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Growth and Development - Part 2 with Pastor Mike Krulcik

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  1. Thanks for checking out the Anchor Faith Message podcast

  2. from St. Augustine, FL.

  3. Now enjoy this message. And this brings us to Part 2, A

  4. Spiritual Growth. I did a started a series last

  5. week, will conclude tonight. But God's will is for you to

  6. grow up. Hallelujah.

  7. So this is Spiritual Growth and Development Part 2.

  8. I was blessed. I had several people that told

  9. me they did their homework assignment and I like the

  10. overachievers. Those that did, read it every

  11. day and in multiple translations.

  12. If you read it once, that's all that I was asking you to do If

  13. you're with us last Wednesday. But Ephesians, chapter one or

  14. chapter 4, verses one through 16?

  15. I ask you to read that. And so it was good to get

  16. feedback. One person read it in the

  17. Amplified Bible and he was just really, he actually had it

  18. printed out and showed me tonight.

  19. And he obviously, the Amplified Bible really magnified those

  20. verses for him. So we're going to launch out

  21. tonight from that verse since I gave it to you for homework

  22. assignment, and just receive everything that God wants to

  23. give us. I will say this before I start

  24. reading is, you know, there's a lot of parallels in the Word of

  25. God between the natural and the supernatural.

  26. And Jesus gave, you know, simple parables to relate things.

  27. And when it comes to spiritual growth and development, it's

  28. it's much like spirit. It's much like natural growth

  29. and development. You start off as an infant,

  30. right? And then you develop and grow

  31. from there. I was thinking about this as we

  32. was worshipping. I, you know, he said the way

  33. maker. I want to say he's the growth

  34. maker. Amen.

  35. He is the way maker. But he wants you to grow up.

  36. I was thinking about this. It's it's one thing when a baby

  37. spits up on you when they're an infant.

  38. You know it's not the greatest thing, but it's not disgusting

  39. now if you throw up on your spouse at 42.

  40. That's disgusting. God wants you to grow up.

  41. So what I'm saying if you're spitting up gossip division, you

  42. know, we can we kind of kind of expect that from infancy to

  43. childhood. But if you're 42 and

  44. complaining, you're throwing up on somebody and that's gross.

  45. Are you with me? Just smile.

  46. God loves us, but he wants us to grow.

  47. Amen. He cares about us and He's given

  48. us this incorruptible word, this love letter, which is Our Daily

  49. Bread. What?

  50. To help us to grow up. Amen.

  51. So let's start off in Ephesians chapter 4, verses one through

    Ephesians 4 chapter mention

  52. 16. It says I, therefore the

  53. prisoner, Lord, I beg you or I beseech you to walk worthy.

  54. We could say, to walk honorable, distinguished with excellence of

  55. the calling of which you were called, right.

  56. So there's a there is an individual call that

  57. collectively and corporately advances the body of Christ.

  58. And it is your personal responsibility to walk worthy

  59. and and honorably towards God for the purpose and the

  60. assignment that he's placed in your life.

  61. I like verse two. It says, with all lowliness and

  62. gentleness, with long-suffering bearing with one another and

  63. love, endeavoring, endeavoring to keep the unity of the Spirit

  64. in the bond of peace. You see, that's a mature verse

  65. right there. I'm not trying to create

  66. division. I'm endeavoring to keep what?

  67. The peace. That doesn't mean I don't

  68. confront, but I do it in love. Why?

  69. For reconciliation. So we could be restored.

  70. All right. If you don't repent, it'll lead

  71. to root rebellion, which leads to ruin.

  72. Meetings, communication and confrontation happen.

  73. Why? To bring you to place of

  74. repentance 'cause if you repent, then guess what?

  75. You can be reconciled. And you can be restored, and

  76. that's God's heart. So a true man of God, a true

  77. woman of God that's in love, is going to confront or challenge

  78. some things if they see something out of alignment,

  79. right? And that's that's not to bring

  80. condemnation, that's to bring the conviction of love in the

  81. Holy Spirit. You don't want to be on the

  82. wrong pathway 'cause it leads to death.

  83. And so repentance is the first word in the Kingdom of God.

  84. Repent, for the Kingdom of God is at.

  85. And so God's saying, if you just change, if you just take

  86. responsibility, then guess what? We can start the process of

  87. reconciliation and there can be absolute restoration.

  88. Now when a car's restored, you know, some of the older cars,

  89. they're very valuable, right? And your life is very valuable

  90. for God. So he wants to see it in a

  91. constant state of restoration. Paul goes on to say in verse 4

  92. there's one body, one spirit, just as you were called in one

  93. hope of your calling 1 Lord, one faith, one baptism, one God and

  94. Father of. Above all, who is above all and

  95. through all? And in you all?

  96. And then it goes on verse #7. But to each one of us, to each

  97. one of us, to each one of us, this is written to the spirit

  98. filled church at Ephesus, right? So to everyone of us there's a

  99. grace given according to the measure of Christ's gift.

  100. God has deposited something on the inside of you.

  101. Amen. And there's a grace to do it.

  102. Now Paul said in First Corinthians 15 that I labored

  103. more abundantly in the grace of God.

  104. So you realize the grace was there, but it's interesting, he

  105. said. I labored in the grace.

  106. So there's a grace on the inside of you to do what he's called

  107. you to do. So it's just not of your own own

  108. effort, your own energy, but it's through Christ that you can

  109. accomplish what he's put on the inside of you.

  110. Therefore he says when he ascended on high, he led

  111. captivity captive and he gave gifts to men.

  112. Now that he that he that ascended, what does that mean by

  113. he also first descended into lower parts of the earth?

  114. He who descended is also the one who ascended far above all the

  115. heavens, that he might fill all things, and he himself gave

  116. some, not all. This is what we call the

  117. fivefold ministry. There is parallel passages

  118. within the Bible, and so in in Ephesians chapter 4, Romans

    Ephesians 4 chapter mention

  119. chapter Romans chapter 12 and then First Corinthians chapter

    Romans 12 chapter mention 1 Corinthians 12 chapter mention

  120. 12, there is these are parallel passages if you read that in the

  121. Bible. Now, Ephesians 4 highlights a

  122. little bit more of the fivefold ministry and the fivefold

  123. ministry of those that God has called and graced and equipped

  124. to actually be full time in the ministry to minister to his

  125. church. Not everybody's called to be an

  126. apostle. Not everybody's called to be a

  127. prophet. Not everybody's called to be a

  128. pastor. Not everybody's called to be a

  129. teacher or an evangelist. But it's the grace of God.

  130. It's the call of God, right? And there are no insignificant

  131. members in the body of Christ. Matter of fact, in comparison to

  132. the whole body of Christ, there's a lot less of the

  133. fivefold ministry than there is of the whole other body.

  134. Think about the 12 tribes of Israel, right.

  135. The Levites were the only one assigned to the Tabernacle, the

  136. other 11 tribes. But we're doing duties right?

  137. So you you have a great significance, matter of fact.

  138. It should be a joy for you and a journey for you because you're

  139. going to get a a great download tonight and you get to go into

  140. your world tomorrow and you get to be a representative of Jesus

  141. Christ. You are ACIA agent, a Christian

  142. in action when you go to work and there's an assignment there,

  143. and you need to be wise as a serpent, harmless as a dove.

  144. I I like Devon Hicks. I like a lot of people, but I

  145. love my wife. But he works at Carlisle, right?

  146. And and it's just amazing what God can do as you're following

  147. him, he said. Seek first the Kingdom of God

  148. and his righteousness and all things will be added to you.

  149. Devon heard Devon is Pastor Brandon's brother.

  150. If everybody knows Pastor Brandon, he and his wife are the

  151. youth pastors, right? They, and they all lived in

  152. Kentucky. But obviously, Pastor Brandon

  153. April moved to Florida, got connected with anchor Faith

  154. Church, but then, you know, he's telling Devin about it.

  155. So Devin made a decision that, hey, and prayed about it, we're

  156. going to move to Florida. He ended up getting a job with

  157. Carlisle, right. And God just, I mean, it's just

  158. amazing what God does when you're following him.

  159. He worked hard. Obviously.

  160. He was a giver to the church, still a giver today, but God

  161. just promoted him. You know, he started kind of on

  162. the ground level, worked his way up, actually, They want him to

  163. take over as plant manager even though he didn't have a college

  164. degree. And they said we'll actually

  165. position you as that and then you got to get the degree.

  166. And I don't even think they made him get the degree after a

  167. while, if I remember right. I don't know if he's here

  168. tonight, but when he's at work, he's ACIA agent.

  169. I've had some conversations with him because he's he's, he's

  170. thinking obviously about doing a good job for the Lord and how he

  171. can be a blessing to the company.

  172. And that's why he's at where he's at the the pay has has

  173. increased and the title has increased, but also the

  174. influence has increased. And so he was talking one with

  175. one of the employees. You got to be very careful in

  176. the secular Society of what, preaching the gospel, you know,

  177. somebody solicits you, That's one thing.

  178. But a lot of companies have restrictions on you actually

  179. saying something about Jesus. So he is ACIA agent, right?

  180. Because one story was telling me was that.

  181. He went through Mighty Men 318 Ed Cole has a lot of powerful

  182. one line quotes so he uses he's in leadership without preaching

  183. the Bible. He's using godly principles

  184. right And so one of the guys coming he said man you got so

  185. much good stuff where do you get that from?

  186. He said well it's from the philosopher I that I follow and

  187. really what what philosophy who what's his name.

  188. He said. Jesus, you open the door.

  189. I'm coming in. So there's a calling on each of

  190. us, but you get the you have the excitement to go into your war

  191. world tomorrow, Friday, Saturday.

  192. Your job shouldn't Your job is where you go, but not who you

  193. are. It's a place where you literally

  194. go and you get paid to really be Acia agent.

  195. You see what I'm saying? You got to change your your

  196. perspective. I was reading over in Psalms the

  197. other day from the Passions Translation and it jumped off

  198. the page to me. It said that the the distorted

  199. perception had vanished. So if there's a distorted

  200. perception in your life, truth will make that vanish.

  201. And you need to get up with passion every day to the

  202. assignment that God's called you to and and tackle it with an

  203. enthusiasm unknown to most mankind.

  204. Amen. So there's a call.

  205. On all of us. But some are in the fivefold

  206. ministry, meaning they make their living by the gospel

  207. right? So these are full time ministers

  208. assigned and why did God place him in the body?

  209. Verse 12 is very important for your spiritual growth and

  210. development. Verse 12 gives a threefold

  211. reason or a threefold trajectory of why the fivefold ministry was

  212. given by God. You could say this way.

  213. It's God's love gifts to you. God loved you so much that he

  214. called certain people. So we can collect together upon

  215. the same place as a family of God.

  216. But to be equipped is the first thing right?

  217. Why is the fivefold ministry given?

  218. You'll see in verse 12 for the equipping of the Saints, the

  219. furnishing, the supply, the fitting.

  220. A pastor may see a gift in you and say man, this would this

  221. would be a great fit for you. So when you come to service on a

  222. Sunday or a Wednesday or a a men's discipleship or a women's

  223. discipleship man, that's a great time to get fueled.

  224. Just 'cause you filled up your your tank yesterday doesn't mean

  225. you don't need to fill it up again in three days, right?

  226. So this is like a this is like 93 octane, let me go to ethanol

  227. free that you're getting right for your for your journey and

  228. your race and life. And so it's for the equipping of

  229. the Saints, Why for the work of the ministry.

  230. So all of us are called to a ministry in some capacity,

  231. meaning there's a service that we do.

  232. Ministry is just not behind the pulpit.

  233. Ministry literally means serving, right.

  234. So when you go to work, guess what you are serving the.

  235. Lord at that job on assignment to be a light and to be sold.

  236. And then it says the third thing that's going to happen is the

  237. edifying of the body of Christ or the building up of the body

  238. of Christ. Verse 13 says, Till we all come

  239. to the unity of faith and the knowledge of the Son of God, to

  240. a perfect man, to the measure the stature of the fullness of

  241. Christ, that we should no longer, that we should no longer

  242. be children. There comes a point when you

  243. need to grow. Up and develop.

  244. He goes on to say, tossed to and fro, carried about with every

  245. wind of doctrine by the trickery of men and the cunning

  246. craftiness of deceitful plotting.

  247. So guess what a children does? They're tossed to and fro.

  248. Guess what A a pastor represents a shepherd that's going to help

  249. guard your your life. A real shepherd is going to

  250. guard. A hireling's going to flee

  251. because he doesn't care. A hireling's just about money.

  252. A true shepherd's going to say what you're listening to maybe a

  253. little bit off or or yourself talk, maybe a little off,

  254. whatever the case is, what but children can be tossed to and

  255. fro. 1st 15 says. But speaking the truth in love,

  256. that we may grow up in all things unto Jesus or him who's

  257. the head, Christ from whom the whole body.

  258. Join and knit together by whatever joint supplies

  259. according to the effect of working by which every part does

  260. its share, every part does its share, Hallelujah, every part

  261. does it. It'd be a shame if your foot

  262. wasn't working tomorrow. That's the part not doing its

  263. its job. Causes growth of the body for

  264. the edifying of itself in love pastoral.

  265. As says this during our vision partnership meeting.

  266. There's no insignificant members in the body of Christ and this

  267. is what this verse is communicating and God's desire

  268. is for us to grow. So let's look at First

    1 Corinthians 9 chapter mention

  269. Corinthians Chapter 9. This is review that I'm going

  270. through. First Corinthians Chapter 9

    1 Corinthians 9:24–27

  271. verses 24 through 27. Spiritual growth and development

  272. is much like much like natural growth and development.

  273. Amen. So it says this.

  274. Do you not know that those who run in a race all run but one

  275. receives the prize? Run in such a way that you may

  276. obtain it and everyone who competes for the prize is

  277. temperate in all things. Now they do it to obtain a

  278. perishable crown, but we for an imperishable crown.

  279. Therefore I run thus, not with uncertainty.

  280. Thus I fight not as one who beats the air, but I discipline

  281. my body and bring it into subjection, lest when I have

  282. preached to others, I myself should become disqualified.

  283. So what's he doing? He's doing a parallel between

  284. their Olympic Games and spiritual growth and

  285. development. Let's look at this.

  286. In the message it says you've all been to the stadium.

  287. And seeing the athletes, athletes, race, everyone runs.

  288. One wins. Run to win.

  289. I like that. Run to win.

  290. You're in your own lane. There's no competition in the

  291. body of Christ, First Corinthians says.

  292. It's a You're a fool if you measure yourself against

  293. somebody else. God's too creative and unique to

  294. make everybody the same. There's nobody else like you on

  295. the planet, so don't compare yourself or measure yourself

  296. with somebody else. But you're running your race and

  297. run to win. Run to win.

  298. All good athletes train hard. They do it for a gold medal that

  299. tarnishes and fades. You're after one that's gold

  300. eternally. I don't know about you, but I'm

  301. running hard for the finish line.

  302. I'm giving it everything. I've got no lazy living for me.

  303. I'm staying alert and in top condition.

  304. I'm not going to get caught napping telling everyone else

  305. about it and then missing out myself.

  306. The New Living Translation says it like this.

  307. Don't you realize that in a race everyone runs, but only one

  308. person gets the prize? So run to win.

  309. All athletes are disciplined in their training.

  310. They do it to win a prize. That will fade away, but we do

  311. it for an eternal prize. So I I run with purpose in every

  312. step. I'm not just shadowboxing.

  313. I discipline my body like an athlete, training it to do what

  314. it should. Otherwise, I fear that after

  315. preaching to others, I myself might be disqualified.

  316. So just like an athlete has to have a program in place what to

  317. reach their potential, so do we. So do we.

  318. We need to have a program in place, a strategy in place, so

  319. that we continue to grow. Now when it comes to the

  320. natural, I've been training since I'm thirteen years old

  321. with weights turned 48 this year.

  322. Amen. And feeling great, but I've

  323. grown a lot over the years. Hosea 4/4 says people perish

  324. because of a lack of knowledge, not just information.

  325. Information may mean you Get the facts, but knowledge in the

  326. Hebrew mind meant that you actually applied it.

  327. When you know something, you're intimate with it.

  328. You're experiencing it right. You know, when I was young I

  329. used to read muscle and fitness books and you know, that was

  330. obviously at that time and an an encouragement inspiration.

  331. But just reading those is not going to do anything for me.

  332. I actually had to what apply, so I had to get a strategy in

  333. place, right. So I was thinking about this

  334. tonight with spiritual growth and development.

  335. There's a lot of parallels between the natural and the

  336. spiritual. And you know, my number one, I

  337. have 5 pillars when it comes to getting in shape physically, and

  338. I transferred those over to spiritually, #1 is nutrition.

  339. I used to think I could just work out really hard, eat, eat

  340. whatever I want, do no cardio. And results would come.

  341. Well, you know what, That didn't work out.

  342. And it kind of was like, man, I'm working really hard but not

  343. going anywhere. And we can say about God, I'm.

  344. I'm applying your word. But I'm not getting the results.

  345. Well, God's truth will always work.

  346. The question is what? What don't you know that you're

  347. not applying to get the results? So I realized, you know, when I

  348. started learning about nutrition and macros, and you know

  349. proteins and carbohydrates and fats.

  350. And I started getting a knowledge base on that.

  351. Guess what? It really helped my body

  352. composition, my stamina and my energy.

  353. And the results were more forthcoming.

  354. Then I understood, you know what?

  355. There's this thing called cardio training or aerobics.

  356. Glory to God, who wants to run 10 miles?

  357. Not me. But I realized, you know what?

  358. That I realized there's 3500 calories in a pound of fat.

  359. Yes, 3500 calories. That means if I want to lose

  360. £2.00 a week I need to be a 7000 calorie deficit.

  361. Hallelujah. The problem with that though is

  362. you need to know some things. People go on yo-yo diets and we

  363. do this spiritually and it's never going to set your

  364. metabolism, it's going to starve you.

  365. Where do I get my results from Michael Phelps?

  366. Who knows Michael Phelps, Great Olympic swimmer, athlete, gold

  367. medalist. You know, when he was at his

  368. peak training, he was eating 10,000 calories a day.

  369. But he he put such a demand on the regimen that if he didn't

  370. eat that much, he was catabolic, not anabolic, meaning his body

  371. was breaking down. Now, the recommended day

  372. allowance by the United States is 73 grams of protein per day.

  373. That's for a sedentary person that's not doing anything but

  374. playing video games. But when it comes to an athlete.

  375. And then Paul said, if you got a what train like a athlete, if

  376. you're putting a lot out but not putting a lot in, guess what?

  377. You may be missing your nutrition value spiritually if

  378. you keep on running hard and not reading the word of God.

  379. Why do you think Pastor O Marcy are so passionate and and

  380. adamant about church attendance and reading the word of God,

  381. church attendance and reading the word of God, church

  382. attendance and reading the word of God, church attendance and

  383. reading the word of God? Why?

  384. Because you're never going to grow or be anabolic spiritually

  385. and being a perpetual state of growth if you're not getting the

  386. right diet. Think about if you eat one meal

  387. a day physically. You could be grumpy and deplete

  388. of energy, Hallelujah. But if you get, if you get the

  389. right balanced diet, all the sudden what?

  390. You have an infuse of energy? Well, spiritually speaking, if

  391. you're feeling weary, if you're feeling down, do you have the

  392. right plan in place to continue to grow and develop?

  393. And if you're putting out a lot, guess what, You better put a lot

  394. in. I took on more responsibility

  395. this year. With the ministry and in that

  396. transition in May, I was just talking to God.

  397. And I have a goal that I've set per year of study time, per

  398. week. And when that transition

  399. happened, which meant more work, he told me to double my study

  400. time. I said, OK, Lord, which is OK We

  401. went from this to this. How am I going to do that with

  402. more? But you know, I've steadily done

  403. that because he said it. And he realized that the more

  404. that goes out, the more needs to come in or I'm going to break

  405. down, dry out or get weary and I monitor and measure my Bible

  406. reading. I just don't.

  407. Check the box off. You know I I write down every

  408. day on my daytime or what I've read.

  409. I have a little more aggressive reading plan than one time a

  410. year but I could tell if I'm getting off a little bit.

  411. I could look back. I may have read a huge chunk 3

  412. days ago, but maybe I went two days and all of a sudden, OK,

  413. all that's what's wrong. I'm not getting the spiritual

  414. diet to natural to match the natural output.

  415. Are you with me? So nutrition's the number one

  416. factor. If if you're going to recover,

  417. if you're going to have energy, just like naturally Michael

  418. Phelps, he he recovered because he got a the right amount of

  419. protein, right. The right amount of

  420. carbohydrates. You know he wasn't eating

  421. Twinkies, Hallelujah and Ben and Jerry's every night.

  422. Hallelujah and and McDonald's. I guarantee you that wasn't in

  423. his diet, right? He would have been sluggish,

  424. correct? So these these athletes, a lot

  425. of them even hire a nutritionist.

  426. Why somebody who has more knowledge than they do that's

  427. feeding them what they need so they can grow and develop.

  428. Kind of like coming to church feeding you so you can what grow

  429. and develop? Did they win?

  430. Hallelujah. Sorry.

  431. Sydney came in. The Flagler girls had a game at

  432. 6:00 and they won. Hey, Speaking of that, there's a

  433. game this Saturday. At six PMA home game, let's show

  434. up and show out. I don't like go, you know

  435. there's something when there's a crowd in a sports environment

  436. and they're rooting you on. And I've been many times to

  437. Flagler where the girls game specifically is lower in

  438. attendance but we have enough vision partners on a Saturday

  439. night it's free. If you're a Saint Johns County

  440. resident it's a great day night. Take your family.

  441. You know, get out, show outlet's support em.

  442. Amen. And rally em on.

  443. So let's get there on Saturday night.

  444. Amen. If you don't have any plans,

  445. plan to do that and then you can.

  446. Yeah, right downtown you go. Night.

  447. See, that works out perfect. So nutrition's the number number

  448. one thing. Rest is another thing.

  449. That's my second pillar when it comes to physical growth, but

  450. also spiritual growth. And I'm just not talking about.

  451. I'm talking about the appropriate amount of sleep, but

  452. I'm also talking about a worry free life.

  453. You know, there's stress. There's U stress, stress and and

  454. and hyper stress. U stress is a positive stress.

  455. It's like, you know when somebody has to make that last

  456. free throw shot at the end of the game to win it, they've

  457. trained for it, they've practiced it.

  458. You know if they're at the opponent's, you know, court,

  459. they're they're trying to be a distraction.

  460. But what they they block everything out and that that's a

  461. positive stress. But then there's stress which is

  462. a negative and then there's hyper stress, which at a

  463. molecular level you're aging prematurely.

  464. And first, Peter 5 says what? To cast all your cares on the

  465. Lord. You realize you these I'm I'm

  466. giving you some things that will actually stunt your spiritual

  467. growth. If you're stressed out, it's

  468. going to slow down your spiritual growth and stagnate

  469. it. So not only resting, not

  470. worrying, not fretting, resting in your mind.

  471. Jesus said, Come unto me, all you that labor and heavy laden I

  472. what? Give you rest?

  473. He said. Learn of me.

  474. Take my yoke upon you for its gentle and lowly in heart.

  475. The next thing that I have in with my physical training is

  476. anaerobics, which is resistance training.

  477. Same thing spiritually, right? If you're going to get stronger,

  478. there's going to be some resistance.

  479. Hallelujah. And you got to know what you're

  480. doing. I've seen some weird things at

  481. the gym. You know your your purpose in

  482. life is where your passion and your pain intersect.

  483. And I've. I've seen some painful things at

  484. the gym. I mean they people have

  485. revelation on equipment that I don't That's actually an arm

  486. machine. No.

  487. But you you got to you got to know some things right or you

  488. can get hurt if you miss train or try to take on too much too

  489. quick. See spiritual growth and

  490. development same as physical growth and development.

  491. I can't just if I just started lifting I can't throw 315 on the

  492. bar and try to bench it. I'm going to crack my sternum

  493. and be in the hospital, probably be dead.

  494. But there's got to be gradual progress.

  495. You know, God gave the fivefold ministry, and Donald G made this

  496. powerful statement when it comes to church, He said There should

  497. be steady growth within for powerful witness without.

  498. So the fivefold ministry provides that.

  499. You come to church, steady growth within, so you have

  500. powerful witness without. And it reminds me of Notre Dame.

  501. Everybody's heard of Notre Dame, right?

  502. I'm a guy, so I'll do some football.

  503. I did this in my Ki class and a lot of ladies looked at me

  504. blank. Well, actually just one.

  505. I won't name her name, but so then I really mess with her a

  506. lot because I use a lot of analogies just to pick on her

  507. butt. In the Notre Dame locker room,

  508. they have a sign as you exit, it says play like a champion today.

  509. You know, it's tempting not to put a sign on the door that says

  510. live like a Christian today. When you walk out, you know,

  511. touch it, slap it, you're ready to go into the world.

  512. The coach is just giving a great pregame speech, right?

  513. You've had a pregame meal. You've been practicing all week.

  514. Now it's time to go out and do it right.

  515. Hallelujah. So resistance training.

  516. And then there's there's also, and my my fourth thing is

  517. aerobics, which is stamina. You know, you're not in this for

  518. just a good time. You're in this for a long time.

  519. And so this is not a Sprint. This is a marathon journey, a

  520. lifetime commitment with Christ. And there's things for the long

  521. haul that you need to take care of yourself, right?

  522. And then the the last thing I have is flexibility for my it's

  523. something that I've just instituted a couple years ago

  524. literally for the physical side of it.

  525. But the ability to adapt, you realize there's going to be

  526. interruptions and distractions in life.

  527. Don't get, don't plan your your your time so strenuously and

  528. strict that you don't leave a little time for interruptions.

  529. There's 168 hours in a week and if you try to plan down to the

  530. minute, you're going to be disappointed.

  531. Amen. So continue to grow.

  532. God wants you to grow. Change is not change until it's

  533. changed. This life is not static, it's

  534. dynamic. And change is the only constant

  535. in life. You're either progressing or

  536. regressing. There's nothing that stays

  537. static. Everything that happens to us as

  538. a result of choices we make. You either choose to

  539. procrastinate, believe, or doubt.

  540. Help or hinder? Succeed or fail, but the choice

  541. is yours. Joshua said it this way in the

  542. 24th chapter of his book. He said choose this day whom you

  543. going to serve As for me and my household, we choose to serve

  544. the Lord. So guess what?

  545. We're going to win the minute we get rid of all excuses and kick

  546. out self pity. The proverbs one translate says

  547. if you wait for the perfect conditions, you'll never get

  548. anything done. There's another verse in the Old

  549. Testament says don't despise a day of small beginnings.

  550. God loves to see the work be begun.

  551. So many times we're waiting for it to be built.

  552. Well, where your life is really built minute by minute, choice

  553. by choice, day by day, You're never going to arrive if you

  554. just don't, if you just don't choose to start.

  555. Right. So the devil loved to steal your

  556. identity, kill your destroy, kill your dream and destroy your

  557. life a little at a time. But God wants to build your

  558. life. He came to give us life and to

  559. give it to us more abundantly. I said this last week, if you

  560. can continue doing in the next 5-10 and 20 years what you've

  561. been doing the last 5-10 and 20 years, will you be pleased with

  562. who you are and where you're at? You know that we say insanity's

  563. doing the same thing over and over again.

  564. Expecting what different results?

  565. It brought me to this quote too, that the average person goes to

  566. work every day because that's what they did yesterday.

  567. If that's the only reason for going to work today, you'll

  568. probably be no more effective today than you were yesterday.

  569. The sad thing is, many people have been with a company five

  570. years, do not have five years experience.

  571. They have one year's experience five times, and no specific

  572. plans for making anything of a change.

  573. But next year is going to be a repeat performance.

  574. Right, so we we need to be aggressive in life with getting

  575. in a good spiritual game plan in place and doing it be a doer of

  576. the word of God, James One says. Blessed are those that do the

  577. word of God. Time is an equal opportunity

  578. employer. Each human being has exactly the

  579. same amount of numbers or same amount of hours per week.

  580. So those that are doing the most, or the Kingdom of God, or

  581. those that are doing the least, guess what the difference is how

  582. you use your time. Are you prioritizing your time?

  583. Success depends upon using your your time wisely and planning

  584. your time wisely, setting priorities.

  585. The Bible likes time to money. You invest time and spend time.

  586. You don't kill time. And time's really more important

  587. than money. So you need to be offensive in

  588. life. 20% of all the points scored in it in in the NFL

  589. scored in the last two minutes of the 1st and 2nd halves of the

  590. game. And does the prevent defense

  591. work? The answer The offense scores

  592. three times as fast against the prevent defense as it does

  593. against a regular defense. The point is, if you're playing

  594. but the offense is playing to win, the defense is playing not

  595. to lose. Why am I telling this 'cause

  596. we're to run to win. So you need to be offensive, not

  597. defensive. With God are you with me?

  598. So let's go to 1st John chapter two, first John chapter two, and

  599. first John chapter 2. The Apostle John really outlines

    1 John 2 chapter mention

  600. 3 stages of spiritual growth. So in First John chapter 2,

    1 John 2:12–14

  601. verses 12 through 14 he says this.

  602. I write to you little children because your sins are forgiven

  603. for his name's sake. I write to you fathers because

  604. you have known him who is from the beginning.

  605. I write to you young men because you have overcome the wicked

  606. one. I write to you little children

  607. because you have known the Father.

  608. I've written to you, fathers, because you have known him who

  609. is from the beginning. I have written to young men

  610. because you're strong and the word of God abides in you and

  611. you have overcome the wicked one last week, the very first one

  612. that we covered. He talks about children, he

  613. talks about young men. He talks about fathers.

  614. Same thing with spiritual growth.

  615. There's children, there's young people, and then there's fathers

  616. or mothers of the faith. Right.

  617. And so the first one we talked about last week was children.

  618. I will say this. Wisdom has taught us that

  619. mastery of fundamentals is critical to success.

  620. Wisdom teaches us that mastery of fundamentals is critical to

  621. success. You know, when it comes to

  622. anything in life, it always comes back to fundamentals.

  623. Guess what? Those that are in the NNFL and

  624. in Peewee, guess what? They're still teaching them the

  625. Peewee league. Is fundamentals how to catch the

  626. ball? How to block your stance, Right

  627. Fundamentals never go away. If you want to grow, you have to

  628. apply fundamentals from the word of God.

  629. If you want to grow spiritual gifts, do not validate or

  630. measure spiritual maturity. First Corinthians We read this

  631. last week. Just because of time.

  632. I'm not going to go through it again in the chapter, I'm going

  633. to highlight some other ones. 1st Corinthians 3 we talked

  634. about. Paul called them carnal.

  635. He said they didn't. He didn't say they're natural

  636. men. First Corinthians 2, he talked

  637. about the natural man receives not the things of God, but in

  638. verse three, their verb is changed.

  639. It says you're yet carnal. So they're born again, but their

  640. flesh ruled and flesh dominated their babies.

  641. And Paul, from the first time he wrote this, the first time he

  642. visited them and established the church to the time he wrote the

  643. letter was the scholars will tell us this period of between

  644. four to seven years. So there was an expectation from

  645. the Apostle Paul. After four to seven years, you

  646. should be grown up. But you're not.

  647. And he's basically saying I have to still give you the bottle,

  648. and it shouldn't be like that. But also in First Corinthians

    1 Corinthians 12 chapter mention

  649. chapter 12 we get the gifts of the Spirit.

  650. You know the three power gifts, the three Revelations gifts, and

  651. the three Inspiration gifts. But in First Corinthians 14 he

  652. starts talking about how to operate those in the body.

  653. But it's amazing because he identifies that church as

  654. immature. So just because they were

  655. flowing in the gifts does not mean you're mature.

  656. And just because you see a minister flowing in the gifts

  657. does not validate or measure if they're actually mature.

  658. You're Christ like character. Measures your maturity.

  659. There could be wonderful people of God that are being used, you

  660. know, sick bodies being healed, words of wisdom being given.

  661. And sometimes a Christian Church will flock thinking this is

  662. somebody I want to emulate or follow, but their life is in

  663. shambles. God will use people in his body

  664. and any state of growth to help deliver other people, but it

  665. does not mean that you're mature, just cause the gifts

  666. flow through you. God used a donkey in the Old

  667. Testament. Hallelujah.

  668. Just saying. So here's a couple positive

  669. characteristics just to review of children.

  670. They're innocent. They're they're pure.

  671. And there's really nothing. No records are wrong.

  672. I mean, when you think of an infant, it's a fresh start.

  673. And that's how we are in Christ, right?

  674. Second Corinthians 517 says if anyone's been in Christ, he's a

  675. brand new creation. Old things have passed away.

  676. Amen. So that's a brand new start.

  677. I call it Etch A Sketch. You know, it's Etch A Sketch.

  678. You have all these lines. But when you shake it with the

  679. blood of Jesus, you get a brand new start in Christ and all the

  680. squigglies are gone. Squiggly wigglies.

  681. Are gone. But that's how it is.

  682. You get a brand new start. There's an innocence, There's a

  683. belief in infants, right. They just believe.

  684. And so there's some things as an infant that we want to carry as

  685. a fundamental as we grow, which is we want to be pure, We want

  686. to believe, right. They're hungry too.

  687. Amen. I mean, the bottle will get them

  688. quiet. Hallelujah.

  689. So we need to be hungry too. But then there's some things

  690. that we don't want to carry over from childhood, First

  691. Corinthians, 1311, says. When I was a child, I thought

  692. like a child. I spoke like a child.

  693. You know, I acted like a child. So the the Bible promotes

  694. childlikeness, but it condemns childishness.

  695. Hallelujah. And so maturity don't come with

  696. age. It comes with the acceptance of

  697. responsibility. And a child is just not very

  698. responsible. Amen.

  699. So some negative characteristics of a child is #1.

  700. They're selfish. They are the center of their own

  701. universe, right? If they don't get their way,

  702. they will cry and throw a temper tantrum.

  703. A second thing I point out, they'll put anything in their

  704. mouth. You know how it is with your

  705. first kid if the pasty drops on the ground and they go to pick

  706. it up, you know you you got to sanitize this by the 2nd kid.

  707. You're just sticking in your own mouth, putting it back in,

  708. right? But they'll put anything in

  709. their mouth. And as a pastor A5 fold

  710. minister, guess what? There is a guarding that takes

  711. place. We don't want you getting

  712. mesmerized with somebody who's healing bodies, but they're in

  713. pornography and their credibility don't line up or

  714. their character doesn't line up with their call.

  715. That's not somebody that you want to follow.

  716. You want the gifts to flow through you, but that doesn't

  717. mean you're mature. Another thing is they're

  718. unsteady, right? They need a lot of attention.

  719. And so we understand coming in, there's going to be some people

  720. that they're babies and guess what, those that are more mature

  721. in the faith. As time goes by, we'll start to

  722. bring some correction gently. But they're going to say some

  723. things and there's going to be some gentle correction along the

  724. way. But after time, you know the

  725. accountability level is going to go up, right?

  726. Because now you should know a little bit more and your speech

  727. should be changing and the way you think should be changing and

  728. your actions should be changing and there should be a better

  729. steadiness about you. Another thing I said about kids

  730. is, you know, infants and young children cannot reproduce.

  731. They don't have everything's there, but they're not mature

  732. enough to be able to produce. And gods in his Kingdom, he's

  733. said to be fruitful and to multiply.

  734. So this is one stage. And guess what?

  735. There's no shame at all about being born again, man.

  736. I started my journey in 1997 and I remember there I didn't have a

  737. cell phone at that time, you know, but taking notes, just

  738. like a sponge, absorbing everything.

  739. I was so frustrated in one service because I came out of a

  740. religion, a Catholic Church, where we didn't really, you

  741. know, open the Bible, you know, And so I come into a Pentecostal

  742. church and in Columbus. OH, and thank God for that.

  743. Were they really taught? That's one thing I'm really

  744. thankful for is God always, always assigned me to a good

  745. Bible, believe in spirit filled church.

  746. And I remember sitting there one Wednesday night taking notes.

  747. I was just so frustrated, like, where's this been my whole life?

  748. I couldn't write fast enough. I literally stopped writing, you

  749. know, 'cause it was like I was trying to keep up.

  750. And, you know, your, your, your hand can't keep up with the with

  751. the mouse. So it was kind of frustrating.

  752. But, I mean, I had cassettes back then, cassette tapes, and I

  753. would buy those out of the bookstore.

  754. And then, you know, I there's 3 by 5 index cards on my in my

  755. car, you know, on my my bathroom mirror.

  756. I'm listening to tapes constantly.

  757. I'm in the word, well, that's fundamentals.

  758. You can stagnate your growth if you get away from that.

  759. But there was a hunger there, and that's a good thing.

  760. We always want to continue to grow in and to develop in, Amen.

  761. But then we get after after you're growing, guess what?

  762. You become a young person. We could say a young man or a

  763. young woman. And there's a couple things that

  764. the apostle John points out about young men, or we'll say

  765. young women too. He says #1.

  766. They're learning how to overcome.

  767. You know, when you're an infant, guess what?

  768. Somebody's got to do everything for you.

  769. Change the diaper, get the get the bottle ready right.

  770. Make sure they're put proper boundaries around the house.

  771. You know, put the things in the outlet so the the baby doesn't

  772. stick their finger in the outlet, All that stuff.

  773. You know, you put the locks on the on the cabinets, right?

  774. So they don't get into things right.

  775. And good parenting is going to get them to start responding to

  776. a word. No Amen.

  777. You realize you start young. New construction is always

  778. easier than reconstruction. If you train them from when

  779. they're young, then they're not going to depart from the faith.

  780. Amen. So And the husband and wife need

  781. to be unified to have the greatest success in the home.

  782. So one of the characteristics of a young man is they start to

  783. learn how to overcome. I I'm you know obviously in

  784. pictures I was picturing Superman.

  785. Anybody's seen the movie Superman before.

  786. No some have. So when he's learning how to fly

  787. he's he's got these fine now he's got this great power on the

  788. inside of him and he doesn't know all the capacity or

  789. potential but he's starting to tap into it.

  790. So young person's starting to understand, man, I'm developing.

  791. There's some things I can start to do and overcome, right?

  792. And so the great thing about young people is they're

  793. developing, They're strong, they're getting stronger,

  794. they're passionate and they're energetic.

  795. The apostle John says that they're not only overcomers, but

  796. they're becoming strong too, right.

  797. So young people in the church are those that are.

  798. They're energetic about serving. You can see the strength and the

  799. potential starting to be developed in them.

  800. You're starting to see them win some victories and overcome, and

  801. you're excited. But it's kind of like riding a

  802. bike sometimes. They're guys.

  803. You're training a, you know, a child how to ride a bike.

  804. There could be an accident or a wreck, right?

  805. So what do you do? You help pick them back up, but

  806. you don't stop. You keep going, right?

  807. So a young person's going to bring that passion, bring that

  808. strength. The negative side is there's a

  809. thing called self-awareness. As body parts start to develop

  810. along with raging hormones, short sighted vision, and they

  811. start to think they know it all. That's true.

  812. Hallelujah. You know, when it gets to the

  813. teen years and the natural, there could start to be some

  814. resistance against mom and dad's guardianship and parental

  815. authority, right? They start to think that they

  816. know it all so they can start questioning some things, right?

  817. Well, they don't have the reality of what it takes to

  818. survive. We have our own life support

  819. system at the house. It's called the refrigerator.

  820. And if you're under my roof, you're going to follow my rules.

  821. Or if you think you're that, great, go ahead and try.

  822. It's going to be a JOB, right? A job.

  823. And are you going to do, you know how much insurance cost?

  824. But I mean, they, the great thing is they think they can

  825. tack with the world. But one thing with they, they

  826. think they know everything too, is they're really lacking

  827. knowledge and experience. They really don't know.

  828. You know, I was when I was younger, I did some pretty

  829. stupid things, and you kind of think you're immortal When

  830. you're young. You can't die, won't die, and

  831. you're not. Subject to death, right?

  832. I mean, it's like doing 100 miles an hour in the car like

  833. I've done. Well, this seems fun.

  834. No, that's stupid, right? When you start to mature, you

  835. realize, oh that wasn't the best choice.

  836. And a lot of parents say wait till you get my age cuz then

  837. you're gonna realize what I'm telling you is true.

  838. Just like the pastor says, keep growing.

  839. Where you're at is not where you're gonna stay, but stay

  840. teachable. If you come from the children's

  841. stage to the young Men's stage, with all that passion, all that

  842. development, you start to overcome.

  843. You're starting to learn your authority in Christ.

  844. You're starting to, you know, learn about confession, right?

  845. You're starting to learn about the gifts of the spirit, right?

  846. You don't. You don't put a novice in office

  847. before it's time because they get lifted up in pride.

  848. So you can become proud at that age, thinking I know it all and

  849. I could do it all by myself. And really, it's short sighted

  850. because you're not long term and a lot of a lot of kids in that

  851. age, they really don't have a long term vision and a lot of

  852. them don't know exactly what they want to do.

  853. They have a thought, but they really don't have that long term

  854. vision to sustain. How am I get going to get from

  855. where I'm at to where I need to go with God, right?

  856. So at this stage, you need to make sure that you stay humble.

  857. If you start saying things like, well, I've heard that word

  858. before or I've heard that subject before, watch out.

  859. That could stunt your growth. The word of God is alive and

  860. active and a a lot of what's received or given during service

  861. is based upon the congregation pooling on whoever's

  862. ministering. It's not about a person, it's

  863. about the word of God. Jesus and John four said if you

  864. would have known the gift of God, you would had AI would have

  865. given you living water. But so don't get familiar.

  866. Some teenagers take for granted their parents.

  867. I know when my my son went to the Florida Youth Challenge and

  868. we were telling him a lot of things about discipline and life

  869. and man, he was real resistant to us.

  870. And this is like a military style program.

  871. And you know, he's not liking us when he's at the house, 'cause

  872. you guys put so much restrictions on me, you know, I

  873. I'm just bound up in chains. Give me a break.

  874. Go to India and eat some chicken Curry.

  875. Well, one week at the Florida Youth Challenge, when he's

  876. having to get up at 5:00 AM, five AM, and they're making make

  877. his bed military style. Guess what?

  878. A week later, we're the best parents on the planet.

  879. He got rid of that distorted perception real quick.

  880. When he's got somebody in his face, tell him what to do,

  881. right. So by what?

  882. There was a resistance. You start to get hard, you start

  883. not to receive. So we want to make sure that we

  884. don't get in that position. We can see this in the story of

  885. Jacob. Jacob comes on the scene in

  886. Genesis 25 through about chapter 35.

  887. But obviously, you know Jacob has, as he's growing from his

  888. infancy to his childhood to his teenage years.

  889. Obviously he has some hard relations with his brother Esau.

  890. Remember, he steals the birthright and then he steals

  891. the blessing, and then his own brother wants to kill him.

  892. And then mom, mom intercedes, sends him off to her relative's

  893. house, right? Well, there.

  894. There's a lot of maturity that happened with him because he

  895. responded to God and didn't react to the situation.

  896. And in Genesis 32, he, after he's gone for 21 years, he's

  897. coming back. And when he left, Esau wanted to

  898. kill him, his brother, he's having to come back in that

  899. situation here. He, he heard that Esau's coming

  900. at him with 400 men. So in his mind, he's really, you

  901. know, obviously concerned that he's going to annihilate him

  902. because the last time he left, he wanted to kill him.

  903. So he starts devising a plan. He starts separating the tribe,

  904. the flock, and, you know, put certain people in certain

  905. places. But then he spent one night

  906. alone with God, and it's the Bible said he wrestled with God

  907. and and he said, I'm not going to let go unless you bless me.

  908. And in that verse in Genesis 32, then in chapter, God said you're

  909. no longer be called Jacob, which means trickster or con artist,

  910. but your name will be Israel. For you have prevailed with man

  911. and with God and Jacob to us. Abraham's the father of faith.

  912. Isaac's the son of submission. But Jacob's the son of of

  913. transformation. And you, you transform as you

  914. grow and your identity becomes more secure.

  915. Amen. The parable of the prodigal.

  916. We know this story in Luke, Chapter 11.

    Luke 11 chapter mention

  917. Remember, there was two sons, the younger one, that thought he

  918. knew it all, he said. Father, give me my inheritance.

  919. Now I know how to use this thing.

  920. You don't, Right? So the Bible says that he went

  921. away to a far country and guess what?

  922. He squandered all the resources because he left before the time.

  923. And the Bible says he found himself in the pigpen or the

  924. slop and he finally cave him came to himself.

  925. You know the four powerful words in that story for you to

  926. continue to grow and develop #1 if you always have a give me

  927. attitude because that's what he said.

  928. Give me, give me, give me. You're not going to grow like

  929. God wants you to grow. When he got to the position,

  930. when he said in the pot, in the in the pig slop, he said, make

  931. me, he said I'll go back to my father's house.

  932. He had a humble heart and a willingness to learn.

  933. Amen. And that'll make all the

  934. difference in your spiritual growth if you stay hungry and

  935. humble. Ignorance is the most

  936. destructive force the world knows.

  937. It's the number one enemy of life.

  938. It's defined as the quality of condition, of little knowledge,

  939. education or experience or unawareness.

  940. And that's where the prodigal was that he thought he knew a

  941. lot and can make it on his own. But the fact was he needed more

  942. training before he was released to do his assignment.

  943. I was in Nautilus, I think it was last year, and actually

  944. Titus Clay quoted me this verse. Proverbs, chapter 12, verse #1 I

    Proverbs 12 chapter mention

  945. thought, surely out of the mouth of babes and sucklings, there's

  946. perfected praise. He said Whoever loves

  947. instruction and correction loves knowledge, but he who hates

  948. reproof as like a brute, be stupid.

  949. He said if you don't like instruction, you're stupid, is

  950. what he told me. And indiscriminating.

  951. Why do I bring this up? Because as in the young man

  952. development or young woman development, if you start to

  953. think you know it all, guess what?

  954. Don't be stupid. Continue to learn and grow to

  955. learn. You must want to be taught.

  956. When you through learning, you're through.

  957. Hebrews chapter 12 Starting to verse #6, the Amplified says

    Hebrews 12 chapter mention

  958. this. For the Lord corrects and

  959. disciplines everyone whom He loves, and he punishes even

  960. scourges. Every son whom he accepts and

  961. welcomes to his heart and cherishes you, must submit to

  962. and endure correction for discipline.

  963. God is dealing with you as with sons.

  964. For what son is there whom his father does not train and

  965. correct in discipline? Now?

  966. If you are exempt from correction and left without

  967. discipline, in which all of God's children share, then

  968. you're an illegitimate offspring, and not true sons at

  969. all. Moreover, we have had earthly

  970. fathers who disciplined us, and we yielded to them and respected

  971. them for training us. Shall we not much more

  972. cheerfully submit to the Father of spirits, and so truly live

  973. for our earthly fathers, discipline us for a short time

  974. or period of time, and chastise us to seem proper and good to

  975. them. But He disciplines us for our

  976. certain good, that we may become shares in His own holiness.

  977. For the time being, no discipline brings joy, but seems

  978. grievous and painful, but afterwards it yields the

  979. peaceable fruit of righteousness.

  980. To those who have been trained by it, a harvest of fruit which

  981. consists in righteousness and conforming to God's will and

  982. purpose. Thought action, result in a

  983. right living and right standing man.

  984. Discipline and instruction is necessary for growth.

  985. We are we are very independent in America, but don't be

  986. independent in the Kingdom. We need one another.

  987. I talked about spiritual spotting last week.

  988. Listen, we need somebody to say you can do it.

  989. We need somebody to help us get through the sticking points.

  990. We need somebody to help our technique.

  991. We need somebody to help our fundamentals.

  992. You don't want to get hurt. I've seen people squat horribly,

  993. knees past their toes. I know it's going to cross a lot

  994. of pain longevity wise. Really, the way the PT tells you

  995. to squat is to face your your put your face against the wall

  996. with your knees against it. So your knees.

  997. Have to your your your glutes have to go back first, not your

  998. knees forward. But these are the kind of things

  999. that you can get coached through.

  1000. Why? So you don't hurt yourself or

  1001. injure yourself. Amen.

  1002. So we need to lead. We need to be willing to receive

  1003. correction and to be trained. The greatest state of growth is

  1004. coming to a fatherhood or a motherhood state.

  1005. How far do you want to go with God?

  1006. I tell you how far God wants to take you.

  1007. He wants to take you to fullness.

  1008. He wants to take you to maturity.

  1009. His desire is for everybody to grow up and fulfill their

  1010. purpose and plan that he has for your life.

  1011. But it's going to take a regimented plan, discipline and

  1012. instruction to get where God wants you to be.

  1013. Fathers know that life is about significance and not just

  1014. success. A father's not just thinking

  1015. about themselves, they're thinking about pouring out for

  1016. the next generation. You know, Goodman leaves an

  1017. inheritance to what is children's children.

  1018. Inheritance is what you leave. But a legacy is who you leave.

  1019. And a father's is pictures himself in a in a relay race and

  1020. he wants to pass the baton off to the next generation.

  1021. An immature selfish person is only thinking about my life and

  1022. my time. And they're not planning for or

  1023. preparing to pass off what God has put.

  1024. We want others to get 10,000 where you got 1000.

  1025. That's the mentality of a father is to pass off to the next

  1026. generation and to those of the discipline so they can go

  1027. further and there's no jealousy. Saul became jealous because

  1028. David was said to have killed 10s of thousands where he was

  1029. only attributed to thousands. And that's immaturity.

  1030. A father says, man, you go for it and gets excited when they

  1031. see you advancing further than what they ever did.

  1032. And we're called to ignite the city, impact the nation,

  1033. influence the world. So what are you doing to grow

  1034. and develop? So you cannot not only be part

  1035. of that, but help develop others in that.

  1036. You know what the father Paul said?

  1037. A father knows this is an the greatest attribute of a father.

  1038. They he, they said they they have known the father.

  1039. They have known the father. That means you have such an

  1040. intimacy with God. Through long association of

  1041. time. Fathers develop because they

  1042. meditate on the word. They do the fundamentals.

  1043. They practice the word listen, another attribute of a father.

  1044. They have resources. That's a problem with young

  1045. people. They think they know it all, but

  1046. they don't have the resources. And that's just not money,

  1047. although that includes money. That's wealth.

  1048. Wealth is wisdom, understanding and knowledge working together

  1049. to produce transgenerational solvency, security and

  1050. stability. So resources include wealth,

  1051. which means I have godly wisdom, understanding and knowledge to

  1052. produce transgenerational or multi generational solvency,

  1053. security and stability. So a father has resources.

  1054. They may point you to good books, they may point you to

  1055. good patterns in life, they may point you to good disciplines.

  1056. A Father's patient, too. Amen.

  1057. There's a steadiness about them. They could be counted on.

  1058. An immature person you can't count on.

  1059. I'll be there at 8:00. But the Father, guess what?

  1060. He keeps His word. Just like Jesus.

  1061. He's the same yesterday, today and forever.

  1062. So there's a steadiness. They have developed character, a

  1063. Father. There's a purity about them.

  1064. They've been tested. They've been tried.

  1065. They've gone through some things.

  1066. I don't want to read about somebody who thinks they know

  1067. something about lifting Hallelujah.

  1068. I've read some articles about standing on a a bouncy ball with

  1069. 1 foot and barking like a dog. I added that.

  1070. I'm thinking, what does that do? I go back to fundamental squat

  1071. bench press. Deadlift have worked for

  1072. generations and they're going to continue to work for

  1073. generations. Confession, forgiveness, mind

  1074. renewal has worked for generations, is going to

  1075. continue to work for generations.

  1076. You getting somebody laying hands on you is not going to

  1077. transmit spiritual maturity. Is laying hands a doctrine?

  1078. Yes, but it does. It's not a fundamental As far as

  1079. you growing church, attendance is never going to go away.

  1080. Devotional guess what? Fundamental.

  1081. First Corinthians chapter 4, verses 14 through 17 says.

    1 Corinthians 4:14–17

  1082. I do not write these things. This is the Apostle Paul to

  1083. shame you. But as my beloved children, I

  1084. warn you for though you have 10,000 instructors in Christ,

  1085. you don't have many fathers or mothers.

  1086. I will say, listen, there's 10,000.

  1087. There's so many ministries out there.

  1088. Some of them are great, but there's so many ministries you

  1089. can run to my question are they really fathers and mothers in

  1090. the faith? Are they growing to that great

  1091. or they do they just want the title and the praise of the

  1092. title? I'm not criticizing or judging,

  1093. but you need to have discernment.

  1094. There's many. Voices in the world, right?

  1095. But there's one voice where to be fallen, he said.

  1096. You have 10,000 structures but not many fathers.

  1097. For in Christ Jesus, I've begotten you through the gospel.

  1098. Therefore, listen to what Paul says.

  1099. I urge you, imitate me. That's one thing a father,

  1100. mother can say is your What if it is your life worthy of being

  1101. imitated? Can somebody come and follow you

  1102. in private and say this is a person that's mature and I can

  1103. literally follow them around and learn a great testimony like

  1104. Pastor Marcus and Josh who came from Oklahoma with pastor when

  1105. they started. The vision is they not only they

  1106. get to see him do sermons on Sunday, but they will testify

  1107. they pastor and Marcy opened their house when they moved to

  1108. Florida. They got to see them in the

  1109. private setting and watch them live it out.

  1110. And so a real father and mother said, you can actually imitate

  1111. me, not emulate me, because you have your own God-given

  1112. personality, but you can follow the pattern of my life and the

  1113. disciplines of my life and the model of my life, and that

  1114. qualifies you and vets you to be a father and mother.

  1115. Somebody could actually imitate and grow.

  1116. So Paul said, imitate me. For this reason I sent you

  1117. Timothy, who is my beloved and faithful son and Lord, who will

  1118. remind you of my ways. What does Timothy do?

  1119. He reminds him of his ways, not his message necessarily, but how

  1120. he conducted himself, how he carried himself, how he lived

  1121. the journey that he was on. Right.

  1122. So he said you need to be able to be imitated as we close.

  1123. I want to go to Hebrews chapter 5, verses 12 through 14.

    Hebrews 5:12–14

  1124. The word says this and this is a sad indictment, because what?

  1125. Guess what? God wants us to grow and we need

  1126. the right plan and right goals and place to to to grow.

  1127. But the author Hebrews says this starting to verse #12 of Hebrews

  1128. 5. He says for though by this time

  1129. you ought to be teachers. You need someone to teach you.

  1130. Again, you should be teachers, but guess what?

  1131. You should be a father or mother.

  1132. But you need someone to teach you the first principles.

  1133. Again, you've come to need milk. Milk's good as a baby, but when

  1134. you're adult you can't live off that alone.

  1135. And not solid food for everyone who partakes of milk is

  1136. unskilled in the word of righteousness.

  1137. As long as you stay an infant or in the young man stage, there's

  1138. an unskilled character about you, which unskilled means

  1139. you're without experience. There's still an ignorance about

  1140. you. You understand you're growing,

  1141. there's you're learning the word a little bit, but you're still

  1142. not skilled in the word of righteousness.

  1143. And Paul says the remedy of that is to get solid food.

  1144. And how do you do that? Everyone who partakes of or he

  1145. says for, he's a babe. Everyone but solid food belongs

  1146. to those who are of full age. That is to by reason of use, by

  1147. reason of use, by reason of use. Use means.

  1148. There's a habit. There's a practice.

  1149. You're practicing the word of God.

  1150. You're practicing what you what's being communicated and

  1151. sermons. On Monday or on Wednesday and

  1152. Sunday, you're practicing what you're learning in your

  1153. devotional time. Listen.

  1154. If you sow a thought continually, you reap an action.

  1155. You sow an action continually. You reap a habit.

  1156. You sow a habit. Continually you reap a

  1157. character, you sow Character. Continually you reap a destiny.

  1158. But it's by reason of use. It's the habit.

  1159. It's the practice. Listen, I didn't work out three

  1160. times when I was 13 and said that did it for the rest of my

  1161. life. You realize if I stop, I lose

  1162. everything. You quit coming to church.

  1163. You lose a lot. You quit reading your Bible.

  1164. You go to atrophy, which is loss.

  1165. So, so don't have the American mindset to put your life on

  1166. cruise control or to go in to prevent defense.

  1167. We need to continue to grow and develop.

  1168. And how do we do that? We exercise our senses.

  1169. We practice them. We exercise them to discern both

  1170. good and evil, right and wrong. There's a purity about a father

  1171. and mother man. They stay away from a young man.

  1172. I got this today as as I'm closing right now can get into

  1173. be setting sins. What I mean about that?

  1174. They could get hooked up on the wrong things.

  1175. You know, a born again believer could get into drugs or

  1176. pornography or wrong thought patterns.

  1177. But guess what? As you grow there's a repentance

  1178. and a seriousness and a psalmist that says I want to live a holy

  1179. life to God. That's when you start maturing.

  1180. We take acceptance of responsibility and you repent.

  1181. Sins will keep you from developing, and I'll close with

  1182. this my final close. They're sins of Commission, but

  1183. they're sins of omission. Which means you know what to do,

  1184. but you're not doing it, and that'll stunt your growth.

  1185. Commission is easy to point out. I'm doing the wrong thing.

  1186. I'm I could be cussing, I could be thinking the wrong thing,

  1187. right? But omission means I know what

  1188. to do. But I'm not doing it.

  1189. Which means I should have a daily confession.

  1190. One of the things that stunts growth and the devil is a master

  1191. at this more than anything, is unforgiveness.

  1192. That'll stunt your growth. You choosing not to forgive Luke

  1193. 17, one says woe to offenses, for they will come.

  1194. Woe to who they come through. But all of us are going to be

  1195. tested in this. This could be a great time for

  1196. you to develop your spiritual muscles, and the one thing that

  1197. overcomes offense is a thing called love.

  1198. Love never fails 1st Corinthians 13 and the agape love of God

  1199. that keeps no records of wrongs. So.

  1200. So don't let the devil infiltrate your mind or your

  1201. life and get you into a place where you get offended.

  1202. Make that a time where you actually can strengthen your How

  1203. do you do that? How do you strengthen your

  1204. spiritual muscles when things happen?

  1205. How do you think a divorce happens because you get offended

  1206. or in unforgiveness with your spouse?

  1207. How do you think an employee or an employer?

  1208. An employee leaves an employer because it becomes an offense or

  1209. they get sideways? How do you remedy that?

  1210. You go to prayer and Matthew 5 it says pray for those, not only

  1211. those that like you and love you, but those that talk about

  1212. you, that persecute you, that mean to do you harm.

  1213. The Bible says to pray for them. That's how you flex your

  1214. spiritual muscles. So to speak is when you can on

  1215. your on your knees say father I forgive so and so.

  1216. Ephesians chapter 4 says be angry but sin not.

    Ephesians 4 chapter mention

  1217. There's a humanity to us. You're going to have emotions,

  1218. but don't let emotions dictate. A teenager does that.

  1219. They are led by their emotions. I feel like I'm in love you.

  1220. You know this, in adulthood, there's a feeling to love, but

  1221. there's a lot more action to it, 'cause you could feel in love

  1222. and then you can fall out of love.

  1223. So there's emotions, but don't let emotions be the deciding

  1224. factor, determination of ultimately how you handle the

  1225. situation. Mark 1122 through 25 says to

  1226. have the the God kind of faith and to speak to the mountain.

  1227. You can tell it to be removed, but it goes on.

  1228. In verse 25, it says when you stand praying, if you have

  1229. anything against anyone, drop it, release it, let it go.

  1230. I'm ending with this because God wants you to grow up, and

  1231. there's some in this sanctuary tonight that have become

  1232. stagnant just in this one area of forgiveness.

  1233. And let me qualify this too. You may think that and have

  1234. forgiven others, but here's another question.

  1235. Have you forgiven yourself? Psalms 103 says that he's able

  1236. to remove your transgression or your your your failure.

  1237. As far as the East is from the West and when you repent of it,

  1238. meaning it'll never touch again, if God can release it and let it

  1239. go, then you need to release it and let it go.

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