

  198. is saying here because he is in the context about a woman

  199. singular. He's talking about women in the

  200. plural. He's talking about those women

  201. who are already followers of Christ because he is addressing

  202. the church and he is addressing how we are to worship the Lord.

  203. And so he's not talking about Mary singular.

  204. He's actually talking about women in the plural.

  205. So then what is he saying? What what is a good

  206. interpretation of this? And I think we find it the third

  207. view as in my opinion, the most appropriate.

  208. And because of my, it's my opinion, 100% correct.

  209. Why? Simply because it's my opinion.

  210. Just like if your opinion was your opinion, you would be right

  211. until proven wrong. But I think that if we put it in

  212. its context, and this is very important, you, you do know

  213. this, right? The three most important things

  214. in interpreting script, context and context.

  215. Don't ever forget that. And so as we look at this in its

  216. context, I think he is addressing a group of women and

  217. and in fact specifically a group of believing women at Ephesus.

  218. And so he is teaching them something.

  219. What is he teaching them? Well, I think we here, when we

  220. automatically assume, because we see in English the term saved,

  221. that he's talking about salvation.

  222. I don't think that he's talking about salvation at all.

  223. Why? Because he's addressing women

  224. that are already professing, as we will see in a moment to

  225. follow God. He's addressing profession now.

  226. I don't think he's talking about saved at all, though.

  227. I think he is talking about redemption in a sense.

  228. And he's talking about redemption as far as a woman's

  229. usefulness to God and His plan for women, despite the fact that

  230. they were deceived in the Garden, LED mankind into sin and

  231. into chaos. So I believe that this verse 15

  232. teaches us that women will be saved or redeemed from the

  233. stigma of being the ones who let all of us into this Mass.

  234. And we can quickly see how that would be a stigma.

  235. In fact, traditionally up until this point that Paul makes this

  236. address, it was a stigma in the Jewish culture and in Jewish

  237. worship, women could not ship in the same area as men.

  238. But Paul is saying this, there is still redemption for women in

  239. the fact that yes, they do have this stigma of leading all of

  240. mankind into sin, but they will also be used by God to lead

  241. their children out of sin. So he's saying they will find

  242. redemption in the children that they produce and that they

  243. nurture and that they admonish in the Lord.

  244. He's saying this that women have a role, and the role has not

  245. ceased simply because they were the the enemy used to deceive

  246. mankind into falling into sin. There is hope.

  247. Yet still for them now, I feel that this is the right

  248. interpretation because of the context, not only of what we're

  249. seeing here in First Timothy chapter 2, but the context of

    1 Timothy 2 chapter mention

  250. everything that testament and in the Word of God throughout its

  251. entirety. So now that I have established

  252. that right, that most difficult thing, everything else about

  253. this from verse 9 all the way to verse 15 ought to be crystal

  254. clear thing that we read and something that we say, OK,

  255. that's not hard to understand. God is calling women to be

  256. godly. He is calling each and everyone

  257. of you in this room who professed Jesus Christ as Lord

  258. and Savior. He is calling you to be godly so

  259. that the next generation will be redeemed because of the

  260. influence of their mothers. Well, so many times a mother's

  261. role gets downplayed, doesn't it?

  262. Can I say this just specifically about my family?

  263. My children are now grown and have children of their.

  264. Own. And though I spent as much time

  265. as I could with my children when they were growing up, the time

  266. that I spent with my children is minuscule compared to the time

  267. that my wife spent with my children.

  268. People wonder all the time. They ask me, Kirk, aren't you so

  269. thankful how your children turn out?

  270. Yes. Then they asked me this

  271. question. What did you do?

  272. I will tell you this. I attempted to pastor my wife to

  273. the best of my ability because I knew how important her role was

  274. in teaching our children. I was not going to let her live

  275. with the stigma like Eve leading others into sin.

  276. No, you have been redeemed from that stigma and you're in

  277. Christ. You have a great responsibility

  278. to raise up the next generation in a godly fashion.

  279. And I'm, I'm here to help you any way that I can and to

  280. compliment your role as a godly woman.

  281. That's the answer. I tell them, go talk to Brandy.

  282. If it would have been up to me, I would have messed things up,

  283. but I'm thankful that somewhere along the line she read the Word

  284. of God and determined in her heart and her mind through the

  285. power and persuasion of the Holy Spirit to be the godly woman

  286. that she is today. What is a godly woman?

  287. What does it mean to be called to be godly in this passage?

  288. This is what we see, and I don't want you to lose sight of the

  289. truth here because of all the controversy surrounding it.

  290. The controversy is quite silly. It is cutting and it is clear.

  291. So let's approach it today as such.

  292. First, if you're taking notes, write this down.

  293. Godly women are called to adorn themselves in godliness.

  294. Watch what Paul does here. You ladies are going to like

  295. this. He starts with your wardrobe.

  296. He does. He is going to.

  297. To you Christian women in this room, that it is so important

  298. how you dress in your apparel, what you wear, you say, well,

  299. what? Yes, watch what he says.

  300. I also want women to dress modestly.

  301. Now he just said, I want men to lift up holy hands in prayer.

  302. And here's an important thing for women.

  303. I want you to dress modestly. I want women to dress modestly.

  304. When you come into the congregation to dress modestly

  305. with decency and propriety, not with braided hair or gold or

  306. pearls or expensive clothes, but with good deeds appropriate for

  307. women who profess to worship God, He said.

  308. You're professing believers, and as a professing and believing

  309. woman, he attention to this pay. Attention to what you wear.

  310. Many people would say he's making a parallel.

  311. He's not yet he will in a moment.

  312. What he's going to do, he's going to establish the

  313. importance of a godly woman's apparel, the way you physically

  314. dress. He describes it for us.

  315. In fact, he takes great detail to describe it.

  316. Of course, he says first modestly.

  317. What does that mean? Well, to be modest means to not

  318. be elaborate or sensual. He's telling women to refuse to

  319. dress overly elaborate and refuse to dress overtly sexual.

  320. Yes, this does have a sexual connotation.

  321. When he says modest, what he's saying is that if you are

  322. dressing in order to draw attention by the way you dress

  323. of women or the attention of men, and you ladies know this,

  324. you do both. I joke with my wife all the time

  325. and I, I, I laugh and I say women dress to impress women

  326. because baby, I really don't care.

  327. I think you look really cute and no makeup and sweats and a ball

  328. cap because I see her true beauty.

  329. True beauty is not found in those things and I have grown in

  330. the Lord enough to realize that. Now she thinks I'm crazy when I

  331. say that. But ladies, let me tell you,

  332. when your husband says that, he means that he is trying.

  333. That those things have nothing to do with truly being a godly

  334. woman. He says dressed modestly.

  335. It's important that we learn this.

  336. Why? So we can teach this, right

  337. ladies? Anyone here seen a homecoming

  338. picture or a prom picture? Lately.

  339. I'm going to be honest with you, I have to get past them and

  340. shame most of the time. There's a lot of times when on

  341. social media these things are posted, I wonder are they going

  342. to a homecoming or a prom or are they somewhere in Vegas trying

  343. to earn a little extra money? He said.

  344. What does that have to do with women?

  345. They learned it from somewhere or someone who should be in an

  346. authority in their life and a teacher in their life is

  347. allowing it to happen first. Dad, that's your responsibility.

  348. You tell mom no, she can't buy that dress.

  349. I don't care how mad mom gets at you.

  350. She needs to cover herself up. Why?

  351. Because that's what godly women do.

  352. We're teaching her to be a godly woman.

  353. We are not teaching her to be a prostitute.

  354. You can just go on and buckle your seat belt.

  355. We're going to talk about things today that they don't usually

  356. talk about modestly, not overly elaborate nor overtly sexual.

  357. Isn't it interesting that in our pornography driven culture our

  358. styles have also become overly sexual?

  359. Girls dressed the way an addicted young male counterparts

  360. desire for them to dress moms. It's your job to put a stop to

  361. it. How do you do that?

  362. By the way you dress your apparel modestly.

  363. He then goes on and he says with decency.

  364. This takes another turn. Decency here is very interesting

  365. because you know what it means. Reverence, Reverence and

  366. reverence belongs to the Lord. He is actually telling the women

  367. at Ephesus dress modestly. And dress worshipfully.

  368. Time asking yourself this question, is what I'm wearing

  369. something that would bring honor to God?

  370. Is it something that is reverent?

  371. I know we don't talk about reverence a lot anymore in the

  372. church because we're real confused about what it means.

  373. The ladies, I want to encourage you to be reverent in how you

  374. dress humbly and gracefully. Can I help all of the aging

  375. women in this room stop trying to be young, be reverent, be

  376. humble, and be graceful. There is nothing more than an

  377. older woman who dresses. And carries herself.

  378. Gracefully and humbly out of reverence for the Lord and honor

  379. for her husband. He says decency.

  380. Seek to glorify God even in how you dress.

  381. This would be crazy wouldn't instead of it just being the

  382. latest style. So I buy it.

  383. Lord, is this appropriate? Is this appropriate for one of

  384. your children to wear in the assembly, for one of your

  385. children to wear out in public? Now let me help you.

  386. If it is tied and it is showing every curve of your body, or it

  387. is so loose that it is showing all the things that no one but

  388. your husband ought to see, you don't even have to pray that

  389. prayer. You can just write it down.

  390. It is not modest and it is not decent.

  391. It's not reverent unto the Lord. But then he doesn't stop there

  392. and he says and propriety says so much.

  393. When we get down to the original meaning, it means soundness of

  394. mind and self controlled. Ladies, are you of sound mind

  395. and of self-control? When you dress yourself, are you

  396. just doing what you do because fashion says do it?

  397. That's not sound mind. Let's do it.

  398. That's not sound mind. Are you just doing it because

  399. you want to do it? That's not self-control, that's

  400. you actually being out of control and being led by your

  401. emotions and your feelings. We'll talk more about that in a

  402. moment. The soundness of mine and self

  403. controlled in our apparel. Ladies, please pay attention to

  404. this. It means thinking of others when

  405. you dress, considering other people, considering the example

  406. that you're leaving or considering the lust of that

  407. you're causing. Considering the example that

  408. you're leaving or the lust of that you're causing.

  409. Other people view what I am wearing.

  410. You need to ask yourself this question.

  411. How Will Young ladies see me? Will Young ladies see me hip,

  412. cool and stylish? That's not the objective.

  413. Well, others see me as sexy, sensual.

  414. Those are questions that you must ask in our culture that is

  415. designing women's clothing to be sexual and sensual.

  416. Yeah. It's a question we don't find

  417. ourselves asking as women much of the time.

  418. Ask yourself, who calls to stumble by my apparel?

  419. You say, What do you mean? I mean this when you come into

  420. the congregation and you walk past someone else's husband and

  421. you are dressed in a way that draws sexual attention to

  422. yourself, but you just enabled him to do.

  423. You enabled him to commit. Adultery in his mind when he

  424. lusted after you because you left nothing to the imagination.

  425. What about when you walk down the hall and that young girl

  426. says I want she looks up to you and she she sees you

  427. accentuating your body parts in a sensual or sexual way.

  428. Do you not think that you've caused that young 1 to stumble

  429. Here's what Jesus says about this.

  430. You can take it or leave it. I pray that you would take it.

  431. Matthew 18 verse six. He says if anyone causes one of

  432. these little. Do you believe in me to stumble?

  433. It would be better for them to have a large millstone hung

  434. around their neck and be drowned in the depths of the sea.

  435. Woe to the world because of the things that caused people to

  436. stumble. Such things must come.

  437. But woe to the person through whom they come.

  438. Ladies, hear this woe. They come through you.

  439. Your hand or your foot causes you to stumble.

  440. Cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to enter

  441. life maimed or crippled than to have two hands or two feet to be

  442. thrown into the eternal fire. And if your eye causes you to

  443. stumble, gouge it out and throw it away.

  444. It's better for you to enter life with one eye than to have

  445. two eyes and to be thrown into the Most of the time we get to

  446. that last part of the Scripture and we we just focus on that.

  447. But the whole meaning of the Scripture is this.

  448. Don't cause others to stumble because if you give no regard to

  449. others, it reveals your true heart.

  450. You are still self-centered, self controlled emotions and

  451. desires and. So you got to think of others

  452. when you dress, refusing to put self desire over others over

  453. what it may cause them to do. Yes, you may look good.

  454. You may even look and feel sexy in that because you ladies know

  455. what I'm talking about, right? When when you go to that

  456. important thing and you put on that dress that you've never

  457. worn before and you look in the mirror, mirror and you know that

  458. you do look sexy in that love you Sexy is OK for your husband

  459. at home in the confines of your own bedroom.

  460. It's not OK in the congregation. Amen.

  461. It's not OK in the congregation. I don't care if it is the style,

  462. Go against the style. Create new styles.

  463. We need them. It's not for the congregation.

  464. Why? Because in doing so, you were

  465. going to cause little ones who are here to worship the Lord,

  466. whether that's little ones as the children or as little ones

  467. in faith in Christ, you are going to cause them to stumble.

  468. And he says it's better for you to have a millstone tied around

  469. your neck and thrown into the sea.

  470. I didn't make that up. That's red.

  471. If you have a red letter edition, that's Christ.

  472. What message are you sending to others?

  473. Who are you causing to sin? Philippians chapter 2 says this.

    Philippians 2 chapter mention

  474. It says in verse 3, do nothing out of selfish ambition or

  475. vacancy. That means don't dress out of

  476. selfish ambition or vain conceit or anything else rather than

  477. humans above yourselves, not looking to your own interests,

  478. but each of you to the interests of the others.

  479. Ladies, let me just help you out.

  480. The pornography industry in our culture is a multi billion

  481. dollar industry. Even before the pornography

  482. industry happened, men first. Why?

  483. Because men are visual creatures.

  484. They are excited by the things that they see.

  485. Don't cause them to stumble by being ungodly in the way that

  486. you approach your apparel, he says.

  487. Modestly decent. With propriety, soundness of

  488. mind, thinking of others, putting others above yourself,

  489. asking yourself this question. Could that that I'm wearing

  490. 'cause someone else to slip off into sin?

  491. Be it vanity for that woman who admired, or be it lust for that

  492. young man who's looking at me and gazing upon me in an

  493. inappropriate way. Or that husband who's committed

  494. and devote himself to be true and loyal to another woman who

  495. sits here in this congregation together.

  496. Yet by your dress you catch his eye.

  497. It's not I that you are intended to catch.

  498. That's his wife's job. You see the problem here, I hope

  499. though it may be old fashioned in many people's eyes, and it

  500. is. It's 2000 years old, but it's

  501. still 100% applicable today and in the church.

  502. Godly women are adorning themselves in godliness, their

  503. apparel, he says. I I also want women to dress

  504. modestly, with decency and propriety, not with braided hair

  505. or gold or pearls or expensive clothes.

  506. Here's what he's going to do. He moves from apparel to

  507. accents. We know we all have to accent

  508. everything, don't we? The Roman culture there, the

  509. same braided hair, jewelry and all the things they had to have

  510. them so that they fit the fashion that was going on there

  511. in that culture that was surrounded around Artemis, the

  512. false goddess. So he addresses accents.

  513. What is he talking about here? Is he specifically gold pearls?

  514. Is it wrong for you to braid your hair?

  515. Is it wrong for you to color your hair?

  516. Is it wrong for you to have hair?

  517. Is it wrong for you to have jewelry?

  518. No, he's not saying that at all. Is it wrong for you to wear

  519. makeup? No, Please do.

  520. He's not saying any of those things.

  521. What he is doing is he is saying don't fall into the trap of

  522. needless elaborations, needless enhancements.

  523. Paul's not saying that you shouldn't fix your hair or wear

  524. jewelry. He's saying women shouldn't use

  525. these things to draw undue attention to themselves and away

  526. from God when they come in. No, not to be a man in here

  527. who's struggling when we're singing songs to Jesus about

  528. focusing on the Lord and what he's done.

  529. There ought not to be a man in here who's who's struggling with

  530. focusing on that because you wear your clothes too tight or

  531. you wear your clothes too loose. Whatever the case may be, That's

  532. exactly what he's saying. And then he takes it a step

  533. further and he says, and also don't add to it these needless

  534. elaborations that don't mean anything.

  535. This culture was being inundated with this, as you can tell from

  536. the context. He mentions many things that are

  537. nothing but elaborations and enhancements.

  538. Paul didn't want Christian women to devote time to devote, to

  539. devote energy to the fashions of the day and only draw attention

  540. to the woman and away from God. Now the good thing is in our

  541. culture. We don't struggle with this at

  542. all. There's no danger in our culture

  543. trap of extras and elaborations or enhancements, right?

  544. No, that's sarcasm as intended. I'll tell you how dangerous it

  545. is in our culture annually in the United States of America.

  546. People spend $4 billion on Botox and facial fillers, $4 billion

  547. to trick someone into thinking that they're not.

  548. Really wrinkled under all that annually in the US. 1.4 to 1.6

  549. billion dollars of revenue on breast augmentations and

  550. liposuctions. That's not reconstructive after

  551. breast cancer, that's just enhancements.

  552. That's just add on operations because I guess you weren't

  553. content with what? God had given you it wasn't

  554. impressive enough. 8 to 10 billion on unneeded cosmetic

  555. surgery. By that, well, you didn't get in

  556. a car wreck and half your face get knocked off in the accident

  557. and you had to have reconstructive surgery and a

  558. face rebuilt. That's not what I'm talking

  559. about here. It's things you didn't need.

  560. Well, you saw some influencer on social media who had a nose that

  561. wasn't like your nose and you really like their nose.

  562. So you took place and said, I want their nose.

  563. They said OK, I specialize in noses here, I'll give you a new

  564. nose. I can tell you this, I've

  565. watched one episode of Botched and that was enough for me to

  566. never kind of enhancement or some kind of elaborate change in

  567. my face, right? If this wasn't Botched enough,

  568. ladies are spending billions. Of dollars on needless

  569. elaborations and enhancements in our country, 17 to $18 billion a

  570. year on cosmetic surgeries and alterations that do nothing but

  571. draw attention to that person who is desiring attention.

  572. Godly women are to adorn them and godly apparel modestly,

  573. decently, with propriety. Their accent, their dress.

  574. Not with needless elaborations or enhancements.

  575. Now I know. What was it wrong to wear

  576. earrings? No, wear earrings.

  577. But if you're wearing hubcaps to draw attention to yourself,

  578. that's another he's talking about going beyond reasonable

  579. for the mere desire to draw attention to yourself.

  580. Why is that important? Woman of God, listen to me.

  581. If you're drawing attention to yourself, you're not where it

  582. belongs to the Lord. That's why he takes it a step

  583. further. Now he makes this parallel.

  584. He said instead of being dressed with immodest clothes and

  585. undecent clothes and clothes that show you have no soundness

  586. to mind or self-control. Or acts aberrant, right then

  587. nobody even believes they're real, right?

  588. 4 inch eyelashes? Nobody's buying it.

  589. Lips that make you look like Howard the Duck.

  590. If you're a kid from the 80s, sorry you missed it.

  591. Don't go watch it. It's pre Christ.

  592. He now makes the parallel and he says this but with good deeds

  593. appropriate for women who profess to worship God.

  594. He says don't worry about these outward things.

  595. As much as you worry about what comes out of your life, inside

  596. of your life, this is the proper display of beauty.

  597. Paul's going to teach that instead of putting so much

  598. effort and so much time and so much energy and so much money

  599. into drawing attention to yourself so your girlfriends

  600. will say, oh girl, you look good on Facebook.

  601. They're lying. They just want you to lie.

  602. They post something, figure it out.

  603. He says adorn yourself of godly action.

  604. Godly woman should draw attention not to herself but to

  605. God. First Peter, chapter 3, verse 3.

    1 Peter 3:3

  606. It says your beauty. Should not come from outward

  607. adornment, such as elaborate of gold jewelry or fine clothes.

  608. Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading

  609. beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit which is of great worth

  610. in God's sight. Who are you trying to please?

  611. Who are you trying to impress? Peter saying almost verbatim

  612. teaching here. He's saying this.

  613. Live your life to impress the Lord.

  614. We're going to see why in just a moment.

  615. Showing your actions, your service to Him, bringing him

  616. glory by being clothed, not as the world is clothed.

  617. With styles and fashions and sensuality and sexuality would

  618. be the service that bring glory to your heavenly Father.

  619. This is a common analogy that Paul uses in Colossians.

  620. He uses clothing again to make this point.

  621. He says in chapter 3 of Colossians verse 12.

  622. Therefore, is God's chosen people wholly and dearly loved.

  623. Clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, gentleness

  624. and patience, ladies. You'll be dressed in a way that

  625. honors God. Clothe yourself with these

  626. things. Bear with each other and forgive

  627. one another. And any if any of you has a

  628. grievance against someone, forgive as the Lord forgave you.

  629. And over all these virtues, put on love which binds them.

  630. What is he saying? Clothe yourself in godliness.

  631. Make that a priority. Let that outshine any earrings

  632. you would wear, any braided hair that you may have, any style

  633. that you may purchase. Let the glory of God and service

  634. to Him outshine all those things in your life so that when people

  635. see you, they don't see. It's important.

  636. So may the women here who are hearing my voice and hearing the

  637. word of God this morning adorn themselves in godliness and not

  638. as the world chooses to adorn themselves.

  639. Secondly. Godly women are not only to

  640. adorn themselves in godliness, they are to avoid usurping God's

  641. order. Pay attention, attention to what

  642. he says in this context. He says a woman should learn in

  643. quietness, in full submission. He didn't say kind of

  644. submission, half hearted submission, pretend submission,

  645. full submission. I do not permit a woman to teach

  646. her to have authority over a man.

  647. Be silent. For Adam was formed first, then

  648. Eve. Now I know what the people who

  649. come against this passage of Scripture try to say.

  650. This is where they say Kirk. That was just for Ephesus

  651. because of the influence of Diana or or or who is otherwise

  652. known as Artemis. That is just talking to Ephesus.

  653. Let me make this very clear. This is talking to any culture

  654. and any church that would usurp God's order and God's authority.

  655. You know how I know that? That's why I read verse 8 for

  656. you. That would be like saying men

  657. lifting holy hands in prayer was limited to just Ephesus and

  658. there's no need for us to do the same anymore, right guys?

  659. No, absolutely not. That's foolish.

  660. But it's only this particular part of this passage where we

  661. try to say, oh, this is just written in light of Artemis.

  662. That was Artemis influential? You bet.

  663. Was Artemis worship influential? Did it affect the culture?

  664. Yes. Did it affect women?

  665. Absolutely. The same thing would be written

  666. to a culture that had no Artemis but still struggled with the

  667. same thing because he's speaking it to our culture even this day.

  668. Paul's not calling women ignorant.

  669. You know how I know that? He said a woman should learn.

  670. He wants you to learn. It says here's the way that you

  671. are to learn in the congregation.

  672. He wants you to learn. That's great news.

  673. Why? Because the women of the Old

  674. Testament weren't even permitted to learn.

  675. They didn't even come into the same courts as the men for

  676. worship to learn as the men were.

  677. He's saying you're in there, you're assembly, you're

  678. assembled, you're an assembly and you have the right now and

  679. the duty to learn. So he's not saying to be

  680. ignorant and unlearned. He's not saying to be silent,

  681. barefoot, pregnant in the kitchen.

  682. He's not talking about the kitchen at all.

  683. He's referring. To the assembly, he's referring

  684. to an assembly just like this, who has joined together on the

  685. Lord's Day to worship and honor the Lord.

  686. And he is saying to them that you are to learning quietness

  687. and full submission to your husband.

  688. Quietness and full submission to the male leadership and

  689. authority in that first to your husband.

  690. And then to those male pastors and elders who direct the

  691. affairs of the church and who teach the word of God.

  692. This is the way that it has always been throughout church

  693. history. Again, it wasn't into the last

  694. 100 years that this has even been a topic for debate or not

  695. to exercise speaking gifts and leadership gifts in positions of

  696. authority in the Congregation of the Saints.

  697. For those of you who would say that's just for Ephesus to the

  698. Corinthian church, First Corinthians chapter 14.

    1 Corinthians 14 chapter mention

  699. On the subject of speaking gifts in the congregation and

  700. instructions on orderly worship, here's what Paul instructs to.

  701. He says for God is not a God of disorder verse 33, but it's but

  702. of peace and then he says. As in all the congregations of

  703. the Lord's people. This is the way it is throughout

  704. the church. All congregations of the Lord's

  705. people. How many of you here today

  706. belong to Jesus Christ? Raise your hand.

  707. Just a congregation of the Lord's people.

  708. All right, here's what he says. Women should remain silent in

  709. the churches. Is he saying that you shouldn't

  710. talk to your friends in the hallway?

  711. No, he's talking about the context of speaking and teaching

  712. leadership. He said women should remain

  713. signed and the churches there, but must be in submission as the

  714. law says. What is he doing?

  715. He's going all the way back to the Old Testament to remind you

  716. of what Paul is reminding the church.

  717. Here at Alpha. System Timothy.

  718. He says that they want to inquire about something.

  719. They should ask their own husbands at home.

  720. I know husband, it's time for you to freak out.

  721. But what if I don't know the answer?

  722. Open your answer and start pastoring your home like you

  723. should do. I need to say that again.

  724. Open your Bibles. Study to show yourself a Workman

  725. who is approved rightly dividing the word of truth.

  726. Why? Because you are the pastor of

  727. your home. Your wife's depending on you.

  728. I told you, men, they can't be the godly women they need to be

  729. until you devote yourself to being the godly man that you

  730. need to be. If they want to inquire about

  731. something, they should ask their own husbands at home, for it is

  732. it is disgraceful for a woman to speak in the church.

  733. Now let me remind you that was not inundated with the teachings

  734. of Artemis. The following of Artemis that

  735. was to the Corinthian. Church and there at the

  736. Corinthian church, he says, and this applies to all the

  737. congregations of the Saints, meaning this this applies to key

  738. life fellowship right now in 2026.

  739. And for anybody to tell you anything else is to sub.

  740. The Word of God, and to pervert the word of God before your very

  741. eyes. Don't fall for it.

  742. These roles always have and always will be reserved for men.

  743. He's not giving them any new teaching.

  744. Here he says a woman should learn in quietness and full

  745. submission teacher to have authority over men, she must be

  746. silent. Why he gives you the answer.

  747. For Adam was formed first, then Eve.

  748. What is he doing? He's going all the way back to

  749. the law, just as he said. In First Corinthians chapter 14,

    1 Corinthians 14 chapter mention

  750. he's going back to the Torah and he is saying this.

  751. Remember back in Genesis what happened.

  752. Now what happened? God created things in a certain

  753. way, and he goes back and he says even creation.

  754. Tells us that. What he's saying is this, that

  755. women must avoid usurping God's authority.

  756. Why? First of all, because his

  757. authority and this authority that he's established in the

  758. church is God himself by his word throughout time, throughout

  759. culture. This is not an Ephesian command,

  760. as I've already I hope made that point, as many even liberal

  761. evangelicals will claim, but it is the very word of God.

  762. First Corinthians 11, verse three, it says this, but I want

  763. you to realize that the head of every man is Christ in the head

  764. of the and the head of Christ is God.

  765. Do you see the order there? Don't get that out of whack.

  766. Don't lose sight of that. There's a purpose for that.

  767. It's God's design you're going to see in a moment, and it's for

  768. a reason. And ladies, your role as a

  769. woman, as we will see in a moment, is a beautiful role and

  770. a but you can't fulfill your role if you are usurping God's

  771. order in the church and in the home, or even both.

  772. Because usually in generally it works that way.

  773. The one who tries to usurp the authority in the church is also

  774. trying to usurp the authority in the home.

  775. Funny how that always goes hand in hand First Peter chapter 3 If

    1 Peter 3 chapter mention

  776. you don't believe it's the word of God lives in the same way,

  777. submit yourself to your own husbands so that if any of them

  778. do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by

  779. the behavior of their wives dressed in godliness when they

  780. see the purity and. Reverence of your lives.

  781. What is he saying? If you got an unbelieving

  782. husband, you know what you ought not to do.

  783. You ought not to nag him to death about coming to church

  784. with you. You ought not to nag trying to

  785. cram the gospel down his throat. You know what you ought to do.

  786. Clothe yourself in godliness, stop nagging Him, and live a

  787. virtuous and reverent life before him.

  788. And you know what? God tells us that's going to get

  789. his attention. Why?

  790. Because God has designed us as men to have a run when someone

  791. is godly before eyes, especially a female.

  792. That's why. When men are young, you know

  793. what they do when they're looking for a girlfriend?

  794. They go out to where all the people are partying when they

  795. sit. Down they start looking for a

  796. wife. You know where they come to.

  797. Church. True story.

  798. Why? Because there's nothing more

  799. alluring to us than a woman of virtue.

  800. Why? Because she's hard to find.

  801. Is that not what Proverbs 31 tells us?

  802. Who can find someone like this? It's not an easy catch.

  803. So wives be that kind of wives because it's designated by God

  804. to do so. He says this.

  805. Sure, to teach the women to be self controlled and pure, to be

  806. busy at home, to be kind and to be subject to their husbands.

  807. Why? We saw it in our scripture

  808. reading. So that no one will malign the

  809. word of God. What is He?

  810. Talking about so that no one will say that create of whack in

  811. your home. They won't say things like this.

  812. She tells him what pants to wear, or in fact, he might even

  813. be wearing her pants. Maybe she ought to give him his

  814. pants back. We know that there are many

  815. other illustrations that are used.

  816. Why? Because the very Word of God

  817. teaches us that a woman is not to have authority over a man.

  818. Not in the home and not in the church because it's defined by

  819. creation order. This is what Paul goes to for

  820. Adam was he wants you to understand the order of the way

  821. things happen. In case you forgot this order

  822. was not post fall. Don't don't think that this

  823. order happened just because man and women fell into sin.

  824. This is pre fall. This is at creation.

  825. This is the order that God established.

  826. Adam was formed 1st and then Eve.

  827. You don't believe me? Turning 2 and we'll look at it.

  828. Says this in verse. 15 The Lord God took the man and put him in

  829. the Garden of Eden to work it and care and take care of it,

  830. And the Lord God commanded the man.

  831. You are free to eat from any tree in the garden, but you must

  832. not eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, for

  833. when you eat from it, you will certainly not die before there

  834. was ever an Eve. I want you to pay attention to

  835. this, because you know what happened in the Garden when

  836. mankind fell into sin. Woman.

  837. Usurped the authority of man. And man usurped the authority of

  838. God. Watch this from the tree of the

  839. knowledge of good and evil, for when you eat of it, you will

  840. certainly die. Verse 18.

  841. The Lord God said, It is not good for man to be alone, I will

  842. make a suitable helper for him. Now the Lord God had formed out

  843. of the ground all the wild animals and all the birds in the

  844. sky, and he brought them to the man to see what he would name

  845. them. And whatever the man creature,

  846. that was its name. So the man gave names to all the

  847. livestock, the birds in the sky, and all the wild animals.

  848. But for Adam no suitable help helper was found.

  849. So the Lord God calls the man to fall into a deep sleep, and

  850. while he was sleeping he took one of the man's ribs and then

  851. closed up the place with flesh. Then the Lord God made a he had

  852. taken out of the man and he brought her to the man and the

  853. man said he got to name her. This says he did all of the rest

  854. of God's creation. And the man said, this is now

  855. bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh.

  856. She shall be called was taken out of man fast.

  857. Forward here to Ephesus here in the letter of First Timothy.

  858. Paul reminds them, he reminds the ladies there that Adam was

  859. formed first, then Eve. This is the creative order.

  860. This is what God intended. Basic creation order defines for

  861. us the order of God in the relationship of men and women,

  862. both in the home and in the church.

  863. They are always a direct reflection of one another.

  864. And so to our liberal do. This.

  865. We mustn't rewrite scripture just to fit your agenda.

  866. Because when we take them back to Genesis chapter 2, you know

    Genesis 2 chapter mention

  867. what they then say, well, Genesis chapter 2 can't be real.

    Genesis 2 chapter mention

  868. I mean, how realistic is it that that God would open up man's

  869. side and he would create a woman from that?

  870. So let's just completely right. So now we got Genesis One

  871. through 11. Let's erase it.

  872. Now we can believe anything in all the world that we want to

  873. believe. If all doesn't let us do that,

  874. he says go back to Genesis 2 and you see the order.

  875. The roles are defined by God and we are not to usurp God's order

  876. that He has set in place. This has been designated by God

  877. and His Word over and over again.

  878. It's defined by creation order, and when you see the beauty of

  879. it is depicting the relationship of Christ and the church, it is

  880. depicting the relationship of Christ in the church, and

  881. there's no more beautiful relationship in all of creation.

  882. Just as the wife submits to her husband, so the church submits

  883. to Christ. And oh, what benefits the church

  884. receives from wives. If you will learn this, when you

  885. submit to your husbands as unto the Lord, you will reap great

  886. benefits that you never could have imagined.

  887. You will be blessed by God for your obedience and you will be

  888. blessed by your husband when he sees it in submissive spirit and

  889. he knows that that didn't come from you because he knows what

  890. you are in your flesh. He will quickly say that is a

  891. work of God. You know what you'll do.

  892. You'll cause your husband to worship.

  893. He'll thank God for the work that God has done in his wife.

  894. What a beautiful picture the submissive wife get eject when

  895. properly understood and when she doesn't continue to try to usurp

  896. authority. Ephesians 5 verse 22, it says

    Ephesians 5:22

  897. Wives submit to yourselves. To your own husband's.

  898. As you do to the Lord, he says, just like that full submission.

  899. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ, as the head

  900. of the Church, his body, what she is the Savior.

  901. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should

  902. submit to their husbands in everything.

  903. This is not just talking about sexual submission as many people

  904. have tried to make it. Submit to your husband's in

  905. everything. But what if he's not things?

  906. He's going to give an account to the Lord, and so will you for

  907. not submitting to Him. Pay attention to what the Word

  908. of God teaches. There is a reason Ephesians

    Ephesians 5 chapter mention

  909. chapter 5 is not teaching us about the family, about the

  910. roles of men and women in the church.

  911. It's teaching us about the church.

  912. The given here was the fact that people already understood

  913. biblically that the husband is the head, the leader of the

  914. wife, and the wife is to take a submissive and complimentary

  915. complimentary role to him. That they are to work together

  916. to bring glory to God as one flan.

  917. So see it. See it for what it is.

  918. Stop fighting your fleshly desires to fit into the liberal

  919. culture of the day. Surrender to the call to be a

  920. godly woman, resisting your flesh, your urges to usurp God's

  921. authority. Do you know this after the fall

  922. that this was the way it was going to be?

  923. He said that wives would desire their husbands.

  924. He didn't mean to desire them sexually or sensually.

  925. What he meant was to desire their leadership position.

  926. Don't continue to walk in your follow your fallen name.

  927. Attempting to usurp the authority and order of God.

  928. Submit to God today and display that by submitting not only to

  929. your husband, submitting in the congregation to the role that

  930. God has for women even in the church.

  931. Lastly, we've seen godly themselves in godliness to avoid

  932. usurping God's authority in His order, but godly women are to

  933. accept their God ordained role. You are to put these shoes on,

  934. take your husband's shoes off, let him have them.

  935. You put yours on, you accept your God ordained role.

  936. Here's what he said it is he says verse 14, and Adam was not

  937. the one deceived. It was the woman who was

  938. deceived and became a Sinner, right?

  939. We talked about the stigma earlier, boy, that put a stigma

  940. on women, the ones who are easily deceived and fall into

  941. sin and lead others into sin. Is that not what happened?

  942. Yes, it is what happened. When they assume their God

  943. ordained role here it is, but women will be saved through

  944. childbearing if they continue in faith, love and holiness with

  945. propriety. Paul here is calling Christian

  946. women to accept their God-given roles.

  947. He makes this point that even though Eve was deceived and

  948. ultimately LED all of mankind into sin because she was

  949. deceived by the serpent. God still has a role.

  950. God still has a plan for her in his Kingdom.

  951. God still has a plan of redemption for woman is to raise

  952. godly children. You as godly women in this room,

  953. you ought to accept that role no matter what culture wants to

  954. tell you. Culture is going to tell you

  955. this. You have to have two incomes,

  956. you have to have success, you have, you have to be somebody,

  957. you have to use the degree your parents paid for it, for crying

  958. out loud. Or you might still be paying for

  959. it, but God says there's no shame in accepting your God

  960. ordained role. Godly woman whose objective in

  961. life is to glorify God by. Teaching the next generation how

  962. to glorify God. First, I want you to see this.

  963. You're to accept your God ordained role even as those who

  964. are the weaker vessel just all the time.

  965. When you say the woman is the weaker vessel, you need to

  966. understand that that's what Paul is saying here when he says Adam

  967. was not the one deceived. It was the woman who was

  968. deceived and became a Sinner. He's making very clear as to why

  969. she is the weaker vessel back first Peter chapter 3 verse 7

    1 Peter 3:7

  970. tells us that husbands in the same way, be considerate as you

  971. live with your wives as the weaker partner.

  972. What does he mean by calling them a weaker partner?

  973. He's not saying that they are inferior to man.

  974. Everybody understand that. Don't leave here today and

  975. accuse Kirk Hall of saying that that women are inferior to men.

  976. They're not inferior. They have a different but a

  977. God-given role. Part of that means accepting the

  978. fact that they. Are a weaker vessel.

  979. No, they're not inferior to men spiritually or in their

  980. relationship to Christ. That would violate Galatians

    Galatians 3 chapter mention

  981. chapter 3. Neither male nor female, nor Jew

  982. nor Greek. We're all the same in Christ.

  983. That's not what I'm saying at all.

  984. But what I am saying is emotionally and physically,

  985. women are weaker by nature. No matter.

  986. Watch this. No matter what the transgender

  987. movement might be trying to say in the court system right now,

  988. that a man really has no advantage athletically.

  989. Over a woman. Is that so?

  990. I've made this challenge every time that I have preached this

  991. passage of Scripture. I will make it again.

  992. Any woman in this room right now who wants to arm wrestle me

  993. right here, I'm willing. Now come on, I'm a four eyed,

  994. Gray haired old man. But you know this.

  995. I have this to my advantage. I'm a male and generally

  996. speaking, I'm not saying that there's not a woman who couldn't

  997. beat me in arm wrestling. I'm saying there's not a woman

  998. here who's fool enough to even step up to the challenge

  999. because, you know, that percentage says I'm going to

  1000. beat you. Now, I am thankful that every

  1001. time I make that challenge, no one steps up.

  1002. Same thing to me in all the world, as if a woman beat me on

  1003. the pulpit arm wrestling. But I say this to make a point.

  1004. Women are generally the weaker vessel and physical strength and

  1005. emotional, no matter what anyone else wants to say.

  1006. And the context points to this fact that women were and still

  1007. are easily deceived by their feeling, by their emotions, by

  1008. their flesh. They're more vulnerable

  1009. emotionally. They're less logical than men.

  1010. We know this to be true just by very nature.

  1011. But yet we still let the liberal voices try to get us to

  1012. question. This is not up for debate.

  1013. Women are the weaker vessel and they need to accept their role

  1014. as the weaker vessel, not an inferior vessel.

  1015. They are that flower that we see growing out in the flower bed,

  1016. beautiful and colorful, of great worth compared to that rock

  1017. laying on the ground. That would be the male.

  1018. But yet that same rock could inadvertently crush that

  1019. beautiful and delicate flower. They are the weaker vessel.

  1020. Know that. Know that going into this,

  1021. ladies and roll. Why?

  1022. Because when you admit your weakness, you'll depend upon

  1023. God's strength. When you admit your weakness,

  1024. you'll depend upon the strength and the rationale of your

  1025. husband, and you won't depend upon your feelings and your

  1026. emotions. Because we know this, don't we?

  1027. Ladies? Let's just be honest.

  1028. They are ever wavering. And Paul's making that case was

  1029. Eve that was deceived, and she was deceived by her feelings,

  1030. her emotions. She saw the fruit, it looked

  1031. good, she touched it, it felt good, and she ate it and it

  1032. tastes good. Total impulse, right?

  1033. None of you women was on have you Sheen total impulse see

  1034. yourselves as those who are the weaker vessel if you're going to

  1035. accept your God ordained role. Secondly, though you see

  1036. yourself as the weaker vessel. I want you also to see yourself

  1037. as those of great worth and value.

  1038. See that important word there in verse 15?

  1039. But but the women are the weaker vessel because they come from

  1040. Eve and they are easily deceived and they are LED astray by their

  1041. feelings and their emotions. But the woman was deceived by

  1042. Satan in the garden. Women still have great worth and

  1043. value in the Kingdom of God. What is that worth and value?

  1044. Well, it's what the world will tell you not to find your worth

  1045. in. They'll say don't find your

  1046. worth. Don't don't find your worth and

  1047. just being a mom. No ladies find your worth there

  1048. because that is where you find the worth that God gives you.

  1049. They are a vessel that God uses to point the next generation to

  1050. new birth in Christ. They are God used to bring that

  1051. child, one of his elect, into this.

  1052. World so that they could hear the gospel from from someone

  1053. none other than their mother, so that they could believe and so

  1054. that they could be saved and so that they could be cleansed of

  1055. all their sin and have the hope of eternal life.

  1056. That you don't have a role. Of great worth and value.

  1057. You should view child rearing as the highest calling that a woman

  1058. could ever have in this life. You shouldn't be upset when I

  1059. say things like you shouldn't be a pastor as a woman.

  1060. You should remain congregation if I give you the rest of it.

  1061. But what you should do instead, as you take your time, your

  1062. energy, your resources, your love for God, your love for your

  1063. children, and you pour Christ into your kids as much as you

  1064. can. I get tired of hearing mom say

  1065. that all I am is a stay at home mom.

  1066. You don't know how valuable you are yet.

  1067. Please see it. Where Eve LED all of mankind

  1068. into sin because she was deceived.

  1069. You can lead mankind out of sin as a mom.

  1070. What a great duty. What worth you do have in the

  1071. Kingdom of God? View it as a high calling.

  1072. A high calling to make spirit who loves the Lord still.

  1073. Kirk, you don't understand. I can't have children.

  1074. How can this apply to me? The older women are to teach the

  1075. younger women. Find women in this congregation

  1076. who don't have godly moms and women that are discipling them.

  1077. And you be a. Spiritual mother to them.

  1078. How about that about this? Their kids being abandoned left

  1079. and right up for adoption. Adopt A child.

  1080. Teach them about Jesus. So you think God's calling all

  1081. the people to adopt children? No.

  1082. I think that's a special calling from God.

  1083. If he leads you to do it, do it. He's going to give you the

  1084. resources to do it and then pour Christ into them.

  1085. Except your God ordained role is 1 of great worth and value not

  1086. only to your husband and to your children, but to the Kingdom of

  1087. God. He by his own design.

  1088. Promises to redeem you through of children, birthing those

  1089. children in painful agony. And I know it's painful.

  1090. I've never had childbirth. Somebody told me it was akin to

  1091. kidney stones, and I've had three or four of those.

  1092. And so I understand. You know what's interesting

  1093. about you have a gorgeous and a precious gift from God.

  1094. All I had was a stone that I had to take to your urologist to

  1095. have it tested to see why I was having kidney stone.

  1096. You have something precious that he's trusted you with.

  1097. The next generation, they're depending upon you.

  1098. The ordained role as the weaker vessel has those of great worth

  1099. and value, and as those who teach worship and virtue.

  1100. Watch what he says. But women will be saved through

  1101. childbearing if here's the condition here, if they continue

  1102. in faith, love and holy with propriety, he said.

  1103. You'll be safe through childbearing if you give them

  1104. the godly example that you were supposed to give to them.

  1105. The whole stigma of woman being the weaker vessel that led men

  1106. into sin and you devoting yourself.

  1107. To teach worship and virtue to your children how through your

  1108. example, your example, watch this your example of what he

  1109. says it faith pointing your children to true faith in God

  1110. through the Lord Jesus over again.

  1111. I can't tell you how many times my wife presented the gospel to

  1112. my grown children, but I can confidently say that she

  1113. presented the gospel to my grown children far more times than I

  1114. ever did, which I'm thankful because it is through her

  1115. example. My children are believers today.

  1116. We know it's because of the grace of God that this is His

  1117. instrument that He uses. If they continue in faith,

  1118. thankful for a wife who continues continued in faith as

  1119. she pointed her children to Christ.

  1120. True faith in God, that only comes through submission to the

  1121. Lord Jesus, trusting and teaching.

  1122. It's only through the gospel that a person has ever saved.

  1123. About my children, they're growing.

  1124. They both serve the Lord. What's the secret?

  1125. There's no secret, there's just scripture.

  1126. And when a woman accepts their God ordained role and a man

  1127. accepts his God ordained role, God does what God promises to do

  1128. through their faith. Oh, just yesterday I got to

  1129. witness one of the most precious things to me so far in my life.

  1130. I sat in a restaurant and I had my 17 I believe months month old

  1131. granddaughter. She's 17 months.

  1132. Sounds close or 18. I know I've only forked out cash

  1133. for one birthday so far but I can't wait till the 2nd.

  1134. I got that jade who made you? She said God named me, I'll give

  1135. you the translation. God made me.

  1136. I said what else? She said everything, everything.

  1137. And then asked why did God make everything?

  1138. She says, but for his glory. How does she know this?

  1139. She has a mom who is willing to go against the grain, who has

  1140. found her worth in Christ and is teaching them to find their

  1141. worth in Christ. She has accepted her God

  1142. ordained role and already we are seeing the fruits of it already.

  1143. I'm thankful also for my son and for his wife.

  1144. I am for Jordan and Tyler and JoJo as you know her already for

  1145. Knox can even talk reading him the truth of scripture, playing

  1146. him songs that edify and glorify Christ.

  1147. Because this is important ladies, be willing to accept

  1148. your God ordained role. Stop listening to society and

  1149. culture. Caved through childbearing,

  1150. meaning this you will find redemption seeing the next

  1151. generation come to know God if you continue in faith, the one

  1152. true faith, the gospel of Jesus Christ.

  1153. He says in love, the love that is described there in first

    1 Corinthians 13 chapter mention

  1154. Corinthians chapter 13 where it says in verse 4 love is patient,

  1155. love is kind, does not boast, it is not proud, it does not

  1156. dishonor others. It is not self seeking.

  1157. It is not easily angered. It keeps no record of wrongs.

  1158. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices in the truth.

  1159. It always protects, always trust, always hopes, always

  1160. perseveres. Love never fails.

  1161. That kind of love God kind of love love your children being a

  1162. through how you love how you love God.

  1163. Does that know what Jesus said was the first command he says

  1164. love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your

  1165. soul and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest

  1166. command. Matthew 22 verse 37 and 38

    Matthew 22:37

  1167. Ladies, children, that you love the Lord your God with

  1168. everything that you are, that you love God more than

  1169. everything and teach. Them to do the same not only how

  1170. you love God, but also how you love others.

  1171. Jesus didn't stop with the 1st and greatest commandment.

  1172. I want you to pay attention to that.

  1173. Teach your children. But Matthew 2239 says love your

  1174. neighbor as yourself. You think you don't have an

  1175. important job, you have an essential role and the godly or

  1176. the godlessness of the next generation, except your role as

  1177. those who teach worship and virtue to your children.

  1178. This is if you continue in faith, love and holiness with

  1179. propriety. Show them the holy and righteous

  1180. life looks like self controlled, reverent, Worshipful, prayerful

  1181. Titus 2-3 and I'm done. It says.

  1182. Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they

  1183. live, not to be slanders or addicted to much wine, but to

  1184. teach what is good. Urge the younger women to love

  1185. their husbands and children. Love your husbands and children.

  1186. Love the Lord first of your husbands and children and to be

  1187. self controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind and be

  1188. subject to their husbands so that no one will malign the word

  1189. of God. So that no one can come back and

  1190. say the word of God is not true, the word of God.

  1191. And he has called women who profess his name to godliness.

  1192. Hear that call, accept that call.

  1193. Walk in that God ordained role for your life.

  1194. Women, you've heard it today, the biblical call.

  1195. Women, you're now faced with a dilemma.

  1196. Oh, please don't turn me off yet.

  1197. I know that I've gone long, but isn't this important?

  1198. Isn't this more important than anything else we could do?

  1199. Your children are at stake. Your home's at stake.

  1200. The church is at stake. It's important you're faced with

  1201. it. I'm not.

  1202. All I've done today is deliver the message.

  1203. Here's the dilemma. Do you continue to give in to

  1204. the godlessness of this culture, what it says in contradiction to

  1205. the work? You walk out these doors today

  1206. and get mad at me, get in your fills and say that stupid pastor

  1207. with that old outdated message. It's not my message.

  1208. How do you hear the word of God that you said at the beginning

  1209. of the service when I asked you, do you believe that this is

  1210. global and inspired, breathed by God?

  1211. You believe this is truth? He surrendered to the truth.

  1212. Today you bow before God and say God, I want to be what you want

  1213. me to be. Would you obediently answer

  1214. God's call to be a godly woman? Women here, I want to tell you

  1215. this. There's hope for you in Christ.

  1216. That is the only hope you'll find.

  1217. You will never raise the next generation to be godly if you

  1218. don't first know God through Jesus Christ.

  1219. You're a Sinner and you were separated from God himself

  1220. because of your sin and it's Christ who came to die and your

  1221. place to rescue you from that sin that keeps you from God.

  1222. He bore deserved on his back at the cross and he will set you

  1223. free today from the penalty of sin as you cry out to him as

  1224. Lord and Savior. Perhaps today you say, Kurt, I

  1225. want to talk to somebody about what it means to know Christ.

  1226. I pray that you would. I'm thankful that in the earlier

  1227. service the young lady did just that.

  1228. She wanted to know how do Christ?

  1229. There'll be people up here in just a moment who are standing

  1230. here to pray with you and to pray for you.

  1231. Talk to you about what it means to know Christ.

  1232. I pray today that you would repent and believe on Christ and

  1233. be saved. To the women of this

  1234. congregation, you can get stuck. You can succumb to the culture,

  1235. or you can submit to Christ. Those are the only two options.

  1236. You stand your feet now as heads are bowed and eyes are closed.

  1237. Today, who has been doing it your way or the way of the

  1238. culture? This message has brought you to

  1239. a place of repentance. I pray that you would do just

  1240. that, that you would fall in your face and you would confess

  1241. your sin, that you would repent, turn to and His word, live a

  1242. life of obedience to it, to Him, bringing Him glory and honor and

  1243. praise. You need folks to pray with you

  1244. about that. There'll be ladies down here to

  1245. my right and to my left who would be more than eager and

  1246. excited to pray for you. Maybe you just want to come at

  1247. these steps and just kneel, pour your heart out to God.

  1248. My prayer is this. And God would raise up a group

  1249. of godly women like this community has never seen before,

  1250. that through you, through you, through the gospel that you

  1251. preached, in the gospel that you live, you would save the next

  1252. generation. Again, if you need prayer,

  1253. there's folks to pray with you. I'll be down in front of you.

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  1256. teaching from God's Word.