Sermon
The Truth Shall Make You Free - Leland Zehr
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Transcript
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Good morning. I do want to.
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Greet you all in the name of Jesus and also
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welcome all of you, especially you visitors that are here
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for the summer to help glad that you're here, and
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we wish you a safe and blessed summer, safe physically
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and also safe spiritually.
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Know that you're away from home.
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And it's good, but there's opportunities and temptations that come
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in that kind of a setting, and we just want
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to be a blessing to you while you're here in Oregon.
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And it's probably not proper for Gerald to welcome himself back,
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so I'll welcome Gerald and Jewel back. Good to have
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you back with us here today as well.
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As you all know. This last week.
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Was Independence Day, celebration of freedom for the country that
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we live in. Freedom, I guess originally that started with
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the independence from another country, Great Britain. Freedom to be
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our own country, freedom to make personal choices, freedom to
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operate and do a lot of things within the boundaries
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of the law in our land. Freedom of worship, freedom
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of obeying God as we feel that we should, freedom
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to have our private schools.
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All these things.
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We grew up with and we barely think about it, Gerald,
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You probably didn't think about it. Gerald, and his prayer said,
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thank the Lord for freedom, that we could come here
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and do this in this way. It's nothing special for us,
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but it's very unusual for some parts of the world,
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and we're.
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Thankful for that.
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Freedom is something that is hard to put a value
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or a price tag on most of us. If we
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had the time to ponder and think, I don't think
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would in the end withhold anything, money, possessions to maintain
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our freedom. If you don't have freedom, not much else
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in life is worth living enjoyable. It's just a lot
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of suffering and heartache. And we get that picture, that
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meaning from the well known phrase by Patrick hen that said,
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at the beginning of the independence a war there for
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independence was give me liberty or give me death. And
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he summed it up that way that he was willing
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to give everything, his life and all that was else
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that he had, for the opportunity for freedom. And so
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I asked you a question this morning, or all enjoy
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the benefits of civil freedom, but are you free this morning?
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Are you a free man? Are you a free woman?
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Are you free in your heart, free in your mind,
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free in your conscience in your spiritual life. Are you
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free from the slavery and the bondage of sin? And
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although we live in a country that's amazing a free country,
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we have a country that are full of spiritual and
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mental slaves, people in bondage, bondage that comes from the
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bondage that does not come from without, from our authorities
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and laws and chains, but a bondage that comes from within.
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And Jesus talked about freedom, and he talked about bondage,
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and he understood the desire of the heart, in the
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heart of every man and woman to be free. And
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it's a good desire, and it's a desire that God
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blesses and wants for us as well. And so I
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say all this as just a little bit of some
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thoughts to lead up to the message this morning. I'm
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not necessarily talking I am talking about freedom, but not primarily.
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In John eight thirty two, there's a phrase, and you
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can turn to John eight if you care.
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I'll read there in a few minutes.
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But Jesus is having a dialogue and in John eight
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thirty two, the last part of that verse is what
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I want to use for the title, The Truth shall
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make You free. And I need to just say up
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front here that I have mixed feelings almost PTSD you
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might say about the subject of truth. When someone gets
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up and starts talking about truth, I tend to get
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a little nervous. As important and as essential as truth
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is in all areas of life, and for sure in
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the spiritual life, it is just so easy for men
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and women to misuse and to abuse truth by zealous
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religious people, like we heard in the Sunday School lesson
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at Munster too, all the way up to today. I mean,
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you can't argue with truth. We all agree that truth
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is truth. And so there's this seems like there's sometimes
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this jocking and fighting.
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To get truth.
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On my bandwagon. So I just say that as a
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personal struggle in case. But we come back to this
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phrase that Jesus said. Is it a true statement that
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truth shall set you free? And since Jesus said it,
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it must be true. But there are times in life
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when truth seems to be more trouble than free, where
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it complicates things, where it embarrass it, where it's embarrassing,
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where it causes awkwardness and feels like anything but freedom.
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And so I want to talk about these two things
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a bit this morning. John eight wasn't quite sure how
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much to read here.
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This setting comes the first eleven verses, is this well
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known story of the scribes and the Pharisees bringing the
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woman taken in adultery before Jesus, and they were testing
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and asking Jesus if they should stone her, if she
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should be stoned, and so Jesus through the story basically
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says in the end, any of you that are without sin,
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go ahead, you start, you cast the first stone. And
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then as we know, one by one they laughed, no
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stones were cast. But then starting in verse twelve, we
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have the subject here that I'm focused a little bit
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more on this morning about truth, and that is primarily
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the focus of my subject this morning. Is more about
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truth telling and all the different forms of truth and
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all eyes than it is about freedom, although freedom is
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definitely a part of that or bondage. Now, before I
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read this, I want to I hope it's not too
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big of a distraction right now, but I want to
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show you the whiteboard and and there's a few words
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on there I want you to think about as we
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as we read this passage. There's there's a picture two
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here as well, I'm not an artist, but I happen
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to be friends with one that it is, So I'll
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keep the name private just for.
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The yeah reasons in our interest here.
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But what I what I mainly want you to focus
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about now, And I don't want you to get all
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caught up in the cartoon picture here yet too much.
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But it's simply a little visual illustration of what lies
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and different kinds of lies, and a life of living
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a life of lies is bondage.
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And we'll see that.
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But the words that I want you to think about
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as we read or lies, darkness.
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Death, and blindness.
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Although some of those words aren't exact in this phrase,
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they are are indicated and truth and light and life
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and seeing those are very much a package of truth,
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and they go hand in hand. They and they at
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each other, and the end result is bondage. Jesus talks
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about bondage and freedom in this passage. So think about
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those words, watch for those words. And I'm going to
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start reading in verse twelve, and I I may skip
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a few of the verses here and then jump in
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at thirty one. I plan to stop at verse forty seven,
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then spake Jesus again, unto them and here we have it.
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I am the light of the world.
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He that foleth me shall not walk in darkness, but
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shall have the light of life. And the Pharisees therefore
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said unto him, thou bearest record of thyself.
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Thy record is not true.
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Jesus answered and said, unto them, though I bear record
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of myself. Yet my record is true, for I know
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whence I came and whither I go. For ye cannot
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tell whence I come and whither I go. Ye judge
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after the flesh. I judge no man. And yet if
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I judged, my judgment is true. For I am not alone,
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but I and the fought and the Father that sent me.
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And it is written in your law that the testimony
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of two men is true. I am one that bear
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witness of myself, and the Father that sent me beareth
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witness of me. Then said they unto him, where is
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thy father? And Jesus answered, ye neither knew me, no
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me nor my father.
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If ye had known me, ye should have known.
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My father also called jump in.
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I'll just keep reading verse twenty. And these words spake
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Jesus in the treasure, as he taught in the temple.
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And no man laid hands on him, for his hour
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was not yet come. And then said Jesus again, unto them,
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I go my way, and ye shall seek me, and
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shall die in your sins. Whether I go, you cannot come.
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Then said the Jews. Will he kill himself? Because he said,
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whether I go, you cannot come. And he said, unto them,
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ye are from beneath. I am from above, year of
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this world. I am not of this world. I said
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therefore unto you, that ye shall die in your sins.
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For if ye had believed not that I am he,
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ye shall die in your sins. Then said they, unto
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him who art thou. And Jesus said, unto them, even
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the same that I say unto you from the beginning.
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I have many things to say and to judge of you.
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But he that sent me is true. And I speak
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to the world these things which I have heard of him.
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They understood not that he spake to them of the Father.
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Then said Jesus under them, when you have lifted up
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the son of Man, ye shall know that I am he,
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and that I do nothing of myself. But as my
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father hath taught me, I speak these things, and he
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that sent me is with me. And the Father that
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hath not left me alone. For I do always those
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things that please him. And he spake these words. As
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he spake these words, many believed on him. Then said
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Jesus to those Jews. Kind of a shift here. But
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then said Jesus to those Jews which believed on him,
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if ye continue in my word, then ye then are
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ye my disciples. Indeed, and ye shall know the truth,
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and the truth shall make you free. Then answered him,
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we be, We be abraham seed, and we never in
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bondage to any man. How sayest thou you shall be free?
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Jesus answered them, verily, verily, I say unto you, whosoever
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committeth sin is the servant of sin, and the servant
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abideth not in the house forever, but the Son abideth forever.
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If the Son therefore shall make you free, ye shall
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be free. Indeed, I know that ye are Abraham's seed,
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But ye seek to kill me, because my word hath
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no place in you. I speak the truth. I speak
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that which I have seen with my father, And ye
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do that which you have seen with your father. They answered,
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and said, unto him, Abraham is our father. Jesus saith
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unto them. If you were Abraham's children, ye would do
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the works of Abraham. But now you seek to kill me,
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a man that hath told you the truth which I
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have heard of God. This did not Abraham. You do
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the deeds of your father. Then said they to him.
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We be not born of fornication. We have one father,
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even God. Jesus said unto them. If God were your father,
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ye would love me. For I proceeded forth and came
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from God. Neither came I of myself, but He sent me.
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Why do you not understand my speech? Even because you cannot.
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Hear my word?
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Ye are ye are your father the devil and the lust?
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Ye are of your father, the devil and the lust
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of your father?
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Ye will do.
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He was a murderer from the beginning, and abode not
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in truth, because there is no truth in him. When
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he speaketh a lie, he speaketh of his own, for
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he is a liar and the father of it. And
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because I tell you the truth, you believe me not?
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Which of you convinceth me of sin? And if I
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say the truth, why do you not believe me? He
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that is of God heareth God's words, Ye therefore hear
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them not because ye are not of God. I just
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wanted to point out a couple things here in this
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passage I think is worth One important note is simply
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the conversation really ramps up there towards the end, and
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Jesus accuses him of some very wicked things, being the
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children of the Father devil. But the subject of truth
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and lies the source. I'd like you to think about
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that just the minute. Satan the Father of lies and
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Jesus and God the Father. It feels in this passage
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that Jesus and the Pharisees are kind of jocking for
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who has the upper moral ground and who has the
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authority and who has truth? And they're questioning him, and
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Jesus is questioning and answering them. But the point that
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I think they both agreed on is that Satan is
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a father of lies and is untruthful. There is no
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truth in him, and Jesus and God the Father is.
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The source of truth, is the truth the source of
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light in life.
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And I want that to be clear, because as we
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go forward, I don't it doesn't really matter how far
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down the source the Triple is and how deluded it is,
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if it's coming from the source of lies in any
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way it is.
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It is from the father of lies, the devil truth.
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Like I said at the beginning, there is a is
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a word that gets thrown around a lot, laid claim on,
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denied thought, over abused. Truth is a tough little word.
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Though.
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You can't stomp it out, you can't kill it. You
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can kick it, hate it, set it aside, deny it,
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twist it, but it just lives on. And the reason
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that truth lives on is it's simply the reality. It's
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just the way things are. It doesn't matter how passionately
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I or someone wish it was different. Truth about a
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situation just is the way that it is. It's very basic,
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I know, but I think sometimes we need to realize
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it's reality. And maybe this subject on truth and lying
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and falsehood seems a little bit like maybe more of
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us children's lesson that we have been taught from little
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up that you tell the truth and you don't tell lies.
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And of course we know that, but I would like to.
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I believe that maybe we need it a little bit
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more than we're often aware of. And I would just
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point out too that this conversation that Jesus is having
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and had many with the Pharisees and the scribes was
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with mature men. And not only then that mature men,
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but they were religious men, leaders that were, and disciples.
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And I'll just make another point here. I don't plan
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to go into all of this passage here. It's just
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a little bit more of a maybe a foundation on
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the principles of truth. But Jesus here kindly offers these
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men freedom, but they just looked at him and argued
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with him and told him that they are not in
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bondage and they don't need freedom, and they are free.
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But they were blind to the reality that they were
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in bondage. They were unaware, and you see that.
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In verse thirty three.
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And yeah, and they argued with the one that is
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the way, the truth, and the life. In John fourteen,
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we have that testimony about Jesus. And I'll just say personally,
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for me, this subject has been something that I don't
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even I think I know a few sources where it
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kind of came into my consciousness a little bit more
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Over the last several years, I've become more aware of
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just the practical, every day oh truth, whether it's presented
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or said or whatever.
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It might be.
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And I've tried to pay attention a little bit closer
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to it, be aware of it, think about it. There
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are many subtle ways that we can almost subconsciously distort truth.
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If we're not careful and intentional, we can easily brush
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it off. And our default setting is self justifications. We're
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all pre programmed that way. Just if something happens, we
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our wheels spin to deflect blame and problems. And so
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it's something that we all can understand. I'm pretty sure
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we can all relate to the struggle and I can
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as well, And so this is this is something that
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is something I've been thinking and working about.
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Now i'd like to working on.
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What I'd like to think too about two different kinds
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of truth here. I'll just call it the capital T
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truth and the small T truth. Capital T truth as
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in Jesus the Way, the Truth, and the Life. And
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then there's the small T truth, just truth in everyday
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practical living, speaking the truth and all that goes with that.
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So my main emphasis this morning is more on the
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practical aspect of everyday small letter truth. But at my
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first point, I just want to make a few comments
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here about the importance of Jesus the Way, the Truth
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and the life. Jesus is the embodiment of truth. He
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is the way to ultimate and true truth. There are
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many good people in the world today, and I give
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this maybe as a bit of just a warning for
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us that understand the important principles of telling the truth
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and being honest. But they may not be followers of Jesus,
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but they're very conscientious. They see the value of truth
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in business maybe examples, and they understand that if you're
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going to succeed in life, we need to be honest
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in business because it builds trust, which leads to good
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business practices and relationships and reputation. People understand the honesty
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and relationships is essential if you're going to have a
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law term relationship in marriage, in churches and institutions and
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organizations and friendships. Dishonesty just it pulls the foundation right
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out from underneath anything that can be built on that.
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And so godless people can get that concept just they understand,
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like it's a law like gravity, you got to work
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with it. And so there is an element. There's earthly
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benefits that come from the principles of truth, from God's word.
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But people, many of these people.
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Do not humbly surrender their own lives to the lordship
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of Jesus Christ for the ultimate freedom of heart. And
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we need to be careful with a lot of hard
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hitting truth tellers, conservative news commentators, podcasters that our seemingly
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tell it to you straight. And we appreciate that, we
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like that, we like to hear the truth. And yet
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if their own heart is not and attitudes are not
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surrendered to the way the truth in the life of Jesus,
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we need to remember it that to be careful about
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their not taking their spiritual advice, let's say, because because
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those lines blur, you can have a man that's that's
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makes his fame on truth telling, but he doesn't believe
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in Jesus Christ.
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And that's that's just a little warning that I would
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like to give. Here. Here's a quote from some book.
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Truthfulness is the foundation of our lives.
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On it rests our relationship with others, and our trust
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and security in those around us, in our community, in
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our institutions, and in our ability to organize, function and
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govern our society. Without it as a foundation, we have
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no firm basis to build our relationships or institutions.
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Just a well.
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Said paragraph of the essential foundational principle of truth. Okay,
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my next point moving into some different areas of truth
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is simply speaking the truth truth telling. This is probably
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the biggest point in area that we think of in life,
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is our speech, the words that we say. Do we
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say the truth? We all know that telling the truth
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is right.
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But back to that.
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Title, the truth shall set you free in real life.
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Sometimes you know we believe this, but sometimes to telling
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the truth gets us into trouble. Sometimes telling the truth
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costs us money, Sometimes it.
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Will make people mad at us.
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Sometimes it makes us unpopular or even costs us friendships.
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And we know that people have died for telling the truth,
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have not been willing to denounce.
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I think that sometimes my.
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Small children will do something bad, something that they know
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they should not do. There's lots of evidence laying around
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of the crime and the criminals pretty clear, and I'll
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just take them and I'll set them down and I'll
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look at them and I'll ask them, did you do
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this thing? And it varies sometimes, but sometimes it's like
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there's just like in that split second, there's the eyes shift,
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the wheels are turning, and they're calculating the their answer.
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And weighing their options.
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If they can convince Dad that they didn't do it,
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then they will go free and they will go back
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to playing just like they were.
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If if they admit doing.
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Wrong, then there's a good chance that there'll be some
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unpleasant consequences.
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And that all just happens in a moment.
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And in that moment it does not seem like the
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truth will set you free. It feels like the truth
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is terrible, and it is because we have violated something.
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And yet we know in.
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That little snapshot moment that that child is worried about
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the next three five minutes of what the consequences. But
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as we step back and we look at that, we
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know that for the good of that child, we must
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teach them to be honest, to tell the truth, even
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if there's a little bit of concert sequences that they'll
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suffer in the moment. But for their freedom in life
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and for their well being and their wholeness, it is
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much much better and very essential that we train and
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teach them to tell the truth, even in a hard
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setting when the short term consequences are not freeing. And
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as adults, we face those same kinds of tests in life,
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and when we lie and when we take the easy
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way out. There's a sense of freedom in the moment,
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maybe that comes escape, but that burden of guilt in
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our hearts, the invisible chains, the weight start to bind us.
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And you know, there's a lot of work that comes
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with lying and maintaining lies and falsehoods. It gets to
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be quite a deck of cars words to keep balanced.
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It's a lot of work once you take that path.
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It's a burden, it's bondage.
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So maybe you say, well, I mean, I don't think
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I lie, and probably many of you and we don't.
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I hope.
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I'm not accusing you of being liars. I'm just I
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want you to think about that. Our words are our words,
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always trustworthy and dependable.
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What is our reputation by others?
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I don't know how you find that out besides maybe
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asking someone, but that's risky. If you or I say something,
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we tell a story, we give a fact, whatever it
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might be. Do the people that we know that know
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us believe it or do they need a little verification,
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need someone more reliable? I want to read a few verses,
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some more words of Jesus in Matthew five thirty three
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on our speech, and this is about he's talking about
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oaths and swearing. And I'll just read verse thirty three to.
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Thirty seven again.
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You have heard that it hath been said by them
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of old, thou shalt not forswear thyself, but shalt perform
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under the Lord thine knows. But I say unto you,
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swear not at all, neither by Heaven, for it is
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God's throne, nor by the earth, where it is it
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is his footstool. Neither by Jerusalem, for it is the
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city of the Great King. Neither shall thou swear by
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thy head, because thou canst not make one hair white
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or black. But let your communications be yay, yay, nay nay,
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for whatsoever is more than these cometh of evil?
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So what about oath? And what was Jesus saying here?
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And what is an oath? Well? Oaths?
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I won't go into a lot of that, but just
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a little bit about my understanding of O's and swearing
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of O's oath. It was something that people did in
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the Old Testament's something that people do today, to swear,
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often by some greater deity or thing or person, that
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what I am saying.
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Is indeed true.
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People swear by God, they put their hand on the Bible,
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different things.
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But why why did they? Why do we? Why does
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anyone need to.
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Swear to tell the truth in certain situations? Well, it
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was an attempt, I think, to vary, and it still is.
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It's an attempt to verify and assure and also probably
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most importantly, to bring consequences to bear if you are
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caught lying and not telling the truth. But it's basically
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a verification that this that you are saying, because you're
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swearing and going through these things and saying certain things,
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that what I say will be the truth.
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Well, what that does is it creates.
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A double standard, or a double level of truth telling,
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because now you have when you're under oath, and you
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have when you're not under oath. And when I'm under
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oath it is very very important that I.
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Tell the truth. But what about when I'm not under oath?
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What if I'm just on the street, what if I'm
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making a business deal or talking to my wife. The
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simple fact that somehow sowaring an oath makes us more
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credible under oath also means that often people that are
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not under oath will not be telling the truth. You see,
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oaths are needed because of untrust. A person that you trust.
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I trust my wife.
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I never have asked her to give me an oath.
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I've just come to trust.
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That what she says is true to her the best
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of her knowledge, and so we don't need an oath.
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In our laws.
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I think that's the consequences of swearing under oath. Perjury
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is is uh what probably puts teeth in it. You
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can have politicians that if they're on a stand and
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they're under oath and they get caught lying, can get
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fines all kinds of things, maybe even imprisonment. But if
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they're out on campaigns making promises, you can lie all
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of you all you want, and people expect it another
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thing that they do. It's just interesting fact that I
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guess still happens today. You raise your right hand to
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give your oath, and I don't know what all the
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symbolisms and what that means. I tried to study and
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read on that a little bit. But raising of a
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right hand can.
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Mean it's associated with truth and honor for one thing.
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One one source was saying that at least in the
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medieval way back, there was where if someone was caught lying,
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they were they got a stamp on their hand or
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or some kind of a scar or a mark or something.
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So when you come before the sunder you put up
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your right hand. It reveals if your hand is clean,
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if you have a history of telling the truth, or
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else if it's marked, that's a that's a warning of
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a past liar.
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Another thing about oaths. I just looked this up.
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This is what you asked if you swear in a
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in a court of law? Says, do you solemnly swear?
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And what what what I get out of this is
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I'll say it after I'm done. Do you solemnly swear
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or affirm that the testimony you are about to give
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will be the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but
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the truth.
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So help me God, And.
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These words reveal how to me how there's different ways
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of not telling the truth. They've formulated this paragraph to
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try to close all the loopholes as well as they can.
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So you can lie, you can just lie and not
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tell the truth, or you can not tell the whole truth.
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Or it says, and say nothing but the truth.
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You can just fill the air with words and confusion
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and all kinds of things to distort and confuse the facts.
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That's another way. And then there's attaching God's name to
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it that because our own name and our own reputation
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isn't credible, that I'm gonna bring God into this and
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swear by him that what I am saying is dependable
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oaths and promises. And we could go into this and
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I'm not nitpicking, but I would just say this for
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you to think about, what about our little oaths?
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I promise?
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And you know, if you want to know the truth
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and honestly, what if you didn't say honestly?
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Is that different than if you just say yes or no.
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I know some of those are habits, and I think
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I say them at times as well, But just.
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Little things that we're trying to reaffirm.
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And credit are is kind of a bad pattern I
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have found, not necessarily I don't know if here I
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was thinking work, but maybe with guys that have to
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say more words and explain why they're telling the truth,
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is often the ones that maybe are not telling the truth.
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It just takes a lot of affirmation. What is our
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reputation and our level of honesty? What about telling we'll
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call them small and white lies for social expectations. Now,
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this one's a dicey one. And one thing I worry
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about I'll just say here is I worry about those
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that don't really deserve to be guilt guilted about their
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speech and their lives. Because there are some people that
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their intention is pure. They want to speak the truth,
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and so there's this problem with the trouble with the
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truth of just exact everything. That's not what I'm talking
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about this morning. And if you're burdened with this, I
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think God remember your intentions, and God knows your heart.
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But we should be careful with our words and try
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to be accurate. That's something that I've thought about more
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is to be try. I'm not talking about grammar. I'm
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terrible at grammar, as you know. Unfortunately I wish I
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was better at that. But I'm talking about intent of
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heart and words that best describe what you're trying to say.
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To be careful with the words.
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But what about this thing of small eyes? For social
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expectations to be kind, to avoid awkward situations, to be polite,
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to avoid a conflict, maybe to make myself look better?
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Are telling untrues for good motives?
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Acceptable?
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You know, it's good to be polite, it's good to
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be kind, it's good to avoid unnecessary conflict.
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And some of us.
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And some of this gets into personalities. Some just hate
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conflict and would tend to lie to get out of conflict,
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and others.
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Would just.
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Like conflict or wait into the middle of it for
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the sake of conflict. Maybe so we have some of
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those personalities that we.
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Have to work with.
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But it's I think we need to come back to
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that Jesus was saying, mean what you say, and say
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what you mean. Just try to tell the truth, try
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to say how it is to the best.
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Of your ability.
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One of the most serious things about maybe social let's
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just call it social lying is not necessarily what it
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does to others and hurting others, but what it does
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to us. And this is maybe where it gets a
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little bit closer home. I think the gradual process of
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eroding honesty and integrity within deep within our own hearts
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and motives and minds. The words that we say affect
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our thinking more than maybe we think, and so the
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more that we justify, say expedient lying like your supper
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was so delicious when.
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I just didn't like it.
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We need to be careful, we need to be polite,
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but we don't just blatantly lie out of trying to
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make peace. The problem with that when we start to
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lie in little things and we get used to it,
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and we justify it in our mind and start going
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down that road, we gradually lose grip and care, and
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all of our speech becomes expedient. It's what's good for
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me and the easiest in the moment, and that can
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just get worse and worse and worse until we barely
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know what truth is because we have somehow justified and
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lied our way through life and end up at a
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spot that is not reality.
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And this is not.
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Something foreign to us and to our people and to
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our churches. I have been appalled at times when people
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just seemingly, I don't know, don't tell the truth just
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I think it's for probably good intentions, but it's it's
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not the.
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Way that it is.
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Maybe another a little practical example for those of us
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that are conflict adverse.
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We don't like it.
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You know what, if someone does something to us offens
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this offends me, I'm very upset, and I just I
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just say, don't worry about it.
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It's fine.
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I don't it's no problem, it's not a big deal.
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Pace a smile on it, move on and you know,
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there is a side and I'll maybe get to this
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a little bit, but there is a side where love
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covers a multitude of sins. And I think that when
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we mean those words, they're they're a blessing and that's good.
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But when we don't mean those words, we shouldn't say
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those words.
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Those words are great unless we don't mean them.
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And the problem with that is is when we move
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on and we said that we're fine and it's no
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problem and we don't have any issue, we go on
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and we go on about our lives, and in our
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hearts we brew towards that person eats on us. We
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remember that we didn't forgive it. We're thinking, you know,
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we're trying to but just and eventually what happens is
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then that person does something again and then boom, we
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blow up and there's a big problem.
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And that person never knew all along that there was
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a problem.
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So it's always better, and this is something I have
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to work on myself. But it's always better to have
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a conversation based on truth than to have peace based
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on lies. It's harder in the moment to have a
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conversation of truth than to have peace based on lies.
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The Bible says the wounds of a friend are better
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than the kisses of an enemy, and that's hard.
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To do to.
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I would much rather have the criticism come to me
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than for me to have to go tell someone and
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work through something I had a problem with them about.
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It's probably pride or something. But the wounds of a
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friend can be a blessing if they're friendly wounds. The
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same time, the wounds of an enemy and wounds that
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are just not of a friend are not helpful. We
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need to remember that as well. Okay, another one is
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what about living a lie? Hypocrisy. Jesus talked quite a
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bit about this. Hypocrisy is pretending or acting. This can
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be done in many different ways and for different reasons.
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Sometimes there's an ugly hidden sin in our lives and
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it's shameful, and we put on this mask and we
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hope nobody knows, and we go about our lives and
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this thing is just rotting in our stomach, and yet.
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We just present a different hypocrisy.
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There's other there's other reasons, like maybe the Pharisees had
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pious pretending to be spiritual and to have spiritual insight
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and to have a relationship with God that we don't
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have to impress others.
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And I would just say that.
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For us men leaders whatever, that Jesus was the hardest
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on the Pharisees in this particular subject. Religious people and
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leaders can be susceptible to hypocrisy, and I think one
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of the reasons is is because people have expectations of us.
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I mean, we're all of a sudden, we're in this position.
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We don't know how we got here, we got whatever
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it might be, and we're supposed to have the answers
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and we're supposed to be able to tell people how
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to live life and be the proper example. But maybe
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we don't feel like we have answers, and maybe we
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actually feel like we're a mess and we don't know
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what ends up ourselves in certain situations. But we can't
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let people know we're a mess. We can't, you know,
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that wouldn't be right. And so there's this temptation to
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be hypocritical and to present something that is not true.
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It's a show, it's an act. I could say with that,
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I think there's some people that just disregard feelings and
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say I don't care what anybody says. At least I'm
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honest and I'm just going to do what I want
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to do, and I don't think that's Christian charity and truth.
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There's things I'm doing right now for the sake of
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other people. It's not necessarily my own conviction. And I
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think some of that is okay. If we're honest with
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the issue and with the thing we blend. That doesn't
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mean we're a hypocrite, but we need to not pretend
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it's something that it is not a few warnings about
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the abuse of truth, coming back to maybe one of
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my first points is simply the attitude that I have
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the monopoly on truth, when really it's my strong opinion
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or a desired outcome, and somehow we kind of take
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a Bible verse and we take a little history, and
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we take something else, and we build this case that
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you know, it's almost wrong if we don't do this
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thing when it's not.
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It's a preference, it's an opinion. It might have some value,
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but it's not rock solid truth. That's an abusive truth.
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Sometimes, like I said, we want truth on our side,
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and there's jocking and grabbing for truth. Even Jesus defended truth,
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but he did not defend himself that and stood out
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to me in different places in the passage that are
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at He was like, I do nothing of myself, but
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as my father taught me, I speak these things. He
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was not all personally offended that they were poking him
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as a man. He let their truth stand, and he
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was very humble that maybe another one is just a
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little bit. I guess it's abusing truth, but asking personal questions.
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And being snoopy.
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With at least when you're in certain positions that maybe.
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Make the person you're asking.
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Feel obligated to answer things and information that aren't really
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your business. And so certain people get caught in that,
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and that can be an abuse of supposed truth being
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mean with truth being mean, and truth, at least Jesus
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truth is not the same thing being rough and cruel
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with truth. God's truth was never meant to be mean,
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to weaponize, to manipulate people.
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It was to set them free. It was truth with love.
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Jesus was full of grace and truth, and that's always
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just a beautiful combination. To me, Truth with grace is
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very important. Another one distinguishing truth, excuse me, not discovering
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truth disguised in sarcasm just still warning on that. Trying
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to make a point to someone through sarcasm, you know,
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this little bit, this humorous, backhanded comment to drive a
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point home that's really kind of deep in your stomach
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about that person. That method generally just creates hurt, a
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little bit of confusion, and it's not helpful if we
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have a problem with someone. It's best just to be
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more straightforward and love and care. There's many other things
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we could talk about. I'll just give a couple closing
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comments here about this telling lies self deception. I think
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the path to self decis option is often done through
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small little patterns of lying. The fear of man I
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didn't mention that too much, but I indicated it or
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a fray to man that can really pressure us into lying.
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But my closing thought I want to say here is
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that what if we find ourselves like that guy. We
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don't know how we got there. There's just guilt and shame.
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We got kind of this pattern of lying, deceiving others,
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putting a spin on things. But it feels like there's
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no way out. It feels like there's too much history,
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it feels like there's too many layers of lies.
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You just you couldn't clean it up if you tried.
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Just remember that James five fifty sixteen. I want to
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leave this versus. Let's confess your faults one to another
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and pray one for another that you may be healed.
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Repentance and confession is something that God has given us
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to unloose the burdens and bonds and chains of deception.
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You know, secrets make us sick. We've heard that wrong
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secrets hidden make us tend to be insecure, not have confidence,
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can't look the world in the eye. But there's something
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about confession on little levels and on big levels.
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And I'm not saying you need.
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To put all your dirty laundry out to everybody, but
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there's something about confessing, whether it's to your spouse or
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your friend, or some personal wrong or to the church,
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that what confession is is it's finally simply accepting, admitting
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and telling the truth about a situation that already was.
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It's just letting the light shine in, and light and
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truth break the power of bonds and bondage and untruth.
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And it does more than just bring us freedom. Confession,
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confession and coupled with true repentance, brings the healing process
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if we walk in the light and stay in the light,
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we can become healed. There's there's even just like therapy,
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people that often have put past trauma, a lot of
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this that is to get people to talk about that.
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There's something about just verbalizing the things, the realities or
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what feels like realities in my mind that bring healing
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to a person's life. And the more we stuff it,
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and the more we hide it, and the more we
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resist it, and the more we deny it, the more
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we become in bondage. If you continue in my word,
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then are you my disciples. Indeed, and you shall know
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the truth, and the truth shall make me free. And the
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last comment I meant to say is that it's also important,
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really important for all of us to work hard at
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creating an environment, a setting where honesty can thrive, where
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honesty is not punished we're honest, or there's not consequences
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and negative effects when I try to be honest and
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when I confess. And so that is something that we
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all need to try to help one another with and
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that ties into forgiveness. What we heard this morning, Thank
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you all for your attention.
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God bless you. Let's have a song, please,