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When Everything Falls Apart And It's Your Fault - November 30, 2025

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  1. Good morning. My name is Daniel.

  2. I'm the lead pastor here a welcome to Res church.

  3. We are going to start a a Christmas series today.

  4. You know, our culture loves redemption stories.

  5. We, we, we've kind of built the culture, in fact, of, of media

  6. and story culture around this idea of people that have lost it

  7. all, sometimes through choices of their own, sometimes because

  8. of things that are done against them or to them.

  9. And then they, they come back and they rise above it all back

  10. in to do something great again. The, the Robert Downey juniors

  11. who make it all the way to the bottom and then kind of come

  12. back and rebound. Or there's a guy named Luis

  13. Zamperini, who's an Olympic runner, but you know, he

  14. survived torture in a World War 2 prisoner camp, came back, had

  15. to overcome alcoholism and PTSD. But these types of stories

  16. resonate with us for some reason.

  17. It's, it's almost as if there's something deep down inside of us

  18. that longs to see that happen, to see people redeemed and to

  19. come back. If you're new to the Christian

  20. faith, or if, if maybe you're a skeptic and you wouldn't even

  21. call yourself a Christian just yet and you're just hanging out

  22. here today or you're, you're watching.

  23. First of all, welcome. And, and 2nd is one thing you

  24. should know about the Bible is it, it's, it's actually one

  25. giant story of redemption, one huge redemption story.

  26. And you and I are absolutely the underdogs, but we are not the

  27. heroes in this story. And in this one big story, there

  28. are dozens, maybe hundreds of, of smaller redemptive stories

  29. that all contribute to the big one.

  30. They all kind of connect together.

  31. And so we're going to start our Christmas series today in the

  32. book of Ruth, the book of Ruth, We're calling this Christmas

  33. roots. And the reason we're teaching

  34. the Christmas story from the book of Ruth, it's kind of

  35. interesting. You see, Ruth did not occur

  36. around the Christmas time at all.

  37. It took place about 1100 years or so before Jesus was ever

  38. born. And you're going, that's quite

  39. the prequel. You're right, we are going way

  40. back. And so over the course of the

  41. next four or five weeks, we're going to take a look at this

  42. little town called Bethlehem where Jesus is later born.

  43. God will eventually send his Son Christ, Jesus Christ as the

  44. great, great, great, great, great, great grandson of the

  45. family in this story. In fact, it will be 28

  46. generations later in the same exact town.

  47. Jesus will come. And so we're going to have the

  48. ultimate Christmas prequel. Now here's why I want to start

  49. here, why I want to preach Christmas to you from the book

  50. of Ruth, something that happened over a millennia earlier,

  51. because I want you to see that nothing that God did was

  52. accidental. Nothing about the Christmas

  53. story was accidental. All of this was planned.

  54. God does not make mistakes. We make mistakes.

  55. God fixes those mistakes. We did not catch God off guard.

  56. And so not only did he plan to send his Son, He planned for so

  57. long that over 1000 years earlier he was already planning

  58. this. He is already laying a way in a

  59. foundation for Jesus here in Bethlehem.

  60. So I want you to see how good God is, how intentional he is in

  61. our redemption. So today, if you if you leave

  62. today with only one thing, if you only remember a single thing

  63. about today's sermon, I want you to remember this.

  64. God beckons the broken to bless them.

  65. God beckons the broken to bless him.

  66. God is the God of the broken hearted.

  67. We're going to start today in Ruth chapter one, verse 1.

  68. So if you have your texts, go ahead and turn there and join me

  69. in reading God's word. Ruth 11 Here we go.

  70. In the days when the judges ruled, there was a famine in the

  71. land, and a man of Bethlehem in Judah went to sojourn or travel

  72. and live in the country of Moab, he and his wife and his two

  73. sons. The name of the man was

  74. Elimelech, the name of his wife Naomi, and the names of his two

  75. sons were Meilan and Chilion. They were a path rights from

  76. Bethlehem and Judah. They went into the country of

  77. Moab and remained there. Now in the days the judges ruled

  78. the land. That was around 1500 BC to about

  79. 1050 BC or so. For about 400 years judges ruled

  80. the the nation of Israel and then after that the people

  81. demanded that they get a king so they could be like every other

  82. country. It didn't work out real well.

  83. And this man, Elimelech, who lives in Bethlehem, is in a very

  84. established family. We know that because he was

  85. called in a path, right? And that the town of Bethlehem

  86. back in the day before was called, that was called a path,

  87. right? And so or Epreath.

  88. And that means that his family had been in this city for a

  89. long, long, long time. But there's a famine in the

  90. land. It's not producing.

  91. And so Elimelech and his wife Naomi and, and, and their two

  92. sons leave and go to Moab. Now, it doesn't seem like a lot

  93. of information in this story, but it's actually kind of packed

  94. with information that you should understand in context.

  95. This is a really big deal for a couple reasons.

  96. You see, Elimelech in this established family in this town

  97. of, of Bethlehem is an Israelite.

  98. That just means he's one of God's people.

  99. God has taken a people. He said, I'm going to call you

  100. my own people. I'm going to take you out of

  101. slavery, out of Egypt. I'm going to lead you to a

  102. promised land. They're living in this promise

  103. of, of, of God as God's people. He has set them apart from all

  104. other nations. He has told them, hey, wherever

  105. I am is protection is provision is satisfaction.

  106. Now, even though we don't get a lot of detail, we know that he

  107. left Bethlehem and he goes to Moab.

  108. We don't know if if Naomi, his wife, was for this move or

  109. against this move. Maybe there were other factors.

  110. Let me tell you what's not happening in the story.

  111. Pretty much a guarantee. God is not telling him to move

  112. to Moab. In fact, God has said the

  113. opposite. God has said I'm I'm setting the

  114. Israelites, you as my people. I'm setting you apart from every

  115. other nation, and wherever I am, you should go.

  116. And he's Lee, and he leaves. And if you were going to leave

  117. Israel, if you're going to leave Bethlehem, of all the places you

  118. could travel, the last place that an Israelite would go is

  119. Moab. Because the land of Moab, not

  120. only do they not follow the God of the Bible, they looked down

  121. on and frequently mistreated Israelites.

  122. They worshipped idols particularly.

  123. One of the false gods that they worshipped in Moab was a God,

  124. Chimosh, who who part of worship to him was was human sacrifice

  125. and child sacrifice. He was called the savage God of

  126. War. And so there had been so much

  127. enmity between these two nations that God had actually said to

  128. exclude the Moabites from the community of Israel.

  129. Don't allow them to mix into your nation.

  130. Don't allow them to be part of the people of God.

  131. In fact, he said don't allow them to participate until the

  132. 10th generation. Like you're done messed up a a

  133. Ron. That's the problem.

  134. And so if you're going to go anywhere, Elimelech bro, don't

  135. go to Moab. So he goes to Moab.

  136. Why would he do that? Because let me tell you what's

  137. not happening. God's not telling him to go.

  138. I can almost guarantee you his family that is established there

  139. in Bethlehem is not telling him to go.

  140. He doesn't have wise counsel telling him to go.

  141. Why would he go? Well, here's what happened.

  142. He looks at his circumstances. There's a famine.

  143. It's not going well. He looks at his idiot.

  144. Things are tough, and he decides to run to the very place that

  145. God has forbidden. So, so, so circumstances are

  146. difficult. He rejects God's promise, he

  147. rejects God's commands, and he runs to what the world can offer

  148. him. What a loser.

  149. Wow, Can you believe that guy? Glad I never do that.

  150. I mean this week much look around at the difficult

  151. circumstances, a bad economy or a tough job market, maybe a

  152. relationship status that doesn't feel very good.

  153. Maybe a little bit lonely, maybe kind of copping my emotions of

  154. the difficulty or the grief or wounds of a particular season.

  155. And then reject all that God is doing and has said and will say

  156. and and and and and being to buy into the promises of a world

  157. that is far from God. Yeah.

  158. Yeah. You've never done right.

  159. None of you guys. No, no, not us.

  160. Elimelech, this guy. OK.

  161. I've done this a lot. I've done this.

  162. You've done this. You got caught up in the in the

  163. moment of the situation in your life and you're looking around,

  164. you're going. I don't know if God's really

  165. going to come through. And so I'm going to run after

  166. blank and it was like 3 weeks ago.

  167. I'm looking at my life and I'm looking at my bills and I'm God.

  168. I don't know if we can we can pay these bills and I you know,

  169. and it so so things thoughts that that are not of God begin

  170. to flash through my mind, right? Maybe I need to go get a job

  171. that pays better than this man. Is it really fair that my wife

  172. had to go back to work? Am I really being a good dad or

  173. a good husband if I can't actually provide for them?

  174. You ever let Satan get a couple thoughts into your mind, right?

  175. Get a little foothold in there. Don't take very long.

  176. It's a dangerous moment. You see over and over and over

  177. again in the Bible, God asks people the same, the same

  178. question that I'm sure Elimelech was answering with his life.

  179. And you and I have to answer this.

  180. Here's what he asks. Hey, will you believe in my

  181. promises and my character even when you can't see it in the

  182. moment? Will you still have faith?

  183. Will you trust my promises? My goodness, my character Alumni

  184. clearly did not. I have this conversation with

  185. people all the time when they're making bad decisions.

  186. They tell me they're about to do something really unwise.

  187. Oh, I'm just going to up my whole family.

  188. I'm going to move to Kentucky bro.

  189. They don't actually make the fried chicken there.

  190. I'm going to marry a non Christian, I'm going to divorce

  191. my spouse. I'm going to take a job that's

  192. going to kill my marriage. I'm going to be gone all the

  193. time, whatever they some dumped And listen, I'm going and I

  194. always ask them the same series of questions.

  195. Always I go, hey, OK, who's been praying with you about this?

  196. Crickets. Oh, well, you know, I've been

  197. praying about it. Great.

  198. Who else? Well, what have you read in

  199. Scripture recently that leads you to this decision?

  200. Usually a blank stare or here's a question.

  201. Hey, what is your close accountability?

  202. People that love God and love you say about this.

  203. I haven't really told anyone. Why do you, what do you think

  204. God is trying to do as he leads you into this decision?

  205. You ever ask someone who's about to go get a divorce that they're

  206. just like? Here, let me tell you the real

  207. reason that questions like that don't have good answers.

  208. OK, I can tell you this from my own personal life, because the,

  209. the, the actual real motivation behind a lot of these decisions

  210. when we begin to run from God is that we're actually rejecting

  211. the sovereignty of God. And what I mean by that is this

  212. God has said that he will provide.

  213. God has said that he will protect.

  214. God has said that he will lead. And the moment I don't see it,

  215. I'm like, Nope, going to Moab. I'll just come up with

  216. justifications along the way as to why it's probably OK.

  217. Well, there was a famine. Did you let God know that there

  218. was a famine? Like he probably can't handle

  219. that. Well, I just didn't feel like

  220. it. This is why I need the Bible in

  221. my life. This is why I need close

  222. accountability of people that love God and love me in my life.

  223. This is why not only do I need to pray about circumstances and

  224. things, I need people around me to pray about them too.

  225. To remain faithful in the midst of difficulty.

  226. So our story starts with a moral failure.

  227. Limeluk, a weak man making a fearful decision to reject God.

  228. Man, that is my story all too often too.

  229. Now it gets worse before it gets better.

  230. Elimelech can hit Naomi and their sons are there for some

  231. time. In fact, the sons marry and

  232. Elimelech dies, and then both sons die, leaving these two

  233. Moabite wives as widows, leaving Naomi the mother as a widow in a

  234. foreign land. By the way, that again,

  235. rejecting God's commands, nobody was supposed to marry Moabite

  236. into the Moabite a nation at all.

  237. So that was strictly forbidden. They both marry Moabite wives

  238. completely, absolutely against God's will.

  239. They all die. You now have 3 widows as the

  240. main characters of our story. Merry Christmas.

  241. Welcome to Rest Church. What a joyful, encouraging

  242. story. Pastor, thank you.

  243. Feel so good. Let's pray.

  244. Oh, now understand though, because we'll get to there's

  245. some beautiful redemptive things in here, but understand the

  246. context of three widows in that time.

  247. There's no Social Security, there's no safety net.

  248. They've moved away from family. Naomi doesn't have any family in

  249. Moab. There's there's no one to care

  250. for them. This is a patriarchal culture.

  251. These ladies cannot survive. They can't protect themselves.

  252. They can't just go get a job. They can't provide.

  253. The situation is dark and bleak and looks hopeless.

  254. And here's what Naomi finds out. She says, hey, I hear there's

  255. food back in Bethlehem. The famine's over.

  256. I'm going home. I'm going home.

  257. And we don't know if she was against leaving originally or

  258. not. Maybe maybe the the choice to

  259. leave was a mistake that she actively participated in.

  260. Maybe she was the one nudging Illinois elect to go.

  261. I don't know, maybe not. Maybe it was something that was

  262. done to her. And some of you here can relate.

  263. You see, some of the disaster of my past in my life was a result

  264. of my own poor decisions. Amen.

  265. And sometimes it was things that were done to me that I had no

  266. control over. It can be a blend of both.

  267. But most of us can relate to at least some of the feelings that

  268. she's feeling far from home in a situation she doesn't want to be

  269. in. We don't know if it's because of

  270. others decisions or hers. Most often in my life because of

  271. mine, following my own emotion, my own logic.

  272. And it feels pretty hopeless. So she heads home and, and as we

  273. look at her choice to go home, you might say, you might say, if

  274. you're really reading this story, you might say, what

  275. choice did she really have? She's out of options at this

  276. point. Is that even a choice when

  277. there's nothing else to choose? If you've run out of every

  278. option other than turning back to God, is it really a choice?

  279. Hey, guess what, I've been here. When you get to the very bottom

  280. of the hole you've been digging, the first step is to put down

  281. the shovel and ask God for help. You see, the thing I don't want

  282. you to miss and I don't want you to forget is that God beckons

  283. the broken to bless them. He often allows us to run out

  284. there and get broken of our own accord, of our own bad choices,

  285. so that he can welcome us home. So in our story, Naomi decides

  286. I'm going to go home. And so she goes to her daughter,

  287. daughters in law, and she tells them both one's name, Ruth, one

  288. is name Orpa. She says, I'm going home.

  289. Y'all should go back to your families.

  290. At least you could have a chance.

  291. You have a support structure. You could get remarried.

  292. There's a future for you. There's none for me.

  293. I'm going home. So Orpa goes back to her

  294. parents, but Ruth chooses something different.

  295. I'm going to show you that in verse 14.

  296. Let's pick it up. Our story says they lifted up

  297. their voices and their wept their grieving and Orpa kissed

  298. her mother-in-law. But Ruth clung to her and she

  299. said, See your sister-in-law has gone back to her people and to

  300. her gods return after your sister-in-law.

  301. But Ruth said, do not urge me to leave you or to return from

  302. following you, for where you go I will go, and where you lodge I

  303. will lodge. Your people shall be my people

  304. and your God, my God. Where you die I will die, and

  305. there I will be buried. May the God, may the Lord do so

  306. to me, and more also if anything but death parts me from you.

  307. And when Naomi saw that she was determined to go with her, she

  308. said no more. This is actually, this is a 5

  309. chapter book. This is the turning point of the

  310. whole story right here in chapter 1.

  311. Because the the story starts with a person rejecting God and

  312. choosing what he thinks is going to be easier and better.

  313. But in this moment, we see the contrast from Naomi.

  314. Naomi has no more options, but Ruth has options.

  315. See, Ruth can go back to her family.

  316. She could go back to her parents who live in Moab.

  317. She didn't have to go to back to Bethlehem.

  318. She goes to Bethlehem. She can have a culture change.

  319. She's going to be a foreigner. She's going to be looked down

  320. upon. She's got no system or support

  321. there. She doesn't understand the

  322. faith. She doesn't understand the

  323. customs. And yet Ruth chooses God because

  324. of Naomi. What a choice.

  325. What a choice. I don't want you to miss God at

  326. work in the darkest of circumstances.

  327. This, this story starts out so hopeless and yet right here you

  328. see God at work. What would cause Ruth to choose

  329. God? Let's read a little bit more.

  330. You'll see a few more things pick up at verse 19.

  331. So the two of them, Ruth and Naomi, went on until it came to

  332. Bethlehem. It's a long trip.

  333. We'll talk about that in a minute.

  334. And when they came to Bethlehem, the whole town was stirred

  335. because of them. And the women said, is this

  336. Naomi? So they remember her.

  337. And she said to them, do not call me Naomi, call me Mara, for

  338. the Almighty has dealt very bitterly with me.

  339. I went away full and the Lord has brought me back empty.

  340. Why call me Naomi when the Lord has testified against me and the

  341. Almighty has brought calamity upon me?

  342. Drama queen. Wow.

  343. So Naomi returned and Ruth the Moabite, her daughter-in-law

  344. with her, who returned from the country of Moab and they came to

  345. Bethlehem at the beginning of the barley harvest.

  346. That's kind of an interesting little note in our chapter like

  347. that. Timing is going to be

  348. interested. Why?

  349. Because the word Bethlehem, the name of the town, the word

  350. Bethlehem actually means House of bread.

  351. And they're going to come back seeking bread, seeking

  352. sustenance, seeking some sort of provision.

  353. And it's going to be about about 1000 to 1100 years later in this

  354. town called the House of bread that they're coming back to

  355. while they're seeking bread, that God's going to send the

  356. bread of life. His name is Jesus, the bread

  357. that actually satisfies. But look at, look at, look at

  358. Naomi. I want you to see how distorted

  359. her pers. We talk about how trauma

  360. oftentimes distorts the way we see the world.

  361. Look at this. She said to them, do not call me

  362. Naomi, call me Mara, which means bitter, for the Almighty has

  363. dealt very bitterly with me. I went away full.

  364. That's not true and the Lord has brought me back empty.

  365. Why call me Naomi when the Lord has testified against me and the

  366. Almighty has brought calamity upon me?

  367. Wait, God brought calamity upon her?

  368. Really. Because I'm pretty sure it was

  369. Elimelech and maybe Naomi that chose to leave.

  370. God didn't tell him. Go to my worst enemy and live

  371. there. Go to the place they worship

  372. false gods and live there. Go marry your sons to Moabite

  373. women that I commanded you not to do.

  374. No, no, none of that was God's choice.

  375. They chose that. Oh, if it isn't the consequences

  376. of my own choices. It was a limo that rejected God,

  377. rejected his commands, rejected his faith, rejected his family,

  378. abandoned his family, rejected his faith.

  379. God would be certainly within his right to punish this

  380. rebellion with death. The fact that he spared Naomi's

  381. life at all is a gift. But she's caught up in grief,

  382. caught up in those wounds, caught up in the emotions, and

  383. she, she, she can't see it. We can we get to read the story

  384. and go how do you not see how much God is doing for you?

  385. But think about it. God has not only spared Naomi's

  386. life, but God just converted her daughter-in-law Ruth to the

  387. faith. From what she's only seen the

  388. testimony of rebellious cowards, and for some reason God has

  389. drawn Ruth and saved her soul because of Naomi.

  390. I think about this. The first point you have

  391. influence. God will use you to reach people

  392. even when you're being stupid. Naomi's not doing anything

  393. amazing. There's no phenomenal testimony

  394. of God and said yet somehow God has used Naomi and Elimelech to

  395. save a Moabite woman and bring her to faith.

  396. God uses Naomi, a depressed, embittered widow to convert, by

  397. the way, the great, great, great great grandmother of Jesus.

  398. Now why would he do that? Why would God say the Moabites

  399. are excluded? Don't don't participate with the

  400. don't even have any association with the Moabites.

  401. And then take a Moabite and make that the grandma of Jesus so

  402. that you and I 3000 years later, you'd realize that no matter how

  403. rebellious and how dumb and how emotional how disastrous your

  404. past is, God will still use you for his glory to save people.

  405. So you can have a horrible past and God's like come home, come

  406. home church. I've watched God use me in times

  407. of my life where I was running from God and I was rebellious to

  408. God and and he's saving people through my life and I'm looking

  409. at them going, I don't even want anything to do with God.

  410. How in the world is this working?

  411. And the answer is because he's God and he does what he wants to

  412. do. You can do that when you're God.

  413. And I just want to remind you, regardless of the past,

  414. regardless of what you're coming from or through that you have a

  415. voice, you have a story, you have influence.

  416. You know, we're, we're headed into the Christmas season.

  417. It is statistically the season that the the month or so in

  418. which people are most probable to say yes to your invite to go

  419. to church, to talk about Jesus, to hear the gospel.

  420. We printed up a couple 1000 or so of these cards for you and we

  421. left them out in the lobby so you could grab some and begin

  422. inviting people to come with you.

  423. Because you have influence and you may not realize what a

  424. single invite might do. In the same way that no one

  425. would have expected a Moabite widow to change the course of

  426. history. So don't miss an opportunity

  427. this season to just ask to invite someone to come with you.

  428. Second thing, when you are angry at God, you'll miss how much

  429. he's actually doing for you. Here's Naomi saying, oh, God's,

  430. God's reached out his hand against me and he's testified

  431. against me and he and he's treated me poorly.

  432. You know, Naomi and Ruth, two widowed women by themselves,

  433. just made a 75 mile journey on foot between two enemy nations.

  434. Going from a 4500 foot elevation in Moab all the way down through

  435. a valley back up 3700 feet takes 10 days.

  436. And if you had a caravan with guards it would be dangerous.

  437. What do you think two single women are going to do?

  438. How do you think that's supposed to go?

  439. Somehow they make it all the way.

  440. They're unaccosted. You think it's because they

  441. looked pretty tough? Like you could listen.

  442. You could you could tattoo a teardrop next to your eye.

  443. It ain't going to matter. It could be like, only God's

  444. going to judge me, man. You going to get enslaved?

  445. You're lucky you're not dead. How did they get all the way

  446. back to Bethlehem without being hurt?

  447. If only there could be an answer.

  448. Could be the sovereignty and protection of God.

  449. A couple years ago I drove my daughter back from Orlando and I

  450. picked her up in this little rental van, 2 wheel drive and

  451. we're driving back and we get stuck in a Blizzard.

  452. It's January by the way. It snows in Florida.

  453. Did you know that? It was super weird.

  454. I was like, I don't know how crocodiles deal with anyways, so

  455. I'm driving and all I'm doing because I've packed this, this

  456. rental van with all the stuff and I'm driving that you can't

  457. see and I'm, you know, I can't see anything.

  458. I'm just complaining the whole way.

  459. I make it all the way back. And it was only after I got back

  460. that I, I realized we counted something like 17 overturned big

  461. rigs on the road out of DFW because the snow was so fierce.

  462. Things were running off the road and flipping everywhere.

  463. And we made it fine. And so in the in the moment when

  464. I'm full of emotion, all I had was complaint.

  465. But when it's done and I look back ago, you know, that

  466. probably took an army of angels to get us here safely get rid of

  467. this. How easily this could have been

  468. a very different story if God had not been protecting these

  469. two ladies as they, you know, 1 does not simply walk into

  470. Mordor. They didn't even have a ring and

  471. they were little hobbits. But somehow they make this whole

  472. trip and they're fine and they don't even she didn't even

  473. realize in the moment, right? She didn't even thankful at all.

  474. She doesn't see it. But what about you?

  475. You who has has run from God, has rebelled against God, angry

  476. that you didn't get your way? How much of God's goodness and

  477. kindness are you completely ignoring in your life right now?

  478. You get so caught up in our feelings and in our emotions.

  479. You may miss the providential and sovereign hand of God all

  480. around you. You don't see it right now.

  481. But listen, from my experience, what was what's going to happen

  482. is in the months or years after, as you begin to realize, you're

  483. going to look in the rearview mirror of your car, except this

  484. will be the rearview mirror of your life.

  485. And you're going to look back and go.

  486. And God was so good to me. God was so gracious to me in

  487. that moment. Not only did He not punish me

  488. for what I deserved, for what I earned, not only did He not

  489. punish me, but He lavished His grace and mercy upon me.

  490. Where are you blaming God for something instead of realizing

  491. the grace and mercy that He is extending you?

  492. Here's the Third Point from our, our first chapter, this story,

  493. you can always come home. You know, there's a lot of us

  494. here that we have wayward kids that are off doing whatever

  495. they're doing. And, and the I think you'd love

  496. to be able to really communicate is to look them in the eyes so

  497. you can always come home. Jesus would tell us of a similar

  498. story about 1000 years after this story about a son who

  499. demands his inheritance while his dad is still alive, which is

  500. incredibly offensive, and then abandons his family and runs

  501. away to squander everything in a foreign country with rich

  502. living, only to fall into poverty, starvation, and finally

  503. decides I'm going to go home. And as he's walking back with

  504. his head hung in shame, his father sees him from a a long

  505. way off because he's there waiting, watching, hoping.

  506. And he runs them and he puts his arms around him and he welcomes

  507. him home. Naomi goes home.

  508. This is the message of Christmas.

  509. Christmas didn't start with trees and ornaments and hot

  510. cocoa. It started with broken people

  511. who'd gotten themselves into a mess that they couldn't fix.

  512. Every generation since Adam and Eve were the first humans.

  513. Every generation has been born under the curse of sin because

  514. of that first rebellion against God, and every generation,

  515. including yours and mine, has rebelled against God.

  516. The Bible says that you and I were born into sin, born into

  517. rebellion, born spiritually dead and out of options, just like

  518. Naomi sitting in Moab. No other choices.

  519. But God in his graciousness sent Jesus, his only Son, to save the

  520. world. Christmas is about God reaching

  521. into broken humanity to offer us a chance to come home, come

  522. home. The great irony is that God

  523. gives us the greatest gift ever given, His Son, the Savior of

  524. the world. And yet, how many people reject

  525. Christ in this world? How many people reject His

  526. Lordship over their lives? He came to save us, and we still

  527. choose our own control and our own preference over the King of

  528. Kings and the Lord of Lords. So many of the things that have

  529. happened in my life, it was not God's hand against me, it was

  530. not God treating me bitterly. It was a God allowing me to

  531. suffer the consequences of my own choices and my own decisions

  532. so that I would see how good He is compared to this world.

  533. How about you? Where do you need to come home

  534. from today? Where have you been chasing your

  535. own logic, your own reason, your own emotion, your own feelings

  536. and as a result running from what God has for you?

  537. Where is Christ calling you to come home?

  538. Have you been allowing doubt and fear about the your

  539. circumstances and, and your future to consume your thought

  540. life and, and, and your choices instead of resting in what God

  541. has promised, living in a way that dependent on God?

  542. Have you been prioritizing the things of this world?

  543. This is exactly what Elimelech did.

  544. Prioritizing your job or, or, or money or success or

  545. relationships or comfort and, and you will realize at some

  546. point you are worshipping idols. Have you fallen in love with

  547. this world, the things that it offers, and now find yourself

  548. dissatisfied with it all? Have you sat in the pain or the

  549. hurt of what someone did to you and allowed that to change your

  550. perspective of God and others and yourself?

  551. You see, oftentimes God will let us get to the point where we're

  552. ready to throw our hands up in frustration and scream at God.

  553. And that's a wonderful place because you're at a point where

  554. you might actually listen to what he's saying.

  555. And he's saying, come home. He's been waiting.

  556. God beckons the broken to bless them.

  557. He's calling Naomi home. For the Christian who who finds

  558. themselves where I found myself plenty of times.

  559. There's a formula in in scripture.

  560. Every time we come back to God after we've run from him.

  561. It's very simple. It's not easy, but it's very

  562. simple. Confess in prayer and and to

  563. someone else. Confess what we've done where

  564. we've rebelled against God. Confess.

  565. Maybe that's in accountability. Maybe that's in a group that

  566. you're in. Maybe that's with a close

  567. brother or sister in Christ. Maybe you don't have anybody and

  568. our per team will be up here in a little bit and you can come up

  569. and just just I need to confess. I've been running from God.

  570. Secondly, repent. Turn away from whatever you've

  571. been chasing. Turn toward God.

  572. This is what Naomi does. She turns away from Moab.

  573. She turns toward Bethlehem. Turn away from what you've been

  574. chasing, turn toward God. And 3rd recommit to pursuing

  575. Christ and his community. Just ask for help.

  576. Join a group, jump in the team, begin to pursue God with others.

  577. Last week we had an opportunity to pray together, and I had

  578. person after person after person come up and go.

  579. I thought that was going to be boring.

  580. No, it's powerful. You need other people.

  581. We don't like to admit we need other people, but we need other

  582. people. It's a very simple formula.

  583. Confess, repent, pursue. It's not easy to do.

  584. You know why it's not easy to do?

  585. Because to to do that, we actually have to admit that

  586. we're wrong. We have to admit that we need

  587. others. We have to admit that God was

  588. right. And oh, does our pride not like

  589. that? Let me just encourage you as a

  590. lifelong failure to pride, repentance, confession.

  591. It is worth it. Maybe the most liberating thing

  592. in life is to confess and cry out to God.

  593. Come home, Christian, come home. Maybe you're not a Christian.

  594. Maybe you're not Naomi in the story today.

  595. Maybe you're Ruth. Maybe you spent your entire life

  596. worshipping other gods, other things, and for some

  597. inexplicable reason you have found yourself here today or or

  598. watching online and you're not even sure why.

  599. Let me explain why the God of Naomi, the God of Ruth, the God

  600. of Daniel, the God of the Bible, desires to be your God.

  601. Jesus Christ is calling you home.

  602. No matter your background, no matter your past, your

  603. decisions, your pain, you can have relationship with the God

  604. of this universe. He is calling you.

  605. That's why you're even paying attention right now.

  606. You didn't choose this. God has been wooing you to come

  607. home. The one who created you, who

  608. knit you together in your mother's womb, who knows the

  609. number of hairs on your head. He's calling you to come home.

  610. And I'll just tell you personally, from experience,

  611. Jesus is worth it. He is so worth it.

  612. Jesus who did not consider himself when he went to the

  613. cross to die for us. He is good, He is wise, He is

  614. powerful, He is God, He is King, and He is the only one that can

  615. actually sit on the throne of my heart and create life and

  616. future. So maybe that's you today.

  617. You've never let God be the Lord of your life.

  618. No one else can decide that for you.

  619. No one else can give control of your heart over to God.

  620. Only you can do that. No one else can declare Christ's

  621. king for you. Only you can do that.

  622. Will you do that today? Will you come home?

  623. If you want to surrender your life to Christ today, I want to

  624. give you an opportunity to do that before we finish our

  625. service. Will you bow with me for just a

  626. brief moment as we pray? If you're willing to ask God for

  627. forgiveness and salvation with every eye closed, every head

  628. bowed, I just want you to quietly or or silently repeat

  629. this prayer after me. If you're a Christian who feels

  630. like you've been running from God, I want you to use this as

  631. an opportunity to confess and repent.

  632. Turn toward God. All right.

  633. You want to give your life to Christ.

  634. Repeat after me. Jesus, I know I'm a Sinner and I

  635. can't save myself. I want you to save me.

  636. I surrender everything to you. Be my Lord.

  637. Please, Jesus, you said that prayer for the very first time.

  638. You've given your life to Christ.

  639. Would you be brave and raise your hand for me to see?

  640. Awesome. Thank you.

  641. Thank you. Put chance now in Jesus name,

  642. Amen. Real quick, Real quick.

  643. If you just ask God to save you, welcome to the family.

  644. The Bible says that when a single person turns to God,

  645. gives a life to the Lord that all of heaven celebrates and

  646. they are partying right now. In just a minute, when you

  647. stand, we're going to sing a song.

  648. In just a minute, we're going to close just a second In the back

  649. there are tables. It says I raised my hand if, if,

  650. if today or recently you've given your life to Christ and

  651. you haven't told anybody. I want you to make your way back

  652. there as we respond to this service and tell somebody we

  653. we'd love to celebrate with you. We have a gift for you.

  654. We're excited. I'm going to talk about what

  655. this journey looks like, but maybe, maybe today what you

  656. needed was confession and you don't know where you're going to

  657. turn for that. Well, our prayer team is about

  658. to be up here. We love praying with you,

  659. praying for you. Amen.

  660. If you just want to come and get prayed for, prayed over.

  661. If you need somebody to confess with, we'd love to do that with

  662. you too. You move as the Lord leads you.

  663. We love you. Merry Christmas.