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Mother's Day 2025: A roundtable discussion.
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Music.
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Table discussion with four incredible women, moms, and grandmoms who shared
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honest, heartfelt insights about the journey of motherhood.
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From the everyday challenges to the unexpected joys, this conversation is full
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of wisdom, laughter, and encouragement.
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Our prayer is that every mom listening, especially those in the thick of parenting
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struggles, will be reminded that you're not alone.
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We see you, we honor you, and we hope today's episode brings you strength and
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hope right where you are. Let's jump into the conversation.
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I want to read something from Proverbs before we jump into these questions as
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just a reminder of what we're celebrating today with Mother's Day.
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Everyone, if you grew up in the church, you know, you were taught by your grandma
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and by your mother, you know, you need to be a Proverbs 31 woman.
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What does that mean? And like, I always grew up thinking like you're tending
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sheep and you're sowing and you're, and that's part of it.
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But it's amazing what we're honoring today.
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It says strength and honor. This is verse 25. Strength and honor are her clothing.
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She clothes herself with strength and honor and she can laugh at the time to come.
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Her mouth speaks wisdom and loving instruction is on her tongue.
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See, that's one thing that moms are better at than dads.
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We like to speak instruction, but it's not always done from love.
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Sometimes it's just do it.
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But it says here, her mouth speaks wisdom and loving instruction is on her tongue.
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She watches over the activities of her household. Isn't that the truth?
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And is never idle.
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Women, how many of you say you got too much free time on your hands?
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Like, are you kidding me?
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Never idle. Her children rise up and call her blessed.
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Her husband also praises her. Many women have done noble deeds.
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Solomon says, but you moms, you surpass them all. You surpass them all.
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Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting, but a woman who fears the Lord will be praised.
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So give her the reward of her labor and let her works praise her at the city gates.
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Today, this morning, that's what our aim is.
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We want to give you the reward, moms, of all your labor.
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We know you tirelessly labor for your kids and your grandkids and your household
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and just keeping your house.
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So we want to say thank you, thank you, thank you to all of our dear and precious moms out here.
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All right. So, Jen, I see you have a microphone, so maybe you can pass it around to these.
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And because I know Susan, I'm not giving her a mic.
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Your family understands that statement.
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So I just want to have for the next, you know, 25, 30, 60, 80, three hours, whatever,
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just have a conversation with you ladies as mothers,
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as grandmothers, as women who love the Lord and who are trying to raise their
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families or who have raised families for the Lord. And so, first of all, no, thank you.
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So, first of all, I want to say thank you to them.
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I had to talk each and every one of them into this because this is not something
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that they wanted to do or are even comfortable doing.
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And so, I don't think if the pastor was her son that she would be up here at all.
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And I would say that as you too. But ladies, thank you for each being up here.
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I know it's nerve-wracking for you. But I want to start off with a question.
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What has been one of the greatest joys of being a mother or a grandmother?
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We'll start over there with Pauline.
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Can I call you that and not get in trouble?
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Well, it's hard to pick just one thing. There's so many joys in being a mom and a grandma.
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Just taking care of a new baby, loving it, walking with it when the baby's not
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feeling well or crying or wake half the night.
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But I guess the greatest joy of all is when they get older.
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And of course, we always had our kids in church, every service there was.
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But when they come to know the Lord, no doubt that is the greatest joy.
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Mason, if you're still in here, can you go get a box of tissues?
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I think we're going to need it this morning.
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Jen, what about you? What would you say is what's been one of the greatest joys
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of being a mother so far? You're not a grandmother yet. No, I'm just a mom.
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Just seeing my children go into each of their unique personalities.
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And probably the greatest joy is when I get to catch glimpses of their heart for Jesus.
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Shani. Hi, everybody. This is like for you, Jeff.
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Love you. Thank you. For Jesus. Yes, it's for Jesus.
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For Jesus. But the joy of my heart is just that God gave me the opportunity to be a mom.
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And the joy is my heart every day to just see them become who they are.
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And when they go through struggles, but they choose Jesus.
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And they may fall and have things they go through,
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but that's the purest joy that I have,
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is just seeing them not because I'm making them,
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but on their own free will, which is exactly what God desires for us,
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to choose Him that way in our own free will, that they go after Him in their
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own will. So that's my greatest joy.
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And to watch each of them accept Christ has been my greatest joy.
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That's a really great insight, too, where instead of us forcing it on our kids,
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it's that point when they take over the reins and they say,
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I don't just want this because mom and dad wanted this for me,
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but I want this for my life and I want this for my family.
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And it's that personal ownership of their faith. That's a great answer.
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Susan, my friend, one of the greatest joys of being mother or grandmother.
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I'm right there with these guys. You know, you remember all those hours that
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you walked the floors and they cried. And I didn't call them problems that we
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went through. We had adventures.
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We didn't have anything normal in my family.
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It was Utah. Yeah, it was. It
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really was to begin with. And so land of opportunity, this is the place.
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But you go through all those things as your kids get older and as you get older. you learn, you grow.
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And I'm right there with you where
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one of my proudest moments is when they choose to do the right thing.
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And then my theory from reading the Bible and things is, as mothers,
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we're supposed to give them roots and wings.
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And so that they can grow and they can make their own choices,
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and they can do good things that we have put into their minds.
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And I think that's one of the best moments.
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And that is a biblical principle, and that is found in Scripture,
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to give them roots and wings. Did you know that?
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Roots that will go down deep into their faith, but wings that will carry them
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independence on God. That's awesome.
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Okay, now we're going to go the opposite way with this. No, no,
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not in people. You can hand the mic.
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Opposite in question. You know, that one was one of the joys.
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What's been one of the most challenging parts or hardest parts of being a mom or grandmother?
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And, you know, mom, what's for you? And don't say my name. Okay.
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What has been one of the hardest— It's hard to answer some of these questions without specifying.
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We all know you're talking about one of the girls because they were really—
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I have two girls and one boy.
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The girls were really hard, and I was the easy one.
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But tell us something. What's something that was really challenging and hard
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in being a mom or grandma?
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And it's okay. Well, when they were little, it wasn't terribly challenging.
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They were always pretty good kids when they're teens sometimes they have challenges,
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girls am i right drive for the first time
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first time alone in a car and that makes you kind of nervous wondering if they're
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going to do okay if they're going to come back home or if they're going to have
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problems but they never did have problems driving a car or first time on a date.
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Second and third and fourth you're always
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concerned you know you want them to do the right thing make the right choices
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as a grandma unfortunately most of my grandchildren have lived at least 10 hours
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away from us so we didn't get to spend enough time with them,
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but we do make it to all the big events and every one of them is precious.
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And when Jeff and Jen moved here about almost nine years ago,
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we were very happy because we didn't have any of our grandkids near us.
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And now you want to get rid of them. What? Now you want to get rid of them.
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No, no, no, no. I love them. I love them to death.
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So I'm so glad that we can have part in their lives.
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Okay, so what has been the most challenging parts of motherhood?
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I put that they're not like me.
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They each have their own unique personalities and just trying to figure out
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how to train them and their unique personalities back to the Lord.
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I think that's been the most challenging part of motherhood.
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Isn't that true? Because each child has a different personality,
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responds to discipline differently, responds to encouragement differently, responds to humor.
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Some like it. Some are like, you're stupid. You're, you know,
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of course, my kids would never say that about me, but or some get angry.
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Yeah. And so they're so unique that it is a real challenge, I'm sure,
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you know, for all of us as parents.
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But especially moms who spend the majority of your time, you know,
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with the family, with the kids,
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trying to train up them all and being a specialist for each one because they're
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all different. That'd be a challenge. What about you, Shani?
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Have you had any challenging.
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Challenging times as a mother, grandmother? Wow.
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I could definitely run off on a sermonette with that,
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but challenging is one of those things where you realize that when your child is challenging you,
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that's just the opportunity to really push into God that much harder and see
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how much He wants to be faithful to you.
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When the kids have challenges
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just it's really deepened my
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faith and trusting him there's been
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many many times that I've had to just bury myself
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in my closet because my kids are going through things and I would get a certain
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phone call you know that this person you know just yelling at their person in
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the back you're telling them that you heard this you're that no nothing,
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I swear, nothing, you know, I swear.
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And it's the power of God is real and prayer changes things.
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It's definitely, God just loves
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us so much to just give us the ability to connect with Him in prayer.
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So that's what challenges have taught me is just take it to.
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It's hard to get through them because you just fear the damage that will happen
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to your kids when they're going through the challenge.
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You just don't want, you know, you're just praying mercy, mercy, just God have mercy.
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And I just am so thankful for the ways he's shown up and helped me just be able
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to write down, you know, just you answered again and you answered again.
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And so the challenges are opportunities for us to see as well that if God brought
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you to it, He's going to bring you through it.
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And that the challenge is meant
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to be looked at like an opportunity that your child is going to grow.
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Because without those challenges, they really don't grow.
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So just keep them bathed in prayer and keep praying for those opportunities for them,
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even though some of them may be challenges and
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you don't you just everybody wants to
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keep a challenge away but they're some of
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our best teaching times with our kids so
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that's good i know you've walked through some struggles as a mom as a grandma
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not everyone knows what those are but i've had a few you've had a couple yeah
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and but you are an amazing example of a godly mom and godly grandmother.
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And I want you to know as my friend, I am so proud of you for the way that you,
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if you don't know Susan, Susan is basically raising her grandboys and they are incredible kids.
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I've got to baptize one of them, Gabriel, and they come to youth group and they're
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here on Sunday and on Wednesday.
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And she drives like an hour. She drives from green to make sure that they're
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at youth group and to make sure that they're at church because she knows the importance of it.
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And I just want you to know, I couldn't be prouder of someone for the way that
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you're walking and parenting and grandparenting.
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Yes, I'm serious. So tell us a little bit.
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And when I say a little bit, people have lunch plans today and tonight. So yeah. Yeah.
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Well, first of all, let me say thank you for letting me be up here and talk,
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because I feel in me, I'm not the best example of a great mother or grandmother.
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You can ask the kids. There's times I do not spoil the child,
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and I pull that rod out, and I get yelling.
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And, you know, I think the thing about raising children when you're a grandparent
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is that you've been through it once.
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And you know where you really screwed up because we're not perfect, you know?
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We make some real crazy choices in our lives and then we're like,
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well, that didn't work. What do I do now, you know?
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And for me, the Bible is not always, okay, this didn't work,
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now let's do this, you know?
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You have to really get in there and dig and understand. And I just,
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I don't even know where to begin with challenges.
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I've learned, I've grown.
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As you get older, there is not a day that doesn't go by that I don't learn something new.
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And so now I'm at the point I watch the language because my name is Steve and
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la la la the chicken and all this and that.
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And 67 and all these things. You've got to understand what they're talking about.
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And when I asked the kids, what did that mean? They're like,
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I don't know, Grandma, we live with you.
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That's not a bad thing. That's probably a good thing. So I'm trying to get caught
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up on the lingo and stuff.
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But it's way different raising kids in this.
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The grandkids, very different than our kids. or, you know, it's a different generation.
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What is one thing you wish you had known when you first became a mother?
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One thing you wish you would have known or that you weren't prepared for?
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That's a hard question. I look at all the things out there today,
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all the helps out there for new parents, And I often wish I'd had them when
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I was a parent for the first time, because some of them are so good,
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and they're based on Scripture. Wow.
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I see my kids that have used these helps with their children and think,
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oh man, I wish I'd known that when I was raising my kids.
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I did not have bad children. I'm not saying that at all. But there's certainly
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always room for improvement.
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And there's a lot I didn't know that I could have done differently and would
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if I had a chance to do it again. But I'm not going to have that chance.
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But God is faithful, and He's always been with us, and He has worked in their
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hearts as they've grown.
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And I'm very proud of my children because now I'm going to cry.
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They're all serving the Lord today, and I'm very thankful. You're going to make me cry, Mom.
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The one thing I wish I knew when I first became a mother
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is how challenging it would be like I
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feel like my mom had it easy and my parents had
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it easy but it was just my sister and I we grew up in a different time like
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technology has just made it so much harder to raise our kids in a godly manner
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and I just wish I had known that because I could have been I don't know better
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prepared for the challenges,
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but I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world.
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Well, one of the things I wish I would have known is that as you walk along
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as a mom, little eyes are always watching you, and your example is so important.
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Just to teach them if something
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is a struggle for that even in that moment or that day just take him in a room
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and pray with him just get on your knees right there in the moment and just
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i don't care many times in the car like take a drive with them let's stop and pray like.
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Know, the biggest thing that is something I wish I, you know.
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Could have came into it, just always realizing that God is love.
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And when He says He wants an abundant life for us, He wants us to stay in His
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positive love that, you know, He'll walk us through trials, but we have to find
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joy in Him and keep pushing through Him and believing good that He has for us.
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And the biggest challenge was just seeing my choices when I battled my sin myself,
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what it did to my kids, and just making,
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I would make the choice again if I could go back,
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that my choices and my attitudes, that when I was seeing myself struggling,
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I wouldn't have really let myself stay in that stuck place at times.
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I would definitely have went to the Lord quicker and allowed Him to work those things in me,
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out of me, to create that clean heart in me so that the kids didn't have to
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endure my struggles, which in turn, your attitudes and your choices will definitely affect them.
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And that's a very painful thing to look at when that happens.
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So, I encourage mommies to realize that just the example, the choices,
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your attitudes, your prayer life, everything is going to affect them.
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So, choose the Lord every time.
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That's really good. Our house, we do a lot of humor.
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And so if I ever did something, bad choices, then I would turn and look and
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go, now did you see why I shouldn't have done that? Did you learn something?
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So I do believe in prayer. I'm a very strong proponent of prayer.
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And I do believe that God listens. It isn't always on our time frame.
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Want things done quicker. And that's not always his idea. And there's always a reason for it.
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So as you go through struggles that you're raising your kids,
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you're trying to figure out, why am I going through this?
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Or why is this happening in my family?
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Well, as long as you keep looking up and you pray and you believe that God's
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in charge, you'll get through it.
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And you might not get the answer you really thought you wanted,
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but down the road when you get older, you can look back and you'll know why the whys will come.
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I'll let you hold that mic for a second. We'll work our way back there because
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it's hard being the last one whenever you like everyone has given their answer.
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But we're going to switch over to something fun and lighthearted for just a
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minute. What is something super funny that you like or an unforgettable moment
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that you had raising your kids?
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I had five children before I was 24 years old.
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And I can they're all different people.
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Every one of them. I have everything from cowboys to granola girls that are
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just totally different.
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But I can remember when my oldest and my middle son tied their baby brother,
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Cassidy, to a goat. And I was doing dishes.
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And I looked out the window. And we were in Utah.
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And I'm looking. And they were bull riders.
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And so they decided they were going to teach their baby brother,
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who was two years old, to ride a goat.
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And they tied him on the goat. And I'm, like, running out through the back door.
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So I have lots of stories like that.
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You're standing at the kitchen window seeing your two-year-old go flying by.
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Getting tied to a goat, yeah, by his two-year-old.
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Being in Utah, what did the other mothers do? Oh, that's normal.
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I'm just kidding. I'm saying your wife, like the other wives,
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the other moms. It was a bad joke. I'm sorry, Susan.
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But no, they really did do stuff like that. That's so, yeah,
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I didn't, but. That's funny. Yeah. Yeah.
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Shani, did any of your kids get tied to goats?
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I can't match, I can't beat that one at all, no.
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But just funny and unforgettable. Each day just brought just so much humor to my life.
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I mean, from their little jokes they try to tell and just the things they do
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to each other, the way they dressed each other,
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like to try to help me or like, I mean, the meals they would try to bless their
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hearts. Like, it is just adorable.
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It was so fun. And the unforgettable thing for me is just that watching them,
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how they tenderly cared for each other, you know, just like caring about each
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other when something happened.
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I remember the one year that our kids cared about each other. It was a great year.
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That one time. That one time. It was cute when they were little.
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They really did. Like, you know, they didn't want the littler one to cry or
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they're hugging. Oh, keep it up, kids.
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It was just all precious. Okay, I'm going to share a funny moment that wasn't
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funny at the time, but it's funny now looking back.
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I once broke one of my toes on a door jam chasing Mason down the hall when he
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did something bad, when he was like three or four.
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I didn't know that. Well, my kids have been gone for so long.
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I'm right here. Yeah, you are now. But I don't see him very much that I had trouble remembering.
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I see him on Sunday. And a lot of Sundays, I don't even get to talk to him. I just see him up front.
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I can remember a couple things when my kids were little.
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One of my girls, and she must have been maybe three, two or three.
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And I went into her room where she was at. and she had gotten the baby powder
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out of the changing table and dumped it on her head.
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And she was covered from head to toe with powder. So I took her picture and then I dissembled her.
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And then there was another child. I don't know how old they were who tried to
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chop down all my rose bushes one day.
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Why are you looking over here? You said there was another child.
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I don't have any memory of that. Don't try it at all. I still hate them.
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It. I actually remember that picture. It was Julie that dumped the baby powder
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all over because it was in, when we were growing up, we could go to the bookshelf
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in our house and there were picture albums.
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And so there was a picture album of Julie and that was in one of the pictures of it.
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So good. I'm so glad that you disciplined her. She was a very bad girl. That's good.
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Okay. One more kind of funny one or just lighthearted.
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What's one tradition that you started or that you've tried to,
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you know, you hoped maybe your kids would pass on?
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Well, again, I have trouble remembering back so far.
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One thing we used to do is go out, and this was at Christmas time,
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and Jeff actually reminded me of this.
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We always like to drive around and look at Christmas lights and go down to Vinton
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and see the big Christmas display.
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I know Jeff remembers that one. He and Joe always enjoyed that.
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And another thing we did at Christmas for many, many years was I baked a birthday
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cake and put Happy Birthday Jesus on it.
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And we always sang Happy Birthday to Jesus on Christmas Day.
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There was something that they could remember.
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I loved I don't remember the I
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don't know you would think I would remember the cake but
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I don't remember the cake I love cake but I
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do remember the lights and and when we I don't know if you're gonna don't take
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it okay so Jennifer go ahead what well the one I wrote down was actually turkey
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gravy with pancakes on Thanksgiving morning,
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It's a tradition that my mom started, and I hope my kids will pass down.
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We have one that doesn't like it just yet, but he'll grow into it, I think.
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But yes, we go every Christmas and we call it the Minivan Express.
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We pop popcorn and have hot cocoa and we go look at lights.
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And the first year, yeah. And the first year we moved here, I was so excited
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because I am like super nostalgic.
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I'm the one that watches like the Hallmark Channel in our house while she's
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watching, you know, First Blood and Rambo.
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And so I was like, you guys, there's the greatest light display in all the Midwest
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and it's in Vinton and we're going to go down there.
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And so we drove down there and we get there and it was still running.
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This is eight, nine years ago. It's still running.
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I think it was the last year they did it. And our kids are like, this is so lame.
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It's got lights of Charlie Brown and the Flintstones and Snoopy from like 1973.
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And I'm like, I know it's, look at that. That's awesome.
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It's the same light display when we were kids. And they're just like,
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we drove this whole way for this.
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This is lame. Do we have to do this? So the next year we're like,
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we're going to Vinton. And they're like, oh.
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Yeah, that was a different light display. But anyway, so that's something that
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we've passed on. What about you, Shani?
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Just Christmas Eve service was always hard.
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You know, Christmas Eve we'd spend with my husbands, my in-laws,
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but I'd always pack my kids up.
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And usually Cedar Heights had a really nice Christmas Eve service.
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It was just really important. and just always trying to hit the Christmas lights,
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going Waverly had really cool, where they all went with the music and I don't
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know, just something that we've always liked to do too, so.
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Thinking because our house hasn't really been doing traditions for a few years.
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It used to be every Christmas Eve,
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all the family would get together and we would go to Christmas Eve service and
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then we would come back home and we would have roast and a nice dinner and a
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bottle of wine and then we'd each open one present,
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but I have not really done that.
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I think the last time Lyle's laughing because he remembered,
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I lost it and I was like, there was nobody there. I'd cooked all this stuff.
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It might've been Thanksgiving and I ended up saying, okay, forget it.
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And I fed it all to his dog.
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And it was the best food he'd ever eaten. So the dog celebrated a Thanksgiving
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and And we just kind of need to be working on things a little better.
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You know, we're really struggling with a lot of family issues right now.
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And it's hard. It's really hard nowadays. It's different.
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Yeah, sure.
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All right. I have so many questions. And my mom was like, there's pages of questions.
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How are we going to do this? It's going to take forever.
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I'm like, I'm not going to ask you all of them. But there are a couple that
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I want to hit before we wrap up.
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And we do need to wrap up. But if you could say something to a struggling mom
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right now who is in the throes, I mean,
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you guys are kind of past the young children's phase. Our youngest is 10.
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But what is one thing that you would say to a mom that's struggling with their
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kids, struggling with just being in the middle of being overwhelmed with motherhood?
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What's something that you would say to encourage them?
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There's so many things. Be patient. Whatever you're going through will pass.
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Get in the Word and see what God has to say to you about it. Pray a lot.
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That's the most important thing is to pray a lot.
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And to seek counsel, whether it be from a pastor or a good friend,
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someone else that has probably gone through similar things as to what you're going through.
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There's a lot of good Christian books out there on raising children,
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and I read a lot of them when my kids were home, but there's even better ones today.
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So there is help if you need help and you need advice and you think you can't
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get through whatever you're going through you will get through it God will bring you through it,
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a hard one for me because I feel like some days I'm still in the thick of it
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and overwhelmed and frustrated a lot of times.
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But I would say to try to enjoy your children as much as you can and not get
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frustrated when they don't always listen to you or they do what they want to do.
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And just to pray, like mom said, pray for your kids.
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Yes, I think of John 15, he tells us in verse 12, this is my commandment that
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you love one another as I have loved you.
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Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.
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And it's just a good example to me, and I suppose to us when we struggle as
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moms, that God's greatest commandment is, you know, that we love one another.
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And first, you know, in order for us to be able to love someone,
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love our children the way God wants us to, We have to learn to love ourselves,
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and we have to learn to live in that love that God has for us as moms and realize that, you know,
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we're God's child just like they're our child.
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And so it's tapping into that love that God has for us and living in that love
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that God has for us as moms.
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So just just
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love on yourself be be gentle to yourself as
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moms you know fill fill your well what fills your well you know coffee with
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a friend painting your nails you know just whatever it is just love yourself
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and let God just really pour into God everything that your heart possibly can
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and let him love you back.
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And because if you push him away, you know, he'll gladly go away and let you have your way.
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He doesn't push against our will, but just that constant surrender will help
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you to have what you need in him to gain the strength you need to keep going.
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So I just pray all of you keep going in love, always in love.
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And perfect love casts out fear. So His love is perfect.
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That's a great word, Shani. Thank you.
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Well, not only are adults going through a struggle and moms and dads.
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In fact, while I'm thinking about this, there's so many dads that are raising
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the kids that it's Mother's Day, but dads need to be included in that too.
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But you know what you feel like when you're really struggling and you don't
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know how to do something or you just want to walk away?
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Well, remember that your kids are going through that too.
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They have times. They're not automatic robots. that you say jump,
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and they jump and ask how high on the way up,
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they have to have a time to reflect and figure out, you know,
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what's going on with them.
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And the one thing, I was very blessed.
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I had a good mother, and I never realized how good my mother was until I got older.
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And so the one thing I encourage,
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and I feel like the younger mothers don't really have this like we did,
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like we did, where there's many mothers, but find somebody that you appreciate
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the way that they are with their children.
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And you feel like they've done a fairly decent job of raising them and that
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they believe in the Bible and ask them questions or model after them, if you're lucky enough.
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When I first started having children, I didn't even know how to name a baby.
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How do you change a diaper?
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I had no clue. And I'd never been around babies.
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And so it was a huge, huge learning opportunity for me. Man, I didn't know.
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But pray and learn when you're frustrated, walk away.
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It's okay to let that baby cry or scream for a couple minutes and walk away.
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Say your prayer. Take a deep breath and then go back and tackle it again with
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fresh eyes and a deep breath.
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Lot of wisdom in everything that you guys have said this morning.
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Just a couple takeaways that I want to remind any parents who are struggling
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or grandparents that are struggling or just individuals.
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Shani, when you were talking about, you know, everything that you were saying
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reminded me that it's okay.
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You're going to get frustrated. You're going to get angry.
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Give yourself grace.
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Moms, give yourself the grace that you need.
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Don't have the expectation that you're going to be perfect.
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You're going to get angry. You're going to say things that you regret.
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You're going to do things because you're human.
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So give grace to yourself.
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Just like we need grace from our Heavenly Father.
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Allow yourself to have grace. And then I would say one of the things,
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the common thread is prayer.
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Finding your strength in the Lord. That's something that I see in each one of
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you that you don't have it.
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You're not perfect, but you want to learn and you want to grow in grace.
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You want to grow in Christ. You want to find your strength in Him.
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And you want to help your kids discover their purpose in Christ so that they
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are rooted, like Paul says, rooted in Christ, being built up in him so that
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they can take wings and fly.
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And so that they will make it their own.
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I mean, that's what we're called to do as parents, to raise up and to shepherd
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the hearts of our kids so that they'll go out and that they'll be God chasers. And that's what we want.
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Can we just say thank you to these four ladies for coming up here and doing this? Thank you.
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Invite the worship team to come on up, and we're going to close out.
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Come on up, and we're going to close out with a song. What's it called?
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I Speak Jesus. I Speak Jesus. I couldn't remember.
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But this is just a prayer, really, over you guys. We speak the name of Jesus
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over you, and we pray a blessing upon your heart and upon your life,
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and I'll walk you down here in a second.
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I offered to give her a piggyback ride and she said, no, thank you.
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I thought I was being kind. I thought you would want to spend some quality time
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with me making memories. I mean, that's a memory, right?
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Thank you for doing this with me this morning. I love you and happy Mother's Day.
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Happy Mother's Day. And let me pray and then we'll sing this blessing over you
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guys and then you can be dismissed.
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Have a great Mother's Day. Call your moms.
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I know Mother's Day can be a hard day for some of us.
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I pray that it will be a blessing to you regardless of your situation.
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I know a lot of you have lost your moms or they've passed on and they're gone.
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I would just say celebrate who they were in your life today, too.
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Heavenly Father, we love you. Thank you for being here this morning.
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Thank you for all the moms.
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We love our moms and we're so grateful for the impact that they've had in our lives.
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I would not be standing here if it were not for my mom and her belief that God
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can take a rebellious kid and change him and make him into your image.
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And so thank you for gifting me with the perfect mom that you knew before time
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that I would need to help raise me up to be the man that you wanted me to be.
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So thank you for her. Thank you for each mom that's here. I pray that you would
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bless them, give them a great day.
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Lord, we speak the name of Jesus over every family that's here today.
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We find ourselves in all different situations, all different walks of lives.
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Some of our kids are close by. Some of our kids have fallen away from Christ,
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some of our kids are far away, distance.
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We just pray that you would be with them and that your presence would be with
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them today and that they would receive and know the love of the Father today. In Jesus' name, amen.
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