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Bearing Burdens - Leland Zehr

Halsey Mennonite Church

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  1. Good morning, greet you in the name of Jesus, and

  2. it's been good to be here this morning. Appreciated different

  3. things that were said and both the devotions. Thank you

  4. Earl for being vulnerable and open your personal experienced there,

  5. and we're thankful to that you are here with us

  6. and doing well. A couple of things that fit more

  7. into the announcements they didn't get put in the bulletin

  8. because it's my fault. Jason brother Jason wasn't able to

  9. be at the minister's meetings in Montana this last week,

  10. and so I thought maybe i'd just say just briefly

  11. a couple of things there. I think for the most

  12. part it was nice, good couple days. Just for your

  13. information in case you're interested, that the meetings that for

  14. this coming June are scheduled to be in Sterling, so

  15. just letting you know that. And then there had been

  16. a little talk announcement here about the possibility of trying

  17. moving them to the month of April in future years,

  18. back and forth on that, and I guess it was

  19. decided to try that not this year. This year the

  20. meetings will be in June in up in Sterling. But

  21. then I believe the following two years after that, they're

  22. going to try try the month of April. Let's see

  23. if that suits at least some people better. June has

  24. gotten to be busier and busier, it seems like, so,

  25. so i'd let you know that. Also, I too wanted

  26. to thank the youth. I won't go into that much

  27. for the good supper and the singing as well. You

  28. did a great job on the singing. I could have

  29. sang one or two more songs, but it was really nice.

  30. And also let y'all know that my daughter Alison is

  31. planning to leave this Friday, going to Bangladesh, Bangladesh for

  32. I think about three months at this point, helping with

  33. the English teaching there so I can help remember her

  34. in prayer and maybe our family and especially Mom. It's

  35. going to leave a big hole in our home for

  36. the next little while. For the message this morning, I

  37. want to before I give you the title, I want

  38. to tell you a story, true story, his story that's

  39. broken up into three different segments. And I'm going to

  40. probably read a bunch of this just because I think

  41. it will it will move along a little bit better,

  42. and so I'll start with that. The story starts well,

  43. it starts it ends. I'm not sure I'm going to

  44. be moving backwards, starting at the beginning and going back

  45. with this story. But two months ago, about in there,

  46. early in the morning, a group of about twenty four

  47. people from different places different states gathered at the trailhead

  48. of a mountain. The goal, of course, was to climb

  49. the mountain to summon it, but there was also another goal.

  50. When the group gathered there, it was before daylight. It

  51. was dark. People had their head lamps on, gathering their belongings, backpacks, food, drink,

  52. walking sticks, preparing to climb this big mountains a popular mountain.

  53. Many people had climbed this mountain before, but this particular

  54. expedition was unique. It was a special mission. It brought

  55. this unusual group of people together, some of which didn't

  56. really know each other. Some of these people were very

  57. fit and in shape, others were about halfway fit, and

  58. a few were were going to be doing good if

  59. they could some of the mountain. After everyone got their

  60. personal belongings together, their backpacks on, their walking sticks in hand,

  61. the group gathered together and had a word of prayer

  62. and prayed for God's hand to protection and his blo

  63. for the mission that had brought them all together, and

  64. then they were off headed up the mountain. The second

  65. part of the story started about three years ago. Three

  66. years earlier, a middle aged man that had been through

  67. some hard things in life had been handed some challenges

  68. and burdens that none in the rest of the group

  69. had been called to bear. This middle aged man started

  70. to become aware that he was not feeling the best.

  71. He wasn't very healthy, he was overweight, he wasn't sleeping

  72. very well at night. And he thought about this, and

  73. he looked around at his peers in their life, their

  74. lack of health, and he decided that he wanted to

  75. do something about it. So on his fortieth birthday, he

  76. made a small but consequential decision, a decision that started

  77. the hard work of exercising. And so he started to run.

  78. He didn't announce it to the world, he didn't let

  79. hardly anyone know. He just went out into the dark

  80. of night and he ran. At first, he couldn't run

  81. very far. He would run for a couple hundred yards

  82. or so and get out of breath, and then he

  83. would walk. Then he would run, then he would walk.

  84. Then he would run quietly and unknown to most of

  85. the rest of his friends and peers. Night after night,

  86. after he put his children to bed, he would go

  87. out into the dark of the night and run. Some

  88. nights it was nice weather, other nights it was very cold,

  89. miserable and raining. But he kept on running, and he

  90. had a vision, and he had a goal, and he

  91. persisted against the desires of the flesh to stay inside

  92. the wormhouse on those cold nights. Over time, little by little,

  93. he lost weight, built up his strength and endurance. He

  94. felt good and healthy. He looked better and slept better.

  95. He didn't publish it abroad, but over time it got

  96. out a little bit, and he talked about talked with

  97. some that were closer to him about how good he was,

  98. he felt how much of a positive difference it made

  99. in his life. Quietly and gently, he encouraged his family

  100. and a few friends and some others that he loved

  101. that didn't feel good, weren't very healthy to consider running.

  102. He was never pushy or high pressure, never condemning, but

  103. encouraging and inspiring them more than by exam and his

  104. own excitement of success. With time, eventually there were a

  105. few that had their interests sparked and they too started

  106. to run. Some the interest spread and different ones started

  107. to run. There was a couple of group running challenges

  108. through the phone app and people from different states could

  109. participate through this app. This middle aged man became quite

  110. healthy and a strong runner, especially for his age. He

  111. ran for miles. But he developed another vision, another goal,

  112. a vision beyond his own fitness and health, beyond his

  113. own benefits. And this leads me to the third part

  114. of the story. This part of the story started over

  115. eighteen years ago. There was a young married couple. They

  116. were like the average young married couple, starting a home

  117. full of hopes and dreams. Life was good and they

  118. were blessed, and one day they found out they were

  119. expecting their first baby. They were so excited and they

  120. began to prepare for their arrival of this baby, all

  121. the normal things, the buying clothescesories, the baby shower. But

  122. what they did not know early on that was something

  123. was not right with this little baby. Eventually, though, an

  124. ultrasound was taken and they found out this reality. They

  125. were concerned and unaware and unsure of what all this

  126. meant meant. But this young couple believed in God. They

  127. had faith God could heal. So they prayed, and their

  128. friends and family prayed with them. They prayed for a

  129. miracle of healing for this innocent baby. Surely a good

  130. God would see, understand, and heal. So there was hope.

  131. But when the baby, when the day came and the

  132. baby was born, the condition had not been healed by God.

  133. The harsh reality was that God had other plans, plans

  134. that would change the trajectory of this young couple's life

  135. and their families lives life and wives of others. The

  136. baby was rushed off away from the scared and vulnerable

  137. young parents, away from the loving arms, and into surgery

  138. and to be given the medical attention that the doctors

  139. knew how to give. The doctor said they didn't know

  140. the extent of the damage, but there was a chance

  141. that this child might not ever walk. But there was hope,

  142. and of course God was there. God can heal, can't

  143. he faith? We just need faith. So hope lived on

  144. inside the hearts of that young couple. They would pray,

  145. their family would pray, They would do everything possible to

  146. give this child a chance to walk. After many years

  147. of countless appointment, setbacks, disappointments, surgery, after surgery, ambulance, drides, emergencies, therapies,

  148. suffering that shook the faith of that couple to the

  149. very core. It finally became clear that probably this child

  150. would not ever walk on his own. The reality was

  151. cold and hard, felt very far away. Was there even

  152. a God? If so, what was he doing in thinking?

  153. All the while their friends continued to live their normal

  154. lives and the births of their healthy children. Life did

  155. not seem fair. It wasn't fair. God did bless his

  156. family with more children as well, children that could walk.

  157. Time went on, the years passed by, and this young

  158. child never was able to walk on his own, but

  159. he was a bright blessing to his family, to his

  160. school and church. Eighteen years later, in the early morning darkness,

  161. this child, father and mother, and a group of friends

  162. were gathered at the base of the South Sister. The

  163. mission was to help this young man's son at the

  164. top of the South Sister, a request that he had

  165. asked his dad about about five years earlier. Many of

  166. you know by now that I'm talking about Zachary, Matt

  167. and Katrina's boy, and I do want to say, hopefully

  168. I'll get beyond this here in a minute that I

  169. didn't ask Matt about or Katrine about sharing this story.

  170. They don't know that. I'm sorry telling it, but I

  171. trust it they'll be okay. If I get some of

  172. the details wrong, I hope that can be overlooked for

  173. the bigger picture. My purpose here is not to lift

  174. up anyone. It's not about Zachary, it's not about Mount Katrina.

  175. So don't let that be a distraction to you. But

  176. back to the mountain. The goal in the mission of

  177. that day was to climb the mountain, but it was

  178. more than that. It was to help someone get to

  179. the top of the mountain, someone that could not do

  180. it alone. In preparation for this height, the father had

  181. researched and found an all trained wheelchair. And this wheelchair

  182. is a one wheelchair, the suspension with bars going out

  183. the front with a handlebar on the back of the seat,

  184. and it's designed for who are taking people that can't

  185. walk hiking, And it's kind of like a harness. It

  186. has two bars off the front and somebody can get

  187. inside these bars, strap into a harness, person sitting behind

  188. and he's pulling, and the person behind has the handlebars

  189. and the brakes and he's pushing, and so a pair

  190. of people can pull a person on a hiking trail,

  191. and this was a hiking wheelchair that Zachary was too

  192. righte and the goal of the group was to alternate

  193. between different hikers and take turns pushing and pulling Zachary

  194. to the top of this mountain. Now, I don't know

  195. how many of you have climbed the South's Sister, have

  196. any of you? I know some of you have, so

  197. a few of you have been up there. The South

  198. Sister is a fairly substantial height for a semi healthy person.

  199. The overall elevation is over ten thousand feet. The hike

  200. from the trailhead is about a twelve little over twelve

  201. mile round trip six mile one way, and about a

  202. little over a five thousand foot elevation. Game The first

  203. part of the hike is through the timber. It's just

  204. a continual, s gradual incline up through the trees, and

  205. then once you break out of the trees, there's kind

  206. of a bench and you follow the bench pretty easy,

  207. and then it hits above tree line into the rocks

  208. in the steep part of the mountain. The first pull

  209. was a couple of fit guys in shape, and they

  210. took off like a shot ahead of the rest of

  211. the group. I didn't see them, probably for I don't know,

  212. quite a while. Oh I seen them some, but I

  213. wasn't with them. Many of the rest of us lagged behind.

  214. But when they got to the steep and rocky area

  215. of the trail, things began to slow down. There was

  216. steep switchbacks chunks of loose rock, making it extremely difficult

  217. to pull this machine up the mountain. This hiking wheelchair

  218. was designed for two people, like I said, and one

  219. in the front one in the back, but it wasn't

  220. long before it began to be assisted by five people,

  221. two people in the front, one on each side, and

  222. one person in the back. People were straining and stumbling

  223. and sweating. Most of the hikers had their own packs

  224. on and took turns as was their ability. Some of

  225. the hikers were not very in very good shape, barely

  226. able to keep up with just themselves, let alone help.

  227. Some of the other fit ones took the brunt of

  228. the load, took more than was their turn, than their

  229. fair share of the work. There were other hikers on

  230. the mountain that day that were not in our group.

  231. Very fit, experienced hikers, good equipment, light loads, many of

  232. them by themselves or with another person or two, and

  233. as they would pass by our group, some would look

  234. inquisitively at the group. Others wouldn't really look, make eye contact,

  235. or at least stare. But in one case, when our

  236. group was in the open face of the mountain and

  237. it was just boulders and rocks and a trail trying

  238. to go through there, and you couldn't hardly find your

  239. way with the trail, it kind of disappeared. And I

  240. was behind our group and the cluster of guys that

  241. were pulling were up just a little ways ahead of me,

  242. and other hikers were coming down, and so they were

  243. communicating as to where the trail was, and I was

  244. down below. One of the hikers came down to me

  245. and we met on the trail, and I could see

  246. him looking. He kept kind of looking back that group

  247. up there, trying to figure out what was going on.

  248. And as he came up to me, he stopped and

  249. he looked at me and he said, what's going on?

  250. And I told him, it's a group of people helping

  251. a handicapped person to get to the top of the mountain,

  252. and as he watched the group the volunteers struggling and

  253. pushing and heaving, he looked back at me and he said,

  254. in a hushed and a reverent tone in his voice,

  255. oh my god, oh my god, he is so lucky

  256. to have a family of you all. And then he

  257. turned and before he walked away, he said, Wow, it

  258. gives me goosebumps. I thought a lot about a lot

  259. of things that day, and I've thought a lot about

  260. it since. And one of the thoughts that I've thought

  261. about kept coming back to me is what if the

  262. passer buyers of life, when they look at our church

  263. family and saw the love and the sweat and the

  264. tears and the bearing of one another's burdens, would think

  265. and say to themselves, oh my god, Oh my god,

  266. he is so lucky to have all you for a family. Well,

  267. the mission was accomplished that day. Zachary was sat on

  268. top of the South Sister beaming triumphantly. But he did

  269. not and could not do it alone. A verse that

  270. kept coming to me that day on the mountain, and

  271. I've thought of it about it a lot since. He

  272. has found any Glatians Galatians two Bury you one another's burdens,

  273. and so fulfill the law of Christ. And the title

  274. of the message this morning is bearing burdens. If you

  275. want to turn to this chapter in Glatians six, I'd

  276. like to read part of it, and I'd like to

  277. take the rest of the time to just draw from

  278. this teaching here in Galatians six, and also maybe a

  279. few other places aslong, with the hike that day on

  280. the mountain, a few lessons for us to consider to

  281. think about. I'll read the first ten verses here in

  282. Glatians chapter six. Brethren, if a man be overtaken in

  283. a fault, you, which are spiritual, restore such a one

  284. in the spirit of meekness, considering thyself, lest they'll also

  285. be tempted. Bury ye one another's burdens, and so fulfill

  286. the law of Christ. For if a man think himself

  287. to be something when he is nothing, he deceiveth himself.

  288. But let every man prove his own work, and then

  289. shall he have rejoicing in himself alone, and not in another.

  290. For every man shall bear his own burden. Let him

  291. that is taught in the Word communicate unto him that

  292. teacheth in all things, be not deceived. God is not mocked.

  293. For whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.

  294. For he that soweth to his flesh showeth the flesh

  295. reap corruption. But he that soweth to the Spirit showeth

  296. the spirit reap life everlasting. And let us not be

  297. weary and well doing, for in due season we shall

  298. reap if we faint, not, as we have therefore opportunity.

  299. Let us do good unto all men, especially unto them

  300. who are of the household of fate. We all have burdens.

  301. Sometimes it can feel like maybe we have more than

  302. our fair share of burdens. But we need to remember

  303. that everyone has burdens, and often the burdens. Often they

  304. have burdens around us that we might not even know

  305. that they have. And I'd like to just point out

  306. a couple of things here in verse one before I

  307. talk more about burdens. Here verse one, he says, Brethren,

  308. if any man be overtaken in a fault, which are

  309. spiritual restores, such a one in the spirit of meekness, could,

  310. considering myself less, I'll also be tempted. And just a

  311. few picking apart this verse, a little bit overtaken in

  312. a fault. Here, someone who has failed, gave into sin,

  313. has gotten themselves into a mess. Now who is this person? Well,

  314. I think that if we're honest, it's all of us.

  315. At times it has been probably will be. We sin.

  316. At times we have sin. We try not to strive

  317. to be faithful, but sometimes there's failures. And when that happens,

  318. we need to be restored. And to be restored here

  319. means to repair or mend back together something that is

  320. torn and bringing it back together and mending it to

  321. where it's it's whole and joint back. It's to be

  322. restored back to your right standing, especially with God. And

  323. so how is this done? I'd like to I'd like

  324. to just comment a little bit on this. But first

  325. of all, I think to be restored there needs to

  326. be a repentance and a godly sorrow, not a sorrow

  327. of this world. Don't to read this verse. I'm not

  328. going to go into this, but just maybe you can

  329. study this chapter Second Corinthians seventy ten. For godly sorrow,

  330. work with repentance to salvation, to be repair, sentence to salvation,

  331. to be restored, not to be repented of, but the

  332. sorrow of the world worketh death, And I think that's

  333. a sobering thought and something that we need to think about.

  334. That sorrow does not is not always godly repentance, and

  335. so we need a godly sorrow for this to get

  336. off of first base, to be restored with God in

  337. any level, and for others to be able to help us.

  338. God has not. God has designed it that we help

  339. restore one another. And so who is this? Who ye,

  340. which are spiritual? Who is that? Well? Spiritual here means

  341. non carnal of the carnal the flesh. Spiritual is a

  342. word that comes from numa. And if you know, as

  343. a those in our cabinet shop or that use air tools,

  344. Numa is the core root word of where we get phumatic,

  345. which is air, the current of air tools that are

  346. driven by pneumatic or er. And the spirit spirit has

  347. this numa meaning. It is the spirit of God. It

  348. is the breath of God that flows, and it's something

  349. we see and get a hold of, but it's part

  350. of the Christian experience, the spirit of God moving in

  351. the hearts of people. It's people that understand this reality

  352. and try to pursue spiritual things, which is driven by

  353. the spirit of God. It's not just fleshly earthly earthy

  354. things carnal things. We live and handle with both. It's true,

  355. but a spiritual person is not necessarily one that's way

  356. up on as we had envision and seniority, maybe, but

  357. as much as one that is open to the spirit

  358. of God, someone that is aware, someone that is striving

  359. to prioritize his life or her life with the thing

  360. spiritual things rather than the carnal things. Those that are

  361. restoring are not to do this by carnal means, not

  362. by man's ideas, but by those that it is by

  363. those that are relying on the methods of God, the

  364. breath of God, the work of his Holy Spirit, he says,

  365. and he gives a warning to do it in the

  366. spirit of meekness and humility. You have to have a

  367. spirit of meekness and humility to be an effective restorer

  368. and a bearer of burdens, to be aware of the

  369. reality of our of our own vulnerability, an ability to fail.

  370. He reminds all of us of that. I would say

  371. that verses one and two in context are kind of together,

  372. and we'll get to this. But as if you're paying

  373. attention you'll notice that in verse two it talks about

  374. bear one another's burdens, and in verse five it says

  375. every man should bear his own burden. And we'll get

  376. to that, but I think verses one and two are

  377. in the context of bear one another's burdens and so

  378. fulfilled the love of Christ. And that's a big statement

  379. to and so fulfill the law of Christ. And I

  380. wondered about that, and I thought about, is that really true?

  381. As I'm thinking about it, that the law of Jesus Christ,

  382. all that he tried to teach his whole mission, if

  383. you could boil that down into as simple of a

  384. phrase or a description as possible, that the sun of

  385. that total would be bearing one another's burdens. In Luke four.

  386. As I thought about that, there's a verse in both

  387. Isaiah sixty one and Luke four referring to Jesus. It says,

  388. the spirit of the Lord is upon me, because yet

  389. anointed me to pre reach the gospel to the poor.

  390. He has sent me to heal the broken heart, and

  391. to preach deliverance to the captives, to receive sight to

  392. the blind, to set at liberty them that are bruised.

  393. And I think that has a lot to do with

  394. bearing one another's burdens. The mission of Jesus was to

  395. bear the burdens of people, to help them and to

  396. heal them, and to restore them. There's a verse if

  397. you flip back in Glatians five, there's two verses I

  398. would like to read that kind of go along with

  399. this verse fourteen. I'll read fourteen and fifteen, but mainly

  400. fourteen here supports this idea for all the law is

  401. fulfilled in one word even this, thou shalt love thy

  402. neighbor as thyself. But if you bite and devour one another,

  403. take heed that you be not consumed one of another.

  404. And I think if you read that and amplified should

  405. read it. I didn't write it down. I think it

  406. says that something about being aware that your whole fellow

  407. ship is not consumed by the biting and devouring. What

  408. does loving thy neighbor mean? You know, it's not a

  409. lot of what we hear and see in the world today.

  410. But it's a sacrificial love, a love that isn't that

  411. that motivates to action. It is like what brother Jason said,

  412. a it's a free will sacrifice offering it is not

  413. forced upon us, but it motivates. Love motivates. It's a

  414. powerful motivator. So is hate. Hate is a powerful motivator

  415. in the wrong in the wrong way. That that day

  416. on the mountain, twenty four people that showed up there

  417. at the trail that morning were we're there because they

  418. were invited and they wanted to be there. There was

  419. no force, no guilt trip, no nagging, no reminding, no forcing,

  420. no telling them that if they don't, it's a problem.

  421. But people came on their own free will. Another thing

  422. that made this mission possible was because the father had

  423. a vision, a vision motivated by love. He quietly inspired others.

  424. He inspired others by example. That day of that mountain

  425. would have likely never would have happened if the father

  426. would have gone would not have gone out alone on

  427. those cold and dark nights and ran faithfully night after

  428. night to build up his own personal strength. Through that example,

  429. others got inspired and begin to run and get into shape.

  430. And that day, which is the highlight of everything, highlight

  431. of years. But he was able to lead that expedition

  432. on the mountain that day because of the strength that

  433. he had and the example that he was able to

  434. lead by, and he did. He led and pulled more

  435. than his share all day long. Spiritual strength comes not

  436. so much by public service as it is by a

  437. faithful going out alone with God night after night and

  438. day after day. It comes by spiritual exercise, the things

  439. that people don't see and don't understand, and don't don't

  440. know that it's happening. One of the most effective ways

  441. to inspire others is by simply being a faithful example.

  442. Who can bear the burdens? What are the qualifications? How

  443. spiritual and strong do I need to be? What if

  444. I don't feel like I'm strong, I don't feel like

  445. I'm spiritual? You know, on that day on the mountain,

  446. there was some of us that did not have much

  447. extra strength to bear the burdens of others. We were

  448. a bit out of shape and struggling to get ourselves

  449. and our own burdens and up the mountain. But we

  450. did have a desire to help. And I remember there

  451. was this one young man. I didn't know him. I

  452. don't think I had met him before. We were walking

  453. along side of each other on the mountain that day.

  454. He looked good, looked in shape, young man, but he

  455. was struggling. He did not have a lot of energy.

  456. He felt bad. He was a kind of guy that

  457. would love to help, to be out there pulling and pushing,

  458. and he told he just feels so bad, he just

  459. barely feels like he has the strength to help. And

  460. he was exhausted. And I wasn't not going to shape myself.

  461. But I was able to do some short pulls here

  462. and there, and after one of the poles, I was

  463. heaving and resting beside the trail, and the same man,

  464. the young man, came up quietly, and just as he

  465. walked by, he just said, good pooll elin and he

  466. kept going. It wasn't much. I hadn't done much compared

  467. to most of a lot of the others, but just

  468. a few words of encouragement, and they meant a lot

  469. in the moment. There was another couple on the mountain

  470. that day, there to support the climb as well. They

  471. were the oldest ones in the group, slower than the rest,

  472. had been through dark nights and hard things themselves. And

  473. at the very beginning, after the prayer was said and

  474. the people took off, that couple I never seen him

  475. again till later in the day. They were behind. We

  476. kept looking, We kept glancing back seeing if they were coming.

  477. Most of the time we couldn't see him, but we

  478. knew that they were on the mountain with us, supporting

  479. the effort as best that they could, and just that

  480. simple fact was an encouragement and a blessing. And although

  481. they were not able to help physically push or pull

  482. any that day, their presence and interest was a comfort

  483. and a blessing. In fact, the only time that we

  484. were able to really talk to them, the rest of

  485. us made it to the mountain. We sat up there

  486. for a while, rested, snack took pictures, and were there

  487. for some time. As we were headed down, we were

  488. just coming off and ready to take the deep dive

  489. down the mountain. Here they came, and so we met

  490. just a few minutes and they congratulated Zachary and the

  491. rest and were cheerful and supportive. And then we went

  492. on down and we didn't see them the rest of

  493. that day. They left before dark, they got down after dark.

  494. You know, there's times when we feel like we can't

  495. do much to support people, and maybe we can't, but

  496. the little things, and maybe elderly people fall into this.

  497. I feel like you can't do a lot, but a

  498. faithful presence and a few words and showing up up

  499. and can be just a blessing to know that you're

  500. still there, you haven't left, you haven't quit. If you,

  501. why shouldn't we? If you're not interested, why shouldn't I be?

  502. Can be discouraging a few ways we can help bear

  503. one another's burdens. I just wrote a few things down

  504. here that I thought of, and I mentioned a couple

  505. that just the encouraging words, I thank you, a smile,

  506. support where we can be a meal running the school children,

  507. sharing in church responsibilities. And I'll just say here I've

  508. received the blessings and the encouragements of many of you

  509. in life, and it is a blessing. Might not seem

  510. like much, a loaf of bread in the car after church,

  511. or praying for someone and letting them know. Sometimes it

  512. can be some financial assistance if it's really needed, because

  513. the Bible says, don't just say be warmed and be filled.

  514. If someone has a real need and we have the ability,

  515. we can help in different ways. A card of encouragement,

  516. that's always a blessing, A small gift of appreciation. Often

  517. often though we think of bearing burdens as things we

  518. do and things we give, and sometimes just taking the

  519. time to listen, to understand, or to really care is

  520. what can help as much as anything. Weep with those

  521. that weep, and rejoice with them that do rejoice. We

  522. all face good times and we all face bad hard times.

  523. People have different ways and gifts of helping bear burdens.

  524. We aren't all the same. Some are bubbly and happy

  525. and expressive. They and others can barely feel comfortable talking.

  526. But there's all ways that we can help bear the

  527. burdens of others, and they don't need to be and

  528. look exactly alike. You know. The Bible here in verse

  529. one warns that if when you restore someone, you need

  530. to do it in the spirit of meekness, which I

  531. would say humility. And I'll just point this out. Sometimes

  532. to be helped takes more humility than to help and

  533. to allow others to help me, to allow other people

  534. to even know that I have a weakness and my failures,

  535. and that I have this burden. It takes humility to

  536. be helped. And sometimes it stood out to me. I

  537. remember this being said years ago by an old, older

  538. preacher that we get so focused on helping people. And

  539. that's good, that's part of what the message is about.

  540. But sometimes it is such a blessing to other people

  541. to allow them to help us and to help me

  542. to not always be up here helping people down here,

  543. but to allow other people to see my need and

  544. to be vulnerable and to receive help, and it blesses

  545. them to be able to help. A lot of people

  546. want to do something. But if we're self sufficient, we

  547. got it together, and we have the money and we

  548. have the support, and we just know, thanks to everything,

  549. we're robbing them of a blessing. Okay, what about verse five,

  550. for every man shall bear his own burden? Verse and

  551. verse two and verse three are these? Are these contradictory,

  552. I don't believe. So I'd like to talk a little

  553. bit about this, not to distract from the first point.

  554. These two verses both use the word burden, but they're

  555. two different Greek words. I think, like I said before,

  556. verse one and two would be in the context together

  557. the faults and the moral failures that are too heavy

  558. to bear alone at times. And verse five I believe

  559. goes with verse four, let every man prove his own

  560. work and then he goes on to say, and I

  561. think this is talking about personal responsibility that canon should

  562. be borne by the individual themselves or ourselves. We don't

  563. have enough time to go into this real deeply, but

  564. a few things here in the restoring of one another

  565. and bearing one another's burdens, there are a couple important things,

  566. and I just want to point them out here. There

  567. are personal burdens that others are not supposed to bear

  568. for us. It's nice and it's heartwarming to see Christian

  569. brothers and sisters help one another, and it is hurtful

  570. and sad when this is neglected. But it is also

  571. hurtful and sad when individuals do not take responsibility to

  572. bear their own burdens and then blame others for not helping.

  573. I want to read this versity and the amplified it says,

  574. for every person will have to bear with patients his

  575. own burden of faults and of shortcomings for which he

  576. alone is responsible. And I think that's as important as

  577. verse two. They're both very important points on the mountain.

  578. That day, every healthy person who was able was expected

  579. to bear their own burden and to take their own

  580. self and their own backpack up to the top of

  581. the mountain that day. We all have burdens that are

  582. unique to us, and sometimes, like I said, we get

  583. to thinking about and focusing on my burden and we

  584. see a lot and they seem a lot heavier than

  585. the burdens of my friends around me. And if we're

  586. not careful, we fall into self pity, and self pity

  587. only complicates things. If we feed self pity, then we

  588. start to feel resentful towards all the people around me

  589. that are not bearing my burdens. But the reality might

  590. be that they are busy bearing their own burden. You

  591. have no idea about burdens in the dark of the night,

  592. you know, I suppose. I'm sure I don't know what

  593. all the struggles were in the hearts of Zachary's parents.

  594. I'm sure they had moments of self pity or were

  595. tempted with that as a whole, they chose not to

  596. live a life with that attitude. Humanly speaking, they had

  597. every right to leave Zachary in the living room and

  598. justify why it was impossible for him to ever climb

  599. a mountain. No one would have questioned that, and how

  600. that no one else has this problem and don't understand.

  601. But they did everything they could to bear their own burden,

  602. their unique burden that God allowed them to have. And

  603. when they did that, it led and leads to a

  604. life of fullness and joy and a life of success.

  605. Did the burden go away? No, it's still with them

  606. today every day. But they're not unhappy, they're not complaining.

  607. They're living a very full and a happy life. Was

  608. it easy? Did it seem fair? Was it fair? Probably not?

  609. But God calls us all to be responsible and to

  610. bear our own burdens, and also to help each other

  611. where and when we are able. Another principle I want

  612. to just mention briefly here is in verse eight, and

  613. I think it's just in this context of restoring and

  614. bearing of burdens, what we sow, we will reap. It's

  615. a law of God. And sometimes we reap things that

  616. doesn't feel like we even sown. That's also true. But

  617. we must understand that the law of sowing and reaping

  618. does not automatically go away when we repent with a

  619. godly sorrow. There are those that are helping us to

  620. be restored. Often cannot take away the reaping the painful

  621. effects of our sinning. Maybe they can help bear it,

  622. but not remove it. We need to remember not to

  623. feel resentful to God or to others because of reaping

  624. that may go on and on after we have repented.

  625. We could look at the life of David as an example.

  626. There's a whole message there. But with his sin with Bathsheba,

  627. God explicitly said there's going to be some harsh reaping

  628. in the days ahead, and he repented deeply, a sincere repentance.

  629. But that poor man reaped it bountiful and a bitter

  630. harvest for years ahead, and yet he seemed to accept it.

  631. He had to watch that poor innocent baby suffer for

  632. seven days and die in his mother's arms. There was

  633. the immoral abuse of his son Amen committed against his daughter Tamar.

  634. There was a rebellion of the son Absalom in his

  635. public vihilation against his concubines before all of Israel. And

  636. yet David accepted the reaping for the sin that sin,

  637. and he did not get bitter or blame others. A

  638. few things, a few burdens that we must bear ourselves

  639. or take care of, is repentance. I would just say that,

  640. I don't know if you've ever tried to restore an

  641. unrepentant person, but it won't work. You know, we all

  642. have burdens. We all have burdens. The god fearing people

  643. have burdens and the ungodly have burdens, but they're different

  644. kinds of burdens. Burdens of the ungodly are especially heavy.

  645. The burden of guilt and carrying that without the help

  646. of Jesus and his people is a hard burden. So

  647. there needs to be repentance. And if you think about Jesus,

  648. he didn't talk people into it. He told the rich

  649. man young ruler, what you needed to do, and he

  650. went away sorrowful, and we don't know if Jesus ever

  651. talked to him again. He laid out the repentance, what

  652. you need to do, and he walked away, and Jesus

  653. was grieved. Another thing that we need burdens that we

  654. must bear is our own attitudes, our own thought life,

  655. the things that we decide to think about. Another one

  656. is our decisions, regardless of what our parents and our

  657. friends and the peer pressure is. Those are our burdens

  658. to bear. In the end, we have to make our

  659. own decisions and then we sow what we read Glatians

  660. six ' nine says, let us not be weary in

  661. well doing, for in due season we shall rea if

  662. we faint not. And this message this morning is meant

  663. to be an encouragement to be at a reality check,

  664. to be a encouragement for us to be responsible for

  665. our own burdens, and also to look around and to

  666. see where and if we can. You know whose responsibility

  667. is that? Is it the ministries? Definitely? But it's there

  668. all of our responsibility to help and see and bear

  669. the burdens of others where we can. We can't make

  670. it to the mountain top all alone. There's times when

  671. we need help. There's times when we need to give help.

  672. Don't be weary and well doing. Sometimes when you've sinned,

  673. you repented, and you're walking through the harvest of the

  674. sins of the flesh and you're just reaping, it's just couraging.

  675. But he says, don't be weary. Continue to start sewing

  676. a new crop, and if you hang in there long enough,

  677. the fruit of that will also come. Now, just to

  678. read a few verses here and closing, Matthew eleven Words

  679. of Jesus twenty eight to thirty says, come unto me.

  680. All ye that labor and are heavy laden, and I

  681. will give you rest. Take my yoke upon me, and

  682. learn me for a meek and lowly in heart, And

  683. I will, and ye shall find rest for your souls.

  684. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.

  685. And that's the I don't know if you think how

  686. you think about yokes, but often I think about yolks

  687. as a hindrance. But it depends who you are being

  688. yoked with. If the person that you're being yoked with

  689. is stronger than you, it is going to make your

  690. life easier, as it says, And that is how it

  691. is with Jesus. To be in a yoke with someone,

  692. you gotta be close. You can't be over there, and

  693. being a yoke with someone over there, it takes getting

  694. close to Jesus, following his his his laws and his

  695. will for us. God bless you. Let's have a song.