Sermon
Serve In Sincerity // Let's Get Moving (Melissa Janish)
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Welcome to the Movement Church podcast. We want you to know that God is
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for you and so are we. You're about to hear a sermon from one
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of our weekend services in Palmer Lake, Colorado. We pray that your faith
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is provoked, your mind is renewed, and your heart is awakened as you
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engage the Word of God. Stay tuned. That's the message for ways to
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get connected with us. God bless you. Thanks for tuning in, Thanks
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for being with us today. I have the distinct honor of welcoming one of
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my very favorite people on the whole planet, a lady who if you know
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her, if you've ever had coffee with her or lunch with her, you
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have been forever impacted by this crazy person. Her name is Melissa Janish.
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Can we give it up for Melissa? Come on over, Melissa, you're
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good. So this Let's Get Moving series is a sermon where we're preaching through
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our core values, and one of our core values is serve in sincerity.
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This woman serves in sincerity. Melissa Janes. Give it up, everybody,
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Thank you everybody. I am always excited and blessed to be up here and
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get the opportunity to do this. Yeah, do you want to fix it?
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Okay, we'll try. I just want to start by saying, fight
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that my birthday is on Tuesday. You guys, I'm gonna be twenty five.
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I'm really excited. Yep, twenty five here I come. Thank you
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for not laughing at that. That is I appreciate that, because when you
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laugh, you're like, yeah, you look like you're gonna be twenty five.
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Okay, So today we're talking about serving in sincerity and just right off
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the bat, I want to start us with a scripture and then we'll get
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into this. Joshua twenty four fourteen says, now, therefore, fear the
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Lord and serve him in sincerity and in faithfulness. Put away the gods that
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your father served before the river in Egypt, and serve the Lord. So
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I want to talk to you a little bit about how me and my family
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serve the Lord. This is my family up here in the front row.
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They're not going to stand up because that's not them. Just give a little
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wave. Give a little wave, family, Yep, that's them. We
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have my husband John, he is also twenty five, My daughter Miley is
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thirteen, My son Jonah is nineteen. My other daughter Mattie is ten.
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This is my daughter Julie who's seventeen and her awesome boyfriend that we really actually
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do love. And he is eighteen, right, Is that right? He's
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seventeen two. So I want to tell you a little bit about how we
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serve in our family. John is a member of our elder's board. He
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is actually the chair elder. They drew straws and he lost. That's a
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true story. But he serves this church very faithfully. John is the chief
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operating officer of an engineering firm in Colorado Springs. He does not have a
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lot of free time on his hands, but he will drop everything for this
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group of people, for this town. He serves very faithfully. I serve
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as a member of the teaching team. Sometimes I do what John Wilson did,
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and I welcome you while here. I've served on our hospitality team.
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We believe heartily that when you are a part of something, you serve as
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a part of that thing. And I'm going to talk about that a little
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bit more. Before I get into that, I want to talk about how
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hard this sermon was for me to write. This is the third sermon I've
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written. The third sermon I've preached, and the first two really came to
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me pretty easily. I kind of knew what I wanted to say. I
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prayed about it. I asked, God, is this what you want me
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to say? I started writing, God, you know, pulled me down
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this path, and it just sort of unfolded. And I assumed that this
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would be the same way, because I feel like talking about service is an
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easy thing. It's not a subject that gets people riled up. I'm not
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asking you to give us money. I'm just asking you to help out right.
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But I could not start this sermon. I would sit down and I
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would open my computer and I would have a full blown anxiety attack, like
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I would get tunnel vision. My hands would start shaking, I would start
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kind of hyperventilating. A couple times, I just sat there and cried,
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looking at my computer screen. And finally I texted Fike. It was I
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think New Year's Day or the day before New Year's Day, WI should be
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New Year's Eve, And I said, Fike, I think I can't do
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this. I think I'm not the right person to give this message. I
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don't understand why, but I cannot write this sermon. I think we're going
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to have to find somebody else, and of course, Fiight being Fike,
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said I want to come over, let's talk about it. Let's see if
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we can figure out what is going on here. And so I, you
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know, joined him in his home and immediately burst into tears because I could
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not get to the root of why I was having such a hard time with
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this. So we kind of went back in my past and talked about my
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history and the way I grew up and the things that matter to me,
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and my introduction into the Christian Church and all of those things. And I
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started to realize that what I was suffering from was impostor syndrome, and imposter
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syndrome looks like this. This is the imposter syndrome cycle. So if you've
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never had imposter syndrome, good on you. I mean that means that you
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are secure and confident and you know you're doing what you're supposed to be doing.
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I would bet that there are more people in here that have felt this
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than that feel the other way, if I were to take a guess.
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So this is the way imposter syndrome works. You have a new project or
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a task e g. Giving a sermon, your anxiety ramps up. You
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either procrastinate or you over prepare. I magically do both. It's possible.
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You Eventually you get through it, you complete the project. You have a
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brief sense of relief, relief and accomplishment. I'm gonna walk out of here
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today and I'm gonna be like I did it. I mean, I don't
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know how, by the grace of God, I did it. And they
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say, you rationalize, I was lucky, somebody else would have done a
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better job. I don't think that's rationalizing. I think that's the enemy coming
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to speak into your mind because you are living out a calling on your life,
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and the enemy does not want that. He wants to stop you in
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your tracks and say, don't ever do that again. That was a disaster.
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I want to tell you right now, when you start hearing those thoughts,
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you shut that down. You say, in the name of Jesus,
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I'm doing what I'm called to do. Amen. So anyways, you really
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you'd go through that rationalization that increases your self doubt, your anxiety, that
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feeling of being a fraud. And then guess what someone says, Hey,
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Melissa, will you preach again in two weeks, and the cycle starts all
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over again. And I think that it's a very real thing to feel like
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the things that we're asked to do when we're called to serve, that we're
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not worthy of those callings. And that is really what I am going to
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address today. So in thinking about this, I'm gonna warn you guys right
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now, we're going to take a meandering path to serving in sincerity. So
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stay on the path with me. Enjoy the hike. It's going to be
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a pretty one might be a little rough. I am who here is familiar
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with the enneagram. Just raise your hand if you're familiar with the anagram.
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So the enneagram has become really popular, particularly in the last I don't know
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ten years ish Rick Anderson is that accurate. Rick is one of my best
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friends, and he teaches seminars on enneagram. So on the enneagram, I
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am a four. Before I say anything about that, I want to redo
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the description of how a fore operates and see if you like me anymore.
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Fours are self aware, sensitive, and reserved. They are emotionally honest,
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creative, and personal, but can also be moody and self conscious withholding themselves
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from others due to feeling vulnerable and defective. They can also feel disdainful and
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exempt from ordinary ways of living. They typically have problems with melancholy, self
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indulgence, and self pity. At their best, they are inspired and highly
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creative. They are able to renew themselves and transform their experiences. Now,
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I don't know about you, but that makes me say I don't like fours.
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And when I found out I was a four, I objected passionately because
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I don't want to identify with that person. But the problem is is that
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I do. We had Billie Eilish. Old people don't worry about it.
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We had Bob Dylan. Young people don't worry about it. I had Stevie
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Nicks. You should all know. If you don't know, shame on you
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and talk to your parents. We had Kurt Cobain, we had Amy wine
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House, and we had Sylvia Plath, who is an author and a poet.
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Those last three people, Kurt Cobain, Amy wine House, and Sylvia
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Plath all took their own lives. And this is the real struggle of the
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four is that we want to be unique, and we want to be authentic,
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and we want to be true all the time. WHOA we have a
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sad show Yep, they're there. That's perfect. This struggle for the four
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with the four, it's so real and so intense, and in an unhealthy
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four it can end in tragedy. And that's where I'm coming from today,
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you guys. I believe that every person in this room was created uniquely and
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authentically, and I believe that you should serve God that way from that place,
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and that's how we are going to approach today. Okay, so the
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struggle with individuality is real, but God doesn't want our rugged individualism. I'm
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going to come back to this phrase, rugged individualism. I'm going to leave
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it there. I'm going to tell you that this phrase stopped me in my
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tracks and kept me from writing for a solid three days because I was so
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bothered by it. I'm going to come back to it. So I know
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what you guys are thinking. You guys are thinking. I thought we were
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talking about serving today, serving in sincerity. I thought I was going to
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come today and you were going to tell me that they need and childcare.
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Right, Danish, I'm gonna get to that. You're gonna tell me that
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I have to come to two Sundays a month and I have to control the
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toddlers, quiet the babies, teach a lesson. I'm not gonna tell you
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that today. In fact, I'm not going to tell you that you have
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to serve anywhere at the Movement Church today. I know that Fike has a
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one of those big hooks, like those vaudeville hooks, and he wants to
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pull me off the stage right now for saying that. But I am not
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going to ask you to serve anywhere in our church today. Again, We're
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gonna come to that at the end of our sermon. When I was a
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very young mom, I was a new believer, and I was at a
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church. I had only been there for a few weeks, and I had
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at the time, I had two kids under the age of three, actually
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two kids under the age of two, and John at the time was traveling
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on average ten months out of the year, so I was effectively a single
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mom most of the time. So the sweet lady who ran the childcare at
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this church approached me one day and she said, so, you've been here
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for three weeks now, or four weeks, however long it was, so
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now I can ask you to work in our child care. And she sort
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of implied to me that if I chose not to serve in the childcare,
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I would not be allowed to put my own kids in childcare. Now,
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when you're a young mom with a husband who travels full time and little little
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kids, you need the childcare. You want the childcare. So guess what
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I agreed to do. I agreed to serve in the childcare. I didn't
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feel called to be there. I didn't feel like God wanted me to be
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there. I felt like it was the punishment. And I read this verse.
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This is uh Jesus speaking to the Pharisees. He says, whoe to
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you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites, for you are like whitewashed tombs,
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which outwardly appear beautiful, but within are full of dead people's bones and all
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uncleanliness. So you also outwardly appear righteous to others, but within you are
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full of hypocrisy and lawlessness. Now the reason I am sharing this is because
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when I served in insincerity in the childcare, I felt full of dead people's
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bones. And that's not a joke. It sucked the life out of me,
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and it made me not want to go to church, and it made
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me question as a new believer, what is this like? This is what
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believing in God is. I start have to start doing things that I feel
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are like like not something that God has a plan for that's not part of
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my plan. And it it was hard. It bothered me. So we're
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going to talk today about I've built it this way. Sincerity comes from sincere
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thought. Sincerity comes from sincere words. Sincerity comes from sincere actions. Or
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if you look at my slide, one leads to the next, leads to
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the next. There's a Catholic saint who said this, and I think this
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is really great. The life of the Christian has three distinguishing aspects, deeds,
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words, and thought. Thought comes first, then words, since our
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words express openly the interior conclusions of the mind. Finally, after thoughts and
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words comes action, for our deeds carry out what the mind has conceived.
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Saint Gregory of Nyssa Nissa said that, and that's sort of where we're going
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to take our path today. The message says this beautifully. This is Philippians
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four eight and nine, eight through nine. I'd say you'll do best by
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filling your minds and meditation on things not the worst, the beautiful, not
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the ugly. Things to praise, not things to curse. Put into practice
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what you learned from me, what you heard and saw and realized. Do
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that, and God, who makes everything work together, will work you in
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to his most excellent harmonies. Who here does not want to be a part
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of God's most excellent harmony. We can become a part of God's most excellent
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harmonies by checking that our thoughts are sincere, our words are sincere, our
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actions are sincere. Again, in Joshua twenty four or fourteen, we are
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told to serve God in sincerity and in faithfulness. So this word sincerity,
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what does it mean? We're going to unpack that. But here's where I
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landed when I did my research. Biblical sincerity means to think, speak,
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or act from a place of whole, complete truth. The Hebrew to English
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translation suggests that we should serve God entirely in accord with truth and fact,
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with truth and fact, and truth and fact or the opposite. Lies and
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falsehoods start here in our heads. This is where they're born. So we're
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going to start with how do I serve God with sincere thoughts? Now,
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I'm not going to spend a lot of time on this point, because in
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May as some of you may know, is Mental Health Awareness Month, and
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so we as a church are going to take advantage of that to talk about
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how mental health is relevant among this group of people. Mental health health is
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a big deal to me. I have struggled with clinical depression and anxiety my
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whole entire life. It's a genetic I get it from my mom's side,
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I get it from my dad's side. It's a real thing. And we're
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gonna get into that, and I can't wait. So I can't tell you
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what's going on in your head. The only head I can interrogate is my
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own. I can only know what's going on in my head. That's not
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entirely true. Actually, there's one person who I know exactly what's going on
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in their head. That's my husband, John Janish. Here's what's going on
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in his head. Golf, golf, golf cart, hitting a golf ball,
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all the things about golf, playing golf, golf. If he's hungry,
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spaghetti. I have just reduced my husband to golf in spaghetti. And
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I'm gonna hear about it later. But seriously, we have to be accountable.
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We have to take stock of what's going on in our own heads.
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When I was writing this sermon, especially before I started, my thoughts were
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everywhere. I could not get them in order, and it was like,
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I don't know if you guys remember, I don't even know if they do
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this anymore. They used to have those like quarter machines in the entryway of
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grocery stores, and you would like beg your parents on the way in,
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all through the store and on the way out to give you a quarter to
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put in the machine. Well, every time, me and my stepbrother and
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my stepsister would end up getting these bouncy balls right, so we would take
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them home, much to the dismay of my stepmom, and we would all
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the same at one time, throw him as hard as we could against the
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kitchen floor, and they would just like take out a lamp, you know,
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hit the coboard, take out a dish. We would hit each other
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in the heads with them. That is what my brain felt like before I
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wrote this sermon. When I stop, when I ask the Holy Spirit to
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come in, he does. He quiets me down, because honestly, I
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felt unworthy to speak this message. I really did, And I think it's
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because we all have sin, right, and most of this sin that we
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have happens in our head. We do our most wicked deeds in our minds.
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So yes, I made my daughter take this picture of me just for
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this sermon. Here's what's going on in my head. Here's the sin that's
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happening in my head. Doubting God that is a sin, doubting truth that
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is a sin. Having ugly thoughts toward other people. This lady here,
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she has given this guy the side eye because he's crowding her in the grocery
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store line. I think murderous thoughts when people crowd me in the grocery store
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line. It's not it's not Christian at all. And finally, this last
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one, Uh, if you know, you know, I spend a lot
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of time wondering if I could get away with it. If you know,
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you know, If you know you know, If you don't know, ask
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Dana. She knows. But there's good news. There's biblical good news about
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this. Psalm one thirty nine twenty three says, search me, oh God,
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and know my heart, Try me and know my thoughts. We can
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ask the Holy Spirit to come in to invade us, to live in us
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and tell us whether the things that we're thinking in our head are true or
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false. When I walk out of here today and I'm driving home and I'm
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like, oh, that was horrible. My technology didn't work. I made
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jokes that no one laughed at. No one believed that I was twenty five.
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When I start having those thoughts, I can say, Holy Spirit,
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come speak truth to me. And you know what. The Holy Spirit might
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say, Yeah, you could work on this, or you could strengthen this,
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but the Holy Spirit, it will only tell you true things about yourself.
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The Spirit of the Lord lives in us and tells us that our words
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and actions will be preceded by our thoughts. When we ask God to search
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us and examine our thoughts and more importantly, our intent, we are inviting
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the Holy Spirit to direct us to our true path. How do I serve
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God with sincere thought? Ask God? I asked the Holy Spirit to search
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my thoughts and pray for those thoughts to guide my words. How do I
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serve God with sincere words? You ask? I'm so glad you asked.
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We're going to talk about that. I want to introduce you to this guy.
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This is Apollos. We think maybe could be. They didn't have much
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many cameras around back then, So I honestly don't know where they come up
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with these drawings sometimes. But this Apollos. Apollos was an Alexandrian Jew.
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He was a protege of Paul's. He admired what Paul did. He wanted
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to be like Paul. Apollos was a passionate teacher and a passionate leader.
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You know those people in your life that have a magnetic personality, like you
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just want to be around them, You just want to hear what they have
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to say. And Apollos was this guy. The problem was is that Apollos
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didn't have the full truth of the Gospel. He had only been taught the
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first part. So he knew that John Wood's baptizing people. He knew that,
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he knew that there was a Messiah coming and that the Messiah would do
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something majestic, but he didn't know the entirety of it. So he was
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going around teaching people, and he was teaching people the wrong thing. But
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God knew where Apollos's heart was, so he sent these people. Aquila and
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Priscilla. I got this from their Facebook page. This is a married couple.
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They had a deep knowledge of the Gospel and of the plan that God
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had for humanity, and they were also friends with Paul. Well, God
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took Priscilla and Aquilla. I don't know if I'm saying those names right,
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I might not be, It's okay, and he brought them to Apollos.
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They happened to be sitting in a sermon that Apoulos was giving, and they
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were like, oh no, this isn't actually the right thing, this isn't
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true, and so they pulled him aside and they were like, dude,
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you're missing like a really important part. Like Jesus is here. He's like
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he's been born. He's gonna save everybody from their sin. Like there's a
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plan in action. It's happening right now as we speak. You have to
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have a baptism that is in the steps footsteps of Jesus. I mean,
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Apollos had it so wrong that he was teaching the baptism of John. So
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people were saying, like, I don't know what the holy spirit is.
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I've never heard of it because Apolos didn't know about it. The Book of
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Acts tells us that Apollos was fervent in spirit. One Bible commentary says this
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his heart warm and conscious, probably of his gifts and attainments. He burned
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to impart to others the truth he himself had received. He was speaking with
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sincerity. He wanted people to know the truth, and God knew that about
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Apollos. Now, I want to take a little sidestep here and just say
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that you can speak words sincerely that are wrong. For example, our Pastor
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Fike thinks that It's a Wonderful Life is the best Christmas movie ever made.
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Not only does he think it, he says it. He called me out
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on it at a Christmas party. I sincerely believe that Pastor Fike is wrong.
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Okay, but I'm not just gonna throw him under the bus and throw
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myself under the bus too. I fervently believe that I should be a member.
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This is our worship team. This is Dina, this is Jeff Rutterer.
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Maya happy narrows in the back there. I believe that I should be
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a part of the worship team. Dang, the slide cracked me up so
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bad when I made it. Oh there, good Fike will tell anyone who
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listens that that is never going to happen. Here's the deal. Our God
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is all knowing, all sovereign, before one day was he knew them all
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to be. God in his infinite wisdom, knew that Apollo was sincerely seeking
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the heart of the Lord and wanted to share that heart with others. So
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God made sure Apollo's sincere words were true. Before I get up here today,
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the week's leading up to today, when Fike assigned me this sermon,
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I that I would not say anything that isn't true, that God would wipe
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it from my head, and if I do say it, that he'll wipe
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it from yours. Because I only want to speak true things. And here's
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what Jesus says about saying things that aren't true, that aren't sincere. These
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people he's talking about the Pharisees again. These people make a big show of
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saying the right thing, but their heart isn't in it. They act like
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they're worshiping me, but they don't mean it. They just use me as
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a cover for teaching whatever suits their fancy. The Pharisees' words were empty because
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their hearts were not even close to the right place. And moreover, their
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actions were useless because they were insincere. I could stand up here, Fight
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could stand up here. John Wilson could stand up here, Jeff Runner could
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stand up here, and we could say every exact, exactly perfect true thing.
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But if we are doing it with a heart of insincerity. If I
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was up here because I wanted you guys to like give me accolade and think
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I'm cool, God's gonna rip the carpet rat right out from under that.
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We are here to learn the truth, to hear the truth because we love
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each other as a body and we want to be living out the truth of
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God's Gospel. How do I serve God with sincere words? I ask God
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to search my heart and words and pray that both bring forth sincere actions.
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Well, how do I serve God with sincere actions? You ask? So
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the whole time I was writing this sermon, I kept thinking about Chick fil
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A. I was hungry. That's not why some of you think I'm talking
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about Chick fil A to get on Fike's good side. That ship is sailed.
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No, I was thinking about Chick fil A because who here has been
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to Chick fil A? Raise your hand? Yeah, everybody? Oh flinches.
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Come on now, when you ask for something at Chick fil A and
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they bring it to you, you say thank you? Right? What do
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they say back, yes, my pleasure. That is what sincere service like.
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I probably could have wrapped this entire sermon up into this slide. That
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is what sincere service looks like. It should be your pleasure, because why
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whose pleasure is it actually for? It's for his pleasure. We serve for
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his pleasure. I want to go back to a scripture that FIGHT shared with
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us a couple of weeks ago. This is Romans twelve sixth through eight.
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This is the English standard version. Having gifts that differ according to grace given
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to us, let us use them, if prophecy and proportion to our faith.
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If service in our serving, the one who teaches in his teaching,
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the one who exhorts in his exhortation, one who contributes in generosity, the
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one who leads with zeal, the one who does acts of mercy with cheerfulness.
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I put the message version up here too, because I think sometimes it's
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really interesting to see how you can kind of glean different things from different translations.
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This is what the message says. If you preach, just preach God's
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message, nothing else. If you help, just help, don't take over.
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If you teach, stick to your teaching. If you give encouraging guidance.
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Be careful that you don't get bossy. If you're put in charge,
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don't manipulate. If you're called to give aid to people in distress, keep
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your eyes open and be quick to respond. If you work with the disadvantage,
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don't let yourself get irritated with them or depressed by them. Keep a
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smile on your face. This made me think of a sermon that I heard
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when I was kind of in the throes of parenting young kids. These are
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the four of them. This was taken a few years ago. Are they
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you? They're so cute? But I, you know, as a parent
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and as a four was always doubting myself, always doubting if I was making
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the right choices, always wondering if I was serving my kids well. And
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I remember this pastor said, when it comes to parenting, just do what
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you do. Just do what you do. And I think that Paul was
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saying the same thing here. I think he's saying, don't overthink it,
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take the gift you have, and just do what you do. Keep it
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at that. I want to back up Romans twelve five. This is the
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verse immediately before the one we just read this is from the message, and
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I love this. So since we find ourselves fashion to all these excellently formed
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and marvelously functioning parts in Christ's body, let's just go ahead and be what
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we were made to be, without enviously or pridefully comparing ourselves with each other,
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or trying to be something we aren't. A couple of weeks ago,
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John and I were on a date night with our besties Beck and Lisa Anderson.
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They're here. I would make them stand up, but Lisa would murder
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me in my slave. We were out to Arlene's beans and I looked to
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you know, we were in line. I looked at my side and I
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saw Ed and Lou Ed and Mary Lou Gonzalez sitting there, and I was
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like, oh my gosh, we have to go say hi. Ed and
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Mary Lou have been a part of this church since the beginning, and we've
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known them. I've known actually Mary Lou. She was my mentor mom and
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mops when my kids were a little little, so I have a really special
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relationship with her. But we were talking about how these past few months with
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with our transition to the Movement Church have been so hard but also so wonderful
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and majestic and marvelous the things that have happened. And Ed shared with me
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that the first night that the Elder Team and the Wisdom Table sat down,
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we had decided we were going to do this thing. He said, we
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sat down to make this plan. And he said, I couldn't believe it.
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People said, Oh, I'm good at that. I'll take care of
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that. And I know somebody that's involved with that. I'll take care of
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that. And that's the strength of mind I can handle that. We put
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together a church in seven to ten days time, something that normally takes six
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months to a year. And I really think and Ed said this, they
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weren't stepping on each other's toes. Nobody was worried about pride or how much
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they mattered, or their importance in the church. They just wanted to get
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the job done. They just wanted to get the work done. And I
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think Paul is telling us, stop thinking about it, put your pride aside,
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put your busy life aside, just get the work done. We don't
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have a lot of time to do this, and there's a lot of work
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to be done. As I was preparing for this sermon, I was reading
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through a book called Romans verse by verse, it is riveting. I want
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to tell you that right now that was sarcasm, but the author said this,
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and this is a long quote. I'm going to ask you to bear
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with me because I think that this is going to speak to someone in this
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room. Our different gifts are the way we blend into one body, with
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each of us playing a critical part. Since in the eyes of God,
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no gift is more important than another, there is no place for pride or
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for churches that treat certain gifted individuals. By definition, every believer is a
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gifted individual above others. The tendency in many churches to make their pastor a
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virtual demigod is a serious sin. None of us can function properly in the
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church without the other gifts at work blending with ours. Studies have shown that
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in the average church, about fifty x teen to twenty percent are active in
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giving and serving in the church. If only twenty percent of a person's body
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was functioning, they would be virtually a vegetable. Our churches are crippled by
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the unwillingness of so many members to use their gifts to minister to each other.
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The key is for all of us to recognize we are one body in
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Christ and to live as if that were so. Only in unison with Him
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and with each other can we gain the humility and the strengths to function and
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unity as part of the body of Christ. That's Roman verse by verse.
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Grant or Osborne following that quote was where I read God does not want our
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rugged individuality. What I was so mad when I read that. It really
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was because as a four I'm an individual and now I want you all to
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recognize it. Guess what, Everyone in this room is unique. They are
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authentic. They are the one and only you. And so this bothered me
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so much. I was like, man, what does he mean by this?
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I was like, you know what, I'm going to google the word
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rugged because maybe there's like a definition definition of it that I don't know that's
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going to change how I feel about this. So I typed in the word
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rugged, and up pops the phrase rugged individualism. What it was like blowing
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my mind. Rugged individualism is a term that indicates that an individual is self
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reliant and independent from outside support, usually state or government. Obviously, mister
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Osborne was using this to mean independent of the help of a church body.
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You guys, I cannot tell you how I celebrated when I read this.
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Our individuality is God given. You are unique. You are perfectly and wonderfully
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made, and you are going to serve that way. When God says he
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doesn't want our rugged individualism, he is saying he doesn't want us to operate
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on our own. We're not meant for that. A couple of weeks ago,
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Fike said his gift is for us, not him, and our gifts
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are for him not us. Whatever gifting I have in speaking or writing or
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teaching, that's not for me. That's to share with other people. That
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is what it means to be a part of the Body of Christ. So
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we're big on strengths surveys around here, especially when it comes to spiritual gifts.
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And at the end, I have a Q that I'm gonna put up.
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You can scan it with your phone. It's going to allow you to
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take a survey that's going to help you understand what your giftings are. And
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I would encourage you to go back to that table, fill out a connection
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card and join a growth group if you're not in one. Here's one of
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the reasons why if you take this survey and you find out, oh,
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my strength is, you know, organizing projects, and there's no one there
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to hold you accountable to it. Are you gonna do it? But if
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you're in a growth group and you're sitting around and you say, oh man,
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my strength is organizing projects, it's possible that you know, Beth schla
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was gonna say, oh my gosh, I have this thing and I need
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help with it, and I can't find anyone, and you would be the
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perfect person. We should all burn to use our gifts. If you are
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doing something and it feels icky to you, if you're serving and it feels
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like this isn't how I should be spending my time, ask the Holy Spirit,
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Pray to God say is this what you really want from me? And
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God will tell you the truth. And sometimes you're not gonna like it.
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Because here's the thing. Somebody in this room is called deservant childcare. Dana
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just gave me an amen. I'm not gonna point you out. I'm not
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gonna call you out. You know who you are. If you have a
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gift, and you do because you are a part of the body of Christ,
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you should be using it. So Romans twelve nine doesn't often get included
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in the scriptures that I read about serving, but I love this from the
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message. It says love from the center of who you are. Good friends
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who love deeply practice playing second fiddle. Faith study Bible says this about that
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scripture. Love must be without hypocrisy. The New Testament presents love is the
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defining ethical standard for Christians. Paul assumes that his audience already shows love to
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one another. He calls for their love to be genuine and sincere. How
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do I serve God with sincere actions? I use the gifts God has given
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me to actively show the people around me genuine and sincere love. So what's
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God leading you to do next? And how can we help? Would you
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send us an email to info at Movement Church dot co and tell us how
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we can pray for you and help you take the next step in your spiritual
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journey. If you'd like to contribute financially to our ministry, text the amount
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you like to give to the number eight four three two one, or look
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God bless you, and remember God is for you, and so are we