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Prodigal Son: A Win is a Win

Graham Chapel Wesleyan Church

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  1. Well Father God, we just want to say thank you for all that you have done for us and

  2. all you continue to do and the Lord as we gather it is a wonderful thing to be reminded of

  3. what it means to be saved and to have a relationship with you, to acknowledge

  4. what Jesus did on the cross for us and the price that he paid for our sins is a

  5. wonderful thing. God thank you for giving us that forgiveness for free. But Lord as

  6. we sing the songs and we talk about your Holy Spirit coming on this place Lord it

  7. is a such a wonderful gift to have the Holy Spirit. That while we get saved and

  8. we come to know you in this moment we can testify that moment God we can be filled

  9. with your Holy Spirit over and over and over again and God you can fill us to

  10. the point where we are overflowing so that your spirit just pours out of us and only in

  11. that moment when we are filled when your spirit is overflowing are we able to be

  12. obedient. Only then are we able to live as Christ lived to love as Christ loved to

  13. be an example a witness a minister of the gospel. So Lord as we sing that song we say

  14. let your Holy Spirit come on this place come down on us Lord I pray that we

  15. would truly understand what it is that we're asking for. That it's not just

  16. about your spirit being present in this room and us having these tingly

  17. feelings and to feel good when we walk out but God for us to be here this

  18. morning and to be 100% vulnerable to be at a place and a spot in our life where

  19. we're 100% ready say God I want to empty myself out of who I am and I want to

  20. let your spirit come inside of me and fill me and empower me to be the man or

  21. the woman that you've called me to be. That in these moments it's not just a

  22. matter of learning some cool stuff or maybe hearing something we've never heard

  23. but God this is your word and I want to accept it in my life and I want to live

  24. by it and I want to obey it and I can't do that under my own strength because

  25. everything about my flesh draws me away from you but everything about your spirit

  26. draws me to you. So this morning I pray that you would Lord just open us up and

  27. empty us out from ourselves and Lord just cry out for your Holy Spirit to fill

  28. us to be the men and women that you've called us to be. Father we need you this

  29. morning and Lord as we pray for this moment and this service and for the

  30. reading of your word in a minute we also lift up our brothers and sisters who

  31. aren't able to be here. For all of our shut-ins Lord I pray specifically for

  32. Mr. Ted this morning just speaking with him last night Lord just hearing about

  33. how bad he's felt how sick he is and God I just pray that you would touch his body

  34. touch his mind his heart and Lord as you give him physical relief as we're

  35. praying for God we also pray for a spiritual blessing as well. Lord you know

  36. what he needs this morning and we pray that you would go and touch his body.

  37. Well there's a lot of crazy stuff going on around the world. We pray for

  38. everything happening in the Middle East and I know that we have a lot of

  39. opinions and we have a lot of thoughts and a lot of questions but Lord you know

  40. everything and so we pray that your will would be done. We pray that you would

  41. work and move because we believe in our hearts that you know best and Father in

  42. our lives and our choices and our walks with you we pray that you would help us

  43. to do it well. We love you we thank you so much for this time and we ask all

  44. this in Jesus precious and holy name and all God's people said amen you may

  45. be seated. Well it's good to be back with you you'll notice this morning I'm

  46. still like trying to get all the mess out I will be nasally I will cough I will

  47. sniff but I feel great feel feel better than I felt in probably about three

  48. weeks and you know many times I say on the way to church you know I just kind

  49. of like sometimes some mornings you don't feel it and sometimes you're just

  50. like well how's it today's gonna be I've been excited even on the way over here

  51. this morning at about 7 a.m. I was super excited to be at church super excited to

  52. be with you feeling good today and as we're talking about our sermon series

  53. on the prodigal son today's title of the sermon is is a win is a win have you

  54. ever heard that phrase before a win is a win not all wins are pretty and

  55. sometimes they can be painful sometimes they can cost us but sometimes we just

  56. need to be reminded that a win is a win and a win is a good thing any of you

  57. been watching College World Series a couple baseball fans all right I love

  58. baseball I've been making my wife suffer through this for the past few

  59. weeks now I have not watched baseball in years and for whatever reason she'll

  60. tell you I've had a relapse and we've been watching baseball for this whole

  61. time the other night LSU is playing Arkansas okay and they're going to the

  62. last in and Arkansas has the lead and Arkansas just really lets it go it

  63. gets pretty ugly there's several bad decisions a couple bad plays and LSU

  64. ends up pulling out and winning in the very last inning it wasn't pretty but

  65. it wins the win right so if you're following along in College World

  66. Series LSU played the first game of the finals of the three game series against

  67. Coastal Carolina so we got a home team in the fight so you should be pulling

  68. for Coastal Carolina because we're from Carolina I'm pulling for Coastal

  69. Carolina but LSU and Coastal Carolina both looked really good last night LSU

  70. pulled it out with a one-to-nothing win so LSU is one win away from being the

  71. baseball national champions but the win that got them to where they are was

  72. one of the ugliest things I've seen in a long time on a baseball field in one

  73. inning a win is a win and a lot of times as Christians we have this idea of what

  74. we want for our own lives our own spirituality and as you talk about the

  75. prodigal son you're gonna see this from one of two ways you're gonna see

  76. it from this personal thing with you and where you are and where your walk is

  77. or you're gonna see this from a spectator like you're looking at

  78. someone else and you have this desire for them or you're praying for them maybe

  79. you're lifting them up and interceding on their behalf and you have this

  80. desire for their life their relationship with God of this experience or moment

  81. or come to Jesus meaning that you want them to have this very beautiful and

  82. amazing and this great testimony but the truth is a lot of times it doesn't

  83. happen that way sometimes we just need to be reminded that a win is a win and

  84. when you read the story about the prodigal son this is very much a win is

  85. a win story there's nothing pretty about this like it's actually kind of a

  86. painful story to read and for a father or for any parent to try to see their

  87. child suffer and go through what this young man ends up suffering and going

  88. through would be one of the most excruciating things in the world so

  89. read with me Luke 15 verses 11 to 32 will read through the whole parable

    Luke 15:11–32

  90. again and then we'll talk about it so to illustrate the point further Jesus told

  91. him the story a man had two sons and he says they have two the younger son told

  92. his father I want my share of your estate now before you die so his father

  93. agreed to divide his wealth between his sons which son asked for it younger son

  94. a few days later his younger this younger son packed all his belongings and

  95. moved to a distant land and there he wasted all of his money in wild living

  96. what he wasted on wild living PG version all right you'll see a little bit

  97. more into it when his brother speaks at the end about this time the money ran

  98. out a great famine swept over the land and he began to starve what's pretty

  99. about this story he persuaded a local farmer to hire him and the man sent him

  100. into his fields to feed the pigs the young man became so hungry that even the

  101. pods he was feeding the pigs looked good to him but no one gave him anything you

  102. talk about the ugliness of this story this young man is starving so much that

  103. the slops the leftovers the scraps the stuff that is starting to rot and smell

  104. that's not and we're talking about a day and time when people didn't just throw

  105. food out just because they didn't want it I mean it had gotten bad whenever they

  106. started giving it to the pigs and this young man is looking at this food

  107. they're feeding to the pigs and it begins to look good to him and even

  108. while the pigs food looked good he couldn't eat it because it wasn't his

  109. and he had nothing no one gave him anything when he finally came to his

  110. senses he said to himself at home even the hard servants have food enough to

  111. spare and here I'm dying of hunger I will go home to my father and say

  112. father I have sinned against both heaven and you and I'm no longer worthy of

  113. being called your son please take me on as a hard servant so he returned home to

  114. his father and while he was still a long way off his father saw him coming

  115. filled with love and compassion he ran to his son embraced him and kissed him

  116. his son said to him father I've sinned against both heaven and you and I'm no

  117. longer worthy of being called your son but his father said to the servants

  118. quick bring the finest robe in the house and put it on him get a ring for his

  119. finger sandals for his feet kill the calf that we've been fattening we must

  120. celebrate with a feast for the son of mine was dead and has now returned to

  121. life he was lost but now he has found so the party began and we always like

  122. to focus on the good stuff right we always like to think about okay the

  123. party the robe the ring everything's good meanwhile the older son was in the

  124. field working when he returned home he heard music and dancing in the house and

  125. he asked one of the servants what was going on your brother's back he was told

  126. and your father is killed the fat and calf we are celebrating because of his

  127. safe return the older brother was angry and wouldn't go in his father came out

  128. and begged him but he replied all these years I've slaved for you and

  129. never once refused to do a single thing you told me and in all that time you

  130. never gave me even one young goat for a feast with my friends yet when this son

  131. of yours comes back after squandering your money on prostitutes you celebrate

  132. by killing the fat and calf his father said to him look dear son you have

  133. always stayed by me and everything I have is yours we had to celebrate this

  134. happy day for your brother was dead and has come back to life he was lost but now

  135. he has found so this morning as we talk about this this understanding especially

  136. in our spiritual lives personally but also when it comes to other people that

  137. you may be praying for and interceding for that there's a need for us to

  138. identify a win just being a win and being satisfied sometimes with with the

  139. win his point number one is things get worse before they get better and we

  140. need to acknowledge that as believers sometimes things get worse before they

  141. get better sometimes things need to get worse before they can get better so

  142. whether it's in your personal life and you're making decisions sometimes we need

  143. to have this come to Jesus moment where Jesus lets us experience the full

  144. consequences of our sins well we really realize that hey what I'm doing and

  145. what the decisions I'm making is so bad that I've put myself in this place and

  146. sometimes things need to get worse so we can realize that before we'll go back

  147. to the father and things can truly get better and if you're praying for someone

  148. this morning and if you're lifting them up and you're interceding on their

  149. behalf before the Lord sometimes we just need to be humble enough and say you

  150. know what I'm praying for this person I'm lifting them up and things may need

  151. to get worse before they're ever going to get better and that's difficult

  152. because chances are if you love them if you're praying for them and you're

  153. concerned about their spirituality chances are you love them you care

  154. deeply for them you are highly invested in them and if things need to get

  155. better or things need to get better chances are some there sometimes they're

  156. gonna get worse this young man is blatantly breaking one to ten

  157. commandments all right you can argue over theology and theologians and

  158. opinions and all that stuff but there's no concern over this young man and the

  159. good of his father I want my portion now before you die and the father gives

  160. it to him he is not honoring his father or mother in this decision and you see

  161. expanded on as he a few days later moves away to a distant land and if you

  162. follow along in the Old Testament and you see the law and what God required of

  163. the people of Israel there was this constant reminder that they needed to be

  164. surrounded by God's own people and to be careful not to intermingle with

  165. people from the land surrounding them so the young man moves to a foreign

  166. land so he can live apart from God's law apart from God's people apart from

  167. accountability and so he can participate in everything that the lands around them

  168. are doing and if you read scripture you see constantly throughout the nation of

  169. Israel they are constantly affected negatively and drugged down by the

  170. people and the nations around them the sin and the idol worship was constantly

  171. affecting them they were constantly at war and battling other people so when

  172. he's not one of them he's an outsider they'll put up with him for a little

  173. while because he's he's bringing the money in he's spending money he's putting

  174. on a good show he's making a good party but eventually it all comes

  175. crashing down and even whenever he's feeding the pigs he persuaded a farmer

  176. to hire him on he's feeding the pigs even the farmer wouldn't give him part

  177. of the pig food there was no concern for this man whatsoever and as we said

  178. last week God did not create this world for sin to thrive in the flourish God

  179. did not create this world so that when we separate ourselves from him when we

  180. chase our own paths and we deviate away from his plan his purpose it was not

  181. designed for you to flourish it was not designed for those choices to flourish

  182. or for anyone else in this world to flourish apart from God everything about

  183. creation has been designed so that whenever we join with God things are

  184. better things are exactly the way that God intended them to be one of the

  185. things I love about the Old Testament it can be very boring sometimes it can

  186. be very hard to understand sometimes one of my favorite things to read in

  187. scripture is all the stuff from Genesis Exodus Leviticus Numbers Deuteronomy

  188. which sometimes can be really difficult to read and then you look at all the

  189. laws and all the things that God wanted the people of Israel to do and you're

  190. just like why what in the world is God thinking whenever he's like tells these

  191. people do this and don't do this and do this and don't do this and do this

  192. and don't do this and as we keep going and we advance in science and we

  193. advance in in medical stuff and we advance in biology and all these things

  194. that we keep advancing in and we know more and more about what we continue to

  195. find is everything that God asked the people of Israel to do we're finding

  196. that there's some sort of benefit to this for the people who do them okay so

  197. everything that we do for God not only has a spiritual benefit to it because it

  198. does when we're obedient to God there is a spiritual eternal benefit to that but

  199. it also has a physical benefit that God doesn't ask you to do anything to punish

  200. you or to make you less or to diminish you in any way but in fact God calls you

  201. to him to be obedient so that he can help you flourish both physically and

  202. spiritually now we're a little short-sighted sometimes right and

  203. sometimes we think we know what we want sometimes we think we know best

  204. and sometimes we think we know what's going to be the best for us in the long

  205. run and we make decisions off of that but so many times God calls us to

  206. sacrifice to cut away things so we can benefit so much more and what happens is

  207. when we choose our own paths when we deviate away from God we set ourselves

  208. up to travel down these roads and these paths in our life that end up being a

  209. lot rougher and a lot harder than what we ever thought they would be and many

  210. times they come to these dead ends and we realize where I'm going leads to

  211. nowhere this past week I did a job for Brandon and me and Anthony was driving a

  212. dump truck with this piece of equipment hauling behind it and we go down in

  213. downtown Spartanburg and we thought we were just gonna take off and turn back

  214. around and come back venture back over to 221 and we go under this like eight

  215. foot big huge railroad bridge I didn't know we was gonna be able to get

  216. under and we get down there and we're dead in and we have to turn this big huge

  217. thing around and it was pretty tough I was like man I wish he'd have told me

  218. that you can't do that before we went down there it's a very eye-opening

  219. experience when you get to somewhere and and you realize I can't go any

  220. further because a lot of times even the process of turning around to try to go

  221. back the way you came can be extremely difficult and God has designed

  222. it in this world for you and I to come to these realizations their life that

  223. the path I'm choosing is not necessarily the best path for my life that his path

  224. in his way and his laws and his rewards are so much better than anything we

  225. could ever imagine or fathom or dream for our own life and sometimes things

  226. need to get better worse before they get better in Proverbs 14 verse 12

    Proverbs 14:12

  227. Solomon wrote there's a path before each person that seems right but it ends in

  228. death guys the younger you are the more you need to pay attention to this even

  229. if you're old you still need to pay attention to this because sometimes when

  230. we get older we think we're a little more wise than what we really are but

  231. as we proceed through this life there's gonna be many things that we have the

  232. options of partaking in the options of participating in the options of

  233. experiencing and everything that you look at and all these options and these

  234. choices that you're gonna have in life they may not necessarily be sinful you

  235. may look at this and think well there's nothing wrong with this the Bible

  236. doesn't talk anything about the Bible doesn't specifically say this is a sin

  237. and I remind you this morning that we as people have an amazing ability to take

  238. anything and to make it sinful whether it be hobbies whether it be material

  239. things whether it be relationships we have the ability to take anything good and

  240. pervert it and make it simple and so as we walk through this life we have to be

  241. very careful that we are purposefully choosing God in his path in his ways

  242. because there's a path before every one of us that looks great you might have a

  243. plan you might have this whole thing drawn up in your life you you you may

  244. not see or understand necessarily how this is simple but this comes to the

  245. point in our lives we need to be humble it's a missive to God and say

  246. God I don't know speak to me tell me whether or not this is right or wrong

  247. because there's a path before us all it seems right but it leads to death

  248. because if it doesn't lead to God it leads to death anything that deviates

  249. away from God leads to death both physical and eternal but God gives us

  250. physical life and he gives us eternal life in 1st Corinthians chapter 5 verse

  251. 5 there's a verse that talks about handing people over to Satan for the

  252. destruction of their flesh so that the Spirit may be saved on the day of the

  253. Lord and we need to understand that God is not nearly as concerned about the

  254. physical as he is the spiritual he created the physical he cares about

  255. your physical body he's given us lots of things to help benefit our physical

  256. bodies and our physical lives but he's much more concerned about the

  257. spiritual because the spiritual is eternal and God will hand us over to our

  258. sins and the destruction of our sins so that our flesh may be destroyed but our

  259. spirit may be saved so when you look at this whether it's personal and you're

  260. deciding whether or not you're gonna follow the Lord or whether you're

  261. interceding on someone that you love very much we need to understand that

  262. sometimes things will get worse before they get better and especially if

  263. you're interceding on somebody's behalf and you love them and you care

  264. about them are you willing to say God I want them to be right with you so much

  265. that I'm willing to put them in your hands and trust you to speak to them and

  266. leave them back to you I can't imagine how difficult it would have been for

  267. this father if he would have saw his son sitting in the pig pens desiring the

  268. food the rotten stuff that these pigs were eating knowing that he had all the

  269. food in the world that he could just give to his son but his son would let

  270. him help him and as someone who that you may love very much and you may care

  271. about them very much are you willing to say God I want this this child the spouse

  272. this friend this co-worker I want this person to know you because it's more

  273. important for them to know you spiritually and to live eternally than it

  274. is for you to protect them physically or for us to try to guard them and

  275. protect them and keep them from the consequences of the choices are making

  276. God I'm gonna put them in your hands extremely difficult extremely painful and

  277. an extreme amount of pain that it would that it would cause as you step back and

  278. you put your faith in God and trust in him to carry this thing out the way

  279. that it needs to be done so that he can bring these people back to you but

  280. we see God doing this as he turns the Sun loose to follow his path and

  281. experience the choices that he makes and have to deal with those point number two

  282. as we talk about this we just need to remember that people are naturally

  283. selfish even with God you know there is something in every human being that we

  284. have a little bit of self-preservation this is something that we all fight we

  285. all have to fight this in our lives of this desire to put ourselves first so

  286. that we preserve our wants or our needs or whatever it may be that we're

  287. willing to take from others so that make sure that we're being met and we do

  288. this with God too and this young man when you look at the story you know he

  289. this is not ideal you know we talk about a win being a win this young man

  290. never says you know I really did my dad wrong I really blew like all the money

  291. that he saved up all the time he spent working everything he did for him my

  292. grandfather you know I really did them wrong man I can't imagine how I made him

  293. feel he never has this idea of saying I'm sorry for what I did to you you

  294. know you look at this young man and he starts rehearsing this speech father I've

  295. sinned against both heaven and you let me come home and be your hired servant

  296. because he says even the hired servants have plenty of food to eat it's a

  297. self-preservation choice you know at glance it doesn't seem like there's a

  298. genuine form of repentance here the young man is literally staring at rotten

  299. food and he's wanting to take the pigs food and they have it for himself but he

  300. can't it's always like well I'll just go home because the servants have better

  301. than what I have and sometimes as we talk about a win being a win you know

  302. someone may not respond exactly the way you think they should your attitude in

  303. your heart may not be exactly where you think it should be in these moments but

  304. we need to be reminded that the understanding of coming back to our

  305. father for whatever reason is good and beneficial and we should celebrate over

  306. those things you know when I first got saved when I gave my life to Christ it

  307. was not because I woke up one day and I realized all of a sudden how amazing

  308. God was and how much I loved him and how much I owed him and I didn't fully

  309. understand what Jesus did on the cross for me like that didn't it didn't

  310. compute at that time but I can tell you what did happen I said about three rows

  311. back and I can remember feeling extremely convicted I began to

  312. understand that there was sin in my life and I began to understand that there was

  313. this place called heaven and hell and as I began to contemplate that the weight

  314. became crushing and I remember understanding that at some point I've

  315. got to deal with this I've got to get to the point where I'm not going to hell

  316. anymore and my decision to follow Christ and ask Jesus into my heart was not

  317. because I love Jesus I'm sad to say that's not the reason why I gave my

  318. heart to Christ I gave my heart to Christ and asked him to forgive me of my sins

  319. because I was afraid of going to hell and I wanted to go to heaven it was an

  320. eternal self-preservation choice and it wasn't pretty in fact I didn't tell

  321. anybody about it for a while I didn't know how to verbalize it didn't know

  322. how to talk about it didn't really even have this great testimony you know a

  323. lot of times people say well you know my testimony is not very strong and

  324. and we you know you hear about all these other people and the amazing things that

  325. God did in their life and you know it's like I was a sinner I most certainly was

  326. a sinner I had plenty of sin in my life but compared to some of my friends and

  327. other people I hung out with and things they were doing I'd never been

  328. to jail I'd never done drugs I never drank never used tobacco products you

  329. know like from the outside looking in I was a pretty well-to-do kid but I

  330. had all the stuff in my heart that was sin and separated me from God and made

  331. me black through and through just like anyone else and when I came to God and I

  332. gave my heart to him it was not pretty but it was right in that moment the way

  333. that God was speaking to me and revealing to me I understood I needed to

  334. come to him for what I couldn't provide for myself and that was peace and

  335. freedom and salvation eternal life through time the love of Christ and the

  336. appreciation of what he did on the cross for me and the feeling of the Holy

  337. Spirit and the desire to serve him and the willingness to sacrifice for him all

  338. those things came in time but they most certainly were not there on day one

  339. that makes sense but a win is a win and for you sitting here this morning

  340. whether it's you personally you may not feel everything that everyone else is

  341. talking about you may not understand what everyone else is talking about or

  342. understand everything I'm talking about but there's something in your heart

  343. where you know it's like I need to give my life to Christ I don't

  344. understand I don't know why but I just know I need to and we need to be

  345. obedient in that and for you who are praying for other people and you're

  346. interceding on other people's behalf you may have this mindset of man I just

  347. hope one day they come back or they get saved or they you know God

  348. miraculously does this thing and it's gonna be beautiful it's gonna be this

  349. great celebration and the truth is as chances are it's not gonna be this

  350. like miraculous great celebration moment that God's gonna do stuff and

  351. God's gonna bring them back and they may not say everything you want them to say

  352. the person that you're praying for may have hurt you in ways that you could

  353. never explain and they may never come back and say man I'm sorry for what I

  354. did to you because this son doesn't say it he never says daddy I'm sorry for

  355. what I did to you he just says I've sinned against heaven and you let me be

  356. a hired servant he did his little rehearsed speech it was selfish

  357. ambition self-preservation but make no mistake about it that sometimes God

  358. allows us to get to places where we make choices and we choose God and we

  359. choose to repent based off of the understanding that what I'm doing is

  360. not working and I need to do something different and so a win is a win they may

  361. not say or do everything you the way that you think they should but trust and

  362. believe in God that God is working and moving in their lives and put it in his

  363. hands and point number three is is that even if they don't do everything you

  364. think they should if they don't have the right attitude they don't have the

  365. right understanding point number three is God doesn't care in this story the

  366. father in this story he is God and what's amazing is you look as the son is

  367. returning home there are four things that the father does before the son ever has

  368. an opportunity to speak the son he speaks eventually but the father runs to

  369. him he meets him on the road the father embraced him and the father kissed him

  370. before the son ever spoke a word it didn't matter why the son was home it

  371. didn't matter what brought him there it didn't matter how bad he smelled what he

  372. was dressed in what he had been doing none of that matter the father did not

  373. care the father was ecstatic that the son just came home so that he could

  374. shower him with his love and his protection and his providence for him

  375. and a lot of times as believers you know we have this attitude of the older

  376. brother which we'll talk a little bit more about next week but we have a

  377. hard time accepting I wonder if they're really genuine I wonder if they're if

  378. they really mean this they truly understand what they've done or how

  379. they've heard us or how they've heard our family or blah blah blah but the

  380. truth is is that it's not about us if we're interceding for someone for their

  381. spiritual welfare it has nothing to do with what they've done with us or how

  382. they've heard us or someone else it's all about whether or not they're going

  383. to come back and give their lives and surrender to God because if they reach

  384. that point then everything else will work itself out in time but the father

  385. did not care the father was very much ready to receive his son and we can't be

  386. tempted to say well you know since God welcomed him back and didn't really

  387. let him speak it's like do you did the son really have to say it like do we

  388. really have to can fit do we really have to say what we're sorry for or how

  389. we've made a mistake and I say absolutely yes because in the parable the

  390. son says it the father welcomed him the father kissed him the father met him on

  391. the way but the son still said what he had rehearsed to say it may not have

  392. been exactly what he should have said but he said it I want to challenge you

  393. this morning as believers there needs to be something in us as believers to where

  394. we verbally express what God is doing in our hearts and lives we need to say it

  395. out loud as long as it's here it'll never become reality until it is

  396. expressed for other people to see and to hear and you know this there are

  397. things in your life I'm sure you've had thoughts before you're like man if

  398. somebody knew what I thought just then they'd bury me under the jail you ever

  399. have that moment where it's like you got something on your mind you feel a

  400. certain way and you know like justified or not it's not right and you can't say

  401. it out loud or you shouldn't say it out loud but when it comes to your

  402. relationship with your heavenly father when it comes to the person that you're

  403. praying for there needs to be a moment where you verbally express what's

  404. going on I truly believe every Christian at some point in time should say what God

  405. is doing in their life whether you testify about how God saved you or what

  406. God is currently doing in your life that is a necessity for us as believers

  407. because it doesn't really come to reality until we express it verbally

  408. because seeing the look on people's faces when you say something says

  409. everything right I'm a verbal audible thinker I do this will hand I do this

  410. with the staff I you know and I'll say don't judge me on this like like just

  411. tell me what you think about this is what I'm thinking because I need to know

  412. whether or not this is really stupid or this is like somewhat plausible most of

  413. time it's stupid and I can see it from the looks on their faces for us as

  414. believers a lot of times when we say things people's look and their response

  415. to you will say everything for instance if you say something spiritual if you

  416. talk about how God saved you to somebody who's not a believer or doesn't feel

  417. you everything you need to know for somebody who generally genuinely loves

  418. the Lord and who is very concerned about your spiritual life if you tell them

  419. something God's doing in your life they will celebrate with you more than anyone

  420. else in the world they'll be as happy as you are about saying it out loud

  421. brings it to reality in first John chapter 1 verse 9 it says but if we

    1 John 1:9

  422. confess our sins to him he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to

  423. cleanse us from all wickedness this young man returns home he may not say

  424. exactly what we think he should say he may not fully acknowledge like the

  425. extent of what he's done or how he's hurt or all that he's cost this family

  426. because now that he's come home he's bringing strife in the family now the

  427. brother's mad as soon as he gets home it's the issue is still going you

  428. remember last week we talked about how sin brings about hard con or hard

  429. situations and circumstances it's not over his choices are still following him

  430. even though he's returned and he's come home and the father is welcoming him in

  431. they're still dealing with the baggage of his decisions but we have to

  432. remember that a wins a win just because you give your heart and life to

  433. Christ does not mean that the baggage is gonna be over like that or the person

  434. that you're praying for interceding for that you love so much and you want to

  435. see them brought to Christ does not mean the baggage is gonna be gone like that

  436. but remember that the father who is God was excited that the son came home he

  437. was excited to see him he embraced him he welcomed him in he identified him as a

  438. son by putting the robe on him by putting the ring on him and he threw the party

  439. because he was ecstatic that the son who was lost has now been found it didn't

  440. happen the way it should have happened it didn't happen this ideal beautiful way

  441. but God was excited that we returned that's the story we'll read a passage to

  442. you from Zephaniah chapter 3 before we end the day it says for the Lord your God

    Zephaniah 3 chapter mention

  443. is living among you he is a mighty Savior he will take delight in you with

  444. gladness with his love he will calm all your fears he will rejoice over you with

  445. joyful songs and in verse 18 it changes to where God is speaking in quotations I

  446. will gather you who mourn for the appointed festivals you will be disgraced

  447. no more and I will deal severely with all who have oppressed you I will save

  448. the weak and helpless ones I will bring together those who were chased away I

  449. will give glory and fame to my former exiles wherever they have been mocked

  450. and shamed on that day I will gather you together and bring you home again I

  451. will give you a good name a name of distinction among all the nations of the

  452. earth as I restore your fortunes before their very eyes I the Lord have spoken

  453. and as you look at the Lord speaking to the people of Israel a people that he

  454. has chose to punish and sin and exile because of their sins because they

  455. deviated away from him and his laws and he punished them he says look I want to

  456. bring you back I want you to come home I want to restore you and not only do I

  457. want to restore you from what you were before I want to make you even better

  458. than what you were before and so if you're sitting here this morning and

  459. you're the person who's deviated away and life has not turned out how you

  460. wanted it to turn out and your decisions and your choices and the consequences have

  461. not been what you thought they would be and life hasn't been pretty I just want

  462. to remind you a win's a win that you have a Heavenly Father who's willing to

  463. accept you back and bring you back in not to just be a hired servant but to

  464. be a part of his family even though you may have squandered everything and

  465. thrown it all away God still wants to bring us back to be a part of his family

  466. not just a servant if or anybody that you're praying for anybody that you're

  467. interceding on their behalf for know that God loves them God cares for them

  468. and it may get worse before it gets better but if we entrust them to God we

  469. can believe and have faith one day that God will bring them home because that's

  470. exactly where he wants them to be let's pray father thank you so much for the

  471. opportunity to be here today to read your word Lord to just contemplate the

  472. amount of love and effort and all the many things that you've given us Lord

  473. is just unthinkable of all you've gone through to make sure that we could

  474. return back to you and Lord there's many paths that we have before our lives

  475. many choices but the path to you is the one that we need so Lord I pray that

  476. you would lead us back to you Lord bring us home bring us into your arms

  477. bring us into your care bring us into your comfort and Lord I pray that in

  478. time not only us but the other people we're praying for as well other people

  479. we want to see brought to you that they would not only come to you because

  480. life stinks or it hasn't turned out the way they thought it should but they'll

  481. come back to you and when they fully realize how much you truly love us and

  482. all that you've done for us and all that you're absolutely worthy of Jesus we

  483. love you and we thank you so much and we ask it all in your precious and holy

  484. name amen