Sermon
E14 - The Pastoral Epistles: Biblical Ministers & Biblical Ministry - Properly caring for the family of God: Part 2
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You're listening to Key Life Fellowships pulpit ministry
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podcast. We thank you for tuning in as we
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learn from God's word together. If you would like more
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information regarding Key Life or to speak with one of our
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No man comes to the Father, but by me.
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Jesus also says, and if you're in him, you'll have life, life
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to the full. It's in Christ that we truly
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find alive for our souls, because prior to Christ you were
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dead spiritually. Let our anxious hearts, because
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we're all prone to that, be reminded of that.
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Then in our anxiousness, all we have is Christ.
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Let us devote ourselves to Him like never before.
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You have your Bibles. If you would turn to First
1 Timothy 5 chapter mention
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Timothy chapter 5. If you don't have your Bibles, I
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would quickly just say this. Bring your Bible to church with
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you. Bibles are like attorneys around
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here. If you don't have one, one will
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be provided for you. Open your Bibles to First
1 Timothy 5 chapter mention
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Timothy chapter 5 as we continue walking verse by verse through
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the pastoral Epistles. And I'll say this again, if
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these have not ministered to you to any capacity, I don't
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apologize for that because they have ministered to me and they
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have ministered to the pastors and the leaders here of this
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church. I know that for fact.
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And you're going to receive benefit from that as a church.
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You're going to receive the trickle down effect that
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Scripture produces as God prepares his leaders to lead you
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where it is that God would want you to go as a congregation.
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And he does that through his word, just as he does it in our
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individual lines. But today we're coming through a
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topic as we continue the second part on properly caring for the
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family of God. Last week we talked about
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properly caring for the older men, the younger, the younger
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men, the older women and the younger women, what that looks
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like in the church and what we are responsible to do in regard
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to each of those people groups. Now there were only two verses
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in chapter 5 that were set aside and dedicated to all of that,
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and we come to another portion in this section of chapter 5.
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Where verses 3 through 16 are dedicated to another group of
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people in the church that often no one talks about, no one's
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really even interested in. I can probably accurately say
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that most churches have never really even taught through this
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passage in a way that is clear that people can understand and
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practice. In fact, in the.
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Self driven self gratification culture that we live in.
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Most people would. Said under a sermon about the
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topic of widows with no interest at all.
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And it's interesting no one's interested about widows and what
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the teachings on scripture confirm about widows until 1 is
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in fact a widow. It shouldn't be that way.
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Must understand the importance of that group of people in the
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church. We must accurately define who
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they are and we must minister to them with the heart that God has
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given us as ministers, both as leaders and as laypersons.
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Paul's going to use the term quite frequently in these verses
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that we're going to cover today, and that is.
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The term really in need, and I want you to pay close attention
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to that term. You're going to see it multiple
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times. We're going to talk about what
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it means to be really in need and who are these people who are
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really in need and how do we take off the responsibility that
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we do. Have as a church in taking care
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of them. How do we take care of the
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widows? Who are the widows in this body,
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and what does that look like in real time?
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What does that look like in the clear teaching that Paul is
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going to give there? There are no hermeneutical
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obstacles here. He is plain and simple about who
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the widows are and how we are to minister to them.
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So let's look at this let scripture.
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Speak First Timothy chapter 5 and verse 3.
1 Timothy 5 chapter mention
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We learn to care for the widows biblically, he says in verse 3.
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Give proper recognition to those widows who are really in need.
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There it is. You see it immediately.
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But if a widow has children or grandchildren, these should
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learn first of all to. Put their religion into practice
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by caring for their own family. And so repaying.
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Their parents and grandparents, for this is pleasing to God.
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The widow who is really in need and left alone puts her hope in
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God and continues night and day to pray and to ask God for help.
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But the widow who lives for pleasure is dead even while she
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lives. Seven says give the people these
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instructions to so that no one may be open to blame if anyone
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does not provide for his relatives and especially for his
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immediate family. He has denied the faith and is
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worse than an unbeliever. Verse 9 says no widow may be put
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on the list of widows unless she is over 60, has been faithful to
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her husband, and is well known for her good deeds, such as
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bringing up children, showing hospitality, washing the feet of
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the Saints, helping those in trouble, and devoting herself to
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all kinds of good deeds. As for younger widows, do not
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put them on such a list, for when their sensual desires
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overcome their dedication to Christ, they want to marry.
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Thus they bring judgment on themselves because they have
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broken their first pledge. Besides, they get into the habit
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of being idle and going about from house to house, and not
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only do they become idlers, but also gossips and busy bodies,
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saying things they ought not to. So I counsel younger widows to
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marry, to have children, to manage their homes, and to give
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the enemy no opportunity for slander.
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Some have in fact, already turned away to follow Satan.
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If any woman who is a believer has widows in her family, she
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should help them and not let the church be burdened with them, so
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that the church can help those widows who are really in need.
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Let's pray to God the Father. In the name of Jesus.
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We come to you now. We ask for wisdom from your
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Word. We know that we have been given
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these widows by Your sovereign hand, and we would take care of
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them according to Your word. Let us be diligent.
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Let us be obedient in that. And Lord, let us not apologize
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for those who You have not included on such a list, those
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who You would have us to instruct to remarry and to have
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children and to manage their homes.
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Lord, may we do that, and may we be obedient in that.
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And Lord, as we think about our own families, may we take care
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of them as we should, so that they not be a burden unto the
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church, and so that you would be pleased with how we handle that
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situation. Lord, as we learn Your Word, as
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you teach us your Word through Your Spirit today, give us the
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heart to be doers and not just hearers only to put into
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practice that which we receive, Lord, that we, we may do this so
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that you could receive the praise for it.
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God, I pray for the unbeliever who's here today, who is outside
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of the family of God, who has no understanding of what it means
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to be a part of your family, to be your child.
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God, I pray today that you would have mercy on them as only you
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can. You would reveal yourself to
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them, Lord Jesus, your sacrifice.
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You would reveal to them their need for a Savior because of
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their sinful state, that you, by your grace and your mercy, would
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usher them into the family of God to receive salvation and
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adoption. It's one of your children.
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God, I pray that most importantly, your will would be
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done in this day and in our lives as believers, that you
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would receive all glory and honor and praise.
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And we pray these things in Christ's name.
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Amen. So we get to chapter 5 and
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verses 3 through 16, and we get to a very, very important part
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of Scripture that has, for whatever reason, in the modern
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church, become not very important.
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It is very, very important that we care for widows.
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And in doing so, we have to have what Paul says to Timothy is the
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proper recognition of the widows.
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Verse three he says, give proper recognition to those widows who
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are really in need. Now, proper recognition is not
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getting them a plaque and saying welcome to widowdom.
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It's not giving them a trophy and saying you've arrived.
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It is recognizing them biblically, recognizing them
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according to Scripture, giving them that proper recognition and
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that proper honor that they deserve as those who are really
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in need. Paul is instructing Timothy to
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do this, and because Paul instructed Timothy to do this,
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we as a church in 2026 have the same obligation to recognize the
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widows who are really in need in our church.
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This is important. This is important that we
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recognize them, that we make a distinction.
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Now I know we live in a world where no one likes to make
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distinctions any longer, right? They don't want to make
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distinctions between men and women.
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So they have a difficult time in making distinctions.
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But let me just tell you this, the Word of God is going to make
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a distinction between widows and widows who are really in need.
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And we have to pay attention to that.
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Why? Because widows who are really in
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need are the responsibility of the church.
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Widows who are in a position where they have lost their
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husband, they are the responsibility of their family
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if they are not really in need. And so the word makes the
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distinction here that we need to see immediately.
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And we need to see that immediately because there are
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people who are constantly claiming to be widows in the
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church wanting nothing more than just a handout from the church.
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And I want to make this ever so clear.
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God's Word is not teaching here in regard to widows that we
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become a place that is a welfare system, if you would.
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That is not what God is advocating.
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That is never what God's Word advocates.
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In fact, the apostle Paul teaches in another place.
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He says if a man wants to eat and he's able to do it, let him.
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Work. Let him work.
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We're going to see that there are those widows that we have to
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recognize who are still able, because they have family, to
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meet all of their needs. But there are also those widows
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who are really in need who have no one else.
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And so as we look at this, Paul's giving instructions so
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that we can teach people. And this is what we do want to
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teach people to live for Christ and his church and not to try
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to. Live off of Christ and His
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church. Because you see, there's a
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difference, isn't there? There's a difference between
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that person who wants to live for Christ and his church, even
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though they'd be in the state of a widow.
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And there are those who are simply just looking for handouts
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from the church because their family is not doing what they
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are supposed to do, as we will see in a moment, and taking the
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burden off of the church because they are their responsibility,
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not the churches. And so we have to ask this
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question if we're going to properly recognize the widows as
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Paul's telling Timothy to do. Who are the widows?
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Who are the widows who are really in need, the ones that we
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are to properly recognize in the church?
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Well, it's hard for us in our culture to answer this quickly
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in this text. And in the context of this text,
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it's a little more complex than just a short answer.
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And the reason is the the term that we see here for widow has
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many meanings, many possible meanings.
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It could, of course, refer to someone who loses their husband.
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We know that that's the obvious one.
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In fact, that's the only one that we still adopt.
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But more accurately, this term means this one who has suffered
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loss or one who has been left alone or abandoned.
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And so we realized very quickly that when we're distinguishing
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who the widow really is that the church is responsible for, it
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gets a little complex there. Who are we talking about?
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Well, we're talking about one who has been abandoned or left
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alone, suffering loss. Now, abandonment can come in
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many forms, can it? The first one is this, wives who
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have been abandoned by their husbands because of death.
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Simply put, their husbands have passed from this earth.
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They have died. And they are in basic need of
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provision. Why?
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Because in the culture of the day, and I believe in the
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biblical culture of what Paul is addressing here, the wives would
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be home, taking care of the children, taking care of the
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home, and taking care of their husband.
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The husband would be out working as the provider for his family.
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He would come home as the protector of his family, as the
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prophet, priest and king of his home.
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And if. That wife was to lose her
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husband. She would lose every resource
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that she has. She would be completely
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abandoned. She would be desolate.
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So of course he's talking about wives who have been abandoned by
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the death of their husbands. They are all alone, Alone they
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are suffering loss on this earth.
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But also in biblical times, not so much in our day, because in
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our day we we find ourselves not caring enough about others.
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So many times in the church. But in this time that Paul is
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addressing the Ephesians through young Timothy, he's also talking
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about wives who have been abandoned by their husband's
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desertion, meaning that he has deserted them.
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He's that unbelieving husband who has gone on.
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He is as good as dead. He is no longer providing for
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his wife. Many scholars believe this.
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I don't know if this is 100% accurate, but we could see it in
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this context for sure. Many scholars believe that
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perhaps Paul is addressing some who are of the Jewish culture
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and background who may have had multiple wives and then when
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they came to faith in Christ as a knee jerk reaction and in a
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Roman culture that did not advocate polygamy, they would
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have chosen their favorite wives and then put the other wives.
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Away, leaving them to a place where they had no financial
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support, they had no protection. In this world, it could be that
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case. It could also be that case of
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that man who decides that he's done with his wife and he puts
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her away, giving her that writ of divorce just because he
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decided that's what he wants to do.
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Either way, nevertheless, they are left all alone.
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They are abandoned. They have no support, right?
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Women could not go out and just get a job.
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Like a man did in those days. Now here they are, they're in
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this situation where someone must care for them.
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Why? Because they are really in need.
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This is real. If they don't get assistance and
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get assistance immediately, they will perish.
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Their children will perish, They will suffer greater loss
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potentially. And So what God?
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Does in His word, being the merciful God that He is, He
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provides for them through His Church in this particular
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situation, in the particular manner that we are going to see
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that He prescribes for taking care of those widows who are
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really in need. So who are the widows?
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Now? Let's make this simple and and
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so that we can have it in our mind.
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They are wives abandoned by their husband's death.
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That's where we start. But it's more than that.
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They are also wives who have been abandoned by their
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husband's desertion. For whatever reason, he has
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deserted them. He has deserted his family.
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He said, well, I can't believe that went on in the Bible times.
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It goes on today. Sinners have always been
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present. These sins that still exist,
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they always will enter. The Lord comes and straightens
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everything out. So there will be a need to
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minister to this group of people, those who fit the
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definition of the widows. So when we're caring for the
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widows, giving them the proper recognition of a widow, we have
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to distinguish who they are. We also have to distinguish who
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they aren't. And Paul's going to give us some
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insight into that in just a moment.
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But before we do that, let's do this.
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Let's ask the question, who are the widows?
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And we have done that and we have answered it.
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But let's go to question 2. Why are they a priority?
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Why are they a priority? Why did Paul use 2 verses to
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talk about old men, young men, old women, young women, and how
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we're to operate, how we're to minister and care for them in
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the church and use 2 verses? But now we have verse 3 all the
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way to verse 16, covering this very, very important part and
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teaching us how to properly recognize and care.
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For the widows, why are they priority?
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And shouldn't we ask that in our culture especially, why are
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widows priority right? We've already established that
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those who are properly on the list of widows are 60 and up, so
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they're elderly. And isn't it true in our
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culture, Well, the elderly are considered all but useless,
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aren't they? Outdated.
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Nothing to offer this modern society that knows so much.
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And we often discount the elderly as if they're not
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important. Now, that was not the case when
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Paul is riding to Timothy here. They would bring them into their
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homes. They they would become a part of
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their family again. They would take care of them
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till their dying day. They were important.
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They had wisdom that they can offer, offer to the church and
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offer to the home. Wisdom that our generation did
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not even yet have an opportunity to acquire.
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Why are they a priority? Or why should they be a priority
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when they're really just elderly people who have nothing else to
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offer? Stop thinking like an American.
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I'll say it again, Stop thinking like an American.
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They have so much to offer. They know how to love.
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They know how to forgive. They know how to teach.
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They're full of wisdom. They're full of insight.
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The question ought to be, why in the American church do we not
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glean from the elderly like we should?
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Why are they a priority? The widows just an old woman,
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right? Used up all of her good years.
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Retrain your thinking, seer, for the worth that God says she has,
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because she's of great worth. And I can prove that to you
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because the Savior makes them priority.
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Psalm 68, five, here's what the Lord says.
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He says that our God is a father to the fatherless and a defender
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of widows. He is there at their defense.
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They are important to the Lord. They are priority to him.
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Over in Luke's Gospel in Chapter 7, we see the Lord Jesus
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applying you this principle. Luke Chapter 7, turn over there
Luke 7 chapter mention
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in your Bibles, verse 11 as Jesus with all the miracles that
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he did while he was on this earth according to the will and
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plan of the Father, He doesn't bypass this one and watch what's
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said about this particular miracle that Jesus does when he
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raises the widow's son. Verse 11, it says soon afterward
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Jesus went to a town called Nain, and his disciples in a
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large crowd went along with him. And as he approached the town
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gate, a dead person was being carried out, the only son of his
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mother, and she was a widow. Now let me show you how this
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works. Her husband took care of her
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until she died, until he died. Excuse me.
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And when he died, it was now. Her only son's responsibility to
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take care of his mother and her only son has died.
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That means this. She is really in need.
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She needs someone to take care of her.
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And if her, her husband and her son are gone from this earth,
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she is desolate. She is all.
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But dead, he goes on, and he says as they approached the the
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town gate, a dead person was being carried out, the only son
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of his mother and she was a widow, and a large crowd from
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the town was with her. When the Lord saw her, his heart
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went out to her, and he said don't cry, don't miss that the
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Lord's heart went out to her. Why?
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Because he knew the condition of this widow.
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He knew exactly that if she didn't have her son, she would
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surely perish. And Jesus heart.
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Went out to this widow and he said to her, don't cry.
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This seems like a pretty insensitive statement for a
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widow who has just lost her only son and her only source of
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existence on this earth. But Jesus was in complete
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control. And isn't he always?
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And isn't he faithful to be 714? Then he went, went off and
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touched the beer. They were carrying him all, and
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that's the sled that they were carrying the dead body on.
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And the bears stood still. And he said, young man, I say to
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you, get up. And the dead man sat up.
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And began to talk, and Jesus gave him back to his mother.
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What a heart for the widow. Why should widows be a priority
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in the church? Because they're a priority to
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Christ. We don't only see it there in
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his earthly ministry, we see in Mark chapter 12.
Mark 12 chapter mention
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And I know other gospel accounts include this as well, but Jesus
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commends the widow. And what does she do?
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She gives the smallest, offering two worthless coins.
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You know what He says about her gift?
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Hers was the greatest. Why?
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Because it was the greatest sacrifice.
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All the others gave from the abundance that they had.
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This widow gave that small amount from the little that she
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had. It was the greatest sacrifice.
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And Jesus recognized that widow. So the Savior makes them
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priority all throughout His earthly ministry, fulfilling
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that which Psalm 68 five says that he is the defender of the
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widow. But they are to be priority to
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us not only because the Savior makes them priority, their
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situation makes them priorities. Think about the mess that
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they're in. I told you if if a woman lost
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her husband. And she had no older children to
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take care of her, no grandchildren to take care of
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her. She was as good as dead in this
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culture and the church. Needs to see widows who are
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really in need in our day, so that they don't become
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destitute, so that they don't lose all hope and become
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discouraged and even lose their lives.
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Their situation makes them priority because they are
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helpless and needy. Now, isn't it true that as a
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Christian we ought to take care of everyone who is helpless and
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needy when we have the opportunity?
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As you understand. The reason that if we are to
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take care of everyone, we should also take care of those who
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belong to the people of God. Matthew 25 Jesus gives a parable
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there in Matthew 25 about taking care of the helpless and needy
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and what he does there in this parable he talks about those.
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Who took care? Of him.
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When he was hungry they gave him something to eat, and when he
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was thirsty they gave him something to drink, and when he
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was a stranger they invited him in.
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When he needed clothes, they clothed him.
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When he was sick. They looked after him and took
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care of him. When he was in prison, they came
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and they visited. He goes to verse 37 and it says
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then the righteous will answer him.
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Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and
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give you something to drink? And when did we see you?
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A stranger invite you in or need and clothes and clothe you?
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And when did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?
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He says in 40. And here's the kicker, to this
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the King will reply, Truly I tell you, whatever you did for
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one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine,
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you did for me. And the same goes for this.
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Whenever we don't do for the least of these, we do it unto
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Christ. So we see that widows ought to
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be priority to us because of their situation.
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They're helpless. They are in.
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Need. They are really in need, in
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fact, again destitute, unless the church intervenes, provides
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for them first. John chapter 3 says this in
1 John 3 chapter mention
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verse 16. This is how we know what love
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is. Jesus Christ laid down His life
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for us, and we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers and
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sisters. If anyone has material
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possessions and sees a brother or sister in need but has no
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pity on them, how can the love of God be in that person?
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That's a hypothetical question. The answer is, it can't.
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For us to call ourselves believers and for us to call
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ourselves a church, and to see a widow who is really in need and
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to do nothing about it should cause us to question our own
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salvation. He says, Dear children, let us
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not love with words or speech, but with actions and in truth,
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echoing what James taught about being not only hearers of the
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word, but also doers of that same word.
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Galatians 610 says this therefore, as we have
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opportunity. Let us do good to all people.
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What kind of people should we as Christians do good to?
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All of them. We had to consciously and
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constantly look for opportunities to do good to all
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people. But watch this.
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Watch the distinction that's made here, especially to those
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who belong to the family of believers, especially those
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widows who are really in need in our church.
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Yes, one thing to take care of the homeless man who's out on
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the street and who needs a meal. You should do that if you have
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the means and you have the opportunity to do that.
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But you should not feed that homeless man out there in need
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and then not come into the body of Christ and consider that
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widow who has lost her husband, who has lost all sorts of
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financial stability, who has lost any, any sense of any
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future. You should not then withhold
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your service and your gifts to her.
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You should do the same for her, and even more so, especially
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because she belongs to the body of Christ.
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Now, I know the lost world loves that, right?
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They love to say things like, oh, we have to come in to be
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treated as good as you. Yes, you do.
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And I pray that God graces you and allows you to do that this
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very day, to reap the benefits of the death, the burial, the
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resurrection of Christ, to reap the benefits of the church that
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he has raised up through his sacrifice.
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Oh, don't think for a second that you can stay outside of the
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church and reap the benefits of the church.
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That's foolish thinking, especially, he says, for those
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who belong to the family of believers.
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Why are they priority? Because of their situation.
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Their situation makes them priority.
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If we as the Church don't intervene in the lives of widows
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who are really in need, recognizing them as those who
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are really in need, they have nothing.
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Else, isn't it interesting how God has sovereignly orchestrated
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that? He has promised to take care of
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them and to defend their cause, and in doing so, He has raised
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up His church through the blood sacrifice of Jesus Christ so
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that we can show the faithfulness of God to those
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widows who are really in need. It should be priority.
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Why? Savior makes them priority.
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The situation makes them a priority.
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And thirdly, the Scriptures make them a priority.
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I don't have time this morning. I wish I did.
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I don't have time this morning to go through all of the
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scriptures and show us that God makes widows priority.
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But Deuteronomy 10/18 is where we will begin.
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It says he defends the cause of the fatherless, and the widow
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loves the foreigner residing among you, giving them food and
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clothing. What does he do?
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He ministers to the fatherless, to the alien, to the widow,
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giving them the things that they need so that they are not in a
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destitute situation. Ezekiel 22.
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Seven says in you they have treated.
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Father and mother with contempt in you They have oppressed the
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foreigner and mistreated the fatherless and the widow.
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He's now rebuking them. What is he rebuking them for?
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Because they've now oppressed the orphan, the fatherless, and
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the widow. God is not for that.
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God is not for us oppressing them, right?
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And when we turn a blind eye to a widow who's really in need and
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not make them priority, you know what we're doing?
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We're doing. Exactly what God is rebuking His
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people for doing there in Ezekiel 22.
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Isaiah 117 says this Learn to do right, seek justice, defend the
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oppressed, take up the cause of the fatherless.
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Plead the case of the widow. Why are they priority?
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Scripture makes them a priority and to not make widows a
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priority in the church is to completely ignore scripture.
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They are a priority and they must be seen as a priority.
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James chapter one in our scripture reading you read it a
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moment ago with Doug as he let us it says this verse 27
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religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless as
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this. Orphans and widows.
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In their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by
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the world. You know what he does there?
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He equates taking care of orphans and widows with your
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spiritual well-being. He says.
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That pure religion, faultless religion, looks after orphans
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and widows. And looks after themselves,
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keeping themselves from being polluted by the world.
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You take care of yourself spiritually, and you also need
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to have the priority of taking care of the orphans and
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particularly in this context, the widows.
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Now I hate what is going on in modern.
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Christianity, right? Because they say things like
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this and don't even know what they're saying.
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They say I don't need all that religion.
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I don't want religion, I just want relationship.
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And I kind of get what they're saying, but they're missing the
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whole point of us. Being sanctified upon this
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earth, the reason that we. Have been sanctified.
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Upon this Earth is so that we can practice what James calls
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here pure and thoughtless religion, the one.
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True religion. Christianity.
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You know what most people want to do away with the fact that
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Christianity is a religion so they can go.
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To heaven and live any way that. They want to live.
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But James is saying this if you're truly a.
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Christian, you're going to live out pure and thoughtless
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religion. And you know what pure and
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faultless religion does? Takes care of the orphans, takes
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care of the widows and will make sure that they're taking care of
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themselves spiritually and not a part of this world any longer.
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People say I don't want religion.
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I do. Why?
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Because in this text that we've seen in James, the text that
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we've seen here in First Timothy, we see the word in
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Scripture. And so there's something to it.
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You know what I don't? I don't want old, dead,
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Pharisaical religion. I want true Christianity in my
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life. I want to practice the things of
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Christ. And would Christ practice these
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things, taking care of the orphans and the widows?
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Of course he would. You've already seen that he did
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it, he gave. Us that example.
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He lived up to it, so we too to be aware.
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Of the scriptures that. Scriptures make the widow
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priority. Savior makes them priority.
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The situation makes them priority, and the scriptures
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make them priority. That's enough, isn't it?
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Isn't it? Now, maybe you came in here
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today and you had all kinds of excuses as to why it wasn't your
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job as the church to take care of the widows.
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All your excuses have been erased, your ignorance.
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That you could have claimed. Is gone.
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You can no longer say that you are ignorant.
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This is what we are to do to properly.
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Recognize. Widows who they really are, and
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we're going to talk more about that in detail in a second and
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why they're a priority. So caring for widows consists
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of. 1st, the proper recognition of widows.
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Secondly, the proper response to the widows.
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The proper. Recognition of the widows.
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Was verse 3 now in verses 4 through 16 is going to give us
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the proper response? To the widows.
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How are we to respond to this, Paul?
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Is going to give us clear and concise instructions on how to
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do this. Again, this is not difficult to
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interpret, though there are some things that culturally we're
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going to have to talk about as we walk through this to give you
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understanding. It's not hard to interpret.
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You don't have to have a seminary degree to do this, so
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pay attention to this. The proper response to widows
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ought to be first and foremost from their families, from their
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families, he says in verse 4. But if a widow has children or.
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Grandchildren these should learn first of all to put their
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religion there it is into practice by caring for their own
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family and so repaying their parents and grandparents for
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this is pleasing to God. It's pleasing to God, the.
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Family of the widow is. Her first line of defense they
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are to care for her first if the widow has children and it even
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says grandchildren that can assist her they.
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Should it is your responsibility?
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I love how Paul tells you why he says.
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Because this is. Right, this is putting your
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religion into practice. This is what pleases God, taking
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care of people from your own family, repaying their parents
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and. Grandparents look at the
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terminology he uses repaying them.
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And I know in our culture we say what are we repaying them for?
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Because we're all entitled. You know what you're.
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Repaying them for. Every dollar that it costs to
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feed you when you were a child, even when you were a teenage boy
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eating everything. You're to repay them for every.
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Tear that they've wiped from your eye, every wound that they
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have somehow provided first aid for, every cut that they have
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bandaged up, every dirty, filthy diaper that they ever, ever
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changed for you. I hear people say things like
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that. Oh man, I can't bear the thought
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of when my pants get old. You're changing their diapers.
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You need to get used to it. You need to bear the thought.
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It's going to come full circle potentially, and it's your
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responsibility as a child or a grandchild to do just that.
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But isn't that what they did for you?
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Instead of seeing it as a burden, you know.
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What you ought to say I get to. Repay them back.
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Just a little because you're never going to repay them back
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for all that you would owe them. I get to pay them back just a
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little for everything that they have done for me, that they did
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for me when I was growing up. The love that they showed me,
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the mercy that they showed me, the grace that they showed me,
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the compassion that they showed me.
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I get to show those things back. That's exactly what Paul's
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saying here. And I want you to understand
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that because. Oftentimes, you know what
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happens when somebody becomes a widow and they're elderly.
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You know what they do? They dump them on the church
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immediately. OK, your responsibility, Church.
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Responsibility. Take care of the orphans and the
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widows. I'm going to go live my life and
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not let that old person interfere.
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Be a burden to me. Now Paul says the opposite.
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He says you as family members of these widows, you take care of
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them. If you have means and you have
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resources, you are their primary caregiver.
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Now the church can come in and the church can supplement that.
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But the church should only be a supplement unless they are
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really in need. And really in need means that
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they have no one else. They don't have children and
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grandchildren to repay them for all that they have done.
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For them. They're left alone.
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So the family of the widow ought to take care of her first.
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The family of the widow is to ease the burden of the church,
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refuse to neglect their own family.
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Why? Because it pleases God, pleases
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God. Verse 7 says this, and we'll get
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back to the other verses that we're going to skip over.
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But to keep it all together, watch this.
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Give to the give the people these instructions too, so that
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no one may be open to blame if anyone does not provide.
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For his. Relatives, and especially for
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his immediate family, he has denied the faith.
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That's a big statement. He has denied.
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The faith and. Is worse than an unbeliever.
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The family especially. Those who are Christians, they
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ought to be. Eager to help that widow who is
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their mother or their grandmother.
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They ought to get an extra job if they have to, because they
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are that eager to give back to those who have given so much to
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them. Why should we do that?
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Well, again, to ease the burden of the church, the church can.
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Quickly become overwhelmed taking care of widows who have
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families who could take care of them.
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You say, Well, the church could. Be.
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Overwhelmed by widows? Yeah.
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Go back to Acts chapter 6 and you see a very interesting thing
Acts 6 chapter mention
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happened there. In Acts chapter 6, the church
Acts 6 chapter mention
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was. Birthed and then there.
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In Acts chapter 6, we see the church learning how to be the
Acts 6 chapter mention
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church. And it says this in verse 6 of.
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Verse one, excuse me, of chapter 6, says in those days when the
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number of disciples was increasing to Hellenistic Jews,
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those of Greek background among them complained against the
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Hebraic Jews because their widows were being overlooked in
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the daily distribution of food. Our widows are being overlooked.
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They were overwhelmed. With this.
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So the 12 the. Apostles gathered all the
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disciples together and said it would be not be right for us to
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neglect the ministry of the Word of God in order to wait on
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tables. This is where we see the birth
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of what I believe to be the Deacon waiter of tables.
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Says brothers and sisters, choose seven men from among you
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who are known to be full of the spirit and wisdom, and we will
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turn this responsibility over to them and we'll give our
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attention. To prayer and the ministry of
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the word what was happening the church was becoming overwhelmed
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by all the widows and. In that.
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They said we got to do something, we have to put
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something in place. And So what they did, they put
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in place what I believe. And as I said, the Deacon who
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would take care of the physical needs of those who had those
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physical needs in the church, they would have been the ones
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responsible for deciding, is this person on the list?
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Does this person meet the criteria?
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Is this person truly and really in need?
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Or do they have a family who could be taking care of them,
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but instead of taking care of them, they're doing what they
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tried to do in tricking Jesus and saying, you know what?
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I put this money up for religious reasons, so that gives
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me a reason not to take care of my family.
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And Jesus rebuked that attitude. Why?
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Because. True and pure.
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Religion is going to use that money to take care of the
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orphans. And the widows?
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So we see that the family has a great.
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Responsibility in this first and foremost.
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Going all the way down to verse 16, it says if any woman who is
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a believer has widows in her family, she should help them and
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not let the church be burdened with them.
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That's going beyond even children and grandchildren.
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If you got a second cousin who can help take care of the widow,
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that second cousin needs to be in there doing it.
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Why? He says clearly.
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And not let the church be burdened with them so that the
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church can help those widows who are really in need, those who
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have no one. So if you're here today and you
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have a widow in your family, you have a widow who is your mother
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or who is your grandmother, let me make this as clear as I can.
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Do not dump. Them off on the.
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Church, do not put them out as if they are some stray dog who
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wandered up on your porch. You have the responsibility to
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take care of your own families first, I think.
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Paul makes that very clear. Now what if we go beyond that?
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Well, there is responsibility that the Church has.
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They're to respond just as the family.
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Is to respond. The church is going to give that
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response to those who are really in need.
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The church should focus on widows who do not have any other
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resources. Again, really in need.
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Those who have been completely abandoned by their husbands,
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whether that was through death or desertion, they have no one
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else. Now.
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Church has to use wisdom and insight in doing this.
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It's very important that the church does respond to widows,
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whether they are widows who meet the list or widows who are now
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young enough to do what Paul's going to tell the church to do,
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and that is to remarry and to have children and to manage
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their homes. But the church has a
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responsibility in. This as well in certain cases.
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The church is 1st to take care of the widows that scripture
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mandates that they take care of. Watch this because many people
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don't understand this. I I know this because I've
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pastored long enough that they say blanket statements like
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this. My aunt's a widow and nobody
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from that church has tried to take.
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Care of her. I'm sorry, could you tell me
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your aunt's name again? Has she ever been to this?
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Church. Well, no.
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But it's the church's job to take care of the orphans and the
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widows. Now am I?
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Saying we're not going to help. This person's aunt.
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Nope. But I am saying we're going to
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examine everything by Scripture and we are going to decide if
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this is someone who would meet the qualification for us to help
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them. Watch this.
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Here it is. Now you can get mad at me all
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you. Want.
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But I'm going to read directly from the Word of God so that
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there is no discrepancy here. You know this comes from God,
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not from Curt. Paul plainly says in verse 9, no
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widow may be put on the list of widows unless she is over 60.
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Everybody write that down over 60.
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That means if you are 59 or 60, you are still young according to
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the word of God. Rejoice.
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In that the. Closer I get, the more I
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rejoice. He says unless she's over. 60
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Watch has been faithful to her husband and is well known for
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her good deeds, such as bringing up children, showing
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hospitality, washing the feet of the Saints, helping those in
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trouble, and devoting herself to all kinds of good deeds.
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So let's look at these. Biblical qualifications of the
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widows that the church is responsible for.
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We've made it very clear that if there is a widow, a woman has
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been deserted by her husband, either death or desertion from
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her. Through divorce or whatever the
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circumstance may be. And they have.
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Family. Family's responsible, but if
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they don't, the church is responsible if they meet this
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criteria first. We need to see that these are
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those who. Trust in God for provision.
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Look at verse 5. I told you I would get back to
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it. It says the widow who is really
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in need. Because I told you I want you to
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know what really in need means. The widow who is really in need
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and left all alone, She's got no one.
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She puts her hope in God. And continues.
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Night and day. To pray and to ask God for help.
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What a privilege to be a part of His sovereign plan.
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Do you know this? When you help a widow who the
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Bible says you're to help, you're an answer to her prayer
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and you are an example of the faithfulness of God to her.
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She is praying, Lord, I have no one else, and I know that you're
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going to take care of me. And God says, yes, I am going to
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take care of you. And I have a group of people who
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have raised up to the precious blood of my son, who they are
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going to take care of you as if you are a part of their family.
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They are going to honor you like their mother, and they're going
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to honor you like their grandmother.
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We'll see the beauty. Of the church.
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Well, I can be a Christian and not be a.
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Part of the church. Why would you?
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Why would you? Miss out on the.
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Blessing of being a part of God's church.
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So this widow's really in need. She's trusting God, he says in
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verse 6. But the widow who lives for
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pleasure is dead even while she she lives.
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What is he doing? He's contrasting 2 widows.
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He's saying there's one widow, she's trusting in God, and
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there's another widow who she's just trusting in the pleasures
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of this earth. She's trusting in maybe that
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little nest egg that she had put back.
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She's trusting in tomorrow, which is never guaranteed.
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Who knows what she's trusting in, but she's not trusting in
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God. You know what God's Word's
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saying here? She's on her.
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Own but the one who's. Really.
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On her knees, Night. And day, thank God, I need your
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provision, he says. I'm going to raise up the church
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and the church is going to take care of her.
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Don't miss that. He's teaching the church that
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from the church. Comes the care for the widows,
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her trusting in God's provision. I love to see a widow who's
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trusting in God's provision when she loses her husband and she
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has nothing else. She has no family and she
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trusts. God, I've seen over and.
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Over and over and over again how God has.
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Raised up the church. To minister to that Lady to make
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sure that she is not succumbed to the situation that she's
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placed in. But he goes on and he says.
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This. After talking about.
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This widow who can be put on the list, she's over 60.
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Obviously he's talking about those who have no family to
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support them because he's already covered that if they
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have family, then the family should take care of them.
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Over 60, they're elderly, right? Because they can't take care of
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them themselves any longer. In many instances, they must
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rely on others for their care. The churches then to step in and
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to help that elderly widow. But he says some other things
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that I want to cover because I think so many times people would
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just jump over this right? Though Cook could say we're to
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take care of the. Orphans and widows.
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How and who and which ones qualify and which?
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Ones don't qualify well, he says an interesting.
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Statement here. And at first when you read this,
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you're going to go, why would he say that?
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He says no widow may be put on the list of widows unless she's
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over 60. We can understand that she's
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elderly. She needs help, has been
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faithful to her husband. What in the world would you mean
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by? That why would this be a
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qualification? Because I told you it doesn't
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just mean that her husband died. Her husband could have divorced
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her, and her husband could have divorced her biblically because
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she committed the sin of adultery against him.
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And he had every right in the world to put her out of his
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home. And the church had every right
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in the world if she did not repent, to put her out of the
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church. And he's saying I don't want
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those people who have forfeited. The family of God and forfeited
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their own family for adulterous relationships to benefit from
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the church and those well meaning people at the church who
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are giving of themselves and their finances and their
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resources to those who are said to be really in need.
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You know what God is saying. She got herself.
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Into it you say, well, I don't believe in that God.
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I believe God is a God of mercy, and He is, but he's also a God
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who is just. He has laid down some things and
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we need to pay attention when he lays down things because he does
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not pick them up to suit our opinions and make them anything
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different than what they really are.
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He says if she's been faithful to.
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Her husband, she can be on this list.
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If she's over 60, she can be on this list.
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And is well known for her good. Deeds, she's a life.
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It shows she's truly a believer, right light in the darkness,
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such as and here's the examples of those good deeds bringing up
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children. That means bringing them up in
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the nurture and the admonition of the Lord with the evidence of
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godly children, showing hospitality, washing the feet of
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the Saints, stooping to serve others as Jesus did, John's
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gospel helping those in trouble. And devoting.
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Herself to all kinds of good deeds.
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So who? Is this?
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Widow that can be. On this list, those who trust.
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God for provision. They're trusting in Him alone
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because he's all that they have. Just as we sang a moment ago,
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All I have is Christ. That's all she has.
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Those who have no family to support them.
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Those who have been faithful to their husband, who are not in an
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unmarried state and left abandoned because of their own
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doing, he said, won't God forgive that?
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Yes, God will forgive that, but it won't allow her to be on the
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list of widows. His words already spoken.
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I'm sorry, but that's what it says.
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And serving the Lord and true service to the Lord, just like
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in our lives, in the life of the widow, it'll be displayed by her
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good deeds and her piety of life.
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The fact that she is actually living out the faith that she
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claims to have. We see that evidenced in the
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fruit of the Spirit, Lovejoy, peace, patience, kindness,
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goodness, gentleness, self-control.
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What's he saying? That if she's going to be on
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this list, she has to be a godly woman and she has to be a proven
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godly woman. And then when?
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She is, then she can be. Put on this list so the church
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is to care for the widows that Scripture mandates, right?
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Those elderly widows who meet biblical criteria, you say,
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well, I don't like the biblical criteria.
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Take that up with God. I didn't make that.
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Up. I'm just reading it to you.
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And I really don't care if you like it or not.
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I can tell you this is what it says, and this is what we'll
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practice at Key Life Fellowship. Why?
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Because God's Word says that this is what we're to do.
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And now we bring in another. Category of widow to this
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equation to what? Paul's teaching.
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We saw that the church is to care for the.
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Older widow, but the church is also to care for the younger
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widows. And how?
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Well, I'll go ahead and tell you this.
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Not the same way that they care for the older widows.
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Watch what Paul says here. He says As for the younger
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widows, why? Because he knew that their
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question was going to be what about the younger widows?
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We have widows in our church that are 55 1/2.
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What do we do about those? He says As for.
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The younger widows do not. Put them such a on such a list.
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For when their essential. Desires overcome their
-
dedication to Christ. They want to marry.
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Nobody's talking about sensual. Desires for a woman yes, a woman
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has a desire for the man, though it'd be different from the
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desire that a man has for a woman.
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A woman has an. Inward desire.
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For a man and what has obviously gone on here, this woman has
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done like many young women do when they lose their spouse
-
unexpectedly. Here's what they say
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immediately. Oh God, I don't know what to do
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I'm never. Going to marry again.
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I'm just going to devote my life to you, Lord, and your church.
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And why did they say that? Because they were in an
-
emotional state. Now this is just for free.
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Widows who are female can get in an emotional state and they make
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a vow and. Their vow is to the Church,
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right? I'm never going to marry again.
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The love of my life is gone until their sensual desires.
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Overcome their dedication to Christ.
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Until the vow that. They made is no longer good.
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And that's what Ecclesiastes 55 tells us, isn't it?
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That it's better to not make a vow than to make one and not
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fulfill it? I would encourage young widows.
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If a young widow happened to come to me in our church, what
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should I do? Nothing right now.
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Pray and seek the will of God for your life.
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Perhaps God will bring another man.
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Well, I don't even want to think about it.
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You're not ready to. Think about it now.
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But perhaps he will. Because that's what his word
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instructs you to wait upon. Now, if you can remain single
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and make that vow, of course, Paul even says in First
1 Corinthians 7 chapter mention
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Corinthians Chapter 7, it's better for you to not marry.
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He said if you can be like me, be like me.
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But if you burn in your sensual desires, the lust of your flesh,
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he says it's better for you to marry than to burn.
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So he's applying everything that he's taught all throughout his
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ministry, even to this. He says they want to get married
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when this happens, thus they. Bring judgment on themselves.
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Because they have broken their first pledge.
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They made a pledge to God. They made a vow that they broke.
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We shouldn't do that. So what happens?
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Here we see first. That this young widow is
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ensnared by good intentions, right?
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Making vows she can't keep. How many of you have ever made a
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vow that you couldn't keep? Lord, if you get me through
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this, I'll never. Do it again, and then you turn
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around and do it again. You weren't in a position to
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keep that. Vow.
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You just made it, hopefully to get you out of trouble.
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Paul is very understanding of this, that a woman in that
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situation will make a vow that she just can't keep.
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Lord, I'll be dedicated to you and your church.
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Just take care of me because I've lost all income and I've
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lost all resources and I need the help of the church.
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Then she's overcome. By her fleshly desires.
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And then she wants a man violating her own conscience and
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the own conscience and the own her own vow that she made.
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See the trouble that good intentions can get us into?
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He's warning that they should remarry so that they don't fall
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into and become ensnared by their good intentions.
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Because isn't it horrible to have good intentions and then
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drop the ball? Then they put a weight.
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On your conscience, right when? You tell your kids you want to
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do something that you know you're probably not going to be
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able to do, but you really want to do for your kids.
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But you, you know that you probably can't do it.
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And then inevitably, you don't do it.
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You look like you don't keep your promises.
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What should you have done? Well, you probably shouldn't
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have made that promise until you were sure that you could keep
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that promise. Same thing here.
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If we're not careful, the younger widows can be ensnared
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by their good intentions, but also they can be ensnared by a
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sinful idleness. Look at verse 13, he says.
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Besides, they get into the. Habit of being idle and going
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about from house to house, and not only do they become idlers,
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but also gossips and busy bodies saying things they ought not to.
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What is he saying here? He's saying that a woman.
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Who gets married? Just the fact that she has a
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husband and children in the home, it keeps her out of a lot
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of trouble that she could. Get into if left to herself.
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Now ladies, I know that might offend.
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Some of you. And all I can simply tell you is
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this sometimes. The truth is offensive.
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You you can get in trouble. If you are idle, right?
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Idle hands, an idle mind, as your grandmother used to say.
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What the devil's workshop? Is there a woman who is?
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Remarried after being a widow. She now has a husband.
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She potentially has children. She now has a home.
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And let me tell you this, just having a husband, if it's me,
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you're so busy, you can't be idle.
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I can laugh at myself. I know the truth.
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My wife deserves some medal on earth and in heaven.
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But he says if you're a young widow.
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You you ought to encourage her to remarry so that she can be
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busy taking care of her husband and her children and her home so
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that she doesn't become idle or an idler or busy body or gossip.
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So that she's busy. At home?
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Is that not what scripture teaches?
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To be busy at home instead of being a busy body.
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I'll just throw social media on. There.
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For fun, you can be a busy. Body on social media now?
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Easy, can't you? But if you're busy with your
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husband, your home and your children, you don't have time
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for all that, do you? Paul's warning.
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That these women could be ensnared not only by.
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Good intentions of making vows. That they're not able to keep or
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ensnared by sinful idleness. Watch verse 14.
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It can also be ensnared by much more than that, he says.
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Verse 14. So I counsel younger widows to
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marry, to have children, to manage their homes, and to give
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the enemy no opportunity for slander. 15 says some have in
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fact already turned away to follow Satan.
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What is he talking about here? Well, he's talking.
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About something that. You probably would think about,
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but you don't want to think about in church.
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But I'm going to make you think about it in church.
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There is one of the oldest. Professions in the world that
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women are capable of and that is sexual.
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Immorality they are capable of prostituting themselves so that
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they can make. An income and it wasn't uncommon
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in the day. It wasn't uncommon in the day.
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For someone. To be in this same situation,
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deserted. By their husband.
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Either through death or divorce. And they have.
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No means for an income. They have no means for food.
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Perhaps they have children that they need to provide for that
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are so young that there's no one who could ever help them.
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And they say, you know what? I don't have any skill.
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I don't. I can't apply for a job.
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But what I can do is I can present myself as a prostitute
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and I can make money through sexual immorality.
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And what Paul's saying here is that Satan's already grabbed
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some of them. Some of them have already
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succumbed to this temptation, he said.
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Well, I would. Never.
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You've never. Been placed in that situation.
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So before you cast judgement, be careful.
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Be careful. What is the cure?
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For this, how do we prevent? This Paul's giving us that cure.
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He says take the older widows and teach them to remarry.
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Make sure that it is a. Biblical.
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Marriage make sure that it is a biblical remarriage right she's
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not free to remarry if she's committed adultery against her
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husband if her. Husband is taken from her from
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this. World she's no longer bound by
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that relationship because he's died.
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She can now remarry someone who has never been married or who
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has had a biblical divorce, he said.
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Well, you think? The Church ought to.
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Play matchmaker. Yes.
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I don't think there's a better place in the world to play
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matchmaker to say, you know what?
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I know that you've been handled, handed.
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Excuse me, an adverse situation. And I know you can't handle
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this. On your own.
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But I know of a young man in the church.
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Who's looking for a wife? Who's a godly man?
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He's not afraid to be a godly man.
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Who would probably? Take care of you and.
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Probably take care of your family.
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Would you be interested in even talking to him?
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I don't mind saying that at all. Why?
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Because it's biblical. Ah, to encourage that young
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widow to remarry. Why?
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So that she will become busy. Taking care of her husband and
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her family and her home and her big problem.
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What was it she was? Deserted, she was left.
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Destitute her big problem. Is now taken care of because she
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has a husband that God has raised up for her who is taking
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care of her and taking care of their family by providing for
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them through his hard work and the finances that that the Lord
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allows him to acquire through that.
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The only other option for the young?
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Widows. Is to let them figure it out on
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their own. And.
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Unfortunately in trying to figure it.
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Out on their own there is an enemy who desires to ensnare
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them by their own good intentions, by their own sinful
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idleness, and their own sexual desires may never be.
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So in this church. May never be so, and not only.
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As a leader in this church, but it may never be so with any
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advice that you give to any of the younger widows that may come
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in our church. This isn't it true?
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We're all just one phone call, this one sentence of bad news.
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All the women in this church, you are one of those away from
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being a widow. Isn't it important that we know
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what they? Are isn't it?
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It's. Important that we know how to
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treat. Them.
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Isn't it important? That we show them the love and
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the compassion that the Lord shows to them.
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Isn't it important that we look at them and we treat them
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biblically as Scripture has mandated for us to do so Both
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the family and the church have a role in this.
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Families, take care of your people.
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Let me just make this promise to you.
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When you run out of resources or your resources get low, then you
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come to the church and we will then.
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Come alongside of you and subsidized what you need.
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Why would we do it that way So. That we don't have that extra
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burden so that when we do have that woman who is over 60 who
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has no. Children and no grandchildren.
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He's left all alone but has trusted God her entire life to
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be her provider. We can faithfully.
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Ensure that she will be taken care of because Scripture has
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mandated that we take care of her.
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So how do we take care of our widows?
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For all of you who. Were afraid because we were
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only. On .2, that's all we have today.
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No need to be afraid. I have no objective.
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When I go into sermon preparation, is it going to be
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one point or is it going to be 30?
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It doesn't matter to me this. One's 2.
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Proper recognition of the widows, the proper response to
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the widows. As I said a moment ago, your
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ignorance card has been removed. You can't neglect this any
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longer. We must define them properly.
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We must care. For those who are really in
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need. Must take care of our.
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Own family When it requires that we take care of our own family,
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we must encourage younger widows.
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To remarry if so possible. So that they don't fall into the
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trap of Satan. That's simple.
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I told you. There's nothing hard to
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understand here. What's hard to?
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Understand is why we don't talk about this.
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In the church, what's hard to understand?
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Is why we we think. We have to be tricky and we have
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to be exciting. We have to be entertaining.
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I get it. Guess what?
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There's nothing fiery about this this morning, was there?
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But does that change the importance of it?
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Absolutely not. This is why we exposit the
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scripture. Not going to jump over this
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topic and say like many do by jumping over it.
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Then widows are not that important.
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It's just a trivial matter once the church is handled.
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No, let's let's teach it properly and let's handle it
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biblically. How about that?
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Why would we do that? Because God requires it and he
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deserves it. So to the leaders of this
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church, we have to assure that. This happens.
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Why didn't I know this? I look at Acts chapter. 6 and I
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know that. I have to devote myself to the
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scriptures and to prayer, but I also know.
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That God is constantly raising. UP men in this church who can
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minister to our widows as need be to take care of them as their
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own family, just as he did in the early church.
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Believer, you have to do your part.
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What's your part? Care for the widow?
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How do you do? That the same way you care for
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anyone. Time, talent, resources, right?
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Time, talent and resources. Got a widow in our church who
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she's suffering with a health problem and you're a nurse.
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Why aren't you there already? The hush breaks over the crowd.
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Well, I get paid to be a nurse. I know you're actually going to
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store blessings in heaven like he told you to do instead of on
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earth. I don't know if I can help him.
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I'm a busy man. I got a.
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Big company I got to take care of.
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Yeah, you make lots of money. Hey, give your money to the
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church. You know what?
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You know what they did in the early church?
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They laid at the apostles feet and they distributed as the need
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dictated. I'll tell you this, our church
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has always been faithful to make sure that it gets into the hands
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of those who are really in need. If you have financial resources,
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give. We say I don't have financial
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resources. I'm not a nurse.
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Pray. Watch this.
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Write a card, send a text message, make a phone call.
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Just let them know, hey, we care about you.
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Why? Because Christ cares about you
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and. That's what we're to do as a
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church. We're to take care of our
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widows. Do your part.
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You have a family member who's a widow, take care of her.
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I'm dump her on the. Church, take care of her.
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Do what you're. Supposed to do.
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Does your mother, your grandmother, remember they did
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it for you? Repay them because they deserve
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it. Honor your mother and father,
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not just when you like it, when it's difficult, honor them.
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Why? Because God said to do that to
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the unbeliever. I know where you are right now.
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You're sitting here and you're saying, what does this mean to
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me? It means nothing to you.
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It can't. Mean anything to you, and
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frankly? You can't even understand what
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I'm teaching here this morning. Why?
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Because the natural man does not understand the things of the
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Spirit. To you I'm nothing more than
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Charlie Brown's teacher. Wah wah wah wah wah wah wah wah.
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Means nothing to you because you're not a part of the family.
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Of God. You say.
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Are you saying that to isolate me?
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No. I'm just saying that so that
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you'll know that you're isolated.
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I'm not the one who's isolated you your.
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Sin has isolated you. Your sin has cut you off and
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alienated you from the family of God and from God Himself.
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And thanks to be to God that 2000 years ago Jesus Christ, the
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only begotten Son of God, came to this earth and he died on a
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cross and he was buried and he rose again to new life so that
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you can have forgiveness of. Sin and new life, and so that
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you can be justified before a holy God and so that you can be
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brought in to the family of God. Why is that important?
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Because one day you might be that widow who needs the family
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of God to take care of you. One day you might be that
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widower who needs the family of God to take care of you.
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One day you might be that orphan who needs the family of God to
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take care of you. And hasn't God been just to us?
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Let us bow. Before him, let us.
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Acknowledge Christ as Lord and Savior.
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Let us walk to Him with every ounce of energy that we have
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this morning and kneel before Him as our Lord and as our
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Savior, turning from our sin and turning to Him as Christ and
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Lord of our lives. Surrender to Christ today and
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become a. Family of God and.
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Understand these principles that have been taught personally as
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we all in Christ understand them personally.
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Just pray to God the Father in the name of Jesus.
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We thank you so much for your word.
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We thank you that it's true, every bit of it.
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From cover to cover. It means something.
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What I pray for the widows that means something to you.
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Let them mean something to us as well.
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Let us passionately love and passionately give to them, but
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let us do it biblically that it would be pleasing.
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To you whether that. Be the family who gives or the
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church who gives to the widow. May we do it all in honor of
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you. May you receive.
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All honor and glory. And praise for the soul who's
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here today who does not know Christ.
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Lord, I pray that you would give them mercy.
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You would draw them out of the darkness of their sin, that you
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would draw them into your marvelous light, that today they
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would turn from sin and self under your power, turn to faith
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in Jesus Christ, the one true Lord and Savior.
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We'll give you the praise for it in Jesus name, Amen.
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