Sermon
A Kettle Or A Cauldron? - Bro Nathanael Howell 5-10-2026
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Amen, I'm certainly glad to be here this morning. How
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about you?
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Amen, Brother Caleb, would you mind to get a mic
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my brother and help me read a cotext this morning.
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Amen.
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Praise God. Happy Mother's Day, Amen to you all. Amen,
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truly Amen, it's a wonderful Amen. An awesome responsibility.
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Amen. I appreciate what brother Jesse just said. Amen.
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I appreciate what brother Phillips said, what brother Caleb said,
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and what brother Jonathan said.
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Amen.
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How about that? Amen, your children? You know your children
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are direct representation of who you are.
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Amen.
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Old bed Amen became amen known in that village Amen
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as a amen, a representation of what his mother, no
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doubt was. The community named that little baby and said,
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he's got a mother that's proved she's a servant, and
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we just kind of got a suspicion.
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Amen, he's gonna have a heart like hers. Amen.
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Ain't that wonderful? Amen, I'm so thankful to be here.
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We miss our pastor and pastor's wife. We know they're
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on a Amen, on a mission for the King.
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Amen. It's to pray for them. Amen.
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We certainly miss Amen our amen spiritual father and mother.
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This morning.
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Amen, I counted a privilege to be here to preach
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this morning.
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Amen.
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I thank you for being here. I thank you for
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taking time out of your busy day.
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Amen.
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Praise God to honor the words of the Lord. Amen,
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and gathering his house.
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Amen. I thank my pastor for this opportunity. Amen. I
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have it taken it lightly, but with much study and prayer. Amen.
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I've prepared this. Amen. I thank you for your giving. Amen.
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May the Lord richly bless you.
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We're gonna be looking at Genesis chapter number twenty seven
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this morning.
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Amen.
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Brother Caleb, would you find Proverbs fourteen and verse number one,
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Proverbs fourteen and verse number one, and Brother Jesse, First
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Kings seventeen and verse number twelve. Amen, First King seventeen
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and verse number twelve.
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Amen. Again, Beloved, we'll be in Genesis twenty seven. Amen.
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Praise God, and we're gonna look over there. Amen.
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Before I get started, I want to say, Amen, I
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love you deeply, Mom, Amen, more than you will ever know.
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Amen.
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I know the colors of the rainbow because of her.
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I know how to write my name because of her.
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Amen. I know. Amen. How y'all may not believe.
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This, Amen, because there's a time she probably would have
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thought it never happened. I know how to brush my
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hair because of Mom.
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Amen.
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I had a crazy amen set, a hair different than
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all my brothers. Amen. And thank God for Mom. She
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knew how to tame the main amen iran in her family.
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Amen.
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So she helped me learn to control them this and Amen,
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I'm no longer an asparagus as what they called me.
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Amen.
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I was long, and I was tall and skinny, and
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just Aveen had my crown up there.
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Amen, it was a big old afro.
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Amen.
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I've grown them. Amen. I you may not believe it,
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but I've had them. Amen.
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They'll stand all the way around, want their brother Philip. Amen,
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it's it's it's a it's a madhouse up there.
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Amen.
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But I thank God for her and thank God for
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everything she's done.
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Amen.
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I know the words of this precious Bible and mean
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because of my mother and her perseverance.
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Amen.
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I can still see that social study story. Amen, I
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can still a've been remembered sitting on that couch, Amen,
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being told read that, Mom, I don't know how to
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read that. Read that, and I end up getting I
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think I end up getting five well deserved spankings because
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I had already read it six times, Amen.
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But I was telling mom I didn't know how to
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do it. Amen. Something by the mom. Sometimes they see
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right through you. Amen.
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They know you're telling them a feb Amen. And then Amen,
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you put them through that, and they've got to be
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the one to deal with you, amen, because they know.
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Amen, you know what you're doing. Amen.
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And I sitting there amen, acting like I didn't know
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how to read.
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I couldn't read. You know what I wanted. I just
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wanted her to sit down beside me and do the
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work for me. Amen.
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But a good mother amen, teaches their children amen, how
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to do their part.
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Amen. I thank God for that, all right, belove it well.
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Actually, brother, brother Caleb, read Proverbs fourteen and verse number one.
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If you would, brother, every wise woman do to her house,
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put the foolish plucketh it down with her hands.
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Amen. The Lord had laid this verse of scripture on
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my heart.
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Amen. I enjoyed hearing those little ones quoted this morning.
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Every wise woman without exception. If she is a wise woman, Amen,
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she's aboring to build her house. Amen, Brother Jesse, first King,
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chapter number seventeen, verse number twelve. And she said, as
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the Lord thy God liveth I have not a cake,
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but an handful of meal, and a barrel and a
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little oil in a cruise. And behold, I am gathering
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two sticks that I may go in and dress it
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for me and my son, that we may eat it
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and die. Amen, all right, beloved, Genesis twenty seven. We're
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gonna read six through ten this morning, and then skip
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down a little bit and read some more. Genesis twenty
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seven and verse number six, and Rebecca spake unto Jacob,
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her son, saying, behold, I heard thy father speak unto Esaul,
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thy brother, saying bring me venison and make me savory
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meat that I may eat and bless thee before the Lord.
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That I may eat and bless thee before the Lord
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before my death. Now, therefore, my son, obey my voice
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according to that which I command. Go now to the
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flock and fetch me from thence two good kids of
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the goats, and I will make them savory meat for
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my father, such as he loveth. I mean for thy father,
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such as he loveth, And thou shalt bring it to
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thy father that he may eat and that he may
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bless thee before his death. And then looking at verses
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number fourteen, and he went and fetched and brought them
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to his mother. And his mother made savory meat, such
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as his father loved. And Rebecca took goodly raymond of
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her eldest son, Esau, which were with her in the house,
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and put them on Jacob, her younger son. And she
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put the skins of the kids of the goats upon
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his hands and upon the smooth of his neck. And
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she gave the savory meat and the bread which she
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had prepared unto the hand of her son Jacob. And
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he came unto his father and said, my father. And
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he said, here am I who art thou, my son?
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And Jacob said unto his father, I am Esaul, thy
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first born. I have done according as the O badest me. Arise,
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I pray thee sit in need of my venison, that
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thy soul may bless me. Man, if you would stress
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your hands toward Heaven, ask God to help us this morning. Lord,
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thank you for you many blessings God, for each one
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that's here. Lord, We thank you God for Lord, all
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that you've done to bring us. Lord into your house
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this morning. We beseech your Lord, let your will be done. God,
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set a guard about my mouth. Let me say nothing
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more and nothing less than you would have me. God,
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grant the petitions Lord of each mother that is here.
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God, Lord, hear the voice God.
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In prayer, God, we ask you a naught the minister
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bond every yoke, every bond, God, and through your anainting God,
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let them be broken, and we'll give you the glory,
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the honor and the praise. In Jesus Holy Holy Name,
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Praise God in the church said Amen and Amen. Now
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we're all probably vaguely familiar, and some would be very
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very familiar with what we just read here, and and
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very familiar with the bloodline and the lineage. And you
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study this out, and it's a very important thing that's
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about to happen here. If Isaac is going to bless
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one of the sons a man, it's very significant a man,
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it's very very powerful, and it's something we see that
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was handed down generally to the first born. We all
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know of how Jacob would purchase the birth right and
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this blessing from Esau for a pot a man, a
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little ball of red pottage, and a man. Esau was
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a was a very different kind of man than Jacob was.
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He was he was an outdoorsman, and Jacob more so
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was a was a little bit of a homebody. Amen.
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He hung around Mama, really close to Mama, from what
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we gather. And Rebecca she was she was bearing from
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many many years, and for a long time she did
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not bear children. And upon the because of the intercession
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of her husband, a man, she conceived and she bear
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these twins here.
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Amen, they were twins Isaac. Amen. Praise God was the
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father and Rebecca was their mother. Amen. Praise God.
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And God begin to work in their lives. And when
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they were born, Amen, Praise God. Rebecca carried the knowledge
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that God had already said.
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Amen, Jacob was going to be the greater of the two. Amen.
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This was something that was not the usual.
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It was not typical, Amen, that the younger brother would
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succeed in authority the older brother.
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Amen. So Rebecca was given this knowledge.
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And sometimes we're given knowledge and God tells us something
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and it requires great wisdom on how to use that knowledge.
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And really and truly, when you.
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Look at this, it doesn't at the end of the today,
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it doesn't seem like it was a great use of
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the knowledge. It doesn't seem like it really promoted in
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Rebecca's life the bond that they needed in the family.
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But rather there is clear favoritism throughout the life of
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Rebecca and Jacob. And he saw she chose Jacob, and
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it was definitely a protective motherly instinct that we see
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here beg begins to act. And she knew God had
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said God was gonna bless Jacob, and he was going
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to succeed his brother in power and authority and wealth,
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and he was gonna be Amen. Almost you could say
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the figurehead of the family. Now, the figurehead of the
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family carried Amen. The promised God had given unto Abraham. Amen,
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the figurehead of the family would have been the one Amen,
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Praise God that would have obtained the blessing that had
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been handed down from handed down from Abraham to Isaac.
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And this was a huge deal, Amen, just as it
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would be this morning. If God promised one of you, Amen,
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that your seed would be Amen, numbered as the stars
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and the Amen in the sky, and that you would
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be blessed abundantly, and those that blessed you, Amen, God
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would take care of. And those Amen that cursed you,
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God on the Amen would take care of as well. Amen,
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But not for their benefits. So Rebecca here gets involved
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in this situation. Now, I don't really find Rebecca to
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be and I know you're going to bear with me.
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This morning, it's a little different.
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I prayed and prayed and asked God if there was
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a different direction.
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Amen, But I couldn't get away from this. Amen.
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Rebecca doesn't necessarily represent.
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That poster Amen, mother to me. Amen.
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There's many mothers throughout the Bible that we find, Amen,
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that represent motherhood maybe a little bit better because of
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what she done here, Amen, because of the way she
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handled this situation. And Isaac reaches this ripe old age
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and his vision is beginning to fail him. He can't
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see clearly, and Rebecca knows this. She's very aware, aware
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of his limitations. As he has helped meet Rebecca would
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have been the one familiar with his struggles, familiar with.
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What he battled, familiar with how he fault and Amen.
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Even in the day's age, even the mother, the wife
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oftentimes is familiar with their weaknesses. She's familiar with their struggles.
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She's familiar with what bothers them. She's familiar with what
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bothers Dad and Amen, what she's familiar with all the buttons. Amen,
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she can push you've heard that all you're pushing my buttons.
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If there's anyone that knows what dads are going through,
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it's mama. If there's anyone he's gonna talk to, it's mama.
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Amember.
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There's a lot of people beginning to use those things divisively.
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They begin to use those things for their benefit. And
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Rebecca begin to realize in this moment, I can deceive him, Amen,
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I can alter his perception of reality.
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Amen. And Mama, you gotta be careful.
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Amen.
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When you know what daddy's going through, when you know
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what he's been fighting, when you know what he's up against,
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that you're very careful to use even the knowledge God
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has given you, Amen, to affect him to bring about
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your desires. A man, there's many mothers in this building,
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if not all of them, Amen, show us great Amen,
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selflessness and men their arts they been consumed by self Amen.
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Been Rebecca, I mean, I don't necessarily believe she did
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it for her, but she thought she was looking out
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for the best interests of the family. She thought she
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was doing it. They mean that her children might be benefited.
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Amen.
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But when you begin to meddle with he ay man,
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us stick your hands in the plans of God. You've
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gotten to be careful, aymen, when you do it without prayer,
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when you do it without consulting God, and you meddle
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with his plans instead of talking to God about it
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and saying, Lord just said you were going to bless
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Jacob the man, instead of talking to God and saying, Lord,
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I know that was you that told me it was
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your will to do this, they man, she began to
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do it her way.
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Amen.
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As his vision fails, she realizes, Amen, there's a window
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of opportunity Amen, that is opened here.
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Amen. Praise God. In his eyes, it contemplates his end.
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And then one day he decided it was time to
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pass on that blessing to his first born, to pass
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it down the Esau.
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Now, I believe firmly.
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Amen, Isaac would have known, Amen, what he saw and
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Jacob did, Amen, and how that Esau had sold his
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right Amen to this blessing. I believe firmly, Amen, that
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Rebecca talked with him and told him about her encounter
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with God.
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And Amen.
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So maybe you could say there's a little bit of
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fault on both sides, because aymen, Isaac, even despite this Amen,
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begins to go ahead and move forward with his plans
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as well.
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Amen.
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But it should never be that way at the home
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or at the house, that each one is jockey in
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for their way and jockeying for their position and jockeying
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for control.
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Amen.
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But many houses, Amen, you think the children? Amen, come
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through it, okay. When Mama wants her way and Daddy
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wants his man, Praise God, what you end up with,
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it's bitter babies. Because Mama learned she can pit the
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kids against dad. Amen, and Dad learned, ay, Man, he
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can pit the daughter against the sana and.
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Causing up roaring the house.
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A man that begins to distract themen and cause they
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men people to lose their focus on water is important.
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The men here everywhere would have they been Ben Bestius,
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if they too would have got together and had a conversation.
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And sometimes a conversation conpicts a world of problems, theymen.
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But as long as you ain't willing to go talk
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with Isaac Rebecca and tell him of what's going on,
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you got you could keep trying to bring about it.
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They been bringing about your way. They matter. Watch God
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work your way and watch God move.
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Then your way, but sometimes you just gotta let God
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they have his way.
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I mean, I you men have known some children.
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I mean, I'm not beating no mother over the head
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this morning.
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I don't know how any of you what your home
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life is.
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But I can stand here honestly, and if you were
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in my shoes, you would have to too and say,
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there's such a thing as a good mom and a
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bad mom, and there is equally such a thing as
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a bad dad and a good dad.
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Amen.
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So amen, pardon me. I'm not trying to harp on
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the women. But it's Mother's day.
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Amen.
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And I'll preach to myself, amen, while I preach to you,
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because Isaac was equally responsible here.
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Amen.
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But if you expect me to act like and pretend
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there ain't children in this world that's been affected, Amen,
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because mom and dad didn't learn how to get a
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long day, man, then you're asking the wrong to tell
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you the wrong lie, because I know and I've witnessed
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theymen my friends come to me and talk to me,
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and men, those bushed children talk to me about how
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they men. Mom and dad had gotten a spat that morning,
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and that's why they didn't have a belt on.
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He they men and Mam and Dad had been getting into.
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It that night, and that's why they have darker They
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man spots under their eyes.
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And one of them come home. They men come to
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church with the white socca.
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They man praise God in the black soccer because things
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wasn't going well at home. A man, I praise God
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into the between ay men and Mama trying to the
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men get the upper hand on Daddy and Daddy trying
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to They men praise God, but little Mama with the
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people that suffered were the children, and Jacob and Esau
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suffered because of what happened on this little occasion that
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were reading Genesis chapter number twenty seven, and me and
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Rebecca God involved, and God's a rocket that she began
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to try to take control of the situation. Now, I
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know you tell me he needed that blessing and he
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needed that prayer. But I remind you of Jesus and
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man when he was talking to some critical people, he
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set up these little storms. I am able to raise
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up seed under Abraham. God didn't need the prayer of
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Isaaca to bring about the fulfillment of his promise. So
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he didn't need the prayer of Isaaca and then to
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bless Jacob extremely and abundantly. May man, I tell you
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what had happened this morning. If God wanted to, a
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man could come out of this pool patter. That was
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the exact DNA. They been replica of Abraham. If God
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so wanted it, you don't how to get involved.
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They been. Let God do it.
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You know what we are. We're a representation of that scripture.
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Rocks are the lowest of the low. They're borderline useless.
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So were we gentiles in the eyes of the Hebrews.
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And now to this Amen and Amen, grafted in in
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that family tree. Amen, at that Abrahamic covenant. Amen, Praise God.
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Now there's a little old Nathaniel in label that says
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I could cling to the same promise Jacob did. Amen,
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And I can tell you Amen, Mom and Daddy. Amen,
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just take it to God in prayer and watch him
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work it out.
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Amen, for your good. Amen.
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Rebecca heard when Isaac spake to Esau, his son and
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I Esau went to the field to hunt for venison
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and to bring it.
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Amen.
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Now, Rebecca, as I said, had chosen a favorite of
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these two boys.
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She'd made him a little bit of a mama's boy.
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Maybe so to speak, and we all know of what
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all that could entail, Amen, And how you gotta be
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careful there, so I'm gonna leave it alone. Amen. Now
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we know Isaac, no doubt a man knew of what
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God had shared.
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Amen.
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Praise God. But the issue was here. And then Rebecca
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hears his conversation with the saw and Amen. She immediately
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turns the kitchen Amen into the staging grounds for amen
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operation Amen, Praise God, deceitful delectables, Amen, Praise God. She decides,
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I know what he likes to eat, I know what
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he wants, I know what he's after. Amen, and I'm
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gonna get it my way. I'm gonna go ahead and
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get involved in this. And Amen. Coming home from the
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hospital the other day, asking God what I should preach
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and begging him for a minut message from heaven.
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Amen.
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What the Lord gave me Amen was a cattle or
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a cauldron.
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Amen.
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And we all know amen, of the mystical amen things
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around the cauldron.
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Amen.
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How that is often the amen shown as Praise God.
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That witch's pot.
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Amen.
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But unfortunately Rebecca Amen begins to cook up something that
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wasn't gonna be beneficial to her family. Amen, she begins
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to cook up something.
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Amen.
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That the end result wasn't gonna be family unity. It
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wasn't gonna be a stronger bond here.
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Amen.
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Yes, it was gonna be pleasing and delectable means extremely
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pleasing to the taste.
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Amen. He was gonna enjoy it. Amen. Isaac was gonna
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enjoy what he ate. Amen.
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And there are many who work in the shadows today, Amen,
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to bring about their desired outcome.
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There are many mothers.
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Amen. That lunchtime Amen is their time to plot and connive,
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and their time to program and control.
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Amen.
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That should not be And I don't think it is
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this morning, Amen, But I've just got to preach this text.
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Amen.
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All that I find in this text I feel applies
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a man to me. As I begin, Amen, Praise God.
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I'm a man four years into parenting, and I don't
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claim to be Amen.
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Praise God. The specimen of fatherhood.
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And you can sit there and say, Amen, how can
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a twenty seven year old preach to me about motherhood?
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But that's a great question. Amen.
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How can you tell me what a good cheeseburger is?
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You've never been one?
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Right? How can you tell me.
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That airplane pilot that landed you on that airstrip was
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a bad one.
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You've never been one. How you do is you buy
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what you see and you know.
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And because of my mother, I can stand here this
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morning and tell you I know what a mother should be.
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Amen.
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I know what a good cheese burger tastes like, because
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that's my favorite.
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Thing to eat. But I've never been a cow.
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I've never moved, and I have a grass amen, and
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I'm not proud of it.
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Amen. Praise God.
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But I've sprinkled my rice with dirt amen, because it
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made me cooler.
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Amen. Praise God. So I thought, and I hated grinding it. Amen.
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But this morning, let me try to talk to you.
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I'm not trying to beat you over the head or
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act like a know it all. But the word of
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God is the answer, Amen. It is the foundation which
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we build on. So this morning, if I see something here, amen,
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I'm gonna tell you exactly what God talked to me about.
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Amen. So she turned her kitchen into ground zero. Amen. Hey,
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praise God.
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As they they begin to battle, she begins to battle
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to maintain control, Rebecca, device, is this plan that involves manipulation?
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Amen?
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God has never required you, amen, to connipe or manipulpulate,
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or scheme to bring about his promises.
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I'll say it again.
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God has never required a father or a mother, Amen,
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to be behind the scenes conniving and scheming on how Amen,
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they can make it happen, because what happens generally is
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they push them off a little farther, they run them
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off a little farther. I mean, we don't find where
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the prodigal's mother, Amen, was meling biscuits up. Remember, she
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let him know there's gonna be more when you get home.
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Amen.
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And when you begin to try to manipulate, and you
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begin to try to they men control the hand of God.
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They man, you're gonna end up with grave consequences. And
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she told him, now, therefore, my son, obey my voice
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according to that which I command thee.
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Amen. She gives him a direct order. Amen. And Jacob
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is known as us a planner.
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We all look for Amen, with a frown upon our face,
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down at Jacob for all that he done. Even ain't
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says Amen. He's a little bit of the conniver. He's
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a little bit of a deceiver, theymen. But who was
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in his a corner? Who chose to be his mentor
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Rebecca did. And the very thing that I say, I
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despise Jacober the most over her. It was Mama that
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drafted up the playbooker and put the plan in motion.
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They man, let me tell your.
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Friend, your counsel has a direct outcomer on those little
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children's lives. The men, the way you talk to them
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has a direct outcomer on the kind of life.
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They will leave her and leading for years.
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Jacob bought with this or who lived away from his family.
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He couldn't go harm because his brother wanted him dead.
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Theymen in the very water. They meant that Rebecca tried her.
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They mean to do something to benefit her. Now live
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with the scars. Because Mama commanded him. She put him
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up to it. She told him what to do. Oh Mama,
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take it to prayer, and don't get in bold. Don't
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try to do it your way. Don't try to do
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it your mama's way. If there wasn't a good end result,
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don't try to do it your daddy's way, if he
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didn't have a.
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Good end, Do it God's way.
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Sue Mark three and twenty five said, and if a
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house be divided against itself, that house cannot stand if
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a house, and if a house be divided against itself,
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kind of sounds like Mama against dad, and dad against mama.
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And in turn, now this sibling amends against this sibling
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and that parent, and that parentom that siblings against this
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sibling and that parent and man, and it ends up
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being a quagmile, something that's hard to get out of.
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And in the divided home, the divided plan, they men,
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moms are working against dad, and they me in the
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same vice versa, Dad is.
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Working against mom.
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And I've heard of those dysfunctional homes where the men
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mom wants to be the favorite and dad wants to
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be the funnest and Amen.
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So what they do is theymen so they can be
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the favorite. Amen.
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When Daddy's already said no, they say yes. And when
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Mama's already said don't do that, Dad says yes, she can.
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All because they want that sibling to come or that
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child to come to them and ask them for the
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them in the favor, ask them for the money, or
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ask them for this, and they begin to build that
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commanderie Amen, in praise God.
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In the family.
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They're shouldn't necessarily the camaderie, they men, There should be
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community they men when you I'm not saying you can't
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unit together for one cause, they men. But when you military,
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theymen militarize the family unit.
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Aymen, and you all going to battle against one another,
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they man, You're gonna find yourself struggling. You know the time.
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The kinds of family.
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I'm talking to you about her, I'm not talking to
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you about yours.
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Maybe not, but you all honestly know. They man, and
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you've seen the outcome of that child.
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They men that didn't know how to conduct themselves, The
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men of that They men, that kid that didn't know
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what no meant they meen, and so the end of
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her in the correctional facilities. And the government has to
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teach them what no means, and the lawyer has to
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teach them what no means, and the judge has to
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teach them what no means they mean, because they they
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men started a battle in the hall. The kitchen was
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ground zero. They were cooking up something, God that they
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shouldn't have been. They sold to the wind and they
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reaped the world around. Oh God, what's on the stove, Mama?
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What's on the stove? Daddy? What do you have on
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the grill? I mean what have you been making? What
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have you been brewing? Is there a store? Isn't brewing
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in the kitchen? There shouldn't be, Rebecca. You should let
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God have his way. If you can't rule the house,
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would you ruin the home? I'll ask you again. If
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you can't rule the house, would you ruin the home
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at the cost of your children? Do you want control?
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Shoot?
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I know this is this is different territory, because I mean,
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everybody's claws come out.
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Oh he's trying to put me down this morning. I'm not.
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The truth is Rebecca drastically affected her children because of
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a bad choice.
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One bad choice.
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It was all it took, and Esau hated Jacob, and
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Jacob ran for his life scared. I know I'm against
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you this morning. Apparently you think I'm gonna ask you again? Anyways,
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if you can't rule the house, would you ruin the home?
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I wonder what's on the stove, Rebecca? A plan to
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get your way? And then what's that cooking?
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Friend? And then what's that smell?
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And man, in many homes, it's a potion of rebellion
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and stubbornness.
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Aymen, in many homes, it's a potion.
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Amen in the Bible said that rebellion and stubbornness was
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as witchcraft.
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Amen. And this is the cauldron in the family unit. Amen.
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This is what happens when we began to brew it
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our way and do it our way my God.
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Amen. I'll ask you this morning. Don't brew it your way. Amen. Amen.
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Could I get an amen? Praise God. Don't brew it
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your way, Amen, do it God's way. They been, Mama.
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Don't get in the kitchen and try to they been.
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Praise God. Alter the mindset of the kids, and they've
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been how they feel about dad and Oh God. And
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I know there's a you could say, there's a little
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bit of a gray area here.
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Amen.
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So those of you that aymen, are not in this
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situation and don't have a safe spiritual head. Amen, you
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bear with me because I'd like to preach for you.
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They've been for a little while this morning, but I
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gotta get there theymen. So this morning I'm talking to
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me and my wife and aymen, all of you young parents.
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Amen. I don't know how your mama did it, Amember.
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If it was her choice, amen, and she chose to
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divide the home instead of bringing together, if she chose
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to cook something that split the siblings. If she chose
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by her attitude, they mean to show she didn't like
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her what dad had said that day.
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Oh God, you're asking for calamity.
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Oh God, you're asking for a suren's stomach in the
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lives of your children. You're asking for something to go south.
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Because it's don't be you on the receiving in one
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day when you taught them how to powder and throw
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a fitter women in church what they need to do.
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It'll be you that deals with her women that child
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treating you the same way the men. They'll look at
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you and say, Mama, you don't even know what's been
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on the stove. You don't even know what's been in
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my heart. When I saw are you and Daddy are
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hollering at one another. You don't even know what started brewing.
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When I saw they've been running, you go in the bedroom.
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I slammed the door. You don't even know what's started cooking.
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Abody preaching to you this morning? They man, let me
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tell your friend, be careful what guy, aymen of nutrients
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you bring in the horror, for they all grow something
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in the heart of your CHILDN I command you go
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do that against that child's good conscience. They didn't want
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to it. You told them they have to, and you
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knew it was wrong. Jacob says, I don't want to
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do it. I don't want no part of it, and
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Mama says, you better. I'm telling you to. I'm telling
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you gonna tell Daddy, I wanted McDonald's. I know that
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simple and silly this morning, but if plant seeds, Mama
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wanted that new refresher from McDonald's. So she tells little
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so and so, you gonna tell him I wanted a McChicken. Shoot,
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y'all gonna help me preach this morning for a little
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while longer. You better be be careful, Rebecca, and man,
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what you're putting in the cattle, you better be careful because.
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He'll turn into a Cardrina. Where you brew up something
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that wrecks Yeah, Harma, you have the power to do it.
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Mama.
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You have the power to do it. Daddy, you have
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the power to wrecking or to building. You have the
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power to destroyed or make something out of it. What
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will you do with the lives of your check?
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Will it be a cauldred or a kettle where good
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thanks are brewed? Who you gonna You're gonna listen to
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me this morning? Who is it a person of rebellion
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and stubbornness when a mama thinks she'll lose her self
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worth if she lets Dad be the leader God made
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him to be. Who they sent a cauldron and then
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praise God.
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It's a pot.
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Praise God that's used for and been portraying that which
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a witch uses to make her concoction.
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What's in your kitchen? If you're a Christian, it's a kettle?
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Whoo, my God, that mother the chrodigal son had a
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kettle over stole the brewing up something that was gonna
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be good.
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For the family, that was gonna make that son wanna
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come home. Oh God, what kind of environmental are you creats?
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My God?
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What kind of environmental or you created? If he leaves
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her hormor Willie roll to come back? He didn't come
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back with the heart from the Father, nor the ring
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from him or the coda. He came horror because of
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the environment mother created.
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Because of what smells were coming out of the kitchen,
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had whoo problems. Twenties and seventeen.
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That bread up the seat is sweet to a man,
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but afterwards his mouth shall be filled with gravel.
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It matters what we're cooking. Isaac ate his feel. But
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at the end he was grinding gravel and spitting nails.
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He tore it up.
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He ate to his heart, was satisfied, brother Philip, But
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he didn't realize the deceitful motives of Mama.
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Shoot, he didn't realize.
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And then what Rebecca had brought, and then from memory
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with her and then well maybe not memory, but they
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meant her family come from up that way. And then
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I wonder what she brought back. The man was her brother.
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We see how we treated Jacob. I'll tell you what
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was happening. There was a problem in the house of Nahore.
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There was a problem. Because it's more than a coincidence
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that Mama knew how to deceive and so did Leban.
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It's more than a coincidence. That was Rebecca's am in Moda.
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Praise God. What happened, Rachel? When you stole those idols?
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What you do? What was your go to move? It
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was the sef shad, Mama, it was the sef Shad.
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I'm telling you, I smell something, a bruin that ought
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not to be and the kischen, Oh, Rachel, what are
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you gonna do, oh, Rebecca or Lebada, are you gonna
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get rid of that nature to tell daddy it ain't soa.
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I didn't know that.
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And the kids know your Dianna, and the family knows
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your Dianna. They all watched to do it.
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My daddy was a worker.
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And you lie between your teeth and say it ain't soa.
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My god, let me tell you what that's a making of.
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They been praise, got a whirlwind for you, a man
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that's bringing problems for you. When that little daughter watched
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you do it, and daddy gets home and asks what
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happened here?
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She said, I didn't do that.
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That daughter knew, brother Samuel, she did do it, and
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she watched that mother ballface lied to that that father
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bred up the seat. It was pleasing to it in
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the moment. Oh, they didn't do it. I feel much
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better now.
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They give it.
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Fifteen years when you asked that daughter, did you sneak
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out of the house?
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No, I did not give it. Fifteen years when you
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asked that little boy man, what were you doing on
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your phone?
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Oh? I was listening to Jason Crabs sing, Were you
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well where you picked that up? Le man?
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Amen? At the house of Ahore. Aymen, let me tell
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you where you got it down there from memory down
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there by mac Peela. Amen, you brought some things home
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with you, My God, that's what Rebecca did. She should
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have left that trade at the house. She should have
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left that trade. They been down there, and they been
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in the country of her. They been near King's men.
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They man, I'll tell you what happens to a Christian.
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They men when they get.
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Good and bona fide saved women, sank the Biden, holy
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ghost fielder, those trades getting left. They men praise God
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back where they came from her, and they're new creatures
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in Christ. Jesus and Daddy don't have to worry about her.
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The programming that's going on while he's earning bread. They men,
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Dad don't have to worry about her.
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The men.
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The conversation's happening at the kitchen or they men praise
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God around lunchtime because mama's got a kettle on the
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stove that'll make every backslittle lost love water we want
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to come home that takes other good things of God.
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I'll tell you what's happening around Bethel.
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I man, there's been a kettle brew and thank God,
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are calling h those backsliders that know it's good at
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mama's house, it's good at Daddy's house. And he's offering
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them about the bread of life. What about you this morning?
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Do you know it's better, heymen, in mama's house? Then
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why are you trying Mama's way? You're done with your
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cauldron this morning? Your child knows it's better at mama's house.
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I gotta hurry, man, I'm trying to hurry this morning.
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Every atom looks for his eve. But what about it? Eve?
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What about it? Mother of humanity? Is it a kettle?
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Or is it a cauldron? By one man sin entered
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into the world. Now, let me read you Adam's explanation.
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And the man said, the woman who thou gave us
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to me? Amen, thou gave us to be with me.
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She gave me up the tree and I did eat.
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What about it? Mother of the home? What are you
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going to feed them?
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I think we got some mothers in here this morning,
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and then that's only interested in giving them the goodness
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of God?
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Amen? I know this is true a man, But what
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about it? Amen? Mother of humanity? Should you have made
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that meal? Amen? It was a cauldron, a potion of
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toxic concoction. Amen, Praise God, a potion of toxic creation. Amen.
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And it costs Amen. The splendors of the garden of Eden. Amen,
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was cast by one bite Amen, from a man and
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from a woman. Amen.
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And here and this praise God text that we find
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ourselves in our golden text. And mean, all it took
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was one bad move from Rebecca. Amen, one thing that
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she did wrong. And Amen, she might have been the Amen,
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the praise God, the absolute specimen of a mother up
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until this point.
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Amen.
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And this is the thing we see so many parents
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do well. And then right at the end, and I'm
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preaching to myself here I said I would. I mean,
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I could have done good for four years.
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And I mean, if I make a bad move, my
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daughter's getting old enough, she's gonna remember it. Amen, She's
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gonna know that kid. Amen remembers all kinds of stuff. Amen.
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She remembers what Mimi quoted.
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Amen, what Mimi said about the Amen, not wanting to
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eat each other, spitting the praise God of the fellowship
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haul at a baby shower, and she's in there telling
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the kids Amen. Her other sister there's Amen. All right,
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let's pray. Amen, And now remember we don't want to
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eat your spit. I mean, you don't think she's gonna
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remember if I fly off the handle, she will. You
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don't think she's gonna remember if I lie to my
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wife after she watched me do something, that little girl's
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gonna remember and she's gonna try it out.
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Oh that worked, that got them out of trouble.
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They feel the tension in the home and they feel
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it when you lie to get away from it.
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So you don't think they'll try it.
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I mean, we've all been given the ability, and I'm
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trying to get to the end here, we've all been
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given the ability to create an environment conduce. So for
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healthy families, Amen, and for healthy family growth.
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Amen.
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So what are we gonna do with it? I mean
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we should be the defenders on the front lines of
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our homes.
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Amen.
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Proverbs fourteen and verse number one, one of our kole
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TECs said, every wise woman buildeth her house, but the
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foolish plucketh it down with her hands.
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Now I talk to you a little bit about that
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young man, Amen, in that far country. Amen.
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In what he began to realize was when Mama made biscuits,
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she made plenty.
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Amen.
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When Mama cooked pork chops, there was gonna be a
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pork chop left over for me. An hour later, when
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I got a craven, he said, there's plenty, there's enough,
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and despair. Amen, Mama's got something in the cupboard.
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Amen. And I'm smelling it from the far country.
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Old to God, that they'd be smelling it from the
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far country, old at God, that they'd be catching whiffs
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of the goodness of God in your life.
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From the far country. I'm telling you they are. They
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see the joy in your life. They see that smile
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and that expression. Amen, and it tells them, Amen, they're
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still bred. Amen.
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In the father's house. Amen, I want to talk to you,
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and I'm gonna get out of the way here. I'm
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gonna talk to you just for a minute. First King,
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chapter number seventeen, we find this account talked to a
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different Amen. Praise God, some mothers this morning, just for
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a minute, a man, Praise God. Abraham Lincoln was quoted
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as saying, all that I am and ever will be,
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I owe him my darling mother. A mother shaped him.
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Adolf Hitler's mother was Clara Hitler. She died of cancer.
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Brother Philip when he was around eighteen, They say, amen.
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They said it devastated that young man because in that
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home Dad was a very angry and brash man. And
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they said the counterbalance to Dad was Miss Clara, Miss
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Clara Hitler. They said she was known as a very affectionate,
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a very soft woman. And when she died, they said
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old Adolph took it terribly. She died when he was
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about eighteen, so he lost life itself for him about eighteen.
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What would have happened if Clara would have stayed around.
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I believe history would have been wrote differently, I really do.
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What would happen, mom, if you stayed around? I believe
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we'd see some changes in some lives. What would happen
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if you have been despite how haggard and warned you are,
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you gave it your dead level best to make sure
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they know who, Amen Jesus is What would happen if
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you held on a little bit longer? Would that menace
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of society never be known as a menace? I believe
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it's possible. You don't know the impact of a mother,
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Amn Praise God. A godly influence in that child's life
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could change history itself. First King, Chapter number seventeen and twelve,
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we find a widow preparing to cook her last meal.
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We all know of the selfless nature of a mother.
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I don't see a robust mother with a lot of strength,
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spry with a pepper and her step. I see an old,
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haggard amen, a mother who's been eating less and less
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to make sure he had something.
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I see a mother that's only drink a little bit
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of water to make sure she had enough for him.
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And she's finally reached the end of her strength. She
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goes out there and gets her two little sticks. It's
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one little last meal, but she's still gonna be mom.
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And I don't know how you feel this morning. I
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don't know what the picture of your spiritual home looks like.
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If you're that haggard mom that's been hanging all, you've
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been doing your dead level best because that spiritual figure
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in your life is not there. God knows where you're at.
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All He's asked of you is make sure you've got
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something in the kettle.
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Sure.
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I know it's been a long, hard road, but all
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God's asked of you is to make sure you're given
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your best.
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Head of Oh God.
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How easy it would have been for this widow woman
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to been a better mother, to abandon that child and
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left it alone. But down to the last grain and
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the barrel, she's still mom. Oh God, it wasn't to
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the mother of six kids, Praise God. To the mother
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of twelve kids with a daddy that wasn't. Amen, praise
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God absent like this, God sent the man of God
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to the one who needed it. And this morning, God
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has sent me to talk to you. And Man, it
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matters what you're cooking in that home. It matters that
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environment you're generating. And it should always be an environment
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centered around Jesus. It should always be an environment centered
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around love and care and kindness. And it gets hard, Amen,
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when you're going it alone.
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Here is a book today.
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On this Mother's day. God saw you with your meager
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fair God saw you with your struggles and care. Oh Godes,
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she was your empty barrel, barely making ends meet, but
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still being mom.
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And to the rebeccas Amen. The memoir of the Saints
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of God is rather to be chosen the memoir on
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your tombstone. It would be better to say that was
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a mom that told me of Jesus. Then the mom
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that told me Man go to the red box. Amen,
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I can't deal with you right now. Yeah, go to
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the TV. I got time for you right now. I
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know it's a long rude.
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Oh God, God's mindful of us this morning. God sees
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you and knows your pain. God is mindful of you.
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He mean, could we stand all over the house this morning.
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In closing, we have to consider the negative impact of
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one decision by a mother. Rebecca's name means well fed,
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and she seems to be the polar in the opposite
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of this widow woman and one well fed, with everything
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she needed and all life had to offer, made bad choices.
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But on the other hand, God saw that mama with
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the kettle on the stove, saw that mama do it
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or dead level best to provide and be there for
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that child. God sent a man of God to tell
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him it's gonna be okay. I'm gonna feat you. I
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don't know where you're at this morning or where you fall,
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but we agreed mutually that there is a good mother
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and a bad mother, and at the center of every
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good mother's being.
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It's Jesus. No great love hath Man than this. You
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can't love right.
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Till you have him. You can't feel right till you
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have him. You can't even discipline right until you have him,
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Brother Jesse. Would y'all come around, Brother Philip, I'd like
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you to sing that song again. Every Wise woman buildeth
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her house, but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands.
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This Mother's day we reminisce on the good times. But
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before we choose a pattern, we should consider the outcome.
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How was that home life? And how was that home environment?
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I dare say there is hardly a young boy in
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scripture a man whose mother'sly love was represented more greatly
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than by this widow woman. Someone barely doing it, someone
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barely making it, but despite all her lack and man,
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she still gave it her best. And I caution you mothers,
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amen and myself alike, take it to God before you
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get involved.
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Amen.
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As they saying, is there someone this morning that like
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to come pray? Someone this morning that lack to acknowledge? Amen?
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They want and men God to help them.
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The Redeemer.
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I can't help you this morning, man, but I know.
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He'll be your father and friends for her.
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He'd be a husband unto you.
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And if you think, and let's come pray this morn
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God's mindful of each one of us. Who's talking to
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us this morning? Oh God, I knew him.
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Man, what's on the scale?
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Friend?
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What do you offer for nurishing? And so is the
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love of Jesus him?
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Say this man, brother Phillips, redeemer, the one that can
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fix it.
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But cool him.
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Gee, he's a blessing a mother or he I'm unpacked
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in an influence.
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If you pray to sneak that no one loves you
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and your life if it's out of hand, Oh but I.
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Knew a man who came, And.
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I can't take a heart that's broken and making dover again.
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Oh but I.
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Knew a man who came, and I can take a
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soole that sensic and make it.
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Wild as the snow. O.
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But I.
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I know a man who can, and son.
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Call him, Say your the redeemer of all men. But
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I call him Jesus, for he is my dearest friend.
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Oh.
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And if you think that no one loves you and
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your life fits out of hand, Oh but I know
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a man who can, and and I can't walk upon
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the water.
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Came a reging sea.
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BIRDA I knew.
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A man who who came, And oh and I can't
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cause blind eyes. Two open over the lane to walk again.
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Obada I knew a man who came