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Dangers of Success, Comfort, and Prosperity - Leland Zehr

Halsey Mennonite Church

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  1. Well, good morning to all of you. Again. I want

  2. to welcome you here this morning. Everyone visitors, glad that

  3. you're here with us, and appreciate things that have already

  4. been said this morning, the Devotionals discussion in Sunday School.

  5. We're here to be encouraged and to be strengthened as

  6. fellow needy people. And so I trust that we can

  7. that can be achieved and we can continue to do

  8. that here this morning, as I share some thoughts. As

  9. we go through life with various experiences stages, you might

  10. say ages, we face different kinds of testings, tests of

  11. our faith, temptations, spiritually struggles, trials, and often we think

  12. about testing of our faith as the difficulties that we encounter.

  13. Maybe it is suffering, maybe it is loss. Maybe it

  14. does health problems, relationship problems, people face persecution, We pray

  15. for those that are facing persecution and other parts of

  16. the world. Maybe it's financial setbacks that we experience at times,

  17. and these are trying times. These are times that can

  18. put our faith to the test. They can people at

  19. times fall away, people lose faith, become bitter, give up

  20. on God, and so it can be a very vulnerable

  21. and dangerous time or times of our life when we

  22. encounter that. But today I want to talk about a

  23. different kind of spiritual danger. It's not from suffering, it's

  24. not from persecution, it's not from tragedy or loss. It's

  25. a more subtle spiritual danger. And that is I've been

  26. thinking about the dangers of success. When you've experienced success,

  27. when life is going well, when your family is growing

  28. and your crop is good for once and the prices

  29. are up, when maybe you have a good paying job,

  30. your relationships are well, your marriage is thriving, your children

  31. are making right choices, the business that you have started

  32. is seems to be booming, and you're comfortable. We have

  33. all our needs met and many of our once meant.

  34. And I'll ask you this way, have it just for

  35. interest's sake, in your own in your own thinking. Have

  36. you ever woke up in the morning on a beautiful

  37. summer day and you had a wonderful day planned ahead

  38. and life was like this. It was good, it was full,

  39. it was rich, and you stopped and considered the spiritual

  40. dangers that come with that. I don't, I don't know,

  41. I haven't very often in a time like that. I

  42. tried too at times. The title of the message this

  43. morning I've given I don't know if it's the best one,

  44. but I gave it specifically for a reason, dangers of success,

  45. comfort and prosperity to capture just a little bit more

  46. of my thoughts. And I should say right up front

  47. here that this isn't a subject that I necessarily relish

  48. or desire to talk about. So its been a subject

  49. I think for various reasons on my mind the last

  50. while I and some of the reasons I maybe would

  51. hesitate to talk on something like this is because I

  52. like success, and I want to prosper and I enjoy

  53. being comfortable, and so to consider dangers of that isn't

  54. necessarily where I would naturally want to go. But we

  55. know that God, in his word we want to look

  56. at that warns about success and prosperity and the comforts

  57. that we experience in this life. And so we could

  58. start with another question that does God desire his children

  59. to be successful, to be comfortable, and to prosper I

  60. don't know what you think about that. I hope to

  61. answer that question a little bit more as we go

  62. on here. Maybe part of the answer to that question

  63. would be the definition of success and comfort and prosperity.

  64. What we mean by that. I invite you to turn

  65. for some Bible reading to Deuteronomy eight and to give

  66. a little background to this chapter. Here the setting. This

  67. is an account of the children of Israel. They had

  68. been delivered from Egypt, from the bondage of Egypt. They

  69. had wandered around in the wilderness for forty years because

  70. of their unbelief, and now they are getting close to

  71. the promised land, finally after and it's hard for us

  72. to imagine. I think these poor people that have been

  73. camp moving, dying, struggling in the wilderness and wondering like

  74. nomads all these years, and now they are finally on

  75. the verge of entering into this land that God has

  76. promised them for many, many years. A lush land, a

  77. wonderful land, had lots of water, had a valley that

  78. would grow all kinds of crops like we heard about

  79. in the devotional. It had mountains with natural resources in it.

  80. It was a land flowing with milk and honey. But

  81. they hadn't entered in yet. In this passage, they're just

  82. considering entering in, and they're getting ready, and the children

  83. of Israel have now suffered for close to forty years,

  84. and it seems like they are long overdue for some relief,

  85. for a permanent place that they can call home. And

  86. God is wanting to bless his people with a good

  87. land and good things, but it seems like at the

  88. same time he knows, and he does know because he's God,

  89. the tendency of human nature and the temptations that they

  90. will face with these good things that he gives them.

  91. And so God tells Moses to warn them ahead of

  92. time before it even happens, the danger and the temptations

  93. that they are going to face when they enter into

  94. this land that is flowing with milk and honey in abundance.

  95. And so that is the context of chapter eight. Let's

  96. read that chapter at this time, and just I'm going

  97. to tell also read a few verses just a little

  98. later in Deuteronomy. When I get to the end, all

  99. the command which I command thee this day, shall ye

  100. observe to do that ye may live and multiply and

  101. go in and possess the land which the Lord swear

  102. unto your fathers. And thou shalt remember all the wave

  103. which the Lord thy God led thee these forty years

  104. in the wilderness, to humble thee and to prove thee

  105. to know what was in thine heart, whether thou wouldest

  106. keep his commandments or no. And he humbled thee and

  107. suffered thee to hunger, and fed thee manna, which thou knewest.

  108. Not neither did thy fathers know that he might make

  109. thee know that man doth not live by bread alone,

  110. but by every word that proceedeth out of the mouth

  111. of the Lord, doth man live. Thy raiment waxed, not

  112. old upon thee. Neither did thy foot swell these forty years.

  113. Thou shalt also consider in that consider in thine heart

  114. that as a man chasting his son, so the Lord

  115. thy God chasteneth thee. Therefore shalt shalt keep the commandments

  116. of the Lord thy God, to walk in his ways

  117. and to fear him. For the Lord thy God bringeth

  118. thee into a good land, a land of brooks of water,

  119. of fountains and depths that spring out of valleys and hills,

  120. A land of wheat and barley, and vines and fig

  121. trees and pomegranates, a land of oil, olive and honey,

  122. a land wherein thou shalt eat bread without scarceness, thou

  123. shalt not lack anything in it, a land whose stones

  124. are iron, and out of whose hills thou mayest dig brass.

  125. When thou hast eaten and art full, then thou shalt

  126. bless the Lord thy God for the good land which

  127. he hath given THEE. Beware that thou forget not the

  128. Lord thy God, in not keeping his commandments and his

  129. judgments and his statutes, which I command THEE this day.

  130. Lest when thou hast eaten and art full, and hast

  131. built goodly houses and dwelt therein, And when thy herds

  132. and thy flocks multiply, and thy silver and thy gold

  133. is multiplied, and all that thou hast is multiplied, then

  134. thine heart be lifted up. And thou forget the Lord

  135. thy God, which brought THEE forth out of the land

  136. of Egypt, thus a bondage, who led THEE through the

  137. great and terrible wilderness, where were fiery serpents and scorpions,

  138. and drought where there was no water, Who brought THEE

  139. forth out of forth, water out of the rock of flint,

  140. who fed THEE in the wilderness with manna, which thy

  141. fathers knew, not that he might humble thee, that he

  142. might prove thee and to do THEE good. At thy

  143. latter end, and thou say, in thine heart, my power

  144. and the might of mine hand has gotten me this wealth.

  145. Thou shalt remember the Lord thy God, for it is

  146. he that giveth the power to get wealth, that he

  147. may establish his covenant, which he swear unto his fathers.

  148. As it is this day, and it shall be if

  149. thou do at all forget the Lord thy God, and

  150. walk after other gods and serve them and worship them.

  151. I will testify against you this day that ye shall

  152. surely perish, as the nations which the Lord destroyed before

  153. your face. So shall ye perish, because you would not

  154. be obedient unto the voice of the Lord your God.

  155. So hang on to that passage and it will jump

  156. forward to just a few verses in Deuteronomy thirty one.

  157. If you care to, you can follow along. And this

  158. is an interesting passage here. It's it's kind of the

  159. same time frame even though it's at the end of Deuteronomy,

  160. but they're about to enter the promised Land. Moses is

  161. about to die and he's giving his last his few

  162. last words from God, ready to pass on the leadership

  163. to Joshua. And in a way, it's kind of as

  164. you read that passage, to me, it's a little bit

  165. depressing because Moses is about to die. The new leader, Joshua,

  166. is to take over, and God is telling these people

  167. through Moses that I know that when Moses dies that

  168. you all are going to turn away from me. And

  169. here they are getting this message at this time. But

  170. I think God's heart in it was to try to

  171. head off that and to give them a warning. But

  172. the interesting thing about it is one of the interesting

  173. things is here that the remedy or the way God

  174. went about to warn his people about this danger of

  175. turning away from him when they have eaten and are full,

  176. is that he told Moses to write a song to

  177. teach to the children of Israel, so that the words

  178. of warning would be impressed into their minds. And you

  179. know how that is how a song will play in

  180. your mind, much more than just a sermon will play

  181. in your mind. But the tune and the chanting or

  182. however they did that. And so God told Moses write

  183. a song and teach it to them so they have

  184. it well into their minds, and that song is well.

  185. I'll read a little bit in Deuteronomy thirty one nineteen.

  186. But then the song is in chapter thirty two, and

  187. he says in Deuteronomy thirty one nineteen. Now, therefore, write

  188. you this song for you, and teach it. Teach it

  189. the children of Israel. Put it in their mouth, that

  190. this song may be a witness for me against the

  191. children of Israel. For when I shall have brought them

  192. into the land which I swear unto their fathers, that

  193. floweth with milk and honey, and they shall have eaten

  194. and filled themselves in wax and fat, then they will

  195. turn unto other gods and serve them and provoke me

  196. and break my covenant. And it shall come to pass,

  197. when many evils and troubles are befalling them, that this

  198. song shall testify against them as a witness. Where it

  199. shall it shall not be forgotten out of the mouths

  200. of their seed, For I know their imaginations which they

  201. go about, even now before I have brought them into

  202. the land which I swear. Moses therefore wrote this song

  203. the same day and taught it to the children of Israel,

  204. and then you have the song in Deuteronomy thirty two.

  205. You could read it later, but I want to read

  206. just a few verses. Jump in that kind of give

  207. this part that I'm focused on this morning. Verse twelve,

  208. it says, so the Lord alone did lead him, and

  209. there was no strange God with him. He made him

  210. ride on high places of the earth, that he might

  211. eat the increase of fields and the heat. And he

  212. made him to suck honey out of the rock, and

  213. oil out of the flinty rock, butter of can and

  214. milk of sheep, and the fat of lambs, the ram

  215. of the breed of Bashan, and goats, with the fat

  216. of kidneys of wheat. Thou didst strength the pure blood

  217. of the grape. But gesturon, which is Israel, waxed fat

  218. and kicked. Thou arn't waxing fat. Thou aren't grown thick.

  219. They aren't covered with fatness. Then he forsook God, which

  220. made him and lightliest esteemed the rock of his salvation.

  221. If you jump bad to verse eighteen, oh of the

  222. rock that begot thee, thou art unmindful and has forgotten

  223. God hath formed thee. And I'll stop there. It seems

  224. like God finds himself. God's not in a dilemma, but

  225. it just seems like he's He's struggling here with this

  226. reality of humanity that he children and people that he

  227. loves and wants to bless, but at the very same

  228. time that these things will likely cause him them to

  229. turn away from him and bleed them into temptations and dangers.

  230. And this is a problem that has humanity has wrestled

  231. with down through the ages. We could read many Bible

  232. passages from Deuteronomy, through the Prophets and into the Gospels

  233. and on into Revelation that talk about this subject and

  234. this dilemma. And of course today we are not an

  235. exception to this struggle. There's a couple couple things on

  236. this topic. I'll just say that I struggle giving a

  237. little bit, and it's with the reality that I know

  238. that people and maybe some of you now that are

  239. on the other spectrum of success, comfort and prosperity that

  240. seems like a distant dream to you and if you

  241. could only get relief, and I know that there's stages

  242. and times when we're in that, and so you'll just

  243. have to bear with me. I'm not talking about that

  244. this morning. But I know that that is a reality,

  245. and I know that financial poverty and pain and suffering

  246. does not equate to holiness. That's not I don't want

  247. to be misunderstood in any way this morning. Another reason

  248. that I struggle with a little bit is it's a

  249. topic I've struggled with for a long time, and I'm

  250. not completely satisfied with having it worked out in my

  251. own understanding and my own mind, this thing of the

  252. blessings of God, his creation and the richness that comes

  253. with it, and yet the spiritual dangers as well, and

  254. a lot of people have made a lot of attempts

  255. at trying to work this out. And so I just

  256. say that as a maybe as an upfront acknowledgment. But

  257. having said all that, that's not really a disclaimer. It's

  258. just more we need to come back to the fact

  259. that the Bible warns us about success and comfort and prosperity,

  260. and the details need to be worked out, and sometimes

  261. that's that's challenging. As you all know or should know,

  262. or that we live in a time and a place

  263. and history of material prosperity and comfort at a level

  264. that probably very few in the history of mankind have

  265. experienced coupled with the technology and the modern conveniences that

  266. constantly cater to our comfort. And we could talk about

  267. a lot of those things. I won't go into a

  268. lot of them, but from that on an average day,

  269. from the time that we roll out of our plush

  270. beds in our climate controlled room in the morning and

  271. pad over to our express a machine and make our

  272. coffee with its cream or whatever we put in it,

  273. and sit on our plush couches and drink our Bible.

  274. Hopefully we turn the knob on the dials of the

  275. shower so it's not too cold and not too hot,

  276. and our cars are We walk from our climate control

  277. house to our climate controlled one of our climate controlled cars,

  278. and everyone, the passenger and the driver can adjust there.

  279. You know, we want to be comfortable. The seats are cooled,

  280. the seats are heated, the seats can be adjusted. We

  281. live in an age of comfort and and just it's

  282. focused on that. It's marketed for for your and our

  283. custom maximum comfort. In life. The biggest struggle is not

  284. as if we will eat, but what will we eat?

  285. Out of our many options of good gourmet meals. We

  286. had not we meant we have hobbies, we have toys,

  287. we have entertainment, we have our favorite restaurants, we have

  288. our vacation spots and all of those things. The world

  289. knows that America has a good, good life, and I

  290. want to say that. A lot of people bash on that,

  291. and I'm not doing that this morning. In fact, you know,

  292. I'm grateful to live here at this time, with the opportunity,

  293. with the freedom, and the things are clean, things are

  294. relatively safe. Maybe that's just a lack of spirituality. I'm

  295. not sure, but I've been to enough other countries I've

  296. seen how that is done. I don't think that's always

  297. a spiritual edge. And one thing I'll just say I

  298. thought of here, and this is timing. Has nothing to

  299. do with all the harvest workers that are here making

  300. money this summer. I know that some of you are

  301. here to get a paycheck and to work on the harvest.

  302. And I'm not rebuking any of you at all. I

  303. think and providing is good. Glad that you're here, and

  304. I'm glad that farmers have a good crop and the

  305. prices are high. And I love to see small businesses

  306. that struggle and wrestle and get traction and become prosperous.

  307. That's good, It can be good. I like to see

  308. families that are not under financial bondage and burdens and stress.

  309. There's benefits that come with these material blessings. But we

  310. need to come back around to the subject this morning,

  311. that there's also dangers. So I just want to say

  312. that comforts and conveniences even are not wrong, but they

  313. are not a good guide for decision making, especially spiritual

  314. decisions in life. Making decisions based on our comfort and

  315. conveniences is a shore road to hell, just the way

  316. that we're made up. If that is our soul guiding

  317. principle in life. Even from talking about our country or world,

  318. it's broader than our country, even from a non spiritual perspective,

  319. from a secular social standpoint, you know, there's books written

  320. about the dilemma that we are facing as just a

  321. humanity people. There's The Dopamine Nation a book, and The

  322. Comfort Crisis. Haven't read both of them, but those books

  323. are addressing this problem that our country is facing. Outside

  324. of the spiritual facts, we are a nation in pursuit

  325. of comfort and dopamine, and people are killing themselves with addictions,

  326. with gluttony and diseases that spring from all kinds of excess.

  327. So we can circle back to that question, does God

  328. desire his children to be successful, comfortable, and to prosper

  329. I won't answer that yet, but I do believe. I'll

  330. give part. I do believe it is. The Bible teaches

  331. that God's heart is to give his people good things.

  332. That is the heart of God, but that these good

  333. things can lead us away from Him. And we need

  334. to always remember that God's definition of prosperity is not

  335. always the same definition of Wall Street and our bank advisor.

  336. Jesus taught about the talents, the parable of the talents,

  337. and about the man that had won is it two

  338. or three and five? And God is not does not

  339. want lazy stewards. He does not want us to bury

  340. our talents. He does not want us to be Can

  341. I say minimalists. I don't know. Maybe there's a place

  342. for that. I think we need that to some degree,

  343. But in a selfish sort of a way to prune

  344. down my life that is all about me and no

  345. access for anyone else is not necessarily the picture that

  346. God gives us. That can be a whole nother form

  347. of selfishness if we're not careful. We are to be stewards.

  348. We are to multiply our talents that God has given us.

  349. That can involve finances, that can involve money, but I

  350. think Jesus taught primarily it is the talents that build

  351. the Kingdom of God and bless and build up other people.

  352. We are to good godly stewards. Now, I'm going to

  353. just list a few dangers, and I'm going to commit

  354. to quit on time today and I'll just quit if

  355. I get there. But I'm going with that clock, and

  356. this one's ahead of that clock, so you can hold

  357. me accountable. What are some of the dangers that come

  358. with success and comfort and prosperity. Well, one of the

  359. first things I'll just say about that is that is

  360. that it's subtle. It's a subtle process. And that might

  361. seem a little what do you mean. Well, you know,

  362. out of the different testings spiritual testings that we face

  363. in life, like the suffering and the difficulties and the setbacks,

  364. those things grab our attention in life. We are aware

  365. that we are living in misery, suffering, grief or loss,

  366. and it's not nice. We don't enjoy it. Doesn't mean

  367. it's but it's who are We're aware of it, we

  368. know what's going on. It has our attention. We wrestle

  369. with it, we fight it, we try to improve it.

  370. Hardship can can bring a dependency on God can bring

  371. us back to that if we allow it to success

  372. and comfort feel good and it doesn't feel dangerous, and

  373. it can slip on us unawares, and that is what

  374. is one of the dangers of it. You think about Samson,

  375. the Philictines had all kinds of things. They came at

  376. him directly with armies. They could not conquer Samson. But

  377. it was sweet Delilah massaging Sampson's head in her lap.

  378. That was his downfall, and that is a type of

  379. how it can be for us spiritually. He was comfortable,

  380. it felt so good, and he let down his guard.

  381. So that is one thing. Another thing, Hey, if you

  382. just pulling a couple things out of Deuteronomy here and

  383. then maybe get get to a few more practical other things.

  384. But forgetting God. God talks about that himself and different

  385. of the passages and in other passages I haven't read,

  386. but it seemed like a concern of God was that

  387. with all this good that I'm going to give you, you're

  388. gonna forget me. And he says different times too, when

  389. you have these blessings, be thankful and remember that I

  390. gave you these things. Sounds like a simple thing, but

  391. there's something about it. You know, none of us like

  392. actually forget God, like he's erased from our memory and

  393. we just don't remember him in that way. I don't

  394. think that's what it means. But as we get immersed

  395. and the good things and pleasures, and we have eaten

  396. and are full, and we have everything at our disposal,

  397. our focus and our priorities congradually shift, and the day

  398. to day material comforts take our focus and become our priority,

  399. and God gradually shifts to the background. We might say,

  400. are we spiritually become dim? God becomes a little more distant,

  401. a little more removed, a little less needed, you might say,

  402. in everyday life, yes, we want him there, we know

  403. he's there. We want him especially there in case we

  404. need him. But in the day to day things that

  405. the pleasures of life and all that come with it

  406. can can hold our primary attention in life. And if

  407. we're not careful, and if we're not intentional and if

  408. we don't choose to remember God and remember he said

  409. his commandments in the good times, because sometimes it feels like, well,

  410. you just start letting things slip when life is good,

  411. is it really necessary? And things can easily start to

  412. unravel and we start using a different measuring stick for

  413. making our decisions in life. We listen only to the banker,

  414. We listen to only what makes sense dollars, dollars and

  415. cents wise. And as I said before, that is why

  416. it's so dangerous to make our decisions based only on

  417. our success materially and our comfort, prosperity and success and

  418. other things. And I enjoy all these things. These things

  419. are things that I struggle with, and yet I know

  420. they're a spiritual detriment or can be. Prosperity and success

  421. can bring an air of independence. That is one of

  422. the nice things about having money and having enough is

  423. that you're not bound quite so much to maybe your

  424. job or to the day to day demands. I have

  425. a little flexibility, but with success, some other dangers that

  426. can come. Is a confidence that it is my good management,

  427. is my good judgment, it is my good decision making

  428. that has kind of I'm at the lead of the pack.

  429. I'm succeeding. It's it's about It's about me. And Deuteronomy

  430. eight seventeen he says, and now say in that heart,

  431. my power and the might of my hand has gotten

  432. me this. And God says in eighteen, don't forget that

  433. all these things have really come from me. They're not

  434. of your own doing. If it wasn't for me, you'd

  435. still be a slave in Egypt. And in Deuteronomy again

  436. thirty two fifteen, he said, when Jesure walks fat and kicked,

  437. and now was waks and fat, and that's grown thick

  438. and are covered with fatness. They forsook and forgot God,

  439. the rock of their salvation, the very being in God

  440. that had God them to this whole point they forgot.

  441. So forgetting God is a problem that can happen, or

  442. a danger. Another one he talks about in different passages

  443. is the simple fact of our heart's being lifted up.

  444. And we see that in verse I think fourteen, when

  445. your hearts be lifted up and you forget God. And

  446. none of us admire proud people, and none of us

  447. want to be proud people. But we need to be

  448. on guard against that because we can slip into that,

  449. especially when things are going well. We think about the

  450. story of Sodom and Gomorrah. Not going to go into

  451. that very much, but Sodom had a reputation still has

  452. a reputation for it's terrible immorality. We know the story

  453. of Lot in Abraham and how that all played out,

  454. and finally the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah. But what

  455. led to that, You know, we were when you're looking

  456. at that story that is in the final days of Sodom,

  457. and it is just corrupt and seedy, and there's immorality

  458. of bounds. But in Ezekiel sixteen forty nine and fifty

  459. it gives a little view of Sodom. He says, behold,

  460. this was iniquity of the sister Sodom. Pride, fullness of

  461. bread and abundance of idleness was in her and in

  462. her daughters. Neither did she strengthen the hand of the needy.

  463. And they were haughty and committed abominations before me. Therefore

  464. I took them away as I saw good. And so

  465. we see here the things, the things that led to

  466. the immorality of Sodom were the fullness of bread and

  467. the pride and the idleness. And you know today that

  468. is still a recipe for immorality. Often is when when

  469. all my needs are met and I've got idle time,

  470. I'm not quite busy. I'm not helping the poor with

  471. my abundance. There's many many a man and a woman

  472. that have found themselves caught in the trap of immorality

  473. through that, through that recipe with success talking about pride,

  474. and we could break it down into other words. We don't.

  475. We don't use that word proud. It's too harsh. But

  476. with success comes a confidence, often or an arrogant confidence,

  477. especially towards those that appear to not be as successful.

  478. That that can be a danger. It doesn't have to be,

  479. but that that temptation again to think in my heart

  480. that you know, I'm actually a little wiser, my opinions,

  481. a little more weighty than my brothers because of my

  482. material success. There's other successes we could talk about, though,

  483. and that's partly why I included success in here. We

  484. often think of success as how much money we have

  485. or how much material possessions we have, But there's a

  486. lot of other ways to be successful, and good ways

  487. you can be educated and well read. You can have dessernment,

  488. you can have good people's skills, you can be charismatic

  489. and likable, good looking and athletic. There's a lot of

  490. gifts that we can have and be very successful in

  491. that set us up for these same traps. So humility

  492. is a choice a responsibility that we as Christians all

  493. have to choose. And God tells us that He tells

  494. us to humble yourselves. And for me, and I think

  495. it's for all of us, it's kind of a daily

  496. thing that we need to kind of circle back around

  497. to or it just kind of gets away on us,

  498. this thing of humility, my standing before God, my standing

  499. with my fellow men, that I am no better, that

  500. I am nothing without the grace of God. And it

  501. tempers and takes away a lot of relationship problems. If

  502. we can truly keep a heart and a spirit and

  503. a mind about ourselves of humility, it just helps us

  504. a lot in this danger of success. A few practical

  505. things here, I would imagine that many of you have

  506. heard about the three cycle generation. It's very common. It's

  507. a pattern people talk about of a pattern of success

  508. where the first generation is poor, is struggling, works hard,

  509. to get ahead in life after many years of working,

  510. they build something, They got a business, they got more

  511. than they started with. Their trajectory is going up. And

  512. the second generation has been raised in that same teaching

  513. and watched his dad, and he takes it and he

  514. builds off of that opportunity and grows it and prospers

  515. it and whatever it is, it could say, the business

  516. in this case grows and is abundant. And then the

  517. third generation of children grow up in that and it

  518. is a world of ease, it is a world of plenty.

  519. It is there's prosperity, don't have to work as hard.

  520. And the trap in that is that children become spoiled,

  521. they become lazy, they become entitled. And this generational thing,

  522. I found it interesting. There's terms for that. English call

  523. it sometimes is shirt sleeve to shirt sleeve and three

  524. generation meaning you start working, you attain, and you end

  525. up back working a day job again. The Japanese call

  526. it rice patty to rice patty cycle and the Italians

  527. from stable to stars and back to the stable. And

  528. it gives you that picture of that cycle that often happens,

  529. and I don't think it has to happen but it

  530. often is the natural process unless we fight against it.

  531. The cycle, and this cycle happens spiritually, not just materially,

  532. where a generation will fight for their faith and take

  533. a stand and raise their children in there and pass

  534. it on and then hand them their faith. And if

  535. that doesn't catch in the hearts and lives of the children,

  536. they discard it, seen no value in it, and the

  537. cycle starts over. And so one of the temptations, one

  538. of the dangers, I guess the point I'm trying to

  539. make here is that comes with maybe more than we

  540. need as parents, is to spoil our children. And I love,

  541. I'm a sucker for that. I love to get little

  542. things and you take them to your little children and

  543. you watch the joy and the happy and the shining eyes,

  544. and they're so excited this thing. And that's good. I

  545. think some of that, it's not all bad. But we

  546. got to be careful. The reins will get out of

  547. our hands where those children. You can't walk into a

  548. store without a fight for something, and we need to

  549. be careful. That is the signs of an entitlement. We

  550. talk about the word entitlement attitude and what does that mean?

  551. Entitlement are any of you entitled? Am I entitled? Do

  552. we even know what that means? Well, I'd like to

  553. say a little bit about entitled titlement with the customize,

  554. the ability to customize everything from our coffee drink, to

  555. our car, to our house and everything in between, we

  556. have grown accustomed to that. That's normal. I want it

  557. when I want it, how I want it, and exactly

  558. how I want it. And that when we are constantly

  559. catered to in that way, the attitude we just in

  560. our human nature is we become ungrateful. We only want more,

  561. We only we desire special treatment, we want the VIP status.

  562. We become. The more you get, the more fussy and

  563. complaining we become. It's often a sign of I tell

  564. my children, it's just a sign that you've gotten too much.

  565. It isn't that you don't have enough when you're fussing

  566. and complaining for this next thing. And now. As bad

  567. as it is to have it in children, it's it's

  568. much much worse to have it in us as adults

  569. and in youth and all of us. It makes brotherhood

  570. almost impossible and family life miserable. You try to take

  571. your family on some special outing, you're going to go

  572. on vacation and go one a thing of people are

  573. bickering and fighting the whole way. It's like, we need

  574. to go home. We need to work, we need to discipline,

  575. we need to reset. So entitlement attitude is something that

  576. we can slip into. We need to work against that.

  577. There needs to be responsibility, There needs to be nos

  578. there needs to be work. There needs to be a

  579. heart of gratitude for the little things in life. Some

  580. a quote I came on A life of service is

  581. a way to overcome and entitlement attitude. I think that

  582. is so true. Entitlement is so much about what I

  583. want focused on that, and a life of service kind

  584. of shifts that around and works against that. Okay, a

  585. couple other things. We can love the creation more than

  586. the creator, and we heard about that in both devotionals

  587. about creation and the beauty of it. And I think

  588. Josiah said something about it's not the creation that's the point,

  589. it's the creator. And I think that's right, that's what

  590. the Bible teaches. But the creation is there too for

  591. mankind to enjoy and to to be blessed with. But

  592. we must be careful and keep our hearts pointed towards

  593. God and be aware of that. Someone has said, what

  594. we give our attention to is worship. What we what

  595. we focus on, what we what we prioritize, is a

  596. form of a form of worship. Another couple things here. Value.

  597. We could need to be careful not to value things

  598. in money more than people and to slip into that

  599. subconscious Maybe businessmen can struggle with this, the mindset of

  600. calculating a person's worth by what I can get out

  601. of them. But you know that works on both sides

  602. of the equation. There's people that are on the needy

  603. side that calculate and try to get up to the

  604. wealthy to get something from them. And so either perspective,

  605. looking at people for the value, the material value I

  606. can get out of them is a wrong concept and

  607. not a godly attitude. Just this last week I was

  608. at one of my jobs. A couple few of my

  609. guys where there working, and he's an old, old man

  610. from South Africa and he came over to me and

  611. he said he wasn't like really super friendly, it's kind

  612. of stern. Why at probably seventies, And he said, you

  613. know you have good workers, right, I said, yeah. He said,

  614. these guys are good and I said, I know. I

  615. realized that they're good. And he said, I hope you

  616. treat them right. And I said, I do try to

  617. treat them right. And he didn't just quit there. He

  618. kind of me. He said, I've had a crew and

  619. I've had construction, and when you get good guys, you

  620. need to make sure that you treat them well. And

  621. I said, okay, thank you. I appreciate that. And I

  622. went out and I was going to leave, but then

  623. I went back and I told my guys, I said

  624. that man just said, you guys are amazing workers. You're good.

  625. And they appreciated that. But it was as I thought

  626. about this subject, I was reminded that and I try

  627. not to do that, but it can be I can

  628. slip into that at times where people we gauge people

  629. by their value to us. You know, each one of

  630. our fellow people, employees, whatever it might be, have a

  631. whole life, a whole value. Are we treating them in

  632. a way that is not taking advantage of them? Material

  633. wealth can contempt us in that if we're not careful.

  634. Sometimes success of different kinds brings us social power or

  635. an influence that we can abuse if we're not careful

  636. as well, we need to be humble. We need to

  637. listen to the voice of a brother that may have

  638. a different perspective that is actually better than better than mine.

  639. Success and prosperity can give us a false sense of

  640. security and erode our faith. And again, wealth and prosperity

  641. do give us some security in this life. They give

  642. us options. They help pay the rent and buy the food,

  643. and help us be able to go to the doctor

  644. and a lot of things. But there again, when we

  645. have an abundance of wealth, we can just gradually start

  646. to lean on that and to count that as my

  647. security and my answers in life turn to that. Jesus said,

  648. it's hard, and I don't like these words. I've wrestled

  649. with them a lot, but it's just here, he said,

  650. it's hard for rich men to enter the Kingdom of Heaven.

  651. And you ask why why is it hard? Why is

  652. it hard for its Well, he said, because it's hard

  653. for rich people to not put their trust in their wealth.

  654. And so I think it's something that I think all

  655. of us here are rich by the standards of society

  656. and the world, and we need to be intentional about

  657. where our faith is, where our priorities, where our trust is.

  658. And I'll read one another passage and revelation Revelation three.

  659. Jesus here talking to the Church of Laotaicea. And he says,

  660. because they'll sayest I am rich and increased with goods,

  661. and have need of nothing, and knowest not that thou

  662. art wretched and miserable, and poor and blind and naked.

  663. I counsel they to buy of me gold, tried in

  664. the fire, that thou mayst be rich and white raiment,

  665. and thou mayst be clothed, and that the shame of

  666. thy nakedness doth not appear, and anoint thy eyes with

  667. eyesav that thou mayst see as many as I love,

  668. I rebuke and chase and bezealous therefore and repent. And

  669. so we see that the Church of Laotaicea here at

  670. a false sense of security. They thought they were rich,

  671. and they thought they had need of nothing. But Jesus

  672. kind of laid that bearer that he said, actually you

  673. all are blind and naked and miserable. But he invited

  674. them to get their perspective back to God and to

  675. his his priorities. So closing. Does God desire his children

  676. to be successful, comfortable, you could say, and prosper I

  677. think it is the heart of God to see his us,

  678. his people prosper. But I think we do need to

  679. remember that the measuring stick for prosperity needs to first

  680. be guided by the Spirit of God, measured by the

  681. fruit of the Spirit. For our decision making, that we

  682. grow in the spirit, we grow in grace and all

  683. these other things, Jesus said in Matthew six thirty three.

  684. But SEEKI first the Kingdom of God, and all these things,

  685. all these and His righteousness, and all these things will

  686. be added unto you. So it's a little abrupt here,

  687. but I'm going to close that clock still a minute

  688. before let's have a song.