Sermon
Is Your Light On - Donny Swartzentruber
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Well once again with desire a good evening for each
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of you. And it's a blessing to be able to
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be together again in this way, and God's blessings to
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each of you. As I thought of how to greet
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you this evening, I thought of greeting you as Christian
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brothers and sisters here in the name of the One
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whose mother, while on earth, had an angel come and
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talk with her and told her things that were just
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like in some ways could have been overwhelming to her.
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And her response was, behold the Handmaid of the Lord.
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Be it unto me according to Thy word. And from
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that this evening, it's a message that we all can
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draw from very very beautiful, meaningful words that Mary spoke
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as she said, behold the Handmaid of the Lord. Welcome
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to everyone here. It's been a blessing being here in
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this community again today. We were privileged to have lunch
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today with Daniel and Barn, sit at their table and
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enjoy fellowship there. And we don't need to announce every
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time we go somewhere for a meal, don't mean that way,
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but just that you know we are enjoying it here
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and it's a blessing for us and I pray God
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would bless each of you here this evening, and I
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pray the Lord would bless you children that are here tonight.
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And we're very thankful to see you here. So somehow
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at home there at Derek's just trying to look at
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a few things, look at something we could share for
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this evening. And Gabriella saw a picture that I want
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to show you, children, and she said something like she's
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just she can't hardly wait to hear about the story.
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And so I want to share it with you children tonight.
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Something to me is very interesting. I'd like to tell
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you about what is called Nature's engineer, and I'd like
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to share with you children tonight some thoughts taken from
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the Bible. From the Book of Job. Did you know children,
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It tells us that we should ask, It says, but
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ask now the beast, and they shall teach thee and
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the fowls of the air, and they shall tell thee.
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So here the Bible is saying that we can observe
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animals in God's creation, in nature, and we can learn
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lessons from it. And that's something I want to do
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this evening as we're here. And so there is a
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mammal that is on the Oregon flag, And can any
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of you children tell me what that is? What is
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a mammal that's on the flag of Oregon, you know,
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And I know I'm sure someone here knows, but maybe
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you don't know what age to say and not to say.
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So I'm just going to share with you actually coming tonight.
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As we were coming, Derek was driving, and you have
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right out here, real close by, there's a flag, an
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Oregon flag, and as the wind was blowing, I could
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see very plainly a beaver on that flag. And I'd
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like to share a few things to you tonight, with
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you tonight about a beaver. The beavers and beavers are
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very special to me, and I know to some people,
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some farmers, you know, sometimes they can be kind of
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a nuisance. But we're thinking about some good things about
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beavers tonight, and in the end, I hope that each
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of you children will have learned something and you'll take it.
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And it's something I want to share with you tonight
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that's really challenging for you as children. So first of all,
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just you know, I'm sure you know what beavers look like,
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but that is a picture of a nice, big beaver
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with a big tail and teeth that never stopped growing.
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Look at their children. Look at that the teeth on
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a beaver and what they look like. And they never
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quit growing. They just keep growing. They need to keep
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growing because what they do with their teeth, their teeth
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get worn down, and so they need teeth that keep
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growing so they can keep doing what beavers do. So
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there you see again a beaver, the wide tail. Some
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of their tails are like six inches wide fifteen inches long.
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Other things that beavers do, you know, they build dams.
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And one of the things that I want to share
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with you children is beavers are considered to be nature's engineer.
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And one thing that beavers do they can take a
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place where there's just this little stream of water and
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there's briers and bushes and grass and trees all kinds
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of things, and you know, really it's not a place
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where fish can be or duck or geese or anything
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like that, because it's just this little bitty stream. And
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then beavers will go in there and they'll dam up
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the water. And what happens. Suddenly the water starts backing
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up and what was just a tiny little stream will
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become like a pond or like a body of water
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that provides a good place for many other animals, like
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duck can go there and they can have their little
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babies there because beavers have made a dam and it
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makes for water there, and so duck can have their
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little baby ducks and they can go out into the
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water and to be safe to get away from fox
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and things like that that try to get the little
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baby duck. And so I want you children to think
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about tonight, drawing one lesson from that. Do you know
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what you children do and who you are and how
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you act makes a big difference in the environment. So
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beaver's taking they build a dam and it makes it
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beautiful for even fish, you know, can swim around in there,
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and duck and geese and it just makes a beautiful
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place to be. And so how would it be tonight?
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You know, I expect like you children from ages twelve down,
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let's say, how would it be tonight to try to
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have a church service here? And all of you would
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be just screaming and cooking and hollering and being an
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attentive and going in and out and just not paying
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any attention. You know, it would be really hard to
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have a service here tonight, wouldn't it. But all of you,
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you just sitting here so nice and quiet, and so
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in that way, you're like beavers. You're making it a
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nice place to be for the rest of us. It's
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amazing how big a tree beavers can can shoot down,
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like big trees like that. They'll take and and just
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gnaw on that tree until it falls down. And what
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they're doing, they're building their little their houses. Like I
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showed you a picture of like that, and then I
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think I have another picture somewhere of what it looks
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like on the inside of that yes, right here, So
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this is a little bit like what it looks like
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inside the dam. So what we see is just the
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sticks and the outside, but inside what the beavers do
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is dam up the water. And so this is their house.
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Like up in here, it's where they have their babies.
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It's a safe place to go. It's like home for
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the beavers. And so they swim. They can swim down
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under the water and they go up in here and
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see that that makes it Other animals and creatures can't
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get in there and get them. So they swim underwater
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and go through their a little hole and stay up
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there in the in their den and are safe there.
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They're very interesting. Now there's something else i'd like to
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show you, children, And I know you can't see this
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real well, but i'll show you in just a little bit.
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So we have pecan trees in Georgia. We don't have
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your nice like hazel nut trees and all that, but
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we do have pecan trees. And so probably ten years
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ago or so, we were planting a new orchard of
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pecan trees. And we got these little little trees that
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were about this big, and we planted a whole day.
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We planted most of them, but we didn't quite get
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finished planning them, and so we took and for the
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night we put them into a little pond there so
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that the roots were in the water, so the roots
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wouldn't dry up. The next day we came out to
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start planting trees again, and we saw something very unusual
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had happened through the night. And when it happened, the
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beavers found those little tender pecan trees. And they went
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to work on those pecan trees, and they wanted to
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use those for their house and that kind of thing.
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They chewed them up. They they like this one. You
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can see. That's what the trees were like. And they
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just chewed the tree off from the roots. And I
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would have loved to have brought these little things with me,
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these these little trees. I have them in my office,
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but they were too big to fit in the suitcase,
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so I just had to go with pictures to show you.
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So that's what they looked like. But this picture is
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what I want to show you, children, and you can
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after the service, you can come up and look at
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this if you want to. This was what was just amazing.
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That was one of the pecan trees that we were
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going to plant. And did you know beavers eat bark
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off of trees, and this tree they completely almost you'd say,
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like perfectly ate all the bark off of that tree.
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And if you come look at the picture, or if
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you'd if i'd have it here to show you tonight,
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it's like not one stitch of bark on there anymore.
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They ate it cleaner than we eat a cop of sweetcorn.
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And we just think of how perfectly they did it.
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You can see their little teeth marks on there. They
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just cleaned it off from top to bottom. They did
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a really good job. And that takes us to what
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I want to just share with you yet tonight, children,
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I found in studying about beavers in the dictionary, there's
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a word. It's eager beaver. Eager beaver, and I'm going
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to encourage you children tonight to be like eager beavers. Now,
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I've read different dictionaries and different dictionaries different meanings, but
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one of the meanings of being an eager beaver is
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to do everything that is asked of us and volunteer
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to do even more so anything. To be an eager beaver,
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we need to be willing to do anything like the
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teachers ask of you, your mom and daddy ask of you.
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Anyone asks you to go, you know, sweep the floor,
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and you gladly, you gladly you like an eager beaver.
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You jump on it, you do it. You go sweep
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the floor, and when you're finished, you go to the teacher,
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you go to mama, and you say, is there something
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else I can do? You know, Mama asks you to
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clean the table, clear the table, and you clear the table,
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and then you ask can you dry the dishes yet?
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Or something like that. You understand what we mean, So
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for you to be an eager beaver, is to do
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anything that's asked of you that you need to do,
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and volunteer to do even more. And so that is
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really a kind of a challenge, and so I would
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as we share that with you, would like to have
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up here after the service closes. You're welcome to come
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up here and any of your children that want to
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be like an eager beaver in your home in school
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and that's how you want to be. You can come
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and get one of these key chain beavers. And when
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you have it and you get it, you take it home.
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You might put it somewhere and you remember what it
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means to be an eager beaver. And maybe sometimes when
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you're not that your teacher could just swing it at
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you and remind you of it and help you remember
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to be like an eager beaver. Okay, we're going to
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put this right down here, and glad to have your
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children here, and I think everyone here is going to
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be blessed if you're like a bunch of eager beavers.
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Blessings to you children as you endeavor to remember that
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and to be that that also goes along well with it.
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Seems like a few or it's a way that that
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could apply to a few opening thoughts, as we think
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of the message this evening, because you, as sisters, you
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certainly are and filling your calling in life. You're like
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eager beavers. You do so much in making things flow
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and work in a godly way. And so this evening
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for the message, I invite you to turn to the
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book of Matthew, and we'll begin with reading something that
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Jesus himself said Matthew chapter five. You will begin reading
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at verse thirteen. As we think of this message this
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evening that is on our heart to endeavor to share
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with you, by the grace of God. And tonight, while
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there are some things that are for all of us,
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we are endeavoring to share, especially with And I think
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I said one other evening to what, in some ways
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it seems to me, is like the crowning part of creation.
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Jesus said in Matthew five thirteen, and following he said,
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ye are the salt of the earth. But if the
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salt have lost His savor, wherewith shall it be salted?
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It is thenceforth good for nothing but to be cast
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out and to be triden under foot of men. Ye
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are the light of the world, a city that is
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set on a hill that cannot be hid. Neither do
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men light a candle and put it under a bushel,
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but on a candlestick. And then I would invite you,
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sisters here tonight, youth and mothers and wives, notice these
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next words that Jesus said, and it giveth light unto
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all that are in the house. Let your light so
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shine before men, that they may see your good works
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and glorify your Father, which is in heaven. For us,
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as men and brethren here tonight, I would trust that
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in the coming days we will think when we are challenging,
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when things we're faced with things that are hard and difficult,
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we will maybe think about the question that was asked
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last evening, does the staff fits your hand? And we
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will we will be we'll we'll think about that and
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be challenged to be that and to do that, to
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be a person that can take the staff and all
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that it symbolizes, and be that and do that. This evening,
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we have some words we want to give to you
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in question form as a tie for this message that
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to me are just as challenging for you as sisters,
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that are so extremely important to consider as we look
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at Jesus' words here it giveth light unto all that
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are in the house. And I trust as we go
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through this message this evening, this will become more meaningful
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to all of us, and we're all challenged by it,
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but we are sharing it especially for you as sisters
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here this evening. I'd like to give the message the
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title A big question, an important question. Is your light on?
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Is your light on? Is the light in your heart
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on tonight? Is that light on and radiating the brightness
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and the glory and the beauty of God. If we
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turn our bibles tonight to Genesis chapter one, and you
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can follow along if you'd like, You don't have to.
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But in verse two it says the earth was without
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form and void, and darkness was upon the face of
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the deep, and the spirit of God moved upon the
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face of the waters. And God said, let there be light.
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And there was light the word of God God the
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first day, like the first thing he created, was light.
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And light is beautiful. Light is so meaningful and special
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and something we need and just like we need you
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as sisters to illuminate and to be a light and
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just some more of a setting from the Word of God.
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This evening we turned to the last book of the Bible.
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We notice those words from the first book. We go
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to the Last Book of the Bible. In chapter eighteen,
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verses twenty two and twenty three, we read here about
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the absence of light, and it says, the voice of
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harpers and musicians, and of pipers and trumpeters shall be
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heard no more at all in THEE, and no craftsman,
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of whatsoever craft b shall be found anymore in THEE.
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And the sound of a millstone shall be heard no
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more at all in THEE, and the light of a
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candle shall shine no more at all in THEE, and
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the voice of the bridegroom and of the bride shall
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be heard no more at all in the What a
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sad picture of a place where there was no light.
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And then we go to chapter twenty one, verses nine
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b through eleven. He says, come hither, I will show
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thee the bride, the Lamb's wife. And he carried me
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away in the spirit to a great and high mountain,
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and showed me that great city, the Holy Jerusalem, descending
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out of Heaven from God, having the glory of God.
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And her light was likened to a stone most precious,
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even like a jasper stone, clear as crystal. We think
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this evening of the fact that you are called to
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portray with your husbands and other men in your life
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the relationship there is between Christ and the Church, and
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to give to the world an example of how God
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that wants that to be. And here we see the
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picture of there being a light, precious and clear as crystal.
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So just drawing from that as things relating to the
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absence of light and light and God creating light on
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the first day, and there being light, and the beauty
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of all of that. And then we asked the question tonight,
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where do we how does this happen? How can we
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have a light? You know I was thinking today about
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you know, in our setting here so many things to
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think about as far as I see this evening, all
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of you as adult sister sitting here are even you
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are even carrying on your head a sign of your
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submission to God and his will for your life, in
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finding your place in God's order, And it is a
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witness to the world. It's like this city set on
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a hill that cannot be hid. You're like the soul
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of the earth. And as you even are busy with
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household duties and cooking and you add salt to whatever
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you're making and preparing. May you remember how your life,
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if that light is on in your heart, how your
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life is like the salt in the environment you're in
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and the people around you, a light to all in
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the house. And I was thinking today, I don't know
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how many couples are here, and this this message is
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for singles that are here in all of us, as
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far as that's concerned. But you know, probably for every
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godly man on this side that has a wife over
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here this evening, probably what was truly beautiful, what was attractive,
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was that light in your heart, a light that that
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God put there, and that only God can put there.
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And that is what makes you beautiful. And we respect
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and honor that this evening we are in reverence of
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God's creation and even the crowning part of creation, in
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creating woman, taking the rib of Adam and creating a
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woman with the rib and and this is not a
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man's rib tonight, rib bone, but this is this is
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a rib bone. And it is significant that God took
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a bone from man's side, that that is is so
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symbolic of what God wants you as sisters to be.
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And do as women of God. And it is it
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is interesting that rib bones are not rigid and unmovable,
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and and without being giving and sharing. You know this
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this rib bone. We can take it tonight, We can
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we can bend it. It has some gift. And yet
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it is very strong. It's a very strong bone. It
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doesn't just break easily under pressure. It's very strong. And
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yet it is compatible. It is it can be moved,
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It is touched with pressure and with things that happen
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around it in an environment. And and that is significant
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that God took a rib bone from from Adam's side,
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and with that he created a help suitable for man.
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This evening, we can not emphasize enough. I don't believe
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how important it is for that light to be on
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in your heart. And we have witnessed that as we've
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been in your homes. We are blessed to see the
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light on in your hearts and in your lives. We
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cannot emphasize enough tonight how big the influence is that
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you have on all everyone around you and us as
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men here this evening. One thing I don't remember saying here,
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and if I did, I'm confident there's someone here that
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hasn't heard it. It's something that it really brings out
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a point I think, even though it is maybe somewhat
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comic coin away, but it is said that George and
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Barbara Bush many years ago we're traveling in fact is
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I just now think about it. I think it was
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said in the state of Oregon. Maybe not. I can't
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say for sure about that, but I know in the
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state of Oregon you do have it. It was said that
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they drove into a gas station and in those days
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there were still attendants that would come out and fill
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the vehicle up with gas. And it is said that,
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you know, this attendant came out of the station to
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come out and fill up their vehicle with gas. And
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it said that Barbara said, George, I used to date
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that man, this man that came out to fill up
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their vehicle with gasoline. And George said, well, it's really
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good you didn't marry him, or you would just be
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a gas station attendant's wife. And it is said that
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Barbara said, no, if I would have married him, he
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would have been the president of the United States. And
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it is so much truth in that. I mean, so
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it is so much to think about and consider. Do
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you know you set the temperature of I mean, even
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like here tonight, you have so much to do with
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the temp the atmosphere here and in your homes. We
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cannot tell you how much difference you make in your home,
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just that that candle on your table, there's that base
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of flowers on the table, and just the atmosphere of
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come home, daddy, and of hospitality and Christian love. Yes,
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we want to continue that thread of what was shared
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about love. And you know it is just. And that's
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why the question tonight it's so important. Is the light
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on tonight is the light on in your heart? The
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light that only the Lord can give you. It's such
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an important question and for you to consider and tomorrow
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and the next day, and when you're taking care of
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all the babies in house cleaning. And you know, I'm amazed.
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I told Bertha just recently, I just I'm so blessed.
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I'm amazed. You know, she washes those same clothes every week,
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over and over and over, day after day after day,
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and folds them and puts them back in and we
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have a whole fresh set of clothes again and again
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and again and again. And all the other things cooking,
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you know, I expect my mother, my dear mother, probably
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cooked twenty thousand meals plus for me. The atmosphere you're
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like thermostats, you like set the temperature of home. And
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while we as men, yes we're called to be men
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and to be leaders in the home, it's just it's
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just nothing like you know, after forty years of being
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able to still to come home and walk through the
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door and have a welcome home, dear a message or
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someone welcoming you there, and in an atmosphere of that
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is pleasant and inviting, inviting to your family and to
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those around you, and even others that being hospitable and
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inviting and sharing. It is so very important we share
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these things this evening as myself a person that experienced
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it with my mother, and also now of course my
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life with birtha mother's wives. I'm here as one to
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share with you tonight. One of the things I don't
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want to miss sharing with you. If it wouldn't have
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been for my mother, If it wouldn't have been for
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my mother, I just don't think I would be here
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where I am tonight. I had a wonderful father, it
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would be my number one choice forever of any father
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but me and Daddy. There were some times that we
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had a very difficult time seeing eye to eye, and
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I would hate to tell you some things that I
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considered when I was about twelve years old because of
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just having such a conflict with Daddy and the way
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it was. And I'm glad you know a verse we
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want to read tonight if we get there is like
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a father's law, and Daddy had a law and it
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was good for me. I just blessed the Lord tonight
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that Mama was like you know, Mama. There was a
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day when I wrote a note to Mama and I
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thanked her for being like an evergreen tree. And I'm
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thankful tonight to the Lord that as far as I know,
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Mama's light, that light in her heart never went out.
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And I don't know what would have happened if Mama's
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light would have went out. And life wasn't easy for Mama.
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Many times a wonderful husband Daddy was, but you know
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there was he was a man with structure and discipline
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and order, and it wasn't always easy. But it's just
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such a blessing. As far as I could tell, Mama's
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light was always on, that light in her heart. I
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don't know where I'd be tonight if it wouldn't have
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been for one night, you know, Mama's The light was
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on in Mama's heart, and Mama had a connection with God.
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And it was a night when when we up on
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a dairy farm, and it was in the wintertime, and
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we finished milking when it was already dark. It was
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dark before we finished milking, and I was about seventeen
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years of age, and that night I had decided I
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was going to go somewhere. I was going to just
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sneak away without it being known and go do something. Now.
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I wasn't to go to a wild party of some kind.
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I wasn't just living a wild, rebellious life, but it
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was still. It was still I was going to go
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somewhere that could have changed the whole direction of my life.
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And just today, I again was just thanking the Lord
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for my mother. And that night, to this day, I
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don't know. It was just it was because that light
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was on in her heart and she was in tune
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with God. So I left the milk barn. It was dark,
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and out in the front of our house was about
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a five acre Bermuda field pasture. It's still there. And
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I left and I started walking across that field, and
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I was about halfway across the field in the dark,
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when Mama came out on the front porch of the
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house and she called out across the field. And I
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don't know how she knew I was there. I don't
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know how she knew what was going on in my heart.
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But tonight, mothers, wives and mothers, it's so important for
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you to know your children and to have a heart
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for them, and to have a heart connection with them
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because sometimes us, as daddy's you know, it might just
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be a little difficult, and it's so important for you
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to have a connection with them and with the Lord.
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And that only happens as the light is on. But
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when that light is on, something good is going to
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be happening, and God bless you in it. And so
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Mama came out on the front porch and she called
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out across that Bermuda field and she called out, and
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she said my name, and she said Donnie. She called
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out Donnie, and then she said where are you going?
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And it was enough to make me stop in my tracks,
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stop and just take a moment to think and consider.
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And tonight I'm so thankful I can tell you that
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I turned around and I went back to the house,
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and I never went where I intended to go that night.
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It's because there was a light on in Mama's heart.
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Of the virtuous woman, the Bible says, her candle goeth
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not out by night. Now, we believe that does mean,
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you know, it does mean that domestic duties are constant
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for a mother and a virtuous woman. Rather it mentions night.
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I'd like to give that another application, even a further application.
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Her candle goeth not out by night. Her candle goeth
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not out when it is dark and difficult and hard,
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and when maybe Daddy is not what he needs to be,
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you know, last evening, I guess I never quite finished
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this up. But those of you that were here last night,
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you remember when I threw these stones in this cup. Sometimes,
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dear sisters, it's hard, it's difficult. Sometimes there's more more
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bills than there is money to pay, and the lawnmower
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breaks down, and it's tough on the job and all
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the things that we face as men. And oh, may
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it be though, that the light in your heart never
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goes out. Her candle goeth not out by night, and
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by night tonight we're going to make the application of
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when it is dark and difficult, when we as men,
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as husbands, as a man in your life are not
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what we should be. And you just let the Lord
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keep letting you shine. And you are shining. So what
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are you going to do when you're a recipient of
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stones that have been thrown Dear mother, don't throw them
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over into Sally's life. Don't become impatient and angry and
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throw stones into your little children's life. You know what
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all of us need to do with those stones that
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we that come into a life and those difficult things. Now,
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I don't think y'all heard anything here to do this tonight,
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but you know I could have. We just think of
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how important it is to take and and just to
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impress us with what to do with them. We bring
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them to the Lord in prayer, and these stones, if
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they stay in our life, and later another message, maybe
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we'll think about allowing the Lord to turn our wounds
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into scars and our scars into stars. He can do it.
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But it's so important to take these things to the
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Lord in prayer. Cast it off, don't pass it on,
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cast it off at the feet of Jesus. And let
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Him help you stay beautiful and your light continue shining
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for His glory. Someone has said, come with me to
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an old farmhouse where a mother kneels in prayer. Tears
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flow as she cries out to God for strength to
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go on for the sake of her three little ones.
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If only her husband would be a godly man and
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a spiritual leader. Although he provides the material needs of
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his family, his neglect of their emotional and spiritual needs
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is a burden that threatens to crush her. The flame
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of faith burns feebly tonight, and she feels like giving
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up is a struggle worth it. Go with me fifty
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years later to a softly lighted chapel, where the woman's
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wasted body now lies in a coffin. Her children adults
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now speak reverently of the mother who provided a guiding light,
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a light dear sisters through their formative years, drawing them
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to their own faith in the Savior. A score of
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young Christian men and women look lovingly on their grandmother's face. Tomorrow,
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her grandsons will care her to her grave. Tomorrow they
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will sing of a praying mother and a grandma who
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loved Jesus was the struggle worth it. My imagination pushes
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the fast forward button of time. Another fifty years slips by.
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In the mind's I see another coffin in the chapel,
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not my grandmother's but mine. The little ones that snuggle
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in my arms today will then be grown men and
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women with families of their own. And what will the
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picture look like today? I am painting that picture of tomorrow.
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Today the colors are wet in my hands, but tomorrow
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they will have dried. And what kind of legacy will
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I leave? It has been said, and there's just it's
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a thought, very good thought, that an ounce of mother
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is worth a pound of slurgy. Something that Ella Miller said.
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God is first, and my family is next, and I
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give them all I have. Someone has said I thought
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I had died to self, but motherhood was the proving ground.
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Sacrifice becomes a way of life for a mother. These
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are just some quotes that are meaningful to us tonight.
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Another one this was my mother. It has been said
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that Christ has often entered a home on the wings
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of a mother's song. My mother while she was washing dishes,
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and I just have so many memories of her just
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humming a tune whistling, just a cheerful person. There was
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a boy, little boy that showed his bad temper. He
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was asked to go to his room and pray about it.
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Mother overheard him praying and asking the Lord to take
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away his bad temper, and then asking the Lord to
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take away his mother's temper too. There was a little
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child that called for a drink. You know how it
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can be. It can be five, six, seven, eight times
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they want to drink, And those things all need order
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and discipline and structure. But she went again and took
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her little child a drink. And the little child asked,
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why are you mad? And the mother was sure that
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she kept her composure. The little child said, you walk mad.
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And quite a few other things there that we could
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think about. But we'd like to go yet to the
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Book of Song of Solomon, and off you thoughts from there,
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as we think of your life as wives and mothers
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this evening, and even yes, single girls and those that
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God calls to a life of singlehood. We go to
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the Book of Song of Solomon, chapter two, in verse fourteen,
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and I think it mentions four things here this evening
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we think about it says, oh my dove that already
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in the clefts of the rock, in the secret places
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of the stairs. Let me see thy countenance, Let me
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hear thy voice, For sweet is thy voice, and thy
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countenance is calmly the cleft of the rock. This can
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be applied. We believe as Christ in the church and
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also as husbands and wives, you are called to dwell
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in the cleft of the rock. And this is something
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that can be found in a faithful husband and to
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ultimately in Christ, the Savior and Lord of our lives.
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It talks about the secret places. It is in the
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secret place you alone with God, that you find a
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place for oil to be in that lamp and keep
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it burning. It is mentioned made here about the countenance. Wow,
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we cannot just tell you it is not earrings and
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fingernail polish and the latest most classy looking dress. That
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is not what makes you beautiful. What makes you beautiful
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is that light in your heart and that affects your countenance,
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and that makes you pleasant and a blessing to be
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around and inviting to strangers and to people.
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And it's just like a witness to the world, modestly dressed,
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walking with the Lord faithful in.
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His calling on your life. He also says, let me
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hear thy voice. You know, I think it's in Proverbs
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thirty one it says something about she openeth her mouth
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with wisdom. You have an intuition. Sometimes you feel and
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you kind of know what has never been said, and
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you sense things that are not good or good that
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we as men don't always feel and know that is good.
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It also has its dangers, you know, as we thought
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some about influence and the influence you have on men,
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we think of how Adam. The Bible tells us that
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Eve she took of the fruit, and she gave to
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her husband Adam, and he partook of it. And so
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that is the odd side of that. There is a
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danger there. But as we think of all that, we'd
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like to share something more with you this evening. As sisters,
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we turn our bibles to the Book of Proverbs chapter six,
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and we want to notice there that the Bible speaks
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about a we could say a family setting. Proverbs chapter six,
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verses twenty through twenty three, it says, my son, keep
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thy father's commandment, and forsake not the law of thy mother.
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Bind them continually upon thine heart, and tie them about
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thy neck. When thou goest, it shall lead thee. When
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thou sleepest, it shall keep thee, and when thou awakest,
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it shall talk with thee. For the commandment is a lamp,
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and the law is the light. The law is light.
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And it goes on to say in reproofs of instruction
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or the way of life I was. We're privileged to
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have been able to borrow this lamp. Today here in
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the community, we are thankful for that. And here this
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evening we have we have a lamp that has structure,
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and it's put together in an amazing way, and it's
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nice to look at. And as we look at this scripture,
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it says, my son, keep thy father's commandment. In verse
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twenty three, it says the commandment is a lamp. And
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so in an ideal setting, it's like, you know, like
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a father's instruction to his children. It's like this lamp.
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There's structure there, there's something there of worth and value
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and purpose, and where a father lays out guidelines and
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the way things will be done tonight. If you know,
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if the lights would be off in here, we couldn't
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even see what's up here on this pulpit. And there's
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something really missing here tonight as we look at this,
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it is it's you know, we think about what this
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thing was made for and what is missing is the light.
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And tonight we're blessed with the privilege of being able to,
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we trust, to light this lamp in light of drawing
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from it what God's calling is on your life as sisters,
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even in church life, you know, you're the ones many
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times that make it come alive and help make it
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be practical and something that can happen. And you know,
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maybe Daddy gives an outline of how things are going
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to be and maybe we as children we don't understand,
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and you, as a wife and mother, you come along
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and you just put a light in there. Will it's
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because of this and you know though if we do this,
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this will happen, and this is why Daddy wants this.
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And so the light comes on and it is such
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a blessing to be able tonight to light this lamp
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and it becomes something beautiful, something that shines in the dark,
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and it brings us back to our title. This evening
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that we just want to leave with you as sisters.
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You know, is the light on and it's possible that
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because of things we have men have done, or because
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of things you've experienced in your life and your home
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and family. You know, we could we could blow this
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lamp out tonight. You know, I think of the structure here,
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even this globe on this lamp has a purpose, and
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you know how it is. There's many a wife in
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the world today that would not like the restrictions of
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this globe. They would want to just take it off,
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and they want to be able to have freedom to
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do what they want to do. And you know, it
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would result in the lamp possibly going out. It could
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easily go out if we take the lamp off and
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remove the lamp. We think of how it is, and
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just thinking of that, I think of a meeting that
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Bertha and I were at quite a few years ago,
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and I think they were selling cookware at that meeting,
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and right in the whole group, there was this lady
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that stood up and said, I don't cook. Now, she
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let it be known that's not her, and so she
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would like want this globe removed and the structure of
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the way God wants it to be. You know, God
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did say to woman, she guides the house and she's
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a keeper at home, But this tonight is beautiful. As
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we think of this, we think of how God has
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called you to shine and to be a light in
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the world and in your family and in your home,
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to the glory of God. May God bless you with
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the ability to be the light for you that are wives,
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to be like the light in your husband's lamp, and
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to set the temperature and atmosphere of warmth a good
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place to be of beauty and loveliness. There's one more
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thing we'd like to do. This evening, we turn our
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bibles to the Book of Timothy Verse Timothy, chapter two.
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We notice these verses the other evening, maybe last evening,
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you know where it tells us. In verse eight and nine,
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it says, I will therefore that men pray everywhere, lifting
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up holy hands without wrath and doubting, in like manner.
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Also that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness
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and sobriety, not with braided hair, or gold or pearls,
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or costly array. But which becometh women professing godliness with
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good works. Is verse ten. I would desire that we could, just,
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in a little simple way this evening, us as men
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could endeavor to do this What it caused us to
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do in verse eight for the sisters here this evening
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that we're so blessed with. You know, how would it
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be if suddenly all the sisters here tonight would be
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gone and would not be here, and not be here
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to make the difference in our lives that they make
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we would we would indeed experience a great vacancy and
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loneliness and loss. So I would like if in conclusion
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this evening, in a moment, when we get ready to stand,
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I'd like to you know, we have this evening the
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blessing of godly sisters here dressed in modesty, in a
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modest way, in a godly way, and even you know,
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portraying from your life your submission to the Lord, and
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like saying with Mary, behold the handmaid of the Lord.
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And so I would like, as we stand for closing prayer,
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in a moment, if we as men, if any of
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us that want to to join in and just in
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endeavoring to give our blessing and support and encouragement to
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the dear sisters here tonight, we will stand, and we
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will turn, of course, first of all to the Lord,
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and also just toward our sisters. As we stand and pray,
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and lift up our hands and pray, and ask the
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Lord to let his blessing and benediction rest upon and
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be poured out on our sisters here this evening. Will
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there be anyone that have anything to share before we close,
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Before we close, stand for closing prayer. Might you join
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me as we pray. Father in heaven. We thank you
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tonight for your goodness, your love to us. We thank
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you that through Jesus you have purchased the bride the
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Church of the Lord Jesus Christ. And Father, we thank
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you tonight for every sister that is here that portrays this.
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It is a witness of this to all the world.
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We thank you for sisters here tonight that are walking
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with you. We thank you for sisters here this evening
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that have a light on in their heart the life
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that you have placed there. And Father, we pray for them.
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We pray for each one of them. We pray that
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that light would never go out, even in the face
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of adversity, and even as it were at night, through
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difficult times. May their light keep shining, And we pray
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and ask Lord you would be pleased to bless them.
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May your benediction and blessing rest upon them as your
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dear daughters in the Kingdom of God. Here on earth.
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We thank you for them. We pray you would bless
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and protect them, and we pray you would use us
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as men as instruments to be a protection and blessing
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for them. We ask in the precious name of Jesus
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with thanksgiving. Amen, And you're dismissed. God bless you.