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"Parable of The Wedding Feast" | Matt 22:1-14 | Pastor Keith | Midweek service

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  1. Matthew 22 as we continue our series on the parables of Jesus.

  2. It's about a wedding, so let's read it all and then we'll come

  3. back to it. And Jesus answered and spoke to

  4. them again. Now notice verse one.

  5. Now, chapters and verses aren't in the original text.

  6. And so one of the things you all and one of the first lessons I

  7. learned as a new believer, Pastor Tom Whitaker gave us some

  8. verses. Go home, study them, come back,

  9. tell me what you think. And I focused on the verses and

  10. he said, no, it's not right. You didn't read before and you

  11. didn't read after context. So Jesus has been challenged

  12. about his authority and he's already dealt with the parables

  13. to the Pharisees. And remember that why was Jesus

  14. speaking in parables? Now for those who wanted to know

  15. about the Lord, they would lean in and ask.

  16. And for those, the religious leaders, mainly of Israel,

  17. Pharisee scribes and Sadducees who weren't interested there,

  18. only wanted to pick a fight, only wanted to trap Jesus.

  19. Actually they wanted to kill Jesus.

  20. The parables they couldn't understand it wouldn't work out

  21. didn't know what they're about South Jesus is speaking

  22. parables. He's just spoken to them about

  23. the landowner who had a vineyard put a hedge around it went away

  24. and came back to get the fruit and so he picks up and it says

  25. verse one Jesus answered and spoke to them again.

  26. So it's he's continuing in his discussion with the Pharisees

  27. because they've challenged by what authority do these do these

  28. things and say these things and said by parable, the Kingdom of

  29. heaven is like a certain king who arranged a marriage for his

  30. son sent out his servants to call those who are invited to

  31. the wedding and they were not willing to come again.

  32. He sent out other servants second time, saying, tell those

  33. who are invited the same ones. See I prepared my dinner, my

  34. oxen fatted, cattle I killed, and all things are ready, come

  35. to the wedding. He's invited them third time.

  36. But they made light of it, went there their way, one to his own

  37. farm, another to his business, and the rest seized his

  38. servants, treated them spitefully and killed them.

  39. But when the king heard about it, he was furious.

  40. He sent out his armies. Actually, it's the word.

  41. Troops destroyed those murderers and burned up their city.

  42. Then he said to his servants, the wedding is ready, it's still

  43. going ahead. But those who were invited,

  44. we're not worthy. Therefore, because of that go

  45. into the highways and as many as you find anybody invite to the

  46. wedding. So those servants went out into

  47. the highways and gathered together all whom they found,

  48. both bad and good. And the wedding hall was filled

  49. with guests. But when the king came in to see

  50. the guests, he saw one man there who did not have on a wedding

  51. garment. Because I'll explain.

  52. So he said to him, friend, now notice he sends it very nice

  53. friend. How did you come in here without

  54. a wedding going? And he was speechless.

  55. The guy didn't answer anything. That's called guilt.

  56. Then the king said to the servants, Bind him hand and

  57. foot, take him away, cast him into outer darkness.

  58. There will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.

  59. Many are called, you could say, invited.

  60. Few are chosen. It's coming into wedding season

  61. now here as the weather begins to break and much preparation

  62. goes into a wedding, doesn't it Book the place, photographers,

  63. the food, who you going to invite, the location, the day,

  64. the time, the gowns, the suits being chosen, the food being

  65. sorted, the meals and finally the invitations are sent out.

  66. Who is invited? There are not too many people

  67. who have not been invited to a wedding at some time in their

  68. lives. So Jesus gives another parable

  69. in our text tonight of a very special wedding banquet.

  70. He's speaking to the Pharisees, a King's wedding banquet for his

  71. son. Jesus answered and spoke to them

  72. again. So he's still addressing the

  73. Pharisees by parables and said the Kingdom of heaven is like a

  74. certain king who arranged a marriage for his son, said any

  75. service that call those who are invited to the wedding and now

  76. and they were not willing to come, the feast is ready, all

  77. should come. But on this occasion those who

  78. are invited refused to come. And it's quite insulting to the

  79. king, to his son, and even the servant who brought the

  80. invitations to those who had been invited.

  81. But this king is patient, sends a second round of invitations to

  82. the same people who refused. Verse 4 again, he sent out other

  83. servants telling them, hey, the food, the place, I've got the

  84. best cattle cooked. Come to the wedding.

  85. This time there was greater detail in the invite.

  86. Hey, everything's ready, it's late on.

  87. Again, the words of an invite are repeated.

  88. Come to the wedding. But with the second round of

  89. invites, those receiving them did not just reject the

  90. invitation, they also mistreated the messengers bringing the

  91. invite, and some were even killed.

  92. There's five. But they made light of it, went

  93. their ways. Not that went their way.

  94. Went about their business, their own lives, what they were busy

  95. about, doing their own stuff. One to his farm, another to his

  96. business. The others captured the

  97. servants, treated them spitefully.

  98. Some killed them. When the king heard of what had

  99. happened, he sent his armies and burned up their city.

  100. New invites sent out. We've read that different people

  101. this time, totally different people.

  102. So what is this parable all about?

  103. Remember, a parable is an earthly story with a heavenly

  104. meaning. What is Jesus teaching here?

  105. What is he teaching by parable to the Pharisees?

  106. And what about the disciples? What are they learning from

  107. this? Because they're going to lean

  108. in. They'll understand what he's

  109. talking about here. The king sending out the

  110. invitation is God the Father. The Son for whom the wedding

  111. banquet is, is none other than Jesus Christ his Son.

  112. The banquet is what? The marriage supper of the Lamb,

  113. the messengers, who are they? The prophets, the preachers of

  114. the gospel. Those who are invited at first

  115. are the Jewish people, the religious Jews And those who are

  116. eventually who eventually accept the invite and come to the feast

  117. are we can put our hands up the outcasts, the poor Gentiles in

  118. John chapter one verse one verse 11 it says John writes Jesus

  119. came to his own and his own did not receive him.

  120. By what authority do you do this stuff, but as many as received

  121. him to them he gave the right to become the children of God to

  122. those who believe in his name. You see the tragedy of the

  123. parable. Here is the wilful refusal to

  124. come to the wedding banquet by those who were initially

  125. invited. This is the tragedy of Israel.

  126. It was not that they could not come.

  127. They're invited. They were the official guest.

  128. Remember the woman that came and said, you know, can you just

  129. pray for my daughter and help her?

  130. And Jesus said, no, I've got to deal with it.

  131. The shepherd's got to go. And you know, the bread is for

  132. for the people of Israel first. The children of Israel received

  133. the invitation. John the Baptist had prepared

  134. the way. Palm Sunday was the prophecy

  135. fulfilled by Daniel. On this day.

  136. He will come in Zechariah, riding lowly on a colt.

  137. The king comes. You see, it was not that Israel

  138. could not come. They were struggling.

  139. No, it was that they would not come.

  140. And there's a big difference in John chapter 12 verse 37, it

    John 12:37

  141. says of the children of Israel. But although he Jesus had done

  142. so many signs for them and remember they he'd do something,

  143. do something, heal something. And they say give us a sign this

  144. come on, just fit 5015 thousand someone's raised from the dead,

  145. healed blind cuts and now I can see the lion can walk.

  146. Jesus said an evil and adulterous generation seeketh

  147. after a sign. There is just but one sign that

  148. of the prophet Jonah who was three days and three nights.

  149. He's Speaking of his death and resurrection.

  150. John 1237 says, but although Jesus had done so many signs

  151. before them, they did not believe in him.

  152. Ever had someone say to you? I have I remember many years

  153. witnessing in my job sites, different job locations talking

  154. to people about Christ and they go, well, if God does a miracle

  155. and I could see a mirror, then I believe no, no, you want, no,

  156. you want because in the Bible Jesus did all these miracles and

  157. it says they did not believe in him that the word of Isaiah the

  158. prophet might be fulfilled. It goes on to say in John 12,

  159. which he spoke, Lord, who has believed our report and to whom

  160. has the arm of the Lord been revealed?

  161. Then it says this in verse 39 of John chapter 12.

    John 12 chapter mention

  162. Therefore they could not. It's like, it's like Pharaoh.

  163. How often did Moses come? I mean, think of the plagues,

  164. plague after plague after plague, children of Israel, the

  165. Jews, nothing's happening to them.

  166. Plague after plague after plague.

  167. And then it says finally that God hardened Pharaoh's heart.

  168. You ain't changing. It's not that you could not,

  169. it's just that you would not. But what is also saddening is

  170. the attitude to the messengers bringing the invitation by this

  171. first group of invitees, It says.

  172. But they made light of it, went their ways, one to his own farm,

  173. another to his business, and the rest seized his servants,

  174. treated them spitefully, and killed them.

  175. If the invited guests felt this way toward the servants, it was

  176. obvious they felt this way toward the king who'd sent them.

  177. Because the servant is representing the king.

  178. I come in the name of the king. This is the invitation.

  179. So they would not come because they actually despised the king

  180. and were hostile to him. Stephen preached one sermon that

  181. we know of and in the detail of his first and only sermon, and

  182. then they killed him for preaching it.

  183. Death by sterling. Stephen says this to the

  184. religious leaders of Israel. You stiff necked, uncircumcised

  185. in heart, because they were circumcised.

  186. They were Jews, uncircumcised in heart and ears.

  187. You always resist the Holy Spirit as your Father's did, so

  188. do you. Which of the prophets did your

  189. father's not persecute? And they killed those who

  190. foretold the coming of the Just, One of whom you now become the

  191. betrayers and murderers who have received the Law by the

  192. direction of angels and have not kept it.

  193. People today do not kill prophets.

  194. We don't have prophets like in the 12, like in the in the

  195. Bible. I know people name themselves

  196. prophets. You know, actually if you read

  197. the ball, I wouldn't want to be a prophet because they killed

  198. them all. True prophet to God, they killed

  199. them all. It's said of Isaiah that they

  200. put in between two planks and cut him in half while he was

  201. alive. But God's messengers are killed

  202. today, aren't they? In Nigeria, in India, in Muslim

  203. countries, they're ridiculed, they're abused, treated

  204. violently. But some of those in the parable

  205. who initially invited to the gospel banquet do not openly

  206. express their hatred to the one, to the messenger who gives it.

  207. Instead, they go excuse them. This is where it fits in very

  208. much with us today. You know, I'm busy.

  209. I got I got stuff on, it says. But they made light of it, went

  210. their ways, one to his own farm, another to his business.

  211. In Luke's account, Doctor Luke of the same parable, he adds a

  212. little more detail of the excuses given and excuses, a lie

  213. wrapped up in skin in Luke 14 or 18, it says.

  214. But they all with 1 accord began to make excuses.

  215. The first said, well I've bought a piece of ground, I've got to

  216. go and see it. I asked you to have me excuse.

  217. No one buys land without first seeing it.

  218. You buy a bog, a swamp. Although swamps, we don't have

  219. swamps now, they're water parks or something, whatever they are

  220. now. No one buys land without seeing

  221. it first. It's a lie.

  222. Verse 19 another said I bought 5 yoga box and I'm going to test

  223. them. You test them before you buy

  224. them. I ask.

  225. You have me excused. And still the last bloke.

  226. He was just a joke. Still another said I'll marry a

  227. wife before I can't come. She won't let me remember.

  228. These people had received 2 rounds of invitations.

  229. Charles hadn't. Spurgeon, I recommend him to

  230. you. Preach. 7 messages on this

  231. parable and in one he used the following illustration.

  232. He said a ship owner was visited by a godly man.

  233. The Christian asked the ship owner, well sire, what is the

  234. state of your soul? To which the merchant replied,

  235. Soul, I have no time to take take care of my soul.

  236. I have enough to do just taking care of my ships.

  237. But he was not too busy to die when he did just a week later,

  238. Jesus words to the religious leaders of Israel, the people of

  239. Israel at that time for you and I tonight and never wants to be

  240. trifled with, ignored or cast aside because John 316 says for

  241. God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son that

  242. whosoever there's the invitation, whosoever would

  243. believe him shall not perish, but I have everlasting life.

  244. That's the invitation the world is invited to a wedding.

  245. The invitation, the wedding of Christ.

  246. The church is the bride of Christ.

  247. So every time an invitation is given from this pulpit, and I do

  248. most Sundays, every time the invite is refused by some, Jesus

  249. speaks of the danger of refusing God's invitation to worship his

  250. son Jesus, because there comes a time and ladies are studying

  251. with Helen on Tuesdays. The book of Romans where God

  252. says as he did to Pharaoh, as he did to the religious leaders, he

  253. said, all right, OK, I've asked and I've asked and I've asked

  254. and I've asked, have your way. That's the worst thing to do.

  255. The worst thing you can do as a parent is let your kids have

  256. their way. It's child abuse.

  257. The worst thing that God can do to us is give us over.

  258. It says in Romans one, give us over to our reprobate mind.

  259. OK, you want to live without me, Go ahead.

  260. I don't ever want that. The Bible says in Hebrews that

  261. God chastises those whom he loves.

  262. You know, if you're being chastised at all, and I get

  263. chastised all the time and I hope you do too.

  264. You know why? Because it shows that God loves

  265. me. It doesn't want you to harm

  266. yourself or or to create a situation that will hurt others

  267. or damage him. That's why He chastises us in

  268. His love today. I think the greatest treasure

  269. that you have is not wealth in the sense of resources like this

  270. world, but the greatest treasure that you can control is your

  271. time, your 24 hours, the time in which you live.

  272. As we looked at Daniel, the breath with which God has given

  273. you to breathe. What are you doing with the life

  274. I have given you? What do we do with this treasure

  275. which is of the utmost importance?

  276. Time. I know in my life I've had more

  277. time back here and now I have this much time in front of me.

  278. It's pretty important. We do not have to take the life

  279. of a prophet to miss out on God's eternal blessing for us of

  280. salvation through His Son Jesus. No, all we have to do is make up

  281. an excuse. Can't make it.

  282. I'm busy. Things on, you know, in

  283. Australia, you know what the devil did with Australia?

  284. He gave us everything. You know, we are the top 3%

  285. wealthiest people in the world. Individually you go well, don't

  286. know which Aussie where, which place that is.

  287. No, no, no. And some of you have come from

  288. different countries and you've you've seen poor, I mean real

  289. poor people. You've seen people struggling

  290. for for clothes like they have one shirt, they have no clean

  291. water, they have no shoes, no place to to live, no bed, no

  292. room, no house. They don't know where the next

  293. meal is coming from. Now all we have to do this is

  294. what the devil has done to Australia is fritter away our

  295. time wasted on meaningless things of the world, to keep on

  296. refusing God's invite as we literally waste our lives on

  297. things that will eventually pass away.

  298. I mean, you look back on your early life.

  299. I do. I look back on my life, man, I

  300. was so stupid. And I think of things that were,

  301. you know, get your licence, once you get your licence, that's it.

  302. You don't need anything else. When you get a job, it's

  303. actually paying some money. Oh, well, that's it.

  304. I don't need anything else. You know, you, you have all

  305. these pretty low goals. But then we move, we move, we

  306. get more and more and more. And you know, the the devil just

  307. says I can't, you're growing out of that.

  308. Here's another one. This is good for you.

  309. And they can be good things in and of themselves.

  310. They make us turn our back upon God and we have 5 oxen, we have

  311. a farm, we have a wife in the situation, The excuses that

  312. we've made up here and you know what, our lives eventually pass

  313. away and thus you let your opportunities for repentance and

  314. faith in God pass by. I love that old hymn that we

  315. sing. Pass me not all, gentle Saviour.

  316. That's the message of half the parallel of those who did not

  317. come, of those who refused to come, although invited over and

  318. over. And remember, he sent out troops

  319. and burned down everything. Remember 70 AD Israel rejected

  320. Jesus on Palm Sunday in 70. Remember Jesus wept.

  321. Why did he weep as he's riding in?

  322. Because he knew you're going to reject me.

  323. And you know what? 70 AD, the Roman general Titus

  324. is going to kill 1.1 million Jews, slaughter and take others

  325. away as slaves. There's going to be no temple,

  326. your religious structure that you've held on to, that you've

  327. looked it's going to be destroyed stone by stone, not

  328. just bowled over, not just become a ruin, every stone.

  329. Isn't that a isn't there a message in that that God will

  330. remove every stone that you place that you think is where

  331. your life should stand instead upon the rock of Christ.

  332. The second half of the parable tells us of who did come verse 9

  333. So they went into the highways and as many as you find invite

  334. to the wedding. So those servants went out,

  335. gathered together all they found, both bad and good, and

  336. the wedding hall was filled with guests.

  337. Dr Luke and his Gospel account makes it plain that these

  338. persons were drawn from the lower ranks of life.

  339. Paul talks about that, doesn't he?

  340. The base in Corinthians, lower ones go out quickly into the

  341. streets, Luke writes. The lanes of the city.

  342. Bring in here the poor, the main, the lame and the blind,

  343. and the servant said, master, it is done as you command, and

  344. still there is room. Luke 1422 Then the master said

  345. to the well go out and get some more, compel them to come.

  346. Then my house made me filled. And Luke 71 Those who came to

  347. the wedding feast were more grateful than the first invited

  348. through his 82 year life. John Newton, you know of him.

  349. He wrote Amazing Grace. If you ever read about his lot,

  350. he was so deprived as a young man that even the sailors he

  351. sailed with said he is a revolting man.

  352. He's a revolting man. Well, in his memoirs, he wrote

  353. his memoirs later on. He was such a depraved sailor, a

  354. miserable outcast on the coast of West Africa, a slave trading

  355. sea captain. He dealt in human trafficking.

  356. Newton comes back to his own salvation more than anything as

  357. the source of tenderness. He writes in his memoirs.

  358. And I quote, till the day he died, he never ceased to be

  359. amazed that he said at the age of 72, and I quote, such a

  360. Wretch should not only be spared and pardoned, but reserved to

  361. the honour of preaching your gospel, which he had blasphemed

  362. and renounced. This is wonderful indeed.

  363. The more you have exalted me, Lord, the more I ought to abase

  364. myself, abase myself. This was no usual wedding feast.

  365. It was from the king himself. This is God's invitation in

  366. Revelation chapter 5 verse 8, it says now when he had taken the

    Revelation 5:8

  367. scroll, Speaking of Jesus, the four living creatures, the 24

  368. elders fell down before the lamb, each having a harp, golden

  369. balls of incense, which are the prayers of the Saints.

  370. And they sang a new song saying, you are worthy to take the

  371. scroll to open its seals for you as slain and redeemed us to God

  372. by your blood. Out of every tribe, tongue,

  373. people and nation, we're the invites and have made us kings

  374. and priests to our God and we shall reign on the earth.

  375. But there is one more important lesson in Jesus parable for us

  376. to finish on and the wedding hall was filled with guests

  377. verse 11. But when the king came in to see

  378. the guests, he saw a man there who did not have on a wedding

  379. garment. So he said to him kindly friend,

  380. how do you come here and without a wedding garment?

  381. Now it's important, everyone that's been invited to the

  382. wedding, where are they from? The poor, the blame, the line,

  383. the the the blind, they're from the back streets.

  384. You know what? They don't have any clothes.

  385. So when they came to the wedding, you know what the king

  386. says? I'm going to don't worry about

  387. when you've got nothing to I'll, I'll provide all the clothing.

  388. And so that's why everyone could come and there can be no excuse

  389. about I've got nothing to wear. I've got no clothes, got no

  390. shoes. No, no, no, don't worry about

  391. that. So this was make this guy really

  392. stand out because as you come to the wedding or here's the

  393. outfit, he's I don't know, I'm not wearing it.

  394. I'll wear what I want to wear. So the king said to him, bind

  395. him hand and foot because he was speechless, take him away, cast

  396. him into outer darkness. The man was not dressed in the

  397. wedding garment, which had been provided by the king for every

  398. guest he'd been invited, but he was improperly dressed.

  399. The king had made provision for every guest to have wedding

  400. garments. Because you know all what we

  401. have, we have nothing. We, we, we have fig leaves.

  402. And the king gave the man the opportunity to explain why he

  403. was not wearing the the garment. He says, why aren't you wearing

  404. what I provided for you? He didn't answer.

  405. You know why he didn't answer? He knew it was at fault.

  406. This is the language of tenderest compassion.

  407. Why aren't you wearing it? But it says in Romans chapter

    Romans 10:3

  408. 10, verse 3, For they, being ignorant of God's righteousness

  409. and going about to establish their own righteousness, have

  410. not submitted themselves unto the righteousness of God in

  411. Isaiah chapter 61, verse 10. I'll read it to you.

    Isaiah 61:10

  412. It tells of the garment. Isaiah, the prophet says, I will

  413. greatly rejoice in the Lord. My soul shall be joyful in my

  414. God. Why?

  415. For he has clothed me with the garments of salvation.

  416. He has covered me with the robe of righteousness as a bridegroom

  417. decks himself with ornaments, as a bride adorns itself with the

  418. jewels. You remember Jesus comes to the

  419. place of ghaderi. He steps off the boat, off the

  420. galley. There's this crazy guy who's

  421. living in the tombs roaring. He's going to change.

  422. He cuts himself. And you know, the disciples

  423. aren't with Jesus at this time. And they come back.

  424. What do they do? They find this man who lived

  425. naked amongst the tombs, clothed.

  426. So did Jesus go Bibbidi bobbidi Boo, here's a suit for you.

  427. No, he didn't do that. Where is this man going to get a

  428. garment? I think my opinion, Jesus said

  429. here you wear my coat. It says if they found him

  430. seated, clothed, kneeling at the foot of Jesus and in his right

  431. mind, you see, the man was speechless.

  432. It's not enough that we merely believe.

  433. And here's the this is where a lot of my concern is today.

  434. A lot of people come to church. They're in no man's land.

  435. They've made a religious confession.

  436. They come to church, they bring a Bible, but they're not wearing

  437. the garment. How's that key?

  438. You see, it's not enough that we merely believe in, oh, I believe

  439. in God. Yeah.

  440. Bible says in James, who believes in God, the devil.

  441. He believes in the Bible, too. But we must lay hold of the

  442. righteousness of God. That's what Jesus said to the

  443. religious leader Nicodemus. Nicodemus, you must be born

  444. again. You know, all the religious

  445. stuff. And he did, but he wasn't born

  446. again. It says in Revelation, sorry, in

  447. Romans chapter 3, verse 19. Now we know that whatever the

    Romans 3:19

  448. law says, it says to those who are under the law that every

  449. mouth may be stopped. How often have you heard people?

  450. Or when I see God, man, I'm going to give you, I'm going to,

  451. I'm going to ask him this. No, when you're guilty and you

  452. get resurrected, the second resurrection, you won't say a

  453. word. It's not a judgement, it's a

  454. sentence. The second resurrection.

  455. You're guilty already, Donald. Great Barnhouse developed a way

  456. of presenting the gospel. I love using this very text that

  457. we've read tonight. He would ask, and this is how

  458. we'll end. Suppose, suppose you should die

  459. tonight and appear before God in heaven.

  460. And God would ask you, by what right do you have to come into

  461. my heaven? What would you say?

  462. You see the man at the feast, We're speechless.

  463. There are only three possible answers a person could give if

  464. God asked that question. One many would say, oh, I've

  465. been a good bloke. I gave the charities, you know,

  466. I used to help out. I cook food for the poor, you

  467. know. And which barnhouse would point

  468. out that we have all fallen short of the glory of God, That

  469. none of us a righteous Romans 320 Therefore, by the deeds of

  470. the law, no flesh will be justified in his sight.

  471. For the law says we're guilty. We've broken the commandments.

  472. The second response is that they would have nothing to say.

  473. I don't know, I don't know. They would be, as Paul says,

  474. speechless. The only possible and correct

  475. true answer when I asked what right do you have to come into

  476. my heaven is Lord not at all. As far as myself, I'm concerned

  477. nothing. As Paul said in Romans in May,

  478. that is, in my flesh dwells no good thing, but Jesus Christ

  479. died for my sins. He has given me the covering of

  480. his own righteousness. I've repented before him.

  481. I've asked him to be my Lord and Saviour, and this and this, By

  482. this alone dare I stand before you in his name.

  483. Come, come, welcome to the Kingdom of God.