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Prodigal Son: Be Humble and Rejoice

Graham Chapel Wesleyan Church

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  1. Well, Father God, we are so thankful to be here this morning for the opportunity to worship

  2. you and sing out your praises.

  3. And Lord, while we come and we celebrate and we rejoice, we realize there are some heavy

  4. hearts and a lot of heavy stuff going on in our lives throughout the week.

  5. And Jesus, we are just reminded that you are the only one who is able.

  6. No matter how much we try, no matter how much effort we put forth, no matter what we're

  7. willing to sacrifice, there's just some things that we cannot do.

  8. We just don't have the strength and the power within us to see things through.

  9. But you are faithful and you're the only one who could plan something even before it all

  10. existed.

  11. Before you created the world, before men fell into sin, Lord, you had a purpose and a plan.

  12. And throughout the thousands of years of this world in existence and people being born

  13. and dying, God, you have remained and you have sustained.

  14. And you are the one who came to purchase our freedom and give us a way to find ourselves

  15. back in your arms.

  16. Only you can do that.

  17. And so God, as we cannot control just various situations and circumstances that are a limited

  18. amount of time here on earth, Jesus, we put our trust and faith in you who is able

  19. to span millennials.

  20. God, you were able to move thousands of years, set a plan in place from the creation of

  21. the world and see it through to the very end.

  22. Only you can do that.

  23. So God, we put our trust and faith in you this morning.

  24. As we come to worship, I pray that we would do that.

  25. I pray we would surrender our hearts to you, that we would humble ourselves before you

  26. and God that there wouldn't be anything that we would close off or hold back.

  27. God help us to be humble and open this morning and let your Holy Spirit in and to change

  28. us into who you want us to be.

  29. And Father, as we gather to worship, we pray for our brothers and sisters who aren't able

  30. to be here.

  31. We ask that you would touch them.

  32. I pray specifically for Mr. Ted this morning and again, Lord, with many tests and many

  33. health issues, Lord, I just pray that you would touch his body.

  34. God, be with the ones who's had surgeries and different moments that they're continuing

  35. to heal from and God, just be with them.

  36. And Lord, as we celebrate the independence of our country this coming week, Lord, we're

  37. just very thankful and blessed to be a part of this nation.

  38. When we think about the entire world that we live in and the fact that all of us were

  39. just born here and the amazing privilege of just being able to come to church this morning

  40. in freedom, and the only worries and cares were what we were going to wear, whether

  41. or not we were going to be there on time, what's going to be for lunch afterward, God,

  42. there are people who are meeting in churches today who are going to be doing it, risking

  43. their lives, hiding, doing it in secret, and Father, we are very blessed and we thank

  44. you so much.

  45. So thankful for the men and women who've died so that we could do what we're doing

  46. here today and live in this great country that we get to live in.

  47. We thank you for that.

  48. Father, as we give ourselves to you this morning, we pray that you would speak to our

  49. hearts and most of all, that you would help us to be at a point where we are willing to

  50. surrender and give ourselves completely to you, but we love you.

  51. We thank you and we ask all this in Jesus precious and holy name and all God's people

  52. said. Amen.

  53. You may be seated.

  54. Feel free to stand up at any time and I'll be more than happy to let you share.

  55. One of the things that I love about Graham is that it's always been a place where

  56. people can feel free to give testimony and praise to the Lord and what the God's

  57. doing in their life.

  58. And it's so much more important that the people in the congregation hear what God is

  59. doing in your life and how he's working and moving in you and through you than it is

  60. for them to hear about how he's doing it in my life and me talking about it all the

  61. time. Because let's be honest, I get paid to do this, but you don't.

  62. So it means a lot more coming from you than it does from me.

  63. But we're in week three and our last week talking about the prodigal son.

  64. And today's sermon is titled Be Humble and Rejoice.

  65. And so we have this very unique situation where we have this older son who

  66. just kind of gets stuck in this unfortunate situation that his younger brother has

  67. created. And then at the end of the passage, we see this older brother

  68. really struggles with how he's going to handle this great opportunity.

  69. You know, we love the prodigal son.

  70. Every one of us identifies greatly with this story because we're all the younger

  71. son, right? I mean, like we, if you truly have been saved, if you truly

  72. understand what it means to give your heart and life to Jesus Christ, to feel

  73. the weight and the burden of your sins on yourself and to take that to Christ

  74. and ask him to forgive you of those sins and to receive salvation and forgiveness

  75. of sins, it is a wonderful gift that you cannot even put into words, but

  76. you just have to experience it for yourself in that moment to know how

  77. amazingly powerful and meaningful it is.

  78. And so when we read this story and we look at this younger son coming home

  79. and he comes back and he says, Father, I'm not worthy to be your son.

  80. I've sinned against heaven.

  81. I've sinned against you.

  82. I'm not even worthy to be called your son.

  83. Just take me on as a hired servant.

  84. That was his rehearsed speech that he was going to give.

  85. It's this amazing moment that we all identify with because if you truly are

  86. saved, you know that you come into this relationship with God, understanding

  87. this massive debt that you owe Christ, that you can never repay.

  88. Because there's nothing you can do to buy forgiveness of sin.

  89. There's nothing that you can do to buy eternal life.

  90. You can't earn it.

  91. You can't attain it.

  92. It's all just a wonderful, amazing, free gift out of grace and mercy from

  93. Jesus Christ and you cannot fathom and explain what that means.

  94. So we identify with this younger son and then the older brother is kind

  95. of this, this, this weird one.

  96. It's like this conundrum of the story that we have to deal with this

  97. beautiful story and in the midst of every beautiful story, there's always

  98. a little bit of ugliness, right?

  99. I mean, like there's this ugly thing that we have to deal with and a lot

  100. of times we don't know what to do with it.

  101. So we're going to read this today for the sake of time.

  102. I had planned for us to read the entire passage again, but let's

  103. read verse 25 through 32.

  104. Let's do that.

  105. I don't know if Matthew can, can find that, put it up on the screen,

  106. but that'll be what I read.

  107. So in verse 25, it says, meanwhile, the older brother was still in the

  108. fields working when he returned home, he heard music and dancing in

  109. the house and he asked one of the servants what was going on.

  110. Your brother is back.

  111. He was told, and your father has killed the fat and calf.

  112. We are celebrating because of his safe return.

  113. The older brother was angry and wouldn't go in.

  114. His father came out and begged him.

  115. But he replied, all these years of slave for you and ever once refused to do a

  116. single thing you told me to.

  117. And in all that time, you never gave me even one young goat for a feast with my

  118. friends. Yet when the son of yours comes back after squandering your money on

  119. prostitutes, you celebrate by killing the fat and calf.

  120. His father said to him, look, dear son, you've always stayed by me.

  121. Everything I have is yours.

  122. We had to celebrate this happy day for your brother was dead and has come back

  123. to life. He was lost, but now he is found.

  124. And so we have this awesome story that so many of us identify with with this

  125. younger brother, this lost one, even though he's annoying and he's created

  126. this terrible situation for the family.

  127. But there's just something magical and amazing to know that no matter what we

  128. do, what we've done that we can always come back and be accepted and welcome

  129. back in. It's a great and amazing comfort to have to know that we can return

  130. back to the father and that's what the father desires.

  131. So this morning as we talk, I want to share this passage with you.

  132. For those of you who are number one are very serious about your relationships

  133. with the Lord. It means something to you.

  134. Number two is that those of you who have been serving the Lord for quite a while

  135. and those of you who are getting to the point where you've been serving the

  136. Lord for a while, because if we're not careful, what happens is is eventually

  137. we get to the point where we no longer identify as much with the younger

  138. son and we begin to identify a little more with the older brother.

  139. And we don't intentionally do that, but it happens as time goes on and we're

  140. going to talk a little bit about that this morning.

  141. So point number one is, is that the unfaithful son was celebrated and that's

  142. something that you need to see in this.

  143. And so as people, this is typically one of the things that a lot of people

  144. have a difficult time dealing with when you look at Christianity is the

  145. fact that someone could do something terrible.

  146. I mean, you know, from what we read in scripture, from what we believe about

  147. our Savior is that you could kill someone.

  148. I mean, you could abuse a child. You could leave, you could abandon your child.

  149. You could do all these terrible things and we could list still, lie, you know,

  150. whatever. And there's different things that affect people in different ways

  151. and might be a little more triggering for some of you than others.

  152. But a person could do like some of the most horrible things on earth

  153. and still come to know Jesus as Lord and Savior and be forgiven and receive eternal life.

  154. People have a hard time with that.

  155. And especially like people who are out in the world,

  156. because there's this sense of justice that we have as people of we feel like,

  157. well, if you do certain things, then you deserve this and you don't deserve this and blah, blah, blah.

  158. But we have to be very careful that as we serve the Lord in our life,

  159. that the longer we go living for God and being a part of the church and working in the church

  160. and serving in that way, serving other people, serving God, that we don't come to this point

  161. where we have this attitude of having a difficult time when we see unfaithful

  162. or undeserving people being celebrated or elevated, because that's hard.

  163. And if we're not careful, we can get to that point as believers.

  164. And for various reasons, whether you've been a victim of something that someone has done

  165. and you have a hard time of understanding, how can God forgive them for what they did to me,

  166. because we haven't healed from it or moved past it or whatever.

  167. To understand that we serve a heavenly Father whose greatest desire is for us to return to Him,

  168. He wants to love us, He wants to restore us, He wants to take what has been broken

  169. and make it right. And as long as we're on the receiving end of that,

  170. like I can guarantee you, there's people in this room right now who are like,

  171. man, if people knew this one thing that I did or these several things that I did,

  172. they would probably want to bury me under the jail, like I'm so ashamed of this.

  173. And it's very comforting for us as an individual to be able to come to our heavenly Father

  174. and to be received and welcomed and have that robe and that ring put on

  175. and not just welcomed back in, because you remember what the son said.

  176. He said, I'm not worthy to be your son, take me on as a hired servant.

  177. He didn't feel worthy to come back home and to take his place as a son. He said,

  178. I'll just be a hired servant because it's better than what I've created for myself.

  179. But the Father puts the robe on him, puts the ring on him, kills the fat and calf,

  180. welcomes him home, identifies him as a son. Now it doesn't change a lot of the circumstances

  181. we're going to talk about a little bit, but the Father receives him back and claims

  182. him as part of the family, despite all the stupidity that he's done over the past several

  183. months, years, whatever. We find great comfort in knowing that we can come back to God,

  184. but sometimes we have a difficult time understanding how God can forgive other people because we

  185. don't understand their sins or why they did something or the fact that they did it to us.

  186. And so this idea of our justice, this innate justice that we have, we have to be very careful.

  187. As people, because we also have sin innate within us. And so there are certain qualities

  188. that God's given us as people that are very natural, like the sense of wanting justice,

  189. but because of our sin nature, like a lot of the things that God requires and wants of us

  190. get skewed because of sin nature. And so then we become biased and we prioritize certain sins

  191. over others. And we say, well, this is worse or this is worse. And we have to be really careful in

  192. that. And so you have this unfaithful son who is celebrated, and it may not seem very justified

  193. to many people of the world, but for us as believers, we have to be really careful

  194. and remember that we serve a heavenly father, that it's all his. And that every single person

  195. that's in this world is his. And if he wants to forgive them, if he wants to welcome them back in,

  196. then he has every right ability and authority to do that, whether or not we understand it,

  197. because they're his. And have you ever been around a kid and the kid just be awful?

  198. And you're just like, whose kid is that?

  199. And only their mom and daddy would claim them like nobody else would. It's like, thank God they have

  200. a mom and a daddy because nobody else would love them. Like, you know, and it's kind of that

  201. situation. There's a lot of people in this world. I have to be really careful when I go out

  202. because it's very easy, even as a pastor, as a Christian for 20 years, it's very easy to go

  203. out and for whatever reason, a certain person or a particular person will say or do something

  204. and it aggravates the snot out of me. And it immediately makes me want to like form judgments

  205. and it's like, just like, man, I would love to just be able to, you know, a lot of times it's

  206. like, I wish I could just like ram this person and get away with it. You know, it's like stuff

  207. like that. But we have to be really careful because as Christians, even we can be very hard

  208. towards other people and just remembering that this is a child of God. And while nobody else

  209. on this earth may love them, God very much loves them. God very much created them. God

  210. very much has a plan and a purpose for life and a desire to bring them back to fellowship

  211. with him. And so while they may be unfaithful, while they may be undeserving, and even though

  212. they may be elevated or celebrated, we need to be okay with that because this is exactly

  213. what God wants. The younger son did not deserve to be elevated or celebrated, but he was because

  214. God chose to do that. Remember, the father represents God. It's hard to say that you're

  215. a Christian and that you're a follower of Christ and argue with what God wants to be done.

  216. And that's one of the things that we will battle as you mature in your walk with Christ

  217. and you serve God in the years to come. One of the things that you will battle won't be

  218. sins of the flesh or sins of the world or sins of the youth of all the old things you used to do.

  219. It will be simple things like battling God's will versus your will, especially as you get older

  220. and you can make decisions and you feel like you're wiser than you used to be. And we fall

  221. into this trap of maybe we know better rather than seeking God. We will always battle against

  222. God's will because we don't fully understand God's will. And what God is doing over here

  223. in Brian's life and how God's speaking to him, Kevin may have absolutely no idea.

  224. And it doesn't mean that Kevin's not spiritually mature or he's not walking with Christ,

  225. but God is so much bigger than we are. He's doing so much more than we understand or can

  226. comprehend. And so being okay with his will and his plan and his purpose and what he's doing

  227. is a huge part of being a believer. Point number two is the faithful son was uncelebrated.

  228. You have the unfaithful celebrated, the faithful uncelebrated, which is hard too.

  229. And a lot of times what you'll find is that people as people proceed in their relationship

  230. with Christ, as they begin to serve, we begin to have this kind of like attitude and thought process

  231. of man, like, what am I going to get out of this? Man, is this all worth it? I've had those thoughts.

  232. Even as a pastor, I'm like, man, is this worth it? Like, is what I'm having to deal with right

  233. now? Is this going to be worth it in the end? Like we all have those thoughts and those questions.

  234. You know, even the disciples asked Jesus, Jesus, we've given up our houses and families to follow

  235. after you. What will we get in return? And you look at this uncelebrated brother,

  236. look at the attitude of his heart. Look at what he says to his father. Now he,

  237. and the father represents God, so he's saying this to God.

  238. Can you imagine having the audacity to stand before God one day

  239. and to just point your finger at him and just say, all these years.

  240. Like how, you know, it's like one thing to say, like, you know, look at your mom and dad and

  241. say to her someone else and say all these years, but to like, to picture yourself standing before

  242. God on judgment day and pointing your finger at him, it sounds pretty like that feels dirty.

  243. You say all these years, he's been keeping score this whole time.

  244. And if you're not careful as you walk in fellowship with Christ,

  245. hopefully your life will be all these years, right? How many of you want to live

  246. a lot of years from now? So hopefully it will be serving him all these years.

  247. Okay, that's a blessing. And so, so you look at God, he's keeping score. He's got all these years.

  248. And look at the second thing he says in the sentence, I slaved for you.

  249. I did all this stuff for you. And I did it because you forced me to. That's what slavery is.

  250. I slave for you. I served you against my will in bondage. So there's the attitude like being just

  251. slowly revealed in this. He's keeping time. He's, he's, he's, he's punching in his cards every day.

  252. He's keeping up with how many, how long you served him. He's slave for him. And then he says,

  253. never once refused. Of all the things the father asked him to do, he never once refused

  254. what you told me to do. You told me to do all these things. I did everything you told me to.

  255. I never refused. So he's keeping score. He's keeping tallies. And then the fifth thing he

  256. says is all that time. And so there's the time thing coming back into play. Time is valuable,

  257. right? Time is super valuable. And I say this all the time to Christians.

  258. So many American Christians like get all caught up on, on like things like tithing and money,

  259. because that's like a big issue. Let me tell you something. The hardest thing you're going to

  260. have to choose to give to the Lord is your time. You can make money. You can make more money. You

  261. can't get more time. When you give it away, it's a finite resource. It is very limited. And

  262. the older you get, the less time you have, and the less you have, the more valuable it becomes.

  263. And as you serve God, one of the greatest things he will require of you is time. There's a reason

  264. why this son mentions it twice. He's like, all these years and all that time I did this for

  265. you. And if you're not careful, you'll find yourself as a believer and you'll be looking at

  266. God and it's like, why do I have to do all this stuff? Why do I have to spend so much time? Why

  267. do I have to be at church? Why do I have to do this? There's all these questions of God,

  268. why? Why am I having to do all this stuff? And the sixth thing he says is, you never gave me.

  269. You gave my sorry brother over there, the unfaithful one, you gave him the fattened calf

  270. and celebrated his stupidity, but you never gave me, and he even dumbs it down, a young goat.

  271. You have the fattened calf, the young goat. I don't know if any of you's ever had goat before.

  272. There's a big difference between the two. The fattened calf gets chewed up and swallowed,

  273. tastes very nice. Goat's tough. It's like chewing on beef jerky that's a couple years old.

  274. You never gave me a goat. And the last one, the eighth thing he says is, for a feast with my friends.

  275. And that reveals everything about this older brother's heart. He didn't care to celebrate

  276. and feast with his father. He wanted to celebrate and feast with his friends.

  277. It was all about what he didn't get. And so he's serving the father out of obligation. He's serving

  278. the father out of duty. He's serving the father because it's the right thing to do. But there

  279. was no desire. There was no urgency in his life to do it because he loved the father and he

  280. enjoyed being with the father. And if we're not careful, we'll fall into this trap of trying

  281. to be a Christian and just doing it because it's the right thing to do. And we'll do all

  282. these things and we'll do it underneath our own strength. And let me tell you, if you're doing

  283. this under your own strength and you're doing it because it's the right thing to do, you are going

  284. to be tired and exhausted and you're going to resent everything about Christianity and your

  285. relationship with the father. And you're going to feel like you've sacrificed and you've done

  286. all this stuff and you've worked so hard and he owes you all this stuff because of all the stuff

  287. that you've done. And the truth is being a Christian like that is not Christianity at all.

  288. It's a false sense that Satan wants you to fall into that you can do this on your own

  289. and you can work at it and then you can receive salvation because of all this stuff you do.

  290. When in reality, Jesus ascended to heaven so that we could have the Holy Spirit and be filled

  291. with the Holy Spirit and then the Holy Spirit empowers us to be obedient and to do all these

  292. things. And there's a very different aspect of Christianity when you're living it filled with

  293. the Spirit versus when you're living it trying to do it underneath your own strength. This is why

  294. you see people who claim to be Christians doing it under their own strength. They're tired,

  295. they're miserable, they're bitter. They're not loving or merciful towards other people.

  296. They look at other people who are living in sin, they say, why can't you just do it?

  297. Why can't you just get it right? Why can't you just not sin? Why can't you just go to church?

  298. Why can't you just read your Bible? But people who live in the Spirit, they're amazing to be around.

  299. They don't live in sin, they go to church, they do everything that God's called them to do

  300. and they're so happy to do it. Why? Because they're not having to try to do it.

  301. The Lord is leading them to do it through the power of the Spirit and there's great joy and happiness

  302. and peace in the midst of that that other people will never experience because they don't know what

  303. it's like. In one sense of Christianity following God looks like slavery, like the older brother.

  304. In another sense of Christianity, it looks like this is the best thing I ever had in my life

  305. and it's so much better than anything I ever chose for myself. And as Paul said, everything I had

  306. to give up for Christ, it's all garbage because what I get from Jesus is so much better than anything I

  307. ever had before. There's total difference in attitude in that. And so as a believer,

  308. I just want to remind you this morning that as you serve Christ, it's very important to remind

  309. ourselves as we serve Him, number one, we need to be living through the power of the Spirit.

  310. We cannot do this on our own. And then as we live through the Spirit,

  311. that your reward is not of this world. Don't fall into this trap of thinking like,

  312. because I serve Jesus here and now, that I should be rewarded here and now. When you

  313. read scripture and you look at what Jesus said, the reward is in eternity. The reward is heavenly

  314. and thank God it's in eternity and it's heavenly because then the reward lasts forever. Anything

  315. that you receive in this world is temporary and it fades and you're going to leave it here and

  316. you can't take it with you. And we may want blessings and the Lord may bless you in certain

  317. ways, the Lord may bless others in certain ways, but that's not your reward. What Christ has

  318. promised you for serving Him comes in the world to come in eternal life. The other thing is that

  319. your reward for being faithful, it's not immediate. You know, you look at this older brother, it

  320. wasn't like he was unrewarded. Everything that the brother was coming home to, it was actually the

  321. older brothers. The father was still alive. The father still pulled rank, but remember,

  322. the father had already divided up the estate. It was actually the older brothers. Everything

  323. that was left belonged to the older brother. We're not going to be instantly gratified.

  324. The other thing is you're not going to understand everything the father does.

  325. You're going to look around at some days and you're going to see other people being rewarded

  326. or other people being elevated and you're going to be like, what am I doing wrong? How is this

  327. person being celebrated, elevated? How is this person getting a promotion? How is this person,

  328. like how does this person have people listening to them and they're a buffoon? And I'm over here

  329. doing everything, putting everything I got into it, man, like what's going on?

  330. We don't always understand what the father is doing and why he's doing it.

  331. And we've got to be okay with that. Part of serving Christ is being okay with just

  332. trusting God and not truly knowing everything that he's doing, but just having faith and

  333. walking with him. It's not our responsibility to keep score and divvy out justice. That's

  334. the father's responsibility. When you look at this older brother,

  335. he felt like he should be in charge of the way this younger brother was treated.

  336. But the younger brother belongs to the father

  337. and the father gets to choose how he's going to be treated and what's going to be done to him.

  338. Point number three, last one. As a Christian, it's so important for us to celebrate with joy.

  339. When you look at other people and when they receive things, when they're celebrated,

  340. elevated, or blessed with something, it's so important for us as believers

  341. to have that attitude in our heart, to celebrate for them and with them,

  342. and to not be jealous or angry because of what they're getting and what we haven't got.

  343. That's what you see in the story. I mean, this is 10 commandments coveting 101. The older brother

  344. is angry because he's done everything right from a worldly perspective and the younger

  345. brother's done nothing right. The brother gets celebrated and has this party thrown for him,

  346. but the older brother didn't. And he's looking at what the younger brother got and he's coveting

  347. what was being done. And as a believer this morning, it's so important for us not to fall

  348. into this trap of coveting what God is doing in someone else's life versus what God wants to do,

  349. or maybe isn't doing, or what may God may want to do later on in your life to not

  350. covet it in the moment. And that's really difficult.

  351. You know, when we're walking in fellowship with Christ and we're filled with the Spirit,

  352. we're not going to be keeping score. You're not going to be keeping time, you're not going to be

  353. keeping score with others, and you're not going to be doing things begrudgingly. And when you're

  354. filled with the Spirit and you see God working and moving in other people's lives, the Spirit

  355. will prompt you to be happy and to celebrate with them. Will there be other people in this world

  356. who are going to be elevated and celebrated that don't deserve it? Absolutely. And remember

  357. that in this life it may be the only reward that they ever get.

  358. God may be blessing people in this life because they don't know Him, they don't follow Him,

  359. and they're not going to have an eternal life. This will be the best life they ever know.

  360. But your reward is to come. You know, raising kids is very eye-opening, very interesting.

  361. And so our six-year-old, four-year-old, and two-year-old, we have a super fun time

  362. of trying to be fair. And it's amazing at how six, four, and two, they're already,

  363. they have the mindset of, well, that's not fair. Okay? This is, I mean, I want you to think of this

  364. as a Christian, how funny this is, that as adults, we have these same conversations and feelings that

  365. a six-year-old, a four-year-old, and a two-year-old do. Even they think this way. You know, when we,

  366. around the house in everyday life, like my wife and I, you know, we have a finite amount of

  367. resources. And even though, like, let's say, for example, a pack of peanuts, something as simple

  368. as a pack of peanuts, we may only have one pack of peanuts left, but we have three kids.

  369. And so they either have to share, or two of them have to not want them for one person to get the

  370. whole pack. And so you're trying to be like, okay, you got them, but you got to be willing to share.

  371. And we can go get more peanuts, but we just don't have them at the moment. So you try to

  372. handle it in a fair way. And I was like, well, that's not fair. I asked for them first. Why

  373. can't I get the peanuts? And those are the conversations that two, four, and six-year-olds

  374. have already. And if we're not careful as believers, what we'll do is we'll catch ourselves.

  375. Looking around at the people around us and associating this worldly understanding that

  376. we have of resources and applying that to our heavenly father. Like, okay, we have a finite

  377. amount of peanuts right now, but we can go get more. And then you have as many dang peanuts

  378. as you want. Just stop crying. But when you look at God, God gives to us from an

  379. infinite amount of resources. You know, sometimes we just need to remind ourselves what we believe

  380. about the God that we say that we believe in, and to understand that God is infinite,

  381. that there's nothing that he can't like, even if it doesn't exist, like we serve a God who can

  382. speak it into being. And so when you look at someone who is being elevated or celebrated,

  383. or they receive a blessing, or they get something that you see them have, and you want

  384. that, or you feel like you deserve it more than them, it's not like that person has cheated you

  385. out of something that God now has, sorry, Brian, no more, so you don't get no peanuts today.

  386. He's mad. But we serve a God who can bless and give and create infinitely from an infinite

  387. amount of resources. And so the simple fact that we would ever look at someone and what they get

  388. or how they're celebrated, or elevated, or given something, and covet it and desire it,

  389. and want to take it away from them, reveals something that's drastically wrong in our hearts.

  390. That we would want to take it from them, and then apply it to ourselves, because we feel like

  391. we deserve it more, even though God chose to give it to them. And that's a dangerous place to be.

  392. But to remind ourselves that we serve a God, it's like God, you know, that person got that house,

  393. or that piece of land, or that person got that car, that person got, they got a kid and I didn't,

  394. it's like, dude, we serve a God who took a hundred and something year old man,

  395. a hundred and something year old woman, and gave them a child.

  396. Like, did the impossible.

  397. And it's not a common thing, but it's possible. And so whatever you feel like you've been cheated

  398. out of, remind yourself this morning, you serve a God who can do anything. And if it's his will

  399. for you to have it, or experience it, he can very much make that happen. But the question is,

  400. is when you look at how you walk in your relationship with God and how much you're

  401. filled with the spirit, are you willing to celebrate with joy at how God is working and

  402. moving in other people's lives and what he's blessing them with? And are you okay with it

  403. if you never received that or experienced that even in your own life?

  404. Because truthfully, if you're serving Christ out of your own ability,

  405. you're going to struggle greatly with that. But if you're serving Christ through the spirit,

  406. the spirit will give you everything within you that you need to celebrate with everyone else

  407. with joy. And so the understanding of being humble and rejoicing should speak to every single

  408. person who loves Jesus Christ this morning to say, God, I just, I want to serve you.

  409. And you look at this son who said, you never gave me a goat to have a feast with my friends.

  410. It was never about having a feast with someone else. The older son had the greatest privilege

  411. of all. He got to live and dwell with the father. He got to live life with the father.

  412. While the other son ran away and didn't have all that time with the father, the older son

  413. got to live and walk in fellowship with the father. That's the true reward. And until we

  414. get to that point where we realize that the father is the true reward, the fellowship,

  415. the access, just being in his presence, that's the true reward. We'll always have a miserable

  416. relationship with Christ. We'll always feel like he owes us more than what he's given us,

  417. or that we should, we're keeping tally, we're keeping score. But loving God and being filled

  418. with his spirit and understanding he is the reward. He in itself, he's the reward. That's

  419. where we should be as Christians. Let's pray together. Father, thank you so much for this

  420. day and this opportunity to be here. Lord, I'm so grateful for the people who shared.

  421. Thank you for speaking on their hearts this morning, and Lord, just giving them the strength

  422. and courage to stand up and do that for the youth who shared, for the adults who shared.

  423. Lord, just thank you. And Lord, as we take this passage and as we leave here today,

  424. I pray that you would speak into our hearts and remind us that Lord, it's not always about

  425. us and what we can receive that when we chose to follow you a long time ago,

  426. we had the attitude of this younger son who said, I'm not worthy to be yours,

  427. just take me on as a hired servant and I'll be okay with that.

  428. Lord, help us not to fall into this trap of being like the older son who says,

  429. I deserve more and I'm jealous of what someone else is getting.

  430. Jesus, help us to just love you and just enjoy being in your presence. We thank you,

  431. we love you and we ask all this in your precious name. Amen.