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What Kind of Man Are You? | 1 Corinthians 16:13–14 | Men’s Evening | Guest Speaker | Ps. Mike Bezant

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  1. Turn with me to 1st Corinthians chapter 16, First Corinthians

  2. 16. Now tonight's little study

  3. together I'm calling what kind of man are you?

  4. And this is both what kind of man are we now, but also what

  5. kind of man is God transforming us into.

  6. Some of us are young in age, some of us are older in age.

  7. Some of us are young in the Lord, even though we might be

  8. older in age, but the Lord is transforming us and what a, what

  9. a blessing that is. Sometimes, what a challenge that

  10. is the right, sometimes transformation can be, can be

  11. hard. 1st Corinthians 16, we're actually just going to read 2

  12. verses together. It's verses 13 and 14.

  13. Now this, this, this portion is right in the midst of Paul's

  14. final instructions to the church in Corinth.

  15. And it's where he gives his greetings to to the people in

  16. Corinth from different people that he's ministered with.

  17. And right in the midst of that, we get these two powerful verses

  18. of exhortations for us. And my prayer is that it'll,

  19. it'll hit you as it hit me this week.

  20. I'm going to read it for you. And then we're going to pray as

  21. we come to the word 1st Corinthians 16, starting at

  22. verse 13. Watch, stand fast in the faith,

  23. be brave, be strong. Let all that you do be done with

  24. love. The Heavenly Father, as we come

  25. to your word this night as men we ask you, Lord, that you would

  26. challenge us, that You would encourage us if we need

  27. nurturing. Lord, that you would nurture us.

  28. We ask this night that each one of us that you would speak

  29. something into our hearts and into our lives tonight from your

  30. word. We pray in the Lord Jesus Christ

  31. name and all God's people said Amen.

  32. So I want us to imagine a reality and I'm not being

  33. fanciful here, but imagine a reality where where actually

  34. these verses are true. Watch.

  35. Stand fast in the faith. Be brave, be strong.

  36. Let all that you do be done with love.

  37. Imagine a place where all the people of God are actually doing

  38. those things. We're watching.

  39. We're standing firm in the faith.

  40. We're being brave, we're being strong.

  41. We're doing all things with love.

  42. I don't know about you guys, but sometimes within the church,

  43. even we're not very good at loving each other well.

  44. And that's a real challenge, especially when conflict arises.

  45. But if we did these things, what would our families look like?

  46. What would our church look like? What would this church look

  47. like? What would our communities look

  48. like if we were genuinely doing those things as believers?

  49. But instead, when we look around, what do we see?

  50. I'm going to read to you Matthew 24, verse 12.

    Matthew 24:12

  51. I'm going to jump around a little bit.

  52. Don't feel like you need to follow in your Bible because we

  53. are going to keep coming back to that verse that you've got up.

  54. So stick with me there. But I'm going to read to you.

  55. Matthew 24, verse 12 says this. And because lawlessness will

    Matthew 24:12

  56. abound, the love of many will grow cold.

  57. This is the character of the the age of the tribulation period,

  58. but it honestly, it's the character of this age we're in

  59. now in the lead up through that love within within our country,

  60. within our towns, within our communities, and sadly at times

  61. even within our church is growing cold.

  62. Don't know if you guys feel that Two Timothy 31 says this, but

  63. know this, that in the last days, perilous times will come

  64. for men. Doesn't matter how old you are,

  65. but this is you and me for men. And I want you to try to see who

  66. you are in this because we're all a little bit broken.

  67. And God, God reaches in where we're at.

  68. But I want you to be real with yourself tonight.

  69. For men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money,

  70. boasters, proud blasphemers. Have you seen yourself yet?

  71. I've already seen myself disobedient to parents,

  72. unthankful, unholy, unloving, unforgiving, slanderers without

  73. self control, brutal despisers of good traitors, headstrong,

  74. haughty, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God having

  75. a form of godliness but denying its power.

  76. And from such people turn away. Did you see yourself in those

  77. verses, men? First Corinthians 11/3 I want

  78. you to know that the head of every man.

  79. This is totally the opposite of what I just read to you.

  80. First Corinthians 11/3 I want you to know that the head of

  81. every man is Christ. You aware of that?

  82. That the head of you is Christ. You're no longer your own

  83. anymore. You're not in control of your

  84. life. Christ is.

  85. The head of every woman is man and the head of Christ is God,

  86. man. Just as we are under Christ's

  87. headship. In the same way you are the head

  88. of your family. If you don't have a family or

  89. you're too young to have a family, one day you will be the

  90. head of your family. For the young ones among us, up

  91. the front and up the back. This is who the Lord is calling

  92. you into as a man. We are called to be spiritual

  93. leaders of our families and we're called to be spiritual

  94. leaders of the family of God. That's really important that we

  95. understand that. So let's let's start with this

  96. together. And this is a little bit odd

  97. even for me, but we're going to, we're actually going to start

  98. with the end 1st. And you'll see as as we go

  99. through why I'm doing that. But let all that you do be done

  100. with love. Let all that you do be done with

  101. love. Turn with me to Matthew 22 verse

    Matthew 22:36

  102. 36. If you've got your Bible,

  103. Matthew 22, verse 36. Teacher, which is the great

    Matthew 22:36

  104. commandment in the law, Jesus said to him, You shall love the

  105. Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul and

  106. with all your mind. This is the first and great

  107. commandment, and the second is like it.

  108. You shall love your neighbour as yourself.

  109. We are called to love God with all of ourselves, and we're

  110. called to love our neighbours as ourselves.

  111. So let's look at this together, because what we just read, men,

  112. is that we are called to be the spiritual leaders in our homes,

  113. in our families, in our churches.

  114. This starts with yourself. You see what that says there in

  115. in Matthew 22? We are to love God.

  116. That's the first, that's the great commandment.

  117. We are to love God. So that's about your spiritual

  118. relationship with the Lord, if I can put it that way.

  119. This is loving the Lord your God.

  120. But then after that man, we're called to love and spiritually

  121. lead our wives, and then after that spiritually lead our

  122. children and then after that spiritually lead our family of

  123. God, our church. I would argue in that order very

  124. clearly, very plainly. So let's start with your own

  125. spiritual growth to start with your, your loving the Lord your

  126. God. What does that look like?

  127. Because you can't lead anyone to somewhere that you haven't gone

  128. yet. That make sense?

  129. If you haven't gone there, you can't lead anyone there.

  130. And Jesus says the greatest commandment is to love the Lord

  131. your God. So I've got some questions for

  132. you tonight and I'm going to leave you with some of those

  133. questions. I'm I'm going to answer some of

  134. them, but I want you to sit with some of them.

  135. The first one is this. Are you personally?

  136. And I don't want you to answer me.

  137. OK? So don't embarrass yourself or

  138. anyone else. Just think it in your head.

  139. Are you personally pursuing A deeper relationship with God

  140. through His Word? Is that something that you're

  141. doing? Are you doing that?

  142. Does your family see that you're doing that daily?

  143. Are you seeking God daily in His Word and through prayer?

  144. Why is that such a hard thing? Who here, and this is a genuine

  145. thing, show of hands, Who here has struggled with that at some

  146. point in their life, at some point?

  147. Have a look around, guys, keep your hands up, have a look

  148. around. This is a real struggle.

  149. We all struggle with this, but why is that?

  150. It's a struggle, isn't it? I want to challenge you guys

  151. tonight and ask you this question.

  152. Do you give your first fruits to the Lord?

  153. When you wake up, think to yourself, what is the first

  154. thing that you do? And if the first thing you do is

  155. pick up your phone and check Insta or whatever it is that you

  156. do. If the first thing you do is go

  157. and get a cuppa, sometimes a cuppa with the word of God is

  158. nice, but are you giving God the first fruits of your day?

  159. That's the first challenge for you.

  160. We should be starting our day with the Lord first before

  161. anything else. I'm going to read to you some

  162. lyrics Who he has heard of Josiah Queen.

  163. Some of the young fellas might. Yeah.

  164. OK, everyone note the hands came from the back corner.

  165. Josiah Queen. He he sung sung a song called

  166. Dusty Bibles says this. I've been struggling to find

  167. some Peace of Mind. It's the problem of our nation

  168. and in our generation. We're too.

  169. We're too busy and can't find the time.

  170. Are we busy or is it all a lie? We got dust on our bibles by

  171. brand new iPhones. No wonder why we feel this way.

  172. We walk with our eyes closed, blind leading blind folks and

  173. I'm done with these idols and dusty Bibles.

  174. You only get this one life. I don't want to sit and watch it

  175. pass me by. I'm so done being complacent.

  176. There ain't no replacement. How true is that in our lives?

  177. Sometimes the phone never gets dusty, does it always gets used

  178. but the Bible a little more so I want to encourage you guys.

  179. I, I did this at, I did this last year and I was horrified

  180. when I did it. You will be equally horrified.

  181. Do a screen time audit on your phone, maybe tomorrow, not when

  182. you go home tonight. Do a screen time audit on your

  183. phone. You're going to be horrified by

  184. how much time in a given day do you spend on that phone.

  185. When you extrapolate that out to a year, it'll be days that you

  186. spend glued to that screen, days in your year, not just hours,

  187. but days. The question is, can we say the

  188. same about God's Word? Genuinely?

  189. Two Timothy 316 says all Scripture is given by

  190. inspiration of God, and it's profitable for doctrine, for

  191. reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness,

  192. that the man of God, that's you and that's me, may be complete,

  193. thoroughly equipped for every good work because we can't do

  194. anything apart from God, we can't do anything.

  195. Psalm 100 and 19105 Your word, we know this one.

  196. Your word is a lamp to my feet and a lot to my path.

  197. My question is, have you snuffed out that light or is the word of

  198. God truly lighting up your path? Which is it for you?

  199. Does your family? As a man, I'm talking about the

  200. older men here, and as a young man, I'm talking about who you

  201. growing to be. Does your family see your

  202. relationship with God being your highest priority?

  203. If you're young, you don't get a free pass here, all right?

  204. And if you're old, you don't get a free pass here either.

  205. Does your family, whatever stage you're at, see your relationship

  206. with God being your highest priority?

  207. Do they see you actively owning and putting your sin to death,

  208. even if it means admitting it, confessing it, repenting of it,

  209. asking for forgiveness? Men, until we own our own

  210. spiritual growth, until it's a priority in our lives, we're not

  211. going to be able to lead anyone else.

  212. And honestly, it starts and ends to a certain extent in the word

  213. of God. Till we abide with God, we can't

  214. do that. We can't leave lead others

  215. spiritually. So what about for those who have

  216. wives? What about our wives now?

  217. Because after loving God, what's the next thing that we have to

  218. do? Not rhetorical.

  219. Love God with all that you are. And then is anyone awake?

  220. What's the next thing? Love your neighbour.

  221. OK, For the men that are married, there's no closer

  222. neighbour than your wife. No one is closer than your wife.

  223. My question for you is, are you pursuing her?

  224. Are you pursuing your wife? Do you know what's going on in

  225. her life right now? Her cares, her victories, her

  226. concerns? Do you know what's wrestling for

  227. ground in her heart and her mind right at the moment?

  228. Do you know those things? Are you leading her to God's

  229. Word to encourage her? Are you leading her to prayer to

  230. navigate and wrestle with the concerns but also the victories?

  231. Are you initiating that with her?

  232. Ephesians 525 Husbands love your wives just as Christ also loved

  233. the church. If you're not married, guys,

  234. this is what you're working towards.

  235. Verse 28. So husbands ought to love their

  236. own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves

  237. himself, for no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and

  238. cherishes it, just as the Lord does the Church.

  239. Many of you nourishing and cherishing your wife.

  240. Are you giving yourself? Are you sacrificing of your own

  241. wants and needs? A good friend of mine said to me

  242. one time and I, I've latched onto it.

  243. He said to me one time, Mike, when I get home, he's got a big

  244. family. He has a number of kids, five I

  245. think, maybe 6. Whenever he walked, whenever he

  246. got home, before he walked through that door, he would take

  247. a deep breath. You try and lay aside all of his

  248. stresses, all of his concerns from the day because as soon as

  249. he walks through that door, he has no idea what his wife's been

  250. going through today. She may need to just thrust the

  251. kids upon him because she's had a rough 1.

  252. He would take a deep breath and walk through that door ready to

  253. take on whatever the Lord had before him.

  254. Are you doing that kind of thing for your wife?

  255. Are you sacrificing your own needs and wants for your spouse?

  256. And I want to say before your kids, before your work, before

  257. your ministry, before your church ministry starts with your

  258. wife, then your kids. But it doesn't end there, and

  259. we're going to get to that soon. Next comes your kids, and for

  260. the more mature among us, your grandkids also.

  261. We have a foundation that we set when we love the Lord, when we

  262. love our wives. If we're doing that, that lays

  263. an incredible foundation to then love our kids, to raise them up

  264. in the ways of the Lord. I'm going to read a few verses

  265. to Ephesians 64. And you, fathers, do not provoke

  266. your children. My son frequently references

  267. this verse to me. Do not provoke your children.

  268. He forgets the next bit, which is classic.

  269. Do not provoke your children to wrath, but bring them up in the

  270. training and the admonition of the Lord.

  271. Is that something you're doing with your kids?

  272. The blessing and curse of parenting is that you've got to

  273. be consistent. It's not rocket science, but

  274. it's consistent, consistently training and and admonishing

  275. them in the Lord. Deuteronomy 66 And these words

  276. which I command you today shall be in your heart.

  277. You shall teach them diligently to your children and shall talk

  278. of them when you sit. Now listen to this.

  279. This is amazing. Deuteronomy 6-7 we're at now.

  280. You shall talk of the commands of the Lord when you sit in your

  281. house, when you walk, by the way, when you lie down and when

  282. you rise up. That's quick.

  283. Who did that? How does that happen?

  284. That's amazing. Does that not cover every part

  285. of your life? When you sit, when you walk,

  286. when you lie down, when you rise up, those are all the times we

  287. are to speak of the commands and the ways of the Lord with our

  288. children. Proverbs 22 Six.

  289. Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he

  290. will not depart from it. Are you praying for your kids

  291. regularly, men? Sometimes we're like, oh, my

  292. wife's, my wife's praying for, for our kids.

  293. That's enough, right? Are you praying for your kids?

  294. Kids. Are you praying for your dad?

  295. Yeah, awesome. Because we need your prayers

  296. just as much as you need our prayers.

  297. Are you teaching your kids, your grandkids, the truths of God's

  298. word? Are you asking them how they're

  299. doing in their spiritual walks? We're we're very good.

  300. I love my brother, but we talk a lot about the weather, a lot

  301. about football, a lot about basketball, and not nearly as

  302. much as I'd like about the Lord. Are we asking each other about

  303. our spiritual walks with the Lord, how we're travelling?

  304. We've talked about brotherly love here tonight.

  305. When was the last time you went up to a brother in this

  306. sanctuary right now and said, hey, how are you going with the

  307. Lord right now? I want to challenge and

  308. encourage you to do that at the end of this night.

  309. Seriously, don't just do it for, for, you know, just for kicks.

  310. Actually be serious about it. Are you having hard

  311. conversations when with your kids about sin in their lives?

  312. Are you teaching them how to handle their sin?

  313. Are you having family times that include His Word and praying

  314. together? Are you prioritising?

  315. You ready for this church attendance and church

  316. involvement? Are you prioritising those

  317. things? Are you involving your children

  318. in serving the Lord? This is all what it means to

  319. love and to do all things in love towards our children.

  320. And of course, this leads us to the next step and that's being

  321. spiritual leaders of the family of God.

  322. And we here are brothers in the family of God because it is

  323. critical that you are plugged in to our solid Bible teaching

  324. church and praise God you have that here.

  325. Not everyone can say that the the back story of our fellowship

  326. in Busselton is that there was not a a solid Bible teaching

  327. church in Busselton. Sadly.

  328. But you know, so many of us don't know about you guys, and I

  329. pray that it's not the case in this church, but so many

  330. Christians and I can see it from here.

  331. Keith can see it. Israel can see it.

  332. When you're standing here, we can see it in your face, your

  333. resting face. Man, this guy is ready to leave.

  334. Oh, that guy looks angry. So many people want the in and

  335. out worship experience. You with me.

  336. So many people want that experience.

  337. Get in, get out so that you can get on with the rest of your day

  338. like churches and inconvenience. Oh man, some guys that come

  339. through our fellowship irregularly, I'm sitting there

  340. and even the amount of time that they sit in that back row, I

  341. know they're not listening and they're only sitting in that

  342. back row for half the time. They just want the in and out

  343. experience. Almost like as I said, it's,

  344. it's just a an inconvenient part of their day.

  345. What's interesting is the thought of what if God was like

  346. that with us? What if God just wanted the in

  347. and out experience with His children?

  348. When we call out to God in the trial that we're going through,

  349. the sickness, the persecution, the grief, the heartache,

  350. whatever it is that we're experiencing, imagine if God

  351. said, man, I'm with you son, but only for the next hour.

  352. After that you're on your own. Imagine if God did that with us.

  353. I want to challenge and encourage you guys to be so

  354. thankful to the Lord for this body that you call a family in

  355. Christ. It is such a gift from the Lord

  356. and I want to challenge you and ask you, does your family men

  357. see you serving this body with joy?

  358. Do you serve together as a family?

  359. And guys, I'm not just talking about Sunday either.

  360. You know, you come on Sunday and the job of a number of people in

  361. this fellowship, their job is to equip you for the work of the

  362. ministry. The equipping in part happens on

  363. Sunday. When does the ministry happen?

  364. In part on Sunday, but it also happens on Monday and Tuesday

  365. and Wednesday. Thursday, Friday, Saturday, you

  366. get in the picture. Are you serving the Lord every

  367. single day of the week? And that because that looks like

  368. different things for different people at different times.

  369. There's no one size fits all. But are you serving the body of

  370. Christ that you're a part of? I was having this conversation

  371. earlier around the fact that what does it, what does it look

  372. like to serve the body? And part of that is, hey, let's,

  373. when is the one time that for whatever reason, we've set up

  374. that we all come together and gather as a body?

  375. We do that on Sunday, right? Typically that should be our

  376. baseline. That's where we start serving

  377. the body of Christ. But that's that's only one day.

  378. I want to ask you if you celebrate your local church or

  379. do you tear it to shreds? Do you show your family that you

  380. really value worshipping the Lord as you stand and sing, as

  381. you follow along with the sermon, as you prioritise

  382. serving the body in humility Sundays and all the days?

  383. Because if we don't fully commit to the local church, fully

  384. commit to the local church, how then do we deal with a whole

  385. stack of verses in the Bible? I'm going to give you a few.

  386. Let's see how quickly they come up.

  387. First, Peter 410. It was a little lagging that

  388. happened there first. Peter 410 As each one has

  389. received a gift, minister it to one another as good stewards of

  390. the manifold grace of God. OK, let me ask you this

  391. question. If you're not fully committed to

  392. the body of Christ, of being with the body of Christ, being

  393. alongside the body of Christ, how then do you minister your

  394. gift to one another if your pastor's gift was not used to

  395. minister to you on Sunday? If he decided, you know what, I

  396. don't want to minister my gift today, what would that look

  397. like? But your pastor's gift is only

  398. one gift. We've all got gifts.

  399. And when you exclude yourself from the body, the body loses

  400. out. You lose out because you lose

  401. all the gifts, but the body loses out because we lose your

  402. gift. You each, no matter your age.

  403. OK, who's the youngest in our fellowship here?

  404. How old? 6 Anyone younger than six.

  405. No. OK, anyone older than six.

  406. Who's the oldest in our fellowship here?

  407. No pressure. How many, Keith?

  408. Fair bit. Fair bit.

  409. It doesn't matter the age. We all have gifts.

  410. Like I just moved on there, Keith.

  411. Well played. We all have gifts that we need

  412. to use to minister to one another.

  413. It's so important Romans 12/4 for as as we have many members

  414. in one body, but all the members do not have the same function.

  415. So we being many are one body in Christ and individually members

  416. of one another. Having them gifts differing

  417. according to the grace that is given to us.

  418. Let us use them men. Let us use the gifts that God

  419. has given us. I was speaking to a man earlier.

  420. Ian. Where are you?

  421. Ian. Yes, Ian is the groundsman here,

  422. Are you not, Ian? Guys, doesn't matter what your

  423. gift looks like, you've got to use it for the Lord.

  424. He decided to use his to beautify what's around here.

  425. How are you going to use yours for the body at the moment?

  426. There's so many verses in the Bible that refer to command us

  427. to use our gifts for the body, to build up the body, to

  428. minister the body. Therefore, therefore, my

  429. brothers, 1st Corinthians 16 verse 13, watch, watch.

  430. It means to wake up or stay awake, to live, to give strict

  431. attention to, to be cautious, to be on God lest you be led to

  432. forsake Christ or fall into sin first.

  433. Peter 58. Be sober, that is self

  434. controlled. Be vigilant, that is watchful,

  435. because your adversary, the devil, walks about like a

  436. roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour.

  437. Acts 20, verse 29. I, Paul speaking, know this,

    Acts 20:29

  438. that after my departure savage wolves will come in among you,

  439. not sparing the flock also from among yourselves.

  440. Men will rise up, speaking perverse and misleading things,

  441. to draw away the disciples after themselves.

  442. Therefore watch and remember that for three years I did not

  443. cease to warn everyone night and day with tears.

  444. Watch Christian, Be watchful, be on guard, be self controlled, be

  445. disciplined in your walk with the Lord.

  446. Watch. Stand fast in the faith.

  447. Stand fast in the faith. That means to stand firm, to

  448. persist, to persevere in godliness and righteousness.

  449. And in the faith is a strong belief in Jesus Christ as

  450. Messiah, through whom alone we obtain salvation. 2

  451. Thessalonians 215 Brethren, stand fast and hold the

  452. traditions which you were taught, whether by word or our

  453. epistle, how hard it is for us to stand firm on the commands of

  454. God when the world washes over us with all of their ways and

  455. pleasures that they do. Christians, stand firm.

  456. Persevere in your conviction of the truth.

  457. Persevere in your fellowship with the Lord.

  458. Watch. Stand fast in the in the faith.

  459. Be brave. That word brave means to make a

  460. man of to show oneself a man, to act manly.

  461. Notice that the Bible intrinsically links that word

  462. with men. It is described as a masculine

  463. character trait. Now this doesn't mean that women

  464. don't have it. It just means that men should

  465. have it. We're inbuilt with it.

  466. Now I just want to pick two things alongside each other.

  467. So you get it. Bravery means boldness or

  468. fearlessness. Courage means doing something

  469. even though you know the risk. Even though you may be fearful,

  470. you're doing it in spite of that fear.

  471. Bravery is a fearlessness. Courage is doing it even though

  472. you fear. Both typically work hand in

  473. hand. Bravery is more spontaneous.

  474. Typically boys have that thing. How often have you seen a a nine

  475. year old girl climb a tree and jump out of it and do dumb

  476. stuff? It doesn't happen that often

  477. because 9 year old boys have a fearlessness about them.

  478. That's bravery and sometimes it's stupidity, but that's what

  479. bravery is. There's a spontaneousness about

  480. it, but notice what the Lord uses.

  481. He, he, the word he uses is bravery.

  482. It's not courage. Be brave, be fearless, be bold

  483. for the Lord that is so important.

  484. Watch, stand fast in the faith, be brave.

  485. That is, be fearless. Guys, we have nothing to fear.

  486. Psalm 27 One, the Lord is my light and my salvation.

  487. Whom shall I fear? The Lord is the strength of my

  488. life. Of whom shall I be afraid?

  489. Romans 831 What then shall we say to these things?

  490. If God is for us, who can be against us?

  491. We have nothing to God has put in us this fearlessness that he

  492. nurtures as we grow in the Lord. Men, show yourself a man.

  493. Be bold for the Lord. Be fearless.

  494. No matter the consequences that may come, no matter the pushback

  495. from your peers, no matter the pushback from your family.

  496. Be brave. Watch.

  497. Stand fast in the faith. Be brave.

  498. Be strong. We're almost finished, I

  499. promise. Be strong.

  500. It means to strengthen, to be made strong, to grow strong, to

  501. be strong. Ephesians 610 Finally, my

  502. brethren, be strong in the Lord and in the power of His might.

  503. The words be strong there doesn't mean in and of your own

  504. strength. It means to be strong in the

  505. Lord. We must be empowered.

  506. We'll be strengthened by God. Our strength comes from Him, not

  507. from ourselves. Not be strong by the Lord of the

  508. Lord, but in the Lord. Our strength comes from being in

  509. Him, which comes full cycle back to the start.

  510. Abide in me. We've got to abide in His Word.

  511. John 15-4 Abide in me, and I in you.

  512. As the branch cannot bear fruit of itself unless it abides in

  513. the vine, neither can you unless you abide in me.

  514. I am the vine, you are the branches.

  515. He who abides in me, and I in him bears much fruit.

  516. For without me you can do nothing.

  517. All right, pop quiz. Let's see who's listening up the

  518. back there. Apart from Christ, what can we

  519. do? Shut it out.

  520. Nothing. We can't do anything apart from

  521. Christ. Nothing.

  522. I was chatting to a mate a while ago.

  523. He wrestles a lot with the Lord. He we had a laugh one time

  524. because he came to this realisation that this, this

  525. skill that he had, he was really good at something.

  526. He's not really good at a number of things, but he's really good

  527. at this something. But he came to the point where

  528. he realised that that something was actually from the Lord.

  529. He's actually not good at anything apart from the Lord,

  530. and that was a sad realisation for him.

  531. But that's the reality of our lives.

  532. Apart from God we can do nothing.

  533. And you know what, it's actually encouraging as well.

  534. You don't have to try, you just have to abide in Him and he's

  535. going to do it with you, in you, through you.

  536. True Christian strength comes from recognising our utter

  537. dependence on God. Philippians 413 I can do all

  538. things through Christ who strengthens me.

  539. Notice the opposite. I can't do anything apart from

  540. God. I can do all things through

  541. Christ who strengthens me. To be strong in the Lord means

  542. to abide in Christ. What's the best way to abide in

  543. Christ? Yeah, yeah, yeah.

  544. Every day, guys, every day. Pick up the word of God every

  545. single day. You won't always understand

  546. everything that you read. That's OK.

  547. I pick it up every single day. Abide in Christ, be strong in

  548. the Lord. I can't remember what verse out

  549. of Samuel you read earlier, but I'm going to read 1 right now.

  550. Two Samuel 1012. Be of good courage and let us be

  551. strong for our people and for the cities of our God.

  552. As men, we are called to be strong for God's people.

  553. That's Our Calling. That's the calling upon your

  554. life from as young as 6 to as old as many.

  555. That's the calling upon our life.

  556. Watch, stand fast in the faith. Be brave, be strong.

  557. Let all that you do be done with.

  558. Love everything guys, everything that you do, your words, your

  559. actions, the love of Christians towards Christians.

  560. We get this horribly wrong, but it's our witness guys, John 1335

  561. and we're going to close here by this all know that you are my

  562. disciples. If you have love one for

  563. another, How are you going with loving one another?

  564. How are you going with loving your wife, your children, your

  565. grandchildren? How are you going with loving

  566. your brothers? Brothers sharing with each other

  567. how we're going? That's not a natural thing for

  568. us, is it necessarily? But it's required of us to love

  569. one another. A level of vulnerability is

  570. required of us. You saw all the raised hands

  571. earlier about how we all struggle with how often we pick

  572. up God's Word sometimes. It's no different for all the

  573. other struggles that you're experiencing.

  574. There's a bunch of brothers here that are struggling with the

  575. same thing. We just need to open our mouth,

  576. make ourselves vulnerable, and love one another in all that we

  577. do. Men, as we close, watch, This is

  578. your challenge this week. Excuse me, this is your

  579. challenge this week. It's your challenge for your

  580. within your family, within this body of Christ.

  581. Here, take this challenge seriously.

  582. Watch. Stand fast in the faith, Be

  583. brave, be strong. Let all that you do be done with

  584. love. Let's pray together now, the

  585. Heavenly Father. Thank you so much that you love

  586. us, that you've forgiven us, that you're so patient with us.

  587. Lord, we don't deserve your patience.

  588. We don't deserve your mercy and your grace, but you gifted to

  589. us, Lord. Lord, we pray that you would

  590. strengthen us with your Holy Spirit because we can't do these

  591. things apart from you. We we just read that we can do

  592. nothing apart from you, but we can do all things through you,

  593. Christ who strengthens us. So Lord, strengthen us this

  594. night. Lord, our witness is our love

  595. one for another. Help us to do that.

  596. Well, Lord, help us to be the spiritual leaders of our homes,

  597. of our families, of this church, of our friendship groups.

  598. Lord, what would it look like for each of us to watch, to

  599. stand firm in the faith, to be brave, to be strong, and to do

  600. all things with love? Lord, that is the charge for us

  601. today. And I just ask here, Lord among

  602. us, that you would strengthen us for that challenge, that you

  603. would encourage us every time we fail, whether you'd pick us back

  604. up and we'd keep charging towards you in all the things

  605. that we do and say. Thank you, Lord, for this time.

  606. As men, we commit it into your hands in the name of the Lord

  607. Jesus Christ. And everyone said Amen, just to

  608. know you.