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Following is Nothing to Brag About | Sunday AM Service | 10-12-2025

Bridges Sandpoint Church

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  1. We're going to be in James again in chapter 1.

  2. They're going to be back in starting in verse 19, but we're

  3. going to, I'm going to read in Exodus starting in Exodus 17,

  4. starting in verse 8. This is story of Joshua.

  5. Well, this will make sense when we get towards the end of it,

  6. but I just kind of wanted to give you guys, this is a

  7. something to think about. The Amalekites came and fought

  8. with Israel at Raphaem. So Moses said to Joshua, Choose

  9. for us men and go out and fight the Amalekites.

  10. Tomorrow I will stand on the top of the hill with a staff of God

  11. in my hand. So Joshua did as Moses told him

  12. and fought with the Amalekites while Moses and Aaron and her

  13. went up to the top of the hill. Whenever Moses held up his

  14. hands, Israel prevailed, and whenever he lowered his hands,

  15. Amalekites prevailed. But Moses hands grew weary, so

  16. they took a stone and put it under his arm, and he sat on it,

  17. while Aaron and her held up his hands, one-on-one side and the

  18. other on the other. So his hands were steady until

  19. the going down of the sun, and Joshua overwhelmed the

  20. Amalekites and his people with the sword, or Amalek and his

  21. people with the sword. Then the Lord said to Moses,

  22. write this in the memorial in a book and recite it in the ears

  23. of Joshua, that I will utterly blot out the memory of Amalek

  24. from under heaven. So Lord, I just lift up this

  25. time. I lift up everybody here.

  26. Lord, I just thank you that we live in a time and a place that

  27. we get to come together, that we get to spend time in fellowship

  28. with with your body and Lord that you would be here with us,

  29. Lord, that you'd be speaking to us, that you would also be using

  30. US in each other's lives. And I pray all this in Jesus

  31. name, Amen. So we are going to be like I

  32. said, we're going to be in in Joshua and today we're going to

  33. be starting in verse 19. Sorry, what James did I say

  34. James? Sorry James.

  35. Yes, sorry, we're going to be in James chapter 1 starting in

    James 1 chapter mention

  36. verse 19. Know this my beloved brothers,

  37. let every person be quick to hear and slow to speak, slow to

  38. anger, for the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of

  39. God. Therefore put away filthiness

  40. and rampant wickedness, and receive with meekness the

  41. implanted Word, which is able to save your souls.

  42. But be doers of the Word and not hearers only deceiving

  43. yourselves. For if anyone is a hearer of the

  44. Word and not a doer, he is like a man who looks intently at his

  45. natural face in a mirror, for he looks at himself and goes away,

  46. and at once forgets what he was like.

  47. But the one who looks into the perfect law, the law of liberty,

  48. and perseveres, being no hearer who forgets, but a doer who

  49. acts, he will be blessed in his doing.

  50. If anyone thinks he is religious and does not bridle his tongue

  51. but deceives his heart, this person's religion is worthless.

  52. Religion that is pure and undefiled before God the Father.

  53. Is this to visit orphans and widows in their afflictions and

  54. to keep oneself unstained from the world.

  55. And we are not going to get anywhere near all of that.

  56. But I wanted to read to the end of it because it's kind of good

  57. to remember where we're at. So verse 19, know this, my

  58. beloved brothers, let every person be quick to hear, slow to

  59. speak and slow to anger. Proverbs, Proverbs says when

  60. words are many, transgression is not lacking, but whoever

  61. restrains his lips is prudent. And that's think about when

  62. you're, when you're busy and life's busy and you start

  63. talking in groups, you can get yourself down a road you didn't

  64. want to get just because you're, you're distracted by the amount

  65. of words you're using. Arguments turn into that.

  66. But to remember that our own words are not wisdom, right?

  67. Jesus may give us words to speak and but we must never claim to

  68. speak for him. Now there are times that Jesus

  69. will give you words, but if you're going to say this, Jesus

  70. told me this, you'd better be sure it came from him, right?

  71. And the only way that's going to happen is first of all, that our

  72. mouth is closed and our ears are open when we are when we are in

  73. a conversation with somebody, Are we, are we listening?

  74. There's some health self help book out there that says

  75. listening. Hearing is like listening with

  76. the back of your neck, which is just really listening, right?

  77. Are you listening to hear them or are you listening to argue

  78. with them? And when you want to respond to

  79. somebody, the Allen Redpath, and I imagine he didn't come up with

  80. it, but it's the first place I heard it.

  81. He has an acronym called think, which is when you're going to

  82. respond to somebody, think about it and and see if it's true, if

  83. it's helpful, if it's inspiring. And the last two, is it

  84. necessary? Do they need, do they need the

  85. information or do they already know the information?

  86. I and the last one is kind, but are you?

  87. I'll use my oldest daughter and she, if she's listening, she'll

  88. roll her eyes at me. There came a point in our

  89. relationship when she was living at my house that she didn't get

  90. my advice right. She could ask for it, but there

  91. was nothing she was going to ask me that she didn't know the

  92. answer to, right? She knew what her dad thought

  93. there was there was there was no Gray.

  94. I mean, I had she knew exactly when she was not doing what dad

  95. wanted her to do. I didn't have to tell her that,

  96. right? We would.

  97. It was when she would come to me with a a question and I would

  98. ask her, do you really want the answer?

  99. No, you know, I mean, because she already knew the answer and

  100. that was that there comes a point in a conversation that

  101. they need to answer that question and and beating them

  102. over the head isn't going to do that.

  103. But listening And now that doesn't mean I'm not, I'm not as

  104. we go through this. And that doesn't mean there

  105. isn't times that we do need to speak up.

  106. The, the times that I want to, as I'm kind of going to premise

  107. my whole study in this thought process. 90% of the time we want

  108. to respond because I don't like what you said and you're

  109. offending me and I'm, I want to win this argument.

  110. Now there are times that you need to stand up and speak up

  111. for someone else. That's a different conversation,

  112. right? That's if you're if you're

  113. defending others, then then that's a conversation.

  114. You may you, you need to have, you know you there's so it's

  115. it's about why are you going to try and have that conversation?

  116. But if we will, if we will always understand that I don't

  117. have wisdom and Jesus does and he can tell me what to say and

  118. when to say it. It keeps our quick responses to

  119. a quiet whisper, right? It keeps me quiet when I

  120. actually, you guys are are you don't get the responsibility

  121. that I have up here, but you have that in your your families

  122. and in your workplace. Guys, when when you come to me

  123. and if someone comes to me for counsel, I do not ever want to

  124. give them what Nick thinks they should do.

  125. I want to give them what Jesus says they should do right.

  126. And that takes being in the word and sharing what it says, not

  127. what Nick thinks. And when I get up here on Sunday

  128. morning, I want to share with you what the Lord has shown me

  129. to show you, right? Not what I not, not fancy words.

  130. It's I, when I, when I reference verses, I, I don't reference

  131. verses because hey, that fits that spot, right?

  132. It's, it's their, their verses the Lord has given me.

  133. But it's also that I have, I've read the passages that they're

  134. in and they fit where they're, where I'm using them, if that

  135. makes sense. So they're in context.

  136. But I don't want to just, I don't want to be a great speaker

  137. and, and say all the right things.

  138. I that doesn't believe it or not, that doesn't change

  139. people's lives. What changed people's lives is

  140. Jesus and his word. And we're going to get into

  141. that. But it's important for us to, to

  142. restrain our words. Proverbs 1727 says whoever

  143. restrains his words has knowledge, and he who has a cool

  144. spirit is a man of understanding.

  145. Even a fool who keeps silent is considered wise.

  146. When he closes his lips, he is deemed intelligent.

  147. Abraham Lincoln, or yeah, it was either Abe Lincoln or Mark

  148. Twain. I don't.

  149. And where you look, they'll say who said it.

  150. It's better to remain silent and thought a fool than to speak out

  151. and remove all doubt, right? And and if you think about that,

  152. there is so much truth in that. If we can remember that Jesus is

  153. smarter than everyone, then that changes the way we go about

  154. listening. We can have quietness in our

  155. appearance that will show light in our lives, right?

  156. I don't have to get upset. I don't have to get I, I can be.

  157. I can be angry and not sinning, right?

  158. I can be upset that there are men swimming in girls events in

  159. college. I could be upset not with the

  160. guy. I mean, is he is he wrong and is

  161. there but there's a what he's standing for, right?

  162. I need to, I need to stand against that the, the guy needs

  163. Jesus or in anyone, any situation of that nature.

  164. But who I'm standing up for are the girls that have to compete

  165. against it, right? And that's, that's wrong.

  166. So I'm going to stand up against that men and men and men or

  167. women in women's or men's bathrooms, depending is, is one

  168. of those things that we stand up for, but we don't stand against

  169. the person that's doing that. They're lost and dying.

  170. We'll work on that. The, the, the anger that we're

  171. going to show is at the, the, the wickedness that's in, in

  172. that that's going to hurt people.

  173. And so I never want to stand up here and I cause 'cause I was

  174. going back through this and it sounds like I'm as we, as we

  175. listen that we're also not that, Oh, he's, I'm, I'm telling you

  176. to be docile. And that is not that is not The

  177. thing is to be our our goal is to be useful.

  178. And I will tell you, we'll get into it a little more, but I'll

  179. tell you for a fact that Facebook is not where to be

  180. useful, right? It's just not I I've years ago,

  181. I had A at a lady that did 4H with us.

  182. Sweet lady. She was a lesbian, lived at her,

  183. lived with her, with her, with her partner and grew up Jewish.

  184. She was entertaining to talk to, but we got to have

  185. conversations. And in those conversations, she

  186. 100% knew that according to Jesus and according to the

  187. Bible, she was in sin. And it was, she was, she was not

  188. right with God. And it was a conversation.

  189. And it didn't mean at any point that she didn't think that that

  190. our family loved her as a as a human and wanted the best for

  191. her, right, but knew that she was on the wrong side of God,

  192. right? We had that conversation, but it

  193. was a one-on-one conversation and it was serious.

  194. And there were hard things said. If I'd had that same

  195. conversation on Facebook, right? Can't be done.

  196. And and so just that that's that the goal is for their heart.

  197. Now, I'd love to say that that she gave her life to Jesus and

  198. everything's wonderful that that's not the case, but it was

  199. it. That's the heart we're supposed

  200. to have is to go after that one, right?

  201. And to have that conversation, not being angry with the lost

  202. and still, still being able to listen to all they think about,

  203. right. Because that conversation I had

  204. with her was days longer for H. So there's lots of time.

  205. I used to call it forced relaxation.

  206. When you do, when you do rabbit arm stuff or or rabbit shows,

  207. there's a there's a point where you're, you're, you're there

  208. with your kids, but you're there for hours and hours.

  209. So there was forced relaxation. So we got to have conversations

  210. and I got to listen. I mean, from from her Jewish

  211. beginning all the way through to how she got where she was.

  212. And I got to listen to all of it.

  213. And I didn't tell her she was wrong every time I turned

  214. around. Now, there was lots of things

  215. she said in that conversation that I didn't agree with, but I

  216. didn't argue every point, right? I listened to her and I let her

  217. her feel I mean it. And it wasn't that I was

  218. listening to her so I could prove her wrong.

  219. I was listening to her so I could get to know her and then

  220. then I could share with her my life.

  221. And, and and you won't hear lots of conversations about the time

  222. Nick was sharing with the girl, But this was in a big public,

  223. public place. So I I was, I was safe to have

  224. that kind of lengthy conversation.

  225. I'm pretty much a can ask Faye. I God put protections around me

  226. for all of that that Faye and me have had before we got married,

  227. we talked. How many times did we have

  228. conversations? Two or three times.

  229. I don't remember any of them. And that isn't because Faye is

  230. any was any less wonderful then than she is now.

  231. I just literally and and I love all the ladies here and don't

  232. take this the wrong way. And it's a little different now

  233. that I'm the the pastor, but it's a shield, right?

  234. It's that I have been protected from that and it's great and I

  235. love it because it would have been something as a non believer

  236. that I struggled with talking because I always wanted to talk

  237. to girls, right? That's the whole thing.

  238. And so there, there's a protection there so you won't

  239. hear a lot anyway, that was off topic, but it was that I, there

  240. was a time where I got to just sit and listen to her give me

  241. your whole story. And then she listened to my

  242. story. And because of that, at no point

  243. is she not. I mean, I'd love to like I said,

  244. I'd love to say that in in the telling her my side of it that

  245. she turned. She didn't turn, but she

  246. understands that she's not good with the Lord and she may turn

  247. one day right and she knows, she knows where she stands.

  248. James goes on in verse 20 and says for the wrath of man does

  249. not produce the righteousness of God.

  250. And what does produce the righteousness of God and it's

  251. only Jesus and his work on the cross and something that that

  252. when we're having these conversations that we need to

  253. remember 2nd Corinthians 521 says for for our sake, he made

  254. him to be sin who knew no sin so that in him we might become the

  255. righteousness of God. So my arguing will never draw

  256. somebody to the Lord who draws them to the Lord The Lord does

  257. and and who does that work in their life?

  258. Who, who will change that heart? God can change them into the

  259. righteousness of God. And we should always be when

  260. we're in a conversation with, with the world, even with, even

  261. with other believers, at any point in a conversation, we

  262. should be asking the Lord to give me, give me his eyes to

  263. give me his ears, to give me his heart to give me his mouth,

  264. right? I want to, I want to hear what

  265. he hears. I want to see what he sees.

  266. I want to, I want to speak what he wants me to speak.

  267. And I want to feel for these people the way he wants me to

  268. feel. And guys, I'm not Jesus.

  269. So I don't have his eyes. I don't know what he knows.

  270. I don't have his heart. I don't feel what he feels.

  271. I can't I, I don't I mean they and my kids will tell you that I

  272. I've said for years, my empathy bone is broken.

  273. I don't have one for years they used to say that I know I have

  274. one feeling and I leave it under the bed.

  275. All right, I stored under there. I let it out through the

  276. divorce. It behaved badly.

  277. I put it back underneath the bed and my my youngest daughter,

  278. because she knows the story used to go in the bedroom and jump up

  279. and down on the bed because she's going to hurt my feeling.

  280. That's but when we engage with this world, we so in this room,

  281. do you expect the world to act like us right.

  282. And that that's really a lot of times where where our anger is

  283. stirred up is they're not acting like us.

  284. And first Peter 29. I'm in the King James just

  285. because I like the way he says it says, but ye are a chosen

  286. generation of royal priesthood, a holy nation, a peculiar people

  287. that you should show forth the praises of him who has called

  288. you out of darkness into marvelous light.

  289. You're supposed to be weird. I mean, you don't get much

  290. weirder than peculiar. Have you ever met somebody

  291. that's peculiar? I mean, they're that's a weird

  292. word, right? And, and what this made me think

  293. of is so in Uganda, and I know you guys love Uganda, you get to

  294. hear about it all the time. As an American in Uganda, it is

  295. really easy to get distracted by how weird they are, right?

  296. They they drive weird. They, they do buildings weird,

  297. they farm weird and they tell time weird when I'm in their

  298. country. Aren't they weird?

  299. Or am I weird? Well, I'm weird because I'm in

  300. their country. So that that when I say, when I

  301. say service starts at 10:00, I think we start at 10:00 and

  302. we're not actually going to start till 11:00.

  303. And they all know that that I think we start at 10:00 makes me

  304. weird. Now everybody goes, yeah, but

  305. that's when we start. And that's an American, And we

  306. keep time. In Uganda, up until 50 years

  307. ago, they didn't have watches, so they told time by the Sun.

  308. So we've had some form of actual minute to minute time keeping

  309. for thousands of years in the West.

  310. Uganda's had it for about 50 and we expect them to keep minute to

  311. minute time. You can see how they would think

  312. we were weird. The way they drive is weird.

  313. But The thing is, is that I can get angry.

  314. I can get angry with the way they do lines.

  315. I mean, stand out. You can ask Faye standing in

  316. line in Uganda if, if we need to go out that door right there,

  317. the line is going to be a wall of people headed for that hole.

  318. Not, not a line of people, head of the a wall of people.

  319. And then you're going to get to the, the narrow spot and

  320. everybody's going to try to get in it.

  321. That's how they drive. That's how they they go through

  322. lines. It's it's and you can get

  323. frustrated or you can accept that you're in their country and

  324. this is how you do lines in their country.

  325. OK, so if we're in, if we're in the world and Jesus, Jesus

  326. hasn't hasn't come back yet and and taken over.

  327. So the world, we're supposed to be in it, but not of it.

  328. So we should be weird, but we don't need to be angry with the

  329. weird. We need to be praying for the

  330. weird right our job and might like in Uganda, my job is to

  331. simply reflect Christ into it, into the darkness of their world

  332. and the darkness of their world is not that they don't keep time

  333. and it's not that they don't drive right.

  334. And it's not that they they they need to, they need to farm

  335. differently. It's that they don't know Jesus

  336. and as believers, that's what's wrong with the world.

  337. I worked at Watts construction for years and when I my pastor

  338. said something at one point that said people should be

  339. embarrassed to sin around you because when you come in the

  340. room and he, he had a lot more to it.

  341. I, I just like locked on to OK, so I should make it.

  342. I should make it hard for people to sit around me.

  343. So in the next, So for the next couple of years, I made fun of

  344. them when they cussed. I, I like go for cover when they

  345. said GD said, do you really mean that?

  346. Because there's lightning and Thunder, you know, and and so I

  347. made it a hassle for them to cuss when they told bad jokes.

  348. I made it AI made it a thing all the time, right?

  349. So then in my presence, my crew was clean, right?

  350. They didn't cuss around me. They didn't tell dirty jokes

  351. around me. And one day after I was feeling

  352. pretty proud of myself. Look at that.

  353. The Lord said good job you cleaned up a bunch of men that

  354. are all going to hell may not be our goal, right?

  355. I don't want the world to make me comfortable.

  356. I want the world to come to Jesus and should should someone

  357. should the world be uncomfortable sitting around

  358. you? Yes, but not because you you,

  359. you actively went out and attempted things to do that, but

  360. because of the light you bring into the room, because you are a

  361. Christian and you have the the Lord living inside you. 21

  362. though starts off and says therefore, and whenever we see a

  363. therefore, we say what is it there for?

  364. And it's back to verse 20. It says for the wrath of man

  365. does not produce the righteousness of God.

  366. Therefore lay aside all filthiness, overflow of

  367. wickedness and receive with meekness the implanted word

  368. which is able to save your souls.

  369. Meekness just is power under control.

  370. It's not weakness. Picture.

  371. I got lots of lots of pictures of meekness that run around my

  372. head. You could go with how's this

  373. worldly, worldly 1 the Clydesdale, the Clydesdales, the

  374. Budweiser Clydesdales, right? These guys, these things are

  375. powerful and scary powerful if you had one wildly tromping

  376. around. But you hook them, you hook six

  377. of them to a wagon and they can do some amazing things, but

  378. they're not they're they're under control.

  379. They're power under control. Do we now?

  380. It says that we're supposed to. Sorry, I missed the line.

  381. So and do we use God's wisdom with meekness?

  382. Do we use the wisdom of his word with meekness?

  383. And do we use it as it was designed to be used?

  384. And that is to save those who hear it right, because received

  385. with meekness the implanted word which is able to save souls.

  386. So is that our goal? Hebrews 412 says.

  387. For the word of God is living and active, sharper than any 2

  388. edged sword, piercing to the vision of soul and of spirit, of

  389. joints and marrow, and discerning the thoughts and

  390. intentions of the heart. So think of a sword being

  391. recklessly swung about that is not under control.

  392. And then and then think of a samurai using a sword that would

  393. be under control. That would the samurai having

  394. the sword. So having the sword and being

  395. able to use it to, to split hairs, for instance, or, or

  396. something amazing that they can do is using it with meekness,

  397. right? So now think about using God's

  398. word and, and now like I've talked about Facebook being on a

  399. being in a Facebook battle and having zingers and 1 liners and

  400. gotchas. And now think of Charlie Kirk or

  401. Ray Comfort using the word, right?

  402. Which one of those is useful? Which one of those is actually

  403. using it the way it's supposed to be used?

  404. And me and Matt were talking before service and we enjoy some

  405. conversations. But when you're when you're

  406. talking with people, right, are you looking for the one liner

  407. that just shuts them up? Or are you looking for the

  408. conversation that will lead them to the Lord, right, not not

  409. prove you're right. They're going to hell.

  410. That doesn't right? You're already, you're already

  411. you're already going to heaven. You're already saved.

  412. So are you using his words to guide them or are you using them

  413. to beat them with? And that's that's that meekness

  414. of his word. And we need to remember how we

  415. are built. The words that come out of us

  416. matter. This is something that you can

  417. get into. So I think it's there's some in

  418. speaker think it's Tony Robbins, but that he'll go into muscle

  419. memory. And did you know that that our

  420. words that we use become habits? And Jesus, shockingly, Jesus

  421. knew that they they proved it was science.

  422. But Jesus was like, by the way, I already said that Matthew 1511

  423. says it is not what goes into the mouth that defiles a person,

  424. but what comes out of the mouth that defiles a person.

  425. And we need to think all the words come out of our mouth.

  426. We need to know what we're saying.

  427. That's I think everybody remembers Sticks and stones may

  428. break my bones, but words will never hurt me.

  429. Anybody ever said that as a kid or get got told to say that?

  430. What do we know about that saying today?

  431. It's probably wrong, right? It's completely wrong.

  432. They those words not only hurt the person that you're saying

  433. them to, but they hurt you because you said them.

  434. Matthew 15, 18 to 19 says but what comes out of the mouth

  435. proceeds from the heart and this defiles a person.

  436. For out of the heart comes evil thoughts, murders, adultery,

  437. sexual immorality, theft, false witness and slander and speaking

  438. hateful things out loud, zingers and gotchas and one line

  439. comebacks and pop offs. It's bad practice and, and the

  440. the easiest way I can. Have you ever blown up at work

  441. or at home and and like started yelling at somebody The next

  442. time when that same event happened, was it easier or

  443. harder to start yelling again? Right.

  444. It's, it's a practice behavior When we allow, when we allow sin

  445. to erupt out of us like that, it's easier the next time,

  446. right? It becomes, it becomes habit.

  447. And so how do we, how do we, how do we go through that?

  448. Like I said, we are, we, we are quick to hear and slow to speak.

  449. You know, there are times in my life that the best thing to be

  450. said is nothing. And I'm a guy that can fill a

  451. room with air, right? I can talk since I was since I

  452. was little and God has shown me over the years, very often the

  453. best thing to do is nothing to be quiet and and to be still.

  454. And when we look at Colossians 3, he gets into this a little

  455. bit. Paul gets into this on, on how

  456. do we defeat that? How does how is that a thing?

  457. And you'll find that like everything, it's the only way it

  458. can be defeated is Jesus right? Colossians 3 starting in verse

  459. 8. But now you, you must put them

  460. all away anger, wrath, malice, slander and obscene talking from

  461. your mouth. Do not lie to one another,

  462. seeing that you have put off the old self with its practices and

  463. have put on the new self with which is being renewed in

  464. knowledge after the image of its creator.

  465. So what is that old self, new self?

  466. Galatians 220 I've been crucified with Christ is no

  467. longer I who live with Christ who lives in me in this life.

  468. I now live in the flesh. I live by faith.

  469. That is a that that last bit is a statement that I will I will

  470. talk under my breath in my head this life that I now live in the

  471. flesh. I live by faith in the Son of

  472. God who loved me and gave himself for me.

  473. The only way that anything I ever teach you up here works is

  474. by faith in the Son of God who loved you, loved you and gave

  475. himself for you. That's it.

  476. That is the there is this is not a self help game right?

  477. We didn't, we didn't come up with the the new and, and I

  478. because of work and just boredom in audiobooks.

  479. I listen to a lot of self help stuff just because it's some of

  480. them, some of them have it's kind of fun to see the when

  481. you're when you're listening to them, it's fun to see or

  482. basically they just take Christian ideology and and shift

  483. it over to the self help book and they don't actually see it.

  484. They think they've come up with something kind of like the that

  485. it's but it's how do you the new self, the only new self is the

  486. one in Christ there isn't you. If I walk away from Jesus today,

  487. I am worse than the day I gave my life to the Lord, not better

  488. outside of Christ or outside or before Christ.

  489. We were no different than the world, right?

  490. So when you look at the world and you're disgusted by it, no,

  491. you are just exactly that evil outside of Christ.

  492. And and when we when we recognize that, when we

  493. recognize that that what happened when I gave my life to

  494. Christ is he came in and he gave me life.

  495. He woke up my spirit and he turned, he gave it life and now

  496. I am in him. And with that, I see the

  497. darkness of the world. What we find ourselves very

  498. often is we look at the lost and dying and tell them to find

  499. themselves and quit dying. And does that work?

  500. I mean, think of being lost in the woods and you, you get on

  501. the radio and you, you, you find somebody, you know, they, they

  502. answer you. And their answer is, well, quit

  503. being lost. That's not going to help, right?

  504. Or you get a hold of them and you're, you're, you're, you're

  505. in hypothermic state and you're, well, quit dying.

  506. I mean, just stop stupid. Why were you in the woods?

  507. How did you get lost? None of that would be helpful,

  508. right? So that is why it's important

  509. for us as believers to recognize what we're here for in in all

  510. the conversations. Romans 12/16 to 21 and Romans 12

  511. is if you guys don't. It's a great chapter where Paul

  512. just sums what sums up what it is to be a Christian and but

  513. starting in verse 16, it says live in harmony with one

  514. another. Do not be haughty, but associate

  515. with the lowly. Never be wise in your own sight.

  516. Repay no one evil for evil, but give thought to do what is

  517. honorable in the sight of all, if possible, so far as it

  518. depends on you, live peaceably with all.

  519. Beloved, never avenge yourself, but leave.

  520. Leave it to the wrath of the God, for it is written,

  521. vengeance is mine. I will repay, says the Lord.

  522. To the contrary. If your enemy is hungry, feed

  523. him. If he is thirsty, give him

  524. something to drink, for by doing so you will keep burning coals

  525. on his head. Do not overcome evil or be

  526. overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.

  527. If if I have darkness and I add darkness, did I add anything

  528. good in that? That's that you can't overcome

  529. darkness with more darkness. Now, when it says if possible,

  530. so far as it depends on you live peaceably with all men or with

  531. all that is not saying to roll over and let everybody run over

  532. us. That's saying you as a as a

  533. person, you're to live peaceably with all people.

  534. You're supposed to turn the other cheek.

  535. But that doesn't mean like we'll we'll we'll be extreme.

  536. That doesn't mean if a gunman walks in here and start shooting

  537. that we aren't to shoot that guy because he is he is attacking

  538. people that aren't prepared right.

  539. You're defending others and then that's that when it's not

  540. possible is when you are you, you are to stand for other

  541. people, right? Last week I picked on Bob about

  542. if if there was a middle school bully up here picking on a

  543. three-year old and Bob walked in, that'd be the end of the

  544. picking, right? He'd take care of that.

  545. And that's our job, right? Bob's job at that point is not

  546. to be peaceable with all middle school bullies, to turn him over

  547. his knee. And and that's our job, right?

  548. We have to, if there's discernment there, there's that,

  549. that continuous time in prayer of having that discernment.

  550. There is time people need to be need to be taken to the tool

  551. shed, but not to prove you right, not to make you feel

  552. better, but because you're protecting others, those weaker

  553. than you and being humble and remembering to remember you have

  554. been saved. And I talked about that whether

  555. you, you, we gave our lives to the Lord when we were 5 or 50.

  556. We are the same, same Sinner, right?

  557. To be in Christ is to be in the light.

  558. His light, his world, his spirit is what saves us, right?

  559. Nothing, nothing I bring last week I said the only thing that

  560. I bring to salvation is the sin that required it, right?

  561. I didn't show up with light and say, hey, let me add, you know

  562. this room about the more believers we get in here, the

  563. more light we have. No, because none of us have

  564. light. We just reflect the light that's

  565. given to us. And John 1 and I'm sure

  566. everybody's heard this John 1 verses one through 5 says in the

  567. beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word

  568. was God. He was in the beginning with

  569. God. All things were made through Him

  570. and without Him was nothing was not anything made that was made

  571. in Him was life, and the life was the light of men.

  572. The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has

  573. not overcome it. And that that in Him was life,

  574. and the life was the light of men.

  575. That's like and the sun was the light of the earth.

  576. So the light of men is Jesus and what he does.

  577. That's where we get our the reason that you can look at the

  578. world and see that it's evil is because of the light that's in

  579. you. The light that's in me is is how

  580. I can I can look and I can see. So we are in Christ and he saved

  581. us from death and blindness. We are in his light.

  582. Now the picture of that that I, I saw this years ago when I was

  583. going through Exodus and looking at the looking at all the

  584. plagues. So I'm going to read this, but I

  585. want you guys to picture what this looks like.

  586. Then the Lord said to Moses, stretch out your hand.

  587. Sorry. Exodus 10/21/20 2:23 Stretch out

  588. your hand towards heaven, and there may be that there may be

  589. darkness over the land of Egypt, a darkness to be felt.

  590. So Moses stretched out his hand towards heaven, and there was

  591. pitched darkness in all the land of Egypt.

  592. Three days. They did not see one another,

  593. nor did anyone rise from his place for three days.

  594. But the people of Israel had light where they lived.

  595. OK, so Israel lived in Goshen and Egypt was dark.

  596. Now Goshen I can I can picture and it doesn't say it that way,

  597. but I'm picturing there's light in Goshen, but that light that's

  598. in Goshen, the Egyptians can see it, but they are not getting any

  599. light from it. If that makes they so they can

  600. see there's this this force or something that's going on in the

  601. IT Goshen. But I, I don't, I can't I, I

  602. hold out, you know, there's a light over there and I hold up,

  603. but I don't got any. I can't see anything.

  604. It's not I, I don't understand it.

  605. And what does I think in the King James it says the darkness

  606. couldn't comprehend it in, in John, right.

  607. It's they didn't understand the light.

  608. Do you ever talk to anybody that doesn't understand the light?

  609. You know that that doesn't understand who Jesus is?

  610. The darkness of this world blinds everybody that's not in

  611. Christ, right? It is not a matter of having

  612. right doctrine. And when I say that it doesn't

  613. matter. I've got guys I work with that

  614. are staunch Republicans. They are they are sinners and

  615. going to hell. And we've had lots of

  616. conversations. So I can say that up here, even

  617. if they're listening, but they don't they they wouldn't tell

  618. you they were a Christian. I mean, they meet, we may, we

  619. may agree on on a platform, but that doesn't because I agree on

  620. a platform does not mean that I'm a believer, right?

  621. That doesn't get me in the door. What gets me in the door is what

  622. he did on the cross period. That's something and that's

  623. that's what we're leading people to always right is it's about

  624. Jesus. He came to save us from our sin

  625. period. His implanted word shines light

  626. into our lives that only he can do.

  627. He's he is what's required if if you believe in him, you will be

  628. able to see in the dark. And if you can see in the dark,

  629. you can save others, right? It's Jesus is who changes our

  630. life, not my perfect debate skills.

  631. You know when you look at a Ray Comfort or Charlie Kirk or a

  632. dozen other ones, they would tell you the same thing.

  633. How many a Ray comforter, Charlie Kirk pretty much win

  634. every one of their debates because of the side they're on

  635. and does everybody they debate instantly give their lives to

  636. the Lord? My my pastor back home month ago

  637. with Sharon. I don't remember what his I

  638. think we were in an apologetics thing, but it was in his time of

  639. being a pastor. It's been 30 years, 40 years,

  640. and he said, I can count on one hand how many people then I

  641. answered all of their questions and they gave their life to the

  642. Lord right. And then and and he's he's lots

  643. of people get saved in our church, but that are in an art

  644. that that he's having that you know, you, you have problems of

  645. coming to Jesus. And I'm going to answer those

  646. questions and we get to the end of me answering all your

  647. questions. And then I say, so you ready to

  648. give your life to the Lord? Well, the only two that have are

  649. and they're both ladies because ladies actually want they're

  650. they're they're honest about their questions.

  651. They're asking quite guys usually are trying to come up

  652. with an argument. But ladies, when they get to

  653. that point where they're asking the questions, very often they

  654. have a softer heart and they they're really asking questions.

  655. Guys are usually just coming up with ways they don't have to

  656. listen. I was one of those guys for a

  657. lot of years. But back to the Egypt thing.

  658. Imagine an Israelite going over to an Egyptian and saying, would

  659. you just see the light? They would never see the light.

  660. Now, would you just believe in the God that made the light?

  661. Because there's a whole, there's a whole set of of Egyptians in

  662. the end that get to leave with the Israelites, the mixed

  663. multitude. And that's because they believed

  664. in the God they were serving. So that's the the belief in the

  665. God. The belief in God is what saves

  666. people, right? Matthew 21 says she will bring

  667. forth a son, and you shall call his name Jesus, for he will save

  668. his people from their sins. We are in the light because

  669. Christ Jesus God with us has saved us into His light.

  670. We see into the darkness because He is given our spirit life.

  671. Now we are. We are to be light to the

  672. darkness, not by telling the darkness it's dark, but by

  673. sharing where the light comes from.

  674. And that is why we are to be quick to hear, listen to them,

  675. slow to speak, and slow to get angry with them.

  676. Right. Because my anger 99.9% of the

  677. time comes from my selfish desire to be right, not from my

  678. desire for them to see the righteousness of God.

  679. Doesn't mean that, like I said, there are times to be angry.

  680. But 99% of the time the reason I'm angry, the reason I get

  681. welled up, is because they're winning the argument and I know

  682. they're wrong and I want to prove them wrong.

  683. We don't want to be that person. We want to let God do that work.

  684. So. So we put away all the

  685. filthiness and rampant wickedness, which is our

  686. selfishness and receive the word, the implanted word from

  687. him and that is able to save souls.

  688. And that's what we want to do, right?

  689. That's my, my desire for, for everybody here that, that we, we

  690. go out into our world and we are lights that are just reflecting

  691. the sun and people come to us and come tell me about, tell me

  692. about this light that's in you and you can share with them, but

  693. you got to be willing to listen. So Lord, I just, I lift up

  694. everybody here and I lift up this time and thank you.

  695. Thank you for coming. Thank you for being, being our

  696. light. Lord, thank you for filling us

  697. with your light. Thank you that we are able to

  698. surrender to you and that we can trust that you have all the

  699. answers and that you can speak through US that if we would just

  700. surrender our our mouth to you our our lives to you completely.

  701. And I pray all this in Jesus name, Amen.