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November 12, 2023 / Hope, Faith, and Future

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  1. Welcome to Walk in the Truth podcast. How do we know where to find answers to the toughest

  2. questions in life? While the simplest answer is the Bible, where do we start this search

  3. and how do we discover this truth? Today, in this teaching podcast, John Meador, lead

  4. pastor of Cross City Church, takes a specific text of the Bible and helps us find truth

  5. for the life we're searching for. We are so glad that you've joined us this morning

  6. and I do want to reiterate next week is a special week because it's a mission conference

  7. week, conference day, and Paul Chetwood is the name of the president of the International

  8. Mission Board, largest mission sending organization in the world and he'll be with us in all

  9. of our services and you will not want to miss this because this guy really helps lead more

  10. than 4,500 missionaries serving, sharing the gospel all around the world and we're very

  11. involved in supporting them and I think next week will be a very, very special week. This

  12. week is Foster and Adoption Sunday and we're going to be talking about that not only in

  13. the message but also as you lead today. If you'll go through the comments area, there

  14. are different displays of the various ministries that help in the foster adoption process and

  15. we'll talk about that just a little bit in the message. You'll hear some great stories,

  16. great testimonies of people in our church that are actually adoptive parents and we

  17. want you to know about the power of adoption. Now I want you to take your Bibles this morning

  18. and turn to the book of Esther today, the book of Esther. The Old Testament book of

  19. Esther is in between the book of Nehemiah and the book of Job. So we want you to know

  20. that and if you can't find those two then go to the table of contents if you would and

  21. the table of contents is always so helpful. Today the title of the message is Hope and

  22. Faith and Future, Esther chapter 2 beginning in verse 5. Esther chapter 2 beginning in

    Esther 2 chapter mention Esther 2 chapter mention

  23. verse 5. By the way we have hardback versions of the Bible at the doorways and we always

  24. encourage you to pick up one of those if you don't have that with you or your Bible with

  25. you, you want to pick that up, that's great. You can use it or you can take it home and

  26. we'll have page numbers on our screens for those different verses as well, make them

  27. easy to find. You won't have to look at the table of contents at least, you'll know what

  28. page number it is. So let's stand together as we turn to Esther chapter 2 beginning in

    Esther 2 chapter mention

  29. verse 5 and I want to say as we dive into this particular subject, this particular topic

  30. today that the emphasis of the book of Esther and we've been here not too long ago as we

  31. walked through that book but the book of Esther is a topic of how God works in unseen and

  32. unheard ways. Now for most of us that's how God works all the time because God doesn't

  33. speak out loud to us and sometimes we don't see how God works and we have to trust that

  34. he's working in unseen and sometimes unspoken ways but the book of Esther is the only book

  35. in the Bible that does not have the name of God in it. It's also the only book where God

  36. is not quoted, where there's not a prophet speaking or there's not someone else saying

  37. the Lord has told us this but it is a book in which you look at the characters in the

  38. book and you realize God is in work in incredible ways in their lives. You can see God all the

  39. way through the book of Esther. So let me set the scene for you before we get into the

  40. text. Esther is set during a time when the Jews are in exile to Persia and King Ahasuerus

  41. so they have been removed from their homeland and there they are about 450 years or so before

  42. the coming of Christ. They're captive, they're slaves and they're really subject to the whims

  43. of this King Ahasuerus and so that's the situation. King Ahasuerus has deposed his queen for reasons

  44. I'll tell you about in just a few moments and Esther is one of those young women who

  45. has been selected to go and so to speak audition before the king. So many unjust, unfair things

  46. going on here that we won't take time to explain however here she is in the presence of the

  47. king and she's talking with her cousin Mordecai so you'll understand something about the background

  48. when we read these verses. Chapter 2 beginning in verse 5. Now there was at the citadel in

  49. Susa a Jew whose name was Mordecai, the son of Jair, the son of Shemai, the son of Kish,

  50. of Benjamin, who had been taken into exile from Jerusalem with the captives that had

  51. been exiled with Jeconiah, king of Judah, whom Nebuchadnezzar the king of Babylon had

  52. exiled. So if you want to know in a summary form what's just happened, war has happened.

  53. Persia has kidnapped those out of Jerusalem and brought them into exile away from their

  54. homeland in this capital city of Susa. It says in verse 7 he was bringing up Hadassah,

  55. that is Esther, his uncle's daughter, that is Mordecai is doing this, for she had no

  56. father or mother. Now the young lady was beautiful of form and face and when her father and her

  57. mother died Mordecai took her as his own daughter. So it came about when the command and decree

  58. of the king were heard and many young ladies were gathered to the citadel of Susa into

  59. the custody of Hegai, that is Esther was taken to the king's palace into the custody of Hegai

  60. who was in charge of the women. Now the young lady pleased him and found favor with him

  61. so he quickly provided her with cosmetics and food, gave her seven choice maids from

  62. the king's palace and transferred her and her maids to the best place in the harem.

  63. Esther did not make known her people or her kindred, that is she didn't tell them that

  64. she was a Jewish girl, for Mordecai had instructed her that she should not make them known.

  65. Every day Mordecai walked back and forth in front of the court of the harem to learn how

  66. Esther was and how she fared. Alright we'll stop there for a moment before we dive into

  67. this message. Father today we're going to take just a piece of this whole book, it's

  68. a part of this whole story and father we're going to look at the amazing adoption that

  69. took place for Esther placed into the care of Mordecai. Father my prayer today that we

  70. would see your redemptive power in the very picture of adoption and certainly in the life

  71. of Esther and how you used her in such a big way at that very critical time in Israel's

  72. history. Lord give us eyes to see, a heart to understand and a will to follow you. We

  73. ask this in Jesus name and everybody said amen. Please be seated if you would. I love

  74. the book of Esther, I love the Old Testament books where stories are told about people's

  75. lives, I love the narratives. And this is one of those stories that I often say a movie

  76. needs to be made about this and I know there is a movie made about Esther's life but I

  77. think I can make a better one than what I've seen and a movie needs to be made, there's

  78. more spiritual truth to share. But it's such an incredible story of a young woman at a

  79. crossroads in her life and a nation at a crossroads as well. And it's a sensational story because

  80. here's this girl who is virtually homeless until she's adopted by Mordecai and all of

  81. a sudden before too many chapters go by she's now queen of this whole region. And what's

  82. amazing and sensational about this story is something is lost as we read through it very

  83. quickly and that is the picture of her adoption by Mordecai. I know people that have read

  84. the whole book of Esther and never really pick up the idea that Mordecai adopted his

  85. younger cousin who is Esther of Hadassah and that really enables the entire story to be

  86. told as it should be told. So here's a young girl that's a victim in the seemingly endless

  87. war between the people who hate the Jewish people, the people who hate Israel and Israel.

  88. Now just for some awareness it's 479 BC specifically, the nation that King Hazris is over is the

  89. land of Persia in biblical times that was its name today is the land of Iran which is

  90. in the news right now. They were known those 2500 years ago for their hatred of the Jewish

  91. people and much is happening in the same way today as a matter of fact if I was preaching

  92. a message about Israel and where she is today and what's going on with that war I might

  93. even start from the book of Esther but that's not the title of this message or the topic.

  94. That's just what's happening. She's in the midst of a war and she's a captive to a nation

  95. that hates her people which is why she doesn't reveal who she is. It's a horrific culture,

  96. it's sexist, it is predatory. So many bad things can happen to a young woman who is

  97. in that culture and if she's not rescued her prospects for the future are dismal. But here's

  98. what we find in the book of Esther. We find that God placed Esther in a unique family

  99. and a unique time and an amazing moment of history. Now I want you to see this as we

  100. walk through the book because you won't read this in a verse but what you'll see is behind

  101. the scenes God's unseen hand moving and placing people in the perfect situation for him to

  102. be glorified. Do you know God is a placer? God places people. I want you to say the word

  103. placer. Are you ready? Placer. God is a placer. Say it one more time. God is a placer. We

  104. don't say that in that story. It's not a word we use a lot. But have you ever felt like

  105. God has placed you in a situation and you look around and go, wow, I don't know how

  106. I got here but I know God placed me here. Anybody ever experience that? Let me just

  107. tell you that's the way God works. God is a placer. He puts people in the places that

  108. he wants and you see that all the way through the scripture. God placed Adam and Eve in

  109. the Garden of Eden. God placed the nation Israel into the land of promise. If you're

  110. here as a believer in Jesus Christ, God placed you in this body with gifts and talents and

  111. a heart and a passion to walk with us. He places us in the world to represent him. We

  112. are in the world but we're not of the world. He's placed us here for incredible reason.

  113. He places people and families through birth and he places people and families through

  114. fostering and adoption. I want you to see that today. I want you to see how you placed

  115. this young woman Esther into the family of Mordecai. Now you've heard me, if you've

  116. been around for long, you've heard me tell the story of my belief that God is the ultimate

  117. chess master. That we're just pawns on the chessboard. We have no idea where to go, forward,

  118. backward, sideways, diagonal. We don't know. We don't know the strategy that comes against

  119. us but what we do know is as God moves us into place, he's aware of the future, he's

  120. aware of the path, he's aware of the threats on all sides. God is the ultimate chess master

  121. and the greatest way to view your life is that perspective. He has got this. We don't

  122. but he does. And you'll see that in the life of Esther. God has moved her around the board

  123. so to speak. Now I also want you to know as I walk through these points this morning to

  124. realize that there's nothing coincidental in this adoption story or in your life. God

  125. is the God of purpose and significance. Everything he does, he has a reason for it. Isn't that

  126. reassuring? I mean in a chaotic world, in a confusing world, a world where not much

  127. makes sense, isn't it good to know that God always has a purpose? He always has a significance.

  128. So I want to give you some things today coming out of the story of this adoption by Mordecai

  129. of Esther that will bring hope and encouragement to you today. First of all, I want you to

  130. notice that adoption brings hope to hopeless situations. Adoption brings hope to hopeless

  131. situations. We start there in verse 7 and the scripture states it very plainly, for

  132. she had no father or mother. And then it clarifies later on in verse 7, when her father and mother

  133. died, Mordecai took her as his own daughter. In other words, to tell the story, it's clear

  134. that she has no mother or father at that moment, but she had a mother and father and they had

  135. died presumably in the war. Presumably in the occupation of the Persian people of Jerusalem

  136. and as they came and invaded Jerusalem and as they took them off to exile, they died

  137. in that process. Now I want you to take a moment and imagine the hopelessness of the

  138. situation. I don't want you to view Esther as a quick flyby of a larger book. I want

  139. you to take a moment and think about her as a young woman. Imagine being in exile in a

  140. foreign land, slaves to those that captured you. Take a moment to think about what it

  141. means to be a slave, to have no rights, to absolutely be at the mercy of your captors,

  142. to have to do whatever that person who owned you is a slave required of you. Imagine that

  143. your parents have died and there's no one to protect you, no one to speak up for you,

  144. no one to stand in the gap for you. Imagine now being a young girl all alone without protection

  145. in this predatory kind of culture. All you have to do is read the first chapter of the

  146. book of Esther. King Ahasuerus and all he's doing and you know everybody else in the nation

  147. is living in that kind of immorality, in that kind of mindset. If you went back and read

  148. chapter one, King Ahasuerus has called a big party to take place and he's required of his

  149. queen, Queen Vashti to dance in a seductive way in front of all the soldiers and the captains

  150. that have gathered for this party. Now Queen Vashti must be a person of character because

  151. she absolutely refuses to dance for the men and in response King Ahasuerus is embarrassed

  152. by her response and the fact that she dared disobey him that he deposed her as queen

  153. and said I know what I'll do, I'll find another queen, I'll find someone who will do what

  154. I ask them to do. That's the leader of this particular culture. Can you imagine this young

  155. girl unprotected, young and without anyone to speak up for her, can you imagine what

  156. her life might have been like without intervention? Can you imagine how she would be exploited,

  157. perhaps become a prostitute or worse in every way used up? It's a hopeless situation. You

  158. know the word hopeless is one of those words that we don't use a great deal but hopelessness

  159. is the word that we do use when we no longer believe a situation can be redeemed. When

  160. we no longer believe that this situation with its circumstances by itself can be redeemed.

  161. When we say hopelessness we mean somebody needs to step up and rescue somebody else.

  162. There needs to be someone to stand in the gap, to intervene, to bring change to that

  163. circumstance which is exactly what this picture gives us today. It's a hopeless situation.

  164. Now enter the man named Mordecai. Actually in the scripture Mordecai is mentioned in

  165. the book of Esther before. Esther is really given detail as to her life. He's a compassionate,

  166. he's a God-fearing Jewish man who is actually her older cousin and knows of the death of

  167. her parents. And God divinely, here's his word, he places her into his custody under

  168. the compassionate care of his older cousin who is doing the right thing and he adopts

  169. her as his own daughter. I love that line. He considers her his own daughter. How many

  170. fathers in the room have daughters? Would you raise your hand if you're a father and

  171. you have a daughter? Would you raise your hand? I have three daughters and three sons

  172. and I'm not saying I wouldn't come and rescue my sons but I'm saying I would absolutely

  173. come and rescue every one of my daughters. I consider it a personal charge in life to

  174. protect them from everything they need to be protected from. I would do anything, go

  175. any distance, do anything I would have to do to keep them safe and to keep them going

  176. in the direction they need to go in. My favorite movies are daddy rescue movies where they

  177. rescue the daughters. You know those movies, I've mentioned those before, no need to bring

  178. them up again. Something goes on in the heart of a good father towards his daughter. And

  179. Mordecai, the Bible says, considered Esther as his own daughter. And everywhere in the

  180. story you've got amazing depictions and interactions and conversations where he's watching out

  181. for her, where he's listening to what's going on, where he's shepherding her in every way

  182. he possibly can. And by the way, that's just what foster and adoptive parents do, what

  183. Mordecai is doing. Now certainly I'm not saying that birth parents don't do that. I'm saying

  184. that every foster parent, every adoptive parent has this heart of Mordecai who wants to show

  185. compassion towards someone in need. And by the way, the Bible is filled with the abominations

  186. from God that we are to pay attention to those in great need. In fact, God as a father says

  187. I care about those that are in such a need. Let me just kind of go back and look at some

  188. scriptures with you. In Psalm 149, verse, 146 rather, verse nine, there's a great passage

  189. that kind of reflects the heart of God here. And here's what it says. It says the Lord

  190. protects the strangers. He supports the fatherless and the widow, but he thwarts the way of the

  191. wicked. You're going to see this play out in the life of Esther, but this is just the

  192. heart of God, the compassion of God. Now God's compassion is not just an objective, standalone

  193. compassion. God's compassion is often exercised through people who show compassion. In this

  194. case, Mordecai, this adoptive father, and in our emphasis today, the foster parents

  195. and the adoptive parents of children who are in need. Then there's Psalm 31. We often quote

  196. this Psalm when, or rather, Proverb 31 when we talk about speaking up with the unborn.

  197. And here's what it says. Open your mouth for the mute, for the rights of all the unfortunate

  198. open your mouth, judge righteously, defend the rights of the afflicted and needy. So

  199. this is actually a command to God fearing people, God following people to speak up for

  200. those that cannot speak for themselves. They may be in horrific circumstances like Esther

  201. was and like others are, and were to speak up on their behalf. Then there's just a great

  202. account of Jesus interacting with the disciples about little children that have come to him.

  203. You can't get a better picture of the compassion of God than Jesus saying to the disciples,

  204. whoever receives one such child in my name receives me. If you want to know what God

  205. thinks about children, look right there at the expression of God in the flesh about the

  206. little children that are coming unto him. James chapter 1 verse 27, another great, great

    James 1:27

  207. verse to the church of Jesus. James in his bold and straightforward way says it like

  208. this, pure and undefiled religion in the sight of God and our father is this to visit orphans

  209. and widows and their distress and to keep oneself unstained by the world. What a command.

  210. The church cannot ignore widows, orphans. We have to come along beside them and around

  211. them and help them in every way that we can possibly help. In recent months, I've met

  212. some pretty incredible people as we've begun to embark on talking about an adoption and

  213. foster ministry. I've met people that are like Mordecai, people who have responded in

  214. these ways to the biblical call to compassion. What they do is they see hopeless situations

  215. in terms of children that have been placed up for adoption and they're willing to step

  216. in the gap. They're willing to pray through this and bring themselves and allow themselves

  217. to be brought to a place of conviction and they really embark on a spiritual journey,

  218. a financial journey and certainly a physical journey, an extraordinary effort to get to

  219. the place where they can make a decision to foster or adopt a child. Even though sometimes

  220. the crowd around them will say it may never work, you may not know what you're getting

  221. into, sometimes there are all those negative voices and then they sense this conviction

  222. from God and they take the step forward. You've got to admire people of courage and conviction

  223. who do that. Amen? Are you with me this morning? Some time ago, the couple that goes to our

  224. church came up to me and handed me a long letter and that letter told a story. They

  225. were aware of a child in their not immediate family but nearby family and this child was

  226. in need through the dysfunction of her family and this husband and wife were kneeling right

  227. over here during a Jericho prayer time years ago. We've been doing this for years and

  228. in that prayer time they felt the Lord lead them to step up and adopt this young girl

  229. and it was just in that prayer time that they began to have that conviction and heard the

  230. call of God and they stepped forward to do that and that's exactly what took place and

  231. their story unfolded in a beautiful powerful way which is happening today. It's incredible

  232. what God does in people's lives when they surrender themselves to do that and I've

  233. heard these stories, these are amazing stories. It's really interesting that in all these

  234. stories every story that I've heard recently has a phone call moment, a phone call moment

  235. where they've done all the prep work, adopted parents have prepared and prayed and persevered

  236. and waited and waited and waited. They've been on a spiritual journey, a physical journey,

  237. a psychological journey, they've got their houses already, they've got their homes and

  238. mines already and finally the day arrives where they get a phone call and it's a shocking

  239. kind of thing even though they've prepared and that phone call person on the other end

  240. of the phone says come get your child and all of a sudden it all comes rushing back

  241. to them oh okay this is the moment that I've been preparing for and that phone call means

  242. all the legal steps have taken place, all the money has been raised, it means the details

  243. are all taken care of and it's time for the new beginning in that child's life and it's

  244. time really for a new chapter on the part of these parents like in Mordecai's life,

  245. like in Esther's life, change is on the horizon and hope has dawned. Adoption brings hope

  246. so adoption also brings faith to the next generation. I see that in the life of Esther.

  247. Now as we started this text we started in verse 5 which gives a little bit of the background

  248. of Mordecai. Notice what it says again now there was that the citadel of Susa a Jew whose

  249. name was Mordecai the son of Jair the son of Shemai the son of Kish of Benjamin and

  250. right there you have the history of Mordecai. This history is Jewish history it is replete

  251. with and full of stories of how God has worked in powerful ways to protect the Jewish people.

  252. So we know this about Mordecai he was a descendant of Saul and the Talmud identifies him as a

  253. prophet even though he wasn't speaking as a prophet during this time he was known as

  254. a prophet this man knew the ways of God. He knew how God had worked in the past he knew

  255. how God leads how God rescues how God redeems he knew about God. Now the way the Jewish

  256. people passed on their faith and their awareness of history was by what we know as oral tradition

  257. they shared with the next generation at the dinner table so to speak and at the festivals

  258. and feasts of Israel here's what Jehovah Almighty has done in our history here's why we know

  259. we can trust the Lord our God here's how we know that. And so Esther would have heard

  260. from her parents first of all for however long they lived and now she's hearing from

  261. Mordecai faith is being passed from one generation to the next. She's going to need it because

  262. she's going to be the queen of a pagan wicked ruler. She's going to need every ounce of

  263. faith her parents could have imparted or that Mordecai could impart. She's going to need

  264. every ounce of faith that history could have provided her but she was given that faith

  265. and it's really remarkable to see how it all unfolds. In fact when I read the story of

  266. Mordecai and Esther I thought they have so much to teach us about passing faith on to

  267. the next generation. Can you think about this for a moment? We don't know what the next

  268. generation is going to face in America or in the world but it's not looking real optimistic

  269. if you ask me. How do we prepare them for that? And the way we prepare them for that

  270. is by their faith in an Almighty God who rises above the ups and downs of a nation or a world.

  271. Here's this young woman faith is being passed on to her and the reason we know that is even

  272. though the name of God is not mentioned and even though there is no command from God in

  273. the book of Esther so to speak you see faith being reflected in their conversation. So

  274. Esther realizes by the time she's a queen that there's a wicked man named Haman who

  275. wants them all dead. All the Jews are his target. He wants to completely exterminate

  276. them and the only way she can really intervene is to have an unrequested audience before

  277. the king and that day and time even if you're a queen you can't just walk into the king's

  278. chambers and say can we talk? That's not how it worked back then. If you went into the

  279. chambers without an invitation you might be put to death. And so the whole conversation

  280. between Mordecai and Esther was how will you get word to the king that wicked Haman wants

  281. to put us to death? How are you going to do that? And Mordecai says to her in Esther chapter

    Esther 4:14

  282. 4 verse 14 it's reflecting faith all the way through. If you remain silent at this time

  283. relief and deliverance will arise for the Jews from another place. He's recognizing

  284. the sovereignty of God right there. If it's not you God will raise up somebody else and

  285. you and your father's house will perish and who knows whether you have not attained royalty

  286. for such a time as this. Who knows that God has placed you in this position at this moment

  287. at this time in this history so that you can speak up. And what does Esther say? She says

  288. maybe the most famous lines in the book of Esther. She says so I'll do this you fast

  289. and pray for me for three days and I'm going to go into the king and here's what she says

  290. she says and if I die I die. Now that's either foolishness or faith. But we know it's faith.

  291. You see what's happened in Mordecai's shepherding of Esther is he has helped her know that the

  292. most high God the God of Israel Yahweh Jehovah will rescue them. And she's positioned to

  293. do that very thing to intervene on behalf of her nation. God has placed her in this

  294. place. There's a woman that goes to our church many of you know Deanna D'ar she's in our

  295. choir she sings on our stage from time to time. I interviewed for her for a podcast

  296. with her some months ago and it's on our website where I asked her about her history of being

  297. adopted. And in that interview she talked about her adoptive parents and the fact that

  298. they introduced her to faith in Jesus Christ. And she just talked about the incredible thing

  299. that God did in letting her be placed for adoption and letting those parents step in

  300. and actually receive her in adoption and share faith with her. And later on she went back

  301. and met her biological mom realizing if I had been raised in that home I would not have

  302. known Christ as early or in the same way that I know him now. In other words from her perspective

  303. she sees adoption from the perspective of God and placing her in the perfect home at

  304. the perfect time for her to come to faith in Jesus Christ. Now Deanna is a high school

  305. teacher and she influences many hundreds and thousands of kids towards Jesus in her ministry

  306. that she has in those schools. Adoption really does bring faith to the next generation but

  307. it does something else. Adoption brings the future to many. The future to many. Now if

  308. you know anything about the book of Esther you know where I'm going with this. Israel,

  309. the people of God are rescued. It's an amazing story. There are all kinds of ups and downs

  310. in this story. There's this crazy crazy but not coincidental string of events where only

  311. God could have orchestrated the things to happen in the book of Esther but eventually

  312. led to the hanging of Haman and led to the giving of permission by King Ahasuerus to

  313. the Jewish people to defend themselves and they do and they do it well. So in Esther

    Esther 9:1

  314. chapter 9 verse 1 we read this. On the day when the enemies of the Jews hoped to gain

  315. mastery over them it was turned to the contrary so that the Jews themselves gained the mastery

  316. over those who hated them. 2500 years ago that's the statement that was made by how

  317. God intervened. If you want to know how I pray for Israel I pray for them like this.

  318. Right there. So that those that hate Israel will all of a sudden realize they have no

  319. mastery to carry that out but that the Jewish people would be protected. God does this over

  320. and over and over for the Jewish people to just read the Old Testament to see what happens

  321. time after time. But I want you to see one thing with clarity. Don't let what I've said

  322. make all these other things get lost in those words. Here's what I want you to see. Esther's

  323. adoption and her faith along with how God allowed her to become queen brought a future

  324. to all of the Jewish people in that city. The rescue was significant. Targeted for extermination

  325. they instead see God saw God turn the tables on the whole picture. Now let me just say

  326. this to you today. In any scenario adoption brings a future to many that would not be

  327. possible without the compassion and dedicated acts of adoptive parents or foster parents.

  328. I told you about some families that I've gotten to know recently. We actually have a video

  329. that introduces three families and just their journey for fostering and adoption. And I

  330. want you to see what we've said today the background behind that the prayer the conviction

  331. the provision the open doors and watch what the result is. Early on I knew I wanted to

  332. be a mom. Ever since a student pastor I had adopted I knew I would like to have an adopted

  333. child of my own. We were talking about how we wanted to have kids and you know what our

  334. family would look like and I mentioned to him that I was interested in adoption and

  335. his response was I've always been interested in it too. I started being interested in foster

  336. and adoption when I knew I could offer a stable loving home to a kid who needs that. The Lord

  337. just guided and directed us step by step to the point where we were you know a licensed

  338. foster family. So we have Wren who is 10 years old she's in fifth grade and a couple years

  339. after she was born we had a miscarriage. We just felt like God was continuing to show

  340. us that the next child for us it would be through adoption. We were about to have a

  341. discussion with our adoption agency about what steps we take moving forward and we get

  342. a call to come pick up Mila. We picked her up at the hospital and walked out with a baby

  343. girl and she's a riot. All gas no break and never stops moving and never stops cracking

  344. jokes. She's a delight. When we were ready to try for a second child and we went through

  345. the same exact protocol after quite a few months and a whole lot of money my doctor

  346. just said it's not working. Honestly thought God had forgotten my family and it just so

  347. happened that our friend Beth Wright who is another adoptive mom she and I were talking

  348. and she looked at me dead in the face and she said Amanda God has not forgotten your

  349. family and that for me as sweetly as she said it was the truth that I needed. When we got

  350. the phone call the lady's like hey is this Amanda? Yes ma'am how can I help you? And

  351. she said well you have a daughter and I just stopped breathing for a second and I just

  352. thought oh my gosh it's it. You have a daughter? Wait a minute she's here she's a she oh my

  353. gosh she's here like what? And she goes yeah you have a daughter when can you get here?

  354. My family doesn't look like every other family. I am a single mom of three of the best kids.

  355. I have Sean he's 16 years old and Nevaeh is 14 and Callie is 12. Even though we don't

  356. have the same DNA she is as much mine as Ren is. She is 100% right. There was not a shadow

  357. of a doubt that little girl wasn't meant for us. She fit so perfectly. Main reason of foster

  358. adoption matters is because it's the hands and the feet of Jesus. The thing about the

  359. church family it is adoptive in its own nature. And we get to be you know sons and daughters

  360. of God as if we were brothers and sisters of Christ. Don't let fear keep you from doing

  361. what God's called you to do. Some of the most fearful times in my life is when I've done

  362. really hard things that God's wanted me to do. There are so many things that you can

  363. do to bless those adoptive families. As families step into fostering and adoption we as a church

  364. have to wrap our arms around them. There's lots of ways to get involved and nothing is

  365. too big or too small. Let's celebrate that together for just a moment. Would you do that?

  366. Wow. Some of those people on the video you know them well. Come along behind them and

  367. just love on them and let them know that you see them as the courageous compassionate people

  368. that they really are. What a great thing to be able to do. Here you have this biblical

  369. picture of adoption. You have these real life stories of how adoptions take place and how

  370. incredibly important it really is. And I want to ask you a couple of questions today. Do

  371. you see how this works? Do you understand how it is a huge decision that people make

  372. but a compassionate decision that really reflects the love and compassion of Jesus Christ. And

  373. I want you to see also how God can use a foster and adoption ministry in our church. It's

  374. something that's emerging, something that's beginning but something that's very, very,

  375. very exciting. And that's why we're compassionate, we're passionate about it. But let me tell

  376. you that the other side of this picture that depicts the need. You may not know this but

  377. if adoption doesn't take place there are children who are placed for adoption who are never

  378. really adopted to parents. According to Buckner Children's Home more than 7,000 children await

  379. adoption in the state of Texas alone. More than 120,000 nationwide. Their parents' rights

  380. have already been terminated. In other words, it's been determined that these parents cannot

  381. raise them and so they are now waiting for adoptive parents and they have not yet been

  382. adopted. If never adopted, 1,000 children will age out of the system every year. If

  383. they age out of the system, nearly half will become either homeless or incarcerated. Seven

  384. of ten young women who age out of the system at the age of 18 are pregnant by the age of

  385. 21. And I look at that and I think 7,000 kids. There are more than 7,000 evangelical churches

  386. in the state of Texas, way more. What would happen if churches simply had a burden and

  387. a passion to help being part of the solution and stand behind parents who are willing to

  388. do this fostering and this adopting and for the church to support them and love them and

  389. encourage them and make it possible. The kingdom of God can meet the need that culture has

  390. created if we will and that's why we emphasize what we're emphasizing today because we can

  391. and should do everything we possibly can. Whether God's calls you to be an adoptive

  392. parent or a foster parent or not, everybody can do something to help make sure that this

  393. process works well. You know, one of the great things about the story of Esther, the subject

  394. of adoption, is the reality that each one of us, every single person in this room, if

  395. you are a believer in Jesus Christ, you too have been adopted. You've been adopted by

  396. God the Father. Now think about that for just a moment. Think about what that means. Romans

    Romans 8:15

  397. chapter 8 verse 15 says, for you've not been given a slavery leading to fear again, but

  398. you've received a spirit of adoption as sons and daughters by which we cry out Abba Father.

  399. Adoption is an illustration of really what happens to every one of us who come to faith

  400. in Jesus Christ. Today I want you to think about something. I also want you to take a

  401. little bit of a walk. It won't take you long. You won't have a whole lot more steps on your

  402. step counter, but you will walk away far more educated about what adoption and the process

  403. is all about. In our lobby today, in our commons area, we have set up at least six stations

  404. and those six stations have representatives behind them for the different ministries that

  405. are available for fostering and adopting parents. For example, there's MCWC, which we have for

  406. where a young woman comes and gets counseling about her unplanned pregnancy. Often they come

  407. to faith in Jesus and more often than that, they actually keep their child in the sense

  408. of having the child instead of aborting the child. I think we've celebrated close to 40,000

  409. kids that have been basically rescued and born because of MCWC. I celebrate that all

  410. the time and I know you do as well. Amen. 40,000. A lot of kids. There's Embrace Grace represented

  411. in our commons area. That's where moms come in who are at the point of decision and they

  412. are discipled and lovingly led through the decision process and many of them end up keeping their

  413. child or placing them for adoption. It's an incredible ministry. There are adoption agencies

  414. out there. There are fostering agencies out there, but the important thing is that the

  415. body of Christ become aware of how we can come alongside foster and adoptive parents, how we can come alongside

  416. the kids that have such a huge need of seeing the compassion of God. No contribution

  417. of time, talent and prayer is too small. Everyone can do something that first you have to know.

  418. So do a favor for me. Walk through the commons, browse through, take just a few moments and

  419. you'll walk away with a sense of how God is working in this whole picture of adoption.

  420. I've got three invitations for you or more today. Number one, if you would like to talk

  421. to someone about putting your faith in Jesus Christ, today our decision station is open.

  422. I talked at the end of this message about what it meant to be adopted as sons and daughters

  423. by God the Father. It means putting your faith and trust in Christ. We really want to talk

  424. to you about that. Number two, I ask you if you're a guest to come to guest reception

  425. room right outside the center exit doors and out into the hallway. Glass-den room there,

  426. I'll be there to talk to you about the church and about ways you can connect. Thirdly, I

  427. invite you to come back. Next week is a big mission Sunday week and fourthly, I invite

  428. you to go through the commons area on your way out today. All right? Thank you so much

  429. for being here today. Let's stand together as we close out in prayer. Father, I am so

  430. grateful for the story of Esther. Grateful for the living illustration of adoption. Grateful

  431. that you, Father, adopt us as sons and daughters through Jesus Christ. Grateful for people

  432. who have already made this journey of physically adopting a son or a daughter into their home.

  433. Father, I thank you for the ministries that serve to that end to help people know and

  434. take steps to support this. Lord, today I pray for those 7,000 children that are yet

  435. unadopted, yet not placed. And Father, I ask that you move in a powerful way to help that

  436. take place. Help us as believers to live out the compassion that you've shown to us. We

  437. ask this in Jesus' name. Amen. God bless you. Have a wonderful Lord's Day.