Sermon
John Chapter 19:25–30 in "A Sword for Mary", Mother's Day 2025
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In Australia, 22% of families with children aged 15 and under
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a lone parent families, that is there's just one parent in the
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home, 22%. It's nearly 1/4 of our nation
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doesn't have two parents at home and most of these, around 90%,
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are headed by women, that is, women by themselves raising
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families, running homes, 90% and their mothers.
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Napoleon Bonaparte said the future destiny of a child is the
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work of a mother. Doctor John Walvoord tells us of
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a mother who prayed for her son for 60 years to be saved.
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One week before her death, the mother received a long distance
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phone call from his son saying, Mum, I've given my heart to the
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Lord. My you and I never give up
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praying for our unsaved family. My you and I never give up on
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our brothers and sisters who aren't here today in church with
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us. Maybe they're in another another
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country. Many of you from overseas don't
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stop praying. Your prayers reach reach God and
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they reach your family. Some people can say don't tell
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me anything about I don't want to hear, but you can always pray
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for them. That's the greatest weapon and
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ministry of evangelism that you have is your prayers.
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On a Mother's Day card, a little child's printing appeared on the
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outside. It was designed by a little boy,
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and on the front was a drawing of this little boy with his
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shoes. Life is united.
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Scattered around him in disarray was a little waggon, multiple
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toys, and there were fingerprint smudges over all the card.
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I don't know if you remember. I remember going to school.
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Keith, don't take us too far. When was that?
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World War One or what was it? But the first, I don't know why
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they gave it to us in grade one. We had these pencils.
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They were huge pencils and they smudged no matter what you did.
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Soon as you put your hand on boys pages it was like, Oh my
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goodness, girls are all nice and neat.
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But the boys in smudge with these grape and they smudged
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everywhere. And so they were smudges all
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over this card and the card read this, the words of the little
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boy Mum. I remember that little prayer
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used to say for me every day. And on opening the inside of the
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card was the little prayer written in struggle, printing
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words backwards and upside down. The prayer written said God help
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you if you ever do that again. A second grade teacher, Year 2
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teacher who had given a lesson on magnets, just finished the
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lesson on magnets and the kids have played with them, then gave
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them a test. What starts with M and picks up
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things. Many of the children wrote Mum.
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On a serious side, it is said that the death of a mother is
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the first sorrow in the home wept without her.
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And so the scene before we read it.
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Jesus is 33 years of age. He's been brutally beaten, so
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much so it shocked Pontius Pilate, and it was almost
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impossible to recognise his visit, who he was, such was the
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the scars and the wounds of his body and his face, his physical
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appearance. And now here on Golgotha, the
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place of the skull, Calvary, he now hangs by great spikes that
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have been driven nailed through his palm, arms and his feet.
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And he's suspended. He's hanging on this cross
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between two thieves, criminals, an innocent man between two
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criminals. As he hangs, his breathing is
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laboured. He's got to push himself up from
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the little seat that they would put on the cross.
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And from the pain of his feet, push yourself up to try and grab
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a breath, because that's how you die.
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And crucifixion. You suffocate.
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He's about to die, huddled at his feet at the foot of the
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cross. There's a small group of women
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and a young disciple named John. And in that group is a mother,
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the mother of Jesus. Mary is her name.
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We know that she is now around about in her mid 40s.
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You remember Mary who at the age of 14 to 16 years of age, the
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Angel Gabriel appeared and spoke these words.
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Rejoice holy favoured one, the Lord is with you.
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Blessed are you among women. When she saw the Angel, she was
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troubled. This young Mary at his saying,
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considered what manner of greeting this was.
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And the Angel Gabriel said to her, Do not be afraid, Mary, for
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you have found favour with God. And behold, you'll conceive in
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your womb, and bring forth a son.
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She'll call his name Jesus. You'll be great.
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We'll be called the Son of the Highest, and the Lord God will
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give him the throne of his father David.
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It will reign over the House of Jacob important word forever,
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and of his Kingdom important words there will be no end.
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And Mary said to the Angel, How? How can all this be, since I do
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not know a man, I haven't been with a man.
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The Angel answered and said to her, The Holy Spirit will come
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upon you, and the power of the Highest will over shadow you.
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Therefore also the Holy One is to be born, will be called the
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Son of God. Then Mary said these words,
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Behold the man's maidservant of the Lord, let it be according to
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your word. And the Angel departed from her,
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young Mary, already speaking unselfishly like a mother.
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Mary at a young age suffered greatly.
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Her espoused husband engaged to Joseph was going to divorce her.
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Even though the ratification of the marriage had occurred in
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Jewish custom and war, espousal was the same as marriage and you
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had to be divorced from your engagement.
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Joseph heard Mary said I'm I'm pregnant.
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He said well how does this happen?
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She tells him an Angel opinion. He's crying a good and he's
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going to a divorce, but only by the intervention of an Angel
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sent from heaven. Did Joseph not divorce young
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Mary? And then her birth of the sorry,
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the birth of Jesus, the Son of God.
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It wasn't in a beautiful hospital.
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It was difficult. She had to ride on the back of a
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donkey in the last stages of her pregnancy, about 90 miles from
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Nazareth to Bethlehem. Then she arrives, there's no
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room, and she's moved over into a dirty little stable.
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Actually, it's a cave. You can still see The Cave in
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Bethlehem today. And in the midst of this cave
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surrounding her, Joseph and where she's going to give birth,
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our animals tethered. Eight days later, this poor
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couple with a couple of turtle doves, as was the custom,
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attended the temple. It was the time of Mary's pure
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purification. She had to do this.
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It was the time of Jesus circumcision and it was the time
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of Jesus dedication, just like we did this morning.
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And they couldn't bring a lamb because they didn't have much
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money. So turtledoves was the offering
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of the poor. And there there was a prophet
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who met them and saw them, a prophet who had been promised by
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God that he would see the Messiah before his death.
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His name was Simeon. And Simeon said these words to
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this very young mother, holding an 8 day old child.
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And Simeon blessed them and said to Mary his mother, Behold, this
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child is destined for the fall and rising of many in Israel,
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and for a sign which will be spoken against.
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Then he said these words. Yes, a sword will Pierce through
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your own soul also. That was to Mary, that the
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thoughts of many hearts may be revealed.
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The Greek word, the Greek writing here is that the sword
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will be a constant piercing in your life.
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Mary, this is going to be a difficult life, a difficult
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motherhood. Back at Golgotha we go back to
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the cross, and there at the foot of the cross, as Mary sat there
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looking up at his Son Jesus, Simeon's words would have run
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painfully clear in Mary's heart. Yes, the sword will Pierce
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through your own soul. Also, the image of the sword was
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for Mary alone. Mary would have a life of much
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suffering. What strange words with these
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are piercing sorrow for one highly favoured by God.
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You see the church, sadly, that is preaching a gospel that's
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different to the Bible is preaching a lot of self help and
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it's only positive stuff to people coming to church.
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And people say, well, that's what I want.
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I want to go to a church while I hear stuff.
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Good times all the time. But when you actually go out the
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door and live the moment you hop in the car, it's not a good
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time, is it? It's not a good time on the road
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when your kid goes off to school, it's not well, they came
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and had a wondrous day today. Everyone was just so nice to me,
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or the teacher was so pleasant to me, or I did this so well.
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When you go to work and you're treated roughly or poorly or
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abused in some manner and you've done nothing, it's a different
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world out there. And the gospel that you and I
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need is the true gospel of the Bible.
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And it's the gospel that tells us we live in a fallen world.
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We're going to face problems. But the gospel of Christ is what
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you need. It enables you to overcome what
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the world throws against you. How unreal it seemed at the time
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for Mary as she heard those words, holding her infant son
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Jesus in her arms. Just eight days old.
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Sword to Pierce me because Jesus rejection.
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And there's a story behind this as I read it again that I hadn't
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seen as clearly as this Mother's Day.
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Jesus rejection would also be Mary's rejection because
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remember, Mary was the woman pregnant before her marriage.
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Jesus was always referred to as illegitimate, and not until and
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only when the resurrection of Christ occurred would Mary's
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story be ratified. All that time Mary would have a
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sword continually piercing her. As she went to the shop, as she
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went to the market, as she went to the well to get water.
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That's her. I heard the story.
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What a joke. Jesus resurrection was Mary's
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only vindication, yet those words from that old man had come
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to pass. Now, 33 years later, here at
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Calvary, at the foot of the cross, as a mother watches on.
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Think about it ladies, a mother watches on as her son dies
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before her eyes. Let's read John chapter 1925.
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Onward. Now there stood by the cross of
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Jesus his mother and his mother's sister Mary, the wife
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of Clopas and Mary Magdalene. When Jesus therefore saw his
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mother and the disciples whom he loved, that's John standing by.
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He said to his mother, Mary, woman, behold your son.
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Then he said to the disciple John, behold your mother.
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And from that hour that disciple took her to his own home.
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So we get the understanding of what was being said there.
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After this, Jesus knowing that all things were now
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accomplished, after this, after these final words with Jesus,
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with John and with Mark, with his mum, that the scripture
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might be fulfilled. He said I thirst now a vessel
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full of sour wine was sitting there.
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They filled a sponge with sour wine, put it on his sip, put it
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to his mouth. So when Jesus had received the
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sour wine, he said with his last breath, it is finished bowing
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his head, He gave up his spirit. Now the gospel tells us, he
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says, into your hands, Father, I commend my spirit.
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And he died. He gave his life.
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His life wasn't taken from him. Don't get that wrong.
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Jesus could have lived forever. He gave his life to die.
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First point, I'm going to give you 4 points this morning.
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They're points for mums, but also points for each and every
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one of us. A mother's torments.
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The point is this. God knows our struggles.
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God knows a mother's struggles. 2025 Mother's Day.
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God knows your struggles. Man, woman, child, we each and
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all at different times face torments, don't we?
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Even the youngest in church, young ones in Sunday school,
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junior church, it can be a school bully in the early years.
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I remember in years one and two, there's one kid just on me,
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crazy kid, foul kid, just on me and on me and on me, tormenting.
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What are we to do when we're facing such torments in our
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lives? But a mother's torments are
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usually in the secret hours of the night.
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A mother's tears are not heard by anyone else in the house as
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the others sleep. We read in Proverbs 31 as
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prayers are spoken by her, whispered so not to wake amidst
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eyes puffy and soaked, cheeks wet.
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And she prays for her husband, a son, a daughter, grandchildren.
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And she parades each and every one of them before the throne of
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God, bringing them, Oh God, I bring him my husband, Oh God, I
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bring him my son now. And she takes them into the very
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intimacy of the throne of God. A mother's heart struggling with
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the love she has, those closest to her because she's being
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stabbed in the heart by the sorrows that they're facing.
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A mother often wondering if her heart will burst.
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I don't know if I can do this. For the burden she feels and
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carries is often simply too big to bear.
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But she is a mother and God has created her to do this wonder,
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this role. Only she can do it.
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God has given her a heart that can carry extremes of pain.
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How is that? Well, even when they become a
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mother. In the process of being a
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mother, pain comes. Labour pains, birth pains.
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This is all motherhood, the threshold, the beachhead of the
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beginning ministry of a mother. It's going to be 1 of pain and
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sorrow. Years of perseverance follow.
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And yet mothers still have the sensitivity to fill a massive
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reservoir with their tears. They don't harden up.
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How many days have you cried for me?
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How many tears have you dried for me?
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How many days have you worried long?
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How many years have you filled with song?
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Nobody knows but you, Mother. How many times have I hurt your
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heart? How many times have we had the
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part? How many prayers have you said
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for me? How many miles have you walked
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for me? Nobody knows but you, Mother.
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But another knows. There's one other who knows.
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Psalm 56. Eight says these.
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You keep track of all my sorrows.
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You have collected all my tears in your bottle.
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You have recorded each one in your book.
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God knows every time a mother has wept, every time you as a
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believer has wept, God has noted.
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God has captured and kept. Isn't it amazing?
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I wonder if we go to heaven, when we go to heaven, we'll be
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given there'll be something in that mansion that we have maybe
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placed on our bed bottles. What are these?
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Well, it says these are your tears.
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And what is this book? Because the Bible tells us when
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we get to heaven, the books are opened, not just the book of
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life. Could it be that when we go into
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our room prepared by Christ for us, that there is a library and
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we pull out this library and we go, There it is.
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I remember when I wrote it down, I recorded it.
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A sword shall peers through your own soul as a mother.
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Jesus torments were her torments.
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Isn't that the same? When you go to hospital and you
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see one of your kids in bed sick or at home sick, what is the
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first thing you want to do as a parent?
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Swap, isn't it? If only I could swap.
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And only I could take your place now.
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Mary sat there and looked as she looked up at her son.
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She too was on the rack, stretched until bursting whilst
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he was on the cross. Her heart bled with his wounds.
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When your son or your daughter or someone close to you feels
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the wound and you feel it too. When someone tells you, oh this
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is happening, you go, Oh no, you, you feel it.
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His repurchase fell to on her as they would on all mothers,
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because Jesus was His Son. Yet Mary did not wring her
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hands. She didn't tear her clothes and
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say this is not right, this is unfair.
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She didn't make an outcry. She stood at the foot of the
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cross. She remained at the cross.
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She didn't run. She was composed, her friends
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with her. She was a mother.
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She would stay. She would continue to be his
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mother no matter what. How was Mary able to do this?
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What kept her? Who kept her?
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She is all mothers I believe can be was being strengthened surely
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by a divine power. You and I don't realise this,
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but we wouldn't make it through a day without God's help.
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We would fold like a deck of cards, you and I, when we don't
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give God the decency of saying hello God, I want to speak to
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you, God my day. Thank you Lord, when we do that,
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we are so rude and I'll mannered to he who loves us because he
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keeps you in the palm of his hands throughout the whole day.
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Your hearts, your heart beats, your lungs move, you breathe,
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your blood keeps pumping. He's doing all of that.
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Surely Mary had a full expectation of Jesus
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resurrection than the rest had. Why would I say that?
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How could I say that? Can I back that up biblically?
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Yes I can, because you remember Mary was told, we read it out.
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The words of Gabriel said this. He will reign forever.
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His Kingdom shall have no end. She had been told this.
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We often don't know what we can bear, do we?
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Till we have been tried and then we find something else.
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That Paul realised. He prayed 3 times for something
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and God said no. Lord, can you remove this thorn?
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It's hurt, it's painful, it's difficult.
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No, no, no. And then God said this, here's
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my here's the answer. Paul, stop praying.
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You're going to keep it. I've allowed this.
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My grace is sufficient. You see, only when we go through
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times of trial do we understand and then do we learn because you
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don't know about grace. We think we do, but we don't.
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We learn that God's grace is sufficient when even though the
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doctor says it's not good, even though we're in the intensive
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care waiting room and it's it's not good.
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We learn there and then at that time, God's grace is still
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sufficient, does not give up. You see, God's grace is
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sufficient. Do you understand that in your
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life now? Do you realise that God's grace
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is sufficient in your life this morning?
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His grace is sufficient. How can that be?
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Because God is enough. In the book of Colossians, Paul
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has been teaching us and teaching us.
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God is enough. Jesus Christ is all you need.
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You don't need the Jehovah Witnesses.
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You don't need the Mormons and any other cult because they're
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still scratching and itching and trying to get everything else.
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Jesus Christ is enough. God is enough.
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Followers of Christ and especially mothers who endure
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enormous pain and suffering at times for their loved ones.
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God is your champion in time of your greatest need.
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How can I say that David wrote these words?
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Yeah. Though I walk through the valley
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of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil.
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Why? Because you were with me.
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Your rod and your staff tell me you're in control, that you're
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over all of this. They comfort me.
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Paul wrote to the church in Corinth and said, Blessed be
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God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of
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mercies, and the God of all comfort.
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Psalm 146, nine says the Lord preserves the strangers, He
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relieves the fatherless and widow.
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So we've seen a mother's torment and now .2 we see a mother's
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pain, you and I, not just mums. We all suffer pain, don't we?
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We get pain in our lives, our lives.
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A pain is a disease, a condition actually, where people don't
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feel pain and it's difficult for them to live because they can
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break a bone, they can be stabbed by something.
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That's part of the problem with leprosy.
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And they, they don't know they're wounded.
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They don't know they've got a broken arm.
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Like they don't feel pain. Pain is a source and a help from
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God. In the book of Genesis chapter
Genesis 4 chapter mention
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4, you know the story, Cain is speaking to the Lord of the Lord
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is speaking to Cain, and God says to Cain, Cain, why are you
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angry? Why has your countenance fallen?
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I can see you're just angry, man.
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What's up with you? If you do well, will you not be
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accepted? Because he was upset about his
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sacrifice, remember, not being accepted, and Abel's been
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accepted. God says if you do not, well,
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sin lies at the door and it's desirous for you, but you shall
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rule over it. Now Cain talked with Abel, his
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brother, and it came to pass when they're in the field that
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Cain rose up against Abel. His brother killed him.
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First murder. Then the Lord said to Cain,
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where's Abel, your brother? Cain said, I don't know.
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Am I my brother's keeper? He's a liar.
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See, it's just it's starting to unfold sin, its roots are
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happening, bursting. And God said, what have you
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done? The voice of your brother's
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blood cries out to me from the ground.
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Now we know that story, but I want to bring up Cain's mum Eve.
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Abel's mum Eve. The pain and suffering that Eve
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would have undergone with her son Cain murdering her other son
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Abel. It's called fratricide.
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How that must have ravaged her heart and drained her tears dry.
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Man, Can you imagine how she would have felt?
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Talk about guilt. Oh, look what I've done.
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Look how I. And now look what's happened
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from paradise to fratricide to having a son who you love.
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Kill your other son who you love.
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Yet we find Eve later having another son after a period and
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naming him Seth when Adam was 130 years of age.
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And Seth means appointed 1 it says.
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And Adam slept with his wife again, and she gave birth to
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another son, She named him Seth. For she said, God has granted me
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another son in place of Abel, the one Cain killed.
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And men, it says after that again began again to call upon
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the name of the Lord. What happened there?
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Could it be that Adam and Eve taught, nurtured Seth in the
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things of the Lord? Could it be especially that Eve,
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those suffering the pain as of a mother in a way that would have
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been like a a sword piercing through her own soul, had found
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that the grace of God was sufficient?
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Let's have another son. If she could have gone, I'm not
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ever having another child. This is too hard.
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She could have done that, but God's grace, God's grace moved
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and let's have another son. I'll call him Seth.
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See how? See how God's grace is working.
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It kept her. God's grace was sufficient.
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It held her up to have another child.
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Seth. God's grace is sufficient is the
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Greek word archaeo, which means it possesses an unfailing
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strength. God's grace will never fail you.
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I believe all godly mothers have the ear of the Lord intimately.
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Oh, more than others. Keith, is that what you're
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saying? No, but I am saying they as
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mothers are in the ear of the Lord more than others.
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Get me? They're the keepers of the
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night. They're the prayer watchers of
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the family. This is why so often it is women
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who dominate the attendance at prayer meetings.
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Why is that? You haven't noticed that?
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Why is that? Because they know pray, they
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know it works, and they know that this is the most important
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thing they can do as a mother. Proverbs 3115.
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She also rises while it is still yet night.
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Verse 27. She watches over the ways of a
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household, does not eat the bread of idleness.
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Mothers are the whisperers of the evening, whilst all others
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in the house sleep oblivious to her prayers, which are more like
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silent weepings and soulful moanings as she intercedes as a
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mother for her family over and over, hidden by her smile, her
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busyness, her cleaning, her washing, her cooking, while all
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others are free to vent their frustrations, their hurts, their
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pains. But a mother, No, she must still
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be a mother, even though the sword is often driven into a
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heart. There's no closing the door and
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abandoning the ship, no shutting up shop.
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She's a mother, a mother's torment, a mother's pain.
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Who cares for those special Saints of the night Who carries
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such hidden loads, who pray and pray?
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Yet nobody is aware of a hurts but one is.
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And that is thirdly, Third Point.
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God cares for mothers. And I want to tell you all this
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morning that God cares for you. In John 1926, when Jesus
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therefore saw his mother and the disciple whom he loved standing
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by, he said to his mother, woman, behold your son mum.
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Now John take John like a son, look after him and 21 Jesus was
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watching all the people come to the temple and they're giving.
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And many were just oh, look how much I'm giving.
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Woo Hoo. I believe this Big Bang.
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I'm I'm giving my offering now. And he looked.
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It's funny that Jesus tells a story that he watched his people
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gave. That means God watches us when
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we give. And he looked up and saw the
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rich putting their gifts into the treasure.
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And he saw also a poor widow putting in two mites.
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And he said, truly, I say to you that this poor widow has put in
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more than all, for all these out of their abundance have put in
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offerings for God. But she out of her poverty put
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in on all the livelihood she had.
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I believe that the poor old widow, widow that Jesus saw had
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all her needs met, that a table always had food and a home
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always God's protection. We can think of Sarah, but
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Hannah as well. One of the widow in the city of
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nine whose only son was died and Jesus came to the funeral,
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raised him in the coffin. One of the Canaanite mother who
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pleaded for her daughter to Jesus.
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But just some bread, some crumbs off the table.
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Jesus, just help my daughter in all those stories of those
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ladies, all mothers were ministered to personally by God.
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Jesus with his mother Mary. He had supported her for a
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number of years because Joseph had died before Jesus began his
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public ministry. Jesus was the eldest and
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therefore he had been responsible for helping raise
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his half brothers and sisters. Her relation to him had been her
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maintenance. Now he was dying.
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What would become of her? And she finished.
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God will meet a mother's practical needs always.
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So Jesus arranges for her to be provided for practically.
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Because you see, love always is an action.
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It's not a warm feeling. Love is always an action.
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Jesus says to John in verse 27. John, look after my mother Mary
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now as if she was your own mother.
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It's a divine arrangement. Sometimes when God removes 1
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comfort from us, you know what he does?
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He raises up another. Perhaps we've not looked for it.
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Sometimes the one whom he wants us to care for is right
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alongside us. Maybe in church even today,
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right under our nose. I remember preaching at a youth
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camp and I was preaching on the Holy Spirit and praying for the
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kids to be filled with the Holy Spirit there and then at the
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camp. And as I was praying, I said,
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let's pray and ask God just to fill you with the Holy Spirit.
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And I felt a tugging on my jumper and there was one of
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their children tugging and said I could you pray for me.
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And I had overlooked that one. Sometimes the very one that God
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says I want you to care for is right next to you.
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Do your nose perhaps we've not looked for it.
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That shy young person, that struggling young mum you see in
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church, that one who has never known the love of a mother when
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we're focused on the Lord and he says look who's next to you.
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I remember writing out and the first time I did this and the
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notice of intended marriage. It's the form you've got to
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complete to get married. And I said to the to the bride,
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I said now your mum's name you got to put unknown.
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I have no idea. So I got I had to write unknown.
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Think about that. When Elijah was sent by God to
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the widow and Zarephath, you remember the story One king 17,
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she was collecting wood with her son.
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They're going to make enough wood for a fire for the last
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meal. Then they're going to lay down
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and die. They were starving to death.
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Elijah turns up and he says to do not fear, Go and do what I've
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said. Go and make me a small cake from
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the last bit of food that you have, and then after make some
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for yourself and your son. For thus says the Lord God of
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Israel, the bin of flour shall not be used up, nor shall the
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jar of oil run dry until the day the Lord sends rain on the
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earth. You see, sometimes we think,
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man, that's a bit bit harsh to what Elijah said.
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Cook for me first. But she went and did it and God
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honoured what she did. Jesus didn't stop there, but
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with Mary did he for in the next verse.
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But for those of us who have mothers, something else is
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divinely spoken of. Point for the last point, God
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promises to provide for the comfort of mothers and to bring
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comfort to us all when we're in need of His comfort.
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Verse 27 John 19 John John, look after Mary now as if she was
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your own mother. It is by no coincidence that the
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first commandment with a promise is this Honour your father and
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mother. It's the first commandment with
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a promise that it may be well with you and you may live long
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on the earth. So often we sin and worry, don't
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we? We worry or we don't have enough
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or how are we going to get by and we forget the words of God.
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You know, worry is a sin. It is I worry and I sin and I
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have to ask God to repent of that because worry is saying
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this. God, I don't think you're going
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to get me through it says in verse 25 here of Matthew 6.
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Therefore I say the unto you, do not worry about your life, what
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you'll eat, what you'll drink, nor about your body.
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What you'll put on is not life more than food and the body more
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than clothing. He says, so why do you worry
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about clothing? Therefore Jesus said, do not
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worry, saying, what shall we eat?
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What shall we drink? God looks after the birds of the
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air, the flowers, For your heavenly Father knows that you
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need all these things. Seek first the Kingdom of God.
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Was John's mother dead? Salome?
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We don't know. Maybe there is a mother needing
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someone's care in our church who has no family.
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Mary live, we know, with John at Jerusalem for 11 years and then
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she died, it's believed, around the age of 60.
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And when you go to Ephesus, they believe they can show you where
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Mary lived and where she died. Or maybe you're saying, Keith,
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Surely God wouldn't know or care about me.
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I mean, he's busy, isn't he? He's got far more important
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things than to bother with me. God has a heart for mothers and
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he takes the time always. Are you too busy for your kids?
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Ever done that? Say kids, another time, another
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time. Be careful.
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Be careful when your son or your daughter or someone comes to you
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and it's about the things of the Lord and you go, I'm too busy.
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You'll note that Jesus at this time is dying on the cross,
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right? He's dying for the sins of the
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world. He's done nothing wrong, He's
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hurt no one, He's in absolute agony, He's in incredible pain,
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and he's busy saving the world. Literally.
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Isn't that what he's doing yet as he's dying on the cross,
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saving the world, the lamb, the sacrifice that's been promised
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before the foundation of the world world was laid.
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Yet in the middle of this, he takes time in the middle of this
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to care for his mother and for John.
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Think about that. You could have said mom.
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John got a fair bit on it, man, even before his own discomfort.
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As John tells us in the following verses, he cries out
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the thirst only after verse 28. Now all these things
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accomplished only after he's got mum sorted and he's got John
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sorted. So let's wrap this up.
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God knows a mother's torment. God knows a mother's pain.
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God hears a mother's prayers. God comforts a mother's heart.
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God meets a mother's needs. He's never too busy to heed
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their cries, and he will never, never, never leave you alone.
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Mothers, don't give up praying for those for whom you love.
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It is those prayers that reflect more than anything, the very
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heart of God. Because God doesn't give up on
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you. What is a grandmother?
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As we close 1/3 Grader wrote this little poem.
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It's not a poem, actually. It's a little story.
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He says A grandmother is a lady who has no children of her own.
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She likes other people's little girls and boys.
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A grandfather is a man grandmother.
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He goes for walks with boys and they talk about fishing and
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stuff like that. Grandmothers don't have to do
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anything except be there. They're old, so they shouldn't
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play hard or run. Or if they take us for walks,
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they should slow down past things like pretty leaves,
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caterpillars, and they should never say hurry up.
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Usually grandmothers are a bit big, but not too big to tie your
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shoes. They wear glasses and funny
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underwear. They can take their teeth and
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gums out too. Grandmothers don't have to be
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smart, only answer questions like why isn't God married and
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how come dogs chase cats? Grandmothers don't talk baby
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talk like visitors too because it is hard to understand.
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When they read to us, they don't skip or mind if it is the same
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story over again and again. Everybody should try to have a
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grandmother, especially if you don't have television because
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they are the only Grown Ups who have time.
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On this Mother's Day as we close, maybe all bring a
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blessing to those who have the ministry of a mother.
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It's difficult, but God knows. God knows your struggles, He
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knows you suffer pain. God cares for you, and God will
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provide the comfort that you need in your hour of need.