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“Separated for God’s Glory” | 2 Corinthians 6:14–7:1 | Pastor Israel | Sunday Evening

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  1. Amen. Yes, please open your Bible to

  2. the New Testament book, Second Corinthians, chapter 6, verse

    2 Corinthians 6:14

  3. 14. We're going to go all the way

  4. through to the end of the chapter and into verse 1 of

  5. Chapter 7. Title of tonight's message is

  6. Separated for God's Glory. As you're turning there, I'm

  7. sure that you've all seen two things that just do not fit

  8. together. They cannot coexist.

  9. You can't mix oil and water. They just won't be able to blend

  10. together. The old square peg in a round

  11. hole. Or if you've ever frustratingly

  12. perhaps been in a boat, a rowboat with somebody and you're

  13. rowing forward and they're pulling backwards, just think,

  14. what are you doing? Simply doesn't work.

  15. Paul uses a similar image and picture for us in 2nd

  16. Corinthians 6. He urges believers, you and I

  17. tonight, not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers.

  18. Now in farming terms, the audience would be very familiar

  19. and I'm sure many of us are. The yoke was a wooden harness

  20. that would link 2 animals together to strengthen them, to

  21. combine their forces to plough a field.

  22. But if you put an ox and a donkey together for example,

  23. that yoke they would pull in different directions and the

  24. result would be frustration for the farmer, no doubt for the

  25. animals involved, injury perhaps, and certainly futility

  26. when it comes to the task at hand.

  27. Now in the same way Paul will warn the church that partnership

  28. with the world, with the world's values, with the world's

  29. practises will only pull us away from Jesus Christ.

  30. But his call is not just to separate from and out from the

  31. world or out from sin and out from compromise.

  32. That's part of it. But there's also a call for

  33. separation unto towards God to enjoy his promises, to enjoy his

  34. presence, to enjoy his power in our lives.

  35. There's, you see, both a negative and a positive attached

  36. to this idea of separation, one being an away from that which is

  37. dangerous, that which is harmful, that which is contrary

  38. to God, and the other being a positive which is towards God, a

  39. no and a yes. You see, when you're and I

  40. became Christians, we have a new life.

  41. We have as a consequence of that new life, new relationships.

  42. We experience a new relationship with God.

  43. No longer are we what the Bible declares we once were, enemies

  44. with God. Now, instead of running from

  45. God, we're walking In Sync with God as his sons and as his

  46. daughters, as the family of God. There's that relationship that

  47. we now enjoy with God. We have a new relationship with

  48. the devil. You go.

  49. I never knew I had a relationship with the devil

  50. before you did. The Bible tells us that you were

  51. once a child of the devil, but that now, now you're an enemy of

  52. the devil. You've been transferred out of

  53. the Kingdom of darkness and into the glorious Kingdom of light.

  54. You have a new relationship with the church.

  55. You have a new relationship with unbelievers.

  56. Not sure if you recall what it was like when you weren't saved

  57. and how your attitude towards believers was.

  58. You thought Christians were perhaps weird.

  59. Crazy. Now you find yourself hanging

  60. out with the very people that you thought were crazy some

  61. 5/10/15 years ago. The people that you were joking

  62. about and making fun of are now those that you would call

  63. friends. What a change, what a

  64. transformation. You have a new relationship with

  65. the unbelieving world. You're living a life that is

  66. separated unto God. What we're talking about tonight

  67. is the doctrine of separation. Before we read, I want to take a

  68. bit of time here to address this somewhat to lay a bit of a

  69. foundation for us. So we'll spend a bit of time in

  70. our introduction. We're going to spend a fair

  71. amount of time on .1, and then we'll move through points two

  72. and three fairly quickly tonight so that you know where we're

  73. headed. What we're talking about is this

  74. doctrine of separation. I want to point out that there

  75. are two extremes to this doctrine, often that we find

  76. ourselves as Christians leaning towards, and we commonly hear

  77. separation referred to as sanctification.

  78. Maybe you've heard of that term. So for the Christian, our

  79. salvation, it begins with justification and then there's

  80. sanctification. Both are part of salvation

  81. justification. That's the initial act where God

  82. declares you and I as believers, where once we were sinners as

  83. now righteous. That is what we call our

  84. position, our standing in Jesus Christ.

  85. And then sanctification is when having now become a Christian,

  86. there is this commencement of a lifelong process, the Holy

  87. Spirit at work and you changing you, transforming you, making

  88. you into the image of Jesus Christ, that sanctification both

  89. are again part of what we call salvation justification, your

  90. standing and your position in Christ sanctification, your

  91. practise, how you live out your daily life as a Christian.

  92. And a lot of times people get those two confused and it causes

  93. all sorts of issues in them doubting their salvation because

  94. they're not really living a sanctified life.

  95. Many people think, oh, am I saved?

  96. Am I not saved? And you know, that fluctuates

  97. day to day. Justification does not alter our

  98. position. Sanctification is what we're

  99. concerned with and what we're particularly looking at tonight.

  100. So Paul's focus is that once we're saved, what needs to

  101. happen is that we need to grow in holiness and likeness to

  102. Jesus Christ that that we live a life that is separated different

  103. to the world and the people around us.

  104. Sanctification, obedience to the Holy Spirit in our living.

  105. And there are two extremes that people often head to in there.

  106. One is isolation and the second is assimilation.

  107. Isolation is this where where Christians often feel like that

  108. they should never ever talk to a non Christian ever again.

  109. Never be around a non Christian ever again or do anything with a

  110. non Christian. Now, if you go to a restaurant,

  111. you've asked for the sanctified section.

  112. And we want a spirit filled waitress, please, if we can.

  113. And we want the Holy Ghost menu. And so we have churches that

  114. have restaurants and we have, you know, churches that have all

  115. sorts of activities based on kind of isolating believers

  116. together, you know, ask for no more and creating these

  117. Christian bubbles. Now, I don't believe biblically

  118. that as we read the Scriptures that that God wants us to live

  119. a, a monastic life, to go out into a monastery and to fully

  120. isolate from the world that that may serve a purpose for a period

  121. of time, don't get me wrong, but not as a permanent feature of

  122. life and living. You see, the salt is no good

  123. unless it gets out of the salt shaker, right?

  124. You and I, we are called the salt of the earth.

  125. A light that is hidden under a bushel has no effect.

  126. We are called the lights of the world.

  127. And I think one of the reasons why the world has gotten so bad

  128. is because the salt and the light have not permeated into

  129. the world as they should and having a a sanctifying effect on

  130. the world around us. Now, I believe we need

  131. Christians in every area of life.

  132. We need Christian bankers. We need Christian lawyers, we

  133. need Christian principles, Christian teachers, Christian

  134. nurses, Christian sales assistants, Christian grocery

  135. store workers, to to influence, to permeate like the salt of the

  136. earth and the light of the world.

  137. But the second extreme to that is assimilation, where we become

  138. too much like the world. Rather than being a light to the

  139. world, we become like the world. When we're like the world and

  140. it's ideas and it's philosophies and lifestyles, then we're no

  141. longer any good to the world. The salt that loses its

  142. saltiness is good for nothing, Jesus said, but to be thrown out

  143. in the way and trodden under the feet of men.

  144. Jesus declared. You see, there's no difference

  145. then between the non Christian and the Christian.

  146. And there ought to be. So we can find ourselves

  147. swinging from one of two extremes, either isolation or

  148. assimilation. So where do we go when we're

  149. unsure? What example do we look to?

  150. We look to Jesus, right? Jesus demonstrated this, this

  151. tension of what? Is it isolation or is it

  152. assimilation? Which one is it?

  153. Remember that Jesus went to the home of a Zacchaeus.

  154. Remember the wee little man? We sing the song.

  155. It was a tax collected, despised by many.

  156. Even his own disciples freaked out when Jesus said Zacchaeus,

  157. come down from that Sycamore tree, I'm coming to your house

  158. for tea. And a few moments later, what

  159. happened? Zacchaeus was a converted man.

  160. When Jesus allowed the sinful woman to let down her hair and

  161. to touch his feet, to wash his feet with her tears and then to

  162. wipe those feet with his hair, some of the religious leaders

  163. freaked out. Does does he know who she is and

  164. what she's done? And then consider we looked at

  165. it briefly this morning, John chapter 4, when Jesus waiting at

    John 4 chapter mention

  166. Jacob's well outside of a Samaritan town and along would

  167. come a Samaritan woman, wicked by all definitions of various

  168. people. She'd had five husbands and she

  169. was now living with a man who was not her husband.

  170. The modern church would have a freak out session would not have

  171. a bar with the likes of that right?

  172. She even was shocked that Jesus would spend time dialoguing with

  173. her. She said you a man and a Jew

  174. would talk to me. And So what is Jesus example as

  175. we look to him? Jesus actually had contact with

  176. sinners, but he was never contaminated by them.

  177. That's the secret. So we we want to, we need to

  178. make and have contact with unbelievers, with non

  179. Christians, but we don't want to be contaminated, influenced by

  180. them. The influence ought to happen

  181. the other way. And this is a delicate balance

  182. that Paul covers for us tonight in our passage as we now move to

  183. this. We're to be separated from the

  184. world and separated unto God, to be Christ like and impactful for

  185. the Kingdom of God. So I want to Orient our thoughts

  186. under 3 headings tonight as we examine the verses before us.

  187. Firstly, the incompatibility of the yoke in verses 14 through to

  188. 16 out of chapter 6. Secondly, the invitation to

  189. separation in verses 17 and 18. And then lastly, verse 1 of

  190. Chapter 7, the incentive of holiness.

  191. Let's read verse 14. Do not be unequally yoked.

  192. I'm reading from the New King James Version.

  193. Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers.

  194. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness?

  195. What communion has light with darkness?

  196. Notice all of these terms that he employs here are terms of

  197. intimacy of affiliation. Verse 15 and what accord that

  198. word accord there is where we get the English word choir, like

  199. a collective of voices singing and functioning together as one.

  200. What accord has Christ with Belial?

  201. That's another term for Satan, for the devil, or what part has

  202. a believer with an unbeliever? And what agreement verse 16 has

  203. the temple of God with idols for you are the temple of the living

  204. God. As God has said, I will dwell in

  205. them and walk among them. I will be their God and they

  206. shall be my people. Paul begins do not be unequally

  207. yoked with unbelievers. Now let's go a little background

  208. here that remember Corinth was a very large city some 700,000

  209. they estimate in population at this point in time the city was

  210. a wealthy city. It was called the Vanity Fair of

  211. the Roman Empire because Corinth was this resort type of

  212. destination. It was a city that attracted

  213. pleasure seeking tourists from all over the region.

  214. And when I say pleasure, it was wicked pleasure.

  215. It was a port city which made Corinth a convenient and popular

  216. stopping place for sailors usually looking to get drunk and

  217. to indulge in one night stands. The slogan was at that time what

  218. happens in Corinth? Stays in Corinth.

  219. Sounds so familiar doesn't it? The city of Corinth was also

  220. filled again with these shrines, with these Pagan temples, the

  221. most popular being the temple of Aphrodites.

  222. The goddess of so called love employed in this temple some

  223. 1000 plus prostitutes, both male and female, who went out every

  224. night soliciting business in the name of worship, selling their

  225. wares. In fact, in Rome at the time,

  226. they had a saying to describe those whose lives were

  227. characterised by living loose, by being immoral and typically

  228. drunk all of the time. They were said to be behaving

  229. like a Corinthian. And so it was to these believers

  230. living in this city, Corinth, this type of environment that

  231. Paul writes these words. Be not unequally yoked to an

  232. unbeliever. Now, this is probably the most

  233. familiar and most often quoted portion of Scripture out of

  234. Second Corinthians. I'm sure that you've all heard

  235. of it. The context, again, is important

  236. for us to consider in verses 11 to 13 and in verse 1 of chapter

  237. 6. What Paul has been talking about

  238. all through this is how that was that the Corinthian church were

  239. being persuaded by false teachers to disregard Paul's

  240. gospel, which was the gospel of Jesus Christ that he was

  241. preaching. And so there was this error in

  242. the Corinthian church that they were being LED astray by these

  243. false teachers. And in fact, by by identifying

  244. them in this way, what really Paul is saying of the false

  245. teachers is that they're unbelievers.

  246. They're not in fact saved that what they're teaching is

  247. something that is altogether contrary to the gospel.

  248. The problem again with the Christians in Corinth is that

  249. many of them, one way or the other, were either buying into

  250. the philosophies of these false teachers or, as we discovered in

  251. First Corinthians, they had a reputation for being a very

  252. carnal church. They embraced all sorts of

  253. liberties and thought they had all of these freedoms that saw

  254. them breaking many of God's moral laws.

  255. As a consequence, they're either buying into the deceptions of

  256. the false teachers or they were embracing lifestyles and ways of

  257. living that were akin to their old ways of living prior to

  258. their salvation and coming to Jesus Christ.

  259. So this writing that Paul says do not be unequally yoked

  260. together with unbelievers in verse 14 is a call and a

  261. reminder for them to be separate.

  262. So let's look at this picture that he has for us, the yoke,

  263. the binding of two animals together.

  264. Paul takes them essentially back into the Old Testament, into the

  265. Pentateuch, the book of Deuteronomy, specifically in

  266. chapter 22, verse 10, which specifically forbade the yoking

  267. together of an ox with a donkey because they have different

  268. strengths, different gates, different temperaments.

  269. It was unkind again to the animals.

  270. It was unproductive for the farmer.

  271. And Paul uses this to demonstrate, to show how

  272. disastrous spiritual mismatches are.

  273. What was the yoke again? A yoke was that wooden frame or

  274. bar with typically loops, often made out of leather at either

  275. end that would fit around the necks of the two animals,

  276. harnessing their power together, forcing them to function as 1

  277. entity, one being. And so yokes then have 3

  278. characteristics which will connect to why it is.

  279. Paul uses this as a picture first.

  280. It would tie 2 animals into a close relationship with each

  281. other, having a a common goal and a master over them.

  282. And this would not be a superficial relationship.

  283. Then the second is that that yoke would not be easily broken

  284. kind of a permanent relationship.

  285. And This is why the Church has often always taken this passage

  286. to refer to the marriage relationship.

  287. You know, marriage is that kind of yoke, a permanent, binding,

  288. lasting connection with somebody else.

  289. It is more than a superficial relationship.

  290. It is a relationship that cannot be easily broken.

  291. That's the the picture that is in mind here.

  292. Now it could also be argued in this that when Paul is talking

  293. about here this yoke that it applies to any close

  294. relationship then that we as believers have with unbelievers.

  295. Consider the dating relationship.

  296. People talk about missionary dating.

  297. Ever heard that phrase? It can refer to friendships or

  298. even a business partnership or the big push in today's day and

  299. age, in the spiritual age in which we seem to be living of of

  300. multi faith worship of it, we'll just let's have a gathering.

  301. We'll have the the Muslims speak, the Hindus speak, we'll

  302. have the the Buddhist speak, the Jew, the Christian alike, and we

  303. can all come together. And that yoking now the third

  304. mark of a yoke here is that it constrains someone.

  305. It does not commit independent action.

  306. The two animals had to work as one.

  307. So putting all of this together, to be not yoked together with an

  308. unbeliever would mean this. Not putting ourselves in a close

  309. permanent relationship, not easily broken or a relationship

  310. that would restrict us or constrain us in our actions, in

  311. our thoughts, in our expressions with a non believer.

  312. So this would definitely apply to a close friendship.

  313. This would definitely apply to the dating relationship,

  314. definitely apply to the marriage relationship.

  315. Even a business partnership would fit under that umbrella of

  316. the picture here that is given to us by Paul and the principle

  317. that he pulls out through verse 14 and into 15 when he asked

  318. these five rhetorical questions. What partnership has

  319. righteousness with lawlessness? The obvious answer, None.

  320. What fellowship is like with darkness?

  321. The obvious answer, None. What accord has Christ with

  322. Belial, a name for Satan? None.

  323. What portion does a believer share with an unbeliever?

  324. None. What agreement has the temple of

  325. God with idols? There isn't any agreement.

  326. Each answer is the same. There is no relationship.

  327. There is no fellowship. There is no accord.

  328. There is no portion, There is no agreement.

  329. Oil and water don't mix. Christ and compromise don't

  330. belong together. And so establishing the picture

  331. and the principle behind it now he reminds them of the presence

  332. of God. We you are the temple of the

  333. living God. And the issue isn't just

  334. incompatibility then with sin, it's about intimacy with God.

  335. If God dwells in us as the temple of God, his argument is

  336. how can we yoke ourselves, bind ourselves, connect ourselves

  337. with that which defiles His presence?

  338. The two cannot cohabitate just as his example is.

  339. God would not allow an idol to be erected in the temple and him

  340. be OK with it. You know, they would be familiar

  341. with the Old Testament and God's harsh words against you shall

  342. have no other gods before me. The picture is there.

  343. It just, it cannot exist. I don't know if you've ever seen

  344. the Looney Tunes cartoon where you've got the sheepdog Sam and

  345. then the wolf Ralph. He kind of looks like a wily

  346. coyote. And they're all cordial and

  347. friendly, you know. Good morning, Ralph.

  348. Good morning, Sam. Good night, Ralph.

  349. Good night, Sam. And then they clock in.

  350. They punch their ticket and commence the day's hostilities

  351. against each other as sheepdog and wolf trying to catch the

  352. sheep. You know, God and and the devil

  353. aren't like that. They don't kind of coexist in

  354. this cordial relationship. Where?

  355. How are you, Satan? Oh, yeah, not bad.

  356. God and you. Yeah.

  357. Yeah. Good.

  358. And then commence hostilities. They cannot coexist together

  359. Christian as the temple of the living God in whom God dwells

  360. cannot have cohabiting via yoking things that devile defile

  361. his presence. And so the application then

  362. consider it for young people who are your closest friends.

  363. Are they pulling you toward Christ or away from him?

  364. For singles here, be wise in your dating relationship.

  365. Marriage is the deepest, the strongest yoke to.

  366. Going in opposite directions will tear you apart.

  367. And for all of us, what are you yoked to in daily life, in in

  368. the partnerships that you have in in the business practises, in

  369. in your entertainment choices? Do they honour Christ or do they

  370. hinder faithfulness to Him? So that's our first

  371. consideration, our second, the invitation to separation.

  372. Verse 17 to 18. Therefore come out from among

  373. them and be separate, says the Lord.

  374. Do not touch what is unclean, and I will receive you.

  375. I will be a father to you. Verse 18 And you shall be my

  376. sons and daughters, says the Lord Almighty.

  377. Paul here quotes the Old Testament prophet Isaiah and

  378. also Ezekiel. And there's a call to purity

  379. here that he declares and separation doesn't mean

  380. isolation. In this Paul is not telling

  381. Christians to withdraw from unbelievers after all.

  382. Again, he himself lived amongst engaged with unbelievers,

  383. preaching the gospel again and again, but it does mean refusing

  384. to share in their sin. A good example is to think of

  385. Daniel in Babylon who was able to serve faithfully without

  386. defiling himself. And there's a call to privilege

  387. here. Notice the promise that God

  388. gives, having separated out from the promise is I will be a

  389. father to you. And then back in verse 16, and

  390. you will be my people, he says. And there's a relational aspect

  391. here. It's not a a legalistic thing

  392. going on. God calls us to come out from

  393. sin, not to punish us, but to welcome us into his presence.

  394. You see separation out from the world is separation under him

  395. and leads to intimacy and fellowship and a strong

  396. connection of privilege with him.

  397. And it builds into a priority then because we see that if God

  398. is our father and, and we are his children, you know what that

  399. declares for us? Our identity.

  400. It prioritises who we are in this world.

  401. We don't belong to the world, we belong to him.

  402. We're we're above the things of the world.

  403. We have a clear calling, a clear identity, a clear character

  404. about who we are as children of God.

  405. We're sons and daughters of God. And so the point is again, that

  406. certain things are fundamentally incompatible.

  407. Imagine for the athletes amongst us trying to run a 5 kilometre

  408. run with a sandal on one foot and a cowboy boot on the other.

  409. I don't think you're going to go very fast.

  410. You might not even go very far. There are things that just do

  411. not work well together, right, or belong together.

  412. And there are things that will keep you from experiencing all

  413. that God has for you. You know, when you read

  414. Scripture, it's all through the Bible.

  415. You see this pattern everywhere. This principle declared again

  416. and again God calling His people to come away from the things of

  417. this world, and then to be separate.

  418. And we call that word holy, or set aside for the purpose of

  419. Him, to be with him, and for the purpose of His use.

  420. God called Abraham Genesis 12, out of air of the Chaldees.

  421. He called Lot out of Sodom Genesis 19.

  422. He called the people of Israel out of Egypt in Exodus and and

  423. gave them a whole list of laws that would ensure that they

  424. lived and and worship different to the nations around them.

  425. Today God calls you and I, the church, to be separate, and one

  426. day soon and very soon, Jesus is coming and He will call us home

  427. to be forevermore in His presence.

  428. And so you are tonight either one of the people responding to

  429. the call to come out or you're part of the crowd that God is

  430. calling people to come out of. There's only two options when it

  431. comes to Scripture. There are the righteous and

  432. there are the lawless, those in the light and those who love

  433. darkness, believers and unbelievers, those who are the

  434. temple of God, those who worship idols.

  435. And if you're in the group tonight that has responded to

  436. the call of God, then you need to be aware of the warning that

  437. Paul gives of not being too cosy with the world, knowing that it

  438. is going to try to pull you away from the holiness and purity

  439. that God desires for you and in you.

  440. And the world does this by urging you to appreciate, value,

  441. pursue, to tolerate and approve of things that God condemns.

  442. But let's not just talk about the things that God wants his

  443. people to come out of and to pull away from.

  444. But also let's notice the divine initiative in the heart of God

  445. in this. He doesn't just sit idly by and

  446. and let things happen. He invites us in this to come

  447. into a deeper and deeper fellowship with Him.

  448. I will be your Father, You will be my sons and daughters.

  449. And He's offering to heal more and more of our wounds, offering

  450. to teach us new ways to live, giving us a purpose and an

  451. identity in Him, a reason to live each day, and the spiritual

  452. strength to do it. I will be a father to you.

  453. We're part of the family of God. We have access to him in a way

  454. that others don't possess and have.

  455. That means he's wrought resources at ours.

  456. That means his power is ours. There's a wonderful dynamic in

  457. all of this. And so for families as an

  458. application in this, what boundaries maybe need to be

  459. established and set in your home, in media, in in

  460. friendships, in in priorities so that Christ remains central for

  461. for workers. Where do you need courage to say

  462. no, to compromise, even even if it costs advancement for all

  463. believers? Don't think tonight of

  464. separation is lost. Oh man, what am I giving up and

  465. what am I sacrificing? Think of it as gain.

  466. And what you're gaining is this. You're gaining God's smile,

  467. God's welcome, God's fatherly embrace, and so press into a

  468. greater relationship with him, separate, come out of the world

  469. and separate unto him. And there's an incentive lastly

  470. of holiness that now springs out of this.

  471. In verse 1 of Chapter 7, Paul concludes therefore, or since

  472. having these promises, beloved, let us cleanse ourselves from

  473. all filthiness of the flesh and spirit, perfecting holiness in

  474. the fear of God. And so the motivation that he

  475. declares for us in this, the incentive of holiness is

  476. therefore or, or since or because we have these promises

  477. that should, should, should motivate you unto holiness.

  478. And what are the promises? The promise that he's just

  479. written for us is that God would dwell with us, that God would

  480. walk among us. God would be our God and and be

  481. our Father. You see, holiness then isn't

  482. motivated out of a fear of punishment or or a fear of being

  483. caught with the hand in the cookie jar, but by the joy of

  484. belonging with God the Father and the method of holiness.

  485. Let us cleanse ourselves here. This this doesn't mean self

  486. salvation that we have to earn our salvation, but rather here

  487. it's Speaking of a lifestyle of active repentance, like washing

  488. your hands before a meal. We confess our sin and and we

  489. turn from it so that we enjoy fellowship with God.

  490. And then there's a maturity that comes out of it.

  491. Bringing holiness to completion or to perfection, says holiness

  492. then is progressive. Day after day, verse by verse,

  493. chapter by chapter, book by book through the Bible, year by year,

  494. the Spirit conforming us into the image of Christ.

  495. Maybe in all of this, this this marriage illustration might

  496. help. April and I have been married

  497. for 26 years, right? Take a drink of water, all

  498. right? But you know, it's not enough

  499. for me to just love her and be devoted to her and, and be

  500. committed to her. You know what else I have to do?

  501. I have to say no to other women, right?

  502. We say, but we, we had that in our vows, you and no other,

  503. right? We, we make that declaration.

  504. It's it's totally unacceptable for me to tell my wife I love

  505. you. You're my wife.

  506. I'm I'm married to you. But there are some other women I

  507. like as well I want to spend time with, and I'm going to take

  508. them out to dinner and buy a few things She'd be like.

  509. And So what I'm saying is, as a Christian, just like in

  510. marriage, it's not enough for you to say I love Jesus, I love

  511. Jesus, I love Jesus, I'm a Christian.

  512. You also have to say I don't love the world.

  513. I'm not attracted to the world. I'm not going to follow the

  514. world. I'm not going to be like the

  515. world. You see, again, there's a

  516. positive a yes, and there's a negative no.

  517. So just as in the marriage relationship, I have to love my

  518. wife. I keep my distance, I have my

  519. eyes only for her. Say no to others.

  520. That's what it means to be married.

  521. And as Christians, we are the bride of Christ.

  522. The Bible says don't then flirt with the world.

  523. The lust of the eyes, the lust of the flesh.

  524. John puts it this way in first John, love not the world nor the

  525. things that are in the world. If anyone loves the world, the

  526. love of the Father is not in him.

  527. So guard your heart, guard your mind.

  528. What you watch, what you read, what you listen to, you know,

  529. the podcast, the information, the advice that's given out, who

  530. you associate with and, and what they promote and what they

  531. advocate, the ideologies that the paradigms in, you know, the

  532. parenting philosophies that people espouse.

  533. Say no to the world, Verse 17 and 18.

  534. Therefore, come out from among them.

  535. Be separate, says the Lord. Do not touch what is unclean and

  536. I will receive you. I will be a father to you.

  537. You shall be my sons and daughters, says the Lord

  538. Almighty. So God's call tonight, it's not

  539. just don't be yoked, don't be yoked.

  540. His call is be mine, be mine. And it's a jealousy, not against

  541. other things, but it's a jealousy for us, for our

  542. benefit. Separation isn't about distance

  543. from the world so much as it's about devotion unto Christ.

  544. So the incompatibility of the yoke is you cannot serve Christ

  545. and compromise by by serving and and following and and loving

  546. others and other things. The invitation to separation

  547. come out, separate out from the things of the world and separate

  548. unto God, and He will welcome you as His child.

  549. The incentive of holiness is a a pursuit of purity because his

  550. promises are yours and mine and ours.

  551. So again, there's very practical applications in this text.

  552. And I again for the young here in our midst, choose your

  553. friends and future spouse wisely, prayerfully for parents,

  554. protect your family from worldly compromise.

  555. For workers, live with integrity in in your business and in your

  556. career and in the decisions made for us as a church, Be holy.

  557. Together we are God's dwelling place.

  558. To be yoked with Christ as freedom to be separated unto Him

  559. is joy. To pursue holiness in His

  560. promises is life. Let us endure in this

  561. separation, not as lost, but as glory, for God Himself is our

  562. reward. So tonight, look at the things,

  563. look at the people in your life and ask, is, is this leading me

  564. closer to God or further away from him?

  565. Don't just ask, is it OK? Ask does it please God?

  566. Does your heart, do your desires accurately reflect God or do you

  567. need some work done in there? Now the best way that you can

  568. grow stronger in your walk with God is to get into God's Word

  569. and get God's word into you. Psalm 119, verses 9 to 11.

    Psalms 119:9–11

  570. How can a young man person cleanse his way?

  571. By taking heed according to Your Word?

  572. Verse 10 With my whole heart I have sought you.

  573. Oh, let me not wander from your commandments, Your word.

  574. Have I hidden in my heart that I might not sin against you?

  575. So Christian, believe it tonight.

  576. If you want to grow, you want to mature, get into the Word, the

  577. Bible, and get the Word into you.

  578. If you don't establish it, have some daily reading of Scripture

  579. and praying. Download an audio Bible on your

  580. phone. Listen to it.

  581. Get into a Bible study and you need to remove to eliminate

  582. certain things out of your life. But but don't just leave that

  583. space empty. Well, I've I'm done away with

  584. those things. Instead, fill it with with other

  585. things, with good things. You need to form new habits, new

  586. patterns, new desires. You need fellowship as we are

  587. tonight. You need connection.

  588. You you need to fill that with the right things.

  589. And so here's now the connection in this 1-2 Corinthians tonight

  590. in chapter 6 is do not be unequally yoked.

  591. You can never hear the word yoke, I think, without

  592. remembering the words of Jesus in Matthew 1129 to 30, who said,

  593. take my yoke upon you. Learn from me, for I'm gentle

  594. and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.

  595. My yoke is easy and my burden is light.

  596. I like the sound of that yoke. Let's pray.

  597. Lord, we thank you for this word tonight.

  598. Perhaps the conviction the Holy Spirit brings in studying, in

  599. looking through this, as we examine and consider ways that

  600. we have been unequally yoked, help us to separate out from the

  601. world the things of the world, the things that are contrary to

  602. you and separate unto you, to press into you and enjoy the

  603. intimacy of that fellowship. You as our Father, we as your

  604. sons and daughters. For we are your temple, Lord

  605. God, we are your dwelling place, we are your people.

  606. And may we as a church be marked by a pursuit of holiness, of

  607. sanctification, desiring all the more to be like you.

  608. Lord Jesus Christ, You've loved us with an everlasting love.

  609. So now, Lord God, I pray for your people.

  610. May we enjoy your presence. May we know that you are with us

  611. each and every day. Empower us.

  612. Enable us to live for your glory, to be the salt of the

  613. earth, to be the light of the world.

  614. Pray and ask these things in Jesus name.

  615. God's people said Amen.