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"The Parables of Jesus" | Luke 15 & Matt 18 Part 2 | Pastor Keith

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  1. Luke chapter 15, remember we were doing the three parables,

    Luke 15 chapter mention

  2. we're in the parable series of Jesus and we looked at the lost

  3. sheep, lost coin and we got part way through the prodigal son and

  4. we learnt that it's prodigal son's plural.

  5. So open your Bibles to Luke 15 and we'll catch up from where we

  6. were because remember the youngest son has returned home.

  7. And in verse 25 it says now his oldest son was in the field and

  8. as he came and drew near to the house, he heard music and the

  9. brother dancing. So he called one of the servants

  10. and asked him what's going on? And he said to him, your brother

  11. has come because he's received him safe.

  12. Your father has killed the fatted calf.

  13. He was 28, but he was angry and wouldn't go stop there.

  14. So the parables, a parable is an earthly story with a heavenly

  15. meaning. And in these three parables that

  16. Jesus is speaking, and he's speaking to the Pharisees at the

  17. time. They're the listeners and and

  18. it's about God is the seeker who finds us and then rejoices

  19. greatly in heaven. Mentioned that twice and

  20. rejoices. The seeker is God, the seeker is

  21. God. So we've dealt with the youngest

  22. son and the narrative then takes up the oldest son.

  23. Verse 25, we read that. So the oldest son had received

  24. his inheritance too. Remember we read last Wednesday

  25. that the dad had divided up the inheritance.

  26. He didn't just give the youngest son he's inheritance, he gave it

  27. to them. So they both got their their

  28. money before dad died, but he stayed around the house.

  29. The older brother, his oldest son was in the field and when he

  30. came and approached the house, he hears the music, there's joy,

  31. there's dancing. And I really got the party going

  32. really quick on the return of the son before even get get in

  33. from the from the field before the day it even ended, he was

  34. still working. So he summoned one of the other

  35. workers. He said, what's what's, what's

  36. going on? What's all the, all the noise

  37. and all the, the joy going on. Your brother has come.

  38. Your father has killed the fatted calf because he has

  39. received him back safe and sound.

  40. Verse 27, They're having a celebration because your sinful,

  41. wretched, vile, polluted brother who lived in dissipation has

  42. come home. This is so emblematic, isn't it,

  43. of the tax collectors? That's the audience that's

  44. hearing these three parables and sinners because they said,

  45. Jesus, you're always hanging out and eating with sinners.

  46. That's where this Jesus said then began to tell them the

  47. stories, the parables to the Pharisees and all the sinners

  48. came and hung out with Jesus. So the first son is so

  49. illustrative of the outcast, the sinners, you and I and son

  50. number 2 is definitely an illustration of the Pharisees,

  51. the religious leaders in verse 28 it says, but he became what,

  52. overjoyed. Oh my brother's son, awesome.

  53. What angry he goes angry and he he said, I'm not going to the

  54. party. He's really ticked off.

  55. He's not about to eat dinner with a Sinner.

  56. Notice the connection. I'm not eating with a Sinner.

  57. He says dad came out and began entreating him.

  58. Lo, these many years that I have been serving you verse 29.

  59. I've never transgressed your commandment at any time.

  60. Sounds like the rich young ruler, doesn't it?

  61. Came to Jesus, said I want to follow you, and yet you never

  62. gave me, not even a goat, that I might make merry of my friends.

  63. But as soon as this son of yours said the language, as soon as

  64. this son of yours came, who was devoured your livelihood with

  65. harlots, you killed the fatted calf for him.

  66. And he said to him, son, you're always with me, and all that I

  67. have is yours. It was right that we should make

  68. merry and be glad. For your brother was dead.

  69. He's alive again. It was lost.

  70. And he's found many people have sympathy for the older brother.

  71. Go. Yeah, well, he did the fair

  72. thing now. Read the text.

  73. Come and join me. Your brother's home.

  74. You should be happy. That's it.

  75. The Son did not have the heart of his father like that.

  76. John picks that up. He loves his brother, has the

  77. love of God within him. The Son rejoiced not in the

  78. salvation of a lost and outcast brother, because he had not the

  79. heart of his father. He did not love his father.

  80. For if he'd loved his father, wouldn't he love what his father

  81. loved? He would have entered into his

  82. father's joy. Love does that.

  83. Oh, Dad, you're so happy. Were you happy?

  84. You're so. Oh, isn't that awesome?

  85. I see, Dad. So good to see you happy.

  86. You've been sitting out on the road waiting for him to come

  87. home. And And now you can redo.

  88. You don't have to sit out there all day and wait and watch.

  89. Dad. So good.

  90. So many years I've been serving you.

  91. I've never neglected a command of yours.

  92. Always been right on. As I said, sounds like the rich

  93. young ruler. I've done all of these things.

  94. Jesus, you've never given me even a goat, a kid.

  95. But when this son of yours, he didn't say when This brother of

  96. mine, it's his brother, blood brother whom I missed and loved.

  97. Oh, great to see you home, man. I love he's devoured your wealth

  98. with hearts. You've killed the fatted calf

  99. for him. He's the Pharisee.

  100. He doesn't know the heart of his father.

  101. He has no compassion for the lost because the God the Father

  102. 3 parables The story is father has compassion for the lost.

  103. He too is a lost son and the father seeks him as well.

  104. Dad says, hey, why aren't you coming?

  105. Come and join us, my child. You've always been with me.

  106. Verse 31. All that I have is yours.

  107. Everything that I have, I possess.

  108. You can, you can have, but we had to be Mary and rejoice for

  109. this brother of yours. That's what he says.

  110. Not the son of mine, but this brother of yours is dead now.

  111. He's alive. He's been found.

  112. He was lost and he's been found. That's the key in all the three

  113. parables. But self righteous people, self

  114. righteous people cannot tolerate the forgiveness of sinners,

  115. especially flagrant sinners. And so in this young man's heart

  116. there is not the heart of his father.

  117. He had no love for his father. He served only for out of duty.

  118. For many years I've been serving him and I've been doing the

  119. right thing. I've never neglected it.

  120. It was all duty. That's what the religious

  121. Pharisees do. They just do it because it's the

  122. job. It was perfunctory duty.

  123. And so there's no repentance in the older brother.

  124. There's no confession of sin, no confession of sin.

  125. And the older brother, all of sin, have fallen short of the

  126. glory of God. There's none righteous, No, not

  127. one. The Bible says there's no

  128. submission to his Father's will. I'm not going.

  129. I'm not hanging out with him. I'm not eating with him.

  130. I'll do what I want to do. There's no entering into his

  131. father's joy. Dad, just so wonderful.

  132. You're happy. I'm happy.

  133. God the father. If God's happy, I'm happy.

  134. He doesn't know the heart of his father.

  135. The first son in the story sees his sin.

  136. Remember, he's sitting in the pig pen.

  137. He feels the sorrow he repents. He humbles himself.

  138. He says, oh man, I'm not even worthy to go home to be son.

  139. I'm not even worth. If he could give me a job as a

  140. worker, then that's all I hope can hope for.

  141. And he receives the grace of his father.

  142. He enters into the joy of his father and is restored to

  143. sonship, the second son. No repentance, no confession of

  144. the cold deadness of his own heart.

  145. You know, Dad, you know I've been too much.

  146. I should. I should be happy.

  147. You're happy. My brother's home, man.

  148. I I should be happy, shouldn't I?

  149. What Luke is telling us is he gives us those 3 parables we've

  150. done of our dear Lord is that the Lord seeks and to save those

  151. who recognise their lostness. We're going to do chapter 4

  152. Daniel on Sunday, one of the great chapters in the Old

  153. Testament where a Sinner tells us about coming, coming to the

  154. Lord. King Nebuchadnezzar comes to

  155. comes to the Lord the apostle Paul who was so remember

  156. snorting and breathing on his way to Damascus to get more

  157. Christians arrested and put to death and he finds God.

  158. You see what it is. This is that you and I if we had

  159. the heart of the Father. We see the lostness in everyone

  160. and we see God's heart for them. But self righteous Pharisees

  161. notes, he's that person, my next door neighbour, that person

  162. unsavable. Well, Nebuchadnezzar was

  163. unsavable, greatest tyrant in the world.

  164. Saul was unsavable. He could become Paul.

  165. Guess what? You and I were unsavable.

  166. But even for them, the Father says, you've always been around

  167. and what is mine has always been available to you.

  168. For God so loved the world. The invitation to come to

  169. Christ, to the cross is open to everyone, to all our family, to

  170. all our friends. The invitation, whosoever will

  171. come, the heart of God is to seek and save the lost.

  172. The Bible says God desires that, that all should come to

  173. repentance. That is to be our heart today

  174. who know Christ. The lost who come to Christ come

  175. in recognition of sin. Sermon on the Mount.

  176. Blessed are they who mourn. That's mourning over that.

  177. Look, look at, look at who I am. You see, if you're a genuine

  178. Christian, then you recognise that you're a genuine Sinner in

  179. the 1st place. You can't come to Christ until

  180. you recognise I'm a Sinner lost and I need a saviour.

  181. The problem with many church services today is they allow

  182. people to make a prayer to to God in Christ's name and they

  183. haven't mentioned anything about repentance or confession of sin

  184. and they have a religious experience.

  185. They leave and go away and nothing changes in their life

  186. because they haven't become born again.

  187. The lost to come to Christ come in recognition of sin, in

  188. humiliation. Are you humiliated by your old

  189. life, by your old ways? I'm humiliated even now when I

  190. sin and I go, God, I'm sorry, I shouldn't have done that.

  191. I grieve the Holy Spirit. I'm humiliated when I grieve the

  192. Holy Spirit. I have a repentant attitude.

  193. It's with me all the time because I know I don't deserve

  194. his mercy or his grace, and I desire to submit to the leading

  195. and guiding and sobering work of the Lord.

  196. It's not like, well, if I become a Christian, do I have to give

  197. up? Well, stop.

  198. Then you're not ready because all you got to give up, as Paul

  199. says, is manure. Remember, you got a bucket of

  200. manure. And you mean I can't keep this

  201. bucket of manure if I become a Christian.

  202. And I will be happy to come to Christ and be nothing but a

  203. slave. I think that would be wonderful

  204. to be a slave for God. That's what Paul says.

  205. Now that is the meaning in the parable form of this statement

  206. for the Son of man has come to seek and save that which is

  207. lost. Now jump with me back, turn left

  208. and go to Matthew 18 where we continue in this, the series,

  209. Matthew 18 verse 21 to 22 tonight, where there's been talk

    Matthew 18:21–22

  210. and, and it's been discussions about forgiveness.

  211. Matthew 18, verse 21 and it talks about we're dealing with a

    Matthew 18:21

  212. sinning brother discipline in the church.

  213. We're two or more gathered. In other words, we'll let's,

  214. let's go and see our brother. He won't listen to me.

  215. Well, it's two of us. Go, let's go and see our

  216. brother. Mate, you're living in sin.

  217. You can't do that. Oh, sorry, I repent.

  218. We're two or more gathered. This is what it's about.

  219. It's about discipline, but it's being righteous and it's been,

  220. it's been forgiven to a brother. So it's talking about brothers

  221. in the Lord. Brothers and sisters in Christ

  222. is the background. So let's read verse 21.

  223. And Peter came to him and said, Lord, how often shall my brother

  224. sin against me? And I forgive him?

  225. Seven times. Jesus said to him, I did not say

  226. to you up 7 times, but up 70 * 7.

  227. Yeah. The the Jewishness behind this

  228. is interesting because the rabbi's taught that anyone who

  229. had been wronged was to forgive the perpetrator to and at the

  230. most three times Peter being generous, he said, Lord, seven

  231. times I could do 7 times, Jesus says to Peter, not seven, 490

  232. times Peter, Peter's gone. How in the world are I'm going

  233. to keep track of that? Laptops haven't been invented.

  234. I can't, you know, I don't know how to use an Abacus yet.

  235. That, in fact, was the point that Peter was being taught by

  236. Jesus in this parable. Peter was thinking in the

  237. measurable. How many times must I think of

  238. the parable of the prodigals? How much you know, how much

  239. forgiveness. It's the, it's the old brother

  240. coming in. It's the Pharisee coming in

  241. again. It's limited terms of law, not

  242. the immeasurable and unlimited terms of grace.

  243. Because grace is, we see it, an ocean and I'm drowning.

  244. Grace is unmeasurable. Law keeps account.

  245. That's six times you offended me.

  246. Grace doesn't keep count. Jesus was not extending the

  247. legal limit of forgiveness, not giving him a bigger ruler.

  248. Jesus was teaching that a Christian with a forgiving heart

  249. thinks nothing about forgiving, that he forgives the 100th

  250. offence or the thousandth offence just as readily and

  251. graciously as the first. Why?

  252. Because that is the way he or she is forgiven by God.

  253. How many times have you been forgiven by God since the day

  254. you got saved? How many times have you been

  255. forgiven today by God? Every time someone says

  256. forgiven, the little bell goes up.

  257. I just heard it, Tinkerbell. Another forgiveness tonight.

  258. God wants to impart you something that has the power to

  259. change lives. And I mean this to men, hearts

  260. to bring healing to hurts and to release joy and strength because

  261. there's a lot of unforgiveness around.

  262. Remember the song 1965? Those are old enough.

  263. Hal David wrote Burke Bacharach did the music.

  264. What the world needs now is love.

  265. No, what the world needs now, what marriages need now is

  266. forgiveness. What your sons and daughters

  267. need forgiveness. What you and I need from one

  268. another is forgiveness. It's it's the most gracious gift

  269. that you can give. It's godly.

  270. It's wrapped in in the love of God.

  271. Proverbs 15 one says a soft answer turns away wrath, but

  272. grievous words stir up anger or what is forgiveness or to

  273. forgive to It means to admit neglect, let go, give up a debt,

  274. forgive to remit, to give up, to keep no longer, to allow, not to

  275. hinder, to give up a thing to a person.

  276. Forgiveness is surrendering. Listen to this.

  277. I like this. Forgiveness is surrendering my

  278. right because you've hurt me to hurt you for hurting me.

  279. Say that again. Forgiveness is surrendering my

  280. right to hurt you because you've hurt me.

  281. So the background again to this parable.

  282. Jesus has just finished teaching about discipline within the

  283. church, verses 15 to 20. Peter himself obviously was a

  284. believer, and his reference to a brother, if a brother sins, so

  285. it's about fellow believers, is the context here, especially in

  286. the light of the fact that chapter 18 focuses in on

  287. believers, the Lord's little ones who believe in him, verse 6

  288. and 10. So Jesus is illustrating in this

  289. whole context of this chapter the need for believers to

  290. forgive each other. I can't get over how many people

  291. lead churches and I won't mention any details, but people

  292. leave churches because someone in church offended them.

  293. I'm going what is going on with that?

  294. Because the first thing that you should do is the 2 of you should

  295. get together, go to God and get it sorted out.

  296. Well, I'm going to another church because I'm offended.

  297. That's wrong. That's not biblical.

  298. So we have verse 23. We go, Jesus gives us the

  299. parable. Therefore the Kingdom of heaven

  300. is like a certain king who wants to settle accounts with his

  301. servants. When he had begun to settle

  302. accounts, one was brought to him and owed him 10,000 talents, but

  303. he was not able to pay his master commander that he be sold

  304. with his wife and children all that he had and that payment be

  305. made. The servant therefore fell down

  306. man he put on a show before him saying master, have patience

  307. with me, I'll pay you all. Now he can't because the 10,000

  308. talents here in today's the people investigated.

  309. It's between 10 million and and and and on up to 250 million.

  310. It's a lot of money so he can't pay it.

  311. Then the master of the servant was moved with compassion,

  312. released him and forgave him the dead.

  313. But that servant went out and found one of his fellow servants

  314. who owed him. 100 denari, it's 100 days, it's a denari, it's a

  315. day's work, 100 days, third of a year's salary.

  316. He laid hands on him, took him by the throat, saying Pay me

  317. what you owe. So his fellow servant fell down,

  318. and his feet begged him, saying, Patience with me, I'll pay you

  319. war. But he would not went through

  320. him in the prison until he should pay the debt.

  321. Debtors Prison. So when his fellow servants saw

  322. what had been done, they were grieved and came and told their

  323. master all that had been done. Then his master, after he called

  324. him, said to him to the guide, being forgiven a lot.

  325. You wicked servant, I forgave you all that debt because you

  326. begged me. Should you not also have had

  327. compassion on your fellow servant, just as I had pity on

  328. you? And his master was angry and

  329. delivered him to the torturers until he should pay all that was

  330. due to him. Notice what God says, what

  331. Christ says there. So my heavenly Father also will

  332. do to you, if each of you from his heart does not forgive his

  333. brother, his trespasses. This is not the unforgivable but

  334. sin by the way. But it's a classic story of a

  335. man who was forgiven the dead of 10 + 1,000,000.

  336. Just think 10 million but it's way more.

  337. And then cast into prison because of his failure to

  338. forgive someone who owed him roughly today 17 bucks.

  339. So really, what is the story about?

  340. It's we're in the story, the parables about us again.

  341. We owe a debt we have no possible way of repaying.

  342. What is that? Our sins we can't repay, but we

  343. have been graciously forgiven, as was the servant by his

  344. master. And his debt was enormous.

  345. And it's been, it's all gone. So is yours and mine.

  346. Verse 28 to 30. He sees a much smaller debt than

  347. somebody else. This guy has been figuring of

  348. everything. He savagely condemns this

  349. fellow. It says notice, it says a fellow

  350. servant. No.

  351. Verses 2829, but condemns him brutally for something much less

  352. than when he when he was in debt.

  353. Verse 31 to 35, the servant who was first forgiven much finds

  354. himself due to his own forgiving heart.

  355. Now he's in prison. Note that because of his

  356. unforgiving heart, he's in gaol. That's where unforgiveness.

  357. It locks you up. So what's the application?

  358. We live in a world that is void of forgiveness.

  359. I'll get you. I owe you.

  360. Revenge is mine. The question and context of this

  361. passage is that sadly and often, the world has invaded the church

  362. and the church has become a place void of forgiveness.

  363. If ever there was a place to find forgiveness, it should be

  364. here now. But let me qualify.

  365. This is not excusing a sinful of offence.

  366. Sin is always sin, and true love and mercy never try to make sin

  367. anything but what it is. But forgiveness does not

  368. involve. The forgiveness does does

  369. involve, I should say, ending the bitterness, the anger, the

  370. resentment that not only does not remove a sin, but rather

  371. adds to it. You see, heart forgiveness is

  372. not possible for you and I. In our own powers.

  373. We can't do that. We get hurt, well, I'm done.

  374. Genuine forgiveness is not natural, it's supernatural, and

  375. it's possible only as the indwelling Holy Spirit empowers.

  376. The wife of Charlie Kirk forgave the person openly who shot and

  377. killed her husband, William Arthur Ward said.

  378. We are most like beasts when we kill.

  379. We are most like men when we judge.

  380. We are most like God when we forgive.

  381. Only as we walk by the Spirit are we able not to carry out the

  382. desires of the flesh, which among other things, is to hold a

  383. grudge rather than to forgive. What unforgiveness does to those

  384. who withhold forgiveness, It's self torment.

  385. If you notice with me, the king originally delivered him from

  386. prison. The first one owed a lot of

  387. money, but the servant put himself back in.

  388. The servant exercised justice and cast his fellow servant who

  389. owed him 100 dinari into prison. So the king said to him, so you

  390. want justice, you want to live by justice, Then justice you'll

  391. get and threw him into gaol. You want to live by justice,

  392. Here's justice. You're going to gaol.

  393. I will do to you as you've done to others, the world's worst

  394. prison. Prison is that prison of an

  395. unforgiving heart. I remember doing a funeral, and

  396. as I'm about to enter in, the son of the guy that we're

  397. burying said to me, you know, I hate my dad.

  398. I hated him. I still hate him today.

  399. He's dead. I'm thinking, man, the problem

  400. is not with a dead person because there's no problem

  401. there. This person is is angry and and

  402. the person that he's angry against is is dead.

  403. You see, if we refuse to forgive others, then we are only

  404. imprisoning ourselves and causing our own torment.

  405. You see, remember Jesus gave the story of who forgives much.

  406. He's in the house having dinner. The woman came in, wept over

  407. him. Jesus said you know you, you

  408. haven't given me a kiss. She never washed my feet.

  409. This woman, she's not stopped. She loves me much because she's

  410. been forgiven much. That's the problem for you and

  411. IA Loving church is a church that recognise we're sinners and

  412. God loves us and only by God's grace are we here.

  413. A church that is unloving to people as they come in and to

  414. one another is a church that hasn't recognised that they've

  415. been forgiven of their sins. So the context of this parable,

  416. remember, is not salvation, but it's forgiveness between

  417. brothers and sisters. I want to clarify something as

  418. we draw a close to this part because people say, well I won't

  419. forgive and they think incorrectly, God doesn't forgive

  420. me without my repentance. Therefore, I must withhold

  421. forgiveness from others who sin against me until they properly

  422. repent. Correct to like change.

  423. That thinking is wrong because I do not stand in the same place

  424. as God in the equation, and I never can.

  425. God stands as one who has never been forgiven and never needs

  426. forgiveness. I stand as one who has been

  427. forgiven and needs continue forgiveness.

  428. So it's important to understand too, there's a distinction that

  429. we need to make between forgiveness and reconciliation.

  430. Reconciliation forgiveness is like, oh, let's be mates and

  431. great, you know, we're all doesn't work that way.

  432. We're talking about you forgiving.

  433. We're not talking about what the other person does at all.

  434. We're not talking about what the other person does at all.

  435. True reconciliation of relationship can only happen

  436. when both parties are agreeable to it, and sometimes people

  437. aren't, and this may require repentance on one or both of the

  438. parties in the conflict. Forgiveness here.

  439. This can be 1 sided for God so loved the world, but not

  440. everyone has received it. Furthermore, forgiveness does

  441. not necessarily shield someone from the civil or practical

  442. consequences. The person that shot and killed

  443. Charlie should go to gaol, should be in gaol for life.

  444. As a matter of fact, you should get capital punishment as far as

  445. I'm concerned. In that regard, level and

  446. societal level should be punished by the magistrates.

  447. Romans chapter 13 tells us that. Nevertheless, the principle

    Romans 13 chapter mention

  448. stands clearly. The parable This parable was

  449. given to make us more forgiving, not less forgiving.

  450. No one could reasonably read this parable and think that

  451. Jesus was trying to restrict the forgiveness of his disciples.

  452. How? How far do I go, people who read

  453. this? Therefore, sometimes maybe

  454. somewhat stingy with forgiveness.

  455. As your father in heaven is somewhat stingy with

  456. forgiveness. Miss the whole point of the

  457. parable. Instead, therefore, be merciful,

  458. just as your Father is also merciful.

  459. It's from the heart too. You see, if we forgive in words

  460. only, but not from our hearts, we remain under the same

  461. condemnation. And so the last line.

  462. But let's wrap that up. So my Heavenly Father also will

  463. do to you. It would be wrong to make this

  464. into the idea that unforgiveness itself is the unforgivable sin.

  465. It's not. It is better to say that

  466. forgiveness is evidence of truly being forgiven, and that

  467. habitual forgiveness may show that a person's heart has never

  468. really sorry. Habitual unforgiveness may show

  469. that a person's heart has never really been touched by the Lord.

  470. If someone is just, you know, they just, well, obviously God's

  471. their heart's not touched. Those who will not forgive

  472. cannot expect to be forgiven. As James later wrote, judgement

  473. is is without mercy to the one who has shown no mercy.

  474. James 213. And here's the deal.

  475. What's the greatest gift you can receive off someone?

  476. I love it when Helen forgives me, makes me love her even more

  477. and more. I love it when God Forgives me.

  478. It makes me love him more and more and more.

  479. Maybe sometimes his love is not flowing from us because we're

  480. holding on. Guess what?

  481. You're not forgiving someone. They're not getting hurt by it.

  482. Like that dead person. The son person was dead.

  483. But the son who still hated his dad even though he was dead?

  484. He's in gaol, he's dead and he's living.

  485. Let's pray. Father, we thank you for your

  486. word. It's a lamp unto our feet and a

  487. light unto our path. Lord, help us to be forgiving.

  488. We can't do it when we're hurt. It hurts and we we want

  489. vengeance sometimes. God help us not to be that way

  490. and help us not to be like animals.

  491. Help us to live like you and Lord, help us to be gracious.

  492. Father, anyone here tonight and watching who's in a gaol that

  493. they put themselves in because they're unforgiving.

  494. Lord, I pray that they'll release, be released, that they

  495. have the key to open the door to walk out of that prison cell

  496. they've made for themselves. I pray that you would do this

  497. Father now in Jesus name.