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When You're Too Scared To Take The Risk - December 14, 2025

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  1. Good morning. My name is Daniel.

  2. I'm the lead pastor here at Rez Church.

  3. Welcome to Rez. Merry Christmas.

  4. I think guys are not in the Christmas spirit yet.

  5. I can tell. All right, OK.

  6. We're in week 3 of this series. Going to talk about in just a

  7. minute. How do you know?

  8. And I can get this question every once in a while.

  9. Maybe you've had this, too. How do you know when a decision

  10. that you're thinking about making is, is something that God

  11. is leading you into something that would please the Lord

  12. versus something maybe that is, is not of God at all and, and

  13. wouldn't be pleasing to God? And I, I, I, I think that that

  14. is one of the things that we deal with a lot of Christians

  15. trying to understand what it looks like to follow God's

  16. prompting and not necessarily make bad decisions.

  17. I, I, when, a couple years ago when, when my wife and I decided

  18. to close our, our businesses and, and I was going to go into

  19. ministry for full time and just be a full time pastor.

  20. You know, they're, I was really trying to just struggling with

  21. the, I think God is, is asking me to do this.

  22. And, you know, one of the things that difficult was like, that

  23. was not a very attractive thing to do.

  24. Like certainly financially this is not very attractive.

  25. And I thought, man, I don't know if this is something that God

  26. is, is doing or not, but over time, I just felt like God was

  27. really moving in an area and he was inviting me into what was

  28. acceptable obedience. It was was not necessarily easy

  29. and you know, in those moments you're struggling with is is God

  30. leading me to this or, or am I making an unwise decision And I

  31. we're going to see something like that again today.

  32. We've seen it throughout this book of Ruth as we've been

  33. reading through it. And I think my struggle for

  34. that. Maybe you're maybe you can

  35. relate to this struggle is often times what God is asking me to

  36. do is not very logical. Anyone else like logic?

  37. Me and me and logic are really good buddies.

  38. We spend a lot of time together and there are times where God is

  39. going to ask us to do some that we feel like is illogical.

  40. And so we're going to see that all we'll talk about the rest of

  41. that story in a minute, but we're going to see that here in

  42. chapter 3 today. So if you're if you're just

  43. joining us, let me catch you up. We are doing our Christmas

  44. series in the book of Ruth, which happened 1100 years before

  45. the actual Christmas story and we're in chapter 3.

  46. So in in the 1st chapter there's a lady named Naomi and her

  47. husband and they make a disastrous decision to disobey

  48. God and to move away from Bethlehem into the country of

  49. Moab, which was forbidden. God said don't do it, don't

  50. associate with those people. They did it anyways.

  51. Then they married both of their sons to Moabite women and it did

  52. not go well. That's probably an

  53. understatement. All the men died and they were

  54. left, Naomi, a widow and her two Moabite daughter in

  55. And then in chapter 2, we see God begin to move in

  56. supernaturally into this moment, into this, this point of the

  57. story. And while God had kept them safe

  58. in chapter 1, we see more explicit provision by God in

  59. chapter 2. And So what happens is Ruth

  60. there, there's a Judaic law that says when you're harvesting the

  61. field that if you some of the grain drops, you have to leave

  62. it there. And that's so that the poor, the

  63. starving can come behind and pick up this leftover grain.

  64. And so we see Ruth go out to a field in Chapter 2 and she's

  65. picking up this leftover grain that that falls on the ground,

  66. but it's back breaking work. She, she, she's there before

  67. sunrise. She stays till after sundown,

  68. day after day. And then trying to get enough

  69. grain, not only to not starve, but also to take care of this

  70. mother-in-law who's too old to work.

  71. She's noticed by the landowner, Boaz, and he in an act of

  72. kindness, invites her. She, she gets to stay with his

  73. servants during lunch and eat. And he, he has, he says, stay

  74. near my servants for protection because there's actually no law

  75. protecting her in this land. And he's very kind to her.

  76. And so he notices in Chapter 2 her, her character, her hard

  77. work, her loyalty. He gives her extra grain.

  78. He gives about 40 lbs of grain to take back so that they don't

  79. starve. And now we're going to go to

  80. Chapter 3. That's going to be today and

  81. what happens in Chapter 3. The first thing you need to

  82. know. Here if you're if you've got

  83. your Bible. Open is there is a Fast forward

  84. from Chapter 2 to Chapter 3. So actually two months or so has

  85. elapsed from the end of Chapter 2 to the beginning of Chapter 3.

  86. And that's important to note because there's a lot that

  87. actually occurred during those two months that we will have to

  88. catch up on in order to understand what's going on.

  89. Because what happened is at the beginning, these two ladies get

  90. to Bethlehem, it's the beginning of barley harvest.

  91. That takes a certain amount of time.

  92. After that, there's something called the wheat harvest, and

  93. we're at the very end of that. So we're about two months

  94. elapsed. Now in that time, they work six

  95. days a week. And Ruth has been working six

  96. days a week through two months, picking up just literally in the

  97. dirt, picking up leftover grain from before the sun comes up

  98. till after the sun goes down. 50 days of that fifty work days,

  99. it's about 775 labor hours crawling around in the dirt,

  100. picking up grain to have enough to not starve.

  101. That's pretty crazy. See, you see, there's a, there's

  102. a beautiful tension in the Bible and it and it's all throughout

  103. this story in every chapter. And the same tension, tension

  104. exists even in the gospel of Christ.

  105. And the tension is this Who's responsible for the blessings

  106. and the successes in my life? Is it me or is it God?

  107. Yes, the answer is yes. The two women have to come back

  108. to Bethlehem where they were supposed to be in the 1st place.

  109. But it's God that protects them. So, so both were involved in

  110. that process. God is is protecting them.

  111. He has provision for them. But they still had to make the

  112. journey and it was long and it was hard.

  113. It could have potentially been dangerous.

  114. And then they get back. God blesses them, but

  115. providentially sending Ruth accidentally it seems like, into

  116. this field that ends up being a relative who cares for her and

  117. and allows her to work there and keeps her safe.

  118. But. She still had to get up every.

  119. Single morning before the sun was up and work 12/14/16 hour

  120. days. Six days a week.

  121. So God is providing, but at the same time there's hard work.

  122. That is, Ruth has spent some This is tough work. 50 days of

  123. this. 50 days of grinding and sweating. 50 days of being

  124. lonely, 50 days of doubt, 50 days of early mornings at at

  125. late nights, 50 days of of everything being so sore you can

  126. barely move. God provided the opportunity for

  127. blessing, but that did not remove Ruth's need to go and

  128. work really, really hard. This blessing would never have

  129. actually been received if Ruth had cried out to God and then

  130. sat in her tent and been like, well, when he wants to bless me,

  131. he'll bring it to me. So it's it's both.

  132. And So what we see is God providing, but Ruth having to

  133. step into that blessing and work hard.

  134. And I want you to see the theme and you're going to see the same

  135. theme again here in chapter 3 that we've seen already.

  136. And, and it's this idea when God moves, when God, when God does a

  137. miracle, when God does something supernatural, it's an invitation

  138. to participation. It's an invitation to

  139. participation. Every time that we see God move,

  140. He allows us to recognize that he's doing something, and that's

  141. an invitation for us to move toward Him and step into that as

  142. he leads. It's always an invitation to

  143. join Him. And so keep that in mind as we.

  144. Pick up our. Reading in chapter 3 verse one.

  145. Join me here. That'll be on the screen as

  146. well. If you don't have your Bible,

  147. then Naomi, Ruth's mother-in-law, said to her, My

  148. daughter, should I not seek? Rest for you.

  149. That it may be well with you is not Boaz.

  150. That's the landowner or relative with whose young women you were.

  151. OK. So culturally, again, you got to

  152. set your minds right. It's not 2025 in America.

  153. It's 1100 BC in the Middle East. And for Ruth and for for Naomi,

  154. you know, the rules of the culture are different.

  155. And so Naomi sinks. She has one obligation left as a

  156. mother-in-law and that is to find a husband for Ruth.

  157. It's very important. It's so important that if you go

  158. back to chapter 1, she tells Ruth, hey, look, you should just

  159. go back to your people because I'm too old to have more sons to

  160. get you a husband. And even if I could have a son,

  161. you're not going to wait for him.

  162. Everything for her is dominated by like, it's my responsibility

  163. to make sure Ruth has a husband. And this we're back to this

  164. again two chapters later, and here's her plan.

  165. And she about to start scheming. I'm just going to tell you now

  166. it's going to get weird, OK? You were warned.

  167. She see he Boaz is winnowing barley tonight at the threshing

  168. floor, because the harvests are over.

  169. Wash therefore, and anoint yourself.

  170. So you know, put on some perfume and put on your cloak and go

  171. down to the threshing floor. But do not make yourself known

  172. to the man until he has finished eating and drinking.

  173. But when he lies down, observe the place where he lies.

  174. Then go and uncover his feet and lie down and he will tell you

  175. what to do. And she replied all that you say

  176. I will do. Now you could read this and you

  177. could think this is a bit shady. Like, wait until this guy has

  178. had the the feast at the end of the harvest and has has drank a

  179. lot of wine and then sneak in and uncover him in the dark and

  180. lie down. What does lie down mean?

  181. And if you're thinking like there have been some

  182. commentaries historically that are like, no, we're not sure

  183. what that means. Like the author of the story is

  184. is very vague, kind of on purpose.

  185. This storyteller does leave some things for you to imagine.

  186. But I will just tell you, let me just tell you this right now.

  187. I'm never giving my daughter this advice.

  188. What is that plan? Absolutely not.

  189. Listen girl, go get your hair did.

  190. Get your nails done, put some perfume on and then shake it in

  191. the dark when he's had a bunch to drink and like, what are you

  192. talking about? No, do not do do not do

  193. unsubscribe. Naomi has been scheming

  194. shipments now. If you had no know much about

  195. her lady, she actually came from a guy named Jacob who was called

  196. a schemer. So this kind of runs in the

  197. family. She's been thinking hard about

  198. this. And part of the reason she she

  199. doesn't say just like, why don't you just go to Boaz and ask, you

  200. know, and have a conversation is that there were there were

  201. cultural rules and laws about who would marry a widow.

  202. And it wasn't him. He wasn't the next in line to

  203. do. There was no responsibility for

  204. him to do this. So.

  205. So it's kind of in doubt. So she doesn't want to leave

  206. things to doubt. She wants to kind of scheme

  207. about how to how to do this. And like, let's just think about

  208. this. Where'd she get the oil to

  209. anoint Ruth with? They didn't bring that from the

  210. lab, man. She took some of that grain and

  211. she went to the Mart. She's been planning.

  212. OK. Did like, if you're old enough,

  213. you remember the A-Team, right? Like, like when that, like she's

  214. putting it all together, Mission Impossible.

  215. It's like Tom Cruise, she's going to rappel down this thing

  216. and she's putting a plan together here.

  217. Like you're going to do this, you're going to do this.

  218. You're going to sneak in in the dark, You're going to.

  219. And then you see Ruth's like, OK, this ought to get

  220. interesting. She's been scheming.

  221. Now he, I will say this, and this is important to note, this

  222. is the last night of the last harvest.

  223. This is the last moment. That Ruth is going to see Boaz

  224. for the whole season, like until the next next harvest probably.

  225. There's no reason for them to be around.

  226. She's been getting to see him dailies at least six days a week

  227. in the fields as she goes to harvest.

  228. And this is it. This is the last chance.

  229. The very last chance. Last shot.

  230. Look, if you had one shot and one opportunity to seize

  231. everything you ever wanted in one moment, would you capture it

  232. or just let it slip? Now that's not the Bible.

  233. That's from a deep philosopher. Named Slim Shady, but her palms

  234. probably wore sweaty knees. Weak arms are heavy.

  235. Mom's spaghetti, anyways. Why is she why is she nervous?

  236. Why would she be nervous? Like you're thinking she's

  237. nervous because she's going to sneak in and and maybe be

  238. rejected. And we all no one likes

  239. rejection. But that's not actually why, why

  240. she's really nervous because I mean, that's maybe part of it,

  241. but but you need to understand the danger of what she's doing

  242. in this moment. There are no laws or no cultural

  243. laws that protect her in a culture that looks down on

  244. women. She's about to sneak in

  245. somewhere and she is about she could be abused.

  246. She could be she. He could.

  247. He could come out of this scenario accusing her of some

  248. really inappropriate things. She already is a foreigner who's

  249. looked down upon as a Moabite woman.

  250. She could be ostracized. I mean, things could go really,

  251. really poorly in this moment beyond just rejection.

  252. He could take advantage of her and throw her out because she

  253. has no right to, no protection, no one looking out for her.

  254. But both Naomi and Ruth, in these moments we've seen, they

  255. see God moving and and Naomi for all.

  256. Of the weird. Scheming it is telling her you

  257. need to, you need to press into where God is moving.

  258. This is an invitation. It is an invitation to

  259. participation. Maybe not in this way, maybe not

  260. to do it this way, but it is an invitation, so she's going to do

  261. it. Here we go over 6.

  262. She went down to the threshing floor and did just as her

  263. mother-in-law had commanded her. And when Boaz had eaten and

  264. drunk and his heart was merry. Mary, as in Sir, you may not

  265. legally operate a motor vehicle in all 50 states, Mary.

  266. OK. He went to lie down at the end

  267. of the heap of grain. Then she saw, came softly and

  268. uncovered his feet. Now they don't wear blankets.

  269. He has an outer cloak. So she's uncovering his cloak.

  270. So I said it gets a little. Sketchy and lays down to his

  271. feet. Verse 8 And at midnight the man

  272. was startled and turned over and behold, a woman lay at his feet.

  273. You can imagine, right? You wake up, it's dark and

  274. you're like, how much did I drink?

  275. And he says. Who are you?

  276. Now that's how you know it's really dark because he's seen

  277. Ruth every single day. He knows exactly what she looks

  278. like. They've had all these

  279. conversations and he's like, there's not a.

  280. Lot of Night Lights in 1100 BC right and he's like who are you

  281. now this line I don't want you to miss this line this.

  282. This is the line. OK, this is probably.

  283. The line of the whole book of Ruth.

  284. So I need to see it. I'll explain why it's such a

  285. line in a minute. And she answered.

  286. I am Ruth, your servant. Spread your wings over your

  287. servant for your Redeemer. Now, like, let me explain

  288. because this is like, this is a certified bar.

  289. Naomi. When Naomi gave her the scheme,

  290. she didn't tell her what to say. If you remember the instructions

  291. she said, get yourself all done up sneaking in the dark.

  292. He'll tell you what to do. But he didn't.

  293. So she's coming up with this. Live in the moment, she says.

  294. I am Ruth, your servant. Spread your wings over your

  295. servant for your Redeemer. Now when she says that, don't

  296. just think about if you were here last week when they met and

  297. she introduced herself. She said she called herself your

  298. servant. Except what you can't see in

  299. English is she used a different Hebrew term.

  300. See, the first Hebrew term meant servant.

  301. The second Hebrew term that she's using right here means

  302. servant. But there's an extra connotation

  303. here that that communicates status.

  304. And what she says here would actually be translated as I am

  305. your single servant. I am your unmarried servant.

  306. So there's this is this is pregnant with possibility here.

  307. OK, so she says. I am your single, unmarried

  308. servant. And then she says, spread your

  309. wings over me. Now, the Hebrew word for wings

  310. that she's using has two definitions.

  311. One of them is, is the wings of a bird.

  312. OK. The other one means literally

  313. means the edge of 1's outer cloak.

  314. So she's laying at his feet. She has uncovered the outer

  315. cloak and she's saying spread your wings over me.

  316. Now that line matters because if you turn back one page to Ruth

    Ruth 2 chapter mention

  317. Chapter 2, two months earlier they met, and when they met,

  318. Boaz said something to her. Here's what he said.

  319. This is Ruth 2 verses 11 and 12. He said.

    Ruth 2:11

  320. Boaz answered her. All that you have done for your

  321. mother-in-law since the death of your husband has been.

  322. Fully told to me and how you left your father and mother of

  323. your native land and came to a people that you didn't know

  324. before verse 12 the this is the Lord repay you for what you have

  325. done and a full reward be given to you by the Lord the God of

  326. Israel under whose word under whose wings you have come to

  327. take refuge. OK, so he says that it's almost

  328. like he's. Prophetically praying a blessing

  329. over he has recognized the risk that she's taken the loyalty of

  330. this woman and he's like you've put yourself under the wings of

  331. the Lord and now here sketchy encounter in the dark two months

  332. later and she looks at him and says spread your wings over your

  333. servant. What is she saying?

  334. He's saying look and I I want God to recognize what you've

  335. done to protect you to bless you.

  336. And eight weeks later, in the middle of the night, she looks

  337. at him and she says. You be those wings you want to

  338. pray God's protection and blessing over me.

  339. You be those wings, Boaz, because you're a Redeemer.

  340. Now if if you're new to that the Bible, maybe you've never read

  341. it or you don't really believe in it.

  342. You need to understand this term Redeemer has has a bunch of

  343. implications and we'll talk a. Little bit about.

  344. Some of the legal implications of that term Redeemer that are

  345. laid out in some books like Leviticus chapter 25 and

    Leviticus 25 chapter mention

  346. Deuteronomy chapter 25. We'll talk about that next week

    Deuteronomy 25 chapter mention

  347. because this is going to come to fruition.

  348. But she, she's a foreigner. She doesn't even know any of

  349. these laws. What is she saying in the

  350. moment? Then when she says you're a

  351. Redeemer, what she's saying is, hey, you are someone that can

  352. protect and provide and step in the gap where where my life is

  353. hopeless and nothing that I can do can fix the problem.

  354. Someone else is going to have to step in and redeem me.

  355. You're a Redeemer. You see, Boaz, two months ago

  356. saw God's hand at work in Ruth's life, and he commented on it and

  357. he prayed over her and he praised this blessing.

  358. And two months later, she looks and goes, You're the blessing,

  359. you're the blessing. You're someone who can make

  360. away. You see, that's why.

  361. Ruth is a Christmas story. Even though it takes place in

  362. millennia before Christmas, because that is the Christmas

  363. story. The Bible speaks to this in

  364. Isaiah 44, six. The Bible prophetically says

  365. this. Thus says the Lord, the King of

  366. Israel and his Redeemer, the Lord of hosts.

  367. I am the 1st and I am the last. Besides me, there is no God.

  368. The message of the Bible throughout the Old Testament is

  369. you are hopeless. Merry Christmas.

  370. You're hopeless. You're Ruth, a foreigner in a

  371. foreign land with no help, and nobody's coming but me.

  372. I'm coming. Jesus did this willingly.

  373. See we the message, the Bible's we're hopeless and we needed a

  374. Savior. We needed a Redeemer.

  375. Ephesians 1. Seven through 10.

  376. The Apostle Paul. In after Jesus comes, he's going

  377. to look back and he's going to explain it this way so that we

  378. would understand it and not miss it.

  379. He says this in him. Jesus, we have redemption

  380. through his blood. Redemption.

  381. There's that word again. We have redemption.

  382. We've been redeemed. We've been bought with a price

  383. through His blood that He shed on the cross, the forgiveness of

  384. our trespasses, according to the riches of His grace which He

  385. lavished upon us in all wisdom and insight, making known to us

  386. the mystery of His will according to His purpose which

  387. He set forth in Christ as a plan for the fullness of time to

  388. unite all things in Christ, things in heaven, and things on

  389. earth. Jesus did this willingly, and

  390. Boaz will do this willingly. See it here verse 10.

  391. She says you be those wings Boaz for sin.

  392. He said, may you be blessed by the Lord.

  393. My daughter, you have made this last kindness greater than the

  394. first and that you have not gone after young men, whether rich or

  395. poor. And now my daughter, do not

  396. fear. Do not fear because I know the

  397. risk you took coming here. Do not fear.

  398. I will do for you all that you ask for.

  399. My fellow, you'd underline this. If you're reading this for my

  400. fellow townsmen, know that you are a worthy woman.

  401. In two months, the entire town knows that the Moabite widow is

  402. a worthy woman. How did that happen?

  403. She, she's from a nation explicitly excluded by law.

  404. There's a law that says you can't even marry people from

  405. there. And and he's saying two months

  406. later that everyone in town knows you're a worthy woman.

  407. How? Well, she has displayed

  408. integrity, She's displayed loyalty.

  409. She has worked hard for two months, shown up before the sun

  410. came up every single morning and all the way to sundown.

  411. She's shown humility and how she spoke to Boaz when she met him

  412. in chapter 2. In fact, you know, if we were

  413. to, if we were to say, well, you know what does make a worthy

  414. woman? The Bible gives us a chapter in

  415. Proverbs 31. It's an entire chapter, almost a

  416. whole chapter that says this is what a worthy woman looks like.

  417. That she's trustworthy. Ruth's pretty trustworthy.

  418. That she rises early in the morning to provide, and Ruth's

  419. been doing that for two months. That she meets other needs

  420. first, like this mother-in-law that she didn't have to stay

  421. with, who's too old to work, and that she's out there breaking

  422. her back to feed her. That she's a hard worker, as if

  423. she provides for her household. And on and on and on.

  424. In fact, I would challenge you this week.

  425. Go open up Proverbs 31 and and read through that description of

  426. a worthy woman. And what you're going to see is

  427. a description of Ruth. So much so that in two months

  428. time the entire town apparently knows her reputation and she

  429. didn't have to tell anyone. Do you realize that she didn't

  430. have to put a single post on Instagram?

  431. No, no, no self promotion did this.

  432. Her character was on display through hard work and everyone

  433. noticed and she some of us want a blessing that our character

  434. can't handle. This blessing comes two months

  435. later, after just grueling work for months, and she has the

  436. character, actually. For the blessing, but, but, but

  437. for a lot of us, man, how often, how, how many times have I

  438. prayed for something from the Lord that if he gave it to me,

  439. my character couldn't have handled anyways, it would have

  440. hurt me. You, you, you pray for, for

  441. financial blessing that you can't even handle because you

  442. can't steward your money. I I play, I pray for for the

  443. church to grow faster and then realize that I don't think I'm

  444. enough of a leader to handle that growth anyways.

  445. What, what if, what if my character is not ready for the

  446. blessings that I'm asking God for?

  447. Is he a good God if he's going to give that to me when I, I

  448. couldn't handle it? In the Bible, the, the frequent

  449. analogy that we'll see in scripture about refining.

  450. So someone's character is the refining fire.

  451. It's like it's metallurgy, right?

  452. Where, where they heat up metal and then they scrape out the

  453. impurities in order to purify the metal and talks about our

  454. character being that way. And, and that's good.

  455. I like to think of it more like cooking in an oven, probably

  456. because I like food more. Than metallurgy, but you know,

  457. and so I you ever you ever take something out of the oven too

  458. early doesn't taste real good. You see, I think there's plenty

  459. of times in my life where I'm praying for something and God's

  460. like, well, let's check. You know, he puts on the

  461. heavenly oven mitts and he pulls the oven down and he pulls

  462. Daniel out and he goes, well, plenty plump enough, but not

  463. done yet. And he just pushes me back in,

  464. closes that oven back up, sets that timer again.

  465. We'll check on him in a little while.

  466. Character's not ready, going to need more time.

  467. God only gives us the blessings that our character can handle.

  468. Now, in this moment, as Boaz is recognizing that Ruth is a woman

  469. of character and is actually affirming that the entire town

  470. now knows that she is a woman of character.

  471. He's not. Actually required to do

  472. anything. He's not legally obligated to

  473. redeem her, to marry her, to take care of her.

  474. That's not in the rules. But he chooses to.

  475. And I need you to see that this is voluntary.

  476. He's not legally required to do any of this.

  477. He has the ability to. He has the standing, he has the

  478. resources. He may be one of the only people

  479. in town that truly could do this, but he isn't.

  480. He isn't required to do it. And look, he's not tricked.

  481. He's not seduced. He's not leveraged.

  482. He's not manipulated. Boaz chooses to love Ruth.

  483. He chooses. Don't miss that, because love is

  484. a choice. You don't fall in love, you fall

  485. into emotions. You can't fall in love because

  486. love doesn't have gravity. You can fall in a swimming pool,

  487. you can fall down the stairs, but love is a choice.

  488. That's also why you can't fall out of love.

  489. Want to sit down with married couples and someone's like?

  490. Well, you know, I just don't. Love them anymore, I go well,

  491. you chose that. That's a choice.

  492. Boaz chooses to love her. He didn't have to.

  493. Real love isn't a. Feeling you fall into it's a

  494. choice you make. That's why we call marriage a

  495. covenant, because it's not just emotions.

  496. When the feelings fade, the choice to love remains.

  497. Boaz chooses to love Ruth. Why am I making such a big deal

  498. about this? Because Jesus chooses to love

  499. us. He didn't have to.

  500. He chose to. So look at verse 12.

  501. Boaz is going to finish this answer.

  502. And now it is true that I am a Redeemer, meaning he is

  503. technically related to the widow.

  504. Yet there is a Redeemer nearer than I.

  505. I'll explain why that matters next week.

  506. Remain tonight in the morning. If he will redeem you, good, let

  507. him do it. But if not, he's not willing to

  508. redeem you. Then as the Lord lives, I will

  509. redeem you. Lie down until the morning.

  510. Verse 14. So she lay at his feet until the

  511. morning. But arose before one could

  512. recognize another. So it's still dark.

  513. And he said let it not be known that the woman came to the

  514. threshing floor. He's protecting her reputation.

  515. And he said bring the garment you're wearing, hold it out.

  516. She held it out and he measured 6 measures of barley and put it

  517. on her. And then she went out to the

  518. city. I just I want you to see that

  519. that is an intense amount of integrity.

  520. Like how many single men faced with that scenario?

  521. Fail. You want to be a man of God.

  522. It is about character. We develop character with no

  523. one's looking in the dark. We work on honoring God in the

  524. smallest ways, in those common ways that you and I are going to

  525. honor God. In fact, the most common ways

  526. we're going to be invited in to participate in God's work is the

  527. Holy Spirit is going to convict. US of sin, someone's going to

  528. correct us when they see a sin, and our job in humility is to

  529. receive that and repent. Obedience, humility, repentance,

  530. obedience, humility, repentance. I get corrected because I I said

  531. something unkind and instead of getting defensive, I obey the

  532. prompting of the Holy Spirit. I confess that to God.

  533. I apologize for my actions to the person.

  534. I, I, I get, I get caught up in some worldly pursuit or, or or

  535. doing too or working too much or too much free time or too many

  536. hobbies or too much fantasy football.

  537. No one's ever done that before, right?

  538. Something and God gently corrects me and I confess my sin

  539. and I put things in place to go chase him faster.

  540. That's the recipe to develop character, and it's going to

  541. take this happening hundreds of times in our lives.

  542. Obeying God's call to holiness over and over and over again to

  543. ever have a character worth anything.

  544. Boaz, lonely, tipsy in the dark, wakes up with a beautiful young

  545. woman at his feet, and everything he does in this

  546. moment is honorable. It's a man of character, so God

  547. moves and he invites us in that move in that moment to join him

  548. to participate. He protects the women in chapter

  549. 1, but they still have to make the the grueling journey in

  550. chapter 2. He provides sustenance and

  551. Providence through a field, but Ruth still has to get up every

  552. day and work her little tail end off.

  553. And then in chapter 3, here's maybe not the best advice from

  554. Naomi, but there's an opportunity.

  555. They see God moving and they step into that.

  556. Take a risk toward Boaz in our lives.

  557. When you notice that God is at work, it is always an invitation

  558. to join Him in that work that that stranger who suddenly

  559. begins to share with you something disastrous is going on

  560. in their life. Stop what you're doing and go

  561. pray for them right there in that moment that that that is

  562. not an accidental conversation. That relative who suddenly

  563. becomes interested in conversations about faith or

  564. spirituality or the afterlife. Stop what you're doing.

  565. Drop everything that that God is moving in their life.

  566. Go speak to them and spend time with them.

  567. That opportunity to to serve in some new ministry or area you've

  568. never really considered. Why do you think you're being

  569. like again, over and over and over again, God is going to move

  570. and it is an invitation. You begin to step into that and

  571. see if God is moving in those things.

  572. Do we have this horrible problem in our lives?

  573. We say we we worship. The God of the universe who

  574. created everything simply by speaking it into existence.

  575. And he wants our prayers. And then we're like, yeah, but I

  576. don't ever pray. I talk more about the things I

  577. should pray for, then I actually pray for them.

  578. And if I ever do get around to praying for them, and then God

  579. moves, I ignore that he's moving because that would be an act of

  580. obedience that might be hard. So yeah.

  581. Because God has a purpose and a. Future for you and he's not

  582. silent, he's not idle. God is at work around you, but

  583. in his graciousness he doesn't just do it.

  584. He invites you to participate in it and that changes us in the

  585. process. You realize that God doesn't

  586. have to invite you to participate.

  587. Like yeah, God doesn't need you to get things done.

  588. This is like inviting your 3 year old to do chores with you.

  589. It's going to take longer for God to use me to do Kingdom

  590. things. It's actually going to take

  591. longer than if He just did it himself, just like a three-year

  592. old He's. Doing it as an act of kindness

  593. so that I get to participate and be like, hey dad, I worked at it

  594. too. He's like, sure you did.

  595. And it changes me in the process.

  596. The, the guy named Henry Blackaby wrote a bestseller

  597. called Experiencing God years ago and he had kind of, I'll,

  598. I'll sum that up into four big points, but they're, they're

  599. right here. Same, same sort of thing.

  600. Number one, God always initiates the work.

  601. It God. It is God's initiation.

  602. It wasn't a coincidence. It wasn't a random conversation.

  603. It wasn't you suddenly noticed what was going on.

  604. God initiated the work. God never joins us, We join him.

  605. When you are called to that act of obedience, it will always

  606. create a crisis of faith. Anyone ever gone through one of

  607. those or 17? Yes, obedience will require a

  608. crisis of faith because we have to change, not God.

  609. And when we obey him, we get to join him in his work.

  610. And that's what happens for Ruth, and that's what happens

  611. for you and I all the time. It's an invitation to

  612. participation. So I have two questions I want

  613. you to consider today as we try to apply the truth from this

  614. Ruth chapter 3 in our lives. Here's the first one.

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  615. Where are you noticing God at work right now?

  616. If you would slow down and, and pay attention to what God's

  617. doing in your work, in your life, in your family, in your

  618. habits, in your relationships, where is God at work?

  619. Because where you see God moving is an invitation for you to join

  620. him. Now, what is it an invitation

  621. to? I don't know.

  622. That's the spicy part. You're going to have to step in

  623. obedience and it might, might feel like a crisis, might feel a

  624. little illogical. You have to step into that in

  625. obedience to figure it out. That's the risky part.

  626. It might not be as risky as going to seeing a drunk guy in

  627. the middle of the night. I'm just saying, But it's going

  628. to be risky. It's a step of faith.

  629. Maybe you're being called to, to serve God or or the church in

  630. some new way. Maybe you, you, you, you don't

  631. serve and God's prompting you to, to, to start serving so you

  632. can do something incredible in your life.

  633. Maybe it's some little thing that we would never even

  634. consider, but we begin to see God move.

  635. Maybe it's something huge. Ruth wasn't looking for Boaz.

  636. She was working hard. She was providing, she was

  637. taking note of what God did and it was actually through Naomi

  638. noticing and giving her counsel to help her see that God was

  639. moving. I started the sermon this

  640. morning talking about, you know, being faced with his decision of

  641. closing some businesses and going to the ministry full time

  642. and it it feeling like a crisis of faith.

  643. But but I'm feeling like man, God really wants me to walk into

  644. this and it is I'll be let me be honest.

  645. In the last two years, it is not been easy.

  646. It is been fraught with with days of anxiety and and crises

  647. of faith. But but I but I also consider.

  648. Because I have the. The benefit now the rearview

  649. mirror again, the look of the last two years.

  650. And I go, man, you know, in the last two years, God has saved

  651. over 200 people at this church, and we have baptized about 200

  652. people in the last two years. Now, I would have missed so much

  653. of that if I was still trying to do the other things that God was

  654. calling me away from. Like God.

  655. God didn't need me to do it. He'd have done it anyways.

  656. I just would have missed it. I would have gotten to

  657. participate in all that stuff if I wasn't willing to step into

  658. what God was asking me to do. If you want to see God work,

  659. you've got to be willing to trust Him Where that journey

  660. leads. Now I'm going to give you.

  661. Just a moment of caution along with this.

  662. Where's God at work? OK, Remember, Ruth is looking

  663. for, she's working hard. She's not looking specifically

  664. for this blessing. And for some of us, I'm just

  665. going to, I'm just going to warn you.

  666. And if this is you, I just want you to hear it.

  667. Stop looking for the blessing and look for the One who

  668. blesses. Because some of y'all have never

  669. gotten to a Boaz in your life because you settled for a broke

  670. ass. That deadbeat alternative that

  671. you tried to shoehorn into God's plan?

  672. That's not what Ruth is doing. Ruth's been working hard for two

  673. months, head down, grinding, and then when God's moving to wise

  674. counsel, she steps into that. And for some of y'all, you've

  675. been chasing stuff that is not of God and I'm just telling you,

  676. put your eyes back on the Creator, the one who gives

  677. blessings, and He will lead you where He wants you to go.

  678. Now if you're thinking to yourself, I already married the

  679. broke ass, then let me pray for you.

  680. May God give you the strength and the humility and the

  681. endurance to choose to love them, to pray for them, to serve

  682. them sacrificially, that they might come to know the Lord of

  683. the universe because He is able. In my small group and in my my

  684. mentorship group, these are the types of conversations we have

  685. all the time. We are praying for one another.

  686. We are talking about what's going on in our lives and

  687. allowing wise counsel to push back into our lives to, to

  688. either correct us or to encourage us or to stir us up,

  689. just like Naomi is doing for Ruth.

  690. So secondly, my question for you is, who is your Naomi?

  691. Where is that close counsel that will encourage you to obey God

  692. because you got to have it? There are times we need to be

  693. encouraged because you're down. There's times where you need to

  694. be stirred up because you've just gotten lazy, comfortable,

  695. whiny, none of you, I mean, but me, me.

  696. And we need to be stirred up to go hard after God again.

  697. And so if you have been trying to play this solo Christian

  698. Rambo game in isolation, you need to step into community.

  699. You need to find people who love God, the church, and you in that

  700. order, and are willing to speak truth into your life.

  701. Where is God moving and who is close enough to you to tell you?

  702. So these are the application questions for today.

  703. Now, maybe maybe you came here today, you got maybe you got

  704. drug here today didn't even want to come.

  705. Maybe you're you're watching online.

  706. Shout out to Casey and Steven if they're watching online.

  707. But but however you got here today my question.

  708. For you is this. Do you know the Lord of the

  709. universe personally? Because if you don't know Jesus

  710. Christ as your Lord and your Savior, I just want to point

  711. something out to you that's in this text here.

  712. And I want you to see that God is at work.

  713. That's probably why you're participating in this service

  714. today. The reason you tuned in online,

  715. the reason you showed up, God is drawing you to him.

  716. You know, 1100 years before Jesus would walk on the earth as

  717. a human. We're, we're reading this story

  718. and we're talking about these, these wings.

  719. And Jesus actually says the same thing 1100 years later that he

  720. that his wings are there for protection.

  721. In Luke 13, he's he's talking about the city of Jerusalem

  722. right before he's going to go to the cross.

  723. And in Luke 13 he says this verse 34 O Jerusalem, Jerusalem,

  724. the city that kills. The prophets and stones, those

  725. who are sent to it, they're about to crucify him.

  726. How often would I have gathered your children together as a hen

  727. gathers her brood under her wings?

  728. And you were not willing. Jesus offers to redeem you like

  729. Ruth does for Boaz to cover you in his wings.

  730. And so the question, my final question for you today is, are

  731. you willing? Are you willing?

  732. God is moving. He is drawing you to him and he

  733. is offering to cover you with his wings.

  734. Are you willing? You see, just like Boaz chose to

  735. love Ruth, Jesus chooses to love you.

  736. And so if you would like to surrender your life to God

  737. today, I want to offer you the chance as we close our service

  738. for a brief moment, will you bow your heads and close your eyes?

  739. If you're willing to ask God for forgiveness and for salvation

  740. with every eye closed, every head bowed, I just, I just want

  741. you to repeat this prayer after me.

  742. Jesus, I know I'm a Sinner and I can't save myself.

  743. I need to be redeemed. So I surrender everything to you

  744. and I receive your promise of redemption.

  745. Be my Lord, Please Jesus. If you prayed to surrender your

  746. life to Jesus for the very first time, would you be brave and

  747. raise your hand for me to see? Thank you, you can put your

  748. hands down. Thank you in Jesus name, Amen.

  749. Real quick as we close, if you just gave your life to Christ

  750. for the very first time, welcome to the family.

  751. We stand. We're going to sing a song as we

  752. close. Our prayer team is going to come

  753. up. We'd love to pray with you and

  754. for you. As we sing, as we people come up

  755. for prayer. If you gave your life to to to

  756. Christ and you have not told anyone about it.

  757. Maybe this happened moments ago. Maybe it happened recently.

  758. We have some tables in the back say I raised my hand.

  759. We would love to celebrate with you.

  760. We have a gift for you. We want to talk about what it

  761. looks like to pursue Jesus. What's next so you can make your

  762. way back there while we sing If you need prayer for any reason,

  763. we want to pray with you. And so don't be shy.

  764. Come up and be prayed for. We love you church.

  765. Merry Christmas, you move as the Lord leads you.