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Serve In Sincerity // Let's Get Moving (Melissa Janish)

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  1. Welcome to the Movement Church podcast. We want you to know that God is

  2. for you and so are we. You're about to hear a sermon from one

  3. of our weekend services in Palmer Lake, Colorado. We pray that your faith

  4. is provoked, your mind is renewed, and your heart is awakened as you

  5. engage the Word of God. Stay tuned. That's the message for ways to

  6. get connected with us. God bless you. Thanks for tuning in, Thanks

  7. for being with us today. I have the distinct honor of welcoming one of

  8. my very favorite people on the whole planet, a lady who if you know

  9. her, if you've ever had coffee with her or lunch with her, you

  10. have been forever impacted by this crazy person. Her name is Melissa Janish.

  11. Can we give it up for Melissa? Come on over, Melissa, you're

  12. good. So this Let's Get Moving series is a sermon where we're preaching through

  13. our core values, and one of our core values is serve in sincerity.

  14. This woman serves in sincerity. Melissa Janes. Give it up, everybody,

  15. Thank you everybody. I am always excited and blessed to be up here and

  16. get the opportunity to do this. Yeah, do you want to fix it?

  17. Okay, we'll try. I just want to start by saying, fight

  18. that my birthday is on Tuesday. You guys, I'm gonna be twenty five.

  19. I'm really excited. Yep, twenty five here I come. Thank you

  20. for not laughing at that. That is I appreciate that, because when you

  21. laugh, you're like, yeah, you look like you're gonna be twenty five.

  22. Okay, So today we're talking about serving in sincerity and just right off

  23. the bat, I want to start us with a scripture and then we'll get

  24. into this. Joshua twenty four fourteen says, now, therefore, fear the

  25. Lord and serve him in sincerity and in faithfulness. Put away the gods that

  26. your father served before the river in Egypt, and serve the Lord. So

  27. I want to talk to you a little bit about how me and my family

  28. serve the Lord. This is my family up here in the front row.

  29. They're not going to stand up because that's not them. Just give a little

  30. wave. Give a little wave, family, Yep, that's them. We

  31. have my husband John, he is also twenty five, My daughter Miley is

  32. thirteen, My son Jonah is nineteen. My other daughter Mattie is ten.

  33. This is my daughter Julie who's seventeen and her awesome boyfriend that we really actually

  34. do love. And he is eighteen, right, Is that right? He's

  35. seventeen two. So I want to tell you a little bit about how we

  36. serve in our family. John is a member of our elder's board. He

  37. is actually the chair elder. They drew straws and he lost. That's a

  38. true story. But he serves this church very faithfully. John is the chief

  39. operating officer of an engineering firm in Colorado Springs. He does not have a

  40. lot of free time on his hands, but he will drop everything for this

  41. group of people, for this town. He serves very faithfully. I serve

  42. as a member of the teaching team. Sometimes I do what John Wilson did,

  43. and I welcome you while here. I've served on our hospitality team.

  44. We believe heartily that when you are a part of something, you serve as

  45. a part of that thing. And I'm going to talk about that a little

  46. bit more. Before I get into that, I want to talk about how

  47. hard this sermon was for me to write. This is the third sermon I've

  48. written. The third sermon I've preached, and the first two really came to

  49. me pretty easily. I kind of knew what I wanted to say. I

  50. prayed about it. I asked, God, is this what you want me

  51. to say? I started writing, God, you know, pulled me down

  52. this path, and it just sort of unfolded. And I assumed that this

  53. would be the same way, because I feel like talking about service is an

  54. easy thing. It's not a subject that gets people riled up. I'm not

  55. asking you to give us money. I'm just asking you to help out right.

  56. But I could not start this sermon. I would sit down and I

  57. would open my computer and I would have a full blown anxiety attack, like

  58. I would get tunnel vision. My hands would start shaking, I would start

  59. kind of hyperventilating. A couple times, I just sat there and cried,

  60. looking at my computer screen. And finally I texted Fike. It was I

  61. think New Year's Day or the day before New Year's Day, WI should be

  62. New Year's Eve, And I said, Fike, I think I can't do

  63. this. I think I'm not the right person to give this message. I

  64. don't understand why, but I cannot write this sermon. I think we're going

  65. to have to find somebody else, and of course, Fiight being Fike,

  66. said I want to come over, let's talk about it. Let's see if

  67. we can figure out what is going on here. And so I, you

  68. know, joined him in his home and immediately burst into tears because I could

  69. not get to the root of why I was having such a hard time with

  70. this. So we kind of went back in my past and talked about my

  71. history and the way I grew up and the things that matter to me,

  72. and my introduction into the Christian Church and all of those things. And I

  73. started to realize that what I was suffering from was impostor syndrome, and imposter

  74. syndrome looks like this. This is the imposter syndrome cycle. So if you've

  75. never had imposter syndrome, good on you. I mean that means that you

  76. are secure and confident and you know you're doing what you're supposed to be doing.

  77. I would bet that there are more people in here that have felt this

  78. than that feel the other way, if I were to take a guess.

  79. So this is the way imposter syndrome works. You have a new project or

  80. a task e g. Giving a sermon, your anxiety ramps up. You

  81. either procrastinate or you over prepare. I magically do both. It's possible.

  82. You Eventually you get through it, you complete the project. You have a

  83. brief sense of relief, relief and accomplishment. I'm gonna walk out of here

  84. today and I'm gonna be like I did it. I mean, I don't

  85. know how, by the grace of God, I did it. And they

  86. say, you rationalize, I was lucky, somebody else would have done a

  87. better job. I don't think that's rationalizing. I think that's the enemy coming

  88. to speak into your mind because you are living out a calling on your life,

  89. and the enemy does not want that. He wants to stop you in

  90. your tracks and say, don't ever do that again. That was a disaster.

  91. I want to tell you right now, when you start hearing those thoughts,

  92. you shut that down. You say, in the name of Jesus,

  93. I'm doing what I'm called to do. Amen. So anyways, you really

  94. you'd go through that rationalization that increases your self doubt, your anxiety, that

  95. feeling of being a fraud. And then guess what someone says, Hey,

  96. Melissa, will you preach again in two weeks, and the cycle starts all

  97. over again. And I think that it's a very real thing to feel like

  98. the things that we're asked to do when we're called to serve, that we're

  99. not worthy of those callings. And that is really what I am going to

  100. address today. So in thinking about this, I'm gonna warn you guys right

  101. now, we're going to take a meandering path to serving in sincerity. So

  102. stay on the path with me. Enjoy the hike. It's going to be

  103. a pretty one might be a little rough. I am who here is familiar

  104. with the enneagram. Just raise your hand if you're familiar with the anagram.

  105. So the enneagram has become really popular, particularly in the last I don't know

  106. ten years ish Rick Anderson is that accurate. Rick is one of my best

  107. friends, and he teaches seminars on enneagram. So on the enneagram, I

  108. am a four. Before I say anything about that, I want to redo

  109. the description of how a fore operates and see if you like me anymore.

  110. Fours are self aware, sensitive, and reserved. They are emotionally honest,

  111. creative, and personal, but can also be moody and self conscious withholding themselves

  112. from others due to feeling vulnerable and defective. They can also feel disdainful and

  113. exempt from ordinary ways of living. They typically have problems with melancholy, self

  114. indulgence, and self pity. At their best, they are inspired and highly

  115. creative. They are able to renew themselves and transform their experiences. Now,

  116. I don't know about you, but that makes me say I don't like fours.

  117. And when I found out I was a four, I objected passionately because

  118. I don't want to identify with that person. But the problem is is that

  119. I do. We had Billie Eilish. Old people don't worry about it.

  120. We had Bob Dylan. Young people don't worry about it. I had Stevie

  121. Nicks. You should all know. If you don't know, shame on you

  122. and talk to your parents. We had Kurt Cobain, we had Amy wine

  123. House, and we had Sylvia Plath, who is an author and a poet.

  124. Those last three people, Kurt Cobain, Amy wine House, and Sylvia

  125. Plath all took their own lives. And this is the real struggle of the

  126. four is that we want to be unique, and we want to be authentic,

  127. and we want to be true all the time. WHOA we have a

  128. sad show Yep, they're there. That's perfect. This struggle for the four

  129. with the four, it's so real and so intense, and in an unhealthy

  130. four it can end in tragedy. And that's where I'm coming from today,

  131. you guys. I believe that every person in this room was created uniquely and

  132. authentically, and I believe that you should serve God that way from that place,

  133. and that's how we are going to approach today. Okay, so the

  134. struggle with individuality is real, but God doesn't want our rugged individualism. I'm

  135. going to come back to this phrase, rugged individualism. I'm going to leave

  136. it there. I'm going to tell you that this phrase stopped me in my

  137. tracks and kept me from writing for a solid three days because I was so

  138. bothered by it. I'm going to come back to it. So I know

  139. what you guys are thinking. You guys are thinking. I thought we were

  140. talking about serving today, serving in sincerity. I thought I was going to

  141. come today and you were going to tell me that they need and childcare.

  142. Right, Danish, I'm gonna get to that. You're gonna tell me that

  143. I have to come to two Sundays a month and I have to control the

  144. toddlers, quiet the babies, teach a lesson. I'm not gonna tell you

  145. that today. In fact, I'm not going to tell you that you have

  146. to serve anywhere at the Movement Church today. I know that Fike has a

  147. one of those big hooks, like those vaudeville hooks, and he wants to

  148. pull me off the stage right now for saying that. But I am not

  149. going to ask you to serve anywhere in our church today. Again, We're

  150. gonna come to that at the end of our sermon. When I was a

  151. very young mom, I was a new believer, and I was at a

  152. church. I had only been there for a few weeks, and I had

  153. at the time, I had two kids under the age of three, actually

  154. two kids under the age of two, and John at the time was traveling

  155. on average ten months out of the year, so I was effectively a single

  156. mom most of the time. So the sweet lady who ran the childcare at

  157. this church approached me one day and she said, so, you've been here

  158. for three weeks now, or four weeks, however long it was, so

  159. now I can ask you to work in our child care. And she sort

  160. of implied to me that if I chose not to serve in the childcare,

  161. I would not be allowed to put my own kids in childcare. Now,

  162. when you're a young mom with a husband who travels full time and little little

  163. kids, you need the childcare. You want the childcare. So guess what

  164. I agreed to do. I agreed to serve in the childcare. I didn't

  165. feel called to be there. I didn't feel like God wanted me to be

  166. there. I felt like it was the punishment. And I read this verse.

  167. This is uh Jesus speaking to the Pharisees. He says, whoe to

  168. you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites, for you are like whitewashed tombs,

  169. which outwardly appear beautiful, but within are full of dead people's bones and all

  170. uncleanliness. So you also outwardly appear righteous to others, but within you are

  171. full of hypocrisy and lawlessness. Now the reason I am sharing this is because

  172. when I served in insincerity in the childcare, I felt full of dead people's

  173. bones. And that's not a joke. It sucked the life out of me,

  174. and it made me not want to go to church, and it made

  175. me question as a new believer, what is this like? This is what

  176. believing in God is. I start have to start doing things that I feel

  177. are like like not something that God has a plan for that's not part of

  178. my plan. And it it was hard. It bothered me. So we're

  179. going to talk today about I've built it this way. Sincerity comes from sincere

  180. thought. Sincerity comes from sincere words. Sincerity comes from sincere actions. Or

  181. if you look at my slide, one leads to the next, leads to

  182. the next. There's a Catholic saint who said this, and I think this

  183. is really great. The life of the Christian has three distinguishing aspects, deeds,

  184. words, and thought. Thought comes first, then words, since our

  185. words express openly the interior conclusions of the mind. Finally, after thoughts and

  186. words comes action, for our deeds carry out what the mind has conceived.

  187. Saint Gregory of Nyssa Nissa said that, and that's sort of where we're going

  188. to take our path today. The message says this beautifully. This is Philippians

  189. four eight and nine, eight through nine. I'd say you'll do best by

  190. filling your minds and meditation on things not the worst, the beautiful, not

  191. the ugly. Things to praise, not things to curse. Put into practice

  192. what you learned from me, what you heard and saw and realized. Do

  193. that, and God, who makes everything work together, will work you in

  194. to his most excellent harmonies. Who here does not want to be a part

  195. of God's most excellent harmony. We can become a part of God's most excellent

  196. harmonies by checking that our thoughts are sincere, our words are sincere, our

  197. actions are sincere. Again, in Joshua twenty four or fourteen, we are

  198. told to serve God in sincerity and in faithfulness. So this word sincerity,

  199. what does it mean? We're going to unpack that. But here's where I

  200. landed when I did my research. Biblical sincerity means to think, speak,

  201. or act from a place of whole, complete truth. The Hebrew to English

  202. translation suggests that we should serve God entirely in accord with truth and fact,

  203. with truth and fact, and truth and fact or the opposite. Lies and

  204. falsehoods start here in our heads. This is where they're born. So we're

  205. going to start with how do I serve God with sincere thoughts? Now,

  206. I'm not going to spend a lot of time on this point, because in

  207. May as some of you may know, is Mental Health Awareness Month, and

  208. so we as a church are going to take advantage of that to talk about

  209. how mental health is relevant among this group of people. Mental health health is

  210. a big deal to me. I have struggled with clinical depression and anxiety my

  211. whole entire life. It's a genetic I get it from my mom's side,

  212. I get it from my dad's side. It's a real thing. And we're

  213. gonna get into that, and I can't wait. So I can't tell you

  214. what's going on in your head. The only head I can interrogate is my

  215. own. I can only know what's going on in my head. That's not

  216. entirely true. Actually, there's one person who I know exactly what's going on

  217. in their head. That's my husband, John Janish. Here's what's going on

  218. in his head. Golf, golf, golf cart, hitting a golf ball,

  219. all the things about golf, playing golf, golf. If he's hungry,

  220. spaghetti. I have just reduced my husband to golf in spaghetti. And

  221. I'm gonna hear about it later. But seriously, we have to be accountable.

  222. We have to take stock of what's going on in our own heads.

  223. When I was writing this sermon, especially before I started, my thoughts were

  224. everywhere. I could not get them in order, and it was like,

  225. I don't know if you guys remember, I don't even know if they do

  226. this anymore. They used to have those like quarter machines in the entryway of

  227. grocery stores, and you would like beg your parents on the way in,

  228. all through the store and on the way out to give you a quarter to

  229. put in the machine. Well, every time, me and my stepbrother and

  230. my stepsister would end up getting these bouncy balls right, so we would take

  231. them home, much to the dismay of my stepmom, and we would all

  232. the same at one time, throw him as hard as we could against the

  233. kitchen floor, and they would just like take out a lamp, you know,

  234. hit the coboard, take out a dish. We would hit each other

  235. in the heads with them. That is what my brain felt like before I

  236. wrote this sermon. When I stop, when I ask the Holy Spirit to

  237. come in, he does. He quiets me down, because honestly, I

  238. felt unworthy to speak this message. I really did, And I think it's

  239. because we all have sin, right, and most of this sin that we

  240. have happens in our head. We do our most wicked deeds in our minds.

  241. So yes, I made my daughter take this picture of me just for

  242. this sermon. Here's what's going on in my head. Here's the sin that's

  243. happening in my head. Doubting God that is a sin, doubting truth that

  244. is a sin. Having ugly thoughts toward other people. This lady here,

  245. she has given this guy the side eye because he's crowding her in the grocery

  246. store line. I think murderous thoughts when people crowd me in the grocery store

  247. line. It's not it's not Christian at all. And finally, this last

  248. one, Uh, if you know, you know, I spend a lot

  249. of time wondering if I could get away with it. If you know,

  250. you know, If you know you know, If you don't know, ask

  251. Dana. She knows. But there's good news. There's biblical good news about

  252. this. Psalm one thirty nine twenty three says, search me, oh God,

  253. and know my heart, Try me and know my thoughts. We can

  254. ask the Holy Spirit to come in to invade us, to live in us

  255. and tell us whether the things that we're thinking in our head are true or

  256. false. When I walk out of here today and I'm driving home and I'm

  257. like, oh, that was horrible. My technology didn't work. I made

  258. jokes that no one laughed at. No one believed that I was twenty five.

  259. When I start having those thoughts, I can say, Holy Spirit,

  260. come speak truth to me. And you know what. The Holy Spirit might

  261. say, Yeah, you could work on this, or you could strengthen this,

  262. but the Holy Spirit, it will only tell you true things about yourself.

  263. The Spirit of the Lord lives in us and tells us that our words

  264. and actions will be preceded by our thoughts. When we ask God to search

  265. us and examine our thoughts and more importantly, our intent, we are inviting

  266. the Holy Spirit to direct us to our true path. How do I serve

  267. God with sincere thought? Ask God? I asked the Holy Spirit to search

  268. my thoughts and pray for those thoughts to guide my words. How do I

  269. serve God with sincere words? You ask? I'm so glad you asked.

  270. We're going to talk about that. I want to introduce you to this guy.

  271. This is Apollos. We think maybe could be. They didn't have much

  272. many cameras around back then, So I honestly don't know where they come up

  273. with these drawings sometimes. But this Apollos. Apollos was an Alexandrian Jew.

  274. He was a protege of Paul's. He admired what Paul did. He wanted

  275. to be like Paul. Apollos was a passionate teacher and a passionate leader.

  276. You know those people in your life that have a magnetic personality, like you

  277. just want to be around them, You just want to hear what they have

  278. to say. And Apollos was this guy. The problem was is that Apollos

  279. didn't have the full truth of the Gospel. He had only been taught the

  280. first part. So he knew that John Wood's baptizing people. He knew that,

  281. he knew that there was a Messiah coming and that the Messiah would do

  282. something majestic, but he didn't know the entirety of it. So he was

  283. going around teaching people, and he was teaching people the wrong thing. But

  284. God knew where Apollos's heart was, so he sent these people. Aquila and

  285. Priscilla. I got this from their Facebook page. This is a married couple.

  286. They had a deep knowledge of the Gospel and of the plan that God

  287. had for humanity, and they were also friends with Paul. Well, God

  288. took Priscilla and Aquilla. I don't know if I'm saying those names right,

  289. I might not be, It's okay, and he brought them to Apollos.

  290. They happened to be sitting in a sermon that Apoulos was giving, and they

  291. were like, oh no, this isn't actually the right thing, this isn't

  292. true, and so they pulled him aside and they were like, dude,

  293. you're missing like a really important part. Like Jesus is here. He's like

  294. he's been born. He's gonna save everybody from their sin. Like there's a

  295. plan in action. It's happening right now as we speak. You have to

  296. have a baptism that is in the steps footsteps of Jesus. I mean,

  297. Apollos had it so wrong that he was teaching the baptism of John. So

  298. people were saying, like, I don't know what the holy spirit is.

  299. I've never heard of it because Apolos didn't know about it. The Book of

  300. Acts tells us that Apollos was fervent in spirit. One Bible commentary says this

  301. his heart warm and conscious, probably of his gifts and attainments. He burned

  302. to impart to others the truth he himself had received. He was speaking with

  303. sincerity. He wanted people to know the truth, and God knew that about

  304. Apollos. Now, I want to take a little sidestep here and just say

  305. that you can speak words sincerely that are wrong. For example, our Pastor

  306. Fike thinks that It's a Wonderful Life is the best Christmas movie ever made.

  307. Not only does he think it, he says it. He called me out

  308. on it at a Christmas party. I sincerely believe that Pastor Fike is wrong.

  309. Okay, but I'm not just gonna throw him under the bus and throw

  310. myself under the bus too. I fervently believe that I should be a member.

  311. This is our worship team. This is Dina, this is Jeff Rutterer.

  312. Maya happy narrows in the back there. I believe that I should be

  313. a part of the worship team. Dang, the slide cracked me up so

  314. bad when I made it. Oh there, good Fike will tell anyone who

  315. listens that that is never going to happen. Here's the deal. Our God

  316. is all knowing, all sovereign, before one day was he knew them all

  317. to be. God in his infinite wisdom, knew that Apollo was sincerely seeking

  318. the heart of the Lord and wanted to share that heart with others. So

  319. God made sure Apollo's sincere words were true. Before I get up here today,

  320. the week's leading up to today, when Fike assigned me this sermon,

  321. I that I would not say anything that isn't true, that God would wipe

  322. it from my head, and if I do say it, that he'll wipe

  323. it from yours. Because I only want to speak true things. And here's

  324. what Jesus says about saying things that aren't true, that aren't sincere. These

  325. people he's talking about the Pharisees again. These people make a big show of

  326. saying the right thing, but their heart isn't in it. They act like

  327. they're worshiping me, but they don't mean it. They just use me as

  328. a cover for teaching whatever suits their fancy. The Pharisees' words were empty because

  329. their hearts were not even close to the right place. And moreover, their

  330. actions were useless because they were insincere. I could stand up here, Fight

  331. could stand up here. John Wilson could stand up here, Jeff Runner could

  332. stand up here, and we could say every exact, exactly perfect true thing.

  333. But if we are doing it with a heart of insincerity. If I

  334. was up here because I wanted you guys to like give me accolade and think

  335. I'm cool, God's gonna rip the carpet rat right out from under that.

  336. We are here to learn the truth, to hear the truth because we love

  337. each other as a body and we want to be living out the truth of

  338. God's Gospel. How do I serve God with sincere words? I ask God

  339. to search my heart and words and pray that both bring forth sincere actions.

  340. Well, how do I serve God with sincere actions? You ask? So

  341. the whole time I was writing this sermon, I kept thinking about Chick fil

  342. A. I was hungry. That's not why some of you think I'm talking

  343. about Chick fil A to get on Fike's good side. That ship is sailed.

  344. No, I was thinking about Chick fil A because who here has been

  345. to Chick fil A? Raise your hand? Yeah, everybody? Oh flinches.

  346. Come on now, when you ask for something at Chick fil A and

  347. they bring it to you, you say thank you? Right? What do

  348. they say back, yes, my pleasure. That is what sincere service like.

  349. I probably could have wrapped this entire sermon up into this slide. That

  350. is what sincere service looks like. It should be your pleasure, because why

  351. whose pleasure is it actually for? It's for his pleasure. We serve for

  352. his pleasure. I want to go back to a scripture that FIGHT shared with

  353. us a couple of weeks ago. This is Romans twelve sixth through eight.

  354. This is the English standard version. Having gifts that differ according to grace given

  355. to us, let us use them, if prophecy and proportion to our faith.

  356. If service in our serving, the one who teaches in his teaching,

  357. the one who exhorts in his exhortation, one who contributes in generosity, the

  358. one who leads with zeal, the one who does acts of mercy with cheerfulness.

  359. I put the message version up here too, because I think sometimes it's

  360. really interesting to see how you can kind of glean different things from different translations.

  361. This is what the message says. If you preach, just preach God's

  362. message, nothing else. If you help, just help, don't take over.

  363. If you teach, stick to your teaching. If you give encouraging guidance.

  364. Be careful that you don't get bossy. If you're put in charge,

  365. don't manipulate. If you're called to give aid to people in distress, keep

  366. your eyes open and be quick to respond. If you work with the disadvantage,

  367. don't let yourself get irritated with them or depressed by them. Keep a

  368. smile on your face. This made me think of a sermon that I heard

  369. when I was kind of in the throes of parenting young kids. These are

  370. the four of them. This was taken a few years ago. Are they

  371. you? They're so cute? But I, you know, as a parent

  372. and as a four was always doubting myself, always doubting if I was making

  373. the right choices, always wondering if I was serving my kids well. And

  374. I remember this pastor said, when it comes to parenting, just do what

  375. you do. Just do what you do. And I think that Paul was

  376. saying the same thing here. I think he's saying, don't overthink it,

  377. take the gift you have, and just do what you do. Keep it

  378. at that. I want to back up Romans twelve five. This is the

  379. verse immediately before the one we just read this is from the message, and

  380. I love this. So since we find ourselves fashion to all these excellently formed

  381. and marvelously functioning parts in Christ's body, let's just go ahead and be what

  382. we were made to be, without enviously or pridefully comparing ourselves with each other,

  383. or trying to be something we aren't. A couple of weeks ago,

  384. John and I were on a date night with our besties Beck and Lisa Anderson.

  385. They're here. I would make them stand up, but Lisa would murder

  386. me in my slave. We were out to Arlene's beans and I looked to

  387. you know, we were in line. I looked at my side and I

  388. saw Ed and Lou Ed and Mary Lou Gonzalez sitting there, and I was

  389. like, oh my gosh, we have to go say hi. Ed and

  390. Mary Lou have been a part of this church since the beginning, and we've

  391. known them. I've known actually Mary Lou. She was my mentor mom and

  392. mops when my kids were a little little, so I have a really special

  393. relationship with her. But we were talking about how these past few months with

  394. with our transition to the Movement Church have been so hard but also so wonderful

  395. and majestic and marvelous the things that have happened. And Ed shared with me

  396. that the first night that the Elder Team and the Wisdom Table sat down,

  397. we had decided we were going to do this thing. He said, we

  398. sat down to make this plan. And he said, I couldn't believe it.

  399. People said, Oh, I'm good at that. I'll take care of

  400. that. And I know somebody that's involved with that. I'll take care of

  401. that. And that's the strength of mind I can handle that. We put

  402. together a church in seven to ten days time, something that normally takes six

  403. months to a year. And I really think and Ed said this, they

  404. weren't stepping on each other's toes. Nobody was worried about pride or how much

  405. they mattered, or their importance in the church. They just wanted to get

  406. the job done. They just wanted to get the work done. And I

  407. think Paul is telling us, stop thinking about it, put your pride aside,

  408. put your busy life aside, just get the work done. We don't

  409. have a lot of time to do this, and there's a lot of work

  410. to be done. As I was preparing for this sermon, I was reading

  411. through a book called Romans verse by verse, it is riveting. I want

  412. to tell you that right now that was sarcasm, but the author said this,

  413. and this is a long quote. I'm going to ask you to bear

  414. with me because I think that this is going to speak to someone in this

  415. room. Our different gifts are the way we blend into one body, with

  416. each of us playing a critical part. Since in the eyes of God,

  417. no gift is more important than another, there is no place for pride or

  418. for churches that treat certain gifted individuals. By definition, every believer is a

  419. gifted individual above others. The tendency in many churches to make their pastor a

  420. virtual demigod is a serious sin. None of us can function properly in the

  421. church without the other gifts at work blending with ours. Studies have shown that

  422. in the average church, about fifty x teen to twenty percent are active in

  423. giving and serving in the church. If only twenty percent of a person's body

  424. was functioning, they would be virtually a vegetable. Our churches are crippled by

  425. the unwillingness of so many members to use their gifts to minister to each other.

  426. The key is for all of us to recognize we are one body in

  427. Christ and to live as if that were so. Only in unison with Him

  428. and with each other can we gain the humility and the strengths to function and

  429. unity as part of the body of Christ. That's Roman verse by verse.

  430. Grant or Osborne following that quote was where I read God does not want our

  431. rugged individuality. What I was so mad when I read that. It really

  432. was because as a four I'm an individual and now I want you all to

  433. recognize it. Guess what, Everyone in this room is unique. They are

  434. authentic. They are the one and only you. And so this bothered me

  435. so much. I was like, man, what does he mean by this?

  436. I was like, you know what, I'm going to google the word

  437. rugged because maybe there's like a definition definition of it that I don't know that's

  438. going to change how I feel about this. So I typed in the word

  439. rugged, and up pops the phrase rugged individualism. What it was like blowing

  440. my mind. Rugged individualism is a term that indicates that an individual is self

  441. reliant and independent from outside support, usually state or government. Obviously, mister

  442. Osborne was using this to mean independent of the help of a church body.

  443. You guys, I cannot tell you how I celebrated when I read this.

  444. Our individuality is God given. You are unique. You are perfectly and wonderfully

  445. made, and you are going to serve that way. When God says he

  446. doesn't want our rugged individualism, he is saying he doesn't want us to operate

  447. on our own. We're not meant for that. A couple of weeks ago,

  448. Fike said his gift is for us, not him, and our gifts

  449. are for him not us. Whatever gifting I have in speaking or writing or

  450. teaching, that's not for me. That's to share with other people. That

  451. is what it means to be a part of the Body of Christ. So

  452. we're big on strengths surveys around here, especially when it comes to spiritual gifts.

  453. And at the end, I have a Q that I'm gonna put up.

  454. You can scan it with your phone. It's going to allow you to

  455. take a survey that's going to help you understand what your giftings are. And

  456. I would encourage you to go back to that table, fill out a connection

  457. card and join a growth group if you're not in one. Here's one of

  458. the reasons why if you take this survey and you find out, oh,

  459. my strength is, you know, organizing projects, and there's no one there

  460. to hold you accountable to it. Are you gonna do it? But if

  461. you're in a growth group and you're sitting around and you say, oh man,

  462. my strength is organizing projects, it's possible that you know, Beth schla

  463. was gonna say, oh my gosh, I have this thing and I need

  464. help with it, and I can't find anyone, and you would be the

  465. perfect person. We should all burn to use our gifts. If you are

  466. doing something and it feels icky to you, if you're serving and it feels

  467. like this isn't how I should be spending my time, ask the Holy Spirit,

  468. Pray to God say is this what you really want from me? And

  469. God will tell you the truth. And sometimes you're not gonna like it.

  470. Because here's the thing. Somebody in this room is called deservant childcare. Dana

  471. just gave me an amen. I'm not gonna point you out. I'm not

  472. gonna call you out. You know who you are. If you have a

  473. gift, and you do because you are a part of the body of Christ,

  474. you should be using it. So Romans twelve nine doesn't often get included

  475. in the scriptures that I read about serving, but I love this from the

  476. message. It says love from the center of who you are. Good friends

  477. who love deeply practice playing second fiddle. Faith study Bible says this about that

  478. scripture. Love must be without hypocrisy. The New Testament presents love is the

  479. defining ethical standard for Christians. Paul assumes that his audience already shows love to

  480. one another. He calls for their love to be genuine and sincere. How

  481. do I serve God with sincere actions? I use the gifts God has given

  482. me to actively show the people around me genuine and sincere love. So what's

  483. God leading you to do next? And how can we help? Would you

  484. send us an email to info at Movement Church dot co and tell us how

  485. we can pray for you and help you take the next step in your spiritual

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  490. God bless you, and remember God is for you, and so are we