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For What Sayeth the Scripture about Divorce - Gerald Birky
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Good morning, bringing greetings this morning, and in the name
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of Jesus and the name of Jesus Christ, I have
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been I have I have been impressed this morning with
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the kind of the con the continuity of the continuity
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of thought, I guess is what I would call that,
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I guess before I before I go into it this
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any farther, I'll just I'll add one announcement kind of
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my wife and myself and the two two youngest children
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we planned to leave this week go down to Mexico
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Portobayarta and next well, this this week Saturday, a few
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of the youth are coming down to join us, Mindy
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Natalie Hans sire Kent about a half a dozen of them.
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They're going to spend a couple of weeks down there
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as well, so you can remember us in prayer as
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well as we do some work, do some projects there,
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language learning, orphanages, but most of all being being salt
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and light where we find ourselves. This morning for a
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sermon I had and I find this a little bit interesting.
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I keyed this in as an introductory thought. I was
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going to give this before I gave the title, So
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I just will but what I had down here was
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this quest just a question how does God speak to us?
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And are we prepared to hear his voice? It's much
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what Dan was just saying. Then I have a three
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point A three point I mean's something that I've heard often.
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I think there's some safety in this three ways that
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God speaks through his written word, through his Holy Spirit,
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and through his people, the church that I've carried with
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me for quite a while. And well, a threefold chord
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is not quickly broken. Ecclesiastes said that wrote that the
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writer what to what to preach about? I was given
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an assignment. I was given assignment a couple of weeks ago,
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well two months ago, maybe assigned a topic and I
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gave I studied this and I gave it at our
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friends up north at Hope Well their Bible they called
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their Bible conference. But the title that it was given
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to me to spend thirty minutes on was this question
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for what saith the scripture about dot dot dot divorce.
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So you can turn in your bibles to mark chapter ten.
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I'd like to read read that read a passage there
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that was the text given for what saith the scriptures
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about divorce? And so as as we think about this,
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this concept of God's spirit. We have God's written word,
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we have the Church that speaks into our life in
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the form of people talking to us. Mark chapter ten,
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beginning with verse one. Read this slight introduction here. I'll
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interrupt myself a few times. Mark chapter ten, verse one.
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And he talking about Jesus arose from Thence and cometh
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into the coast of Judea by the farther side of Jordan.
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And the people resort unto him again. And as he
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was wont whereas he was accustomed to doing, he taught
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them again. And the Pharisees came to him and asked him,
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is it lawful for a man to put away his
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wife tempting him? And he answered and said, unto them?
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What did Moses command you? So let me just pause,
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pause right there this and give you just a little
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bit of a little bit of background. This question, this
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question that was tossed at Jesus was kind of a
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not really a trick question, but probably more of a
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trap question. Apparently there was more than one. There were
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two different, two different schools of thought, two different I
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don't know if they were colleges of the day. I
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read some read a few articles about it. Didn't try
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to wrap my mind all the way around what it was.
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But it came down to a discrepancy or a difference
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in how to interpret what Moses wrote. Now, Moses had written,
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Moses had written in one language, most probably it was Hebrew,
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the common language on the ground in the country of
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Israel then two thousand years ago. I don't believe that's
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what they were speaking. There was there was another language.
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So they had they had, they had room for room
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for question here, and it was it was a technicality,
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and if you agreed with you, you would tend to
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agree with one side or the other. Let's let's read.
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Let's read, Let's read on through what Jesus answered. So
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the trap question, let's get let's get Jesus tangled up here.
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Is it lawful for a man to put away his
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wife tempting him? Verse three? And he answered and said,
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unto them, what did Moses command you? And they said,
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Moses suffered or allowed or permitted us to write, to
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write a bill of divorcement and to put her away.
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And Jesus answered and said, unto them, for the hardness
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of your heart, he wrote you this precept. But from
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the beginning of the creation, God made them male and female.
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For this cause, shall a man leave his father and
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mother and cleave to his wife, and they twain shall
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be one flesh. So then they are no more twain,
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but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, Let
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not man put asunder? And in the house I take it. Later,
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his disciples again asked him of the same matter, and
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he saith under them. Whosoever shall put away his wife
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and marry another, committeth adultery against her. And if a
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woman shall put away her husband and be married to another,
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she committeth adultery. So that's the scene, that's the that's
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the backdrop, that's the that's words of words of Christ.
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So this morning of what I'd like to do is
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go through here that we're going to look at this
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question to Christ and some concepts that we can extrapolate
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or take out of that. I'm going to read scripture
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concerning divorce, and then we're going to move into marriage
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from what it symbolizes, and then some practical some scriptures
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pointing us down some practical living. And so Moses Moses
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law back to this question, and in one of the
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other passages that we'll read when when we read down
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through these, the term or the phrase for any cause
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or for every cause comes up. And the question here
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by these pharisees was what is the permissible way? How
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what what's the permissible criteria for a man to divorce
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his wife? Moses law, as interpreted by the most liberal side,
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made for an almost do as you please situation. Apparently
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a man could could could get tired of his wife
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in a divorcer for any cause. And as humans, as humans,
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we we we gravitate toward those do as you please interpretations.
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In fact, I was this is a this is a
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bit of a side trail. But I was brought up
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kind of face to face with that probably two years ago,
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and it was actually in in part of my port
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of art to Mexico talking to a Buddhist man. He
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was a Buddhist chiropractor, and he asked me a couple
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of questions about you know, what do you We went
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into his office and he very quickly angled towards the
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spiritual or the spiritual religious questions. He's a Buddhist, but
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very learned, very very well read. He could almost tell
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me as much about Christianity as I could though he didn't.
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That wasn't his practicing faith. But I said, no, I
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would like to see a I would like to see
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a Bible believing Christ teaching following group here in Puerto
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BYRTA at some point in the future. He just he stopped.
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He said, Oh, that's a tough sell. That's going to
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be a really tough sell. You know that, don't you.
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He said, Listen, these guys, these Catholics here, they've they've
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got they've got it just the way they want it.
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Live like you want all the time, and weekly, monthly, annually,
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whatever it went on your schedule, get to the priest,
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take care of your take care of the past year,
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and do what you want for the next year. How
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are you going to compete with that? That's what a
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Buddhist man asked me, like like, well, yeah, that's that's
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one way of looking at it. On the other hand,
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Christ's words are the words of life. Christ teaching has
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a better has a better outcome generally. And he quickly
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agreed with that. Yeah, that's that's that's right. So these
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men back to the back to this question to Jesus
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and this this exchange, What concepts do we find in
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this exchange bill of divorcement. That was that was a
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legal document. They said, Moses suffered verse four, write a
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bill of divorcement, put her away. The bill of divorcement
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apparently was a was a legal way under the law.
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It was a legal document. It was not just simply
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drafted by the by the disgruntled husband, but it was
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it was via the via the city elders, or yeah,
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the city elders draft the document, and it was it
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was his, it was his legal document. But there had
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to be And then then then you had the criteria
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for the document. What what what would qualify? What? How?
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How bad would this have to be? The other phrases
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here concepts put his wife married to another, those are
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all phrases we find in there. Adultery, Jesus said in
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verse eleven. There who's who'll put away his wife and
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marry another committed adultery against her. That's that's we understand
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what that would be. And then the why it's not
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in this it's not in this passage, but Jesus Jesus
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stated that, yeah, Moses allowed that, but you simply wouldn't
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have it any other way. Your your hard hearts, your
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sighting of irreconcilable differences. Another fact, another fact that made
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this this thing really tangly when when they were when
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Jesus referenced or told these flipped the question on them
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and said, what did what did Moses command you? To?
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Actually put these people a little bit in a in
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a quandary, but in a way it was a quandary.
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They didn't mind. You See, capital punishment is not a
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is not a fun thing. Capital punishment everyone shrinks back from.
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But that is actually what if you want to read
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the entirety of Moses, Jesus would have indicated that Moses
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allowed this, allowed to build a divorcement for adultery. But
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if adultery was verified, there was going to be a killing,
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There was going to be a stoning. There was going
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to be capital punishment. These folks when Jesus, when they
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were trapping Jesus here, they had it kind of kind
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of good because they couldn't do that the room it
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was it was on, I mean the Romans. The Romans
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said you may not. And so to have followed moses
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commands explicitly would have gotten them in trouble with Rome.
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They would have they might have lost their head, and
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so thinking about the the time when when Jesus the
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woman taken an adulter that was brought before Jesus. Jesus
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ended that saying, neither do I can condemn you, go
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and send no more. I think part of the reason
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why no man wanted to pick up the first stone
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was he was worried about his own neck. He didn't
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he couldn't and survive. So thus, in a way, Moses law,
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by taking part of it but not the full of it,
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was kind of a means to an end for their
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own purposes. Let's move to these scriptures. I'm going to
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read from Deuteronomy, Matthew, and I'm going to turn to
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those Deuteronomy twenty four. Let's go to the Old Testament.
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We're going to look at at what the scripture says
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about this subject. And this subject the subject of divorce, marriages,
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husband and wives not getting along, husband and wife having
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committed to each other and then quote changing their mind.
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This is something that's been well, I'll get to a
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statement about that. But remember sin came into the equation.
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I mean, dude, only five and I want her to
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be In twenty four Deuteronomy twenty four, first five verses
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when a man hath taken a wife and married her,
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and it come to pass that she find no favor
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in his eyes, because he hath found some uncleanness in her,
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then let him write her a bill of divorcement, and
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give it in her hand, and send her out of
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his house. And when she has departed out of his house,
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she may go and be another man's wife. And if
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the latter husband hate her, and write her a bill
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of divorcement and giveth it to her hand it in
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her hand, and sendeth her out of his house. Or
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if the latter husband die, which took her to be
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his wife, her former husband which sent her away, may
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not take her again to be his wife. After that
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she is defiled, for that is abomination before the Lord.
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And that shall not cause the land to sin, which
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the Lord thy God giveth thee for an inheritance. When
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a man hath taking a new wife, he shall not
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go out to war, neither shall be charged with any business,
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but shall be free at home one year, and shall
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cheer up his wife which he has taken. Some so
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some straight direct over the front directives here the law.
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We don't understand all of the the situations. And I guess.
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I guess the reality is that in there there were
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times in history where where for a man, for a
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woman to be outside of the protection of her father
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or her husband, put her in a very vulnerable situation,
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possibly even possibly even a deadly situation. Romans or Deuteronomy
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twenty two back up two chapters, a few more versus
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here twenty two Verses twenty two through twenty four. This
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is law concerning well. The capital punishment comes comes into
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play here. If a man be found lying with a
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woman married to an husband, then then they shall both
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of them die, both the man that lay with the
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woman and the woman. So shalt thou put away evil
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from Israel. If a damsel that is a virgin be
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betrothed into an husband, and a man find her in
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the city and lie with her, then you shall bring
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them both out under the gate of the city, and
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you shall stone them with stones, that they die, the
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damsel because she cried not being in the city, and
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the man because he hath humbled his neighbor's wife. So
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thou shalt put evil, evil, put away evil from among you.
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Not pretty pictures, not a nice not a nice thing
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at all. And I find it a little bit just intellectually.
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I find it interesting today, and so I was gonna
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throw this thought out there at some point or this question.
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Do you think Jesus time was especially Was this an
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especially sensitive issue then? Was it a defining issue of
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his day? Apparently it's also defining issue today. There are
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many people who who profess Christianity in this country who
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don't much like what Jesus had to say about this subject,
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and I find it intriguing or interesting. These these folks
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referred back to the Law of Moses and someone and
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the justification for the justification used in some Christian circles
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today harks back to the law of Moses. But I
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never hear of anyone advocating for the full dose of
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moses law, and that includes capital punishment. Moving on, turn
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to Matthew nineteen. Matthew nineteen is is Matthew's Matthew's recording
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of I believe the same exchange Matthew nineteen, Verses one
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through twelve explain this way. Matthew was a personal attendant
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of Jesus, he would have been closer, probably recorded a
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little more mark where we started that that he was
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probably writing recording things secondhand or from a little from
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a slightly different vantage point. So let's read this Matthew nineteen,
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verses one through twelve. Another well, Jesus, Jesus close close disciple,
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wrote this, and it came to pass as the verse
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one of nineteen, that when Jesus had finished these sayings,
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he departed from Galilee and came into the coast of Judea,
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beyond Jordan, and great multitudes followed him, and he healed them. There.
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The Pharisees also came unto him, tempting him, saying, unto him,
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is it lawful for a man to put away his wife?
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For every cause? And he answered and said, unto them,
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have you not read that he which made them at
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the beginning made them male and female? And said, for
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this cause, shall I man leave father and mother, and
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shall cleave to his wife, and they twain shall be
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one flesh. Wherefore they are no more twain but one flesh.
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What therefore God hath joined together? Let not man put asunder?
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They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to
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give a writing of divorcement and to put her away?
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He saith unto them, Moses, because of the hardness of
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your hearts, suffered you to put away your wives. But
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from the beginning it was not so. And I say
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unto you, whosoever shall put away his wife, except it
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be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery. And
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whoso marrieth her which has put away, doth commit adultery.
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His disciples say unto him, if the case of the
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man be so with his wife, is not good to marry.
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But he said unto them. All men cannot receive this saying,
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save they to whom it is given. For there are
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some eunuchs which were so born from their mother's womb,
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and there are some eunuchs which were made eunuchs of men,
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and there be eunuchs which have been made themselves eunuchs.
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For the Kingdom of Heaven's sake. He that is able
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to receive it, let him receive it. Words of Christ
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that were as stressful, you could say, is as stressful
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to those disciples as they are to us today. Luke
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sixteen eighteen. Doctor Luke, here I suppose with his doctor's
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handwriting he got this condensed down into a single verse.
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Luke sixteen eighteen. Who's whoever puteth away his wife? And
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marrieth an other committeth adultery. And whosoever marrieth her that
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is put away from her husband committeth adultery. That is that,
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That is what Luke recorded of Jesus words. Matthew five
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turned to that chapter, and Matthew five is one of
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the is the sermon on the Mount where Jesus is talking, talking, preaching,
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teaching to these people and introducing something new, introducing what
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I'm gonna call upgrades. You've heard that has been said
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by them of old time. But I say unto you,
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Jesus said that a number of times. Verses thirty one
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is where Jesus addresses this. Actually, if you jump back
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to verse twenty seven, you've heard, but you've heard that
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it was said by them of old time. Now shall
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not committed altery. But I say unto you. You know
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that Jesus took it from the from the purely physical definition,
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brought it to a spiritual brought it to a sirittual
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application as well. But I say unto you that whosoever
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looketh on a woman to loss after her hath committed
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adultery with her already in his heart. You see the
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upgrades or the change. He also said that in verse well,
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verse twenty, verse twenty, he said that accept your righteousness
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shall exceed the righteousness of the scribes and Pharisees, you
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shall in no case enter into the kingdom of heaven.
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So Jesus was talking here to a group of people
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with a point of reference and a point of reference
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that he said, and know that one that's not good enough.
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Matthew five thirty one. It hath been said, whosoever shall
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put away his wife, let him give her a writing
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of divorcement. But I say unto you that who whoever
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shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication,
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causeth her to commit adultery. Whosoever shall marry her that
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is divorced, committeth adultery. Very direct, very direct teaching. And
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it's nestled here in the middle of in the middle
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of this chapter, that that we or this sermon that
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we use, and we love, and we love your enemies,
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bless them that curse you. The teachings of non resistance.
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There's there's there's a lot. There's there's lots, including the
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Lord's prayer. But back to this subject of divorce, one more,
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one more reference. Back up about five pages in your
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Bible to Malachi, the prophet Malachaia two Malachaia two, verse
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beginning of the verse fourteen. So this is this is
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from this is a prophet writing from four hundred and
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four hundred and twenty five years before Jesus was teaching,
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approximately verse thirteen. You know, he's talking about the problem
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of Judah, Judah and Israel dealing treacherously. They're not playing fair,
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they're not doing it right. And you've come here and
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you've covered the altar of the Lord with tears, with
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weeping this verse thirteen, with crying. You're in a position
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where God's not not noticing the tears, the tears on
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the altar. He's not looking at your offering anymore. He's
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not receiving it with goodwill at your hand. Yet ye say, wherefore,
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or why wherefore? Verse fourteen. Because the Lord hath been
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witnessed between thee and the wife of thy youth, against
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whom thou hast dealt treacherously. Yet is she thy companion
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and the wife of thy covenant? And did not he
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make one? Had he the residue of spirit? And wherefore
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one that he might seek a godly seed therefore take
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heed to your spirit, and let none deal treacherously against
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the wife of his youth. For the Lord, the God
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of Israel, saith that he hateth putting away, for one
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covereth violence with his garment, saith the Lord of Hosts. Therefore,
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take heed to your spirit, that ye deal not treacherously.
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Ye have wearied the Lord with your words. Yet ye say,
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wherein have we wearied him? When ye say, everyone that
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doeth evil is good in the sight of the Lord,
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and he delighteth in them. Or where is the God
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of judgment? He asked the question, and then he answers
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it you're making him tired. But verse fifteen, let none
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deal treacherously. And that word that phrase is also translated
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in the dealing treacherously is a lot the same phrase
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as as putting away or what we would what we
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would call divorce the wife of his youth, the wife
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of his youth, generally referring to the to the first
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the first wife. Why why does God set it up
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that way? And I'm not going to go into a
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lot of that, but that's that's where your mind, your
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mind goes, and we we know, we know, we can
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look around us in the world and see the problems,
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the the well, the downside. So let's look at let's
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continue withus, continue looking at scripture here and and flip
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it a little bit to marriage and what it symbolizes.
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I couldn't. I couldn't hardly just stay with the stay
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with the negative. From the beginning. It was not so
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that in Jesus mind, and I think in his disciples
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mind and in the Church's mind, in our mind, we
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know what God's ideal is, and that is that is
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one man, one woman until death. Turned to Ephesians five,
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I'm gonna read there, We're gonna we're gonna read these
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passages that that that demonstrate or describe marriage and what
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it symbolizes Ephesians five, twenty eight. If you would have
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asked Jesus, if if part of the question for Jesus
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would have been, what does marriage symbolize? When when these
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Pharisees asked, is that you see to us? To me, well,
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the symbology or the symbols or the what what marriage
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makes us think of? I mean, we have we have
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these these words verse thirty two. But this is a
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great mystery. But I speak concerning Christ in the church.
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One of the apostles here wrote and put this together
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to say, Yeah, that's that's what that that's what that
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looks like. Jesus didn't have that. Jesus didn't have that comeback.
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So what did it symbolize in Jesus day? What did
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marriage symbolize? Well, just I'll just leave you hanging with
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that question a little bit. How would you have described
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it without the rest of these epistols. But let's let's
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read this Ephesians five twenty eight. So men so ought
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men to love their own their wives as their own bodies.
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He that loveth his wife loveth himself. For no man
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ever yet hated his own flesh, but nourish and cherish
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with it, even as the Lord of the Church. For
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we are members of his body, of his flesh, and
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of his bones. For this man cause shall a man
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leave his father and mother, and she'll be joined unto
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his wife, and they too shall be one flesh. This
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is a great mystery, But I speak concerning Christ and
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the Church. Nevertheless, let everyone of you, in particular so
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love his wife even as himself. And the wife see
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that she reverends her husband. That well, it's actually just
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just before that in this is it. In another passage
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we have the picture of Christ. Christ and sacrifice comes
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comes into into into mind, into our pictures, into our
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mental images, marriage and marriage and its symbols and its
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symbols in Jeremiah, in the Old Testament, Isaiah and Jeremiah.
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We're not going to turn to those passages and read them.
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But this this concept of of Israel, the nation Israel
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or Israel, and Judah and and the and God his
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relationship with them. He they paint that in the in
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the you know, in a marriage type picture, because they
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were no longer faithful to God, they were no longer
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faithful to their promises. They they were the ones who
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were ditching God for a different God. He at one
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point he called them a backsliding heifer, which is a whole,
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a whole row of a whole, a whole batch of
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pictures come into my mind having been on steep enough
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country trying to chase cattle and seeing a full grown
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cow sliding backwards down a hill. It's, I mean, the
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way cow's hoofs are made. They they jab in and
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when they're going up a hill, their legs are angled back.
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But at once if if they start sliding down a
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steep slope. A cow has a very poor set of brakes. Anyway,
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that's that was that was the picture God had of
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of Israel in that in that stage in that time
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Jeremiah three. You can read that back to the question
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why why divorce? I'm gonna read you a a a
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few sentences here that I picked out of a commentary.
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It says termination of the marriage relationship is caused not
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by God but by sin that entered the world after
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Genesis two. Death itself, which terminates marriage, came by Adam sin.
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Because of sin, divorce Arose Moses sought to regulate it.
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Divorce is not instant or ordained by God. Rather, it
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is generated by sin and is contrary to God's ideal
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for marriage. But I believe in my looking at this,
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thinking about that question of what would Jesus if, if
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Jesus didn't have the type in his mind, marriage is
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a relationship of Christ of the Church. I think marriage
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and I read this this as a quote somewhere I
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enlarged it a little bit. But marriage, marriages in some
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ways is the original type or representation of the of
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the relationship that God wants with each one of you.
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God wanted a relationship with man. And if you think
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about that, the what God was looking for in a
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relationship with man. He set up man and his wife
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to operate in that type of a in that type
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of a relationship, a relationship of of give and take,
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of physical communication, mental, spiritual. You can say one in
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one in body one and soul one in mind. In
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other words, the two become one. Is how he finally
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it was it was phrased. But that's what God wants
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with you as well. And an earthly marriage. Yes, there's
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there's problems, and there's difficulties, and our relationship with God
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takes work, takes constant effort, takes constant attention to to
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maintain a relationship with God. It's that way in marriage
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as well. But an earthly marriage that is characterized by
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give and take, love, harmony, unselfishness, the golden rule. Do
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you even so to them whatsoever you would that men
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should do to you. If that's actually happening, it will
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be a representation of the of the relationship that God
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wishes to have with you. And when you bring into
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that that that concept, the concept of adultery. Adultery is
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to take this relationship and breaks it. Adultery, the ultimate,
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the ultimate selfishness will necessarily break the relationship. And that's
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that that that applies to a relationship with God or
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espousal relationship. A few verses here on practical living. First Corinthians.
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So these Christians from two thousand years ago, they they
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had real life to deal with as well. First Corinthians seven.
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Read you what the apostle Paul wrote to these to
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a church concerning concern this. And this is one of
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these neat passages where he kind of moves from what
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the Lord commands to what he would like to see,
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back and forth. One Corinthians seven, verse seven. For I
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would that all men were even as I myself. But
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every man hath his proper gift of God. One after
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this matter or another after that. I say therefore to
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the unmarried and widows, it is good for them if
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they abide even as I. But if they cannot contain,
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let them marry, For it is better to marry than
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to burn. And unto the married I command yet not I,
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but the Lord, let not the wife depart from her husband.
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But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried or
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be reconciled to her husband, and let not the husband
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put away his wife. But do the rest speak I
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not the Lord. If any brother have a wife that
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believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him,
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let him not put her away. And the woman which
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hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be
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pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him.
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For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and
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the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband. Else were
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your children unclean? But now are they holy? But if
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the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or sister
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is not under bondage in such cases. But God hath
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called us to peace. For what knowest thou, o wife,
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whether thou shalt save thy husband? Or how knowest thou,
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o man, whether thou shalt save thy wife? But as
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God hath distributed to every man, as the Lord hath
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called everyone, so let him walk, and so I so
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ordain I in all churches. Fossil Paul just simply giving
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his practical advice. Do your best to work it out. No,
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you don't have to, You don't have to leave just
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because there's a difference of belief. Conversion. Conversion may conversion,
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may happen, may come of that Galatians five. Let's turn
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to that one Galatians five fourteen, Latians five fourteen to
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twenty one. Wherefore he saith awake, thou that sleepest, and
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arise from the dead, and Christ shall give thee light.
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See then that ye walk circumspectully, not as fools, but
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as wise, redeeming the time, because the days are evil.
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Wherefore be ye not unwise, but understanding what the will
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of the Lord is me not drunk with wine where
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is excess, but be filled with a spirit, speaking to
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yourselves in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and
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making melody in your heart to the Lord, giving thanks
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always for all things unto God and the Father, in
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the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, submitting yourselves one
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to another in the fear of God. And I'm an Ephesians,
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not Galatians. That's what that's where I'm wrong, because we've
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been here Galatians five. Though it's Galatians five fourteen some
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of the same same thoughts. Walk in the spirit, not
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in the flesh. For all the law, for all the
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law is fulfilled in one word. Even in this, thou
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shalt love thy neighbor as thyself. But if you bite
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and devour one another, take heed that you be not
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consumed one of another. This I say, then, walk in
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the spirit. You shall not fulfill the lust of the flesh.
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For the flesh lusted against the spirit, and the spirit
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against the flesh. And these are contrary the one to
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the other, so that you cannot do the things that
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you would. But if you be led of the spirit,
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you are not under the law. Now, the works of
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the flesh are manifests. Which are these relatry, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strifes, seditions, heresies, envyings, murderers, drunkenness, revelings,
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and the such like of which I tell you before,
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as I have told you in time past, that they
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which do such things shall not inherit the Kingdom of
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God that instruction to walk after the spirit. Not after
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this long and negative list talking about thinking about this
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subject of divorce and the related word adultery, the fact
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of the matter is we we look at that and say, well, no,
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I want I want nothing to do with that. But
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thankfully we can, we can know the sin of that,
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these sins can indeed be forgiven. I've got a funny
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little question written down here. I I read through these
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these verses. We're we're, we're somewhat programmed to think of
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some sins as as bigger than other sins, emulations, wrath, strifes,
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seditions that's put in the same list as adult refornication, uncleanness,
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with the same penalty. You don't you don't get to
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inherit the kingdom of God. But the upside continue reading
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there with me verse twenty two. But the fruit of
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the spirit, this is the converse side. This, this is
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the side that makes that makes life work. But the
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fruit of the spirit is love, joy, peace, long suffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance.
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Against such there is no law. And they that are
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Christ have crucified the flesh with the affections and loss.
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If we live in the spirit, let us also walk
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in the spirit. Let us not be desirous of vainglory,
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provoking one another, envying one another. So in closing, as
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you think about these, these these concepts, the question to Jesus,
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can we do what we want? Can can can we
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just can we just simply have it our way? We
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know we we We see in society around us, the
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emotional cost of broken homes, the damage to children, the
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damage to society, the completely decimated picture of the relationship
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that God wishes to have with you. But remember the
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fruit of the spirit. The Either or Christ have crucified
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the flesh, and they can walk in the spirit. I'm
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thankful that God gives us the power and the grace
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to do that. Let's have a clothing song, HM.