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Why Does Prayer Feel Boring? - November 9, 2025

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  1. Welcome to resurrection church if you're new here welcome my

  2. name is Daniel I am the lead pastor here at res church have.

  3. You ever had a moment where you were you were face?

  4. To face with someone and you were you were just like burying

  5. your soul like you. I mean, you like that

  6. excruciating moment where like you're getting?

  7. Really vulnerable with someone. And and man there.

  8. Is a potential that they're not. Going to return.

  9. That, that, that. It's not going to.

  10. Be reciprocated I I remember the moment.

  11. That I. First looked.

  12. In my wife's eyes when we were dating and said I love you.

  13. And that pause. Is feels like it's never going

  14. to end. You know you're going.

  15. Do they feel the same way? And and and you're.

  16. Face to face, you're kind of analyzing, you know, like, what

  17. are they going to do looking at body language?

  18. And do they feel the same way about me?

  19. You ever felt that? Nobody.

  20. Lord, some of y'all got married. I don't even know how.

  21. You ever feel that? If you've ever felt that, what

  22. is that? Scenario another one, but.

  23. Where you're face to face in this conversation that was just

  24. really. Intimate.

  25. Really vulnerable. I would, I would.

  26. And maybe in the moment. There was a possibility.

  27. That you could be rejected. I I would say if you've ever.

  28. Experienced that? Then you've experienced one of

  29. the most primal, one of the most sort of central feelings that

  30. makes us human, our need. To love and be loved.

  31. To know and be fully known. In fact, the fear of rejection

  32. is so great in our current culture that like there are

  33. people that completely avoid this entire process.

  34. Like I'm going. To have an online relationship.

  35. Who's going to do this whole thing via text?

  36. That way I can like. Because, man, there is a fear of

  37. of rejection. Right there there is a man or am

  38. I going to be accepted? I'm I'm looking at someone face

  39. to face and I'm staring in their eyes and I'm and and it's almost

  40. terrifying but but we also. Want it so much?

  41. I do. I want to be.

  42. Loved and accepted. Here's what I would tell you.

  43. I would say that this is actually both.

  44. One of our greatest human needs and one of our deepest, darkest

  45. fears. It's this.

  46. Question if someone fully. Knows me, Would they really love

  47. me? We were created to love.

  48. And be loved. To be known and be loved.

  49. That's actually what sets. Humans apart from all of.

  50. Creation. You know your dog wants.

  51. To be loved, but if you rub its belly and give it treats, they

  52. don't care if they know it or not.

  53. We do we care? Why do we care so much?

  54. Do you ever wonder? The Bible says that we.

  55. Care because we were actually created in such a way.

  56. We were designed in such a way to love and be loved, to know

  57. and be known. And the reason that it's so?

  58. Difficult and there's so much angst around it is that we.

  59. Live in this this fallen. World.

  60. In which we can never eat like. We live in a distorted world in

  61. which we. Can never really fully see it

  62. the way it was intended to be. A Pastor Tim Keller, in his book

  63. The Meaning of Marriage, actually says it this way.

  64. He says to be loved. But not fully known is

  65. comforting, but superficial. It's shallow.

  66. To be known and not loved is our greatest fear, but to be fully

  67. known and truly loved is, well, a lot like being loved by God.

  68. It is what we need more than anything.

  69. It liberates us from pretense, humbles us out of our self

  70. righteousness, and fortifies us for any.

  71. Difficulty that life can. Throw at us.

  72. We're starting. Today a three-week series on

  73. prayer. This series is called Teach Me

  74. to Pray. And if right now you're thinking

  75. like, if we're starting something on prayer, why are we

  76. talking about like? Romance and and being loved.

  77. I'm glad you're paying attention.

  78. They're they're related and we're going to look at this.

  79. So here's what we're going. To do over the next three weeks

  80. today. We're going to talk about.

  81. Why we pray like like, what is prayer like?

  82. What is it really? Why are we doing this?

  83. Or why are we supposed to be doing this?

  84. And then next week we're going to actually.

  85. Talk about how to do it. So kind of the logistics of

  86. prayer and then in the third. Week of this series we're we're

  87. going to practice. We're going to come in here and

  88. we're going to do. Elder LED congregation

  89. participation, say yay, open mic like we're you're going to be

  90. part of this. We're going to do a prayer and

  91. worship service. There's not going to be a

  92. sermon. Yeah, I know you're you're

  93. disappointed. I am.

  94. We're going to pray. We're.

  95. Going to practice what we preach.

  96. OK, so let's start today with what is prayer.

  97. What is prayer? Why?

  98. Why are we supposed to be doing this and and?

  99. Maybe maybe you joined us today or you're you're you're.

  100. Joining us online and you would, you would kind of consider

  101. yourself maybe a skeptic, A skeptical about Christianity or

  102. Jesus or, or or faith in general.

  103. So first of all, welcome. I'm glad you're here or you're

  104. watching. I actually am really excited to

  105. talk about prayer with you particularly.

  106. Maybe we can clear up some things about this idea of

  107. prayer. I'm excited you're here.

  108. I'm excited you're joining us. So there's a really interesting.

  109. Concept that runs all throughout.

  110. Scripture. All throughout the Bible, in

  111. fact. And it's this idea of.

  112. Seeking God's face and I really want to talk about this idea of

  113. seeking God's face today, what that means.

  114. So we're going to start in Second Chronicles 714.

  115. If you have your Bible, just turn there.

  116. We're going to read that first. This is kind of our foundational

  117. verse for the day if. My people.

  118. Who are called by my name humble themselves and pray.

  119. And these are the important three words.

  120. You can underline this. Seek my face and.

  121. Turn from their wicked. Ways then I will hear from

  122. heaven and will forgive their sin and heal their land.

  123. A similar concept in Psalm 27, eight, there's a psalmist, he's

  124. talking about this command from the Lord to seek his face, and

  125. he says. This you have said, seek my

  126. face, and my heart says to you, your face.

  127. Lord do I seek. Over 100. 50 times in the.

  128. Bible God tells us to. Seek his face, seek his presence

  129. to seek. God, it's a proactive.

  130. Command. We're supposed to seek him and

  131. and and whenever. The Bible is being specific.

  132. It says more than just seek God, it says seek my face.

  133. And so I really wanted to break down.

  134. What does that mean? What does?

  135. What does he? Mean seek my face.

  136. And it's it's actually relatively.

  137. Simple and yet you're going to find this kind of hard and that

  138. is this that. Seeking God's face.

  139. Means that I'm coming to him in. Prayer.

  140. Not to get something from him, but to get God Himself.

  141. So I'm not. After what's in his hand, what

  142. he can give me, I'm after his face, I'm after him.

  143. There's a Hebrew word that we see.

  144. Throughout scripture called Panim, it is the Hebrew.

  145. Word here that we're. Reading for face, but it

  146. actually is translated two different ways depending on

  147. where you're reading it. In Scripture, same word.

  148. So not only does it mean face, it also means presence,

  149. Presence. And this word, whether

  150. translated as face or presence, is mentioned 2100 times in the

  151. Hebrew Bible. So don't think about God's.

  152. Face as like a physical face with eyes and a nose and a

  153. mouth. The Bible is telling us to seek.

  154. Being with God closely, not just wanting God to do something for

  155. me, but to be with God. And so I want to I want to just

  156. look through the texts. Today and look at some different

  157. scriptures and, and I hope what it means is that maybe we

  158. relearn some things about prayer.

  159. Maybe we reset some misconceptions about it.

  160. You know, almost every religion in the world.

  161. Talks about prayer or. Or meditation or incantation in

  162. some method or another. But Christian prayer is vastly

  163. different than almost every other religion.

  164. And the reason it's so different?

  165. Is that only Christianity? Is built around an intimate,

  166. personal God of the universe, a God who knows us, excuse me, a

  167. God who loves us so much that he would send his son to die for us

  168. to make it possible for us to seek him and know him

  169. personally. My earliest memories of prayer

  170. are with my, my parents. They're, they're, they're

  171. phenomenal memories. My mom and dad praying with me,

  172. whether praying before bed or just praying at different times

  173. and teaching me those things. But my earliest memories of

  174. prayer at church are horrible because they were the Wednesday.

  175. Night prayer meeting y'all? Y'all ever been to a small

  176. Southern Baptist country church and then Wednesday night prayer

  177. meeting? As a nine year old, I was pretty

  178. sure it was medically possible to die from boredom.

  179. I was sure I was at the verge. It's just that no one would show

  180. up like most prayer meetings in, in conservative churches.

  181. And there'd be a couple of people sitting around this big

  182. list of, of people that were sick.

  183. And then they would just sit and they would mumble over the same

  184. sets of little words and blah, blah, blah, blah.

  185. And we we'd be praying for so and so who's in the hospital and

  186. so and so and Aunt Bertha's bunions, you know, what is this?

  187. I don't get it. And so I grew up most of my

  188. life. Even most of my Christian life,

  189. not really knowing how to pray, not really knowing what to pray,

  190. not really know why we pray. Like does this even work like?

  191. Maybe maybe you can relate to that.

  192. How come every time I sit down to pray?

  193. My mind starts to wander. Anybody else?

  194. Oh my gosh. And then I'm.

  195. Then I start to get all like. Ashamed like this got ashamed of

  196. me because I can't stay on track because I can't.

  197. Pray the right way am I even saying the right words man,

  198. just. Does this even do any good?

  199. What am I doing? Yet the Bible would tell us to

  200. pray without ceasing. James, 48, would say to draw

  201. near to God, and he will draw near.

  202. To you, that sounds pretty personal.

  203. That sounds. Pretty intimate that does not.

  204. Sound like Wednesday night prayer meeting?

  205. Do you ever think? About that.

  206. Most of us talk about prayer more than we actually pray.

  207. Like, yeah, I'm going to pray about that.

  208. You know, you get the text from your buddy who's like really

  209. going through it and you're like, oh, that sounds terrible.

  210. I'm going to pray for you, brother.

  211. And like, that was the prayer, the text, and.

  212. Then we just go on with. Life like you all realize that

  213. the prayer. Emoji is not the actual.

  214. Prayer. So so like.

  215. For me, maybe if we understood prayer a little bit better,

  216. maybe, maybe it would be. Easier.

  217. Maybe we'd be more. More motivated to do.

  218. It you know, a couple years ago I started to really wonder.

  219. How? How come I say that I believe

  220. that prayer is this incredibly powerful thing of talking to

  221. God, bringing things to God, but my life doesn't look like I

  222. believe that. Like it like if I if if I really

  223. believed what I said. I believed I I would be praying

  224. a lot harder and a lot more and I was just really.

  225. Convicted of like. Gosh, I need to take, I need to

  226. take a better look at this. And then someone gave me a book.

  227. Another pastor friend of mine gave me a book.

  228. It sat on my night stand for like a year.

  229. And I finally got to reading it. And it was about leading through

  230. prayer, like leading a church in prayer and, and how all of

  231. really Christian leadership is dependent on prayer.

  232. And so as I begin to read that, and I begin to do the things in

  233. that book, our elder room entirely changed.

  234. Like like we started to. Build an elder room around

  235. prayer and when we did the church begin to change, we begin

  236. to see God move. We start.

  237. Every Sunday morning, including this morning at 6:30 in the

  238. morning, sitting around tables just pouring out our heart,

  239. praying to God, asking for his presence, asking for him to show

  240. up. We pray for churches

  241. individually by name, by their pastors name for their kids, for

  242. their prayer request. We.

  243. Pray for you, you. Didn't show up here today not

  244. having been first prayed for by a group of people this morning.

  245. Going to the throne room of God with your name on their heart,

  246. praying for you, praying for you.

  247. And so let's let's dig a little on this idea.

  248. We're going to jump around into some different scriptures today,

  249. different quotes, different things to see.

  250. If we can get a. Better maybe a more holistic

  251. understanding of prayer, because prayer has been not only

  252. misunderstood. Now, in 2025, prayer has been

  253. misunderstood. For a long time we.

  254. We have some beautiful quotes from historians and church

  255. fathers throughout the last few thousand years talking about

  256. trying to understand prayer better.

  257. Mother Teresa said prayer is not asking.

  258. Prayer is putting oneself in the hands of God at His disposition

  259. and listening to His voice in the depths of our heart.

  260. Henry Newman said to pray is to listen to the one who calls you

  261. beloved child. To pray is to let that voice.

  262. Speak to the center of your being, to your guts, and let

  263. that voice resound in your whole being, Saint Therese, who was

  264. born in 1873, said. This prayer is a surge.

  265. Of the heart. It is a simple look toward

  266. heaven, is a cry of recognition and of love, embracing both

  267. trial and joy. Been a lot of descriptions

  268. written about prayer we're going to we're going to use this sort

  269. of easy definition today and through our series it's also

  270. going. To be our big idea today.

  271. So if you don't, if you leave with nothing else, leave with

  272. this concept. I want you to really wrestle on

  273. this and chew on this today. Authentic prayer is encountering

  274. God's astonishing presence. Authentic prayer is encountering

  275. God's astonishing presence. Authentic meaning there are a

  276. lot of cheap substitutes encountering because this is

  277. meant to be a face to face relationship, like me staring

  278. into my wife's eyes. And astonishing because every

  279. time we are exposed to the presence of the God of the

  280. universe, we are changed. And I want to show you.

  281. What happens if if? You and I will will begin to do

  282. this, begin to proactively seek God.

  283. I want to show you what happens when we do that.

  284. It happens throughout the Bible. We see it over and over again.

  285. It's happened in my life for many of you, it's happened in

  286. your life. Here's the first thing we have

  287. to get an understanding that God actually cherishes our prayer.

  288. He, he, man, He loves it when we talk to Him.

  289. It's not just a command, it's not a duty, It's not a check

  290. box. He actually desires US talking

  291. with him and we see this. All throughout.

  292. Scripture as prayer is described to us.

  293. If if we turn to the story of the tax collector and the

  294. Pharisee that Jesus tells we would, we would see that we're

  295. going to look at that one next week.

  296. If we look at David and Psalm 51 pouring his heart out to God, we

  297. see this. But I just.

  298. Want you to hear it? There's a story of Jesus in a

  299. region called Samaria with a group of marginalized people,

  300. and he's speaking to a woman who's who's very much the least

  301. of these, very ostracized, and they're having a conversation.

  302. And he begins to describe to her what is about to happen when he

  303. goes to the cross, when he makes a way.

  304. Here's what he says. He says in John 423 and 24.

  305. But the hour is coming and is now here, when the true

  306. worshippers will worship the Father in spirit and truth.

  307. For the Father is look at that Word, seeking such people to

  308. worship Him. God is spirit and those who

  309. worship Him must worship in spirit and truth.

  310. God desires for you and I to seek His face in intimate

  311. conversation with Him. That, that, that.

  312. Means that a lot of the things that you've heard or been taught

  313. about prayer. Are wrong because if.

  314. If that's what God's desire. Really is.

  315. Then prayer. Prayer is not a performance

  316. because that's not what God's asking for.

  317. It's not what he cherishes, not what he's looking for.

  318. You don't have to pray good or pray Gooder.

  319. I don't know how's that work. You're just talking to God.

  320. There are no magic words yet You wait too often.

  321. You've heard somebody pray and you're like, oh, I can't pray.

  322. I would mess it up like it's some sort of spell from

  323. Hogwarts. Like man, if you may probably

  324. not working because I said it wrong.

  325. It's supposed to be like. Wingardium Leviosa.

  326. No, you're just talking to the Heavenly Father.

  327. Let me to get your head around what that means.

  328. You got to go back to the very beginning of the Bible, the very

  329. beginning of the whole creation story.

  330. God has created the first man, the first woman there.

  331. There's a garden. There's no sin.

  332. We haven't rebelled against God yet.

  333. Everything's perfect. The Bible calls that Shalom.

  334. Shalom, perfect peace. And here's what's happening in

  335. that garden. Where everything's perfect.

  336. Just the way it was designed. We're walking through the garden

  337. with Jesus, just talking side by side, face to face

  338. conversations. That's.

  339. Actually how we were created. That's what we were created to

  340. do. The problem comes shortly after

  341. when we rebel against God. When that rebellion happens, it

  342. fractures that relationship, sin and death.

  343. The the the curse of sin falls upon mankind.

  344. Now all of a sudden, it's not so easy to just walk through the

  345. garden with God. We can't.

  346. And yet, and yet we were still created for that reason.

  347. We were still created with that desire.

  348. So so when you look around. And you go, man, something's not

  349. right. Let me tell you why.

  350. Because we were created to walk. With him and all.

  351. Of a sudden, we're apart. From him and so the Bible

  352. continues to lay out this framework, this instruction of

  353. seek me, seek my face. Why?

  354. Because you were designed to need it.

  355. It's nothing's going to feel right until you find him.

  356. Seek my presence. Come find me.

  357. So prayer is this conversation with God that he desires.

  358. The The primary way that we speak to God is through prayer.

  359. The primary way that God. Speaks to us is through His

  360. word, the Bible. We'll talk.

  361. A lot about that next week, and these aren't different things.

  362. This is just the conversation. I just want you to consider that

  363. God has always wanted us to seek His presence.

  364. He's always wanted us to come and talk to Him.

  365. He created us with that very need inside of us and so often.

  366. Your dissatisfaction in life is that there's actually a need to

  367. talk to him, and you're doing other things with that need and

  368. wondering why it doesn't satisfy.

  369. He desires this conversation when we step into that, when we.

  370. Intentionally. Proactively.

  371. Begin to do that. Begin to seek his face.

  372. Begin to talk. To him begin to have.

  373. Those conversations, Here's what happens.

  374. This is .2 in there that authentic prayer begins to

  375. expose my heart. Now here's what I mean by that.

  376. OK, I should define quickly God's presence.

  377. So we're talking about seeking God's presence in the Bible.

  378. There's actually three types of presence.

  379. God. God is present in three ways in

  380. the Bible. And, and, and I want to

  381. articulate some of that difference so that you

  382. understand which one we're talking about.

  383. It says that God is omnipresent and all that means is that.

  384. God is everywhere all the. Time there's nowhere to hide

  385. from God. Secondly, it says that because

  386. of Christ, if we've given our life to Christ, we are what's

  387. called indwelt with the Holy Spirit.

  388. He's put his spirit inside of us and all the time Spirit doesn't

  389. come and go, but but there's a third type and this is the type

  390. we're going to be talking about today.

  391. And it's this idea of the intimate presence of God that

  392. the face to face conversations with God.

  393. Now how? Can there be three types?

  394. That's a? That's a logical.

  395. Question. And so I'm going to give you an

  396. analogy. That I hope is helpful.

  397. How many of you here have ever babysat a toddler or an infant?

  398. OK, like literally some of you are parents and not raising your

  399. hand. I'm just wondering what happens

  400. with your kids. OK, most of us, yes, Now.

  401. If you've ever babysat a kid, a. Small kid, you know that they

  402. they could like sit in the living room floor and you could

  403. be in the room with. Them kind of watching them.

  404. And they could be. Oblivious to the fact that

  405. you're there because there's some amazing thing that has

  406. caught their attention like a. Cardboard box and they could

  407. just be enthralled with that. Thing for like hours and have no

  408. idea you were there and then but there's a moment right where

  409. they turn and they see you and they make eye contact and

  410. they're like and there's a spark of.

  411. Recognition and they're like mom, y'all know what I'm talking

  412. about right? For me, it's it's, that's not

  413. mom, you know what I mean? Yes, everybody with me.

  414. It wasn't that you weren't there the whole time, but something

  415. different happens when they turn face.

  416. To face and make eye contact with you, yes, that's.

  417. The type of. Presence we're talking about so.

  418. It's not that. God's missing.

  419. It's that there's this moment we begin to turn and look.

  420. For God. 'S face that everything changes.

  421. I'll give you another example. How many people here are

  422. married? OK.

  423. That was not a hard question for some of you.

  424. I hope you're not in trouble later anyways.

  425. Now, men. Y'all know you're still

  426. technically? Married when you're at work,

  427. Yes. OK, yes, it's a weird crowd

  428. today. You're still married.

  429. When you're at work, if you're at home and you're doing the

  430. dishes and your spouse is in the other room, you know, cleaning

  431. some floors, you're still married.

  432. OK. Thank you.

  433. But but don't but aren't. Everyone like a good date night?

  434. Come on. Yeah.

  435. Everyone like a good date? Night Yes, trying to grow this

  436. shirts the old fashioned way. It wasn't that you weren't

  437. married and you are married. But there's something about

  438. intentional time. We put our phones down, put the

  439. distractions down. Some of you have.

  440. Young kids. Are like, what's that like?

  441. We turn toward one another, we're face to face.

  442. I'm actually spending time in intimate conversation with my

  443. spouse. Connecting, talking, listening,

  444. enjoying. I'm looking at those beautiful

  445. brown eyes. What's different?

  446. What's different? I'm face to face, man.

  447. I'm I'm intentionally seeking the presence of that person into

  448. an intimate conversation. Authentic prayer is seeking

  449. God's manifest presence. In my life now, news flash,

  450. buckle in, we're not in the Garden of Eden.

  451. I know Bakersfield in the fall tricks some people as soon we

  452. take all the photos as we invite all of our friends and they

  453. think Bakersfield's amazing because they haven't been here

  454. in August. We're not we're not in the we're

  455. not in the Garden of Eden. And here's what I.

  456. I mean by that like. Because we're not in the Garden

  457. of Eden. We're not just walking with.

  458. God, through the cool of the evening anymore.

  459. And so to to to seek God. One means we have to be

  460. intentional. 2 It means that. As we draw close to God, as we.

  461. Begin to to turn. Face to face, we get to

  462. experience his presence. Here's what's going to happen.

  463. In the garden. It was perfection.

  464. I could walk. With him with no big deal but

  465. right now? We live in a fallen, distorted

  466. world, so as I get close to a holy God every time I'm.

  467. Going to go, oh, I'm not like that.

  468. It's like the illumination of. Holiness on our life and every.

  469. Time that happens, we're going to begin to.

  470. See. A gap between God's character

  471. and my. Character between.

  472. God's attitude and my attitude between God.

  473. 'S power and my weakness between his humility and my.

  474. Pride and there's going to be a gap.

  475. Amen. And it'll.

  476. Be that moment, no matter where you're at.

  477. When you get close to holy God, you go.

  478. Oh, he's not like me. It exposes my heart when I begin

  479. to interact with the perfection of God and so So what will

  480. happen is your heart. You know your.

  481. Circumstances. Your attitude like all.

  482. Those things you're just going to all of a sudden you're going

  483. to go, oh God, is so different than I am.

  484. Now here's the thing. Not, not in shame.

  485. Shame is not from God. Adam and Eve used to walk.

  486. With God naked that. Shame is not from God.

  487. We we did that. So as we draw close to God, we

  488. don't we don't get. Shame because we're not perfect.

  489. Actually, there's this this gentle correction that is the

  490. beauty of Christ, the standard of holiness where we go.

  491. Oh, and the and the third. Thing will happen.

  492. Which is that that exposing my heart to God in humility allows

  493. him to work on it. Now I say in humility why?

  494. Because the moment we begin to see a gap between God and.

  495. Us, we have. To have a recognition I'm the

  496. one that's wrong. We're not going God.

  497. Come down here, get in line. We're going, oh, oh, I have some

  498. things that are not right. There's there's a, there's a a.

  499. Theological concept that we get from scripture called

  500. immutability, immutability, say immutability, immutability, it

  501. means that God does not change. There's no variation.

  502. And and we get that from Malachi 36, from James 117, from a lot

  503. of other verses. God does not change, but I do

  504. Amen. You do.

  505. Amen. You ever had a bad day?

  506. God hasn't. You ever been wrong?

  507. God in God doesn't change. So what happens is I take my.

  508. Broken, warped, Emotional. Self and I seek the face of God,

  509. and as I get closer and closer to a perfect.

  510. God, I go, whoa, I'm not like that.

  511. And that recognition allows him to begin to change me, to begin

  512. to transform my heart, to begin to refine my character moment by

  513. moment, minute by minute, degree by degree, little bit by little

  514. bit. Just like when you're doing

  515. something with a little kid and they get to watch Dad do it.

  516. They try to be like Dad. That's what's happening, right?

  517. You're going, oh, I need to be more like Dad.

  518. And that can be in conviction, that can be in encouragement.

  519. That can be all kinds of different correction.

  520. Let me give you an example. Wednesday night I had a

  521. particularly rough night and and it's just been tough.

  522. And statistically, pastors have one of the loneliest jobs in the

  523. world. 43% of all pastors who consider quitting sight,

  524. loneliness, isolation is the reason they quit.

  525. And I remember Pastor Ray Johnson said he was talking to a

  526. group of pastors and he said be careful pastor because a a

  527. church will use you up and throw you out like a Kleenex and move

  528. on to the next pastor. And I and I thought at the

  529. moment, like, man, that's awfully cynical.

  530. You know, like, and, and I actually, I think I know what he

  531. was trying to say in that moment.

  532. I think what he was saying is like, the churches aren't

  533. malicious. It's just that they rarely

  534. realize the burden that they're putting, you know?

  535. Pastors sit in the spot. Where everyone in their trauma,

  536. in their hurt, in their pain, run to the pastor and when, when

  537. you know when your nose is running, you're not thinking

  538. about it right? You're grabbing the.

  539. Kleenex or your sleeve if you're my kids or whatever, right?

  540. And you just, you just use it. And so inherently pastors end up

  541. with, with a lot of that. And I was just laying in bed

  542. Wednesday night, like really kind of struggling with

  543. isolation, loneliness and talking to God, just talking to

  544. God in the middle of the night, just talking and talking and,

  545. and just pouring out my heart and, and I, I just, I could feel

  546. the Lord talk to me through that and just say, man, you're not

  547. alone. I'm right here.

  548. I have not hidden my face from you.

  549. There are days for a pasture where no human is safe to relate

  550. to. But he is.

  551. He is. And so he's he's.

  552. We're just in the middle of the night.

  553. God is ministering to it. He's just reminding me.

  554. Like, you know, Daniel, you might, you might be a little

  555. emotional. Right now.

  556. And as I draw close to the goodness of God, I'm like, oh,

  557. yeah, I think I'm a little emotional right now.

  558. Not in the shameful way. In a way.

  559. Oh man, God now can correct some of those things in my heart in

  560. the middle of the night, just in a conversation.

  561. Why? Because God, without any,

  562. without any magic words or formal incantations, God can

  563. change me simply by me drawing near and seeking His face and

  564. getting closer to Him and realizing He's so good.

  565. You can encounter God's presence face to face and that that

  566. changes me every single time. That's what it does in this

  567. life. You know all the circumstances

  568. we're going to go through our, our emotions and, and our

  569. reactions and our perspective. They're going to change wildly.

  570. You're just going to go through some stuff.

  571. And here's the thing, we have a heavenly Father who says he has

  572. he Jesus came down and suffered so that he would have

  573. experienced everything that we've experienced, suffered,

  574. struggled, lived, died so that we could have confidence that

  575. when we draw close to him, he's gone through.

  576. He knows exactly what you're going through and his word says

  577. bring that to me. Seek my face, seek me with all

  578. of your heart. Bring that to me and I will give

  579. you rest it in in the Bible, every time we see God, God speak

  580. about his face, it's every time he blesses someone, it says he

  581. shines his face upon them. Where where God's face where his

  582. presence is his joy and satisfaction and peace and

  583. comfort. And when like really horrible

  584. stuff happens, it you'll see it says God hid his face from them

  585. and he turns and and and and all of the evil and ills of the

  586. world flood in and we actually have the choice to seek his face

  587. again and again and again. He says, come talk to me, come

  588. spend time with me. Come worship me.

  589. Come and join me. Won't you come?

  590. That's prayer. That's prayer above and beyond

  591. anything else you understand about prayer.

  592. That's what it is in any fashion.

  593. It's seeking the face of God. And in those moments, in the

  594. authentic, proactive, seeking God's face, He begins to

  595. illuminate our life and our heart, our situation, our

  596. circumstances, and change us in the process.

  597. This is what's happening when we really pray, when we genuinely

  598. seek God's presence, because authentic prayer is encountering

  599. God's astonishing presence. And every time this happens, it

  600. changes us and and the. Ability.

  601. To do this, to just come to God at any moment, it is only

  602. possible because Jesus came and went to the cross and broke down

  603. this barrier between US and God that was fractured, and now we

  604. can freely do this. In the Old Testament, when this

  605. relationship was fractured, God's presence was in this one

  606. little spot in the temple, in this one little place.

  607. And nobody else could go. The high priest could go.

  608. There's a big veil that. That, that, that that was.

  609. A barrier no one could get in and one person once a year.

  610. Could go in, but not anymore. Now you and I have access at any

  611. time in the middle of the night, driving in your car on a walk,

  612. at any point and listen, it doesn't.

  613. Prayer is any moment from a short thought to dedicated hours

  614. of intentionally trying to seek and experience God any moment

  615. when you're seeking God's presence.

  616. And so that might be. Conversational.

  617. I talk to God all the time. That might be angry.

  618. You can. You can be angry and yell at

  619. God. He's a big boy.

  620. He can handle it. It could be a cry of

  621. desperation. It can be a list of Thanksgiving

  622. and things you're grateful for. He could be just worshipping and

  623. appreciating his good. It's all prayer because it's

  624. seeking his presence. And so, you know, I always, I

  625. always want to give you something to do with with the

  626. truths that come out of. Scripture as we.

  627. Preach on a Sunday morning and so here's my my my number one

  628. goal today is actually that you would you would take this

  629. concept, this idea and then it would reshape and refashion how

  630. you consider and think about prayer.

  631. Then it would change your perspective about what it is to

  632. talk to God to seek God to look for his presence.

  633. But let me give you something to do like.

  634. Next week. We're going to actually spend

  635. some real time on, on doing things right?

  636. Like like here's some here's some concrete examples of, of

  637. ways to pray and how to pray. But let me give you give me one,

  638. one challenge for this week as we move into next week here, let

  639. me just ask you this question. What would it look like to seek

  640. God's face instead of his hand and any?

  641. And what I mean by that is this, to seek God's hand is to say.

  642. God, I need you to do something for me.

  643. To seek God's face is. To say, man, I just want to be

  644. near you and. The interesting part is that you

  645. can seek God's hand and miss his face entirely.

  646. We we, we can get into this thing where we treat God like a

  647. like a genie in a bottle. And we do we.

  648. Figure if we rub it and we say the right things, we might get 3

  649. wishes, but if you seek God's face you get the whole thing.

  650. What would it look like in our life if our prayer life begin to

  651. start with? And maybe at some point.

  652. Centre around just wanting to experience.

  653. The presence of God in our life. And, and here's the the crazy.

  654. Thing we were designed. For it, we were designed for it.

  655. You're not actually going to feel real satisfaction until

  656. you. Begin to do it.

  657. What would it look like if every day this week?

  658. You stopped. Before, you just rushed off into

  659. the busyness of life and. You just said for 60 seconds,

  660. sit still in silence. Say God, will you show yourself

  661. to me today? Will you show me more of you

  662. today? Maybe.

  663. Maybe you're. So new to this that it all seems

  664. intimidating. You could literally set an alarm

  665. on your phone and when it goes off, just say God, will you?

  666. Will you show yourself to me today?

  667. Will you show me more of your presence today?

  668. Will you help me to enjoy you more today?

  669. I I just tell you from my own life, it will change everything

  670. about. The way you see God about the

  671. way you approach life, if you will simply slow down and

  672. attempt or just ask for God to show himself to you more deeply,

  673. He will. He's not embarrassed, you're

  674. asking, he's actually. Waiting for you to ask.

  675. He wants to be wanted. Here's the crazy thing.

  676. I. Think you already want to let?

  677. Let me ask this question. How many?

  678. People, if I just asked you if I.

  679. Just came to you after service said hey would you like to

  680. experience God more deeply in your life?

  681. How many people would raise your hand?

  682. Man, like logically we're like, well, yeah, of.

  683. Course. OK, cool.

  684. Let's ask for it every day this week.

  685. Let's just say, hey guy, will you?

  686. Will you help me to experience you more deeply this week?

  687. Just ask now for some of you, maybe, maybe online, maybe you

  688. just kind of got him hanging out listening, what have you.

  689. You're hearing this and. And here's the thing to to ask

  690. God for that to to ask a God to to show himself.

  691. More deeply, to experience His presence you actually have to

  692. know God and and for some. Of you, you've.

  693. You don't know Him, You know about him, you know of Him, you

  694. know somebody that knows him, but you don't know him.

  695. As you see, we only come to God in relationship.

  696. Through belief in Jesus Christ. Without Christ we have no

  697. access, we have no relationship. We have no Heavenly Father.

  698. It takes a surrendered heart. To Jesus.

  699. So if you've if. You've never.

  700. Done that the Bible actually lays out an instruction.

  701. Of what that looks like. In Romans 10/9 and 10, it says

  702. if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, I believe in

  703. your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be

  704. saved. For with the heart 1 believes

  705. and is justified, and with the mouth 1 confesses and is saved.

  706. And so if you've not done this before, but you're willing to

  707. surrender your life to God today, I want to give you an

  708. opportunity to do that. I want to invite you to do that.

  709. Will you please bow your heads and close your eyes as we wrap

  710. up our service? Just a moment, for just a moment

  711. God is calling to you and if you're willing to ask him for

  712. forgiveness and salvation. As we close our eyes and bow our

  713. head, I just want you to repeat this prayer after me.

  714. Jesus, I know I'm lost and I need you to save me.

  715. I'm not satisfied and I need relationship with you, so I

  716. surrender everything to you and I receive your promise of

  717. forgiveness, of adoption, of eternal life.

  718. Be my Lord. Please Jesus, if you prayed that

  719. prayer moments ago, would you be brave and raise your hand for me

  720. to see? Thank you, thank you.

  721. You put your hands down in Jesus name, Amen.

  722. Real quick, whether a moment ago or or maybe sometime in the last

  723. couple weeks, if you surrendered your heart to Christ to call him

  724. Lord. Welcome to the family in in just

  725. a moment. We're going to we're going to

  726. respond to this sermon. We're going to sing a song to

  727. close our service. And in the back there are

  728. tables. The banners say I raised my

  729. hand. Whether you raise your.

  730. Hand or not, if you've. Made a decision to follow

  731. Christ, to surrender to Christ. I want you to go back there

  732. during the song, and I want you to.

  733. Tell someone what happened. We want to celebrate with you.

  734. We're going to give you a Bible and a gift and follow up with

  735. you. We're going to talk about what

  736. it looks like to follow Christ. The rest of you, where you

  737. stand. We're going to sing a song.

  738. Our prayer team is going to come up.

  739. We, we, we love Fran with you and for you for all sorts of

  740. things. What a great time to.

  741. Be prayed for during a series on prayer.

  742. So don't miss an opportunity to have someone pray for you today.

  743. You move as the Lord leads you. We love you.