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The Truth Shall Make You Free - Leland Zehr

Halsey Mennonite Church

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  1. Good morning. I do want to.

  2. Greet you all in the name of Jesus and also

  3. welcome all of you, especially you visitors that are here

  4. for the summer to help glad that you're here, and

  5. we wish you a safe and blessed summer, safe physically

  6. and also safe spiritually.

  7. Know that you're away from home.

  8. And it's good, but there's opportunities and temptations that come

  9. in that kind of a setting, and we just want

  10. to be a blessing to you while you're here in Oregon.

  11. And it's probably not proper for Gerald to welcome himself back,

  12. so I'll welcome Gerald and Jewel back. Good to have

  13. you back with us here today as well.

  14. As you all know. This last week.

  15. Was Independence Day, celebration of freedom for the country that

  16. we live in. Freedom, I guess originally that started with

  17. the independence from another country, Great Britain. Freedom to be

  18. our own country, freedom to make personal choices, freedom to

  19. operate and do a lot of things within the boundaries

  20. of the law in our land. Freedom of worship, freedom

  21. of obeying God as we feel that we should, freedom

  22. to have our private schools.

  23. All these things.

  24. We grew up with and we barely think about it, Gerald,

  25. You probably didn't think about it. Gerald, and his prayer said,

  26. thank the Lord for freedom, that we could come here

  27. and do this in this way. It's nothing special for us,

  28. but it's very unusual for some parts of the world,

  29. and we're.

  30. Thankful for that.

  31. Freedom is something that is hard to put a value

  32. or a price tag on most of us. If we

  33. had the time to ponder and think, I don't think

  34. would in the end withhold anything, money, possessions to maintain

  35. our freedom. If you don't have freedom, not much else

  36. in life is worth living enjoyable. It's just a lot

  37. of suffering and heartache. And we get that picture, that

  38. meaning from the well known phrase by Patrick hen that said,

  39. at the beginning of the independence a war there for

  40. independence was give me liberty or give me death. And

  41. he summed it up that way that he was willing

  42. to give everything, his life and all that was else

  43. that he had, for the opportunity for freedom. And so

  44. I asked you a question this morning, or all enjoy

  45. the benefits of civil freedom, but are you free this morning?

  46. Are you a free man? Are you a free woman?

  47. Are you free in your heart, free in your mind,

  48. free in your conscience in your spiritual life. Are you

  49. free from the slavery and the bondage of sin? And

  50. although we live in a country that's amazing a free country,

  51. we have a country that are full of spiritual and

  52. mental slaves, people in bondage, bondage that comes from the

  53. bondage that does not come from without, from our authorities

  54. and laws and chains, but a bondage that comes from within.

  55. And Jesus talked about freedom, and he talked about bondage,

  56. and he understood the desire of the heart, in the

  57. heart of every man and woman to be free. And

  58. it's a good desire, and it's a desire that God

  59. blesses and wants for us as well. And so I

  60. say all this as just a little bit of some

  61. thoughts to lead up to the message this morning. I'm

  62. not necessarily talking I am talking about freedom, but not primarily.

  63. In John eight thirty two, there's a phrase, and you

  64. can turn to John eight if you care.

  65. I'll read there in a few minutes.

  66. But Jesus is having a dialogue and in John eight

  67. thirty two, the last part of that verse is what

  68. I want to use for the title, The Truth shall

  69. make You free. And I need to just say up

  70. front here that I have mixed feelings almost PTSD you

  71. might say about the subject of truth. When someone gets

  72. up and starts talking about truth, I tend to get

  73. a little nervous. As important and as essential as truth

  74. is in all areas of life, and for sure in

  75. the spiritual life, it is just so easy for men

  76. and women to misuse and to abuse truth by zealous

  77. religious people, like we heard in the Sunday School lesson

  78. at Munster too, all the way up to today. I mean,

  79. you can't argue with truth. We all agree that truth

  80. is truth. And so there's this seems like there's sometimes

  81. this jocking and fighting.

  82. To get truth.

  83. On my bandwagon. So I just say that as a

  84. personal struggle in case. But we come back to this

  85. phrase that Jesus said. Is it a true statement that

  86. truth shall set you free? And since Jesus said it,

  87. it must be true. But there are times in life

  88. when truth seems to be more trouble than free, where

  89. it complicates things, where it embarrass it, where it's embarrassing,

  90. where it causes awkwardness and feels like anything but freedom.

  91. And so I want to talk about these two things

  92. a bit this morning. John eight wasn't quite sure how

  93. much to read here.

  94. This setting comes the first eleven verses, is this well

  95. known story of the scribes and the Pharisees bringing the

  96. woman taken in adultery before Jesus, and they were testing

  97. and asking Jesus if they should stone her, if she

  98. should be stoned, and so Jesus through the story basically

  99. says in the end, any of you that are without sin,

  100. go ahead, you start, you cast the first stone. And

  101. then as we know, one by one they laughed, no

  102. stones were cast. But then starting in verse twelve, we

  103. have the subject here that I'm focused a little bit

  104. more on this morning about truth, and that is primarily

  105. the focus of my subject this morning. Is more about

  106. truth telling and all the different forms of truth and

  107. all eyes than it is about freedom, although freedom is

  108. definitely a part of that or bondage. Now, before I

  109. read this, I want to I hope it's not too

  110. big of a distraction right now, but I want to

  111. show you the whiteboard and and there's a few words

  112. on there I want you to think about as we

  113. as we read this passage. There's there's a picture two

  114. here as well, I'm not an artist, but I happen

  115. to be friends with one that it is, So I'll

  116. keep the name private just for.

  117. The yeah reasons in our interest here.

  118. But what I what I mainly want you to focus

  119. about now, And I don't want you to get all

  120. caught up in the cartoon picture here yet too much.

  121. But it's simply a little visual illustration of what lies

  122. and different kinds of lies, and a life of living

  123. a life of lies is bondage.

  124. And we'll see that.

  125. But the words that I want you to think about

  126. as we read or lies, darkness.

  127. Death, and blindness.

  128. Although some of those words aren't exact in this phrase,

  129. they are are indicated and truth and light and life

  130. and seeing those are very much a package of truth,

  131. and they go hand in hand. They and they at

  132. each other, and the end result is bondage. Jesus talks

  133. about bondage and freedom in this passage. So think about

  134. those words, watch for those words. And I'm going to

  135. start reading in verse twelve, and I I may skip

  136. a few of the verses here and then jump in

  137. at thirty one. I plan to stop at verse forty seven,

  138. then spake Jesus again, unto them and here we have it.

  139. I am the light of the world.

  140. He that foleth me shall not walk in darkness, but

  141. shall have the light of life. And the Pharisees therefore

  142. said unto him, thou bearest record of thyself.

  143. Thy record is not true.

  144. Jesus answered and said, unto them, though I bear record

  145. of myself. Yet my record is true, for I know

  146. whence I came and whither I go. For ye cannot

  147. tell whence I come and whither I go. Ye judge

  148. after the flesh. I judge no man. And yet if

  149. I judged, my judgment is true. For I am not alone,

  150. but I and the fought and the Father that sent me.

  151. And it is written in your law that the testimony

  152. of two men is true. I am one that bear

  153. witness of myself, and the Father that sent me beareth

  154. witness of me. Then said they unto him, where is

  155. thy father? And Jesus answered, ye neither knew me, no

  156. me nor my father.

  157. If ye had known me, ye should have known.

  158. My father also called jump in.

  159. I'll just keep reading verse twenty. And these words spake

  160. Jesus in the treasure, as he taught in the temple.

  161. And no man laid hands on him, for his hour

  162. was not yet come. And then said Jesus again, unto them,

  163. I go my way, and ye shall seek me, and

  164. shall die in your sins. Whether I go, you cannot come.

  165. Then said the Jews. Will he kill himself? Because he said,

  166. whether I go, you cannot come. And he said, unto them,

  167. ye are from beneath. I am from above, year of

  168. this world. I am not of this world. I said

  169. therefore unto you, that ye shall die in your sins.

  170. For if ye had believed not that I am he,

  171. ye shall die in your sins. Then said they, unto

  172. him who art thou. And Jesus said, unto them, even

  173. the same that I say unto you from the beginning.

  174. I have many things to say and to judge of you.

  175. But he that sent me is true. And I speak

  176. to the world these things which I have heard of him.

  177. They understood not that he spake to them of the Father.

  178. Then said Jesus under them, when you have lifted up

  179. the son of Man, ye shall know that I am he,

  180. and that I do nothing of myself. But as my

  181. father hath taught me, I speak these things, and he

  182. that sent me is with me. And the Father that

  183. hath not left me alone. For I do always those

  184. things that please him. And he spake these words. As

  185. he spake these words, many believed on him. Then said

  186. Jesus to those Jews. Kind of a shift here. But

  187. then said Jesus to those Jews which believed on him,

  188. if ye continue in my word, then ye then are

  189. ye my disciples. Indeed, and ye shall know the truth,

  190. and the truth shall make you free. Then answered him,

  191. we be, We be abraham seed, and we never in

  192. bondage to any man. How sayest thou you shall be free?

  193. Jesus answered them, verily, verily, I say unto you, whosoever

  194. committeth sin is the servant of sin, and the servant

  195. abideth not in the house forever, but the Son abideth forever.

  196. If the Son therefore shall make you free, ye shall

  197. be free. Indeed, I know that ye are Abraham's seed,

  198. But ye seek to kill me, because my word hath

  199. no place in you. I speak the truth. I speak

  200. that which I have seen with my father, And ye

  201. do that which you have seen with your father. They answered,

  202. and said, unto him, Abraham is our father. Jesus saith

  203. unto them. If you were Abraham's children, ye would do

  204. the works of Abraham. But now you seek to kill me,

  205. a man that hath told you the truth which I

  206. have heard of God. This did not Abraham. You do

  207. the deeds of your father. Then said they to him.

  208. We be not born of fornication. We have one father,

  209. even God. Jesus said unto them. If God were your father,

  210. ye would love me. For I proceeded forth and came

  211. from God. Neither came I of myself, but He sent me.

  212. Why do you not understand my speech? Even because you cannot.

  213. Hear my word?

  214. Ye are ye are your father the devil and the lust?

  215. Ye are of your father, the devil and the lust

  216. of your father?

  217. Ye will do.

  218. He was a murderer from the beginning, and abode not

  219. in truth, because there is no truth in him. When

  220. he speaketh a lie, he speaketh of his own, for

  221. he is a liar and the father of it. And

  222. because I tell you the truth, you believe me not?

  223. Which of you convinceth me of sin? And if I

  224. say the truth, why do you not believe me? He

  225. that is of God heareth God's words, Ye therefore hear

  226. them not because ye are not of God. I just

  227. wanted to point out a couple things here in this

  228. passage I think is worth One important note is simply

  229. the conversation really ramps up there towards the end, and

  230. Jesus accuses him of some very wicked things, being the

  231. children of the Father devil. But the subject of truth

  232. and lies the source. I'd like you to think about

  233. that just the minute. Satan the Father of lies and

  234. Jesus and God the Father. It feels in this passage

  235. that Jesus and the Pharisees are kind of jocking for

  236. who has the upper moral ground and who has the

  237. authority and who has truth? And they're questioning him, and

  238. Jesus is questioning and answering them. But the point that

  239. I think they both agreed on is that Satan is

  240. a father of lies and is untruthful. There is no

  241. truth in him, and Jesus and God the Father is.

  242. The source of truth, is the truth the source of

  243. light in life.

  244. And I want that to be clear, because as we

  245. go forward, I don't it doesn't really matter how far

  246. down the source the Triple is and how deluded it is,

  247. if it's coming from the source of lies in any

  248. way it is.

  249. It is from the father of lies, the devil truth.

  250. Like I said at the beginning, there is a is

  251. a word that gets thrown around a lot, laid claim on,

  252. denied thought, over abused. Truth is a tough little word.

  253. Though.

  254. You can't stomp it out, you can't kill it. You

  255. can kick it, hate it, set it aside, deny it,

  256. twist it, but it just lives on. And the reason

  257. that truth lives on is it's simply the reality. It's

  258. just the way things are. It doesn't matter how passionately

  259. I or someone wish it was different. Truth about a

  260. situation just is the way that it is. It's very basic,

  261. I know, but I think sometimes we need to realize

  262. it's reality. And maybe this subject on truth and lying

  263. and falsehood seems a little bit like maybe more of

  264. us children's lesson that we have been taught from little

  265. up that you tell the truth and you don't tell lies.

  266. And of course we know that, but I would like to.

  267. I believe that maybe we need it a little bit

  268. more than we're often aware of. And I would just

  269. point out too that this conversation that Jesus is having

  270. and had many with the Pharisees and the scribes was

  271. with mature men. And not only then that mature men,

  272. but they were religious men, leaders that were, and disciples.

  273. And I'll just make another point here. I don't plan

  274. to go into all of this passage here. It's just

  275. a little bit more of a maybe a foundation on

  276. the principles of truth. But Jesus here kindly offers these

  277. men freedom, but they just looked at him and argued

  278. with him and told him that they are not in

  279. bondage and they don't need freedom, and they are free.

  280. But they were blind to the reality that they were

  281. in bondage. They were unaware, and you see that.

  282. In verse thirty three.

  283. And yeah, and they argued with the one that is

  284. the way, the truth, and the life. In John fourteen,

  285. we have that testimony about Jesus. And I'll just say personally,

  286. for me, this subject has been something that I don't

  287. even I think I know a few sources where it

  288. kind of came into my consciousness a little bit more

  289. Over the last several years, I've become more aware of

  290. just the practical, every day oh truth, whether it's presented

  291. or said or whatever.

  292. It might be.

  293. And I've tried to pay attention a little bit closer

  294. to it, be aware of it, think about it. There

  295. are many subtle ways that we can almost subconsciously distort truth.

  296. If we're not careful and intentional, we can easily brush

  297. it off. And our default setting is self justifications. We're

  298. all pre programmed that way. Just if something happens, we

  299. our wheels spin to deflect blame and problems. And so

  300. it's something that we all can understand. I'm pretty sure

  301. we can all relate to the struggle and I can

  302. as well, And so this is this is something that

  303. is something I've been thinking and working about.

  304. Now i'd like to working on.

  305. What I'd like to think too about two different kinds

  306. of truth here. I'll just call it the capital T

  307. truth and the small T truth. Capital T truth as

  308. in Jesus the Way, the Truth, and the Life. And

  309. then there's the small T truth, just truth in everyday

  310. practical living, speaking the truth and all that goes with that.

  311. So my main emphasis this morning is more on the

  312. practical aspect of everyday small letter truth. But at my

  313. first point, I just want to make a few comments

  314. here about the importance of Jesus the Way, the Truth

  315. and the life. Jesus is the embodiment of truth. He

  316. is the way to ultimate and true truth. There are

  317. many good people in the world today, and I give

  318. this maybe as a bit of just a warning for

  319. us that understand the important principles of telling the truth

  320. and being honest. But they may not be followers of Jesus,

  321. but they're very conscientious. They see the value of truth

  322. in business maybe examples, and they understand that if you're

  323. going to succeed in life, we need to be honest

  324. in business because it builds trust, which leads to good

  325. business practices and relationships and reputation. People understand the honesty

  326. and relationships is essential if you're going to have a

  327. law term relationship in marriage, in churches and institutions and

  328. organizations and friendships. Dishonesty just it pulls the foundation right

  329. out from underneath anything that can be built on that.

  330. And so godless people can get that concept just they understand,

  331. like it's a law like gravity, you got to work

  332. with it. And so there is an element. There's earthly

  333. benefits that come from the principles of truth, from God's word.

  334. But people, many of these people.

  335. Do not humbly surrender their own lives to the lordship

  336. of Jesus Christ for the ultimate freedom of heart. And

  337. we need to be careful with a lot of hard

  338. hitting truth tellers, conservative news commentators, podcasters that our seemingly

  339. tell it to you straight. And we appreciate that, we

  340. like that, we like to hear the truth. And yet

  341. if their own heart is not and attitudes are not

  342. surrendered to the way the truth in the life of Jesus,

  343. we need to remember it that to be careful about

  344. their not taking their spiritual advice, let's say, because because

  345. those lines blur, you can have a man that's that's

  346. makes his fame on truth telling, but he doesn't believe

  347. in Jesus Christ.

  348. And that's that's just a little warning that I would

  349. like to give. Here. Here's a quote from some book.

  350. Truthfulness is the foundation of our lives.

  351. On it rests our relationship with others, and our trust

  352. and security in those around us, in our community, in

  353. our institutions, and in our ability to organize, function and

  354. govern our society. Without it as a foundation, we have

  355. no firm basis to build our relationships or institutions.

  356. Just a well.

  357. Said paragraph of the essential foundational principle of truth. Okay,

  358. my next point moving into some different areas of truth

  359. is simply speaking the truth truth telling. This is probably

  360. the biggest point in area that we think of in life,

  361. is our speech, the words that we say. Do we

  362. say the truth? We all know that telling the truth

  363. is right.

  364. But back to that.

  365. Title, the truth shall set you free in real life.

  366. Sometimes you know we believe this, but sometimes to telling

  367. the truth gets us into trouble. Sometimes telling the truth

  368. costs us money, Sometimes it.

  369. Will make people mad at us.

  370. Sometimes it makes us unpopular or even costs us friendships.

  371. And we know that people have died for telling the truth,

  372. have not been willing to denounce.

  373. I think that sometimes my.

  374. Small children will do something bad, something that they know

  375. they should not do. There's lots of evidence laying around

  376. of the crime and the criminals pretty clear, and I'll

  377. just take them and I'll set them down and I'll

  378. look at them and I'll ask them, did you do

  379. this thing? And it varies sometimes, but sometimes it's like

  380. there's just like in that split second, there's the eyes shift,

  381. the wheels are turning, and they're calculating the their answer.

  382. And weighing their options.

  383. If they can convince Dad that they didn't do it,

  384. then they will go free and they will go back

  385. to playing just like they were.

  386. If if they admit doing.

  387. Wrong, then there's a good chance that there'll be some

  388. unpleasant consequences.

  389. And that all just happens in a moment.

  390. And in that moment it does not seem like the

  391. truth will set you free. It feels like the truth

  392. is terrible, and it is because we have violated something.

  393. And yet we know in.

  394. That little snapshot moment that that child is worried about

  395. the next three five minutes of what the consequences. But

  396. as we step back and we look at that, we

  397. know that for the good of that child, we must

  398. teach them to be honest, to tell the truth, even

  399. if there's a little bit of concert sequences that they'll

  400. suffer in the moment. But for their freedom in life

  401. and for their well being and their wholeness, it is

  402. much much better and very essential that we train and

  403. teach them to tell the truth, even in a hard

  404. setting when the short term consequences are not freeing. And

  405. as adults, we face those same kinds of tests in life,

  406. and when we lie and when we take the easy

  407. way out. There's a sense of freedom in the moment,

  408. maybe that comes escape, but that burden of guilt in

  409. our hearts, the invisible chains, the weight start to bind us.

  410. And you know, there's a lot of work that comes

  411. with lying and maintaining lies and falsehoods. It gets to

  412. be quite a deck of cars words to keep balanced.

  413. It's a lot of work once you take that path.

  414. It's a burden, it's bondage.

  415. So maybe you say, well, I mean, I don't think

  416. I lie, and probably many of you and we don't.

  417. I hope.

  418. I'm not accusing you of being liars. I'm just I

  419. want you to think about that. Our words are our words,

  420. always trustworthy and dependable.

  421. What is our reputation by others?

  422. I don't know how you find that out besides maybe

  423. asking someone, but that's risky. If you or I say something,

  424. we tell a story, we give a fact, whatever it

  425. might be. Do the people that we know that know

  426. us believe it or do they need a little verification,

  427. need someone more reliable? I want to read a few verses,

  428. some more words of Jesus in Matthew five thirty three

  429. on our speech, and this is about he's talking about

  430. oaths and swearing. And I'll just read verse thirty three to.

  431. Thirty seven again.

  432. You have heard that it hath been said by them

  433. of old, thou shalt not forswear thyself, but shalt perform

  434. under the Lord thine knows. But I say unto you,

  435. swear not at all, neither by Heaven, for it is

  436. God's throne, nor by the earth, where it is it

  437. is his footstool. Neither by Jerusalem, for it is the

  438. city of the Great King. Neither shall thou swear by

  439. thy head, because thou canst not make one hair white

  440. or black. But let your communications be yay, yay, nay nay,

  441. for whatsoever is more than these cometh of evil?

  442. So what about oath? And what was Jesus saying here?

  443. And what is an oath? Well? Oaths?

  444. I won't go into a lot of that, but just

  445. a little bit about my understanding of O's and swearing

  446. of O's oath. It was something that people did in

  447. the Old Testament's something that people do today, to swear,

  448. often by some greater deity or thing or person, that

  449. what I am saying.

  450. Is indeed true.

  451. People swear by God, they put their hand on the Bible,

  452. different things.

  453. But why why did they? Why do we? Why does

  454. anyone need to.

  455. Swear to tell the truth in certain situations? Well, it

  456. was an attempt, I think, to vary, and it still is.

  457. It's an attempt to verify and assure and also probably

  458. most importantly, to bring consequences to bear if you are

  459. caught lying and not telling the truth. But it's basically

  460. a verification that this that you are saying, because you're

  461. swearing and going through these things and saying certain things,

  462. that what I say will be the truth.

  463. Well, what that does is it creates.

  464. A double standard, or a double level of truth telling,

  465. because now you have when you're under oath, and you

  466. have when you're not under oath. And when I'm under

  467. oath it is very very important that I.

  468. Tell the truth. But what about when I'm not under oath?

  469. What if I'm just on the street, what if I'm

  470. making a business deal or talking to my wife. The

  471. simple fact that somehow sowaring an oath makes us more

  472. credible under oath also means that often people that are

  473. not under oath will not be telling the truth. You see,

  474. oaths are needed because of untrust. A person that you trust.

  475. I trust my wife.

  476. I never have asked her to give me an oath.

  477. I've just come to trust.

  478. That what she says is true to her the best

  479. of her knowledge, and so we don't need an oath.

  480. In our laws.

  481. I think that's the consequences of swearing under oath. Perjury

  482. is is uh what probably puts teeth in it. You

  483. can have politicians that if they're on a stand and

  484. they're under oath and they get caught lying, can get

  485. fines all kinds of things, maybe even imprisonment. But if

  486. they're out on campaigns making promises, you can lie all

  487. of you all you want, and people expect it another

  488. thing that they do. It's just interesting fact that I

  489. guess still happens today. You raise your right hand to

  490. give your oath, and I don't know what all the

  491. symbolisms and what that means. I tried to study and

  492. read on that a little bit. But raising of a

  493. right hand can.

  494. Mean it's associated with truth and honor for one thing.

  495. One one source was saying that at least in the

  496. medieval way back, there was where if someone was caught lying,

  497. they were they got a stamp on their hand or

  498. or some kind of a scar or a mark or something.

  499. So when you come before the sunder you put up

  500. your right hand. It reveals if your hand is clean,

  501. if you have a history of telling the truth, or

  502. else if it's marked, that's a that's a warning of

  503. a past liar.

  504. Another thing about oaths. I just looked this up.

  505. This is what you asked if you swear in a

  506. in a court of law? Says, do you solemnly swear?

  507. And what what what I get out of this is

  508. I'll say it after I'm done. Do you solemnly swear

  509. or affirm that the testimony you are about to give

  510. will be the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but

  511. the truth.

  512. So help me God, And.

  513. These words reveal how to me how there's different ways

  514. of not telling the truth. They've formulated this paragraph to

  515. try to close all the loopholes as well as they can.

  516. So you can lie, you can just lie and not

  517. tell the truth, or you can not tell the whole truth.

  518. Or it says, and say nothing but the truth.

  519. You can just fill the air with words and confusion

  520. and all kinds of things to distort and confuse the facts.

  521. That's another way. And then there's attaching God's name to

  522. it that because our own name and our own reputation

  523. isn't credible, that I'm gonna bring God into this and

  524. swear by him that what I am saying is dependable

  525. oaths and promises. And we could go into this and

  526. I'm not nitpicking, but I would just say this for

  527. you to think about, what about our little oaths?

  528. I promise?

  529. And you know, if you want to know the truth

  530. and honestly, what if you didn't say honestly?

  531. Is that different than if you just say yes or no.

  532. I know some of those are habits, and I think

  533. I say them at times as well, But just.

  534. Little things that we're trying to reaffirm.

  535. And credit are is kind of a bad pattern I

  536. have found, not necessarily I don't know if here I

  537. was thinking work, but maybe with guys that have to

  538. say more words and explain why they're telling the truth,

  539. is often the ones that maybe are not telling the truth.

  540. It just takes a lot of affirmation. What is our

  541. reputation and our level of honesty? What about telling we'll

  542. call them small and white lies for social expectations. Now,

  543. this one's a dicey one. And one thing I worry

  544. about I'll just say here is I worry about those

  545. that don't really deserve to be guilt guilted about their

  546. speech and their lives. Because there are some people that

  547. their intention is pure. They want to speak the truth,

  548. and so there's this problem with the trouble with the

  549. truth of just exact everything. That's not what I'm talking

  550. about this morning. And if you're burdened with this, I

  551. think God remember your intentions, and God knows your heart.

  552. But we should be careful with our words and try

  553. to be accurate. That's something that I've thought about more

  554. is to be try. I'm not talking about grammar. I'm

  555. terrible at grammar, as you know. Unfortunately I wish I

  556. was better at that. But I'm talking about intent of

  557. heart and words that best describe what you're trying to say.

  558. To be careful with the words.

  559. But what about this thing of small eyes? For social

  560. expectations to be kind, to avoid awkward situations, to be polite,

  561. to avoid a conflict, maybe to make myself look better?

  562. Are telling untrues for good motives?

  563. Acceptable?

  564. You know, it's good to be polite, it's good to

  565. be kind, it's good to avoid unnecessary conflict.

  566. And some of us.

  567. And some of this gets into personalities. Some just hate

  568. conflict and would tend to lie to get out of conflict,

  569. and others.

  570. Would just.

  571. Like conflict or wait into the middle of it for

  572. the sake of conflict. Maybe so we have some of

  573. those personalities that we.

  574. Have to work with.

  575. But it's I think we need to come back to

  576. that Jesus was saying, mean what you say, and say

  577. what you mean. Just try to tell the truth, try

  578. to say how it is to the best.

  579. Of your ability.

  580. One of the most serious things about maybe social let's

  581. just call it social lying is not necessarily what it

  582. does to others and hurting others, but what it does

  583. to us. And this is maybe where it gets a

  584. little bit closer home. I think the gradual process of

  585. eroding honesty and integrity within deep within our own hearts

  586. and motives and minds. The words that we say affect

  587. our thinking more than maybe we think, and so the

  588. more that we justify, say expedient lying like your supper

  589. was so delicious when.

  590. I just didn't like it.

  591. We need to be careful, we need to be polite,

  592. but we don't just blatantly lie out of trying to

  593. make peace. The problem with that when we start to

  594. lie in little things and we get used to it,

  595. and we justify it in our mind and start going

  596. down that road, we gradually lose grip and care, and

  597. all of our speech becomes expedient. It's what's good for

  598. me and the easiest in the moment, and that can

  599. just get worse and worse and worse until we barely

  600. know what truth is because we have somehow justified and

  601. lied our way through life and end up at a

  602. spot that is not reality.

  603. And this is not.

  604. Something foreign to us and to our people and to

  605. our churches. I have been appalled at times when people

  606. just seemingly, I don't know, don't tell the truth just

  607. I think it's for probably good intentions, but it's it's

  608. not the.

  609. Way that it is.

  610. Maybe another a little practical example for those of us

  611. that are conflict adverse.

  612. We don't like it.

  613. You know what, if someone does something to us offens

  614. this offends me, I'm very upset, and I just I

  615. just say, don't worry about it.

  616. It's fine.

  617. I don't it's no problem, it's not a big deal.

  618. Pace a smile on it, move on and you know,

  619. there is a side and I'll maybe get to this

  620. a little bit, but there is a side where love

  621. covers a multitude of sins. And I think that when

  622. we mean those words, they're they're a blessing and that's good.

  623. But when we don't mean those words, we shouldn't say

  624. those words.

  625. Those words are great unless we don't mean them.

  626. And the problem with that is is when we move

  627. on and we said that we're fine and it's no

  628. problem and we don't have any issue, we go on

  629. and we go on about our lives, and in our

  630. hearts we brew towards that person eats on us. We

  631. remember that we didn't forgive it. We're thinking, you know,

  632. we're trying to but just and eventually what happens is

  633. then that person does something again and then boom, we

  634. blow up and there's a big problem.

  635. And that person never knew all along that there was

  636. a problem.

  637. So it's always better, and this is something I have

  638. to work on myself. But it's always better to have

  639. a conversation based on truth than to have peace based

  640. on lies. It's harder in the moment to have a

  641. conversation of truth than to have peace based on lies.

  642. The Bible says the wounds of a friend are better

  643. than the kisses of an enemy, and that's hard.

  644. To do to.

  645. I would much rather have the criticism come to me

  646. than for me to have to go tell someone and

  647. work through something I had a problem with them about.

  648. It's probably pride or something. But the wounds of a

  649. friend can be a blessing if they're friendly wounds. The

  650. same time, the wounds of an enemy and wounds that

  651. are just not of a friend are not helpful. We

  652. need to remember that as well. Okay, another one is

  653. what about living a lie? Hypocrisy. Jesus talked quite a

  654. bit about this. Hypocrisy is pretending or acting. This can

  655. be done in many different ways and for different reasons.

  656. Sometimes there's an ugly hidden sin in our lives and

  657. it's shameful, and we put on this mask and we

  658. hope nobody knows, and we go about our lives and

  659. this thing is just rotting in our stomach, and yet.

  660. We just present a different hypocrisy.

  661. There's other there's other reasons, like maybe the Pharisees had

  662. pious pretending to be spiritual and to have spiritual insight

  663. and to have a relationship with God that we don't

  664. have to impress others.

  665. And I would just say that.

  666. For us men leaders whatever, that Jesus was the hardest

  667. on the Pharisees in this particular subject. Religious people and

  668. leaders can be susceptible to hypocrisy, and I think one

  669. of the reasons is is because people have expectations of us.

  670. I mean, we're all of a sudden, we're in this position.

  671. We don't know how we got here, we got whatever

  672. it might be, and we're supposed to have the answers

  673. and we're supposed to be able to tell people how

  674. to live life and be the proper example. But maybe

  675. we don't feel like we have answers, and maybe we

  676. actually feel like we're a mess and we don't know

  677. what ends up ourselves in certain situations. But we can't

  678. let people know we're a mess. We can't, you know,

  679. that wouldn't be right. And so there's this temptation to

  680. be hypocritical and to present something that is not true.

  681. It's a show, it's an act. I could say with that,

  682. I think there's some people that just disregard feelings and

  683. say I don't care what anybody says. At least I'm

  684. honest and I'm just going to do what I want

  685. to do, and I don't think that's Christian charity and truth.

  686. There's things I'm doing right now for the sake of

  687. other people. It's not necessarily my own conviction. And I

  688. think some of that is okay. If we're honest with

  689. the issue and with the thing we blend. That doesn't

  690. mean we're a hypocrite, but we need to not pretend

  691. it's something that it is not a few warnings about

  692. the abuse of truth, coming back to maybe one of

  693. my first points is simply the attitude that I have

  694. the monopoly on truth, when really it's my strong opinion

  695. or a desired outcome, and somehow we kind of take

  696. a Bible verse and we take a little history, and

  697. we take something else, and we build this case that

  698. you know, it's almost wrong if we don't do this

  699. thing when it's not.

  700. It's a preference, it's an opinion. It might have some value,

  701. but it's not rock solid truth. That's an abusive truth.

  702. Sometimes, like I said, we want truth on our side,

  703. and there's jocking and grabbing for truth. Even Jesus defended truth,

  704. but he did not defend himself that and stood out

  705. to me in different places in the passage that are

  706. at He was like, I do nothing of myself, but

  707. as my father taught me, I speak these things. He

  708. was not all personally offended that they were poking him

  709. as a man. He let their truth stand, and he

  710. was very humble that maybe another one is just a

  711. little bit. I guess it's abusing truth, but asking personal questions.

  712. And being snoopy.

  713. With at least when you're in certain positions that maybe.

  714. Make the person you're asking.

  715. Feel obligated to answer things and information that aren't really

  716. your business. And so certain people get caught in that,

  717. and that can be an abuse of supposed truth being

  718. mean with truth being mean, and truth, at least Jesus

  719. truth is not the same thing being rough and cruel

  720. with truth. God's truth was never meant to be mean,

  721. to weaponize, to manipulate people.

  722. It was to set them free. It was truth with love.

  723. Jesus was full of grace and truth, and that's always

  724. just a beautiful combination. To me, Truth with grace is

  725. very important. Another one distinguishing truth, excuse me, not discovering

  726. truth disguised in sarcasm just still warning on that. Trying

  727. to make a point to someone through sarcasm, you know,

  728. this little bit, this humorous, backhanded comment to drive a

  729. point home that's really kind of deep in your stomach

  730. about that person. That method generally just creates hurt, a

  731. little bit of confusion, and it's not helpful if we

  732. have a problem with someone. It's best just to be

  733. more straightforward and love and care. There's many other things

  734. we could talk about. I'll just give a couple closing

  735. comments here about this telling lies self deception. I think

  736. the path to self decis option is often done through

  737. small little patterns of lying. The fear of man I

  738. didn't mention that too much, but I indicated it or

  739. a fray to man that can really pressure us into lying.

  740. But my closing thought I want to say here is

  741. that what if we find ourselves like that guy. We

  742. don't know how we got there. There's just guilt and shame.

  743. We got kind of this pattern of lying, deceiving others,

  744. putting a spin on things. But it feels like there's

  745. no way out. It feels like there's too much history,

  746. it feels like there's too many layers of lies.

  747. You just you couldn't clean it up if you tried.

  748. Just remember that James five fifty sixteen. I want to

  749. leave this versus. Let's confess your faults one to another

  750. and pray one for another that you may be healed.

  751. Repentance and confession is something that God has given us

  752. to unloose the burdens and bonds and chains of deception.

  753. You know, secrets make us sick. We've heard that wrong

  754. secrets hidden make us tend to be insecure, not have confidence,

  755. can't look the world in the eye. But there's something

  756. about confession on little levels and on big levels.

  757. And I'm not saying you need.

  758. To put all your dirty laundry out to everybody, but

  759. there's something about confessing, whether it's to your spouse or

  760. your friend, or some personal wrong or to the church,

  761. that what confession is is it's finally simply accepting, admitting

  762. and telling the truth about a situation that already was.

  763. It's just letting the light shine in, and light and

  764. truth break the power of bonds and bondage and untruth.

  765. And it does more than just bring us freedom. Confession,

  766. confession and coupled with true repentance, brings the healing process

  767. if we walk in the light and stay in the light,

  768. we can become healed. There's there's even just like therapy,

  769. people that often have put past trauma, a lot of

  770. this that is to get people to talk about that.

  771. There's something about just verbalizing the things, the realities or

  772. what feels like realities in my mind that bring healing

  773. to a person's life. And the more we stuff it,

  774. and the more we hide it, and the more we

  775. resist it, and the more we deny it, the more

  776. we become in bondage. If you continue in my word,

  777. then are you my disciples. Indeed, and you shall know

  778. the truth, and the truth shall make me free. And the

  779. last comment I meant to say is that it's also important,

  780. really important for all of us to work hard at

  781. creating an environment, a setting where honesty can thrive, where

  782. honesty is not punished we're honest, or there's not consequences

  783. and negative effects when I try to be honest and

  784. when I confess. And so that is something that we

  785. all need to try to help one another with and

  786. that ties into forgiveness. What we heard this morning, Thank

  787. you all for your attention.

  788. God bless you. Let's have a song, please,