Sermon
GIFTED // The FUNCTIONAL Gifts // Pastor Richie Fike
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Welcome to the Movement Church Podcast. We want you to
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know that God is for you and so are we.
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You're about to hear a sermon from one of our
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God bless you. Thanks for tuning in.
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We're in a series called Gifted. And the point of
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this series is to alert you to the fact that
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you are gifted. Have you figured that out yet? You
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are gifted. You're gifted by the God who loves you
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so much that he sent his one and only son,
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and that if you would believe in him, that you
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could be reunited with the Father in heaven. He loves
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you that much. And the God who loves me so
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much that he sent you to this church so that
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you could share the very unique way that the Lord
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manifests himself through you. Your gift is not for you.
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It's for me, and I really appreciate that. We've learned
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four things about spiritual gifts so far. I'm just going
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to remind you. Here they are. Number one, God is
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the one who chooses your gift. We don't get to go, God,
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I want this gift. God chooses your gift. Everybody gets
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a gift. Nobody goes without. Your gift is not for you.
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And last week we talked about the idea that all
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of us are built to be both needed and needy
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and that there is nothing wrong. In fact, there's everything
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right about the body of Christ interdependent upon one another.
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We've answered questions about who gives us the gift and
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why it's given. And finally today, We're going to start
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working through the list. Are you ready to work through
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the list and kind of figure out what your gift is?
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Anybody here excited about that? Okay, cool. Now listen, there's
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about 20 of these spiritual gifts. So we're going to
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spend the next five weeks really deep diving into these gifts.
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You can find them mostly from two passages of scripture,
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1 Corinthians 12 and Romans 12. That's where you find
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this list of gifts. We're gonna do it sort of structurally.
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This is the way we're gonna cover it. We're gonna
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do the functional gifts, the faith and power gifts, the
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equipping gifts, and the prophecy in tongues. We're gonna spend
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one week just talking about that because that's controversial and
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confusing enough biblically that we really need to take a
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deep dive on that issue. But today we're gonna deal
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with functional gifts. You guys put the fun in functional
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and we're gonna talk about that. And this is how
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we're gonna do it. For each gift that I talk
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about today, you're gonna see kind of a series of ideas.
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The strength of that gift, what's beautiful about them, how
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we see these gifts manifest in the Savior, Jesus Christ.
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The Bible says that if you've seen the Son, you've
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seen the Father. So we're gonna talk about how these
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gifts that manifest in us were evident in Christ in
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the Gospels. And then we're gonna look at the shadow
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side of your gift. And then we're gonna look at
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some people who tell the story of these gifts. Some
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people that are sitting right around you today. You're going
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to hear some stories, and then we're going to talk
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about how you can use that gift to serve the
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body of Christ, this community of faith. Our theme verse
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in this series is 1 Corinthians 12, 7, which says this,
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A manifestation of the Spirit is given to each person
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for the common good. This word manifestation is a fun word.
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It means bringing something that's invisible into the light. It
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means making something invisible visible. And that's what your gift does.
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You make God visible to the people around you when
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the Holy Spirit manifests himself uniquely through you. That's the
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idea of spiritual gifts. Now, I want to give two
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caveats before we get into this list today. Number one,
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the concept or the topic of spiritual gifts is not
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a topic about your personality. This is not a new Myers-Briggs, okay?
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This is not a replacement for the Enneagram. In fact,
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the Enneagram is a replacement for spiritual gifts. But this
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isn't about your personality. This is about what happens when
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the Holy Spirit manifests himself through you. This is spiritual.
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This is beautiful. You know, if you've done a personality test,
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you've probably figured out some of the things that motivate you,
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some of the things that irritate you, right? Some of
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the things that make you you. But what we're talking
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about with spiritual gifts is this. It's this spiritual... alchemy.
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It's this chemistry that happens when who you are gives
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way to whose you are. You with me? So this
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thing that happens when you decide to put the Lord
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at the highest throne in your heart, whatever happens next,
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that's your spiritual gift. That's what it looks like. So
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that's caveat number one. And caveat number two is this.
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Spiritual gifts are meant for Christians really within the context
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of the So within the context of your community of faith,
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that doesn't mean that your spiritual guests can't manifest themselves
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outside the walls of a church community, but their purpose
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is for us to see God through you, for the
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church to see God uniquely through you. Okay, so with
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those caveats, are you ready for the list? Everybody ready?
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I got to blow through this stuff. We got six
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of them to cover today. And I hope that many
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of you hear about yourself today and you go, oh,
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That's me. I never had words for that, okay? That's
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the idea. Here's the first one. The spiritual gift of mercy.
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We find this in Romans 12, 8. The spiritual gift
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of mercy. What is it? It is the spiritual capacity
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to feel and express, I love this phrase, unusual compassion, empathy,
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and sympathy for those in difficult or crisis situations and
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provide them with the necessary help and support to see
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them through tough times. These are compassionate people. These are
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incredible people. When people find themselves at the end of
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their rope, mercy gifters give them a knot to hold
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on to. That's what a mercy gifter is. We've all
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had moments, seasons, days, weeks, years, where we were just
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going through it, right? Jesus said, in this world, you
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will have trouble. And so for those of us that
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have walked through a hard season, we really needed a
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mercy gifter to come along and see us and notice
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us with this uncommon, unusual compassion. For a lot of us,
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when we walk through the doors of a church, you
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know that question that we ask, how you doing, man?
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And you're expecting the person to say, good, and you, right?
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And that's what we want. That's really all we want.
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Please don't say anything other than that. If you're a
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mercy gifter, What you want is the person to say,
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I'm not doing well at all. You're like, ha ha ha,
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here I come, right? That's the idea. For most of us,
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when someone says, I'm not doing well at all, we're like,
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good luck with that, right? That's kind of how we roll. Like,
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I hope that works out for you. What about our Savior?
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What did Jesus do? He taught about this. There's a
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very famous passage called the Good Samaritan. Great story. A
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guy is going through a really hard moment, a really
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hard season in his life And some really good people
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walk by him and go, good luck with that. I
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hope that all works out for you. But this one
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guy shows up and enters in to this guy's troubles
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and says, I'm going to help you. I'm going to
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get in this pit with you. We're going to work
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this out together. That's the spiritual gift of mercy. Now,
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if you're a teenager in the room, or if you've
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been in vacation Bible school in years and years ago,
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and you have like PTSD from it, um, Everybody's favorite
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memory verse in the whole Bible. Anybody know what it is?
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It's two words. What is it? Jesus wept. Isn't that
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the greatest memory verse of all time? Because it's really
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easy to remember, right? What's the context of this moment, though?
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Lazarus has died. And all of his friends are hurting.
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They're struggling. They're mourning. And Jesus walks in, experiences pain.
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what they're walking through and enters into it with them.
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And he wept. Now then he does a miracle, but
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first he showed unusual compassion for his friends. Jesus was merciful.
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Aren't you glad that Jesus is a merciful God? You
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don't want the God of justice. You want the God
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of mercy, amen? Like God is merciful to us. In fact,
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the primary emotion that the gospel writers attribute to Jesus
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is compassionate. Jesus was compassionate towards the sick, towards the hurting,
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towards women and children, which was unusual, towards crowds and
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towards individuals. Very often people were pressing into him and
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he saw the one person that was hurting. If you
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know Jesus, you know compassion, you know mercy. Mercy gifters
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help us to see God. So mercy is when someone
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encounters your pain before they evaluate your performance. They just go, look,
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we don't need to talk about what led to this.
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I'm just here for you. Oh, isn't it good to
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have a friend like that? Isn't it beautiful when we
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see God in the face of someone who lives like that?
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People with the gift of mercy rush into the mess.
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They don't cross-examine. They don't make you earn their compassion.
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I just want to show you I'm here. I'm love you.
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It's not always about fixing it. Come on, husbands in
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the room, anybody, right? Sometimes your wife tells you what's
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going on. It's either this person at work said this,
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and then another person said this, and it was terrible,
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and you want to rush in and fix it. Mercy
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gifters know sometimes it's not about fixing it. It's just
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about hearing it. It's just about entering into it. And
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all the ladies said, that's right. Okay, so let's talk
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about the shadow side of mercy. What is the shadow
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side of a mercy gifter? Guys, if you have this gift,
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you need to make sure that your compassion and your
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empathy does its homework before you start sort of cosigning
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on somebody else's dysfunction. You need to be a little
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discerning about this. Proverbs says this, the first to state
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his case seems right until another comes and cross-examines him.
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If you have multiple kids, you know how this works.
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The first kid that walks up to you and says, Daddy,
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he did this, is usually the criminal. They're the one
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that's guilty, right? And then you find the whole story
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out later. So you need to have mercy gifters discernment.
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Because mercy gifters naturally empathize with the person who confides
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in them their compassion and can unintentionally reinforce dysfunction when
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that person's perspective is incomplete or mistaken or self-deceived. Merciful
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people are great at entering into the pain of others,
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but they're not always intentional about helping people to interrogate
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what led to this. Is there something we can do
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to prevent this kind of pain in the future, right?
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So be aware of the ways in which your mercy
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can enable dysfunction. Now, I happen to live with a
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person who is a mercy gifter, the wonderful, fabulous Dana Fike.
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And I'm telling you, it is the secret to the
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success of our marriage because she has forgiven me over
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and I have given her such opportunities to use her
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mercy gift. I mean, I just want to help her.
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I want her to get strong in her gift, you know?
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And so for all of these years, I've given her
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very many opportunities to use this mercy gift. Every time
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we do a feast with the Fikes, do you know
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what happens? People fall in love with Dana Fike. Is
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there anybody here that would say that you did a
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feast with the Fikes and you fell in love with
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Dana Fike? Okay, that's right. Why? Because she has this
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ability to enter into your life, to your world, and
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just throw herself aside and enter into whatever it is
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you're passionate about, whatever it is you're confused about. She
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just wants to make that connection. It's powerful. So listen,
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mercy gifters, your gift is not for you. It's for us.
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We need your gift. Amen, everybody? We need your gift,
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especially the merciless people in the room today. You need
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mercy in your life. Every church, every church, not just ours,
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every church has hurting people. You know that, right? If
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you're going through a hard season in your life right now,
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you're not doing it wrong. It's life. Everybody needs mercy
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in their life. Everybody, every church has marriages that are struggling.
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People who got bad news from the doctor. People whose
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kids are making terrible decisions. Like last night, my son
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kept grabbing the microphone and yelling out, Feliz Navidad. We
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don't know why. We don't know why. And don't do
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it now, son. People whose kids are making terrible decisions.
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People who walk into church smiling while everything in their
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life has fallen apart. And here's the thing. A lot
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of us in the room don't notice those people But
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you do. If you have this gift of mercy, you
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notice something's off with her. Something's wrong with him. So
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here's the deal. Don't do nothing about it. Do something
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about it. Walk across the room. Send the text. Make
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the phone call. Bring the meal. Sit in the hospital room.
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Show up at the funeral. Invite that lonely person that
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you notice to lunch. Now, there's some pretty clear applications
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to this gift for you guys. If you have this
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gift of mercy, the most obvious is our care ministry team,
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which is led by Karen Murphy, who does an incredible
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job with this team. Why does the care ministry exist?
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Because Jesus said this, they, the world, people who don't
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know Jesus, will know that you guys belong to me
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because of the way that you love each other, the
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way you show love to one another. That's how we're
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going to know that you belong to me. So we
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absolutely as a church want to be the kind of
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church that shows love and consideration and care when you're
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going through a hard season. And if you have this
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gift of mercy, this is the team for you. Also,
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I would say another great team is our prayer ministry
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team led by Steve White. Because we do this text
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to pray thing where people can text in their prayer
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requests and they can be as confidential or as forthright
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as they want to be. And sometimes when they're really forthright,
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what they're begging for is for somebody to enter into
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their pain with them. And so you can do more
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than just pray with them. You can actually spend time
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and communicate with them. And so if you have this
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heart and you're looking for a place to serve, both
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of these teams are what you're looking for. Your gift
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is not for you. It's for us. So don't keep
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it to yourself. Let's give it up for the mercy
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gifters in the room. You guys are awesome. Okay, next one, hospitality. Hospitality.
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Now this one's interesting because hospitality isn't actually included on
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any of the lists. but it's included at the end
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of all the lists. Paul says this at Romans 12, 13,
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share with the saints in their needs for to hospitality.
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Peter says this in 1 Peter 4, he says, be
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hospitable to one another without complaining, just as each one
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has received a gift, use it to serve others as
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good stewards of the varied grace of God. So this
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is not just a talent or a preference or a skill.
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This is a gift. And if you've met people that
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are incredibly hospitable, you go, I don't have that, right?
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You go, that's incredible. Here's what it is. It's the
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capacity to create welcoming spaces for strangers, guests, and outsiders.
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Opening your home and your life in ways that help
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people move. I love this. From stranger to friend. Isn't
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that beautiful? That that's the gift of someone who has
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this gift of hospitality. You love to cook. You love
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event planning. You love interior design. You love thinking about,
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you know, everything that's going to happen, throwing the party,
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making the memories, taking group photos, connecting people with each other.
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This is your gift. And this shows up a lot
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when you're home shopping. What I mean is when you're
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shopping for a home. Most of us normal people, when
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we go shopping for a home, we look for a
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house that's going to serve our family, right? Not you,
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You're thinking about how to serve every family that ever lived.
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You want to make sure you have the biggest living room.
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You want to make sure there's outdoor space. You want
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to make sure that when the kids come over for
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growth group, they've got somewhere to be. Like you're thinking
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about everything when you're home shopping. Not me. I'm thinking
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about I need a basement. I need an office. That's
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all I need. And if people never come over, fine
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with me. Like that's how I roll. I don't have
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the gift of hospitality. I love you. Just don't come over.
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people with this gift they love company and it's not
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about being introverted or being extroverted this is a spiritual
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manifestation of making room and space for people you guys
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are special this is awesome what about Jesus Jesus absolutely
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was this way he had meals with his disciples often
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we see one of the things we see Jesus doing
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the most was eating with his friends with his disciples
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with sinners with sinners In fact, they said of Jesus,
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he's a drunkard. He hangs out with the worst crowd.
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Who is this guy? Jesus loved making space for people.
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And by the way, if you're looking for a big
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theme of the Bible, the big theme of the Bible
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is that heaven is a picture of hospitality. It's God
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opening up his home for you and me. That's who
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God is. That's who Jesus was. What's the shadow side?
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What's the shadow side? Dana, stop inviting people over to
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our house. That's the shadow side. Now, here it is. Guys,
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if you have this gift, use discernment. You really don't
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want everybody in your home. There are some people who
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want to do you harm. And so you've got to
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be careful to not just throw the doors open to everybody, right?
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Use discernment. Get a discerning person in your life. Another
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shadow side might be letting hospitality become performative, right? It's
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easy for this gift to mutate from, I want you
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to feel welcome to, I want you to be impressed.
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That's the shadow side. And now the house and the
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food and the party and everything has to be perfect.
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Like your Christmas morning has to look like the cover
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of William Sonoma, right? This is how you live. And ironically,
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the pursuit of perfect hospitality can make people feel less comfortable.
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You ever been to somebody's house that's pristine and perfect?
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And you're like, where do I sit? right? I don't
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want to break anything, right? So you can make people
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feel a little less. Now, we have someone in our
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church who I think has an extraordinary gift of hospitality.
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Ladies and gentlemen, how many of you know Miss Sue Cressman?
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Anybody here know Sue Cressman? Come on, give it up
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for Sue Cressman. This woman has an extraordinary gift for hospitality.
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If you've ever been to to her home, you feel
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like this is now your home when you walk into
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her house. She makes you feel so warm, so comfortable.
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She's really good at this. In fact, I'm still salty
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about this. A few years ago, when we kicked off
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growth groups, we had a bunch of growth groups, and
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Steve White, He said to me, Pastor, I'm going to
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visit all of the growth groups. I'm going to go
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check them all out, and then I'll decide which growth
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group to come to. He went to my growth group,
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other growth groups, and then he went to Sue Cressman's
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growth group. And he came back to me on a Sunday,
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and he said, I need to share something with you.
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I'm not going to be joining your growth group. Why not?
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He goes, I'm getting involved with Sue Cressman's growth group.
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Why is that? Best food of any of the growth groups. Yeah,
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still salty. Still salty about it. But this is Sue Cressman.
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Sue is the architect and the owner of our pancake ministry.
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Does that surprise you at all? Why? Because she cares
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that you connect. Not that you just show up and
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sit in rows, but that you sit back there and
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meet people and interact with people. So she loves this.
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This is who she is. Hospitality Gifters, your gift is
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not for you. It's for us. We need your gift.
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We see God through you. And the way that you
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use your gift is powerful. Think of this. One of
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the most intimidating things that anybody could ever do is
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walk through the doors of a church for the very
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first time. Right? Can you remember the last time that
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you walked through a church for the very first time
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and how weird it was? One thing we forget about
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as Christians, especially once we get really plugged into a church,
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is how weird it is to go to church. Like
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we just forget. It's like, oh, it's normal now. But
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that first time, it's really weird because people don't know
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where anything is. They don't know what they're supposed to do.
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And they don't know the songs or anybody in the room.
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So for some people, just walking through the door took
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a lot of courage. If you're here today and it's
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your first time, way to go. We're proud of you
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for your courage. And we're sorry if it was weird.
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But this gift, this hospitality gift can help people go from,
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I don't know anybody here to, I think I might
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belong here. Have you had that experience at the Movement Church?
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Come on, a lot of you have. What I hear
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from you about our church is how warm everybody is.
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I love that. Keep doing that. This is a superpower.
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It's supernatural. And so if you have this gift, I
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just want to encourage you. Every Sunday, I want you
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to just look around and ask yourself, who's new? Who
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don't I know? And just go talk to them. Go
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introduce yourself. Sit with somebody. Introduce them to somebody else.
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Invite them to lunch. Invite them to your growth group.
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Just not Suze. Theirs is full. They don't have any
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more space. Come to my growth group and invite them
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into your life. If you have this gift, you should
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serve on the greeting team. You should serve on the
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hospitality team. And yeah, you should serve in a growth group.
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You should invite people to your home. This is what
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you're gifted for. Any environment where somebody needs to walk
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in as a stranger and leave feeling like a friend.
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You with me? So hospitality gifters, your gift is not
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for you. It's for us. Don't keep it to yourself.
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Let's give it up for the hospitality folks in the room.
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We love you guys. Okay. Here's the next one. Exhortation. Exhortation.
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That's a big word. What does it mean? It means this.
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Often called the gift of encouragement, the Spirit-given capacity to strengthen, comfort, encourage,
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and urge people, this is important, toward faithful action. It's
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not just about, you look good today. It's about pushing
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people to live out their faith. The Greek word, perikyleo,
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carries the idea of calling someone alongside, appealing, encouraging, comforting,
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urging them. I love this description. This is my favorite
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definition of this. Exhortation is the spiritual gift of transferring
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faith for the purpose of forward motion. Transferring faith for
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the purpose of forward motion. Exhorters regard trials as opportunities.
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They go, oh, man, this is going to be so
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good for you. This hard thing that you're going through, oh,
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this is so good. God's going to do something so
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great in your life, you know? And you're like, thanks,
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you know? I saw this reel this week where these
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two people were talking to one another. One guy's complaining
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about his life. And the other guy goes, you know what, Bob?
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I think from now on, every time you use the
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word problem, you should replace it with the word opportunity.
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And Bob says, you know what? You're right. I have
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a drinking opportunity. I love that. It's not about just
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being chipper. It's not just about being positive. Seeing the
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glass is half full. It's not blind optimism. It's genuine
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faith transferred from one heart to another. Do you know
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someone like this? Do you know someone whose faith is
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so real that it's just contagious, infectious? Thank you. Amen. Amen.
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Exhorters hold a deep conviction about the sovereignty of God.
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They don't see any trouble that you're walking through as
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a reason not to trust in God. They see it
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as a reason to lean in. This is so powerful.
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What about Jesus? How do we see him doing this?
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Jesus was famous for this. He didn't just preach the truth.
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He called people to respond, didn't he? Think about this.
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He says, come and follow me. He says, get up
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and walk. He says, go and sin no more. He says,
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fear not, only believe. And he says, take heart. All
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of these are Jesus transferring his faith that he has
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in the Father and saying, believe in God, trust in God.
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Jesus moved people from where they were to where God
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called them. That's who he was. Okay, what about the
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shadow side? Here's the shadow side. And I say this
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with love. If you are an exhorter in the room,
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I say this with love. you're wearing us out. Okay.
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I mean, you are just wearing us out. Sometimes we
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don't need a motivational speech and a three point action
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step plan for how to get ourselves out of this ditch.
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Sometimes we don't need you to tell us what God
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is teaching us through this moment. Sometimes we just need
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to be sad for a minute. Anybody agree with that? Sometimes. Okay.
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That's fine. Okay. That's my girl. Um, This is where,
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by the way, exhorters should make friends with mercy gifters, right?
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Because they can balance each other out. Mercy walks into
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the hospital room and says, I'm so sorry. I'm here.
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I'm not going anywhere. An exhorter walks in five minutes
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later and says, all right, what are we learning from this?
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I have cancer. Like, I don't want to talk about
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that right now. But listen, this is the point. Your
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gift isn't pressure. It's courage. encourage. That's the idea. Use
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your gift this way. So exhorters, read the room. Sometimes challenge,
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sometimes encourage, sometimes comfort, sometimes push, sometimes just sit still
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and stay quiet. If there's one thing I've learned in
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these three years as your senior pastor, it's that I
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don't always need to have the perfect thing to say.
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I just need to be with you. When you're going
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through something hard, I just need to listen. I don't
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need to have the perfect answer from God in this moment.
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I just need you to know that you're not alone, right? Exhorters,
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chill out a few times, okay? Now, I have a
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great friend named Jordan Merritt. And if you don't know
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Jordan Merritt, can I just encourage you, this is a
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free plug, go download all of his music. It's all
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over everywhere. He is incredible. Jordan is a world-class Navy
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SEAL level exhorter. Every time I'm around this guy, I
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feel like I'm seven feet taller. I feel like I've
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got faith that I didn't even know could possibly happen.
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This guy, just by walking in the room, he just
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exudes exhortation. That's who he is. A few years back,
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I went out to Knoxville where he lives. He lives
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on this farm in the middle of nowhere in these
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rolling hills in Knoxville, beautiful. And so we went out,
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me and Travis and a bunch of other guys, we
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went out and spent a week writing songs. with Jordan
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for a record he was working on. And one night
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he played for us his soon to be released album.
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And it was wild. I've never heard Christian music sound
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like this. It was so distinctly Jordan in a way
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that just made me, I was just amazed by what
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he was doing. I was like, this is incredible. Now listen, it's,
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you know, your taste may vary whether you like it
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or not, But the point is, Jordan is so brave
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in just being who he is that I'm sitting there
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and I'm thinking about the fact that during COVID, I
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bought for myself a home studio. And I taught myself
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how to produce music. And within three or four days
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of learning the ropes of logic and learning how to
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do stuff, I started immediately making rap songs. Because I
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don't know if you know this or not, I'm only
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white on the outside, okay? Okay? That's how I roll.
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I just started making rap song after rap song after
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rap song because I love rap music. Shari, that's who
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your pastor is. And so I just started writing this
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music and a lot of it's terrible. Some of it's okay.
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But when I was sitting there that night listening to
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his music, I just felt such a courage, such a
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boldness to go, you know, I'm going to release some
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of these songs. And so that next summer we released
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five new songs that we put out that year in
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2024 and They're like pop and hip-hop, and you probably
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won't love them. But I love them, and I needed
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to release them. And if it wasn't for Jordan, I
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don't think I'd be here. would have. So exhorters, your
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gift is not for you. It's for us. We need
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your gift. We need people who can notice people at
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their breaking point and say, don't quit yet. Don't you
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need that from time to time? You need people who
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can remind us what's true when our circumstances have made
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us forget. We need people who can see potential in
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us before we can see it in ourselves. So exhorters,
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if you're looking for a place to serve, basically anywhere
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that there are people that need encouragement, serve there, okay?
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But here's a list, growth groups, move groups, children's ministry,
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prayer ministry, care ministry, and I specifically want to call
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out student ministry because we in our leadership team are
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noticing that we really need to lock in and kind
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of rethink the way that we're approaching middle school and
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high school student ministry. We have a lot of littles
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that are growing bigger and taller, And we need to
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have a ministry that's ready for them. So if you're
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an exhorter and you love students, come and talk to me.
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Let's get this thing rolling, okay? Your gift is not
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for you. It's for us. So don't keep it to yourself.
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Let's give it up for the exhorters in the room.
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All right.
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I got to go fast. We got three more. Here's
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the next one. Service and helps. Service and helps. This
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is the ability, a person with the ability to joyfully
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work alongside others. And if you're looking for a word
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that best describes this whole paragraph, it's the word joy. joyfully, okay?
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The ability to joyfully work alongside others, often behind the scenes,
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relieving their burdens and helping accomplish the task God has
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given them with humility, sacrifice, and an instinct for noticing
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what needs to be done. You either help through serving
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or you serve through helping. This is who you are.
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If you have this gift, you find yourself saying things like,
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what do you need me to do? I'm just here
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to help. do you need my help? What can I
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help you with? If you don't have this gift, you've
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never asked that question before. You just think people are
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here to help me and I really appreciate it. But
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if you have this gift, you're looking for ways to serve.
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It's just the way the Lord manifests himself through you.
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This is how you know if you have this gift.
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You ready? This is the ultimate litmus test. When someone
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is doing a job poorly, okay, Is your first thought
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to criticize or to help? To criticize or to help?
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Do you find yourself saying, they stink at that. We
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need to tell them. Don't ever do that again. Do
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you find yourself doing that? Or they're struggling with that.
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They need help. Let's go help them. If you have
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helps and service, your instinct is to step into it
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with them and help them. If you don't, you're just
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going to criticize like I do. Okay, so what about
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our Savior? Jesus' whole ministry was service, wasn't it? Everything
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he did was to serve others. In fact, he said
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this about himself. I didn't come to be served. The
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King of kings, the Lord of lords. There is no
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throne higher than his. He didn't come to be served.
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He came to serve. This is amazing. And one of
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the most beautiful moments, one of the most paradigm-shifting moments
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in all of Scripture is It was this moment when
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Jesus got on his knees and washed the feet of
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his disciples, their dirty, nasty, stinky feet, including the one
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who would betray him. He showed us what leadership really is.
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It's servanthood. If you want to be a leader in
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the kingdom of God, you've got to be a servant. Beautiful, powerful, countercultural. Okay,
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but what's the shadow side? What's the shadow side? Okay,
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listen to me. If you feel like you have the
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gift of service and helps, I just want to tell
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you about a word I don't think you know about.
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It's a small little word that you all need to learn.
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Do you know what it is? That's right. The word
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is no. No. No, I can't extend myself any further. No,
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I've done enough. No, someone else should step in. The
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Bible says this. Let your yes be yes and your
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no be no. You know what it doesn't say? Always
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say yes. That's not in the Bible. Let your yes
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be yes and your no be no. Your yes is
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meaningful and so is your no because you know what
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your no communicates? It communicates that wherever your priorities are,
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that you are committed to your priorities. I'm committed to
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my husband. I'm committed to my wife. I'm committed to
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my kids. I'm committed to my job. And as much
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extra space as I have beyond that, I'm going to
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serve because it's who I am. But I can't do
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much more than what I can do. You with me?
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Learn the word no. Here's another one. You may not
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want the spotlight. I know a lot of you don't.
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But that doesn't mean that you don't want to be appreciated.
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Watch this. Be careful that service doesn't quietly turn into
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resentment when nobody notices what you did. You did it
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for the right reasons. And now you kind of want
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to be Affirmed. And nobody's affirming you. And you go,
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never doing it again. Resentment. Don't let that happen. If
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you're serving for recognition, if you're serving so that one
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day someone will notice you, eventually you're going to get
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angry when it doesn't happen. Anybody experienced that before? Yeah. Pastor,
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you went from preaching to meddling. I know. That's what
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I'm here for. There are several people in the room
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with this gift. Now, there's an old adage that you
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hear about churches a lot. This is what it says.
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that in most churches, 10% of the people do 90%
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of the work. I think we're doing better than that.
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I think we're like 25-75, okay? I think that's kind
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of where we're living, and I'm proud of us for that.
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We have some incredible service and helps gifted people in
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this church. I sent out a picture yesterday with our
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text of these folks. Let me just tell you who
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they are. Candy Rudder, who is amazing. Beth Slough, Wes Slough,
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Maya and Leah Apeniru, Andrew Casebolt, Barry Patterson, Kelly and
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Donna Rice. Doug and Karen King. And this guy is
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Dave Tinkle. That's the best picture I could find of
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him online. I mean, I just, that was all I
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could find. These folks are service and helps people. There
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was a party thrown for my birthday last night and
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a lot of these folks were there. And after the
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party was over, you know who stuck around to clean
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up the party? These folks. I looked around the room
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and I saw these folks serving joyfully, happy to do it.
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Anything I can do to help, This is amazing. This
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is beautiful. So listen, service and help gifters. Your gift
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is not for you. It's for us, and we need it.
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You know why? I've learned this about church. Everything that
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somebody experiences publicly was made possible by someone serving privately.
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Have you noticed that? When you came into church this morning,
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there were pancakes. Somebody cooked them. When you came in
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this morning and dropped your kids off, at the kids' room.
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Somebody set that room up. You're sitting in chairs. Somebody
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put those chairs out here today. Microphones and speakers and,
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you know, lyrics on the screen. Somebody put all that
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work together. Did you know that? Someone did that very
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privately so that you could experience it very publicly. There
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was coffee. Somebody made the coffee, right? And you know what?
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After all of us leave today, somebody's going to stay
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and clean all this stuff up and put it all
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away for next week. Not the coffee. The coffee will
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be new next week, okay? The coffee is like God's mercy.
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It's new every morning. That's what we need. Most people
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never know who does all this stuff. Most people don't
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know about Doug King. Most people don't know about Candy Rudder.
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Most people don't know about Kelly Rice. Most people don't
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know the work that goes into setting up a Sunday service.
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Can we thank these people this morning? Come on. And listen.
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I want you to know how spiritual everything I just
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said is. It's spiritual. It's not just, well, I'm just
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doing my part.
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No, no.
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You are manifesting the Holy Spirit. We are seeing God
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when you joyfully serve. Thank you for that. Thank you. See,
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there's this strange kind of dichotomy that happens in churches
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where people tend to think that what happens up here
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on this platform with a guy with a microphone, a
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guy singing, a guy playing guitar, that that's the spiritual stuff.
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But what Paul is saying, he's saying that the microphone
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is not more spiritual than the mop. The microphone is
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not more spiritual than the mop. In fact, if you're
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an aspiring leader and one day you want to lead,
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if you can't pick up a mop, you got no
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business with a microphone, right? The microphone is not more
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spiritual than a mop. So listen, if you're not serving already,
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which a lot of you are because you don't know
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the word no, here's some places where you can serve.
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Set up and tear down, hospitality, kids and students, sound
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and production, and events. Like we just had our summer
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showdown event, great opportunity for service and gifts. We're about
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to have our anniversary service, great opportunity for service and helps. Okay,
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two more. Administration. Administration. Who feels like administration is the sexiest,
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most exciting of all the spiritual gifts? Anybody here today? Okay,
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all right, praise God. All right. I love these people
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because I am not these people. Listen to this. This
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is what administration is. It's the spirit-given capacity to organize people, resources, information,
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and processes in a way, I love this, that turns
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mission into coordinated action. These big ideas that we have.
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Someone says, we should have a church picnic. Everybody gets excited.
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You church picnic. Let's do it. The administrator has some questions.
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When are we going to do this? What's the budget?
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Where are we doing it? Who's bringing tables? How many people?
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What's the weather plan? Who's responsible for cleanup? Do we
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need a permit? These are all the questions that an administrator,
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a person with this gift, immediately thinks. And then all
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the rest of us say, You are ruining the church picnic. No,
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they're not ruining it. They're the reason why it's going
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to happen. They're the reason why it's going to be awesome. See,
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when things are chaotic and disorganized, they love to jump
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in and bring structure to it. They enjoy fixing problematic
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and disorganized situations. By the way, welcome to the Movement Church.
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We are a problematic and disorganized situation. You are welcome here.
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We need you here. Administrated gifters create order that helps
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other people accomplish a mission. So can you see how
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useful that is? How spiritual that is? What about Jesus?
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Surely you guys remember the story of Jesus feeding the 5,000.
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Amazing miracle, right? There's 5,000 hungry people and Jesus, you know,
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hands out. Basically all he has is like a little,
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you know, Captain D's, you know, meal. And he's like,
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all right, we'll try to figure this thing out, right?
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Look at what Mark says about this moment. In the
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book of Mark, chapter 6, it says, Jesus instructed them
Mark 6 chapter mention
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to have all the people first sit down, order, in groups, order,
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on the green grass, order, so that they sat down
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in groups of hundreds and fifties. Isn't this incredible? Jesus
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is thinking administratively. Jesus cares about the miracle and about
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the way that the miracle is distributed. It's who he is.
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The miracle was supernatural, but the distribution had a system.
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Sit in these groups. Sit in this place. Separate so
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we can count how many people are here. God loves order.
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He took chaos. In the book of Genesis, the earth
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is without form. It's void and without form. And God
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turns it into this beautiful, ordered, fruitful planet. Amazing. The
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apostle Paul corrects the Corinthians about their disorderly worship. God
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loves order. Order for the sake of mission. Now, what's
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the shadow side? of you administrators in the room. The
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tendency of an administrator gift is to be risk averse,
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is to look for ways to mitigate any and all risk. Now,
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when you're working with other people in the body of Christ,
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sometimes there can be a tension that arises specifically between
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administrator gifts and leadership gifts. And here's why. Because at
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its best, it can be dynamic because both perspectives are astute.
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And at its worst, it can be destructive. Because both
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perspectives can feel unheard. You're not listening to me. I've
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got a big vision. You're not listening to me. We
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ain't got no money. Right? Leadership tends to ask, what
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could happen? Administrators tend to ask, what could go wrong?
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Leaders tend to see the opportunity inside the risk. Administrators
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tend to see the risk inside the opportunity. Both are needed.
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You with me? Both are needed. Order and control are
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not the same thing. So this is another shadow side.
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Administrators naturally want to bring order to chaos, but it's
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a really short mental step to go from this. I
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can bring order and structure to the plan to, I
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need to be in control. I need to be in
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control of everything. It's an easy, easy step to make.
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And you know what? If you've ever been a part
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of a church, you know that ministry is messy. You
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know why? Because people are messy. I heard one amen.
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The rest of you are all liars. Tell the person
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next to you, you are messy. That's right. Ministry is
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messy because people are messy. So you got to know this, administrators.
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Systems and structures must remain servants and not masters. We
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make the plans. God controls the outcome. You with me? Okay,
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I got to tell you about somebody in our church
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who is extraordinarily gifted at this. You know her husband
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well because he stands up here and preaches from time
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to time, but you don't know Christine Wilson like I
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know Christine Wilson. This woman is extraordinarily gifted in this way.
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About a year, year and a half ago, we gave
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Christine the reins to the accounting of our church. And
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can I tell you, she has done an amazing job
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of leading us, especially the wisdom table, through the process,
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not just of looking at numbers, But reading the narratives
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within the numbers, she's extraordinarily gifted at that. She has
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blessed our church because of it. You may never see
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Christine standing on this stage preaching a sermon. You want
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to preach, Christine? You interested? That's what I thought. But
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Paul puts your administrative gift on the same spiritual gifts
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list as prophets and teachers and pastors. You're just as needed.
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which means that this manifestation of God's grace is a
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magnificent gift. Your gift is not for you. It's for us.
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And I'm telling you, I need your gift. And you
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know that. You should say a loud amen to that, Christine.
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I need your gift. Churches have no shortage of big ideas.
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Richie Fike has no shortage of big ideas. And all
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the staff said, right, that's too loud. I'm a visionary leader.
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I see things when they're not. But I don't see
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all the problems with the things I see when they're not.
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And I need administrators in my life to go, hey,
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love your heart, love your attitude. Let's talk about how
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we're going to pay for this, right? Awesome. You guys
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look at a mess and instinctively say, there's got to
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be a better way to do this. And that is useful.
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That's powerful. So don't stand back. I know some of you,
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if you have this administrator gift, the temptation is to go,
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they don't know what they're doing. And I'm busy. can
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just tell you, if you think that we don't know
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what we're doing or you see disorder and chaos, step
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into it. I promise you, our leaders at this church
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are looking for people who have this gift, okay? People
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who say, this is unnecessarily complicated. Let me help to
-
organize it. If you've ever had that thought, this is
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you and your gift is not for you, it's for us. Okay,
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last one. Are you with me? Everybody still with me?
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I know I'm going long. Okay, this is the last one.
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The spiritual gift of giving. Open up your wallets if
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you would. Totally kidding. The spiritual gift of giving. Let
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me talk about it and then we'll look into this
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a little deeper. A spirit-given capacity to joyfully, generously, and
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often sacrificially release resources to meet needs, advance God's mission,
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and bless others. Now, before I get into this, it's
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important that I communicate to you as your pastor that
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that you may say, you may read that and go, yeah,
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that's not me. I guess I don't have to give.
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Praise God. No, that's not what I'm saying. All of
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us have read plenty of scripture that communicate that everything
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that you have in your life was given to you
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by God. Okay, and so the Lord wants you to
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experience the process of sacrificially giving back to him. You
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don't have to give it to the movement church, but
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give it to God, okay? That's the idea. That's what
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the whole idea of the New Testament is. is we
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get to practice generosity. He wants that not from us,
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but for us, okay? So if you don't feel like
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you have this spiritual gift, you're not exempt from giving. Sorry. Okay,
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so giving gifters see a financial need and they run
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to it. They run to it. They see it as
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a ministry opportunity. They don't think, well, how much do
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I have? They think, what could this gift accomplish? They
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see things like that family that needs help, the missionary
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that needs support, the ministry that could happen, the kid
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that could go to camp, the church that could get planted,
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the need that could disappear. They think to themselves, I
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could do something about that. I have the means to
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do something about that. And it brings them joy. And
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it brings us humility to watch it in action. It's
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not about the money, by the way. It's about the
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opportunity to participate in what God's doing. That's what fires
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them up. They see God at work and they want
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to join in it. That's the idea. What about our Savior?
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Was Jesus a giver or a taker? Come on. What's
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the most famous verse in the Bible? The one that
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they hold up at football games. What is it? John 3.16.
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And it says, For God so loved the world that
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he took all of your money. No. No. God so
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loved the world that he gave his most precious resource,
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his one and only son, that you could have life.
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That's who God is. God is not a taker. He's
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a giver. Jesus demonstrated this with his nature, with all
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of his resources. He gave his time, his attention, his food,
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his power, his wisdom. I love this. His dignity to
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people everywhere he went. And ultimately, Jesus gave his life
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on the cross, didn't he? For you and for me,
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for the sin of the world. Paul says this about Jesus,
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so powerful. He says, though he was rich, for your
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sake he became poor, so that by his poverty you
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might become rich. this is who our god is so
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what about the shadow side there's no shadow side just
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keep giving we appreciate it love you end of sermon
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no just kidding there is a shadow side shadow side
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forgivers and that is that if you start to think
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about what you can get out of giving Danger Will Robinson, right?
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The trap is to let your dollars dictate a sense
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of control. Don't confuse generosity with control. The best way
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to give to anything, to anybody, is open-handedly, no strings attached.
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The weirdest way to give is with caveats and conditions.
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It makes it awkward. It makes it strange. Like if
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you say, I'm happy to give to your church as
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long as you lead it my way. We'll write a
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check for this amount if you can show us a
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return on that investment. This is icky. This is gross.
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And it can become poisonous. It's not giving anymore. This
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is leverage. You are leveraging what God has given you
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for your own gain. The moment your generosity purchases influence, access, recognition, control,
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something has gotten corrupted. Amen? Amen. Listen to what Jesus says.
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Whenever you give to the poor, don't sound a trumpet
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before you as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and
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on the streets to be applauded by people. Don't give
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so that people notice you. Don't give so that people
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praise you. Just give. Giving gifters understand this. But you
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still fight it. Don't let giving ever become an exercise
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in feeding your own ego. Don't let your generosity feed
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your pride. I wish you guys... could see our church
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from my vantage point. I wish you could see the
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generosity in this church. You know, many of you know,
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that I don't know how much any of you give
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and don't want to know. But I know how many
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givers there are in this church, and it's a lot
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of you. I know how faithful you are in your giving,
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and it's a lot of you. And I know that
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you don't just give to the movement church. You're looking
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for ways to be generous. Every time we take a
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benevolence offering, we are blown away by your generosity. We're
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going to do that in September, and you're going to
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blow us away again because it's who you are. A
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couple months back, there was a person in our church
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who wrecked their van. And that van was not very
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valuable to the insurance company, but it was very valuable
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to this person. And you know what many of you did,
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you giving gifters? You came to me, unrequited I didn't
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ask for this you came to me and you said
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I want to write a check so that they can
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get a new car I want to help them get
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a new car nobody asked you to do that you
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just did it and then actually there was a couple
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in our church who found out that people did that
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and one person got mad at me for not asking
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them to give money to this event that's who you
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are you are a generous generous church and I'm grateful
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for you giving gifters your gift is not for you
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it's for us And we need your money. No, we
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need your gift. And I don't just mean the church
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needs your money. That's not what I'm talking about. I'm
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talking about your resources. I'm talking about the best of
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who you are. I'm talking about leaning in and going,
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you know what? I'm all in on this movement church idea.
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I want to see it thrive. I want to see us,
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this church, have a massive impact on this community. Anybody
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with me? That's what we're doing. The body of Christ
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needs people who remind us that resources are tools, not treasures.
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You can remind us that money can become ministry, a car,
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a vacation home, you know, a meal, a skill. It
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can all become ministry. So keep your antennas up, you
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giving gifters. Look for opportunities to serve in this way
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because your generosity is helping to make it clear to
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the people of the tri-lakes that there is a God
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who's for them and a people who's right alongside, right?
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Your gift is not for you. It's for us. So
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don't keep it to yourself. Okay. Take a deep breath.
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We did all six. We did it. Come on. We
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did it. We did it. All right. So just to
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sum it up, if this is you, if you're the
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gift of mercy, your most common thought is someone is hurting. Hospitality,
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someone's outside. They need to be brought inside. Exhortation, someone's
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losing courage. Service, someone is carrying too much. I can help. Administration,
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there's got to be a better way. Right? And giving.
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I have something that I think could help. If I've
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helped you to see yourself today, if you've seen how
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the Lord manifests himself through you today, then use your gift.
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Help us here at the Movement Church. The whole point
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is that we would depend on you. Because when you
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operate in your gift, you make the Lord manifest. We
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get to see God manifest. Because you placed him on
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the highest throne in your heart and he manifests himself
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through you. A manifestation of the Spirit is given to
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each person for their common good. That's what we're fighting for.
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You are gifted. Amen?
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So what's God leading you to do next? And how
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can we help? Send us an email to info at movementchurch.co
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and tell us how we can pray for you. And
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help you to take the next step in your spiritual journey.
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If you'd like to contribute financially to our ministry. You
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can text the amount you'd like to give to this number.
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833-725-0132 That's 833-725-0132 Or just look us up online at movementchurch.co
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You can find the Movement Church on all social media platforms.
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And we hope that you'll give us a follow. God
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bless you. And remember, God is for you and so
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are we.