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Is Your Light On - Donny Swartzentruber

Halsey Mennonite Church

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  1. Well once again with desire a good evening for each

  2. of you. And it's a blessing to be able to

  3. be together again in this way, and God's blessings to

  4. each of you. As I thought of how to greet

  5. you this evening, I thought of greeting you as Christian

  6. brothers and sisters here in the name of the One

  7. whose mother, while on earth, had an angel come and

  8. talk with her and told her things that were just

  9. like in some ways could have been overwhelming to her.

  10. And her response was, behold the Handmaid of the Lord.

  11. Be it unto me according to Thy word. And from

  12. that this evening, it's a message that we all can

  13. draw from very very beautiful, meaningful words that Mary spoke

  14. as she said, behold the Handmaid of the Lord. Welcome

  15. to everyone here. It's been a blessing being here in

  16. this community again today. We were privileged to have lunch

  17. today with Daniel and Barn, sit at their table and

  18. enjoy fellowship there. And we don't need to announce every

  19. time we go somewhere for a meal, don't mean that way,

  20. but just that you know we are enjoying it here

  21. and it's a blessing for us and I pray God

  22. would bless each of you here this evening, and I

  23. pray the Lord would bless you children that are here tonight.

  24. And we're very thankful to see you here. So somehow

  25. at home there at Derek's just trying to look at

  26. a few things, look at something we could share for

  27. this evening. And Gabriella saw a picture that I want

  28. to show you, children, and she said something like she's

  29. just she can't hardly wait to hear about the story.

  30. And so I want to share it with you children tonight.

  31. Something to me is very interesting. I'd like to tell

  32. you about what is called Nature's engineer, and I'd like

  33. to share with you children tonight some thoughts taken from

  34. the Bible. From the Book of Job. Did you know children,

  35. It tells us that we should ask, It says, but

  36. ask now the beast, and they shall teach thee and

  37. the fowls of the air, and they shall tell thee.

  38. So here the Bible is saying that we can observe

  39. animals in God's creation, in nature, and we can learn

  40. lessons from it. And that's something I want to do

  41. this evening as we're here. And so there is a

  42. mammal that is on the Oregon flag, And can any

  43. of you children tell me what that is? What is

  44. a mammal that's on the flag of Oregon, you know,

  45. And I know I'm sure someone here knows, but maybe

  46. you don't know what age to say and not to say.

  47. So I'm just going to share with you actually coming tonight.

  48. As we were coming, Derek was driving, and you have

  49. right out here, real close by, there's a flag, an

  50. Oregon flag, and as the wind was blowing, I could

  51. see very plainly a beaver on that flag. And I'd

  52. like to share a few things to you tonight, with

  53. you tonight about a beaver. The beavers and beavers are

  54. very special to me, and I know to some people,

  55. some farmers, you know, sometimes they can be kind of

  56. a nuisance. But we're thinking about some good things about

  57. beavers tonight, and in the end, I hope that each

  58. of you children will have learned something and you'll take it.

  59. And it's something I want to share with you tonight

  60. that's really challenging for you as children. So first of all,

  61. just you know, I'm sure you know what beavers look like,

  62. but that is a picture of a nice, big beaver

  63. with a big tail and teeth that never stopped growing.

  64. Look at their children. Look at that the teeth on

  65. a beaver and what they look like. And they never

  66. quit growing. They just keep growing. They need to keep

  67. growing because what they do with their teeth, their teeth

  68. get worn down, and so they need teeth that keep

  69. growing so they can keep doing what beavers do. So

  70. there you see again a beaver, the wide tail. Some

  71. of their tails are like six inches wide fifteen inches long.

  72. Other things that beavers do, you know, they build dams.

  73. And one of the things that I want to share

  74. with you children is beavers are considered to be nature's engineer.

  75. And one thing that beavers do they can take a

  76. place where there's just this little stream of water and

  77. there's briers and bushes and grass and trees all kinds

  78. of things, and you know, really it's not a place

  79. where fish can be or duck or geese or anything

  80. like that, because it's just this little bitty stream. And

  81. then beavers will go in there and they'll dam up

  82. the water. And what happens. Suddenly the water starts backing

  83. up and what was just a tiny little stream will

  84. become like a pond or like a body of water

  85. that provides a good place for many other animals, like

  86. duck can go there and they can have their little

  87. babies there because beavers have made a dam and it

  88. makes for water there, and so duck can have their

  89. little baby ducks and they can go out into the

  90. water and to be safe to get away from fox

  91. and things like that that try to get the little

  92. baby duck. And so I want you children to think

  93. about tonight, drawing one lesson from that. Do you know

  94. what you children do and who you are and how

  95. you act makes a big difference in the environment. So

  96. beaver's taking they build a dam and it makes it

  97. beautiful for even fish, you know, can swim around in there,

  98. and duck and geese and it just makes a beautiful

  99. place to be. And so how would it be tonight?

  100. You know, I expect like you children from ages twelve down,

  101. let's say, how would it be tonight to try to

  102. have a church service here? And all of you would

  103. be just screaming and cooking and hollering and being an

  104. attentive and going in and out and just not paying

  105. any attention. You know, it would be really hard to

  106. have a service here tonight, wouldn't it. But all of you,

  107. you just sitting here so nice and quiet, and so

  108. in that way, you're like beavers. You're making it a

  109. nice place to be for the rest of us. It's

  110. amazing how big a tree beavers can can shoot down,

  111. like big trees like that. They'll take and and just

  112. gnaw on that tree until it falls down. And what

  113. they're doing, they're building their little their houses. Like I

  114. showed you a picture of like that, and then I

  115. think I have another picture somewhere of what it looks

  116. like on the inside of that yes, right here, So

  117. this is a little bit like what it looks like

  118. inside the dam. So what we see is just the

  119. sticks and the outside, but inside what the beavers do

  120. is dam up the water. And so this is their house.

  121. Like up in here, it's where they have their babies.

  122. It's a safe place to go. It's like home for

  123. the beavers. And so they swim. They can swim down

  124. under the water and they go up in here and

  125. see that that makes it Other animals and creatures can't

  126. get in there and get them. So they swim underwater

  127. and go through their a little hole and stay up

  128. there in the in their den and are safe there.

  129. They're very interesting. Now there's something else i'd like to

  130. show you, children, And I know you can't see this

  131. real well, but i'll show you in just a little bit.

  132. So we have pecan trees in Georgia. We don't have

  133. your nice like hazel nut trees and all that, but

  134. we do have pecan trees. And so probably ten years

  135. ago or so, we were planting a new orchard of

  136. pecan trees. And we got these little little trees that

  137. were about this big, and we planted a whole day.

  138. We planted most of them, but we didn't quite get

  139. finished planning them, and so we took and for the

  140. night we put them into a little pond there so

  141. that the roots were in the water, so the roots

  142. wouldn't dry up. The next day we came out to

  143. start planting trees again, and we saw something very unusual

  144. had happened through the night. And when it happened, the

  145. beavers found those little tender pecan trees. And they went

  146. to work on those pecan trees, and they wanted to

  147. use those for their house and that kind of thing.

  148. They chewed them up. They they like this one. You

  149. can see. That's what the trees were like. And they

  150. just chewed the tree off from the roots. And I

  151. would have loved to have brought these little things with me,

  152. these these little trees. I have them in my office,

  153. but they were too big to fit in the suitcase,

  154. so I just had to go with pictures to show you.

  155. So that's what they looked like. But this picture is

  156. what I want to show you, children, and you can

  157. after the service, you can come up and look at

  158. this if you want to. This was what was just amazing.

  159. That was one of the pecan trees that we were

  160. going to plant. And did you know beavers eat bark

  161. off of trees, and this tree they completely almost you'd say,

  162. like perfectly ate all the bark off of that tree.

  163. And if you come look at the picture, or if

  164. you'd if i'd have it here to show you tonight,

  165. it's like not one stitch of bark on there anymore.

  166. They ate it cleaner than we eat a cop of sweetcorn.

  167. And we just think of how perfectly they did it.

  168. You can see their little teeth marks on there. They

  169. just cleaned it off from top to bottom. They did

  170. a really good job. And that takes us to what

  171. I want to just share with you yet tonight, children,

  172. I found in studying about beavers in the dictionary, there's

  173. a word. It's eager beaver. Eager beaver, and I'm going

  174. to encourage you children tonight to be like eager beavers. Now,

  175. I've read different dictionaries and different dictionaries different meanings, but

  176. one of the meanings of being an eager beaver is

  177. to do everything that is asked of us and volunteer

  178. to do even more so anything. To be an eager beaver,

  179. we need to be willing to do anything like the

  180. teachers ask of you, your mom and daddy ask of you.

  181. Anyone asks you to go, you know, sweep the floor,

  182. and you gladly, you gladly you like an eager beaver.

  183. You jump on it, you do it. You go sweep

  184. the floor, and when you're finished, you go to the teacher,

  185. you go to mama, and you say, is there something

  186. else I can do? You know, Mama asks you to

  187. clean the table, clear the table, and you clear the table,

  188. and then you ask can you dry the dishes yet?

  189. Or something like that. You understand what we mean, So

  190. for you to be an eager beaver, is to do

  191. anything that's asked of you that you need to do,

  192. and volunteer to do even more. And so that is

  193. really a kind of a challenge, and so I would

  194. as we share that with you, would like to have

  195. up here after the service closes. You're welcome to come

  196. up here and any of your children that want to

  197. be like an eager beaver in your home in school

  198. and that's how you want to be. You can come

  199. and get one of these key chain beavers. And when

  200. you have it and you get it, you take it home.

  201. You might put it somewhere and you remember what it

  202. means to be an eager beaver. And maybe sometimes when

  203. you're not that your teacher could just swing it at

  204. you and remind you of it and help you remember

  205. to be like an eager beaver. Okay, we're going to

  206. put this right down here, and glad to have your

  207. children here, and I think everyone here is going to

  208. be blessed if you're like a bunch of eager beavers.

  209. Blessings to you children as you endeavor to remember that

  210. and to be that that also goes along well with it.

  211. Seems like a few or it's a way that that

  212. could apply to a few opening thoughts, as we think

  213. of the message this evening, because you, as sisters, you

  214. certainly are and filling your calling in life. You're like

  215. eager beavers. You do so much in making things flow

  216. and work in a godly way. And so this evening

  217. for the message, I invite you to turn to the

  218. book of Matthew, and we'll begin with reading something that

  219. Jesus himself said Matthew chapter five. You will begin reading

  220. at verse thirteen. As we think of this message this

  221. evening that is on our heart to endeavor to share

  222. with you, by the grace of God. And tonight, while

  223. there are some things that are for all of us,

  224. we are endeavoring to share, especially with And I think

  225. I said one other evening to what, in some ways

  226. it seems to me, is like the crowning part of creation.

  227. Jesus said in Matthew five thirteen, and following he said,

  228. ye are the salt of the earth. But if the

  229. salt have lost His savor, wherewith shall it be salted?

  230. It is thenceforth good for nothing but to be cast

  231. out and to be triden under foot of men. Ye

  232. are the light of the world, a city that is

  233. set on a hill that cannot be hid. Neither do

  234. men light a candle and put it under a bushel,

  235. but on a candlestick. And then I would invite you,

  236. sisters here tonight, youth and mothers and wives, notice these

  237. next words that Jesus said, and it giveth light unto

  238. all that are in the house. Let your light so

  239. shine before men, that they may see your good works

  240. and glorify your Father, which is in heaven. For us,

  241. as men and brethren here tonight, I would trust that

  242. in the coming days we will think when we are challenging,

  243. when things we're faced with things that are hard and difficult,

  244. we will maybe think about the question that was asked

  245. last evening, does the staff fits your hand? And we

  246. will we will be we'll we'll think about that and

  247. be challenged to be that and to do that, to

  248. be a person that can take the staff and all

  249. that it symbolizes, and be that and do that. This evening,

  250. we have some words we want to give to you

  251. in question form as a tie for this message that

  252. to me are just as challenging for you as sisters,

  253. that are so extremely important to consider as we look

  254. at Jesus' words here it giveth light unto all that

  255. are in the house. And I trust as we go

  256. through this message this evening, this will become more meaningful

  257. to all of us, and we're all challenged by it,

  258. but we are sharing it especially for you as sisters

  259. here this evening. I'd like to give the message the

  260. title A big question, an important question. Is your light on?

  261. Is your light on? Is the light in your heart

  262. on tonight? Is that light on and radiating the brightness

  263. and the glory and the beauty of God. If we

  264. turn our bibles tonight to Genesis chapter one, and you

  265. can follow along if you'd like, You don't have to.

  266. But in verse two it says the earth was without

  267. form and void, and darkness was upon the face of

  268. the deep, and the spirit of God moved upon the

  269. face of the waters. And God said, let there be light.

  270. And there was light the word of God God the

  271. first day, like the first thing he created, was light.

  272. And light is beautiful. Light is so meaningful and special

  273. and something we need and just like we need you

  274. as sisters to illuminate and to be a light and

  275. just some more of a setting from the Word of God.

  276. This evening we turned to the last book of the Bible.

  277. We notice those words from the first book. We go

  278. to the Last Book of the Bible. In chapter eighteen,

  279. verses twenty two and twenty three, we read here about

  280. the absence of light, and it says, the voice of

  281. harpers and musicians, and of pipers and trumpeters shall be

  282. heard no more at all in THEE, and no craftsman,

  283. of whatsoever craft b shall be found anymore in THEE.

  284. And the sound of a millstone shall be heard no

  285. more at all in THEE, and the light of a

  286. candle shall shine no more at all in THEE, and

  287. the voice of the bridegroom and of the bride shall

  288. be heard no more at all in the What a

  289. sad picture of a place where there was no light.

  290. And then we go to chapter twenty one, verses nine

  291. b through eleven. He says, come hither, I will show

  292. thee the bride, the Lamb's wife. And he carried me

  293. away in the spirit to a great and high mountain,

  294. and showed me that great city, the Holy Jerusalem, descending

  295. out of Heaven from God, having the glory of God.

  296. And her light was likened to a stone most precious,

  297. even like a jasper stone, clear as crystal. We think

  298. this evening of the fact that you are called to

  299. portray with your husbands and other men in your life

  300. the relationship there is between Christ and the Church, and

  301. to give to the world an example of how God

  302. that wants that to be. And here we see the

  303. picture of there being a light, precious and clear as crystal.

  304. So just drawing from that as things relating to the

  305. absence of light and light and God creating light on

  306. the first day, and there being light, and the beauty

  307. of all of that. And then we asked the question tonight,

  308. where do we how does this happen? How can we

  309. have a light? You know I was thinking today about

  310. you know, in our setting here so many things to

  311. think about as far as I see this evening, all

  312. of you as adult sister sitting here are even you

  313. are even carrying on your head a sign of your

  314. submission to God and his will for your life, in

  315. finding your place in God's order, And it is a

  316. witness to the world. It's like this city set on

  317. a hill that cannot be hid. You're like the soul

  318. of the earth. And as you even are busy with

  319. household duties and cooking and you add salt to whatever

  320. you're making and preparing. May you remember how your life,

  321. if that light is on in your heart, how your

  322. life is like the salt in the environment you're in

  323. and the people around you, a light to all in

  324. the house. And I was thinking today, I don't know

  325. how many couples are here, and this this message is

  326. for singles that are here in all of us, as

  327. far as that's concerned. But you know, probably for every

  328. godly man on this side that has a wife over

  329. here this evening, probably what was truly beautiful, what was attractive,

  330. was that light in your heart, a light that that

  331. God put there, and that only God can put there.

  332. And that is what makes you beautiful. And we respect

  333. and honor that this evening we are in reverence of

  334. God's creation and even the crowning part of creation, in

  335. creating woman, taking the rib of Adam and creating a

  336. woman with the rib and and this is not a

  337. man's rib tonight, rib bone, but this is this is

  338. a rib bone. And it is significant that God took

  339. a bone from man's side, that that is is so

  340. symbolic of what God wants you as sisters to be.

  341. And do as women of God. And it is it

  342. is interesting that rib bones are not rigid and unmovable,

  343. and and without being giving and sharing. You know this

  344. this rib bone. We can take it tonight, We can

  345. we can bend it. It has some gift. And yet

  346. it is very strong. It's a very strong bone. It

  347. doesn't just break easily under pressure. It's very strong. And

  348. yet it is compatible. It is it can be moved,

  349. It is touched with pressure and with things that happen

  350. around it in an environment. And and that is significant

  351. that God took a rib bone from from Adam's side,

  352. and with that he created a help suitable for man.

  353. This evening, we can not emphasize enough. I don't believe

  354. how important it is for that light to be on

  355. in your heart. And we have witnessed that as we've

  356. been in your homes. We are blessed to see the

  357. light on in your hearts and in your lives. We

  358. cannot emphasize enough tonight how big the influence is that

  359. you have on all everyone around you and us as

  360. men here this evening. One thing I don't remember saying here,

  361. and if I did, I'm confident there's someone here that

  362. hasn't heard it. It's something that it really brings out

  363. a point I think, even though it is maybe somewhat

  364. comic coin away, but it is said that George and

  365. Barbara Bush many years ago we're traveling in fact is

  366. I just now think about it. I think it was

  367. said in the state of Oregon. Maybe not. I can't

  368. say for sure about that, but I know in the

  369. state of Oregon you do have it. It was said that

  370. they drove into a gas station and in those days

  371. there were still attendants that would come out and fill

  372. the vehicle up with gas. And it is said that,

  373. you know, this attendant came out of the station to

  374. come out and fill up their vehicle with gas. And

  375. it said that Barbara said, George, I used to date

  376. that man, this man that came out to fill up

  377. their vehicle with gasoline. And George said, well, it's really

  378. good you didn't marry him, or you would just be

  379. a gas station attendant's wife. And it is said that

  380. Barbara said, no, if I would have married him, he

  381. would have been the president of the United States. And

  382. it is so much truth in that. I mean, so

  383. it is so much to think about and consider. Do

  384. you know you set the temperature of I mean, even

  385. like here tonight, you have so much to do with

  386. the temp the atmosphere here and in your homes. We

  387. cannot tell you how much difference you make in your home,

  388. just that that candle on your table, there's that base

  389. of flowers on the table, and just the atmosphere of

  390. come home, daddy, and of hospitality and Christian love. Yes,

  391. we want to continue that thread of what was shared

  392. about love. And you know it is just. And that's

  393. why the question tonight it's so important. Is the light

  394. on tonight is the light on in your heart? The

  395. light that only the Lord can give you. It's such

  396. an important question and for you to consider and tomorrow

  397. and the next day, and when you're taking care of

  398. all the babies in house cleaning. And you know, I'm amazed.

  399. I told Bertha just recently, I just I'm so blessed.

  400. I'm amazed. You know, she washes those same clothes every week,

  401. over and over and over, day after day after day,

  402. and folds them and puts them back in and we

  403. have a whole fresh set of clothes again and again

  404. and again and again. And all the other things cooking,

  405. you know, I expect my mother, my dear mother, probably

  406. cooked twenty thousand meals plus for me. The atmosphere you're

  407. like thermostats, you like set the temperature of home. And

  408. while we as men, yes we're called to be men

  409. and to be leaders in the home, it's just it's

  410. just nothing like you know, after forty years of being

  411. able to still to come home and walk through the

  412. door and have a welcome home, dear a message or

  413. someone welcoming you there, and in an atmosphere of that

  414. is pleasant and inviting, inviting to your family and to

  415. those around you, and even others that being hospitable and

  416. inviting and sharing. It is so very important we share

  417. these things this evening as myself a person that experienced

  418. it with my mother, and also now of course my

  419. life with birtha mother's wives. I'm here as one to

  420. share with you tonight. One of the things I don't

  421. want to miss sharing with you. If it wouldn't have

  422. been for my mother, If it wouldn't have been for

  423. my mother, I just don't think I would be here

  424. where I am tonight. I had a wonderful father, it

  425. would be my number one choice forever of any father

  426. but me and Daddy. There were some times that we

  427. had a very difficult time seeing eye to eye, and

  428. I would hate to tell you some things that I

  429. considered when I was about twelve years old because of

  430. just having such a conflict with Daddy and the way

  431. it was. And I'm glad you know a verse we

  432. want to read tonight if we get there is like

  433. a father's law, and Daddy had a law and it

  434. was good for me. I just blessed the Lord tonight

  435. that Mama was like you know, Mama. There was a

  436. day when I wrote a note to Mama and I

  437. thanked her for being like an evergreen tree. And I'm

  438. thankful tonight to the Lord that as far as I know,

  439. Mama's light, that light in her heart never went out.

  440. And I don't know what would have happened if Mama's

  441. light would have went out. And life wasn't easy for Mama.

  442. Many times a wonderful husband Daddy was, but you know

  443. there was he was a man with structure and discipline

  444. and order, and it wasn't always easy. But it's just

  445. such a blessing. As far as I could tell, Mama's

  446. light was always on, that light in her heart. I

  447. don't know where I'd be tonight if it wouldn't have

  448. been for one night, you know, Mama's The light was

  449. on in Mama's heart, and Mama had a connection with God.

  450. And it was a night when when we up on

  451. a dairy farm, and it was in the wintertime, and

  452. we finished milking when it was already dark. It was

  453. dark before we finished milking, and I was about seventeen

  454. years of age, and that night I had decided I

  455. was going to go somewhere. I was going to just

  456. sneak away without it being known and go do something. Now.

  457. I wasn't to go to a wild party of some kind.

  458. I wasn't just living a wild, rebellious life, but it

  459. was still. It was still I was going to go

  460. somewhere that could have changed the whole direction of my life.

  461. And just today, I again was just thanking the Lord

  462. for my mother. And that night, to this day, I

  463. don't know. It was just it was because that light

  464. was on in her heart and she was in tune

  465. with God. So I left the milk barn. It was dark,

  466. and out in the front of our house was about

  467. a five acre Bermuda field pasture. It's still there. And

  468. I left and I started walking across that field, and

  469. I was about halfway across the field in the dark,

  470. when Mama came out on the front porch of the

  471. house and she called out across the field. And I

  472. don't know how she knew I was there. I don't

  473. know how she knew what was going on in my heart.

  474. But tonight, mothers, wives and mothers, it's so important for

  475. you to know your children and to have a heart

  476. for them, and to have a heart connection with them

  477. because sometimes us, as daddy's you know, it might just

  478. be a little difficult, and it's so important for you

  479. to have a connection with them and with the Lord.

  480. And that only happens as the light is on. But

  481. when that light is on, something good is going to

  482. be happening, and God bless you in it. And so

  483. Mama came out on the front porch and she called

  484. out across that Bermuda field and she called out, and

  485. she said my name, and she said Donnie. She called

  486. out Donnie, and then she said where are you going?

  487. And it was enough to make me stop in my tracks,

  488. stop and just take a moment to think and consider.

  489. And tonight I'm so thankful I can tell you that

  490. I turned around and I went back to the house,

  491. and I never went where I intended to go that night.

  492. It's because there was a light on in Mama's heart.

  493. Of the virtuous woman, the Bible says, her candle goeth

  494. not out by night. Now, we believe that does mean,

  495. you know, it does mean that domestic duties are constant

  496. for a mother and a virtuous woman. Rather it mentions night.

  497. I'd like to give that another application, even a further application.

  498. Her candle goeth not out by night. Her candle goeth

  499. not out when it is dark and difficult and hard,

  500. and when maybe Daddy is not what he needs to be,

  501. you know, last evening, I guess I never quite finished

  502. this up. But those of you that were here last night,

  503. you remember when I threw these stones in this cup. Sometimes,

  504. dear sisters, it's hard, it's difficult. Sometimes there's more more

  505. bills than there is money to pay, and the lawnmower

  506. breaks down, and it's tough on the job and all

  507. the things that we face as men. And oh, may

  508. it be though, that the light in your heart never

  509. goes out. Her candle goeth not out by night, and

  510. by night tonight we're going to make the application of

  511. when it is dark and difficult, when we as men,

  512. as husbands, as a man in your life are not

  513. what we should be. And you just let the Lord

  514. keep letting you shine. And you are shining. So what

  515. are you going to do when you're a recipient of

  516. stones that have been thrown Dear mother, don't throw them

  517. over into Sally's life. Don't become impatient and angry and

  518. throw stones into your little children's life. You know what

  519. all of us need to do with those stones that

  520. we that come into a life and those difficult things. Now,

  521. I don't think y'all heard anything here to do this tonight,

  522. but you know I could have. We just think of

  523. how important it is to take and and just to

  524. impress us with what to do with them. We bring

  525. them to the Lord in prayer, and these stones, if

  526. they stay in our life, and later another message, maybe

  527. we'll think about allowing the Lord to turn our wounds

  528. into scars and our scars into stars. He can do it.

  529. But it's so important to take these things to the

  530. Lord in prayer. Cast it off, don't pass it on,

  531. cast it off at the feet of Jesus. And let

  532. Him help you stay beautiful and your light continue shining

  533. for His glory. Someone has said, come with me to

  534. an old farmhouse where a mother kneels in prayer. Tears

  535. flow as she cries out to God for strength to

  536. go on for the sake of her three little ones.

  537. If only her husband would be a godly man and

  538. a spiritual leader. Although he provides the material needs of

  539. his family, his neglect of their emotional and spiritual needs

  540. is a burden that threatens to crush her. The flame

  541. of faith burns feebly tonight, and she feels like giving

  542. up is a struggle worth it. Go with me fifty

  543. years later to a softly lighted chapel, where the woman's

  544. wasted body now lies in a coffin. Her children adults

  545. now speak reverently of the mother who provided a guiding light,

  546. a light dear sisters through their formative years, drawing them

  547. to their own faith in the Savior. A score of

  548. young Christian men and women look lovingly on their grandmother's face. Tomorrow,

  549. her grandsons will care her to her grave. Tomorrow they

  550. will sing of a praying mother and a grandma who

  551. loved Jesus was the struggle worth it. My imagination pushes

  552. the fast forward button of time. Another fifty years slips by.

  553. In the mind's I see another coffin in the chapel,

  554. not my grandmother's but mine. The little ones that snuggle

  555. in my arms today will then be grown men and

  556. women with families of their own. And what will the

  557. picture look like today? I am painting that picture of tomorrow.

  558. Today the colors are wet in my hands, but tomorrow

  559. they will have dried. And what kind of legacy will

  560. I leave? It has been said, and there's just it's

  561. a thought, very good thought, that an ounce of mother

  562. is worth a pound of slurgy. Something that Ella Miller said.

  563. God is first, and my family is next, and I

  564. give them all I have. Someone has said I thought

  565. I had died to self, but motherhood was the proving ground.

  566. Sacrifice becomes a way of life for a mother. These

  567. are just some quotes that are meaningful to us tonight.

  568. Another one this was my mother. It has been said

  569. that Christ has often entered a home on the wings

  570. of a mother's song. My mother while she was washing dishes,

  571. and I just have so many memories of her just

  572. humming a tune whistling, just a cheerful person. There was

  573. a boy, little boy that showed his bad temper. He

  574. was asked to go to his room and pray about it.

  575. Mother overheard him praying and asking the Lord to take

  576. away his bad temper, and then asking the Lord to

  577. take away his mother's temper too. There was a little

  578. child that called for a drink. You know how it

  579. can be. It can be five, six, seven, eight times

  580. they want to drink, And those things all need order

  581. and discipline and structure. But she went again and took

  582. her little child a drink. And the little child asked,

  583. why are you mad? And the mother was sure that

  584. she kept her composure. The little child said, you walk mad.

  585. And quite a few other things there that we could

  586. think about. But we'd like to go yet to the

  587. Book of Song of Solomon, and off you thoughts from there,

  588. as we think of your life as wives and mothers

  589. this evening, and even yes, single girls and those that

  590. God calls to a life of singlehood. We go to

  591. the Book of Song of Solomon, chapter two, in verse fourteen,

  592. and I think it mentions four things here this evening

  593. we think about it says, oh my dove that already

  594. in the clefts of the rock, in the secret places

  595. of the stairs. Let me see thy countenance, Let me

  596. hear thy voice, For sweet is thy voice, and thy

  597. countenance is calmly the cleft of the rock. This can

  598. be applied. We believe as Christ in the church and

  599. also as husbands and wives, you are called to dwell

  600. in the cleft of the rock. And this is something

  601. that can be found in a faithful husband and to

  602. ultimately in Christ, the Savior and Lord of our lives.

  603. It talks about the secret places. It is in the

  604. secret place you alone with God, that you find a

  605. place for oil to be in that lamp and keep

  606. it burning. It is mentioned made here about the countenance. Wow,

  607. we cannot just tell you it is not earrings and

  608. fingernail polish and the latest most classy looking dress. That

  609. is not what makes you beautiful. What makes you beautiful

  610. is that light in your heart and that affects your countenance,

  611. and that makes you pleasant and a blessing to be

  612. around and inviting to strangers and to people.

  613. And it's just like a witness to the world, modestly dressed,

  614. walking with the Lord faithful in.

  615. His calling on your life. He also says, let me

  616. hear thy voice. You know, I think it's in Proverbs

  617. thirty one it says something about she openeth her mouth

  618. with wisdom. You have an intuition. Sometimes you feel and

  619. you kind of know what has never been said, and

  620. you sense things that are not good or good that

  621. we as men don't always feel and know that is good.

  622. It also has its dangers, you know, as we thought

  623. some about influence and the influence you have on men,

  624. we think of how Adam. The Bible tells us that

  625. Eve she took of the fruit, and she gave to

  626. her husband Adam, and he partook of it. And so

  627. that is the odd side of that. There is a

  628. danger there. But as we think of all that, we'd

  629. like to share something more with you this evening. As sisters,

  630. we turn our bibles to the Book of Proverbs chapter six,

  631. and we want to notice there that the Bible speaks

  632. about a we could say a family setting. Proverbs chapter six,

  633. verses twenty through twenty three, it says, my son, keep

  634. thy father's commandment, and forsake not the law of thy mother.

  635. Bind them continually upon thine heart, and tie them about

  636. thy neck. When thou goest, it shall lead thee. When

  637. thou sleepest, it shall keep thee, and when thou awakest,

  638. it shall talk with thee. For the commandment is a lamp,

  639. and the law is the light. The law is light.

  640. And it goes on to say in reproofs of instruction

  641. or the way of life I was. We're privileged to

  642. have been able to borrow this lamp. Today here in

  643. the community, we are thankful for that. And here this

  644. evening we have we have a lamp that has structure,

  645. and it's put together in an amazing way, and it's

  646. nice to look at. And as we look at this scripture,

  647. it says, my son, keep thy father's commandment. In verse

  648. twenty three, it says the commandment is a lamp. And

  649. so in an ideal setting, it's like, you know, like

  650. a father's instruction to his children. It's like this lamp.

  651. There's structure there, there's something there of worth and value

  652. and purpose, and where a father lays out guidelines and

  653. the way things will be done tonight. If you know,

  654. if the lights would be off in here, we couldn't

  655. even see what's up here on this pulpit. And there's

  656. something really missing here tonight as we look at this,

  657. it is it's you know, we think about what this

  658. thing was made for and what is missing is the light.

  659. And tonight we're blessed with the privilege of being able to,

  660. we trust, to light this lamp in light of drawing

  661. from it what God's calling is on your life as sisters,

  662. even in church life, you know, you're the ones many

  663. times that make it come alive and help make it

  664. be practical and something that can happen. And you know,

  665. maybe Daddy gives an outline of how things are going

  666. to be and maybe we as children we don't understand,

  667. and you, as a wife and mother, you come along

  668. and you just put a light in there. Will it's

  669. because of this and you know though if we do this,

  670. this will happen, and this is why Daddy wants this.

  671. And so the light comes on and it is such

  672. a blessing to be able tonight to light this lamp

  673. and it becomes something beautiful, something that shines in the dark,

  674. and it brings us back to our title. This evening

  675. that we just want to leave with you as sisters.

  676. You know, is the light on and it's possible that

  677. because of things we have men have done, or because

  678. of things you've experienced in your life and your home

  679. and family. You know, we could we could blow this

  680. lamp out tonight. You know, I think of the structure here,

  681. even this globe on this lamp has a purpose, and

  682. you know how it is. There's many a wife in

  683. the world today that would not like the restrictions of

  684. this globe. They would want to just take it off,

  685. and they want to be able to have freedom to

  686. do what they want to do. And you know, it

  687. would result in the lamp possibly going out. It could

  688. easily go out if we take the lamp off and

  689. remove the lamp. We think of how it is, and

  690. just thinking of that, I think of a meeting that

  691. Bertha and I were at quite a few years ago,

  692. and I think they were selling cookware at that meeting,

  693. and right in the whole group, there was this lady

  694. that stood up and said, I don't cook. Now, she

  695. let it be known that's not her, and so she

  696. would like want this globe removed and the structure of

  697. the way God wants it to be. You know, God

  698. did say to woman, she guides the house and she's

  699. a keeper at home, But this tonight is beautiful. As

  700. we think of this, we think of how God has

  701. called you to shine and to be a light in

  702. the world and in your family and in your home,

  703. to the glory of God. May God bless you with

  704. the ability to be the light for you that are wives,

  705. to be like the light in your husband's lamp, and

  706. to set the temperature and atmosphere of warmth a good

  707. place to be of beauty and loveliness. There's one more

  708. thing we'd like to do. This evening, we turn our

  709. bibles to the Book of Timothy Verse Timothy, chapter two.

  710. We notice these verses the other evening, maybe last evening,

  711. you know where it tells us. In verse eight and nine,

  712. it says, I will therefore that men pray everywhere, lifting

  713. up holy hands without wrath and doubting, in like manner.

  714. Also that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness

  715. and sobriety, not with braided hair, or gold or pearls,

  716. or costly array. But which becometh women professing godliness with

  717. good works. Is verse ten. I would desire that we could, just,

  718. in a little simple way this evening, us as men

  719. could endeavor to do this What it caused us to

  720. do in verse eight for the sisters here this evening

  721. that we're so blessed with. You know, how would it

  722. be if suddenly all the sisters here tonight would be

  723. gone and would not be here, and not be here

  724. to make the difference in our lives that they make

  725. we would we would indeed experience a great vacancy and

  726. loneliness and loss. So I would like if in conclusion

  727. this evening, in a moment, when we get ready to stand,

  728. I'd like to you know, we have this evening the

  729. blessing of godly sisters here dressed in modesty, in a

  730. modest way, in a godly way, and even you know,

  731. portraying from your life your submission to the Lord, and

  732. like saying with Mary, behold the handmaid of the Lord.

  733. And so I would like, as we stand for closing prayer,

  734. in a moment, if we as men, if any of

  735. us that want to to join in and just in

  736. endeavoring to give our blessing and support and encouragement to

  737. the dear sisters here tonight, we will stand, and we

  738. will turn, of course, first of all to the Lord,

  739. and also just toward our sisters. As we stand and pray,

  740. and lift up our hands and pray, and ask the

  741. Lord to let his blessing and benediction rest upon and

  742. be poured out on our sisters here this evening. Will

  743. there be anyone that have anything to share before we close,

  744. Before we close, stand for closing prayer. Might you join

  745. me as we pray. Father in heaven. We thank you

  746. tonight for your goodness, your love to us. We thank

  747. you that through Jesus you have purchased the bride the

  748. Church of the Lord Jesus Christ. And Father, we thank

  749. you tonight for every sister that is here that portrays this.

  750. It is a witness of this to all the world.

  751. We thank you for sisters here tonight that are walking

  752. with you. We thank you for sisters here this evening

  753. that have a light on in their heart the life

  754. that you have placed there. And Father, we pray for them.

  755. We pray for each one of them. We pray that

  756. that light would never go out, even in the face

  757. of adversity, and even as it were at night, through

  758. difficult times. May their light keep shining, And we pray

  759. and ask Lord you would be pleased to bless them.

  760. May your benediction and blessing rest upon them as your

  761. dear daughters in the Kingdom of God. Here on earth.

  762. We thank you for them. We pray you would bless

  763. and protect them, and we pray you would use us

  764. as men as instruments to be a protection and blessing

  765. for them. We ask in the precious name of Jesus

  766. with thanksgiving. Amen, And you're dismissed. God bless you.