Sermon
I Don't Know How To Pray - November 16, 2025
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Good morning. My name is Daniel.
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I am the lead pastor here at Res Church.
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Thanks for braving the rain. I know, I know in Bakersfield,
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when it rains, I mean, literally if it even sprinkles, we all
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flip out like it's a welcome to the hurricane of California.
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You know, we're made of sugar and we're going to melt.
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We're in week two of a series on prayer.
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I'm excited that you're here today.
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We are we're kind of walking through last week was the was
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the why and and what of prayer. And then this week we're going
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to talk a lot about the how for, for me.
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Let me I have in my life, just in different moments, different
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circumstances I have experienced just just gruelling moments in
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a, in a emergency room, hospital room, just on on the floor of
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the hospital, on my knees in a in a hospital gown, just
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writhing in pain. By the way, hospital floors are
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really gross. I, I, I just, just just just
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crying out to God in, in just extreme pain.
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I, I have poured my heart out to God asking him to explain why I
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lost a child. I have, I have had moments where
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I'm just up to here with frustration, feeling like God's
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calling me towards something, but but not actually knowing
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what it is that he's calling me toward and just kind of being
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frustrated that I don't feel like he's being clear enough.
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And, and I'm and I'm asking, but he's not answering.
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I have felt spiritually dry at times where I just, I feel like,
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man, there's nothing there. And yet intellectually I know
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that my feelings don't match what I know to be true about
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God. But I don't understand why I'm
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feeling the way that I feel in all those seasons or moments in
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my life. Are, are, are kind of those real
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times where I think back to just overwhelming feelings of, of
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powerlessness, like I'm not in control.
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I can't fix a thing that's wrong or, or or ignorance or I just
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don't understand or I don't know or feeling forgotten, feeling
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lost, feeling taken advantage of.
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And, and in every one of those scenarios, it is, it is reaching
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back toward God, like, like reaching up toward God and
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going, hi, I need you to move on my behalf.
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Anybody else felt that way? Oh, just, I need you to move.
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I need to experience God's presence, God's power, God's
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move. And so here we are Week 2
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talking about prayer. If you're, if you're here or
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you're watching and maybe you're new to Christianity or you're
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not a Christian and you're just kind of a skeptic, you're
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checking it out. Someone invited you.
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And, and look, I'm glad you're here.
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In fact, if you're here and you don't understand prayer, man,
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what a wonderful time to come to church.
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We're going to talk a lot about this every one of those moments
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of my life and maybe some of you can relate even if you're not
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Christian have been these times where prayer for me prayer is
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simply reaching out to God in hope of experiencing him.
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And so in our in our sermon last week where we we came up kind of
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a working definition of what is prayer and we said it this way.
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Authentic prayer is encountering God's astonishing presence
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meaning, but prayer, real prayer, is just looking toward
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God and beginning to experience who he is, which changes us.
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And so today what I want to do is I want to take a look at a
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couple prayers in the Bible and and I want to see if from there
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we can build a framework for the how to pray, not why to pray
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that was last week, but the how to pray.
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How do we go about this? So maybe prayer seems a little
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intimidating to you and it, and it shouldn't, you shouldn't at
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all. So we're going to look at a
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couple texts today. The 1st is going to be in Luke
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18 in in Luke 18, there's a point that Jesus wants to make
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about us and, and, and about prayer.
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In fact, he uses prayer to make the point.
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And, and so Jesus made-up a lot of stories.
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I don't know if you know that or not.
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We call them parables to make it sound better.
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But he's made his stories up to teach lessons.
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And he, he made-up a story to teach a very specific lesson in
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Luke 18. And I want you to see this.
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Here's what it says. We're going to start in verse 9
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if you're if you're in your text, Luke 18, verse 9, he this
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is Jesus also told this parable to some who trusted in
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themselves that they were righteous and treated others
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with contempt. Say me because every one of us
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struggles with this right here at some point or another.
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We think that we we're righteous and we treat others with
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contempt. Sometimes it's we actually treat
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others with contempt because we think they're being
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self-righteous, which in that moment is ironic because we're
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being self-righteous. Verse 10 two men went up to the
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temple to pray. 1A Pharisee. Now listen, a Pharisee, you
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don't have to know much about the Bible.
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I'll explain. A Pharisee was a professional
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religious person. They went pro at religion.
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OK, a Pharisee and the other a tax collector.
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Now look, I know that we don't think much of the IRS, right?
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We ain't got nothing on how they thought about tax collectors in
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the 1st century. In 1st century in Jerusalem, a
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tax collector was the worst of the worst of the worst, an
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absolute traitor. I mean, you could be anything
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other than a tax collector. You could be a prostitute, you
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could be a murderer, you could be a Padres fan.
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Worse than that, if you could even believe that was a tax
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collector. A tax collector.
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Verse 11, the Pharisee, the professional religious person
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standing by himself, prayed thus.
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God, I thank you that I'm not like other men, extortioners,
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unjust adulterers. You can fill in the blank for
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yourself, right? Those Republicans, those
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Democrats, my neighbor, whatever, or even like this tax
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collector, verse 12, I fast twice a week, I give tithes of
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all that I get. Verse 13 but the tax collector
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notice where he where he's at standing far off would not even
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lift his eyes to heaven, but beat his breast saying, God be
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merciful to me a Sinner. I tell you, the man went down to
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his house justified rather than the other.
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For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, but the one who
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humbles himself will be exalted. Now this is Jesus example about
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prayer. The professional prayer is
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completely wrong and the amateur outcast is the honorable
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example. Just consider that because today
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what we're going to do is we're going to learn a framework for
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prayer. A framework.
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Now, it's not a formula, it's not a spell or any magic words.
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It's just, it's just a way, a framework that we're going to
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see from Jesus who actually teaches us how to pray.
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And at the very center of this framework is this idea that it
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needs to be a heart that is in need of God.
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OK, and it what I here's what I mean by that.
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Without a posture of humility, prayer is shallow.
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Without a posture of humility, prayer is shallow.
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In fact, our big idea, if we take nothing else out of today,
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take this one concept. Prayer is a spiritual
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chiropractor, it realigns the posture of our soul.
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Prayer is a spiritual chiropractor, it realigns the
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posture of our soul. My soul is constantly in need of
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an adjustment. That's why I started talking
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about all these seasons of my life that we're so desperate
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because often times my heart is not humble, my life is not
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desperate. And so I, I, I believe it to be
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true that often times what God does is he steps back and he
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allows us to experience this world and life without his hand
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on us so that we can begin to realize like, oh man, this is
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pretty terrible. I'm pretty hopeless.
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I really need God's presence. Amen.
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Let's just consider this. When are you most appreciative
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of a life vest? When you're standing on the boat
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and it's nice, it's sunny outside and, and, and you got
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this big bulky thing on and it's actually making you kind of hot
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and it's itching my neck. Like what do I got to wear this
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thing? Or when the boat is capsized and
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the waves are blotting out the horizon and you're just going
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like, I would die right now if it weren't for this life vest,
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man, I'm thinking about this life vest a whole lot
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differently right now. Amen.
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I I I asked myself this question about 10/10/12 years ago and it
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is, it is just kind of haunted me for the last decade.
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It's it's constantly on my mind. It comes back up in prayer all
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the time. Here's the question.
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How can I become desperate for Jesus even when things are going
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well? Because look, I got no problem
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being desperate for Jesus in the middle of a storm.
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Amen man, none at all. I have a journal entry in my
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prayer journal from the weeks right after my wife and I lost a
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child. And it says essentially this,
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Hey, godfather, whatever it is that I'm supposed to learn from
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this storm right now, I'd like to learn it so I don't have to
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go through this again. And I and I believe that the
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primary thing that God has been teaching me over the course of
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the last decade is how to desire his presence in my life even
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when things are good. And in my experience, it's a
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posture issue. Now that may not make sense.
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You can posture issue. Let's go ahead say what?
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See, thanks for asking when when I'm low, when I'm desperate,
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when I'm screaming for God and I feel like life, life will only
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be good if God shows up. But when I when I have that kind
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of realization of how much I need him, then what in my life
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would create that level of desperation to experience God
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outside of a tragedy, apart from a crisis, apart from a disaster?
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Let me just let me ask you here, we're going to do a little
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survey. You ready?
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Raise your hand if you would like to experience God's peace
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and contentment. OK, now hold it up, Ray.
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Now raise your other hand if you would like to experience that
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without having to suffer tragedy in crisis.
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Right. What if I could experience God's
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goodness, but I'd not have to go through the crazy tragedy to get
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there? And here's the crazy part, OK?
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A guy named Daniel Henderson has written a number of books on
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prayer. And in one of his his books, he
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wrote this. He wrote this line.
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It says this, most Christians pray out of a crisis or a
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grocery list. See, either everything's going
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wrong. So I could now I'll pray or I
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gotta, you know, well, God pray for them and I want this right.
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And we just checked the little boxes.
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But but, but my question for you is like, what if, what if we
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could change that? What if we could change that?
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What if we experience God's goodness out apart from the
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tragedy? What if we could experience
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God's goodness all the time? And I believe, and this has been
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the last decade of my life, I believe that it that if we will
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begin to follow the framework for prayer in the Bible and we
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will begin to actually get consistent with that framework,
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consistently doing that, I actually think we will
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experience God's presence in our life all the time, all the time.
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That's my promise to you if you would just begin to do what
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Scripture shows us to do when it comes to prayer, man, we it will
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grow your faith in your pursuit of Christ like nothing else.
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Let me just show you we're going to look at 1:00 central prayer
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today. Jesus taught his disciples how
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to pray. It's called the Lord's Prayer.
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It's in Matthew 6. It's also in Luke.
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We're going to be Matthew 69 through 13.
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This is what it says. Our Father in heaven, hallowed
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be your name, your Kingdom come, your will be done on earth as it
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is in heaven. Give us this day Our Daily
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Bread, and forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our
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debtors. And lead us not in since
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temptation, but deliver us from evil now.
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This little tiny, short prayer has all the elements of a
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framework that we're going to lay out today that we could use
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for any prayer, for all prayer, for prayer every day or all the
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time. And prayers can be short and
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prayers can be long. Jesus shows us this, this lesson
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in a tiny prayer, but it also tells us that Jesus went out
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alone with the Lord and prayed for hour upon hour upon hour.
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In fact, we we see him withdrawing all the time to
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spend time praying to the Lord. It's the same framework.
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Ji Packer says it this way. He says this prayer, the Little
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Lord's Prayer, is the pattern for all Christian praying.
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Jesus is teaching that prayer will be acceptable when and only
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when the attitudes, thoughts, and desires expressed fit this
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pattern. That is to say, every prayer
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should be a praying of the Lord's Prayer of some type.
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It's not just the Lord's first lesson on prayer.
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It's the most important lesson. It is the lesson on prayer.
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Jesus, we have a recorded ministry, Jesus has about three
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years where we have stories of him doing public mission work
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and a public Kingdom work. And, and in that three-year
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period, of all the accounts we have in the Bible, his 12
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disciples only asked him one time ever to teach them how to
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do something. They did not ask him.
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Hey, Jesus, teach us how to heal the lame didn't ask teach us how
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to heal a blind part didn't ask teach us how to multiply all
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them fishes and loaves into a bunch of food.
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Man, I'm going to do Chick-fil-A.
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Like didn't ask teach us how to fish like you did and, and pull
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coins out of fish's mouth. Didn't ask one thing.
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Teach us how to pray like you do teach us how to pray.
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So I would just say you might consider that if in three years,
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after all of that supernatural work, the only thing that the
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disciples ever looked at Jesus and said, hey, teach us that it
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was prayer, it might be important to you and me.
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Yeah, let's try. Let's see.
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I'm going to give you this framework up front so you can
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track along with me. Here are the five points.
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They're in your, your, your bulletin.
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Just to give them to you up front.
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Five parts of a prayer framework #1 grounded in Scripture #2
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glorifies God #3 gratitude driven #4 groans of confession,
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and #5 gets the requests last. Now I'm going to walk through
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this and and show you and then I got a little easy way to
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remember it at the end. Hopefully it'll be helpful.
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Grounded in Scripture, we should start all prayer with reverence.
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And if you're not sure about that word, let me explain.
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Really I've been using the word posture.
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And, and the idea is that we want to see how good God is and
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how much we're not like that's actually to see things
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correctly. And so we need our our heart and
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our attitude to change toward God.
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And so if we spent a ton of time on this today, which we won't,
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we could actually break down every little word, every little
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segment of this short little Lord's prayer and we could track
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it back to verse after verse after verse in the Old
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Testament. Everything Jesus is saying here
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in the New Testament in this little prayer is actually a
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paraphrase of concepts from the Old Testament that have already
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been said and already been recorded hundreds of years
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earlier. So when he says, how will it be
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your name? How will it just means most
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worthy be your name? That's most of the Psalms
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actually say the exact same thing when he says your Kingdom
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come. That's Psalm one O 3 And and
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Daniel 4 when he says, give us this day, Our Daily Bread.
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That's Exodus 16, Deuteronomy 8, and Proverbs 30.
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When when every part of this prayer is a paraphrasing of
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things God's already said. See, the fastest way to realign
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my heart, my attitude, my mind toward God to get a correct
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perspective is to worship God with his own words.
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To worship God with his own words.
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Why? Why would we do that?
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Well, here's why. Because his words are perfect
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and mine are not So, so, so to start a prayer with real
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reverence, I highly recommend starting with Scripture.
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It's not the only way. I would just recommend it.
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And, and I want to show you what that looks like.
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But but before I do, if you're again, if you're a skeptic, if
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you're new to Christianity and you understand, why would you do
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that? Why would you read God's words
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back to him? We believe as Christians, we
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believe that the word of God, that's the Bible is perfect and
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without error. Amen.
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It's perfect. And I'm not.
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Someone once asked the famous preacher Charles Spurgeon.
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They asked him what's more important, reading your Bible or
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praying? And he thought about it for a
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second and he went, what's more important to you, breathing in
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or breathing out? They're the same thing, they're
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the same coin. Praying to God and hearing from
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God is part of communicating and experiencing God.
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Amen. Reading God's word, allowing Him
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to speak to us. We believe that the Word of God
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is alive and active and sharper than any 2 edged sword.
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Hearing from God and letting Him Pierce our very soul with His
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words is as important as speaking to God and talking to
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Him and, and, and, and. I want to start with something
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perfect. Say perfect.
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I want to start with something perfect.
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And here's why. This is why it's so critical
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because I am an inconsistent human being, because I'm human.
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My emotions, my circumstances, my health, the people around me,
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the influences are around me, the world, it all has an impact
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on me. I am an inherently selfish,
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mean, egotistical little creature.
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In fact, if I even took my own subjective standard of morality,
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I've I took Daniel's standard and then I applied it back to my
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own life, I still wouldn't pass. That's how bad it is.
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I need something objectively perfect, objectively true,
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objectively moral, objectively holy to hold up and highlight
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how far off the path my life, my distortions, my perspective have
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become. Because I'm always veering off
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the road when it comes to pursuing Jesus.
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And that's what the Bible does. When I start prayer by
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reverently reading God's word, it keeps me low where I belong
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because it shows me the gap between myself and God.
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And so here I'm going to do it for you and, and maybe this will
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help. Just doing it sometimes helps,
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right. I want you to imagine if you
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can, that you're about to go to the Lord in prayer, but you're
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angry that someone has offended you recently.
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That's not that's happened to anyone else.
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Anyone ever been offended and angry but know they needed to
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pray? Yes, 410 all of us.
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Yes, all of us or, or, or or I'm lonely and I'm feeling isolated
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or I'm hurting. I feel like I'm being overlooked
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or someone's taking advantage of me.
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You know, all the feelings that are just so real to us, right?
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They all affect our view of ourselves and others of God and
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they affect my view of you guys, right?
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And So what I do is I go to God reading his word.
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It looks like this Ephesians 2 verse one, father.
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And I was dead in my trespasses and sins in which I once walked,
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following the course of this world, following the Prince of
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the power of the air, the spirit that is now in work, in the sons
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of disobedience, among whom we all once lived in the passions
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of our flesh, carrying out the desires of the flesh and the
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mind. And I was by nature child of
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wrath, just like the rest of mankind.
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But you, being rich in mercy, because of the great love with
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which you loved me, even when I was dead in my trespasses, made
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me alive together with Christ. By grace I have been saved, and
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you raised me up with him and seeded me with him in the
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heavenly places in Christ Jesus, so that in the coming ages you
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might show the immeasurable riches of your grace and
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kindness toward me in Christ Jesus.
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For by grace I have been saved through faith, and this is not
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my own doing. It is a gift of God, not a
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result of works, so that no one may boast.
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For I am His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good
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works which you prepared beforehand, that I should walk
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in them. Do you see it?
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By what right do I have to claim being offended?
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By what right do I have to claim unfairness or slander or
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mistreatment? If life were fair, I would be
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executed as an enemy and rebel of God.
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That would be fair. If life were fair, I would face
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an eternity in torment apart from God.
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I don't want fair. I want grace.
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Offended. Offended, if we're being really
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honest, really honest, and you could see every thought I'd ever
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have, you'd find out that the secret me is far worse than the
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me that I want you to see. And you'd know that I'm
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despicable, far worse than anything that you could ever
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describe. But God.
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So we start with Scripture reverence to begin to shift our
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perspective, our posture before God, and then and then we
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glorify God. Oh God, I may be nothing, but
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you are something. So we spend a little bit of time
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remembering who God is. Psalm 34 says this.
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I will bless the Lord at all times.
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His praise shall continually be in my mouth.
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My soul makes its boast in the Lord.
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Let the humble hear and be glad. Oh, magnify the Lord with me,
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and let us exalt His name together.
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I sought the Lord, and He answered me and delivered me
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from all my fears. Those who look to him are
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radiant, and their faces she'll never be ashamed.
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The poor man cried, and the Lord heard him.
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That's me, and saved him out of all of his troubles.
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The Angel of the Lord encamps around those who fear him and
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delivers them. Oh, taste and see that the Lord
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is good. Blessed is the man who takes
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refuge in him. Amen.
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What are we doing? We are gazing into the character
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of God. We are gazing into Him.
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We are looking at Him, and it will show us the gap.
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And as we begin to see the gap between who God is and who we
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are, it puts us in our place that's resetting on adjusting
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our posture. That's why Jesus starts his
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prayer with Father in heaven. Your name is worthy.
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Worthy are you worthy? Is your name your Kingdom come?
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Your will be done. It's about you, not me.
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The third thing we do is, is, is we begin to acknowledge what
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he's already done. It is gratitude driven that the
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Bible constantly, just consistently says, hey, remember
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what God has done. In fact, if you go turn to the
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Old Testament, which is the first part of the Bible, you'll
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find that one of the most consistent spiritual disciplines
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and all the Old Testament is, hey, remember God's
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faithfulness. Hey, remember what God's already
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done. Hey, in fact, they told every
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generation, you need to teach the next generation to remember
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what God has already done because they're going to forget
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you are too. So here's what we're going to
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do. We're going to come up with
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ceremonies and sacrifices. We're going to come up with
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holidays so that you will not forget because man, are we some
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forgetful people. Remember, remember what God has
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already done. Don't allow the circumstances of
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the moment to make you forget how good God has been.
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And so, so we should do that in prayer.
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This is part of the framework of prayer is to remember him.
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So, so let me give an example. Let's say hypothetically, we
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were in the middle of, I don't know, a financial crisis at the
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church. And so I really want to pray for
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God to do stuff. Come on, God, like, let's just
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rain some dollar bills on this place.
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But before I can get there, you know, I probably need to stop
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and remember all the things he's already done.
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So I, I'm, I'm praying God's word to him and I'm remembering
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his character and I'm glorifying him.
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And then before I go any further, let me, let me remember
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his faithfulness. Let me spend a little bit of
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time remembering how much he's already provided.
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Father, we, we give you glory and honor and praise for all
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that you are doing in this church.
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Thank you for Rez church. Thank you for facilities to meet
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in. Thank you for elders who love
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you in this church. Thank you for raising up
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deacons. Thank you for volunteer leaders.
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Thank you for all these small group leaders.
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Thank you that we get to see so many people come to Christ in
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this church. Thank you for gospel growth.
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Thank you for helping us get a foothold in this neighborhood
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and sending people here to this church that we can care for a
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disciple. Thank you for the gift of brand
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new members who chose to go through a membership class and
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and join this church. Thank you for men and women in
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mentorship. Thank you for steering this
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church toward partnerships that you have for us.
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Thank you for faithful givers who have obediently given to
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this church. Thank you for a legacy of two
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separate churches who for years and many former pastors and
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attenders have laid building blocks for this church to stand
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upon. We see your hand at work and we
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acknowledge that we could done none of this without you.
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Thank you in Jesus name, Amen. We thank Him.
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We should remember how good he is.
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Now look it, don't you feel better?
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We haven't even asked for anything yet, and I already feel
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better. All I had to do was begin to
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remember how good God is, how faithful He's been, all the
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things that He's done, and I'm already feeling better.
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There's a Psalm or a hymn from 1897.
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It goes like this. When upon life's billows, you
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are Tempest tossed. When you are discouraged,
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thinking all is lost, Count your many blessings, name them one by
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one, and it will surprise you what the Lord hath done.
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Remember all the things He's done #4 groans of confession.
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So, so we start with scripture and we approach the Lord to
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recalibrate our heart and we speak his goodness and we
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remember our blessings. And then Jesus would say this.
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Forgive us our debts. He's essentially saying forgive
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us our sins. Now here's the thing, it's a
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really short portion of Jesus prayer because he had none.
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But he knows we do. And the best way, the best way
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to do that is to confess them, to speak them out loud to God.
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Jesus didn't have anything to confess, but I do Amen.
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You do. And so oftentimes, I think they
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will really only get to that point after we've spent some
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time in the Word of God remembering and acknowledging
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who God is, remembering his faithfulness.
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Spending time doing those things begins to allow some of that
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conviction to bubble up to the surface and things that we
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didn't really want to talk about.
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You get to the point, you realize I've got to confess this
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to the Lord. David put it this way in Psalm
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32. For when I kept silent, my bones
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wasted away through my groaning all day long, for day and night
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your hand was heavy upon me. My strength was dried up as by
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the heat of summer. Salah, I acknowledged my sin to
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you. I did not cover my iniquity.
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I said, I will confess my transgressions to the Lord, and
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you forgave the iniquity of my sin.
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Do you know what this does? It's still recalibrating our
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heart. So if I started my prayer angry
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and offended and and mad, and I get to the part where I begin to
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realize how much sin I have to confess to the Lord, it's like,
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oh, I was really angry, but then I have to look at my sin.
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I was trying to find a visual for that, how you feel if you've
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ever prayed like that. I found one.
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Check this out and I confess it.
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So before I've asked God for anything, we've we've started
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with scripture, we've glorified God.
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Oh man, we've practiced some gratitude.
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There's some groans of confession and then we get to
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request last. Now I'm ready to ask now I'm
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ready to go to God with my petitions and God wants us to.
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He asks you to. He tells you to heck and James,
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for he says you have not because you ask not.
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Why aren't you asking two things about asking the Lord.
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Number one, I would say do it last.
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Here's the second thing. If you'll, if you'll do this
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other stuff first, if you'll follow this framework, you'll
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find that by the time you get to your request, your request will
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change sometimes a little bit, sometimes a lot of bit because
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God has been working in our heart through that whole
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process. And listen, the entire Christian
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faith is based on the concept that God changes hearts.
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Amen. I didn't change mine, and you
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can't change yours. God changes hearts.
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And so in my prayer life, when I start with the things that
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realign my posture recalibrate me toward God by the time I get
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to request they change, here's the second thing.
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We always ask, like Jesus did not my will, but yours be done.
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And here's why. I know what my heart wants.
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I also know I shouldn't trust my heart, so sometimes I'm going to
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ask and I'm going to go. God, I don't even know if what
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I'm asking for is sinful or not. I'm not sure.
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God, I don't even know if I could handle the blessing.
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If you gave it to me, I might mess that up.
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So here's what I'm going to ask. But then I'm going to say not my
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will, but yours. I don't know everything, but you
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do. So I'm going to ask because you
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told me to ask. And then I'm going to leave it
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in your hands because I know that you know better.
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Not my will, but yours be done. Now I know it might be difficult
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to remember 5 GS when you sit down to pray, so I made an
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acronym for you. It's space.
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It's in your handout space. Scripture, praise, acknowledge,
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confess, entreat. We start with scripture.
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We praise Him first. We acknowledge all of the
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blessing and faithfulness He has shown us in our lives.
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We confess our sin. And lastly, we entreat him.
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Entreat just means to plead with God or to ask urgently, I
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entreat. And if we'll do that, prayer is
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a spiritual chiropractor. It will rely in the posture of
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our soul. And so here's what we're going
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to do to end our service today is we're going to do this.
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We're going to pray this way together as a church.
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And then if you're willing to pray like this consistently, if
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you start to practice this, there are five things that will
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begin to happen as a result of this.
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And I didn't have time to preach it, so I stuck it in your bone
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or in your bulletin in that little outline.
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There's five things in there. We're going to call that the
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bone. You have the extended edition.
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You need to take that home. It's a little bone.
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It's a little nugget for you. You can fold it away, put it in
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your pocket for later, like leftovers.
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So we're going to practice this together using this framework of
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space Scripture. Praise, acknowledge, confess,
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and entreat. Here we go.
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We're going to start in Psalm 8. We're just going to pray
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Scripture to God. Here we go, ready.
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Pray with me, O Lord our Lord, how majestic is your name in all
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the earth. You have set your glory above
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the heavens, out of the mouth of babies and infants.
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You have established strength because of your foes, to still
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the enemy and the avenger. When I look at your heavens, the
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work of your fingers, the moon and the stars which you have set
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in place, what is man that you are mindful of us, and the Son
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of man that you care for us? Oh God, we stop and we pause and
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we wait in the glory of your name and of your character and
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of your faithfulness. You are holy and we are not.
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And we acknowledge. We see what you're doing around
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this church. We, we, we see the changed
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lives. We see the marriages being
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strengthened. We see our kids coming to
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Christ. We see people getting hungry for
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your word and for your presence, Father, we see real life change
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and we thank you for what you are doing, for letting us see
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it, for letting us notice it, for letting us participate in
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your work. And we confess God, I know that
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I allow circumstances of this life.
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I allow the difficulty of of messy people, especially me, to
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to cloud my view, to shake my faith.
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Father, I am. I'm prone to doubt that you have
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a plan. And I in my sinfulness, I get
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anxious about the future. I get worried about not being
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able to see all the steps in front of me.
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And I doubt you. And so I confess my sin and I
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repent to you. Wash me clean and renew in me a
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clean heart. And I bring my request for our
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church before you. I ask that you grow our hunger
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for your presence in our prayer lives, in our desire to study
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your Word. I ask God that you provide for
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this church exactly what it needs financially, through the
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generosity of the Saints in leadership, through the
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empowerment of people you saved and equipped.
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God help us to spread your gospel to every edge of
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Bakersfield and beyond, for yours is the glory forever in
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Jesus name and all of God's people said Amen.
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May God respond to the pleas of his people for the the last
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moment or two that we have remaining in this sermon.
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I just get your attention for just a second.
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If you do not know the God of this universe personally, if
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you've never surrendered your life to Christ, I want to give
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you an opportunity to do that today.
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If you if you believe that you'd like to do that, I'm going to
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lead you in a prayer. All you have to do is simply
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repeat after me or something similar.
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I'm going to use the same space framework for this prayer.
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And so if you're willing to ask him for forgiveness and
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salvation, just follow after me. We we bow your heads and close
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your eyes for just a moment. Father, your word says, if I
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confess with my mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in my heart
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that you raised him from the dead, I will be saved.
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So I lift you up perfect and holy, and I acknowledge that you
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created me and everything around me, and I confess that I am
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hopeless and in need of a Saviour.
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So I surrender everything to you and I ask you to save me.
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Be my Lord, please Jesus, if you said that prayer for the very
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first time, will you raise your hand for me to say thank you,
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thank you, you put your hands down in Jesus name, Amen.
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Real quick, Jesus loves you so much more than you realize right
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now. And if moments ago or recently
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you gave your life to Christ and you haven't told anybody, let me
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be the first to say welcome to the family.
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Will you stand? We're going to sing a song and
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respond to this sermon. Our prayer team is going to be
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up here. We, we love praying with you.
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If you have given your life to Christ, maybe it was moments
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ago, maybe it was recently and you haven't told anyone yet.
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There's some tables in the back that say I raised my hand.
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As we sing, as we respond to this, as we come up for prayer,
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you can, you can sneak back there, talk to somebody, tell
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them about your decision to follow Christ.
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We would love to celebrate with you.
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If that's too intimidating, you can just come down for prayer
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like everybody else. We would love to pray with you
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for any reason. Whether you made a decision
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recently, whether you just need prayer, whether you need
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encouragement, we love praying for you.
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You move as the Lord leads. We love you, Church.