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November 12, 2023 / Hope, Faith, and Future
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Welcome to Walk in the Truth podcast. How do we know where to find answers to the toughest
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questions in life? While the simplest answer is the Bible, where do we start this search
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and how do we discover this truth? Today, in this teaching podcast, John Meador, lead
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pastor of Cross City Church, takes a specific text of the Bible and helps us find truth
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for the life we're searching for. We are so glad that you've joined us this morning
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and I do want to reiterate next week is a special week because it's a mission conference
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week, conference day, and Paul Chetwood is the name of the president of the International
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Mission Board, largest mission sending organization in the world and he'll be with us in all
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of our services and you will not want to miss this because this guy really helps lead more
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than 4,500 missionaries serving, sharing the gospel all around the world and we're very
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involved in supporting them and I think next week will be a very, very special week. This
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week is Foster and Adoption Sunday and we're going to be talking about that not only in
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the message but also as you lead today. If you'll go through the comments area, there
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are different displays of the various ministries that help in the foster adoption process and
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we'll talk about that just a little bit in the message. You'll hear some great stories,
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great testimonies of people in our church that are actually adoptive parents and we
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want you to know about the power of adoption. Now I want you to take your Bibles this morning
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and turn to the book of Esther today, the book of Esther. The Old Testament book of
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Esther is in between the book of Nehemiah and the book of Job. So we want you to know
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that and if you can't find those two then go to the table of contents if you would and
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the table of contents is always so helpful. Today the title of the message is Hope and
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verse 5. By the way we have hardback versions of the Bible at the doorways and we always
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encourage you to pick up one of those if you don't have that with you or your Bible with
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you, you want to pick that up, that's great. You can use it or you can take it home and
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we'll have page numbers on our screens for those different verses as well, make them
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easy to find. You won't have to look at the table of contents at least, you'll know what
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page number it is. So let's stand together as we turn to Esther chapter 2 beginning in
Esther 2 chapter mention
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verse 5 and I want to say as we dive into this particular subject, this particular topic
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today that the emphasis of the book of Esther and we've been here not too long ago as we
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walked through that book but the book of Esther is a topic of how God works in unseen and
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unheard ways. Now for most of us that's how God works all the time because God doesn't
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speak out loud to us and sometimes we don't see how God works and we have to trust that
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he's working in unseen and sometimes unspoken ways but the book of Esther is the only book
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in the Bible that does not have the name of God in it. It's also the only book where God
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is not quoted, where there's not a prophet speaking or there's not someone else saying
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the Lord has told us this but it is a book in which you look at the characters in the
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book and you realize God is in work in incredible ways in their lives. You can see God all the
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way through the book of Esther. So let me set the scene for you before we get into the
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text. Esther is set during a time when the Jews are in exile to Persia and King Ahasuerus
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so they have been removed from their homeland and there they are about 450 years or so before
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the coming of Christ. They're captive, they're slaves and they're really subject to the whims
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of this King Ahasuerus and so that's the situation. King Ahasuerus has deposed his queen for reasons
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I'll tell you about in just a few moments and Esther is one of those young women who
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has been selected to go and so to speak audition before the king. So many unjust, unfair things
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going on here that we won't take time to explain however here she is in the presence of the
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king and she's talking with her cousin Mordecai so you'll understand something about the background
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when we read these verses. Chapter 2 beginning in verse 5. Now there was at the citadel in
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Susa a Jew whose name was Mordecai, the son of Jair, the son of Shemai, the son of Kish,
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of Benjamin, who had been taken into exile from Jerusalem with the captives that had
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been exiled with Jeconiah, king of Judah, whom Nebuchadnezzar the king of Babylon had
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exiled. So if you want to know in a summary form what's just happened, war has happened.
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Persia has kidnapped those out of Jerusalem and brought them into exile away from their
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homeland in this capital city of Susa. It says in verse 7 he was bringing up Hadassah,
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that is Esther, his uncle's daughter, that is Mordecai is doing this, for she had no
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father or mother. Now the young lady was beautiful of form and face and when her father and her
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mother died Mordecai took her as his own daughter. So it came about when the command and decree
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of the king were heard and many young ladies were gathered to the citadel of Susa into
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the custody of Hegai, that is Esther was taken to the king's palace into the custody of Hegai
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who was in charge of the women. Now the young lady pleased him and found favor with him
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so he quickly provided her with cosmetics and food, gave her seven choice maids from
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the king's palace and transferred her and her maids to the best place in the harem.
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Esther did not make known her people or her kindred, that is she didn't tell them that
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she was a Jewish girl, for Mordecai had instructed her that she should not make them known.
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Every day Mordecai walked back and forth in front of the court of the harem to learn how
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Esther was and how she fared. Alright we'll stop there for a moment before we dive into
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this message. Father today we're going to take just a piece of this whole book, it's
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a part of this whole story and father we're going to look at the amazing adoption that
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took place for Esther placed into the care of Mordecai. Father my prayer today that we
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would see your redemptive power in the very picture of adoption and certainly in the life
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of Esther and how you used her in such a big way at that very critical time in Israel's
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history. Lord give us eyes to see, a heart to understand and a will to follow you. We
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ask this in Jesus name and everybody said amen. Please be seated if you would. I love
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the book of Esther, I love the Old Testament books where stories are told about people's
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lives, I love the narratives. And this is one of those stories that I often say a movie
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needs to be made about this and I know there is a movie made about Esther's life but I
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think I can make a better one than what I've seen and a movie needs to be made, there's
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more spiritual truth to share. But it's such an incredible story of a young woman at a
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crossroads in her life and a nation at a crossroads as well. And it's a sensational story because
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here's this girl who is virtually homeless until she's adopted by Mordecai and all of
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a sudden before too many chapters go by she's now queen of this whole region. And what's
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amazing and sensational about this story is something is lost as we read through it very
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quickly and that is the picture of her adoption by Mordecai. I know people that have read
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the whole book of Esther and never really pick up the idea that Mordecai adopted his
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younger cousin who is Esther of Hadassah and that really enables the entire story to be
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told as it should be told. So here's a young girl that's a victim in the seemingly endless
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war between the people who hate the Jewish people, the people who hate Israel and Israel.
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Now just for some awareness it's 479 BC specifically, the nation that King Hazris is over is the
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land of Persia in biblical times that was its name today is the land of Iran which is
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in the news right now. They were known those 2500 years ago for their hatred of the Jewish
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people and much is happening in the same way today as a matter of fact if I was preaching
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a message about Israel and where she is today and what's going on with that war I might
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even start from the book of Esther but that's not the title of this message or the topic.
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That's just what's happening. She's in the midst of a war and she's a captive to a nation
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that hates her people which is why she doesn't reveal who she is. It's a horrific culture,
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it's sexist, it is predatory. So many bad things can happen to a young woman who is
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in that culture and if she's not rescued her prospects for the future are dismal. But here's
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what we find in the book of Esther. We find that God placed Esther in a unique family
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and a unique time and an amazing moment of history. Now I want you to see this as we
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walk through the book because you won't read this in a verse but what you'll see is behind
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the scenes God's unseen hand moving and placing people in the perfect situation for him to
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be glorified. Do you know God is a placer? God places people. I want you to say the word
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placer. Are you ready? Placer. God is a placer. Say it one more time. God is a placer. We
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don't say that in that story. It's not a word we use a lot. But have you ever felt like
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God has placed you in a situation and you look around and go, wow, I don't know how
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I got here but I know God placed me here. Anybody ever experience that? Let me just
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tell you that's the way God works. God is a placer. He puts people in the places that
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he wants and you see that all the way through the scripture. God placed Adam and Eve in
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the Garden of Eden. God placed the nation Israel into the land of promise. If you're
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here as a believer in Jesus Christ, God placed you in this body with gifts and talents and
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a heart and a passion to walk with us. He places us in the world to represent him. We
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are in the world but we're not of the world. He's placed us here for incredible reason.
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He places people and families through birth and he places people and families through
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fostering and adoption. I want you to see that today. I want you to see how you placed
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this young woman Esther into the family of Mordecai. Now you've heard me, if you've
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been around for long, you've heard me tell the story of my belief that God is the ultimate
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chess master. That we're just pawns on the chessboard. We have no idea where to go, forward,
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backward, sideways, diagonal. We don't know. We don't know the strategy that comes against
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us but what we do know is as God moves us into place, he's aware of the future, he's
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aware of the path, he's aware of the threats on all sides. God is the ultimate chess master
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and the greatest way to view your life is that perspective. He has got this. We don't
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but he does. And you'll see that in the life of Esther. God has moved her around the board
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so to speak. Now I also want you to know as I walk through these points this morning to
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realize that there's nothing coincidental in this adoption story or in your life. God
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is the God of purpose and significance. Everything he does, he has a reason for it. Isn't that
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reassuring? I mean in a chaotic world, in a confusing world, a world where not much
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makes sense, isn't it good to know that God always has a purpose? He always has a significance.
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So I want to give you some things today coming out of the story of this adoption by Mordecai
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of Esther that will bring hope and encouragement to you today. First of all, I want you to
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notice that adoption brings hope to hopeless situations. Adoption brings hope to hopeless
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situations. We start there in verse 7 and the scripture states it very plainly, for
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she had no father or mother. And then it clarifies later on in verse 7, when her father and mother
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died, Mordecai took her as his own daughter. In other words, to tell the story, it's clear
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that she has no mother or father at that moment, but she had a mother and father and they had
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died presumably in the war. Presumably in the occupation of the Persian people of Jerusalem
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and as they came and invaded Jerusalem and as they took them off to exile, they died
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in that process. Now I want you to take a moment and imagine the hopelessness of the
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situation. I don't want you to view Esther as a quick flyby of a larger book. I want
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you to take a moment and think about her as a young woman. Imagine being in exile in a
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foreign land, slaves to those that captured you. Take a moment to think about what it
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means to be a slave, to have no rights, to absolutely be at the mercy of your captors,
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to have to do whatever that person who owned you is a slave required of you. Imagine that
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your parents have died and there's no one to protect you, no one to speak up for you,
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no one to stand in the gap for you. Imagine now being a young girl all alone without protection
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in this predatory kind of culture. All you have to do is read the first chapter of the
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book of Esther. King Ahasuerus and all he's doing and you know everybody else in the nation
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is living in that kind of immorality, in that kind of mindset. If you went back and read
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chapter one, King Ahasuerus has called a big party to take place and he's required of his
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queen, Queen Vashti to dance in a seductive way in front of all the soldiers and the captains
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that have gathered for this party. Now Queen Vashti must be a person of character because
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she absolutely refuses to dance for the men and in response King Ahasuerus is embarrassed
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by her response and the fact that she dared disobey him that he deposed her as queen
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and said I know what I'll do, I'll find another queen, I'll find someone who will do what
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I ask them to do. That's the leader of this particular culture. Can you imagine this young
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girl unprotected, young and without anyone to speak up for her, can you imagine what
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her life might have been like without intervention? Can you imagine how she would be exploited,
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perhaps become a prostitute or worse in every way used up? It's a hopeless situation. You
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know the word hopeless is one of those words that we don't use a great deal but hopelessness
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is the word that we do use when we no longer believe a situation can be redeemed. When
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we no longer believe that this situation with its circumstances by itself can be redeemed.
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When we say hopelessness we mean somebody needs to step up and rescue somebody else.
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There needs to be someone to stand in the gap, to intervene, to bring change to that
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circumstance which is exactly what this picture gives us today. It's a hopeless situation.
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Now enter the man named Mordecai. Actually in the scripture Mordecai is mentioned in
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the book of Esther before. Esther is really given detail as to her life. He's a compassionate,
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he's a God-fearing Jewish man who is actually her older cousin and knows of the death of
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her parents. And God divinely, here's his word, he places her into his custody under
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the compassionate care of his older cousin who is doing the right thing and he adopts
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her as his own daughter. I love that line. He considers her his own daughter. How many
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fathers in the room have daughters? Would you raise your hand if you're a father and
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you have a daughter? Would you raise your hand? I have three daughters and three sons
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and I'm not saying I wouldn't come and rescue my sons but I'm saying I would absolutely
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come and rescue every one of my daughters. I consider it a personal charge in life to
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protect them from everything they need to be protected from. I would do anything, go
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any distance, do anything I would have to do to keep them safe and to keep them going
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in the direction they need to go in. My favorite movies are daddy rescue movies where they
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rescue the daughters. You know those movies, I've mentioned those before, no need to bring
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them up again. Something goes on in the heart of a good father towards his daughter. And
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Mordecai, the Bible says, considered Esther as his own daughter. And everywhere in the
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story you've got amazing depictions and interactions and conversations where he's watching out
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for her, where he's listening to what's going on, where he's shepherding her in every way
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he possibly can. And by the way, that's just what foster and adoptive parents do, what
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Mordecai is doing. Now certainly I'm not saying that birth parents don't do that. I'm saying
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that every foster parent, every adoptive parent has this heart of Mordecai who wants to show
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compassion towards someone in need. And by the way, the Bible is filled with the abominations
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from God that we are to pay attention to those in great need. In fact, God as a father says
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I care about those that are in such a need. Let me just kind of go back and look at some
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scriptures with you. In Psalm 149, verse, 146 rather, verse nine, there's a great passage
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that kind of reflects the heart of God here. And here's what it says. It says the Lord
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protects the strangers. He supports the fatherless and the widow, but he thwarts the way of the
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wicked. You're going to see this play out in the life of Esther, but this is just the
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heart of God, the compassion of God. Now God's compassion is not just an objective, standalone
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compassion. God's compassion is often exercised through people who show compassion. In this
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case, Mordecai, this adoptive father, and in our emphasis today, the foster parents
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and the adoptive parents of children who are in need. Then there's Psalm 31. We often quote
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this Psalm when, or rather, Proverb 31 when we talk about speaking up with the unborn.
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And here's what it says. Open your mouth for the mute, for the rights of all the unfortunate
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open your mouth, judge righteously, defend the rights of the afflicted and needy. So
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this is actually a command to God fearing people, God following people to speak up for
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those that cannot speak for themselves. They may be in horrific circumstances like Esther
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was and like others are, and were to speak up on their behalf. Then there's just a great
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account of Jesus interacting with the disciples about little children that have come to him.
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You can't get a better picture of the compassion of God than Jesus saying to the disciples,
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whoever receives one such child in my name receives me. If you want to know what God
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thinks about children, look right there at the expression of God in the flesh about the
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little children that are coming unto him. James chapter 1 verse 27, another great, great
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verse to the church of Jesus. James in his bold and straightforward way says it like
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this, pure and undefiled religion in the sight of God and our father is this to visit orphans
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and widows and their distress and to keep oneself unstained by the world. What a command.
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The church cannot ignore widows, orphans. We have to come along beside them and around
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them and help them in every way that we can possibly help. In recent months, I've met
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some pretty incredible people as we've begun to embark on talking about an adoption and
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foster ministry. I've met people that are like Mordecai, people who have responded in
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these ways to the biblical call to compassion. What they do is they see hopeless situations
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in terms of children that have been placed up for adoption and they're willing to step
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in the gap. They're willing to pray through this and bring themselves and allow themselves
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to be brought to a place of conviction and they really embark on a spiritual journey,
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a financial journey and certainly a physical journey, an extraordinary effort to get to
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the place where they can make a decision to foster or adopt a child. Even though sometimes
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the crowd around them will say it may never work, you may not know what you're getting
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into, sometimes there are all those negative voices and then they sense this conviction
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from God and they take the step forward. You've got to admire people of courage and conviction
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who do that. Amen? Are you with me this morning? Some time ago, the couple that goes to our
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church came up to me and handed me a long letter and that letter told a story. They
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were aware of a child in their not immediate family but nearby family and this child was
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in need through the dysfunction of her family and this husband and wife were kneeling right
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over here during a Jericho prayer time years ago. We've been doing this for years and
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in that prayer time they felt the Lord lead them to step up and adopt this young girl
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and it was just in that prayer time that they began to have that conviction and heard the
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call of God and they stepped forward to do that and that's exactly what took place and
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their story unfolded in a beautiful powerful way which is happening today. It's incredible
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what God does in people's lives when they surrender themselves to do that and I've
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heard these stories, these are amazing stories. It's really interesting that in all these
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stories every story that I've heard recently has a phone call moment, a phone call moment
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where they've done all the prep work, adopted parents have prepared and prayed and persevered
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and waited and waited and waited. They've been on a spiritual journey, a physical journey,
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a psychological journey, they've got their houses already, they've got their homes and
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mines already and finally the day arrives where they get a phone call and it's a shocking
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kind of thing even though they've prepared and that phone call person on the other end
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of the phone says come get your child and all of a sudden it all comes rushing back
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to them oh okay this is the moment that I've been preparing for and that phone call means
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all the legal steps have taken place, all the money has been raised, it means the details
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are all taken care of and it's time for the new beginning in that child's life and it's
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time really for a new chapter on the part of these parents like in Mordecai's life,
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like in Esther's life, change is on the horizon and hope has dawned. Adoption brings hope
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so adoption also brings faith to the next generation. I see that in the life of Esther.
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Now as we started this text we started in verse 5 which gives a little bit of the background
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of Mordecai. Notice what it says again now there was that the citadel of Susa a Jew whose
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name was Mordecai the son of Jair the son of Shemai the son of Kish of Benjamin and
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right there you have the history of Mordecai. This history is Jewish history it is replete
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with and full of stories of how God has worked in powerful ways to protect the Jewish people.
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So we know this about Mordecai he was a descendant of Saul and the Talmud identifies him as a
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prophet even though he wasn't speaking as a prophet during this time he was known as
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a prophet this man knew the ways of God. He knew how God had worked in the past he knew
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how God leads how God rescues how God redeems he knew about God. Now the way the Jewish
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people passed on their faith and their awareness of history was by what we know as oral tradition
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they shared with the next generation at the dinner table so to speak and at the festivals
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and feasts of Israel here's what Jehovah Almighty has done in our history here's why we know
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we can trust the Lord our God here's how we know that. And so Esther would have heard
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from her parents first of all for however long they lived and now she's hearing from
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Mordecai faith is being passed from one generation to the next. She's going to need it because
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she's going to be the queen of a pagan wicked ruler. She's going to need every ounce of
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faith her parents could have imparted or that Mordecai could impart. She's going to need
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every ounce of faith that history could have provided her but she was given that faith
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and it's really remarkable to see how it all unfolds. In fact when I read the story of
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Mordecai and Esther I thought they have so much to teach us about passing faith on to
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the next generation. Can you think about this for a moment? We don't know what the next
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generation is going to face in America or in the world but it's not looking real optimistic
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if you ask me. How do we prepare them for that? And the way we prepare them for that
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is by their faith in an Almighty God who rises above the ups and downs of a nation or a world.
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Here's this young woman faith is being passed on to her and the reason we know that is even
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though the name of God is not mentioned and even though there is no command from God in
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the book of Esther so to speak you see faith being reflected in their conversation. So
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Esther realizes by the time she's a queen that there's a wicked man named Haman who
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wants them all dead. All the Jews are his target. He wants to completely exterminate
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them and the only way she can really intervene is to have an unrequested audience before
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the king and that day and time even if you're a queen you can't just walk into the king's
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chambers and say can we talk? That's not how it worked back then. If you went into the
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chambers without an invitation you might be put to death. And so the whole conversation
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between Mordecai and Esther was how will you get word to the king that wicked Haman wants
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to put us to death? How are you going to do that? And Mordecai says to her in Esther chapter
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4 verse 14 it's reflecting faith all the way through. If you remain silent at this time
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relief and deliverance will arise for the Jews from another place. He's recognizing
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the sovereignty of God right there. If it's not you God will raise up somebody else and
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you and your father's house will perish and who knows whether you have not attained royalty
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for such a time as this. Who knows that God has placed you in this position at this moment
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at this time in this history so that you can speak up. And what does Esther say? She says
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maybe the most famous lines in the book of Esther. She says so I'll do this you fast
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and pray for me for three days and I'm going to go into the king and here's what she says
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she says and if I die I die. Now that's either foolishness or faith. But we know it's faith.
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You see what's happened in Mordecai's shepherding of Esther is he has helped her know that the
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most high God the God of Israel Yahweh Jehovah will rescue them. And she's positioned to
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do that very thing to intervene on behalf of her nation. God has placed her in this
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place. There's a woman that goes to our church many of you know Deanna D'ar she's in our
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choir she sings on our stage from time to time. I interviewed for her for a podcast
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with her some months ago and it's on our website where I asked her about her history of being
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adopted. And in that interview she talked about her adoptive parents and the fact that
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they introduced her to faith in Jesus Christ. And she just talked about the incredible thing
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that God did in letting her be placed for adoption and letting those parents step in
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and actually receive her in adoption and share faith with her. And later on she went back
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and met her biological mom realizing if I had been raised in that home I would not have
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known Christ as early or in the same way that I know him now. In other words from her perspective
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she sees adoption from the perspective of God and placing her in the perfect home at
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the perfect time for her to come to faith in Jesus Christ. Now Deanna is a high school
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teacher and she influences many hundreds and thousands of kids towards Jesus in her ministry
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that she has in those schools. Adoption really does bring faith to the next generation but
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it does something else. Adoption brings the future to many. The future to many. Now if
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you know anything about the book of Esther you know where I'm going with this. Israel,
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the people of God are rescued. It's an amazing story. There are all kinds of ups and downs
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in this story. There's this crazy crazy but not coincidental string of events where only
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God could have orchestrated the things to happen in the book of Esther but eventually
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led to the hanging of Haman and led to the giving of permission by King Ahasuerus to
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the Jewish people to defend themselves and they do and they do it well. So in Esther
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chapter 9 verse 1 we read this. On the day when the enemies of the Jews hoped to gain
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mastery over them it was turned to the contrary so that the Jews themselves gained the mastery
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over those who hated them. 2500 years ago that's the statement that was made by how
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God intervened. If you want to know how I pray for Israel I pray for them like this.
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Right there. So that those that hate Israel will all of a sudden realize they have no
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mastery to carry that out but that the Jewish people would be protected. God does this over
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and over and over for the Jewish people to just read the Old Testament to see what happens
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time after time. But I want you to see one thing with clarity. Don't let what I've said
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make all these other things get lost in those words. Here's what I want you to see. Esther's
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adoption and her faith along with how God allowed her to become queen brought a future
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to all of the Jewish people in that city. The rescue was significant. Targeted for extermination
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they instead see God saw God turn the tables on the whole picture. Now let me just say
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this to you today. In any scenario adoption brings a future to many that would not be
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possible without the compassion and dedicated acts of adoptive parents or foster parents.
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I told you about some families that I've gotten to know recently. We actually have a video
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that introduces three families and just their journey for fostering and adoption. And I
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want you to see what we've said today the background behind that the prayer the conviction
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the provision the open doors and watch what the result is. Early on I knew I wanted to
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be a mom. Ever since a student pastor I had adopted I knew I would like to have an adopted
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child of my own. We were talking about how we wanted to have kids and you know what our
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family would look like and I mentioned to him that I was interested in adoption and
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his response was I've always been interested in it too. I started being interested in foster
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and adoption when I knew I could offer a stable loving home to a kid who needs that. The Lord
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just guided and directed us step by step to the point where we were you know a licensed
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foster family. So we have Wren who is 10 years old she's in fifth grade and a couple years
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after she was born we had a miscarriage. We just felt like God was continuing to show
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us that the next child for us it would be through adoption. We were about to have a
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discussion with our adoption agency about what steps we take moving forward and we get
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a call to come pick up Mila. We picked her up at the hospital and walked out with a baby
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girl and she's a riot. All gas no break and never stops moving and never stops cracking
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jokes. She's a delight. When we were ready to try for a second child and we went through
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the same exact protocol after quite a few months and a whole lot of money my doctor
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just said it's not working. Honestly thought God had forgotten my family and it just so
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happened that our friend Beth Wright who is another adoptive mom she and I were talking
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and she looked at me dead in the face and she said Amanda God has not forgotten your
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family and that for me as sweetly as she said it was the truth that I needed. When we got
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the phone call the lady's like hey is this Amanda? Yes ma'am how can I help you? And
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she said well you have a daughter and I just stopped breathing for a second and I just
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thought oh my gosh it's it. You have a daughter? Wait a minute she's here she's a she oh my
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gosh she's here like what? And she goes yeah you have a daughter when can you get here?
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My family doesn't look like every other family. I am a single mom of three of the best kids.
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I have Sean he's 16 years old and Nevaeh is 14 and Callie is 12. Even though we don't
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have the same DNA she is as much mine as Ren is. She is 100% right. There was not a shadow
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of a doubt that little girl wasn't meant for us. She fit so perfectly. Main reason of foster
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adoption matters is because it's the hands and the feet of Jesus. The thing about the
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church family it is adoptive in its own nature. And we get to be you know sons and daughters
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of God as if we were brothers and sisters of Christ. Don't let fear keep you from doing
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what God's called you to do. Some of the most fearful times in my life is when I've done
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really hard things that God's wanted me to do. There are so many things that you can
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do to bless those adoptive families. As families step into fostering and adoption we as a church
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have to wrap our arms around them. There's lots of ways to get involved and nothing is
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too big or too small. Let's celebrate that together for just a moment. Would you do that?
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Wow. Some of those people on the video you know them well. Come along behind them and
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just love on them and let them know that you see them as the courageous compassionate people
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that they really are. What a great thing to be able to do. Here you have this biblical
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picture of adoption. You have these real life stories of how adoptions take place and how
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incredibly important it really is. And I want to ask you a couple of questions today. Do
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you see how this works? Do you understand how it is a huge decision that people make
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but a compassionate decision that really reflects the love and compassion of Jesus Christ. And
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I want you to see also how God can use a foster and adoption ministry in our church. It's
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something that's emerging, something that's beginning but something that's very, very,
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very exciting. And that's why we're compassionate, we're passionate about it. But let me tell
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you that the other side of this picture that depicts the need. You may not know this but
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if adoption doesn't take place there are children who are placed for adoption who are never
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really adopted to parents. According to Buckner Children's Home more than 7,000 children await
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adoption in the state of Texas alone. More than 120,000 nationwide. Their parents' rights
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have already been terminated. In other words, it's been determined that these parents cannot
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raise them and so they are now waiting for adoptive parents and they have not yet been
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adopted. If never adopted, 1,000 children will age out of the system every year. If
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they age out of the system, nearly half will become either homeless or incarcerated. Seven
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of ten young women who age out of the system at the age of 18 are pregnant by the age of
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21. And I look at that and I think 7,000 kids. There are more than 7,000 evangelical churches
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in the state of Texas, way more. What would happen if churches simply had a burden and
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a passion to help being part of the solution and stand behind parents who are willing to
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do this fostering and this adopting and for the church to support them and love them and
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encourage them and make it possible. The kingdom of God can meet the need that culture has
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created if we will and that's why we emphasize what we're emphasizing today because we can
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and should do everything we possibly can. Whether God's calls you to be an adoptive
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parent or a foster parent or not, everybody can do something to help make sure that this
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process works well. You know, one of the great things about the story of Esther, the subject
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of adoption, is the reality that each one of us, every single person in this room, if
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you are a believer in Jesus Christ, you too have been adopted. You've been adopted by
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God the Father. Now think about that for just a moment. Think about what that means. Romans
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chapter 8 verse 15 says, for you've not been given a slavery leading to fear again, but
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you've received a spirit of adoption as sons and daughters by which we cry out Abba Father.
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Adoption is an illustration of really what happens to every one of us who come to faith
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in Jesus Christ. Today I want you to think about something. I also want you to take a
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little bit of a walk. It won't take you long. You won't have a whole lot more steps on your
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step counter, but you will walk away far more educated about what adoption and the process
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is all about. In our lobby today, in our commons area, we have set up at least six stations
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and those six stations have representatives behind them for the different ministries that
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are available for fostering and adopting parents. For example, there's MCWC, which we have for
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where a young woman comes and gets counseling about her unplanned pregnancy. Often they come
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to faith in Jesus and more often than that, they actually keep their child in the sense
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of having the child instead of aborting the child. I think we've celebrated close to 40,000
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kids that have been basically rescued and born because of MCWC. I celebrate that all
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the time and I know you do as well. Amen. 40,000. A lot of kids. There's Embrace Grace represented
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in our commons area. That's where moms come in who are at the point of decision and they
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are discipled and lovingly led through the decision process and many of them end up keeping their
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child or placing them for adoption. It's an incredible ministry. There are adoption agencies
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out there. There are fostering agencies out there, but the important thing is that the
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body of Christ become aware of how we can come alongside foster and adoptive parents, how we can come alongside
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the kids that have such a huge need of seeing the compassion of God. No contribution
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of time, talent and prayer is too small. Everyone can do something that first you have to know.
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So do a favor for me. Walk through the commons, browse through, take just a few moments and
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you'll walk away with a sense of how God is working in this whole picture of adoption.
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I've got three invitations for you or more today. Number one, if you would like to talk
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to someone about putting your faith in Jesus Christ, today our decision station is open.
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I talked at the end of this message about what it meant to be adopted as sons and daughters
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by God the Father. It means putting your faith and trust in Christ. We really want to talk
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to you about that. Number two, I ask you if you're a guest to come to guest reception
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room right outside the center exit doors and out into the hallway. Glass-den room there,
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I'll be there to talk to you about the church and about ways you can connect. Thirdly, I
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invite you to come back. Next week is a big mission Sunday week and fourthly, I invite
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you to go through the commons area on your way out today. All right? Thank you so much
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for being here today. Let's stand together as we close out in prayer. Father, I am so
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grateful for the story of Esther. Grateful for the living illustration of adoption. Grateful
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that you, Father, adopt us as sons and daughters through Jesus Christ. Grateful for people
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who have already made this journey of physically adopting a son or a daughter into their home.
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Father, I thank you for the ministries that serve to that end to help people know and
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take steps to support this. Lord, today I pray for those 7,000 children that are yet
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unadopted, yet not placed. And Father, I ask that you move in a powerful way to help that
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take place. Help us as believers to live out the compassion that you've shown to us. We
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ask this in Jesus' name. Amen. God bless you. Have a wonderful Lord's Day.